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Martin Schreiber and his Elaine on campaigns and in politics? Once the governor of the I greeted him with the respect he deserved. “Gover- State of Wisconsin, Martin Schreiber has held many titles, nor,” I extended my hand. He approached with a warm among them: lieutenant governor, state senator, businesssmile and a firm handshake. How many hands have been man, author, husband and father. But today, he would talk on the other end of this grip honed by years of working ALZHEIMERS continued on page 14

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MILWAUKEE COUNTY SENIOR CENTERS: Confusion and Catch 22!

BACKGROUND

AGING ISSUES

By Tom Frazier

The County Executive proposed to cut funding by $200,000 in his 2018 budget. This was an 18% cut from an annual level of $1.3 million to 1.1 million. The County Board of Supervisors unanimously approved an amendment placing $200,000 (the amount

of the cut) in a contingency account pending a report from the Milwaukee County Department on Aging (MCDoA) in March 2018. The amendment sponsored by Supervisors Steve Taylor and Marina Dimitrijevic contained two conditions: that the MCDoA explore the feasibility of finding another

agency (other than Interfaith) to operate the five senior centers, or operating the centers itself. On March 14, 2018 the MCDoA submitted two reports, one an informational report to the Health and Human Needs ComFRAZIER continued on page 3

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Congress tanks – But does it care? That’s a good question.

Members of Congress over the years have delegated much of their power to other branches, especially the executive, so that they can escape accountability for tough choices.

We’re at a watershed moment in American political history. Our Congress — I’m talking about the people’s body, the institution created by our founders, and not just the men and women who currently inhabit it — is in deep trouble. And no one seems to be offering hope.

Its public standing is abysmal, occasionally dropping into the single digits in polling. Very few people seem to respect it, even on Capitol Hill. Small surprise, as the Pew Research Center reported the other day, that “More members of the U.S. House of Representatives are choosing not to seek re-election to that body than at any time in the past quarter-century.”

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mittee and a report to the Finance and Audit Committee requesting funding for Interfaith at the $1.1 million annual level, i.e. the $200,000 cut.

FINANCE AND AUDIT COMMITTEE, MARCH 15, 2018

In addition to the request for funds, the MCDoA report addressed the two conditions mentioned above.

The report stated that there was not any other agency “with the capacity or interest to contract with the county to provide senior center programming”, and that it would cost $470,683 (42%) more for “Milwaukee County to provide this same level of staffing coverage with its own employees” compared to the current contract with Interfaith. Despite indicating that the two alternatives were not feasible and that it would cost 42% more for the MCDoA to operate the senior centers, the Department did not ask for any of the $200,000 contingency funds to be released. According to Holly Davis, director of the MCDoA, the reason for not asking for any additional funds was that the cuts (i.e. 8 senior center staff positions representing over 25% of total staff) have already been made and the executive director of Interfaith was not requesting any of the $200,000 contingency. Director Davis did say that when the executive director of Interfaith does ask for more funds “We

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By Lee Hamilton Since filing deadlines haven’t passed in most states that number is almost certain to grow.

Just as worrisome, power is shifting decisively to the President. The “balance of power” you read about in 7th-grade civics? It’s a myth today. Coequal branches? Not any more. Members of Congress over the years have delegated much of their power to other branches, especially the executive, so that they can escape accountability will be back before the Committee.”

There was extensive discussion by the Finance Committee and testimony from representatives from the Milwaukee County Commission on Aging Advocacy Committee and the League of Progressive Seniors asking the Committee to restore the $200,000 cut. Supervisor Peggy West, Chair of the Finance Committee, said that she was “livid” that the $200,000 cut was made without approval of the County Board. The Committee, however, voted to approve the MCDoA request.

CATCH 22

Catch 22 is defined as “a dilemma or difficult circumstance from which there is no escape.” There seem to be multiple Catch 22s or difficult circumstances in what might be called “the great senior center debacle” or “the case of the disappearing $200,000.”

For example: • The County Board said that it “restored” the $200,000 cut made by the County Executive but it really wasn’t restored, it was put in a contingency account for at least five months which gave Interfaith no choice but to cut the number of senior center staff by over 25%.

• Despite the Milwaukee County Department on Aging’s report that answered the two conditions (i.e. there was no alternative agency to contract with and it would cost 42% more for

for tough choices. It allows them to focus more on getting re-elected, and on the local and constituent interests that are their electoral bread and butter.

Here’s what may be the most discouraging thing of all: there was a time when congressional leaders would forcefully defend the Congress. They don’t even bother to do that any more.

In fact, it’s not unusual to find them defending their own leadership but criticizing the institution they lead.

To ponder what we can do about it is to confront a long list of daunting challenges. For starters, congressional leaders have abandoned two centuries of precedent, a traditional set of norms, customs and procedures that allowed a body representing the complexities of the entire country to arrive at policy solutions that by and large spoke to the public good.

Today, bills are often drafted out-

side the committee system, without careful deliberation, consideration, or even participation by most members.

The leadership has accumulated more and more power, leaving ordinary members out of the loop, especially in the all-important budget process.

We’re saddled with a Congress that affords special interest groups far too much power. Their representatives and lobbyists swarm over Capitol Hill to influence and cajole, write speeches, supply talking points, and funnel money and favors of all descriptions to members. And because re-election is so expensive, Congress not only accepts all this, but seeks it out. Ordinary citizens have lost influence in the process.

The body itself has become extremely polarized, which means that the decisions it makes are more extreme.

the Department to run senior centers), the MCDoA did not request that the $200,000 be restored and the Finance Committee agreed with the Department thereby not restoring the $200,000.

• The only real problem with the five senior centers that I have heard from anyone has been years of deferred maintenance that will get worse as it is likely to continue into the future. The “solution” has been to cut $200,000 in senior center programming. Just a suggestion but it would seem to be a better strategy to work on the real problem rather than cut money that hurts programs and does nothing about maintenance.

• The budget amendment approved by the County Board could be interpreted that there was some problem with how Interfaith was operating under the contract even though no specific problem with them has been specified. Then it comes out that there is no other agency with the capacity or interest to compete for the contract and it would cost the county 42% more to run the senior centers. If this doesn’t sound like a bargain, then consider that Interfaith has not had an increase in its contract for the last four years not counting the 18% cut that it has been forced to implement for 2018.

• The reason given that the MCDoa did not ask for an increase was that the cuts had already been made and therefore additional funding was not needed. In other words, Interfaith was forced to cut more than 25% of its senior center staff and then told that it did not need more money because they had already made the cuts. This may be the best Catch 22 of all.

There is actually more, but I think you get the idea of how confusing and frustating this process has been.

There seems to be two possible real solutions: one, the County Executive will allow the Department on Aging to work with Interfaith and come up with a request for some or all of the $200,000 that is still sitting in a contingency account. Second, the Finance Committee and County Board could direct that the contingency money be made available to the MCDoA to increase the contract with Interfaith.

Senior centers are about more than just keeping the doors open at buildings; they are about the programs, activities and older adults inside the buildings that have been hurt by the cuts. The money is still sitting there-I hope that elected officials will decide to reinvest it to address the important things about senior centers.

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Did the devil make them do it? The American Legion

We recognize that the monetary cost of addiction is high, but the real cost to the family is much, much greater. Consider that the addiction crisis kills hundreds of thousands of people each year. Why? We recognize that illicit drugs come too cheaply these days to the users, but still cause crushing debts for families that try to sober up their addicted members. The financial burdens are great, but they have no comparison to the anguish of the families who are witnessing one or more of their members going down the drug-laden drain.

Still, states are recognizing a quick money fix by making recreational use of many of these drugs legal. How sad.

How wrong.

Think of the destruction drugs can cause. Believe that the addiction in many cases came too easily, perhaps at a party or on a dare. Do know that ma-

SENIOR ANSWER MAN DEAR SAM: Will you please try to explain to me how after years of depending on deep driven oil wells, we now are into what are called shale wells. Tell me about this.

THANKS, EDWARD ERGIN DEAR EDWARD: The recent and continuing growth of the oil industry is based on shale exploration and drilling. The shale boom in places as unlikely to our thinking as North Dakota have witnessed rapid booms in production. They tell us that two factors contribute to this, hydraulic fracturing and sideways or horizontal drilling. The shale gas, which comes

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Is road rage taking over beyond the busy highways where people speed sometimes seemingly with abandon?

The other day I’d swear I noticed this in a shopping aisle at a supermarket.

Yes, I guess it really is as it is. We live in

ny-addicted claim they wish to get off the drugs, but are not strong enough to do so. Overdosing is just too easy.

Getting clean again, if the addicted live long enough to do so, is not inexpensive. But then the hallucinations and false euphoria aren’t either.

Just be glad, old-timer that you may have experienced a hangover or two in your younger days from too much alcohol, but do realize that the use of drugs today, illicit or not depending upon what state you are in and whether or not you know a money-hungry doctor, not only is destructive to the users, but often to their families. Rehab helps some, but there are too many today who have gone too far.

The best quality of care in rehabilitation clinics is not cheap.

Be thankful that our Wisconsin is not a legally for sale recreational drug state. Let us do our best to keep it that way. along with the oil, is an extra boon to investors. Technology is the key to the successes. As the most productive areas are drilled to depletion, the industry is expected to move on. There was a minor downward spiral of pricing a while back, but oil and gas prices on the market today tend to be sufficient to keep investors happy. Oil entrepreneurs are not going away soon in the United States. But they may have to move into different locations. Money talks and right now it is saying shale oil.

