Straight To The Face. Learn To Trust Your Children and Develop Your Intuition

Straight To The Face (Learn To Trust Your Children And Develop Your Intuition)

by Tim van der Vliet

To my teachers Yuan, Rio, Lila and Liam

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8 . CHILDREN, LIFE TEACHERS

About Me I ... ... h ave never read any parenting magazine, ever. ... keep learning by making mistakes. ... l ove my kids, but also a lot of other people in this world. ... s till go out with my friends, and not only for coffee ;). ... a m stumbling through life too, my children think, but they help me sometimes. ... k now (absolutely) nothing about parenting, nor (I realize while I write this) about life itself, other than my own experience. ... h ave raised our children having the following two ideas: 1) “Walk your own path” and 2) “You can talk to me about anything” ... think children need love and food, and that's about it...

CHILDREN, LIFE TEACHERS . 9

I ntroduction It was a warm day in July 2010 when I was walking in the streets of Amsterdam Old West with my daughter Rio, then aged 9. She gave me her jacket and ordered me: “Hold This!”. Still flabbergasted with her tone I mumbled: “Why would I hold this?”. She immediately put me into place by looking me straight in the eye while she spoke: “Daddy! You really don't understand anything about anything...

Do you?!”

I laughed out loud, partly because I felt she was a bit harsh. But then I thought: “That is soooo Socrates! I only know I know nothing.”

Then and there I understood that my children, our children can teach us so many things.

At this time in life I am an officially published author with, hold your chair, one book published. My work is to write blogs, speak publicly, coach and write new books (you are now reading the free sample of it!). About a year ago my wife decided to go back to work, for 6 days a week! So I was left, having to take care of our four children, now aged 16, 14, 12 and 3.

You could say I am busy, bloody busy.

But there is, even for stay at home dads (and moms) like me, light at the end of the tunnel: You can learn a lot from your children!

And if you are open for the lessons your children can teach you, you' ll start to trust your children. Children's minds are beautiful, simple, pure and highly intuitive. By listening and learning from your children you train your intuition. Your child on the other hand, or maybe as a positive side effect, will feel more confident because by being trusted and listened to they know that they can trust their parents too.

The words you are about to read are from 2010 up to this moment.

Here, especially for you, a free sample of my new book

Straight To The Face (Learn To Trust Your Children And Develop Your Intuition)

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Table of contents

16 32 46 82

Unconditional love The mirror Lose the ego Peace of mind CHILDREN, LIFE TEACHERS . 13

a

a

person is a person, no matter how small - Dr. Seuss -

UnconditionalloveUncond UnconditionalloveUncond UnconditionalloveUncond UnconditionalloveUncond UnconditionalloveUncond UnconditionalloveUncond UnconditionalloveUncond UnconditionalloveUncond UnconditionalloveUncond UnconditionalloveUncond Step 1

ditionalloveUnconditiona ditionalloveUnconditiona ditionalloveUnconditiona ditionalloveUnconditiona ditionalloveUnconditiona ditionalloveUnconditiona ditionalloveUnconditiona ditionalloveUnconditiona ditionalloveUnconditiona ditionalloveUnconditiona

At first I didn't know you...

18 . UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE . 19

Now...

20 . UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

I don't know what I would do without you

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE . 21

About kids and karma What goes around comes around they say But with these children to raise I really start to understand this phrase If I am moody, short-tempered and not focused on them my little friends get rowdy When I on the other hand show compassion and love when I'm being a friend these children become true masters of 'Zen' In other words, what goes in must come out.

The karmic message here in fact is that what you put in.

22 . THE MIRROR

you get

7 times :) back.

7 times :) back.

7 times :) back.

7 times :) back.

7 times :) back.

7 times :) back.

7 times :) back.

THE MIRROR . 23

$#!% 24 . THE MIRROR

Did she just say $#!%?

THE MIRROR . 25

My children tell me "Hey big guy!

Did you know that after the age of 25

YOU 26 . LOSE THE EGO

S H RI

NK

??!"

But instead of shrinking I grow 'cause I see their smiles and the twinkle in their eyes...

LOSE THE EGO . 27

a moment of insight

28 . LOSE THE EGO

(straight to the face)

Daddy, You really don't understand anything about anything, do you...?

Daddy looks at her with big eyes and thinks: "She might be right" LOSE THE EGO . 29

Sometimes in my family I try to be nice but what I get is a sneer to the face I know we are all just growing up but today I've had it completely Maybe I am not so in tune after all Call this a call: today is about and for me I deserve to be treated with respect If you cannot do that then all I can do is neglect to play this game with you

30 . LOSE THE EGO

Bye

bye

have a nice time Today this guy is not giving ANYTHING back.

(I guess my ego is having an attack...)

LOSE THE EGO . 31

I ask my daughter:

“Honey, what is the time?”

32 . LOSE THE EGO

Huh?!

“It's time to change Daddy ...time to change” LOSE THE EGO . 33

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36 . CHILDREN, LIFE TEACHERS

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Straight To The Face (Learn To Trust Your Children And Develop Your Intuition)

is a collection of stories and insights about how to learn to trust your children and perhaps more importantly, train your own intuition through the lessons children teach us.

Tim's words have the ability to inspire you and to make you laugh at the same time. You can read them over and over again and find new perspectives because of their transformative nature, or maybe because the words have changed you.

The message is portrayed in four parts: Unconditional Love, The Mirror, Lose the Ego and Peace of Mind. This book will be of great value to fathers, parents and parents to be. If you’re a child (and having problems with your parents) you may be pleasantly surprised too. Together, let's learn how to be a little more tolerant towards each other!

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Sometimes the things that bring peace of mind are in the places we cannot see or didn't expect them to be. Please open up and start turning pages‌