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‘Be a Santa’ to the elderly
By Scott Smith
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Most people don’t mean to ignore older relatives and friends, yet there are many area senior citizens who continue to feel isolated, alone and sad, according to one local official. One of the ways people can help make lonely seniors feel appreciated, respected and loved is by participating in Home Instead Senior Care’s 13th annual “Be a Santa to a Senior” program, which runs through Dec. 12 in the Fort Smith area. The program calls for community members to pick up an ornament with a senior citizen’s name on it and purchase a gift for that individual in need, said Jonathan Fry, owner of Home Instead Senior Care in Fort Smith. “This year, we received the names of 75 seniors in the River
One of the ways people can help make lonely seniors feel appreciated, respected and loved is by participating in Home Instead Senior Care’s 13th annual “Be a Santa to a Senior” program, which runs through Dec. 12 in the Fort Smith area. [SHUTTERSTOCK]
Valley area who are in need,” he said. “These seniors are asking for items like pajamas, warm clothes and non-perishable food items. “And many of the seniors are alone because they have outlived their family and friends, or they don’t have family in the area who
can visit frequently,” Fry added. Ornaments and names can be obtained at the Community Services Clearinghouse, 4420 Wheeler Ave., as well as United Federal Credit Union locations at 5800 Rogers Ave., and 8900 Jenny Lind, both in Fort Smith; 1924 Fayetteville Road in Van Buren; and 630 U.S. 71 in Alma. The ornaments can be found on Christmas trees inside these locations, Fry said. “Really, the Be a Santa to a Senior program makes it easy for people to Christmas shop for others,” he said. “Since people already are out shopping for their families and friends this time of year, it’s so easy just to pick up an extra gift for that senior, and they don’t even have to wrap the gift. Just bring the name and gift unwrapped back to where you got the name.” Home Instead Senior Care staff and volunteers will take care of the wrapping and delivery of the
gifts, Fry said. “With the way that Thanksgiving falls this year — it’s a little later than usual — this will be the shortest amount of time between Thanksgiving and Christmas,” he said. “We’re asking folks to get out as soon as possible and shop for these seniors.” Those seeking more information can call (479) 434-6960 or visit the Home Instead Senior Care (Fort Smith, AR) Facebook age and HomeInsteadSeniorCare.com for information. “For me, personally, the best part is me seeing the seniors react to the gifts,” Fry said. “They are so excited to receive a gift from someone, and they will usually make us wait and watch as they open their gift. Seeing the looks on their faces makes it worthwhile. It’s so rewarding to see the Be a Santa to a Senior program have that kind of an impact on seniors in our community.”
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At A Glance 13th annual Home Instead Senior Care’s 12th annual Be a Santa to a Senior program When: Through Dec. 12. Where: Community Services Clearinghouse, 4420 Wheeler Ave.; and at United Federal Credit Union locations at 5800 Rogers Ave.; 8900 Jenny Lind; 1924 Fayetteville Road in Van Buren; and 630 U.S. 71 in Alma. Christmas trees are located in these businesses and contain ornaments with the names of area seniors. Participants can select an ornament and fulfill the senior’s gift need. Call (479) 434-6960 or visit the Home Instead Senior Care (Fort Smith, AR) Facebook page and HomeInstead.com for information.
