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FEATURE ARTICLES

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Show Your Love!

The affection effect on marriage

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The Savvy Party Planner Countdown to a stress-free birthday celebration

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Too Many Stars Will Spoil the Plot Teaching kids to value supporting roles

February ‘17

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Editor’s Notes

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The New Domesticity Spark imaginations with paper, pen and scissors

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Wander Woman Vancouver’s place to skate

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Calendar of Events & Activities

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EDITOR'S NOTES

Marriage by Choice It could be the ultimate frontier, the supreme bonding agent of human relationships. Because it is by choice, marriage is unlike any other familial connection.

Because it is by choice, each of us who have made vows has an opportunity to choose our spouse again and again, in a lifelong pattern of foibles and forgiveness. There are the highs, and the lows, and, if both partners continue to choose one another, a quality of life that is greater than the sum of its high and low parts. In fact, the lows and the losses tend to be the stuff that solid marriages are made of.

As blogger Stacy Harrison eloquently put it: “We managed to be good parents, even if we weren’t the best partners. We poured ourselves into the kids while avoiding the truth of what we were— or weren’t.

Then we started losing things. We lost my income, and with it went comfort and security. We got creative. We communicated better. We learned to manage a household and survive on much less.

We lost people we loved—so many people. Nine family members and two dear friends. We grieved hard. We grieved together, and separately. We offered grace and space to one another and to ourselves. …

And when we finally came together as husband and wife—when we traded all the noise for the one steady voice that mattered, we started losing the things we needed to lose. Pride. Selfishness. Entitlement. Control. The paralyzing quest for significance. …

Part of marriage is simply going through the motions. Staring at each other across a dinner table of food the kids refuse to eat. Taking turns cleaning up vomit. Scheduling intimacy.

But there are also the rare and glorious moments when we truly come alive together — when we’re standing in the sunlight in a ripening garden of things we grew together. The steady river in our yard is a song to which we both know the words, and we’re discovering that along the way, we’ve even learned to dance.”

Learn about losing complacency and gaining affection and increased love in marriage on page 14.

Nikki Klock, Editor nikki@vancouverfamilymagazine.com

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THE NEW DOMESTICITY

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NEW DOMESTICITY

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By Julianna Lawson

My 9 year-old hands

carefully guided the scissors around every curve. I sighed with relief each time I hit a long, straight stretch, and then puckered my brow in determination when I once again encountered an intricate series of twists and turns. But the final product was well worth the time and effort: I had cut out the entire Teddy Bear Paper Doll family - along with every stitch of their clothing. And the fun had only begun! Now I could slip into the imaginary world of the Bear Family and create endless stories.

I don’t know for certain, but it’s quite possible that my love for paper dolls began when my mother read Laura Ingalls Wilder’s “Little House in the Big Woods” to my sister and me. I loved to envision Mary and Laura playing on cozy winter evenings with soft candlelight flickering on the hand-hewn log walls. Pa’s fiddle filled the air with sweet refrains as the girls curled up on the rag rug before the fire, and Ma used her pioneer resourcefulness to entertain her girls: After the day’s work was done, Ma sometimes cut paper dolls for them. She cut the dolls out of stiff white paper, and drew the faces with a pencil. Then from bits of colored paper she cut dresses and hats, ribbons and laces, so that Laura and Mary could dress their dolls beautifully.

As a child, I didn’t stop to evaluate the importance of such play. But our family’s often limited resources (and limited screen time) forced my siblings and me to find joy in simple hobbies.

Paper crafts happened to be one of those diversions.

Now, as an adult, I see the value: I see the

patience it took to cut out dozens of paper dolls and accessories.

I see the creativity that sprung from the stories my siblings and I created. I see the camaraderie and confidence that developed among us as we performed endless puppet shows. And I see the contentment that grew as we learned to enjoy small yet meaningful pleasures.

February is now stepping on stage, and with it, more long nights.

Why not brighten up those dark evenings by revisiting some paper crafts and diversions of the past? Help your child think beyond the instant gratification of screen-driven entertainment, and whip up some good, old fashioned fun in your home. Think outside the box (and inside, too - cardboard boxes are super fun, you know) and let your imaginations run wild.

Paper Activities I always loved it when my Dover Publications catalog arrived.

I’d pore over the pages, carefully evaluating which set of paper dolls I might add to my collection. Although today’s paper dolls can come into our homes as quickly as it takes to print them from the computer (and this is a wonderful option), your child might appreciate the experience of ordering . . . and waiting . . . and eagerly watching the mailbox. You can still request a catalog from Dover Publications (or find similar products through Amazon). Look for coloring books, mazes, paper models, and other wonderful activity books, too.

Paper Decorations Laura Ingalls Wilder also inspired me to see how effective it can be to enhance the home with paper decorations. In her book, “On the Banks of Plum Creek,” we again read of Ma’s creativity: Ma brought out two long strips of brown wrapping-paper that she had saved. She folded them, and she showed Mary and Laura how to cut tiny bits out of the folded paper with the scissors. When continued on next page

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each unfolded her paper, there was a row of stars. Ma spread the paper on the shelves behind the stove. The stars hung over the edges of the shelves, and the light shone through them.

A childhood friend of mine had a row of colorful construction paper hearts arranged as a border in her bedroom. I was charmed by the effect. Snowflakes, pom-poms, garlands, wreaths, flowers, centerpieces, place cards, and banners can all be created out of paper. Google “paper crafts” and have fun.

