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VOLUME 3 ISSUE 3 / March 2011

14 4 Town Talk Tidbits 5 The Business of... Community Care 6

Your Community The Spirit of Volunteerism

8 Your Neighbourhood 100 Years of

17 Guest Column 10 Calendar March Community The Slow Decline: Dealing with Aging Parents 14 Kids Continuing the Tradition: 18 From My Mom’s Kitchen A Bowling Superstar is Grandma McDougall’s born

Staff Managing Editor: Carly Foster Creative Director: Kirsty Kernohan Office Manager: Tracey Hutchinson Copy Editor: Jodi Avery MacLean Graphic Designers: Matt Filion, Caitlin Christoff Taillon Staff Photographer: Deborah de Ville Contributors: Shannon Fleming Julie Fitz-Gerald Cheryl Hinzel Randy Loewen Sean Wetselaar Cover: © Steve Byland | Dreamstime. com

Faces of Uxbridge Restaurant MakeMemories: UPS Celebrates over: Family Edition Historic Anniversary

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My Grandma Emma taught me how to colour, small circles to stay in the lines. The Nesquick rabbit brings me back to the tin of chocolate milk powder she always had, to the tall glass I’d sip while she watched All My Children in the afternoon. My Grandpa Bill passed away many years ago, and I’m sad he never got to meet his great grandchildren. They would have loved his animated face, his comically raised eyebrows. I have his painted wooden woodpecker door knocker, and each time I walk by I give it a pull and smile, imagining his voice. Now I cherish the time my children have with their Nana, Grandpa, Gramie and Papa, encouraging regular visits, phone calls, crafts. So this, our seniors issue, has been especially wonderful to work on. I’ve always been drawn to our aged population, loving crafting stories on female war veterans, nursing homes and remarkable life sagas over my years as a journalist. Inside, resident Cheryl Hinzel shares her touching personal story of caring for her aging parents. Freelancer Julie Fitz-Gerald looks at a 100-year-old former local teacher and her granddaughter following in her footsteps, along with a looming crisis with community volunteers. And you must try Great Grandma McDougall’s Dumpling Pudding in our salute to heritage recipes. Enjoy!

TOWN TALK TIDBITS Make a Splash this March Break

It’s back just in time for spring break: the Uxbridge Public Library’s short-story writing contest. Your story must begin with the word “splash” and be no longer than two double-spaced pages. Open to kids in junior kindergarten to Grade 12, winning entries are published in the library and online. Each entrant receives a prize. Send your story and entry form in by March 21. Visit www.uxlib.com or call 905 852 9747 for more info.

Grandparent Photo Contest

Says Uxbridge resident Elinor Hansen: My daughter, Lynda Hansen with her Opa, Pieter Kool. Opa has some Norwegian background so we couldn’t resist taking a picture with his only granddaughter on Christmas Day, 2010. Elinor wins a Tim Hortons gift card. For our April issue, email carly@uxbridgetowntalk.com your favourite rain photo by March 14, 2011 for your chance to win! Visit www.uxbridgetowntalk.com/readerphotos to see all the photos we received.

Join the Club

If you’re a senior looking for things to do close to home, check out the Uxbridge Senior Citizens’ Club. This busy group keeps active with monthly luncheons, line dancing, bridge, Tai Chi, shuffleboard, cribbage, dances, euchre and more. For event schedule, visit the Seniors Centre at 75 Marietta St., or call Club President Linda Shanks at 905 852 6494.

Calling All uxperience Alumni Are you lucky enough to have been part of the magic that is uxperience in the past 20 years? This amateur variety show is celebrating a huge milestone in 2011, and is looking for past alumni to make guest appearances during this year’s production called Come Cruise with Ux! For two decades this group of community volunteers has gathered to put on a hilarious performance filled with local humour, zany talent acts and musical numbers. Past shows include Northern Ux-posure, Help Wanted and Under the Big Top. All proceeds raised are donated back to the community; this year’s recipient is the Blaze Summer Camp at Precious Minds, a charity for north Durham kids with barriers to learning. Since 1991, uxperience has raised more than $90,000. Come Cruise with Ux! runs May 5-7 at the Uxbridge Music Hall. Show director Cheryl Hinzel is reminding alumni that the ship is sailing, and she doesn’t want it to leave without you! Contact her at chinzel@sympatico.ca, visit www.uxperience.ca or drop in to Sugar FX. And be sure to watch the Uxbridge Town Talk Facebook page (www.facebook.com/uxbridgetowntalk. com) for show teasers the next few weeks.

Silverbirch Charity ConcertS

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The Good Brothers

The Dnes Sisters

Uxbridge Music Hall – 7:30 pm $25.00 per ticket/show Tickets available at: Blue Heron Books– Brockstreet Music The Royal Canadian Legion – H&R Block TJMcCreight@aol.com

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Presented with support from: The Royal Canadian Legion: Uxbridge Lions: Uxbridge Rotary: PACE Credit Union

THE BUSINESS OF.... ...Community Care By Carly Foster

Community Care serves anyone over 16, the clientele is mostly seniors. HOW: Programs include Meals on Wheels (a hot meal delivered to the door twice a day, along with a security check) and transportation to medical appointments, shopping and errands. Other initiatives include adult day programs, friendly visiting, regular social luncheons at the Uxbridge Seniors Centre (Town Crier Bill McKee was a recent celebrity cook) and foot care. The vast majority of work is done through volunteers.

