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Five hacks for the best Rosh Hashanah ever Beata Abraham

(JTA via Kveller)—I can’t help but wonder why Hallmark and the retail world at large haven’t co-opted the Jewish New Year. True, while there may “only” be some 5 million to 7 million Jews in the U.S. (depending on who’s counting), Rosh Hashanah is a particularly important holiday on the Jewish calendar. Many Jews spend Rosh Hashanah at synagogue immersed in prayer, self-reflection, repentance, kicking off 10 days of “awe.” But it’s a family holiday, too, usually celebrated at home with a big family dinner. So why aren’t there any light-up shofars or tasteful Happy New Year banners to be found leading up to the big day? Of course, depending on where you live, you may come across a dusty box of matzah on the shelf of your local grocery store in a well-intentioned, if misguided, attempt to acknowledge Rosh Hashanah (along with every other Jewish holiday). But fear not. In lieu of tacky, readymade accoutrements, you can design your own Instagram-worthy Rosh Hashanah celebration. Keeping in mind that the goal is to create joy and lasting memories, I have tried and tested a few ideas to make your Rosh Hashanah celebration personal and memorable. Conduct an apples and honey taste test Not all apples—nor honey—are created equal. So here’s a fun way to see which varieties your family really prefers. Procure as many types of honey as you can (but remember, this is not a reality cooking show, so don’t go crazy). Put out a variety of sliced apples to dip and create your own voting method, too. For a bit of extra flair, add a blindfold. The honey with the most votes will receive the honor of the blessing for a sweet new year. Create a Rosh Hashanah craft museum Remember all those New Year’s crafts your kids brought home over the years from Religious School or day school? It’s time to

unearth those boxes filled with clay honey pots, handcrafted Happy New Year cards, and paper apple mobiles. Bonus if you can excavate the childhood Rosh Hashanah relics from your own youth. And if kids never made them—or you tossed them years ago—you can always make new Rosh Hashanah crafts, like a honey jar or shofar. Cluster these items in a special museum-style display for all to enjoy. Heart strings will be tugged, guaranteed. Throw a birthday party for the world Rosh Hashanah is not just a Jewish holiday—according to the Talmud, it is the birthday of humankind and the world. Considering that the universe is a pretty significant creation, some special treats to commemorate this day hardly seem like too much effort. Whether you celebrate with a spherical cake frosted to look like planet Earth or a candle on a single cupcake, or even just a Happy Birthday banner, let it spark a conversation about what each individual’s part can be in making the world a better place—the ultimate birthday gift. Make a Rosh Hashanah tablescape If you are overwhelmed just thinking about setting an elaborate table for the holiday, just remember that you are going to want to eat at some point, so it might as well be at a striking and impactfully set table. But that doesn’t mean an overwrought one. Small touches can go a long way, like an apple-print tablecloth; a few carefully placed honey or bee-themed items; a decorative tray filled with apples and pomegranates; a shofar as centerpiece. Tip: Use your imagination, not Google. Spark meaningful conversation with reflection cards Rosh Hashanah is a mini workout for the soul, so you should probably break an existential sweat self-reflecting, soul-searching and resolution-making. Like any good workout, it will transform, strengthen, and fortify you for navigating

Rosh Hashanah your daily life in the year to come. Write some open-ended questions on cardstock, and arrange them on your table for your family or friends to select and answer aloud. Some examples: What were your biggest mistakes over the last year? Greatest achievements? What brought you the most joy? Which moments felt deeply meaningful? What have you resolved to do differently next year? What you write is up to you—just make sure that each question can be answered by a responder of any age, and keep in mind that Rosh Hashanah is not just about looking backward, but is an opportunity to look forward, as well. I hope you will use one or all these ideas to set the stage for a sweet and meaningful New Year. And, full disclosure: While they are undoubtedly fun, none of these ideas will absolutely guarantee that you will be written in the Book of Life—but they may get you featured in Martha Stewart Living. Beata Abraham, a lifelong writer and a Jewish educator, is currently the director of education at a Reform temple in Columbus, Ohio. An apples and honey test is one way to make a joyous and lasting Jewish New Year’s celebration. (Smith Collection/Gado/Getty Images)

