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Unforgettable A lil’note from the publisher... Welcome to the Unforgettable issue, or what I like to call — The Bummer Issue. As editor, you would think they’d have to take my suggestions for story ideas, right? But mostly, they do not! I’m starting to think that they just gave me the title of editor because of my looks and they do not value my brain one iota. (I’m also an excellent scapecat when there is a misprint — convenient, huh?) Things that I find truly unforgettable, which I feel you all would’ve appreciated more than what they chose, include: peanut butter; the time I got out of the yard and met a really sweet little kitty cat who taught me how to sword fight; the time I got my first tattoo (I was really young and I do have regrets); licking the pancake batter bowl; that fluffy-tailed sweetheart at the dog park with the tushie that smells like she eats a lot of peanut butter; the twisted parade of foster dogs in and out of my house throughout the years (some of them more not-in-a-good way-don’t-get-mestarted unforgettable than others); vet trips (I need you all to know what goes on in that place); and my mom’s farts (I have not forgotten one). See? These ideas are stellar. I recommend writing in to the office or starting a petition or maybe even a GoFundMe to “Let George Decide Important Things Around Here.” Let’s also throw in “More People Food For George” and “Let George Have A Playdate With peanut butter Tushie” to that petition, while we’re at it, right? I appreciate your support. Try to enjoy this issue. Ya sas, (That’s Greek) GEORGE

Hi there, adorable person reading this — look at how cute you are! I usually let George be the voice of our staff, but this issue is a little different. Generally, we focus on making you smile and leaving you feeling at least one notch better. Please be aware that this issue may be more emotional than others. It has certainly been more difficult to put together, and there are tears on many of these pages (excuse the smudging). Some stories were written by aching hearts that will never fully heal, but there are happy stories as well. This is life, right? Events, people, pets ... unforgettable because they make us feel something potent. The love, the sadness, the outrage, the joy — these burrow deep and stick. The lesson beyond the range of emotion in this issue — to notice these feelings and maybe shift because of them. We can be unforgettable ourselves by living from the heart and with authenticity. We recently lost a wonderful woman who lived like this and is truly unforgettable. We do our best to honor Kim Stordahl on page 10. The savvy dog’s guide to great local living

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Leah

Unforgettable GENEROSITY

AS A VETERINARIAN I get to meet so many amazing animals: the white cat with green eyes who always puts a smile on your face; the grand-old golden retriever who’s been with the family through good times and bad; the sphynx kitten with the LARGER THAN LIFE personality; the boxer who could not stop eating underwear! I treasure so many moments with my patients, but I was surprised that the most unforgettable moment so far in my career actually came from a series of human acts.

Leah

I had just gone over the available options for Leah, a beloved pet with a splenic tumor. Major abdominal surgery to remove the mass was the best care option, but expensive. Within hours of the diagnosis, a family-friend and neighbor of Leah’s owner came by the clinic. She was there to pay for the surgery and any aftercare that would be needed. We prepared Leah and performed the surgery. Leah’s mass on her spleen was negative for cancer and she recovered with flying colors! Leah’s owner was so grateful that she made a donation to our Angel Fund that helps other animals in need. Animals can make such a lasting impact in our lives and in the lives of our family and friends. We have all heard stories about the “pay-it-forward” lines at Starbucks, but this was above and beyond. I still get goosebumps when I think about this kindhearted act of generosity. Truly unforgettable! Dr. Melissa Johnson, Oceanview Veterinary Hospital

Sia

Unforgettable

SPIRIT

SOME dogs are just

unforgettable, no matter how long — or short — you’ve known them. Sia is one of those dogs. I came to know Sia through my regular sessions with another dog in her household. Sia was abandoned at the local vet clinic where my client worked because of a large cancerous mass. Sia’s prognosis wasn’t good, and my client already had three large energetic dogs at home, but she was determined that Sia live her remaining time surrounded by love. Sia adored her new family and cheerfully eased her way into everyone’s heart, even the grump of the pack. She was so happy and grateful that she positively glowed. That’s really the only way to describe it. She basked in the love of her new family, and returned that love with her whole being. Sadly, Miss Sia passed away recently from complications with her mass. I only knew her a short time, but I’ll never forget Sia’s joy and gratitude to be part of that loving family. Doryan Cawyer, massage therapist, Jade Paws

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Charlie

Unforgettable

WILL

OF all the unforgettable fosters in my

life, Charlie is the most memorable. He was kept in a tiny crate for his entire life and could barely walk across the street when we first got him. He has been through two painful surgeries, but never lost his amazing smile and never stopped wagging his tail — and now finally has an awesome new forever family!

