Vancouver Family Magazine March 2024

• Record-Breaking Twins

Born to Vancouver Couple, p. 18

• On Air with KXRW, Vancouver's Independent Radio Station, p. 22

• Murder, Mystery and Martinis in Downtown Camas, p. 9

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FEATURE ARTICLES

Worth the Wait

Check out how one Vancouver couple’s journey of adopting donated embryos landed them a history-making Guiness World Record.

7 Ways Doulas Make Birth Better

From comfort to advocacy, learn how doulas improve outcomes for moms and babies.

On Air with KXRW, Vancouver’s Independent Radio Station

Learn how the local radio station got off the ground, against all odds, and is now amplifying local voices.

Mystery, Mayhem and Martinis

A speakeasy door on the side of Salud Wine Bar in Camas opens into a night of frivolous fun. Find out why their murder mystery dinner events consistently sell out.

March '24

IN EVERY ISSUE

6 Editor’s Notes

8 Couve Scoop

• Drug Take Back Events Provide a Safe Place to Dispose of Unneeded Medications

• Rainy Day Fun: Vancouver’s Downtown Association Shares the Love and the Umbrellas

10 Helping Hands

Children’s Home Society and Childhaven have joined forces to provide more resources for families in need. Learn how the new organization, Akin, is making an impact in Clark County.

26 Calendar of Events & Activities

• Surrogacy Stories: Tawni’s Story of Growing Her Heart

• Spring/Summer Performing Arts Preview

• Easter Egg Hunts Happening in Clark County

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Defying the Odds

I didn’t truly appreciate the delicacy of human life until I was tasked with keeping a tiny human body alive inside my own for nine months. Honestly the pregnancy was easy compared to the coming monumental task of keeping a toddler alive when mundane dangers like choke hazards, sharp objects, chemicals and stunts seemed to capture more of her interest than anything safe in our home. But before my oldest daughter became a typical tyrannical toddler, she was an apricot-sized fetus delightfully bumping around on my insides when one night I awoke with blood soaking my pajamas and bed sheets. My mom (a doula and future midwife) and three of my younger siblings happened to have been visiting us in Utah where we lived at the time. I got out of bed, woke up my husband and my mom and called our midwife who gently told us to come in to the office in the morning for some tests. My husband and I cried a lot that night, assuming we were losing the baby. I was still in my first trimester, when 80% of miscarriages happen. Miscarriage is common, but devastating. In just a couple of short months since conceiving, my husband and I had fallen in love with the mysterious little one growing inside me, listing out baby names in the pages of my journal and scoping out car seats. Tests the next day happily confirmed our baby had a healthy heartbeat and was squirming in utero just as she should. My midwife advised me to reduce my work hours, pause my exercise regimen and generally take it easy. Our little Maddie was born seven months later. Not every parent is so lucky, I understand, but the miscarriage scare reminded me that life is fragile and tomorrow is not promised. Every baby born defies the odds in the fight for survival.

In this month’s issue, meet record-breaking twins in Vancouver whose very existence seems ripped from the pages of a sci-fi novel (page 12), check out how one woman revived Vancouver’s waning local FM radio station (page 18) and read how two Washington nonprofits have joined forces to serve more families in need (page 10). Plus, learn where to find mystery, mayhem and martinis (all at once) in Downtown Camas (page 22).

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At the time of this writing, cover model Mackenzie Spada is due with her first baby in just 6-8 weeks! She taught kindergarten for 6 years before stepping away from the classroom and founding The Wellness Collective, on online community space for moms.

