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Vol. 13 No. 6, June 2012 • Complimentary

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une is here and with it comes a time of celebrations—Father’s Day, graduations, weddings and the beginning of summer. The outdoor season is now in full swing and the summer festivities are set to begin.

Get ready to enjoy all the many festivals and fairs the greater Milwaukee area has to offer.

One great way to enjoy the summer weather is visiting the Milwaukee County Zoo. Our cover story for this issue features four of the many women who work at the zoo. As many times as I have been to the zoo and talked with Dawn Fleuchaus, our featured zookeeper, I still learned something new about the zoo and the many careers of the women who work there. It truly takes a dedicated community of employees, from those who work in customer service and pick up garbage to those in the administrative offices, to enrich the lives of the animals and the thousands of visitors each year.

With all of our summer activities, we will want to look our best. One of the best ways to look our best now and in the future is to take good care of our skin and hair.

Read how to do this with our articles on summer skin and hair care and how to protect yourself from skin cancer, as well as in our special salon and spa advertorial section.

In this issue, we have also included our summer issue of Milwaukee Family magazine, one of our other publications geared toward family issues. This magazine is published four times a year. In this issue, we are featuring summer safety tips for the whole family, an A-to-Z list of summer fun in Wisconsin, an article on the importance of summer learning, a list of some summer reading suggestions and a calendar of local family events. We hope you enjoy this added bonus that we are very proud of.

Finally, I want to send out a friendly reminder to remember your dad this Father’s Day. This the perfect opportunity to let your dad know how much he is loved and appreciated; and if you have children of your own, you might want to show some appreciation for your children’s father as well. After all, fathers play a very important role in our lives.

I know I owe my dad a great deal of gratitude for all that he has done for me, but most of all, I want him to know that without him I wouldn’t have learned the true meaning of love, honor and cherish. Thank you, Dad. I love you.

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heir workspace is nearly 200 acres. Their jobs involve more than 330 species of animals representing every continent on Earth. Their work can be physical, dangerous and dirty, but always interesting. Every day people come by the thousands to see the results of their labor. They are the women of the Milwaukee County Zoo. Dawn Fleuchaus, 42, is one of 67 zookeepers at the Milwaukee County Zoo -- a job that was once the purview of men.

“They’d wear the hats and white shirts with little ties,” she said with a grin.

There now are more women than men zookeepers on staff, she said. “Women are good multitaskers. I think women are more observant, too,” she said.

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dy work boots. Her sandy blond hair pulled out of the way, trails down her back in a braid. Her job requires her to be tough and tender, physical and gentle.

She is always focused. In most cases, her life depends on it.

On this day, Fleuchaus works with zookeeper Patti Schnell. Both women are slim and lithe, but no match for a halfton bear. “Doesn’t matter. Nobody could overpower these animals no matter what size you are,” Fleuchaus said, which is why zoo policy requires zookeepers to pair up when handling certain animals.

Latches are double-checked and there is visual and verbal confirmation by both keepers on the whereabouts of the animals throughout a procedure.

Fleuchaus is the area supervisor for the North American and Australian sections of the zoo. She cares for, feeds, medicates and observes her charges.

As area supervisor for the North American section Dawn gets up close to a moose..

Fleuchaus and Schnell prepare to feed Boris and Aurora, male and female Alaskan Brown Bears, calling them by name into a secure holding area. They watch through two separate doors as the bears lumber into an area where Fleuchaus feeds them sliced apples as a reward for their efforts. “We have established a routine with them. They know when it’s time to eat.

They know they’ll get treats when they move into this area.”

The maneuver evacuates the exhibit area so it can be cleaned and prepped for one of their three daily meals. Zookeepers develop enrichment activities to stimulate the animals, like the paper-mache, hollow balls filled with bear chow, raisins, chopped fruits and vegetables.

Fleuchaus places the filled balls, the size of melons, along with trout and partially frozen ground beef, around the habitat making the bears work for their meal. “Bears forge for food in the wild. So we try to make it a challenge for them, make them look for the food, which makes them more active,” she said.

In the wild, animals eat whenever food is available. At the zoo, food is always available.

“Which is one reason we need animals to move around. We adjust diets seasonally.” The polar bears get a pound of lard a day when their activity levels call for it. Many animals have dietary restrictions. It’s Fleuchaus’s responsibility to keep track of the diets and post them for the other zookeepers to follow. Feeding time is a working lunch for the zookeepers. Fleuchaus mixes in vitamins, supplements and medications as needed into chopped meat or fish -each portion weighed out and measured.

Feeding time gives Fleuchaus and Schnell an opportunity to give animals their once-over daily examine. As the seals open their mouths to take in a delectable morsel of slimy squid, Fleuchaus quickly examines their teeth. She goes through a short training session giving her an opportunity to check paws, claws, motor skills, skin and fur. As long as she has tasty fish as a reward, the seals seem fine with the inspection.

The women are strong and sure-footed as they navigate the exhibits designed for animals, lift heavy containers of frozen meat, move large hoses and scoop ponderous shovelfuls of waste. The weather and the physical aspects of the job can be challenging, Fleuchaus said. The flies and humidity in the hot summer and the piles of snow and freezing temperatures in the winter pose separate challenges. “You get in shape quickly and learn to be prepared for the weather extremes,” she said.

Fleuchaus always wanted to work with animals. She earned her bachelor’s degree in ani-

mal biology and biological aspects of conservation from the University of Wisconsin – Milwaukee. “I was told this is a career you go into because you love it.” When she got out of college, she took a temporary position at the Racine Zoo, which grew into a permanent job.

She was with the Racine Zoo for six years before coming to the Milwaukee County Zoo. Schnell, 33, has been with the zoo for five years. She has been a zookeeper for the past year. She is not assigned a permanent area, but works roaming assignments and knows each like the back of her hand. “Working with the animals you get to know them. They each have their own personalities.”

Yes, the keepers get attached to animals; but much like a mother who refuses to name a favorite child. Fleuchaus said she has no favorites, although she speaks in a different tone when talking about the wolves, the polar bears and the tree kangaroos. “The polar bears are the only bears we see year round. The other bears hibernate from Thanksgiving to around March.” A tree kangaroo joey has just started to poke its head out of its mother’s pouch.

“That’s a rare animal that we have had luck breeding here. Now I’ll get the opportunity to watch it grow up.”

Unlike practices up to the mid-20th century, zoos rarely obtain animals from the wild.

Most animal acquisitions come from other zoos where animals have been bred. Zoos are careful about breeding practices and have a mission of conservation of species with an awareness of their value to the environment and society.