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For the New Year Inspiration at great heights

Sandra Porter Leon

ocky Mountain Chai has new meaning after attending the Shabbat Service at the top of Eagle Nest Mountain in Colorado. For years my dear friend and Norfolknative Debbie Stein Levy has asked our family to attend this special service, led by her daughter-in-law Michelle Kohn Levy who is also the Cantor at Bnai Vail Synogogue. What a joyful experience! Although most of the Vail congregants rode the 10-minute gondola ride from Lionshead Village, several of us hiked the meandering Berry Picker Trail to a destination that locals call the Wedding Deck—a clearing with panoramic views of snow-capped mountains, swaying Aspen trees, and cumulous clouds close enough to touch. As we approached the precipice, we could hear Michelle’s angelic voice, as well as the music of the Nashville bluegrass band Nefesh Mountain, whose soulful harmonies blended with fiddles and mandolins included folksy ensembles, as wells as the familiar Adon Olam. Clad in cowboy hats and jeans, the band members with the help of Rabbi Joel Newman encouraged audience participation with sing-alongs and even dancing in the grassy aisles, but never allowed the informal setting to interfere with the meaningful service. In the midst of the month of Elul, I remember this breathtaking experience 10,350 feet above, grateful for how the power of prayer, song, community, and our glorious environment nourishes the soul before the coming New Year. If you are near Vail Colorado the first week of July or August, don’t miss this special service.

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An empty nest

Rebecca Tall

his New Year is going to feel a bit different for us. For the first time in 18 years our nest is empty. That’s because we just sent our triplets off to college for freshman year. Many people have asked us what it’s like to become empty nesters overnight. It’s funny because we got the opposite question over 18 years ago when we went from 0 to 3 overnight. The answer is the same—it’s a huge change! Just like then—there are good days and bad, there’s crying and tears, there’s sleepless nights and fear of the unknowns. But, there’s also smiles and laughs, and being thankful for the blessings we’ve been given — and a big change in the amount of laundry and the volume level in our house! While this New Year will be different and the empty nest will take a lot of getting used to, it won’t be boring. We already took a vacation and our weekends are filling fast with Parents Weekends, lacrosse games, and long overdue projects in the house. The empty nest isn’t as quiet as we thought it would be!

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For the New Year Refreshing perspective

Congresswoman Elaine Luria

s a Jewish woman, I am lucky to have two new year celebrations—the Gregorian calendar and the Jewish observance of Rosh Hashanah. These days are the time to reflect on how you can be a better person and be a stronger part of your community. Both a time of reflection and optimism, Rosh Hashannah is a time for me to refresh my perspective and prepare for the year ahead.

U.S Navy self-assessments and Jewish reflections

Herm Shelanski

retired from the United States Navy last year and this Rosh Hashanah, 5780, I end my first full year as a veteran and civilian. It all takes getting used to, you know simple things like, what shirts go with the pants I picked out, since I don’t put on the same “uniform” everyday— and not having morning Colors and Flag raising to start the day. My last assignment in the Navy was as the Naval Inspector General, and one of my main tasks was to assess and inspect our Naval Forces. The first part of that process was to request the unit being inspected to do a self-assessment. Though the Navy doesn’t really realize it, it is a very Jewish concept based upon Rosh Hashanah. As Jews, we look back and reflect, how well did I do last year in living up to the values and principles of Judaism in my daily life? And, when I fell short or failed, was I able to realize it and make amends and grow from my experience? Did I meet the minimum requirements or did I do more, did I aspire toward a higher concept and attempt to reach the lofty goals of righteousness and Tikkun Olam? In the Navy, a unit’s score on the inspection, despite falling short in certain areas was never a failure, if, in their self-assessment they realized those areas that needed work and set in place a realistic plan to do better in the next year. And, so it is for me and my preparation for Rosh Hashanah 5780, a good self-assessment of last year’s living, in preparation for the “Lord of all Inspector’s” 5779 inspection results. And of course, my follow-up plan from that assessment for better performance in 5780, now as a civilian, and all those expectations and responsibilities that come from being a Jewish citizen of the United States of America.