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Adding greenery to Christmas decorations creates elegant touch Betty Montgomery More Content Now
The spirit of Christmas comes to each of us in different ways. The traditions we have shared with family and friends over our lifetime are memories we cherish. Decorating with fresh greenery, putting up a Christmas tree, or just the smell of cedar and cinnamon are things that make memories. Wreathes, garlands, swags, and centerpieces are a tradition at Christmas and making them with fresh greenery adds an elegant touch to the home. There is no limit to how you can put different greenery together to make a wonderful display. You are only limited by your creativity. It is hard to say which type of greenery is my favorite. Magnolia would certainly be at the top, along with boxwood and holly. Cedar, juniper, and camellia branches are also great. I try to use the greens that last the longest in places where they will not get water. I use the others in arrangements with floral foam or flower frogs. A garland of magnolia on the mantel or around a doorway is one of the most sophisticated displays to use at Christmas. The velvety copper underside of magnolia leaves contrasted with the glossy, green of the front side of the leaves, creates a classy look for the holidays. Pine mixed with juniper and cedar is also a lovely combination and can be set off by adding winterberry or colorful Christmas balls, ribbon or twigs that could be sprayed gold or silver. Your use of items from nature is endless and is only limited by your inventiveness. Do not forget that it is nice to add a few touches of greenery on the outside as well. Decorate a statue that is in the garden with a pretty bow, place a garland on the patio or hang some Spanish moss in a tree. These little touches will be enjoyed as you look outside. When it comes to choosing the greens to use, look in your garden
Magnolia, Burford Holly and cedar adorn a fireplace mantel. There is no limit to how you can put different greenery together to make a wonderful display. You are only limited by your creativity. [BETTY MONTGOMERY]
first. Pine, magnolia, cedars, firs, juniper, boxwood, camellia leaves, rhododendron, mountain laurel, holly and other greenery can all be mixed together to make a festive decoration. Herbs are also great because each time you brush up against herbs like Rosemary, a pleasant aroma fills the air. When I go out to cut greenery, I use this time to trim some of my bushes and trees, cutting limbs and branches that need to be removed. I cut boxwoods deep inside the bush to open up the inside in order to let air and light into the bush and to help the boxwood at the same time. I cut branches of magnolia where it will grow back readily. Last year, I discovered a yaupon holly that was straggly. I cut it back dramatically and this year, it will be a major source of berries in the house since the pruning helped make the plant come back to life. There are few plants that will not benefit from
pruning and letting a little sunlight into the shrub or tree. I try to cut branches in the morning when the plant has more water present in the stems. I place them in a bucket of water out of the sun in a cool place to let them soak up all the moisture. This is called conditioning greenery. When they are in the house, I mist the leaves
from time to time with water to give them a little added moisture. You can certainly purchase some of these items from local clubs and churches. There are also mail order places that sell magnolia made into wreaths and garlands and centerpieces. If buying locally, check to see if they look fresh because you would not want to arrange them and then have them die a few days later. I also have learned that decorating for the holidays does not have to be done in a day. Get out your larger items and get them in place and do a little each day for a week. This way you will not get as stressed. If you run out of time, at least you have the big items out and fixed. And remember, you can do just a few simple things and make your home festive. Have a few focal points here and there to make a statement. No matter how lavish or simple you choose to decorate for Christmas, it is a time to be cheerful and enjoy with friends and family. If you are stressed over Christmas, it shows. Relax and enjoy this holiday season with friends and family and enjoy the traditions you repeat each year. Betty Montgomery is a master gardener and author of “Hydrangeas: How To Grow, Cultivate & Enjoy,” and “A Four-Season Southern Garden.” She can be reached at bmontgomery40@gmail.com.
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Including pets in the family portrait? By Melissa Erickson More Content Now
Many people consider their dog or cat as part of the family, so why not include them on your holiday card? Getting a great shot can be a challenge that requires patience, a bit of skill and a good eye. “If you plan to include your pet in the family portrait, it’s important to make sure that he’s looking at the camera along with everyone else,” said photographer Dan Johnson of Fox Hill Photo in Phelps, Wisconsin. “While it’s easy for the family to look and smile at the camera your pet doesn’t understand what’s expected, so this will require a bit of help.” Designate one family member as the pet handler. “For a larger dog, this might mean holding him on a leash, but for cats, small Getting a great shot with your family pet in a holiday card can be a challenge that dogs or other small pets, picking them requires patience, a bit of skill and a good eye. [SHUTTERSTOCK] up and holding them can work well,” Johnson said. Avoid your pet randomly “Next, have someone who is not in the and help get the pet’s attention,” Johnroaming about the room. portrait go directly behind the camera son said. “Interesting noises and treats
can work well to get a dog’s ears up, while cats might also be interested in toys or moving objects.” Most pets can’t be counted on to be patient. Have the whole family ready and smiling so that when the pet looks at the camera, the photographer can snap away, Johnson said. Another idea is to make your pet the solo star of the annual card. “This can be a fun undertaking for the whole family, especially if you set up a Christmas- or holiday-themed setting to photograph your pet in,” Johnson said. When composing the shot, be sure to kneel down and photograph him at his own eye-level. “This will make for a much more appealing portrait,” Johnson said. After all that hard work, don’t forget to include your pet in any holiday gift-giving. “A new toy or a bag of treats may be just what your pet has on his list,” Johnson said. This article appears in Nov.-December 2019 Family magazine.