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Photo by Marie Pham Photography

MARCH 2024

Drug Take Back Events Provide a Safe Place to Dispose of Unneeded Medications

Most of us will use prescription medications at some point in our lives to manage pain, treat disease and improve health and well-being. Often, we end up with extra doses of these meds after they are no longer needed. Safe disposal of leftover drugs, whether in pill, liquid, needle or some other form is crucial to maintaining clean and safe waterways and landfills and to preventing accidental ingestion by children and pets. Controlled disposal also prevents misuse that can lead to prescription drug addiction. To help provide an easy and safe way to dispose of these extra meds, five local youth substance use coalitions have partnered with law enforcement agencies and other organizations from around Clark County to host Drug Take Back events this year on April 27 and October 29 at various locations. At these events, participants can simply drive up to dispose of any prescription or over-the-counter medications including pills, liquids and inhalers. Removal of personal info on medication labels or packaging is not required. Two of the locations, PeaceHealth Memorial Campus and Walgreens Fisher’s Landing East, will accept sharps and non-prefilled syringes for disposal from noncommercial sources only. For these items, participants must use an approved sharps container or a rigid plastic container with a lid, such as a plastic milk jug, to transport and label the container, “WarningSharps Do Not Recycle.” All event sites will also collect vape pens and e-cigarettes without batteries for disposal. Meds that are collected for disposal will later be safely incinerated by the Drug Enforcement Administration (DEA).

If you happen to miss these two days in 2024, “Washington residents don’t have to wait for the twice-a-year events in April and October,” says

Rainy

Day Fun: Vancouver’s Downtown Association Shares the Love and the Umbrellas

Kelley Groen-Sieckmann, community prevention project coordinator for Central Vancouver Coalition and ESD 112. “Washington State has a safe medication return program with convenient locations with free secure disposal drop-off locations or where you can obtain mail-back supplies to dispose of medicine by mail for free. Find a location or order mail-back supplies at medtakebackwashington.org.”

Both the April 27 and October 29 Drug Take Back events will take place 10 am-2 pm at the following locations:

• PeaceHealth Memorial Campus

• Walgreens Cascade Park or Fishers Landing

• La Center Police Station

• Battle Ground Police Station

• Washougal Police Station

Vancouver’s Downtown Association (VDA) is making a splash in the rainy season with its innovative Yellow Umbrella Share Program. Embracing the spirit of hospitality, VDA’s Promotions Committee has launched this thoughtful initiative to ensure that downtown patrons stay dry and comfortable while exploring the city.

The Yellow Umbrella Share Program allows both customers and employees the convenience of borrowing vibrant yellow umbrellas at no cost. The cheerful umbrellas not only serve a functional purpose but also add a pop of color to the city streets. Patrons can easily pick up

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Top: Vancouver Police Department (VPD) police officers accept medicine for disposal at the PeaceHealth Memorial Campus drug take back event site in 2022.

Bottom: VPD Lieutenant Kathy McNicholas accepting sharps for disposal from a community member at the PeaceHealth Memorial Campus drug take back event site in 2018.

Photos by Kelley Groen-Sieckmann, Central Vancouver Coalition coordinator.

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an umbrella at one of 30 strategically located stations downtown, which include retail shops, restaurants and professional services.

What sets this program apart is its simplicity and accessibility. The yellow umbrellas and accompanying stands feature QR codes that link users to an easy-to-use GPS-enabled walking map, guiding them back to VDA-branded receptacles. This ensures a hassle-free return process, encouraging patrons to explore and enjoy the downtown area without worrying about the logistics of returning the borrowed umbrella.

One of the delightful outcomes of the program is that the streets light up with our vibrant yellow umbrellas in the rainy Pacific Northwest. The program has seen decent retention rates over time, and VDA consistently refills the umbrella supply annually. Interestingly, if patrons happen to take the umbrella home with them, it acts as a subtle yet effective reminder to return downtown and support local businesses. The yellow umbrellas become a symbol of connection and community, encouraging individuals to come back and be part of the vibrant downtown experience.

Learn more and find an umbrella share spot at www.vdausa.org/ umbrellashare

Vancouver’s Downtown Association is lending cheerful yellow umbrellas available for free at pickup and drop-off locations all over downtown.

Photo by Kate Singh Photography.

