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VERN KAPPES, A multi-talented athlete

BY JACK PEARSON

Caricature by Gene Haas

What we have for you here is a most intriguing tale about an 84-year-old gentleman who has enjoyed a lengthy and remarkably varied athletic career. His name is Vern Kappes. He has lived in West Allis all his life, with the exception of a few years in the service. Since the death of his beloved wife Marilyn ten years ago, he’s resided in the Village at Manor Park Apartments in West Allis.

Vern is a highly gregarious individual; one of those rare beings whom everyone likes. He’s fit as a fiddle and has a great outlook on life; what better attributes could you look for in someone in his ninth decade? One of the essential ingredients in his sports related endeavors was speed. So before we get

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Milwaukee County Senior Centers: “Politics, Money and Priorities”

AGING ISSUES

By Tom Frazier

“That’s all it is-politics, money and priorities” concluded Jim Kimble, an active member of the Washington Park Senior Center, expressing his concern about recent budget cuts enacted by the County Executive and the Milwaukee County Board of Supervisors. I talked with Jim recently at the Washington Park Senior Center and he was clearly frustrated by

the cuts to Senior Centers in the 2018 county budget. His frustration was compounded by his failure to understand why key people didn’t come out to meet and talk with older adults to ask them what could be done to address the issues. He said that he had asked Milwaukee County Department on Aging staff to hold Commission on Aging meetings at Washington Park

since it was centrally located but had not received a response. He doesn’t understand why there is a reluctance to “get everyone together to figure out how to save them [Senior Centers].” I believe he is onto something.

BACKGROUND

Last month I reported that the Milwaukee County Executive had FRAZIER continued on page 36

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Age 50+? You may be at risk for AMD vision loss

by Cheryl L. Dejewski

Warning Signs

Age-related macular degeneration (AMD) is the leading cause of central vision loss in Americans over age 50— profoundly impacting quality of life and independence. The team at Eye Care Specialists explains how prompt diagnosis and advanced treatment are vital to protecting and preserving vision.

AMD usually develops gradually and painlessly, and good vision in one eye can mask problems in the other. As it progresses, however, you may notice: ■ Difficulty reading or doing close

work ■ Distortion of colors, sizes, and details ■ Blurriness of faces, clocks and words ■ Edges and lines are bent or wavy ■ Blind spots (dark or empty spaces) in the center of vision If you have any of these symptoms, call to schedule a comprehensive eye exam.

What is AMD?

“AMD is an eye disease in which the macula (a highly sensitive area of the retina) becomes damaged causing loss of straight-ahead central vision (as needed for driving a car, reading fine print and recognizing faces),” explains Mark Freedman, MD, one of the state’s leading ophthalmologists and continuing education lecturers. “‘Dry’ AMD is more common (90% of cases), tends to progress slowly, and be less severe. ‘Wet’ AMD is less common, but can progress quickly and cause profound loss of central vision.

Without treatment, 70% of wet AMD patients become legally blind within two years.”

n Race: Being Caucasian raises risk

and low in fat and sugar, and NOT smoking (which raises risk 2-5 times). And, we have patients use a simple effective paper AMD damages central vision, causing difficulty with seeing clocks, signs, Amsler Grid to easily check their eyes at faces and words, as well as distortion of lines, colors, sizes and edges. home,” says Michael Raciti, MD, a surgeon who treats all eye conditions. percent,” says Daniel Ferguson, MD, tials from Harvard and Johns Hopkins.

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"People age 50-plus should have a thor“AMD patients can stay independent ough dilated eye exam every two years (These injections are also successful for and productive by following their eye to check for AMD and other hidden treating diabetes-related vision damage.) care specialist’s treatment plan, utilizing conditions, like glaucoma. If you notice Prevention low vision aids (handheld and closed cirwarning signs, schedule a comprehensive "Sight-robbing conditions often go cuit TV magnifiers, telescopic devices, eye exam immediately to determine the undetected and untreated because they talking books, etc.), contacting support/ presence, type and severity of AMD and develop gradually in one eye and good transport services, and learning new ways whether or not treatment would help.” vision in the other eye masks the probto perform activities,” reports “We also encourage wearing sunglasses, lem,” explains Daniel Paskowitz, MD, David Scheidt, OD, an eating a diet high in healthy nutrients PhD, an eye care specialist with credenoptometrist at three area offices.

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skyrockets from 2% for adults ages 50-59 to 30% for those age 75+ n Heredity: A family history of AMD n Gender: Females are at greater risk

n Circulatory problems n Obesity and inactivity n Light-colored eyes n Prolonged sun/UV-light exposure n A diet high in fat and low in

vitamins, minerals and antioxidants

Treatment

“For significant dry AMD, we usually recommend vitamin supplements, sunglasses, and not smoking to prevent or slow progression. For wet AMD, we review the risks, benefits and candidacy for injections of special medications, such as Avastin, Eylea and Lucentis,” explains Brett Rhode, MD, a partner at Eye Care Specialists, where thousands of AMD patients are diagnosed and treated each year. “These revolutionary drugs inhibit the growth of the abnormal blood vessels that cause wet AMD. Although there are NO guarantees, we have seen remarkable results with regular in-office injection treatment (about every 4-8 weeks), including stopping the progression of wet AMD in 90 percent of patients and gaining improvement in vision in up to 30

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The President and a passive Congress Presidents need oversight and scrutiny; they need a Congress that will press them and insist on consultation. They get very little of that pressure today.

Because we live in such tumultuous political times, it’s easy to believe that today’s intense public focus on the Trump presidency is something new — an obsession like none we’ve ever seen before. Yet to one degree or another, the president has always been at the center of the public’s attention.

This is because he or she is the central actor in American government. The sheer complexity of our system, with its three branches, separation of powers and competing centers of power, demands someone who can make it work.

So we have high expectations for the president in this country. We want him or her to run the government efficiently and effectively, to work hard to resolve our problems, lead the world, inspire the nation, console us in times of disaster, serve as an example for young people, represent the national interest, and in a sense carry our

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CONGRESS

By Lee Hamilton hopes and desires for the country on his or her shoulders.

Which is why, no matter who’s president, there is enormous public curiosity about every detail of his life and actions. When I was in Congress, the subject would come up whenever I was back home in the district, at formal public meetings and in casual conversations. People wanted to know about his family, his personal characteristics, his strengths and failings, and what he was doing to make the country work.

This fascination is exacerbated by the news media, which focuses attention on the president and much less on Congress, a body that by its nature

is diffuse and complicated.

Presidents are both ordinary and extraordinary. They have all the strengths, vulnerabilities and limitations of the rest of us. They may be perceptive, politically astute, even wise, but they all make mistakes — the interning of Japanese-Americans under Franklin Roosevelt, Ronald Reagan’s dereliction of duty in Iran-Contra, the handling of the Vietnam War under LBJ. Yet there’s also something out of the ordinary about the people who become president. You have to be driven by ambition to seek the office in the first place, as well as highly competitive and disciplined in both thought and speech. The most effective presidents are unusually persuasive. The greatest among them have a real connection to the American people, a sense of high moral purpose and the ability to summon Americans to reach toward that purpose.

Because as unremittingly difficult as the job is, in many ways the toughest part is persuasion: trying to build support for one’s goals. We talk about

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the president as being the most powerful person in the world, but over the decades I’ve been struck by how often presidents talk about the limitations on their power. Looking out from the White House, what they see are opposition and constraints.

Which may be why every president seeks to expand the power of the office, usually with some degree of success. This is not all bad — presidents do need power to get things done. But this trend has diminished the role of Congress and, fundamentally, of representative government.

President Nixon had some 300 people on his staff; presidents these days may have as many as 2000.

This has allowed the president to insulate himself. Presidents are hard to reach today. They don’t want to be scrutinized on policy, and far too often, Congress has played along. The presidential press conference has also faded in importance. Presidents rarely have to answer questions in a free-wheeling give and take session with journalists or other politicians.

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Letter to the editor concerning senior centers “Milwaukee County continues to face enormous fiscal challenges. We have well over $200 million in deferred maintenance needs throughout the county that will never be addressed because of a lack of funding. With regard to the five county-owned senior centers, a recent report completed by the county’s Facilities Condition Assessment Team clearly demonstrates that the maintenance needs at the senior centers far exceed the resources that the county has, or will ever have, to make the centers completely safe and accessible for seniors. So any discussion about senior center programming, and the funding available to pay for such programming, cannot take place without first acknowledging that the County is facing unprecedented fiscal pressures.

The “lack of communication” described by Mr. Frazier is misleading. Up to this point, I would argue that there have been multiple levels of communication, many of which involve older adults, about senior center budget and contract. For example:

Since last spring, the Department on Aging has been briefing the Milwaukee County Commission on Aging (of which I have been a member since 2012) at its monthly meetings about its intent to complete “Phase I” of its senior center assessment project.

At these meetings (which are always open to the public), Department on Aging staff provided updates on why this project is being undertaken, and also outlined next steps within the project. Department staff indicated at many of these meetings that “Phase I” of this process is only the beginning. I have been very clear at these meetings that I am supportive of the Department’s efforts to undertake this assessment, and because of my passion for serving older adults, I will continue to be involved in this project in future months.

The 2018 County Budget was discussed at the September, October, and November Commission on Aging meetings. Department on Aging Director Holly Davis talked about the proposed $200,000 tax levy reduction

for senior center programming at the September 29th meeting, and I talked about my budget amendment to fully or partially restore funding for this programming at the October 27th and November 19th meetings.

In addition, there was another opportunity to debate this issue, and particularly the budget amendment authored by Supervisor Dimitrejevic and myself, at the County Board Finance and Audit Committee budget amendment meeting held on October 24th. At this meeting, I again outlined the intent of our amendment, prompting healthy discussion among Committee members and Department staff about its potential impact. Our amendment passed the Finance and Audit Committee 5-1.

In addition, I discussed my budget amendment at the October 27th Commission on Aging Service Delivery Committee meeting (also open to the public) which was attended by Interfaith Older Adult Program (now UNISON) staff. At this meeting there was robust discussion about the po-

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tential impact of the $200,000 tax levy reduction for senior center programming. The Committee asked many questions of Interfaith staff before ultimately making a unanimous recommendation to the full Commission on Aging that the senior center programming contract be funded at a level of $1.122 million (i.e., $200,000 less than the 2017 Adopted Budget amount). I spent quite a bit of time at this meeting describing the budget amendment authored by myself, Supervisor Dimitrijevic, and ultimately co-sponsored by 8 of colleagues and was adopted by the County Board unanimously on November 6th.

The Commission on Aging then took up this contract recommendation at their meeting on November 10th, and again this issue was discussed and debated. The Commission unanimously approved a funding amount of $1.122 million for senior center programming at this meeting.”

Written by Steve F. Taylor, Milwaukee County Supervisor, 9th District.

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EDITORIALS

Minding their own business is more than some people can do.

Instability in Milwaukee

In our last issue, we wrote about the instability of the senior centers and the present unreliable information about their futures coming from county government. On this, we still do not have any answers, but no news more frequently than not is good news.

But now let us look at other potential problems in Milwaukee, both city and county.

We learned recently of then hesitant America Red Cross volunteers to enter some sections of the city. The stories don’t die, but do they have to become facts that Milwaukee perhaps is the most racially divided city in the country. Going further, Police Chief Flynn is seen by many as having not done enough for the city and by others as having accomplished much of his mission to make Milwaukee a peaceful city; one where rampant crime does not scare residents and the would-bes from several sections of the city while having a detrimental effect on downtown and especially certain neighborhood businesses.

We look backwards to the time of Fr. Groppi and the groups of young people – both black and white - who joined with him in the early 1960s to make Milwaukee into a better place for people not known as of the white race.

They then wanted what we wish for today: better schools, better jobs, better housing, and better social services. We call it equality.

Milwaukee is reaching for economic greatness today. We still are not a perfect city, but with the continued

always equal efforts in basic education, there are few scenes that could not be changed in the near future for the benefit of the entire population.

Not everyone in Milwaukee thought that Police Chief Flynn was fair in his response to inner city crime.

He was not a super hero, but we would give his police department applause while admitting that its tactics always were not revolutionary. We do believe his years here were with the people in his successful efforts.

Law enforcement, with the leadership change in the county sheriff ’s office helping greatly, is in our opinion on the right path towards a peaceful city, one where people of all races appreciate each other and demonstrate their care in give and take relationships.

Look at the progress of the sports businesses, the astute greatness of our beyond high school places of learning, the attraction of job gaining industries and the obvious faith that companies such as Northwestern Mutual Insurance and others have in Milwaukee as their home bases.

The future story of Milwaukee is not a fairy tale, a sordid novel, or one of science fiction. It is very real. Milwaukee’s future and its new police chief, sheriff and whoever at whatever will join our economic and political leaders in not re-spinning old stories, but in making our dreams of Milwaukee as a better place come true.

See the psychiatrist Did you ever see a psychiatrist?

Professionally, I have never seen one, but I knew one way back when I was in service. Yes, I would say that he needed one.

It Makes Me

There are many things that could be said about Steve Bannon and his tenure at the White House, but I am

But what about dogs? Would a psychiatrist be able to help them. I doubt that a dog would benefit from a trip to the psychiatrist’s office. Why? Usually, they are not even allowed to be on the couch.

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Killing TIMEWITH JIM McLOONE We have watched a lot of television programming this past month.

We suspect the dullest information on the news channels is the weather report. Who cares what the wind gusts are in Montana? The Washington, D.C. hot air is of much greater interest.

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Baby boomers retiring; then look for comfort and privacy!

Many of you reading this article who were born between 19451965 are probably thinking ahead to the immediate future. You are called “Baby Boomers” due to the 80 million souls that came into being during that time span. We all want to save for our retirement and many of us would like to have secured our later years without the worry of funds running out. We all wished we had been a bit more frugal, but we did the best we could at the time we raised our children. The good news is that for those of you who are ready to downsize and sell your single-family residence, prices have escalated and the equity you receive after the sale of your home is tax exempt (for a single person up to $250,000 in gain, and up to $500,000 for a couple in gain). Even if you fell short of your goals, the equity in your home will be a great boon to your savings. Many of my boomer clients are contemplating selling and either renting or purchasing. Most who purchase are going into a one level condominium where the worry about maintenance is a thing of the past. Those entertaining the idea

MOVING IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION

By Bruce Nemovitz of renting are either going into a one level apartments or into senior communities. No matter what you choose to do, timing may be critical to your financial well-being.

Selling your single-family home is subject to peaks and valleys in the real estate market. Even in these booming economic times, you want to take advantage of the habits of the buying public. The peak of each year for selling is March-May. That almost never changes. Therefore, that would be the best time to offer your home to the public and obtain the highest prices of the year. However, if you are going to purchase that condominium, you don’t want to be a buyer in that same period, as you also will pay the highest

price of the year. The ideal scenario is to purchase prior to March if possible and then put your home up for sale after that purchase preferably in that March-May peak period. So many of you are worried about purchasing first and the thought of temporarily owning two properties. You can take that fear away by first meeting with a Realtor to get your home ready for sale and knowing the value of your home. That is why it is never too early to downsize and do the minor upgrades needed even if you are not sure about moving.