WHAT: Provides care and support to

adults and their caregivers with needs surrounding aging and physical/mental health. The goal is to keep residents independent in their own homes. While

BY THE NUMBERS: In 2010, there were 800 clients and 213 volunteers who delivered 4,098 hot meals and donated 11,600 volunteer hours. 3 staff make up the office, working with a $114,000 budget, $24,000 of which comes via donations and fundraising (the Gardens of Uxbridge is a popular event).

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NEAT: Some volunteers have worked with Community Care since before it existed, when its programs were still under the Red Cross. One Uxbridge woman will receive a 30-year award in 2011. BIGGEST CHALLENGE: “The average age of our volunteers is 70, so as we lose them, we’re not getting others coming in,” Houston says. BIGGEST REWARD: “Hearing the difference we make in the lives of our clients, the thank yous every day,” she says. CONTACT: 905 852 7445 www.communitycaredurham.on.ca

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WHO: Lorrie Houston, Administrator, Uxbridge office of Community Care Durham

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YOUR COMMUNITY The Spirit of Volunteerism Giving Seniors Make Big Impact in Uxbridge By Julie Fitz-Gerald

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he spirit of a community is influenced greatly by its volunteers. The rich cultural spirit of Uxbridge is a true testament to the volunteerism that happens here. While many of us delight in our favourite annual festivities— whether it’s revelling in the local creations at Art in the Park or soaking up history during Heritage Days at the Uxbridge-Scott Museum—few often consider how they come to be. The answer is simple: the volunteer. Not surprisingly, a vast majority of volunteers in Uxbridge are retired seniors who freely give their time coordinating events for our enjoyment or helping those in need through organizations such as Community Care and the Uxbridge Cottage Hospital Auxiliary. Without volunteers, vital services such as Meals on Wheels simply would not be possible. Lorrie Houston, Administrator of the Uxbridge office of Community Care Durham, says of the 221 volunteers at the Uxbridge location, the average age is 60 to 70 years old. The same is true for the local hospital auxiliary and the Uxbridge-Scott Historical Society. Retired seniors are leading by example, showing younger generations how giving back freely to the community is a positive experience for everyone involved, including the volunteer. “It’s that intrinsic value. They’re doing something good for oth-

Linda Biss has been a Meals on Wheels volunteer for seven years.

Photo: Carly Foster ers in the community. It gives them a good use of their time and it makes them feel good at the end of the day,” says Houston. Shirley Vance, Treasurer of the Uxbridge Cottage Hospital Auxiliary and Convenor of Chances Are, says although there is always a need, there is also always volunteers to fill that need. “I cannot believe the number of volunteers in a town like this; it’s wonderful. Hardly anybody ever says no.” Vance happens to be one of these people. In addition to her roles mentioned above, she can be found in the Lion’s Club Food Booth during the Uxbridge Fall Fair or baking butter tarts with her fellow IODE volunteers to help buy a new lift for Precious Minds. Vance also serves as treasurer for the Uxbridge

How to become a volunteer: 1. Pick something that interests you

3. Once you find a good match, call or visit the organization’s local office to get more info and start the application process 4. Remember, local organizations are grateful for whatever time you can give Leaskdale or the 100th anniversary of Uxbridge Public School, Johnson is hopeful that new volunteers will be inspired. “There are a lot of anniversaries coming up and perhaps some people interested in those particular sites will get involved this year, when something really special is going on,” she says. After all, it only takes a spark to ignite the spirit of volunteerism. Julie Fitz-Gerald is a freelance writer based in Uxbridge, where she resides with her husband and two young sons.

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Five-Pin Bowlers Association and she helps cook homemade meals for the popular Luncheon Out program run by Community Care. Vance’s inspiring acts of volunteerism are not uncommon in this town. As Carol Johnson, President of the Uxbridge-Scott Historical Society says, “So often you find somebody that volunteers at one place and they also volunteer and help at other places. I think it’s in their blood.” A current problem is fresh blood: the number of new volunteers entering local organizations is minimal. “We don’t have as many volunteers coming in as going out and that’s getting to be a challenge for us. We’re meeting the needs of our clients at the moment, but I can see five years down the road that a big majority of our volunteers, as they move up [in age], will leave. Am I going to have another hundred coming in after them? I don’t think so,” says Houston. It’s crucial that other volunteers step in to fill that void. Whether they be new retirees, parents who want to instil the spirit of volunteerism in their kids, or kids themselves, volunteering is for everyone. With milestone anniversaries approaching in 2011, such as the 100th anniversary of Lucy Maud Montgomery arriving in

2. Go online and research local organizations in your areas of interest (visit www.town.uxbridge.on.ca/volunteering and www.town.uxbridge.on.ca/community_groups or the www.thecommon.org)

YOUR NEIGHBOURHOOD 100 Years of Memories: UPS Celebrates Historic Anniversary By Julie Fitz-Gerald

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enerations of families have sat in these classrooms, soaking up knowledge during class time and playing tag in the back field at recess. Melanie Kennedy, a French immersion teacher and former student, is the third generation of women in her family to have taught at Uxbridge Public School. Kennedy’s grandmother, Florence Oldham, taught at UPS from 1958 to around 1970, and her aunt Marion taught at the school as a supply teacher. It’s one of many alumni stories to be celebrated on May 27, 2011, when Uxbridge Public School celebrates its 100th anniversary. This historic milestone will bring past teachers and alumni together to reminisce about the school that has shaped so many bright young futures. In 1911, the formative yellow building that we know today was built on the site of the first local school, which had been destroyed by fire the previous year. Its handsome wooden staircases stand as pillars at either end of the building, with their thick wooden banisters curving from the first floor up to the second. They are examples of an era long past. The staircases have dulled over the years and the once polished wooden floors where I used to take ballet lessons have been covered over by lack-lustre tile. Nevertheless, as you stroll through the original building you can feel its history around every corner. An element of serendipity surrounds Kennedy’s teaching career at UPS with

Former Uxbridge Public School teacher Florence Oldman, who turns 101 this year, shares a laugh with her granddaughter Melanie Kennedy, now a teacher now at the school.

