How To Develop Legit Game Learn How To Get More Phone Numbers, More Dates, And More Lays With Beautiful Women How To Get A Woman To Ask You For Your Phone Number I walked into the bookstore and I head towards the area where they sell pastries and refreshments. I quickly noticed around 6 or 7 beautiful women sitting alone. Some were eating pastries, some were drinking coffee, and some were studying with their laptops open. I decide to approach a beautiful blonde girl sitting alone on her laptop. What did I say to her? I said, “Hey I though you were cute and I wanted to say whats up.” She said, “Sorry I’m busy”. I said, “Ok no problem”. On to the next one. I literally approach another woman who was sitting about 3 feet away from her and I say the same exact thing.
She gives me a similar response. Did I give up after 2 rejections? Hell no! I see another beautiful girl (she happened to be much more attractive than the two women I opened first) who looked to be native American. I go up to her and say the same exact thing, “Hey I thought you were cute and I wanted to say what’s up.” Her response? She said, “Hey what’s up I’m Samantha”. I introduce myself and go into a playful conversation (with injections of sexual tension) that we both enjoyed. However, what makes this interaction different from most is that it ended with her asking me for my phone number. Why? Well, let me break it down for you, because this has happened to me more than once, and I’ve noticed exactly what I’m doing different in those interactions that result in the woman asking me for my phone number.
The first thing I do, is I get a couple rejections out of the way. When you get rejected a couple times, you start to realize that rejection is not that bad, and as a result you won’t try to avoid it as much because you simply aren’t really affected by it. When you are not afraid of rejection and you’re calm and relaxed when interacting with people you will resonate confidence and you will be more attractive to whoever you’re speaking to. The second thing I do is I listen carefully to what the woman is saying in the interaction and I ask her questions that will allow me to enter her world and really get to understand what she is going through. I find out what her passions are, what her goals are, what her hobbies are, why she does what she does, and her philosophy on life. Lastly, I connect with her on the points above, and I show her that if she gets to know me her quality of life will increase because I have high value when it comes to her goals and aspirations. In the specific interaction with Samantha, I found out that she was studying business marketing and she was interested in the business world. I happen to have lots of experience with business marketing and I was able to show her my value by speaking about my experiences, successes, and failures. She realized that if she connected herself with me her chances of achieving her goals would increase.
The icing on the cake was that I could hold a fun conversation, I displayed selfconfidence, and I was presentable. So, what I’ve done here is I’ve set the frame that I see her as a romantic interest from the beginning by telling her I thought she was cute and that was the reason why I wanted to talk to her. I was playful and flirty with her in the interaction. And lastly, I showed her that by connecting with me her quality of life will increase and her chances of achieving her goals in life will increase. So, when I told her I had to leave, she realized that if she doesn’t get my contact info she will miss out on the value I have to give. To sum everything up. If you want women to give you their phone numbers, you must find out what they value in a man (and what they value in life in general), and you have to display that at a high level, while also displaying confidence, social skills, and inject sexual tension in the conversation to avoid being put in the friendzone. If you do those things you will notice more women asking for your phone number and asking you out. Yes, you heard that right. Not only will women give you their phone numbers, they will ask you out. How To Get Hot Chicks There are 2 ways to get hot chicks:
1. You can chase hot chicks 2. You can attract hot chicks If you choose to chase hot chicks, you will have to convince and negotiate with them on why they should choose you over their other options. Most of them will reject you, and those who don’t reject you will probably use you for something. Maybe she’ll use you for your money, or she might just turn you into her gay best friend. If you choose to attract hot chicks who are interested in you before you even speak with them, then you’re playing a completely different game. You won’t have to chase them or convince them to choose you over other guys, because they’re already attracted to you. These are the women who will be submissive to you and give you compliance. These women see you as high value and don’t need any convincing because they feel attraction and that is all that matters to them. These are the kind of women you want. These are “your women”. So, the key to attracting hot chicks is to focus on becoming more attractive instead of chasing women. So, if you want to attract “your women” then here is what you need to do: 1. Focus on increasing your value and influence daily. In order to do this you need to figure out who you are. What is your purpose? What is your destiny? Figure this out and then pour your heart and soul into it. Get intimate with life. Take risks. Face the unknown. Face your demons. Be willing to die for your dreams and goals. What is the legacy you’re going to leave? Women are attracted to men who have purpose and go after their purpose with no apologies. You need to become a man of purpose and power.
2. Focus on developing yourself into a man who makes people’s lives better by solving problems. You need to make a positive impact on people daily. Develop a skill or a talent that is in demand and share it with the world. Create engagement and a following by constantly displaying your value to the universe. What problems are you solving for others? How are you making the world a better place? 3. Destroy your limiting beliefs, attack your fears, and become a man of confidence and certainty. Women are attracted to confidence because confidence is important when it comes to survival, influence, and acquiring resources. Women want a man who can handle them and improve their quality of life. If you’re weak mentally and emotionally then women will sense this, and it is a big turn-off for them. Stop making excuses for not living the life of your dreams. Do something about it now. 21 Life-Changing Lessons I’ve Learned From Over 5 Years Of Doing Cold Approach Pickup & Developing My Own System For Meeting And Attracting Beautiful Women At Will I’m going to give you some quick lessons and tips I’ve learned over my 5+ year pickup journey. I went through a lot of blood, sweat, and tears to learn this stuff so trust me when I say just 1 of these tips can change your life! 1. You must be willing to die for your goals and dreams, if not you probably won’t achieve them 2. If you want to be successful with women, you must learn and develop alpha male traits 3. Women are attracted to men they can’t have (she wants a challenge)
4. Transmuting anger and frustration into motivation is a powerful way to get yourself to take action towards your goals 5. Key to success = Don’t think just do 6. The cave that you fear holds the treasure you seek 7. What you resist persists 8. Never chase a woman 9. Be willing to crash and burn your sets 10. If you have a tough time approaching on your own, get a good wingman to help push you 11. Stop trying to look cool, or tough, instead be friendly and comfortable 12. Enthusiasm is contagious 13. Be the observed not the observer 14. Smile more and stop walking around with a serious face 15. When you don’t feel like approaching a woman, just approach anyway 16. The world’s sensitivity is not your problem
17. Once you become fearless life becomes limitless 18. Intelligence > Emotion 19. Don’t take shit personal 20. Fear is a manifestation of too much seriousness and care 21. It’s not about getting the girl, it’s about being a man To be honest I could go on and on when it comes to tips and lessons I’ve learned but the ones I mentioned here are more than enough to change your life if you really grasp and apply them. I’ve went through a lot of pain and frustration to learn the lessons above and the rewards that have come from those lessons are priceless. If you need me to go into detail on any of the lessons above let me know and I’ll be happy to do that for you. Much success to you! If you have questions or comments, feel free to email me: Trey@fearlessboss.com For more tips on attracting beautiful women in your life go here: http://www.legitgame.com