You want to always have your home in ready condition because you never know when that great opportunity will appear to make the move to a better lifestyle. Your children have most likely moved out and keeping your home in great condition after remodeling should be a bit easier without the wear and tear of those beautiful inquisitive children.

The other issue involves financing the two properties. Your local bank is ready and willing to help bridge the gap so that you can use your equity to buy another home without actually

selling your property. A ‘bridge loan’ is temporary financing available to those wishing to buy first and sell later. You pay only interest, which can be paid back when your home is sold. It is always best to know where you are moving before deciding to put your home on the market…that is if you want to sleep at night! Your Realtor can explain this in great detail and direct you to the lenders that are most comfortable in giving out this type of financing.

If you are thinking of purchasing a one-level condominium, start that search ASAP, as these properties are in the greatest demand due to the baby boomer plethora of buyers ready to make that lifestyle change. The longer you wait, the higher price you will pay, and even though you also own real estate, these single family condos are appreciating faster than any other type of property. Also, if you are going to use a mortgage to purchase, interest rates will climb in the very near future.

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About two months ago, I got a question from a reader that I had never received before. (And believe me, that is unusual. I thought there wasn’t a single Social Security-related question I haven’t been asked a hundred times before.)

The unique question had to do with how to answer a specific question on the online application form for Social Security retirement benefits. I’m paraphrasing, but it essentially asks this: “What month do you want your Social Security payments to start?”

At first glance, the question seems pretty straightforward. For example, the person who sent me that question wanted to wait until age 66 to start her Social Security benefits. And she was turning 66 in November 2017.

She asked me if she should answer the “when to start” question by indicating November. Or, she wondered, since she knew that Social Security checks were paid one month behind (in other words, the November benefit is paid in December), should the answer be December?

As politely as I could, I told the lady that the correct answer was November and that she shouldn’t worry about when the physical payment was actually sent to her. She should only worry about her first month of entitlement to full retirement age benefits, and again, that would be November, when she turned age 66.

Because no one had ever asked me about that before, I really thought she was overanalyzing the application question. But lo and behold, since that first time a few months ago, I have been asked versions of the same question about 20 or 30 times!

So now I’m wondering if maybe the Social Security Administration recently changed the way it asks that question on its online retirement questionnaire.

I don’t know how it was worded in the past. But I can now see how the “When do you want your benefits to begin?” question can be confusing. Perhaps they could include something like: “For example, if you want your benefits to begin at age 66, and you are 66

in March, then your answer should be March.”

Another reader recently asked me about the same issue. She wanted to start her Social Security at age 66. She was turning 66 in January 2018. She wanted to know if she should answer by indicating January (when she turns 66) or February (when her first payment would be due). Again, the answer is January.

But then she had a couple follow-up inquiries about other questions on the retirement application form that confused her. They asked her to indicate how much money she thought she would make in 2018. And then they further asked her if she planned to retire at some time during the year -- and if so, when?

She told me that she wasn’t sure if or when she would retire during 2018.

And because of that, she had no idea how much money she would make during the year. She told me that she was concerned that if she answered the question incorrectly, she might get in trouble or might get her Social Security benefits paid incorrectly.

I told her not to worry. Social Security rules say that once you reach age 66, your earning are no longer a factor in determining your eligibility for Social Security benefits. In other words, she could answer that question by saying she planned to work all year and thought she’d make a million dollars per month. Or she could answer the question by saying she was already retired and wouldn’t make a dime in 2018. Either way, because she is 66 in January, she would be due her full retirement age benefit amount for every month of the year.

Having told her all that, I still suggested she just answer the questions with her best guess as to when she might retire and how much she anticipated earning in 2018. But my main point was that she shouldn’t worry about her answers.

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Recommendations to treat heart disease continually change of heart disease and an LDL level of less than 190, a lower dose of a statin is suggested. Low doses of a statin should also be used in those with no history of heart disease but whose future risk is significantly increased.

What should we make of these myriad changes and new recommendations? Most important is being pru-

BY DR. DAVID LIPSCHITZ

Research on how any disease should be prevented or treated is confusing, and what seems to be the gospel for a long period of time may suddenly change. This particularly applies to preventing and managing risks of heart attack and stroke.

Most remarkable is information related to coffee. In a report published in the journal Heart, researchers from Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health followed 25,000 healthy subjects living in South Korea. The results showed that drinking five cups of coffee daily was associated with significantly less buildup of calcium in arteries, suggesting a lower risk of developing heart disease. The researchers also suggest that coffee may reduce the chances of developing diabetes. They note that the 2015 Dietary Guidelines Advisory Committee suggested that drinking coffee has minimal effects on the heart. The benefits of coffee were still present in smokers and in those with diabetes, high blood pressure, elevated cholesterol and obesity. The study could not identify the factors in coffee that led to benefits.

Though coffee may hold some benefit, it is still prudent to limit caffeine intake because of negative effects on sleep, heart rate and nighttime urination.

Recent dietary guidelines suggest that cholesterol intake is not a major risk factor for heart disease or other illnesses. We can now be much more liberal in egg and shellfish consumption.

Though more cholesterol is acceptable, intake of the wrong fats -- including saturated animal fats, trans fats and omega-6 fatty acids -- must be kept to a minimum. Guidelines place much greater emphasis on reducing added sugar, refined grains and salt intake.

The guidelines are no longer enthusiastic about lean meat, as our diet already contains twice as much protein as we need.

Not surprisingly, greater intake of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, fat-free or low-fat dairy products, and seafood is encouraged. Overeating is highlighted as a major concern, and balancing calorie intake with activity levels is encouraged. Greater fruit and vegetable intake appears to reduce heart attack

risk by as much as 40 percent.

The health benefits of alcohol are being questioned. It seemed as if the link between moderate alcohol, especially red wine, intake and improved heart health and longevity is concrete.

Alcohol itself, by reducing stress levels, and resveratrol in red wine, by its antioxidant properties, were thought to be effective in reducing heart attack risk and promoting a longer life. But in past reports, former drinkers have been classified as nondrinkers. That and poor scientific methodology may have accounted for the seemingly obvious benefits of alcohol. A better study just published in the British Medical Journal examined 53,000 adults in the U.K. who completed a survey. In this study, which most agree was done rigorously, moderate alcohol intake (no more than two drinks daily) only benefited men between the ages of 50 and 54 and women older than 65. And the benefit did not seem to be so great as previously thought.

Doctors have also been overestimating heart attack risk. Advancing age, male gender, smoking, diabetes, high blood pressure, high HDL cholesterol and low LDL cholesterol were thought to accurately predict heart attack risk in the next 10 years. But a study just published in the Annals of Internal Medicine says the calculators doctors have been using tend to overestimate heart attack risk by 86 percent in men and 67 percent in women.

And there are new recommendations for cholesterol lowering using statins. A target for LDL cholesterol of below either 100 or 70 is no longer important. Those who have had a heart attack or an LDL level above 190 should receive treatment with a higher dose of a statin to lower LDL by 50 percent.

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BY CHUCK NORRIS

One thing I expect we all can say about the past year is that, from hurricanes to droughts to wildfires, 2017 is a year defined by disaster.

In 2017, according to the National Centers for Environmental Information, at least 16 weather disasters occurred across the United States, accounting for financial losses exceeding $1 billion for each. These natural catastrophes make 2017 the most expensive year on record for disasters in the United States, according to a recent National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration report.

Hurricane Harvey -- a weather disaster my family experienced up close and personal -- generated $125 billion in damage and is the year’s most expensive disaster. More than 75 people died as a result of its massive flooding.

We are still in the process of recovery.

Much of the area underwater in late August is now being subjected to severe drought conditions. According to the most recent U.S. Drought Monitor, nearly three-quarters of the state is experiencing drought or “abnormally dry” conditions. Houston had its 4th-driest November on record, according to the Southeast Regional Climate Center.

In Southern California, no sooner had the state snuffed out the massive Thomas Fire, the largest wildfire in California’s recorded history, Southern California was pounded with heavy rainfall. It caused rivers of mud and boulders to plow through neighborhoods in and near Montecito, a seaside community east of Santa Barbara. More than 20 people have died because of these slides.

California’s troubles do not end there.

The state is being hit hard by the influenza outbreak that currently grips the country. Visits to L.A. County emergency rooms for influenza symptoms are more than twice as high as they were at the same time last year. California is one of more than 20 states where flu activity has been classified as “high.” At last count, according to the California Department of Public Health, 42 flu-related

deaths had been reported among patients younger than 65. Its impact on seniors has not been recorded, though it is widely known that influenza and its complications disproportionately affect people 65 and older.

According to the Los Angeles Times, hospitals across the state are flying in nurses from out of state, canceling surgeries and erecting tents in their parking lots to triage flu patients.

Most people in California and nationwide are catching a strain of influenza A known as H3N2. H3N2 was to blame for Australia’s most recent brutal flu season. Flu cases in Australia during the 2017 southern hemisphere winter resulted in record-high numbers of lab-confirmed hospitalizations and deaths.

Widespread, high-level flu activity is going on in other states across the country as well, from Illinois to Texas.

Many public health officials believe this constitutes the first year in which the entire continental United States is experiencing such a level of flu activity at the same time.

With many hospitals in Alabama operating over capacity, Alabama Governor Kay Ivey has declared a state public health emergency due to this flu outbreak. Such outbreaks are not just happening in our country. According to the World Health Organization, flu activity has increased above baseline levels in most countries in northern and southwestern Europe.

According to experts, the data for the week ending January 6 suggested the season was peaking right now.

There is no certainty that this is the case.

Typically, flu season runs from October through May. Similar to these natural disasters, one thing you can say about this flu season is that it began earlier than normal. Though the H3N2 strain was anticipated, the intensity of this onslaught was not.

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FEBRUARY 2018

Thank-you notes are never out of style

BY MARY HUNT

In these high-tech times when text messaging and email are the preferred methods of written communication, it might not have even crossed your mind to ask this important question: Do I have to send a thank-you note when someone gives me a gift?

In a word, yes. It’s right; it’s proper; and it’s good for you. We may be frugal, but we’ve got class.

It is not difficult, nor should it be time-consuming, to write a simple, heartfelt note of thanks in response to a gift or other act of kindness. Here are the elements of a well-written thankyou note: 1. GREETING. Keep it simple.

“Dear Aunt Mary” works well. Or use another salutation that would roll easily off your tongue, like “Hi” or “Greetings.”

2. EXPRESS GRATITUDE. State your thanks, and identify the specific gift: “Thank you so much for the video game. It’s a perfect addition to my Switch collection,” or “Thank you for the sweater, which is the exact color I would have chosen.” The only exception to the specific reference is if the gift was money. In that case, do not say, “Thank you for the $100.” Say simply, “Thank you for the generous gift, which is greatly appreciated.”

However, in the event that Aunt Mary actually took the time to create a clever presentation, it would be perfectly acceptable to say, “Your generosity is exceeded only by your clever ability to fold paper money into a beautiful swan.” (Note: There are times when the mention of the specific amount may be appropriate, as in the receipt of a donation or charitable contribution.)

3. DISCUSS USE. A simple sentence that indicates how you will use

the gift comes next: “I know I will get plenty of use from this sweater during my semester abroad in Antarctica,” or “It is my all-time favorite game, so you can be sure that I will think of you often,” or “It will be spent well to update my shoe collection.”

4. MENTION THE PAST; REFER TO THE FUTURE. Possibly the

most important part of your message is a reference to how this person fits into your life. Something like “I remember how much fun I had snow tubing with you on the hill behind the barn, and I look forward to seeing you soon,” or “You are in my thoughts, and I hope to see you soon.”

5. REVISIT GRATITUDE. As you close your note, state again your gratitude. “Thanks again for your gift” is an appropriate way to close your note.

6. REGARDS. Wrap things up with a gentle close and your name.

“Fondly, Joe” or “Love, Laura” are excellent choices.

There. Seal it up, and get it in the mail. Even if you are the only person you know sending thank-you notes, don’t let that deter you. You’ve demonstrated gracious living at a time when most people are too busy to be bothered.

As an added bonus but certainly not an incentive to do the right thing, thank-you notes have been known to encourage repeat performances, as well as improve the frequency and quality of future gifts.

Mary invites questions, comments and tips at mary@everydaycheapskate. com, or c/o Everyday Cheapskate, 12340 Seal Beach Blvd., Suite B-416, Seal Beach, CA 90740. This column will answer questions of general interest, but letters cannot be answered individually.

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It is always encouraging to find that a lifestyle choice you are making is a correct one when it comes to protecting health. My family and I enjoy eating salads, and most recently have become especially fond of organic kale. Then along comes new research from Tufts University that assessed the dietary patterns of 1,000 seniors and found that eating plenty of leafy green vegetables every day could ward off dementia in later life.

The study found that those who ate about one serving of leafy greens each day had brains that were the equivalent of 11 years younger than those who never (or rarely) ate the vegetables.

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to slow cognitive decline that comes with aging, decline that could lead to dementia.

Another is exercise. Study after study has shown the positive connection between improved health and physical exercise. Exercise is beneficial in the prevention of cognitive impairment and dementia. One recent study is the first of its kind to explore how exercise affects brain metabolism. According to the findings, the increase in metabolism generated by exercise resulted in the increased loss of nerve cells that typically occurs in the case of Alzheimer’s disease.

Adequate sleep also generates huge beneficial effects for the brain.

When you sleep, your brain essentially cleans itself. The brain uses cerebral spinal fluid to pump away the plaques and tangles that scientists believe cause disease. Much of today’s research is now looking into ways of using sleep to treat Alzheimer’s disease and somehow slow the diseases’ progress.

Globally, approximately 47 million people have dementia. This figure is projected to double by 2030. Many of those with dementia will develop Alzheimer’s disease. While the disease is not completely preventable, eating foods that benefit brain health could be key in holding the disease at bay.

Alzheimer’s disease is nothing short of a new plague. It threatens the world’s population with a global strike rate of one person every four seconds.

More than 5 million Americans currently suffer from Alzheimer’s. Alzheimer’s is projected to soon overtake cancer as the second leading cause of death after heart disease.

The X Prize Foundation, a deep-pocketed non-profit organization designed to encourage technological development that could benefit humanity, directed its 2017 summit’s highest honors to a team tackling Alzheimer’s disease. In November, Microsoft founder Bill Gates committed $100 million of his own money to boost research and fund start-ups working on Alzheimer’s research and

development.

As author Robert McCrum recently reminded readers in a review in The Guardian, it is memory that gives us personality. It defines our emotional intelligence, family relations, and sense of community. It anchors us in space and time. It defines the parameters of existence. What are we without it?

Yet, after half a century of scientific study, the biology of the aging brain remains among the greatest mysteries of neuroscience. Scientists still have a poor understanding of how the brain works. What can be said about the current approved medication for Alzheimer’s disease? Pioneered in the ‘70s and ‘80s, they merely treat the symptoms as opposed to the underlying biology. These medicines are, at best, just a little better than nothing at all.

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: Now that my parents have settled into their new retired life, their lives are completely different, and they seem reborn. They worked hard for decades and now deserve to have fun after raising a wonderful family.