Photo: Carly Foster

Julie Fitz-Gerald is a freelance writer based in Uxbridge, where she resides with her husband and two young sons.

Not Just for Kids

By Sean Wetselaar and Shannon Fleming

he Uxbridge Public Library is known as a place where entertainment in a variety of forms is available to the public. Be it movies, literature or music, everyone can find something to do at the library. In keeping with this month’s theme, it is safe to say that seniors are no exception. The first way the library caters to some of its longest-visiting patrons is through our large-print collection. While some may believe this collection to consists of material that will appeal only to older readers, that’s not the case. New releases and popular authors, from James Patterson to Maeve Binchy, fill the shelves of our large print section, with new items being added all the time. Large print is kept as current as the rest of our collection, and anyone who needs a greater print size can find something to read. For those whose eyes are having trouble even with larger print sizes, the library also has an extensive selection of audio books, on both tape and CD. As of this summer, the library is now easier for senior citizens to access. The elevator has been repaired and the new circulation desk in the adult department is wheelchair accessible. The library waves late fines for seniors because many can’t make it in on a regular basis to return their material. And because many senior patrons find it hard to visit regularly, the library has a program that loans a small collection of items to the residents of Butternut Manor and Trinity Manor. There is also a service that can deliver materials to Versa Care Centre. Still not convinced? The library is an amazing place for Uxbridge-dwellers of all ages, but it’s also a lot more than that. It’s a centre of reading, literacy, and entertainment, providing a proverbial oasis for its patrons. After all, not only does the library bring to the table something few other places can boast—literacy and community under one roof—it does it all for free. So no matter your age, swing by and check out the library. You won’t be disappointed. Sean Wetselaar and Shannon Flemingare part-time students at the Uxbridge Library. uxbridgetowntalk.com

that of her grandmother’s. Kennedy teaches in room 10, directly across the hall from the room where her grandmother taught all those years ago. She also teaches grade five, the same grade that her grandmother loved to teach. Oldham will turn 101 this year; time has faded her memory, Kennedy says, but “she still talks about the kids and her love for teaching, not specific memories, but about how she liked working with the kids.” While teaching has vastly changed over the years, Kennedy notes that core subjects such as math, language and science remain the same. My grandma’s favourite subject was history and I teach history within social studies,” she says. “It’s also one of my favourites.” Oldham’s love for teaching history can be seen in a treasured letter she received last year from a student whom she taught in 1970. Don Andrews, co-owner of the Tin Mill restaurant, expressed his FAMOUS LOCAL ALUMNI: thanks to Oldham for the way MAYOR GERRI LYNN O’CONNOR she taught her CHRIS BEGG, BASEBALL OLYMPIAN students. Her JEFF KEEPING, CFL TORONTO ARGONAUT skills instilled in JESSICA PHOENIX, CANADIAN EVENTING RIDER him a love for DON ANDREW, CO-OWNER, TIN MILL RESTAURANT history, leading him to buy the old flour mill on Toronto St. N. and turn it into the high-end eatery it is today. Many local residents hold fond memories of Uxbridge Public School close to their hearts, and all are encouraged to come celebrate the school’s 100th anniversary on May 27 from 9:30 a.m. to 7 p.m. The celebration will include fun events such as Period Rooms highlighting decades from the pioneer days to present, a tea room run by the Lucy Maud Montgomery Society and a hallway transformed into Memory Lane, where past student memories will be sorted by decade and posted for all to enjoy. Alumni are encouraged to submit their favourite memories to be featured on Memory Lane as well as any old class photos or photos of the school. Don’t miss out on this historic event and a chance to re-connect with your past. For more information, call the school at 905 852 9101, visit the Facebook page Uxbridge P.S. 100th Anniversary or the school website at www.uxbridgeps.ddsbschools.ca.

MARCH COMMUNITY CALENDAR Tuesday, March 1

Uxbridge Fall Fair Planning Meeting Please join us in the lower meeting room to help plan the 147th Uxbridge Fall Fair. New members/volunteers are always welcome. Time: 7:30 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Library, 9 Toronto St. S Contact: 905 852 7745 www.uxbridgefair.gotwisted.com

Wednesday, March 2

This Month in Bloom This floral design club meets the first Thursday of the month to work with fresh flowers, share deign ideas and inspire one another. $40. Time: 6 p.m. Where: 43 Brock St. W Contact: 905 862 3697 www.lapetitefleur.ca

Thursday, March 3

Parkinson’s Support Group Caregivers, friends and family gather to share information and experiences. We can help each other! $10/ year; guests are free. Time: 1 - 3 p.m. Where: Bridgewater Building, 22 James Hill Crt Contact: 905 852 8894 www.uxparkinsons.com

