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very couple wants their wedding to be memorable. The goal of planning a wedding is to create an experience that everyone will remember for years to come. For some couples, a theme wedding is the best way to accomplish just that. When it comes time to select a theme, the day the wedding takes place may dictate the theme. For example, if the wedding takes place on Halloween, the ideas for the theme are easy. Many other couples choose a theme that highlights a specific interest or hobby or something that is dear to them. Here are some popular wedding themes.
Theme weddings can add an extra spice to the festivities and incorporate couples’ interests into the event -- making it even more special
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* Holiday: The Christmas season lends itself well to wedding planning. The colors (red, green, gold) are already established, and most churches and buildings are already decked out in holiday finery, cutting down on the amount of flowers and embellishments couples need. Because the holiday season is so busy and a popular time for socializing, couples who want to tie the knot during this time of year should send save-the-date cards well in advance. Another option is to have a "Christmas in July" wedding, featuring the same holiday themes but without the hectic nature of the holiday season. * Vegas: Couples who want to tie the knot in Las Vegas but want to ensure all their loved ones can attend can recreate the magic of Vegas wherever they may be. Casino-inspired games and big buffet meals can make guests feel like they have stepped into a casino on the famed Vegas strip. In addition, an Elvis impersonator is essential to a Vegas wedding. * TV show: Some couples elevate certain television shows to cult status. Whether it's "Friends" or "Star Trek," popular television shows have been transformed into festive wedding themes. Whether the idea is to go daring and exchange vows in costume or simply name reception tables according to characters or show locations, couples can include a little television fun into the event. * Fairytale: Many men and women envision a fairytale wedding complete with horse-drawn carriage and the "happily ever after." This is what makes Disney properties as well as the various castles around the world popular backdrops for wedding events. Those planning a fairytale wedding need only look to favorite stories or movies for their inspiration. * Interest or passion: Love to climb mountains? Avid about scuba diving? Couples who share a particular interest can include elements of this sport or hobby into their wedding. Invitations and decor can hint at the theme, and then special activities can further enhance it. Fish bowls as centerpieces may call to mind underwater adventures, while surfboard-shaped invites may set the scene for a beachside party.
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Colorful Accents
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lmost as long as there have been bridal gowns, white or ivory have been the colors of choice for first-time brides. These light hues represent the purity and innocence of the bride. Although a few brides-to-be choose to forego wedding white for something a bit more flashy -- like pink or yellow gowns -- a popular trend today is to wear gowns with accents of black or other deep colors to add dimension to the white canvas. Considering the groom and groomsmen will be dressed in black tuxedos, black accents on a wedding gown have been growing in popularity and add a formal, regal look to a wedding. Darker color embellishments can add drama to a gown. Another advantage is they can call out pattern or adornments not easily seen on a white-on-white gown. Furthermore, deep colors against the white backdrop of the gown show well in photography, particularly the black-and-white journalistic style that is very trendy as well. Women shopping for bridal gowns who are considering colored accents should be careful that these embellishments are subtle and do not overwhelm the gown -- or the person who will be wearing it! Popular enhancements include appliques on the bodice or the train of the gown. Another idea is to select a white gown and then tie a black bow or sash around the waist or put a lace shrug over bare shoulders. Black-and-white lace gloves are also an option for those who want to add just a little splash of dimension. The same concept can be applied to any accent color. Burgundy or plum colors also work well to add the contrast of dark against light and aren't as extreme as black. Some brides can also opt for a paler, more pastel shade to serve as an accompaniment to the white gown. Many times the accent colors chosen are replicated in the hue of the bridesmaids' gowns, so the entire wedding party looks cohesive. Because the spectacle will be the beauty of the gown, it's best to carry a neutral-colored bouquet in a small size. Or, a blackand-white gown can be accented with a small nosegay of red flowers or roses.
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Tips Many brides-to-be look forward to the day when they visit a bridal salon and are able to try on gowns for the first time. There are certain tips that can make the day go much more smoothly and potentially reduce the amount of time it may take to find the perfect gown. * Wear a supportive, well constructed strapless bra or corset in your correct size. If you will be wearing a petticoat, also have the right size available. * Go without face makeup when trying on gowns so they remain clean.