Thankfully, they still have their health and happiness. However, they’ve expressed guilt about spending their hard-earned money. Some family members are not as financially comfortable, and my parents feel responsible for them and want to help.

I think that it’s their time to enjoy life after working hard to ensure we had a great childhood. How can I help them realize that they should be able to think about themselves for once?

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Thank them for helping you to become the person you now are. Remind them of all that they’ve done for you and that you are grateful for their guidance and support.

Now it’s your turn to follow their excellent example and pass down these lessons to the next generation.

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DEAR ANNIE: I’ve been estranged

from my twin brother for two years, since our sister died after her short battle with a terminal illness. When she was diagnosed, her family gave him power of attorney rights (property and health) during her remaining time. My brother managed her personal affairs and health care well, but unfortunately, he took his position of authority too seriously. Although our sister was in constant pain and requiring considerable medication, she was still able to listen, think and speak well enough to convey what she wanted.

Her wishes did not agree with what our brother wanted her to do, and he expected the family and friends to support him. The rest of us felt that our sister’s dying requests took precedence and that we would side with her. Needless to say, this caused a lot of arguments. However, we swallowed our pride and did the best we could to appease him. When she passed and the funeral services were over, we were all relieved, but the quarreling

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for the loss of your sister and the estrangement of your brother. I’m sure that made the grieving process all the more difficult.

It’s clear your twin’s well-being is weighing heavily on your mind; otherwise, you wouldn’t be researching his possible mental health issues. I’d encourage you to go directly to him with your concerns. Don’t bring up the term “obsessive-compulsive personality disorder”; simply tell him that you’re worried about him, that you love him and that you think he should

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column. I would like to add to your answer to “Desperately Need Help,” who needs to separate from her husband. I write based on my knowledge as a (retired) family law attorney in North Carolina. In North Carolina -and in most states, I suspect -- a spouse who can’t afford an attorney but needs spousal support can ask the judge to order the supporting spouse to pay for the legal fees that the dependent spouse had to incur. My experience was that most judges were ready to issue such an order, and “Desperately Need Help” could certainly get advice from an attorney about that, seeing as the attorney, too, will want the work and will know how to get paid for it.

In most states, a spouse who is in court to get a fair share of the property probably cannot get the judge to order the other side to pay the legal fees -- because if there’s property to be di-

vided, then that’s a source of money to pay the lawyer. This latter case probably describes one part of this reader’s situation, seeing as there’s a 401(k) to be divided. I’m not the advice columnist, but perhaps part of the recovery that “Desperately Need Help” needs is escaping a mindset of helplessness and recognizing that she does have the resources to get what she is owed. -Retired NC Lawyer DEAR RETIRED NC LAWYER: And I’m not the lawyer -- so I always really appreciate hearing from one with regard to legal advice that might help my readers. I’m printing your letter, as I’m sure it will be of use to “Desperately Need Help” and many others.

Thank you.

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Saturday, Feb. 10 St. Joseph Center 7:00 p.m.

Jazz Standards from the Great American Songbook

purchased by calling 414-385-5272 or by visiting doloughlin@sssf.org.

FEBRUARY 12, 1 – 2 PM

Elvis

Schuetze Recreation Center, Riverview Room, 1120 Baxter St, Waukesha Elvis has arrived! Don’t be surprised if you see some blue suede shoes strollin’ through the halls of Schuetze! Join us for an afternoon of music, refreshments and fun as we watch “the King” rock out on stage!

Pre-registration is required for this free event. Call 262-524-3737 to register.

FEBRUARY 13, 6:30 PM

Mardi Gras Fun in February

Regency Senior Community, 13750 W. National Ave., New Berlin It’s party time, n’awlins style. Beads and masks and jazz music, oh my!

You don’t have to go to Bourbon Street to enjoy a lively, colorful, Southern-style Mardi Gras celebration. The Bourbon Street Stompers, Wisconsin’s premier Dixieland jazz band, return to Regency to play classic jazz, ragtime and novelty tunes that will make your toes tap. It’ll be six times the fun with this sextet for a dance down memory lane. This event is open to the public.

FEBRUARY 14, 1:30 – 3:30 PM

Muskego Matinees

The Eric Jacobson Quintet

$20

414-385-5272 or doloughlin@sssf.org

1501 S. Layton Blvd.

Milwaukee, WI 53215 27th @ Greenfield Ave.

Muskego Public Library, S73W16663 W Janesville Rd., Muskego On one of the most romantic days of the year, stop in at the library and watch Casablanca. Don’t miss this tale of wartime intrigue, romance, blackmail, black-marketers and heroism in North Africa. This is a free event.

this Valentine’s Day. The program will take place in the large hall area.

Light refreshments will be served and the event is free to all senior center members. For additional information, please call the center at 414-768-8045.

FEBRUARY 15, 12:30 – 2:30 PM

Lunchtime Cinema, Victoria & Abdula is the featured movie

The Center For Life Enrichment, 1306 W. Wisconsin Ave., Oconomowoc When Abdul Karim, a young clerk, travels from India to participate in the Queen’s Golden Jubilee, he is surprised to find favor with the Queen herself. As the Queen questions the constrictions of her longheld position, the two forge an unlikely and devoted alliance with a loyalty to one another that her household and inner circle all attempt to destroy. As the friendship deepens, the Queen begins to see a changing world through new eyes and joyfully reclaims her humanity.

Lunch purchase is not required but you are welcome to arrive early and dine at Café Labelle. Please register

by Tuesday, February 13. Walk-ins are welcome. Only those who register will be notified if the event is canceled for any reason.

FEBRUARY 15, 11 AM

Free Lunch & Learn Program

50+ Senior Center, 2378 W. Washington Street, West Bend Presented by the Health Crusaders this free community workshop will inform you of the risks of high blood pressure, high cholesterol and heart disease. You will learn what you can do naturally to lower your risk of the #1 killer in the USA, the healthiest diet for your heart (the FEBRUARY 14, 1 – 3 PM answer will surprise you), what type Valentine’s Day Party of exercise is most effective for preChester W. Grobschmidt Senior venting heart disease, and the natuCenter, 2424 15th Ave., ral treatment that can lower blood South Milwaukee pressure as much as two medicaEnjoy an afternoon of listening to tions. Pre-registration by calling Karaoke fun and dancing to the 262-335-4498 is required to hold music of Pam and the Accidentals

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EVENTS CALENDAR your space and reserve your lunch.

Settlement will share stories about the amazing things they’ve found, FEBRUARY 15, 11 AM – 12 PM sold, and evaluated! In addition, atiCan!: Navigating the tendees will have the opportunity to Library Catalog have one of their own items evaluatFrank L. Weyenberg Library of ed. There might be something valuMequon-Thiensville, Tolzman Com- able in those basement boxes after munity Room, 11345 N. all! Come and find out for sure! This Cedarburg Road, Mequon event is FREE and space is limited; Do you wish you knew more about RSVP to 414-434-1768 or Lutherour library catalog? Do you find it Manor.org/rsvp. Enter Luther Mandifficult or confusing to use? We or through the North Drive and can help! In this class, you’ll get an follow it to the Faith & Education in-depth overview of the Monarch Center parking lot.

Library catalog, from the basics of searching and requesting to track- FEBRUARY 22, 9 AM – 1 PM ing down tricky stuff. Registration Vintage Jewelry is required and limited to 15 partic- Collection Sale ipants. Stop by the reference desk or The Marcia P. Coggs Human call 262-242-2593 ext. 320 to regis- Services Building, 1220 W. Vliet St., Milwaukee ter.

Add a little sparkle to your life when FEBRUARY 20 – 25, TIMES VARY St. Ann Center hosts a fabulous vinFinding Neverland tage jewelry sale! Choose from the Marcus Center, 929 N. Water Street, collection of hundreds of vintage, Milwaukee heirloom, retro and costume jewPlaywright J.M. Barrie struggles to elry pieces. St. Ann Center volunfind inspiration until he meets four teers collect, clean and repair gently young brothers and their beautiful used jewelry—including necklaces, widowed mother. Spellbound by earrings, bracelets, rings, pins and the boys’ enchanting make-believe more. There’s something for every adventures, he sets out to write a taste and budget—plus all proceeds play that will astound London the- go to benefit St. Ann Center’s cliatergoers. With a little bit of pixie ents. dust and a lot of faith, Barrie takes this monumental leap, leaving his FEBRUARY 24, 9:30 – 11 AM old world behind for Neverland, Tech Help where nothing is impossible and Menomonee Falls Public Library, the wonder of childhood lasts for- W156 N8436 Pilgrim Road, ever. The magic of Barrie’s classic Menomonee Falls tale springs spectacularly to life in Do you need help with your laptop, this heartwarming theatrical event. tablet, smartphone or other small Call 414-273-2706 or visit Marcus- electronic device? Are you considering a new purchase and looking Center.org for ticket information. for a few things to consider beforehand? If so, maybe we can help! ApFEBRUARY 22, 6:30 PM Antique Roadshow with pointments are recommended but Luther Manor not required. Call 262-532-8920 to Luther Manor’s Faith & Education set up an appointment.

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FEBRUARY 26, 10 – 11 AM

Leisure Learners Presentation: Schuster’s and Gimbels presented by Paul Geenen

West Allis Public Library, Constitution Room, 7421 W. National Ave., West Allis Schuster Boosters, Gimbels Days!

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car bends the corner and the elevator girls are always smiling. Enjoy this loving trip through the history of these beloved stores, from their arrival in Milwaukee in the 1880’s through the 1962 merger and beyond. This is a free presentation.

Scale Auto Hobby & Toy Show

10 AM to 2 PMAve. • 8 1 0 2 , th 4 h Sunday, Marc Hall • 5101 W. Oklahoma rb e S American

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Come shop the Scale Auto Hobby & Toy Show where you can purchase auto related merchandise and toys such as Diecast Cars, Model Kits, and Racing Memorabilia. If you can’t find it here it probably hasn’t been made! A Milwaukee tradition for over thirty years, this is the place that model builders, race fans, toy collectors, and hobbyists meet and network. There is always something for everyone!

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Oconomowoc Arts Center Tallymoore

Contemporary Irish Folk Music

Saturday, March 17 7:30 p.m.

New this Year Irish Dinner Meal Option Sold Separately

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Replacing a beloved pet

BY ANNIE LANE

DEAR ANNIE: Our beloved family

dog, Dasher, passed away last year.

Dasher was a husky. She was the sweetest and best dog I ever could imagine. Good with the kids and our

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old kitty. When I contacted the breeder I bought her from, he said that he is no longer breeding. My friend suggested I look at adopting a dog from the local shelter or a rescue group. I really want a husky, and our shelter didn’t have any but suggested I reach out to local husky rescue groups. Well, I did, and I found a great one.

After I filled out the application, a volunteer called me within 24 hours.

She thanked me for considering adoption and gave me some very sad statistics about how many dogs get euthanized because of overpopulation. She then said my house will be a tricky place to find the right dog for. Most huskies have a strong prey drive and are not great with cats, small dogs or small children. I was taken aback because Dasher was so great with all of the above. When I told her this, she said my best bet would be to get a puppy and socialize the dog around kids and cats as much as possible. She said that her rescue group rarely gets pups in and that it could take a long time.

I want to adopt, but I also don’t want to put the lives of my cat and kids in danger. Do you have any advice as to what I should do? -- Adopt or Shop?

DEAR ADOPT OR SHOP: When-

ever possible, adopt; don’t shop. I understand loving a particular breed and wanting a puppy of that breed. The way I see it, you have three options: 1) Wait until the husky rescue gets a puppy in.

The

OPEN ROAD PHOTOGRAPHY AND THE AMERICAN ROAD TRIP

THROUGH APRIL 22, 2018

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Track the journeys of 18 photographers across America’s highways and byways.

Curated by: David Campany and Denise Wolff Organized by: Aperture Foundation, New York

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This project is supported, in part, by an award from the National Endowment for the Arts.

Steven Shore, U.S. 97, South of Klamath Falls, Oregon, July 21, 1973, 1973 © Stephen Shore, Courtesy of the artist and 303 Gallery, New York

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And so it’s harder to understand why the president does what he does now, why he makes the choices he does. Presidents need oversight and scrutiny, they need a Congress that will press them and insist on consultation. They get very little of that pressure today. Don’t get me wrong: I favor a strong president, but I also favor a strong Congress. And these days, we have a Congress marked by passivity and inability to exercise its constitutional responsibilities.

I’m equally impressed by the responsibility we have as citizens in choosing our leaders. We get what and whom we choose. Presidents really

2) Go on Petfinder and search for husky puppies. You may have to travel a bit to find a puppy, or it may not be a purebred husky, but chances are great that you can find a husky puppy.

Sometimes mixed breeds are healthier than purebreds.

3) If you do decide to buy a puppy, at least be sure you know who and where you’re buying from. Kristina Lotz wrote a wonderful article for iHeartDogs titled “10 Signs That A Puppy Is From a Puppy Mill,” and I would recommend reading it before buying from a pet shop or breeder.

DEAR ANNIE: Your column with the letter from widower “Neil” brings back sad memories for me. I lost my mother when I was 13 years old, and it was staggering. I had no siblings and an alcoholic father. Life was a mess.

Years later, I attended a seminar, and the most important thing I learned was how to handle major upsets. Here’s the way to do it. When thinking about an upsetting incident, write down the following questions and your answers: When did it happen? Where did it happen? Who was involved? How did you feel? What happened?

You might want to write the same upset down several times. Just do it. It will work. -- Art in Oregon DEAR ART: Writing is a wonderful

form of therapy. I second your suggestion. Thanks for it.

do make a difference in our lives. No choice as a citizen is more important.

Lee Hamilton is a Senior Advisor for the Indiana University Center on Representative Government; a Distinguished Scholar, IU School of Global and International Studies; and a Professor of Practice, IU School of Public and Environmental Affairs. He was a member of the U.S. House of Representatives for 34 years.

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Supportive Care Directory for Assistance in Living Azura Memory Care

540 East Forest Street Oconomowoc • 414-405-2205 www.azuramemory.com Azura Memory Care was awarded The Best of Senior Living in Oconomowoc for 2017 and 2018. We are conveniently located adjacent to the Oconomowoc Memorial Hospital ProHealthCare.

Our goal is to provide a high quality of life for our residents through personalized engagement and purposeful daily living. Our home was designed to support those with dementia through all stages of the disease.

The Fowler and Lac La Belle homes are joined by a community room with amenities such as the Blue Sky Cafe’ and accessible spa and a salon.

We further support the needs of our residents by providing them and their families with a multi-sensory room, secure outside courtyard with walking path, screened-in porch and indoor areas for exercise and walking. All of these amenities are offered in a complete and supportive care setting.

As the premier provider for the Oconomowoc area, our care services include a dedicated Registered Nurse on staff, medication management, and personalized management of behavioral expressions, including sundowning, wandering and anxiety. In addition to our care services, we include nutritious meals and snacks, housekeeping and laundry.

Each of our private suites is fully furnished and equipped with a private bath, roll-in shower, built-in cabinetry and a safety response system.

Also available is an enhanced suite option for couples or for those looking for a little more space.