Amy Olivieri, Unleash Jacksonville publisher

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Hospice

Unforgettable WORK

I’VE enjoyed so many things about this special profession. I’ve worked with lots of different species, and I’ve seen miraculous recoveries. I’ve witnessed the joy of welcoming a new pet, and the immense heartache of losing one.

For many, the loss of a pet is indistinguishable from losing a family member. It is this moment — a gift really — when we can say goodbye to our companions in a dignified way, that has shaped everything I have and will ever do in my veterinary career. The first home visit I ever did — sharing that sacred time with a family as they bid farewell to their beloved friend — I felt privileged to be their doctor. I felt honored to be able to ease their pet’s pain and end their struggle. It was that moment, sitting together, peaceful and comfortable in their home, sharing memories and reminiscing of the “puppy stage,” I vividly remember thinking, “This is what I was meant to do. This is my calling as a veterinarian.” And over the past several years, that’s exactly what I devoted my mobile practice to — end of life care. I am the most content, happy, and proud I could have ever hoped to be as a veterinarian. Dr. Katie Stender, Lap of Love Veterinary Hospice

and herbs through the first three attempts of conventional HOW could you forget a patient with a face treatment. like Peanut’s? And his personality matches Although he his cuteness! I always know right when enters returned to in the office. And all this despite what he has his usually already gone through in his short life. happy self, he Peanut first came to see me in January 2015, failed to clear after his wonderful mom Kathleen had rescued the infection. him. He had healing wounds on his body from I sought out a previous dog attack, signs of his rough start, but he other holistic options for him. Working with Peanut’s seemed to be an otherwise happy guy. However, 48 internal medicine specialist during the fourth round hours later, he crashed. He was lethargic and collaps- of therapy, I added an additional Chinese herbal ing. His initial blood work was alarming. His packed formula to designed specifically to clear blood pathocell volumn (PCV) barely supported life and his gens. We are now three negative tests later — just one blood had lost the ability to clot. He was taken for more negative test and he will be officially clear! emergency care and was shortly thereafter diagnosed I am always astounded by the healing that is lying with Babesia gibsoni, an infection of the blood that can be transmitted through those previous dog bites. just under the surface ready to be revealed with the right encouragement and balance. From the dog that Although this disease is treatable, there is no single jumps on their owner’s bed following treatment — cure. Many dogs still remain infected at a low level something they hadn’t done in months — to the pet allowing the disease to flare up in time of stress or with cancer who lives way past its life expectancy, or reduced immune function. Kathleen wanted more to the pet with allergies that finally has some relief. I than that for sweet Peanut. am honored to be able to help these beautiful beings We supported his immune system and ability to find better health and balance. Dr. Jenna Hauck, Veterinary Acupuncture and Wellness make additional red blood cells with acupuncture

Peanut

Unforgettable HEALING

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WHENEVER we hear the word unforgettable,

many things come to mind … but one that truly stands out is our dog, Milo. As Nat King Cole croons, “Unforgettable, that’s what you are; unforgettable though near or far” — that’s how we feel about our sweet Milo, a Jack Russell-Chihuahua mix, our “first born,” and the sweet baby that gave us such unconditional love for almost 16 years. Milo was a challenge. He was full of energy, curiosity, and love. He gave the best kisses — although, truth be told, his breath was usually pretty bad!

Milo also had a slightly devilish side. An example and favorite memory of ours — we had some friends over for a New Year’s Eve celebration. Mikey, Milo’s favorite of our friends, was not paying much attention to him, so he proceeded to lift his leg and tinkle all over his shoe. OMG! We were so embarrassed, but his “angel” side usually won out. Milo was so friendly and playful. He always wanted to be around people and other dogs. It was through the trials and tribulations with Milo that we found our true passion. We have adopted three other dogs since Milo, and realized that our true purpose is to love and care for dogs. We know that dogs are important members of the family! ] Milo crossed the rainbow bridge almost two years ago, just short of his 16th birthday. We miss him every day, but will always be grateful for everything that our sweet boy brought into our lives. Ann + Dean Darreff, B3 Dog Services

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Kim

Kim is a true inspiration and role model. There are not enough words to describe how truly kind, selfless, and caring she was. Kim and Erik have changed so many lives with what they do, including mine. I will forever be grateful for the time I knew and got to spend with her! Ashley Kay Holochwost

Kim gave me so much guidance when starting my petsitting business. I recently got to see her at an event we both attended. I would have never thought that would the last time I would see her. She was such an amazing woman and will always be missed. Whitney Haywood