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12 Months to Health Speaker Series Detoxify and heal. Kathy Brunskole of Renew Balance Natural Healing explores ion cleansing to detoxify the body and reflexology to help heal the body. Free ion cleanse for one lucky participant. Call to RSVP. Time: 7:30 - 8:45 p.m. Where: Pathways to Peace Yoga and Healing, 58 Brock St. W., Suite 204 Contact: 416 571 0447

ABA Therapy Workshop This first workshop will offer parents the chance to learn more about what ABA therapy is. Basic principles of ABA therapy will be explained as well as what parents can expect when their child first begins therapy. Time: 7 - 9 p.m. Where: Precious Minds, 21980 Hwy. 12 Sunderland Contact: rsvp@sunshinelearningcentre.com 905 550 3308

Friday, March 4

Gorgon Charity Poker Tournament Poker game with cash prizes. $50 advanced entry or $75 at the door. Entry fee with top-ups and buy-backs. All proceeds go to local charities. Cash bar and snacks. Limited to 120 players. Time: 7 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Seniors Centre, 75 Marietta St Contact: 416 807 3333

Saturday, March 5

Bowling Presented by the Uxbridge Bowling Association. Free! We’ll show you how to bowl with no gutter balls. Hosted by Take TIME Uxbridge. Time: 2 - 4 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Bowl, 69 Brock St. W. Contact: 416-813-7654 ext. 1431 www.taketimeuxbridge.ca

Sunday, March 6

Circus Fun for Everyone Join us for magic and fun. Juggling, comedy, acrobatics and more! Admission $15 and $54 for a family pass. This is a fundraiser for the Durham Farm and Rural Family Resource Centre. Time: 2 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Arena, 291 Brock St. W Contact: 905 852 2404 www.durhamfamilyresources.org

Monday, March 7

Marketing Your Business What materials are required to book an ad? Who do you talk to at a publication to get advertising or editorial coverage? How do you write a press release or get your product featured? Pulling from our years of experience in journalism, communications and marketing, we’ll share tips and tricks to navigate the marketing world. Join us for this FREE seminar! Space is limited, so please pre-register. Time: 1 - 2:30 p.m. Where: Sweet World Media, 24 Toronto St. N., Unit 1 Contact: 905 862 3747 www.sweetworldmedia.com

Sandford Stables March Break Program New for 2011: Separate beginner and intermediate programs

Spaces are limited so be sure to register early!

Spring lesson packages are also available 905 852 7553 www.sandfordstables.net

Uxbridge Reads Debate Join us for a friendly debate to determine the book that all of Uxbridge will read in 2011. Four book clubs. Four books. A celebrity panel to decide. This year’s contenders are Unlikely Soldiers by Jonathan F. Vance, The Cellist of Sarajevo by Steven Galloway, Best Laid Plans by Terry Fallis and The Lizard Cage by Karen Connelly. Time: 7 - 10 p.m. Where: Township of Uxbridge Council Chambers, 51 Toronto St. S. Contact: 905 852 4282 Celebrate Women This event is for women from the community to celebrate the 100th anniversary of Women’s Day. Please preregister. Time: 8:30 p.m. Where: Goodwood Community Centre, Hwy 47 and Durham 21 Contact: 905 640 3966 bnortheast@powergate.ca

Tuesday, March 8

Pancake Supper Come join us for a pancake supper. Children 5 and under are free, children 6 to 12 are $3 and adults are $6. Time: 5 p.m. Where: Sandford Community Centre, 433 Sandford Rd. Contact: 905 852 0758 Twin-Set Trunk Show Join us for an evening of fun, frolic and fashion, as we welcome the arrival of Twin-Set to the Strawberry Threads portfolio. Our representative is on site to launch this feminine, romantic collection, which sparkles with an almost eccentric twist. Italian-themed refreshments will be served. Time: 6 - 9 p.m. Where: Strawberry Threads, 86 Brock St. W. Contact: 905 852 3683 inquiries@strawberrythreads.ca Pancake Supper This supper feature pancakes, sausages and real maple syrup. All are welcome. Buy your tickets at door or call to reserve. Adults are $7, child aged 5 to 16 are $4 and preschoolers are free. There is also a family rate of $16. Time: 6:15 p.m.

Where: Sandford Stables, 521 Sandford Rd. Contact: riding@sandfordstables.net 647 230 8987

Le Vent Du Nord Blow the winter blues away with Canadian Folk Music Ensemble of 2010. Tickets at Presents and Blue Heron Books or at the door for $25. Fundraiser for the Uxbridge Music Scholarship Fund. Time: 8:30 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Music Hall, 16 Main St.. S. Contact: 905-852-7128 www.uxbridgemusicscholarship.com

March Break Camps Themes from the Township of Uxbridge camps include winter adventure, junior lifeguard, splash, tour and sports camps. Kids between the ages of 5 and 12 will find something to choose. Register at Uxpool. Costs vary per camp. Time: All day through March Break Where: Various locations Contact: 905 852 7831 camps@town.uxbridge.on.ca

Friday, March 11

Take Home Trifle The junior chefs will learn how to use different sweets and collaborate them into a delicious take-home dessert! Call to register for two separate classes: ages 3 to 7 and 8 to 12. Time: 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. Where: Zehrs Uxbridge Cooking School, 321 Toronto St. S. Contact: 905 852 5009

Saturday, March 12

Homemade Apple Pie Learn how to make your own scrumptious, fresh apple pie completely from scratch! Bring your own pie plate and take a pie home with you. $12. Time: 2 p.m. Where: La Petite Fleur, 43 Brock St. W. St. Contact: 905 862 3697 www.lapetitefleur.ca

