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Blinken: Biden administration will consult with Israel on Iran moves Ron Kampeas

(JTA) Antony Blinken, President-elect Joe Biden’s nominee to be secretary of state, said that the United States would seek to return to the Iran nuclear deal, but would also consult with Israel on Iran policy.

“It’s also vitally important that we engage on the takeoff and not the landing with our allies and with our partners in the region to include Israel and to include the Gulf countries,” Blinken said Tuesday, January 19 at a Senate confirmation hearing.

Blinken’s remarks represented an implicit acknowledgment that Iran policy under President Barack Obama, whom he served as a deputy national security adviser, was flawed in keeping negotiations with Iran that led to the 2015 deal secret from Israel and the Sunni Arab states.

Under sharp questioning from Sen. Robert Menendez, a New Jersey Democrat who is set to become the chairman of the Foreign Relations Committee and who was among a handful of Democrats to oppose the 2015 deal, Blinken said Biden would seek to return to the agreement.

China, Russia and the European Union have remained in the deal since it was formed. But President Donald Trump left the deal in 2018, saying it was too generous in its terms, offering sanctions relief

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For whatever its limitations, (the Iran deal) was succeeding on its own terms in blocking Iran’s pathways to producing fissile material for a nuclear weapon on short order.

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for a partial rollback of Iran’s nuclear capabilities.

Blinken said Biden believed the deal needed amending, and that other concerns about Iran needed to be addressed, including its missile program and its adventurism in the region. But first, he said, it was vital to get back into the deal because Iran had used Trump’s pullout as a pretext to abrogate parts of the deal and now is closer than ever to a nuclear weapon.

The Iran deal, “for whatever its limitations, was succeeding on its own terms in blocking Iran’s pathways to producing fissile material for a nuclear weapon on short order,” he said. “It is now enriching at a higher level, it is deploying centrifuges in ways that were prohibited.”

He said getting back into a deal would be complicated by Iran’s violation of some of its terms. “We’re a long way from there,” he said.

In his introductory remarks, Blinken, who is Jewish, described the gratitude of his step-father, Samuel Pisar, at his rescue from Holocaust Europe.

He also reaffirmed a number of pro-Israel policies that Biden championed during his campaign, including keeping the U.S. embassy in Jerusalem, opposing boycotts of Israel and support for the normalization deals the Trump administration has brokered between Israel and four Arab states.

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37 Jewish members of Congress. . . . . . . . . . 7

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BRIEFS NANCY PELOSI: ‘PUNK’ WITH AUSCHWITZ T-SHIRT HELPED SPUR HER REVIEW OF CAPITOL RAID House Speaker Nancy Pelosi said the appearance of a man wearing a ‘Camp Auschwitz’ T-shirt during the Capitol riot was a factor in her determination that the events needed a review that could lead to investigations.

“So many disgusting images, but one figure, the man in a shirt with Auschwitz on it—Auschwitz!” Pelosi, D-Calif., said at a news conference to announce that she had hired Lt. Gen. Russel Honore to conduct a review of the deadly raid on Jan. 6.

“To see this punk with that shirt on and his anti-Semitism that he has bragged about to be part of a white supremacist raid on the Capitol requires us to have an after-action review, to assign responsibility to those who are part of organizing it and incentivizing it.”

The man in the T-shirt has since been arrested.

Pelosi said the review by Honore, who has been lauded for his work in leading the 2005 Hurricane Katrina relief, could lead to a 9/11-type congressional commission investigating the riots and their origin.

Thousands of protesters who convened on Washington on Jan. 6 to protest Congress’ pro-forma affirmation of Joe Biden’s election to the presidency were spurred to march on the Capitol by President Donald Trump.

Hundreds among the protesters raided the Capitol, attacked its police and looted the grounds. At least five people died as a result. (JTA) SEX THERAPIST DR. RUTH GOT HER COVID-19 VACCINE The famed sex therapist Dr. Ruth Westheimer normally goes to the Javits Center in New York City for a book fair, where she talks and signs copies of her works. This year, she got her COVID-19 vaccine shot.

The 92-year-old applauded what she called the center’s “organized” rollout in a video uploaded to Twitter by an aide to New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo. Cuomo is trying to accelerate a slow vaccine

rollout in his state—and combat the perception that his threatened penalties for providers who departed from the priority list represented an obstacle.

Westheimer said she will receive her second dose of the vaccine next month.

A documentary on Westheimer’s path from surviving the Holocaust to becoming an Israeli army sniper to changing the public discourse about sex was released in 2019. (JTA)

GOP CONGRESSWOMAN SAYS SHE’LL PLACE ISRAEL FLAG OUTSIDE HER OFFICE NEXT TO BDS BACKER TLAIB A new Republican congresswoman from Florida said she will place an Israeli flag outside her office adjacent to that of Rashida Tlaib, a Michigan Democrat who supports boycotting the Jewish state.

Rep. Kat Cammack, who is not Jewish and was elected in November, wrote on Twitter that Tlaib, a Palestinian American, “has some strong opinions about Israel that [100%] I disagree with, so I’ve made a pledge to plant Israel’s flag outside my door right next to the American flag. I think it’ll be very helpful as she walks past both every day.”

A spokesperson from Tlaib’s office called the move a “publicity stunt” in a statement to The Times of Israel. (JTA) ETSY REMOVES ‘CAMP AUSCHWITZ’ SHIRT FROM ITS ONLINE STORE Etsy has removed a T-shirt with the phrase ‘Camp Auschwitz’ on it after images of a rioter involved in the deadly Capitol insurrection with the same words on his sweatshirt circulated.

The Auschwitz-Birkenau Memorial and Museum tweeted at the e-commerce company, which sells customized craft items, saying that the shirt it found on the site was “painful to Survivors[sic] and disrespectful to the memory of all victims of Auschwitz.”

The man in the sweatshirt at the mob riot has been identified as Robert Keith Packer. His sweatshirt also contained a translation of the infamous phrase on the Auschwitz gate, “Arbeit macht frei” (“Work brings freedom”), and said “Staff” on the back.

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items that promote hate or violence, and we are vigilantly monitoring the marketplace for any such listings that may have been inspired by recent unrest,” an Etsy spokesperson told Reuters.

Etsy was not the only company to remove shirts with the phrase from its site—Teespring and TeeChip also took them down, according to Newsweek.

Teespring added that it will make a donation to the Auschwitz museum.

Over a million Jews and others were killed at the Auschwitz concentration camp during World War II. (JTA)

US ARMY DISCHARGES OFFICER WHO MADE HOLOCAUST JOKE ON TIKTOK The U.S. Army is removing an officer who made a Holocaust joke last year on TikTok. Nathan Freihofer, a second lieutenant, has millions of followers on TikTok, the video social media platform.

In August, Freihofer posted a joke about the Holocaust, then told his followers, “If you get offended, get the f*** out because it’s a joke.”

Freihofer was suspended from his leadership duties after posting the video, which he since deleted.

Lt. Gen. Michael “Erik” Kurilla, the commander of the Army’s XVIII Airborne Corps, determined that Freihofer’s statement was “inconsistent with the values of Army service and inappropriate for anyone in a position of leadership over American Soldiers,” said Col. Joseph Buccino, an Army spokesman, according to The Washington Post. “As a result, last month the Corps commander initiated the process of removing Freihofer from the Army.”

The decision came one week after a pro-Trump stormed the U.S. Capitol. In the months surrounding the election and the presidential transition, social media companies including Facebook, Twitter and TikTok have taken steps to combat bigoted posts and disinformation. (JTA) JAMIE RASKIN AND FAMILY SET UP FUND IN SON’S MEMORY The family of Rep. Jamie Raskin has established a fund to honor the memory of Tommy Raskin, the Maryland Jewish

Democrat’s son, who died on Dec. 31.

The Tommy Raskin Memorial Fund for People and Animals launched with initial funding of $50,000. The money will be directed twice a year to charities favored by Tommy Raskin, including Oxfam, Give Directly, the Helen Keller Institute and Animal Outlook.

The Raskins posted a memorial to Tommy, who took his life at 25, on Medium.

“He began to be tortured later in his 20s by a blindingly painful and merciless ‘disease called depression,’ as Tabitha [his sister] put it,” the family said.

“Tommy grew up as a strikingly beautiful curly-haired madcap boy beaming with laughter and charm, making mischief, kicking the soccer ball in the goal, acting out scenes from To Kill A Mockingbird with his little sister in his father’s constitutional law class, teaching other children the names of all the Justices on the Supreme Court, hugging strangers on the street, teaching our dogs foreign languages, running up and down the aisle on airplanes giving people high fives, playing jazz piano like a blues great from Bourbon Street, and at 12 writing a detailed brief to his mother explaining why he should not have to do a Bar Mitzvah and citing Due Process liberty interests (appeal rejected),” the post said.

“He ordered and devoured books on the Civil War and Maryland’s history in it, World War II and resistance to Nazism, Jewish history, libertarianism, moral philosophy, the history of the Middle East conflict, peace movements, anything by Gar Alperovitz on the decision to drop the atom bomb on Hiroshima and Nagasaki, and anything

by Peter Singer on animal rights.”

The post noted Tommy Raskin’s many interests and volunteer gigs, including teaching Sunday school at Temple Emanuel in Chevy Chase, a Maryland suburb of Washington, D.C., and at J Street, the liberal Jewish Middle East policy group.

Tommy Raskin graduated from Amherst College and was a student at Harvard Law School when he died.

His father is a constitutional scholar.

(JTA)

TU B’SHVAT

Tu B’Shvat: A holiday with a history—Thursday January 28 W e sometimes fall into the understandable error of thinking that tradition is the opposite of having a history. We think that history is about change, whereas tradition is about resistance to change.

That’s true some of the time, but not always. A deeper understanding reveals that tradition itself is developmental, not static.

The holiday of Tu B’Shvat (the 15th day of the month of Shevat, i.e. late January or early February) is a good example of this truth. It’s not now what it was 50 years ago. Fifty years ago, it wasn’t what it had been 500 years ago. Five hundred years ago, it wasn’t what it originally had been.

Originally, Tu B’Shvat was not a holiday at all, but a calendar convention related to an important aspect of Jewish ritual.

Hillel the Elder, one of the most important Sages in the formative period of Rabbinic Judaism, 2000 years ago, identified that day as the New Year for Trees.

Why do trees need a new year?

Because the fruit of any tree was not considered suitable to eat for the first three years of that tree’s life. (Leviticus 19:23-24; Mishnah Orlah 3:1, Talmud Yerushalmi, Orlah, 20b; Shulchan Arukh, Yoreh De’ah 294) In the fourth year, the crop was considered “first fruits” and was to be donated to the sanctuary. In the fifth year, the crop was available for regular consumption, once the proper tithes were removed. (It’s actually more complicated, because for certain purposes, the 15th of Shevat is treated as the New Year for trees, and for other purposes, the 1st of Tishre is the calendar marker.)

With the rise of Jewish mysticism in the 16th century, our tradition expanded in mind-bending ways. The kabbalistic masters of the era, especially Rabbi Isaac Luria, found ways to infuse our everyday rituals, as well as our sacred texts, with new levels of significance. By the

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raised our level of consciousness of the holiday and renewed our observance.

“Consciousness-Raising” will call to mind the 1960’s. Our contemporary environmentalist movement dates to Rachel Carson’s publication of Silent Spring in 1962. Within a decade, Wisconsin senator Gaylord Nelson inaugurated “Earth Day,” first observed on April 22, 1970.

Environmentalism resonated among Jews, especially younger Jews of that generation. In those circles, Tu B’Shvat became a “Jewish Earth Day.” It still is, for a significant portion of our Jewish community.

So, which is it? “All of the Above.” The development of Tu B’Shvat has only added layer after layer of loveliness to it.

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Rabbi Luria was the creator of the “Seder for Tu B’Shvat.” In this ceremony, the various colors of beverage—clear water, white wine, blush wine, red wine—and the various kinds of fruit—with edible skin, without edible skin, with a large central pit, without one—all symbolize deep, mystical truths. The seder that your children attend in Religious School is the descendant of that mystical innovation.

Early 20th-century Zionism gave the holiday an additional nuance. Since the laws regulating when fruit could be consumed were specifically related to the Land of Israel, Zionists connected Tu B’Shvat to the sacred task of reclaiming the soil of the Holy Land and advancing the cause of regaining independence for the Jewish State. Plant a tree in Israel! Here was a new custom that

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Some of the Jews Joe Biden has tapped for top roles in his administration JTA Staff

(JTA) President-elect Joe Biden filled the months before Inauguration Day lining up a slate of Cabinet secretaries, assistants and advisors, many of them Jewish.

Biden’s choices reflect a diverse cross-section of American Jewry and possess expertise gleaned from decades of experience in government, science and medicine and law.

Here’s a rundown of the Jewish names to know as the Biden administration begins.

Anthony Blinken, Secretary of State Blinken, a longtime Biden advisor with an extensive diplomacy resume, is the stepson of a Holocaust survivor whose stories shaped his worldview and subsequently his policy decisions, including in the Middle East. He holds mainstream Democratic views about Israel and said during his confirmation hearing that he wants the U.S. to reenter the Iran nuclear deal—and that he would consult with Israel on Iran policy.

David Cohen, CIA Deputy Director Cohen, who has long been involved in Jewish causes and issues, will occupy the job he held under President Barack Obama. He does not require confirmation, meaning that Biden’s CIA has a top expert in Iran issues from Day One. Merrick Garland, Attorney General Garland was blocked from joining the Supreme Court in the last year of the Obama administration. Now, he’ll require Senate confirmation to become the country’s top lawyer. In his speech after being nominated, he credited his grandparents, who fled anti-Semitism in Europe before coming to the U.S.

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Avril Haines, Director of National Intelligence Haines was deputy director of the CIA under Obama and Biden reportedly considered her to run that agency. Her mother was the Jewish painter Adrian Rappin (originally Rappaport), and her non-Jewish father once wrote in an account about a trip with Haines to Israel that the nominee identifies as Jewish.

Ronald Klain, Chief of Staff Klain, a longtime Biden aide who was the president-elect’s first major appointment in November, was previously chief of staff to Biden in his vice president days and to Vice President Al Gore. He has maintained ties with his childhood synagogue in Indianapolis, where he famously learned multiple Torah portions for his bar mitzvah, and has spoken about his commitment to raising Jewish children.

Eric Lander, Office of Science and Technology Policy Director Lander, a leading geneticist, will require Senate confirmation after Biden elevated his position to the Cabinet level. After he was criticized for toasting James Watson, the scientist who is credited with discovering the shape of DNA and who also expressed racist and sexist views, Lander said he, too, had been the subject of anti-Semitic comments by Watson.