Gratitude, memories, and hope

Beth and Nathan Jaffe

s we begin to celebrate Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, Nathan and I find ourselves reflecting on many things. These two holidays almost always fall ON or around my birthday which is the same day as my father’s birthday. Year after year, I find myself sitting in synagogue with an overwhelming sense of gratitude, as I think about about how fortunate we are to still be celebrating simchas with both of my parents. On our birthdays, Dad and I usually talk about what we wish for in the year to come. This year, both Nathan and I pray that we can live in a world where there is less hatred, prejudice, and fear. The mass shootings in our country have become the new normal, which in and of itself is a scary statement. Antisemitism is on the rise and there is a pervasive feeling of anxiety in our everyday lives that never existed before. As recent first time grandparents, we try to envision a better world for our beautiful granddaughter, Carrie, to grow up in—a world where she doesn’t live in fear when she goes to school…a world where there is less hatred, bigotry, and more acceptance and love. The Jewish holidays are also a meaningful time for Nathan because it brings back heartfelt memories of his parents, Bernie and Lee Jaffe (of blessed memory). They always made the High Holidays a special time to celebrate with family and friends and reminded their children of the value of community. It’s a time to reflect on their legacy and hope for a better tomorrow.

Seeing the good in others

Sarah Lipman

ince we moved to Norfolk from New Jersey four years ago, we have had a lot of incredible people come in and out of our lives. We are hoping that everyone will continue to only see the good in others this year, and come together to reach amazing heights as one community. I hope my daughters and their friends have a good school year, and the construction of the new Mikvah goes well and smooth. Looking forward to a new and joyful year ahead!

Changing and challenging Praying for peace

Elayne Axel

I pray that our leaders choose tolerance over hate.

Rabbi Marc Kraus

hen I was a child, I imagined that adults reached adulthood and stayed there. Now I reflect each year on how much I have grown. The strange truth is that we never stop changing unless we stop challenging ourselves. What new experience will you pursue this year? jewishnewsva.org | September 16, 2019 | Rosh Hashanah | Jewish News | 19

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Sharing laughs and tears

Erin Foleck Portnoy

leven years ago Felix and I moved to this area and married two weeks later at Beth El. Time moves so quickly and change is inevitable. Nieces now in university, a nephew starting to drive and our own daughters in first and fourth grade becoming more independent as each day passes. Transitions can be hard, but having our amazing family close and great friends to share laughs, sometimes tears, and make memories with, are what is important to me.

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Hope and optimism

Rachel and John Feigenbaum

ohn and I anticipate every new year with hope and optimism. In general terms, we hope for good health and a year with more blessings than difficulties. And, as we grow up and older, those hopes take on more specific ideas. Our family recently visited Ben at his new apartment in New York. We are excited for this next stage of life for him. He is officially “independent” and we are so proud and happy for him. Our conversations are more along the lines of “Should I choose an EPO or PPO insurance plan,” or “Can you help me pick out a rug for my bedroom?” It’s new territory for us, but he’s navigating just fine. Just as soon as we left New York, I was headed to Lexington to move Abby into her sorority house for her second year at college. There’s the anxieties of a new year, new professors and hopes that she will flourish in the months and years ahead. Sandwiched between these two as they get themselves set up, is our youngest, Aiden. He is the easy going third child who just started his senior year of high school. So, while those two have been in his shoes, it’s always a different experience. He will choose his own college path and find his fit (and hopefully not too far away from home). Aside from what occupies our personal lives, we sincerely hope for a community and world that can focus on treating each other as they wish to be treated, extend a helping hand where needed, and be grateful for everything that brings a smile to our face and hearts.

Wins, dialogue, and joy

Betty Ann Levin

fervently hope that Virginia Tech can pull it together and be back to our winning ways this football season! My hope for our country is that, with positive dialogue and proactive action, we can bring an end to hateful rhetoric and acts of violence. I hope that our community comes together to find joy, as we celebrate our strengths and plan for our future—a thriving Jewish Tidewater for our children and generations to come. Shanah Tovah!