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The pros and cons of real vs. artificial Christmas trees By Katey Psencik
It's December, which means it's time to start decorating your home for the holidays. But should you go to the local Christmas tree farm, lot or tent or should you go to the store and buy an artificial tree? Here are the advantages and disadvantages of each type of tree. Artificial trees Pros: It's cheaper. Sure, you may shell out some serious cash when you make your initial purchase, but since you're not having to pay for a new tree every year, you can get your money's worth. It's easy. Haul it down from the attic, unfurl the branches and voila! Your decorations are up. Plus, you can buy it pre-lit. Anybody who's ever tried to string lights on a tree can attest that it's not a task for the faint of heart (or the impatient). Buying a pre-lit tree saves time, money and maybe a few fights with family members. Â You can buy them in fun colors. Fiber optic tree? Shiny, pink, metallic tree? A tree covered in fake snow? You can buy 'em all. Cons: It could have negative environmental effects. If you buy an artificial tree, the American Christmas Tree Association recommends keeping the tree for nine years to offset the environmental impact. It looks the same every year. If you like some variety in your life, once you commit to an artificial tree, you commit to the same style, size and appearance for years.
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Real trees Pros: Shop local. If you buy a real Christmas tree, you're supporting tree farmers in your community. You can recycle them. Often cities will collect Christmas trees after the holiday to recycle them, or you can turn them into mulch or firewood to use in your home. It smells nice! Why buy a Christmas
tree-scented candle when you could have the real thing? It's fun. Going to the Christmas tree farm with your loved ones and picking out the perfect tree can make for a fun holiday outing, and let's face it, chopping down your tree is extremely satisfying. Cons: They're more expensive. According to a study by Square and the National Christmas Tree Association, real trees
cost an average of $73. They require upkeep. You have to make sure they stay watered and healthy, and you have to clean up the needles that fall onto your floor. They can also be full of sap, which means decorating can get sticky. They're a fire hazard. According to a 2017 study from the National Fire Protection Association, Christmas tree fires tend to be more deadly than other fires.
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Family Time: Stay safe on the road for the holidays More Content Now
During the next weeks, millions of American families will be getting in their cars and hitting the highway in order to visit family and friends for the holidays. While parents and children a like look forward to the excitement of spending time with loved ones, eating big family dinners and eventually opening presents, preparing to get from your home to your holiday destination safely, can easily be an afterthought. According to the Insurance Information Institute, speeding, alcohol, time of day and weather, are factors in all crashes, but are exaggerated during the holiday season. The Insurance Information Institute also reported that 50 more people, on average, die in traffic crashes during Thanksgiving week than during other weeks of the year. One way parents can help prepare for a trip safely is to plan when to leave. According to the U.S. Department of Transportation, more people travel
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on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving then travel on the actual day. With the Christmas holiday happening in the middle of the week in 2019, choosing the best day to travel can depend on several factors such as work schedules and school schedules.
TouristMeetsTraveler.com suggests the best day to hit the road is Dec. 25, as many travelers will have already reached their destinations. Tips for keeping your kids safe in the car during holiday travel: • Stick with what you know: Try to
use your own child's car seat when possible. Working with a familiar seat that is already adjusted to fit your child is the safer option. • Know the law: Be sure to check booster seats laws if you're traveling across state lines and have a child at or near booster-seat age. Booster seat laws vary state-by-state and range from as young as four to as old as eight. In general, most kids don't fit seat belts correctly until they reach about 4-foo-9 in height and are 8-13 years old. • Careful packing: The holidays can amount to the addition of gifts and other holiday-related items. Be sure to put heavier items low in the load space, secured so they can't become a projectile during a crash or emergency braking. • Expect the unexpected: Plan for the worst. Think ahead to pack additional snacks, games, cell-phone charge cords and contact information. Also be sure to have cold-weather gear for everyone in your car if traveling in cold climates.