Your question was a difficult one for me. In my earlier days, farmers planted harvestable crops in those farm fields. They smiled then while going to the banks. Today, these entrepreneurs are wearing large grins.

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a fast-paced society. But I am sure the last person pushing a cart through the store will still find the line leaning towards the rear at the checkout counter.

If I could explain the rush, I would.

Being a Korean War veteran, I am, of course, a member of the American Legion, whose primary mission is to provide needed services to the veterans and, as needed and available, to their families. Too many non-members wrongly believe the American Legion posts are just for socializing.

While a member for almost 70 years, there are American Legion sponsored programs we never knew even existed. We will print here with

some of the Wisconsin programs as provided by the Legionnaires: American Legion Baseball, Americanism and Government Scholarships, Badger Boys State, Camp American Legion, Youth Government, Oratorical Competitions, Sons of the American Legion, Law Enforcement Career Academy, The Legion Riders and purely local activities like serving at funerals of members.

My eyesight is failing a bit as I age.

But I know for certain that I’ll never see myself punching in on another Monday morning. kkkkk Just think how frustrated we would be if we were in school today, with technology being what it is.

When we were taught reading, writing and arithmetic to the tune of a hickory stick, we didn’t realize how fortunate we were. kkkkk Do you recall how you never believed much of what Rush Limbaugh had to say? Common sense didn’t seem to be that common over the airwaves. kkkkk I like this question: So when is the “old enough to know better” going to kick in? kkkkk The weather outside is delightful to everyone, but a snow plower. kkkkk My eyesight is very good. However, I can’t see ever going back to work again. kkkkk A 95-year-old woman recently underwent a heart valve replacement.

Doesn’t she wish to see the Lord soon? kkkkk Why not smile a while? It takes less effort than to frown or scowl. kkkkk Try to think of Central Florida linebacker Shaquem Griffin as a linebacker for Green Bay next season.

Griffin, with only one hand, is the type of storied player the Packers need. kkkkk The energy transition is something else. We went from burning leaves and brush to coal, to oil, to gas, to hydro and it will be on to nuclear and what beyond it. Will government politics play a big part in geopolitics?

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I wanted to get information out to the seniors and their children who attended by offering several speakers and vendors who are connected in some way to moving from the home they love. I listened closely to questions and comments of the attendees only to find that there are hidden feelings and emotions, which stay below the surface. The speakers were superb, covering the home-selling process, downsizing, what to do with your money after the sale, how to navigate long-term care and hospice, Medicare supplemental options, and conversations between the adult child and parent when it come to moving from the home they love. We had vendors specializing in basement repair, home inspections, staging, and in-home care; seniors helping seniors. It was the last speaker and topic that truly resonated with me and all who attended!

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By Bruce Nemovitz to their hearts. He discussed the many emotions that can cause roadblocks and family discord when dealing with moving from one’s long-time home.

The quote that really hit me hard was, “When you think you haven’t done enough, you did the best you could at the time.” Think about that. How many of us look back to a time when we felt we could have done more and suffer the guilt from not meeting our own expectations. What we tend to forget is that the past does not equal the future.

Our capabilities in the past are different than what we can handle today. We are continually growing and changing by the day. How can we go back in time and judge ourselves by who we are today? We were at a different age,

a different set of circumstances, and had pressures different from those we experience today. We do the best we can at the time we are faced with life’s challenges.

We all wish we could change some of our past actions, which would result in a very different outcome. But the past is not our reality today. When you are struggling with the decision to change your address to a completely new lifestyle, your decision will be based on who you are today and the emotional set of circumstances surrounding you at this time. If you are helping a parent traverse the process of a move from the home they have loved for so many years, you will do the best you can with the tools at your side today. The important word I am getting at is “intention.” Your intention is to help those you love and how will you meet your goals with care and kindness for family and of course yourself.

If you don’t deal with your emotions and what is behind your actions or lack thereof, you will not move forward. You can be stuck in the past by focusing on what could have been in-

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The seniors and their children who attended the seminar were so excited to know that they are not alone!

There were 80 other people, searching and thirsting for as much information as they could get. The more they heard, the more excited they became.

Many told me that they were worried that they might be one of a few attending and were so happy to see so many others were searching and gathering information to arrive at a similar place of security and happiness. They all were feeling overwhelmed and didn’t know where to begin. But the more they learned, the better equipped they will be when it is time to decide exactly what is best for each one of them.

In the end, we all want to be independent and happy with our life choices. All of us wonder if we are making the right decisions as to where and when to move. We listen to our friends and family only to get more confused about which way to turn. The best solution for making good decisions is to listen to experts who have NEMOVITZ continued on page 23

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The inspector general for the Social Security Administration recently released a report that was well-intentioned, but that has sewn confusion among millions of women collecting Social Security widow’s benefits. What the report said was that a small percentage of widows were not informed

by SSA clerks of a provision that could have resulted in them getting higher Social Security benefits in the long run. But if my emails are any indication, many women thought the report said that all widows were getting shortchanged by the government. This is just not true.

The IG’s report was referring to a procedure I’ve discussed hundreds of times in this column: the restricted application rule. This so-called “maximizing strategy” has been all the rage for the past several years among retiring baby boomers. It allows people who are full retirement age to file for spousal benefits on a husband’s or wife’s Social Security account and then delay starting their own retirement benefits until age 70, at which point they would get a 32 percent credit added to their Social Security checks.

As I’ve also reported many times in this column, that procedure grew out of a loophole in an unrelated Social Security law. It makes a mockery of a well-established legal tenet that says you should not be able to get benefits on a spouse’s record unless you were financially dependent on that spouse.

Yet most folks jumping through that loophole have been well-heeled retirees. That’s why Congress has been gradually closing the loophole. It finally gets sealed up in January 2020, so only retirees turning 66 before January 2020 can employ that unintended maximizing strategy.

But it is an entirely different story when it comes to widows and widowers. (To keep things simple and to avoid a lot of awkward “he/she” and “him/her” pronouns, I will be referring only to women getting widow’s benefits. And that’s OK because 95 percent of surviving spousal benefits are paid to women.)

Widows have always been allowed to use this restricted application rule.

And the previously mentioned January 2020 deadline refers only to retirees. It does NOT apply to widows.

And there is also another major difference between the strategy as it applies to retirees versus widows. As I said above, a retiree can only use the restricted application rule if he or she waits until age 66 to apply for Social Security. But a widow can employ the rule as early as age 60 -- the earliest she is usually eligible for widow’s benefits.

In a nutshell, this rule gives widows options that no other Social Security beneficiary has. Let’s look at some examples to explain what I am talking about.

Mary became a widow at age 58.

When she turns 60 (assuming she has retired by then), she will have the option of taking reduced widow’s benefits on her deceased husband’s record. At that age, she would get about 70 percent of his basic Social Security benefit.

Then she could save her own retirement benefit until 66, when she could switch to 100 percent of her own rate, or even wait until age 70, when she would get 132 percent.

If Mary is still working full time, then she might have to wait until age 66 to start her widow’s benefits (when the earning penalty that applies to people who take benefits before full retirement age no longer applies). At that age, she would get 100 percent of her husband’s benefit. And then at age 70, she could switch to 132 percent of her own retirement rate.

Of course, all of this assumes Mary has a higher retirement benefit to switch to later in life. Because of economic and social circumstances, many women earned less money than their husbands did -- meaning they have much smaller Social Security benefits than that of their husbands. So in those cases, there simply is no higher retirement benefit to switch to later on. To explain that, let’s go back to Mary.

Let’s say Mary’s full retirement age benefit is $1,200. And then let’s say her full widow’s benefit rate is $2,200. And finally, let’s assume Mary retires at age 62. Here are her options. She could

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simply choose to take reduced widow’s benefits. At age 62, that’s an 82.5 percent rate, or $1,815 per month. There would be nothing to switch to later on because 100 percent, or even 132 percent of her own benefit will be less than what she is due on her husband’s record.

But Mary’s other option would be to take reduced retirement benefits at 62. She’d be due 80 percent of her full retirement rate, or $960. If she could afford to live on that for several years, then at age 66, she could switch to 100 percent widow’s benefit, or $2,200. By the way, that 32 percent age 70 bonus that applies to retirement benefits does NOT apply to widow’s benefits. In other words, there would not be any advantage to Mary delaying her widow’s benefits until age 70. The highest rate she can get is the 100 percent rate at age

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66.

So now let me get back to the inspector general’s report. That report was highlighting scenarios in which a woman had worked and earned enough money for a substantial retirement benefit on her own record -- one in which she could employ the restricted application strategy of saving her own benefits -- usually until age 70. And again, the report criticized SSA saying that some women in this situation were not made aware of the existence of the benefit-switching rule.

But the report did not say that all widows were being cheated out of benefits. And it has nothing to do with the vast majority of women, especially as most women do not become widows until later in life -- in their 70s or 80s and beyond -- long after their Social Security benefits have started. And in these scenarios, they have no options

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BY CHUCK NORRIS

According to the Center for the Biology of Aging at Harvard Medical School, this particular molecule is one of the most important molecules for life to exist. Take it away and you are dead in 30 seconds. The property we are talking about is a compound called nicotinamide adenine dinucleotide, or

what is referred to as “NAD+.” It is a molecule found in all living cells and is critical for regulating cellular aging and maintaining proper function of the entire body.

Scientists know that levels of NAD+ in both people and animals significantly diminish over time. What if an anti-aging pick-me-up of NAD+

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could be formulated to increase or restore the body’s cellular levels of NAD+? Might it be our ticket to the fabled Fountain of Youth? There are many products already entering the market touting NAD+ and selling this very concept. None at present stands up to medical scrutiny.