Rachel Levine, Deputy Health Secretary Levine, raised in a Conservative Jewish home in Massachusetts, is Pennsylvania’s health secretary. She is the first known transgender person to be nominated for a position that requires Senate confirmation.

Alejandro Mayorkas, Secretary of Homeland Security Mayorkas, 60, the deputy secretary of Homeland Security under President Barack Obama, was born in Cuba to a Cuban Jewish father and Romanian Jewish mother who survived the Holocaust. He has worked closely with Jewish groups and spoken often about the specific threats facing American Jews. An array of Jewish groups sought a swift confirmation given the threat of extremist violence surrounding the presidential transition, but a Republican senator who supported overturning the election results blocked that possibility.

Anne Neuberger, National Security Agency Cybersecurity Director An Orthodox Jew originally from Brooklyn and educated through college in Orthodox schools, Neuberger has worked at the NSA for more than a decade. She helped establish the U.S. Cyber Command and worked as chief risk officer, where she led the agency’s election security efforts for the 2018 midterms.

Wendy Sherman, Deputy Secretary of State Sherman was the lead negotiator for the 2015 Iran nuclear deal and took the lead in advocating for the agreement with the Jewish and pro-Israel communities, later describing tensions with Israel and some American Jewish groups over the deal as “very, very painful.” She has also played a role in hewing the Democratic Party platform to traditional pro-Israel lines.

Janet Yellen, Treasury Secretary Yellen already made history as the first woman chair of the Federal Reserve, but now she has been appointed to be the first female Treasury secretary. The respected centrist was one of three Jews featured in a 2016 Trump attack ad that reflected longstanding anti-Semitic tropes.

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Here are the 37 Jewish members of Congress Ron Kampeas

WASHINGTON ( JTA)—There are 37 Jewish members of the 117th Congress, which was sworn in earlier this month amid the trauma of an insurrection spurred by President Donald Trump.

Of the 37, there are 10 in the Senate and 27 in the House of Representatives—25 Democrats and two Republicans. All 10 Jewish senators caucus with the Democrats. (Overall, there are 435 members of the House and 100 members of the Senate.)

With Democrats taking both Senate seats in last week’s election in Georgia, Democrats will have 50 seats, and with Kamala Harris as the tie-breaking vice-president, they will control the Senate. That will make Charles Schumer of New York the first Jewish majority leader in the Senate, and the most senior Jewish American official in history.

The lists here are in alphabetical order.

Freshmen are noted.

Jewish Democrats in the House: Jake Auchincloss, Massachusetts (freshman) Suzanne Bonamici, Oregon David Cicilline, Rhode Island Steve Cohen, Tennessee Ted Deutch, Florida Lois Frankel, Florida Josh Gottheimer, New Jersey Sara Jacobs, California (freshman) Andy Levin, Michigan

Mike Levin, California Alan Lowenthal, California Elaine Luria, Virginia Kathy Manning, North Carolina (freshman) Jerry Nadler, New York Dean Phillips, Minnesota Jamie Raskin, Maryland Jan Schakowsky, Illinois Adam Schiff, California Brad Schneider, Illinois Kim Schrier, Washington Brad Sherman, California Elissa Slotkin, Michigan Debbie Wasserman Schultz, Florida Susan Wild, Pennsylvania John Yarmuth, Kentucky Jewish Republicans in the House: David Kustoff, Tennessee Lee Zeldin, New York Jewish senators All are Democrats, except for Sanders, an Independent who caucuses with Democrats: Michael Bennet, Colorado (Bennet’s mother is a Holocaust survivor. He does not identify with a religion.)

Richard Blumenthal, Connecticut Ben Cardin, Maryland Dianne Feinstein, California Jon Ossoff, Georgia (freshman) Jacky Rosen, Nevada Bernie Sanders, Vermont Brian Schatz, Hawaii Charles Schumer, New York Ron Wyden, Oregon

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‘You are our Moses’: Delaware rabbi blesses Biden at ceremony on eve of inauguration Ron Kampeas

( JTA)—A Delaware rabbi blessed President-elect Joe Biden and his wife, Jill, before they left the state to assume the presidency by citing the week’s Torah portion describing the Israelites’ flight from Egypt.

Rabbi Michael Beals explained at the

farewell ceremony in New Castle, the meaning of “bashert,” the Yiddish term for destiny often used to describe a married couple. He applied it to the Bidens, who were on hand at the event at a National Guard center named for Joe Biden’s late son Beau, but also said Biden was bashert for the presidency.

“It is indeed bashert that you, our dear

president-elect, are being inaugurated on the very week that Jews around the world are reading from the book of Exodus, about Moses’s freeing us from 400 years of backbreaking Egyptian slavery at the hands of an autocratic cruel Pharaoh,” Beals said. “In many ways, dear Joe, you are our Moses.”

This week’s Torah reading, or parsha,

is Bo, describing Pharaoh ordering the Israelites to leave after the 10th plague — the death of the firstborn.

Beals has become a spearhead of Biden’s Jewish outreach, often describing at campaign events his first meeting with Biden, who turned up at the shiva of woman who had donated $18 to every one of his election campaigns.

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Congregation Beth El celebrates, gives, and recycles Linda Samuels

HANUKKAH AROUND THE WORLD TOGETHER Beth El celebrated Hanukkah each night with collective candle lighting, singing, and sharing that took the congregation around the world and back again. Several members grew up in other countries and shared stories and childhood memories of their Hanukkah celebrations. Mike Ashe and Sonia Stein shared stories from France, Vivian Simon from Morocco, and Gary Baum and Janice Foleck from Great Britain. Rabbi Ron Koas, Beth El’s new, incoming rabbi, shared Hanukkah memories from growing up in Israel.

The outpouring of members to welcome Rabbi Koas was fabulous and an inciteful question and answer period followed the program. For the last night, Beth El joined with the National Celebration of the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism (USCJ). Again, sharing with brothers and sisters all over the country gave such a wonderful feeling of warmth and togetherness. It’s not quite the same as being able to celebrate in person, but Zoom provided the next best thing, though the congregation hasn’t conquered “virtual latkes” yet!

FOOD DRIVES The COVID-19 Virus has brought so much food insecurity into Tidewater that Beth El was moved to help those who are suffering. Beth El Feeds Tidewater was established as a 7-month initiative to help various agencies providing food to those in need. Starting in December and going all the way through June, once a month, the congregation will hold a food drive. In December, enough food and cash were collected for the Foodbank of Southeastern Virginia to furnish more than 2,800 meals for those in need. This month’s recipient will be The Village Family. To donate, call the Beth El office for details.

PLASTIC INTO BENCHES Last, but not least, Beth El saved more than 500 pounds of plastic bags and wrapping from going into landfills or oceans by collecting it and recycling it to the TREX Company. TREX converts this plastic into useable material for decking and furniture. This, in turn also helps to save forests. For doing this, the congregation will be rewarded with a beautiful TREX bench for its courtyard. A heartfelt “Thank You-Todah Rabah” to all who participated in another Tikun Olam program.

Beth El will begin collecting for its second and final bench and hopes to remind everyone how important it is to help the environment, even if there is no reward, except for the most important reward— the effect it has in making the world a better and cleaner place to live.

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Get to know today’s Hadassah Sharon Goretsky

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hen most people hear the word ‘Hadassah,’ chances are they think of a hospital in Israel. In actuality, Hadassah is so much more.

Hadassah’s mission statement describes itself as “a volunteer organization that inspires a passion for and commitment to the land, the people, and the future of Israel. Through education, advocacy, and youth development, and its support of medical care and research at Hadassah Medical Organization, Hadassah enhances the health and lives of people in Israel, the United States, and worldwide.”

For any organization to run well, all types of people are needed, and Hadassah is no exception. Hadassah needs women to plan events and women to execute those plans.

Hadassah needs women who like to raise money and women who like to handle money. Hadassah needs women who are motivated by social justice and education, as well as women who just want to have fun with friends. Hadassah needs all types of women with a variety of interests and talents.

I ask area women to think about who you are and where you might fit into Hadassah.

Not everyone can make it to meetings and events, and to be honest, not everyone wants to. That doesn’t mean it’s not possible to be involved with Hadassah’s work.

Hadassah’s website, http://www. hadassah.org, makes clear how possible it is for most to find something of interest.

For example, those who have an interest in women’s safety and security, gender equity in health research and healthcare, or civil and human rights, should check out the advocacy page.

The website also features a wealth of

information from Defining Zionism in the 21st Century to tips on how to keep your heart healthy. Learn all about Young Judea, Youth Aliyah, and Hadassah’s amazing youth villages in Israel. Look for the link to The Branch, Hadassah’s podcast that offers a glimpse into the everyday lives of Jews and Arabs in Israel forging meaningful relationships. The podcast episodes are wonderful.

For nurse/allied health professionals, physicians, and attorneys, Hadassah has National Councils for each. (In fact, if you are a nurse/allied health professional and Hadassah member, please contact me, hadassahnfkvb@gmail.com.

I’m a nurse practitioner and would love to see Hampton Roads have our own Nurses’ and Allied Health Professionals’ Council chapter.)

After learning all about Hadassah, take the next step. Attend an event or a meeting. Not a joiner? There are other ways to help. Tell friends about Hadassah.

Get added to Hadassah’s email list. Like Hadassah Norfolk/Virginia Beach’s Facebook page to find out the latest news and information. And, consider gifting daughters, granddaughters, and friends a lifetime membership in Hadassah.

There really is something for everyone in Hadassah. Check out the website and find your connection. I am sure it is there.

Sharon Goretsky is organization vice president, Southern Seaboard Region. She may be reached at hadassahnfkvb@gmail.com.

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hile the wait for a safe vaccine for all looms large, the range of reactions to COVID-19 is as diverse as the people whose lives are affected. Some seniors in the community have lived in Tidewater all their lives. They’re married with children and grandchildren and have strong ties to the area.

For others, family is not a given. Some moved to the area immediately before the pandemic hit.

Isolation is the enemy of the people and does not discriminate.

Jill Grossman, program associate at United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, spends time with members of the JCC Book Club and the Seniors Club.

Combating isolation is a universal challenge. “My time interacting with these groups is the best two hours of my month,” says Grossman. “They are feisty and so resilient. They read the books and have great discussions. I hear them say, ‘I just want to hug my friends,’ but hey, I can relate. I feel the same way.”

Since the pandemic hit, there have been several COVID-related deaths. One group lost a mother and daughter to the dreadful disease.

At Beth Sholom Village, where 95% of residents are seniors, families and residents range from feeling sad to a sense of gratitude that their loved ones are protected.

Marcia Brodie is director of marketing at BSV. “Our residents are incredibly resilient! Most of them have lived through things in their advanced years that are perhaps worse than this pandemic,” says Brodie, “Of course, they miss their families and getting out into the community, but they are very understanding for the most part. A family member might call me with a question about the vaccine.”

Brodie takes the time to say things like, ‘I see your dad every day and he is so delightful. I danced with him in the hallway.’ A small exchange is a game changer

when loved ones are out of sight, not out of mind, she says. “A nurse is more than just a nurse. We’re always a lifeline, but it’s a different kind of lifeline.”

Brodie is not on the clinical staff, and like health care workers providing tech support to keep residents connected to their loved ones, she’s doing things she never did before.

“I am incredibly proud of our team during this unprecedented time. Our staff has always provided exceptional care. But since March, we have seen this group of committed employees go above and beyond,” says David Abraham, Beth Sholom Village CEO/EVP. Depression is the by-product of isolation, loneliness, and the fear of getting ill. “Many seniors are geographically cut off from their loved ones and cannot travel. They’re also struggling with new technology and virtual visits with their MD’s, which is confusing and foreign to them. They all prefer in-person meetings,” says Debbie Mayer, JFS director of clinical, OAS and adoption services. “Some of the seniors that we hear from, who live in nursing homes, feel as if they are in jail since they can only visit with their family through a glass window. Seniors that we serve through JFS’s Kosher Meals on Wheels program are also part of this group. Prior to the pandemic, our volunteers could go inside a senior’s home and visit with them. Now, our volunteers call from their own car and then drop the meals off outside their doors. The primary communication becomes a smile and a wave. This is still so important.”

The bright side—and there has to be a bright side—is that so many people have embraced technology and are enjoying events, discovering new activities and playing games online. Heavy hearts and fear come standard in a pandemic, but Grossman sees a silver lining. One of her book club ladies celebrated Hanukkah online this year with several members of her Israeli family, all of whom she had not seen for years in person.

YOUR DOLLARS AT WORK

Donors commit $21.5-million to Tidewater Jewish community’s future Thomas Mills

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n September 2016, Tidewater Jewish Foundation partnered with the Harold Grinspoon Foundation to launch the Life & Legacy program in Tidewater. After four successful years, 332 donors have made 571 legacy commitments worth $21.5 million in current and future gifts to support endowments in the local Jewish community.

The initial ‘start-up’ phase of this program came to a close at the end of 2020. Moving forward, Life & Legacy will remain a permanent program and partnership in Tidewater. Having established integrated endowment building infrastructure and resources throughout the community, much of the momentum of the last four years is expected to carry on into the next.

“When I reflect on what this community has accomplished over the last four years, it is clear that our community members care about the long-term health of our agencies, synagogues, and areas of service,” says Naomi Limor Sedek, Tidewater Jewish Foundation president and CEO. “We look forward to continuing our incredible community partnerships as we continue to pursue legacy gifts and commitments securing the future of Jewish Tidewater.”

The Harold Grinspoon Foundation, under the direction of philanthropist Harold Grinspoon and his daughter-in-law, Winne Sandler Grinspoon, has invested more than $200 million in Jewish causes, including multiple programs in Tidewater.

The Grinspoon Foundation launched the Life & Legacy program in 2012.

Life & Legacy assists communities across the nation, through partnerships with Jewish Federations and Foundations to promote after-lifetime giving to build endowments that will sustain valued organizations and vibrant Jewish communities for the next generation and beyond. The Harold Grinspoon Foundation has leveraged a relatively nominal $18.1-million to launch Life & Legacy. The resulting

Thank you LIFE & LEGACY team leaders!

The Tidewater Jewish Foundation thanks all the LIFE & LEGACY team leaders who helped ensure a stronger, brighter Jewish future for our community and their organizations

Beth Sholom Village

Ronnie Jacobs Cohen, Donor Relations Manager Barb Gelb, Director of Development Amy Levy, Board President Susan Alper, Board Member

David Abraham, CEO Neil Friedman, Past President and Honorary Life Board Member Jay Kossman, 3rd Vice President, Board of Directors Amy Weinstein, Director of Philanthropy

Chabad of Tidewater

Jewish Family Service return on this philanthropic investment is $1.06-billion in estimated current and future gifts spread across 63 Jewish communities. More than $118 million has already been realized.