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Feast your eyes on stunning gingerbread creations
By Lisa Elia
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Hansel and Gretel weren’t the only ones tempted by the home-baked warmth and comfort of gingerbread. Amateur bakers vying for first place at The National Gingerbread House Competition at The Omni Grove Park Inn in Asheville, North Carolina, have visions of gingerbread — not sugar plums — dancing in their heads. For them, it’s all about working their magic with spices and sugar into grand temples of gingerbread. “At first, it was not intended to be a competition, but as a community display of gingerbread houses from about 12 local bakers,� said Tracey Johnston-Crum, the inn’s public relations director. “It wasn’t until a guest asked which one was the winner that it became a competition, and took on a life of its own.� Now in its 27th year, The National Gingerbread House Competition is one of the country’s most celebrated — and
Judges look for intricate details and pieces that tell a story to determine a winner for The National Gingerbread Competition at The Omni Grove Park Inn in Ashville, North Carolina. [OMNI GROVE PARK INN]
competitive — baking events. This year, the gingerbread confections will be on public display from Nov. 20 to Jan. 4. Contestants arrive on Nov. 17, and the next day, nine judges pick the winners by 6 p.m. Last year, there were 190 entries, and on average, the competition attracts 150 to 175 entries a year,
Johnston-Crum said. About 150,000 visitors see the displays each year. The rules aren’t complicated. Basically, everything must be edible, except the base, and the pieces must be 75 percent gingerbread. There are four categories: Child, youth, teen and adult, and the three winners in each category compete for more than $28,000 in cash and prizes. It’s a national contest, but entries from Canada have competed, as have contestants from 32 states. Don’t be fooled by the competition’s name, because everything conceivable in gingerbread has made appearances, from the White House to London’s Tower Bridge to Noah’s Ark to a pirate’s ship to panda bears. “You think you have seen everything, but every year I am surprised by what people come up with,� Johnston-Crum said. The best pieces tell a story or show a contestant’s sentimental attachment to a movie, book or person. One entry that stood out was a replica of a contestant’s grandfather’s country store in
Daylight, Tennessee. “The details were incredible and unbelievable, from the labels on the canned goods to the produce, the potbelly stove and the candy station,� Johnston-Crum said. Another memorable display recreated iconic images from the movie “A Christmas Story,� including Ralphie in his pink bunny pajamas, the leg lamp and the Red Ryder BB gun. Whatever designs contestants come up with, the judges are usually won over by the participant’s passion and attention to detail. And nothing escapes their eagle eyes, from the tiny, Moscow mule copper mugs gracing a table at which reindeer were playing poker to the realistic-looking candles made of white chocolate standing next to a gingerbread clock. “Whatever is near and dear to the hearts of our contestants and what they truly love will manifest itself into their gingerbread entries,� Johnston-Crum said. For more information, visit omnihotels.com/grovepark.
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Family Time: Tips for spending more time with your kids More Content Now
Between work, school, extracurricular activities, making dinner, helping with homework, there can seem like there are not enough hours in the day. With everything going on it can hard to squeeze in quality time with your kids. If you feel like you don't spend enough time with your kids, you're not alone. According a recent survey conducted by OnePoll in conjunction with Crayola Experience, more than half of parents say they are too busy to have fun with their kids. Surveying 2,000 parents with kids ages 3-16 across the country, the researchers found that 78% of parents wished they had more time to spend with their kids. The poll also found that 40% of parents admit they have missed at least one important milestone in their child's life, and that 82% of parents said their child has complained at some point about not spending enough time with them. "Even when parents do spend time with their kids, the children often feel their parents' aren't fully present in the activity — and parents agree," said Vice Preside of Crayola Experience Victoria Lozano. Here are some tips for spending more time with your kids, according to Parents.com: • Practice parenting meditation: Try to stay in the moment, focusing
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on seeing your kids, hearing them, understating them and being amazed by them. • Take pajama walks: Before bed, weather permitting, take your kids on a "pajama walk" to help them decompress and mellow before going to bed. Get your kids completely ready of bed (teeth brushed, faces was, pj's on)
and then take a slow stroll around the neighborhood. • Have a taco night: Try using themed dinners when time allows. You can have a taco night, a pizza night a Chinese night or a pancake night. You can also increase your time with your child by having them help with the preparation of a dinner night.
• Fix it together: Use home improvement projects to spend time with your kids while teaching them about tools and life at the same time. • Get there on foot: When you need to take your child somewhere nearby, take the opportunity to walk and have conversations with your child while you are getting to your destination.