Monday, March 14

March Break at the Sugar Bush We are open for March Break with many activities including: self-guided sugar bush hikes, syrup-making demonstrations, maple taffy on the snow, pancakes and a BBQ. There are also daily kids events. Time: All day through March Break week Where: Siloam Orchards, 7300 3rd Concession Contact: 905 852 9418 www.siloamorchards.com March Break in the Saddle New for 2011: separate beginner and intermediate classes are available. Visit for riding and more all week long. Pre-register, as spaces are limited and book fast. Time: All day through March Break week

Drop-in Day Time to read during the holidays! Visit today or any other day during March Break to select books, magazines or movies for a family night. Time: 9:30 a.m. - 5 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Library, 9 Toronto St. S. Contact: 905 852 9747 www.uxlib.com March Break Public Skate Enjoy skating to celebrate March Break each day this week. Time: 12 - 1 p.m. and 3:15 - 4:15 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Arena, 291 Brock St.. W. Contact: 905 852 7831 camps@town.uxbridge.on.ca March Break Public Swimming Enjoy swimming to celebrate March Break each day this week. Time: 1 - 3 p.m. and 7 - 8:30 p.m. Where: Uxpool, 1 Parkside Dr. Contact: 905 852 7831 camps@town.uxbridge.on.ca

Tuesday, March 15

The Brook Never Sleeps A free “hands wet” eco-workshop for ages 10 and up. Explore and experience stream ecology, enjoy a free pizza lunch and watch a video premier chronicling the Uxbridge Brook. Contact Vanessa to pre-register. Time: 11 a.m. Where: Uxbridge Youth Centre, 34 Brock St. W. Contact: 905 852 3456 director@uxbridgeyouthcentre.com Ham Dinner Meal and meeting from the Uxbridge Senior Citizens’ Club. Please bring your

own dishes. Tickets $10. New members always welcome; membership $5/year. Time: Noon Where: Seniors Centre, 75 Marietta St. Contact: 905 852 6494 The Bully and the Purple Pants This engaging concert provides students with strategies for dealing with bullying and friendship, through music and storytelling. Tickets are $4 and must be purchased in advance. Grades JK to 8. Time: 2 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Library, 9 Toronto St. S. Contact: 905 852 9747 www.uxlib.com

Wednesday March 16

Babysitter’s Training Course designed to teach about the care of babies and young children. Receive basic first aid and CPR training and a babysitter’s handbook. Time: 9:30 a.m. - 5 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Library, 9 Toronto St. S. Contact: 905 852 9747 www.uxlib.com St Patrick’s Day Arrangement Celebrate St Patty’s Day whether you’re Irish or not! Create your own white and green fresh flower arrangement to take home. $40. Time: 6 p.m. Where: La Petite Fleur, 43 Brock St. W. Contact: 905 862 3697 www.lapetitefleur.ca

Thursday, March 17

Uxbridge Genealogy Group March Meeting The meeting features guest speaker Ken Nicholls on the topic of photographing the one room schools. Everyone is welcome. $2 donation. Time: 7 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Library, 9 Toronto St.. S. Contact: 905 852 6973 www.uxgen.net Jack About the Beanstock Introduce kids to professional theatre as they are presented with a sequel to a very old familiar story, wherein Jack and Jill teach their daughter about right and wrong. For Grades JK to 2. $4. Time: 2 - 3:00 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Library, 9 Toronto St. S. Contact: 905 852 9747 www.uxlib.com

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Saturday, March 19

Oak Ridges Trail Association Hike This is a moderately paced hike. Meet on the west side of Conc. 6, 1.5 km south of Durham 21. Time: 7 a.m. Where: Al Shaw Side Trail Contact: 905 477 2161 www.oakridgestrail.org

Sunday, March 20

Oak Ridges Trail Association Hike This is a moderately paced, 7-km hike. Meet at the northwest corner of Conc. 7 and Albright Rd. Time: 2 p.m. Where: Walker Woods Contact: 905 841 9757 www.oakridgestrail.org

Tuesday, March 22

BIA Annual General Meeting Attention all Uxbridge businesses: please attend this very important AGM for the Uxbridge Business Improvement Area. Have your say on how to spend the almost $100,000 budget, vote in the new executive and help plan events for 2011. Want on the board? Bring your nomination letter to the meeting or send in advance. Your voice is needed! Time: 7 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Township Council Chambers, 51 Toronto St. S. Contact: 905 852 9181 businessfacilitator@uxbridgebia.ca

Wednesday March 23

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Oak Ridges Trail Association This is a 14-km, hilly loop hike. Meet on the east side of Conc 6, 0.6 km north of Uxbridge Town Line. Time: 9:30 a.m. Where: Glen Major Contact: 905 473 2669 www.oakridgestrail.org

Friday, March 25

Silverbirch Charity Concerts The 7th annual concert features Betty and The Bobs and Cris Cuddy Acoustic Unit raising funds for Artscan Circle. Purchase tickets online or at Blue Heron Books, Brockstreet Music, Uxbridge Legion or HandR Block. Time: 7:30 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Music Hall, 16 Main St. S. Contact: 705 228 8426 www.silverbirchcharityconcert.ca