Azura Memory Care’s specialized care is based on our exclusive MOSAIC training and engagement program, which uses cutting-edge dementia approaches and techniques to help our caregivers fully understand the disease process and equip them with ways to properly approach, communicate and engage those within our care.

At Azura our mission is Transform the Culture of Memory Care. We invite you to visit our home at any time or call Laura Volz, Director of Community Relations at 414-405-2205 for a personalized tour today!

Azura Memory Care Of Kenosha

4600 52nd Ave & 7135 Green Bay Rd • Kenosha 262-220-2720 • www.azuramemory.com Azura Memory Care has 3 convenient locations in Kenohsa. We offer 16 rooms in our Kenosha South home.

On the north campus, our newly renovated Pierhead home offers 16 rooms.

Eight are private rooms with private bathrooms and the remaining eight are private rooms with shared bathrooms, perfect for couples who wish to reside in the same location. Also at the north campus is our Southport home, we feature 20 rooms with private baths.

Amenities include a spa with relaxing Jacuzzi tub, a salon, a sensory room as well as beautifully landscaped and secure back yards with raised bed gardens and a walking path. All of our homes offer a sense of warmth in a cozy, quaint atmosphere. Azura Kenosha has a Registered Nurse on staff, offers medication management, personalized management of be-

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havioral expressions, including sundowning, wandering, and anxiety. In addition to our care services, we include nutritious meals and snacks, housekeeping & laundry and Quality of Life programming (activities) which keep residents engaged and active.

Most importantly, Azura Memory Care’s specialized care is based on our exclusive MOSAIC training and engagement program which uses cutting edge, research based approaches and techniques to help our caregivers fully understand the disease process and equip them with ways to properly approach, communicate and engage those within our care while bringing moments of joy to each of our residents.

At Azura our mission is to Transform the Culture of Memory Care.

We invite you to visit our home at any time or call Julie Gey, Director of Community Relations at 262-220-2720 for a personalized tour today!

Azura Memory Care Of Oak Creek

8772 S. Mayhew Dr. • Oak Creek 262-220-3574 • www.azuramemory.com Azura Memory Care of Oak Creek is one of 14 locations operated throughout the state of Wisconsin. The Oak Creek facility offers 48 units, three suite levels (single to double rooms included). The refundable enrollment/endowment fee is $1,000. Monthly rent range is $4,600 - $8,550 with a mandatory meal plan included.

When you visit Azura, you will witness their everyday use of MOSAIC principles through creative expression, small group peer interactions, special interest clubs, intergenerational activities, one-on-one engagements with caregivers, outdoor activities, daily themes, church services, supervised baking, music and much more!

At Azura, the advantages to aging in place in assisted living include safety, socialization, supportive memory care, in-home access to services and most importantly, preserving quality of life.

This facility offers a warm, loving home that offers high quality, relationship-based memory care. Their MOSAIC training ensures the team provides exceptional care and personalized engagements that result in moments of joy everyday.

Brookdale Brookfield Assisted Living

660 Woelfel Road • Brookfield 262-789-7499 www.brookdale.com/en/commun ities/brookdale-brookfield-al.html Affiliated with the Brookfield Chamber of Commerce.

Brookdale Brookfield Assisted Living is comprised of studios and 1 bedroom units and a capacity of 64. Spouses can share rooms/apartments.

There is an enrollment/endowment Fee of $1,500, which is refundable if within the first 6 months of move-in. Monthly rents are $3415 - $4354 (not including cares). A mandatory meal plan is included in the cost of rent.

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Supportive Care Directory for Assistance in Living Residents enjoy numerous recreational programs including: B-Fit exercise, brain games, Bingo, music therapy, gardening, arts & crafts, current events, health talks & monthly outings. Brookdale has four medical personnel on staff or consulting.

Our community offers a loving and comfortable home, with well-appointed accommodations, restaurant-style dining and many opportunities to engage individual interests, passion and purpose.

We are conveniently located and close to many freeways, shopping and hospitals. We completed a $1 million renovation project in June 2017.

Brookdale Sussex

W240 N6351 Maple Avenue • Sussex www.brookdale.com/en/communities/brookdale-sussex.html Affiliated with the Sussex Area Chamber of Commerce.

Brookdale Sussex has 20 studio apartments in which spouses may live together.

There is a $1,500 enrollment/endowment fee, which is refundable if within the first 6 months of move-in. Monthly rents are $2410 - $2795 (not including cares). A mandatory meal plan is included in the cost of rent. There is one medical person on staff.

Brookdale Sussex offers many recreational programs including: B-Fit exercise, brain games, Bingo, music therapy, gardening, arts & crafts, current events, health talks & monthly outings.

Our community offers a loving and comfortable home, with well-appointed accommodations, restaurant-style dining and many opportunities to engage individual interests, passion and purpose.

Brookdale Sussex is an intimate, single-story building conveniently located in the heart of Sussex right on the Bug-Line trail.

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Clement Manor

9339 W. Howard Ave. • Greenfield 414-546-7000 • www.clementmanor.com Clement Manor assisted living apartments are part of a full continuum of healthcare and housing services. Choose a Studio, 1 bedroom or 2-bedroom apartment with walk-in showers. Participate in lifelong learning programs, gardening, men’s group, adult coloring club, chair Tai Chi, and field trips. And, a convenience store, full service bank and occupational, physical and speech therapy – everything you need under one roof. Pay only for services you need.

Catholic Mass and Protestant services. Sponsored by School Sisters of St. Francis.

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A premier community based residential facility, offers three locations in eastern Wisconsin - two homes in Germantown and one in Port Washington. Our mission is to create a tranquil, nurturing home and loving surrogate family that encourages the individual in all aspects of daily life while promoting the highest level of independence possible.

Ellen’s Home Of Germantown

Dignified Living for the Eldery and Disabled.

At Ellen’s Home, we strive to preserve, honor and celebrate the uniqueness of each resident by creating an individualized care plan which identifies and addresses their unique emotional, spiritual, social, physical and intellectual abilities and needs. Ellen’s Home believes a blended inter-generational assisted living community that serves residents with a variety of needs is complementary with “Aging in Place” philosophies that benefit all individuals.

Our staff is highly trained and experienced including specialized training related to dementia and Alzheimer’s care. Our homes provide: • Pharmacy Service • Lab & Radiology Services • Podiatrist • Physical Therapists • Activity Directors • Beauty/Barber Shop

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N113 W16358 Sylvan Circle • Germantown 262-250-6455 • www.ellenshome.com Ellen’s Home of Germantown is a facility with 20 private rooms with bath.

Offering numerous programs inside and outside the home for a variety of residents’ needs and interest.

Ellen’s promotes a safe, social, active, Christian atmosphere for seniors who can’t live on their own, but don’t need a skilled nursing home. Ellen’s offers socialization and health monitoring, pharmacy, radiology, podiatry, therapy, salon and some physician services to avoid multiple trips outside the home. The enrollment/endowment fee is $3,000 with monthly care fees starting at $4,500 and up. All meals are included.

Caring for our elderly since 1998. Free assessments.

Ellen’s Home Of Port Washington

1800 Granite Lane • Port Washington 262-268-9555 • www.ellenshome.com The capacity of Ellen’s Home of Port Washington is 44, offers two room options including private rooms with bath and two room suites with bath on a lovely farmland setting. Offering numerous programs inside and outside the home for a variety of residents’ needs and interest. Ellen’s promotes a safe, social, active, Christian atmosphere for seniors who can’t live on their own, but don’t need a skilled nursing home.

Ellen’s offers socialization and health monitoring, pharmacy, lab testing, radiology, podiatry, therapy, salon and some physician services to avoid multiple trips outside the home.

The enrollment/endowment fee is $3,000 with monthly service fees starting at $4,500 and up. All meals are included. Free assessment.

Ellen’s Home South

W150 N11127 Fond du Lac Ave. • Germantown 262-250-9800 • www.ellenshome.com The capacity of Ellen’s Home South is 46, offers two room options including private rooms with bath and two room suites with bath. Offering numerous programs inside and outside the home for a variety of residents’ needs and interest. Ellen’s promotes a safe, social, active, Christian atmosphere for seniors who can’t live on their own, but don’t need a skilled nursing home. El-

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full-service bank, and beauty salon/barber shop. Seniors enjoy len’s offers socialization and health monitoring, pharmacy, radiology, all the support services they need, including care from our highly podiatry, therapy, salon and some physician services to avoid multiple trained health staff of RNs, LPNs, and CNAs. If you join our commutrips outside the home. The enrollment/endowment fee is $3,000 with monthly service fees starting at $4,500 and up. All meals are included. nity as an independent resident and your needs change, you may stay in your same apartment while accessing the services of our Assisted Living Free assessment.

Program. We can offer the affordable retirement you want with the services you may need—to assist you through the years. Call us today to arForest Ridge, A Wimmer range your personal tour. Reserve your own luxurious apartment today!

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11077 W. Forest Home Ave. • Hales Corners • 414-425-1148 Forest Ridge in Hales Corners is your premier hometown senior community.

Newly constructed apartment homes are available NOW! Reach out to our beautiful community with social activities, new friendships, fitness and wellness programs, delicious dining, and so much more. We offer 259 residences, including: one-bedroom apartments, two-bedrooms/two baths apartments, and one-bedroom with den apartments—many with a patio or balcony. Lease options allow flexible terms, and meal plans available for an additional cost. Our social calendar includes a variety of activities, special events, tours, and trips with scheduled transportation available. For your convenience, we offer a daily dining program, enclosed parking, plus on-site country store,

Heritage At Deer Creek

3585 S. 147th St. • New Berlin 262-432-0222 • www.heritagesenior.com Assisted Living and Memory Care residence.

Within Heritage at Deer Creek you will find a warm and compassionate community where daily assistance is provided with love and utmost respect for personal integrity of our residents.

Our compassionate staff is trained to serve with an open heart and friendly smile. Living arrangements: Assisted Living – 43 apts., studios, 3 sizes/1 bedrooms, 2 bedrooms/2 baths, walk-in showers, individually controlled

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Pets welcome. All utilities, except telephone, friendly smile.

Living arrangements: internet and cable are included. Memory Care – 33 private suites with Assisted Living – 43 apts., studios, 3 sizes/1 bedrooms, 2 bedrooms/2 bathrooms, most with walk-in showers. Monthly rent: Assisted Living baths, walk-in showers, individually controlled heat and air, kitchenette.

– start at $3,750; Memory Care – start at $4,800. In-house physician, poPets welcome. All utilities, except telephone included. Memory Care – 33 diatrist, coordination of therapies and lab services. private suites with bathrooms, most with walk-in showers. Monthly rent: Activities: lunch outings, movies, cards, bingo, happy hour and more.

Assisted Living – start at $2,955; Memory Care – start at $3,800. In house Affiliations: Lexington Heritage, Heritage Court, Heritage West Alphysician, podiatrist, coordination of therapies and lab services. Activilis, Heritage Elm Grove, Heritage Court Waukesha. ties: lunch outings, movies, cards, bingo, happy hour and more. Affiliations: Lexington Heritage, Heritage Court, Heritage West Allis, Heritage Heritage Elm Grove, HeritageCourt Court Waukesha.

N48 W14250 Ave. • Menomonee Falls 262-442-1540 • www.heritagesenior.com Heritage This is a 34Court unit, secure, residence.

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for Assistance in Living With an enclosed outdoor garden, residents can enjoy the outdoors in a safe and secure area. We provide three home-cooked meals a day and snacks and have an array of activities for everyone to enjoy.

All private suites are with private bath. Activities: outings, movies, cards, daily events and more. Affiliations: Lexington Heritage, Heritage at Deer Creek, Heritage Court Waukesha, Heritage West Allis, and Heritage Elm Grove.

Heritage Court Waukesha

1831 Meadow Lane • Pewaukee 262-542-3434 • www.heritagesenior.com A 36 unit, 38 bed for profit facility with no enrollment/endowment fee.

Choose from 34 studios 255 – 320 sq. ft. and 2 -1 BR – 490 sq. ft. rooms. Spouses may share the 1 BR units only. Monthly rent starts at $5,100 with 3 meals per day included in fee. Recreation programs include Music and Memory Program, Walking Club, Memory Training Centers of America, stretching, physical and cognitive exercises, arts and crafts, cooking and baking club, outings, live entertainment

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Supportive Care Directory and pet therapy. We have a full-time RN, 24 hr. nurse on call. Heritage Court Waukesha has a well-trained thoughtful staff that will meet the care and needs of our residents 24 hours a day. Peace of mind knowing that our residents can maintain their independence and individuality in a safe, nurturing environment. The brand new Heritage Waukesha offers a whirlpool spa, on-site beauty salon, patio and courtyard, multi-sensory Snoezelen room, therapy room and a community area with a private dining room. Affiliations: Heritage Elm Grove, Heritage Court, Heritage at Deer Creek, Heritage West Allis, and Lexington Heritage.

Heritage Elm Grove

800 Wall Street • Elm Grove 262-786-5800 • www.heritagesenior.com A 40-unit Assisted Living residence for profit. Choose from 18 enhanced assisted living, 36 memory care units, studios and one and two bedroom apartments. Spouses may share one and two bedroom apartments.

There is no enrollment/endowment fee with the monthly rent for Assisted Living $3,850-$5,200, Enhanced Assis-

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for Assistance in Living tance $5,100 and Memory Care $5,100 along with three meals per day included. Recreation and programs provided include Music and Memory Program, Walking Club, Memory Training Centers of America, stretching, physical and cognitive exercises, arts and crafts, Cooking and Baking Club, outings, live entertainment and pet therapy.

On staff there is a full-time RN, 24-hour nurse on call and full time LPN. We provide a well-trained thoughtful staff that will meet the care and needs of our residents 24 hours a day. Peace of mind knowing that our residents can maintain their independence and individuality in a safe, nurturing environment. The brand new Heritage Elm Grove offers a community pub, Movie Theater, whirlpool spa, on-site beauty salon, patios and courtyards, multi-sensory Snoezelen room, therapy room, and community room with private dining room. Affiliations: Heritage Court, Heritage at Deer Creek, Heritage West Allis, Lexington Heritage, and Heritage Court Waukesha.

Heritage Muskego

S64 W13780 Janesville Road • Muskego 414-425-7155 • heritagesenior.com Affiliated with Heritage Senior Living, we are a 128-bed facility offering one- and two-bedroom Independent and Assisted Living apartments and one-bedroom and studio Memory Care suites. Spouses may share

Family owned and operated senior apartments with a commitment to quality care and exceptional service starting at $3125 monthly.

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Monthly rent for Independent Living starts at $2,290, Assisted Living starts at $4,150 and Memory Care rent starts at $4,900. There is a mandatory meal plan. One plan for Assisted Living and Memory Care, which includes all meals. Flexible for Independent, which includes one lunch a day with extra meals available for purchase. All meals are included in Assisted Living and Memory Care rent and one meal per day is included in Independent rent.

Heritage Muskego offers coordinated activities and outings including exercise programs, Wisconsin-themed monthly calendar, intergenerational activities, hands-on arts and crafts projects, musical entertainment, religious services, themed meals and scheduled outings with use of wheelchair-accessible van.