Julianna Lawson and her husband Jamie make their home in Vancouver with their four children, ages 11 to 18. Julianna is still fond of paper dolls, and she can’t quite decide which were her favorites as a child. It’s a pretty close match between The Ginghams (she really liked Becky’s clothes) and Crystal Collins’ Teddy Bear Paper Dolls (sister Juniper being a definite favorite).

Paper Entertainment Every Thanksgiving, my kids put on a shadow puppet show for the family. A white sheet is hung as the stage with a bright spotlight positioned behind it. Paper puppets are the actors (sometimes even moveable actors with brad fastener hinges), and the laughter begins. Another fun “paper entertainment” is to make playing cards or board games out of recycled cereal boxes. Provide your child with a few modest supplies, and see where her imagination takes her on these cozy, wintry nights.

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Paper Gifts Valentine’s Day provides an ideal opportunity to give special gifts to friends and family. Your child may enjoy crafting traditional Valentine cards to distribute, or he may embrace the challenge of creating more complex paper gifts, such as boxes, origami art, jewelry, puppets, or paper mache creations.

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Wander Woman

EXPLORING HIDDEN GEMS oF SOUTHWEST WASHINGTON

By Afton Nelson

For the quintessential winter experience, you can’t beat ice-skating. Here in Clark County we don’t have to wait for a pond to freeze over. Just head to Mountain View Ice Arena, strap on some skates, and get ready to channel your inner Michelle Kwan or Wayne Gretzky.

Located on Mill Plain Boulevard, the little blue awning that designates the entrance to Mountain View Ice Arena might be easy to miss. The kids I brought with me for this adventure were quick to point out, however, that all you have to do is look for Sheridan’s Frozen Custard, and you’ll find it.

Open skate, public sessions are offered daily, but it’s best to check Mountain View’s online calendar first to make sure they don’t have a schedule change. (I learned this the hard way.)

Other lessons we learned during our outing related to clothing. “Make sure you wear long, thick socks,” Isaac, age 12 suggested. He wore ankle socks and soon found out that the boot of the skate rubbed uncomfortably on his leg. Long pants are also a must, because if you’re new to skating, you should plan to fall at least once.

“Maybe if you have some of those waterresistant pants, you can wear those,” Eddy, age 13 added. “If you fall, sometimes your

pants get a little wet. But it’s not that bad.”

“Don’t be scared of falling,” Isaac chimed in. “It doesn’t hurt that bad.

And if you have gloves, then your hands don’t get cold either.”

At the very least you’ll want a warm jacket and some gloves. However, all my skaters found that as you get going, you warm up and might feel like shedding some of those layers.

Laura, age 14, had her own words of encouragement. “It only took me about two times around the rink to get used to my skates, then I felt comfortable,” she shared. “You’ll get the hang of it.”

Laura’s favorite part was going fast and gliding on the skates. She gave it a nine out of ten on the fun scale and said it was the perfect activity for a day off of school.

“I think it would be fun to have a birthday party here,” she added.

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Wander Woman: Mountain View Ice Arena (cont’d)

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Kids and adults interested in honing their figure skating skills can sign up for classes or private lessons. They offer a range of classes from parent/child classes for young children to classes for more advanced skaters that focus on jumps and more complex moves. One of the perks of enrollment is free admission to the public skate sessions.

If you’ve got a future hockey player in your home, Mountain View Jr. Rangers Youth Hockey Program has a place for them. The Mites and Mini-Mites teams are for kids under 12 years, while the Squirt teams are for kids who are 12 to 16 years old. Both programs play “Cross Ice” which uses the width of the ice for play rather than the length. This allows players more opportunities to practice their skills and be directly involved in play.

Refueling Isaac was impressed with the snack bar, which offered candy and soda as well as a few hot items like nachos and fries.

“Make sure you bring money,” he advised

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in between greedily eyeing a jar of candy and begging me to give him 50 cents.

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Isaac probably worked up a bit of an appetite. After all, skating is a great form of aerobic exercise that improves balance and builds leg muscles. And he, Eddy and Laura had spent the last 90 minutes doing just that. Be prepared to fuel your kids after their skate time, either with some granola bars stashed in the glove box of your car, or some hot nachos from the snack bar.

Even if your kids don’t become the next Michelle Kwan or Wayne Gretzky, they’re sure to learn new skills, build their confidence and have fun.

Afton Nelson is a freelance writer, wife and mother of three boys who loves exploring the Pacific Northwest. Get to know her better at www.aftonnelson.com.

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Feature: Show Your Love!

by Christa Melnyk Hines

Th e Affecti o n Effect i n M a rri a ge j

“They must still be dating,” my friend whispers to me.

As we stand shivering at my son’s soccer game, my brother-in-law and his fiancée cuddle together sharing a warm blanket and a chair.

“No married couple would be that affectionate toward each other,” she says.

Her assessment seems a bit pessimistic to this romantic. Must the spontaneity and sweetness of courtship die as we move out of the “shout from the roof-tops” kind of young love into the demands of young (and not-so-young) parenthood?

Growing complacent about displaying affection isn’t unusual as a marriage

is peppered with children, crises, celebrations and day-to-day routine.

Nonetheless, simple expressions of love like hand-holding, hugs and kisses, and compliments are an important component to the health of a marriage and the family unit.

“Without intimacy, people can and often do begin to feel isolated, alone, bitter, depressed, used and simply uncared for,” says Amanda Deverich, a licensed marriage and family therapist. “All the happiness that was amplified by the physicality in the early part of the marriage is no longer there to grease the wheels of family life. What remains is grinding drudgery, financial stress and short tempers.”

