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THE VISITORS CENTER SPENDTHRIFT FARM
The highly anticipated grand opening of Spendthrift Farm’s new B. Wayne Hughes Visitors Center was on Nov. 1 as part of the Thoroughbred industry’s celebration of Breeders’ Cup week in Lexington.
Owners Eric and Tammy Gustavson were on hand to welcome the first guests into the 7,000 square-foot facility which will serve as Spendthrift’s new home for its growing tourism. Lexington mayor Linda Gorton and VisitLex president Mary Quinn Ramer were on hand to help with the ribbon cutting.
The B. Wayne Hughes Visitors Center is a sight to behold. Located in the heart of the historic farm, it features a sublime trophy room, a gift shop that could rival a Ralph Lauren store, indoor & outdoor entertainment space that offers picturesque views of horse paddocks and Spendthrift’s gorgeous stallion barn and office. Showcased is the farm's collection of prized trophies, memorabilia and history, including champion Authentic’s blanket of roses from the 2020 Kentucky Derby, beautifully preserved under heavy glass in the floor as you enter.
Established in 1937, Spendthrift is a leader in the Thoroughbred horse racing and breeding industry. The vision of its late namesake - Spendthrift’s modern-day founder B. Wayne Hughes, the visitors center will help provide access, education, awareness and entertainment to the public, while also shining a light on the Thoroughbred industry and Central Kentucky.
If you’re ready to immerse yourself in the local Thoroughbred culture and Spendthrift Farm, you can book a public or private tour through Horse Country at visithorsecountry.com/spendthrift-farm/.
Editor’s Picks
Themost wonderful time of the year is here, friends! Many of you have already gotten the jump on your holiday shopping, but for those of us who are still searching for the perfect gift, here are a few suggestions that are on my radar this year. Some unique, some fun, some a little “outside the box,” but hey, it’s the holiday season, after all. Let’s do our best to savor every moment of this glorious month!
Fran Elsen, Editor-in-Chief of TOPSFor the Firepit Fanatic: Solo Stove Smokeless Bonfire Pit Available at solostove.com
For the Backyard Bird Watcher: Share the Joy Bird Feeder Holiday Box Available at Wild Birds Unlimited • wbu.com
For the Statement Piece Jewelry Lover: Julie Voss Classic Statement Hinge Bangle in Obsidian Black Available at Cotton Patch and Monkees of Lexington
For the Style Icon: Sarabeth Shortsleeve Puffer Jacket in Metallic Champagne Available at J. McLaughlin in the Summit • jmclaughlin.com
For the Person Who Needs This the Most (you know who they are!): The Power of Fun by Catherine Price Available at Joseph-Beth Booksellers josephbeth.com
The Truth Behind Many of Our Favorite
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There are few figures so perfectly ingrained in our minds as Santa Claus. You can picture him: red suit, white fur trim, black belt, white beard, red cheeks, bowl full of jelly, eight (plus one) reindeer, sleigh, giant stack of gifts.
But Santa didn’t always look like that. As we’ll cover later, Santa has his beginnings in Saint Nicholas. Immigrants brought the figure to America and he was often still dressed as a bishop in their minds. Washington Irving penned one of the first written descriptions of the man in America in 1809, which most historians agree was more akin to a Dutch burgher.
An illustration of “Old Santeclaus” appeared in a hand-colored children’s book of anonymous authorship in 1821. No written description seems to have been put to paper in between Irving’s version and this one, yet we get a figure that’s a whole lot closer to our idea of Santa… including the name!
The next year, the famous poem “A Visit from St. Nicholas” (the one that starts with “‘Twas the night before Christmas…”) helped solidify the big guy’s look. He picks up a pipe and a few pounds, “dressed all in furs from his head to his foot.” He gets a full team of reindeer, rosy cheeks, a white beard and a pipe.
Illustrations of Santa after this time generally seem to be some blend of Irving’s Dutch chap and the poem’s fur-clad “jolly old elf.”
German-born political cartoonist Thomas Nast (who gave us the Republican elephant and Democratic donkey) illustrated Santa for Harper’s Weekly, bringing German-Bavarian elements to his look, and fun details like the belt.
Most illustrations of yore were obviously done in black and white, but hand-painted children’s books often included red, possibly based on those famous ruddy cheeks. When color printing became more common, Santa’s fur suit was often still brown, white or black – you know, realistic fur colors. But splashes of red, green and yellow kept appearing and it seems like red eventually won out, probably for its overall festive, fantastical note.
By the 1930s, all of the elements were more or less set. But it was Haddon Sundblom’s illustrations for the Coca-Cola Company that solidified Santa in our cultural eye. When you think of Santa, this is probably the version that comes to mind. (That red happens to be Coke’s brand color was probably not a coincidence.)
Ru lph
Everyone loves the story of the little guy with heart overcoming the odds and becoming the hero. But it all started with a department store.
In the 1930s, Montgomery Ward would give away coloring books to children during the Christmas shopping season. Buying these books came with a hefty price tag; the department store figured that printing their own book would be cheaper. They approached in-house advertising copywriter Robert J. May to come up with a holiday story about an animal, playing on the popular Disney movies of the time.
As his central character, May chose a reindeer. He knew he wanted to make an “ugly duckling” story, drawing his own painful, shy childhood. He tested the story on his seven year old daughter, Barbara, and found that he had accomplished exactly what he’d set out to do; the story was delightful, inspiring and encouraging for young kids. Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer was born!
Montgomery Ward distributed millions of copies of the little poem book to shoppers. But after 10 years, the company president graciously chose to give May the copyright to his work, allowing him to license the character for other media.
John David Marks – May’s brother-in-law – adapted the story into a song that was recorded by Gene Autry and topped the US charts over Christmas 1949. (Fun fact: this recording also holds the dubious distinction of being the only chart-topper to fall off the list immediately after hitting No. 1.)
In 1964, Arthur Rankin, Jr. and Jules Bass stepped in. They essentially made Rudolph a household name with their charming Animagic stop-motion puppet animation (often lovingly referred to as “Claymation”). Their imaginative version remains the longest running television special in American history.
FrIt would hardly be the holiday season without Jimmy Durante rasping out “Frosty the Snowman.” But we owe the creation of this beloved holiday figure to Rudolph! Jack Rollins and Steve Nelson saw the success of Gene Autry’s 1949 hit song and decided to make their own silly, catchy holiday tune. They asked Autry to record this one, and he agreed.
In 1969, Rankin/Bass brought the song to life on TV. Rather than doing one of their famous “Claymation” films, they instead chose to make Frosty animated, ensuring that everything on screen looked just like a Christmas card.
Did you know? The original lyrics make no mention of Christmas! That was added for the special so its release would feel more timely.
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hwe sometimes call Santa Claus Saint Nick, they’re actually two different figures. Saint Nicholas was a real person, and the inspiration behind the jolly old elf! He also has his own day of celebration.
Saint Nicholas of Myra was a Christian bishop of Greek descent. As the patron saint of sailors, merchants, archers, children, brewers, pawnbrokers, singletons, students and repentant thieves, he was known throughout his life for acts of generosity.
Once, he heard of a father who could no longer afford dowries for his daughters; without the money, they might have to turn to desperate measures to make their way in life. Wanting to spare the family any embarrassment, Nicholas snuck up to their home under the cover of darkness and tossed a bag of gold in through a window. Upon discovering the gold, the father went out and arranged a marriage for his eldest daughter right away. After the wedding, Nicholas went back and tossed in another bag.
After the second daughter’s wedding, the father stayed awake all night. He caught Saint Nicholas in his act of kindness and fell to his knees, thanking him. Humbly, Saint Nicholas asked the father not to tell anyone who had helped the family – though, clearly, word eventually got out!
In one version of the story, Saint Nicholas placed the gold in the girls' stockings, which were hung from the mantel to dry. Others say he left the gold in their shoes. Both traditions are still celebrated today!
His generosity inspired the idea that Saint Nicholas might come and leave gifts for children on the night of his Feast Day (December 6). Over time, this tradition blended with Christmas. St. Nicholas is still celebrated as a separate holiday figure in several Scandinavian countries. His evil counterpart, Krampus, stalks the streets the night before to punish bad children.
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sThe story you heard is that candy canes date back to 1670 in Cologne, Germany. The choirmaster wanted to keep children in the choir silent during the living crèche, so he asked a candy maker to make sugar sticks. To justify giving children candy during church, he had the candy maker shape them into shepherd’s crooks. Meanwhile, the colors were meant to signify Jesus’s sinless nature and sacrifice.
That’s an awful lot of thinking for one little treat – and one that would’ve been an incredible expensive in its time. It’s more likely that candy canes developed slowly over time.
The tale
you’ve been told goes something like this; in ages and ages hence, people in Germany would hide a pickle in their Christmas tree and whoever found it would get good luck – sometimes in the form of an extra present left by Saint Nicholas.
Why would Saint Nicholas leave a present? As the patron saint of children (plus merchants and brewers), one of his miracles was resurrecting three children who had been murdered and placed in a vat of pickles, possibly to be sold as pork later by an unscrupulous butcher. Yikes, that’s dark!
Another suggested origin of this tradition was that a Bavarian-born soldier during the Civil War begged for a pickle while starving. As it was Christmas, this guard gave him a single pickle, which the solider credited with saving his life. When he made it home, he began hanging a pickle of his Christmas tree each year to remember this incredible gift.
While those stories may have basis in truth, the tradition of the Christmas pickle just doesn’t. It’s most likely that the tradition was invented in the 1890s to help sell ornaments. Traditional German glass ornaments were being imported to the US by Woolworths. Many of those ornaments were shaped like vegetables, a long-running French and German tradition. Maybe pickles weren’t selling well, or maybe they were a bit of a novelty to shoppers already, and having a little story behind them would help push sales.
Whatever the case may be, the Christmas pickle is now a firmly rooted American tradition. What we really treasure is that it helps children stop to enjoy the beauty of their family Christmas tree a little more closely.
The shape is a point we have no historical information on. Candy sticks were generally straight, so the crook was definitely a conscious choice on someone’s part. But to what end? The idea that it was shaped as a shepherd’s crook is a plausible explanation – though it would be just as easy to explain that candy sticks stood for shepherd’s staffs.
It’s also been proposed that the hooks helped children hold onto the candies without getting their fingers sticky, which seems like it would be helpful when giving the treats to choirboys. A third theory is that the hooks were intended to hang the candies on Christmas tree branches. It’s likely that the true answer probably draws on a little of each explanation.
It’s very unlikely that the original candy canes were colorful. When candy canes were introduced to the US in 1847, they were completely white because adding color to the delicate canes was an expensive, difficult process.
There’s a legend that candy canes were some sort of secret, hidden legend for oppressed Christians. This is just false. As the original story suggests, Christianity was very common where candy canes were made. (It also most likely doesn't stand for the "J" in Jesus.)
Did you know? 58% of people eat the straight end first!
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Wassail
is a hot, mulled cider, ale or wine. “Wassail” comes from Old Norse and Old English meaning “be in good health” or “be fortunate,” and wassailing was the act of going door-to-door to share those good vibes with neighbors. The drink became a part of the tradition, sharing a goblet for warmth and a sense of community.
Figgy pudding
is a traditional English Christmas dish. These cakes are generally filled with honey, fruits and nuts. To make a festive display, they were often doused with spirits then lit aflame.
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don’t necessarily contain plums; instead, it refers more to the shape. Traditional sugar plums were hardened balls of sugar, oven coated in seeds, nuts or spices. More modern recipes used the sugar coating as a way of preserving a fruit or nut.
Eggnog
is a drink that has roots in traditional English possets and milk punches. It certainly transformed from its roots to a cream-based punch that became exceptionally popular in the American colonies.
Fruit a e
were traditionally reserved for weddings and Christmas in the United Kingdom. These cakes started as a way to use candied fruits and nuts while using alcohol to preserve the cake throughout the winter. Johnny Carson loved to joke that there was only one fruitcake in the world, and that we were all just passing it around.
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is actually a customary Christmas dinner in Japan! A 1970s advertising campaign promoted the idea that fried chicken was the perfect Christmas meal. Now, the chain produces limited edition buckets each year to commemorate the holiday.
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Like many holiday traditions, the true history here is a bit unclear. Most likely, it was a lot of smaller traditions that got combined into one.
We do know that during the Feast of Saint Nicholas, children would leave food and drink for the saint and his attendants; overnight, these treats would be swapped for gifts. We also know that Norse children would leave hay and treats for the god Odin’s horse during Yuletide – a tradition which eventually became leaving treats for Father Christmas and his horse. Some also say that this tradition became an important one in the United States during the Great Depression; parents wanted to teach their children generosity in the face of adversity, so they encouraged their kids to share their treasured Christmas sweets with Santa.
Whatever the case, cookie baking parties are one of our favorite ways to celebrate the season! They make great gifts and delicious treats for office parties, potlucks or dessert tables. Check out our recipes later on in this issue for tips!
We've noticed an interesting phenomenon: in households where adults are lactose intolerant or vegan, Santa ALSO seems to have trouble with milk. Isn't that fascinating?!
Nutcra
For many of us, it simply wouldn’t be Christmas without Clara and The Nutcracker. But did you know that this 1892 ballet almost flopped?
The director of the Russian Imperial Theatres, Ivan Vsevolozhsky, commissioned composer Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky to create a smash hit ballet to follow up their production of Sleeping Beauty. Tchaikovsky collaborated with choreographer Marius Petipa, who he worked with on Sleeping Beauty, and Lev Ivanov for the production.