* Try to wear your hair similar to the style you have in mind for your wedding. * Note that the size of the wedding gown you will wear is typically one to two sizes larger than your day-to-day clothes. Proper measurements can be matched to designers' size charts. * It's best to limit the number of people with whom you shop to 1 or 2 trusted friends or family members. An entourage can be confusing. * It's always better to order a slightly larger gown and leave room for alterations if you are between sizes.
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Ever since Kate Middleton walked down the aisle at Westminster Abbey in her fabulous fitted gown and crystal teardrop earrings, brides everywhere have been emulating her classic, elegant style. Fashion jewelry leader CAROLEE quickly named its popular version of the earring "The Kate" -- and at $32 it's within reach of elegant brides in every price range. "Throughout 2011, brides from Kate Middleton to Hollywood celebrities chose very classic styling for their jewelry," said Jill Maier, Vice President of Design at CAROLEE. "We're with them on that level, and we have an extensive collection of beautiful designer crystal and pearl bridal jewelry to suit the tastes of today's discerning brides." Ms. Maier has these tips for brides who want to look royal -British or American style:
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- Choose crystal and pearl styles that are distinctive yet not overwhelming in scale - Balance the proportions of your earrings and necklace. If your earrings and necklace "match," keep them close in size with each other. Or if you choose major chandelier earrings, scale down your necklace or don't wear one and make the wrist a focal point. - Bracelets are an important bridal accessory, and they look great worn in multiples -- stacks of crystal bangles, mixes of decorative floral pearl and crystal links, or a combination of bangles and links. To find a full range of elegant and affordable bridal jewelry, go to CAROLEE.com. Use code Metro12 and receive 20 percent off your purchase.
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Responsibilities of the groomsman
Happy couples choose friends and family members to serve as attendants in their weddings. Bridesmaids and groomsmen each have different responsibilities in the wedding. In ancient times, groomsmen essentially served as the groom's bodyguards, ensuring that he made it safely to the altar and to his future wife. Today, the groomsmen's roles are not based on saving life and limb. Today's groomsmen serve as assistants to the groom and help plan the bachelor party. They also usher guests down the aisle at the ceremony. They also may have a few other responsibilities, depending on what the couple wants of their assistants.
Before the Wedding * Help pick out the tuxedos and show up for fittings. * Help plan and share the cost of the bachelor party. * Attend rehearsals for the ceremony and appear at the rehearsal dinner. * Pay for their own wedding attire or formal wear rentals. * Help unload cars with supplies if the couple is doing the decorating the wedding themselves. * Pay for their travel expenses and accommodation during the celebration. * Return formal wear for themselves and the groom. * Provide transportation for the couple to the airport or honeymoon destination if the best man is unavailable.
During the Ceremony * Greet and seat guests at the ceremony in the appropriate rows or pews. * Stand near the groom during the ceremony. * Serve as escorts for the bridesmaids at the ceremony. * Cater to anyone's needs and mingle with the guests afterward.