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bethsholomvillage.com 757-420-2512 Rosh Hashanah Sunday, September 29 Evening Services 6:30 pm Monday, September 30 Morning Services 10 am Tashlich (Terrace Pond) 4 pm Evening Services 6:30 pm Tuesday, October 1 Morning Services 10 am Saturday, October 5 Shabbat Shuvah services 10 am Yom Kippur Tuesday, October 8 Kol Nidrei 6:30 pm Wednesday, October 9 Services & Yizkor 10 am Neila 6:30 pm Break-the-Fast 7:35 pm

B’nai Israel Congregation bnaiisrael.org 757-627-7358 Selichos Saturday, September 21 Remarks 12:45 pm Selichos 12:55 pm Erev Rosh Hashanah Sunday, September 29 Daf Yomi 6 pm Slichos 7 pm Minchah 6:30 pm Candle Lighting 6:33 pm Rosh Hashanah Monday, September 30 Shachris 8 am HaMelech 8:45 am Sermon and Shofar not before 10:30 am Tashlich 4:45 pm Daf Yomi 5:15 pm Minchah 6:15 pm Class with Kollel Maariv 7:15 pm Candle Lighting not before 7:29 pm

Tuesday, October 1 Shachris 8 am HaMelech 8:45 am Sermon and Shofar not before 10:30 am Minchah 6:15 pm Class with Kollel Maariv / Havdala 7:28 pm Erev Yom Kippur—Kol Nidre Tuesday, October 8 Slichos: 6:30 am Shacharis: after Selichos Mincha 2:30 pm Kol Nidre 6:15 pm Candle Lighting before Kol Nidrei Yom Kippur Wednesday, September 19 Shachris 8 am HaMelech 8:45 am Torah reading 11:20 am Sermon 11:50 am Yizkor (Approximately) 12:10 pm Minchah 4:45 pm Neilah 5:45 pm Havdalah 7:16 pm Services at B’nai Israel are open to all Jews in Hampton Roads. Childcare is provided during all major services.

Chabad of Tidewater chabadoftidewater.com 757-616-0770 Rosh Hashanah Monday, September 30 Morning Services 10 am Shofar Sounding 11:45 am (Kiddush Luncheon after services) Mincha & Tashilich 5 pm Community Dinner 8:15 pm Tuesday, October 1 Morning Services 10 am Shofar Sounding 11:45 am

Yom Kippur Tuesday, October 8 Fast Begins at 6:38 pm Kol Nidrei 6:30 pm Wednesday, October 9 Morning Services 10 am Yizkor Memorial 12:30 pm Mincha & Neilah 4:30 pm Evening Service 6:30 pm Fast Ends at 7:15 pm followed by light dinner

Congregation Beth El

bethelnorfolk.com 757-627-4905 Rosh Hashanah Sunday, September 29 Erev Rosh Hashanah Congregational Service 5:45 pm Monday, September 30 Shacharit 8:15 am Babysitting 9:30 am Children’s programming (grades K–7) 10:30 am Tashlich (at The Hague) 5 pm Mincha-Maariv (at Beth El) 7 pm Tuesday, October 1 Shacharit 8:15 am Babysitting 9:30 am Children’s programming (grades K–7) 10:30 am Mincha-Maariv 7 pm Yom Kippur Tuesday, October 8 Kol Nidre 6:15 pm Babysitting 6:15 pm Children’s activities 6:15 pm Youth services 6:15 pm Wednesday, October 9 Shacharit 9 am Babysitting 10 am Children’s programming 10:30 am Yizkor 12:45 pm Study session 4 pm Mincha 5 pm Neilah 6:15 pm Maariv 7:15 pm Blowing of Shofar & Havdalah 7:30 pm Light Processional 7:30 pm