Fleuchaus is involved in training wolves and making decisions on habitat changes. She gives presentations to visitors and does interviews with the media about zoo events. She is also on the zoo’s weapons team.

If an animal escapes its habitat -- a highly unlikely occurrence, a decision is made based on the animal’s behavior either to dart and tranquilize or to shoot to kill.

Watching old and sick animals is hard, Fleuchaus said. “They die and that’s a very sad part of it.” She works with the wolves every day; there are some that have been there as long as she has. “We had five and now we have three. Their deaths were really hard for me.

You come to know the animals and become attached.”

She splits her time between the North American habitats that house wolves, elk, caribou, badgers, seals and bears -- grizzly, polar, black and brown, and the Australian habitats that include tree kangaroos, red kangaroos, emus and the inhabitants of a corral reef exhibit, but it seems no job can escape paperwork.

Veterinarian technician Margaret Michaels

Vera Westphal, Deputy director in charge of administration and finance.

Vehicle machine operator, Bo Kueny.

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Fleuchaus has an office with a cacophony of squawking, growling and snorting -but not from coworkers. She keeps dietary, medication and behavioral logs, charts enrichment programs and orders food via her computer. Zookeepers not only give daily medications, they observe if the medications have been consumed, spit out or left behind in uneaten food.

Fleuchaus, her husband, Larry, and their three-year-old daughter, Brooklyn, share their home with a dog, a cat and a skink, which is on loan from the zoo. She is also currently snake-sitting a 67 foot-long boa constrictor for a friend -- presumably a good friend.

By the end of the day, Fleuchaus and Schnell are dirty, sometimes wet and usually smelly. They are not the stars of the show, but the show could not go on without them.

They are ambassadors, trainers, caregivers and observers of wild animals. For them, it is a labor of love.

Vera Westphal Westphal, 46, has worked for the county for 25 years, the last seven years at the zoo.

“As a budget analyst, the zoo was part of my job,” she said. But when the position of deputy director in charge of administration and finance opened up, she applied. “I was so excited about being on the zoo staff.”

Westphal oversees an annual budget of $25 million, the communications area, human resources, as well as accounts receivable and payable. And yes, there are items in the budget not typically seen by most finance people -- like lizards and bugs. “We spend $600,000 a year on food for the animals.”

She has always loved animals and has fond childhood memories of the zoo. “I loved the train and Samson,” she said of the famed gorilla who died at the zoo in 1981.

She’s proud to take part in the zoo’s mission of conservation, research and education. “We have a species survival plan to ensure overbreeding does not occur.”

Westphal started her county career as a seasonal worker at Noyes Pool. “I was a pool park attendant. I checked swimmers’ feet before they went into the pool.” She has come along way, and admits it’s a lovely benefit to be able to clear her head of numbers and spreadsheets and go see the animals. “I got to touch an octopus the other day.”

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Westphal lives in Wauwatosa with her husband, Joe, daughter, Samantha, 15, and son, Ryan, 8. She loves to be a zoo visitor, too. “My kids like to come. It’s good for me to see the zoo through their eyes, but I’m always seeing things that should be done or changed.”

With the county’s fiscal constraints, Westphal’s job becomes tougher to do more with less. “We are always striving to provide a good quality experience for our visitors.”

Margaret Michaels Michaels finished doing a blood draw on a turtle and a work-up on a gecko. As a veterinarian technician, she works on animals big and small in the zoo’s hospital. In 25 years, she has treated every type of animal at the zoo. “Yes, they are very pat-able,” she said when asked about the big, furry cats.

Easy to do when they are sedated.

“Because there is a 30-day quarantine period for new animals, nearly all the animals have to come through the hospital before they go into the zoo population. So I’ve probably seen thousands of animals.”

Originally from Minnesota, she attended St. Cloud State University and the Medical Institute of Minnesota. “At the time there was no such program that focused on exotic animals or zoo medicine. I did my internship here where I learned to treat exotics. I’ve been here ever since.”

At 49, she works with two full-time veterinarians and a veterinarian resident. Her job rotates between doing lab work -- blood draws, collecting fecal matter and skin samples -- and inspecting for parasites, ordering drugs, working on special projects and assisting in surgeries. “The animals have enrichment activities and items that simulate a natural environment. They get fantastic care here.” At the zoo, animals live long lives, dying of old age not from predators -natural or otherwise.

Michaels had the opportunity to be involved in the zoo’s penguin project from 1991 to 2002. “For two-to-three weeks at a time, I worked in Chile gathering data on the birds -- tracking their habitat and their reproductions, feeding and nesting habits. It was an amazing experience.”

After all these years, Michaels still stops and marvels, “How cool is this? We care for their welfare. They are ambassadors of their species.”

Michaels and husband Bob have two Labrador Retrievers and two horses.

Bo Kueny Kueny is the only woman vehicle machine operator at the zoo. She once asked her boss why there were no other women VMOs. His response: “Not many women want to suck up poop for a living.”

At 56, Kueny runs a Vac All -- a machine that, yes, vacuums animal waste from 10 foot-deep pits at the habitats. This is not a job she settled for; it’s one she loves.

She starts her day at 5 a.m. “It’s quiet.

I’ve seen things driving through the zoo -like a bald eagle flying over the lake.

Driving down Small Mammal Hill on the first snow of the season with the black trees against the brilliant white is gorgeous.” She has also seen a giraffe being born.

With good grades, Kueny earned a nursing degree. At 27, she was diagnosed with dyslexia and had to figure out a new path.

In 1996, she started at the zoo in the maintenance department. One day, a supervisor asked his crew to assess a piece of equipment for a shot at being a heavy equipment operator. She was left out of the process -- until she spoke up. “It’s seen as more a man’s job.” In 2000, Kueny became the first, and is still the only, female heavy equipment operator at the zoo.

Kueny’s job varies from day to day. She’s involved in the transport of sedated animals. She moves trees and other items within exhibits. “There is something different to do every day.” But really, Kueny is an expert on animal waste. She can tell the difference between pachyderm, giraffe, camel and cow poop. “There are seasonal challenges, too.

In the winter, you’re dealing with frozen waste. Wet weather affects things, too.” She wears ear and eye protection, sometimes a mask and lots of layers of clothing.

Not all animal waste is the same. She is careful not to mix bear and cat waste in with the other animal population’s waste. Bears and cats eat meat. Their waste can’t be recycled as manure.

“I have a lot of respect for zookeepers -caring for the animals,” she said. “When we have to move a euthanized animal, we do it with respect and honor.”

Kueny and her husband, Brian, are parents of two adult children, Sarah Jane and Sean. They also have two dogs, two cats and a bunny.