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ver the course of their lifetimes, many people will be wedding guests on several occasions. During the height of wedding season, weddings can run into one another, as the format and the festivities are similar at various ceremonies. Couples interested in setting their nuptials apart may want to enhance the wedding reception with a few unique ideas. Who hasn't attended a wedding that seems formulaic? The couple enters, they do their spotlight dance, there's food, a bouquet toss and then the cake cutting. Guests may actually be able to predict what's coming next. While it is often customary and easy to follow tradition, that doesn't mean you cannot buck with tradition and offer a few creative ideas to make your event stand out. Here are several ideas you can introduce into your wedding to add something special to the reception. * Skip the big entrance. Those who were kind enough to attend the ceremony have already been introduced to the newly minted happy couple. Instead of spending the cocktail hour in the isolation of the wedding suite, mingle with your guests from start to finish. So much time is spent posing for pictures or being out of touch with guests, the cocktail hour can be a great time to sit and chat. Being with guests during the cocktail hour means you don't have to make that big entrance from behind closed doors. Guests will have all eyes on you when you step on the dance floor for your first dance together. * Dance to an upbeat number. Guests are expecting a slow, sappy tune. What they may not expect is an upbeat song that shows you are willing to have a little fun. If you haven't mastered the waltz but enjoy a little quick step now and again, feel free to choose a tune that shows your excitement and love for each other. * Encourage couples to dance together. It's often customary for the bridal party to join the bride and groom on the dance floor midway through the first dance. However, that leaves spouses or significant others waiting in the wings while their dates tango with groomsmen or bridesmaids. Instead, don't have assigned partners. Rather, encourage your bridal party members to dance with whomever they choose. * Swap the garter/bouquet toss for something more
meaningful. If you're part of a couple who feels the garter and bouquet toss has become trite, there are other ways to create special moments in your celebration -- ones that don't single out the singletons who haven't yet found their special someones. Use this time to present a small gift or token of your affection to someone on the guest list who has served as a mentor or source of inspiration. * Choose one special component as an extra goodie for guests. Some couples feel the more they offer the better guests will view their wedding. Spending more money doesn't necessarily mean guests will have a better time. If you want to go above and beyond the ordinary, find one thing that you absolutely love and offer that at the party. It could be a flambe presentation, a chocolate or candy bar, a carving station with your all-time favorite food (even if that's PB&J), or a carnival-inspired automatic photo booth. * Hire a live performer. Although it's hard to beat the performance quality of your wedding song being performed by the original artist, unless you're cousins with Celine Dion, chances are she won't be available to sing "My Heart Will Go On" at your reception. However, a live band adds a certain level of excitement that a disk jockey may not be able to provide. Those who are adding a cultural or ethnic component to their wedding may want to hire a dance troupe or another type of performer, like a bagpiper, as an added measure of entertainment for guests. * Let them eat ... cookies? Some people just don't like cake. Therefore, why should a couple have to cut a seventiered white confection? Towers of different types of treats can be created from just about anything and serve as the perfect backdrop for that classic cake-cutting photo. A pyramid of cream puffs, stacks of brownies, a cookie castle, or cereal-cake concoctions can work. Some bakeries will decorate a "dummy" styrofoam cake, and then you can serve apple pie a la mode, if you desire. * Stage a costume switch. Let's face it, dancing all night in a long gown takes some stamina. As the bride, have a more comfortable cocktail dress available to switch into for the latter part of the reception. It will also add some variety to your wedding photos.
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Before discussing table settings for their weddings, many couples find it helpful to brush up on some floral terminology before visiting florists. It can make you appear more knowledgeable and prepared if you understand what will be discussed and are able to choose what you want. It also helps to ensure your money is being spent in the best way possible. Here are some common and some lesser known florist terms that can be advantageous to know. * Biedermeier: A nosegay arranged tightly with concentric circles of differently colored flowers. The flowers are wired into a holder with only one type of flower in each ring. * Bouquet: A dense bunch of blooms that are kept together in a bouquet holder, wired or tied with ribbon. * Crescent: One full flower and a flowering stem wired together to form a slender handle that is held in one hand. * Garden: A centerpiece featuring wildflowers. * Nosegay: Small, round bouquets composed of densely packed round flowers and fill. *Oasis: Specialized foam that is used in bouquet holders and centerpieces to retain water and keep blooms fresh. * Pomander: A flower-covered ball that is suspended from a ribbon. It is often carried by child attendants. * Posies: Smaller than nosegays but similar in design. * Presentation: A bunch of long-stemmed flowers cradled in the bride's arms. It's sometimes known as a pageant bouquet. * Topiary: Flowers trimmed into geometric shapes. * Tossing: A smaller copy of the bride's bouquet to use in the bouquet toss. * Tussy mussy: A small, metallic holder to carry a posy.
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Wedding Video
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In a financial climate where most people are pinching pennies, it comes as no surprise that many engaged couples seek ways to cut costs with regard to their weddings. The decision to hire a videographer is one such area couples fret over. However, people often find that having a wedding video to cherish long after the day has passed is well worth the price. There are several advantages to hiring a professional videographer to capture the day. A professional video will showcase all moments of the wedding from perspectives not easily captured by photography. In addition to showcasing the images of the wedding, the video will also share the sounds and emotions of the day. Here are some things to think about. * Choose a videographer who will work in conjunction with the wedding mood and parameters.