Affection in the Midst of Parenthood Many parents find that affection for each other can get lost in the mind-numbing whirlwind of sleepless nights and the general challenges of new parenthood.

“This is a natural phenomenon in the family life cycle as parents devote their energies to the newborn,” Deverich says.

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After the initial adjustment period, nurture your relationship to avoid resentment and a sense of neglect. Such feelings can quietly chip away at the positive family dynamic that your kids rely on to feel safe and secure.

Why Affection is Healthy “Couples believe affection is simply an inspired by-product of a feeling,” Deverich says. “However, it can be the other way around. Love, connectedness, and caring can be sparked by physical touch.”

While excessive public displays of intimacy can cause discomfort for those around you--including your kids--showing warmth toward one another gives children a sense of well-being, that all is well in their family unit. continued on page 16

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Feature: Show Your Love! (cont’d)

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“When children see this model behavior where affection is easily expressed, that is a skill set that can translate into other arenas of their life,” says psychiatrist Dr. Bela Sood. “They learn how to be kind, gentle, as well as, be happy with other people as they watch their own parents.”

When Affection Doesn’t Come Naturally Not everyone was raised in affectionate homes, and others simply aren’t wired to display warmth toward others, including the ones they love the most.

“Understand the uniqueness and differences in the other person without being judgmental about that,” Sood says.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t work on meeting your spouse’s needs for affection.

Recall what attracted the two of you in the first place. Physical touch and tenderness toward each other can reaffirm your love and create instant connectedness.

“We forget that we have control over many things that go on in our lives if we are willing to make that sacrifice,” Sood says. “And why are we willing to make that sacrifice? Because we love that person.”

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17 Simple Ways to

Rekindle

that Lovin’ Feelin’: K Hold K Hug

hands and kiss

K Look K Get

each other in the eyes

involved in a hobby together

K Listen

when your spouse talks about his or her interests K Flirt

with each other

K Laugh K Pen

together

a love note and leave it on your spouse’s pillow

K Send

a flirty text message

K Email

a link to a sweet love song to your mate

K Give

your spouse a back rub

K Offer

a sincere compliment

K Help

each other around the house and with the kids

K Call

each other during the day just to check in

K Court

each other

K Tell

your kids what you love about your spouse

K Say

“I love you”

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Feature: The Savvy Party Planner

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PARTY PLANNER:

T Countdow n to a Stress-free Birthday Celebration

your guest of honor. See sidebar for theme suggestions.

I have been planning and hosting birthday parties for over a decade, and these steps will get you from vision to fruition. Follow these timing tips, and you’ll be able to keep a smile on your face from the day you start planning until the moment the final guest is picked up.

8. Find Supplies Online.

Shop local when you can to support your local economy, but for those hard-tolocate items, don’t burn up time and gas searching for what you can easily find online. Generally speaking, one-stop party stores are not as prevalent as they used to be and you’ll likely be delighted by the variety you can find online. Just make sure to place your orders at least a month early to allow for shipping time and returns if anything is not what you’d expected.

10. Choose a Theme.

Always have a theme. Having a focus will help you plan and execute your party without a hitch. Several months before your party date, brainstorm themes with

9. Make Reservations.

If there is one thing I have learned about popular party venues, it’s that they fill up early. Once you have your theme and know you will need a location away from home, get your reservations nailed down tight two- three months in advance.

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Planning a memorable birthday event can be the highlight of your child’s year, if you maximize the fun and minimize the stress. The best way to increase the magic and decrease the madness is to use a handy checklist so you can start early and get ready gradually. Or if you want to plan your party in one fell swoop a few weeks ahead, this checklist will help you do that, too.

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Feature: The Savvy Party Planner (cont’d)

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7. Send Out Invitations.

Evite wins hands-down for quick and easy party invites. Just visit evite.com, select a theme, add in your guests’ e-mail addresses, and send your invitations.

Two weeks’ notice is usually just the right amount of time. But if it’s a busy time of year, add another week or two.

6. Order the Cake.

Cakes and cupcakes can get expensive when you make them from scratch.

Besides, the kids will probably like the local big-box or grocery store sheet cakes just as much as homemade. Order one week ahead for pickup on party day for the freshest results.

5. Tackle Your Local Shopping List.

Despite ordering ahead online, you probably still have a few items you need to pick up locally. Be sure to pick them up at least a week ahead in case you can’t find something and need to order it online after all.

4. Recruit Helpers.

Why try to do everything yourself when you can have so much more fun at your party with plenty of helping hands standing by?

See the sidebar for suggestions.

3. Curry Favors.

Favors don’t have to be expensive or intricate. For a home party, go simple, fun, and inexpensive. Be as eco-friendly

as possible by offering favors in reusable containers. If hosting a party elsewhere, consider letting the party be favor enough or simply offering a small treat to guests on the way out like a lollipop or a candy necklace.

2. Set Up a Day Ahead.

If you are ordering any large food deliveries like pizza, place your order a day ahead. Don’t forget to check online for any discounts or coupons. Then go ahead and tackle as much prep work as you can. Decorations? Food preparation?

Party favors? Activity prep? Everything will go more smoothly on party day if you take care of as much as you can the day before.

1. Party Down! Get a good night’s sleep.

Allow at least two hours prior for set up and one hour afterwards for clean up.

Then enjoy every memorable moment.

Designate a party photographer, if your hands will be full to document the day.

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Party planning can be almost as fun as the party itself. Just do yourself a favor, and leave plenty of time to plan ahead.