The results of one randomized control trial were published in November 2017 in the journal Nature. Researchers found that people who took a daily supplement containing NAD+ had a substantial, sustained increase in their NAD+ levels over a two-month period.

The process of securing U.S. Food and Drug Administration approval for this product as a drug to be prescribed by a doctor or purchased over the counter is considered years away. Part of the problem is that the federal agency with oversight does not consider aging a disease. Various versions of products containing NAD+ are currently being sold as a supplement.

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Tianna lays claim to Antonio Todde, the first man in the world ever recorded to live to 110 years of age. He died in 2002, having lived to the age of 113. In finding an explanation for such longevity, Pes analyzed the population’s gene pool. He came to believe that the fundamental role of family in this village was at least equally a contributing factor in living such a long life.

What makes the Sardinian region unique is its larger-than-average population of elderly men. In Tianna, older people are welcomed home and cared for by their families as they age. Sardinia is known as an island with low income and endemic disease, yet it is unusual for older people in this region to be put into institutional care.

As well as being a core part of the household, sporting events in the main square of the village provide occasions for locals to gather with older people.

The elders are a part of social networks in the community, taking part in local events; more so than older populations in other areas studied. The centenarians of Tianna were found to be in excellent health, they took little if any medication, were lucid with extremely low levels of depressive symptoms. Researchers could find no single explanation for this.

Meanwhile, back in the USA, living our lives is increasingly taking on the look of a growing health risk. The average life expectancy is dropping, a grim trend stemming from a toxic mixture of more drug and alcohol-related deaths, as well as more heart disease and obesity. The gap in life expectancy between rich and poor is widening.

According to one study, if trends continue, the number of poor or nearly poor seniors will double to 4.3 million by 2022. Some studies also show retirement -- that reward for all our years of labor -- significantly increases the risk of a diagnosis of a chronic condition.

Living a long life should be a blessing, not a stage of life defined by loss of vigor, increasing frailty, rising disease risk, failing cognitive faculties and isolation.

Loneliness is on the rise in this country and feeling lonely has been found to increase a person’s risk of dying early by 26 percent. It is worse for the body than either obesity or air pollution. A remedy found in a recent study demonstrated that friendships, especially later in life, to be a stronger predictor of well being than even family ties.

As pointed out in a recent series of reports in Time magazine on the Secrets of Living Longer the end of life is a nonnegotiable thing. The quality and exact length of that life, however, is something we very much have the power to shape.

We do not have to look to a pill or a place like Sardinia to find a longer and more satisfying life. We have known the pathway for generations. Eating well and staying active, staying socially engaged, investing in and placing proper value on our relationships, staying curious and a lifelong learner are all signposts along the way to a better longer and healthier life.

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A healthy diabetic diet is important

BY CHARLYN FARGO

If you have diabetes, you know it can be difficult to manage. What exactly should you eat, and how much?

What foods should you avoid?

In reality, a healthy diet is a healthy diabetes diet -- plenty of nutrient-rich foods such as fish, whole grains, legumes and vegetables.

Too many think a diabetic diet is simply about reducing sugar, but it’s much more than that.

ENVIRONMENTAL NUTRITION OFFERS A FEW HINTS:

• Choose a variety of food groups -- protein, carbohydrates and fat. None should be eliminated. Complex carbs are needed for their fiber.

• Look for foods - and habits -- that will aid in weight loss. Research shows that losing as little as 5 percent of body weight can improve blood sugar control. Portion control is important, as is decreasing sweets, sodas and alcohol.

Choose skim milk over 2 percent or whole milk. Adding vegetables fills you

Brunch made easy

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Gathering friends and family doesn’t need to be fancy. With its prime positioning between breakfast and lunch, brunch is a more casual and lighter alternative to the typical dinner party.

When charged with hosting a midday gathering, a little pre-planning can go a long way toward ensuring your brunch get-together is as simple as it is scrumptious.

Get creative with decor. When prepping your tablescape, think outside the box. Opt for unexpected serving dishes such as tartlet tins and vases, and transfer syrups and jams from their everyday containers to glass bowls or creamers. Fresh flowers and produce can add natural pops of color to the table and a bowl of fruit can make for an eye-catching centerpiece.

PLAN A VARIETY OF DISHES. Make sure you have a mix of both

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up without adding a lot of calories.

• Even diabetics need to consume less sodium, as those with diabetes and prediabetes have increased risks for heart disease and stroke. Most sodium isn’t from the saltshaker, but comes from processed foods like bacon, deli meat, canned foods and salty snacks.

• Choose more healthy fats (those high in omega-3s) and fewer saturated and trans fats. That’s as easy as choosing skim milk instead of whole, skipping coconut oil (which is saturated), choosing lean meats over fattier cuts (a

filet instead of a rib eye) and less bacon and sausage.

• Salmon is a great source of omega-3s and simply choosing more fish in general is a healthy way to eat. Other sources of omega 3s are walnuts, ground flaxseed and chia, canola oil and soybean oil.

• When it comes to vegetables, choose non-starchy (broccoli, cauliflower, asparagus, carrots, spinach and tomatoes) over starchy vegetables like potatoes and corn.

sweet and savory dishes on the menu that can please a wide variety of palates. Earmarking some recipes that can be made ahead, like pastries and casseroles, can be a simple way to avoid waking up extra early to prepare. Save the morning of your event for dishes that are best served fresh, like this Herbed Spanish Omelet, which features potatoes; fresh, spring herbs; and red onions, and packs protein, B-vitamins and cancer-protective phytochemicals.

SERVE IT BUFFET-STYLE. Setting your spread out on the counter and allowing guests to help themselves not only makes it easier for the host to mingle, but it allows guests to customize their meals as they wish and gives the gathering a more casual vibe. Try themed stations, such as a coffee or mimosa bar, parfait bar or bread bar, in addition to more traditional dishes to let guests take the customization to the next level. BRUNCH continued on page 15

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DEAR ANNIE

BY ANNIE LANE

Concerned about odors

DEAR ANNIE: My mother is in

her 80s, and I love her very much. At her age, she has earned certain privileges. And I understand we all have our little quirks that might annoy others.

The problem is my mom doesn’t wear clean clothes. It started out that she would wear a certain outfit a couple of times before washing. Now, however, every outfit has a spot or stain on it.

She will wear a piece of clothing for a couple of hours, and then put it back in the closet. If it is a heavier piece of clothing like a coat and it has a spill on it, it might be months before it gets washed. My mother is in good health and is perfectly capable of washing her clothing. If she wanted to, she could even hire a housekeeper. That said, if she wants to wear dirty clothing, who

am I to push my standards on her? The real problem, though, is that Mom has a musty and stale smell on her at all times. When I open her closet, it nearly knocks me over. I have tried talking nicely to her about this. I even buy air fresheners for the closet. But the next time I visit, I notice the air fresheners are gone. When I ask my mom why she isn’t using them, she says, “I can’t smell, so they’re a waste of money.” Of course, money isn’t a problem.

We have had the discussion that when a person gets older they start losing their sense of smell and taste. She agrees with this but doesn’t incorporate this idea into her house, car or clothing. I know this may seem like a trivial problem, but I’m not sure what to do.

-- The Nose Knows

DEAR THE NOSE KNOWS: It’s not trivial in the least. According to the National Institute on Aging, while a declining sense of smell can be a normal part of getting older, it can also be a sign of Alzheimer’s disease or Parkinson’s disease. Encourage your mom to talk to her doctor about this issue so she can rule out serious medical causes.

Also pay attention to her overall mood and behavior. Disregard for personal hygiene can be a symptom of depression. Good for you for looking out for your mom: I can tell your concern is from the heart, not the nose.

DEAR ANNIE: I disagree with “Jan,” who was concerned about other drivers not acknowledging when she defers the right of way to them. Many drivers feel that the safe and courteous driving habit is to follow right of

way according to traffic codes and not attempt to communicate with other drivers. I have observed at least one collision caused by a driver insistently waving another driver, who did not have right of way, into a busy intersection. A following driver was caught off guard and a collision ensued. I have also observed drivers attempting to wave other drivers into a hazardous situation, such as a left turn across two lanes of traffic. Drivers are responsible for safety at all times, and Jan should not interfere with other drivers’ decision-making. -- Ronald S. DEAR RONALD S.: You make a fair point that it can be dangerous for drivers to attempt to communicate with other drivers. Though I still don’t think a small thank-you wave is reckless.

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How to organize old family photos without losing your mind

BY MARY HUNT

Let’s see by a show of hands how many of you have at least one box crammed full of old family photographs out in the garage, up in the attic or down in the basement.

Look at that! Hands going up all over the room.

I’m guessing that anyone over the age of 20 knows what I’m talking about. Old family photos. We sure can’t get rid of them. But we’re not quite sure what to do with them either.

So, mostly, we do nothing.

Maybe it’s time to stop doing nothing.

DEAR MARY: I have a large trunk full of family photos dating back to the early 1900s. How would you organize them? By date? By people? I am the only one left who is old enough to remember all of these people, but I think my children and descendants will be interested. It seems quite a task, and I don’t really know how to start.

-- Sue

DEAR SUE: Start by getting a

number of archival-quality acid-free photo-storage boxes. You can find photo-storage boxes at stores like Joann, Michaels and Amazon. Pioneer is a well-known brand of acid-free photos boxes that come with metal identification plates and index cards, but there are others. Just make sure the boxes you get say “acid-free.”