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4 unique ideas for holiday gift exchanges By Katey Psencik The Austin American-Statesman
If you’re tired of doing the same ol’ song and dance with your friends and family year after year, here are some ideas for the same White Elephant exchange (number-drawing, gift-stealing and more) you know and love — except with themes based around wherever your loved ones’ interests lie.
or so, and everybody goes home with a cute scarf. Everybody wins (except if you get that really cute scarf stolen from you TWICE, which happened to me last year and I’m still upset about it). Cookies, candies or other bakes goods
A good friend of mine has hosted a cookie exchange the last couple of years, and it’s the perfect Christmas party. Scarves Each person brings two dozen homemade cookFor the last several ies, and at the end of the years, my girlfriends and party, everybody gets to I have gotten together at take home a variety of my place to take part in a cookies. This would also scarf exchange. Everybody work with your favorite brings a scarf under $25 holiday candies or even
cakes, if you’ve got serious bakers in your circle. Records, or movies The cool thing about doing a music or movie exchange is that you can set whatever parameters around it you want. Ask your guests to each bring a record they loved growing up, or their alltime favorite movie. Games Card games and board games are making a comeback, and there are so many fun ones it’s hard to keep up. Exchange your favorite games, then spend the rest of the evening playing them all.
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Food for Thought: Tips to save on holiday dinners More Content Now
Hosting family and friends for holiday dinners is a joyous occasion for many, but looking at the receipt from the grocery story prior to your loved ones breaking bread can make some cringe. According to previous surveys, the average American spends an average of $150-$175 on Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners, and a majority plan to pay for those dinners by themselves. Although hosting your family and friends for the holidays can be expensive, there are ways to cut costs when you go to the grocery store to pick up food and supplies. Here are some money-saving holiday tips to feed your loved ones without going broke, according to CheatSheet. com: • Contributions: Have your family and friends contribute to the bill. Make your request in advance so your guests won't be caught off guard. • Have guests bring meals: If some
• Simplify the menu: Cooking simpler dishes with fewer ingredients will save time and money. You'll also have few dishes to wash. • Look for deals: Check online for grocery deals and coupons. Compare prices among the stores to get the best price. • Budget: Set a dollar amount for your meal and try to stick to it.
According to previous surveys, the average American spends an average of $150-$175 on Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners. [PHOTO BY OSSEOUS VIA WIKIMEDIA COMMONS]
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EASY RECIPE • 7-Up Pound Cake • Serves: 12-16 • Pound Cake • 1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter or margarine • ½ cup vegetable shortening • 3 cups granulated sugar • 5 large eggs • 3 cups all-purpose flour • Pinch salt • ¾ cup 7-Up soda • Lime Glaze • 1 ½ cups powdered sugar • 3 to 4 tablespoons fresh lime juice • Zest of 1 lim
Steps To make the pound cake: Heat the oven to 325 degrees. Grease and flour one 9-inch bundt pan. Using an electric mixer, cream the butter and vegetable shortening, then gradually add the sugar. Continue to cream until light and fluffy. Add the eggs one a time, beating well after each addition. Reduce the mixer speed to low, then mix in the flour until fully combined. Mix in the salt. Remove the mixer and gently fold in the 7-Up, taking care not to overmix the batter. Pour the batter into the prepared pan. Bake until a toothpick inserted in the center of the cake comes out clean, about 1 ½ hours. Let the cake cool in the pan for 10 minutes, then turn it out onto serving plate and let it cool completely. While the cake is cooling, make the lime glaze: In a small bowl, whisk together the sugar, lime juice and until well-blended and smooth. Drizzle over the cooled cake. Let the glaze set before serving.
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Start a holiday tradition: Anything that makes memories is a good idea By Melissa Erickson From writing letters to Santa, cookie baking and game night, to read-aloud storytimes and chopping down your own Christmas tree, family traditions create memories, teach values and bring a sense of belonging and connectedness.
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From cookie baking to game night, read-aloud storytimes to chopping down your own Christmas tree, family traditions create memories, teach values and bring a sense of belonging and connectedness. Think of them as the glue that keeps families together from when children are small and as they grow, leave home and start their own families. “A tradition can be something simple that happens frequently, such as going to get a hot chocolate after a sports practice or a game. Other traditions may only take place once a year and are more elaborate, like the large family dinner at the holidays that is always at a certain grandparent’s house,” said Mary Dell Harrington and Lisa Heffernan, co-founders of Grown and Flown, an online community for parents of teens and young adults. “Traditions evoke memories that are multi-sensory, such as how the turkey smells at Thanksgiving or how hot the sand feels at a favorite summer beach vacation. These memories of family traditions may represent some of the very happiest times in a family’s life and serve as reminders of family closeness,” said Harrington and Heffernan, co-authors of “Grown & Flown: How to Support Your Teen, Stay Close as a Family and Raise Independent Adults.”