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Research indicates there may be a strong relationship between depression and cardiovascular disease.

But so far, it’s “a bit of a chicken and the egg thing,” Dr. Hansen says. It’s possible depression directly causes heart disease and poor outcomes; or perhaps, it’s the behaviors associated with depression that impact cardiac health or that people might become depressed as a reaction to heart disease. Most likely all three of these are factors.

Much data is emerging about the role of depression and anxiety disorders in cardiovascular disease, but few studies have examined this link in women. Here’s what we do know: n Heart disease is the leading cause of death in women in the U.S. n Major depression in both men and women with a recent heart attack or unstable angina more than doubles the risk of cardiac death. n Women are diagnosed with depression, anxiety and mood disorders twice as frequently as men.

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“Depression could be just as significant an independent risk factor for heart disease in women as obesity.”

Chronic stress floods the body with stress hormones such as cortisol and adrenaline and it reduces the “feel-good” hormone serotonin. Dr. Hansen explained that chronic stress could also lead to many risk factors for cardiac disease, such as diabetes, high cholesterol and high blood pressure. In addition, stress increases the heart rate and blood pressure, reduces blood flow to the heart and can trigger blockages in the arteries. Behaviors associated with depression also increase the risk for heart disease and the likelihood of poor outcomes. Studies have shown that people with depression are less likely to take prescribed medications and follow lifestyle recommendations regarding diet, exercise, smoking cessation and alcohol consumption.

“You won’t deal as well with heart disease if you are depressed,” Dr. Hansen told me. “Heart disease requires careful self-management, such as cutting back on salt and fat and following a strict medication and exercise regimen. People with depression often don’t feel the motivation.”

And, of course, many people become depressed following a diagnosis of cardiac disease or a major cardiac event – making a full recovery less likely. Dr. Hansen says this is especially true of women.

She believes it is because women have less social support. Women tend to be the family caregivers, with no one to care for them physically and emotionally when they are ill.

We can reduce our risk of cardiac disease through all the stuff we already know: don’t smoke, get plenty of exercise and eat well. And Dr. Hansen says it is vital for us women to reduce our risk of depression. Research shows that chronic emotional stress is one of the most potent triggers of depression. Thus, Dr. Hansen urges us to recognize and control the stress in our lives. We need to understand our limits, learn to delegate or just plain say no, and we need to put ourselves in control of our lives instead of letting our lives control us.

She encourages us to empower ourselves with strong, nurturing relationships. Because an unhappy marriage is the number one trigger for depression in women, Dr. Hansen emphasizes that women who are having marital problems should find a marriage counselor and seek other emotional support.

Take your stress to heart…literally. Use this glorious time of year to incorporate new lifestyle habits and stress-reduction techniques.

Because it all begins with a healthy woman…

Sue Ann Thompson is founder and president of the Wisconsin Women’s Health Foundation (WWHF), a statewide non-profit organization whose mission is to help Wisconsin women and their families reach their healthiest potential. WWHF provides programs and conducts forums that focus on education, prevention, and early detection; connects individuals to health resources; produces and distributes the most up-to-date health education and resource materials; and, awards grants and scholarships to women health researchers and related community non-profits. To learn more, visit wwhf.org or call 1-800448-5148.

Varicose Veins are not just a cosmetic issue

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id you know about one half of the United States population suffers from either spider or varicose veins?

Varicose veins, in particular, are usually caused by pregnancy, standing long periods of time or are a result of genetics. In other words, if your parents had them (mom or dad, as men can develop them as well), there is a greater risk of you developing them.

Varicose Veins Basically, varicose veins are the swollen, dark blue or purple blood vessels that can be seen and felt beneath the skin, usually on the calves, inside the legs and ankles. They often look like twisted cords and are caused by dysfunctional valves so the blood doesn’t travel through the veins properly resulting in blood pooling in the veins causing the veins to look thick and firm.

And while many people think of varicose veins as just a cosmetic issue, Dr. Mike Phillips, a board-certified general and vascular surgeon at Lumiere Vein and Laser Center with 20 years of experience, says that if you have varicose veins, don’t delay getting them treated. “Varicose veins are often associated with other complications such as swelling, fatigue, itching, cramps and pain,” says Dr. Phillips. “In some cases, more significant problems can develop if varicose veins are left untreated, including venous skin ulcers, which develop on the skin after the blood vessels in the leg and the surrounding tissue break down leaving a visible ulcer on the skin.”

In the past, the only treatment for varicose veins was veinstripping surgery, which caused multiple scares on the legs. Today, vein specialists, like Dr. Phillips, use endovenous laser therapy, EVLT, in an office setting. The whole procedure usually takes about a half hour.

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After applying a small amount of local anesthetic to the area, your doctor would then insert a laser fiber into the problem area of the vein. The laser energy is then used to close the vein so that the blood can no longer flow through. The blood in the vein is then diverted to normal, functional veins. This increases circulation and relieves varicose vein symptoms.

EVLT is both easy and effective. And according to Dr. Phillips, “These treatments are virtually painless and patients can return to near normal activity the same day or the following day.”

It should also be noted that because varicose veins can have some very serious medical complications, most insurance companies cover treatment for them. Dr. Phillips said that at Lumiere Vein and Laser Center the staff would assist the patients in getting insurance approval.

There is a difference between spider veins and varicose veins.

While varicose veins are large and puffy veins, spider veins tend to be flat and typically are squiggly, dark lines that look like legs of a spider.

In the past, spider veins were treated by injecting them with a caustic substance that could cause pain and was evasive. Today, laser treatments are available.

During the treatment, light energy is pulsed onto the veins, which causes the vein to shrink and disappear. This non-invasive treatment usually takes place in an office setting in less than 20 minutes.

If you are concerned about your varicose or spider veins, contact a vascular specialist and review your options. Dr. Phillips said, “Consultations are always free at Lumiere Vein and Laser Center.

And we treat all aspects of venous disease, whether it is cosmetic or medical vein disease.”

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As Amy Schoenholtz at Anew Skin and Wellness said, “Honestly, your skin care regime isn’t going to change all that dramatically when going from winter to summer, but there are a few things you need to be aware of. For instance, you want to make sure you wear a broad spectrum SPF 25 or higher all year round, but in the summer months and being in the sun’s rays, you want to make sure you reapply every three hours. If you have oily skin, you can find daily moisturizers with an SPF as well as mattifying ingredients to stop the shine.”

Protecting your skin also means protecting your lips. Be sure to wear a lip balm with a SPF as well. Your lips also need to be protected from the wind, sun and skin cancer.

