NOVEMBER THIRD TWO THOUSAND SEVENTEEN
THE WEDDING PARTY
Madison and Christopher
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THE WEDDING PARTY
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ORDER OF EVENTS
Made it Malibu! WEDDING DAY ORDER OF EVENTS The “I do’s” You may kiss the bride! Petal toss Bubbles and bites! Mix and mingle! Find your seats The first dance Eat, drink, and be married! Love is sweet, time for treats! Shake your booty till 11pm! Happily ever after!
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WEDDING CEREMONY
ORDER OF
Ceremony Prelude: “God Only Knows” The Beach Boys Seating of families Processional: “Thinking Out Loud” Ed Sheeran Bridal Entrance: “Can’t Help Falling in Love” Welcome Message Part 1 “I Do” Vows Readings Message Part 2 Personal Vows Exchange of Rings Prayer for Marriage: Led by Jim Desmarchais Pronouncement Kiss! Presentation of the newlyweds Petal toss exit Recessional: Surprise song tribute
thank you!
We are so thankful to have all of you here with us today! Each one of you has made a positive impact in our lives and you are so special to us. Our wedding day wouldn't be the same without you, and we can't thank you enough for making the trip to Malibu to celebrate our marriage!
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Christopher James Birthday: 6/20/95 Hometown: Gilbert, AZ Education: BS in Business Entrepreneurship, Arizona State University W. P. Carey School of Business, Class of 2016
Madison Elizabeth Birthday: 4/25/95 Hometown: Palos Verdes Estates, CA Education: BA in Communications with a certificate in Special Event Management, Arizona State University’s Hugh Downs School of Human Communication, Class of 2017
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THE INTERVIEW
The interview
What was your first impression of each other?
How did you two meet?
M: Chris and I had followed each other on social
I went with Olivia to her church called Mission, for Easter weekend! We had no idea he would be there, but as we were talking about how Chris also attended this church, he walked right out the door! It was meant to be! He really was God’s gift and from then on we started hanging out, and quickly fell in love! Now we are here today getting married!
media and I accidentally liked a picture from 68 weeks ago.. SO EMBARRASSING! I thought he was so cute, and I had to meet him! I thought he looked very strong and was so handsome. When I met him it was true, haha! I loved the way he looked me in the eyes! It was very intriguing! I also thought he was very humble and thoughtful when we first met.
C: When we first met we sort of already knew
who each other were, so I went in for the hug and she hit me with a handshake… awkward. But when I first sat down and talked with her I realized what a inquizitive and outgoing personality she has.
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M: We met at church through my friend Olivia!
Where was your first kiss together?
C: Our first kiss was outside her freshman dorm building after a pizza date. It lasted about half a second.
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How did you ask her to be your girlfriend?
What do you love most about each other?
C: I had a barista write “Will you be my girlfriend?”
M: His faith, his acts of services, he is very humble
What’s the most interesting or surprising thing you’ve learned about each other since you’ve been together?
C: I love Madison’s kind heart and how much she
on a cup at the Starbucks, at the location where we first hung out.
M: One of the most interesting and by far amazing qualities I’ve learned since being together was learning about how faithful of a man he was. I didn’t know how a man his age could act so godly and it was truly inspiring. And surprising thing would be that we both are half Canadians! Also his hilarious sarcastic personality! When it’s just the two of us he really shows his true funny self.
C: I was pleasantly surprised to learn early on in
and selfless, he allows me to be my complete self around him with no judgements, and that he loves family so much, both mine and his!
loves her family. She is always looking for ways to go above and beyond and do something special for those that she cares about. When I see that love and thoughtfulness I look forward even more to starting our own family together.
What’s next for you two?
M: Our honeymoon to Kauai and Maui! Exploring and living in Dallas, Texas with my family. And just being married!
our relationship that Madison was not only quite athletic as a college cheerleader but was actually really into sports. She can sit and watch any sport (especially baseball) and really follow it. Now that’s a great quality in a woman.
What is one of your favorite memories together?
M: There is so many! If I had to choose one of
them I will say our trip with my family to Canada! Chris got to visit my Grandma, Elva, before she passed away. We also got to ski at Whistler! It was Chris’ first time skiing which was fun to watch... haha but for real he actually was very good and I also learned what an amazing ice hockey skater he was!
C: My favorite memory with Madison would
have to be our trip over the New Year of 2017 when we visited my Grandparents and other family in Toronto together for the first time, which was great. After that we flew down to NYC and spent 3 days in the city staying at her Aunt Katie and Uncle Mark’s place and to cap it all off we got engaged!
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THE WEDDING PARTY
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THE WEDDING PARTY
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but
rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
1 CORINTHIANS 13:4-8
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THE WEDDING PARTY
MEET THE
Wedding party OFFICIANT
PARENTS OF THE BRIDE
Jon Benzinger
Al & Dolly Reid
Jon has played an impactful role in Christopher’s life since he taught his high school Bible class. Since then he has become a trusted friend and pastor to both of us. We are thankful to Jon for being a part of our lives and our wedding day.
The most supportive, loving, and kind parents a daughter and son-in-law could ask for! We appreciate you so much for everything you have done for us and for the wedding of our dreams. We love you both endlessly and look forward to taking on Texas together!
