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tips on how to merge finances
reception
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gestures
toasting
energized
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choosing the right wedding favors wedding invitation tip sheet choose a wedding date wisely did you know? tips when toasting a couple how to stay energized through your wedding pointers for purchasing a tuxedo showers continue to break from tradition tips for brides and bridesmades
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newlyweds
Tips on how to merge finances
Newlyweds often have a lot on their plates upon returning from their honeymoons. One of the more critical issues newly married couples must address is their finances and how those finances will be combined going forward. Combining finances can be a touchy subject for many couples, especially those who had not given much thought to their finances prior to tying the knot. But there are steps couples can take to make the process of merging finances go more smoothly. * Discuss finances early and often. Allowing finances to be the elephant in the room is a mistake, as couples do not want to begin their lives together treading lightly around an issue as significant as finances. Couples should discuss their expenditures and spending habits as early as possible, as one of the biggest hurdles newly married couples must clear is coming to grips with one another's financial habits. If such habits have already been discussed, then developing a financial plan will be much easier once that time comes. When discussing finances, define both short-term and long-term goals and how each of you can adjust your spending habits to make those goals come true. * Pay off any debts. The cost of weddings has skyrocketed over the last several decades, and many newlyweds find themselves in a considerable amount of debt upon returning from their honeymoons. When merging finances, couples should prioritize paying down such debt, as debt is a significant source of stress for newlyweds and long-married couples alike. Newly married couples with little or no debt should avoid spending above their means in the months after they get married. Such spending is commonplace, as newly married couples often want to fully furnish their new homes or reward themselves for pulling off their weddings. But new debt can be just as stressful on a marriage as debt from the wedding, so avoid this potentially problematic pitfall by paying down existing debts with your newly merged finances. 4 B r i d e ' s Guide 2 0 1 4
* Make note of mutual expenses and open a joint account to pay for those expenses. Mutual expenses like mortgage payments, food and utilities should be the responsibility of each partner, and a joint account should be established to handle such expenses. When opening a joint account, discuss how much and how often each partner will contribute money. One partner might earn considerably more money than another, so work out a reasonable agreement that details how much each partner will contribute each month, and whether such contributions will be made on a weekly, bi-weekly or monthly basis. * Make concessions for one another. When merging finances, couples often discover that they don't see eye-to-eye on how each person spends money. Couples who successfully merge their finances often note the importance of making concessions with regard to their partners' spending on certain hobbies or luxuries. As long as those hobbies are not putting couples in debt or jeopardizing their financial goals, couples can make concessions so their partners continue to be happy and enjoy their favorite activities. Merging finances is an issue that looms for many newlyweds or couples about to tie the knot. Though it's not always easy, merging finances early and discussing goals can ensure newlyweds get off on the right financial foot.
Choosing the right wedding favors
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Be creative Wedding favors can be just about anything, so there's no need to stick to Jordan almonds or wine bottle stoppers. The more creative couples are, the more receptive their guests will likely be. For example, for an autumn-theme wedding, fill mason jars with the ingredients for a spiced cake and give the recipe directions on a tag. For a summer wedding, gift guests with a sun and surf survival bag, full of sunblock, a beach towel and sunglasses.
Planning a perfect wedding is no small undertaking. From scheduling venues and hiring vendors to tasting menus, lots of decisions must be made when planning a wedding. But when the pieces fall into place, the entire day can be magical. One of the final components of weddings are the favors guests will take home with them as mementos of the festivities. Though favors don't require immediate attention, that does not mean couples should wait until the last minute to made decisions regarding their wedding favors. Brides- and grooms-to-be should not underestimate the importance of handing out wedding favors, a tradition with a rich history. A wedding favor is considered a symbol of good will to guests, and there are many different wedding favors on the market. Finding the right one can take a little work. It is usually a good idea to find something that suits the theme of the wedding and is both long-lasting and practical. Try to avoid anything that is too kitschy. A couple's budget should be considered when choosing wedding favors. A couple may want to give their guests lavish gifts but should only do so if their budget allows. It may be challenging for couples to find favors that fit the theme of their wedding, as well as their own personalities and budgets. But it can be done. The following are some favor-finding guidelines.