Christina Katz is a Pacific Northwest writer and mother who has planned some fun birthday parties over the years including a pony party, a bowling party, and a roller skating party. But her all-time

who can help?

It’s best if both parents contribute. Don’t forget to

factor in both Mom’s and Dad’s strengths before, during, and after the festivities.

Babysitters or neighbor teens make great party helpers. I pay our sitter to attend because I always need extra help, and I also want her to share in making memories.

Exchange party help with a friend. You help with her

Just ask! You never know when a guest’s parent might enjoy

helping, and you might make a new mom friend this way. Once you have the final attendance list, use evite.com to inquire if anyone is available to pitch in. Some people make better “special guests” than helpers. Siblings of yours or the guest of honor may fall into this category, as may elderly grandparents or visiting relatives. For peace of mind during the party, only invite those you know in advance will be gracious helpers.

child’s party and then ask for the favor back for your child’s party.

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Feature: Too Many Stars Will Spoil the Plot

Too Many Stars Will Spoil the Plot: s

TEACHING KIDS TO VALUE SUPPORTING ROLES

By Lara Krupicka

It’s easy to see

who the stars are, in a play, on the ball field, and even in the classroom. Kids can identify what makes those people important to the show or team. Yet we know that most of those stars wouldn’t have achieved their success without the aid of others.

Of course, that’s a pretty heady concept.

But accepting a lesser position in support of a larger undertaking is a life skill kids can, and should, learn. And most likely it’s a skill they’ll have to practice soon. Here’s how you can facilitate their learning (and help your child weather disappointment):

Empathize with the Letdown

If your child tried out for a team or a cast and didn’t make it, they’re bound to be disappointed, even if they do land a smaller role such as team manager or chorus line. Acknowledge their sadness without criticizing those who made the decision.

You can also show empathy by sharing your own story of rejection. But consider your timing. Jumping in right away can make it seem like you’re minimizing your child’s experience. Test your timing by phrasing it as a question: “Would you like to hear about a time when I faced a similar disappointment?”

Chris Gissell, former Major League Baseball player and founder of Baseball Dudes in Vancouver shares, “We as leaders in our kids’ lives, be that as a parent, teacher or athletic coach, are in a position to make a real impact on their lives with how we choose to handle [disappointing] moments with them. Encouragement, truth and uplifting words will be the difference in how this child moves forward from that moment . . .Words matter.”

thrill of the game, or the chance to be part of a big production. Often the effort and focus required by try-outs can function against a child after the fact. Slowly nudge them back to the initial excitement they felt. Help them recognize they still have something to contribute through their altered role, and that the ultimate goal of most youth activities is to build character, rather than to become the best actor, athlete, or artist around.

Coax your disappointed child to move on.

If your child has a melancholy personality, you may want to put a deadline on how long they can mope. Remind them they have more to do—whether focusing on something different, or putting effort into their supporting role.

In Gissell’s work with young athletes, he emphasizes character above athleticism.

At a recent Little League event, he and his staff led a discussion on character traits such as attitude, effort, and work ethic.

“To help them get a better idea of how important character is, we would ask a player how old they were, what age they wanted to play baseball until, and then pick a number that they may live to,” Gissell shares. “We had one player say they wanted to play until they were 20 years old. Great! Then we said if they live to be 80 years old, that means that 60 years of their life nobody would know them as a ball player, they would know them for their character. The message was that just as they all work, strive, dream and want to be the best athlete they can be, never forget the importance of being a quality person who is selfless, works hard at things other

Encourage Perspective

Suzanne Reeves, a director for youth theater musicals urged her young cast to remember their non-chosen friends after 140 kids auditioned for a cast of 100. “I told them, ‘There are 40 kids sitting at home who wish they could be where you are’,” Reeves says. “’Your job may not be the lead, but you were important enough to be cast.’”

Remind your child why they pursued the activity in the first place, whether for the

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than sports and overall is someone who leads by example.”

Emphasize Teamwork

Sue Goll appreciated all her son gained from being part of his high school’s acclaimed drum show, not the least of which was a sense of teamwork. The production required all members of the cast to alternate between being in the spotlight and working behind the scenes. She saw how he learned to value every aspect of the show, even moving equipment on and off stage.

“If kids can’t understand the important element of teamwork, of every person contributing, they will struggle in life,” she explains. “Without small roles, the big roles can’t happen.”

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to making the prominent roles more successful.

As Reeves notes, “If we don’t have ocean creatures or sailors [in “The Little Mermaid”], we don’t have a show. No one wants to see a musical with only four people.”

“The team is the foundation of every success,” Gissell says. “Just as a house or building is supported by a foundation, when a piece of that foundation is compromised by a weak point, the structure will start to deteriorate. Each team member needs to be able to see themselves as a part of their team.”

Your child may feel like one in a crowd.

And that might be the point. Whether on the sidelines cheering for their team as equipment manager or singing in the chorus, help your child to find enjoyment in the greater experience.

Expect Growth

Express Confidence

Showing up to do work you hadn’t expected to do shows responsibility. Doing it without complaining demonstrates humility. Going above and beyond expectations displays leadership. Sticking with the position week in and week out exhibits commitment.

All of those characteristics come together to shape the identity of a future key player.

Each time your child fulfills a duty, they gain the opportunity to grow in skills, knowledge, and character. Reflect to your child the growth you see taking place in them. Explain how the abilities and traits they’re developing will make them more successful in the future.

“It’s crucial,” says Reeves of the necessity of playing a bit part or behind-the-scenes role. She has seen over and over how the kids who embrace the lesser roles move on to assume leads. “I guarantee you that one of the sea creatures this year will be a lead in a show in five years,” she says.