Vsevolozhsky selected the story the ballet would be based on, “The Nutcracker” by Alexander Dumas. The story was itself an adaptation of The Nutcracker and the Mouse King by E.T.A. Hoffmann – a much darker tale than what eventually graced the stage.
The Saint Petersburg premiere of The Nutcracker was not considered a success. Some critics found it charming, but most were baffled; why were children in the production, they wondered, and why did it take so long for the star ballerina to hit the stage? They found the transition between reality and Clara’s dream too jarring and many of the characters a bit silly. Most praised Tchaikovsky's music, but one critic found it "ponderous."
Other theatres and ballet companies saw the potential in the story, choreography and music, however. The first complete performance of The Nutcracker outside of Russia took place in 1934 in England; annual performances have been staged there since 1952. Now, it’s unimaginable that anyone might’ve disliked what is considered Tchaikovsky’s most famous work.
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Lexington Ballet Company: The Nutcracker •December 3-4 EKU Center for the Arts •December 9-11 & 16-18 Lexington Opera House
Lexington Children's Theatre: Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer Jr. •November 28-December 5 Lexington Opera House
UK Choirs 25th Annual "Collage: A Holiday Spectacular” •December 3-4 Singletary Center Penatonix
•December 4 Rupp Arena
Rockin' Around the Christmas Tree featuring the Coach Mitchell Band •December 6 Manchester Music Hall
Trans-Siberian Orchestra •December 7 Rupp Arena
LexPhil & The Lexington Singers: A Cathedral Christmas •December 17 Cathedral of Christ the King
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The British like to think that no one does Christmas better than them. But in truth, they owe most of their holiday celebrations to the Germans by way of Queen Victoria.
When Victoria married her first cousin (yikes), Prince Albert of Saxe-Coburg and Gotha, the pair bonded over their shared German lineage. One thing they both treasured was Christmas. We’ve mentioned that Christmas was in decline in England at the time of Victoria’s ascension. She and Albert worked to ensure that the holiday was more merry than ever.
Christmas trees as we know them date back to the Renaissance, but Germans had made them an art. And nothing said “Christmas” to Prince Albert quite like trees; he was known to set up many throughout Windsor Castle, and he sent them to schools and army barracks. While some previous English royals had decorated Christmas trees, Victoria and Albert gave the practice a major PR boost by publishing an engraving of the royal family decorating a Christmas tree.
The first commercially printed Christmas card was commissioned by the man who invented the penny post in 1843. Sensing a trend, Queen Victoria started the tradition of “official” Christmas cards. These were generally portraits of the family, depicting significant personal events of the year – so maybe she also had a hand in starting the trend of the “family newsletter.”
The Victorian era saw a boom in caroling. Partly inspired by the queen’s generosity and charitable giving, people began going door-to-door to sing carols and collect money for worthy causes. Book printers began publishing books of carols and many of our favorite Christmas songs were written during this time.
Queen Victoria and Charles Dickens both had a hand in influencing traditional Christmas foods. The queen’s table often bore a turkey while Dickens famously featured a roast goose in A Christmas Carol (goose was a cheap meat that was often plentiful at the end of the year.) Puddings – a boiled mixture of dried fruits, suet, flour, eggs and spices – were often the centerpiece. Fruitcake would’ve been a festive dessert or breakfast treat.
You may think you love Christmas, but you’ve got nothing on this guy. It has been said that Dickens invented Christmas; while that’s clearly an exaggeration, he did have a big hand in crafting what Christmas looks like today through his works.
When he penned A Christmas Carol, Christmas was in danger of disappearing. Workers during the Industrial Revolution had little time for the merry festivities of yore. While Queen Victoria and her husband helped popularize Christmas among the wealthy, but it was hard for workers to scrape together the same holiday spirit.
Charles Dickens had built his career on social commentary, representing the struggles of the working class. Indeed, many of his customers were illiterate poor who would splurge the ha’penny to have his works read to them. Among the many short stories he issued in serial format, a handful focused on Christmas.
Dickens began writing A Christmas Carol in October 1843 with the hope to have it published by Christmas. He wrote the book in response to social attitudes towards poverty – especially child poverty. In addition to creating sympathy for Bob Cratchitt and Tiny Tim, the book’s lush descriptions and nostalgic tone helped cement an idyllic picture of what a proper Christmas should be – at least according to Dickens.
He financed the printing of the book himself, selecting elaborate binding and gilt edges with hand-colored illustrations by John Leech –yet he insisted that the book be priced at no more than five shillings (roughly $30). •
ElfS lf
Either you love him or hate him. But no matter how you feel about this little holiday spy, it seems like The Elf on the Shelf is here to stay.
The elf was actually a family tradition for Carol Aebersold. As a child, the elf just stayed on the tree and didn’t move. But with the arrival of her twin daughters, the tradition morphed. She used the elf to explain to her girls how Santa knew whether they’d been naughty or nice.
Aebersold and one of her daughters decided that the story was perfect for a book. They couldn’t get interest from publishers, so they took a risk and self-published the book, hiring a local illustrator to create the iconic designs. They sold their Elf on the Shelf kits at local trade shows and markets.
Their big break came in 2007 when actress Jennifer Garner was photographed carrying one of their boxes. From there, The Elf on the Shelf took off. Its popularity got a major boost from parents sharing “Elf Ideas” on Pinterest.
Of course, this “charming” tradition isn’t without criticism. Many parents start out with plans to try the tradition and get exhausted and overwhelmed with trying to keep up with one more thing during the holiday season; a pressure that’s surely compounded by social media. Others cynically see the Elf as teaching children that non-consensual surveillance is normal, which yeah, it’s kinda creepy.
To help Jewish kids feel more included with their peers, Jewish father Neal Hoffman developed Mensch on a Bench, a stuffed toy that looks like a rabbi and watches over the Menorah while everyone sleeps. The Mensch comes with a book that teaches kids about Hanukkah. A talking version even helps kids learn Yiddish!
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but we can't help giggling over the many parody takes on The Elf that have popped up over the years.
Snoop on a Stoop, The Troll on the Bowl (she sits on your toilet), Ghoul on a Stool... even some adult-themed ones we won't mention here.
Guys
nseveral countries, parents need just a little extra encouragement to help their kids behave in the month of December. While Scrooge and Burgermeister Meisterburger (from Santa Claus is Comin' to Town) are familiar holiday villains, we’re thrilled to introduce you to some truly wacky bad guys...
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is a huge, hairy goat-man that wanders the countryside in Alpine regions. On the eve of the Feast of St. Nicholas, he stalks the streets, swatting naughty children and handing them a lump of coal instead of a present. In some legends, he kidnaps the truly wicked!
F u ta
the Christmas witch, is another Alpine Christmas villain. Perchta is a stooped old crone with a hooked nose who walks with a cane – and carries a huge knife hidden in her skirts. Since you’re not allowed to work on Twelfth Night, the Frau would punish children who hadn’t finished their spinning by then. She might set all of your work on fire… or she might disembowel you. YIKES.
Be ni e
is a folklore character from parts of German-speaking Europe that was carried over to German-settled Pennsylvania. He’s a ragged man who wears torn, tattered clothes and furs. He carries a switch he uses to whip naughty children. But he also carries a sack of treats for the good kids!
aturn
If you’ve never heard of Saturnalia, think Roman April Fool’s Day. In late December, Roman society was turned on its nose when – in celebration of the god Saturn – slaves were allowed to sit, eat and gamble with their masters during a jolly feast. Saturn had a dark side; dead gladiators were offered to him as a sacrifice. Eventually, tributes offered to Saturn were less bloody, often as candles, effigies and masks of human faces. This gift giving tradition spread throughout Saturnalia; inexpensive gag gifts were exchanged among people during Saturnalia, as an expensive gift was considered a slight to Saturn. Many of Saturnalia’s traditions – and certainly, its timing – help contribute to the Christmas celebrations we know and love today.
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is an Icelandic giantess that is able to sense when children are being naughty. She comes down from her mountain hideaway (where, interestingly, it’s specified that she lives with her third husband), appearing as a stooped beggar. She begs mothers to hand over their misbehaving kids so she can cook them up into a stew.
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From A Charlie Brown Christmas to How the Grinch Stole Christmas to all of us whenever there is a Christmas tree display beside the Halloween candy (the nerve!), there's always been a lot of backlash against the commercialization of Christmas. This gift giving holiday seems to have a built-in push to make us want to do everything the best, the biggest, the most expensive. The best way to fight this baddie? Shop local, give from the heart and keep the spirit of the season top of mind always.
First of all,
there’s never a wrong time for a “thank you” gift. That said, it’s appropriate to bring a small gift when attending a brunch, dinner or cocktail party at the home of a friend, colleague or family member you don’t see regularly.
Many people bring host/hostess gifts when they’ll be staying overnight or for the weekend. That’s absolutely appropriate, as there’s usually a dinner included in that. However, it would also be fine to send a gift after your visit, especially if you can personalize it to their décor or tastes.
It’s important to remember that hostess gifts are meant to be a small token of appreciation. It should be something you can discreetly hand to your host which they can, in turn, tuck away for future enjoyment. (For anyone reading
H Gbetween the lines; no, they don’t have to open the bottle of wine you brought for dinner. The gift is for them to enjoy however they see fit.)
If you find yourself struggling to come up with a gift to say "thanks" to your host or hostess, we have some ideas that will feel fresh and thoughtful.
STATIONERY
A custom set of notecards, a notepad, letterhead or pens is a classic way to thank your host while also demonstrating that you’ve been thinking about them. It also invites them to send you a letter once in a while, which is a win for everyone!
TOP Source: Cartwheels Papers & Gifts in Louisville which
POTTED PLANT
If your host/hostess has ever demonstrated any skill at all in the garden, a plant would be a lovely way to thank them for their hospitality. Christmas cactuses, paperwhite bulbs and amaryllis are popular winter options. Snake plants, ZZ plants, philodendrons, peperomias and spider plants are great houseplants for hosts of any skill level; just be sure to check whether these plants might be dangerous for children or pets before you purchase. And if you know your host doesn't mind high-quality silk arrangements, we support it!
TOP Source: Digs in Louisville, Petals in Louisville, house, Forage
LUXURY SOAP & SCENTS
We know that you're probably rolling your eyes at the thought of a chintzy gift set, but that's not what we're thinking. A truly luxurious soap, diffuser, candle or lotion is a gift that anyone will recieve gladly.
TOP Sources: Norwalk Furniture & Design, Peggy’s Gifts & Accessories, Olive You Boutique, Violets Gifts
PICTURE FRAME
I feel like in this digital age, we have forgotten the beauty of a simple picture frame as a gift. A nice one is a beautiful décor element, sure, but it’s also a reminder to the host to actually print out some photos to enjoy.
TOP sources: My Favorite Things, The Front Porch, Boulevard Home & Concierge
CHOCOLATES
Unless your host is allergic, no one will turn their nose up at a box of nice chocolates. To make your gift feel special, we recommend either selecting something from a local chocolatier, or choosing a box that is of the finest quality (ideally, both!)
Our Pick: 24-piece box of Old Kentucky Chocolates Thoroughbreds ($24.99 oldkycandy.com)
MONOGRAMMED HAND TOWELS
We love a monogram! It’s a small detail that takes a gift from ordinary to thoughtful, personal and touching. Everyone loves something that feels like it was made especially for them. Our best suggestion is that if you’re not sure of your host’s décor, stick with classic white towels with either a seasonal or neutral monogram.
Great Source: Peggy's, Boulevard Home & Concierge, local embroidery shops
MULLING SPICES
This one is just for the holidays! Fragrant, lovely mulling spices will help them use that bottle of wine the other guest brought. (For the uninitiated, it’s a blend of cinnamon, cloves, allspice and dried orange that you warm with wine and/or apple cider.) This is one hostess gift we do invite you to DIY, so long as you package it beautifully and include instructions for use.
Our picks: Williams-Sonoma Mulling Spices, Nordic Glögg Mulling Spice, something DIY!
BOURBON
A bottle of Bourbon feels like a hug. It’s like a little swig of home and comfort. A word of caution; if you’re not absolutely certain that your host can safely imbibe, skip alcohol-related gifts altogether.
Our picks: Eagle Rare 10 Year, Town Branch Single Barrel Reserve Bourbon Whiskey, Michter's US 1 Kentucky Straight Bourbon
FRESH FLOWERS
A bouquet of flowers is a cliché, but for good reason; there’s no gift more universally loved. And if you’re attending a party, it may be useful as a decoration. That said, we actually recommend having flowers delivered before you arrive, as it will give your host time to place the flowers. Handing them a cellophane or paperwrapped bouquet is a no from us; this leaves your host to figure out what to do with them when they’re probably already a bit frazzled.
TOP Sources: Alexandra Pallos Florals, Best of Flowers
GET COOKIN'
If you’re dining at someone’s home, it’s safe to assume that they have a culinary side. A gift that belongs in the kitchen is a safe bet. Olive oil, balsamic vinegar and fancy spices are popular picks. Cheese boards, stylish tongs, trays and etched glasses are all great options, as well. To circle back to the idea of a potted plant, culinary herbs would be a great blend of the two ideas!
TOP Picks: 3 Pack Sam Fore Signature Collection from Spicewalla ($19.99 spicewallabrand.com), custom cutting boards from Local LEX Market
WINE
You've gotta respect the classics! Wine is simple, elegant and (honestly) easy.