Co-founder of The Old Dog House, Kim Stordahl, passed away in October.Kim’s legacy is an extraordinary one filled with love and light.Her contribution to our community was so significant!Kim’s compassion and love for all those around her — human and canine — was grand.Her loss has left a hole in the hearts of so many.She leaves behind her beloved husband, Erik, who will continue the work of The Old Dog House.He has vowed to march on. We will glady march with him.Rest now,Kim. We have the watch from here. We love you, we miss you, and we will honor your legacy as best we can. Susan Towler

Such a generous soul! Erin Bell I got to know Kim when our Jacksonville Dog Cafe organization was nothing more than an idea, a hand-drawn sign, mixed matched table cloths, and a stuffed animal dog. She gave me confidence, encouragement, and advice, and said that if and when we formally organized, she wanted “in.” She was an insturmental part of forming our dog cafe team, and a great person to call friend. We will all miss you terribly, Kim. Carolyn Cantrell Snowden

The most geniune person I’ve ever known. Rascal got his second chance because of her. Heather Joy

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Unbelievable loss of such a gentle soul who shed light in dark places, whose eyes could see the potential in those dogs who society had decided to “throw away”. Even when facing her own severe medical challenges, she never lost faith in her path. Her light will shine on.

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This is a pic typical of Kim’s shining smile. Her shining light has moved on to another place. We certainly miss it here but rest assured, her legacy will live on. You are greatly missed but know you are resting and are surrounded by your own animal planet. Namaste sister. Our collective grief is great. Know that your life mattered beyond words.

There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever you are,

She was a voice and advocate for so many who couldn’t speak for themselves. I will never forget her. Beverly Henderson

Kim, we are trying to accept you have left us for your heavenly home but it is so hard! I will miss you so very much. See you on the other side.

Karen Hettinger

I am the proud owner of a beautiful senior dog Kim & Erik saved. Kim kept in touch and offered advice & referrals. She always wanted to know how Maizey was doing. I am so grateful to them for allowing this amazing old lady into my life.

I met Kim after I took in an older blind dog, I named “Jack” was found wandering in the streets. He was due to be picked up (and surely put down) by animal control the next day. I took him immediately to prevent that scenario, and it was arranged for him to be accepted at The Old Dog House when a space became available. I met Kim when I delivered sweet Jack to her house. We kept in touch and I got progress notes on Jack’s well-being and news when he was adopted. In ensuing years, I saw Kim in the neighborhood and kept The Old Dog House on my list of organizations to support (which I will continue to do). I am very sorry to hear this very sad news of Kim’s passing. Cindy Corey

When I knew Kim she worked for JHS. One of her duties was rescue coordinator. A small buff Cocker with cancer, aged Kim was someone I was 12, was surrendered. None of the rescues proud to call a friend. wanted a dog with two strikes against her, Holly Burns and even though it wasn’t really allowed, Virginia Montalvo-Chemaly Kim let me adopt her! Kandy Kane was I’m so sad that you are gone. the best dog ever, and I had her for another 2 1/2 years. Right around then, Kim Your shining adopted Cindy, an older girl with medical spirit is always with us. problems that was facing euthanization. Pamela Oldham Kim recognized what a wonderful dog she was. Over the years we’d reminisce about Kim was amazing in helping our sweet seniors who exited JHS at the me find my new roomie — my same time. I’ll miss that. But now they sweet fuzzy butt mutt Al. I are all together and all healthy! Thank you was so impressed with her and Kim for looking after all those seniors here the work she and Erik do. She on Earth, and over the Bridge. was warm and friendly and so Margie Yarborough compassionate. The quality of her heart beamed so brightly. Kim helped me with Al after an injury ... she was so helpful and considerate — never giving a clue of her own physical challenges. Kim was and is an incredible person — she may no longer reside in town, but she lives on in the hearts of so many that loved her, human, and four-legged. She made an Betty Jackson impression on me I will never forget, and truly set a standard of giving I can only hope to attain. Kim, She always put others first. She was the nicest thank you, dearest lady for sharing your magnificence. person I’ve ever met. Rest sweet friend. I You are deeply loved and appreciated. miss you and will never forget you.

amazing woman you were.

What an

Miss you, sweet friend.

Laura Williams

you will always be in our hearts. Mahatma Gandhi

Love, Mara Walker and Al

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to The Old Dog House to honor Kim. They will need our support now more than ever. TheOldDogHouse.org

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oey

& mily SISTERS FOREVER. KAREN CAMERLENGO

Two beautiful dogs living with a homeless Jacksonville couple caught the eye of local pet sitters, Matt and Barbara Meshnick, on many occasions back in 2013. Matt and Barbara befriended the couple and the dogs, letting them know if they ever needed help with the dogs, they’d help. In early 2014, Matt received a call from the couple. They were no longer able to keep their dogs and they wondered if they could take the Meshnick’s up on their offer to find them a home. Matt and Barbara didn’t know how much their world — and the lives of many people around them — would change when he uttered “of course.”