Complete the theme Some weddings follow a particular theme from start to finish, and wedding favors should stick with that theme. Couples who will showcase their love of travel on their wedding days may want to give guests keychains or purse holders that feature popular landmarks around the world. Those who are admitted beach bums may want to present a small fishbowl with sand and a goldfish inside, reminiscent of days at the seashore. Go traditional Couples who opt for universally appealing favors can lean toward some popular options, such as silver cake servers, candlestick holders, decorative photo frames, or engraved keepsake boxes. Aim for favors that have utility. Otherwise, favors may end up collecting dust on someone's shelf. Food and beverage gifts are fun Food favors mean guests can enjoy their gifts and not have to worry about finding space inside their homes to display trinkets. Food favors can be lavishly decorated cookies, fine chocolates, petit fours, small bottles of champagne or cupcakes decorated like the wedding cake. Favors are often integral to wedding celebrations. Selecting a favor that will be appreciated and fit with the wedding is often a fun and stress-free part of planning a wedding.
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wedding invitation tip sheet
Wedding invitations often provide guests with a first they cannot read the writing on the invitation. glimpse of a wedding's style. Invitations also may * Keep the invitation simple. It may be tempting to serve as the means by which distant friends and load the invitation with lots of information, but all you relatives find out about a couple's pending nuptials if really need are the key pieces of information, such a formal announcement was not made. as the "who," "what," "where," and "when." Amid the flourishes of calligraphy and impressive * Do some math. It is important to know your dates paper stock is information that speaks to the so you can receive the invitations on time, mail them importance of the day when two people will be joining out, and give guests enough time to respond. A good their lives together. Guests will learn not only the rule of thumb is to mail out the invitations at least time and the place of the wedding from the invitation, two months before the wedding. but also the formality of the event and the scope of * Handwrite the envelopes. Your invitation will look the party that will follow. more impressive if you address them by hand, rather Couples should keep certain things in mind as they than printing them off of a computer. begin to design their wedding invitations. * Always order extra. Mistakes happen, and you * Have a good idea of your potential guest list. may need to send out a few extra invitations that you Before shopping for wedding invitations, it is key hadn't originally counted. to have a strong idea of just how big the wedding will be and how many guests will be invited. This way you will know how many invitations you will need. Invitations vary in price, so cost may be a consideration if your guest list is extensive. * Decide on the formality of the wedding. Will you be hosting a black tie affair, or will it be a casual gathering at the shore? Guests infer many things about the wedding from the invitations, which Party, Shower & Keepsake Memory Albums should match the formality of the event in style Wedding Invitations and Wedding Guestbooks and the sentiments expressed. An ornate invitation Uniquely Designed & Printed in our Store written with classic wording suggests a more formal Vera Bradley Makes Perfect affair, while a whimsical invitation with less formal Bridesmaids’ Gifts wording could indicate a more laid-back event. * Dare to be different by playing with invitation sizes and shapes. Rectangular cards are standard for wedding invitations, but you can explore your creativity by choosing more modern, artsy invitations. Always have the entire wedding invitation weighed and priced at the post office so you will know what the postage will cost. * Choose a legible font and text color. Your invitation may look beautiful, but it may prove ineffective if it is difficult to read. Do not risk guests misinterpreting the date or the location because Statesboro Mall • 764-3525
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Choose a wedding date wisely Many couples find themselves bombarded with questions the moment they become engaged, and perhaps no questions is more common than, "When is the wedding?" Although a number of couples would prefer to bask in the excitement of their engagement, some couples feel pressured to rush into picking a wedding date. Choosing a wedding date without giving it much consideration may make things more difficult down the road. Rather than jumping head first into any decisions, couples should give thought to any and all dates and decide if there are certain times of the year they want to tie the knot or avoid. Season When thinking about potential wedding dates, it helps to have a place to start. Some couples find it helpful to start with a particular season and then narrow it down from there. Decide if you prefer the lush
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greenery of summer or the amazing color spectrum of an autumn afternoon. Month Certain months may seem perfect, but not for busy professionals or those with limited vacation time at their disposal. For example, early spring may not be good for accountants tallying year-end numbers. Teachers may feel most comfortable tying the knot in the summer when they already have days off. Holidays Some people would like to tie their wedding day to a particular holiday. Valentine's Day is popular for weddings thanks to the romantic sentiments synonymous with the holiday, while some couples prefer Halloween or Christmas weddings. Holiday weddings can be exciting, but they also produce significant obstacles that couples who choose to get married during other times of year don't have to worry about. Day of the week It's less expensive for couples to get married on Fridays and Sundays than Saturday afternoons or evenings. Couples may think that the money saved will be well worth it, but they also should think about how this decision may affect their guests. A Friday wedding requires people to take off from work or school. Sunday weddings may be slightly more convenient, but those who have to get back to work on Monday may be tired from late-night festivities. Religious constraints Couples having religious ceremonies should consult with their houses of worship as to which dates are acceptable. It is wise to consult with a church, synagogue or mosque before booking any other components of the wedding so that you are certain your chosen day is acceptable. Any available dates Your wedding date may be dictated by your caterer or wedding hall. If you have a particular venue in mind, you may be limited by their availability.