“This effort was led by a small, but mighty group of dedicated community members. Together, they worked with hundreds of generous donors to build and secure a brighter future for our Jewish community,” says Kaitlyn Oelsner, Tidewater Jewish Foundation director of philanthropy. “When donors make a legacy gift, they are passing on their values to the next generation through a generous act of hope for the future.

These acts of hope have become all the more meaningful throughout this difficult year. The Foundation offers a sincere ‘thank you’ and ‘congratulations’ to the many donors and community leaders that helped ensure this effort’s success. We could not have asked for a stronger or more inspiring program launch.”

TJF’s eight local partners for the Life & Legacy program are: Beth Sholom Village, Chabad of Tidewater, Congregation Beth El, Jewish Family Service of Tidewater, Ohef Sholom Temple, Strelitz International Academy, Temple Emanuel, and United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC. A complete list of donors who have thus far supported one or more organizations through the Life & Legacy program can be found at jewishva.org/life-legacy.

Kelly Burroughs, CEO Jeff Cooper, Immediate Past President Sue Graves, Director of Development Ellen Rosenblum, Board President Linda Spindel, Past President & Volunteer Lawrence Steingold, Treasurer

Strelitz International Academy

Rabbi Aron Margolin, Co-Director Rabbi Levi Brashevitzky, Assistant Director Larry Bublick, Committee Member Dr. Abbey Horowitz, Committee Member Karen Lowenthal, Committee Member

Congregation Beth El

Betsy Karotkin, Past Board President Edward Karotkin, LIFE & LEGACY Chair Pam Gladstone, Executive Director

Ohef Sholom Temple

Linda Peck, Executive Director Barbara Dudley, OST Director Karen Fine, OST Past President, LIFE & LEGACY Co-Chair Matthew Fine, Foundation President, LIFE & LEGACY Co-Chair Ted Kaufman, OST Past President, Honorary OST Director Edward Kramer, Foundation Past President and OST Past President Alyssa Muhlendorf, Foundation Director and Honorary OST Director Jonathan Muhlendorf, Foundation Director Rachael Nusbaum, LIFE & LEGACY Associate Kurt Rosenbach*, Foundation Past President and OST Past President

Heather Moore, Head of School Rachel Abrams, Board Secretary Jasmine Amitay, Member, Board of Trustees Babbi Bangel, Past Board President, LIFE & LEGACY Chair David Cardon, Board President Carly Glikman, Director of Development David Leon, Past Board President Patti Seman, Development Specials

Temple Emanuel

Jason Lovitz, President Gail Gogan, Office Manager

United Jewish Federation of Tidewater / Simon Family Jewish Community Center

*of blessed memory

Betty Ann Levin, Executive Vice President / CEO

PROGRAM ACCOMPLISHMENTS $21.5 MILLION - Estimated current and future gifts to support endowments in Jewish Tidewater 571 New legacy commitments 332 Participating donors $1.06 BILLION - Estimated current and future gifts spread across 63 Jewish communities

To make a legacy gift to support the community, contact Kaitlyn Oelsner, TJF’s director of philanthropy, at 757-965-6103 or koelsner@ujft.org. jewishnewsva.org | January 25, 2021 | JEWISH NEWS | 11

JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE

A bright future ahead for Jewish Family Service Lisa Richmon

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s Jewish Family Service nears its 75th year as a Jewish Service Agency, the non-profit organization is charting its future by focusing on the increasing needs of the community.

JFS sees an opportunity to expand and re-energize the agency’s big impact mission-based programs.

“JFS is increasing our focus on outreach through our Private Duty Embrace program,” says Ellen Rosenblum, JFS president. “In addition to home care services provided by LPNs and aides, we are enhancing and further developing case management and concierge services to support people who want to remain in their own home.

“We are also exploring new ideas to expand our clinical services programs.

During the pandemic, JFS has been able to treat clients remotely, through telehealth services,” says Rosenblum. “I am so proud of the staff. They are always finding new ways to reach people who are suffering from isolation, grief, loss, and depression. JFS is working hard to prepare for any additional challenges ahead.”

Kelly Burroughs, JFS executive director and CEO, is focused on building the clinical counseling program into a premiere community resource. “People can’t be with their loved ones right now. It’s having a big impact on mental and physical health. We want them to know we’re here,” says Burroughs. “Our therapists are excellent, and specialize in grief, loss, and transition—issues which have really impacted a lot of people through this pandemic.

“We are also focusing our energies on older adults who need support,” says Burroughs. “The Embrace Home Care case management model will allow us to coordinate care for people out of the area, but whose parents live here. Our case management model will give them peace of mind knowing that we are looking after their loved ones, which is even more essential when restrictions imposed by COVID on hospital visits keep people away.”

But, the future growth required a tough decision by Jewish Family Service’s board of directors.

A drastic drop in orthopedic surgeries during the COVID-19 pandemic was the last straw. Declining referrals in recent years and changes in Medicare and health insurance reimbursements were also factors that prompted JFS to wind down its Skilled Nursing Care program on December 31, 2020.

Burroughs is comforted knowing that JFS fulfilled a thoughtful transition that took to heart all the people impacted. “We hate to wind down any program,” says Burroughs. “People counted on it for 23 years and we wanted to make sure everyone was taken care of in the community, as well as our staff. We worked well with Generations Home Health to get staff interviews set up. People were given time to plan their decision whether they would continue by joining Generations, by continuing with JFS in its PAM program, or seek comparable positions elsewhere.”

“The skilled home health program was a valuable agency resource for 23 years.

But COVID hit us particularly hard,” says Burroughs.

“Our professional staff of registered nurses and therapists always provided the highest quality of care to our patients,” says Jan Ganderson, JFS director of nursing. “Their dedication and commitment to JFS was unwavering. In turn, the community supported JFS by choosing us as their agency of choice and by recommending us to their friends and family members for so many years.”

The program was also dependent on

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physician referrals for orthopedic and elective surgeries, which were adversely affected in the past 10 months due to COVID. Multiple other factors such as competition, group bundling, regulation, and ability to bill for certain services/procedures made it difficult to sustain the program.

“As the healthcare arena has continued to evolve,” says Betty Ann Levin, who served as JFS executive director for 15 years, “JFS has positioned itself to change with it to ensure that all community members, often our most vulnerable neighbors, receive needed services.” Levin is now executive vice president/CEO for United Jewish Federation of Tidewater.

PAM is the Personal Affairs Management program that provides court-appointed guardian and conservator services to adults (18 and older) who have been found by the Circuit Court to be physically, cognitively, and/or mentally incapacitated.

Skilled home health services, which include physical therapy, occupational therapy, and skilled nursing (wound care, IV treatments, etc.) are available through Generations Home Health, a partnership between Beth Sholom Village of Virginia Beach and Beth Sholom of Richmond.

“As we move into a new decade,” says Levin, “JFS’ continuum of care remains strong, and the agency is positioned to continue the mission and work begun so many years ago by the Hebrew Ladies Charity Society.”

Kelly Burroughs.

JFS is increasing its focus on outreach through its Private Duty Embrace program. In addition to its traditional home care services, it is enhancing and further developing case management and concierge services to support people who want to remain in their own home.

STRELITZ INTERNATIONAL ACADEMY

Spirit Week and Day of Giving inspires extraordinary level of parent donations at SIA Carly Glikman

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trelitz International Academy returned from Winter Break to Spirit Week, January 5–8, culminating in the Day of Giving, hoping to inspire parents to participate in the school’s annual donor fund (ADF) reflecting the power of community.

Spirit Week was the brainchild of SIA’s Parent Volunteer Committee and Student Government Association to highlight this important Week of Giving to join together to raise funds to meet SIA’s 2020–2021 Annual Donor Fund goals.

Spirit Week kicked off on Tuesday, January 5 with a crazy sock day. Some students wore blue and pink mismatched socks, while others borrowed from their parents’ drawers and wore dress socks high up past their knees.

Wednesday’s “spirit wear” continued with a Sports Jersey Day. Even though students wore a mix of jerseys from around the world, such as the Orioles, Maccabi Haifa Soccer, and ODU Basketball, SIA students are all on the same team when it comes to their love for SIA. As everyone wished for peace and an end to the pandemic in 2021, students rocked their tie-dyed t-shirts, socks, and even masks on Thursday.

On Friday, everyone donned their favorite silly or serious hats as a hats off

and ‘thank you’ to the families participating in Spirit week.

After a week of excitement and community, Spirit Week culminated on Friday, January 8 with SIA’s first ever Day of Giving. SIA’s Spirit Week had a record breaking 77% parent participation to the Annual Donor Fund, raising almost $20,000. Many of our families shared the wonderful and inspiring reasons that they choose to make an annual gift to the Strelitz International Academy.

“No matter the amount of tuition we can pay, or how much we can give the Annual Donor Fund in any given year, we feel it’s important to be counted amongst those families investing in the future of SIA,” says Amy and Eliot Weinstein, parents of Avi in Kindergarten and Daniella in the Early Years program. “Our gift is our extra investment in our kids, their classmates, their teachers, the unique education and excellent programs. We are so grateful for the opportunity to be part of the SIA family, and we want to pay it forward.”

SIA’s Annual Donor Fund benefits the school by supporting its flexible tuition program, reducing tuition to meet the unique needs and circumstances for each individual family; bridging the gap between operating costs and SIA’s tuition revenue, which allows the school

Tye-dyed day.

Jersey day.

Hats off day.

to keep tuition costs low; and supporting advancement and staff development towards International BaccalaureateⓇ accreditation.

Strelitz International Academy strives to provide a safe and nurturing environment, teach Jewish ethics and values

and advanced academic standards as a candidate school for the International Baccalaureate Primary Years program.

Carly Glikman is director of development at Strelitz International Academy.

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TRAVEL

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rue Salasky spent six months of a 10-month teaching assignment in Bulgaria through the U.S. Fulbright program. Her Balkan adventure, including plans to

visit Istanbul, Kiev, Odessa, and Israel, was cut short when Fulbright canceled all its programs worldwide due to the novel coronavirus pandemic and sent everyone home—effective immediately. Salasky was in Baltimore, Md, at the time, attending

with no time to return for goodbyes or even to collect her belongings.

She returned home to Norfolk and started the readjustment to U.S. life in the COVID-19 era.

The first installment of her experience in Bulgaria was published in the December 14, 2020 edition of Jewish News. This is the second and final piece.

her daughter’s wedding when her foray into Eastern Europe was abruptly over,

Reflections on a sojourn in Bulgaria Prue Salasky

Jewish life In Sofia Seventy years later, the remnants of Bulgarian Jewish life are largely confined to Sofia, where there’s a community center helped by American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee funds and the Ronald S. Lauder Jewish School, which opened in 2019. Together, they complement the Sofia Central Synagogue, a glorious Moorish Revival style building designed by Austrian Friedrich Grunanger to accommodate 1,300 worshipers, and whose 1909 dedication was attended by Tsar Ferdinand 1 and his wife. However, despite the community’s post-Soviet revival—at its rededication in 1996, the mayor of Sofia and other dignitaries attended—and the attendance of hundreds for Hanukkah celebrations, according to volunteer guide Leon Benatov, the Orthodox shul cannot always raise a minyan for Friday night services.

When cousins Marilyn and Ken Siegel from Virginia Beach met me in Sofia in mid-February, we called the synagogue in advance to identify ourselves. On arrival, we were admitted and entered a small side chapel; there, Marilyn and I were ushered to the back to follow the Kabbalat Shabbat service from behind view-blocking lace curtains. Meanwhile, Ken sat with a handful of men of varying ages as we all listened anxiously for the arrival of enough men to form a minyan; it was close to 30 minutes after the designated time for services until a sufficient number of men had gathered. The Israeli rabbi, on staff since 2016, proceeded to race through the prayers at breakneck speed using a siddur with Hebrew on one side of the page with Bulgarian facing.

We returned on Sunday morning for a

tour of the main sanctuary, a truly spectacular and elaborate interior from the turn of the 20th century when many of the extant synagogues in the Balkans were built, a testament to the general prosperity of Bulgaria’s most recent ‘golden age’ and the comfortable place held by Jews in that society. The guide, Leon Benatov, pointed out a corner of the sanctuary’s floor damaged by an aerial Allied bomb.

He was one of those saved during WW II, when in June 1943 his family, like all 25,000 Jewish residents of Sofia, were dispersed to 20 towns in the countryside for their protection. His family stayed in one room in another Jewish family’s home in Provadia, a small town near Varna, the country’s largest port on the Black Sea. Then five years old, Leon recalled the hunger and difficulties of the family’s 15-month exile, but also noted that he, his parents and sister stayed together (his father being over 45 was exempt from the labor camps), and it providentially saved them from the Allied bombing of Sofia.

They were also fortunate to return to their home—and eventually were even able to reclaim most of their belongings. After the war, he remembers receiving packages of clothes and food from the JDC. Now 82, Leon, many of whose family were among those making Aliyah after the war, is working to preserve the history and legacy of Jews in Bulgaria. He recently translated a history by Avram Takhzher from Ladino to Bulgarian, a book I purchased (at some expense!), but which was a casualty of my unexpected departure from the country. He has almost completed a book of 3,200 Jewish proverbs in Ladino with a Bulgarian translation; and he’s preparing a reprint of a four-volume Israeli series featuring the biographies of 137 prominent Jews in Bulgaria.

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Leah Davcheva, in her mid-60s, is also involved in preserving the heritage of the country’s Ladino speakers.

She has interviewed more than a dozen in Sofia (some of whom have passed Shofar statue of gratitude to the Bulgarian people in Varna. since she began the project) in Bulgarian for an ethnographic study slated for pubToscani, an Italian architect; in the heart lication in December 2020. She grew up of downtown, the city has repurposed nonobservant in a Jewish community it as an art gallery like those in nearby of about 200 in Ruse (Roo-say) on the Yambol and Haskovo. On its second story, Danube with parents who were both stars of David are just visible on the Communist Party members. They were painted arches forming an unlikely juxtaLadino speakers, but Leah never learned position with the exhibition of Christian the language. She and her husband settled iconography. Its courtyard has the obligain Sofia in the ’70s, but she still considtory thank-you to the people of the town, ers herself an outsider in its religious a freedom statue, and an adjacent building community. that’s a community center—though seemingly closed—for the “approximately 100” Synagogues but no services Jewish residents of the city.

Beyond Sofia, there’s a telling absence A couple of weeks later, I planned of active synagogues or any semblance to attend High Holiday services in the of Jewish life in communities that once larger, more prosperous resort/port city of hummed with activity. Yet, emblematic of Varna, 2½ hours north by bus. However, the lack of violence accompanying their the renovated synagogue in a residential abandonment, many of the buildings are neighborhood, home to Chabad since well preserved.