Nice photo boxes come in many colors, stack easily and make it so easy for others to enjoy the photos, too. To me, boxes are so much better than traditional photo albums. They will also help protect your loose pictures from the damage that can be caused by light and the harmful chemicals found in developing envelopes, older photo albums and cardboard shoe boxes. Stay away from plastic storage containers, as these can trap moisture, which is a big photo no-no.

Start by sorting the photos chronologically. Any other sorting option is just too confusing and crazy-making.

Think big picture by first dividing the photos into two piles according to century. Next, sort each pile by decade -- even if that requires a wild guess -and so on until you have them in general order. If you don’t know the exact dates of pictures, you can often find clues like a printer’s code on the back, or even the hairstyles of the people in the photo.

Don’t worry if your chronological sorting isn’t perfect. Just getting the photos into order where they are right-side up and facing the same way will give you a wonderful feeling of accomplishment. You can always tweak the order later, which is the beauty and benefit of photo-storage boxes over albums. You may decide to make these boxes your permanent storage method of choice.

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You may want to consider scanning the photos at some point, to create a permanent digital record. Once they’re in proper storage boxes with index cards, it will be easy to lift out a small section, scan it and then return it in the same order.

If organizing all your photographs seems too overwhelming or too time-consuming, you might want to consider hiring a personal photo organizer. You can find one near you through the Association of Personal Photo Organizers. I did a search by filling in just my country, city and state, leaving all the other fields on the search form blank. I was delighted to discover that a member of APPO lives right in my neighborhood.

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Looking for love in all the right or wrong places

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: After nearly three years of widowhood and attending our senior center community activities, church events and other social outings, I still haven’t found a new partner.

My friends have suggested that I’ve been trying too hard, and that I might be able to find the right man if only I relax. I’m healthy and financially stable, so I don’t need a partner, but

er, you should ask yourself whether you’re meeting any new people, especially men. Don’t limit your social opportunities by choosing the wrong activities.

Look into groups with many male members (one easy suggestion is to look for something sports related). You can also attend afternoon tea dances and civic clubs, like those put on by Rotary International and Kiwanis International.

I am lonely and want to make a new connection.

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WHAT CAN I DO NEXT?

: Finding a new partner isn’t easy, especially when you had a wonderful previous relationship. It’s challenging to find a healthy and happy man that you’re compatible with who is also looking for love.

You’re on the right path by participating in group activities. Howev-

Move more for a healthy heart

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While heart health and how to prevent heart disease are important topics, many people in the United States – African Americans, in particular – remain at risk.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, African Americans ages 18-49 are almost twice as likely as Caucasians to die from heart disease. Additionally, about 33 percent of African Americans ages 35-49 and 61 percent ages 50-64 have high blood pressure, which is a major risk factor for heart disease.

However, there are many ways for you to lower your risk for heart disease, and one of the most important is by becoming physically active. National guidelines recommend at least 2 hours, 30 minutes of moderate-intensity physical activity per week for adults, like brisk walking where your blood gets pumping and you are a little breathless. If you find yourself short of time, you can incorporate physical activity in small chunks, such as three 10-minute intervals per day, and still achieve some heart health benefits.

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In addition to working toward at least 150 minutes of physical activity each week, it’s important to avoid be-

If you still find yourself without any potential suitors, you can join organized dating events or online dating services. These will help you meet a larger variety of people while filtering out those who already have paired up.

You’re not the only one looking for love, so be patient. Sometimes you have to cast a wide net to find the right partner. No matter what else, stay positive! -- Doug

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Retirement to bring new headaches

BY ANNIE LANE

DEAR ANNIE: After working my

whole life, I am retiring in a couple of weeks. I’ve been looking forward to some downtime, sleeping in, time for myself and time to do the things I want to do, but a problem has appeared.

My husband wants me to take care of his 97-year-old semi-invalid father, who expects a full cooked breakfast every morning at 7 o’clock. On top of that, my son and his wife, who work different shifts, expect me to care for their screaming 2-year-old toddler and their new baby, who is due in a few weeks.

I hate to say “no” to my family, but what about me? What should I do? -Distressed in Utah DEAR DISTRESSED: Don’t think of

it as saying “no” to your family. Think of it as finally saying “yes” to yourself.

Someone was taking care of your father-in-law up until this point. Can that person continue to do so, at least in some capacity? Perhaps you could hire a part-time caregiver who could be with him during the day. Surely, you and your husband can come up with a plan that doesn’t require you to serve as 24/7 nurse and chef. The same goes for your son and his wife.

They should not rely entirely on you for childcare. Baby-sitting should be a favor, not a duty.

Though setting boundaries may lead to some conflict with family members in the short term, it will make for healthier, less resentful relations in the long term. Congrats on your retirement.

DEAR ANNIE: I am a gay man in my late 20s, and I’ve found myself in a very confusing situation. I could use some advice. My best friend, a woman I’ve known for almost 15 years, and I are so close we’re almost like siblings.

I spend holidays with her family and take vacations with them. Her parents consider me one of their children. She has three elder siblings, a sister and

two brothers. I am incredibly close to all of them, especially one of her brothers, “Bryan.”

Bryan is like a brother to me. We tell each other we love each other. If he were gay, I would most likely be in a relationship with him. So compatible are we that his parents often joke that we would make the perfect couple, and they say they would be so happy if that were something that could somehow be possible.

However, my fraternal relationship with Bryan has always sort of had an undertone of his appreciating the fact that I find him attractive. It’s not uncommon for him to take his shirt off and ask me whether I think his workouts are paying off. I know that this is quite common with other people, too; straight men often relish the idea that they are the object of desire for gay men. But recently, it’s come to a weird apex.

Now, I should probably mention that he has a girlfriend whom he loves and is about to move in with. But I still have these complicated feelings. Is he just teasing me? Is he just joking?

I don’t know how to process this or how to move forward. I love him like a brother, but I would definitely be intimate with him if he wanted. I’m so confused.

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about a role he never saw coming, but rarely doubted he could perform dutifully and steadfastly: caregiver to his wife of 56 years. Elaine Schreiber was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease when she was 68. Schreiber has written a book, My Two Elaines, chronicaling a journey no one wants to take.

Schreiber is succinct when talking about facing the diagnosis of a loved one. “Alzheimer’s is the coming to grips while letting go.”

The book is a mixture of emotions. It’s an easy read, but difficult to digest, particularly if you are a loved one caught in the unenviable position of caregiver. It’s a book of fighting and facing the inevitable and, finally, accepting the disease -- and help. This disease not only changes the person who suffers from dementia, it changes the caregiver.

Schreiber notes that most forms of dementia are primarily a woman’s disease leaving husbands in the role of caregiver. Women tend to be the caregivers in their families, he said. “The role of men in a family is of provider and protector. Men are reluctant to

ask for help; they think they can do it all. They take their marriage vows seriously and won’t consider departing from their wife.” For eight years after Elaine’s diagnosis, Schreiber took on the role of caregiver in their home.

The book chronicles what he learned about himself, the disease and both his Elaines. “It was my ego. I couldn’t admit to myself that I couldn’t do it.

Was my ego more important than helping Elaine be who she is now?”

“I decided to write the book when I understood that I didn’t know enough early enough.

The only thing worse than Alzheimer’s is the ignorance of the disease. I decided to write the book when I couldn’t find in all the books about Alzheimer’s any that gave it to me straight. Certainly, there are more books that have more medical information or include more research, but there weren’t many books that told about the tough journey ahead as a caregiver.”

In the book, Schreiber helps to guide those who find themselves in the role of caregiver. “It seems your choices are either to die young with-

Schreiber and his wife sailing. out dementia or have a long life and increase your chances of getting it.”

What helped him cope was to understand the Elaine who is in his life now is not the Elaine he married, not the woman with whom he raised children and built a full and happy life. “I can’t get angry and frustrated with her.

This is not the first Elaine. This Elaine is someone brand new to me. Once I began to understand it, it made a big

difference.”

“If you try to hang on to the person whom you once knew, it’s like cutting off your arm an inch at a time, Schreiber explained. “If you’re not willing to let go and your loved one doesn’t remember your name, that’s a cut; then she doesn’t remember her children, that’s a cut; then she doesn’t remember where she grew up, that’s a cut. Each occurrence is another slice.

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Learn to deal with the fact that this is not the person you knew. This is a new person and you have to figure out how and where to find new moments of joy.”

The person you knew and loved is never coming back to your world, but the caregiver can move on into this new reality. “I compare it to looking through a funnel,” Schreiber explained. “We look through the narrow end where the long view is wide and expansive. For her, the funnel is flipped around. She is looking through the wide end but her long view is narrow. She sees just a little space. That’s her world – not five minutes before or five minutes after.”

As Schreiber endeavored to care for Elaine at home, his health began to decline. Schreiber cited a shocking statistic. “Thirty-five percent of caregivers die before their loved ones.”

Caregivers wear themselves out. “No matter how much care and effort you put into being there for your loved one, you will find yourself three steps back the next day. No matter how much you love, no matter how much you care, no matter how hard you worked – nothing gets better. The disease continues to progress. So, you think, what’s wrong with me? Your only hope is to understand the disease better, look for those moments of joy and access the help that is available.”

Schreiber says it’s a bit like a balance scale: the caregiver’s health and the loved one health and safety. If you wear yourself down physically and emotionally, your loved one will suffer as a result.

Schreiber has found a kind of balance. At 78, he has given nearly 150 talks to various organizations on what he has learned. The feedback he receives from caregivers range from losing friends to guilt. “Alzheimer’s is not a chicken-casserole disease. People don’t know how to handle it. As part of a couple, your friends come together maybe to play bridge or tennis.