TOP Wine Pick: Plungerhead Cabernet Sauvignon
Ah, New Year's Eve. The one night a year we all look to the future with hope in our hearts... and champagne in our glasses. Everyone has their own traditions for ringing in the New Year. Whether you'll be staying up with the kiddos in front of the TV or dancing the night away someplace a little fancier, we think this is one celebration that absolutely demands a new outfit – even if that's just snuggly jammies and a robe!
While we think sequins are always a fashion "do," this is the occasion when glitz, glitter and shine is practically mandatory. No matter how you answer the question below, we hope these looks will inspire you to shine brighter than the Times Square Ball!
Maeve Plain Sequin Shorts ($138) and Maeve DoubleBreasted Sequin Blazer ($268 anthropologie.com) Yara Silver Sequins Faux Wrap DressStaying in
1.) Avocado Smash game ($14.99 available at Peggy's Gifts & Accessories)
2.) E Newton 16 inch Necklace Gold Protection Gold Disc ($62 available at The Front Porch)
3.) Long-sleeve Cotton Poplin Pajama Set in Cocktail Stripe ($128 jcrew.com)
4.) New Years Balloon Earrings ($15 mamili502.com)
5.) Bagheera Tufted Slippers ($138 printfresh.com)
6.) Pink Wave Coupe Glasses ($85/2 shophouseofnomad.com)
7.) Conscious Step Socks That Protect Penguins ($15.50 available at Lucia's World Emporium)
8.) Brooklinen Super-Plush Robe ($99 brooklinen.com)
1.) Freya Pearl Baguette Bag ($45 urbanoutfitters.com) 2.) Multi Sequin Sandra Earrings ($88 tnuck.com) 3.) Charley Rhinestone Hair Clip ($12 urbanoutfitters.com) 4.) Short Sequin Jumpsuit ($69.90 zara.com) 5.) See The Light Black Clutch With Tortoise Shell Closure ($126 shoppeplum.com) 6.) UO Zoey Ruched Mule Heel ($59 urbanoutfitters.com) 7.) Starlet Earrings ($58 baublebar.com) 8.) Tilly Crystal Embellished Bootie ($99.95 nordstrom.com) 9.) Ronja Metallic Jumpsuit ($155 mamili502.com)
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THE PERFECT HOLIDAY LIP
WRITTEN BY FRAN ELSENThe Classic: Revlon Super Lustrous Lipstick in Cherries in the Snow (440)
The New Take: Revlon Super Lustrous The Luscious Mattes Lipstick in Cherries in the Snow (023)
Admit it;
we all like a bit more glam around the holidays. While a red lip is striking on those lucky enough to pull it off, I’ve never been one of those girls. That is, until I discovered Revlon’s Cherries in the Snow Lipstick.
A red lip has always been thought of as classy, bold, and sophisticated, but it must be worn right to make it work. Reds come in a variety of shades – pink shades of red, orange shades of red, and even cool bluish-reds. A safe and general rule is that women with lighter skintones should lean toward true reds with no orangey tones, while medium-toned women look best in pinkish or orangey reds. Women with deep brown tones should go for darker shades; they can pull off purple and winecolored hues of red beautifully.
Just listen to Midge Maisel while working the cosmetic counter as she steers her customer away from the Ravel Red shade and convinces her to try Cherries in the Snow:
“Red works great with pink, and it’s terrific with your complexion. You have some natural rosiness; just make sure to pick a tone that doesn’t augment that too much. Keep it subtle.”
Indeed, this beauty buff was right on point. This advice is as true today as it was back in the 1950s at B. Altman’s Department Store.
When a girlfriend of mine gifted me with a tube of this last Christmas, I was hesitant to try it. Once applied however, the color worked beautifully with my never-wearred skin. It also looked amazing on another friend (with a completely different skin tone, mind you), who discovered she too could wear red when she received the same gift.
Cherries in the Snow Lipstick was launched in 1953 by the Revson Brothers (now known as Revlon) and quickly cemented its place as one of the most iconic lipsticks of the century. Seven decades later, it’s still as popular as ever, enjoying a resurgence in sales thanks to Amazon’s Marvelous Mrs. Maisel
For those of you searching for the “perfect red” for the holidays – and for those of you who thought you could never wear it, give this one a try. You’ll be both surprised and pleased at the results. You can find your own tube of Cherries in the Snow – also known as Revlon Super Lustrous Lipstick in 440 – on Amazon or at your local drugstore.
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Lay a Good Foundation
Taking care of your skin is the essential first –and last – step to shaving. Use products designed to address your unique skin care needs.
If you’re going down to the skin, it’s best to shave when your stubble is only 2-3 days’ growth. If your whiskers are longer, trim before you shave to prevent snagging.
When?
Many men shave every day. As long as you take care of your skin, that’s completely fine for your face! If your skin starts to become irritated, however, give your skin a break. If you don’t have plans for the weekend, try giving your face a break on Saturdays.
It’s best to shave after a shower. This opens up your pores, softens coarse hairs and ensures your skin is free of excess oil and dead skin cells, which can gum up your razor.
Prep
Your shave gel or cream is your best friend. Look for moisturizing, alcohol-free formulas. Shave gels are the most hydrating and are ideal for fellas with sensitive skin. If you have oily skin, on the other hand, the rich lather of a cream – applied with a shave brush, which helps lift and coat hairs – will help protect your
skin while offering a closer shave. If you have normal or combination skin, the choice is up to preference, though we recommend a gel for the dry winter months.
Lather with warm water. Let the cream or gel sit on your face for two minutes before shaving, allowing it to soften hairs (take this time to floss.)
Shave
Slow and steady wins the race. Long, even strokes in the direction of the hair growth will help prevent ingrown hairs and razor burn. Rinse your razor as often as between every stroke.
If you want a baby-butt-smooth shave, lather your face again and gently shave against the grain. If you notice irritation afterwards, you’ll need to try a lighter hand.
Aftercare
Rinse your face with cold water – this helps reduce inflammation. Gently pat dry with a towel. Apply a moisturizing aftershave. Formulas that contain aloe will help fight redness and inflammation. If there is any irritation, apply a topical hydrocortisone cream. Follow up with an SPF to protect your newly-exfoliated face.
An informal poll of the women in our office found no clear preference for the length of facial hair on a man. But all of us agreed on one thing: details matter
If you keep your edges tidy and keep your skin looking great, you’ve got us swooning (for whatever that’s worth!)
Best Shaving Cream for Men Who Keep Some Facial Hair
Proraso Refreshing Shaving Cream ($10 proraso-usa.com)
Shaving offers a lot of exfoliation to your skin. Since you’re not getting that close, a shave cream with exfoliating ingredients will help take care of your skin!
Best for Taking Care of Your Skin
MARLOWE No. 141 Shave Cream ($13.99 marloweskin.com)
Nourishing ingredients like shea butter and coconut oil moisturize your skin while green tea, willow bark extract, aloe and algae extract ensure your skin stays looking its best.
Best Gel for Sensitive Skin or Detailing
Frederick Benjamin Hydro-Glaze Cooling Aloe Shave Gel ($12 frederickbenjamin.com)
This foam-free gel is designed with sensitive skin in mind. It also works wonders for detailing work around beards, mustaches or goatees.
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Best for Thick or Coarse Hair
Anthony Shave Cream ($24 anthony.com)
This cream lifts though-to-get hairs while its formula leaves your skin looking fantastic. Squalene, corn mint, eucalyptus oils and rosemary help your skin feel refreshed and smooth.
Best Luxury Lather
The Art of Shaving Oud Shaving Cream ($35 theartofshaving.com)
This produces a lush lather that hydrates and softens. We recommend splurging on a high-quality brush to apply. (Oud is very on-trend right now that will give incredible depth to your usual fragrance.)
Different electric razors have different instructions; wet and dry shavers work differently than traditional ones, for instance. We recommend following the use instructions provided with your razor, as they’re tailored to your product.
We do recommend finding a pre-shave product designed to work with electric razors.
Always hold your shaver at a right angle to your face. Use your free hand to pull the skin taut. This ensures hairs stand up straight, allowing for closer contact and less snagging. Start with your most sensitive areas, such as your neck. Rotary shavers should be moved with circular motions, as the name suggests, while foil shavers work best with back-and-forth movements. Clippers work best by scooping the hairs upward. Again, refer to your user manual!
Once you’re finished, clean your shaver or clippers per the manufacturer’s recommendations. Be sure you’re changing heads/foils as often as suggested. •
What would it really cost?
We all enjoy a jolly sing-a-long when it comes to the Twelve Days of Christmas, but have you ever wondered how much it would actually cost to purchase all the items included in the carol? With a little help from PNC Bank and the Consumer Price Index, we’ve calculated (approximately) what it would cost in 2022 for a single partridge in a pear tree all the way to twelve drummers drumming. The grand total for the Twelve Days of Christmas may surprise you, so grab a mug of hot cocoa and sing along with us through the end to figure it out!
Five Golden Rings $973.76
Six Geese a-Laying $718.08
Seven Swans a-Swimming $14,280
Eight Maids a-Milking $63.10
Nine Ladies Dancing $8,217.48
Ten Lords a-Leaping $12,250.88
A Holiday Tdition
Celebrate the season at the Southern Lights Holiday Festival, held nightly at the Kentucky Horse Park, November 25 through December 31, closed Christmas Day. The Kentucky Horse Park Foundation invites you and your family to join us as we kick off the 29th Annual Southern Lights Holiday Festival, presented by Friends of Coal. Bundle up, tote some hot chocolate for your group, and experience the magic of Southern Lights with your friends and family. Enjoy a million twinkling lights as you drive through the charming farm lanes of the Kentucky Horse Park. The Southern Lights’ three-mile driving tour features a wide variety of light displays, including ones that celebrate beloved Christmas carols, showcase Kentucky and equine traditions, and remind us of favorite fairy tales.
At the conclusion of the driving route, you are invited to park and enjoy the Southern Lights Holiday Village. The courtyards of the Kentucky Horse Park will be illuminated with stunning light displays and warmed by fire pits. Attractions include visits with Santa, the Exotic Animal Petting Zoo, camel rides, pony rides, mini train rides, and model train displays. Your visit to Southern Lights promises to be a highlight of the holiday season!
For over a quarter of a century, you’ve made us a regular part of your family traditions. And if you’ve never been through our array of lights, we warmly extend an invitation. Proceeds benefit the Kentucky Horse Park Foundation. Google Southern Lights for more information and to purchase tickets at a discounted rate.
a few of our favorite things
Need some gift-giving inspiration before you can check everyone off your list? We’ve curated a festive list with some of our favorite gift ideas, sure to elicit joy and wonder this holiday season. Whether you’re shopping for him, for her, your jetsetter bestie, or your precious fur baby, we have a little something for all your loved ones!
ONE • Waterproof Field Jacket, $260, Boden. TWO • Legacy Slim Watch in Eagle Tan, $118, MVMT. THREE • Barebones Chef Grilling Apron, $40, J.Crew.
FOUR • The Hansom Shave Bag, $98, Freedman Harness. FIVE • Caswell-Massey Jockey Club Cologne, $55, My Favorite Things.
SIX • Luckies Originals Beer Socks 3-Pack, $24.99, PK's Gift Closet. SEVEN • Black Walnut Skinny Can Cooler, $27.99, Peggy's Gifts.
EIGHT • Overlook Rib Quarter-Zip Sweater, $268, Logan's of Lexington.
for the ladies
ONE • The Weekender in Beige, $98, Beis. TWO • Kassie Set of 3 Chain Bracelet in Gold, $85, Kendra Scott.
THREE • Stanley 40 oz. Adventure Quencher Tumbler, $40, Dicks Sporting Goods. FOUR • Mario Badescu Winter Glow Essentials, $15, Anthropologie.
FIVE • 20lb Reversible Anti-Anxiety Weighted Blanket, $67, Macy's. SIX • Camo Beaded Headband, $29.99, The Front Porch.
SEVEN • Lollia Dream Bubble Bath, $54, Violet's Gifts. EIGHT • UGG Tasman Slippers, $100, Anthropologie.
NINE • The Bellfield Crossbody in 'Midnight', $390, Fount.
for the home
for the UK fan
ONE • KY Blue Hues Multi Stack Crew, $58, Kentucky Branded. TWO • CATS Beaded Earrings, $42.99, Peggy's Gifts.
THREE • 8x10 Rupp Arena Print, $30, Kayla Weber Art. FOUR • NCAA Kentucky Wildcats Crosshatch Picnic Caddy, $34.99, Target.
FIVE • Kentucky Wildcats Farmhouse Plaid Faux Leather Throw Pillow, $39.99, Target. SIX • Corkcicle 24oz UK Polka Dot Tumbler, $39.99, Peggy's Gifts.
SEVEN • UK Needlepoint Can Cooler, $29.50, Logan's of Lexington. EIGHT • Peter Millar Kentucky Wildcat Jubilee Stripe Performance Polo, $135, Howard & Miller. NINE • UK Needlepoint Valet Tray by Smathers & Branson, $85, C.C. Prep.
for the monogram lov
ONE • Personalized Family Recipe Board, $100, Uncommon Goods. TWO • Compact Swivel Cheese Board, $86, Uncommon Goods.
THREE • Personalized Faux Fur Robes, $119, Pottery Barn. FOUR • All The Beige Custom IPhone Case, $68, BaubleBar.
