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VOL. 109, NO. 10 FEBRUARY 13, 2024

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THE UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT EL PASO

The LGBTQ+ journey to living and loving

Graphic by Gael Araiza/The Prospector Educating yourself on dating is an important aspect of the LGBTQ+ community. Photo by Iziah Moreno/The Prospector

BY ADAM REGALADO MULTIMEDIA EDITOR • THE PROSPECTOR

It’s human nature to look for love. Finding romance can be a particularly difficult endeavor, especially during the month when love songs are playing on the radio and every store is filled to the brim with Valentine’s Day decorations, candy, cards and giant stuffed animals that no one looks comfortable carrying. For the LGBTQ+ community, love sometimes seems impossible, especially while worrying about meeting up with the wrong date, being misled or possibly being the victim of a hate crime. According to The National Cybersecurity Alliance, internet dating is now crucial for connecting LGBTQ+ people and other communities, so it’s imperative to find measures to say safe. Jesus Estrada, 28, a drag performer that goes by the name, Mariii P. says that looking for a relationship is difficult in El Paso because the “hookup culture” has taken over the community with sexual engagement being what most people in the community look for. “I think it’s become the new norm just to hook up and go, you know? And in a way it’s kind of, I guess, nasty because there’s a few people that are like ‘oh I’ve been with him too.’ People have been with the same people,” Estrada said. “El Paso is not that big so everybody knows everybody so you got to be really cautious.” Estrada says he has been through bad experiences and doubts, which has led to him finding himself navi-

gating through love via dating apps. “After I got cheated on so many times I was just like you know what? Screw this and then that’s when I got that app,” Estrada said. That’s where I started hooking up with people just to, I don’t know why; to feel something I guess.” Estrada says the hookup culture being present through all sexualities can have an affect on ones mental health and physical health. He says that is why he emphasizes that self-image and self worth are the two life qualities he finds important in someone else before looking for a relationship, especially in a community with a very present hook-up culture. Other identities of the LGBTQ+ community include non-binary and other sexualities, which Jessica Reyes, 22, identifies as. Reyes presents other issues including the understanding of gender and sexuality. “The concept of dating wasn’t even something I was thinking about because I was just like, nobody wants to date me,” Reyes said. “You know, nobody would be even more interested in dating me if they knew that I was a non-binary person.” Reyes says that when telling people they were non-binary, it seemed as if a switch flipped in their mind leaving Reyes feeling fetishied because of their gender and sexuality by men they have dated. “I think maybe it’s just, not something that I’m ashamed of, obviously not, you know, but it’s very much something that I choose to disclose with only a specific group of people, you know, and when, and if it’s somebody that I’m interested in, well, then I’ll tell them,” Reyes said. “If it doesn’t apply, well, then it is what it is, and then you move on, you know?” Reyes also points out that because of the lack of education about the LGBT community, they have seen people turn to the wrong places and people for education attempting to find some connection to their own sexuality and communities. see LGBTQ+ on page 3

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