When your spouse has Alzheimer’s, your game has changed. You need friends who understand the disease and can help you with the emotions of being a caregiver. This is where caregiver support groups and counseling come in. You start to make new friends who are equipped to be more supportive and helpful.”

Schreiber learned to tap into resources available to him and Elaine.

“Day Care was a good resource for her, and counseling for me at the Alzheimer’s Association helped me get a healthy perspective.”

For more than two years, Elaine has lived in a memory unit at a senior care facility. “It is comforting knowing she is cared for 24-hours a day. There is less anxiety for me. I sleep better and have the time to take care of myself. I’m a better father and grandfather now. I know Elaine would want

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Schreiber is up by 4 a.m., has breakfast, reads various newspapers, offers support to those who need it -- and spends time with Elaine. “I see her daily. I come for lunch and we spend two or three hours together.

She doesn’t know me as her husband, but she knows me as someone she loves. One day we were eating lunch and she started to cry and I asked her why she was crying. She said she was starting to love me more than her husband.”

Schreiber holds a memory Elaine’s disease cannot erase. “One day, we were walking along a beach, holding hands -- I remember geese flying overhead. I said to Elaine, ‘no matter what happens, we’ve had a great life and there’s nothing more I could have asked for.’”

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If you’re like me, you may be ready to see the end of this cold and snow and are ready travel to someplace warm. A getaway can be a welcome change of pace for both caregivers and care receivers, but the thought of traveling may seem too daunting to take on. With some organization and preplanning, however, a trip might not be as unattainable as you once thought.

First, develop your travel plans and identify potential challenges for your trip. Is your final destination wheelchair accessible? Airports certainly are, but rental homes or hotels may not have all the features your care receiver needs, so be sure to ask these questions before you book your reservation. Also, determine what medical equipment you will bring with you and what you can rent at your final destination. As you create your itinerary, ensure that you include several rest stops and bathroom breaks. Be mindful of connections and plan for more than enough time to board a second flight. If you have a long layover, look into restaurants offered in your concourse for a relaxing way to pass the time and recharge.

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Lastly, identify opportunities for assistance. Will you be traveling with another person who can provide a couple of hours of respite for you to take a nap or get a coffee? Take time to share your need for assistance with that individual before the trip and remember it’s okay to ask for help.

By taking time to pre-plan your trip, you can find ways to reduce stress and maximize your opportunities to share special moments with your care receiver. More caregiving tips can be found on Aimee’s Blog, located at TheCaregiverConnection.org. Aimee Henry is a former Social Worker and current Caregiver Connection Manager for ERAs Senior Network providing friendly insight to the world of caregiving through her monthly blogs.

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continued Bullpen carts EDITORIALS

The game of baseball is just beginning for the 2018 season. Some people are excited by the prospect of seeing the Milwaukee Brewers in action again.

We doubt that we will see bullpen carts in action at County Stadium. The carts will be utilized to bring in the second, third, or fourth pitchers after the first

guy has failed on the mound.

The bullpen carts, used to some extent almost 50 years ago, will be used by the relievers instead of trotting to the mound.

We think if the use of these carts helps speed up the game, bring them on. Professional baseball, once about a

two-hour game, has some fans fleeing to the restrooms in the three hours, or close to it, games.

Was it about the time of the ill-fated Edsel car that the last carts were utilized in baseball game? No, a game’s historian says only about twenty some years ago.

Arizona Diamondbacks will be the first riders in 2018.

If I awakened in the morning and there were no baseball box scores, would I miss them?

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Then there is Arizona, where in one mountainous village he received 75 percent of the vote. kkkkk The March viewing of the Oscars on television had quite a low number of households at 26-plus million compared with other years as high as 40 million. kkkkk What would a bank achieve if it catered to younger customers since they are mostly the people without much money? Amazon may find out. kkkkk

Many people are seeking therapy aid today. Actually, do you know a therapist who might not need a bit of therapy? k k k k k Common sense doesn’t seem to be so common today as people trudge down many different avenues. kkkkk Real love is demonstrated by your dog via its excitement when you come in through the door. kkkkk Two families either recently or will soon see the London Bridge, one the current bridge in London and

two, the old one now a Lake Havasu, AZ attraction. The family headed for London will be there for the prince’s wedding. But will they ever see the roundest knight of the realm, Sir Cumference? kkkkk Just imagine that if you lived in Detroit, you could be driving daily over the late Jimmy Hoffa’s grave. The former tough-guy union boss is said to have been buried by his killers in a grave later under new paving.

Becoming totally carbon-free will have its price. kkkkk With Pres. Trump as somewhat of a target, the Democratic Party must win the 10 Senate seats they now hold in states won by Pres. Trump. These 10 seats must be joined by two now Republican to give the Democrats the majority they need. Can they achieve it? A possible Democratic nominee in Arizona has backed most of Trump’s dealings. Percentage-wise, Trump’s most popular democratic states were West Virginia, North Dakota, Mon-

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Senior Softball Leagues open play here this month

BY JACK PEARSON

As pointed out many times in this publication, senior softball activity in this area is as good or better than it is anywhere in the entire country. Most of the leagues are for 55 and older players, but one is for 65 and older.

Players can compete in leagues which are of their old age or older, but not in the ones for younger players. Some of the leagues are open for women.

If you’re interested in joining the action, call the league presidents listed below.

Playing softball is not only enjoyable and good exercise, it’s surprisingly affordable.

The cost for playing an entire season is less than playing a single round of golf at some of the more posh courses. All you need is a good glove, a pair of proper athletic shoes and your own bat. And some ability, of course.

Here’s a brief rundown of the activities.

Opening day for the Village at Manor Park (VMP) is scheduled for Monday, April 30. Ten teams of 55 and older begin play at 9, 10 and 11 a.m. and at noon. All games are at McCarty Park in West Allis. For more information, call Jim Cleary at 262-938-6721.

Three leagues, all for 55 and older, also begin in late April and are sponsored by the West Allis-West Milwau-

kee Athletic Department. All games are played at the WA Athletic Complex at S. 117th and Cleveland Ave., in West Allis, and games are played on Monday, Tuesday and Friday mornings. All games start at 9:30 a.m. For more information call Dustin Smith at 414-604-4938.

The Milwaukee 55 Plus Softball League is sponsored by the Milwaukee Department of Recreation, has 10 teams and includes women as well as men. They play on Tuesday mornings at 9:30 and 10:45 a.m. at Burnham Park in Milwaukee, and begin on April 24. For more information, call Lithia McDaniel at 414647-6065.

Twelve teams in the Southeastern Wisconsin Senior League start on April 25. They play all games at McCarty Park at 9:30 and 10:45 a.m. For more information, call Gary Kohls at 414-427-0403.

The only softball league in the state for 65 and Older Softball League, will begin play on Thursday, April 26, at McCarty Park. They also are sponsored by the VMP. For more information, call Cy Swiechichowski at 262672-3752.

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Brookfield’s Don Pavletich and his career in baseball Check out these headlines from major daily newspapers that appeared back in the 1960s.

“Pavletich’s Homer In 18th Beats Cubs” “Reds Salvage Split on Pavletich’s Slam” “Pavletich Powers Reds Past ChiSox” “Pavletich in Hero’s Role As Reds Nose Out Dodgers” Headlines where, you might ask, and who was this Pavletich guy all the headlines were clamoring about?

I’m glad you asked that, as it leads right into my explanation. Those glaring headlines were not in the Milwaukee Journal or Milwaukee Sentinel, but rather in major dailies in Cincinnati, Chicago and in Boston; and Don Pavletich, who was born in Milwaukee and raised in West Allis, played for and starred on Major League Baseball teams in those cities.

So Pavletich never played for Milwaukee Major League teams, the old Milwaukee Braves or the Milwaukee Brewers, is your follow up question.

The answer is no, but, he very well could have. And if you read on you’ll understand why.

Besides writing this column and other articles for this publication, I serve on the boards of a couple of sports oriented organizations. One of them is the Milwaukee Braves Historical Association. The group regularly conducts testimonial dinners featuring former Milwaukee Braves players as special guest speakers.

At a recent meeting it was lamented that nearly all of the former great Braves players – stars such as Spahn, Mathews, Burdette, Logan and Buhl – have all passed on. The MBHA, it seemed, had run out of potential guest speakers. One of the board members, Felix Mantilla (who was also a former Braves and Boston Red Sox player) interjected that it was too bad that another former Major Leaguer, Don Pavletich of Brookfield, couldn’t be considered. “Why do you say that?” another board member asked. “Well, you know it’s kind of funny,” Felix said, “but Don very easily could have become a Milwaukee Brave, and later on he could also have become a Milwaukee Brewer.” Between what Felix

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By Jack Pearson had explained and some research on my own, I was able to follow up on Pavletich’s career.

As noted, Don was born and raised here and even as a youth was a superb athlete. He was a multisports star at the old Nathan Hale High School. In football he was a second team all suburban quarterback, a starter in basketball, and really stood out in baseball. There, in addition to being an excellent catcher, he was also a powerful slugger, hitting .405 as a senior with a pile of home runs. You don’t see many baseball players hitting over .400 who are also long ball hitters. The only one that comes to mind was the great Ted Williams, who hit .406 in 1941 and who was also always one of the top home run hitters in the league. I’m not inferring that Pavletich was anywhere near as great a hitter as was Williams, but on the other hand, how many hitters do you know, in any league or level, who hit over .400 and were also power hitters?