Saturday March 26

Annual Pancake Breakfast Presented by the Uxbridge Lions Club. Adults are $6 and children are $4, which includes pancakes, meat and a drink. Time: 7:30 a.m. - noon Where: Uxbridge Arena Community Hall, 291 Brock St. W Contact: 905 852 4227 www.uxbridge.com/lionS Bucketball Hosted by Precious Minds Basketball without the rules and buckets instead of hoops. Kids and adults will enjoy this ball game. Pass to your teammates and shoot the ball into a bucket to score. Presented by Take TIME Uxbridge. Time: 2 - 3 p.m. Where: Joseph Gould gym and playground, 144 Planks Lane Contact: 416-813-7654 ext. 1431 www.taketimeuxbridge.ca Silverbirch Charity Concerts The 7th annual concert features The Good Brothers raising funds for Artscan Circle. Purchase tickets online or at Blue Heron Books, Brockstreet Music, Uxbridge Legion or HandR Block. Time: 7:30 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Music Hall, 16 Main St. S. Contact: 705 228 8426 www.silverbirchcharityconcert.ca Brooke Miller Presented by the Greenbank Folk Music Society. Tickets are $25 each and available at Blue Heron Books. Time: 8 p.m. Where: Greenbank Centennial Hall, Hwy 12, north of Hwy 47 Contact: 905 985 8351

Tuesday, March 29

Chamber of Commerce Breakfast The Uxbridge Chamber of Commerce invites you to join us at our monthly breakfast meeting. Members $10. Guests $15. Time: 7:15 - 9 a.m. Where: Wooden Sticks, 40 Elgin Park Dr. Contact: 905 852 7683 www.uxcc.ca

Wednesday, March 30

Social Media 101: Facebook and Twitter for Business Back by popular demand! During this hands-on seminar, Sweet World Media will help you open a Facebook fan page and Twitter account. Using real-life examples, we’ll show you how to build followers and interact with people to generate business. $55/person. Pre-registration required. Time: 12:30 - 2:30 p.m. and 7 - 9 p.m. Where: 24 Toronto St. N., Unit 1 Contact: 905 862 3747 www.sweetworldmedia.com Parents and Friends of Lesbian and Gays Meeting The Uxbridge Youth Centre and Durham PFLAG host its second Uxbridge sharing circle. All LGBTQ youth, parents, friends, families and allies are invited. Time: 7 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Youth Centre, 34 Brock St W. Contact: 905 862 3456 jamie@uxbridgeyouthcentre.com

Regular Events

Indoor Walking Trail From the Township trails committee comes a weekly indoor walking trail on Mondays and Wednesdays. Bring comfortable shoes. There is a cloak room available. All are welcome. Children under 18 must be accompanied by an adult. No running, walking poles or strollers. There is a $10 one-time fee (no charge if under 18). Until March 30, 2011. Time: 6 - 8 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Secondary School, 127 Planks Lane Contact: 905 852 9181 uxbridge.trails@hotmail.com Artists of Uxbridge The group meets weekly to draw and paint, share demonstrations, and to participate in various workshops. The meetings take place Monday evenings and Wednesday mornings.

Time: 7 - 9 p.m. and 9 - noon Where: Zehrs Community Room, 323 Toronto St. S. Contact: 905 852 6357 www.artistsofuxbridge.ca Mat Bowling Join the group every Thursday through the winter months. Bowls provided. Time: 1:30 p.m. Where: Senior’s Centre, 75 Marietta St. Contact: 905 852 9477 Bingo Great jackpots are available to be won every Thursday. Time: 7:30 p.m. Where: Uxbridge Legion, 109 Franklin St. Contact: 905 852 5293 www.uxbridgelegion.ca Euchre All welcome, including non-Legion members. Fun and prizes to be won. Time: 7:30 p.m Where: Uxbridge Legion, 109 Franklin St. Contact: 905 852 5293 uxbridgelegion.ca Udora Play Group For moms and their kids ages 0 to 6 years. Come out and have some fun with your little one. Repeats each Tuesday and Thursday. Time: 10 a.m. - Noon Where: Udora Community Centre, 24 Victoria Contact: 705 228 8716 Insanity Combat Classes Insanity combat classes are a very intense one-hour workout that cater to all fitness levels. Lose weight and

inches in this four-week program. There is nothing like it in Uxbridge. Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Time: 6 - 7 a.m. Where: Trinity United Church, 20 First Ave. Contact: 905 852 4774 www.committofitness.net Kickboxing Kickbox your way to a better body, strength and endurance. You are guaranteed to lose weight and inches in this energetic, motivating workout! Time: 7 - 8 a.m. Where: Trinity United Church, 20 First. Ave. Contact: 906 852 4774 www.committofitness.net

Contact: 905 852 4750 nrg4lifefitness.com/ events.html Zumba Basics Ditch the workout and join the party! A 45-minute, Latin-inspired class where you will learn the basics of Zumba at a slower pace. All ages and levels welcome. Every Friday. Time: 9:30 a.m. Where: NRG 4 Life Fitness, 85 Second Ave. Contact: 905 852 4750 www.nrg4lifefitness.com

Big Loss Bootcamp This is a circuit format geared to those looking to release 30 to 100 lbs. This class utilizes our cardio machines, along with easy-to-follow strength training intervals. It is geared to serious fat burning and fun! Every Tuesday. Time: 6:45 - 7:45 p.m. Where: NRG 4 Life Fitness, 85 Second Ave. Contact: 905 852 4750 www.nrg4lifefitness. com Four-Week Lunchinar Series Working it Out: Our Relationship with Food and Exercise. In this empowering, thought-provoking series, we uncover the missing pieces to losing weight and keeping it off for good. Every Wednesday. Time: 12:05 - 12:55 p.m. Where: NRG 4 Life Fitness, 85 Second Ave.