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gestures
Did you know?
Symbolic gestures are commonplace during wedding ceremonies. The exchange of rings, stomping on a glass and lighting of candles are each among the various traditions associated with different faiths. Couples who would like to try something a bit different can opt for pouring sand. Choose two different colored sands and decorative vessels that can hold the sand until a special time in the ceremony. You also will need another large, clear container that will contain the sand once it is poured. A glass vase or heart-shaped vessel works well. To symbolize the joining of two lives together, both the bride and groom can take one of the colors of sand and begin pouring them together into the larger container. The ribbons of sand will join and meld together, much as the couple's separate lives will now become one. The finished sand art can be kept on a mantle as a remembrance of the wedding day for years to come.
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Tips when toasting the couple Toasting the bride and groom at a wedding reception is a responsibility that typically falls on the shoulders of the bride's father as well as the best man and the maid of honor. Though it is an honor to give a wedding toast, it also can be nerve-wracking, as no one wants to give a toast that's memorable for all the wrong reasons. While the best toasts are often those that veer off the beaten path, coming from the heart rather than from a how-to guide found on the Internet, there is a certain formula men and women can follow to ensure their toasts cover all of the appropriate bases without offending the bridal party or fellow guests. * Acknowledge the guests. Families are more geographically diverse than ever before, so more and more weddings host guests who come from far and wide to celebrate with happy couples on their wedding days. It's customary for men and women making wedding toasts to acknowledge the guests, thanking them for being there. This is often a great way for best men and maids of honor to break the ice and calm their nerves, especially at larger weddings where they may only know a small percentage of the guests. * Explain your relationship to the bride and/or groom. Best men and maids of honor should devote a portion of their toasts to explaining their personal
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relationships with the bride and/or groom. Introduce yourself and explain how you met the bride or groom. * Aim for a jovial toast. Wedding toasts are typically given at the wedding reception, when guests and the bridal party are ready to celebrate. Such an atmosphere lends itself to a jovial toast wherein best men and maids of honor focus on happy times with the bride and groom. Tell a funny anecdote that illustrates the special bond you have with the bride or groom. When choosing a story to tell, remember to keep things appropriate for guests of all ages, including young children. * Steer clear of alcohol before giving your toast. Many people overindulge in alcohol at wedding receptions, but best men and maids of honor should avoid consuming alcohol until after they have toasted the bride and groom. Horror stories about drunken, inappropriate wedding toasts may seem more like an urban legend than a legitimate possibility, but the tendency for alcohol to lower people's inhibitions makes it dangerous for men and women to consume it before giving their toasts. * Give your best wishes to the bride and groom before raising your glass. Raising your glass to toast the bride and groom is often the last step before your toasting duties officially end. But before you raise your glass, remember to offer your best wishes to both the bride and groom. Once those sentiments have been expressed, ask the guests to raise their glasses and toast the newlyweds. Toasting happy couples at their wedding receptions can be stressful for best men and maids of honor who are unaccustomed to speaking in front of large groups of people. But following a certain formula and speaking from the heart will ensure such toasts go off without a hitch.