The staff includes a director of nursing, LPNs, CNAs and specially trained memory care staff, in addition to on-site therapy providers and a mobile dentist and podiatrist.

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Heritage West Allis

7901 W. National Avenue • West Allis 414-302-9700 • www.heritagesenior.com HERITAGE COURT Heritage West Allis offers an elegant, Assisted Living and Memory Care community where daily assistance is provided with love and the utmost respect for personal integrity of our residents. Choose from studio, one and two FOREST RIDGE SENIOR RESIDENCES bedroom apartments with no entrance or endowment fee.

Within each apartment is a kitchenHERITAGE WEST ALLIS ette, private bath with walk-in-shower, spacious closets and a reassuring personalized emergency call pendant. Amenities include: community pub, beauty shop, fitness center, community room and library.

Professional care giving staff is available 24 hours a day to assist you with anything from bathing to medication administration. Heritage Memory Care Neighborhood specializes in care for residents with Alzheimer’s or other related Dementias. Our two 20-suite communities offer

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Located on the scenic shores of Lake Michigan Shorelight Memory Care is proud to provide premier person centered memory care for your loved ones.

For more information or to schedule your tour Please Call 262-898-3188.

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bathrooms. 2 bedroom/2 baths. All units have microwave and reresidents an uncomplicated design with home-like private accommodations. 40 residents will reside in private suites with bath and walk-in frigerator. Rents start at $2,330 for studio, $2,630 for one bedroom showers. A beautiful secure interior courtyard will provide safe access to and $2,930 for two bedroom apartments.

There is no enrollment/endowment fees. Activities: musical enterthe outdoors. Our activity program is designed to stimulate and engage HERITAGE AT DEER CREEK puzzles, churchSENIOR services, Pokeno, crafts and the residents remaining cognitive strengths. Affiliates: Heritage at Deer tainment, trivia, crossword PROHEALTH CARE REGENCY COMMUNITIES-NEW BERLIN Creek, Lexington Heritage, Heritage Court, Heritage Court Waukesha, van for transportation. and Heritage Elm Grove.

Affiliations: Heritage at Deer Creek Assisted Living and Memory Care, Heritage Court Memory Care, Heritage Eau Claire, Heritage West Allis, Heritage Court Waukesha, and Heritage Elm Grove.

Lexington Heritage

5020 S. 107th St. • Greenfield 414-302-9700 • www.heritagesenior.com Lincoln Village Port Washington JACKSON CROSSINGS RETIREMENT COMMUNITY A 20-unit Assisted Living resi1300 W. Lincoln Ave. • Port Washington dence. When you enter the doors of 262-268-1300 • www.Lincolnvillageseniorliving.com PROHEALTH CARE REGENCY SENIOR Lexington Heritage you will find a The brand new LincolnCOMMUNITIES-MUSKEGO Village Port small and comfortable facility with a Washington offers a community pub, very home-like atmosphere. whirlpool spa, on-site beauty salon, paThroughout the days many enjoy tio and courtyards, multi-sensory Snoesitting in our sunroom viewing the zelen room, therapy room and commubeauty of our private patio. We have nity room with private dining room. caring, dedicated caregivers on staff Offering 30 assisted living apartments, LEXINGTON HERITAGE 24 hours a day to provide our residents with love, respect and dignity. 11 enhanced living apartments and 20 We provide three home-cooked meals a day and have an array of activi- memory care apartments. ties for everyone to enjoy. Studio, large and small/bedrooms with private There are three floor plans: studios, one and two-bedroom apart-

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Supportive Care Directory for Assistance in Living ments. Spouses may share apartments. Rent for assisted living start at $3,750/monthly, enhanced living start at $4,750/ monthly and memory care rent starts at $4,450/monthly.

Our meal plan is included in the rental rate. We have numerous recreational programs: music & memory program, walking club, Memory Training Centers of America, stretching, physical and cognitive exercises, arts and crafts, cooking and baking club, outings, live entertainment and pet therapy. We provide a well-trained thoughtful staff that will meet the care and needs of our residents 24-hours a day. You can have peace of mind knowing that our residents can maintain their independence and individuality in a safe nurturing environment.

Lindengrove Communities –Mukwonago

841 E. Veterans Way • Mukwonago 262-363-6830 • www.lindengrove.org LindenGrove offers 57 efficiency and 1-bedroom units. Monthly rent ranges from $3,120-$3,850 and includes a three meal per day plan.

LindenGrove has daily social, recreational and lifelong learning opportunities scheduled, chapel, on-site barber/ beauty shop, on-site store, gardening, library and pet companionship program.

The apartments at LindenGrove are perfect for those who wish to maintain an independent lifestyle, yet want the security of knowing personal assistance is available 24/7.

As a non-profit, LindenGrove places quality, affordability and resident satisfaction at the top of the list.

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427 N. University Dr. • Waukesha 262-524-1180 • www.lindengrove.org LindenGrove Waukesha offers 60 efficiency and 1-bedroom assisted living apartments. In April, the campus will also offer 20 enhanced assisted living suites for adults living with advanced physical needs.

LindenGrove has daily social, recreational and lifelong learning opportunities scheduled, chapel, on-site barber/beauty shop, on-site store, gardening, and library.

The apartments at LindenGrove are perfect for those who wish to maintain an independent lifestyle, yet want the security of knowing per-

ica, stretching, physical and cognitive exercises, arts and crafts, cooking and baking club, outings, live entertainment and pet therapy. We provide a well-trained thoughtful staff that will meet the care and needs of our residents 24-hours a day. You can have peace of mind knowing that our residents can maintain their independence and individuality in a safe nurturing environment.

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faith-based community, has an on-site clinic with doctors, dentists and specialists, and offer 30-40 activities per week to engage in.

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Prohealth Regency Senior Communities Brookfield

777 N. Brookfield Rd. • Brookfield 262-780-0321 • www.RegencySeniorCommunities.com Regency Assisted Living is backed by our established reputation as a leader in exceptional senior care for 25 years and is the most affordable, comprehensive program available. Seniors enjoy the privacy and independence they want with as many of the support services they need, including the convenience of our on-site ProHealth Care Medical Clinic and dedicated care 24/7 from our highly trained staff of RNs, LPNs, and CNAs. We have studio and one-bedroom apartments ranging from $3,075 - $5,595 a month. Our monthly fee includes a meal plan, nursing services, and many social and recreational opportunities on and off campus with complimentary transportation. Couples may share an apartment for an affordable additional second person fee, which includes meals and nursing services. Although a meal plan is included, residents appreciate the flexibility of eating a light meal at times in their own apartment kitchenette. Call to schedule your private tour today.

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W181 S8540 Lodge Blvd. • Muskego 262-679-0888 • www.RegencySeniorCommunities.com In Muskego, Regency Assisted Living is backed by our established reputation as a leader in exceptional senior care for 25 years and is the most affordable, comprehensive program available.

Seniors enjoy the privacy and independence they want with as many of the support services they need, including the convenience of our on-site ProHealth Care Medical Clinic and dedicated care 24/7 from our highly trained staff of RNs, LPNs, and CNAs. We have one-bedroom apartments with care programs starting at just $2,570, and an all-inclusive program beginning at $5,460. Couples may share apartments for an affordable additional fee, depending on the level of care needed. Three chef-prepared meals and snacks and hundreds of different types of social and recreational activities on and off campus with complimentary transportation are included. Call to schedule your private tour today.

Prohealth Regency Senior Communities New Berlin

13750 W. National Avenue • New Berlin 262-789-1699 • www.RegencySeniorCommunities.com At Regency-New Berlin, 88 lovely one-bedroom and studio apartments are located in the assisted living service area.

We also offer assisted living services in our independent one- and two-bedroom supportive care apartments. Assisted living rents range from $3,695 -$5,410 a month, depending on the level of care and the apartment size selected. Seniors enjoy the convenience of an on-site ProHealth Care Medical Clinic and dedicated care 24/7 from our highly trained RNs, LPNs, and CNAs. Monthly fees include three meals a day, a microwave and refrigerator, basic utilities, housekeeping, and personal care services, along with many social and recreational opportunities on and off campus with complimentary transportation.

Three daily meals are included with independent units receiving assisted living care and for those residing in the assisted living apartments.

Couples may share apartments for an affordable additional fee, depending on the level of care needed. Call to schedule your private tour today.

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5643 Erie Street • Racine 262-898-9100 • www.sienaonthelake.org Affiliated with the Racine Dominican Sisters, Shorelight’s facility has the capacity of 36 private rooms all with full bath and European showers. There is an enrollment/ endowment fee of $3,000, which is refundable within the first 6 months. Monthly rent is $6,000, which includes a mandatory food plan.

Shorelight Memory Care at Siena has dynamic, innovative programs & activities specifically designed for residents with dementia & Alzheimers that allows them to live in the moment.

Shorelight’s philosophy of person centered memory care provides the perfect blend of security, safety & socialization to create a true home for the residents we serve.

The Apartments at Elizabeth Residence

9279 N. Port Washington Rd. • Bayside 414-351-1213 • elizabethresidence.com The Apartments at Elizabeth Residence is a 40-apartment facility with studios, 1 bedroom and 2 bedroom units. Spouses may share apartments.

There is a security deposit of $3,000 and monthly rent starts at $3,125 with meals included. They offer three activities a day and have programs in their exercise room as well as various outings throughout the Milwaukee area. There are CNA’s and RN’s on staff to assist residents.

Hot, delicious meals prepared and socialization with peers are some advantages of assisted living. The Apartments at Elizabeth Residence is a family-owned and operated RCAC, which provides a continuum of care with CBRF on campus.

The Polonaise at Wilson Commons

1500 W. Sonata Drive • Milwaukee 414-281-3400 • www.capricommunities.com/polonaise The Polonaise at Wilson Commons is affiliated with Wisconsin Assisted Living Association (WALA), Argentum, and American Senior Housing Association (ASHA). They are a 75-unit facility featuring one and two-bedroom apartment homes, complete with full kitchen and private bathrooms with walk-in shower. Select apartments include a balcony or patio and walk-in closets. Spouses may share apartments. There is a security deposit plus one-time $1,000 community fee, and the security fee is refundable. Monthly rent starts at $2,040; average is $2,130. Flexi-

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Our residents enjoy scheduled transportation to shopping and outings; social events, activities, and wellness programs including weekday exercise classes; full-service salon for men and women; physical therapy on site; church services and many more. They have two licensed practical nurses on staff.

Assisted living allows older adults to maintain their independence and dignity while knowing there is help for them when they need it.

Residents of The Polonaise enjoy spacious apartments with full kitchens, renovated common spaces, attentive staff, nutritious meals, and beautiful views of neighboring Wilson Park.

Assisted Living at Tudor Oaks Featuring Style-Smart, Charming Private Apartments • Individual Care Plans • Medication Managment • Wellness Program • Beautiful Campus Setting Visit www.TudorOaks.net for a fly-thru video tour of our community!

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S77 W12929 McShane Drive, Muskego, WI 53150

Tudor Oaks is owned and operated by American Baptist Homes of the Midwest, a not-for-profit provider of senior health care since 1930.

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1010 Pine Ridge Court • Oconomowoc 262-468-7711 • info@theviewatpineridge.com The View at Pine Ridge is affiliated with WALA, Alzheimer’s Association, Parkinson’s Association, Oconomowoc Dementia Friendly Community Forum. Phase I has 26 beds, CBRF; and phase II has 46 beds, CBRF. All 1 and 2 room suites include a bath and spouses may share rooms/ apartments. There is no enrollment/endowment fee. Monthly rent is between $4,258 (single) and $11,102 (double) and does include a meal plan.

The View at Pine Ridge offers many recreational opportunities and programs including: creative expressions (art and music therapy), walking club, social outings, exercise classes, cooking & baking club, pet therapy, live entertainment, religious services, men’s club and women’s club.

The staff is a highly trained medical staff consisting of RNs, LPNs, CNAs, dental hygienist, OT, PT, speech therapists, visiting physicians and a podiatrist.

The View at Pine Ridge offers stress-free time with loved ones; community encompassing nutritional, physical, mental, social and spiritual activities within the comfort of resident’s own home.

We believe our special advantage is that we offer a community where loved ones will be safe, comfortable and loved! A community which combines the most recent discoveries with the best care strategies provided by highly trained and professional, warm-hearted staff who promote resident-centered care with a sense of purpose.

Tudor Oaks Senior Living Community

S77 W12929 McShane Drive • Muskego 414-529-0100 • www.TudorOaks.net Tudor Oaks Senior Living Community is a not-for-profit continuing care community owned by American Baptist Homes of the Midwest. The Assisted Living wings include 45 RCAC and 22 CBRF apartments. RCAC apartments have a separate living and bedroom, tea kitchen, private bathroom and shower. CBRF apartments are a studio design with private bathroom and shower. Spouses may share the apartment.

Meals (3 meals & 2 snacks daily) and assistance with daily living activities are included in the monthly fee, which is based on level of care needs. Recreational activities include fitness classes, swimming, music, games, spiritual programs, bus trips and entertainment. Medical personnel on staff include a CNA 24/7 on the floor and a RN on campus.

The caring and compassionate staff helps residents stay as independent as possible while providing the lifestyle environment that allows them to live to their greatest potential regardless of age or condition.

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Villa St. Francis

1910 W. Ohio Avenue • Milwaukee 414-649-2893 • www.villastfrancis.org Sponsored by the Felician Sisters, Villa St. Francis offers 128 apartments, which include 1-bedroom apartments, studio plus kitchenette and studio plus units. Spouses may share in a one-bedroom unit. There is a nonrefundable enrollment/endowment fee of $300. Monthly rents range from $3,795 to approximately $6,000 depending on the level of care. Two meals are included and a third meal may be added for an additional $160 per month. There is an RN on staff Monday through Friday and an LPN available seven days a week.

Villa St. Francis offers daily mass and rosary, exercise classes, live music, pet therapy, memories in the making and cooking classes.

Assisted living allows an individual to be more independent with med management, dining, housekeeping and so much more.

Our facility offers daily mass and rosary, restaurant-style dining with home-cooked meals, engaging life-enrichment program and much more.

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3023 S. 84th Street • West Allis 414-607-4100 • www.VMPcares.com VMP Healthcare & Community Living offers a full continuum of care under one roof with independent living, assisted care, memory care, skilled nursing, short-term rehabilitation, ventilator care and out-patient therapy.

VMP also has an on-site medical clinic, SHOREHAVEN TOWER hospice care, and pastoral care.

VMP’s also specializes in ventilaVMP-MANOR PARK tor and respiratory care. VMP’s short-term rehabilitation services allow patients to return home safely and remain independent after a hospital visit when they need to regain strength and stamina. Therapy services are ST. ANNE’S SALVATORIAN specific to patients’ needs. Free transportation from the hospital upon CAMPUS admission is available.

VMP’s Senior Community Club is open to residents and the community, offering many in-house events and classes, as well as off-campus trips. Popular outings include Brewer tailgates, theater outings, and ocVMP-TRINITY VILLAGE casional overnight destinations.

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The mission of VMP is to provide a full range of senior healthcare for residents, patients and the community in accordance with Christian values. We’ve been providing these top quality services to SE Wisconsin for over 90 years.