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Join us for an evening of fun, frolic and fashion as we welcome the arrival of Twin-Set to the Strawberry Threads portfolio! Our TwinSet representative, Debbie (she is a dynamo and you will love her energy!) will be on-site with us to launch this feminine, romantic collection, which sparkles with an almost eccentric twist! In addition to the Strawberry Threads’ in-store spring product, Debbie will have a “trunk” full of exquisite pieces for immediate purchase or for personal order; a unique opportunity to experience the magic of this line! Look forward to an informal Fashion Show, as models float amongst the festivities in Twin-Set fashions and Italian-themed food and drink catered by our fave friends at The Tin Mill. Happy Spring Threaders and hope to see your smiling faces there! xoxo RSVP to inquiries@strawberrythreads.ca or (905) 852-3683

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KIDS By Carly Foster

Continuing the Tradition: A Bowling Superstar is Born

Back in August, my Pa and I finally took Lucy to the bowling lanes. See, my paternal grandparents bowled. My parents met in a bowling league. My sister and I both bowled for decades. My Pa still bowls to this day, more than 40 years of strikes and gutter balls from his fingertips (more gutters than strikes lately, I like to tell him jokingly). (And we’re talking the REAL bowling here, the Canadian-born one that involves strategy and skill: five pin bowling.) For my daughters, the rumble of the lanes, the crash of pins, the Foster curve ball...it courses through their blood. So is it any surprise that Lucy has taken to bowling like a champ? Her average has climbed each week since the beginning of September when she joined our local Youth Bowling Canada league, as of last week sitting at a solid 48. She doubled her average in November. Lucy was the Bowler of the Month for December. Last Saturday she bowled her first spare. To see her bowl is to see my daughter personified. She very carefully lines up her feet on the dots at the foul line. She takes three steady swings with the ball between her legs, then sends it down the lanes with a little bump.

Before it’s even past the first set of dots, she snaps her feet together with a jump, often flitting her hands in the air. We’re lucky if she stays to watch what the ball hits before she literally skips back down, dancing and twirling. It’s such a sight to see. She loves to look for my name that still hold YBC records on the walls, written on Bristol board. We watch my Pa’s average on the dot matrix printouts from his Monday night men’s league. She likes to use my bowling balls and wants her own shoes like her Mumma. What I love most about Lucy bowling, though, is how it’s carrying on a beloved family tradition. I have decades of fond memories of bowling with my Pa. He shuttled me all over Ontario for tournaments, took me every Saturday morning. He was my coach. I remember him taking my hands in his and wiggling them from my shoulders down to get back

on track. He was never judgemental, but always encouraging and always so very proud. If there’s one thing parenting has taught me, it’s that I can relate to my parents more. I feel now, watching my daughter bowl, what my Pa felt all those years watching me bowl. Sharing the triumphs and Carly Foster with her disappointments. father Bruce Foster and Donating the time, her daughter, Lucy, at the money and effort. Uxbridge Bowling Lanes. Realizing, fully, how heartbroken he must have been when I decided I could take myself to the lanes on Sunday nights in my teen years. It’s very special. And we’re all thrilled that so far, Lucy loves bowling as much as we all do. Are your kids playing the sports you did growing up? Visit our parenting site at www.durhamregionkids.com to join the conversation with parents across Durham Region!

FACES OF UXBRIDGE

Restaurant Makeover: Family Edition by Randy Loewen

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ne immediately notices the warmth and friendliness radiating from John Pagidas as he greets people. It comes as no surprise he has become somewhat of an icon in Uxbridge as the owner of the famous Texas Burger for the past 27 years. An engineer by trade, he was working contract with the federal government in the 80s, an unsteady source of income. When a friend asked Pagidas to come to Uxbridge to help run Texas Burger, he moved his family to town in 1984 to become a partner in the restaurant business; eventually Pagidas took over the operation. Pagidas reflects fondly on his first day when customers were waiting for him at 4:30 a.m. to open the doors for breakfast. “I already had regulars. Very nice, very bright people,” he recalls. Regardless of who walked through the door, Pagidas always made his customers feel welcomed and relaxed—like they were a part of the family. This family atmosphere made a huge impact on his customers. Many people heading to cottage country would often stop in with their children for a meal. Years later, some of those children would eventually return as adults to relive the dining experience. Operating a restaurant is often a family affair, with Pagidas’ wife Emmelia helping out, and their children Niki, Kostis and Georgia often seen in the background. “The restaurant was a second home,” says daughter Niki. “It’s all I knew.” Despite her father spending so much time at the family business and coming home tired, Niki says her dad was always there to offer the best advice to his children—something she has never forgotten. “All I see is that he works for us,” she says. After university, Niki worked in real estate development but soon decided to help her father. Her business degree, experience as a project manager, and familiarization with the food industry is what she refers to as “the perfect marriage ” to help run the family business. Niki is now working side-by-side with John in a mass renovation of Texas Burger into the Urban Pantry, a family dining restaurant slated to open in March. “The demographics of Uxbridge have changed, but the restaurant hasn’t changed to accommodate new growth,” she says. Some may see the changes as John passing the torch; but John says he is not worried and is excited to see how the new concept will work.

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Niki Pagidas with her father John. The father and daughter team are renovating the former Teaxs Burger into Urban Pantry.