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Starting a tradition may be easier when children are small, when parents are more in control of the family calendar, Harrington and Heffernan said. As they grow kids and teens can take part in planning new traditions. “For example, board games are very popular with teens and young adults now and, if they want to begin a tradition of playing a game with you after Thanksgiving dinner, give it a try to learn the game and carve out time to play it with them. Nurture the tradition of time together,” Harrington and Heffernan said. Many family traditions revolve around food. “Food feels like family. It’s what we first know. It’s what surrounds us: family, love, comfort, security, home,” said Jorj Morgan, author of cooking, entertaining and lifestyle books including “Fresh Traditions:
Classic Dishes for a Contemporary Lifestyle.” “We pass down family traditions because we want to surround our children and grandchildren with the feelings of love and security those traditions gave us,” Morgan said. If your family wants to create a new family tradition include a bit of humor, said Morgan, who shared a bit of family lore. Many Thanksgivings ago, Morgan’s family walked into her mother’s home and instantly knew something was off. “There was no turkey smell. It was the year grandma forgot to cook the turkey. She had trimmed it and put it in the oven but forgot to turn it on. Then she was busy getting ready for all of us to show up and never noticed. So instead we ate ham sandwiches for Thanksgiving dinner with all the sides. Now years later we have a baked ham
in addition to turkey as a tribute to grandma and as a laugh,” Morgan said. To keep traditions alive families need to be flexible, especially as children grow up and apart as kids leave home. “If traditions begin to feel restrictive rather than celebratory, it may be time to examine how to continue to embrace the spirit of the tradition while making small adjustments to the practice,” Harrington and Heffernan said. Parents magazine suggests trying these traditions if you aren’t already: 1. Use an Advent calendar or DIY calendar to count down to Christmas. 2. Write letters to Santa. 3. Visit a Christmas tree farm. 4. Trim the tree as a family. 5. Start an ornament collection. 6. Have the kids make a decoration each year. 7. Set up a hot cocoa bar on Christmas Eve. 8. See holiday lights in different neighborhoods. 9. Bake cookies with the kids. 10. Wear matching holiday pajamas. 11. Take a holiday photo at the same time each year. 12. Research other cultures’ holiday traditions and try one. 13. Volunteer. 14. Ask everyone to contribute to a holiday playlist. This article appears in Nov.-December 2019 Family magazine.
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Two ingredients produce warm, inviting cinnamon-apple treat By Laura Tolbert More Content Now
There's a reason that retailers display those cinnamon and apple scented candles in the fall. The combination is very warm and inviting. How better to pair them in a dessert than to combine cinnamon rolls with apple pie filling. For this tempting treat, you'll only need two ingredients: A tube of unbaked cinnamon rolls and 32 ounces of apple pie filling. I had my own homemade canned apple pie filling in the pantry and will provide that recipe/technique as well. Of course, you can use a 32-ounce can of apple pie filling instead. Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Lightly spray a 9-by-13-inch casserole dish. Unroll the cinnamon rolls and carefully
slice through the middle crosswise so they won't be too thick. Then, divide each slice into fourths. Distribute half of the pieces evenly in the bottom of the baking dish. Pour in the pie filling. Place the remaining cinnamon roll pieces on top of the pie filling. Bake for 15 minutes until cinnamon roll pieces are browned. Remove from oven and let it cool slightly. Drizzle the icing over the top of the cobbler and enjoy! HOME-CANNED APPLE PIE FILLING While I was preparing this deliciousness for the canning jars, the house smelled like a mixture of Christmas, a cinnamon factory and Johnny Appleseed's mother's kitchen. • 4 ½ cups white sugar
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½ teaspoon ground nutmeg 2 teaspoons salt 10 cups water (divided) 1 cup cornstarch 3 tablespoons lemon juice 28 to 30 baking apples (I used Jonathan variety)
Wash and rinse in hot water seven wide-mouth quart jars, lids and rings. Place in a pot of simmering water while you make the filling. In a large pot or Dutch oven, combine sugar, cinnamon, nutmeg, salt and 8 cups of water. Bring the mixture to a boil over medium-high heat. In a medium-sized bowl, combine the cornstarch and remaining 2 cups of water. Whisk to combine. Pour this mixture into syrup mixture and mix well. Allow to cook at least 1 minute
and remove from heat. Peel, core and slice apples. Toss with lemon juice. Pack the sliced apples into hot canning jars, leaving at least a 1-inch headspace. Fill jars with hot syrup. Using a wooden skewer or Popsicle stick, carefully slide down inside the jars to remove any air bubbles. Wipe rims to remove any syrup dropped on the edge. Put on lids and rings (just finger tight, they don't have to be twisted on tightly) and process in a boiling water bath canner for 25 minutes. After the jars have sealed, but while still warm, you may turn the jars upside down to allow the apples to redistribute if the apple slices have floated to the top. If you pack the apples tightly, there will be less chance of this happening.