Joanne Kennedy, nurse practitioner at Anew Skin and Wellness, added, “If you are using products with active ingredients for issues such as acne or hyper pigmentation, you need to be much more careful in the summer months. The sun’s rays can activate certain ingredients that can then irritate or even burn your skin, causing unnecessary damage.” This is true of some medications you may be taking as well, so check with your doctor or pharmacist.

One other way you can keep your skin healthy this summer, is to make sure you drink plenty of water. Water keeps the skin and body hydrating. This is extremely important in the hot summer sun.

If you plan to wear makeup during the summer months, use this as an opportunity to try new cosmetics that are usually too light for the winter months, such as shimmers and pinks. You may also want to trade your liquid foundation for a mineral-based powder, switch to waterproof mascara for streak-free summer fun and use tinted gloss instead of your regular lipstick.

Mineral makeup has other benefits as well. “If you have overexposed your skin too much and are experiencing sensitivity,” says Megal, “such mineral makeup brands like Jane Iredale will not only soothe your skin and even out your tone, it also a has a natural SPF incorporated for extra protection.”

YOUR HAIR The summer hair can also make your hair look dry and frizzy.

Therefore, you will want to protect your hair with an ample supply of moisturizing shampoos and conditioners that will protect your hair.

You may even try a shampoo with SPF protection or a quality sprayon UV protectant.

To give your hair a healthy start, prepare your hair for summer by making an appointment at the salon and get a fresh trim or cut. This will make your hair easier to manage once you get rid of those pesky split ends.

While you will probably want to wash your hair more due to the increase of sweat and summer grime, too much washing can damage the cuticles of the hair. To protect your hair from cuticle damage, use a leave-in conditioner, designed to provide moisture and nutrition to your hair.

You can also help your hair by putting the blow dryer away for the summer. Using a blow dryer daily, especially when combined with the sun’s rays, is a quick way to fry your hair. The same goes for the use of other heated styling tools as well.

Also consider protecting your hair by wearing a light scarf, a cap or a hat whenever you go out in the sun. This can protect your hair from direct sunlight and your scalp from UV rays.

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Neroli salon & Spa In Milwaukeeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Historic Third Ward, The Institute of Beauty and Wellness (IBW) is proud to be recognized as a leading Aveda training facility within the network of more than 6,500 Aveda salons, spas, institutes and stores throughout the country. At IBW, the team strives to create the most successful entrepreneurs in hair, skin, body and nails with a learning experience that embodies a balanced view of beauty incorporating the environment, nutrition, body care, health and wellness. Owner Susan Haise started in the school business almost 20 years ago and understands that part of being successful in the industry is to always strive for the next level of excellence. This belief is showcased from the state of the art facility IBW built less than two years ago, to the teaching credentials of the faculty, the technology used to educate and the experience that the team provides for their guests every day.

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Laser Hair Removal is at the forefront of hair removal technology and is very safe when performed by a trained technician. It is virtually pain free and effective on most skin types. Treatment times are now shorter than ever and depending on the area being treated, the timing can range from five minutes for the upper lip to 45 minutes for full legs. Laser Hair removal has no downtime and you can return to your daily routine immediately. Treatment can target the back, underarms, chin, legs, neck, upper lip, bikini and arms.

Hair growth is in phases, so a series of treatments will be needed for long term results. We recommend sixto-eight treatments spaced four-to-six weeks apart to provide permanent reduction of hair.

Along with Laser Hair Removal, we specialize in treatments for acne, mature skin, sun damage, dark spots, rosacea as well as injectables including Botox, Juvaderm and Radiesse. With a complete skin care analysis, prescriptive skin care regimens and noninvasive therapies we are able to achieve remarkable results.

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Select your guests. The number of guests you invite will directly influence the cost of your wedding.

Set a budget. Budgeting for your wedding is crucial, as this will have a great impact on every other aspect of your day. Plan for a little wiggle room for unexpected expenses.

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Pick a style. Many brides choose wedding styles that are reflected in their save-the-dates, invitations, ceremonies, receptions and thank-you cards. Choosing a theme and color scheme in the beginning will help narrow down options later.

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nspiration is like the ignition in your car: essential to get started and insufficient on its own to take you where you want to go.

Inspiration comes in all forms; when you become aware of it, you’ll find it is everywhere! Some of my favorites include double rainbows, intense thunder storms, a perfectly made veggie omelet, certain types of music, sudden laughter and, of course, the stories of unlikely success against nearly impossible odds, like this year’s Kentucky Derby winner, I’ll Have Another.

It feels good to be inspired, especially when inspiration takes you by surprise. A sudden burst of goodness in your life makes you yearn to do the things you know you could if you put your mind to it.

And there’s the rub. Who has time to put your mind to a dream that lingers in your heart? When there is nothing spectacularly wrong with your life, it is hard to catapult yourself into something much more exciting. The drip, drip, drip of daily demands can suffocate that spark of inspiration that had you so fired up just a couple of days ago.

If inspiration is ignition, then determination is like the rest of your car’s systems—the engine, gears, brakes and everything else under the hood. These systems take you where you want to go, often without you having to think much about it. Determination is what makes dreams come true because it clicks ideas into gear.

Determination involves making a conscious decision to follow through on your excitement by creating a roadmap, putting a system in place to check your progress and finding little ways to reward yourself as you navigate toward your dream.

Determination doesn’t care if your energy level is low today. It doesn’t pay any attention to whether other people notice you working hard on your goal. It doesn’t check the weather or your horoscope, and it doesn’t care if you’re struggling with a bad hair day.

Determination is about doing what you said you wanted to do.

It consists of baby steps taken every day that move you closer to that thing you yearn for. Determination draws on inspiration and deepens it to help you create the life you truly want.

When you lay out a plan to move forward and keep track of the things you do along the way, you create your own inspiration.

Watching yourself succeed is one of the surest ways to fuel momentum. Anyone who has ever been on a diet—and who among us hasn’t—knows this. When you look outrageously gorgeous for that big party, you feel great. Nobody knows the tedious hours you spent adjusting your foods, working your body and staying on course. But you do. That’s powerful. It is what inspiring stories are made of!

I will admit that determination is tough to hold onto in our hyperactive always-on world. It’s hard to ignore the onslaught of new information coming at you from all directions. It is difficult to purposely ignore things that have no bearing on your goal—who likes to feel uninformed? It is also difficult to turn down an invitation to hang out with friends or attend a meeting that might hold something of value.

All these distractions form innocent little cracks through which determination seeps away. When it is gone, you feel sad. Or perhaps, you feel disappointed. Maybe you are even angry with yourself for not following through on your plan?