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A checklist for interviewing caregivers Finding someone you trust to care for your parents is a big responsibility. So it’s important that you ask the right questions before choosing a candidate.

HOME-CARE COMPANY:

How long have you been in the home-care business?

Are you certified by Medicare or the state for short-term after-hospital care?

Are you bonded? What type of bonding?

Are the caregivers employed by the agency or do you subcontract?

How long have you known the caregiver or how long has the employee worked for you?

What is the hiring process?

What type of training and experience do you require?

What kind of certification do your caregivers have?

How do you determine the level of care we need and who to send to us? Do you arrange a home conference with the client and family? Is the family included in the treatment plan?

Will we get the chance to meet and interview the caregiver ahead of time? Can we ask for someone else?

Do you have a minimum number of hours?

What services will you provide?

Do you supervise the caregivers?

What are your rates? Are there additional charges beyond the caregiver’s rate? Who pays for gas to a doctor’s appointment, for example? Do rates change for evenings or weekends? Is there a special rate for 24-hour care?

Is your agency a member of any state or national professional associations?

Can we be assured of the same caregiver each time? Will he or she keep to a set schedule?

What are your provisions for sending a substitute when the caregiver is ill? What about weekends and holidays?

PRIVATE CAREGIVER:

Can you give me several personal and work-related references? (You might even consider hiring a detective to do a background check.)

Where have you worked before?

What were your duties?

What is your education, training or experience, for example, in memory loss?

How do you feel about caring for a disabled person or one with memory loss? Have you done that before?

Give an example of a difficult situation you handled with a client. For instance, how did you handle refusing to take a shower?

Have you had experience cooking for others? Cleaning?

How do you handle people who are angry, stubborn, fearful?

Do you have a car? Would you be able to transfer someone from a wheelchair to a car or bed?

What days and hours are you available? How many hours a week?

Do you provide a substitute when you can’t make it?

Is there anything in the job description that you are uncomfortable doing?

How would you keep the family informed?

Are you willing to sign a contract saying you will not accept money or gifts from my parents?

Whether you hire an agency or an individual, you must continue to be involved in your parents’ care. Even hiring an agency caregiver who is licensed and bonded is not foolproof.

And you’ll still want to make all the important decisions.

Do your kids a favor: Write down your expectations

BY MARSHA KAY SEFF

I received this sweet note from a daughter the other day: “For some time now, I have been reading your wonderful column. I have made copies of various articles for reference. My mother has passed, but I am putting copies of the articles in a notebook I have prepared for my daughters, in the eventuality of my needing care. Both are wonderful career women with young children. I want to make my care as easy as possible for them. ... “ What a great idea.

If I had children, I’d love to tell them now about the things that might make my dotage easier for all of us.

Here are some of my thoughts: For one thing, I’d never make them promise they would keep me out of an assisted-living or skilled-nursing facility. That’s not a fair promise; nobody can predict the future.

Sometimes, no matter how hard adult children and their families try, placement becomes the best option.

Not only could it be a godsend for the stressed-out family, but it might also be best for mom or dad. Despite the family’s love, some older folks, especially those with increasing dementia, are better off in a retirement home with residents with similar needs and professionals equipped to care for them.

If I needed to move to a home and I was still capable of participating in the selection, I’d like to have a vote. I’d ask my children to do most of the legwork and narrow my choice to three places. Then, I’d like to eyeball each one, maybe have a meal at each.

If I’m not safe alone at home and I’d really prefer to stay put, I’d like my kids to consider hiring a home-care agency. If I still could, I’d want to be involved in the hiring process. Be-

cause this person would be underfoot in my house, it would be nice if I helped choose.

I’d give my children permission to confiscate the car keys when it was time. I’ve seen far too many older friends driving past the point of safety.

I’d like my kids to remember who I was in my prime -- at least on my good days. Though I’d trust them to do the right thing by me, I’d hate for them to swoop down and take over my life any more than necessary. After I’ve lost much of the control over my life, I’d hate to lose my children’s respect, too. After all, I’ll always be the parent.

I’d want them to remember that I love chocolate and pizza. When all I have left is looking forward to treats, I hope they don’t force me to stomach icky vegetables, steak and salads.

I don’t eat that way now, and I don’t want to eat that way later.

If I need to move, I’d hope my children would pack my favorite photos, mementos and clothing. Maybe my favorite recliner. I love to shop, and I’d hope they would get me to the thrift stores at least once a week. If there were no room in my closet, I’d ask them to rotate my clothes. Just because I’m old, I wouldn’t ever want to dress like an old lady.

I realize the importance of a power of attorney for financial matters and an Advance Health Care Directive. If I hadn’t already completed these steps, I’d do it for my kids. It wouldn’t be fair to make them guess what my wishes were and not even have the authority to carry them out. I wouldn’t want to be kept alive by extraordinary means, and I’d hope my kids wouldn’t feel guilty following my wishes. I’d wish they’d give me a big hug and kiss and send me to my reward.

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Tips for Winter walking in Milwaukee

BY ANNA LARDINOIS

The start of the year is traditionally when many people renew their commitment to fitness and there are few forms of exercise more accessible to those of multiple fitness levels than walking. This low impact exercise strengthens bones and muscles while working to improve balance and coordination in the walker. Walking just 30 minutes a day is known to improve the walker’s mood, while helping the walker maintain a healthy weight.

Regular walking can help manage, or even prevent heart disease, high blood pressure and Type 2 diabetes.

Walking is undeniably good for us, but it can seem like a daunting task, particularly when the winter winds are blowing and temperatures drop uncomfortably low. Winter walking in Milwaukee is both possible and fun, even for those who do not have a gym membership! Following is some useful information that will get you winter walking in no time.

GEAR UP AND GET OUTSIDE

Clear and sunny, albeit cold, days can be just the things to combat the winter blues. Before you head out there to exercise in the sunshine, make sure you prepared to safely walk outdoors.

HYDRATE

Dry winter air is dehydrating and needs to be combated by drinking more water. Winter walkers sweat, even if it doesn’t feel the same as sweating on a blistering hot day. Be sure to bring water with you on your workout and sip frequently.

DRESS FOR THE WEATHER

Rather than bundling up, experts suggest winter walkers dress in three layers. A thin, sweat-wicking base is recommended to keep the walker comfortable and dry. The second layer should be an insulating layer, to trap body heat and keep the walker warm.

Finally, the third layer should be both waterproof, breathable, and ideally, easily removable to prevent overheating. Hats and gloves are a must for those exercising outdoors in the winter.

Winter walking can be slippery, even perilous sometimes, so it is important to have footwear appropriate for the conditions. Shoe soles that pro-

vide traction and stability are necessary for the winter walkers. Those who trek in slick or icy conditions, may want to invest in a studded outdoor walking shoe. To combat the occasionally slippery stretch, walkers may want to use removable ice grips, like Yaktrax or other traction devices that are fastened to the outsides of shoes.

SUN PROTECTION

Fresh snow is a great reflector and those walking in fresh snow are exposed to nearly double the typical UV rays. This means that winter walkers need to be extra diligent when protecting themselves from the sun’s rays.

Sunscreen is a must for those spending time outdoors in winter. Sunglasses are necessary to protect eyes from snow glare. Lenses tinted with a light color, like yellow or rose, are particularly effective in snowy conditions.

Those often in bright, snow conditions might consider “glacier glasses,” which have lenses specifically designed to contact snow glare, and feature wraparound frames that protect the sides of the eyes from the light.

TAKE IT INDOORS

When conditions are too cold or slippery to venture outside, you can still winter walk in Milwaukee, even if you do not have a gym membership.

Pettit Center Beyond being an Olympic skating facility, the Pettit Center has 443 meter walking track that is open to the public. Generally, the track is open from 5:30 AM- 8:15 PM most days. $4 get you access to the track, with discounted pricing offered to those who purchase multi-visit passes. A little more than three and a half laps around the rink measures a mile, and there is a handy wall chart available for you to track your progress. The outside lane is for walkers and other slower moving foot traffic. The indoor temperature typically around 55 degrees, so dress accordingly.

Shopping Malls Another great option for indoor walking is taking advantage of walker access at area malls. Bayshore Town Center, Brookfield Square, Grand Avenue Mall, Mayfair Mall, and Southridge all offer early access to their facilities to walkers. While “mall walking” has a reputation as being an

activity exclusively for the elderly, an early morning trip to the mall will reveal walkers of all ages and fitness levels taking advantage of the warm, safe, well-lit walking environment.

Bayshore Town Center Walkers have early access to the mall at 8:00 AM Monday-Saturdays, and 9:00 AM Sundays. 9 laps from the rotunda to the food court is one mile.

Brookfield Square Walkers have early access to the

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mall at 8:00 AM Monday-Saturdays, and 10:00 AM Sundays. One lap around the mall, including the wings, is .8 mile.

Grand Avenue Mall The building opens at 7:00 AM and with the skywalks, the opportunities for distances and routes are nearly endless. Early morning walkers take note: while the mall opens at 7:00 AM for walkers, the bathrooms do not open until 10:00 AM.

Poem

Why not start this short month with nectar of the vine?

Enjoy a glass of wine when you go out to dine.

All sorts of things are offered as medical interventions.

Among the best just could be American Legion conventions.

A light bulb in our lamp seems to be going dim.

Chances of a discount for a new one are very slim.

We don’t care to watch people dancing with the stars.

The way they prance, they might as well be on Mars.

Recently, a doctor checked us for peculiar sounds.

If he found any, the cure cost-wise may be out of bounds.

Eeeny, meenie, minie, mo, catch an errant guy by the toe.

When you let him in, do hope he will not be a foe.

There must be even in February, a time for everything.

Do feed the lovely birds so happily they will sing.

For St. Valentine’s Day, try a chocolate covered cherry.

Or if you’d rather, a similarly covered strawberry.

Going by the lake, we see an occasional iceboat.

If ice would disappear, those contraptions would float.

George Washington was this country’s first president.

Everyone liked him. Definitely, he was no illegal resident.

As you read, don’t get upset and call in the brigade.

Just settle back and enjoy a tasty glass of lemonade.

Now it is time for a Sensenbrenner town hall meeting.

A politician, he talks and does not waste time tweeting.

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into the story, we’ll throw in a sidebar about speed as a prelude.

Back when the famed American track star Jesse Owens won the 100 meter race in the 1936 Olympic Games in Berlin, Germany, he flashed across the finish line in 10.2 seconds, a new world record. This prompted the astounded and delighted media to proclaim his as “The World’s Fastest Human.” Over the years since, in Olympic Games and other events, that record has been lowered incrementally and now is 9.58 seconds.

When Owens set his mark in 1936 that 10.2 seconds equated to about 25 miles an hour. Today’s record thus is around 28 miles an hour. Every time a new record was set, the media then gleefully dubbed the new champion with the same title, “The World’s Fastest Human.” Which was a nice title, except it actually was a misnomer. I’ll explain.

Switch now to Vern Kappes and his athletic achievements.

When Vern was a young man and took first place in a 500-meter race, he won it in a time of 43 seconds, which was almost 40 miles an hour. That was a good deal faster than Owens ever ran, or other runners since, including Bob Hayes, Carl Lewis or the current Olympic 100 meter champion, Usain Bolt.

Impossible? Not really.

Jesse Owens and all those other speedsters achieved their times in a track & field event, the 100-meter race. Vern’s race was on ice; he was a speed skater. There is no faster human

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By Jack Pearson powered race in existence than speed skating.

In that regard, Vern Kappes is one of the finest speed skaters this state has ever produced. You wouldn’t be far off by putting him right up there with such Wisconsin skating stars as Bonnie Blair, Dan Jansen, Beth and Eric Heiden, Connie Carpenter and Diane Holum; who are now all in the Wisconsin Athletic Hall of Fame, and Olympic racers from Wisconsin such as Bill Carrow and Wayne Lebombard. In his younger days, he won the state championship several times; and won the North American Championship three times. Later, skating as a senior, he won the World Championship in his age class twice.

It’s interesting to compare the ice speed skating records that exist today with those of 1924, when the first Winter Olympic Games were conducted, for example, the winner of the Men’s 500-meter race in 1924 was Charles Jewtraw of the United States, who posted a time of 0:44.0 seconds; the winner of the 1500 meters was Clas Thunberg of Finland, with a 2:20.8 mark; and the winner of the 5000 was also Thunberg, with a

The 1946 West Allis Skate Club. That’s Vern in the middle row, seventh from the left.

Vern Kappes today, in the library of the Village at Manor Park Apartments. time of 8:39.0.

I listed all those times simply to indicate that Vern’s best times were actually better than some of the early Olympic records.

“Well, it’s nice of you to compare me with all those Olympic ice skating winners of the past, but it’s not really a fair comparison,” Vern explained.

“You’re making me look a lot better than I really am. It’s difficult, and nearly impossible to compare skating record times of today with those of almost a century ago.” Ice skaters back in the ‘20s and for decades on through the war years simply didn’t have access to equipment and skating conditions that today’s skaters have, he said. It is somewhat the same thing that has happened in golf, where new high tech golf clubs and balls now permit players to drive the ball a hundred yards or more than old-timers did, and correspondingly, score far better. Newly developed synthetic materials for skate uniforms permit uniforms that have virtually no air resistance. New skating boots are light as a feather and contoured to the skater’s foot and the blades on those boots are harder and smoother than anything ever offered before. Another point; back in the early days nearly all skating was on outdoor ice, which was usually uneven, often had cracks and was nowhere as dependable as today’s indoor rinks such as at the Pettit Center.

“Today’s athletes may be stronger and faster,” Vern said, but it is the equipment and better ice that has made the difference.” The figures bear this out. That 500 meter record time of 0:44.0 seconds in 1924 is now 0:34.42. and the 10,000 meter time of 18:04.8 is now 12:44.45, for example.

What Vern didn’t say was that when he set his best marks in those ice skating races he didn’t have access to all the new air resistant clothing and the new high tech shoes and blades either. He began ice-skating when he was in his early teens, in the late 1940s. Most of his best marks were set in the ‘50s and ‘60s, long before all those new developments in equipment became available.

I wish I could be more exact and give you dates and locations but it’s not like doing a story on a pro baseball player such as Warren Spahn or a pro football player such as Bart Starr, where every little statistic is available in record books and media guides. In ice speed skating, old time records and other information are difficult to come by. And Vern didn’t keep records of all his accomplishments, other than in his head.

But speed skating is only one of the many sports Vern excelled at.

As a high school athlete back in the late ‘40s, he starred in every sport in which he participated – football, baseball, track & field, tennis. The only reason he didn’t go out for bas-

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ketball was that it and speed skating were conducted at the same time. He and Wisconsin golfing great Archie Dadian became good friends 60 years ago. When Vern had already passed his 30th birthday, Archie offered to teach the game to him. Despite never playing golf before, Vern quickly took to it and became a mid to low handicapper in a short period of time. If you’re familiar at all with golf, you know that it is extremely difficult to become a top quality player if you don’t begin playing as a youth.