FIVE • Nomad Rugged Case for Airpods, $30, Mark & Graham. SIX • Doodle Dog Love 5x7 Personalized Notepad, $14.99, Shutterfly.
SEVEN • Monogrammed Boat and Tote, $39.95, L.L. Bean. EIGHT • Quinn Medium Leather Jewelry Box, $118, Pottery Barn.
NINE • Monogrammed Cheetah Sling Pack, $45, Marley Lilly.
for the fur babies
ONE • Harry Barker Gingham Dog Bone Dispenser, $20, Williams Sonoma. TWO • Ocean Bow Tie Collar, $45, The Foggy Dog.
THREE • CozyChic™ Leopard Dog Sweater, $45, Nordstrom. FOUR • Bistro Tile Pet Bowl, $30, Anthropologie.
FIVE • Pawscout The Smarter Pet Tag Electronic Tracking Pet Tag, $19.99, Target. SIX • Flat Dog Lead, $55, Freedman Harness.
SEVEN • Mason Stoneware Pet Bowl, $29.50, Pottery Barn. EIGHT • The Foggy Dog Holly Jolly Flannel Bow, $22, Anthropologie.
NINE • BarkBox Dog Toys & Treats Box, $35, Bark Box. TEN • ZippyPaws Happy Hour Crusherz Wine Dog Toy, $17.99, Amazon.
for the beauty buff
ONE • Voluspa The Pink Roses Macaron Trio Candle Set, $39, The Front Porch. TWO • PMD Clean in Berry, $99, PMD Beauty.
THREE • Sol de Janeiro Brazilian Bum Bum Cream, $48, Sephora. FOUR • Zadro 1x/10x LED Cordless Vanity Mirror in Rose Gold, $80, Bed Bath & Beyond.
FIVE • Tartan + Twine Purple Weekender Makeup Tote, $27, Ulta Beauty. SIX • Milk Stack, $38, Subtl Beauty.
SEVEN • Guac Star Avocado Mask, $30, Peggy's Gifts. EIGHT • Taste Of Bubbly Mini Lipstick Kit in 'Nude', $25, Ulta Beauty.
NINE • The Olivia Rodrigo Collection, $68, Glossier.
for the outdrs lov
ONE • Packable Raincoat, $70, Vera Bradley. TWO • YETI Hopper Flip Soft Cooler 12, $250, Williams Sonoma.
THREE • The Preppi Go Box, $100, Pottery Barn. FOUR • Gentleman’s Hardware 10-in-1 Camping Axe, $32, My Favorite Things.
FIVE • Scout Chilly Wonka Soft Cooler, $49, The Front Porch. SIX • Gentleman’s Hardware Portable Grill, $110, My Favorite Things.
SEVEN • Portable Fire Pit, $20, City Bonfires. EIGHT • Teva Geotrecca Hiker Boots, $150, Free People.
NINE • The North Face Stormbreak 2 Tent, $169, Dick's Sporting Goods.
for the tech geek
ONE • Canon IVY 2 Mini Photo Printer, $99.99, Target. TWO • Google Nest Indoor and Outdoor Cam, $119, Best Buy.
THREE • Amazon Echo Show 10, $249.99, Amazon. FOUR • Ember Smart Temperature Controlled Mug, $149, Williams Sonoma.
FIVE • Apple Watch Series 8, $389.99, Target. SIX • Apple AirPods Max- Green, $449, Best Buy.
SEVEN • Sonix AirTag Cases, $35, Free People. EIGHT • JBL Flip 6 Waterproof Bluetooth Speaker, $129.99, Amazon.
NINE • Courant Wireless Charging Accessory Tray, $175, Mark and Graham.
for the jetse
ONE • Jet-Setter Ornament, $22, Anthropologie. TWO • Travel Neck Pillow, $25, Vera Bradley.
THREE • The Victoria Large Tote, $575, Freedman Harness. FOUR • Bric's Bellagio Spinner 21" Carry-On, $635, Pottery Barn.
FIVE • Packing Cubes 5-Piece Set, $68, Calpak. SIX • Robin's Egg Blue Leather Luggage Tags, (set of 2), $72, L.V. Harkness.
SEVEN • Clutch Portable Charger, $49.99, Clutch Charger. EIGHT • Travel Essentials Kit, $22, PK's Gift Closet.
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ONE • Barbour Ashby Wax Jacket in Olive, $399. TWO • Brackish Ferrelle Feather Bow Tie, $225.
THREE • University of Kentucky Needlepoint Belt, $175. FOUR • Home Stretch Horse Racing Hat in Orange, $29.95.
FIVE • Yes Cocktail Co. Co ee Syrup featuring Spearhead Cold Brew, $14. SIX • Peter Millar Crown Sport Cologne 50ml, $98.
SEVEN • Barbour Tartan Hanging Washbag in 'Classic', $75. EIGHT • Johnnie-O University of Kentucky Pamlico Sweatshirt in 'Dark & Stormy', $110.
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Corey Proffit Studios 859-421-3085 | relaxyoudeserveit.com
Bluegrass Hospitality Group 859-335-6500 | bluegrasshospitality
CoolBluLex 859-254-5665 | lexington-bodysculpting.com
Logan's of Lexington 859-273-5766 | logansoflexington.com
Carson's Food & Drink 859-309-3039 | carsonsfoodanddrink.com
Commonwealth Plastics 859-277-9435 | commonwealthplastics.com
Carl Meyers 859-252-2004 | carlmeyers.com
Jeff Ruby's Steakhouse 859-554-7000 | je ruby.com
J. Render's BBQ 859-533-9777 | jrenders.com
Dr. Susan Neil 859-278-6345 | susanneilmd.com
Arthur Murray Dance Studio 859-278-7711 | dancestudiolexingtonky.com
Hourglass Salon & Aesthetics 859-904-5274 | hourglasslex.com
Abell Eyes 859-373-0300 | abelleyes.com
The Front Porch 859-271-9326 | frontporchlex.com
Olive You Boutique 859-625-1328 | oliveyouboutique.com
The Spa at Wellington 859-402-2005 | thespaatwellington.com
Violet's Boutique 859-281-1100 | violetsboutiquelex.com
El Rancho Tapatio 859-373-9091 | elranchotapatio.com
Boulevard Home 859-407-1559 | blvdconcierge.com
FOUNT Leather 859-629-8546 | fountleather.com
Storming Crab 859-271-8888 | stormingcrabs.com
Freedman's Harness 859-846-9674 | freedmanharness.com
House by JSD 859-523-3933 | housebyjsdonline.com
Howard & Miller 859-259-3926 | howardandmiller.com
Lavish Nails 859-299-0929 | lavishnailsky.com
Peggy's Gifts 859-255-3188 | peggysgifts.com
The Blushery 859-397-9574 | theblusherylex.com
Benjamin Deaton Home 859-788-3631 | benjamindeatonhome.com
The Salt Cave 859-396-2349 | lexsaltcave.com
Wild Eggs 859-277-0402 | wildeggs.com
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Buying for the little ones can sometimes be super tough because there is so much out there to choose from! Depending on their age group you wonder, “what do they really need?”.
We’ve put together a few go-to gifts that are perfect for specific age groups to help our kiddos continue to learn and grow into the new year!
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Sophie La Girafe Teething Ring, $15 | Target
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Plan Toys Mini Golf, $40 | Pottery Barn Kids
Wooden Chameleon Puzzle, $29 | Crate&Barrel
Duck Wood Plate, $16.50 | L.V. Harkness
Blaylock Bath Robe, $60 | The Beaufort Bonnet Company
ABC’s of Art, $19.99 | Crate & Barrel
I Love You as Big as Kentucky Board Book, $9.99 | Target
Mushie Rainbow Stacker Toy, $15.99 | Target
Knox’s Night Night in ‘Keeping Spirits Bright With Richmond Red’, $68 | The Beaufort Bonnet Company
Skip Hop Stack Pour Buckets Bath Toy, $9.99 | Target
Wooden Clock Puzzle, $29 | Pottery Barn Kids
Noelle’s Night Night in ‘Bettye’s Bows With Hamptons Hot Pink’, $68 | The Beaufort Bonnet Company
AILA Sit & Play™, $199 | Animal Island
school starters
ages 4-6 years
Apple Applique Peter Pan Short Set, $66 | Availble at Little English
Wonder & Wise by Asweets Compelling Spelling Game, $84.00 | Maisonette
Butterflies 12-pod Watercolor Set, $15.99 | Little Wonder & Co
Rambler Jr. 12oz Bottle in Seafoam, $25 | Tuckernuck
Animal of the World Puzzle Sticks, $13.99 | Pottery Barn Kids
Sunshine Wall Mounted Table, $249 | Crate & Kids
Wood Table & Chair Set, $162 | L.V. Harkness
Toddler Sesame Street Calf Sock 8-Pack Gift Box, $82 | Bombas
Where Are You Personalized Book, $34.99 | Wonderbly Cards by
Tabletalk Conversation Cards by Manners & Co., $34.99 | Maisonette
Wooden Math Game, $60 | Pottery Barn Kids
Colorblock Medium Kids Backpack, $49 | Crate & Kids
Founded in 1984 by David Ruoff in Fort Wayne, Indiana, Ruoff Mortgage Company is the #1 Purchase Lender in the Midwest. With over 900 employees located in 67 branches across Indiana, Michigan, Florida, Ohio, and Kentucky, Ruoff is honored to be one of the 500/5000 fastest growing companies in America for the 10th consecutive year, an honor held by very few companies. With a full product matrix of conventional, FHA, VA, first time homeowners and down payment assistance programs, our purchase, refinance, reverse, renovation and construction mortgage products have earned Ruoff a 98.2% customer satisfaction rating. Our Residential Mortgage Options cater to the needs of the communities we serve. We pride ourselves on an intuitive, simple, and stress-free process. We make it easy to apply online and upload all
documents quickly, offering real-time milestone updates to each party involved in the transaction process with very clear and concise communication. As Ruoff continues to grow and expand throughout the state of Kentucky, Lexington is a natural choice as a great location due to the history of the Bluegrass State and Kentuckians love of the thoroughbred industry. Lexington’s population has steadily increased year after year and we want to help homeowners discover the values and benefits of the city and the surrounding counties. We have a solid corporate foundation and are committed to the communities that we live in and serve; we will be present and active now and for many years to come.
Residential, Commercial, Investment properties… The Bells are your best bet for all three. Born and raised in Lexington, they provide the local market and industry knowledge, experience, and professionalism you demand for all your real estate decisions.
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hos·pi·tal·i·ty: noun. the friendly and generous reception and entertainment of guests, visitors, or strangers
For many of us, the holidays and houseguests go hand-in-hand. From friends dropping by to bake cookies to out-of-town family members that stay for a week, playing host during one of the most hectic times of year can be daunting.
Fortunately, we’ve been there, done that and got the t-shirt to prove it. Learn from our experience – and mishaps – to hopefully have your merriest holiday season ever... without cracking a nervous sweat!
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The most important thing a host can do is make your guests feel welcome the minute they step through your door. Take their bags, take their coat and give them a second to take a deep breath. Then, take them on a quick tour of the house that ends with you showing them to where they’ll be sleeping. There, you should have a hand-written note waiting for them with a few helpful tips they can refer back to later, such as the Wi-Fi password, instructions for your complicated TV and your favorite local coffee shop. As excited as you are to catch up, give them some time to freshen up and get their bearings.
DON’T overwhelm your guests with information. Your first instinct may be to show them where the coffee is, how the shower works, where the snacks are and how to operate your fidgety garage door. Instead, spread your helpful suggestions out so that the information has time to sink in.
If you can’t be there when your guests arrive, set up a welcome basket. In addition to that handwritten greeting, include some snacks, toiletries and helpful tips for activities your guests might enjoy until you see them.
The most important thing you can do as a host is follow your guests' lead. If they're tired from travel, let them rest. If they seem eager to hang out, give them your full attention. If they seem lost, help them out.
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Aleric Ribbed Glass Carafe and Cup ($29.95 cb2.com)
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Parachute Classic Turkish Cotton Towel Set ($154 parachutehome.com)
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Flora Folding Luggage Rack with Shelf ($69.99 target.com)
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Wool & Cashmere Throw in Red Tartan Plaid ($149 garnethill.com)
It may seem strange to recommend this summer fabric for wintertime guests. Sleep experts consistently recommend linen sheets for hot sleepers. Think of it like this; you’ll be offering plenty of blankets and throws for them to pile on if they’re chilly, but these sheets will offer them relief if they get too toasty. Linen also gets softer and cozier the more you wash them, so if these end up in your bedroom once your company leaves… well, we won’t tell.
Brooklinen Linen Core Sheet Set ($299/queen brooklinen.com)
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There's really no such thing as "budget" linen sheets. But this set from Quince comes in 16 colors and has a 4.8 star rating from user reviews, which say they're an amazing value.
Quince European Linen Sheet Set ($169/queen onequince.com)
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Be prepared to greet all of your new guests and meet their plus ones. The parade of faces might become overwhelming, but do your best to commit names to memory.
While you’re greeting your guests, you might also serve as an air traffic controller. Quickly point out the bar, the appetizers and the nearest restroom. This will help them disperse from the entryway.
At the end of the evening, be sure to say farewell to your guests – assuming that they don’t disappear without saying goodbye to their host.
Coat Check
Wintertime means lots of bulky layers. Designate a space in your home for people to store their coats, gloves, hats, scarves, bags, umbrellas and more. If you can get a coat rack, even better!