Here’s an invisible truth about life. Every day you amass evidence that tells you something about yourself. This evidence—from promises kept or broken to how you perform, impressions you create and things you accomplish—will cause you to give yourself a thumb’s up, a shrug or a sad shake of the head. Think about that for a minute. Why wouldn’t you find as many ways as you can to create positive evidence of your capability and accomplishment?

Take time this month to be purposely inspired; then capture that energy with a plan to fuel your determination. And don’t forget to pause once in a while to celebrate what you have already achieved. You are one inspiring woman.

Susan Marshall is an author and speaker whose book, How to Grow a Backbone: 10 Strategies for Gaining Power and Influence at Work, has been translated into multiple languages and is especially popular in Asia. Her work is dedicated to building strong leaders who create successful organizations, transform school systems and develop leaders at all levels. You can reach her at 262-567-5983 or execadvise@mac.com.

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But as today's fashion rules blur more and more, the distinction between the ways moms and daughters dress can also get a little hazy. And that's a good thing.

Nobody wants to look "old" no matter what their age. However, there are still some fashion mistakes that many moms make. Here are just a few "mom mantras" to keep in mind when you get dressed every morning (and even if you're not a mom...): aYou don't need to have a perfect body. Forget the photos of the models in your favorite magazine. And you might as well forget the size you were 20 years ago.

Dress for the body you have now. Chances are your daughter's jeans will not fit you, and if they do, great. Don't even think about baring it all in her bikini top and denim mini. The same goes for her supertight T-shirts or super-high sandals. We've all learned a few things about comfort by now. Remember the key is to know what looks best on your unique shape and use that to your advantage.

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a It's not about the budget. Let's hope you know by now that money can't buy style. Instead, it's more about how you put together your clothes than what you paid for them. And there are plenty of stores and websites now that offer less expensive alternatives to designer prices. Combining "high-end" pieces with budget buys is a great way to make your wardrobe go further and is a very modern way to dress. a Keep up with the trends. No, you don't have to embrace neon-cropped tops or feathered mini skirts to keep up with the latest looks. But it is important to give your wardrobe some fresh touches. It's easy to do without going overboard. Take some cues from the young people around you -- buy a pair of brightly colored pants to wear with your traditional cardigan sweaters and tank tops; indulge in floral prints by donning a maxi dress for your next pool party.

Colorful accessories are great ways to bring some youthful style into your life. a Don't get stuck in a time warp. (See above!) If you've worn your hair the same way you did in high school, it's time to update. Ditto for makeup. There are plenty of beauty experts available to help steer you into a new you. A new shade of nail polish can do wonders. a Remember there are some new rules.

No, your shoes and handbags do not have to match anymore. You can wear white anytime of year. Pantyhose are an option, not a must. But please don't wear them with open-toe shoes. Mixing two or even

This season, the brightly-colored pants and jeans like these from Banana Republic's "Mad Men" collection are easily incorporated into a stylish wardrobe for both moms and their daughters. (www.bananarepublic.com) three different prints is also chic. So is mixing colors that clash. And you can wear black to a wedding. a And then there are the fashion faux pas that are true for moms and their daughters: wet, see-through clothes, too short shorts, orange fake tans and all things visible: thongs, erratic lip liner and panty lines. And oh, yes, don't forget moms, the muffin tops and the "mom" jeans, of course.

Sharon Mosley is a former fashion editor of the Arkansas Gazette in Little Rock and executive director of the Fashion Editors and Reporters Association. To find out more about Sharon Mosley and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate website at www.creators.com.

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Again this summer, Neroli Salon and Spa will offer â&#x20AC;&#x153;Yoga in the Parkâ&#x20AC;? at the Bayshore Town Center. This complimentary yoga class meets on Saturday mornings from 8:00-9:30 a.m. through Labor Day. â&#x20AC;&#x153;These 90 minute classes have been available to our neighbors and community for nearly five years,â&#x20AC;? said owner Susan Haise.

The classes meet outside in the square when the weather is nice, but move inside to the rotunda when it is raining. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Jason, our yoga instructor, leads a beautiful class of strength yoga,â&#x20AC;? says Haise. And according to her, 50-80 people attend these sessions every Saturday.

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Whatever your summer vacation plans may be, traveling those long miles in the car can be exhausting for everyone.

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week before your departure, list everything you'll need to take and start gathering it together. Then, be sure to give yourself enough time to pack your itemized list.

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As a mother of two, who often traveled with my children on my own, I found that if I could plan some of my travel times either

around their naps or bedtime, the trip was much easier for all. One important rule if your do this though, is never stop the car while the child or children are sleeping because this will wake them. Also, if you plan to travel at night while your children are sleeping, make sure you are not too tired to drive late at night.

STOP AT REGULAR INTERVALS

The beauty of a road trip is that you can pull over and get out. If you have a young child or one that is simply getting very antsy, stop the car some place and have some fun.

If you're traveling with toddlers and younger kids, why not play a quick game of tag at a park or stop and explore a "roadside attraction." There are lots of ways to break up a drive without losing more than an hour.

You may even want to check the Internet for playgrounds, parks and other attractions before you begin your trip.

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If you're traveling with another adult, while one person drives, the other can be in charge of snack distribution, storytelling and toy rotation. If you have space, the kids love having a grown-up sit with them for a while in the backseat.

To keep children happy on a long trip, be sure to keep drinks and snacks on hand. Favorite treats that travel well: string cheese, rice cakes, pretzels, bagels, sandwiches, apple slices, bananas, granola bars, cookies, raisins, cereal-Os and puffed corn snacks.

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If you are traveling with a baby, bring along an activity mat or other travel-friendly toy. Babies this age can't see much out of the window, and you can't blame your child for getting bored and fussy if there's nothing to look at. You could also try reading aloud from a picture or board book.

For toddlers, you may want to consider an introduction to audio books or CDs. And, of course, recordings from popular TV shows such as Sesame Street and Dora the Explorer will also do the trick.

Some other activities that work well for toddlers include sticker books, magnetic storyboards, Magna Doodle drawing boards and other simple toys that don't involve lots of small pieces or make a gooey mess.

Throw in a cheap 9-by-12-inch baking sheet for each child to use as a playing surface so crayons and Matchbox cars and Legos don't roll and slide away.

If your children are older, audio books, CDs or MP3 players with headphones are an options as well as a DVD player. With the older kids, you may choose things the whole family may like, such as the audio book of Harry Potter.

Games are another great way to keep older kids entertained.