2010, was deserted on Friday evening.

Before school started, I had a few With only a 30-minute break from manunencumbered days to explore Burgas, datory training on Saturday morning, I the Black Sea resort city of my teachtook myself instead to the Archeological ing assignment and the country’s fourth Museum, past the prominently situated largest behind Sofia, Plovdiv and Varna. shofar statue of gratitude to the Bulgarian With 2-hour direct flights to Tel Aviv, its people, and whisked around a gallery that beaches and casinos make it a popular has the oldest known gold jewelry in the summer tourist destination for Israelis, world—crafted by Thracians in 4,600 even after a 2012 terrorist bus bombing B.C.E. and discovered this century in a that killed six. I quickly found a former local burial site. Spectacular! synagogue, the same early 20th cenThe next day, not far from some tury vintage as Sofia’s, but designed by Roman ruins, I stumbled across the Naval

TRAVEL Museum, where I learned that as early as 1934, Bulgaria became a transit point for Jews fleeing persecution in Europe.

They made for the Black Sea coast via the River Danube or by train via Ruse, and thousands boarded retrofitted ships in Varna. The displays record the dangers that faced the refugees in their sea passage to Palestine, including the sinkings of the Salvador, in a storm in 1940, and the Struma, which departed Romania with a Bulgarian crew in Feb. 1942, victim of a Soviet torpedo. Together, the two ships accounted for the loss of more than 1,000 lives. Many more, however, were saved with one steamship alone carrying 1,500 safely to shore in four voyages.

In October, when my husband, Mike, made the 5,100 mile trek from Norfolk, we opted to explore Plovdiv, arguably Europe’s oldest continuously occupied city, the 2019 European Capital of Culture; once Philip 11 of Macedon’s capital city, Philippopolis; home to a wonderful

hillside Roman amphitheater, an ancient synagogue ruin and, we were told, the country’s second active synagogue. The latter was under renovation and not available to tour so we took photos of its weed-strewn exterior, found a nearby apartment block with a Star of David design in its metal grille, the de rigeur gratitude statue—and what appeared to be an anti-Semitic football sticker pasted on the street sign. There was no question about the intent of the sticker at the bus stop which depicted a cartoon-style Nazi soldier cutting a Jew’s beard, or the half page of anti-Semitic jokes beneath a caricature of a Jew in the Standart, a weekly newspaper.

With national mayoral elections pending, the ugly side of the political scene emerged with some political parties—there are a multitude—openly avowing hate speech against different groups, including the Roma and the LGBTQ community. A young Jewish

Fulbright colleague, a Georgetown grad, conducted a mock election in his class and had one ‘candidate’ run on a platform of killing Jews and Roma, which received resounding support from his classmates.

These jarring incidents also coincided with the racist chants and Nazi salutes of Bulgarian soccer fans at a Euro-qualifying game against England that led to a fine for the Bulgarian team and a game played in an empty stadium—a great punishment pre-COVID! Among my fellow educators, there was a “collective shrug” in response, a general acceptance of prejudice as part of life, not to mention that many openly shared anti-Roma sentiments. I still struggle to reconcile the political hate speech and targeting of groups with the truly remarkable kindness, notable gentleness and individual caring that I observed all around me.

The Bulgarians are a patient people.

“Five hundred years,” they’ll say, referencing Ottoman rule. “We can wait.”

Meanwhile the building continues to deteriorate and it doesn’t seem that there’s sufficient will or population to prop up any Jewish community beyond Sofia. In the capital, there’s a spark for the future with its new Jewish school established in 2019, a glimmer of renewal, even as the old guard vanishes and takes the Cyrillicwritten Ladino language with it.

Though 50,000 Bulgarian Jews survived WWII relatively unscathed, their “voluntary” departure, and with it the near-obliteration of centuries of Jewish life in Bulgaria, is yet another inescapable tragedy of the Holocaust. Their lives echo in the silence.

Prue Salasky was a 2019/2020 Fulbright English Teaching Assistant in Burgas, Bulgaria. She and her husband, Michael, live in Norfolk, Va., and are longtime members of Ohef Sholom Temple. Read her blog at www. bulgariaboundblog.home.blog.

JFS thanks our Skilled Home Health Care providers for over 30 years of dedicated service to the community.

JFS will cease its Skilled Home Health Care operations at the end of the month. However, we look forward to providing Private Duty services through our Embrace Home Care program.

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tribe of Jewish restaurateurs and food entrepreneurs have been hunting and gathering meals on behalf of the local community and to address food insecurity for most of their adult lives.

These individuals and their food businesses have especially made a variety of contributions to share their love through food during the pandemic. Why are they still going strong decade after decade?

What lies behind their instinct to feed others in ways that go well beyond the walls of their restaurant or stands at local farmer’s market?

CHARLES GREENWOOD, BAGELNUTZ AND BRUTTI’S CATERING It’s easy for me to recognize the importance of giving and sharing when I consider all the humans in our world that are struggling to survive every day.

Perhaps more importantly I don’t understand and find it impossible to accept how many people in our community, our world could care less about people who are at risk.

Sharing and giving feels good and knowing that what I can give and share brings comfort and happiness to others goes beyond feeling good, beyond mitzvah…it is my purpose. I challenge myself every day to grow and be successful because it fuels and feeds my desire and mission to give and help others. You asked what keeps me coming back? I guess because I will never be satisfied and will never accept that “enough is enough.” That’s why I’m focused on building a BagelNUTZ factory…to help fund my purpose, my mission of giving well beyond my days.

Among Greenhood’s contributions, Brutti’s has fed breakfast to First Responders through Ohef Sholom Temple’s Love Thy Neighbor program and lunch to the congregation’s Soup Kitchen’s guests.

JERRY METLSNER, NO FRILL GRILL I have been very lucky to be part of our great community, not self-serving, but serving… and serving more than just food, creating a space for our customers to gather with their friends and family to share all life has to offer…that’s what we provide.

Among Meltsner’s contributions, No Frill Grill has fed dinner to overnight guests of NEST, Norfolk Emergency Shelter Team, as well as provided meals for ForKids, Begin Again, and Park Place School.

JOHN STEIN, BAKER’S CRUST AND NEIGHBORHOOD HARVEST Serving and feeding the community over the last 28 years has been guided by our mission “Eat Well, Be Happy.”

Being a responsible corporate citizen and giving back is part of our DNA and lived through our guiding principles. I guess you could say it’s our calling, we love what we do, and we hope that it shows.

The Neighborhood Harvest delivers to 25 families in the food desserts of Hampton Roads every other week for no charge nutritious fruits and vegetables. Baker’s Crust delivers at no charge to the same areas to families that have COVID and can’t get out to buy food.

The Love of Food LORI GOLDING ZONTINI, IT TAKES A FIG Knowing what it means to go hungry myself, no one should ever go without. ‘Everyone must eat’ are words I live by. It started with my jam company Lori Golding Zontini. called It Started with a Fig. I gave jam to homeless shelters. My father-in-law was the executive director of JCOC. All these things came together and provided a platform for me to get involved and find solutions to food insecurity in the area. I’ve been feeding our communities now for almost seven years. My mission is to help feed people regionally here in Hampton Roads and to foster relationships throughout the region that address the needs of food deserts with long-term solutions, rather than placing a band-aid on a systemic problem.

JONATHAN FRIEDMAN, CO-OWNER, I-HOP As the Covid19 virus hit our shores, our country was forced to change how everyone operates day to day. From restaurant dining rooms being closed and the vast majority of people still not comfortable dining out. I wouldn’t call it instinct or even a mission, but “Pancakes with a Purpose.” Hospitals/ First Responders continue to be overwhelmed with this pandemic. These folks work countless hours, putting themselves in harm’s way. I call it an honor to be able to give to these heroes that make a difference in all of our lives.

When things got extremely scary in the hospitality industry, our staff needed something to make us feel they had a purpose. That’s where “Pancakes with a Purpose” came in; feeding more than 1,000 heroes with IHOPs world famous

pancakes, it’s more about being an active part of our community than anything else.

Giving staff members the opportunity to give back, gave us a sense of normalcy in a time when nothing is normal. Hashem has granted me the ability to give back,

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The Love of Food I didn’t realize I was Jewish until adulthood. Family recipes helped me discover my hidden Sephardic history.

Orge Castellano

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magine for a second a group of Jews making a slightly different version of challah for Shabbat, matzah for Passover and doughnuts for Hanukkah. A group of people whose ancestors were forced to convert to Catholicism against their will, yet continued to practice Jewish customs underground, even at the risk of being ostracized and tortured for doing so. Meet the Silent Jews.

Sometimes referred to as Crypto-Jews, anusim (Hebrew for coerced ones), or conversos, Silent Jews are descendants of Spanish Jews expelled from Spain and Portugal in 1492. Most left medieval Iberian territories for the Ottoman Empire or North Africa. Others fled persecution and settled in new frontiers in the New World, where many found refuge.

I come from one of those persecuted families who came to South America around 1532 and discreetly practiced Jewish rituals, living in fear of being hunted down by the Inquisition. I only found out that my family was actually Jewish as a teenager, that all our colorful, fragrant, crunchy dishes were deeply rooted in Judaic culinary traditions from 16th-century Spain. That the ingredients and aromas of my mom’s kitchen resembled dishes from the Sephardic gastronomy repertoire.

When the pandemic struck, the combination of lockdown, curiosity, and melancholy led me to knead, mix, and eat plates from my mom’s Jewish inheritance passed on through several generations of women in our family. The kitchen was the right place to honor their sacrifices, bravery and perseverance to maintain tradition, despite centuries of fear and persecution.

My lockdown days soon began to be filled with ingredients such as eggplants, spinach, leeks, and turnips, which

mingled with the scents of cinnamon, anise, cardamom, and nutmeg, coming together with dried fruits and legumes.

Arroz con garbanzos (chickpea rice) was one of those dishes. With its characteristic aroma of bay leaf, caramelized onions and raisins, the dish is cooked with turmeric to provide its signature yellow color. As a kid, it was often mixed with a fried egg, with parsley sprinkled on top.

In my search for Sephardic recipes, I became aware that this dish is very simi-

lar to pilaf with saffron, a Mediterranean spice my ancestors did not have access to since it didn’t grow in their new home.

Another delicious dish that also appears in the kitchens of Sephardic Jews from Turkey, Greece, and Morocco is estofado de berenjenas (eggplant stew).

Made by sauteing eggplants in olive oil with garlic, onion, and cumin, this quick stew is served with smoked cheese or feta and an abundance of cilantro. My family pairs it with homemade bread or corn arepas, an example of incorporating local ingredients.

On the most stressful days of the past year, comfort food became a necessity. A hearty dish of huevos con tomate (eggs with tomato) afforded me a sense of tranquility and a break from the chaos and uncertainty that surrounded me.

This dish, which closely resembles shakshuka, was cooked at my house with

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ají dulce—the Caribbean’s colorful semispicy pepper—chili flakes and smoked paprika. It’s so piquant and fragrant, I usually pair it with plain white rice or bread. However, my mother served it as a second course to complement her traditional pescado mermao, a hake fish stew cooked over a slow fire in an iron skillet with a mixture of garlic, peas, and eggplant smothered in a sauce of chilis and tomatoes. The last touch included a bunch of fresh cilantro leaves and a hint of sour lime juice. It filled our entire house with a thick, citrusy aroma.

And the desserts! There were bunuelos, small balls of fried dough with a sweet or salty filling—mine are usually made with raw cane sugar syrup, cloves, and nutmeg.

There was always cake—plantain cake with cinnamon and smoked cheese, or traditional bizcochuelo, a sponge cake that was ever-present in my school lunchbox. Similar to pan d’Espana, which Sephardim took with them to the Diaspora, my mother put her own spin on this soft, light cake, using cornmeal instead of ground almonds, substituting orange blossom water with a few drops of rum, and swapping grated orange peel for the peel of a lemon.

Reconnecting with my roots through food during these difficult times has helped me to cope with stress, anxiety, and loneliness. There’s still so much to cook, eat, and share. I’ll continue paying homage to each and every one of the dishes that my family preserved with such dedication and courage. This is the only way I can celebrate—and always carry with me—their everlasting legacy.

The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of JTA or its parent company, 70 Faces Media.

This post originally appeared on The Nosher.

Jerry Nadler brought Zabar’s bag with ‘a babka and the constitution’ to impeachment hearing

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s chair of the House Judiciary Committee, Rep. Jerry Nadler has been busy creating impeachment history.

But he hasn’t gone hungry, apparently.

C-SPAN caught Nadler carrying a bag from Zabar’s, the famed New York grocery and appetizing store located in his Upper West Side congressional district, as he took his seat on Wednesday, January 13.

The bold orange logo would be unmistakable to anyone familiar with the store.

Multiple news organizations—including New York Magazine and West Side Rag, a hyperlocal blog—reached out to Nadler’s office to find out what was inside the bag.

The response, from Nadler’s deputy press secretary Julian Gerson: “A babka and the constitution, what else?”

Nadler is one of House Speaker Nancy Pelosi’s nine chosen managers for the impeachment process, along with fellow Jewish Reps. David Cicilline, Jamie Raskin and Adam Schiff. (JTA)

The Love of Food The Chicken Soup Manifesto features hundreds of recipes from around the world Rachel Myerson

(JTA)­—I fell in love with Jenn Louis’ latest cookbook The Chicken Soup Manifesto at first sight.

The James Beard-nominated chef has curated a collection of more than 100 beautifully photographed chicken soup recipes, which allowed me to vicariously travel the globe with my favorite comfort food as a guide. What more could an Ashkenazi gal with wanderlust wish for?

When I got a chance to chat with Louis, she was as vibrant as her book.

Like me, her prototypical chicken soup was her mother’s matzah ball soup, which she made on Shabbat and Jewish holidays. The recipe is there, on page 62, the matzah balls “exactly how she made them.

I think everyone likes a different kind.

Mine are really tender on the outside with a bit of chew in the middle.” The accompanying photo features the blue and white china Louis inherited from her mom.

If matzah ball soup is your starting point, too, Louis recommends branching out to the Romanian Supa de Pui cu Galuste de Gris (page 196) with semolina dumplings. The dumplings are fluffy with whipped egg whites and poached, “like super yummy clouds.”

But don’t be afraid to dive in, says Louis. “It’s chicken soup! It should be fun!

Explore, learn…it’s a great way to travel.”

Some of the recipes come from Louis’ own travels. “I took a cooking class in Ethiopia and learned to make Doro Wat (page 33). Even though it’s more of a stew, I really wanted to include it.” But most of them were collected through expansive research. “It’s not a creative book,” explained Louis, “it’s a documentary. It’s a shout-out to how cool these recipes are, and how much we all have in common.”

