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Lisa Hudson (right) has been mentoring Denver Self (left) for seven years. Last week, Lisa spoke at a breakfast hosted by the Oconee County Resource Council to commemorate Thank a Mentor Day. BY ROB PEECHER

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Lisa Hudson had no intentions of becoming a mentor. “My friend Kathleen (Miller) was the school nurse at Oconee County Middle School, and she called me one day and said, ‘I signed you up to be a mentor, and I already know the boy you’re going to mentor,’” Hudson recalled. That was seven years ago. Friday, Lisa and Denver Self, the student Kathleen wanted her to mentor, were at a breakfast organized by the Oconee County Resource Council to recognize Oconee County’s mentoring program and volunteer mentors. Amanda Davis, who coordinates the mentor program for the OCRC, said she asked Hudson to speak at the breakfast. “Lisa has such a great story because she’s been mentoring Denver for seven years,” Davis said. When they met, Denver was a typical sort of middle school boy. He did well on tests, but wasn’t much interested in homework.

Denver said through the past seven years, Lisa would meet him for lunch and they would talk about what was going on his life. “She helped me through a lot of stuff,” he said. “It was a benefit to me. Sometimes she would help me with my classes. Math isn’t her thing.” Lisa said mentoring Denver has been “a great experience.” “When I started mentoring him, I had two sons in middle school,” Lisa said. “Middle school is a different kind of animal. Denver is right between my two sons, I had one younger and one older. It made it easier with my own children, because Denver would talk to me about things maybe my own children wouldn’t talk to me about because I’m their mother. “You go into something like this thinking about how you’re going to help somebody else, but really it was a blessing to me.” Friday’s breakfast gave the Oconee Resource Council an opportunity to celebrate Thank You Mentor Day, and Oconee County Commission Chairman Melvin Davis read a proclamation

recognizing January as National Mentor Month. Davis thanked the mentors who were present at the breakfast for the time they invest in the young people they mentor. “The service you provide to them will make them better citizens in the future,” Davis said. When Lisa spoke to the other mentors, she told them that during his sophomore year, Denver got into trouble. His infraction didn’t involve anyone else, she said. It was a poor decision, but it was met with a lengthy suspension that Denver served in in-school suspension from November to March. “Denver came to a fork in the road,” Lisa said. “It would have been easy for him to drop out of school, but that’s not him.” During that time, Denver tutored other students. He made other good use of his time, gathering school credit so that when he came out he was ahead of many of his peers. Now, in his sen‘Mentor’ Page 3

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Gail Karwoski has made a name for herself writing children’s books focused on historical events. She’s written about a dog on the Lewis and Clark expedition. She’s written about Jamestown and the San Francisco earthquake and Hurricane Katrina. Her latest work is mostly a departure from what she’s done in the past, and it started with a phone call that took her back almost 40 years. About four years ago, Karwoski got a phone call from a friend from college. At the University of Minnesota, Karwoski had worked for then-student government president Jack Baker. Over the years, she had lost touch with Baker, but now he had sought her out with a proposal for a new book. “I was reluctant at first,” Karwoski said. “This was way out of what I normally do. It was like apples and oranges to the kinds of books I normally write.” Karwoski’s newest book is intended for an adult readership, and it tells the story of the first samesex marriage in the United States. The story goes back farther than one might think. In the early 1970s, Karwoski was finishing her Master’s degree at the University of Minnesota, and she was looking for a writing job. At the time, as part of the student empowerment movement, the school’s student government formed its own

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Author Gail Karwoski (center) with Michael McConnell (left) and Jack Baker (right) who are featured in her latest book, “The Wedding Heard ‘Round the World: America’s First Gay Marriage.”

corporation and was looking for someone to write its communications. Jack Baker was the student body president, and when Karwoski was hired for the job, Baker became her boss. “He was well known, at that time and that place, as an openly gay man,” Karwoski said. “He got elected as the first openly gay student body president. When I got to know Jack, he was already married

to his partner Michael.” Jack and Michael McConnell met in 1966 and not long after they decided they wanted to be married. To achieve this, Jack – who at the time was an engineer – decided to attend law school at the University of Minnesota so that they could find a way to legally get married. “They found, at the time in Minnesota, that gender was not specified in Minnesota statutes,” Karwoski explained. “Jack

thought, as law student, they could apply for a marriage license and get married, because whatever not prohibited in the law is legal. They applied for a license and the officials denied their request even though gender was not specified in the law, the official said gender is implied.” This denial of the license became a legal fight that would go all the way to the U.S. Supreme Court, and though Baker and McConnell would lose that battle, it was referred to in the 2015 Supreme Court decision on same sex marriage. Undeterred, they found another option that they thought would work. Karwoski explained that Baker had been orphaned as a young child, and though he was now an adult in law school, the couple decided that McConnell would adopt Baker. In this way, they would have some of the rights of a family, even if they could not be married. During the course of the adoption, though, their attorney asked if there would be a legal name change – a common enough practice in adoptions. Here they hit on a possibility to get legally married. They decided to change Baker’s name to “Pat McConnell,” a gender-neutral name. Michael then traveled to a rural Minnesota county and applied for a marriage license using ‘Karwoski’ Page 2

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