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energized
How to stay energized through your wedding day
A couple's wedding day is the culmination of months and months of planning. For most, it is one of the most memorable, magical days of their lives, filled with fond moments of time spent with close friends and family. As enjoyable as a wedding can be, most brides and grooms who have already tied the knot can attest that a wedding is a long, often tiring day. It is very easy for energy levels to wane. To ensure you have enough energy to last through to the final good-bye of the evening, follow these suggestions to remain energized. * Recognize your wedding day is a very long day. It's possible to rise quite early in the morning to begin prepping with makeup, hair styles, wardrobe and more. If the party is an evening reception, it could last until the wee hours of the morning. You may find yourself up for nearly 24 hours, when the cameras will be flashing and the video rolling throughout. Naturally, you'll want to look your best throughout. * Get a good night's sleep the night before. Get to bed early the night before so you will get ample sleep and look rested. It is understandable that nerves and excitement may get the best of you and make it difficult to fall asleep. If you often grow anxious and struggle to fall asleep before big events, talk to your doctor prior to the wedding to ask if you can be prescribed a onetime-only sleeping pill that will ensure you get to sleep promptly. Do not take this medication with
alcohol, and be sure to take it only if you can get a full 7 to 8 hours of sleep. Otherwise you may experience medicine hangover. * Enjoy a hearty breakfast. At breakfast on the morning of your wedding, consume a combination of carbohydrates and protein. The carbs will provide the initial burst of energy you need to get going, and the protein will keep you feeling full. A combination of whole wheat toast, fresh fruit and Greek yogurt makes for a filling start to the day. * Stay hydrated. Although drinking a lot of water can result in more frequent trips to the bathroom -- which can be cumbersome for brides wearing their gowns -- it is essential to stay hydrated. Dehydration can result in headaches, weakness and dizziness and may make you feel cranky. Be sure to consume water throughout the day.
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* Pack some snacks. The time between breakfast and the cocktail hour of a wedding may be significant. In your wedding "survival" kit, be sure to pack some easy snacks to eat. Trail mix can be nibbled for a boost of energy, and a banana can take the edge off of hunger pangs. Avoid anything messy that can drip onto clothing or get stuck in your teeth. Arrange to have snacks stowed in the limousine or another mode of transportation so that you can refuel on the way to the ceremony or in transit to the reception. * Don't overdo it with caffeine. It may be tempting to lean on an energy drink or a super-size cup of coffee to give
you the boost you need. But caffeine is only a temporary fix. After the effects of the caffeine wear off, you could find yourself more tired than before and crash at an inopportune time during the day. Instead, a brisk walk outdoors may recharge your batteries. Afterward, time spent on the dance floor enjoying the reception will likely stimulate some adrenaline to keep you going. * Eat dinner. When family is beckoning and the photographer needs to get yet another pose, it is easy to skip dinner. Be firm with your decision to enjoy your meal. After all, you paid for it and it should not go to waste. Besides, sitting down to dinner enables you to rest and absorb the atmosphere of the wedding. * Continue to drink plenty of water throughout the night. Alcoholic beverages may be flowing, but too many spirits can compromise your energy levels. Be sure to balance the booze with hydrating fluids, such as water or juice. Weddings take up the entire day, and it can be easy to succumb to a lack of energy as the day progresses. But by heeding a few tips, it's possible to remain in top form throughout the entire wedding day
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tuxedo
Pointers for purchasing a tuxedo
Gentlemen getting ready to tie the knot will have to make certain wardrobe choices so they look their best on their big day. Although many grooms-to-be rent tuxedos on their wedding day, it may be more cost-effective to purchase a tuxedo. Tuxedos are the ultimate formal wear for men. Worn at formal gatherings like proms, weddings and lavish parties, tuxedos have undergone several style changes over the years. Men interested in looking polished will find no option makes that impression more convincingly than the right tuxedo. Men frequently called upon to attend formal events may find purchasing a tuxedo is a wise investment. There are several advantages to owning a tux rather than renting one time and again. Tuxedos typically cost around $1,000, whereas renting tuxedos can be $200 or more each time, making it advantageous for men who frequently don tuxedos to purchase their own rather than rent. Another