Emily and Zoey were as bonded as two dogs could be. Emily was mom — she watched over Zoey, and made sure that she was safe. They moved in such tandem that if one smiled, the other’s tail wagged. “The Girls,” as the Meshnick’s began to call them, had a body language all their own that was unseen by most,

THEY HAD AN

UNDENIABLY

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SWEET BOND

but if you caught a glimpse you knew instantly you had seen something truly special. >>>

Emily and Zoey spent most of their time fostered by Matt and Barbara. Being pet sitters themselves, they had busy times and occassionally needed help, so The Girls stayed with several other foster familes. They took each stay with complete happiness, because they were together. In a quest to find them their forever family, the “Emily and Zoey. Sisters Forever“ Facebook page was created. Thousands loved them and shared in their story. But years passed. Many people worked blood, sweat, and tears to find a home where The Girls could grow old together. There were inquiries, trials, and even a failed adoption. We started to consider splitting them up in order for them to find a home. And then it happened. In July of 2015, a seemily loving family said they wanted both girls. It was our dream come true! They told us Emily and Zoey would be part of their family — they would be together forever. It seemed perfect. We had no way to know this dream would end up as an absolute nightmare. On October 17, 2016, we received a message that Zoey was at the St. Johns County Pet Center. We were thoroughly confused and panicked. Matt began franctically calling. He wanted to find Zoey and bring her back to where she was loved. Then there was the question that choked us and landed heavily in our stomachs like a hundred rocks. Emily! Where was Emily? They would never be apart.

It didn’t take long to get the answer — and it was absolutely devastating. The adopters broke a contract with the Meshnicks that specificially stated they would return The Girls if it didn’t work out for any reason. The family had agreed to never to take them to a shelter. On September 24, they did just that. They changed The Girls’ microchips to their information so they couldn’t be traced to anyone else. They “owner surrendered” our amazing Girls to high-kill St. Johns County. Six days after being surrendered, our Emily was euthanized. She didn’t pass the shelter “temperment test,” likely because she was stressed, or maybe looking out for Zoey. Sweet Emily, who played and snuggled with children and adults alike, and was never a threat to anyone, was killed. Records showed that Zoey was adopted on October 15. Thankfully, the adopter reached out to Matt. Her new family knows her history, and will understand any confusion she may be facing. She is loved, but if it doesn’t work out, they know Zoey has a safety net that loves her, and she will never see the inside of a shelter again. My family fostered these girls off and on, and this is a gut-wrenching time for us. We are hoping that Emily’s death wasn’t in vain. Let’s start by ending the cycle. Dear God please stop buying pets! Adoption should be the only option until we are no longer killing over 4 million companion animals a year. Spay and Neuter. We don’t need your puppies. Microchip your pets and make sure your information is up to date so they can get home to you. Don’t let them get lost and die in a shelter, scared and alone. And, if for some reason you give up your pets, please pay attention where they are going. Rehomed animals are the most likely to get bounced around. Owner surrenders at shelters are the first to die. I will never forget Emily and the love and snuggly ways she cared for all around her. But I can’t

14 | We never truly get over a loss, but we can move forward and evolve from it. Elizabeth Berrien

Having spent more than half of her life living the life of the homeless, you might expect Emily to have been timid, perhaps overly protective or even aggressive. She was none A favorite photo! Emily didn’t of those. Emily was sweet, want me to leave without her, affectionate, intuitive, so she jumped into my trunk! funny, loyal, and much more. She knew if we were upset or sick and would console us with snuggles. She was also the pack leader ... always! Emily was obedient and we always said that she (and Zoey) were much better behaved than our own. More than anything, she was Zoey’s big sister, always looking out for her. When Zoey would return from a day at daycare, Emily would tackle her and pin her down, as if to say, “WHERE. HAVE. YOU. BEEN?” She was precious, and could brighten any mood with a look, a turn of her head, or an unexpected action. We consider ourselves members of her pack. We love you Emily.

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Rest in Peace Emily.