Kempsville Conservative Synagogue Kehillat Bet Hamidrash kbhsynagogue.org 757-495-8510 Saturday, September 21 Selichot (at Congregation Beth El) 8 pm Rosh Hashanah Sunday, September 29 Ma’ariv (KBH) 6:30 pm Monday, September 30 Tashlich Services 9:30 am Meet at KBH to walk to Tashlich 6:45 pm Tuesday, October 1 Services (KBH) 9:30 am Yom Kippur Tuesday, October 8 Candle Lighting at KBH 6:20 pm Kol Nidre (KBH) 6:35 pm Wednesday, October 9 Services (KBH) 9:30 am Yizkor 12 pm Mincha and Neilah 5 pm Shofar 7:15 pm

Ohef Shlolom Temple ohefsholom.org 757-625-4295 Babysitting for Early and Late services Rosh Hashanah Sunday, September 29 Early Worship 6:15 pm Late Service 8:15 pm Monday, September 30 Early Worship 9 am Late Service 11:30 am Tuesday, October 8 Kol Nidre Early Service Worship 6:15 pm Late Service 8:15 pm Wednesday, October 9 Early Service 9 am Late Service 11:30 am Afternoon Study Session 1:30 pm Afternoon Service 2:45 pm Memorial and Concluding Services 4:15 pm Break-the-fast (free and open to all) 6 pm continued on page 22

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Rodef Sholom Temple rodefsholomtemple.org 757-826-5894 Saturday, September 21 Community Selichot 9 pm (Hosted by Temple Beth El, Williamsburg) Rosh Hashanah Sunday, September 29 Evening Service 8 pm Monday, September 30 Morning Service 9 am Mincha-Maariv (followed by lite supper) 6:30 pm Tuesday, October 1 Morning Service 9 am Friday, October 4 Shabbat Shuvah Service 6 pm Saturday, October 5 Shabbat Shuvah Service 9:30 am

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Sunday, October 6 Graveside Prayers (Jewish Cemetery of the Virginia Peninsula, Rosenbaum) 11 am Tashlikh at Huntington Park Beach 4:30 pm Tuesday, October 8 Kol Nidre Service 6:30 pm Yom Kippur Wednesday, October 9 Morning Service 9:30 am Study Session 4:30 pm Mincha/Neilah Service 5:30 pm Shofar Blowing 7:16 pm Maariv 7:18 pm Break-the-Fast 7:22 pm

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Yom Kippur Tuesday, October 8 Evening Services 8 pm Wednesday, October 9 Morning Services 10:30 am Discussion 2 pm Afternoon Services 4 pm

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tidewaterchavurah.org 757-499-3660 Rosh Hashanah Sunday, September 29 Evening Service 7 pm Monday, September 30 Morning Service 10:30 am Pot Luck immediately following morning service at ODEC

Yom Kippur Tuesday, October 8 Kol Nidrei 7 pm Wednesday, October 9 Morning Services 10:30 am Rabbi Discussion Group group 4 pm Yizkor Memorial Service 4 pm N’ilah (concluding) service 6 pm Followed by Break the Fast 7 pm in the Parrish Hall at ODEC

Chabad of Virginia Beach jewishvb.org/hh 757-362-2710 Rosh Hashanah Monday, September 30 Morning Service 9 am Children’s Program 10 am Shofar 10:45 am Delicious Kiddush 12:30 pm Family Tashlich at the beach! Meet at Buff’s Garden (corner of Oceanfront Ave. and Bay Colony) 5:45 pm

Tuesday, October 1 Morning Service 9 am Children’s Program 10 am Shofar 10:45 am Delicious Kiddush 12:30 pm Yom Kippur Tuesday, October 8 Kol Nidrei 6:15 pm Wednesday, October 9 Morning Service 10 am–2 pm Children’s Program 11:30 am–1:30 pm Yizkor Memorial Service 12 pm Mincha-Afternoon Service 5 pm Ne’ila-Conclusion Service 6 pm Delicious Break-Fast 7:15 pm

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Instant Pot Georgian Pomegranate Chicken The easiest chicken for the holidays or any time Sonya Sanford