advantage to owning a tuxedo is the opportunity to wear a tux that is custom-made and tailored just for you. Instead of a rental that will merely be stitched temporarily to fit your measurements, a tuxedo you purchase will be tailored specifically to your body, increasing comfort and making you look better as well. Men who buy their own tuxedos also can choose the style, fabric, color, buttons, accessories, and type of lapels on the jacket. A tuxedo store may have more styles available for sale than for rent. If you desire something that fits your personality and your physique perfectly, buying your own tuxedo may be your best bet. Men worried about purchasing a tuxedo only to see their waistlines increase or decrease should keep in mind that many tuxedo shops offer free tailoring for as long as you own the tuxedo. When purchasing a tuxedo, men should choose classic styles and colors so they can enjoy the tux for years to come. Opt for a slim-fitting white shirt underneath that won't billow out when jackets are
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removed. Men who want to break from tradition can opt for a shirt that is a pale blue or light gray to wear under the jacket. This is still an understated look, but one with a hint of creativity. A classic, black bow tie is an ideal match when purchasing a more classic tuxedo. The bow tie is back in a big way, and men who want to spice things up can purchase more traditional neckties for those occasions when they don't want to wear bow ties. Tuxedos come with different lapel styles, and it's important to know the differences. Today's most popular style is the notch lapel, wherein a triangular indentation is cut where the lapel joins the collar. This lapel mimics the shape of a classic suit. A peak lapel is the quintessential classic, featuring a broad, V-shaped lapel that points up and out just below the collar line. A shawl lapel is a smooth, rounded edge lapel. The shawl lapel reached the height of its popularity in the 1950s, but it can still look good today
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they continue to break from tradition Rain showers on a wedding day may bring good luck, but they are seldom coveted. However, a different type of shower altogether is often highly anticipated and can help couples feel like they're one in a million. Wedding showers are gift-giving parties held for couples about to get married. The custom began in the nineteenth century and continues to present day, primarily in North America and Australia. Guests traditionally "shower" the bride-to-be with all the necessities (and some fun extras) that she will need after she ties the knot. Bridal showers are steeped in tradition, but today's bridal showers continue to veer off the beaten path. Nowadays, bridal showers feature fun and games much like a party having nothing to do with a wedding. TheKnot.com, a website that aims to help couples plan their weddings and all the events leading up to the big day, identifies these key trends in modern bridal showers. * Couples' showers: Modern couples who like to be all-inclusive are now planning bridal showers that cater to mixed audiences. Dubbed a "couple shower," these parties include female and male friends and relatives. Gifts are still the main focus of the event, but they're varied and include guy-friendly items within the mix of household goods. * Power showers: Many are familiar with the terms "man cave" and "bromance," but few may know that there are now wedding showers geared entirely around the groom. Known as "power showers," these events focus on the groom-to-be, who is showered
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with a bevy of gadgets and power tools that are certain to stock his future garage. The parties are decidedly more testosterone-friendly and can include golf outings, poker nights or action movie flicks as possible themes. * Destination/activity showers: Rather than having guests hang around a restaurant watching gift after gift get unwrapped, some bridal parties opt to throw an activity shower. These showers are focused around a particular activity. For example, ladies may be treated to a day at the spa. Other ideas include horseback riding at a stable or a day at the ballpark. Because hosting an activity shower for dozens of people may get expensive, these types of showers may be reserved for only your closest friends and family members. * Bride-involved showers: The idea of walking into a room and being surprised by friends and family members is appealing to some brides-to-be but not everyone. Some brides prefer not to be surprised by a shower and actually would like to have a role in the planning of the party. However, this is delicate ground on which to tread, considering there may be differences over where the party is held and even the overall experience of the party. These type of showers should be discussed before any plans are made, and tasks should be delegated in accordance with those plans. It is customary for a bridal shower to take place before a wedding. But new trends have emerged that are shaking up the way showers are planned and held.