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Hosting family comes with its own struggles (don’t get us started), but at least you can assume that most of your guests know each other. If you’re hosting a group of people who might not have so much in common, one of your most important duties is to serve as the “glue” that helps the party come together.
Introduce your guests to one another, then share an interesting fact about one of them to give the two of them something to talk about. If you notice someone is being a wallflower, stop by and chat with them throughout the night. Notice if any guests seem overwhelmed, bored or lonely and see what you can do to rectify the situation.
Does this sound exhausting? You bet! But ensuring your guests have a good time is the true spirit of hospitality.
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We don’t know about you, but when we're in an awkward social situation, having something to do instantly alleviates all the discomfort. If you know one of your guests struggles with mingling, see if they want to help you in the kitchen. Not only will this make your job easier, it will also help them connect with the other people who are helping you out! That's a win-win.
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While we discourage planning your evening down to the minute, having a rough schedule of events can help everyone feel more at ease. Here's an example: For a dinner party, the evening might start with mingling and drinks over appetizers until everyone has arrived; at 7-ish, you'll announce that everyone should head to the dining room; by 9, it's time for caroling by the piano with eggnog. A second, secret schedule helps you coordinate food, drinks and surprises (maybe Santa will make an appearance...?)
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If there are children coming, set up a few spaces just for them. Set out some fun crafts, activities and snacks that are age-appropriate. Maybe even put on a family-friendly holiday movie. Set aside a room that’s far from the noise where overstimulated kids can have a little quiet. Set out books, headphones, coloring books and other calm activities.
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No, really. Being a host shouldn’t mean sacrificing all of your enjoyment for the sake of your guests. Trust that they can figure some things out on their own and just have fun! That’s the entire point of the evening, after all, and it would be a shame if you didn’t get to savor the fruits of your hard labor.
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Keep it simple! Let everyone serve themselves from familystyle casseroles, cakes and dishes. We love stoneware for early morning eating; the heavy mugs will keep coffee and cocoa toasty while the plates are very durable. Don't worry so much about linens or décor; everyone will probably be too groggy to even notice!
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Light and bright dinnerware with whimsical décor will help keep this meal light, quick and fun!
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If everyone will be on their feet for most of the evening, make sure your plates are smaller and lightweight – maybe even disposable. It’s perhaps more important that your serveware and barware impress guests on these occasions.
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This is the time to crack out your very best! Coordinate your plates, placemats, napkins and other accessories to really show off the theme. Don’t be afraid to mix and match sets as long as you carry along a color scheme.
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you’re hosting a dinner party or group of friends for the evening, we recommend streamlining your bartending process as much as possible. Stocking a full bar to meet all of your guests’ exacting preferences is tough; imagine keeping everything fresh to make mojitos, Manhattans, hot toddies, Shirley Temples, peppermint stick martinis and “a Negroni. Sbagliato. With Persecco in it.”
Instead of spending your whole night behind the bar – or leaving it up to Uncle Hank to decide what a reasonable pour of your good Bourbon is – why not make batch cocktails? You measure once and let guests serve themselves. This easy idea feels surprisingly festive and allows you to focus on the million other things you could be handling.
A note about batch cocktail recipes: they’re designed to be easily scaled up or down, depending on your needs.
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4 oz. Grand Marnier
4 oz. applejack or apple brandy 2 oz. agave nectar
2 apples de-seeded and diced
2 pears, de-seeded and diced 8 oz. fresh cranberries
4 sticks cinnamon
2 750mL bottles Cabernet Sauvignon or Pinot Noir 12 oz. ginger ale
In a large pitcher, add Grand Marnier, applejack or brandy and agave nectar. Stir to combine. Add in apples, pears, cranberries, cinnamon sticks and wine. Refrigerate overnight.
When ready to serve, pour ginger ale into mixture. Garnish with fresh fruit and rosemary sprigs.
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750 mL white wine (Sauvignon Blanc or Pinot Gris) 12 oz. apple cider
4 oz. applejack or apple brandy
3 cinnamon sticks
3 crisp apples, de-seeded and diced
2 pears, de-seeded and diced
Mix together in a pitcher. Refrigerate overnight.
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2 oranges, sliced thinly crosswise 12 oz. orange juice
1 T fresh grated ginger 3 sticks cinnamon 4 oz. dark brown sugar 2 pods star anise 1 vanilla bean sliced lengthwise 2 750mL bottles Cabernet Sauvignon or Pinot Noir 8 oz. spiced rum
To a large pot, add orange slices, orange juice, ginger, cinnamon sticks, brown sugar, anise and vanilla bean. Bring to a boil.
Reduce heat and simmer for 30 minutes. Add 8 oz. wine and simmer until liquid thickens and becomes syrupy. Add the remaining wine and rum. Bring to a simmer.
Strain into mugs to serve. Feel free to garnish with slices of orange, cinnamon sticks or anise pods.
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8 oz. 100% unsweetened cranberry juice 16 oz. unsweetened grapefruit juice 4 oz. orange juice 8 oz. lime juice 16 oz. tequila blanco 2 L pop (see note)
If you’re making ahead, combine the fruit juice and refrigerate. When you’re ready to serve, add around 4 cups of ice to the bottom of your punchbowl. Add in fruit juices and tequila. Top with the soda pop of your choice.
For a more festive look, float fresh cranberries and/or slices of lime on top of the punch. Serve in glasses rimmed with salt. (We recommend wetting the rims with grapefruit juice for a tart flavor.)
Note: We recommend going with a grapefruit pop (such as Squirt, Jarritos or Fresca). Winter Spiced Cranberry Sprite would be a great alternative!
They say two heads are better than one… Whether they are partners in life or business, family or friends, these Power Couples and Dynamic Duos are local pairs who are doing it all! We asked them how they are balancing their many commitments while maintaining successful local businesses, charity initiatives and more.
“One can have a dream, baby. Two can make that dream so real.”
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After 34 years of marriage and the astounding success of their business, J. Render’s Southern Table & Bar, Gwyn and Ren Everly may make power couple status look easy. But they are quick to offer some cautionary perspectives gained from their decades of experience.
“Being a partner in life and business is not for the faint of heart,” Gwyn said. “But no matter how difficult running the business may be, we are convinced over and over that we picked the right partner.”
This affirmation often comes when the Everlys divide and conquer. Ren focuses on day-to-day operations, supporting staff, and ensuring meats are smoked to perfection, while Gwyn maintains and coordinates their strong give-back initiatives and business growth while upholding the Render’s unique brand.
And their dynamism has also come to serve the wider Lexington community through dedicated charitable programs like J. Render’s Dine To Donate, as well as its sterling reputation among diners. “We are strongly invested in creating an excellent customer experience through friendly staff, quality food, and an upscale, casual environment,” the couple said.
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Suzanne and Chris Powell of Meridian Wealth Management have been working side by side since the beginning of their relationship and they wouldn’t change a thing. They determined working together to give objective financial guidance is the best way to achieve their mutual goal of supporting and helping others. This power couple utilizes Suzanne’s 18 years experience as a financial advisor, paired with Chris’s knowledge of the insurance industry to serve their clients at Meridian Wealth Management.
“The key to our success with client relationships is great communication,” the couple said.
“But our real edge in the day to day is our amazing assistants, and keeping a very detailed calendar. And Suzanne’s mom is our secret weapon at home, as she resides with our family, and manages the dogs, the cooking, and so much more.”
In addition to providing financial stewardship to individuals, the Powell’s support several local charitable organizations including Arbor Youth, where Suzanne has been a board member for 7 years.
“Our shared goal of helping people, coupled with an exceptional ability to tune into one another, gave us the confidence to join forces in business - and it’s been an amazing 3 years,” Chris said.
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After meeting through mutual friends, Lyndi and Justin Griffin kicked off a relationship in 2012 that has blossomed today into a productive partnership overseeing multiple entrepreneurial ventures.
The two are equal partners in Griffin Homes, a rental properties and investment firm. Lyndi is also a top producing real estate agent helping hundreds of buyers and sellers throughout Central Kentucky. Additionally for Justin, he operates Griffin Securities, a private security company specializing in serving businesses, festivals, bars and restaurants. He also serves as co-owner of The Elev8tion Development Group, an African-American led real estate development business.
On top of it all, the Griffins are parents to five daughters, who are active in local sports leagues and budding entrepreneurs themselves.
“Partnership is so important to our relationship,” Lyndi explained. “Since we both run our own businesses, our schedules can change at the drop of a dime. If we have learned anything over the last ten years, it is that flexibility is key in our crazy-busy lives.”
But the secret to the Griffins success is built on one essential thing for partners in life as well as in business: trust.
“I think our secret weapon is always being able to depend on each other, whether it is scheduling conflicts or bouncing business ideas off one another,” concluded Lyndi.
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At FOUNT, shoppers will find a bounty of unique, beautifullycrafted leather bags, made of fullgrain Italian leather and British hides, offering one of the finest artisan collections in the country. And in all of this they’ll find an incredible amount of hard work by Phillip and Jackie Wachter, the power couple behind the brand. “Our love and passion for chasing dreams together began when Phillip’s cousin introduced us ten years ago,” the pair recalled. “Less than a year after meeting, we were married and already working on FOUNT out of our apartment.”
The Wachters have both always loved making things with their hands and understanding how they work, which allowed them to grow FOUNT from an interest in how high-quality leather goods are made to a brand that is now known for its customer focus, classical design and foundation built on quality.
“We each bring a balance to our relationship and working partnership that we never knew we needed until we met,” they said. “Together, we have been able to accomplish so much more than we could have on our own. Our personalities and skill sets, as well as our drive and passion, help propel each of us forward.”
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Serving as the CEO and COO of Powerful Legacy, a premier financial and insurance services firm in Lexington, Robert and Kristina Ping Kepperling have honed in on the secret to forging a successful business partnership with your spouse.
“To truly intertwine your lives, you have to have a lot of love, patience and coffee,” they joked. “God is first, then family, then everything else. We run every part of our lives, including our business, that way.”
The Kepperlings stay busy by going golfing, hunting and bourbon tasting with their kids (though their youngest still has to sit this last activity out), as well as sponsoring more than a dozen charities. Through it all, they stay motivated by a love for working together and for helping others on their own journeys as much as they can.
“In our family, business and more, we merge very well in every environment,” they said.
“We are both self made from scratch in every aspect and we take great pride in helping others as we know how hard it is to learn and earn.”
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Rusty and Rachel Underwood are top producing Realtors® in the state in addition to operating their own successful business, Underwood Investment Properties. They strongly believe in homeownership and advocate for homeowners’ rights by taking active leadership roles with Commence Lexington, the National Association of Realtors and Bluegrass Realtors where Rusty serves as President for over 4,500 Realtor® members in 30 counties.
“When you know, you know.” The Underwoods said of their journey together. “Fifteen years ago, we moved in together after just a week of dating and it was clearly the right decision.”
In addition to their work in the Real Estate industry, the Underwoods are passionate about giving back to their community, supporting numerous charitable organizations across the region, including the Kentucky Realtors Relief Foundation, the Realtor Community Housing Foundation and The Hearing & Speech Center. Ultimately, this power couple has found that their complementary skill sets is what’s driving their success.
“Rusty has the knowledge and creative mindset to assist our clients whether they are looking to build, purchase, sell or invest in residential or commercial property.” they said. “Rachel, with a background in global human resources, brings a different perspective and expertise to the table. Together, we deliver a luxury experience to all our clients regardless of price point.”
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“Look how you feel.” - this is what comes to mind when I think of myself and Chasity. We have always been healthy, active, and energetic! From coaching on the football field to roller derby at the rink, we have always kept health and wellness at the center. With the same motto in mind, we opened Be Medispa. Aging is inevitable, but with a comprehensive plan and a little effort, looking older than you feel is unnecessary! Our anti-aging approach is based on early detection, prevention, and integration. The secret to success? First, community. Support local businesses and charities and stay connected. Second, education. Never. Stop. Learning. Our patients entrust us daily to provide the most advanced techniques to safely achieve superior results. We pride ourselves on bringing the best of the best to Lexington.
Last but not least, love. The smiles we see. The stories we hear. We love what we do every day. The only thing better than doing something you love is sharing it with the one you love.
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The first step in creating a beautiful butter board is the star of the show: the butter! You can use any butter of your choice but bear in mind that not all butter is created equal. Salted tends to taste better than unsalted – even with sweet applications. We enjoy using Kerrygold Irish butter for a creamy, decadent flavor; this is due to its higher fat content, but don't tell your guests that.
Set the butter out and allow it to get to room temperature. Use a butter knife or offset spatula to spread it onto your board. Get creative with shapes!
If you'd like to make a Christmas tree, use an offset spatula to put down a straight line of dollops of butter across the bottom of your board. Use the spatula to smear each dollop upward, creating a line of teardrop shapes. For the next line, place the dollops slightly overlapping the previous row, centering each dollop between two on the last row. Smear those upward. Keep repeating; you should create an adorable tree! (Messed up a little? It's fine; just make a triangle and everyone will get what you were going for!)
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The beauty of the butter board is that you can really do just about anything you like. For a taste of garlicky goodness, use garlic confit, lemon zest, chili salt, fresh basil, and fresh rosemary. If you'd like a sweeter board, top it with brown sugar, cinnamon, nutmeg, walnuts and candied oranges, then pair it with a loaf of brioche. Olives, olive oil, dried fruits, balsamic vinegarette, vegetables, meats, cheeses, fruits... the only limit is your imagination!