Don graduated from high school in June of 1956 and spent the ensuing summer playing ball in the West Allis Recreation Department’s Summer Baseball League. His hitting and allaround play continued to be phenomenal, and Major League scouts from all over the country watched his efforts.

“That was back in the days before the annual Major League Baseball Draft was initiated,” Don said.

“If you were any good at all, the way teams picked you up was by their scouts recommending you and then the team offering you a bonus to sign a contract.” So during that summer of ’56, while he was still in high school and then later during WA Rec League play, at least a dozen big league scouts were checking him out. They included scouts from not only the Milwaukee Braves, but the New York Yankees

Don Pavletich today in his Brookfield home. He’s added a mustache and a few pounds since his playing days, but the smile is still there. and Brooklyn Dodgers (yes, the Bums Burgess. I’ll be only 20 years old when were still there then) the Cleveland In- I get out of the service, and if I join dians, Chicago White Sox and Detroit now, rather than wait to be drafted, I’ll Tigers. Several made financial offers be able to rejoin the Redlegs in time to sign to Pavletich, but surprising- for the 1959 season.”

Before he left for his service duly the highest, $35,000, was from the Cincinnati Reds. That, by the way, was ties in 1957, however, the Reds used one of the highest signing bonuses him in one game. It was, would you they ever offered to any player by any believe, right here in Milwaukee’s team. Don took the offer and signed. It County Stadium in a game against the was not that he wanted the money for Milwaukee Braves. He grounded out himself; he used it to pay off his par- in a pinch-hitting appearance. That ents’ mortgage on their home in West year the Braves, as you recall, won the championship of the National League Allis.

The rules then called for players and then the World Series crown over who got more than $4,000 in bonus to the New York Yankees. “I wished then be kept on the team roster for at least that it would have been so great if the two years. Here’s an excerpt from a Braves would have made me the same Milwaukee Journal story at the time. kind of offer the Reds had made,” “Faced with service in the army soon- Don said. “I would have loved to have er or later, Don Pavletich, the Cincin- played with that team and before Milnati Reds bonus boy from West Allis, waukee fans.”

By the way, according to other reSunday decided to volunteer for Army ports at the time, the reason the Milduty ‘to get it over with as soon as possible.’ Only 18, the husky catcher said waukee Braves didn’t make any kind he had not expected to see much ac- of a substantial offer to Pavletich was tion with Cincinnati this year anyway not because they found him lacking because the Redlegs had two topflight in any way, but because they were alreceivers in Ed Bailey and Smokey ready in good shape in catching, with

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All-Star Del Crandall behind the plate for nearly all the games, and with a capable sub in Del Rice behind him.

Also, that $35,000 bonus awarded to Don doesn’t seem like much in today’s standards, but back then it was a fortune. For example, Don’s first full season salary was less than $5,000 and the highest he ever made was $27,000, after he’d been in the league for 12 years. Today’s average salary is well over a million dollars a season. (Did you note that above about the two Braves catchers? Yes, both first names were Del. What did they do when somebody called out “Del,” did they both jump?)

Pavletich spent the rest of 1957, all of ’58 and the first half of ’59 in the service. After his discharge, the Reds sent him to their affiliate in the Three –I League in Topeka, Kansas. Considering he’d been away from the game for two years, he put up some pretty good numbers, hitting .279 and banging out 12 homers in just 59 games. Brought up by the Reds at the tail end of the season, he made one appearance as a pinch runner, and scored a run, his first scoring in the Major Leagues.

The next year, 1960, he spent in the minors, with Reds affiliates in Columbia in the South Atlantic League and then with Topeka in the Three-I League. In ’61 he was moved up to Indianapolis in the American Association, where he had his first really notable year, serving as the team’s fulltime catcher and hitting a solid .295 with 22 homers. That was good enough to earn him a trip back to the Reds in ’62, where he was the Reds’ backup to John Edwards.

With the exception of a brief stay at the Reds’ minor league team in San Diego, Pavletich stayed on with Cincinnati for the next six years. During that time he was always the team’s number two catcher, behind Edwards until 1968, when Johnny Bench took over. Bench, of course, became one of the greatest Major League catchers of all time, earning Rookie of the Year honors in ’68 and league Most Valuable Player two years later. Don was traded to the Chicago White Sox in 1968, a year later from then to the Boston Red Sox (who also had a Hall of Fame catcher in Carlton Fisk).

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starter, always the backup, but was somehow always popular with the fans and was assuredly a media favorite. His often spectacular efforts garnered him more major headlines than

any other backup in the entire league, or so it seemed. You saw those headline reproduction as the beginning this story. They were only a fraction of the total. Here’s some copy that went along with those headlines.

“The longest game of the season in the Major Leagues finally ended in the 18th inning yesterday at Wrigley Field when Don Pavletich conquered the almost stormy winds blowing into his face from Lake Michigan. Pavletich, a 215-pound catcher first-baseman from West Allis, Wisconsin, brought the unscheduled double header to a violent climax when he drove the first pitch from Ferguson Jenkins over the left field wall after two were out.”

Another: “Don Pavletich, Cincinnati’s slugging catcher from West Allis, Wisconsin, hit a home run with the bases loaded as a pinch hitter in the ninth inning with two out to give the Reds a 8-4 victory.” Don told me that was his most memorable game. “Just before I hit it, and with the count 2-2, the Houston pitcher threw one inside and almost hit me. I had to jump back.

So then all my teammates started yelling at me, why the hell didn’t I let the damn ball hit me. It would have forced in a run and we would have won. I felt

Pavletich in his playing days in the Major Leagues. He played for Cincinnati, Chicago and Boston over a 12-year career. like an idiot; they were right. Then on he was in a game that he hit the winthe next pitch I hit it out. I’ll never for- ning home run or triple or whatever, get that one.” far, far more than a mere substitute Another: player should have been able to ac“Reds catcher Don Pavletich hit complish. two homers on 2 and 0, pitches and But back to what Felix Mantilshortstop Leo Cardenas got the other. la had said about him almot being a All three sailed over the left field wall Brave and almost a Brewer. I’ve alinto a stiff wind.” ready written about why he was signed Another. by the Reds. Here’s the other. In 1972, “Cincinnati and Chicago battled he was part of a blockbuster ten-playfor 18 innings today, the longest game er trade between the Boston Red Sox for either team in 15 years and the lon- and the Milwaukee Brewers. He was gest this season before the Reds won, with the Brewers all through spring 3-2, on Don Pavletich’s home run.” training in ’72, and is even included And one more. in the 1972 Milwaukee Brewers Media “A two-run single by Tony Perez Guide. But, unfortunately, a chronic and a booming triple by Don Pavlet- sore arm was too much to overcome, ich, keyed a five run sixth inning for and he was cut. So even though he was Cincinnati as the National League traded to the Brewers, he never actuleaders whipped the Philadelphia ally played with them.

Phillies.” Those are only a few of the So at the age of 33, Don ended many news clippings I dug out of the his Major League career with a .254 archives, but you get the gist. Don may lifetime batting average and 46 home not have been a starter for the Reds, runs. His best two years were with White Sox and Red Sox over all those the Reds in ’65 and ’66, when he beltyears, but it seems that so often when BASEBALL continued on page 22

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ed out 20 homers in 420 official plate appearances. That equates out to hitting a home run every 21 times at the plate. By way of comparison, Deron Johnson, then the Reds top long-ball hitter, hit 56 homers in 1120 plate appearances over the same two years, which is a rate of hitting a home run every 20 times up. Which means that Don was hitting home runs at virtually the same clip as the team’s home run leader. On defense, Don was a sure handed catcher, with a lifetime fielding averages of .987, which, incidentally, was the same lifetime fielding averages of Hall of Fame catchers Jonny Bench and Yogi Berra. So again, why Don was always used as a backup is, as Yul Brynner said in the King and I, a “Puzzlement.”

It was noted earlier that the impetus for this article about Don Pavletich originated at a meeting of the Milwaukee Braves Historical Association. During that meeting, it was also discussed that there are eight former Major League ballplayers who still reside in this area; Felix Mantilla, John

DeMerit and Bob Uecker, who played with the Braves, Ken Sanders, who pitched for the Brewers, Pavletich, and A.J. Ellis, Craig Kusik and Bob Botz.

Who do you think had the longest career in Major League ball? Yes, it was Pavletich, with 12 years.

Don and his wife Connie have lived in Brookfield for close to 34 years. Like most octogenarians (well close, he’ll be 80 on July 13) Don has his share of physical ailments; both knees replaced and sore again, painful back, left shoulder and right hip replaced, and most recently, severe asthma. But he still is as positive and friendly as ever, still has a bone crushing handshake, still has those sparks in his eyes.

I asked Don if he had any regrets or second thoughts about always being used as a backup over all those years.

He gave me a wistful smile and his reply wasn’t at all what I had expected. “No, no, not at all,” he said. I had a wonderful career, met and played with and against some great players. I thank God for every minute of it.

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5020 South 55th Street • Greenfield • Call 414-282-0506 Beautiful serene country setting overlooking a private lake. Close to shopping, churches and medical facilities. Heated underground parking, blinds, and ceiling fan. Beautiful community room.

• Heat & Water Included • Air Conditioned • Intercom Access • Appliances • Community Room with Kitchen • On Bus Line starting at • Laundry on each Floor • Pet Friendly

2 Bedroom, 2 Bath 930 Sq. Ft. $930/month

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Traditional Funerals 1, 395.00 at your Church or Cemetery Chapel of your choice Call for more details

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200 Southtowne Dr. • South Milwaukee • Call 414-764-5335 Quiet spacious apartments, elevator, underground parking, community room, library and exercise room. Friendly atmosphere. Larger units available.