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makeup
tips for brides and bridesmaids
Few events are more photographed than weddings. Needless to say, wedding participants, from brides and grooms to the couples' parents, hope to look their best for the celebrations. Women often find that well applied cosmetics can enhance their beauty and help ensure they are picture-perfect. The key to wedding makeup is finding a balance between application that will come across well in person and will look good in photographs. Very often the key to wedding makeup is simplicity. Brides want their best features enhanced and have the makeup add to their beauty rather than outshine it. * Begin preparations a few days prior to the wedding. If you will be enhancing your skin color with a spraytan, do so at least two days prior to the wedding. By the third day the color will set and appear more natural. The same idea applies to your brows. Tweezing, waxing and threading can create irritation and redness. Have your brows professionally shaped a few days before the wedding and then do a minor touch-up with your tweezer the night before. * Start out with well hydrated and moisturized skin. Apply a few layers of moisturizer, preferably one with an SPF if you will be spending time out in the sun. When the moisturizer is completely absorbed and dry, use a skin priming product that will help keep your foundation locked into place. * Match your foundation color to your natural skin color. When these colors don't match, your face may look like it is a separate shade from your neck and decolletage. If you will be tanning, then find a shade that matches the tanned color. * Apply concealer to red spots or undereye circles after the foundation. Aim for a creamy, emollient concealer for under the eyes. A peach color that will contrast with the purple and blue tones of your eyelids. * Use an eyebrow pencil or powder to fill in your brows. This is a must for your wedding day and can really help to frame your eyes. Use small, light flicks of
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the pencil rather than long strokes to make the color blend naturally. Use a brush to blend in further. * Complement your lips and eyes. Many brides like to play up their eyes on their wedding days. If you are going for a dramatic eye, opt for a more neutral lip, and vice versa. Neutral colors look best for weddings and will not appear dated in photos. Stick to subtle browns and taupes for universal flattery on most eye colors. * Apply liner before mascara, and blend it with a brush. Push the liner into the lashline to make lashes appear thicker. Use mascara to lengthen lashes. Place a makeup sponge behind your lashes when applying mascara so you don't risk hitting your lids with the mascara wand. If you will be using false lashes, apply them now. * Be subtle with blush. Use subtle blush in a peachpink color to achieve that blushing bride appearance. Smile and apply the blush only to the apples of your cheeks. * Choose a long-lasting lip color that will hold up through kisses and smiles. Lip stains work very well, as they provide that hint of color but wear well during the day.
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Please print clearly. Mr. & Mrs. _________________________________ of _____________________ announce the engagement of their daughter, _____________________________ of _____________________ to _______________________________________, son of Mr. & Mrs. __________________________________________________. The bride-elect is the granddaughter of _________________________________. She is the great-granddaughter of _____________________________________. List education, employment and other, if desired: ________________________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________ The groom-elect is the grandson of __________________________________________________________. He is the great-grandson of ________________________________________________________________. List education, employment and other, if desired: ________________________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________ The couple has planned to wed on: Date _____________ Time:______________ Place: _______________ Do you want the announcement to read “No local invitations will be sent; friends and relatives are invited�? (YES) (NO) Please include your name, address and daytime phone numbers so we may reach you with any questions: Name: _____________________________________ Address: _____________________________________ Daytime phone(s): ___________________________ Please complete this form and return to the Statesboro Herald office, or mail to: The Statesboro Herald, P.O. Box 888, Statesboro, GA 30459. Announcements may also be e-mailed to rward@statesboroherald.com as long as this form is used as a guide for the information submitted. If you have any questions, call (912) 489-9400 or (888)764-9031. Photographs, color or black & white, are included in the cost. Photos should be at least 4 inches wide for best print quality. If e-mailed, photos should be in .jpg format. NOTE: Photos should be picked up as soon as possible. B r i d e ' s Guide 2 0 1 4 15
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Expert makeup and beauty tips for prom Unlike Drew Barrymore's character Josie Geller in the movie "Never Been Kissed," most people do not get a prom night do-over. Prom is a most magical night for high school students. For young women, prom may be the first opportunity to embrace high fashion and pamper themselves. * Moisturize and treat blemishes to get skin looking its best. Start a skincare regimen several weeks before prom to get your skin in shape and looking beautiful. Exfoliation with a mild product will release dead skin cells and enable makeup to better adhere to your face. * Simple is often best. Rather than trying out a trendy style or something that is bold, keep makeup choices simple. This way when you look back on photos in years to come your look will always seem timeless. * Balance colors on your face. If you will be going for dark eyes, keep lips bare or with a soft gloss. Bold, red lips pair well with simple eyes decked in a neutral color. * Brighten or widen eyes. Using a shimmery white powder in the corners of each eye will open up your eyes and make you appear more refreshed. * Use primers. Primers are products that help make makeup last as long as possible. Several hours will pass between the moment you apply makeup and the last good-bye of the night. Ensure your makeup stays put by applying a base primer. An eye primer helps keep eye makeup from caking or wearing off. * Go waterproof. Use waterproof or water-resistant mascara and stay-put lipstick. This way your makeup will remain flawless through all the happy tears and hugs shared with your classmates. * Match your foundation carefully. Many women make the mistake of choosing a foundation color that doesn't quite blend with their skin. Blend the foundation down the neck so that your face will not be a different color from your body when wearing a strapless gown. * Try a tinted moisturizer. Those who have a naturally flawless complexion and want a dewy look to their skin can choose a tinted moisturizer instead of a foundation. * Go for powdered products. Powder blusher and mineral powder foundation may last longer on skin, especially when sweating. After makeup application, also dust the face with a translucent finishing powder to set everything.