* The videographer often works in tandem with the photographer. * A videographer will capture the things you may have missed during the busy day. * Although ours is an increasingly digital world where people capture photos and videos on their smartphones and other devices on a regular basis, a wedding video can serve as a family memento. * Sound is a portion of the wedding that photos simply cannot capture. * You can work with a good videographer so it's not simply a video with close-up shots of your face or unflattering perspectives. * There are many things that you will not see at the wedding but may have liked to,. This is where a wedding video can prove invaluable. Although brides and grooms may be cutting costs with regard to their wedding, they may not want to pass on the wedding video.
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First Dance great song ideas
"All I Want is You" (U2)
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f Michael Buble or Nat King Cole aren't on your playlists, chances are you may be looking for a first-dance song that's a little less traditional for your wedding reception. Couples considering a song that's a little different and speaks to them but won't necessarily offend the wedding purists in attendance, might want to consider the following tunes:
"Amazing" (Aerosmith) "Crash" (Dave Matthews Band) "Crazy for You" (Adele) "Faster" (Matt Nathanson) "For You I Will" (Monica)
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"Here Without You" (3 Doors Down) "Kiss Me" (Sixpence None the Richer) "I'll Stand by You" (The Pretenders) "Love Song" (The Cure) "No One" (Alicia Keys) "Nothing Compares to You" (Sinead O'Connor) Krisha Craven Photography
"Suga Suga" (Baby Bash) "Without You" (Rent Soundtrack)
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"You Want to Make a Memory" (Bon Jovi)
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o you have a shelf or cabinet that's filled to the brim with wedding favors such as engraved ice cream scoopers, cake servers, cheese spreaders or tea light candle holders? If you do, you're not alone. As couples pore over guest favor options, many select trinkets or knickknacks that, while thoughtful, end up collecting dust in someone's home. Edible gifts also can be thoughtful -- and flavorful! Guests may look forward to an edible favor because it's a memento of the special occasion and it won't become a permanent fixture in their homes. There are many edible favors from which to choose. They can also be customized according to the theme of the wedding.
Chocolate It's difficult to find an edible favor more universally beloved than chocolate. Rich and inviting, chocolate has long been given as a symbol of love and devotion. Chocolate candies and baked goods can work well for wedding favors, provided the favors are refrigerated to avoid melting. Ideas for chocolate favors include individually packaged truffles, gourmet brownie bites, candy-covered chocolates with an inscription, chocolate covered apples, chocolate coins, and other similar creations. Chocolate molded designs (much like those chocolate Easter bunnies) are another idea. Cookies Sweet cookies also make good edible favors. Butter cookies are a favorite because they are sturdy enough to cut into different shapes. Professionally iced, these cookies can be a masterpiece to behold. Some couples opt for customized fortune cookies that express personalized sentiments to guests. Make-your-own Sometimes it's less expensive to give guests kits that they can take home to create their own edible treasures. Options abound and can include everything from personalized packets of hot chocolate to tea bags. Other couples choose among mixes for making cookies or cakes. Candies It has become popular to have a self-serve candy bar at many weddings. Guests are invited to step up to the display and serve themselves from a series of different confections. Autumn weddings could have Halloween-inspired candies or those in fall hues. It's easy to follow a color theme when you have a bevy of different candies at your disposal. Many discount stores sell inexpensive jars and candy dishes to house the candy. Designer Chinese takeout-type containers are available from craft stores and can be the perfect way for guests to make that candy portable. Other edibles From cupcakes to maple syrup to personalized bottles of barbecue sauce, couples have so many options for guest favors at their disposal.
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fter the thrill of wedding festivities dies down, couples often jet off to a honeymoon retreat and begin an entirely different adventure. The honeymoon may create mixed feelings, some concerning the chance to spend time alone after months of planning and a few feelings of anxiety over spending the first night together as a married couple. For many couples, the honeymoon wedding night is the first time they are intimate together or it holds a special meaning of being intimate for the first time after being married. Such significance can put pressure on a happy and natural experience. Wedding jitters are normal, as are honeymoon and wedding night jitters. But just as wedding trends have changed through the years, so, too, have beliefs about the wedding night. Knowing about shifting trends can alleviate some of the nervousness. According to a recent survey from Brides magazine, one in three brides plan to get into bed on the wedding night and ... sleep. After all of the hoopla of planning and enjoying the wedding, most people are exhausted. Others say they plan to stay up and relive moments of the day. Only about half of all couples think they will consummate the marriage on their wedding night. Taking the pressure off of the wedding night means that the rest of the honeymoon may be filled with opportunities to be amorous. But couples may still be filled with expectations for the perfect romantic retreat. Here are some things to think about.
