How to Recognise Domestic Abuse

How to Recognise Domestic Abuse6 – Information for Professionals

Professionals working with children and families need to be able to recognise the signs of Domestic Abuse. It is essential that we are able to respond in the best way as well as being aware of local resources for seamless referral. Professionals need to make themselves aware of their agencies’ policies and procedures regarding Domestic Abuse and avail of training.

Organisations should make their work environment a safe space for the victim of Domestic Abuse to talk about their experiences. They should establish a referral pathway with their local DV service where they can receive materials, information and guidance in relation to recognising and responding to Domestic Abuse/Coercive Control. Staff should be encouraged to make themselves familiar with local Domestic Abuse services and how they should respond to a disclosure of Domestic Abuse. Some suggestions for workplaces include:

• Displaying posters, brochures and information about local, regional and national

Domestic Abuse services • Placing information in public conveniences that victims can discreetly collect • Providing ongoing training to staff regarding Domestic Abuse service provision and how to respond to a disclosure of Domestic Abuse

Recognise the Signs

• The victim might be afraid of their partner • There may be talk about the person’s temper, anger or possessiveness • There may be bruising or injury with the excuse of an ‘accident’ • The victim may have a history of alcohol/substance misuse • The victim may be constantly accompanied by their partner with limited opportunity to engage • Erratic attendance at work and/or college • The victim may seem to be controlled and stopped from seeing family and friends

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Response

Victims of Domestic Abuse are not likely to disclose information about their experience unless directly asked. When a person discloses that he/she has experienced Domestic Abuse, however, this indicates that he/she trusts and values the professional’s/person’s help and advice.

Keep in Mind

• Confidentiality is crucial • Listen and be supportive but non-judgemental • Assure the person that no one deserves to be abused, despite what the perpetrator says • Remind the person that being abusive and violent is against the law in Ireland • Provide accurate local information about available services and how to access them • Respect the person’s decisions, and let them know you are there to support them • Document the disclosure and any injuries • Remember the most dangerous time for a victim of Domestic Abuse is often when he/she is just about to leave their abuser • Consider the victim may be best placed to assess their own risk • Be aware of the limits of confidentiality, i.e. Child Protection concerns Refer to the local and national supports sections for details of local/regional/national Domestic Violence services and supports.