Don’t forget, Mom and Dad, your attitude matters. If you can’t shake your own disappointment or if you engage in confrontations with the decision makers, your child may assume those same attitudes - now and in the future. Your supporting role in your child’s life is to model for them how to approach the good and the bad.

“It’s presumptuous to think your child deserves better,” Reeves says. But it’s also hard not to think highly of our darlings and to not to want better for them.

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Instead, express your confidence in their ability to learn from every situation.

“Be patient,” Reeves suggests. “Your child will rise to the level demanded of them. It’s not about being the lead, but about being the best in whatever skill they’re pursuing.”

Lara Krupicka is a parenting journalist and mom of three girls. She’s been pleased to see her daughters learn the ropes through being team manager, assistant editor, and other supporting roles.

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS & ACTIVITIES

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Boomerang Kids’ Story and Craft Time at 808 Main St., Vancouver. Free stories, fun and activities in Boomerang’s awesome indoor kids’ play area.

10-11 am

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a craft, for children 3-6 years old.

Adult participation encouraged and appreciated. 10:30-11:30 am

Preschool Storytime at Three Creeks Community Library, 800C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver. A fun story time experience filled with books and music followed by

STEAM Powered MindsImprov with Magenta Theater at The Mall Library Connection, 8700 NE Vancouver Mall Dr., Ste. 285, Vancouver. Kids, is acting in

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Read to the Dog at Camas Public Library,625 NE 4th Ave., Camas. Would you like to read to Cooper? He is a Certified Therapy Dog, and each reading session will be 15 minutes long.

For more information or to sign up, inquire in the library or call 360-834-4692. First come first served. Advance sign up required. 2-3 pm

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your future? Do you like being silly? Join us for acting games and improvisational techniques.

4-5 pm Teen Book Club: The Page Turners at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver. Join our book group for ages 11 to 14. 5-6 pm

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Family Storytime at Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. (See Feb. 1) 10-11 am Friends of Ridgefield Library Winter Book Sale at Ridgefield Community Center, 210 N Main Ave., Ridgefield. Find the perfect book for yourself and your friends. 10 am-3 pm

Kids’ Crafts ‘n’ Things at La Center Community Library, 1411 NE Lockwood Creek Rd., La Center. Join us for monthly crafty activities. For kids 3-12 years.

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Funtastic Friday at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C.St., Vancouver. Drop in Friday afternoons for a wide range of creative and interactive projects for ages 5-12. 3:30-5:30 pm

Kids Book Group: Reading Rangers at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver. Calling all Reading Rangers. Are you too old for storytime? Ready for chapter books? Then grab an adult to join you and come ready to discuss, have fun and make new friends. For ages 5-8 and their accompanying adult. Pick up your free copy of the book for that month at the Cascade Park library, read it together and come to discuss it and do an activity.

For this month’s title visit www.fvrl.org. 4:30-5:30 pm

Portland Children’s Museum Free First Friday at 4015 SW Canyon Rd., Portland. 4-8 pm Vancouver Downtown Association First Friday.

Every first Friday of the month throughout the year, participating art galleries, merchants and restaurants in downtown Vancouver open their doors to celebrate opening night of various art exhibits. Live music and citywide receptions welcome all. Visit www.vdausa. org/vdas-firstfridaydowntown for a downtown art gallery list and walking map. 5-9 pm

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Fly Guy meets Fly Girl in the world premiere play about a boy named Buzz and his amazing pet fly.

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continued from previous page Downtown Camas First Friday in historic downtown Camas.

Voted “Best of Clark County” in “Outdoor Family Fun” in 2015.

Family activities and games, local art exhibits, dining, after hours shopping, and free-to-enter gift basket raffles. 5-8 pm

4 SATURDAY

Friends of Ridgefield Library Book Sale at Ridgefield Community Center, 210 N Main Ave., Ridgefield. (See Feb. 3) 10 am-3 pm Family Storytime at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver. Join us for stories, music, crafts and more for the whole family. 11 am–12 pm Open Saturday at Pearson Field, 201 E Reserve St., Vancouver. Pearson Air Field is open to the public from 1 to 5 pm every Saturday, featuring a free educational program provided

by Pearson Field Education Center, the Flight Simulator lab, vertical wind tunnel, a gliderbuilding station, historic airplanes on-site for viewing, collections on display, and educational programs to propel students of all ages into the wonderful world of flight. Experience the “Golden Age of Aviation” at the Northwest’s first airport, and one of the oldest continuously operating airfields in the country.

1-5 pm Lab Rats at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. Looking for an awesome challenge? Lab Rats meets weekly to dig into science mysteries, creatively solve engineering problems, and experiment with new and exciting art projects. For ages 7-12.

2-3 pm Fly Guy: The Musical at Newark Theater, 1111 SW Broadway, Portland. Buzz thinks he has the greatest pet in the world: a fly named Fly Guy. Fly Guy lovezzz to go to school with Buzz every

day, and even makes his own fly friend, Fly Girl. Riding the bus to school is fun for the flies, but what happens when they find themselves on a field trip at a flyswatter factory? They’ll have to outsmart the Super Swatter 6000 with their fancy fly movezzz to save the day. Tickets: $14-$32 at www.portland5.com/newmarktheatre. 2 and 5 pm Lantern Tour Programs: An Evening at the Fort at Fort Vancouver National Historic Site 1001 E 5th St., Vancouver.