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* Use liquid liner for dramatic eyes. Liquid eyeliner will last longer and provide a smoother application than pencil products. Practice before prom to solidify your application technique. * Skip tanning. Use a bronzer or self-tanner for a safer and more controllable color. You want to look sun-kissed and not lobster red on prom night. When applying bronzer, sweep it across the hollow of your cheeks. * Matte makeup is better for photos. Matte makeup generally looks better in photography than frosted colors, especially when the flashes will be going rapid-fire. * Compliment your eye color. Don't match your eye shadow to your gown or eyes. Use colors that will naturally bring out the hue of your eyes. * Smokey eyes need not be black or gray. Create the smoky effect with the shadow and liner colors that complement your eye color. * Touch up shiny spots. Keep oil blotting tissues in your purse to keep shine at bay. * Extend the beauty to nails and toes. Sparkle polishes and nail art appliques are ideal ways to dress up nails for prom. Glitter will catch the light and will camouflage imperfections. Prom is a time to explore all the beauty options available and look beautiful on this special night.
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Teens have many transportation options for prom Those who tuned into the 2013 Super Bowl saw the debut of a prom-themed Audi commercial during the game. In the spot, a teenager was insecure about attending the prom without a date but experienced a surge in confidence after his dad allowed him to borrow the new Audi S6 for the night. The teen's bravery peaked when he entered the prom and planted a kiss on the Prom Queen. Limousines have long been a go-to option for teens
attending the prom, with students splitting the cost of the ride. But there are other ways to make it to the prom in style. * Party bus: A party bus can transport more people than the average limousine. Increasingly popular at weddings and bachelor parties, party buses can also be a sensible choice for traveling to prom. Depending on the size of the bus, 20 or more people may fit inside. Party bus packages typically come with lights, music and some refreshments. A party bus enables teens to stand up and mingle with friends and fellow revelers. * Limousine: Limousines are the most common form of prom transportation. Several prom-goers can fit comfortably inside, and limos are a smart choice since they enable a number of people to split the cost of the ride. If you want to make a statement, you can select among limousines built off the body of an SUV, such as a Hummer or Escalade. * Classic car: Inquire with rental companies about taking a classic car to the prom. Since many rental companies won't rent to teenagers, you will likely need to enlist a responsible adult driver to get behind the wheel. If the prom is being geared around a specific theme or era, arriving in a car that fits with that theme might be fun. * Horse-drawn carriage: The prom is a fairytale experience for some teens, so why not arrive at the venue just like royalty? Find out if there are any carriage companies in your area and make a reservation early on. * Yellow cab: A classic yellow taxi will be a show-stopper when arriving at prom night. Some taxi companies have yellow cabs in their fleets. Call ahead and secure one to arrive in urban style. * Sports car: A sports car is a stylish way to arrive at the prom, and it can be inexpensive if Mom or Dad already own one and are willing to loan their teen the keys. Arriving to the prom in style doesn't necessarily mean renting a limousine. There are many other options available to creative teens.