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* Accept the fact that some wedding nights and honeymoons aren't exactly what's pictured in the movies. Don't try to live up to a Hollywood-inspired ideal or you may be let down when things don't go your way. In other words, it may rain on your beachside liaison. * A wedding requires a lot of work. Many people find themselves to be physically exhausted afterward. Others find they are so wound up that they cannot relax. When the mind or body is on adrenaline overload or completely wiped out, it's not the ideal situation for romantic endeavors. * Try to make the honeymoon stand apart from other nights by packing nice lingerie or nighttime attire so that the memories will be special. There will be plenty of other times down the road when you're an old, married couple to hop between the sheets in a ratty college T-shirt. * Pack some candles and mood music, or ask the resort to handle these details for you. These items can help set the scene. * Make sure your packing list includes special toiletries and birth control methods if you're not ready to start a family so soon after being married. The brands you prefer may be hard to acquire while at some honeymoon locations
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There is a bustle of activity that takes place during prom and graduation season. With so much going on, caution often takes a backseat to other issues. However, it is important to keep safety in mind during prom and graduation season. According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, more than one-third of alcohol related traffic fatalities involving teenagers occur during the peak prom and graduation months of April, May and June. Prom and graduation are times for celebration. Too often festivities include drugs and alcohol, even for teens who are under the legal drinking age. According to data from the 2005 "Monitoring the Future" study, a survey of U.S. youth, three-quarters of 12th graders, more than two-thirds of 10th graders, and about two in every five 8th graders have consumed alcohol. Many of these underage drinkers participate in binge drinking, where five or more drinks are consumed at one time. Apart from alcohol consumption, many teens view prom night as the opportunity to lose their virginity or have sex with their date. Although prom can be an important rite of passage in one's life, it doesn't necessarily mean there has to be a correlation between leaving high school and losing one'svirginity. All too often teen virgins see themselves in the minority during high school, and many view prom night as a chance to join the perceived majority. Although sex can be a pleasurable act, it carries with it inherent risks, including pregnancy, disease, emotional scarring, and even legal issues. Depending on where a teen lives, there can be age of consent laws that restrict individuals from being intimate until a certain age. Those who don't comply risk legal action. Alcohol isn't the only drug of choice popping up at teen social events. Marijuana and cocaine continue to be popular choices, while many other teens are abusing prescription drugs as well. It has become popular to crush and snort pain relief drugs, like oxycodone, to provide a fast high. Instead of meeting up with dealers on the street corner, many teens get their drugs straight out of their parents' medicine cabinets. Alcohol consumption, drug use and sex are three separate concerns on prom night. When teens combine alcohol consumption with drug use and/or sexual behavior, the results can be disasterous. Individuals under the influence of alcohol or drugs cannot make sound judgements. They may engage in risky behavior and regret the decisions when they are sober and things cannot be reversed. High schoolers attending prom should keep a few things in mind to be safe and have a good time. * Don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to do. Mingle with the same friends with whom you feel comfortable and enjoy the night. * Set rules for yourself that include no drinking or drugs. * Team up with a friend so that you can get help from him or her should you get into trouble. * Plan to go home after the prom, not to a hotel room. * Enjoy the night and create lasting positive memories.