Nowadays, you can find a travel version of almost every popular game, from Scrabble to Battleship. Or for many kids today, they have games for their Nintendo DS or iPods.

A trip notebook can also be a great way to keep kids busy and capture memories of your family trip. Give each child a notebook and washable crayons or markers. You could even bring along a camera and portable printer as well as some glue sticks: The kids can print and paste photos on the drive, then add notes later.

Most important, the secret to a great road trip is getting there safely and still on speaking terms. If you arrive at your destination an hour or two later than planned, big deal – chances are you had a few memorable adventures along the way.

Some other things you may want to consider bringing to make your trip easier might be: • A portable potty and TP, especially if you have very young children. There isn’t always a bathroom around when needed.

• Pillows. It comforts kids to have their own and they make the backseat much more comfy.

• A plastic bucket – for carsick emergencies. Nothing else needs to be said about this one.

• Peppermints, ginger ale and saltines. These natural motion sickness remedies tame tumultuous tummies.

• A ball to throw or kick at rest stops.

• Plastic zip bags to hold everything from errant game pieces to crayons or leftover snacks.

• A nightlight. Hotel rooms or relatives' houses can be very dark at night.

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his summer come and enjoy the U.S. Women’s Open, conducted by the United States Golf Association, as it returns to The Original Championship Course at Blackwolf Run, July 2-8, 2012.

ABOUT BLACKWOLF RUN AND 2012 U.S. WOMEN’S OPEN Blackwolf Run was the site of the first Kohler-hosted golf championship in 1998. As one of Pete Dye’s crowning achievements, Blackwolf Run opened for play in June 1988 and was named that year's "Best New Public Course" by Golf Digest. It has continued to accumulate awards and honors including regularly being ranked on the list of "America's 100 Greatest Golf Courses" by Golf Digest and the "Top 100 You Can Play" by GOLF Magazine.

This year, the United States Golf Association (USGA) announced that it has accepted a record 1,364 entries for the 2012 U.S. Women’s Open. The 1,364 entries surpassed the previous record of 1,296, set at Oakmont (Pa.) Country Club in 2010. It is the ninth consecutive year the number of entries for the championship has exceeded 1,000.

“The women who have applied to play in the 2012 U.S. Women’s Open represent the best female golfers in the world,” said Thomas J. O’Toole Jr., USGA vice president and chairman of the Championship Committee. “This record number of entries is indicative of the international reach of women’s golf, and we are very excited to host these players in our national championship.”

The first to file an entry was Abby Newton, a 17-year-old amateur from Katy, Texas, who was one of 55 people to enter on March 5, the first day applications were available. The last to file was Canada’s Ashley Sholer, who submitted her entry five minutes before the deadline of 5 p.m. on May 2. Sholer’s entry was 24 | WISCONSIN WOMAN JUNE 2012

one of 69 received on the final day, and one of 16 received in the last hour.

The youngest entrant is 11-year-old Elizabeth Wang, of San Marino, Calif., who will turn 12 on May 22. The oldest is Bobbi Lancaster, 61, of Gold Canyon, Ariz.

“The list of U.S. Women’s Open champions includes some of the most iconic names in the history of the game,” said Martha Lang, chairman of the USGA’s Women’s Committee. “We look forward to adding yet another name to that illustrious group in July at Blackwolf Run.” Entries were received from 47 states (all except Alaska, Delaware and Maine) and 44 other countries. In addition to the USA, entries were received from Argentina, Australia, Austria, Bahamas, Belgium, Bolivia, Brazil, Canada, Chile, Chinese Taipei, Colombia, Czech Republic, Finland, France, Germany, Great Britain (England, Scotland and Wales), Guatemala, Hong Kong, India, Israel, Italy, Japan, Korea, Latvia, Malaysia, Mexico, Netherlands, New Zealand, Norway, Pakistan, Paraguay, Philippines, the People’s Republic of China, Puerto Rico, Russia, Singapore, South Africa, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, Thailand, Trinidad and Tobago, United Arab Emirates and Venezuela.

Eighty-five golfers are currently fully exempt from sectional qualifying for the upcoming championship, led by defending champion So Yeon Ryu, who won the 2011 U.S. Women’s Open at The Broadmoor in Colorado Springs, Colo. Eight other past winners who are fully exempt have also entered: Paula Creamer (2010); Juli Inkster (1999, 2002); Eun-Hee Ji (2009); Cristie Kerr (2007); Birdie Kim (2005); Se Ri Pak (1998); Inbee Park (2008) and Karrie Webb (2000, 2001). One other past champion, Laura Davies (1987), has entered sectional qualifying. Davies will attempt to qualify on Tuesday, May 29, at Woodmont Country Club in Rockville, Md. Eleven spots are reserved for the winner of the 2012 Wegmans LPGA Championship, any non-exempt players who win an official LPGA Tour event through the Walmart NW Arkansas Championship (which ends July 1), and those who enter the top 25 of the Rolex Rankings as of July 2.

The remainder of the field will be filled via 36-hole sectional qualifying, which will be played at 19 sites. Qualifying begins May 14 and runs through June 3.

ABOUT THE USGA The USGA conducts the U.S. Open, U.S. Women’s Open and U.S. Senior Open, as well as 10 national amateur championships, two state team championships and international matches. Together with The R&A, the USGA governs the game worldwide, jointly administering the Rules of Golf, Rules of Amateur Status, Equipment Standards and World Amateur Golf Rankings. The USGA’s working jurisdiction comprises the United States, its territories and Mexico.

For more information about the USGA, visit www.usga.org.

To learn more about the 2012 U.S. Women’s Open, please visit www.2012uswomensopen.com, follow us on Facebook at www.facebook.com/2012uswomensopen or call (920) 4532889.

Whether it’s something light, cool and refreshing, or rich, decadent and creamy, frozen treats are the perfect way to turn a normal night into something special. With just 20 minutes and six ingredients or less, you can create these easy recipes using frozen treats found in your local supermarket. n DULCE DE LECHE CARROT CAKE PIE — Luscious carrot cake ice cream is topped with caramel apples and crunchy pecans to make a frozen pie guests will not soon forget. n CANDY CORN CUPS — This impressive dessert is deceptively easy to make.

Rich vanilla ice cream is layered with refreshing orange and pineapple sherbets, then topped off with creamy whipped topping and your favorite candy corns.

Get more delectable ways to chill out with frozen desserts at www.BlueBunny.com.