Children’s Home Society and Childhaven Merge to Become Akin

CBy Sarah Mortensen

hildren’s Home Society of Washington (CHSW) has worked to support children and families in need since its founding in 1896. The original goal was to find homes for displaced children rather than have them live in institutions, often through adoption. As the world changed, CHSW adapted to serve the immediate needs of families. During the Great Depression and through World War II, CHSW offered emergency medical care for children. Later, they coordinated counseling services for families and created new programs for children in foster care. Though the services have changed overtime, the ultimate goal has always been to keep families intact, supporting them through whatever trials and barriers they face to find safety and stability.

Here in Southwest Washington, the society’s large historic home on 12th Street was a welcoming place with resources, referrals and classes available for families. Recently relocated to NE St. Johns Road, CHSW has merged with Seattle-based family services nonprofit Childhaven to “provide deeper, more impactful, high quality and comprehensive support to children and families with a broader continuum of care.” The new organization’s name, Akin, represents the shared goals of both organizations to support the whole family in all aspects of life for continued success.

Though the name is changing, Akin’s regional director for Southwest Washington, Adrienne Mason, assures that “our commitment to supporting your family will continue, and the staff, programs, services and supports will stay the same. Our programs and services will operate as usual, and we’ll be there for families every step of the way, seeking to strengthen families by partnering with them and offering the tools they need to achieve their goals.” Two main ways Akin supports Clark County families is through concrete goods, such as food and clothing, and programs through two family resource centers in the region including behavioral health services and support groups.

Behavioral health and child and family mental health counseling, in particular, is one of the largest parts of Akin’s programming. Previous to the merger, both Childhaven and CHSW providers specialized in mental health for infants and toddlers. By combining forces, they will be able to increase access to this niche but vital service, including workforce development in the mental health space. “We strive to make mental health care available to youth and families by providing services not only at our offices in Vancouver, Washougal and Battle Ground, but also in schools, at the homes of families and within the community at large,” explains Mason. “Appointments are also available virtually for many services, which has increased access for families with transportation difficulties or other conflicts that make in-person meetings difficult.”

As Akin continues to adapt to the changing needs of today’s families, they rely on the proven model of success of “By and For” programs. These are programs in which those who have walked a particular path teach others how to navigate it. For example, the Parents for Parents program “connects parents who have successfully navigated the child welfare system to parents who have recently become engaged with Child Protective Services” to, when possible, quickly reunite parents with their children. Parent allies serve as mentors helping parents separated from their children to remain hopeful and work toward reunification goals.

Through a pathways model, families can access comprehensive and tailored support to meet their unique needs, aiming to support families more fully on their way to self-sufficiency. Through Akin’s Family Resource Centers, a family navigator who has dealt with job searching and social support systems helps families set goals, find the right resources and stay motivated. “A mom, new to Vancouver, came to us for help,” shares Alejandra Frausto, new Akin family navigator. “She accessed goods and food from our resource room and in conversations with her, I learned she needed more. We worked together to create a

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Akin’s mission is to “provide deeper, more impactful, high quality and comprehensive support to children and families with a broader continuum of care.”

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plan to meet her needs. In two weeks, we managed to establish her childcare assistance, apply for food and cash assistance, and get connected with WorkSource. With the support she got from WorkSource to fix her vehicle she ended up obtaining a job at a bank that starts this month!”

Triple Point is another “By and For” group for 2SLGBTQIA+ teens and their families. Supported by a robust team of volunteers, Triple Point meets twice a week to provide a safe space and a sense of belonging. Youth hear about Triple Point through word of mouth, many coming by bus to attend. “A typical afternoon begins with greetings and check-ins. We each share our name, age, mood and identity, and ups and downs for the week,” shares volunteer Heather Moore. “Then we spend time together, making art, chatting and playing games. The kids can search through the gender affirming clothing corner [and] get something to eat.” Sometimes a group speaker will lead a discussion, but often the youth and volunteers teach each other how to embrace their identity. “Witnessing their resilience and courage in navigating the challenges they face is inspiring,” says longtime volunteer Stella Hope. “Watching them motivate and support one another is extraordinary.” For those interested in helping, Hope says, “Do it! Not only will you be assisting our youth in discovering their unique voices and offering support and insight, but you will also find immense personal rewards in the process.” Moore agrees, saying, “Without volunteers, Triple Point wouldn’t exist, and our youth need it to exist.”