Take a tour inside the Fort Vancouver stockade where visitors are treated to historical vignettes in each building as a park ranger guides them through the reconstructed fort. These vignettes transport the visitor back in time to exhibit what life was like at Fort Vancouver in the 1840s. This year, historical vignettes will explore the theatrical plays presented on board the HMS Modeste, a British warship that often visited the fort, in February 1846. Both residents of Fort Vancouver and American settlers were invited to the fort to observe the first theatrical group of its kind in Oregon. Tours begin at 7 pm, but visitors must arrive at 6:45 pm. $15 per adult and $10 per youth.

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5 SUNDAY

Fly Guy: The Musical at Newark Theater, 1111 SW Broadway, Portland. (See Feb. 4) 2 pm

6 MONDAY

Vancouver Chess Club at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. Drop in for informal chess games. All ages and abilities are welcome.

4-7:45 pm Family Storytime at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver.

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7 TUESDAY

Build It at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver.

Kids, join us each week for a new LEGO® building challenge. Kids 5-12 years. 4-5 pm

8 WEDNESDAY Boomerang Kids’ Story and Craft Time at 808 Main St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 10-11 am

Family Storytime at Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. (See Feb. 1) 10-11 am Preschool Storytime at Three Creeks Community Library, 800C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver.

(See Feb. 1) 10:30-11:30 am Read to the Dog at Camas Public Library, 625 NE 4th Ave., Camas. (See Feb. 1) 2-3 pm Read to the Dogs at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. Dogs are great listeners. Come in and read to a furry friend. Call the same day to reserve a spot or drop in and sign up for a time. Program is great for 5-12 year olds. 3-5 pm Kids Book Group: Kid Lit at Three Creeks Community Library, 800-C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver. Are you 6-9 years old? Do you enjoy being read to or reading on your own? Do you, and a grown up, like to talk about books? Join us to read a different new book each month. For this month’s book title visit www.fvrl. org. 4-5 pm

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#VancouverVolunTEEN at Water Resources Education Center, 4600 SE Columbia Way, Vancouver. A community service effort inspiring Clark County teens ages 14 -19 to give back their time, earn volunteer requirements for graduation and meet new people. Volunteers will meet at Water Resources Education Center. RSVP in advance or simply show up on the day of the event. Volunteers should dress for the weather and wear long pants and closed-toe shoes. Youth under 18 must bring a signed City of Vancouver/Clark County Minor Consent Form. Questions?

Contact City Volunteer Program, cityvolunteer@ cityofvancouver.us or 360-4878344. 3:30-5:30 pm Drop Everything and Read Book Discussion Group at Battle Ground Community Library, 1207 SE 8th Way, Battle Ground. This is a “tween” book group geared towards children 9-12 years of age. Pick up a copy of the book from the library and come ready to discuss and have fun with new friends. Please, no younger siblings. 6-7 pm Asperger / Autism Monthly Parent Support Group at The Arc of Southwest Washington, 6511 Northeast 18th St., Vancouver. This group helps support parents with 6th to 12th grade students on the autism spectrum who spend at least part of the day in a mainstream classroom, homeschooling environment or virtual academy. Open to moms,

dads and caregivers. Geared toward those who are wanting a positive place to talk about successes and challenges that they and their children may be facing. Free. 6-7 pm Tween Book Group: Discussion Junction at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. This is a monthly book discussion group for tweens ages 9-12 with a participating adult. (No older or younger children, please.) Visit www.fvrl.org for this month’s book selection. 6:30-7:45 pm

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Family Storytime at Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. (See Feb. 1) 10-11 am Funtastic Friday at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C.St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 3) 3:305:30 pm Contra in the Couve at Hazel Dell Grange, 7509 NE Hazel Dell Ave., Vancouver. Contra dancing is an American social dance tradition dating back to the colonial period. It’s fun, interactive, and easy to learn. It is prompted by a caller, so if you’ve ever done square dance, contra will seem familiar to you. New and experienced dancers are welcome. $7. Instruction at 7:30 pm, dance from 8-11 pm

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Family Storytime at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver.

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Second Saturday at the Water Center: Love Your Backyard Birds at Water Resources Education Center, 4600 SE Columbia Way, Vancouver.

February is the perfect month to remember and show love to your backyard birds. It is also a good time to get ready for the Great Backyard Bird Count on Feb. 17- 20. The Great Backyard Bird Count is an annual event encouraging bird watchers of all ages to tally the number of birds seen and create a real-time snapshot of their locations. Enjoy fun, interactive activities. Visit www.cityofvancouver.us/ watercenter for more details.

Children must be accompanied by a parent or guardian. Free.

1-3 pm Open Saturday at Pearson Field, 201 E Reserve St., Vancouver.

(See Feb. 4) 1-5 pm Lab Rats at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 4). 2-3 pm Around the World at Three Creeks Community Library, 800-C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver. Kids, come explore different cultures as you travel around the globe. Discover games and crafts from a variety of countries and see the world in an afternoon. For kids 3-12 and their families. 2-4 pm Fly Guy: The Musical at Newark Theater, 1111 SW Broadway, Portland. (See Feb. 4) 2 and 5 pm Saturday Movie Matinee at Battle Ground Community Library, 1207 SE 8th Way, Battle Ground. Join us for a familyfriendly movie. There will be popcorn and cider. For preschoolers and up. 3 pm continued on next page

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12 SUNDAY

Fly Guy: The Musical at Newark Theater, 1111 SW Broadway, Portland. (See Feb. 4). 2 pm

Come ready to discuss last month’s read and pick up next month’s book for our Book Chat.