• Heat & Water Included • Air Conditioned • Fitness Center • Resident Library • Laundry on each Floor • Quality Appliances starting at • On Bus Line • Pet Friendly

2 Bedroom, 2 Bath 930 Sq. Ft. $930/month

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Learning, coping and surviving as an Alzheimer’s Caregiver. at 10:30 and 11:30am

Additional Seminars 10:00 am Moving in the Right Direction By the Senior Real Estate Specialists Bruce and Jeanne Nemovitz and Austin Cole” Sponsored by SeniorRealtor.com 05

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Emma has new vim and vigor in April DEAR FOLKS:

April has arrived and with it the bright sunshine brings new life, vim and vigor to all of us who are not stuck in front of the Internet and textually depraved.

I am a bit disappointed today as I just opened a free gift - so nice to get something you don’t have to pay for from the Publishers’ Clearing House.

The problem was that I did not receive it free and clear. I had to pay about $5 in shipping and handling fees. So, was it really free?

Henry, when he had to get ready for work this morning, told me that he’s descended from a bunch of grumpy old men. He says he does respect his early elders as they were smart guys; all graduated from high school in the days when a lot of men never went beyond eighth grade. These were needed on the farm. Henry says he recalls his dad telling him that he did not wish Henry to follow his footsteps into farming. He claimed that each day in the barn he stepped into stuff that made his shoes smell awful. Continuing in a talkative vein as he ate his

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By Aunt Emma oatmeal covered with bananas, raisins and crushed nuts (not peanuts), Henry continued to expound. He is not the tallest guy I ever dated, but just the right size in height. He claims to be of fun and frivolity size. He admires me, thank goodness. He says that he loves me and that is the reason why he is so thoughtful of other people. He does not wish to ever embarrass me. I do tell him often that I appreciate that and do still think back to that very first time we met when Henry came to my folks’ house to install inside plumbing. I was, to be sure, a bit flushed about having used the outhouse.

I guess that is more than enough about the Internet and the wise choices that both Henry and I made in loving each other.

Even though I am left handed, I

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handle most things in the right way.

Never ever once, did I ask to have the traffic jam passed or to use a left handed knife to cut the bread.

Now that Henry has left for work, I will let you in on a secret. But the kids already seem to know. Henry becomes more set in his way as the days well, maybe the years pass. Sonny was riding with him and told Henry that he should be wearing his seat belt. Henry looked at him and told him to mind his own business, that if he was stupid enough to not wear a seat belt, that it was no one’s business but his own.

Now, I know that is not going to be the case when he gets ticketed for not wearing a seat belt.

I had told you that I would write about our big - supposedly so in advance - St. Patrick’s Night party at the club. I did want to enjoy it, but there was this one obnoxious man, who kept pestering me to dance with him. Henry knows the man and said it was obvious that the man liked the green beer, as it was free after the $10 entrance fee was paid. The man really made me quite upset. It was about that time that I had wished had been a nurse so I could have hauled him over to a corner and

sedated him. But Henry took over and the first thing he asked him was about the nuts that fell from the man’s family tree. Henry told him it was a certain fact that at least one of the nuts had to be cracked. Henry told him that he had pestered me enough and that no other women that night should welcome his advances. He said, “If I get caught twisting your arm to go away, be thankful that it wasn’t a blow to the face.” The man left, but the evening had been ruined for me.

We left early, went to the drivein for a pair of fish sandwiches and went home realizing that it is what it is. Henry said, “Emma, you’re still a mighty fine specimen” (I believe that was a compliment). This came just before he hit me with reality. “The golden years just match your light brown hair.

I’d perhaps follow your footsteps anywhere, except into my dad’s barn.”

About that time, I smiled, got ready for bed and followed my dreams to a delightful night, even though the earlier evening had been somewhat tough to recreate.

See you next month.

EMMA

Breakfast With The Whistle-Blowers

There are several hundred years of officiating experience in this happy group of current and retired Milwaukee area football referees. Bill Carollo (upper right), currently the director of football officials for the Big Ten and three other conferences, hosts a breakfast gathering two or three times a year for some of his former colleagues, always at Michael’s Restaurant in West Allis. From the left, standing, John Graber, Barry Mino, Dennis Lipski and Carollo; seated, Bill Wendelberger, Bill Crowley, Gene Berce, Pancho Palesse and Tom Kissinger.

APRIL 2018

A visit to Del Webb in Ponte Vedra

Time marches on and so does this aging writer going from early Spring in Wisconsin and its weathering challenges to northeast Florida and its coldest period of the season, but such is life when an offspring and family reside in Ponte Vedra’s Nocatee community, about 30 miles south of Jacksonville. Nocatee is about eight miles from the Atlantic Ocean. With Jacksonville as the main point of location, it not only is an in and out shipping port, but also is known as the largest city from a standpoint of area in the United States.

It also is the home of a naval air station, a U.S. Naval Base and thousands of retired former Navy personnel.

Ponte Vedra to the south is home to Sawgrass and to the TPC golf course where an early May tournament is held for the professional golfing elite. The TPC site is comprised of thousands

of acres for two 18-hole golf courses, plus much land for parking and million dollar mansions for the rich and famous. Fronting the development, of course, is a multi-million dollar clubhouse, which is open to the public year-around.

So much for Ponte Vedra this trip. Let us now focus in on the Del Webb residential community adjoining Nocatee with its numerous whitehaired women and the smiling, but work-wrinkled faces of the older men who own the approximately 3,000 houses in the community that was begun just 10 years ago. The houses are divided into four like-neighborhoods.

The wealthy homeowners see homes similar to their own and so do those who reside in the least expensive.

The outdoor-indoor spacious swimming pool, at the members-only

Anastacia Clubhouse is very impressive to say the least.

As for golf, there are numerous golfing layouts from the most expensive and toughest to the easiest and least costly.

Del Webb residents have 36 different clubs available and 17 varied interest groups for those residents who wish to do more than sit around at the clubhouse enjoying conversation with new-found friends. In addition, the Nocatee Preserve offers 2,400 wildly beautiful acres to hike or bike through.

We recognize the Del Webb communities as a great way of life for seniors who are active and those who are not. We would not rank it as unparalleled, but close to it.

Potential future owners can enjoy brief stays in the Del Webb community as they familiarize themselves

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with the neighborhoods and what Del Webb has to offer.

Many younger retirees are keeping their focus on life-expanding clubs and such as Learning in Retirement.

World-class amenities are in their focus.

The Del Webb housing is what you wish it to be, ranging in four categories from a low of $217,000 per home to a high of $348,000. The monthly homeowners’ assessment is $182.50 per month.

We suspect at Del Webb, if you care to, you can keep learning, keep growing mentally and physically if you wish plus there’s always the fun and social activities that abound in the 38,000 sq. ft. clubhouse.

Who knows, we may see you there.

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EVENTS CALENDAR APRIL 4-5, 9 AM – 4 PM & APRIL 6, 9 AM - NOON

Trains, Tracks, and Switches Display

Shorehaven Great Room, 1305 W. Wisconsin Ave., Oconomowoc

Great Room. This event is a rare opportunity for any railroad fan. Call Shorehaven Activities Assistant Cheryl at (262) 567-8341, ext. 5032 to learn more.

Model diesel and steam engine APRIL 7, 6-10 AM Oconomowoc Area Senior Center’s train sets will be operating, presen- REGISTRATION tations delivered, and railroad mem- 26th Annual Trailbreaker This Waukesha tradition conorabilia displayed in the Shorehaven

Senior Services Fair

SeniorSaturday, April 29

9 am to 2 pm 210 S. Main Street, Oconomowoc Berkshire Clubhouse SATURDAY, APRIL 29 • 9AM-2PM

Services Fair

210 S. Main Street, Oconomowoc • Berkshire Clubhouse Get information and gain knowledge about

Get information and gain knowledge about Health and Wellness •Transitional Housing • Health and Wellness FinancialRewarding Opportunities •Planning Retirement • Financial Opportunities Legal Documents •Travel Opportunities • Home Care and Helpers  Home Care and Helpers • Activities to Join .. .Activities and several “Informative Seminars” to Join • County Senior Services and refreshments, too!  Transitional Housing  Home Maintenance Sources FREE ADMISSION  Planning Rewarding Retirement

For more details, call 262.567.4288 or visit www.OconomowocSeniors.org . . . and several “Informative Seminars”and refreshments, too!

FREE ADMISSION For more details, call 262.567.4288 or visit www.OconomowocSeniors.org

sists of a Marathon, Half-Marathon, 10K and 5K Run/Walk. All of these events are certified by the USATF and may provide qualifying credentials for other races. Since 2009, the Park Foundation of Waukesha, Inc. (PFW Inc.), has organized and hosted this annual event as a fundraiser for the enhancement of city parks, trails, recreation programs and the urban forest. Over $150,000 has been generated and re-invested with the Parks, Recreation and Forestry Department to “make Waukesha a better place to live, work and play.” Visit runthetrailbreaker.com to sign up for the run of your choice. Many volunteers are needed, visit the website to volunteer as well.

APRIL 10, 6 PM

Travels in Germany and Austria

St. Francis Public Library, 4230 S. Nicholson Ave., St. Francis

Join avid traveler Jane Stoltz as she showcases her travels along the Danube River and through the German and Austrian countryside. Jane and her husband John chose to bike through these stunning countries.