Photo by Randy Loewen “People were treated like family. It was a warm environment, a gathering place,” says Niki of the success of Texas Burger. “I want to be sure all of the things Dad has put into it is maintained. I feel very honoured that he trusts me enough to make decisions and to have full control.” The strong family ties that bond father to daughter have come full circle in business. With a new look, a new menu consisting of home-cooked meals, and that same warm and friendly greeting awaiting their customers, the Urban Pantry is set to continue as a gathering place for family and friends. Randy Loewen lives in Uxbridge with his wife and has three children. He owns and operates Spectrum Administrative Solutions, and is a partner of Studio 4 Photography (www.studio4photography.ca).

GUEST COLUMN

The Slow Decline: Dealing with Aging Parents

ike your baby growing up— each step anticipated—but then a complete surprise. That’s what your parents’ decline can be like. You’re never ready. You are the child, they are the parents, and that is the way it should be.That is how it was with my Dad’s long decline to Parkinson’s Disease. He had been having some problems and many tests—he probably knew for a good year before he told us in passing that he had Parkinson’s. And really that was it Cheryl Hinzel (centre) with her parfor a number of years. My husband ents George and Margo Ashe, and her granddaughter Anika Arkell. noticed more than I, as he played golf in a few tournaments and saw Submitted Photo how my Dad’s reflexes were off. Dad had a lot of bruises and cuts as he didn’t slow down; he just fell a lot as he rushed through whatever he was doing. But the disease took a toll, gradually curtailing all morning tennis matches, golf, lengthy walks, driving and dining out as he couldn’t control when he would be able to use utensils. And still we didn’t really see the extent of help that was needed. Parkinson’s meds have many toxic side effects, and affect mental outlook as well. They are known for affecting your impulse control, as we discovered after some questionable financial decisions were made. And suddenly we were at a crisis point. In and out of the hospital and my Mom was not handling it well. It was at this point that we had to face reality. Medicines were altered, but good days were few and far between. After many hospital stays, the doctor suggested contacting community care. To this day—more than a year after we hit the crisis point—Dad is being cared for at home. He is basically palliative, but his heart is quite healthy as the rest of his body crumbles around him. Mom, in the meantime has suffered health problems too, and in December had major surgery for an adominal aneurysm. Community care is

now coming in every day—some for Mom and some for Dad. Mom basically treats the visits as her social life, making friends with all the workers, knowing all their names and stories. Dad only tolerates help. He still tends to try to do more when family are there. One brother lives in Michigan and comes every month or so. Another brother alternates with me so one of us is there every couple days. We continue to take each day as it comes, enjoying the better days when they come, and coping with the bad ones. We can still enjoy special events together, like a recent visit from my daughter and my first Grandchild, 2-month-old Anika, from Kelowna, B.C. My parents were pleased to be able to meet their beautiful great grandchild. What have we learned that we can pass on? Could we or would we have done anything differently? I don’t think so. We really have just dealt with things as they progressed and changed, not planning for the next step. Early on, my Mom and Dad joined a Parkinson’s support group and over the years have become large fundraisers for the Durham Region SuperWalk, the major annual national fundraiser for Parkinson’s. They are proud of the changes they have made in the Durham association, which went from raising several thousand dollars in the walk, to last September raising over $90,000. Dad is tired and in pain and has really had enough, but you can still see his sense of humor shine through when you least expect it. Mom has walked each step alongside and completely changed her life to be there with Dad. This is a couple who both worked into their 70s, frequently travelled and had a very busy social life. Their world has become so small, and that, more than anything, is hard to see. Never the most demonstrative of men, my Dad now always makes sure to end a visit with “I love you.” It does help to know that whatever happens over the next little while,”I love you” is bound to be the last thing my Dad says to me. Cheryl Hinzel is a 25-year Uxbridge resident, married with three adult children, and one grandchild. She is the owner of Red Hot design and Sugar FX, and is directing the 20th anniversary of uxperience this May. Her parents, George and Margo Ashe, live in Courtice.

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FROM MY MOM’S KITCHEN Grandma McDougall’s Dumpling Pudding

INGREDIENTS

For sauce: 1 c. brown sugar ¼ c. water 2 tbs. butter/margarine raisins to taste For dumplings: ½ c. white sugar 1 c. all purpose flour 1 tbs. baking powder dash salt 2 tbs. butter/margarine ½ c. milk My husband, Eric, back row, right, with his dad, Warren, centre, and his brother, Mark, left. Seated are Ed and Florence McDougall, Eric’s grandparents and Warren’s mom and dad.

As part of our tribute to seniors this month, we must recognize those family recipes passed down through the generations. This was one of the very first recipes via my father-in-law, Warren, that I seconded and started baking for my own family (it’s one of my husband’s favourites). It originated with Warren’s mother, my husband’s Grandma Florence McDougall. She passed away a few years ago, but I think of her gentle soul each time I make this. This recipe is such a testament to the olden days, with its simple ingredients and easy method. It’s also known as Depression Pudding. ~Carly DIRECTIONS

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Bring sauce ingredients to a boil on the stove in a small pot over medium-high heat. Pour into a 1-1.5 quart casserole dish. Meanwhile, sift together dry dumpling ingredients, then cut in butter/margarine. Stir in milk just until moist. Drop dough by spoonfuls into the sauce. Bake 20-30 minutes until dumplings have risen and formed a golden top. Serve generously topped with sauce, with a side of vanilla ice cream for the adventurous.

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