Prep Time: 10 minutes Makes 4 servings

CANDY CORN CUPS 8 tablespoons premium vanilla ice cream, softened 12 tablespoons orange sherbet, softened 12 tablespoonspineapple sherbet, softened 4 tablespoons lite whipped topping, thawed if frozen 8 pieces candy corn candies 4 small martini glasses For each dessert, spread two tablespoons vanilla ice cream in the bottom of a martini glass. Top with three tablespoons orange sherbet, spreading smooth, and Prep Time: 20 minutes (Freeze time extra) Cook Time: 10 minutes Makes 8 servings

DULCE DE LECHE CARROT CAKE PIE

4 cups Blue Bunny Chef Duff 24 Karat Carrot Cake Ice Cream, softened 1 6-ounce prepared graham cracker crust 3 large crisp, red-skinned apples, cored 2 tablespoons fat free caramel sundae syrup 1 1/2 teaspoons lemon juice Fat-free caramel sundae syrup (optional) 1/4 cup roasted and salted pecan halves Spread softened ice cream evenly in pie crust; cover and freeze at least four hours or until solid.

Ten minutes before serving pie, remove pie from freezer; uncover and set aside.

Thinly slice apples, leaving peeling on. In large non-stick skillet over medium heat, toss apples with lemon juice and two tablespoons caramel syrup. Cook just until apples soften but

three tablespoons pineapple sherbet, spreading smooth. Place in freezer while assembling remaining servings. Just before serving, top each with one tablespoon whipped topping and two candy corn candies.

Serve immediately.

TO MAKE AHEAD: layer ice cream and sherbet in each martini glass; cover and freeze until serving time. Top each with whipped topping and candy corn just before serving.

still maintain their shape, about 10 minutes, turning often (If necessary, remove apple slices to a bowl as they cook to prevent overcooking) .

Cut pie into eight slices; top each with about 1/3 cup glazed apples. Drizzle with caramel syrup and sprinkle with pecans.

Serve immediately.

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Another Kind of Cruelty

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hen we talk about animal cruelty, it's typically in the context of humans abusing animals physically or emotionally -- hitting an animal, starving an animal, neglecting an animal. But there is another kind of cruelty, one in which humans allow or even encourage one animal to abuse another.

Dogfighting is a particularly sadistic version of this. Here's a version that hits closer to home: We have two female Shih Tzus, and we brought both of them home at eight weeks old. Over the past few months, Sadie, who is now four, has become aggressive toward Precious. This started when our grandson was born, but over the past couple of months, it's been getting worse. We never know when she will attack. Precious could be napping or just walking by, and Sadie attacks.

In Sadie's defense, Precious does try to take her food, and we have to stand between them when giving them snacks.

But outside of that, Sadie seems to snap for no reason.

Yesterday, we had to separate Sadie from Precious and the rest of the family because she would not stop growling and charging ferociously at Precious. We had to keep her in the laundry room all night. Sadie once bit Precious in the eye and caused some

damage. Our vet was able to take care of her, but later, Sadie bit her again in the same eye, causing additional injury.

I just don't know what to do. It's getting out of control. We have tried throwing cold water on them, but it doesn't work.

She will not listen to us.

Female dogs follow a pattern similar to human sisters. They play well together when they're little -- and they want to kill each other when they grow up. At least for a while.

The difference is that human impulses, for the most part, are mitigated by our capacity for empathy and our understandby: Jacquelyn Mitchard ing -- or fear -- of consequences. Dogs aren't bridled by such things. And this seems particularly true of female dogs in relation to other female dogs.

I've said it before, and I'll say it again: If you're going to get two dogs, your best pairing is one male and one female; next best is two males; last resort is two females.

But whatever the pairing, if one dog is hurting the other, they must be separated - permanently. It is cruel and unfair to subject the one to the ongoing torture and torment of the other. In allowing injury after injury, dogfight after dogfight, we are as guilty of animal cruelty as if we personally bloodied a dog.

In this case, the two lady Shih Tzus do not get along. They will not grow out of it.

It will continue to get worse. And the fact

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that they are small is irrelevant. Size doesn't matter with aggression. An eye is an eye.

As dog owners, we have a duty to protect our dogs, even from each other. We are responsible for their well-being, their safekeeping, their happiness and their lives. If the owner cares for Precious, she will find a new home for one of her dogs.

WOOF! Dog trainer Matthew "Uncle Matty" Margolis is the co-author of 18 books about dogs, a behaviorist, a popular radio and television guest.

PET of the month BAILEY

ROCKY IS A CHAMP! Humane Society Adoptable Pets Meet Rocky, a 10-years-young Beagle mix. This ‘knock-out’ pup is looking for a new place to live, and his adopter will feel like a champion once they are together!

Our super-friendly boy weighs in at about 40 lbs. – a perfect ‘weight class’ for apartments, condos or houses. Rocky has great manners and is quite social. Being a little older, he likes to make the first move when getting to know you…but he is definitely a lover, not a fighter! Give this underdog the title he deserves as your new best friend.

Stop by HAWS any day of the week to adopt one of the many wonderful pets waiting for a forever home! The viewing hours at HAWS, located at 701 Northview Road in Waukesha, are Monday – Friday from 1:00 – 6:00 p.m., Saturday from 11:00.a.m. to 4:00 p.m. and Sunday from Noon – 4:00 p.m. Join in one of the many “HAWS happenings,” too – from Kids ‘N Critter Summer Day Camp to the Pet Fair to Ride for Rover III. Adopt, Learn, Give: Support the HAWS Cause! Learn how at www.hawspets.org.

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My name is Robin Koeppen and I adopted Bailey five years ago from the Elmbrook Humane Society, and I feel lucky to have adopted her.

She loves to lounge in windows and chase after her toy mice all day.

Bailey is a loyal, sweet cat and she loves to snuggle. She is a great pet.

Share your pet with us!

Send us your pet photo along with a description and your pet could be in next month’s issue!

Send Photos to Wisconsin Woman, Attn: Pet of the Month, P.O. Box 230, Hartland, WI 53029 or send an e-mail to Info@twwmag.com (please type “Pet of the Month” in the subject line.) PLEASE INCLUDE: Your name and your pet’s name, and a little info about your pet.

book of the month

TO HEAVEN AND BACK

BY DR. MARY NEAL

Is there life after death? Is God real? Is there sufficient reason to live by faith? Dr. Mary Neal's walk with God has been both ordinary and extraordinary, brimming with the gift and privilege of being touched by God in visible and very tangible ways. She is a practicing orthopaedic surgeon, a wife and a mother who has experienced joy as well as great sorrow and death. She experienced life after death and, despite her scientific training, she believes the answer to each one of these questions is a definitive yes. She drowned on a South American river and went to Heaven. She conversed with angels. She returned to Earth, in part, to tell her story to others and help them find their way back to God. In this book, Dr. Neal shares the captivating details of her life in which she has experienced not just one miracle, but many. Her story is both compelling and thought provoking. Her experiences provide confirmation that miracles still occur, shows how God keeps His promises and why there is sufficient reason to live by faith. Dr. Neal's message is fundamentally one of hope.