For more topping inspo, you "butter" believe you can find more mouth-watering combinations on Pinterest, Instagram, and Tik Tok.
For a fun brunch option, rather than a butter board, you can concoct a cream cheese board. It's the same concept as the butter board; spread cream cheese and top it. A cream cheese board can be dressed with any topping you’d want to have on your morning bagel. Next time you brunch with the gals, bond over some shared capers and cream cheese… and a mimosa, of course!
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Like a butter board, making a cream cheese board is pretty simple. Let your favorite cream cheese reach room temperature, then use an icing spatula or offset spatula to spread it all over your board.
One way to customize this would be to use flavored cream cheese. Herbed, veggie, honey walnut, pumpkin, strawberry... the options are endless!
We recommend adding a sprinkle of salt over your cream cheese before adding your toppings; this will help prevent it from becoming too sweet (if there even is such a thing.)
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Top your cream cheese with your favorite sweet or savory garnishes. Apples, honey, figs, and jam would be a lovely combo for bread, crackers or biscuits. For something savory, smoked salmon, diced red onions, capers, pepper jelly and everything bagel seasoning would be fun, served up with bagel pieces. For a more dessert-inspired board, how about chocolate chips, marshmallows and graham crackers?
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If you haven't caught the drift, just about any spreadable condiment could be a board. Peanut butter, nutella, cake frosting, mustard, guacamole... get wild with it! •
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1 3/4 c all-purpose flour
3/4 c Dutch-process cocoa powder (see notes)
1 tsp kosher salt
1 tsp baking powder
3/4 tsp baking soda
1/2 c butter, melted 3 eggs
3/4 c granulated sugar
1/2 c brown sugar powdered sugar
Combine flour, cocoa powder, salt, baking powder and baking soda with a whisk. Set aside.
In a large bowl, whisk together butter, eggs, granulated sugar and brown sugar. Mix until fully combined.
Add dry ingredients and mix until just combined. Cover bowl and refrigerate at least 1 hour.
Preheat oven to 350°F. Line baking sheet with parchment paper. Scoop 2 tablespoons of dough and roll into a ball. Roll dough in powdered sugar.
Place onto baking sheet 2” apart.
Once all cookies have been rolled, reroll each ball in powdered sugar and return to baking sheet. (The moisture of the cookies sometimes soaks through. This will ensure the beautiful crackle effect!)
Bake until cookie tops crack, around 14 minutes. The edges will be set, but the centers will appear slightly underdone. Let cook on the baking sheet.
Notes:
Dutch-process cocoa powder will result in a darker cookie. Natural cocoa powder will result in a lighter brown center and a slightly flatter cookie. This recipe uses both baking powder and soda so it can work with the cocoa you’ve got, but “Dutched” is preferred. In either case, ensure it’s unsweetened!
1 c butter, softened
1/2 c granulated sugar
1/2 brown sugar
1 egg
2 tsp vanilla extract
2 1/4 c all purpose flour 1 tsp baking soda
1/4 tsp salt
3/4 c crushed potato chips
3/4 c crushed mini pretzels 1 1/4 chocolate chips (see notes below)
Preheat oven to 350°F. Line baking sheet with parchment paper.
In a large bowl, cream butter and sugars together until light and fluffy. Using a hand mixer, this will take about 3 minutes.
Beat in egg and vanilla until just combined.
In a separate bowl, whisk together flour, baking soda and salt. Add dry ingredients to the large bowl slowly, mixing until just combined.
Using a spatula, gently fold in potato chips, pretzels and chocolate chips.
Scoop 2 T balls of dough onto prepared baking sheet. Lightly flatten tops. Sprinkle lightly with sea salt, if desired. Bake until edges are set and starting to become golden (around 13 minutes.)
Remove from oven and let cool on pan for 2-3 minutes, then transfer to wire rack to cool completely.
Notes:
The magic of this recipe is that it’s infinitely customizable.
Using different chocolate chips – or even a mixture of chips – can really change the flavor profile. Dark chocolate, white chocolate, milk chocolate, caramel, peanut butter, cinnamon or butterscotch baking chips will all change the final bite. Ruffles potato chips hold up well in this recipe. But for those who like a little spice, why not try Grippo’s?
For a festive flair, toss some holiday sprinkles on top just before baking.
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ried Fruit Mi ture
1 1/2 c. golden raisins
1 1/2 c. dates, chopped
1 c. dried cranberries
1 c. candied red cherries, chopped
1/2 c. candied orange peel, chopped
1/2 c. currants
1/2 c. dried pineapple, diced
1/3 c. candied ginger, diced (optional)
3/4 c. rum, Bourbon or cranberry juice (see notes)
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16 T unsalted butter, softened
2 c dark brown sugar
1 tsp. salt
1 tsp. cinnamon
1/2 tsp. nutmeg
1 tsp. baking powder
4 eggs
3 c. all-purpose flour
2 T Dutch-process cocoa powder
1/4 c. dark corn syrup or molasses
1/2 c. cranberry juice
2 c. chopped, toasted nuts (see notes)
In a plastic bag or bowl, combine the fruits with the liquid and let sit overnight.
Preheat oven to 300°F. Set the racks in the middle of the oven.
Lightly grease two 9” x 5” loaf pans. (Optional: place parchment paper for easier removal; grease this.)
Beat butter and brown sugar together until combined. Beat in salt, cinnamon, nutmeg and baking powder. Beat in eggs one at a time, scraping down the bowl between each.
In a separate bowl, whisk together flour and cocoa. Add the flour in three batches while gently beating the mixture.
Mix in the corn syrup (or molasses) and cranberry juice until just combined.
Fold in the nuts and fruit with a spatula. Spoon the batter into the prepared pans. Fill to about 3/4 full. If you like, decorate the top with extra nuts.
Bake for about 2 hours. Cakes are done when a toothpick inserted into the center comes out clean. Remove from oven and set on a wire rack to cool for at least ten minutes. Gently loosen the sides with a knife and remove to the rack.
If desired, brush the warm cake with rum, Bourbon or simple syrup. This make a moist, sticky cake.
Let cool completely. Wrap them tightly in Saran wrap and store at room temperature for 6-8 weeks. (see notes)
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The most divisive aspect of fruitcake is the dried fruit. The mixtures sold in grocery stores are often too cloying and off-putting for most people. The key to making a fruitcake that you’ll all enjoy is to only include fruits that you find tasty. You’re aiming for 6 1/2 cups (plus ginger, if desired) total of dried fruits. We recommend keeping the cherries and dates; cherries add a festive flair and dates will help keep everything moist. Beyond that, experiment with what you like. Dried apricots, unsweetened dried apples, dried blueberries, dark raisins and dried figs are all welcome substitutions. Just be sure that none of the items are freeze-dried, as that would be too dry for our purposes.
As for the nuts? Again, go with your favorites! Pecans, walnuts or almonds would be great. Some people even use pistachios for a little more holiday flair.
Finally, if you want a truly boozy fruitcake – I mean, knock your grandma off her feet from across the room boozy – soak a cheesecloth in rum or Bourbon and wrap the cake in that for a week before serving. If the cheesecloth seems to be drying out, drizzle a little more on top. We strongly suggest you not drive with this thing in your car.
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For the Cookies:
2 1/2 c. all-purpose flour
1 tsp. baking powder
1/2 tsp. baking soda
1/2 tsp. salt
1 1/2 c. granulated sugar
8 oz. cream cheese, softened
1/2 c. butter, softened 1 egg
2 tsp. vanilla extract
For the Frosting:
2 1/2 c. powdered sugar
1/4 c. butter, softened 2 T milk
1/2 tsp. vanilla extract
Preheat oven to 350 °F. Cover a cookie sheet with parchment paper.
Whisk together flour, baking powder, baking soda and salt. Set aside.
In a separate bowl, cream together granulated sugar, cream cheese and 1/2 c. butter on medium speed until fluffy. Beat in egg and vanilla until just smooth. Slowly add the flour mixture, beating slowly until fully combined. Cover with plastic wrap or a damp towel and refrigerate 15 minutes.
Shape dough into 1-inch balls. Place 2 inches apart on prepared cookie sheet. Bake until edges are set, about 11 minutes. Remove from oven and let cook on the cookie sheet for 2 minutes. Remove to cooling rack and cool completely.
In a separate bowl, beat together powdered sugar, 1/4 c. butter, milk and vanilla until smooth and fluffy. If the frosting is too stiff to spread, add additional milk 1 tsp. at a time. Tint with food coloring, if desired. Spread each cookie with frosting and top with sprinkles, if desired.
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For the Cookies:
1 c. granulated sugar 1/2 c. shortening 1/2 c. butter, softened 2 tsp. vanilla extract 1 egg 2 1/2 c. Betty Crocker™ All-Purpose Gluten Free Rice Flour Blend 1/2 tsp. gluten-free baking powder 1/4 tsp. salt
For the Glaze:
1 c. gluten-free powdered sugar 2 T milk
Beat granulated sugar, shortening and butter with an electric mixer on medium speed until creamy. On low speed, beat in vanilla and egg.
In a separate bowl, whisk together flour, baking powder and salt. Beat into the wet mixture until fully combined.
Divide dough in half and shape into disks. Wrap separately in plastic wrap and refrigerate 1 hour. Preheat oven to 375°F.
On a work surface lightly dusted with the glutenfree flour blend, roll out each half of dough to 1/4” thickness. Cut with cookie cutters. Place 1” apart on ungreased cookie sheets.
Bake until edges are lightly browned (about 10 minutes). Remove from oven and let cool on cookie sheet for 2 minutes. Remove to cooling rack to cool completely.
Stir together glaze ingredients; add food coloring, if desired. Drizzle over cookies. Add sprinkles or granulated sugar, if desired. Let stand until glaze is set. (adapted from Betty Crocker)
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For the Cake:
2 1/2 T orange zest
3/4 c. orange juice
2 tsp. orange liqueur
4 eggs, at room temperature
2 1/2 c. all-purpose flour
1 c. fresh cranberries
2 c. sugar
1 tsp. baking powder
1 tsp. kosher salt
1/2 tsp. baking soda
18 T unsalted butter, softened
For the Glaze:
1 c. powdered sugar
1/4 tsp. orange zest
1 T orange juice
Preheat oven to 350°F. Lightly grease and flour a bundt pan.
Mix together orange zest, juice, liqueur and eggs.
In a separate bowl, toss cranberries with 1 T flour.
In a stand mixer with paddle attachment, mix together sugar, baking powder, salt, baking soda and remaining flour. On low, slowly add the butter 1 T at a time; mix until pea-sized crumbles form.
Turn the speed up to medium and slowly stream in the orange mixture; turn to medium-high speed and beat until light and fluffy. Gently fold in the cranberries.
Pour batter into prepared bundt pan, smoothing out the top with a rubber spatula.
Bake until a tester inserted into the center comes out clean, around 50 minutes. Remove from oven and let cool in pan for 30 minutes. Invert the pan on a wire rack to remove the cake. If it doesn’t budge, gently loosen the edges using a knife. Allow to cool completely before glazing.
Whisk together glaze ingredients; add more powdered sugar or orange juice to achieve your desired consistency. Drizzle the glaze over the cake.
If desired, top with macerated cranberries; toss cranberries with granulated sugar in a plastic container and refrigerate overnight. (adapted from Food Network)
Figgy Pudding
1 c. currants
3/4 c. dark raisins
3/4 c. golden raisins
2 T candied orange peel, chopped
2 T candied lemon peel, chopped
2 T walnuts, chopped
1/2 c. brandy
2 c. white breadcrumbs
1/2 c. all-purpose flour
1/2 tsp. baking powder
1 c. dark brown sugar
1/2 tsp. salt
1/4 tsp. cinnamon
1/4 tsp. ground allspice
1/4 tsp. ground cloves
1/4 tsp. ground ginger
4 oz. beef suet, shredded (see notes)
2 eggs
1 apple, cored, peeled and grated
1 T molasses
zest of one lemon zest of one orange
Place currants, raisins, candied citrus and walnuts in a nonreactive bowl. Add in brandy, and toss to combine. Let sit overnight.
Generously grease a pudding mold. If you don’t have one, any heat resistant 3.5 pint dish should work.
Place breadcrumbs, flour, baking powder, brown sugar and spices in a bowl. Whisk to combine.
In the fruit mixture bowl, add suet, eggs, apple, molasses and zest.
Add your dry mixture to the wet. Mix until completely combined; the mixture will be thick and sticky.
Scoop the batter into the prepared pudding mold. Smooth down the top with a rubber spatula.
Cut a piece of parchment paper, roughly the diameter
as the top of the pudding mold. Grease and gently press the greased side down on top of the mixture. Gently wrap the whole pudding mold in parchment paper twice and secure with twine. Tie it loosely enough that the pudding can expand if need be, but tight enough to prevent excess moisture from getting in.
In a large pot, add enough water to the pot that it would come halfway up the pudding mold; bring the water to a low simmer. Add a heat-resistant silicone trivet or clean, folded towel to the bottom of the pot and set the putting on top. Add more water to ensure that the water reaches halfway up the pudding’s sides. Cover the pot with a lid. Steam over very low heat for at least four hours (up to seven; the longer it steams, the darker it will become). Periodically add more water to keep the level to the halfway point of the mold.