Some came from Louis’ periodic appeals on social media, “I’d put call outs on Facebook once in a while. Like, ‘Hey! Who’s got a chicken soup they grew up with in their family?’”

Others were told to her orally. Was it difficult to translate word-of-mouth instructions into quantifiable amounts?

I ask. “Somewhat. There’s a Palestinian recipe—it’s a really great story. This woman sat next to me on a plane and, halfway through the flight, she looked

at me and said, ‘Hi, I’m Hanan. I’m a Christian Palestinian, the peaceful kind.’

She was super sweet. I didn’t tell her I was writing a book, but she told me about her mom’s chicken soup recipe and I wrote it down. It called for, like, a ‘handful of rice,’ so I tried my best to replicate it.” Their encounter ended after landing, and Louis never got Hanan’s details. “I’d love to send her a copy [of the book] but I don’t know where she lives!”

The research process was rich and fruitful. “Just when you think you’re done,” Louis explained, “you find this cool new recipe. It’s really fun to unfold all the layers. They’re all super delicious dishes.” And, she says, despite major differences in flavor, the functions of chicken soup are universal: comforting, often healing broths, intended to stretch a chicken as far as it can go.

Can she pick a favorite? “The South American soups are so unique because they have corn and yucca, which make them sweet and totally different to anything

else.” Louis pauses. “Or the Kanjee from Sri Lanka (page 179). I made it in my Instant Pot on a rainy day then went for a walk with my friend. When we got back home, we opened the pot—it was so fragrant. We sat and ate the soup, then split the leftovers because they were so good.”

But, of course, much depends on your mood. Or the time of year. Louis is keen to assure me that chicken soup is not just for winter—“there’s a summer soup from Finland (page 189) with green beans and baby carrots that you can eat chilled. It’s really lovely.”

Regardless of the recipe, Louis is full of tips to achieving the most flavorsome dish, with an entire section dedicated to getting the most out of your chicken. “You always want to cook your chicken slow, on a really lazy simmer. If you cook a little slower, it keeps the meat tender,” she tells

me. And if you want a richer broth, use homemade chicken stock, “it’s special… heartier and more luxurious than just using water.”

At the end of the day, Louis reiterates, exploring the diverse offering of chicken soups should be fun. “Make one recipe a week,” she urges, “and learn something new.”

Make sure to check out the recipe for Afghan chicken soup (Yakhni) from Louis’ book.

This post originally appeared in The Nosher.

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IT’S A WRAP Tidewater families light up the night with PJ Library Nofar Trem

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anukkah is celebrated each year when the days are short and the nights are long and dark. For eight whimsical nights, family and friends gather to enjoy precious time together. Delicious meals are prepared, prayers are said, and children play games while the menorah shines. Like so many other holidays and events this year, Hanukkah had to be spent without gathering in large groups.

Still, Jewish Tidewater was determined to not let distance impact traditions.

PJ Library of Tidewater started a new tradition this year, creating “PJ in a Box.” Designed to help families celebrate Jewish holidays and learn about different mitzvot, these boxes contain crafts and activities for children and information cards for the entire family.

“Hanukkah in a Box” partnered with the community’s annual Latkepalooza, adding a physical element to this year’s virtual event. The children shared the Hanukkiah they made with their box during a community candle lighting with Rabbi Marc Kraus of Temple Emanuel.

Each box recipient also received a copy of The Ninth Night of Hanukkah by Erica Perl. The author joined live on Zoom for Latkepalooza, sharing her book and leading the children in creating thank you cards for the shamashim (helpers) in their lives.

With overwhelming positive feedback, PJ Library in Tidewater plans to continue

Participants react to the program Hanukkah box—such a wonderful story and the menorahs were very fun to make!

—Lindsey Aftel

We are loving PJ library and all that you are planning. It is keeping us connected to Judaism, the community and each other all while we are stuck indoors.

Leon Shall opening his Hanukkah box.

—Rachel Cooper

Thank you so much for the amazing Hanukkah box. My girls and the

Lena and Johnny Aftel opening their box.

whole family enjoyed making the crafts and recipes! —Jessica White

The Hanukkah box was amazing for us! The box made a huge difference for my 5-year-old daughter. She was so excited every night to light the menorah she made, often asking many times if it was time yet. The prayer card was invaluable. It was so much easier to pray in Hebrew with it in front of us. —Amanda Curtis

The Yusufov family’s finished menorah.

boxes of fun in 2021 with “Purim in a Box” to stay connected with families during these times and serve as a resource for families raising Jewish children.

To learn more about PJ in a Box or other PJ Library in Tidewater programs, contact Nofar Trem, United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s PJ Library program professional at ntrem@ ujft.org.

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Ari Mulligan decorating his menorah.

Bennett Rouzeau using his prayer cards.

Jillian Cooper showing off her beautifully decorated menorah.

IT’S A WRAP FIRST PERSON

UJFT Society of Professionals embarks on Mission to Israel without the jet lag Stacey Neuman

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n what seems to be an ever enduring global pandemic, tour guides across the world are devising creative ways for visitors to experience other countries without packing a thing. United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Society of Professionals (SoP) recently embarked on such a journey to explore a ‘Dreamers and Achievers’ three-part virtual mission to Israel with gracious, Zion-passionate and exceptional tour guides, Zalman Spivack and Lyana Rottstein.

With a packed itinerary, we began our interactive tour in Tel Aviv, the first modern Hebrew city, on the corner of Herzl and Rothschild Blvds—both streets named after two key founders of what was to become the Jewish state. As we meandered along the boulevard (sans FitBits®), we were shown an image of this area as the once barren sand dune it was less than 100 years ago…to a now bustling financial district that bears the Tel Aviv Stock Exchange and serves as a hot bed for tech start-ups.

During our tour, we “met with” author, speaker, and top tech influencer, Inbal Arieli who spoke about the “secret sauce” that makes Israel the ‘Start Up Nation.’

We then heard from Michael Eisenberg, founding partner of Aleph, an early-stage venture capital firm which works with Israeli entrepreneurs to build global brands.

Heading out of town, we stopped at Independence Hall, where David BenGurion, head of the People’s Council, Zionist, and executive of the Jewish Agency, declared the creation of the State of Israel. This was followed by a visit to the Ayalon Institute, a clandestine munitions factory, which manufactured ammunition in support of the War of Independence in 1948 (an early example of Israeli “creative, out-of-the-box thinking”).

From the Tel Aviv suburbs, the group headed north—to the Kinneret Cemetery,

which overlooks the breathtaking Kinneret Lake (Sea of Galilee) and Golan Heights.

Buried here are some of the great early Zionist leaders, including Rachel the poet, and Ben Tzion Yisraeli (1887–1954). Ben Tzion Yisraeli is credited with restoring high-quality date palm trees to the land of milk and honey, and essentially changing the agricultural landscape of the nation.

Yisraeli risked his life to smuggle date palm seedlings and shoots back to Israel from various Arab countries, including Persia and Egypt.

Still in the north, we met a representative from BioBee, a company that supplies bee pollinators to indoor greenhouses globally.

Bright-eyed and from the comfort of our homes, our SoP contingent boarded a virtual bus south to the Negev Desert where we learned about the Revivim Kibbutz, which runs an agribusiness growing 80% of the able olives supplied throughout the country. During this presentation and the one following at Ramat HaNegev Winery, our group casually dined on the olives, dates, and Israeli wine that had been hand-delivered to our homes prior to the Mission.

Guides Zalman and Lyana provided historical perspective on how the Negev was transformed from arid wilderness to thriving agricultural oasis, beginning more than 80 years ago with the construction of a single north-to-south water pipeline dubbed the “Champagne Pipe.”

The pipeline, along with early innovation

by Israel’s 1930’s chief water engineer, Simcha Blass (who pioneered drip irrigation), and more recent wastewater recycling and desalination techniques, helped shaped the course of irrigation and water conservation in Israel—and across the planet through shared technology—to the present day.

As our final session wound down, many attendees reflected on the experience.

“Even though I’ve been to Israel many times, the virtual mission taught me

so many new and wonderful things I hadn’t learned before,” said Miriam Brunn Ruberg.

Rachel Shames says, “The virtual mission provided a great opportunity to feel connected to Israel from afar. I especially enjoyed learning about the eco-friendly irrigation systems that are sustaining groves in the Negev, thanks to support from the IDF.” “Since participating in the SoP Virtual Mission, I cannot stop looking at YouTube videos of Israel,” says Rabbi Arthur Ruberg. “During COVID, I may not be able to go to Israel, but I can still enjoy seeing Israel.”

Israel is young by statehood, but ancient with a millennia of history. It is a country small by landmass, but enormous with scientific advancements in agriculture, defense, and technology.

Once this pandemic ends, I will pack a bag and board a plane for an in-person tour of this awe-inspiring tiny nation.

And, it will have been worth wait.

Contact Ronnie Jacobs Cohen at rcohen@ ujft.org for how to get involved with UJFT’s Society of Professionals.

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WHAT’S HAPPENING United Jewish Federation of Tidewater & the Simon Family JCC’s Lee and Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival 2020–2021*

*events shown only through February 11

All events are open to the community with RSVP or tickets required and will take place virtually until further notice.

For more information and to register, go to JewishVA.org/Bookfest or contact Patty Shelanski, Arts + Ideas manager at the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater at 757-452-3184 or Pshelanski@ujft.org.

To register for events, go to Jewishva.org/bookfest KONIKOFF CENTER FOR LEARNING Getting Good at Getting Older

by Rabbi Laura Geller

Nobody Will Tell You This But Me with author Bess Kalb Monday, February 8, 12 pm, free

Monday, Janurary 25, 12 pm, free

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his author talk is a tour for all those of “a certain age” through the resources and skills needed to navigate the years between maturity (building careers/raising families) and frail old age. For more information and to register go to JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman, director of Jewish Innovation, at slautman@ujft.org or 757-965-6107.

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oin Emmy-nominated writer, bestselling author, and New Yorker contributor Bess Kalb as she discusses her debut memoir Nobody Will Tell You This But Me. Event is FREE and open to the community with pre-registration required.

For more information and to register, go to JewishVA.org/ Bookfest or contact Patty Shelanski, Arts + Ideas manager, at pshelanski@ujft.org or 757-452-3184.

KONIKOFF CENTER FOR LEARNING The A-Z of Intermarriage with author Rabbi Denise Handlarski

PJ LIBRARY AND STRELITZ INTERNATIONAL ACADEMY Becoming Brianna with author Terri Libenson

Thursday, February 4, 8 pm

Thursday, February 11, 7:30 pm, free

ISRAEL TODAY PRESENTS:

Israel Story An Intergenerational Conversation!

Wednesday, January 27, 12 pm, free

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he Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Simon Family JCC, Embassy of Israel, & Community Partners’ 10thAnnual Israel Today, presents an intimate conversation between Professor Shlomo Yochai Maital.

Israel Story Podcast Maital. co-founders Mishy Harman and Yochai Maital, and Yochai’s father, Professor Shlomo Maital. They will explore how Yochai and Mishy, early Gen Y, see their world and shape it, compared with Shlomo’s Depression (NOT depressed!) gen- Mishy Harman. eration. Pre-registration is required.

For more information and to register, go to JewishVA.org/IsraelToday or contact Jill Grossman at jgrossman@ujft.org or 757-965-6137.

Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Virtual Date With The State 2021 Wednesday, February 3, 10 am

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ome together (virtually) with Jewish community leaders from across the Commonwealth to hear from Governor Ralph Northam and other policy makers on issues important to the statewide Jewish community. Pre-registration is required.

Secure a spot at JewishVA.org/DWTS or by contacting Rabbi Batya Glazer, Jewish Community Relations Council director, at BGlazer@ ujft.org.

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abbi Denise Handlarski discusses her book, The A-Z of Intermarriage. Part story, part strategy, and all heart, as well as a coming together of religious source material, cultural context, and personal narrative, the book is the perfect ‘howto’ manual for living a happy and balanced intermarried life.

For more information and to register, go to JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman, director of Jewish Innovation, at slautman@ujft.org or 757-965-6107.

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oin Terri Libenson, New York Times bestselling children’s book author as she discusses her fourth book in the bestselling Emmie & Friends series, Becoming Brianna. This book is perfect for anyone who loves humor, heart, and of course funny drawings to highlight all of it! For more information and to register, go to JewishVA.org/Bookfest or contact Nofar Trem, PJ Library Program Professional at the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater at ntrem@ujft.org or 757-321-2334.

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WHAT’S HAPPENING TEMPLE ISRAEL’S 1ST THURSDAY

The potential for peace between Palestinians and Israelis Thursday, February 4, 7:30–8:30 pm

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he US embassy is in Jerusalem and more Arab countries have recognized Israel, but the relationship between ordinary Israelis and Palestinians has never been worse.

So says the Alliance for Middle East Peace or ALLMEP, which represents some 125 organizations working to bridge the divide. Kevin Rachlin, the organization’s United States director, will be a featured guest on Temple Israel’s upcoming popular First Thursday Zoom program.

“Kevin is a very astute observer of the scene in Israel, but also of American politics,” says Joel Rubin, a former Temple Israel president and television anchor who moderates the monthly discussions. “He has informed views on how America’s Mideast policy might change with Joe Biden as President.”

Also on the panel will be the new director of the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater. Rabbi Batya Glazer, who formerly coordinated Jewish community relations in Washington and Philadelphia, is working remotely during the pandemic, but looks forward to moving to Hampton Roads. “I have heard such great things about the community, so I am anxious to meet everyone and get started.”

Rabbi Glazer has a long background in interfaith programming and in efforts similar to ALLMEP. “I can talk about my experiences and what we can do in Hampton Roads to build our own bridges.”

Temple Israel began First Thursday after COVID-19 forced an end to the in-person Second Saturday programs Joel Rubin conducted for more than seven years. “We have taken advantage of the virtual format

to bring in presenters from as far away as London,” Rubin says. “In January we had our largest participation, more than 70 persons, for a very engaging Rabbi Batya Glazer, hour on the coro- UJFT Jewish navirus that featured Community Relations Council director. some local people who survived it and Dr. Craig Futterman, who grew up at Temple Israel and now practices in the DC area. He reassured everyone that the COVID vaccine is Kevin Rachlin, US safe and necessary.” director of Alliance for Middle East Peace Virginia’s first (ALLMEP).

Jewish Speaker of the House, NOVA Delegate Eileen Filler-Corn, is the scheduled First Thursday guest for March 4. “We are happy to have non-members of Joel Rubin.

