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WINDY & KRISTEN
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MEET THE NEWLYWEDS
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HOW WE MET
INTERVIEW WITH THE NEWLYWEDS
THE PROPOSAL
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MEET THE WEDDING PARTY
WHO SAID IT? TRIVIA
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Meet the newlywed
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Windy Shinkman
Birthdate: 09/05/77 Hometown: Miami, Florida Education: Bachelors in progress Occupation: Skip tracer/Bartender Favorite movie: Finding Nemo Favorite musician: Mary J Blige Celebrity crush: Gabrielle Union Dream car: Pink Mercedes Dream vacation: Italy
Kristen Sallee
Birthdate: 12/02/86 Hometown: Cleveland, OH Education: BA in Spanish Studies, Masters in progress Occupation: Telecommunications manager Favorite movie: Coach Carter Favorite musician: Usher and Bruno Mars Celebrity crush: Khloe Kardashian Dream car: Mercedes Benz G-Class Dream vacation: China
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How we met AS TOLD BY WINDY
Kris and I met online through an LGBT dating website called Downelink. I can not remember who messaged who first, but I am sure it was her. I wish we still had the first messages we sent but the website is no longer up. We chatted for approximately a year mainly through texts.
this time I had to make it to her and two hours later I made it! From the moment we met there was never an awkward moment between us and I honestly felt like I had known her my whole life. I knew from that day I had it bad.
We went on our We made a few first date at the attempts to meet Coca Cola Museum up, but I will admit and after that we I stood her up a consistently saw few times. I was each other every recently single week, actually we and I was not really ready to mingle. saw each other every Wednesday Things were different with Kris she and now we are getting married on would never get mad when we did not a Wednesday. I knew that I was falling meet up, there was no pressure. And for her when she would send me that was exactly what I needed. She emails or write me notes and I would consistently texted me good morning feel like my heart was bursting with and good night and that consistency love from each word that was written. finally led me to taking the plunge and meeting up with her! I remember That first meeting was 2,887 days ago when I was driving to see her, there and I can not wait to spend 1000's was so much traffic but I knew that more with her.
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I wish I could turn back the clock; I'd find you sooner and love you longer.
David Wolfe
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Interview with the ne
WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST IMPRESSION OF HER?
boarding school. She’s also a speed reader and will oftentimes read an entire book in one evening. The last thing, I think we learned this together which Windy: Dang I should have met her sooner! I is that she’s an excellent cook. She cooks according remember our energy being crazy and thinking to my palate so she doesn’t eat the majority of the how sexy her arms were. meals that she prepares.... She doesn’t use recipes Kristen: I remember thinking how cute, short and or sample her own food but it always turn out to sassy she was with the most beautiful and piercing be delicious. blue eyes I had ever seen. WHO WAS THE FIRST TO SAY "I LOVE WHAT DID YOU DO ON YOUR FIRST YOU"? DATE? Windy: Me! There was a lot of Grand Marnier Windy: I planned a trip to the Coca Cola Museum, involved. *blushing* But I meant it! I was going to pay but she would not let me. Kristen: I won’t tell you how or when, but it was Kristen: The very first date was supposed to be Windy. ice skating at Centennial Park but Windy stood me up. In an effort to make amends, she planned WHAT DO YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT HER? our official first date which was at the Coca Cola Museum. At the time, I had recently fallen in love Windy: The way she loves me. She loves me no with Coke after studying abroad in Mexico so it matter what and it shows in all that she does. I also was perfect for me and an overall cool experience. love the way she goes out of her way to surprise me and shower me with love on my birthdays. I love the way she does everything big! WHO INITIATED THE FIRST KISS? Kristen: The fact that her heart is pure and Windy: It was mutual and so natural. everything that she does comes from a genuine Kristen: I did. She gave me “the look” and then I place AND she’s my personal chef and professional knew it was the perfect time. bartender. WHAT'S THE MOST INTERESTING THING YOU'VE LEARNED ABOUT HER? Windy: That she is so loyal and giving. If she considers you family or a close friend she will be fiercely protective over you. Also she comes off as quiet but she is one of the funniest people I have ever met. And that she thinks she can sing.
WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE MEMORY TOGETHER?