In his high school days, Vern was also a top-notch baseball player, competing alongside and against some other West Allis athletes who all became quite successful in sports: Harvey Kuenn, Ron Unke and Gene Haas. Kuenn and Unke went on to star in baseball at the University of Wisconsin, Kuenn later into Major League Baseball as the manager of the Milwaukee Brewers; Haas, another multi-sport athlete, later became a fine golfer, is in the Wisconsin Golf Hall of Fame and later became Exec-

utive Director of the Wisconsin State Golf Association.

During his early years of ice skating competition, Vern would keep himself in shape (he still does today) by constant exercise, working with weights, running and swimming, and especially bike riding. He became so good at the last that he got into bike competition as well, and again won a pile of honors.

His buddy, Archie Dadian, besides getting Vern into golf, also became a teammate with him on a nine-man dartball team that for more than three decades was one of the top squads in Wisconsin, winning many championships. When that team lost its sponsorship in the early ’90s, Archie formed a four-man team of his own, also with Vern on it, and which also became one of the best in the state and also winning many championships. Vern was always a .550 range hitter, Dadian said, which put him among the top players in the game.

Getting back to golf, at the urging of Dadian and Haas, both of whom were founding members of the

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At the podium of the World Championships in Berlin, Germany, Vern, as the winner of his age class, in the center.

Vern and his wife, Marilyn, who passed away ten years ago.

Whitnall Park Men’s Golf Club, Vern joined the association and quickly became one of its more active members, playing three or four times a week and entering every tournament and event. “Golf is a game that should be enjoyed,” Haas noted, “and I don’t think there’s anyone that enjoyed it more than Vern.”

“There are many athletes who have excelled in more than one sport,” Dadian said, “but to be so good in so many, as Vern had done, is truly phenomenal. To top it off, he’s always been so refreshingly modest about all of it. It’s like pulling teeth to get him to talk about himself. He’s also a super person, period. He was a schoolteacher, and I know his students loved him.

He, like his father, was also a Lutheran minister, and he’s deeply religious.

Speed skating on ice is the world’s fastest self-propelled sport. That’s Vern in the lead. He’s also one of the most generous

guys I know. I recall that after the Pettit Center opened, and speed skaters would come in from all over the country to train, that Vern always had a bunch of them staying at his house, all free of charge, of course.”

“I’m happy that you’re doing a feature on him,” Dadian said. “Vern is just a super guy, in so many ways. I consider myself fortunate to have had him as a friend.”

On the subject of friends, it was another of Vern’s old pals, Pancho Palesse, who also lives in the VMP Apartments and is a local sports legend himself, who called me and suggested this feature on Kappes.

And another. Gene Haas, mentioned above, who among other things is a very good artist, and who drew caricature of Kappes for this article.

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proposed a $200,000 cut in the Senior Center’s budget along with a $105,000 across-the board cut imposed by the County Board. The County Board restored the $200,000 cut for Senior Centers but put it in a contingency account pending a report from the Department on Aging in March and County Board action on the recommendations in May 2018. These cuts have now been implemented resulting in the elimination of one manager position and one part-time custodian position at Wilson Park Senior Center, elimination of two program coordinator positions (Washington Park Senior Center and McGovern Senior Center), and the elimination of three dining supervisor positions (Washington Park, McGovern and Clinton

Rose Senior Centers). These represent significant cuts in program staff for Milwaukee County’s Senior Centers.

And, I have serious questions regarding the necessity of these cuts that affect Senior Center programming.

SENIOR CENTER ASSESSMENT PROJECT-PHASE I

Also, as reported last month, the Milwaukee County Department on Aging (MCDA) “is implementing an assessment and strategic planning process to explore the feasibility of incorporating senior centers in multi-purpose sites/buildings and to strengthen intergenerational relationships.” The first phase, “The Assessment Project” has been completed and consists of a power point presentation, Supplemental Materials, and “Facility

Assessment Reports” concerning Senior Centers done by the Milwaukee County Department of Administrative Services. These three documents can be found on the Department on Aging website at http://county.milwaukee.gov/Aging.

I found these documents very informative, especially the Supplemental Materials, including summaries of meetings with seniors and stakeholders, program information, and the Facility Assessment Reports.

I want to touch briefly on the Facility Reports before a more detailed description of the Supplemental Materials. Almost everyone would agree that years of deferred maintenance on the five Senior Center buildings is a major concern and will present greater problems in the future if nothing is done over the next few years. But, with one exception the Facility Reports find the Centers in “good condition”, that their “highest and best use” is “continued use as a senior center”, and “With repairs, [these] center(s) should continue to serve as senior center(s) for many years.” Of course, the key words are “with repairs.” The one exception is Kelly Senior Center where the report states “Recommend demolishing structure and consolidation of the senior center and nutrition center in a new facility possibly as part of a development structure that gives a private operator incentives to build a combined senior center with elderly housing.”

SENIOR CENTERS PROGRAMS

The key to excellence for senior centers is not the building, but the programs. While there seems to be agreement that the senior center buildings in Milwaukee County are less than excellent, I would argue that the programs are excellent. I have been visiting Milwaukee’s senior centers for well over 30 years and I have always been impressed with the depth and breadth of programming, and I believe that the program information provided by the Milwaukee County Department on Aging (MCDA) confirms my empirical data. For example, the Supplemental Materials on the MCDA website documents that the number of clients (people attending and participating in an activity) increased from 7,437 in 2014 to 10,744 in 2016, a 44% increase. Over the same period, volun-

teers increased by 3.4%. The number of new activities across all the centers was 302 in 2014, 301 in 2015, and 405 in 2016. Consumer satisfaction surveys over the same three year period ranges from a low of 95% to 100% over six different questions. And, for those participating in Fitness/Exercise programs 98% to 100% felt that it had improved their well-being.

Another report included in the Supplemental Materials is labeled “Notable Collaborations” and includes eight pages of charts showing collaborations for each of the five centers. Most collaborations seem to be health care related, but there are many educational programs, intergenerational programs, collaborations with colleges and universities (e.g. UWM, Herzing University, Milwaukee Area Technical College, Concordia University and Marquette) and libraries. It is an extremely impressive list. Keep in mind that these accomplishments occurred over a period that saw only one budget increase since 2014.

“POLITICS, MONEY AND PRIORITIES”

While everyone seems to agree that there are problems with Senior Centers in terms of physical facilities, the budget cuts, however, end up being harmful to programs. I have yet to hear any specific complaints from anyone about Senior Center programs although the County Board’s decision to withhold the $200,000 for five months implies concerns with Interfaith (now Unison), but even there it seems to be more about money than issues with programming. For example, County Supervisor Steve Taylor said that there are “hundreds of millions of dollars in deferred maintenance.” In an email to me, Jon Janowski, Director of Administration at the MCDA, stated “in short, the County simply cannot sustain its asset portfolio as it will never have the amount of funding needed to maintain all of these assets. Then when you add the pension and health care cost pressures on the county, it magnifies the urgency on why innovative programming solutions need to be explored now.” As Jim Kimble said it is about money, not for programs, but for “unsustainable” buildings.

I learned a long time ago that budgets are as much about priorities as they are about money. That raises

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the question “are Senior Centers in Milwaukee a priority for anyone?”

The County Executive proposed a $200,000 budget cut for Senior Centers even while asking for a $30 increase in the wheel tax, committing $4 million a year for 20 years for the Milwaukee Bucks arena, and proposing nearly $50 million for a new airport terminal. It is difficult to conclude that Senior Centers are his priority. I believe the County Board of Supervisors thinks that Senior Centers are a priority but they withheld $200,000 in funding for at least five months that has resulted already in significant cuts, and included an additional acrossthe-board cut that decreased Senior Center funding by another $105,000 for 2018. The $105,000 cut seems more reasonable since it applies to everyone, but withholding the $200,000 until June does not seem reasonable, especially given the programming success of Senior Centers (as documented in the MCDA Supplemental

Materials Report) in times of budget austerity.

And, while the Department on Aging is required by the federal Older Americans Act to “serve as the advocate and focal point for older individuals within the community by...monitoring, evaluating and commenting upon all policies, programs, hearings, levies, and community actions which will affect older individuals,” the leadership seems more concerned with the lack of money than advocating for solutions or bringing seniors and community people together to solve problems.

I believe that Jim Kimble summed it up very well when he said “Why don’t you want to come out to the Centers and talk with the seniors?”

Other than the two “Community Input Sessions” held by the MCDA ( that makes up only three and a half pages of the 103 page Supplemental Materials), older adults are conspicuously absent from the decisions that have

On a wintry day Our Wisconsin winters have a tendency to be overcast, with low flying clouds resting over the earth. We experienced such a time today. The only really great thing we could say abut this particular day was that it was warm, almost 50 degrees and still in January. Not quite yet a time for golf, except at golfing facilities that have the golf courses installed via DVDs. We understand these are installed for member use at Chenequa Country Club and for the public use at Pewaukee Golf Club. The cost is $35 at the latter and there are at least several courses to select from.

Golf, for many such addicted, is difficult to stay away from. We’re

certain that this particular Saturday found such addicted persons attempting to hit on fairways at nearby facilities with open and snow-free fairways.

As earlier comments were about the clouds practically encasing we mortals, cloudy days that follow each other over many industrial cities would make the art of smiling difficult for the smog laden cities, residents.

Why I can even recall a journey up Mulholland Drive above Los Angeles and being able to see the city clearly at night. As a bit of a pun, we recall reading somewhere that with no smog or oceanic-created fog rolling in UCLA.

How can this be?

We are convinced that a man, when he marries, is so in love that he would hope the intended bride would never change a bit. Women, however, are certain they will be able to change their husbands for the better.

Show me a good loser and I will tell you this person doesn’t know what life is all about.

After months of disappointing comments from formerly juicy riblet customers, a certain neighborhood type restaurant has placed them back on the menu. But why as all you can eat? You only need a high school degree to figure out that the price is higher.

been made so far. I urge the County Executive, County Board Supervisors, and MCDA staff to go out to the five Centers and talk with the seniors about their points of view, their ideas, and their vision for the future of Mil-

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waukee County Senior Centers. Finally, if the County Board wants to claim that Senior Centers are a priority, they could act to restore the $200,000 before June, 2018.

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Will he be missed? Yes. Clayton Chipman had a sacred role of helping others. Reflection on him, his attributes, his efforts, and his kindnesses bring his wisdom to the forefront. There was much more to his life than material things. His deeds unveiled his true inner person. We know that he will rest in peace.

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A friend tells me that my jokes are like most dad jokes, a bit stale.

Online shopping has not fully taken over yet. Truthfully, we hope it never does. Can you imagine life without retail stores?

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Can you imagine how many wings might have been discarded since Costco started selling 87 million rotisserie chickens this past year?

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Just in case you might be interested, the flower for this month is a carnation and the birthstone garnet.

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While the minimum federal wage is being raised in over 20 states, Wisconsin is not one of them. The $7.25 is being supplemented by some employers. If you are at the lowest dollar level, let us hope that your employer is one of those raising wages based on merit.

To not say that $7.25 is insufficient is almost embarrassing.

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A recent magazine had an article on how to use a fire extinguisher. After you pull the pin, be sure you aim it away from you. Enough said.

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I have been known to have an occasional cocktail. I am so happy that I have more than enough meat on my frame. Those skinny politicians, among others, just can’t handle their boos.

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I recently heard a joke that was all about a boomerang. I can’t recall how it starts. I guess it will come back to me.

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Tiny habits lead to nice changes START WITH A TINY HABIT.

You probably have many new habits you’d like to begin, but based on her research, Carter wants you to choose just one habit that is “ridiculously easy to do.” It should take less than 30 seconds and require very little physical effort or money, and -- no exceptions -- it must be something you do at least once a day. Some tiny habit suggestions: “After I put my head on the pillow, I will think of one good thing from the day,” or “After I hear my phone ring, I will exhale and relax for two seconds.” Once you have your ridiculously easy habit, write it down, and perform it every day. “Tiny habits are about skill building and about inching your way toward lifelong routines, and ease,” writes Carter, who cherishes ease.

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“It may feel like you are back at square one,” Carter writes, “but neurologically you aren’t. You’re actually in a better place” -- armed with new knowledge, more likely to succeed the next time.

Love those spirals.

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What? You’ve already failed to keep your New Year’s resolutions?

Of course you have. Welcome to human nature. And don’t feel badly.

Zillions of your fellow Americans are also failing to give up nachos, sleep seven hours a night, bicycle to work, defend their souls against time-sucking small-screen devices. Great intentions, depressing results.

Why is the new-habit failure rate so high? Because changing behavior -- as in developing new habits -- is a skill. Like shoeing a horse. It’s something you need to learn how to do, so when you decide to do it, your chance of success will skyrocket.

That’s what happened to Christine Carter, Ph.D., a sociologist and senior fellow with the Greater Good Science Center at the University of California, Berkeley. Carter struggled for years to get into the much-admired habit of exercising every morning. (Well, almost every morning.)

Carter knew -- as we all do -- that if she could do some exercise every day, it would bring more ease and power into her busy life, not to mention more physical, emotional and intellectual strength.

And still she failed... and failed again... until she did the research and rethinking necessary to set herself up for success.

Now when her alarm goes off in the morning, Carter is up and out of bed, meditating for seven to 20 minutes, and by 6:20-ish most mornings she’s doing her “better than nothing” daily exercise routine that began with a set of 15 pushups, 30 situps and 25 squats and has now evolved into a seven-minute circuit of 12 different high-intensity exercises. Plus, she runs for some minutes, stretches and, most Sundays, goes on a 3-mile hike with friends.

“After a year of habitually doing at least some exercise every morning, I woke up one day to realize that I was in the best shape of my life,” she writes in her latest book, an easy and inspiring read called “The Sweet Spot: How To Accomplish More By Doing Less.”

Christine cracked what she calls the “Habit Code,” and so can you, if you start small and proceed with

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The exceptional Rick Fare and the sport of dartball

BY JACK PEARSON

Welcome to the world of dartball, not the Old English version where players threw darts overhand at a target embossed with a bullseye, rather than the modern version, where the darts are thrown underhand, also at a target, but one in which the game of baseball is depicted on its face. Say hello to Rick Fare, who lives in Mount Pleasant, a community between Racine and Kenosha. Rick is being featured here simply because he is one of the best players in dartball and has been for decades.

During dartball competition, rules and scoring are similar to what takes place in a baseball contest. Dartball players don’t stand at the plate to try to hit a ball hurled at them by a pitcher, but rather stand at a line, about 20 feet from the dartboard, and try to strike certain spots with their dart to give them a hit – single, double, or home run – and so on. That is a simple explanation; the game of dartball is far more complex than that. Hitting those locations or spots

is much harder than it seems. It requires a good deal of steadiness, excellent eye-to-hand coordination, patience, and for a player to be any good at all takes years of dedicated practice.

And like other sports such as baseball or golf, only a small percentage of its participants ever reach the top as Fare has done. But in his case, what’s even more remarkable is that he is still at the top, even though he’s 73 years old.

In Major League Baseball, Boston Red Sox superstar Ted Williams was one of the greatest players of all time, the only one in nearly the past century to hit better than .400 over one entire season. Fare, like Williams, is also considered as a tremendous hitter and has set some almost unbelievable records along the way. For example, he once had 27 consecutive hits without making an out, something no other dartball player has ever accomplished or even come close to doing.