Carefully lift the mold out of the pot and let sit at least five minutes on a cooling rack. To demold, invert the pudding on a plate. Let sit until the pudding slides free. (adapted from The Daring Gourmet • daringgourmet.com)
Notes:
If you wish to set your pudding aflame – as is traditional –warm 1/4 c. of brandy in a saucepan. Bring the saucepan to the table and turn off the lights. Set the brandy on fire using a long match or grill lighter. Gently pour the flaming brandy over the pudding. Let the flames naturally extinguish themselves before serving.
If all that showmanship isn't really your jam (or you'd rather not burn off your eyebrows), simply dust the top with powdered sugar. It's traditional to place a spring of holly on top, though we advise against it; holly berries are slightly poisonous. If you wish to add festive greenery decorations, go with faux.
Finally, if you can't get beef suet from your butcher, vegetable suet or shortening are good alternatives.
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Sleep is the single most effective thing we can do to reset our body and brain health every day. The leading cause of disease and death in developed nations have links to a lack of sleep. The shorter you sleep, the shorter your life.
Sleep is the single most effective thing we can do to reset our body and brain health every day. Matthew states that the leading cause of disease and death in developed nations have links to a lack of sleep. He refers to this as “the shorter you sleep, the shorter your life”.
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We live in a stressful time. How you deal with stress, anxiety, the cumulative nature of life, and the peaks and valleys of life. Developing strategies to constructively manage these emotional states builds resilience and reduces the tendency to self-medicate with food, alcohol, and other short-term blunting mediums.
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Self-Care
It is well established that self-care can improve your health, reduce stress and anxiety, boost your self-esteem, protect your mental health, and lead to better and stronger relationships.
empowering a culture of diversity, equity, and inclusion for a brighter Kentucky.
Ti any T. Senior Administrative AssistantAt KU, we’re empowering possibilities for everyone in the communities we serve by taking part in e orts to help bring lasting change with diversity, equity and inclusion across Kentucky.
Our e orts include spending over $180 million with 148 diverse businesses last year and donating $100,000 to help lower the education gap among students of color.
There’s still work to do, but we’re proud to continue fostering a better, more inclusive environment within our organization and our communities. Visit lge-ku.com/diversity to learn more.
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Spreading Throughout the Bluegrass
The folks at The Wildcat Group aspire to give people hope and happiness this holiday season.
“It’s been a difficult year for a lot of people,” says owner Raleigh Bruner. “As a local business we have an obligation to uplift our community any time the opportunity arises.”
Over the next month The Wildcat Group will provide logistical assistance to the following nonprofits helping them to effectively carry out their charitable missions:
Angel Tree
God’s Pantry
Hope for the Holidays
Home Instead’s Be a Santa to a Senior
Fraternal Order of Fire ghters Toy Drive
The Salvation Army
Toy Chest
Senior Sleigh
These organizations are behind wonderful causes that range from distributing donated bikes and toys to underprivileged children, to delivering the gift of joy to seniors and veterans. The Wildcat Group donates trucks, equipment, warehouse space, and labor to satisfy the unique needs and challenges each of these non-profits face during the holidays. “Senior Sleigh is a huge project with upward of 300 packages. The Wildcat Group graciously volunteers to deliver the packages every year. They have truly been a blessing,” says Missy Ward, lead Senior Sleigh organizer. The community partnerships Wildcat has forged with these non-profits are built on years of trust
and stewardship. These long-term relationships are a testament to the company’s commitment to serving the community in an impactful way. This holiday season, Wildcat urges those fortunate enough to donate resources or time to a local charity to do so. You can also make a difference by shopping local, which allows small businesses owners to give back to their communities and neighbors in need.
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arbor youth services
It all started with a simple idea: “Let’s help kids.”
Through their emergency shelter and support programs. Arbor Youth Services achieves that mission every day. They provide safety and support for children in crisis.
As Central Kentucky’s only emergency shelter for unaccompanied children who come from abuse, abandonment or other crises. Arbor Youth Services provides a supportive environment for children from birth through the age of 17. In addition to providing a safe place to sleep, they provide basic necessities such as food and clothing. They also offer enhanced services, including crisis counseling, case management, transportation and youth development activities.
Through Project Safe Place, children can walk into any site displaying the yellow Safe Place sign and ask for help. The Safe Place site contacts Arbor Youth, and they send someone immediately to help the youth in crisis. They also offer immediate help via text. Their help doesn’t end when a child becomes a legal adult. Their Outreach Center serves youth and young adults ages 18 through 24 who are homeless or housing-insecure. Their Supportive Housing Services help youth transition from homelessness to housing by providing intensive case management and financial support.
This work depends on the generosity of the community and businesses like Field & Main Bank. Arbor Youth Services accepts donations via their website as well as via mail. They also accept donations of certain items (find a complete list of regularly needed items online). They also have volunteer opportunities for anyone who wants to lend a hand to help Kentucky’s youth.
girls on the run
Founded in 1996, Girls on the Run International is a nonprofit that has served 2 million + girls across North America. Locally, Girls on the Run Central Kentucky was founded in 2009 and has been dedicated to making an impact on girls lives in our community. Today’s girls are exposed to longstanding gender stereotypes, societal obstacles and cultural challenges that can be detrimental to their emotional and physical health. The Girls on the Run programs are about so much more than running –they make an impact at a critical age when confidence and physical activity decline.
In a July 2021 Harvard study, Girls on the Run was found to be one of three programs reviewed that has a strong focus on equitable and inclusive education. Their commitment states, “We are dedicated to being an inclusive, diverse, equitable and accessible organization.”
Girls on the Run makes a stronger impact than organized sports and physical education programs in teaching life skills such as managing emotions, resolving conflict, helping others and making intentional decisions.
Results show Girls on the Run empowers girls to build healthy physical and mental habits that last long beyond the program.
the lexington dream factory
The Lexington Dream Factory is a non- profit volunteer organization dedicated to granting dreams of children ages 3 to 18 with critical and chronic illnesses. There are over 30 chapters of the Dream Factory nationwide. The Lexington Chapter of the Dream Factory grants dreams to children in the Lexington, Southern and Eastern Kentucky area. They grant dreams ranging from trips to Disney World, concert tickets and backstage passes to shopping sprees and beyond. They strive to provide hope for children with serious illness. If you know of a child who might be eligible for a dream, encourage the family to visit our website.
The Lexington Dream Factory is solely dependent upon fundraising and corporate sponsorships from amazing businesses like Morgan Stanley. They welcome all levels of financial support. Your donation will go directly to helping make a dream come true for a child in Kentucky! The Lexington Chapter also hosts an annual gala in the spring which is made possible by corporate sponsorships. Financial donations, sponsorships or even donations to the silent and live gala auction are greatly appreciated. To learn how you can sponsor or donate to the Lexington Dream Factory, call (859) 254-9474, email lexington@dreamfactoryinc.org or use the online submission form.
a running start
At A Running Start, Executive Director, Liz Hodge (Lifstyl Real Estate Realtor), reflects on the lives they have touched and changed in their last decade of service to the community. One person who has been positively affected by A Running Start is Bobby Martin, a father of three and a former addict of almost 40 years.
“The last 19 months is the longest I have ever been clean, and a lot of the credit goes to A Running Start and the Hope Center” says Bobby. “It brought me closer to my family and at the same time, A Running Start gave me the hope and encouragement to actually start something great and to finish it. The friends I have gained through A Running Start are vital to my recovery and my spirit.”
Signing up with A Running Start, Bobby has overcome his addiction and rediscovered good qualities about himself. Everyone wants the characteristics that quantify a runner...dedication, endurance, responsibility, and determination. An employer or housing manager can see that these are men who follow through and stay the course.
“Because of Liz and A Running Start, I now have the best job I’ve ever had with Clay Leavell and his company Kitchen Concepts. Clay is an amazing man and has always offered to help me when needed.”
When asked if Bobby has a motto he likes to use throughout his daily life, he draws upon what his father, Robert Martin Sr. used to tell him; “Just think how good it is going to feel when it quits hurting.” It’s one thing to be outside running when the weather is beautiful, but as winter quickly approaches, it takes determination and commitment to continue training, even when you don’t want to.
If you’d like to support A Running Start, you can volunteer as a buddy, participate as a sponsor, or donate items like cold weather running gear. You can find A Running Start on Facebook or on their website, www.arunningstart.run.
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kentucky horse park
Each year, nearly one million people visit the Kentucky Horse Park. Guests range from the casual equine enthusiast to tourists wanting a uniquely Kentucky experience to the world champion readying for a competition. Since its inception in 1985, the Kentucky Horse Park Foundation has raised over $36 million, helping make the Kentucky Horse Park the leading equestrian facility of its kind in the world.
Home to approximately 75 horses, the park offers visitors the opportunity to interact up close and personally with the horses living here. Annually, the park is home to more than 80 shows, exhibitions, competitions, and regional, national, and international championships. The International Museum of the Horse, the Al-Marah Arabian Horse Galleries, the American Saddlebred Museum, and the National Horse Center are all located at the Kentucky Horse Park.
Revenue generated from visitor fees and support from the Commonwealth of Kentucky only provide a portion of the funding needed to operate the Kentucky Horse Park. Donations are vital to filling the gap and achieving the vision for the park as the world’s leading equestrian destination as a working horse farm, a world-renowned center for show and competition, and an international center for equine education. Learn more at khpfoundation.org kyhorsefarm.com 859-233-4303
the foster care council
The Foster Care Council’s mission is to provide funding for individualized tutoring, clothing, enrichment activities, and summer camps for Kentucky’s foster children.
There are over 9,000 foster children in Kentucky’s foster care system. One child they have helped, Prince, was born in Ghana. He came to the United States in 2008 and was placed in the foster care system shortly after. Life’s transitions have not been easy for him, but he has been fortunate to have strong support systems to help him succeed.
He enjoys spending time with friends and family, watching movies and cooking, but most of all he loves sports. Prince played middle school basketball and ran track. Now as a sophomore, he is running on the high school team. The Foster Care Council has been instrumental in his success by assisting his foster mother with his athletic expenses. Being able to participate in sports has given him opportunities to be part of a team and form healthy relationships with peers and mentors, motivated him to achieve and maintain above a 3.4 GPA in school, and provided a healthy way to cope with life’s challenges.
salvation army angel tree
Every child deserves to experience the joy of Christmas morning. This is the inspiration behind the Salvation Army Angel Tree.
The Salvation Army Angel Tree program helps provide Christmas gifts to hundreds of thousands of children around the United States each year. Once a child or senior adult has been registered and accepted as an Angel, their Christmas wish list is shared with donors throughout the community on a special local Angel Tree. Volunteers then purchase gifts for their chosen Angels, ensuring their chosen ones experience the joy of Christmas, as the purchased gifts are distributed just in time for Christmas morning!
Check out the local Salvation Army Angel Tree this year at the Fayette Mall in Lexington, KY. Angels will be available until December 10th. Also locally, the Angel Tree distribution warehouse is accepting drop off donations through December 10th. Gift items can vary between clothes, toys, bikes, books, etc.
Be a part of the magic of Christmas! Join the Salvation Army in making this year’s Christmas a joyful time for these special Angels! salvationarmy.org 859-252-7706
god's pantry f d bank
Since its’ founding, the Food Bank has grown in many ways. What started with one woman, Mim Hunt, attempting to do what she could to address a need is now an organization serving 50 countries in Central and Eastern Kentucky through a number of programs with a dedicated staff committed to the mission of solving hunger.
In Kentucky, 1 in 8 people are unsure about where they’ll get their next meal. In Central and Eastern Kentucky, it is 1 in 6. Hunger can affect anyone, regardless of age, ethnicity, or gender, urban and rural dwellers alike.
Together with more than 475 food pantries and meal programs, God’s Pantry Food Bank works to alleviate hunger in Central and Eastern Kentucky during this time of crisis.
Mim Hunt devoted her life to helping others and we continue to honor her legacy at God’s Pantry Food Bank. Her work is proof that one person, with every small action, can make a large impact. We invite you to join us in continuing Mim’s work.
In FY 2022, God’s Pantry Food Bank distributed 40.5 million pounds of food to Kentuckians in need. 15.7 million pounds of which was fresh produce. Support God’s Pantry Food Bank this holiday season by joining their Stuff Your Stocking silent auction, which opens for bidding on November 21, and closes on December 5. Win the perfect present for a loved one, and maybe something for yourself, too! Watch for an auction preview in mid-November!
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Daytime Comedy Duo
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BY ADA MCWHORTERThe next time you run into Lee Cruse or Hayley Harmon of The Lee and Hayley Show, ask Harmon how much water she’s up to in her daily ounce count, and don’t try to open with a joke if Cruse is there. Chances are, she’s been keeping a mental tally all day, and he just wants to say hello.
“Just know if I’m not on air, I’m counting my ounces,” Harmon laughed. “I keep a running a tally in my head.”
Cruse shrugged. “I think everybody knows everything about me. Can you think of anything, Hayley? I can’t…I think most people don’t realize that I’m shy. I’m shy, and I’m not hydrated.”
“We met over at our previous job,” said Harmon, a Tennessee native who now considers Kentucky home. “Lee worked there for 200 years, and then I came in 2014. He’s old; preserved very well. It’s the bourbon that keeps him solid from the inside out.”
Cruse said when Harmon came along, he knew she was the right fit for the show he always wanted to create.
“We were so like-minded in the way we approached life; it was an easy fit, and I could just see it,” he said. “I thought our interactions were just hilarious…she thinks the way my comic friends think. She’s the perfect mix of everything that makes a show like ours work, so I just had to figure out a way to make this happen.”