Windy: This is tough because there have been so many. She always makes me go out of my comfort zone. I think my favorite is when we swam with the dolphins in the Bahamas. It was amazing getting so close to them and even getting a kiss! A Kristen: Throughout her childhood, Windy funny moment in that is, they gave us an option practiced Hare Krishna; She ate Indian food, studied of wearing a life jacket or not and we both chose the Bhagavad-Gita, wore sarees and attended to wear them because we were scared. We were the
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only ones wearing life jackets out of the group lol and at the end we decided to test it... we were fine without them! If we do it again it will be without the life vest! Kristen: When we took our first international trip together and I was introduced to “Cruise Windy!” Normally, Windy will have a sip of wine and cuddle up with a book. It’s safe to say, in an all inclusive environment, there is no limit to the level of her turn up. WHEN DID YOU KNOW SHE WAS THE ONE? Windy: There are so many small and big things that led my heart to know this but it was solidified when we were on a break a few years ago and she still treated me with respect and love. Also her commitment not only to me but to being the best Kristen possible. Kristen: I can’t say that I remember the exact moment but a few years ago we took a “break” from one another and that was confirmation that I wanted to see Windy everyday for the rest of my life and that I need her presence and touch in order to remain sane. WHAT'S NEXT FOR YOU TWO? Windy: Buying a house and having lots of dinners with friends and family. A lot of traveling and a lifetime of being the “little spoon.” Kristen: The honeymoon, entering homeownership and within the next few years Windy will transition into a Stay at Home Wife. Windy and Kris • 11
The Proposal AS TOLD BY KRISTEN
The proposal was well thought out, filled with extensive research and secretive planning. The entire process took 10 months to finalize from creating a customized ring to applying for Visas, receiving passports and so much more. I decided to propose to Windy during her birthday weekend in September of 2016. The night before, I packed her bags and told her that we were going on a surprise birthday trip. We flew from Atlanta to New York but unbeknownst to her, we were only in NY for an overnight layover. The next day we headed back to the airport, stood outside of the international entrance and I gave Windy a folder to open. She did, and it said “We’re going to India!” The look on her face was priceless and she began to scream. This was the first surprise and the grand finale was fast approaching. The entire time I was so nervous; my heart would randomly beat fast and many thoughts ran through my mind. I had a vision of how the proposal would take place and I was anxious because I wanted it to play out perfectly.
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Three days into the trip we travelled to Agra and the moment I’ve planned for nearly a year and the moment she has waited for since childhood was finally here. We walked outside and held hands as we walked towards the eternal love monument; the Taj Mahal. We took pictures/video to capture the moment and I led Windy down a secluded sidewalk. I began to describe how the view was beautiful and how I couldn’t believe that we were there. She knew that this conversation was unlike any other we’ve had in the past. I paused, gazed into her beautiful blue eyes and explained why I’m in love. I got down on one knee and suddenly the romantic, quiet walk was filled with people observing this once in a lifetime experience as I asked Windy to marry me. After she said yes, the crowd screamed, clapped and some even cried. The outcome could not have been any better. Afterwards, I took the deepest breath that I’ve ever taken, kissed my fiance and together we looked in awe at the most beautiful ivorywhite marble and labor of love.
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The wedd Milton James
Grace Pearlstein
Man of Honor • Windy says: "Our relationship has stood the test of time, and I want to thank you for always allowing me to be myself."
Matron of Honor • Windy says: "You are more like a sister to me. We have a bond that cannot be broken! I love you more than words can express."
Clarissa Petersen
Sierra Rich
Maid of Honor • Windy says: "You are an amazing friend, always there with a solution to any problem. I appreciate you and all that you do."
Bridesmaid • Windy says: " Ceee Ceeeeee! I can always count on you for anything. Thank you for being consistently sweet for all these years."
Shantavius Conley
Jamie Nelson
Bridesmaid • Windy says: "You are one of the most genuine people I have ever met. I am so happy to have you in my corner." 14 • #sealedwithakris
Bridesmaid • Windy says: "You are such a loyal friend and I love that you show up for everything. I adore your catering spirit!"
ding party Di Thomas
Alyyah Ferguson
Best Man • Kris says: "My wingman from the time I landed in the Peach State. I can't thank you enough for your loyalty, friendship, and support."
Best Woman • Kris says: "You're my right hand. Thank you for the fun times and showing me what it looks like to not settle for mediocrity."
Justine Pagenhardt
Stephanie Bowd
Groomswoman • Kris says: "I have an immense amount of respect for you as a person and a professional. Thank you for always being so welcoming."
Groomswoman • Kris says: "Thank you for every laugh and each hug. You are the glue to many friendships and it's appreciated more than you know!"
Jaime Beckett
Amanda Carraher
Groomswoman • Kris says: "Thank you for your genuineness and for always being there. I love that you know how to have a good time."
Groomswoman • Kris says: "You're the best dance partner. Thank you for your devotion to being an awesome friend."
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Who said it? GUESS WHICH STATEMENTS WERE MADE BY WINDY OR KRISTEN:
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1. I spend 30 minutes to an hour on social media every morning. 2. I just want you to cook, clean and put out.
3. You move too slow and take forever to get ready. 4. Let’s cuddle. 5. I’m the better dancer. 6. I’m the first to forgive. 7. I can’t live my life without Red Bull. 8. I cry when I’m sick. 9. You need to clean up after yourself. 10. Let’s buy it… Everything will work out! 11. BELIEVELAAAAAAND. 12. Fight for me!
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ANSWERS 1. Kris 2. Kris 3. Windy 4. Kris 5. Windy 6. Windy 7. Windy 8. Kris 9. Windy 10. Kris 11. Kris 12. Windy
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