There, however, the similarity ends. While Williams, who was nicknamed “The Splendid Splinter,” was

Rick Fare, right, with his long-time buddy and occasional teammate Jim Hinckle.

GREAT GAME, DARTBALL, BUT AN ENIGMA AS WELL

One aspect of the game of Dartball, not explored in the accompa-

nying story, is that the sport is truly an enigma, popular in a way, yet

unknown at the same time. This seems like impossibility, yet it is true.

Check out some of the points below, which bear this out.

• Most sports are played on an athletic field or in a stadium.

Nearly all dartball competition takes place in taverns or in churches, a couple of odd bedfellows to say the least.

• Almanacs, even Sports Almanacs, in addition to all the major

sports, also list records and information about a multitude of other

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athletic endeavors –archery, curling, cycling, lacrosse, rifle and pistol

shooting, rodeo events, sailing, even chess. But none of them, as far as we could find, even mention dartball.

• The sport originated in Pennsylvania, yet is more popular here

in Wisconsin than in any other or the world, for that matter. No one, however, can give you an adequate answer of why.

• It can be played by all ages, yet unlike sports such as football

and basketball, the best players are invariably past the age of 50. In fact more than half of all the dartball players are 50 and older.

• Since the advent of Title IX, which mandated that sports be

open to women as well as men, the amount of the fairer sex in sports

has become equal in numbers. Not so in dartball, however, where less than ten percent of the competitors are women.

• In most sports, the bigger or stronger or taller one usually

determines how successful that competitor will be. Not so in dartball, where size and strength mean little. Rick Fare, for example, who has been one of the sports top players for decades, is five feet eight in height and will tell you himself that he is not particularly strong or athletic.

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tall and lanky, over 6’ 3” tall (in his era that was gigantic), and was clean shaven at all times, and in temperament was surly and crabby and hated opposing pitchers and just about everyone in the media, Fare is quite the opposite, about 5’ 8” in height and stocky, sports a beard and is as convivial and gracious and as popular among his opponents as he is with his teammates.

This article about Fare was suggested by one of his long time teammates and buddies, among them Jim Hinckle of St. Francis. Hinckle pointed out that like Williams, Fare also has a nickname, “The Bay View Bomber.”

Although Fare now lives in Mount Pleasant, he was born and lived for most of his life, in the Bay View district of Milwaukee. Fare was one of the first dartball players from this area to be inducted into the Wisconsin Dartball Hall of Fame, and it was Hinckle who nominated him for the honor.

On the subject of nicknames, Hinckle also had one in his younger days, “The West Allis Kid,” and both Fare and Hinckle also had a duo nickname when they were teammates on the

five-time state champion Allen-Bradley powerhouse team in the ‘70s: “The Gold Dust Twins.”

Just as in baseball, where batting averages are an all important measurement of a player’s value, so, too, are they in dartball. It is difficult to make the comparison, however, as batting averages in dartball are 200 to 300 points higher than they are in

Rick has competed in three major dartball leagues, often more than one in the same season. In the Catholic Blue & Gold League, he hit over .600 ten times; in the West Allis Classic League he also topped .600 ten times; and in the Hickory Inn 4-Man League, he managed four more; all told he had 24 seasons of .600-plus averages, something most players never attain

baseball. Thus a .300 hitter in baseball is the equivalent to, roughly, a .500 hitter in dartball. A .400 hitter in baseball correspondingly, is equivalent to a .700 hitter in dartball. Rick’s highest average for a single season was .688, which is really up there, as there has only been one dartball player in this area to top 700, Bob Lescovar of Milwaukee.

even once. His overall lifetime average to date is around .620 but would be a good deal higher had it not been for recent years when his marks dropped down into the .500s several times. “I suppose it was to be,” he said. “I had passed the age of 60, and age takes its toll.” Except something has happened to change that maxim. Last year Rick had knee replacement surgery on both knees, and this year, after the first month or so of the season, was

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hitting at a remarkable .690 clip, higher, in fact, than he had ever previously attained.

By the way, Rick’s full time work was as a Postal deliveryman, which might have been a factor in his knee problems.

I asked Rick if he had any answer to why he has been such a superlative dartball player? “Well, about the only thing I can tell you is that I always spent a great deal of time in practice - two, three hours a day. Another reason, perhaps, is that it could be in my genes. My dad and brother were both great players, and my cousin Ken was tremendous.” Ken Fare, of Muskego, is deceased and is also in the Wisconsin Dartball Hall of Fame.

“No, that’s not it,” said his buddy, Jim Hinckle, roaring in laughter. “It’s the beard. That’s the real reason why he’s so good. Shave it off and he’d be a nothing.” Hinckle, as you can see in the photo, has an impressive big white beard of his own that would allow him to play Santa Claus any time he wished.

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Congressman Sensenbrenner is active

Congressman Jim Sensenbrenner of Wisconsin’s Fifth District is a busy person. We know that for certain when he is at home where some of our Washington politicians go to rest and recreate, he is eager to discuss legislative accomplishments, bills still in the hopper and to listen to things

important to his constituents at town hall meetings. He has eight such sessions scheduled this month and more in March.

Sensenbrenner’s town hall meetings in February are as follows: Feb. 8, 7 p.m., New Berlin City Hall, Feb. 9, 9 a.m. at Rubicon Town Hall, 9:45 Neo-

What is up in the NFL? Is NFL football slowly going the way of bowling, from great popularity to ??? TV ratings continued to fall during the recent season.

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percent and Thursday night football 12 percent.

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Valentinus was told he could not perform marriage ceremonies. He did not quit doing these ceremonies, but did them out in wooded areas. But his doing so was eventually found. He

is noted by the Catholic Church as a Christian martyr. Feb. 14 is recognized as the birth date of Valentinus.

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healthy New Year and hope that 2018 is one of the best years of your lives!

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the type of apartment that meets your needs as they are few and far between.

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Have you heard of World Read Aloud Day? Hosted by the nonprofit LitWorld, World Read Aloud Day calls for global attention to the importance of reading aloud and sharing stories.

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worth that amount of money? Do we already know most of the story?

Florence (also known to many as Floss) Whalen will speak at a free event at Shorehaven’s Center for Life Enrichment, 1306 W. Wisconsin Avenue in Oconomowoc, Feb. 8 from 1

to 2 p.m. Floss was mayor of Oconomowoc from 1976 to 1992 and, even more to her credit, she was the first woman to ever be elected to lead the community. Oconomowoc thrived

under her leadership.

Whalen was president of the League of Wisconsin Municipalities from 1990-92.

She is quoted as saying, “Oconomowoc is a wonderful place to raise a family even when you don’t have any money.”

What matters most about our retelling the stories of history may be if they are correct. Nothing matters more here and now than when I make you, the reader, aware of what has transpired in times before you were alive or at least during your early days if you qualify as an old-timer.

We started these “Remember When” stories to bring you remembering times of things that may have

occurred in your early days on this earth.

We have showcased much from the 1950’s forward. A few of the events or happening should have included the times when the Soviet Union grasps at power beyond its own borders began to unravel.

While we have touched on the troubles that were then brewing in Africa, it was a time for people like Nel-

son Mandela to step forward and be a driving force for the ending of three centuries of white colonialism in Africa.

Women’s rights were the center of many movements in the United States in the 1950’s. The Second World War was over, but there still were difficulties as started when Hitler killed thousands of Polish Jews. The trials of leading members of the Nazi Par-

ty were of great interest with death to them being the mostly given verdicts by the judges at what were the Nuremburg Trials.

At another time, perhaps next month, we will continue to bring you through the years and up to date.

When opportunity knocks, we will not only open the door, but also invite it to tell its story.

Do you remember when?

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We Saw You At . . . . The 2018 MBA Home Building and Remodeling Show

BY MARGARET PEARSON

It might have been a bit nippy outside, but that didn’t dissuade thousands of visitors to the annual Milwaukee Builders Association’s major event of the year.

David and Linda Bowman of Mt. Pleasant.

Dan and Lory Plattzick of Milwaukee, with Marlene and Richard Hofmann of Waukesha.

Dick and Judy Beimer of Franklin.

More than 140 exhibitors proudly displayed their ware and expertise. Here are a few of the faces we saw there.

Debbie Whitny of Wauwatosa and Joy Busse of Menomonee Falls.

Kitty and Jim Babe of Pewaukee, with distributor Michael Connohie of Mequon.

Kathy and Harvey Kost of Racine.

Dennis and Kathy Jannson of Sussex.

John and Ellison Skibba of Milwaukee.

Kevin and Julie Quinn of Watertown.

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EMMA: I have various stories this month My golly, gee whiz. Here it is already February. I have to tell you about Henry. He was doing some work in the kitchen, rearranging things in one of the cupboards when a can of soda fell and struck him in the head. It really did not hurt him, or so he says, as it was a soft drink. Can you imagine some of the other witticisms as he calls them? It could be a long year.

by the can, finding the yeast really indicated that this would be a great and profitable day for him. He knew right then that he could raise some dough.

APRON With that quip, I was happy that STRINGS the next morning, Henry was back at the factory at work. It is not always a

By Aunt Emma pleasure to have him at home on a day when he normally would be at the facWhile Henry was still doing what- tory. ever he was, he found a package of We had a nice and very quiet Janyeast. He claimed, despite being hit uary. The kids and their families were at our house for New Year’s Day. I invited them early so we could watch the Rose Parade together and then eat. I surprised everyone by preparing fried chicken and waffles. The waffles part was easy, but the chicken had to February is the month that brings light to the people. be deep-fried. I thought of getting it Among bright places is the magnificent Holy Hill steeple. at the Colonel’s place, but I decided if

that old guy could do such deep frying The weather outside is still frigid; so very real. that it was not something I could not do. Well, I will tell you, the meal was Still the weatherman proclaims it is no big deal. a big success and even though it was

served about noon, the grandkids kept Rightfully so, the month moves us towards spring. telling me that it was about the best But along the way, sunbeams seem not to have zing. breakfast they could ever remember. I do hope that they just don’t have ex tremely short memories.

We see and then reach for a gorgeous moonbeam.

I guess it is time that we move It possibly lightens our load, or so it does seem. along, realizing that this is February

and there is much ahead for us to take note of in this month. The first would Life without the Packers won’t be bad in early 2018. be St. Nick’s birthday, or was that last Looking backward in 2017, the worst we have seen. month. Whatever! Secondly, we look

forward to Presidents’ days. These are Most of all the pile of Christmas bills we have paid. the birthday anniversaries of our two greatest presidents, or so we are told.

Of course, our local money place we had to raid.

They are George Washington and

Abraham Lincoln. Few people would Faithful friends do come around to cheer us forward. question George’s position in history, How terrible if friends were such as to push us backward. as he was, so to speak, the father of our country. Everyone would cheer

him if he were alive today. Now, LinRemember how when young, you loved Valentine’s Day? coln could have been a bit different Love was there motivating your thoughts along life’s way. in popularity as he was the president who freed the slaves and then led the

country as the North won the Civil With excitement at low ebb, we arrive at the presidents’ time.

War between the states. Lincoln came The twelfth and 21st. are birthdays not sullied by grime. to an early death after being shot while Washington, Lincoln, FDR are ranked first, second, and third. at the theater with his wife.

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Digressing a bit now, let me ask you to think about who might have been the third greatest president we ever had in the United States. From what Henry tells me about his father, who was a staunch democrat in a community where they were in great numbers, the old man often told his kids and grandkids that the only president ever to have been elected to three terms as this nation’s leader perhaps was the greatest one that we ever had or will have. This president was Franklin D. Roosevelt. Roosevelt came from a wealthy family in New York and took over when the country still was in the throes of the Great Depression. He was president when the government took on Social Security and adopted other programs to help the people get back on their feet financially. He was president when the Japanese attacked Pearl Harbor. But he rallied the people and adopted effective wartime programs. He died before he could see it to its successful end for us. While, we’re sure, he never had a broom; FDR’s popularity swept the nation.

The task of ordering the atomic bombs to be dropped on Japan to end the war in the Pacific was left to his successor, his vice president, Harry S. Truman.

So, with the passing of the Presidents’ birthdays, we’ll say that reflection brings wisdom so it is a good thing that we take a moment or two to think about life as it was as well of as it is today. When we do this, we certainly express our appreciation for what we do and what we have today All Henry and I can say is God bless all our leaders. We need good ones. I agree that the three mentioned provide a good base.

Just remember that time is precious. If you are going to waste it, do it with a certain amount of consideration.

Until next month, You friend Emma

How could we tell about George and the cherry tree?

The story of his honesty with his dad prompted no glee.

So on this note we bring February’s 28 days to a close.

If you think the writer is all wet, forget the nearby hose.

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Remember when Time was for most of us writing and reading stuff today like 50 Plus News Magazine when life was simple, when our wants and desires were not over the top, when the stakes weren’t very high and life was easy, or so it seemed.

We are referring at this time in 2018 to the era of the 50’s and 60’s. For almost certain, you were a real person by the 60’s and could have even been a teenager by then. People living then didn’t dare to dream. Life before the electronic box, now known as television, seemed to move forward on a day-to-day basis. We listened to the news over radio, parked right in front of the radio in our home to hear every swing from heavyweight champion Joe Louis’ prizefights plus the sarcasm and jokes of such as Jack Benny, Milton Berle and Bob Hope on Sunday night

radio broadcasts.

The songs as sung by Kate Smith and Bing Crosby were great to hear and the record player in your homes then perhaps was made only for playing the 78 size records. Today, my computer tells me that Bing as I have typed it has to be an error. Is it any wonder that we cuss a bit and fuss over our electronic keyboards?

We go back in time to manual typewriters. Your grandchildren may be befuddled by at the very minimum typewriters without electric keyboards. Yes, kids, but even manual typewriters followed up those who wrote everything in perfectly formed letters that spelled out words via the Palmer Method. You do, of course, recall being taught and then using the Palmer Method of cursive writing?

The letters we sent in the 50s prob-

ably carried the three-cent stamps as postal users grumbled about whatever happened to the one-cent stamps.

Communists had taken over the Soviet Union whether the Russians really wished so or not. That leader, so tough on non-believers, was Joseph Stalin. Khrushchev, who we recall as a tough cookie to deal with politically or militarily, followed him after 29 years as premier.

Although the winds of war with Cuba had been festering for a half dozen or more years, it was Khrushchev who supported Communist Fidel Castro as he brought Communism to the country of Cuba, just 90 miles south of our Florida shores. Along the way, the Communistic government stole billions of dollars in Cuban property from American investors in such as sugar cane, luxurious hotels and casinos.

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What did we do about it as a country? Next to nothing. President Kennedy tried to militarily advance to Cuba, but the attack later called the Bay of Pigs fiasco miserably failed. While it never happened, but the Soviets, then in Cuba, threatened us with atomic missiles and we did likewise to them.

This might be described as the beginning of the Cold War as it was known for the next decade or so between these two super powers. Which one would blink first? Neither did until the Soviets agreed to take down the Berlin Wall that separated Germany.

With the recent death of Fidel Castro, the country of Cuba has opened its doors to at the very least tourists. The leaders finally must be recognizing that the flowers that once bloomed there as treasures are turning into economic weeds.

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