Infinitheism Selvam

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1 Learnings from InďŹ niwaves 2013

Selvam Sundaramurthy

DAY 1

WELCOME TO INFINIWAVES

DAY 2

WHAT IS PURPOSE OF LIFE; DESIGN OF LIFE

DAY 3

LIFE IS A SERIES OF INSPIRATIONAL BREAKTHROUGH

Selvam Sundaramurthy with the blessings of

22 Learnings for

Spirit & Soul 44 Learnings for

Love & Life 44 Learnings for

World & Wealth 1 Learning for

My life time

Spirit & Soul

Spirit & Soul Spirit & Soul 1

You and Your Life Spirit & Soul 2

God and his role in your Life

Spirit & Soul

SPIRIT & SOUL 1. You and Your Life 1. Do not take up anything if you cannot create an IMPRESSION. 2. LEVERAGE technology. Let GOOD go from us to all.

3. I am going to be a GLOBAL EVENT 24 yrs from now. (Legendry Proportions) 4. Through WORK alone one can CREATE ABUNDANCE. 5. BE the BEST in what you can be.

6. Do not settle for less than PERFECTION. 7. There are only 2 possibilities; you in CENTRE or you among one in CROWD. 8. There is NO EASY WAY to the TOP. 9. A GOAL is inspiring only when you don't know how you going to execute it. a. When you are stepping into the unknown, the lot of frontier that you'll conquer is unlimited. b. Never be scared of leaving the comfortable zone to enter into unknown.

Challenge yourself.

10. Be able to MAKE DIFFERENCE in at- least 1000 lives.

11. World cannot handle ABUNDANCE in any form.

Spirit & Soul

SPIRIT & SOUL 2. God and his role in your Life 1. We never UNDERSTAND GOD'S PLAY. Understand the game. a. Ignorance is that if you think you can understand GOD. b. If you know how to play it you enjoy it.

2. There is a BIGGER PICTURE. It will unfold. a. We will never have the intellectual maturity to understand the big picture.

Connect the dots.

3. GOD is the co-author of LIFE. a. GOD completes the thoughts you start with. b. By the way we think, we send GOD to work.

4. GOD's system is absolutely FLAWLESS. a. You will be upgraded. b. People are used to watching movies made to expectations. c. We have to execute his will. d. Shift from immaturity of 'How I want to be?' to Maturity 'I want to understand how life is?'. e. Am no more alone. Flowing with the flow.

5. Everybody is on a LEASE period. a. In life anything that has a beginning, has an end. Meanwhile you can enjoy. b. Everything is serving the evolutionary process. c. In this name and form you cannot serve anymore.

6. Be HUMANITY’S PRIDE and GOD’S ENVY. There is only one life. Why monotony??? a. Live life in all its magnitude, a holistic life. b. Don't be a one role wonder, be a holistic wonder. c. Life has to be lived in totality.

7. God doesn't challenge you. a. It is materialistic life that gives you challenges. b. Materialistic game is a wonderful circus to play.

Spirit & Soul

SPIRIT & SOUL 2. God and his role in your Life 8. Material reality serving functional possibility is GOD. a. GOD is omni-present. b. Humans have very little bandwidth. c. When sum of all parts serves a functionality, we call cycle. It is a concept. d. Gurunanak says, GOD is a formless presence.

9. FIRST - FIRST is THOUGHTLESSNESS, is GOD. a. No space, no time on the first - first. (Adulation). b. Second is thought. c. Time is the interval between 2 events(experiences). d. Experiences cannot happen without thoughts. e. Time is the interval between 2 thoughts. f. Experience in only when it triggers a thought. g. Objectified symbols of the divine. (Allah, Jesus, etc) h. Many to one; one to none.

10. Knowing about GOD is different from Knowing GOD. a. Faith makes GOD work. b.

Knowledge

Attitude & Skills

Philosophy

Religion

GOD

Faith

11. Love bridges gap, fear distances. a. Whatever you get through fear are temporary, transformation cannot happen. b. Teach humanity to love, Not fear. c. Why in the name of religion all are made to fear GOD. d. Father plays with the child, not fear. e. Love GOD and feel closer to GOD.

Love & Life

Love & Life Love & Life 1

Love and its Constituents Love & Life 2

Love in the language of Mars & Venus Love & Life 3

Love Others Love & Life 4

Love Yourself

Love & Life

LOVE & LIFE ‘Love & its constituents’ to ‘Elements of Love’ 1. LOVE beautifies everything.

2. HAPPINESS is a decision. a. It is a ability. b. You need no reason to be happy. c. Happiness makes you wonder.

3. FAITH can move mountains. a. There are no suppositions in faith. b. You will be tested. You will be qualified. c. Have faith in your own, unquestionable faith. d. Have faith on faith.

4. LONGING is beautiful, celebrate every day. Don't expect everything to happen now. a. The anticipation gives celebration experience. There is JOY in becoming. b. Something nice is going to happen in future. c. The GAP gives you JOY; between what you want and what you get.

5. INNER PEACE is directly proportional to HONESTY. a. Be Honest, Be Peaceful. b. 90 % of time 90% of people are projecting to the WORLD what they are not.