(JTA via The Nosher)—I was initially an Instant Pot doubter. I love both my Dutch oven and my stock pot, and I love letting the kitchen slowly fill with warmth as things simmer and cook for hours while I putz around the house. Then I got married and an Instant Pot (real talk: Instapot) literally showed up on my doorstep. At the risk of sounding ungrateful, I put it in the closet and forgot about it for at least six months. And then I heard about making rice in the Instant Pot. My first pot of sushi rice instantly made me a convert. My first vegetable stock changed my feelings about how stock can best be made. My first batch of chickpeas led me to making hummus

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on a more regular basis. Rice, stock, and beans are all great in the Instant Pot, but I still carried some skepticism about cooking other things. Chicken? What’s wrong with cooking it in the oven? Turns out, chicken in the pressure cooker is delicious. The chicken ends up deeply infused with any added aromatic or spice, it becomes fall-off-the-bone tender and requires much less attention than cooking it on the stove. As documented by the queen of Jewish cooking, Joan Nathan, and by Georgian food guru Carla Capalbo, the Georgian Jewish community traditionally makes chicken cooked in pomegranate juice for Rosh Hashanah. It’s a perfect recipe for the High Holidays: sweet, tart, flavorful, and eye-catching. This recipe is an adaptation

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from multiple recipes for this dish, but in any variation the chicken is braised in a generously spiced, fruity pomegranate juice-based broth and then topped with fresh red jewel-like pomegranate kernels. The pomegranate juice adds expected sweetness, but there’s also an assertive and awakening tang that comes through, especially with the addition of tamarind and pomegranate molasses. The copious amounts of onion and garlic add deep levels of sweet savoriness to the dish. The coriander, hot pepper (not too hot), and thyme play off each other with their respective aromas, heat, and mintiness. It is Rosh Hashanah, so a hint of honey makes its

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way into the pot to remind you of sweetness without being at the forefront of the show. After 15 minutes at high pressure, the chicken barely clings to its bones and the sauce becomes rich with and fortified by the golden schmaltz left over from browning the chicken. Take out the chicken and let that liquid simmer (still in the Instant Pot), and the mahogany-colored sauce will thicken and become silky and as decadent as a festive meal demands. Once the chicken and sauce are plated, you shower them with the bright green fresh herbs and the glistening ruby red pomegranate seeds. Dark meat works best for this, but you can certainly make it with white meat as well. And like all great holiday dishes, you can make this several days in advance and it only gets better when reheated. It also freezes well, just leave off the fresh garnish until right before serving. And yes, if you really don’t want to cave to culinary social pressure, you can make this recipe the old-fashioned way. Note: This recipe can easily be doubled. You can find tamarind paste and pomegranate molasses at Middle Eastern stores, Whole Foods, or online. Sonya Sanford is a chef, food stylist, and writer based out of Los Angeles.

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Instant Pot Georgian Pomegranate Chicken Ingredients 12 whole chicken legs, or 6 bone-in thighs, plus 6 legs (about 4 pounds) Sunflower or avocado oil, as needed 3 medium red onions, halved and sliced thin 4–5 cloves garlic, finely minced 2 teaspoons ground coriander 1½ teaspoons aleppo pepper, or ½ teaspoon red pepper flakes, or to taste 1 teaspoon sweet paprika 2 tablespoons tomato paste

1 cup pomegranate juice 2 tablespoons pomegranate molasses 2 tablespoons tamarind paste 1 tablespoon honey 3 sprigs fresh thyme 1 bay leaf Arils/seeds of 1 whole pomegranate ½ bunch fresh cilantro or parsley, for garnish Salt and pepper, as needed

Directions 1. Start by generously seasoning your chicken with salt and pepper on both sides. 2. Turn your Instant Pot or pressure cooker to the sauté setting, which should produce high heat for browning. If needed, increase the heat to More or according to the manufacturer’s instructions. Once the pot is hot, add a drizzle of oil. Brown each piece of chicken until golden brown, about 3–4 minutes on each side. Cook the chicken in batches so as not to crowd the pot and cause the chicken to steam instead of brown. On the stovetop, brown the chicken in a large pot or Dutch oven on medium high heat. Once all the chicken is browned, transfer it from the pot and reserve. 3. Next, add the onions to the same pot so that they can cook in the remaining chicken fat. If your chicken did not release very much oil, add another tablespoon or 2 of oil to the pot. Season the onions with salt and sauté for 5–6 minutes or until softened and starting to slightly brown. Add the garlic, coriander and paprika to the pot and sauté for an additional 1–2 minutes, or until fragrant. Add the tomato paste and stir everything until the onion mixture is well coated in the tomato paste. Nestle the reserved browned chicken back into the pot. Press Cancel to turn off the sauté function on the pot. Follow the same steps on a stovetop.