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First Stage is pleased to announce that BETSY CORRY has been appointed as the new managing director of First Stage.

Corry returns to First Stage after being managing director from 1996-2003. Since then, she was the development director at the Milwaukee Repertory Theater before moving to COA Youth & Family Centers as associate executive director. She brings to First Stage over 30 years experience working in non-profit organizations.

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Rehabilitation Specialist SARAH EICKMEYER, M.D., has been appointed Assistant Professor of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation at the Medical College of Wisconsin. She will see patients at Froedtert Hospital and the Clement J. Zablocki VA Medical Center.

Godfrey & Kahn Shareholder DANIELLE M. MACHATA was named a “40 UNDER 40” award winner by the M&A advisor in the Central Region. The 2012 “40 UNDER 40” award recognizes emerging leaders of the mergers and acquisitions, financing and turnaround industries as selected by an independent judging panel of distinguished business leaders. On June 7, the M&A Advisor will host a black tie awards gala in Chicago to introduce the “40 UNDER 40” award winners and finalists to the business community.

ANN NATTINGER, M.D., M.P.H., Lady Riders Professor of Breast Cancer Research, professor of medicine and chief of the division of general internal medicine at the Medical College of Wisconsin, is being honored for her extraordinary leadership and excellence in the areas of cancer research and women’s health.

During its annual convocation ceremony, The American College of Physicians (ACP) advanced Dr. Nattinger to the level of “Master,” the highest designation given by the organization. Dr. Nattinger heads the Center for Patient Care and Outcomes Research at the Medical College. She practices at both Froedtert and The Medical College of Wisconsin General Internal Medicine Clinics.

The words “scholar, mentor, servant leader and friend” best describe the many accomplishments—and legacy—of GENEVA BOLTON JOHNSON. Known and respected locally, nationally and internationally for her work in the area of nonprofit management, Johnson received the first ever Leadership Award from the Volunteers of America of Wisconsin in May. The award is the first of its kind and will be named for the Milwaukee area resident. A fund will also be established in her name at Volunteers of America of Wisconsin.

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JUNE EVENTS COMMUNITY Calendar

JUNE 24

12th Annual Brainstorm 3K Walk/5K Run For Epilepsy & Seizure Awareness Veteransâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Park - Near the kite shop Day of registration starts at 7 a.m. & the Walk/Run starts at 9 a.m.

We will have A Fun Run for Kids that will be held after the Awards Ceremony with online registration ending June 8. epilepsyfoundationsewi.org.

JUNE 17

Fathersâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Day at the Zoo Milwaukee County Zoo Spending the day outdoors at the Zoo with dad will make him feel like heâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s king of the jungle! All dads receive free admission.

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CURRENT EVENTS JUNE 2

Lauraâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Smile Mile 5K/2mile Veteranâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Park, 1010 N. Lincoln Memorial Dr. Annual 3.1 mile (5K) run and two mile walk open to all men, women and children to benefit Laura's Smile Foundation and Wisconsin Ovarian Cancer Alliance to educate and advocate about ovarian cancer. www.wisconsinovariancancer.com.

Bead and Button Show Frontier Airlines Center 400 W. Wisconsin Ave. The Bead and Finished Jewelry Marketplace opens June 8 - 10, 2012.

Admission $10. Discount coupon available online at www.beadandbuttonshow.com. Hours: Friday, June 8, 10:00 a.m. - 8:00 p.m., Saturday, June 9, 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. and Sunday, June 10, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m.

JUNE 9 JUNE 3

LoziLu Women's Mud Run Milwaukee

The Ride starts and finishes at the South Gate of the Summerfest Grounds, the intersection of Polk Street and Harbor Drive. upaf.org/ride/.

LoziLu serves up the most unique 5-K you've ever done. Benefitting Leukemia and Lymphoma research.

URL:http://www.lozilu.com Register at: https://lozilu.webconnex.com/Milwauke e2012.

UPAF Ride for the Arts

JUNE 6 - JULY 22

Packer Fans From Outer Space Marcus Center for the Performing Arts A family friendly musical comedy that follows the exploits of Door County Packer Fans. (414) 273-7121, Toll Free: (888) 612-3500, www.marcuscenter.org.

JUNE 7 - 14

Downtown Dining Week Featuring 40 downtown restaurants, each with a special menu of three course favorites. Check out the restaurants by reserving your spot at www.MilwaukeeDowntown.com/dining week.

JUNE 15 - 17

Lakefront Festival of Arts Milwaukee Art Museum 700 N. Art Museum Drive Join the Museum for the 50th Annual Lakefront Festival of Arts, featuring everything from lawn art and sculpture to paintings and wearable art. (414) 224-3200, website: www.mam.org.

UPCOMING EVENTS JULY 17 - 22 Billy Elliot, The Musical

Marcus Center for the Performing Arts A joyous celebration of one young boyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s journey to make his dreams come true.

Based on the international smash-hit film. Please call (414) 273-7206 or 1-888-612-3500.

JUNE 23 - 24

Cedarburg Strawberry Festival Cedarburg Visitors Center Visit from 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Saturday and 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. Sunday to enjoy eveyrthing strawberry. Free admission. www.cedarburgfestivals.org.

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Women with incontinence and pelvic organ prolapse concerns deserve a special kind of medical care.

For women today, today, pelvic floor disorders like bladder control and pelvic organ support issues are exceptionally common. Whether your concerns are due to childbirth or an active lifestyle, these problems can significantly impact your quality of life.

Thanks to specialists with advanced training, these health matters are more treatable than ever before. And, successful, effective treatment options are available to get you back to enjoying your busy life.

The Center for Continence and Pelvic Floor Disorders at the Aurora W Womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Pavilion is pleased to welcome Tracy Tracy Capes, MD, urogynecologist, to our trusted team of womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Dr. Capes, along with Alexis Chesrow, Chesrow MD, urologist, and Dennis health professionals. Dr. Miller, MD, urogynecologist, offers women the highest level of care.

Miller, Program includes:

Tracy Capes, MD Fellowship-trained urogynecologist

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8901 W. Lincoln Avenue West Allis www.aurora.org/incontinence www.aurora.org/incontinence

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To T o schedule an appointment or for more information, please call 414-329-5650.