You are who you are. Accept it. BE PROUD of yourself. This is me and am not ashamed of being this way.

6. TRUST and PEACE are married together. a. You get both or you lose both. b. It is designed likewise.

7. GRATITUDE is the mother of all emotions. Begin gratitude with emotion.

8. FEELING...... It all begins from that.

9. You are right only when you contribute peace into your life. a. Do not trade happiness for cheap menial things. b. You cannot lose peace in isolation. c. Anything you do that preserves your peace is right.

10. Feeling domain and emotional domain has to change for change to happen. a. Without this core domain transformation cannot happen. b. Quality of emotions, become texture of your thoughts.

11. Moving away from feeling is moving away from human. a. Feeling domain in our life has been orphaned. b. We have moved away from experiences. (Experience domain). c. You have traded your experience, feeling, happiness etc... d. Without yourself changing in the feeling domain you cannot change.

Love & Life

LOVE & LIFE 2. Love in the language of Mars & Venus 1. Men are result oriented. Women are process oriented. a. Man's anger is always on the action. b. When woman gets angry she shouts at the person. c. She cannot get angry on an incident. Woman's body cannot lie. d. Shifting emotions, woman does it well. e. Balance emotion and action well. Eg: coffee. f. Man can handle anything but for an unhappy woman. g. Only way he knows is to escape. h. Good looking woman is a happy woman. i. For man not talking about the problem. j. All woman expects only attention. k. Woman needs renewal of attention. l. Woman sees attention is love. For man space is love.

2. Greatest strength a man has in life is a happy woman in life. He cannot handle an unhappy woman.

3. Woman needs protective love & assurance for the same. a. Be it from anyone. She can face the world. b. Never free from seeking that one man in her life from whom she can receive that protective love. c. Woman needs a man with whom she can feel like a kid.

4. Man; Source of love. Woman; Source of happiness. She needs to feel like a baby in your presence.

5. Beauty is a gift of GOD to feminity. a. That freshness must be maintained. b. Woman should be a symbol of freshness.

6. Men and woman in one feels complete. Love and happiness together feels complete. (Arthanareeswara) 7. Emotion is not an on-off mechanism.

8. Most tiring thing in life is to re-explain your love.

9. We no more seek deep genuine long lasting relationship. Quantitative relationship has taken precedence over qualitative relationship.

10. Report to manufacturer.

11. Let man, participate in the process. Let woman give man their space.

Love & Life

LOVE & LIFE 3. Love Others 1. Anybody WHO BLESS SUCCESS to others MAGNETIZE SUCCESS to themselves.

2. Develop the ability to APPRECIATE. 3. Genuineness to appreciate without bringing yourself into it.

4. Experience & learn to say ah ahaaaaa!!!!

5. Everything in life is a variable, only one thing is constant; my life goes on. Epitomize!

6. Rose does not give speech about its fragrance.

7. Help cannot not have motive.

8. You are made up for something very special in life.

9. Learn to express. a. Keep expressing. b. Appreciate.

10. Be the way. Intellectually.

11. If people cannot unconditionally celebrate your success, its waste.

Love & Life

LOVE & LIFE 4. Love Yourself 1. Limited time is beautiful time.

2. In what state you study, you reproduce.

3. Body design is amazing. Take care of it. a. For the right reasons one can be selfish. b. You will be the beneficiary of your health. c. You will be a victim of your neglect.

4. Devils of life - Money, Power, Fame, Position, Opp-sex. a. Very few in this world, with all success they produced still do not have let to contaminate the core of their inner self.

5. The most powerful connection is the connection you know. a. Story: Know the chief minister; the driver's wife as servant. b. Objectified symbol.

6. 5.Sex, 4. Survival, 3.Emotional, 2.Intellectual, 1.Spiritual.

7. Past is the price you have to pay for the future.

8. Experiential convention.

9. Don't be scared of something which is not in your control.

10. Do not create negative emotions in any form.

11. Be Lead a. H- Higher in Intellectual Maturity b. D- Deeper in spirituality c. B- Beyond materialistic pursuits.

World & Wealth

World & Wealth World & Wealth 1

Increase your Value World & Wealth 2

Trust in Your Self World & Wealth 3

Expand Your Thoughts World & Wealth 4

Enjoy Your Game

World & Wealth

WORLD & WEALTH 1. Increase your Value 1. GOOD ARE MORALLY RESPONSIBLE TO PUSH a. When a good doctor does not do enough work, people go for the bad doctor. b. If you sell something, you have the moral responsibility to sell more. c. Be the cause for good hearted people to cry. d. Those accounts are settled in that life itself. e. If you are not aggressive in selling, people will settle for a lesser value.

2. Your net worth is the average net worth of the 10 people with who you have dynamic relationships.

3. Take decision with precision.

4. Be contemplating to make big decisions. a. Don't waste time on petty decision making that don't deserve energy at all. b. Expend energy only on big decisions.

5. To Grow, Institutionalize. a. Plan every detail. b. Frame policies and principles for an organisation for decision making only let exceptions come to you.