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Lawrence Steingold to receive VCIC Humanitarian Award Thursday, March 18, 6:30 pm, virtual

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he Virginia Center for Inclusive Communities will honor Lawrence L. Steingold at its 57th annual Tidewater Humanitarian Awards Dinner.

These VCIC honors are presented to individuals and organizations that have demonstrated a commitment to the promotion of respect and understanding among people of diverse racial, ethnic, and religious backgrounds.

Under the leadership of William L. Nusbaum, in addition to Steingold, recipients include Yvonne T. Allmond, Susan R. Colpitts, Frank J. Hruska, and Ruth T. Jones Nichols. The distinguished

Merit Award will go to Hampton Roads Community Foundation.

Steingold has served the Jewish community as president of both Jewish Lawrence Steingold.

Family Service and Tidewater Jewish Foundation, as treasurer of Ohef Sholom Temple, and as a member of numerous other boards of directors.

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MAYIM BIALIK TO GUEST HOST JEOPARDY! WHILE THE SHOW SEEKS A PERMANENT REPLACEMENT FOR THE LATE ALEX TREBEK

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ayim Bialik. The correct answer is: Who is the upcoming Jewish guest host of Jeopardy!?

Bialik, star of The Big Bang Theory and other sitcoms who has written for the Jewish Telegraphic Agency, has been named one of four temporary celebrity guest hosts while the show finds a permanent replacement for the late Alex Trebek.

Ken Jennings, the Jeopardy! champion and among its all-time money winners,

is hosting for six weeks. Celebrity hosts will include Katie Couric, Green Bay Packers quarterback Aaron Rodgers and 60 Minutes correspondent Bill Whitaker.

The show’s executive producer, Mike Richards, will follow Jennings for a twoweek interim period to give the newly announced interim hosts an opportunity to prepare.

Hosting Jeopardy! requires a level of intelligence that goes far beyond the typical quip-ability required by most game shows. Couric and Whitaker are respected journalists, Rodgers has won celebrity rounds of Jeopardy! and, of course, Bialik is a neuroscientist.

None of the celebrities are expected to be named the permanent host. (JTA)

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CALENDAR THROUGH FEBRUARY 24 SWORDFISH WINTER SWIM TEAM, Ages 5–18 Mondays–Wednesdays, 6–7:30 pm, JCC Indoor Pool.

Open to all boys and girls ages 5–18 years, recreational competitive swim team offers certified, experienced coaching to swimmers that wish to improve technique, get fit, and make friends. This is NOT swim lessons, however having competitive experience is not required.

Cost is $255 for JCC members and $310 for non-members. Each swimmer receives a custom team canvas sport bag, t-shirt, and swim cap. A sibling discount of $25 is available at registration. For more information or to register, visit the JCC in person or call 757-321-2308.

JANUARY 25, MONDAY Rabbi Laura Geller, author of Getting Good at Getting Older. Presented by Konikoff Center for Learning. 12 pm. Free. For more information or to register, contact Patty Shelanski at 757‑452‑3184 or pshelanski@ujft.org. See page 25.

JANUARY 27, WEDNESDAY Israel Today presents: Israel Story: An Intergenerational Conversation! Jewish Community Relations Council of UJFT, Simon Family JCC, Embassy of Israel, & Community Partners’ 10thAnnual Israel Today, brings an intimate conversation between Israel Story Podcast co-founders Mishy Harman, Yochai Maital, and Yochai’s father, Professor Shlomo Maital. 12 pm. Free. Pre-registration required. For more information and to register, go to JewishVA.org/IsraelToday or contact Jill Grossman at jgrossman@ujft.org or 757-965-6137.

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WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 3 Virtual Date With The State 2020, Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater. Come together (virtually) with Jewish community leaders from across the Commonwealth on issues important to the statewide Jewish community. 10 am. Pre-registration required. RSVP at JewishVA.org/DWTS or by contacting Rabbi Batya Glazer, JCRC director at bglazer@ujft.org. See page 22.

THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 4 Rabbi Denise Handlarski discusses her book, The A-Z of Intermarriage. Presented by the Konikoff Center for Learning as a part of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC’s Lee and Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival. 8 pm. Free. Preregistration required. For more information and to register, go to JewishVA.org/KCL or contact Sierra Lautman, director of Jewish Innovation, at slautman@ujft.org or 757-965-6107. See page 22.

MONDAY, FEBRUARY 8 Bess Kalb discusses her debut memoir, Nobody Will Tell You This But Me. Presented by the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and Simon Family JCC’s Lee and Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival. 12 pm. Free. Pre-registration required. For more information and to register, go to JewishVA.org/Bookfest or contact Patty Shelanski, Arts + Ideas manager at pshelanski@ujft.org or 757-452-3184. See page 22.

THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 11 Terri Libenson discusses her fourth book in the best-selling Emmie & Friends series, Becoming Brianna. Presented by PJ Library in Tidewater, in partnership with Strelitz International Academy. 7:30 pm. Free. Pre-registration required. For more information and to register, go to JewishVA.org/Bookfest or contact Nofar Trem, PJ Library Program professional at the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater at ntrem@ujft.org or 757-321-2334.

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WHO KNEW THREE JEWISH FASHION STATEMENTS FROM THE INAUGURATION (THAT WERE EASY TO MISS): BERNIE’S MITTENS, BATSHEVA, LADY GAGA’S DOVE Gabe Friedman

(JTA)—It was a big day for Joe Biden and Kamala Harris, who were sworn into their offices at the presidential inauguration ceremony on January 20. But it was also quietly a big day for Jewish fashion.

Ella Emhoff, Jewish daughter of the historic Second Gentleman Doug Emhoff, wore a dress designed by the celebrated Jewish fashion designer Batsheva Hay to the ceremony.

Hay, known in the fashion world by her first name, posted on Instagram that Emhoff wore her “burgundy moiré dress” to the festivities.

Batsheva, whose dresses have been worn by celebrities such as Sarah Jessica Parker, is known for blending Orthodox modesty rules into high fashion.

Jewish Sen. Bernie Sanders also made a bit of fashion news for a different piece of

clothing: his mittens.

Fans of the progressive lawmaker kvelled on Twitter over the homemade gloves, which were gifted to him by a schoolteacher in his state of Vermont. As the teacher, Jen Ellis, wrote on Twitter, they are made of wool from repurposed sweaters and lined with fleece made from recycled water bottles.

Lady Gaga, as should be expected, made the headlines with her wardrobe choice. Jewish viewers might also have had their eyes drawn to the massive dove pin that the pop star wore during her performance of the National Anthem. The singer explained on Twitter that the dove, which held an olive branch in its mouth, was meant to symbolize peace. “May we all make peace with each other,” she wrote.

The dove is also an enduring symbol of Israel, appearing on stamps and posters since the country’s founding.

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OBITUARIES DR. THEODORE (TED) ADLER VIRGINIA BEACH—Early Monday morning, January 11, Dr. Theodore (Ted) Adler passed away peacefully at home. He was 91 and died from complications of COVID. Ted defied simple categories and possessed a modest nature, a gentle and quiet manner. He had a deep curiosity about the world and a joie de vivre that was contagious. He knew how to love well and to make this world a better place.

Ted grew up in West Ghent and attended Taylor, Blair and Maury High School. He graduated from University of North Carolina–Chapel Hill and gave his lifelong loyalty to the Tar Heels. He graduated with honors from Medical College of Virginia (MCV, now VCU) and was a member of Alpha Omega Alpha Honor Medical Society. He had a surgical internship at Mass Memorial Hospital in Boston. Then he returned to MCV for his surgical residency. The family packed their bags and drove west so Ted could fulfill his two-year military obligation, he was assigned to Ft. Ord, Calif., where he assumed the leadership role of Chief of Surgery when his commanding officer suddenly was transferred to Japan.

The Adler family embraced the experience, discovering new territory and new interests, which, for the parents included exploring wine country and playing golf.

He returned to the Norfolk/Virginia Beach area and practiced at Norfolk General and Leigh Hospitals and became Chief of Surgery at DePaul Hospital. When Virginia Beach General Hospital opened in 1965, the practice responded with a Virginia Beach office. Later the practice expanded even further, and Ted held titles of Chief of Surgery and Chief of Staff at Bayside Hospital. Ted was easily recognizable in the hospital with his characteristic bow ties and a smile and kind word for all those who came his way. He became an Assistant Professor of surgery at Eastern Virginia Medical School where he trained and mentored surgical residents. He was an innovator, he performed the first laparoscopic gallbladder surgery at Virginia Beach General Hospital. Rarely one to grab the spotlight, he couldn’t contain his excitement about this advancement in medical care. “It’s simply a better way of

doing it,” Dr. Adler told The Virginian-Pilot in 1990. Ted’s specialty training in burn surgery at MCV enabled him to advance burn care; his expertise saved the life of a severely burned child as a result of a jet crashing nearby.

Dr. Adler retired from practice in 1999, but he continued to contribute, including participating in a Physicians for Peace mission to Kazakhstan in 2001.

It should be said that Ted was not about titles. He was about healing and leaving the world a little more whole than he found it. His central lesson to his children was to treat every person with kindness, compassion and humanity.

Ask Ted what he was proudest of and he would tell you—his family.

Ted met his beloved Sally Segal in Richmond and together, they “had a great ride” as Ted said. They travelled the world and were well versed in history, culture, politics, food and wine. They were soulmates blessed with 65 years of a marriage, ever adventurous and new.

Ted was a Renaissance man. One would only discover the depth of Ted’s knowledge because he was so passionate about sharing his interests. His love of books spanned James Joyce and Marcel Proust to Samuel Beckett. He was passionate about opera, and Ted and Sally would have regular jaunts to New York City to attend the Met and enjoy Broadway shows. He was known for his exquisite rose garden. Strangers would ring the doorbell asking for advice on their roses.

After his retirement, he and Sally earned the title of life master duplicate bridge players. They traversed the country competing in bridge tournaments, where they developed connections with other duplicate bridge players. During COVID, his on-line bridge “table” consisted of Sally and his two adult children, Leslie Guth and Harry Adler.

Ted adored his children, Leslie Adler Guth (Peter) in Newtown, Pennsylvania and Harry Adler (Leslie) in Minneapolis, Minnesota. He parented through his quiet example of service, kindness, and acceptance. He was smitten by his grandchildren, Isaac Adler (NYC), Michael Guth (NYC) and Maya Adler (Wellington, NZ), delighting in their unique personalities

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and their different life paths. He was overjoyed at being able to attend his grandsons’ weddings and welcome their brides, Dr. Sharon Chacko (wife of Michael Guth) and Claire Goscicki (wife of Isaac Adler) as additional granddaughters. He is preceded in death by his parents Minnie and Irwin Adler and brothers, Marvin Adler and Jerome Adler. He is also survived by dear sister-in-law, Evelyn Adler and many wonderful nieces and nephews.

We will miss him.

He was a member of Ohef Sholom Temple, and the Cavalier Golf and Yacht and Club.

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BESSIE BANKS VIRGINIA BEACH—Bessie Banks passed away peacefully at the age of 99 on December 24, 2020. She was the daughter of the late Morris and Gussie Cohen.

For the past 3½ years, she resided at The Terrace of Beth Sholom Village.

Bessie was born and raised in Norfolk, Va. She graduated from Maury High School and during her later years, was very proud of the BA degree in Fine Arts she earned at Old Dominion University.

Bessie was blessed to have two extraordinary husbands. She was married to her first husband, Louis Ginsburg of Portsmouth, Va. for 22 years until his untimely death in June, 1965 at the age of 47. In August, 1975 she married Adolph Banks of Norfolk, who instantly became a beloved family member. They were married for 31 years until his death at age 94.

Bessie was preceded in death by her sisters and brother’s-in-law, Minnie and Sam Kurzer and Nettie and Frank Levy and by her son-in-law, Mike Eisenberg.

She is survived by her daughters and son-in-law, Beverly and Alan Frieden and Ellen Eisenberg, and by grandchildren Leslie Frieden (Seth Feldman), Natalie Herskovic (David Herskovic), and Toby Eisenberg-Nelson (Zach Nelson). She is also survived by 6 great grandchildren,

Alicia and Ilana Feldman and Abbi, Isiah, Jordyn and Charlotte Herskovic. All of Bessie’s grandchildren and great grandchildren live out of town and no matter how many updates and photos we shared with her, she always wanted more.

While we are saddened by her passing we are content knowing that she had 99 wonderful living years.

The family would be grateful for memorial donations to Beth Sholom Village, 6401 Auburn Drive, Virginia Beach, VA 23464. Due to the pandemic, funeral arrangements were private. H. D. Oliver Funeral Apts. Online condolences may be sent to the family through hdoliver.com.

DR. JACK I. CHERIN VIRGINIA BEACH—On January 4, Dr. Jack I. Cherin, slipped away unexpectedly and peacefully in Virginia Beach.

He was born on December 26, 1936 to Minnie and Joseph Cherin in Long Island, New York. His family moved to Norfolk when Jack was a toddler. Jack graduated from Maury High School in Norfolk, Va. and was a proud graduate of the University of Virginia.

He continued his studies at Temple University Dental School, and subsequently joined the Air Force where he was stationed in Blytheville, Arkansas. In 1965, Jack opened his private dental practice in Virginia Beach, where he worked happily and tirelessly until he was 80 years old.

Jack was a member of multiple dental associations and served on staff at select hospitals. He was a diplomate in the American Board of Craniofacial Pain, serving on their board of directors and as an editor of their journal and monthly newsletter. He also lectured widely on TMJ to encourage the practice of treating craniomandibular problems without prolonged drug therapy or surgery to eliminate pain.

Jack was a scholar and an athlete with an eternal smile and never-ending positive attitude. Tennis was his favorite pastime and Jimmy Connors was his idol. He was a 32 degree Mason and recently received recognition as a 60-year Masonic Veteran of Atlantic Lodge No. 2 in Norfolk. He loved telling stories about his time in the

OBITUARIES Air Force, old Norfolk life, dental school and the UVA fraternity house. Jack was a tennis playing, bike riding, neighborhood walking, beach loving, pier fishing, Jeopardy watching, classical music listening Tidewater native. He was also a WWII buff, haunting the hangars of the Military Aviation Museum.

He was a devoted family man and his greatest joy was spending time with his wife, children, and grandchildren. He is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Susan Cherin, his adoring daughters, Elle Land (Lawrence) and Joanne Eder (Brian), and six grandchildren. He was predeceased by his sister, Leona Stern and his brother, Howard Cherin. His boundless love, loyalty, and commitment to his family are a profound loss.

There was a graveside service for immediate family members only. Donations may be made in Jack’s memory to the University of Virginia College of Arts and Sciences. Online condolences may be sent to the family through hdoliver.com.

