A Connection to Each Other

Written By: Joan Monahan, LPC, ACS

The month of February brought us a reminder of the “love” we might have for individuals we consider to be close to us. However, 2020 brought a technical connection to us all that served as less than a personal one. The year 2020 had this technical connection to become a quick way to learn virtually, connecting with others. Thus, leaving many to cope with being disconnected but connected to the computer rather quickly. The Zoom platform quickly catapulted many of us into this new, primary way of connecting with friends, family, and colleagues.

Our brain desires to connect to others physically. Unfortunately, this was no longer a viable option for many of us. Our brains have certain chemicals that are released when we feel that human to human contact.

Why are relationships so critical to our brains and well-being? It has to do with our need to bond with others, creating a sense of safety and security within our minds and bodies. Humans have always required a connection and attention of some kind, even if it is negative. What? Yes, even negative attention wins out here!

So, will humans adapt to the way life is now? Of course, most likely, however, not without some consequence to be had. Humans are amazing creatures and have accomplished tremendous things so that they can overcome many hardships. We all have done this despite a horrific pandemic coming to America, and we all have made the best out of a daunting situation.

Humans remain resilient and can overcome many obstacles. The intrinsic ability to connect to other humans is such a priceless characteristic that humans can always provide to each other. I am optimistic that the future will allow this for all. I have witnessed meaningful interactions during 2020, i.e., frontline workers connecting with their patients in a heartfelt way, people dedicating their time and money without any hesitation, and virtual hugs. These emotional connections have been able to occur regardless of the uncertainty around us.

Computers have helped us tremendously during 2020; however, I believe that our connections to technology remove another factor and realization, We Need to Connect to Others. Sure, the internet and Zoom offer this opportunity; however, this was not what the attachment theorists meant when they published studies related to brain development in infants. For example, it feels good to hold a hand, hug a loved one, and see a tear in real-time. Priceless gifts I believe we could all agree on and something a computer, sorry, will never replace.

Joan Monahan, LPC, ACS connects with a group pre-pandemic. Image courtesy of the Northern Virginia Daily

SMARTYPANTS MEDICINE is a Direct Primary Care, Internal Medicine practice in Winchester, Virginia. Through a membership model, like Netflix, you can get healthcare without the headache. Valley Health’s membership in the Top of Virginia Regional Chamber is a valuable asset as we work to improve the health of our community. The region’s employers are increasingly concerned with helping their employees make healthy choices and wise health care decisions. Our Chamber membership provides Valley Health the opportunity to be a resource for local businesses and their partner in addressing health and wellness issues. Valley Health’s ongoing involvement with the Chamber’s Community Leadership Program has given us the opportunity to engage community leaders in discussions about the health challenges facing our communities.

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Small Business of the Year Netmaker Communications LLC., Jon Marcy Kimberly’s, Kimberly Sowers Michael Callahan and Associates LLC., Michael Callahan Clutter Troops, Chuck Lehrer Edward Jones Investments, James Imoh True North Group LLC, Thomas Stamulis

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Non-Profit of the Year Shenandoah Area on Aging United Way/Valley Assistance Network The Laurel Center Literacy Volunteers Child Safe Center I’m Just Me Movement

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The Greater Good Awards, presented by Valley Health, will take place in-person on Thursday, March 18, 2021 from 5:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m at the Alamo Drafthouse. Come and Celebrate Join Top of Virginia Regional Chamber members at the annual Greater Good Awards, presented by Valley Health to celebrate the local business community. We plan to recognize the award nominees in high style as we announce the winners of the Hollie Awards named for the first Chamber president, Hollie B. McCormac. Highlights of the evening will include dinner, 50/50 Raffle, and presentation of the Greater Good Awards.

Awards include: Large Business of the Year Small Business of the Year Entrepreneur of the Year Emerging Leader Award Citizen of the Year Award NEW in 2021: Non-profit of the Year.

The theme this year is “A Star Among Us” Suggested Attire: Suits, Tuxedo, Gowns, Dresses

REMINDER There will be a: 50/50 Raffle - buy online during registration or at the door Cash Bar (two complimentary beverage included, seated service only) 24 Carat Champagne Cocktail made specifically to celebrate the evening Liquor, Wine or Beer

Dinner Choices: (choice of 1) Steak Medallions, Garden Salad, Asparagus and Red Potatoes Roasted Chicken, Garden salad, Asparagus and Red Potatoes Spaghetti Squash, Garden Salad, House-Made Marinara and Ciabatta

Pre-registration for this event is required. Do Not wait to make your reservations! *Same day reservations cannot be accepted.

Cancellations must be made by noon Tuesday, March 16, 2021 to avoid charges.