GRANDPARENTS OF THE GROOM
Jan & Vera Petkovsky We can truly say we wouldn’t be here today if they wouldn’t have made the difficult journey from Yugoslavia to Canada many years ago to provide a new life for their family. We are so grateful for their continuing love and wisdom.
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PARENTS OF THE GROOM
Jim & Natasha Desmarchais We could not ask for a better example of a faithful, loving marriage. Thank you for guiding us and loving us through our time at ASU. We look forward to the future; grateful for the times we have had and excited for what lies ahead!
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MAID OF HONOR
BRIDESMAID
Olivia Ricks
Jenna Baran
From ASU cheerleading, going to Justin Bieber concerts, and spending California summers together, Olivia quickly became one of my best friends. She has been such a positive and inspiring role in my life. I am so thankful for the love you have for Chris and I, and thank you for introducing me to the love of my life!
Jenna and I met my first day of third grade at Montemalaga Elementary. She and I have been best friends since I moved to Palos Verdes and we have stayed best friends ever since. I remember the dances we used to make and hilarious videos we would share. You are like a sister to me and I am so happy we have been besties for more than 14 years!
MAID OF HONOR, COUSIN OF THE BRIDE
BRIDESMAID
Jacqueline Reid
Caroline Espinoza
Jackie is not only my cousin, but one of my bestest friends. You are like an older sister to me and I feel so lucky to be in the same family as you! Sometimes I think you may even be my twin! Your enthusiasm, faith, and love are what makes you such an amazing person and Christopher and I are so lucky to have you in one of the best days of our lives! BRIDESMAID, COUSIN OF THE BRIDE
Mary Kate Reid Some of my favorite memories have been with you at Grandma’s home in Crescent Beach, Canada! My summers spent growing up together would have never been the same without you. I cherish every time we get to have together and you are such a light in our family’s life. I couldn’t ask for a better cousin and best friend.
Caroline and I met during our awkward middle school days! We grew even closer in highschool and by the end of our time at PVHS we were tied at the hip! Caroline will be there for me no matter what, and will always be my go to gal for anything and everything! Going to college with you has been one of the best decisions of my life! You are a true friend Carol! BRIDESMAID
Ashley O’Day Ashley and I also have known each other since third grade! Never did I guess that 14 years later I would have met the girls I sat next to my first day of third grade, that will know be standing next to me on my wedding day! Ashley, your heart and kind soul are out of this world and I am so lucky to know you!
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THE WEDDING PARTY
GROOMSMAN
Caston Roberts I spent most of high school looking up to Caston not only for his skills on the golf course, but his character and humility as well. Since then Caston has become a close friend and confidant, and a blessing to me and my family. BEST MAN, BROTHER OF THE GROOM
Steven Desmarchais Nothing makes me prouder than to have my brother Steven by my side, today and in life. He is a person of integrity, and loyalty -- willing to make the sacrifice to do what is right and be a service to others. I know that through thick and thin Steven will always be there for me as I will be for him. GROOMSMAN, BROTHER OF THE BRIDE
GROOMSMAN
Quade Roberts Quade has been one of my best friends since we met before our freshman year of high school. Throughout high school, college, and to this day he has remained loyal, thoughtful, downright hilarious, and a true friend. GROOMSMAN
Bailey Reid
Trae Conkright
Bailey is not only now family, but one of my closest friends. His work ethic and dedication are impressive and he invests himself deeply in what he loves, including his family. I am thankful to have experienced that over the past several years and look forward to many years to come.
Since our high school days shooting at the gym, I have considered Trae my brother and will for the rest of our lives. Trae’s heart for others is inspiring and I have felt that through our own friendship; Trae has always supported me and always encouraged me to be my best.
GROOMSMAN, BROTHER OF THE BRIDE
GROOMSMAN
Simon Reid Simon is a special guy, anyone who knows him knows that. He is a genuinely caring, kind, unselfish and thoughtful person. He is full of life and never fails to bring a smile to everyone’s face. I am so thankful for the way he has welcomed me into his family and home.
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Colin Rigney Colin started out as my weightlifting coach and became a mentor and a friend. I will never forget the many nights spent training in Colin’s garage, talking sports and life. Colin’s impact on my life has strengthened me in many ways and helped shape who I am today.
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Be devoted to one another in
love.
Honor one another above yourselves. ROMANS 12:10
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NEWLYWED TRIVIA
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NEWLYWED TRIVIA
Trivia
HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW THE BRIDE AND GROOM? Answers on back! No peeking!
1. What day did Chris and Madison meet? 2. What is the name of Christopher’s dog? 3. What’s Chris and Madison’s favorite vacation spot? 4. Who are Madison’s favorite artists? 5. Where can you find Madison in her free time? 6. What is Chris’ favorite hobby? 7. Where did Chris propose? 8. What’s Chris and Madison’s favorite baseball team? 9. Where did they go on their first date? 10. What’s Chris and Madison’s favorite NFL team? 11. How many years did Madison compete in Gymnastics? 12. When did Chris say I love you?
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ANSWERS 1. April 19, 2014 2. Rocky 3. New York City 4. Justin Bieber and Miley Cyrus 5. Shopping and eating at restaurants while taking pictures 6. Strength training 7. Snowing in Central Park 8. Dodgers 9. Jimmy John’s 10. Pittsburgh Steelers 11. Twelve 12. August 14, 2014
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SONG OF SOLOMON 3:4 I have found the one whom my soul
loves.
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