Closed eyes, heart not beating, but a living love. Avis Corea

Matt Meshnick

pretend that her death is not a warning shot for all of us who love our pets. None of my pets would pass a temperament test. My Dempsey would go crazy within minutes. Rainey, Nala, and Sasha are all mouthy. Angel would shut down. These are my family and they would be killed for sure anywhere that utilizes archaic temperament tests being performed by those with no real knowledge. Not one of them would do okay in a shelter. Loved dogs and cats are euthanized at shelters because owners don’t find them in time, or because they are the wrong breed,

or they snarled at the wrong person. If this bothers you, do something. Please say something. Please say something. Demand change — for your pets and for Emily. I’ll admit that I am truly scared for my dogs’ lives, and all I can do is try to protect them. They’re family and they are mine and the thought of any of them spending their last moments like Emily did are too much for my heart to bear. If you are inclined to make a difference, follow and reach out to Emily and Zoe, Sisters Forever on Facebook. I can promise I’m not staying still or quiet, wanna join me? • Do something Unforgettable kind | | 15

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passed since the vet tech left the room with the puppy. The next 10 minutes or so felt like an eternity as I waited for the test results. I knew little about parvo, but I knew a positive result could have very serious consequences, especially for a young puppy. The day prior I was sitting in a coffee shop in the Riverside area of Jacksonville, when a young woman walked in holding a puppy. The expression on her face told me she was looking for help. Without hesitation I reached for the puppy, holding him against my chest as he looked up at me with his big brown eyes. His face and body also told a story, one of neglect and sadness. As I looked into his eyes I could see his little soul was broken. My heart ached.

>> As I sat in the empty

exam room at the emergency clinic, scrambling to look up information about the parvo virus, my stomach churned with anxiety. I impatiently looked at my watch. Only two minutes had

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I ran my hand along his little frame, every rib protruding from his tiny, emaciated body, and I wondered what cruelty he had endured in his few short weeks of life. Earlier that day the young woman was walking her dog when they stumbled across the puppy. He had been put in a box and thrown out like trash. I tried to imagine how scared he must have been as he awaited his fate in the midday heat. I became overwhelmed with grief. As I carefully contemplated what could be done, my grief turned into determination. Before I knew it I had adopted a puppy and we were in the car. Worried that he was stressed and dehydrated from his ordeal, we made our way to buy supplies and get home as quickly as possible. I attempted to get liquids into him every hour or so throughout the night but my attempts would be mostly failures as he wanted none of it. Didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t I say Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d always be your same stars?

By Saturday midday, it was clear we were getting nowhere. The puppy was not well. It was time to seek out help. As I glanced at my watch again, the vet tech reappeared. One look at her face and I immediately had my answer — he had parvo. My heart sank as my mind raced with questions. His treatment would be very costly and could be lengthy depending on how sick he was and how well he responded. I was committed to seeing him through it. He had to survive. He deserved to be healthy and live happily ever after. I was numb as I listened to the vet tech. She had a tattoo that said Peace and she spoke to me gently and calmly, trying to ease the panic written on my face. I was angry. Angry that someone could throw this precious little life away. I went back to where he was being quarantined. For now, I would have to leave him so they could begin the treatment. I felt confident he was in good hands. I lovingly tried to explain to him that it was going to be OK, and that he was safe now. He looked up at me with his sad eyes. I had never seen such sadness. I wondered if he thought he was being abandoned again. I walked out of the clinic with a sadness that reached the deepest depths of my soul. I was hopeful, though, that in a few days time he would turn the corner and we could start looking forward to adventures together. When my summer work was done in Florida, we would return home to Oregon where we would begin a new life together.

come to be called, would spend the next five days in quarantine. I spent hours cradling him in my arms, singing quietly to him, showering him with love that I hoped would help heal him. I pictured us in Oregon — him bounding through a field of tall grass, the warm sun shining on his smiling face, his tongue hanging out of his open mouth as he ran to me, almost knocking me over as I kneeled and greeted him with open arms. I could envision this scene repeating itself again and again, erasing his pain and replacing it with never-ending love and friendship. Though there were glimpses here and there of progress, the overall trend was of decline. His rescue would come too late. His little body was too sick. Despite doing everything possible to give him a fighting chance, Jackson lost his battle on the eve of day six and quietly slipped away in my arms. Though my dream of walking in the woods with Jackson will never be fulfilled, I will never forget him. And while I’ll never know who put Jackson in a box and left him in the trash, I know that his final six days were filled with the love, respect, and the dignity he (and all dogs) deserve. I know he felt my love.