5-6 pm

Cadenza Concert Presented by Portland Youth Philharmonic at Skyview High School, 1300 NW 139th St., Vancouver.

Portland Youth Philharmonic’s (PYP) Conservatory Orchestra and Wind Ensemble return to Vancouver. Musical Director David Hattner leads Portland Youth Wind Ensemble and Lawrence Johnson conducts Portland Youth Conservatory Orchestra. Tickets are $5-$15 at www.portlandyouthphil.org.

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Clark County Food Bank Repack Volunteering at Clark County Food Bank, 6502 NE 47th Ave., Vancouver. Volunteers can help sort and repackage food as long as there is food available to be repacked. No prior scheduling is required to volunteer as an individual or small family. Closetoed shoes are recommended for safety. Volunteers must fill out a volunteer registration at www.clarkcountyfoodbank.org/ volunteer and bring it to any regularly scheduled repack.

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Vancouver Chess Club at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 6). 4-7:45 pm Cut it Out! at Battle Ground Community library, 1207 SE 8th Way, Battle Ground. Kids, join us for a fun afternoon of creating amazing pop-up cards for that someone special. For ages 5-12.

4:30-5:30 pm Page Turners at Camas Public Library, 625 NE 4th Ave., Camas.

For 4th grade and up, and their parents. How it works: Sign out a copy of the book before the meeting. You both read the book and come to the meeting, and then keep your copy of the book for free. There will also be snacks and an activity. 6:30 pm Family Storytime at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver. (See Feb. 4) 6:30-7:30 pm

14 TUESDAY

Build It at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver.

(See Feb. 7) 4-5 pm Teen Book Group at Battle Ground Community Library, 1207 SE 8th Way, Battle Ground.

Boomerang Kids’ Story and Craft Time at 808 Main St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 10-11 am

Family Storytime at Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. (See Feb. 1) 10-11 am Preschool Storytime at Three Creeks Community Library, 800C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver.

(See Feb. 1) 10:30-11:30 am Read to the Dog at Camas Public Library, 625 NE 4th Ave., Camas. (See Feb. 1) 2-3 pm InBeTweens: Arts and Crafts for 8-12 Years at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver. Join us for different arts and crafts projects.

5-6 pm Read to the Dogs for 5-12 Year Olds at Three Creeks Library, 800-C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver. Improve your reading skills and make a new friend by reading aloud to a therapy dog.

5-7 pm

16 THURSDAY

#VancouverVolunTEEN at Water Resources Education Center, 4600 SE Columbia Way,

Vancouver. (See Feb. 9) 3:30-5:30 pm Tween Book Group at Woodland Community Center 782 Park St., Woodland. Are you between the ages of 9 and 12? Do you like reading? Do you like talking about cool books? Join us for our Tween Book Discussion Group.

Books will be provided by the Avis Stewart Grant for the first 10 participants to sign up.

3:45-4:45 pm The LEGO Club at Camas Public Library 625 NE 4th Ave., Camas. Third Thursday of each month, enjoy free play and a new Librarian’s Challenge with thousands of LEGO bricks and minifigs. All ages welcome.

4-5 pm Build It at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver. Kids, come see what you can make using LEGO bricks and K’nex. For kids 5-9 years. 5-6 pm Teen Book Group at Three Creeks Community Library, 800C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver.

Great books, no homework. Join your peers for a lively, friendly discussion the 3rd Thursday of each month. Pick up a copy of the ‘book of the month’ which is yours to keep. Registration is required, call 906-4790 or email erhodes@ fvrl.org to register. 6-7 pm

17 FRIDAY

Family Storytime at Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. (See Feb. 1) 10-11 am Funtastic Friday at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C.St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 3) 3:30-5:30 pm

18 SATURDAY

CRESA Emergency Preparedness at Battle Ground Community Library, 1207 SE 8th Way, Battle Ground. Learn the basics of emergency readiness; including supplies, emergency

contacts, and how best to prepare yourself and your neighborhood.

10 am-12 pm Mason Bee Basics: More Buzz for Your Backyard at The Mall Library Connection, 8700 NE Vancovuer Dr., Ste 285, Vancouver. Learn about the care and feeding mason bees from Master Gardener Billie Bevers.

It’s not too early to prepare to have bees buzzing in your garden this summer. Adults.

11 am-12 pm Family Storytime at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver.

(See Feb. 4) 11 am-12 pm Open Saturday at Pearson Field, 201 E Reserve St., Vancouver.

(See Feb. 4) 1-5 pm Lab Rats at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 4) 2-3 pm SW WA Tweens and Teens Autism Social Club at The Arc of Southwest Washington, 6511 Northeast 18th St., Vancouver.

This is a fun monthly event focusing on gaming that takes place on the third Saturday of most months. Pizza, snacks, games, fun. $5 per family to cover pizza and beverages. Please bring a snack to share (example: chips, dessert, veggies, fruit).

Questions contact: John Krejcha 360-601-4678. 6-9 pm Lantern Tour Programs: An Evening at the Fort at Fort Vancouver National Historic Site, 1001 E 5th St., Vancouver.

(See Feb. 4) 7 pm

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Teen Book Group at La Center Community Library, 1411 NE Lockwood Creek Rd., La Center.

Join us each month for a lively discussion. For teens 13-18.

3:15-4:15 pm Build It at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver.

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For teens in 7th-12th grades.