Some of the stops we’ll make are the historically and culturally rich cities of Munich, Passau, and Vienna. Visit sleepy towns, the stunning Melk cathedral and also take a side trip to Bratislava, Slovakia, on this outstanding pictorial adventure.

German desserts will be served!

Please register in advance for this free program. For additional information call (414) 481-7323 or visit stfrancislibrary.org.

APRIL 11, 6 – 7:30 PM

Introduction to aromatherapy

Hartland Public Library, 110 E Park Ave, Hartland

Polly Schellinger, a registered nurse and owner of The Healing Place Farm, will be here to talk about the health benefits of essential oils. You’ll learn about the properties of essential oils and how to use them, with a focus on relaxation and how to promote better sleep. Please call 262-367-3350 or email swanson@hartland.lib.wi.us to register for this free class.

APRIL 13, 7:30 – 9 PM

Four Guyz in Dinner Jackets

South Milwaukee Performing Arts Center, 901 15th Ave., South Milwaukee

Experience the sounds and sights of the Golden Age of Entertainment as stirring vocal harmony; comedy and captivating choreography combine to produce Four Guyz in Dinner Jackets “Now in Technicolor.” The Four Guyz in Dinner Jackets succeed in thrilling audiences with their high energy and dynamic shtick.

This newest production celebrates the transforming era of music entertainment that was delivered to living rooms across America through the iconic and enthralling invention – the television set! Just as this wooden box thrilled generations of viewers, relive your childhood and adolescent years through the music and fads that have become legend. This production will hold you, thrill you and delight you as your feet and heart are carried away

by Four Guyz in Dinner Jackets “Now in Technicolor.” Call 414-766-5049 or visit www.southmilwaukeepac.org for ticket information.

APRIL 13, 11 AM – 1 PM

Coloring, Coffee and Conversation

Brown Deer Public Library, 4800 West Green Brook Drive, Brown Deer

We supply the coloring pages and colored pencils and coffee; you bring the conversation. Adults are welcome to pop in and color and converse in the library’s Community Room. Use the library’s supplies or bring your own. Come when you can and leave when you must. There is no charge for this event.

APRIL 16, 3 – 4:30 PM

Baseball Memory Café

Elm Grove Public Library, 13600 Juneau Boulevard, Elm Grove

The 2018 season will be in full swing! Join us for Elm Grove’s home opener where we’ll partake in the traditions of America’s pastime and make our own team pennants. Call the library at 262-782-6700 to sign-up for this Memory Café event.

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APRIL 17, 5 – 7 PM

APRIL 19, 6:30 PM

formation call 414-481-7323 or visit stfrancislibrary.org.

Leff ’s Lucky Town, 7708 W. State Street, Wauwatosa

Luther Manor’s Linen Room, 4545 N. 92nd Street, Wauwatosa

APRIL 25, 6 – 7:30

Mature Singles Club, Sip & Snack

Meet new singles friends 55+. Join us for happy hour and find out more activities the club has to offer. We are a non profit, non sectarian organization focusing on the interests of single individuals. Our activities are scheduled in all areas of greater Milwaukee. Call Jan at 414-461-6090 with questions.

APRIL 18, 2 – 3 PM

Ancestry Library Edition & HeritageQuest Online

North Shore Library, 6800 N Port Washington Rd, Glendale

Want to learn more about your family history? Come learn about Ancestry Library Edition and HeritageQuest Online! Free at the North Shore Library, learn the basics of navigating the databases and how you can get started. This program is a presentation style program. Please register in advance at the Adult Reference Desk or by calling the library at (414) 3513461.

APRIL 18, 4 – 7 PM

Homeowner Resource Fair

West Allis City Hall, 7525 W Greenfield Ave., West Allis

The Homeowner Resource Fair will connect homeowners with city services and local service providers that can assist them in maintaining their properties. Walk away motivated and empowered to improve your property and keep the neighborhoods beautiful and safe. Topics include: fire safety, home security, rodent prevention, lead intervention, permitting information, healthy homes, pet resources, refuse/recycling programs, property maintenance, neighborhood associations, community gardens, and much more! Several city departments, organizations, and businesses will be presenting as well. Complimentary light refreshments will be provided by the West Allis Cheese & Sausage Shoppe, and Tall Guy & a Grill Catering. Enjoy a prize drawing, gather great information, and meet your neighbors!

Taking the Hassle Out of Downsizing & Moving

If you or a senior loved one are considering selling a home, there are a lot of questions you’re asking. What is involved in selling a home for seniors?

What is the housing market like for those who want to sell? What should I do with all my stuff? Navigate one of the biggest decisions of your life with Bruce and Jeanne Nemovitz Senior Real Estate Specialists. This is a free event but space is limited so RSVP to 414-434-1768 or LutherManor.org/ rsvp.

The Camera in Your Smartphone

Pewaukee Public Library, 210 Main Street, Pewaukee

Learn about your smartphone or tablet’s camera, home and Cloud storage options, and adding pictures to email and messaging. Presented

by Multimedia Journalist for NOW News Group, C.T. Kruger. Sponsored

by Friends of the Pewaukee Public Library. Register for this FREE program at www.pewaukeelibrary.org or call 262-691-5670 Ext 925.

APRIL 21, 9 AM – NOON, REGISTRATION BEGINS AT 8:15 AM

APRIL 26, 7:30 – 9:30 AM

Rotary Park, Fond du Lac Ave., Menomonee Falls

Embassy Suites, 1200 S. Moorland Road, Brookfield

Menomonee Falls River Clean Up

Come join us at the 10th annual River Cleanup in Menomonee Falls on Earth Day. There are up to 40 sites available throughout Menomonee Falls and volunteers are needed to clean up our parks, rivers and wetlands. Gloves and bags will be provided. Volunteer credit hours are given upon request. Sign up ahead of time to pick your location to cleanup. Walkins are welcomed! This is an excellent opportunity for Service Groups to do as an outing! The event is organized

by Milwaukee Riverkeeper and sponsored locally by Waste management.

Please call 262-532-4417 with questions.

Creating Your Action Plan for Successful Aging and Retirement

Join former Wisconsin Gover-

St. Francis Public Library. 4230 S. Nicholson Ave., St. Francis

Join Bob Wills owner of Clock Shadow Creamery and Cedar Grove Cheese companies as he discusses the different varieties of cheeses, how they are made and ways to use them. He will concentrate on the cheese made at Clock Shadow Creamery, fresh cheeses and some stories about sheep, goats, buffalo, grass-fed animals and organic cheese. He’ll also discuss the challenges that make cheese making as much an art as a science. Please register for this free program. For additional in-

nor Martin J. Schreiber, Dirk Steinert, M.D. and John Hell, SVA Plumb Financial Trust Officer and Wealth Manager as they discuss ways to help you create your action plan for your next life stage. Aging is a natural progression in life. It is inevitable. However, successful aging requires planning.

Now is the time to make sure your financial, medical and living needs will be met as you transition through life.

Please call 608-826-2012 to register.

APRIL 28, 9 AM – 1 PM

Senior Services Fair

Oconomowoc Area Senior Center, 210 S. Main Street, Oconomowoc

Stop by our free senior services fair and get information about living wills, power of attorney, financial opportunities, library services, funeral pre-planning, home care helpers, travel opportunities and much more! There will also be refreshments and several informative seminars.

FOUR GUYZ IN DINNER JACKETS APRIL 13 at 7:30 PM

GET TICKETS! (414) 766-5049 southmilwaukeepac.org

Milwaukee

APRIL 24, 6 PM

Cheese Making from the Clock Shadow Creamery

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Mike Dunns’ Legendary...

36th Annual

Miniature Motors

MODEL CAR, TOY & RACING MEMORABILIA ANNUAL SPRING SHOW April 15th, 2018 Plastic Model Kits, Promos, Slot Cars, Hot Wheels, Pressed Steel & Diecast Cars, Handbuilts, New and Vintage Toys, All Types of Racing Memorabilia!

Meet Dealers and Collectors from Coast to Coast!

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We Saw You At . . . . The Annual Sports Show

BY MARGARET PEARSON

This was the 78th annual Sport

Tom Sedowski of Milwaukee, with his grandkids Ashton and Eathon Sedowski of Watertown.

Show, sponsored by the Milwaukee Journal-Sentinel and featuring 285

Greg Laffin of Ixonia and grandson Kain Laffin of Pewaukee.

exhibitors and again conducted at the Wisconsin Center in State Fair

Park in West Allis. Here are few of the attendees:

Marlene and Mathew Addmeyer of Oakfield with her grandson Callaway of Fond du Lac.

Steve and Deliliah Stelpflue and Josh Stelpflue of Milwaukee and youngsters Abby Masmutvel and Aurene Thomas, all of Milwaukee.

Erwin Van Dyke and Ann Rice of Milwaukee.

Ed Emry of Fond du Lac with Darla and Scott Northenkuski of Brandon.

Army recruiters Nathan Hinkle, Michael Mottlow, Anna Stephens, Marcus Brown and Spencer Hernes.

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Anything old from attic to basement.

Old advertising signs including automotive & gas station signs, clocks & thermometers.

Old toys-tin & steel cars, trucks & trains.

Old woodworking tools & Stanley Planes.

Old crocks, coffee grinders & kitchen items.

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All are welcome to the Eucharist.

We believe in transparency, equality, inclusivity and hospitality.

Living by an informed conscience is every Catholic’s responsibility and right.

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Doors Open at 7:30 am & 4:30 pm Morning Sessions: 9:30 & 11:00 am Evening Sessions: 6:30 & 8:00 pm

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