6. Create and bring dignity to what you represent.

7. Create perpetuity and continuity to what you represent. a. These are two things that you are responsible when you take up something.

8. The symbol is as powerful as what it represents.

9. People come for what you represent. a. Congregation of people with common conviction. b. Overall well being.

10. Deliver Value. a. Design an architectural building, not a concrete prison.

11. Build a value system. a. Create a architecture for value system.

World & Wealth

WORLD & WEALTH 2. Trust in Yourself 1. Faith is the highest state of intelligence. a. Surrender intelligence to faith.

2. You are much more than your body. a. Life has to be understood in a greater magnificence.

3. Only state of non-doing is going to work on your core. a. Have faith. Be still.

4. Extrovert connects to people. Introvertial senses, connects you to GOD. 5. You are always entrained to your environment to your environment. a. Decide your bouncing board. Develop your bouncing board. They have great influence. b. Discuss only opportunities not problems.

6. If you want to have the spark with you, stay with the fire. Develop Exclusive abilities.

7. Do not be a sleeping giant. a. All of us are engineered with high potentials. b. Go higher on intellectual maturity and wake up higher. c. Move away from animalistic ignorance. d. Awaken to the depth of spiritual rootedness. e. Higher you go on maturity, side effect is ego.

8. Jealousy is looking at others. Directional change gives, look what you have is gratitude. Raise the expectation inward.

9. Positive emotions - energizes. Negative emotion tires you. a. Purpose of negative emotion is to change direction. b. Don't self destroy. c. It takes divinity far away. d. Bring in discipline of cultivating positive emotions.

10. Maturity is given to you to construct your tomorrow, not to analyse past.

11. Make peace with yourself. (Parenting is a cause.) Never wake up a slave. (Imaginary dreamt freedom)When there is fire in the house, wake him up.

World & Wealth

WORLD & WEALTH 3. Expand Your Thoughts 1. Get AWAKENED, not just be INSPIRED. CHEMISTRY has to change.

2. When YOU CHANGE, YOUR LIFE CHANGES. a. Only SMALL CHANGE is all that is required for big changes to happen. b. Most of the big changes in life is only small changes. c. Eg: Rise before Sunrise. I rise before sun and then it rises. Go, come back and have sleep. d. All changes are very difficult only in the beginning. e. Wherever you go you will be blissful.

3. You are an evolving possibility, phenomenon. Its just a decision. Cultivate, outgrow.

What you will have to do? Your Decision.

4. The point is not just in knowing, the point is in living, let the fragrance of happiness fill space around you.

5. With the sheer power of your mind you can magnetize events. a. Develop powerful mind.

6. When your world does not change, your thoughts do not change. If your thoughts do not change, you don't manifest.

7. Words shape thoughts, thoughts shape action, action shapes life. a. How are you when on top of the world. b. Expression changes feeling. Action changes feeling. It is a cycle.

8. Take yourself beyond your limited mental perceptions. a. You are not a pre-fabricated commodity. b. You are not just another pan number. c. Limitless possibilities are waiting to be unfolded.

9. Without a direction your internal journey will not begin.

10. Only experience can transform somebody. a. Start with experience. Fill connect with senses.

11. Sometimes you have to break the rhythm to shift to higher plane of consciousness. a. There is very big difference between a better job and a better paying job. b. Which one gives you expression grounds. c. Is there scope to live life in all dimensions.

World & Wealth

WORLD & WEALTH 4. Enjoy Your Game 1. Legendary possibilities are midlife unfoldment.

2. Life is ZERO defect. a. Certain lesson in life you cannot learn without a failure.

3. If everything can be explained intellectually the word faith dies.

4. Times are never tough. Weakness of mind makes it seem so.

5. Do not see process and make conclusions. a. Story: Bakery shop, Child, Chocolate, Shopkeeper, free. b. Do not come to conclusion in urgency. c. He is still working on you. Presence, not Person. d. He is still working on me, to make me what I am to be. Live upto the script.

6. DO NOT ESCAPE a. Don't escape the challenges of facing the challenge. b. Unless you are challenged, you will not know where and in what you are lacking.

7. Continue GAMING. You can give only what you have.

8. Judgment requires reference, it is not possible to judge without reference point.

9. Everything in this life/ world is moving forward.

10. Living through the challenge, serves the purpose of your evolution. a. Flute cannot enjoy its own music; it performs.

11. Serve your evolution and move on.

My beloved You have delivered more than you have promised...

Always...

1111.LEARNING FOR LIFETIME EVER SINCE MOMENT. a. WHEN IS NEXT? – Keep searching......

I am searching....

112. Life is a beautiful conspiracy.......

With Love

Selvam Sundaramurthy An OPPORTUNIST in thinking. a. I choose my thoughts; progress. b. I believe, As I think, so I become. c. Striving to think better than my last second d. I am thinking thoughts that will serve my purpose. e. I watch my language, vocabulary and thoughts. f. Everything has a purpose, even this, its upto us to find it. g. I call myself a peaceful warrior, because the battles we fight are on the inside.