Borrow a special copy of the book from the library, read it, come to the meeting, and then you get to keep the book for free. Sign-up required. Snacks and an activity, too. 4 pm

22 WEDNESDAY Boomerang Kids’ Story and Craft Time at 808 Main St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 1) 10-11 am

Family Storytime at Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. (See Feb. 1) 10-11 am Preschool Storytime at Three Creeks Community Library, 800C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver.

(See Feb. 1) 10:30-11:30 am Read to the Dog at Camas Public Library, 625 NE 4th Ave., Camas. (See Feb. 1) 2-3 pm

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light bulbs work. In English and Spanish. For kids 5-9 years and their families. 3:45 pm Family History Workshop: Family Trees at Vancouver Community Library 901 C St., Vancouver. Have you seen family trees on Ancestry.com? Learn how to make use of these great tools while avoiding their pitfalls.

For teens and up. 6-7:30 pm

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#VancouverVolunTEEN at Water Resources Education Center, 4600 SE Columbia Way, Vancouver. (See Feb. 9) 3:30-5:30 pm

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Family Storytime at Woodland Community Library, 770 Park St., Woodland. (See Feb. 1) 10-11 am Funtastic Friday at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C.St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 3) 3:30-5:30 pm Brick Builders at Three Creeks Community Library, 800-C NE Tenney Rd., Vancouver. A

monthly challenge for kids 5-11 years. 4-5 pm

See www.octc.org for details and discounts. 2 and 5 pm

The Effect of Gamma Rays on Man-in-the-Moon Marigolds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. Teens from the Metropolitan Performing Arts Academy will perform the Pulitzer Prize-winning play “The Effect of Gamma Rays on the Man-in-the-Moon Marigolds” by Paul Zindel. The old, converted vegetable shop where Tillie lives is more like a madhouse than a home. Tillie’s mother, Beatrice, is bitter and cruel, yet desperate for her daughters’ love. Her sister, Ruth, suffers epileptic fits and sneaks cigarettes every chance she gets. In the midst of chaos, Tillie struggles to keep her focus and dreams alive. Tillie - keeper of rabbits, dreamer of atoms, true believer in life, hope, and the effect of gamma rays on man-inthe-moon marigolds. For teens and adults. 4 pm

Lantern Tours: Walking Vancouver Barracks at Fort Vancouver National Historic Site, 1001 E 5th St., Vancouver.

Explore the U.S. Military history of the site. Each adult carries a lantern as a park ranger guides the group on an outdoor walking tour of the historic Army post.

Visitors will learn about Ulysses S. Grant, Oliver Otis Howard, George C. Marshall, William S. Harney, and other significant figures in Vancouver Barracks’ history. These tours are entirely outdoors, and they cover about a half mile over some uneven and unpaved ground. Visitors must arrive at 6:45 pm. Admission is $10 per adult and $7 per youth.

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(See Feb. 4) 11 am-12 pm

Open Saturday at Pearson Field, 201 E Reserve St., Vancouver.

(See Feb. 4) 1-5 pm Lab Rats at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 4) 2-3 pm Oregon Children’s Theater presents: Flora and Ulysses at Winningstad Theatre, 1111 SW Broadway, Portland. This world premiere is based on the bestselling book by Kate DiCamillo.

Written by John Glore, and directed by Marcella Crowson.

Come an hour early for a preshow activity. And following every performance, meet the cast, take photos, and get your playbill autographed. Tickets: $18-$28 for adults and $14-$24 for children.

26 SUNDAY

Oregon Children’s Theater presents: Flora and Ulysses at Winningstad Theatre, 1111 SW Broadway, Portland. (See Feb. 25) 11 am and 2 pm The Effect of Gamma Rays on Man-in-the-Moon Marigolds at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 24) 4 pm

27 MONDAY

Vancouver Chess Club at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver. (See Feb. 6) 4-7:45 pm Family Storytime at Cascade Park Community Library, 600 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver.

(See Feb. 4) 6:30-7:30 pm

28 TUESDAY

Build It at Vancouver Community Library, 901 C St., Vancouver.

(See Feb. 7) 4-5 pm

A squirrel with superpowers becomes best friends with a 10-year-old girl in “Flora and Ulysses,” an adaptation of Kate DiCamillo’s book.

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Events Children’s Festival..........................................25

Financial iQ Credit Union.................................................3

Fitness barre3 Felida....................................................5 Mountain View Ice Arena................................15 Naydenov Gymnastics...................................11

Health Adventure Dental............................................15 Child and Adolescent Clinic..............................2 Deluna Kids Dental...........................................9 Dentistry for Children......................................23 Evergreen Pediatrics......................................11 Must Love Kids Pediatric Dentistry...................5 PeaceHealth Southwest.................................32 Priority Life Chiropractic and Massage.............7 The Vancouver Clinic......................................27 Vancouver Orthodontic Specialists.................13 Vancouver Parks and Recreation.....................3

Legal Schauermann, Thayer, Jacobs, Staples & Edwards PS...................................21

Resources EOCF................................................................5 Home Instead...................................................7

Retail Kazoodles.........................................................7 Vancouver Mall.................................................7

Schools The Gan Jewish Preschool............................11 King’s Way Christian School............................7 Naydenov Gymnastics...................................11 Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic School.............17

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Teen Heart Screening Limited space, sign up today for this free screening!

Saturday, February 18 PeaceHealth Southwest Heart & Vascular Center

Student athlete heart screenings are for kids ages 12 to 18. This screening uses EKG tests to spot serious heart conditions known to cause sudden cardiac death in active teens.

REGISTER TODAY AT

peacehealth.org/ southwest/heart