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4. Add the pomegranate juice, pomegranate molasses, tamarind paste, honey, thyme and bay leaf to the pot. Place the lid on the Instant Pot, close the pot and seal it. Press the Poultry or Manual setting and set the time to 15 minutes. Let the steam naturally release for 10-15 minutes; shift the valve to venting if more air needs to be released. On the stovetop, cover the pot and simmer for 30 minutes on medium-low or until the chicken is tender and cooked through. 5. Press Cancel, open the lid and transfer the chicken to a platter and lightly cover with foil to keep the chicken warm. Remove the bay leaf and thyme stems. Turn on the Saute function again. Allow the sauce to simmer and reduce by half, or until it has reached your desired thickness. On the stovetop, turn the heat to mediumhigh and simmer. 6. Once the sauce has reduced and thickened, pour the sauce over the chicken. At this point you can keep dish warm in a low oven, or you can cool it and freeze if making in advance. 7. Just before serving, garnish the chicken with the fresh pomegranate and roughly chopped cilantro or parsley. Serves 6–8.

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Rosh Hashanah

Here are six new children’s books for the Jewish New Year Penny Schwartz

(JTA)—A Rosh Hashanah apple cake bake-off fit for reality television and another installment in the Scarlet and Sam series from the award-winning author Eric A. Kimmel are among the highlights in the crop of new High Holiday books for children. Six engaging and fun reads for kids of all ages seize the spirit of the Jewish holidays and the excitement and anticipation of beginning anew, reflecting on the past, and celebrating the warmth and joy of Jewish traditions with family and friends. Kimmel’s Whale of a Tale provides a modern-day riff on the biblical Book of Jonah read aloud in synagogues on Yom Kippur, preaching forgiveness over revenge. The master storyteller adds his laugh-out-loud wit to this ancient and intriguing story. In Once Upon an Apple Cake, the children’s book debut for author Elana Rubinstein, you get a zany, charming story of the meaning of family and the strength of Jewish tradition. Not to mention a terrific recipe, too. Other offerings bring the Sesame Street characters led by Grover and a brilliantly colorful biblical story of Creation by another award-winning author, Ann Koffsky. Not to mention for Sukkot, an elephant making his way into a sukkah. The Jewish New Year begins on the night of Sept. 29.

Once Upon an Apple Cake: A Rosh Hashanah Story Elana Rubinstein; illustrated by Jennifer Naalchigar Apples & Honey Press; ages 7–10

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n this humor-filled, heartwarming chapter book, readers meet Saralee, an endearing 10-year-old Jewish girl whose cute-looking nose possesses the unusual superpower to sniff out scents and flavors. As Rosh Hashanah approaches, Saralee, whose family owns a restaurant, is excited to bake her zayde’s (grandfather in Yiddish) popular apple cake with a mystery ingredient that even Saralee can’t figure out. Trouble lays ahead when a new family opens a restaurant and threatens to take over the apple cake business. Courtesy of Apples & Honey Press When zayde bumps his head, he temporarily forgets the secret to the cake. Will Saralee rise to the occasion, bake the perfect cakes and win a contest judged by a famous food critic? More than anything, Saralee wishes that her grandfather returns home from the hospital for Rosh Hashanah. The cartoon illustrations by Jennifer Naalchigar add zest to Rubinstein’s efforts. The recipe is included at the end of the book.