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Spare a Prom Budget With an Inexpensive Gown Prom night is supposed to be a rite of passage for high schoolers. However, with prom budgets ranging anywhere from $500 to several thousand dollars, it can turn into a stress-inducing event, especially for the students (and parents) who don't have the money or the desire to spend so much money on one night. There are ways to reduce prom costs without sacrificing style or memories. Certain costs cannot be avoided, like the entry price for the prom party, which could be about $100 per ticket. But there are additional costs associated with the prom that are negotiable. Prom gown costs depend on a host of factors, but young ladies can expect their gowns to cost between $100-500. Such a price tag might be too costly for some, but there are still ways to save. Rentals Young men rent their tuxedos, so there is no reason why a young woman attending the prom shouldn't have the same luxury, especially for a garment that will only be worn once. A quick search online yields a number of services that offer formal gown rentals. A person also may want to visit bridal shops or formal gown stores in the area. Perhaps some of them offer rentals on sample gowns. Gown Swap Every woman who has been a bridesmaid at one or more times in her life has a few gowns tucked away at the back of her closet. With a few minor alterations, chances are those gowns can be put to good use on prom night. Ladies can consult with friends and family members to see what type of bridesmaid gown stock is available, then pick and choose among the best options.
Discount Retailers Certain close-out stores get the overstock of big-name department stores and designers, or items that are one season behind. Considering prom gown styles don't change drastically from year to year, shoppers might find a good deal on a dress at a discounted cost. It just may require a little leg work browsing through the racks. Online Shopping It's easy and less time-consuming to price shop online. Scouring different online retailers can yield an excellent price on gowns that may not be available in the neighborhood store. Just keep in mind the cost of shipping and returns should the gown not fit just right. A smart idea is to try on gowns in the stores nearby and then browse online for the same style number and see if the price can be beat. Sewing Find a family member or friend who can make a gown from a pattern purchased from the fabric store. This allows a prom-goer to select the style, color and fabric for a truly one-of-a-kind creation. With a little ingenuity, young ladies who are attending prom can find a gown for a discounted price and spend their funds on other essentials instead
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Consignment Shops Consignment shops, which offer the sale of gently used items at a reduced cost, can be ideal places to scour deals on gowns and other formal wear. Many consignment shops specialize in designer duds, so it's possible for a shopper to find something off the runway right on the rack.
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High schoolers often find that prom night is the pinnacle of their high school careers. On this special night, many photos will be taken, both professional and amateur. Getting them right can mean the difference between wonderful memories or poor pictures.
Professional Photos Chances are the school hired a photographer to take professional pictures of prom couples. These pictures will be available for purchase and can make a nice addition to a high school scrapbook. In order to ensure the photos come out well, here are some things to consider. * Wear clothing that is timeless so that you're not looking back at the prom picture saying, "What was I thinking?" * Some prom-goers like to make a statement at the event, wearing wacky get-ups that make an entrance or political messages. These over-the-top ensembles can take away from the prom memories. * Ensure ties are straight, jackets are buttoned and, for ladies, the gown covers everything it is supposed to. * Smile at the camera! After all, this is supposed to be a happy night.
Amateur Photos Candid shots from proud family members or friends who are traveling alongside in the limo make up the abundance of prom memory pictures. To get the best shots, consider these factors. * Be sure to know what is in the background of the photo. The best-looking couple can be marred by a busy background or something intrusive, like a lamp that seems to "grow" out of someone's head or a messy room. Select a clean, solid-colored background, such as outdoors in front of hedges. * Watch for light and shadows. Light that is too bright can leave people squinting in the photos. Taking a photo with the light source behind the subjects can cause wash out or blurring. Be aware of how the light casts shadows, which can ruin a photo. Believe it or not, a slightly overcast day can offer the right light for photos and make colors pop. * Don't take full-on body shots, which can make individuals look heavier than they really are. Have couples pose on a 45-degree angle. * Subjects should elongate their necks to avoid the "doublechin"look. While posing might feel funny, it will make for better photos in the long run. * Photographers shouldn't say the requisite, "say cheese." Instead, try to catch subjects off guard so that a genuine expression can be captured instead of a forced smile. * Candid shots are great ways to capture the mood of the night. Use the action setting on the camera, which may increase the shutter speed and be able to snag individuals in motion. Photos remain one of the better ways to capture memories that will last a lifetime after prom. Be sure the photos are the best they can be.