JUDITH SCHAPIRO EICHELBAUM NORFOLK—Judith Schapiro Eichelbaum passed away on Thursday, January 14, 2021.

Judy, most delighted in being known as Nana or Nana GG, was born on April 4, 1927 to Lee Haber and Harry Charles Schapiro who are both deceased. Nana was also predeceased by her beloved husband Joseph Eichelbaum, son Steven Eichelbaum, and sister and brother-in-law Joan and Hap Harrison.

Nana graduated from Maury High School and went on to obtain her degree in Social Work from Virginia Commonwealth University. She used this education in her career as a social worker for the City of Norfolk.

Nana is survived by her daughters Linda Eichelbaum Collier, Cathy Eichelbaum and Beth (David) Buckman; her daughter-in-law Lisa (Murray) Rosenbach; nieces Gail (Steve) Grossman and Nancy (Alvin) Wall. She is also survived by her grandchildren Leigh (Charlie) Penner, Jill (Jeremy) Silbert, Suzanne (Liz) Kellam, Julia Buckman, Daniel Buckman, Staci (Jason) Levine, Melissa Eichelbaum, Andrea Eichelbaum, Erin (Greg) Stockburger, Jamie (Dustin)

Dingenthal, great grandchildren Joe, Eva and Sam Penner and Jordan Silbert. She also had many great nieces and great nephews. Nana loved her family and was proud to be the matriarch of this crew.

Nana was known for her positive outlook on life and being a strong woman to the very end. She will be missed by her many friends and family.

Due to COVID-19 the family chose to have a private service. H.D. Oliver.

Memorial contributions can be made to the Steven Eichelbaum Camp Scholarship Fund, c/o Jewish Community Center, 5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Suite 100, Virginia Beach, VA 23462 or at foundation.jewishva.org.

1929 to Victor and Hilda Friedlander, “Sunnie” was one of six children with brothers and sisters Daniel, Emil, Norma, Henie, and William. Sunnie attended James Monroe High School and the School of Industrial Arts. She worked at Macy’s until she met and married Myron “Mike” Fine. They moved to Richmond in 1950 and opened Fine Brother’s Supermarket.

Together, they had three children and were married for almost 30 years.

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to say what she thought. She made us all laugh with her antics and “Sunnieisms.” Not only was she a mother to her own children, many of their cousins and friends would call her their “second mom.”

Sunnie is survived by her children, Steve Fine (Lezlie), Larry Fine, and Jody Fine Korman (Dale Talley); grandchildren, Aaron (Sarah) and Liza Fine, David Fine, and Max (Amanda) and Hillary Korman; and great-grandson, Miles Korman. Also William, Emil, and Norma and many loving nieces and nephews. She was welcomed to heaven by her mother Hilda, sister Henie, and brother Danny. A memorial service will be held at a later date.

MARTIN MYRON FREEDMAN VIRGINIA BEACH—Always thinking of his family, Martin Myron Freedman 76, wanted us to be able to enter the New Year knowing that he is at peace, passing away on Thursday, December 31, 2020 in Virginia Beach, Virginia.

Marty was born in Norfolk, Virginia.

He was predeceased by his parents, Ada and Morton Freedman and sister-in-law, Sandra Freedman.

Marty is survived by the girl of his dreams, Judith Berg Freedman. He was an amazing and loving father to his three children Aaron and wife Pennie of Miami, Florida, Jason and wife Pamela of Hollidaysburg, Pennsylvania, and Rachael and husband Brett Trussell of Virginia Beach. He was the most wonderful Papa to seven grandchildren, Ari, Abigail, Benjamin, Lucia, Eli, Morgan,

and Huck. He was a loving brother to his sister, Sandra and husband, George Keim; brother, Ronald Freedman and sister and brother-in-law, Ilene and Mark Snyder.

He is also survived by his niece and nephew, Michelle and Robert Fryman and their children, Sean, Sydney, and Michael Fryman.

Marty attended Old Dominion University and graduated from The Medical College of Virginia School of Pharmacy. He was treasurer of Phi Delta Chi Professional Fraternity. While attending MCV, he met the love of his life, Judy, on a blind date. Judy and Marty married on Christmas Eve in 1967 and were inseparable for 53 years.

Marty was the proud owner and operator of Ghent Pharmacy. He loved being a pharmacist, helping others and becoming a friend to his customers. I think we were the only family that got excited for the flu season to see the pharmacy pill count increase as he would excitedly come home and tell us how many prescriptions he filled.

He served on the medical advisory board of the Multiple Sclerosis Society of Hampton Roads for many years in addition to being an expert pharmacy witness.

He was past president of Ohef Sholom Temple Men’s Club and volunteered for Jewish Family Service. He was one of the first male Cub Scout leaders in our area and went on to become a Webelos leader and then treasurer of Boy Scout Troop 66.

He was so proud to have a part in both of his sons becoming Eagle Scouts.

After retirement, Marty continued to give of himself becoming the Pharmacist

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Marty was by far the best husband, father, grandfather, and brother. He laughed at the silliest jokes and always wore a smile. He was hardworking and fun loving. He ran everyday and completed the Marine Corp Marathon. He loved his ice cream and Hallmark movies.

The graveside service was conducted by Rabbi Rosalin Mandelberg at Woodlawn Memorial Gardens, King David section.

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ELAINE RUTH GROSS VIRGINIA BEACH—Elaine Ruth Gross, a resident of the Beth Sholom Village in Virginia Beach, peacefully passed away on Saturday, December 19, at the age of 85.

Elaine was born in Brooklyn, N. Y. to Alex and Claire Solomon. She attended school and graduated with a Bachelor of Arts and Master Degree of Education from Brooklyn College. Elaine was married to Harold Gross for 63 years and they had three sons, Alexander (Joanne), Fredric (Laura), and Michael (Kim).

Elaine taught elementary school at PS 236 in Brooklyn, and at Flamingo Elementary school in Cooper City, Florida.

She was loved by her students and was remembered as being “amazing,” “my favorite teacher of all time,” and “great at teaching science.” One student fondly recalled a time that the school principal came into her classroom, asking for someone intelligent to assist him with a project.

Without hesitating Elaine instructed the entire class to rise and follow the principal to his office. The student noted “I never felt so good in my life. I loved your mom.”

Elaine was equally loved by family and friends. She was an avid golfer and tennis player. She loved pets and at one point

shared her home with a dog and three cats, all of which were rescue animals.

Along with Harold, she traveled to Mexico for tennis tournaments, on cruises with her grandchildren, on safari with close friends, and on numerous road trips.

In addition to her husband and her children and their spouses, Elaine is survived by her brother Bob and his wife Eleanor, and grandchildren Ben, Alyson (Michael), Rachel (Aviv), Harrison, Sam, Andrew, Matthew, Charlie, and Jack. As a result of COVID, a memorial service will be held at a later date.

NAOMI ABIGAIL HECHT VIRGINIA BEACH—Naomi Abigail Hecht, 27, of Los Angeles, CA died December 8, 2020 of BRCA-related breast cancer at a temporary home in Virginia Beach with her parents and devoted fiancé by her side.

She was born in Los Angeles, graduated from the Hamilton High School Humanities Magnet, and graduated with a double major in biology and sociology from Wesleyan University, where she was inducted into Phi Beta Kappa during the fall of her senior year. Naomi worked at a health clinic in Glendale, Calif. and tutored high school students before attending the Sidney Kimmel Medical College of Thomas Jefferson University in Philadelphia, where she was a third year medical student. She had an exceptional ability to grasp difficult concepts and then explain them to others in a very understandable way, which she was able to utilize in her responsibilities as a teaching assistant, or TA, for three semesters of organic and inorganic chemistry at Wesleyan, as well as informally in medical school where she would use white board and marker to clarify material to study group peers.

Naomi was remarkable, not only for her many accomplishments, but for who she was. She always wanted to help youth who were struggling socially and academically, whether she was working as a camp counselor, a high school tutor, or a volunteer at Wesleyan’s confidential listening service. She was passionate about those less fortunate and was involved in improving women’s health and that of

OBITUARIES underserved populations.

She was the most loving daughter, sister, fiancé, granddaughter, niece, cousin, and friend, who always really listened to others. When she was ill, friends and acquaintances across the country recalled being inspired by her kindness, her intelligence, her radiant smile, and lovely laugh, and her gentle and thoughtful ways.

She is survived by her parents, J. Randolph Hecht, MD and Lori Winer Hecht, MD, and her beloved brother, Matthew Hecht of Los Angeles, Calif., as well as her grandfather, Norman Hecht of Virginia Beach. She is also survived by her amazing fiancé, Lucas Van Gorder, the love and light of Naomi’s life who never left her side throughout her illness. She is predeceased by her maternal grandparents, Dr. Herbert and Phyllis Winer of Shawnee Mission, Kan, and her paternal grandmother, Gloria Hecht of Virginia Beach. She is also survived by loving and supportive aunts, uncles, cousins and extended family across the country.

She was buried at Hillside Memorial Park in Los Angeles. Donations to the UCLA Jonsson Cancer Center Foundation for breast cancer research.

REGINA SENTER KATZ VIRGINIA BEACH—Regina Senter Katz passed away peacefully at 100 years of age on December 9, 2020.

She was born September 19, 1920 in Norfolk, Va., the daughter of the late Rebecca and Edward Senter. Regina was predeceased by Louis Katz, devoted husband of 73 years, and three younger siblings. Regina was a loving mother and “Grammy.” She is survived by sons Stuart Katz (Cynthia) of Newport News and Barry Katz (Kitty) of Chesapeake; granddaughters Leah Rosenberg (Jason) of Norfolk and Erin King (James) of Hampton; and great-grandchildren Annabelle, Judah, Dallas, and Zahava.

Regina lived an exceptional life. She is remembered for her warmth, compassion, generosity, and humility. She was an accomplished pianist who performed, composed, and published 14 piano solos.

Regina was a dedicated educator known for her expertise instructing children in

her home studio. She was an organist at Gomley Chesed Synagogue and taught at Tidewater Community College.

Special thanks for the dedicated care provided by Beth Sholom Terrace and Freda Gordon Hospice. Memorial donations to Beth Sholom Terrace, 1049 College Park Blvd., Virginia Beach, VA 23464 and Freda Gordon Hospice, 5000 Corporate Dr., Suite 500, Virginia Beach, VA 23462.

A graveside service, officiated by Cantor Elihu Flax was held at Gomley Chesed Cemetery in Portsmouth. H.D. Oliver. Send condolences at www. hdoliver.com.

EDWARD KRAUS VIRGINIA BEACH—Edward Kraus, 95, passed away on January 8, 2021.

Edward Kraus was born in Cambridge, Mass. and lived much of his early life in the Boston area. He spent 12 years in the Navy and met his late first wife, Audrey Hite, in Norfolk, Va., then settled in the Washington D.C. and Baltimore areas, where he lived for many years with their two daughters. During this time, Ed developed an incredible love for dogs and had several, mostly collies, which he doted on and enjoyed for many years. He then moved back to the Boston area and married his wife Margaret Blevins Kraus in 1983, where they lived for several years before moving to Virginia Beach.

In his earlier years, Ed was a prolific salesman in the insurance industry, winning awards and doing presentations on telephone sales techniques. He later used his skills as development director at the Italian Home for Children in Boston, and as city manager for Norwood, Mass. where he used his techniques and creative fundraising ideas to revitalize and expand the business community. Later in Virginia Beach he would work for The Sentara Health Organization running a senior HMO and doing presentations for the hospital. Then there was his fundraising and advertising effort for the Simon Family JCC and Jewish News.

Ever since the 1970s, in his spare time, Ed had always come up with creative and grandiose ideas for projects he was planning, like the railroad he envisioned that

could go from Boston up to Bethlehem, New Hampshire leading to an all-inclusive retirement community with assisted living facilities and activities that could involve all ages, arts and music. The entire community, through his Senior Planning LLC would be a first, before retirement communities were even being planned at that time. His final, most recent project idea through his Senior Planning LLC was for the “Noteworthy Tower,” with what would be a Norfolk Arts Residence Tower with musicians and artists on the upper floors and retail on the lower floors. He was indefatigable in writing proposals, meeting with architects to do drawings and find suitable lots and government officials to obtain permits and funding, but unfortunately the projects never came to fruition.

The main joy of his life, aside from his wife Margaret herself, was singing with her in choir and at Jewish Community Centers, and traveling with a large elder hostel choral group to perform at Penn State every year. Following Margaret’s death, he became very involved with the Samaritan House, whose mission is to help those affected by domestic violence.

He is survived by his daughter Sandra Kraus of Oceanside, Calif.; stepdaughters Megan Shipman of Marshfield, Mass; and Laura Beth Brotman of Burton, Ohio; stepbrother David Blevins; and grandchildren Jacob and Sasha Brotman, and Liam and Gwyneth Shipman. No local service will be held as his burial will be in Marshfield, Mass. Memorial donations in his memory may be made to the Samaritan House.

RONALD MARVIN MILLER VIRGINIA BEACH—Ronald Marvin Miller died on Dec 3, 2020 at Beth Sholom Village where he resided since 2018. His transition was sudden and he passed peacefully.

Ronnie was born on July 4, 1945 in Brooklyn, New York to Hyman and Vivian (nee Adcock). He was raised in Norfolk with his loving sister, Janet. Ron lived in Norfolk most of his life, proudly serving on the police force in the 1960s and 70s.

Many loved ones include: sister, Janet; daughters, Kim and Laura; son-in-law, Tim; brothers, Mike and Rob (pre.m.);

granddaughter, Rebecca and her husband, Chuck; cousins, Wayne, Scott, and Ken; niece, Leah; lifelong friend, Beth; and grandchildren, Simon, Stiles, and Layla.

Ron was fortunate to have many close friends and exciting adventures in his 75 years. Every positive thought, word, or deed that occurred during his life is concentrated into a pristine spiritual light which will continue to shine and have an effect on those above and below.

No funeral services will be scheduled.

May each person whose life he touched celebrate him in their own way.

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NOAH JON OPPENHEIM VIRGINIA BEACH—Noah Jon Oppenheim, 24, passed away Monday, November 23, 2020 in Virginia Beach, Virginia.

Noah was born on March 17, 1996 in Richmond, Virginia but raised in Virginia Beach. He was a graduate of First Colonial High School and a proud founder/owner of Coastal Instrument Sharpening Service.

Noah’s humor would light up any room and he deeply cared to be a great friend to everyone he encountered. He enjoyed skiing, modifying his corvette, and spending time with his friends, family, and most importantly, his son, Jaxon.

He is predeceased by his grandparents.

In addition to his parents, Dr. Arnold and Jo-Anne Oppenheim, he is survived by his twin sister Rachel, his wife Brittany, his precious son Jaxon, and countless relatives and friends.