Rosh Hashanah Whale of a Tale Eric A. Kimmel; illustrations by Ivica Stevanovic Kar-Ben; ages 6–10

Shanah Tovah, Grover! Joni Kibort Sussman; illustrated by Tom Leigh Kar-Ben; ages 1–4

ravel back in time in the third installment of the Scarlett and Sam Jewish-themed chapter book series for older readers by Kimmel (Hershel and the Hanukkah Goblins). The lighthearted adventure begins when the brother and sister twins offer to take their Grandma Mina’s centuries-old carpet to be cleaned at the local rug shop. Engrossed in conversation with their mysterious ride-hailing service driver, Jonah, they forget to take the prized carpet with its aura of Courtesy of Kar-Ben magic that their proudly Iran-born grandmother brought with her as she fled tyranny in her country. Suddenly they find themselves transported to Jaffa in ancient Israel amid carpet sellers in the shouk (market). They stow away on a ship, where they reunite with Jonah, who they learn is the biblical prophet. The stormy caper shines with references to the biblical tale, as the kids and Jonah go overboard and are swallowed up in the slimy belly of a big fish (is it really a prehistoric shark, they fear?). With fierce determination, the clever kids prod the reluctant Jonah to travel to Nineveh, to be faithful to God and justice, and to speak out to the ruthless Assyrian king. Ivica Stevanovic’s animated illustrations embellish the drama.

oin Grover, Big Bird and other beloved Sesame Street characters as they welcome Rosh Hashanah with honey and apples, a shofar, and a festive meal with songs and blessings. Joni Sussman’s simple verse is perfect for reading aloud to little ones and for preschoolers eager to read on their own, paired with veteran Sesame Street artist Tom Leigh’s delightful, colorful illustrations.

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Creation Colors Ann D. Koffsky Apples & Honey Press; ages 2–5

n this gloriously illustrated picture book of papercut art, Koffsky ( Judah Maccabee Goes to the Doctor) presents young kids with the biblical story of Creation through the prism of color: from separating light from dark to the continued on page 28

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L’Shanah Tovah

Wishing you and your family a year of sweet blessings filled with an abundance of good health, joy and peace. NANCY EVANS

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bubbling blues of the water, to the yellows of the sun, and the stripes and spots of the animals. After God created the first two people, a world full of people of all shades and hues followed. And then, on the seventh day, God rested. This simple, lyrically told story is perfect for Simchat Torah, the joyful festival at the end of the High Holidays that anticipates the start of the new cycle of the weekly Torah reading that unfolds with Genesis. Jackie and Jesse and Joni and Jae Chris Barash; illustrations by Christine Battuz Apples & Honey Press; ages 3–8

n a crisp fall day, four good friends stroll hand in hand toward the river clutching small bags of sliced bread. The diverse group is following their rabbi and neighbors to tashlich, the custom during Rosh Hashanah of tossing crumbs or other Courtesy of Apples & Honey Press small objects into moving water to symbolically cast away mistakes from the past year. Kids will relate as the friends recall misdeeds, like when Jae shared Jackie’s secret. Chris Barash’s lovely rhyming verse comes to life in Christine Battuz’s cartoon-like drawings in warm autumn tones of browns, orange and green. On the closing page, the friends are seen from behind, walking home, again hand in hand—a palpable reminder of the power of asking for and extending forgiveness, a theme central to the High Holidays.

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The Elephant in the Sukkah Sherri Mandell; illustrated by Ivana Kuman Kar-Ben; ages 3–8 othing will get between a young boy named Ori and Henry, a lively elephant who once was a circus star but now is sent to a farm for old elephants where no one sings or has fun. When Henry wanders out one evening, he is enchanted by the joyful music and singing he hears from the Brenner’s family sukkah. After a few nights, he even learns the Hebrew Courtesy of Kar-Ben words. Young Ori hears Henry singing along outside the sukkah and is determined to find a way to bring the animal inside to fulfill the mitzvah of welcoming guests. The boy’s surprising solution shines with kid-friendly inventive thinking. Kids will chuckle at illustrator Ivana Kuman’s double-page spread as Henry, in his red-checkered shirt and small black cap, tries every which way to squeeze into the sukkah. On an author’s page, readers discover that the out-of-the-ordinary idea of elephants in a sukkah crossed the legalistic minds of the Talmud’s rabbis.