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Whether you already have a date in mind for prom or anticipate being asked in the weeks to come, it's never too early to shop for your prom dress. Few individuals will be able to wear a dress off the rack and have it look beautiful. Therefore, shopping early for a prom gown means you will have ample time to order a dress and have it altered to fit you perfectly -- much as you would if you were a member of a wedding party. Shopping early also gives you the opportunity to price around at various local shops. If you know a seamstress or tailor, you can even have a dress custom made to your specifications. When you're ready to shop for a prom gown, it is beneficial to have a style in mind. Not every dress will flatter your figure. Therefore, keep an open mind as to what you will buy. Make your decision only after trying on a variety of gowns. Prom dress manufacturers often mimic the looks on the runway or red carpet. Keeping a trained eye on the celebrity looks from award shows and movie opening nights can
give you an idea of what is to be expected from prom dress selection. However, that doesn't mean you have to go with what is trendy. If the trends are something that will not flatter your figure, feel free to go with a classic gown.
In terms of flattering, here are some pointers to keep in mind. Curvy, full-figured women can consider empire waisted dresses or those with a drop waist. It'll camouflage curvier areas. Thin or boy-shaped ladies may want a dress with ruching details or poofy ball gowns, which will give the illusion of curves. Hourglass shapes benefit from nippedin waists and strapless, form-fitting creations. Petite ladies should seek out shorter hems and sleeker cuts. Too much fabric can overwhelm a smaller stature. Remember to set a budget when shopping for your prom dress. Unless you have the funds to step into a couture boutique and pay like a celebrity, it's best to have a limit. After all, chances are you will only be wearing this dress once.
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Don't forget items such as the corsage or boutonniere on prom night! Prom night is an opportunity to enjoy yourself and celebrate the friendships you have made over the last four years. Rather than feel stressed on prom night, you should be ready to kick back and relax. In order to do so, consider a little pre-prom planning. It's easy to leave the house without something you need on prom night. You're excited; you may be rushing around. It's likely you are also a bit nervous. Using this checklist can keep you organized and ensure you have what you need for a great night. * prom tickets * corsage or boutonniere for date * house keys * mobile phone * cash, credit card or debit card * tip for the limousine driver * identification * breath fresheners * toiletries and makeup for touch-ups
* bandages, in case of blisters from shoes * extra pantyhose * safety pins/mini sewing kit * directions to restaurants and the prom site * directions to the after party, if any * cab company phone number, for emergencies
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There are many occasions in life when a limousine is a smart mode of transportation. There are certain steps consumers can take when selecting a limo company to ensure they get the quality and price desired. From weddings to prom nights to bachelorette parties, there are several instances when traveling in a limo is a good idea. Limos offer the convenience of transporting a number of people comfortably. When consuming alcohol, limos can be a wise and safe option. From an environmental standpoint, choosing a limo can also be a green choice. Cutting down on the number of cars on the road curbs carbon emissions. Shopping for a limousine service shouldn't mean simply picking a name out of the paper or the local business circular. It's best to comparison shop. It is important to plan well in advance when arranging for limousine service. There are certain peak times of year when they are in high demand. The spring and summer, when it is prom and wedding season, is a busy time of year for limousine companies. If limo shopping is left until the last minute, a person could be stuck with few attractive options, or possibly even face higher rates.
A limousine is a popular mode of transportation on prom night and other special events.
A personal visual inspection is one of the best ways to judge the quality of the limo company's fleet. Be sure to inspect all of the vehicles before making a decision. Vehicles should look updated and clean both inside and out. Select the smallest car for the number of people that will be transported. There is no sense in paying a premium for a larger vehicle if the space won't be needed. Be wary of a company that tries to push the largest, most expensive limo on its customers. Word-of-mouth advertising is often a good way to learn of a company's reputation. Ask friends, family members or past clients of the limo company to offer their impressions on the company. Select the business with the best recommendations. When signing a contract, be sure the limo that was inspected will be the one used for the event. Sometimes larger fleets substitute vehicles. A customer should get what they paid for. If an upgrade is offered, it shouldn't be at the expense of the customer. It is also crucial to read over the contract and be clear on what it covers. This includes the start and stop time of the limo service and how much it will cost if the rental goes beyond the allotted time. A limousine can be a welcome way to get around during any number of life's events. Shopping around for a reputable company that receives good reviews is a way to narrow down the prospects in limo companies.
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