And like I promised him, we will return to Oregon together where we’ll walk in the woods, and I’ll spread his ashes somewhere

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Jackson, as the pup would If you get to missing me, just look up.” ~ Anne Rivers Siddons

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Helping Louisiana CYNTHIA SABEN

I was completely heartbroken over a Facebook post by Evan Myers in Louisiana showing how he and others were rescuing the dogs at Denham Springs Animal Shelter (DSAS). I had no clear plan of what I was going to do, but I knew I was going to do something. On August 17, I borrowed funds and vacation time to secure my trip to help at the shelter. I posted a request for donations to fill my truck and it actually overflowed with donations. FUR Sisters, Pitstop Pit Bull Rescue Transport, coworkers, family, and friends packed my truck and a trailer donated by Heather Deane. Without the trailer I would have only been able to take half of the items. I was Louisiana bound! I got there that evening but was too late to help at the Bass Pro Shop donation station. Praying for guidance, I found a mobile home community with abandoned dogs running loose and a community in heavy need. I parked there for about three hours and volunteered until the last person came — he actually came just to say thank you. The next morning I got a call from DSAS asking me if I could go back to the donation station to help the ladies (Shelly and Kim) from the Louisiana Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals. We stayed until we gave to the last person coming for help. I heard so many stories

of how people lost everything and some had to swim out to safety holding onto their animals — some on their backs. We shared both tears and laughter — Louisiana is so resilient. Monday morning I got a cooler of ice and water and met up with the crew from DSAS again. There was concern for moisture ruining the donations, so we relocated them. DSAS was so generous with their donations and made sure to distribute to Livingston Parish and whereever else food was needed. The DSAS crew was amazing. Working hard for the shelter and then calling it a day so that they could go home to finish gutting and cleaning their own devastated homes. I canvased the neighborhood to give water, Gatorade, and trash bags to people working on their homes. The devastation and stench is unforgettable. Homes were being completely gutted, and all belongings were dragged to the curbside. Automobiles were totaled — some on their sides and some upside down. I met more people with stories of how fast the flood came, the devastating loss, and more stories of having to save themselves and their pets. Tuesday morning I used the monetary donations to get items needed for clean up at the shelter. One of the directors told of how men in boats were at the shelter when she arrived (having to swim to the gate) breaking into pins to put the dogs on the tin roofs and out of the flood. They all then rushed to put cats in crates and drove them to dry land where people were waiting to take them. The water was so high at this point that it was almost impossible to get to the shelter without a boat or being a strong swimmer. Amazingly, they rescued almost every one of the animals and were able to get them all fostered to other resources until the shelter reopens.

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We met up with a rescue from South Florida that was also bringing donations. We took those donations to Livingston Perish Shelter. This is where a lot of the flood intake animals are being held on stray holds so that they are not adopted out or transported to other areas before owners have a chance to find them. Any dogs transported from Louisiana at this time were off of stray holds prior to the storm.* I spoke with the crew there and was advised enrichment toys were needed to help relieve

the stress of the animals. The next morning I went back Livingston with three bags of enrichment toys (utilizing the last of the many monetary and e-gift donations). I then went back to the mobile home community to see a little girl who was there during all of the flooding. As you can imagine, her toys are gone. I stopped by with breakfast for the two families, an Elsa & Tiana doll for Brianna, and a Florida Gator plush that was donated! It was then time to head back home to

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HELPING LOUISIANA Jacksonville. It was an unforgettable experience, but I was excited to kiss my own furbabies! I thank God for the opportunity, and pray that this feeling of thankfulness and appreciation of what I have in my life is never taken for granted again. People sometimes feel helpless ... I’m here to tell you you can make a difference. The gratitude I felt from these people who had lost everything was unforgettable, but you don’t have to travel to Louisiana to help. The Denham Springs Animal Shelter is still in need. You can see how many beds are needed and donate for both cats and dogs: kuranda.com/donate/12248 or you can also donate directly to the shelter: petaidspayneuter.com. Please don’t forget about the people and animals that live in Louisiana just because it’s no longer the top news story. •

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vaccinations, and other basic questions. Keep in mind, this was my first experience in purchasing a puppy.

One thing, I failed to do was to do research on the breeder. I wish I had. Loki was not well. Loki was rapidly losing fur and experiencing reoccurring skin infections. On January 30, 2016, after a few skin scrapings, he was diagnosed with demodex mange at the age of 4 months. He was on Ivermectin for two months, and his skin seemed to be improving. Three months later, Loki was neutered and his skin issues began to worsen again. I began seeing a dog dermatologist. After two weeks, Loki’s skin and coat started to improve once again.