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Dateless for prom need not be a downer
High-schoolers envision many different scenarios for prom night. They may have their wardrobe picked out, the transportation arranged and the group of friends with whom they will celebrate. What prom-goers may not foresee is heading to the prom without a date. The reality is that students go solo to the prom each year and still have a very good time in the process. Prom is a highlight of high school for many teenagers. But a great deal of pressure is placed on students come prom night, when students' worries about their attire pale in comparison to the social pressure many feel. Many would-be prom goers would prefer to go without a date to alleviate some of the pressure to live up to certain prom night expectations. Today it is quite common for groups of friends to go to prom or homecoming together. For students attending the prom without a date, there are still ways to enjoy the event to the fullest. These are some tips for having fun at prom if you're going stag. * Establish a party within a party. Use the prom as an excuse to hold a singles mixer. Spread the word that there will be opportunities for other singletons to meet at the prom and perhaps pair off if a connection is made. There are likely many other boys and girls at the school who are 20
attending the prom without a date, making prom night a perfect opportunity to meet someone new. Knowing there will be a new group of friends to meet once they arrive could motivate students to attend. * Take a friend. Provided the school doesn't have strict rules about prom "couples," bring whatever friend you want to be your prom "date." You are likely to feel much more comfortable with someone you know by your side hamming it up for photographs and making sure you don't share all of your secret dance moves on the dance floor. * Sibling set-up. Sometimes a well-meaning brother or sister can suggest one of his or her friends to be a date for the prom. Older siblings who have already gone through the ritual of prom and understand the pressure of finding a date may alleviate those concerns by making a match for their teenaged relative. The date needn't be a romantic one, but just a way to spend time together and pose for pictures. * Take to social media. Social media has enabled teens to expand their social circles regardless of geography. Ask a social media friend who might live outside of your school district to be your date for the prom. This can be a great way to grow your friendship and have a fun night together.
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Simple ways to cut prom costs The costs of attending the prom can start to pile up pretty fast. For cost-conscious parents and teens, a little relief from those mounting costs can go a long way toward ensuring the night is still magical but not a budget-buster. Finding ways to save money come prom season can be simple, and the following are a handful of ways parents and teens can make such a memorable night more affordable. * Rent your gown. Guys rent their tuxedos for the prom, and gals can follow suit by renting their gowns for the night. Many stores rent gowns, and since teens likely won't wear the gown ever again, renting is more practical than spending hundreds of dollars on a dress that's destined for the closet once prom night has come and gone. * Borrow your accessories. Guys and gals can save money on accessories by borrowing certain items from Mom and Dad and other relatives. For the guys, in lieu of purchasing a fancy wristwatch or set of cuff links for the night, borrow Dad's items instead. Girls can borrow a necklace or earrings from their mother, grandmother or an older sibling. Buying accessories like jewelry for the night can be very expensive while borrowing such items is free. And none of your friends will ever know the difference. * Split the cost of a limo or take Mom or Dad's car to the prom. Renting a limousine is considered a prom night tradition, so teens who must have a limo can split the cost with as many friends as possible to save some money. If a limo is beyond your budget, you can have just as much fun without the limo by borrowing Mom and Dad's car. You
can still head to the prom with friends if you borrow a car instead of renting a limousine, especially if Mom or Dad happens to drive a minivan. * Take your own photos. Many of today's teens have their own smartphones, which may come with a high definition camera built in. These cameras are capable of taking great photos, which can save teens and their parents money on the cost of potentially costly photography. You can still order a photography package if you want some professional quality photos, but choose a smaller package and leave the rest of the night's photography up to you and your friends. * Attend an affordable after party. Some schools host their own prom after parties at the school itself, and such parties are free or cost very little money. Such after parties are a fun and safe way to end the night, and they won't break the bank like a costly hotel room, either. If your school does not host a post-prom gathering, head home at the end of the night or plan an after party with friends at one of your houses. You will still end the night with a few laughs, but you'll also end it with a few more bucks in your pocket.
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Special events in a person's life are often made more beautiful with flowers. Such is the case prom night, when it is customary for couples attending the prom to exchange flowers with each other. These are usually presented in the form of corsages and boutonnieres. A corsage is a single flower or several small flowers worn pinned to clothing or attached to an elastic band worn on the wrist. The flowers should appear with the stem facing down, just as the flowers would grow
naturally. Boutonnieres are a single flower or bud worn by a gentleman. The name is French and comes from the word "buttonhole." Boutonnieres can be tucked into a buttonhole on the lapel or pinned in place. Certain flowers, such as carnations and roses, are traditionally used as boutonnieres. A white gardenia is sometimes seen as superior to the carnation. Corsage flowers are often varied and are usually selected to coordinate with the color of the gown being worn. Corsages and boutonnieres can match so others can easily identify couples.
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