A graveside service was officiated by Rabbi Panitz of Temple Israel at Princess Anne Memorial Park. Altmeyer Funeral Home.

In memory of Noah, please contribute to Shatterproof, a national nonprofit dedicated to reversing the addiction crisis in the United States.

DR. JEROME DAVID PERLMAN NORFOLK—Dr. Jerome David Perlman, 91, passed away on December 24, 2020.

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at the Hospital of St. Vincent de Paul in Norfolk, Virginia on July 19, 1929.

A lifelong resident of Norfolk, he attended John Marshall Elementary School, Blair Junior High School, and graduated from Maury High School in 1947. He attended the University of Virginia for his undergraduate studies and graduated from the University of Virginia Medical School in 1955. Dr. Perlman’s medical residency was interrupted by his service in the United States Army. In 1957 he was stationed in Hanau, Germany and served as Commander of the Medical Detachment of the 899th Tank Battalion and later, as the Commanding Officer of the 209th General Dispensary serving troops and their families. Upon his discharge from the army, he returned home to Virginia where he completed his residency at Norfolk General Hospital.

Dr. Perlman opened a private practice in family medicine in 1959 and became a charter Diplomate of the American Board of Family Practice. He was a member of the American Medical Society, the Virginia Academy of Family Practice, the Medical Society of Virginia and the Norfolk Academy of Medicine.

Dr. Perlman was an assistant professor in the Department of Family Medicine of Eastern Virginia Medical School. Medical students from EVMS and the University of Virginia rotated through his office observing and evaluating patients with him. Dr. Perlman served on the DePaul Hospital Board of Trustees, as well as the lay board.

He was chairman of the Department of Family Practice and served as president of the medical staff.

In 1983, Jerome retired from medical practice for health reasons and put his talents to use elsewhere. He was an honorary member of the Beth Sholom Home board and served on the admissions committee there for many years. He and his wife, Pansy, were awarded the Lifetime Achievement Award for their outstanding dedication, commitment, and support to the mission of Beth Sholom Village. In retirement, his energy was directed to the Virginia Endowment for the Jewish Aged, an organization which he served until it merged with the United Jewish

Foundation. He was a member of Ohef Sholom Temple.

Everywhere he went, Dr. Perlman was greeted by a handshake, a hug, a kiss, and a pleasant exchange of words. He had a gentle and kind manner that was endearing to all. He will be missed by those whose lives he touched and there were many. He would like to be remembered for his love and devotion to family and medicine.

Jerome was preceded in death by his beloved wife and soulmate, Pansy Donsky Perlman. They were married in 1953 and were inseparable for 67 years.

He is survived by his loving daughter, Susan Scholsohn and her two children, Todd Scholsohn of Norfolk, and Amy Jo Scholsohn of Playa Vista, Calif. He is also survived by a devoted son, Dr. Steven Perlman, his wife Sharon and their daughters, Lauren Perlman of Brooklyn, N.Y. and Erica Perlman of Lakewood, Col. His four grandchildren brought him much joy and so many bright tomorrows.

He will be lovingly remembered by a sister, Saralee Warnick of Bellevue, Wash. and sister-in-law, Lolly Bernstein of Norfolk, as well as many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Memorial donations may be made to Beth Sholom Village, Ohef Sholom Temple, or a charity of one’s choice.

HD Oliver Funeral Apartments. Burial at Forest Lawn Cemetery was private. A live-stream of the service was conducted

by Rabbi Rosalin Mandelberg. Online condolences are welcomed and may be sent to the family through hdoliver.com.

JUDY SELDES PETOCK RICHMOND, VA.—Judy Seldes Petock passed away peacefully on Tuesday morning after a brief illness.

She was born in Richmond to Aaron and Fannie Seldes, who predeceased her.

She graduated from Thomas Jefferson High School, married the love of her life, Jerry Petock (who preceded her in death), and lived in Tidewater throughout their marriage. Judy was involved in the Portsmouth and Norfolk communities as a volunteer for Gomley Chesed Sisterhood, Hadassah, and Sentara Norfolk General Hospital. She was a lifelong poll worker,

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but her greatest satisfaction came from her “Just Judy” gift business and her position as a “Boutique Lady” at Stein Mart.

Guests were always welcomed in the Petock home and Judy loved entertaining. Whether she was hosting a weekly mahjongg game or a drop-in for friends and neighbors, everyone knew good fun and good food would be on the menu!

She enjoyed her morning walks and breakfasts with neighbors and spending summers at Virginia Beach. Judy returned to Richmond in 2014, rekindled treasured friendships, and volunteered at Bon Secours St. Mary’s Hospital and the Massey Cancer Thrift Store.

Left to cherish fond and zany memories of Judy are her daughters and their husbands—Amy and David Nisenson and Mindy and Art Bloom. She adored her three grandchildren—Daniel (Julie) Nisenson, Austin (Jay) Heller, and Stacey (Brian) Newman. Great-granddaughters, Tabor Nisenson and Ella Newman, were her greatest joy. She also enjoyed close beloved relationships with Norman and Selma Petock, Ed and Sara Rosenbaum, and her nephews and their spouses.

H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts. A LiveStreamed service was held at Forest Lawn Cemetery. Donations to the Ronald McDonald House of Winston-Salem or Hadassah.

RITA MARIE SHELANSKI W YNNEWOOD, PA.—Rita Marie Sheleanski (nee CARDILE) passed away peacefully at home in Wynnewood, Pa., on Tuesday, December 29, 2020 at age 91.

Born in Philadelphia to Sicilian immigrants Salvatore and Anna Cardile, and one of 8 children, she converted to Judaism and was married to Dr. Morris V. Shelanski for 65 years.

She was a member of the 1951 graduating class of Philadelphia General Hospital School of Nursing and worked as a nurse at that hospital. There, she met her future husband, who pre-deceased her in July 2020.

She is survived by 5 children, Joseph, Herman, Samuel, Anne (Dougherty) and Stephan; 12 grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

Rita was warm, feisty, fun-loving, and

a fantastic cook with an infectious laugh.

She was exceptionally proud of being a nurse, wife, mother, and grandmother, as well as sister, aunt, and friend. She gave so much love and so many lives are better because of her. West Laurel Hill Funeral Home, Inc.

PEARL SLUSKY VIRGINIA BEACH—Pearl Slusky, 97, of Virginia Beach, formerly of West Hartford, Conn., passed away on December 31, 2020.

Pearl was the beloved wife, for 72 years, of the late Melvin Slusky, DDS. After more than 60 years in Connecticut, they relocated to Virginia to be closer to family. Pearl will be remembered for her love and devotion to family and friends, her graciousness, hospitality, and sense of style.

She is survived by her children, Carol Tickton (Stan) of Virginia Beach and Robert (Audrey) of Vermont; grandson, Jeff Shinn (Cattina) and great grandchildren, Alyssa and Jacob, all of Chesapeake.

The family wishes to thank the entire staff at Beth Sholom Village for their friendship, love, and care during the past four years.

Donation’s in Pearl’s memory may be sent to Beth Sholom Village, 1049 College Park Blvd, Virginia Beach, VA 23464, online www.bethsholomvillage.com or a charity of your choice. Burial was held in Connecticut.

ANNETTE VOOSS VIRGINIA BEACH—Annette Vooss, 83, passed away on December 30, 2020.

Annette was born in the Bronx, New York to the late Benny and Rose Hartman on October 27, 1937.

Annette was very devoted to family traditions and food. She always loved a good joke and truly loved her faith. She was active with the United American Hebrew Congregation (UAHC) and Eisner Camp.

Left to cherish her loving memory are her children, Scott Vooss and wife Melinda and Tami Furgerson and husband Charlie; grandchildren, Zoey Vooss, Maxwell Vooss and Carly Davis and husband Dr. Toren Davis; great-grandchildren,

OBITUARIES Elodie Davis and Violet Davis; and many extended family members and friends.

Donations to Jewish Family Service Food Pantry.

FRANK ANDREW ZELENKA KNOXVILLE, TENN.—Frank Andrew Zelenka, age 83, of Oliver Spring, passed away on Monday, January 4, 2021 at the Parkwest Hospital in Knoxville, Tenn.

He was born in New York to the late Frank Andrew and Evelyn Zitek Zelenka on September 16, 1937.

Frank was a member of St. Therese Catholic Church in Clinton. He retired from the United States Air Force and spent many years as Deputy Director for Knights of Columbus.

In addition to his parents, Frank was preceded in death by wives, Barbara Jean Zelenka and Vicki Rene Zelenka; and brother, Alan Zelenka. He is survived by children, Patricia Z. Youngman (Robert), Frank Joseph Zelenka (Amy), Theresa Ahmad; step-children, Debra Haynes (JL), Wayne Hunsicker (Dawn); brothers, Andrew Zelenka (Sue), Alfred Zelenka (Noreen); several grandchildren and great grandchildren.

The family had a funeral mass at St. Therese Catholic Church. Frank’s interment was held at Anderson Memorial Garden with full military honors presented by Campbell County Honor Guard. www.holleygamble.com.

SHELDON ADELSON, MEGADONOR TO ISRAEL AND REPUBLICANS (JTA)—Sheldon Adelson, the billionaire casino magnate whose philanthropy had an unparalleled influence on American and Israeli politics and Jewish causes, has died at 87.

One of the world’s richest people and a megadonor who set records for his political giving to Republicans, Adelson was known for his deep and polarizing involvement in local, national, and international politics, especially his support for Israel and the Republican Party.

The extent of Adelson’s giving to causes and institutions he believed in had few equals in American philanthropy. He was the largest donor to Donald Trump’s 2016 presidential bid at $25 million, as

well as the nation’s biggest giver in the 2012 election at nearly $93 million. A newspaper he owns, the Las Vegas ReviewJournal, was one of the few publications to endorse Trump.

Adelson also contributed enormously to pro-Israel causes. He donated $127 million to the Jewish identity-building program Birthright Israel since 2007, according to IRS filings cited by the Center for Public Integrity. He was a major backer of Israel’s Yad Vashem Holocaust Memorial Museum and the Republican Jewish Coalition. And he was a significant funder of the Israel lobby AIPAC until he shifted his giving to more conservative pro-Israel organizations.

He was a major backer of Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu with his support of Israel Hayom, a free daily newspaper seen as supportive of the Israeli leader. Adelson also was an eminent funder of the Israeli-American Council, a group for Israelis in the United States that has also engaged in political advocacy, and the Zionist Organization of America, a staunchly right-wing pro-Israel group.

His aggressive approach resulted in conflict at times: In 2019, a federal judge ordered Adelson to pay millions of dollars in fees to the National Jewish Democratic Council for using what the judge called “legal sadism” to effectively put the group out of business. The Jewish Democratic group in an ad had linked to an Associated Press report outlining an allegation that Adelson had allowed prostitution at one of his casinos. The courts agreed with the group, which argued that allowing litigants to punish people for linking to verified reporting would be a dangerous imposition on free expression, but Adelson doggedly pursued the issue through appeals.

Adelson was certain of his moral convictions—sometimes to a fault. In 2012, his Las Vegas resort hosted what was to have been a polite debate between Jewish Republicans and Democrats. Adelson walked into the room, took over the proceedings and called President Barack Obama a “crybaby” who should “be in diapers,” infuriating the Democrats in the room.

As a major donor to AIPAC— the American Israel Public Affairs

Committee—Adelson breached the unofficial custom of its donors of entrusting policy to the lobby’s seasoned professional staff. If Adelson was giving money, he made clear, he would determine policy to its most minute detail.

In 2007, AIPAC supported an initiative to increase U.S. funding to the Palestinians as a means of accelerating peace talks favored by the Bush administration. That led to an ugly showdown and a split in the relationship just months after Adelson’s name had graced the lobby’s gleaming new headquarters. Adelson likened AIPAC to a friend assisting Israel’s suicide.

“If someone is going to jump off a bridge, it is incumbent upon their friends to dissuade them,” Adelson told the Jewish Telegraphic Agency at the time. He added, “I love and admire the concept of AIPAC.” “After the fight, Adelson turned to funding the Israeli-American Council because he saw the group as a means of filling the vacuum he believed to be left

by AIPAC and robustly defending Israel’s positions.

His working-class Boston roots cropped up in his blunt, some would say offensive, manner. He and his physician wife, Miriam Adelson, liked to tell young people participating in Birthright, the free trip to Israel organization he helped fund, that he expected them to procreate.

Adelson also made controversial statements over the years. In 2013, he suggested that the United States drop a nuclear bomb on the Iranian desert as a negotiating tactic. The next year, at a conference of the Israeli-American Council, he said, “The purpose of the existence of Palestinians is to destroy Israel,” and added, “So Israel won’t be a democratic state, so what?”

Adelson admired the Israeli sensibility, interpolating his remarks with Hebrew phrases his wife taught him. He was a major funder of the Israeli scouts movement, Tzofim, in the United States. The Adelsons assumed control of a Las Vegas Jewish school and reshaped it according to the famed Haifa Reali school, where Miriam Adelson was educated. What is now called the Adelson Educational Campus emphasizes a Jewish identity that is less religious than in most Jewish day

schools and more nationalistic.

Ahead of November’s presidential election, Adelson reportedly fell out of favor with Trump over the size of his gifts. In one of his final big purchases, Adelson reportedly paid $67 million for the mansion in Israel that was the American ambassador’s residence until Trump moved the U.S. Embassy to Jerusalem from Tel Aviv.

During the coronavirus pandemic, Adelson also gained attention for continuing to pay his casino employees long after other Las Vegas casinos cut off paychecks to their workers.

In 2007, Adelson started Israel Hayom to compete with other dailies that were less friendly to the Israeli right. Its popularity—it became Israel’s most-read paper—has been considered instrumental to Netanyahu’s continued success.

Netanyahu expressed “deep sorrow and heartbreak” at news of Adelson’s death, lauding his “tremendous efforts to strengthen Israel’s position in the United States and to strengthen the connection between Israel and the Diaspora.”

Adelson’s millions also transformed smaller Israeli projects. In 2014, he gave $16.4 million to SpaceIL, a nonprofit that attempted to land a small spacecraft on the moon.

Adelson also was a major supporter of drug addiction programs, a specialty of his wife, who specialized in treating addiction. A drug abuse treatment clinic in Las Vegas is named for the couple.

“Sheldon was the love of my life,” Miriam Adelson said in a statement. “He was my partner in romance, philanthropy, political activism and enterprise. He was my soulmate. To me—as to his children, grandchildren, and his legions of friends and admirers, employees and colleagues—he is utterly irreplaceable.”

The Adelson had two children together.

He also adopted his first wife’s three children, one of whom predeceased him.

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