Unforgettable

Loki STEPHANIE MCMAHON

Do you remember

the feeling you had when you got your first dog? The joy, excitement, and warm-fuzzy feeling! I remember the happiness I felt when I picked up Loki, a 3-month-old Boston terrier puppy. After months of research about the breed — health conditions, training, personality traits, and much more — I was thrilled to finally take home my boy of joy! December 16, 2015, I saw a posting about Boston terrier puppies in the local eBay classifieds. I called the number and talked with the “breeder” for a few minutes. A couple days later, I went to check the condition of the puppies. There were two puppies left — a female and male. I became very attached to the chubby little male. I asked the breeder questions about potty training, health screening,

In mid-May, Loki ran to the patio and began puking blood. That was our first trip to the ER. Our second trip came in June when Loki became very lethargic and stiff. I took him outside and he collapsed. I rushed Loki to the ER again. One of the veterinary technicians asked the name of the breeder. I stated the name and location. She knew right away who he was — and his track record. She stated how his puppies always have severe skin issues and he is unable to be seen by vets in Jacksonville. I felt shocked and I regretted not trying harder to report the breeder earlier. I couldn’t believe people are allowed to knowingly breed unhealthy dogs to be made to suffer. I was told my puppy’s blood counts were extremely low, and he needed a blood transfusion. I’m not a vet, but his blood count was 12, and I was informed by the vet that normal for dogs is in the 30s. I was stunned because my sweet Loki was nearly dead. The next day, I transported Loki to the North Florida Vet Specialists to be further evaluated. I was not allowed to bring him home because of his fragile condition. The vet stated that Loki would have to stay in the ICU for a few days to run further tests. I visited Loki everyday. The vets couldn’t pinpoint what exactly caused the severe anemic episode — the only probable cause is an ulcer or other upset in his GI tract. In July 2016, Loki’s skin got worse than ever. He had raw skin all over, loose fur falling out, and dime-sized infected pustules. I would do anything to help Loki, so I decided to try a more holistic approach. He was evaluated through a Chinese medical exam and given several herbs. However, Loki’s skin was resistant to that treatment. There hasn’t been one month of Loki’s short life that he hasn’t been on a myriad of pills, and I was hurt and furious. I began trying to get a hold of Loki’s breeder. Finally, I got a hold of the breeder’s wife. I explained how I purchased a puppy from them in December. I went over the health issues and near death experience. The wife stated how all of their puppy’s have been

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medical bills and heartache because of irresponsible, greedy breeders? This has to stop.

healthy, and her husband would call me back. I did not get a call back. I contaced t the city of Jacksonville for help. After a collection of vet records, the pet investigator told me I am unable to persue legal action, as Loki’s health certificate expired within 30 days of his purchase. I wanted justice for what was done to Loki and me. Dogs are not material objects that can be returned and forgotten. I did not want to return Loki or get my money back. He is part of my family! How many dogs are suffering illnesses due to unscrupulous backyard breeders and pet store owners? How many people will continue to suffer, watching their beloved pet in pain, and have the burden of endless

Please learn from my mistake. Make sure to adopt from local shelters or breed specific rescues. If you decide to purchase from a breeder, make sure you visit the location, meet the parents, and make sure the breeder is a member of either the Continental Kennel Club (CKC) or American Kennel Club (AKC) organizations. Both organizations ensure that breeders are at standards.

Quality breeders won’t sell their puppies on Craigslist, eBay, flea markets, or curbside. Loki’s skin is finally improving., but this experience has been absolutely unforgettable and I wanted to share so that no one supports these types of breeders. Please avoid impulse pet buying, be informed, ask questions, and adopt smart. • Loki’s mom, Stephanie McMahon, would like anyone who may have bought a puppy from the same breeder on Sears Road in the North side to please reach out to her 904-210-4308.

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I was being my curious self as

I wandered in to the sleek salon just down from Delicomb in Jax Beach. JoBellas Beauty Bar is in the former location of yoga studio Ananda Kula, and it is amazing! I’d never been in a salon quite like this, and once I began talking with the owners, Jeanne Foti and Renee Harpster, I was blown away at how different this place really is. They specialize in extensions, but do it all, from eyelash extensions to hair cuts — and they care ... about lots of things — like environmental impact; like animal testing; like helping cancer patients; like giving back; like details. Let’s break this down just a little.

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Environmental impact If we’re being honest, we know that our beauty regime puts dangerous chemicals into the water, and there is all kinds of waste. JoBellas is the only Green Circle Salon (GCS) in Jacksonville, and only one of 10 in the entire state of Florida! Green Circle Salons recycle 85-95% of their waste — excess color, foils, color tubes, electronics, and even hair! (Hair clippings collected from GCS Certified Salons are used as stuffing to make emergency pet beds for the thousands of pets in need.)