The show quickly expanded to markets in Kentucky, Mississippi, Georgia, and North Carolina and has grown in popularity with current event features, comic sketches, human-interest stories, and their weekly Charity Spotlight segment. Fan favorites include “Driving Me Crazy,” “Crazy Arms,” and daily antics with their staff. Viewers have been thrilled to be reunited with Lee and Hayley’s high-energy delivery, captivating on-screen chemistry, and no-punches-pulled comedy.
“Lee and Hayley encourage others through their show, and always with a smile … I appreciate that,” said Mayor Linda Gorton.
The comedic duo has a purpose behind their laughs and ultimately see their job as a mission to be taken seriously.
“We have fun and love our jobs, but you would be blown away by the correspondence we get from people that say ‘You are the highlight of my day. You bring me joy when I’m having the hardest time in my life,’” Harmon said. “Messages we get from people that are fighting cancer or their family and they’re like ‘You don’t know the joy you brought to their life for one hour a day.’ And so, I just think joy isn’t given the credit it deserves sometimes. It can change your life.”
Cruse, a native Kentuckian, quipped that he was born into the role of a television personality, and recruiting Harmon to join him with the show helped fulfill a calling that he didn’t realize he had.
“I mean this is all I can do…she can do a lot of stuff, I can’t,” he said. “This is all I have, but I did not know how important it was to people until we started getting these messages. I was just having fun, but then I realized how we alleviate pain. We’re a good distraction for pain and for sorrow and for misery in a world that is very tough. And that became a mission for us.”
Harmon joked that some of their segments don’t make it on the air. Their shenanigans are striking a chord, and they’re amazed at where they run into people who recognize them, even in markets where their shows don’t air on local networks.
“We get a lot of mail from these other cities that don’t know us,” Cruse said. “Hayley and I have been around Lexington for a long time, but when you hear these really nice things people say about you and they’ve only known us for a few months, it validates our belief in the show appealing to audiences throughout the country.”
Ultimately, more growth is the objective. Cruse said the pair would like to have their own studio and run their show with a live studio audience — a dream that isn’t too far away — especially with the digital and social media world to grow their reach and monetize their content.
“I’ve loved watching two of our patients, Lee and Hayley, grow their network with creative and fun content for their viewers,” said White, Greer & Maggard Orthodontics owner Dr. Greg White. “White, Greer & Maggard Orthodontics has always had a heart for the community and the show's Charity Spotlight segment is one of the reasons we came on board to be able to highlight many organizations doing great things in our local communities.”
Cruse credits Harmon’s talent in addition to their hometown for helping The Lee and Hayley Show get where it is today.
“We’re so appreciative of Kentucky, our home,” he said. “If it wasn’t for this state, we wouldn’t have the opportunities that we have. We’re growing this thing throughout the South. It’s just amazing: the love and support we get. This is our home, and we love it, and we couldn’t be more grateful to be here.”
The Face of Women's Basketball
Blair Green has become the face of the Kentucky women’s basketball program after the graduation of three-time All-American Rhyne Howard, the WNBA rookie of the year in her first season.
Green missed what was supposed to be her senior season last year because of a ruptured Achilles tendon before deciding to return for a fifth year. Kentucky coach Kyra Elzy calls her a “sniper” because of her 3-point shooting ability but also says her experience/leadership will be invaluable to this year’s team that has 10 new players. But what is one thing that senior teammate Emma King wishes UK fans knew about Green that they might not? “The work and dedication she puts into everything she does. The way she has always stood up for herself and what she knows to be right,” said King. “Blair is one of the best humans I’ve ever met and I’m so glad UK brought me my best friend. She’s never not been there for me. She’s one of those people who you know what you’re going to get and she keeps it real and honest. She is 100 percent always true to herself.”
Green had played in 90 games coming into this season but also spent last year as an “assistant” coach. Elzy wanted to keep her involved with the team when she was injured and had her helping with scouting reports and various practice drills.
“I was the mediator between the coaches and players at times,” Green said. “Coach Elzy said I might be able to tell the team some things and they would take it better from me. Doing that helped me become a better vocal leader this year. I know even more about what coach Elzy expects. I don’t care where I play. I just want to be out there playing.”
Green is also community-minded. She organized a project to help provide Christmas gifts for youngsters in high school. She did a basketball camp recently with teammates Cassidy Rowe and King to raise money for eastern Kentucky flood relief. She’s worked basketball camps at Kentucky and gone to schools to speak.
Her personality/smile can be contagious — she was homecoming queen at Harlan County High School her senior year.
“I would like to think I have always been a leader by example,” Green said. “The freshmen this year are awesome and eager for feedback. They make my job easier.”
There was nothing easy about her rehab even if she recovered faster than expected after last year’s preseason injury.
“I was just coming into being the total player I thought I could be when I got hurt,” Green said. “I worked so hard to get back. I put in the most work I ever have as a basketball player on and off the court. I like to go hard and sometimes they had to remind me just to slow down. Honestly, I know there were times I was trying to do more than I should have but I just stayed positive.”
That positivity is apparent to teammates as they begin their quest for a successful season.
“She has grown into her role as leader of this team and has found her voice and confidence. She leads by example, so it’s so easy to follow her words,” King said. “She keeps everyone accountable while also encouraging everyone which is not an easy thing to do.”
CALENDAR of Events
What's happening in town this month.
Sports Performing & Visual ArtsCommunity Events
DECEMBER 1
UK Symphony Orchestra 7:30pm Singletary Center
DECEMBER 2
Leanne Morgan 7pm Lexington Opera House
LexArts 50th Anniversary Celebration & Horse Mania Auction 7pm Keeneland
A Wonderful Woodford Christmas:
•Versailles Christmas Tree Lighting at 5:30 pm
Christmas Carols and Santa Claus meet and greet at The Galerie
Best Christmas Pageant Ever Woodford Theatre
Greyline Station Block Party 5-9pm Julietta Marketplace
United Fine Arts Academy: The Nutcracker 101 Kaden Lane, Georgetown
DECEMBER 3
Leanne Morgan 4pm & 7pm Lexington Opera House
Casting Crowns 7pm Rupp Arena
UK Choirs Collage: A Holiday Spectacular 2pm & 7:30pm Singletary Center
Downtown Christmas Parade 11am Downtown
United Fine Arts Academy: The Nutcracker 101 Kaden Lane, Georgetown
Best Christmas Pageant Ever Woodford Theatre
A Wonderful Woodford Christmas:
•Kiwanis Pancake Breakfast at First Christian Church
•Holiday Rock & Shop Noon to 4 pm
•Horse and Carriage Rides from Noon to 2 pm
•Santa Shuffle 5k at 3 pm
•Christmas Parade at 5 pm
•Wildside Winery Christmas Market
•Brunch with Santa at The Kentucky Castle
•Midway's Boutique Bingo
DECEMBER 4
UK Men's Basketball vs Michigan 1pm AWAY
United Fine Arts Academy: The Nutcracker 101 Kaden Lane, Georgetown
A Wonderful Woodford Christmas: •Wildside Winery Christmas Market
•Brunch with Santa at The Kentucky Castle •Midway's Boutique Bingo
Best Christmas Pageant Ever Woodford Theatre
Leanne Morgan 3pm Lexington Opera House Penatonix 7pm Rupp Arena
UK Choirs Collage: A Holiday Spectacular 3pm Singletary Center
Holiday Fresh Greenery Wreath Workshop The Kentucky Castle
DECEMBER 5
Best Christmas Pageant Ever Woodford Theatre
DECEMBER 6
Steve-O 7pm Lexington Opera House
Best Christmas Pageant Ever Woodford Theatre
Lexington Children’s Theatre: Puss in Boots 4pm Central Library
DECEMBER 7
Trans-Siberian Orchestra 7pm Rupp Arena
Working Leading Kentucky Workshop 10am-12pm Studio46
Best Christmas Pageant Ever Woodford Theatre
DECEMBER 8
Best Christmas Pageant Ever Woodford Theatre
DECEMBER 9
Jingle Jam Rupp Arena
Lexington Ballet Company: The Nutcracker 7:30pm Lexington Opera House Crafted Social Preview Night 5-9pm Lexington Art League
Best Christmas Pageant Ever Woodford Theatre
Live Nativity Versailles United Methodist Church
United Fine Arts Academy: The Nutcracker 101 Kaden Lane, Georgetown
DECEMBER 10
Crafted Social Art Market 11am-5pm Lexington Art League
Lexington Ballet Company: The Nutcracker 2pm & 7:30pm Lexington Opera House
United Fine Arts Academy: The Nutcracker 101 Kaden Lane, Georgetown
Best Christmas Pageant Ever Woodford Theatre
A Wonderful Woodford Christmas: •Tea with Mrs Claus
•Christmas Bazzar at Jack Kain Ford
•Christmas Festivities downtown: Santa Meet & Friends Ornament workshop 1-4 pm
DECEMBER 11
Lexington Ballet Company: The Nutcracker 2pm Lexington Opera House
Best Christmas Pageant Ever Woodford Theatre
United Fine Arts Academy: The Nutcracker 101 Kaden Lane, Georgetown
Alltech Celebration of Song 4pm Kentucky Horse Park
A Wonderful Woodford Christmas:
•Christmas Bazzar at Jack Kain Ford
•Christmas Festivities downtown: Santa Meet & Friends Ornament workshop 1-4 pm
DECEMBER 13
Mrs. Lincoln’s Favorite Things 5pm Mary Todd Lincoln House
DECEMBER 16
A Wonderful Woodford Christmas: •Pet Pictures with Santa 1-3 pm at Community Trust Bank
DECEMBER 17
A Wonderful Woodford Christmas: •Hot Dogs with Mrs. Claus in Midway
•Sip n Shop in Midway, KY
•Brunch with Santa at The Kentucky Castle
•Christmas in the City of Versailles Courtyard festivities 4-6 pm
DECEMBER 18
A Handeful of Christmas Delights: Regina Coeli
7:30pm St Michael’s Episcopal Church
An Enchanted Evening princess experience 6pm Historic Boone Tavern
A Wonderful Woodford Christmas: •Sip n Shop in Midway, KY
•Pisgah Live Nativity
•Brunch with Santa at The Kentucky Castle
•Christmas in the City of Versailles Courtyard festivities 4-6 pm
DECEMBER 31
NYE: A Black Tie Affair 7pm The Kentucky Castle
NYE Party 8:30pm Danville Country Club
NYE Disco 7:30pm Wise Bird Cider
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November 10 • My Favorite Things • photos by Woody Phillips Sherri Cartwright, Tom Ulshafer and Brittany Cartwright Megan Martin, Jennifer Baker and Mark Mahan Woody Phillips and Mike Cyrus Fran Elsen, Debbie Reynolds and Deirdre Hall Brianna Evans and Vicki Evans Lauren Parsons and Anna McMahan Riley McIntosh and Heather LewisTOP EVENTS
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by Woody Phillips & Dr. Michael HuangCoach Light Antiques, Art & Auctions
To all our wonderful friends, we sure have missed you... but we are BACK! Bigger and better than ever. Coach Light Antiques, Art & Auctions is the longest running antique store in Nicholasville Kentucky since the 1970’s offering vintage antiques and collectables. With a brand new location, only 6.7 miles from Brannon Crossing, owner’s Jesse Lemay and Patti M. Trail were determined to maintain the old school vibe, while adding some exciting new elements to the new location.
Coach Light is now offering a variety of art classes with Patti. “Come with your best girlfriends, your hubby or your granny! “We also have children’s art classes that are just a blast, as well as offering private parties! Your place or ours” Patti says. She has been teaching professionally, what she refers to as “fun art, not fine art” classes for over 15 years.
We will also be hosting ONSITE AUCTIONS for our guests.” Says Jesse. “We hope they will enjoy the indoor snack kitchen for an authentic auction experience.
Each unique booth has been thoughtfully put together and items are replenished regularly. The festive booths, boast vintage antiques, early primitives, bourbon barrel, iron skillets and an endless assortment of excellent Tupperware.
We hope that we’ve created a very special happy place for our old faithful and can’t wait to meet everyone new! So come step back in time with us and find something unique and meaningful among the precious treasures for your loved ones this Christmas. Welcome back. We’ll leave the light on for ya!!!
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Holly Day Market
November 11 • Central Bank Center • photos by Woody Phillips Chrissy Anderson, Emily Pence, Erin Ashley, Ally Gavin, Lindsey Manning, Elizabeth Pinnix, Sarah Fox, Leslie Moody, Erin Roth, Brooke Englert and Beth Shockley Suzanne Elliot MJ Milburn Annie Marcum and Diane Ashley Betsy Davies, Logan Hu and Allie Herald Chad Helm, Meredith Helm, Meredith Mason and Autumn MitchisonTOP EVENTS
Empowerment Banquet: A Salute to P.G. Peeples
October 24 • Central Bank Center • photos by Woody Phillips Yajaira West, Christa Marrillia and Josh Marrillia Melissa Moore Murphy, LaToi D Mayo, Glenda George, Kimberly Baird, Denotra Gunther, Thalethia Routt and Cheryl James P.G Peeples and Rev. Dr. C.B. Akins Ron Mossotti, Charles Gorton, Linda Gorton and Jennifer Mossotti Paul Chartier, Natalee Chartier, Diana Koonce and Je KoonceGIVE THE GIFT OF GIVING.
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