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Make this holiday season about presence, not presents By Lisa Sugarman Make this holiday season about presence, not presents.
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The holidays are a unique time of year, right? The vibe everywhere is festive and frantic and jubilant and high energy because we're on a hard deadline to make everything just right for all our people in time for the holidays. But that's a lotta pressure. I mean, I feel like most of us spend the days and weeks leading up to the holidays in a delicate state of stressed-out euphoria. Because at the same time that we're infected by the joy of the season, we're also strung out and pretty drained from doing all the things. And I just can't help but feel like that's totally the opposite of what we're all really supposed to be doing this time of year. Unless I'm wrong (and we all know I'm not), the essence of the holiday season is about being present and savoring time together and creating memories that will last long after most toys or games or physical presents are gone. Or at least it should be. Yet, this compulsion that so much of the world has with nailing the perfect gift(s) and executing the textbook celebration is only taking us further away from the real point if it all. Let's face it, it's no one's fault that we're all conditioned to expect a gift for every night of Hanukkah or a truckload of presents under the tree on Christmas Day. And elves on shelves and menches on benches. And lights and garlands and all the other stuff. Because those things have all been a huge part of the culture of
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the holidays since forever. But the holidays are also so much more than that. The problem is, I think, that a lot of people still have their eye on the wrong ball. And they're still spending all their time going all out for the holidays and not leaving enough in reserve to actually experience and relish in the day itself. That's why, over the last decade, Dave and I have moved away from subscribing to the commercialness of the holidays and we've replaced it with collecting experiences. Instead of anniversary and birthday and holiday presents, we get away together or do a destination run or go hiking or escape to a tiny house in the woods. We've shifted completely over to presence versus presents. And it feels so good. Because what we both value most at this stage of our lives is time - time together or time with our girls or time with family. Just time. And we want to be present and grounded in those
moments together as often and as deeply as we can. Now I realize that all of this talk begs the question(s): Do we still get presents for our kids? Do we bust out the menorah and the Hanukkah stockings and load up on chocolate gelt? Ya, of course. Cause it's still fun to give and receive and our daughters are just barely adults, so that tradition of giftgiving is still exciting to them; we just temper it with equal amounts of giving our time and attention. Also, the stuff we get for them now is so different than it was when they were young. The presents we get now are more purposeful, like work clothes or winter boots or a camera for going abroad things they can use and appreciate on a different level. Us, though, we've got most of the stuff we really need at this point. That's why, before every holiday, we remind our girls that we don't want gifts; we just want time. Time with them. Time to sit and talk and get
their undivided attention. Because I know that when I look back over my life, it's not going to be the jewelry or the gift cards or the clothes I got that will have left the deepest imprint on my memory, it'll be the meaningful experiences I've had with my family and friends. Those are the gifts I'll treasure. Look, I know that the whole giftgiving tradition was forged out of the excitement of making someone feel special and to show how much we value someone in our lives. But there are also other, even more impactful ways to express love that have nothing to do with physical gifts. And those gifts of time and attention and presence are the things we should be giving out and receiving in equal proportion to all the other stuff we give and receive. So this year, give some gifts, but also make some memories. Have some conversations. Spend some time listening to someone special. Give out extra hugs and be mindful of telling the people closest to you what they mean to you and why. Because therein lies the real present. Lisa Sugarman lives just north of Boston, Massachusetts. Read and discuss all her columns at lisasugarman. com. Or, find them on LittleThings. com, Hot Moms Club, BeingAMom. life, GrownandFlown.com, More Content Now, and Care.com. She is also the author of "LIFE: It Is What It Is and Untying Parent Anxiety: 18 Myths That Have You in Knots - And How to Get Free" available at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and at select bookstores.
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