Animal Testing Both Foti and Harpster are animal lovers, and have rescue animals themselves. They’ve carefully selected the Kevin Murphy product line to offer their clients, as it gives beautiful results while being cruelty free. Many people don’t realize that most beauty products are tested on dogs, cats, and bunnies, causing them horrific pain. It doesn’t have to be this way if we support the right companies! (Very cool: You can download the Beagle Freedom Project Cruelty Cutter app and scan any bar code to see if a product is tested on animals.) Helping Cancer Patients JoBellas specializes in extensions and the Microline, which is ideally suited to replenish natural volume on top of the head for people who have thin hair or even advanced hair loss. “After 20+ years in the industry, my focus changed when I learned more about how easy it is to change someone’s look and life instantly,” says Harpster. “Extensions are not only for length and fullness, but also to fill in thinning areas caused by alopeica or the effects of cancer.” Giving Back JoBellas is working to raise money for local animal rescues and welfare groups. For a limited time, when you get a haircut, just mention Unleash and they’ll donate five dollars to Friends of Jacksonville Animals! Details So, I made an appointment. Beyond all the marvelous things this salon is doing to set a new standard of consciousness in the beauty industry, they offer upscale services and a luxurious experience. There is a “where the beach meets the big city” kind of feel. They offered me a complimentary cocktail, beer, champagne or some other non-alcoholic options. Since it was before noon, I chose a latte. It came with a tasty little pirouette on the side, (which I pretty much made a big mess on the floor with) — what a nice touch! Renee got to taming the mop, and I enjoyed chatting with her about her kids, our animals, and her other salon in New Jersey. You might think it’s silly, but one of my favorite things about this salon is the wash bowl! Theeeee most comfortable! It doesn’t crank on your neck at all — I could’ve fallen asleep. Little things like this and free alcohol are important to me, don’t judge.

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One other cool thing I have to mention is that they offer rightout-the-ocean services. They are a block from the water and, since the place used to be a yoga studio, there’s a shower. You can surf before work, roll up, take a shower there, and get a hair cut/style.

The Old Dog House Senior Dog Rescue theolddoghouse.org

I love this place and their all around thoughtfulness. If you are looking to strike a greener balance and reduce your environmental impact in the pursuit to look and feel beautiful, check ‘em out — but try not to make a mess out of your pirouette cookie. That’s not very classy. •

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GOOD DEED Fourth grade Neptune Baptist Church Sunday school teacher, Linda Edwards, was approached by Madison, one of her students, about doing a project to help the homeless animals. Linda follows Friends Of Jacksonville Animals (FOJA) on Facebook, and reached out with their idea. FOJAâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s beach committee, headed by Chrissy Perritte, welcomed the opportunity to work with this class. Over several weeks, the students, along with their church family, collected items on our beaches animal control officersâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; wish lists. On October 29, the class visited Neptune Beach animal control to deliver their donations. They met Kelsey Eberle, animal control officer for Jacksonville Beach, Dee Zagari, animal control officer for Neptune Beach, and Kelly Caton, animal control officer for Atlantic Beach. The officers were amazed at the amount of donations secured by the class. These donations will go a long way to feed the animals housed in these shelters, and the blankets will keep them warm this winter. The officers had a chance to talk to the children about adopting the importance of spaying and neutering your pets and the long time commitment to love and care for pets. A big thank you to these young people who worked hard to help the animals!

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from the stress of the shelter, became very protective of her babies. She didn’t want anyone to get near them. Scarlet was then labeled as aggressive and placed in isolation. She was given a deadline on a Wednesday that she had to have a rescue hold placed by the next day, or she and her babies would be euthanized. Poochie’s Pet Rescue reached out and luckily found a foster. With the help of a couple of rescues and numerous animal advocates combining efforts, this family made it to safety! She is now safe and as you can see, she knows it! What an amazing transformation a calm environment and love can bring about! The relief and fear no longer shows in her face, and she’s able to be the loving mom to her pups.

Scarlet caught the eye of The Dodo (For the Love of Animals), and they featured this local mom in a story on thedodo.com! We at Poochie’s Pet Rescue Inc. appreciate your love and support for this family who is so deserving of a second chance at a happy new life! • Please follow Poochie’s Pet Rescue on Facebook for updates on Scarlet. If you’d like to foster or donate, please email or paypal poochiespetrescue@gmail.com

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Are you looking for a best friend for your dog and/or your kids? Then Sierra is the girl for you!!! This happy and playful girl is the perfect companion! Sierra LOVES other dogs and she LOVES kids. If Sierra had a theme song, it would be Sheryl Crow’s All I wanna do is have some fun! This petite girl is only 38 pounds but she is big in the love department. The only thing slowing Sierra down is that she is she’s being treated for heartworms, so her exercise will need to be restricted for two months. But, once her treatment is done, look out! She will be able to run and play with the best of them! Sierra is one of five homeless dogs rescued from the Louisiana floods and she hasn’t let her rough start dampen her spirit. Visit Saint Francis Animal Hospital to meet her today and fall head-over-paws in love!

Suzie

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