“We want to connect [volunteers] with our work, in ways that are meaningful to you, and welcome your ideas about how you could best support us too,” says Mason, adding that volunteering options are very flexible. One volunteer group at the Washougal site supports their yearly “Stuff the Bus” event. Typically, it takes the staff a couple months to sort through the food and other donations, taking them away from regular tasks. “We had a group who were happy to come in a do it for us,” shares Mason. “They had it all sorted by date and type of food in two weeks; it was mind blowing.” A simple way anyone can help is to follow Akin on social media and share their updates with your networks to inspire others to get involved. Also, you can suggest your workplace or social group to do a Kinship Collection drive, collecting diapers, hygiene supplies, laundry soap and other items. Money donations are also accepted through their website.

Akin is on the frontlines of supporting youth and families in need. They seek to address problems before they become a crisis, and they welcome all the help they can get. To learn more about their programs or to reach out, visit Akinfamily.org

Sarah Mortensen holds a degree in marriage and family studies and works for Vancouver Public Schools as a paraeducator in addition to her role as associate editor of Vancouver Family Magazine. When Sarah is not reading to her kids or students, she is probably in her backyard taking care of her garden. She also enjoys hiking, hot chocolate and dressing up for Halloween. She lives in Vancouver with her husband, son, and daughter.

Page 10: Akin’s Triple Point Program space is ready to welcome youth and families for a Halloween event. Staff left to light: Connie Cabler, Hillary Magallanez, Ashley Gliddon, Alejandra Frausto, Sammantha Thacker.

Page 11: Top: Akin’s Family Support Resource Room makes food and supplies available to families who need it.

Bottom: Akin staff Connie Cabler (left) and Alejandra Frausto prepare for a holiday event in 2023. Photo scourtesy Akin.

By Emily Corak

Our very own Vancouver is now home to two Guinness World Record holders, and they just so happen to still be in diapers. Toddler twins, Lydia and Timothy Ridgeway, may have celebrated their first birthdays just last year, but they were born from the world’s oldest known embryos resulting in a live birth.

In 1992 an anonymous couple donated embryos leftover from in vitro fertilization (IVF) treatments. If couples end up with excess embryos, or fertilized eggs in the very beginning stages of development, they can be frozen and stored for other families to adopt in the future. In the case of Lydia and Timothy, the embryos had been frozen in liquid nitrogen for 30 years until Rachel and Philip Ridgeway of Vancouver selected them from the National Embryo Donation Center, which resulted in the birth of the twins.

Rachel and Philip were only 3 and 5 years old respectively in 1992 when the embryos that would later become their children were first conceived. In 1992, Bill Clinton was elected president, “Sister Act” was one of the most popular movies and the average price of a CD was $11.98. And while Timothy and Lydia wouldn’t grow up in the 90s and get to sport bike shorts with neon windbreakers, they would eventually be born decades later to make history. “Life without Lydia and Timothy doesn’t seem imaginable now,” says Rachel Ridgeway. The Ridgeways were the proud parents of four children before utilizing this unique method to expand their family.

“We’ve always been interested in adoption,” says Rachel, adding that the couple initially faced challenges conceiving their older

Worth the Wait

Vancouver Couple Welcomes Record-Breaking Twins through Embryo Donation

children, though the complications turned out to be easily treatable with medication. “After the birth of our third child, we were thinking about how we could help others,” she says. While the concept of adopting donated embryos was new to her, Ridgeway says the method piqued her interest immediately. Rooted deeply in their Christian faith, the Ridgeways wanted to find a way to help other children in need. She says that because of their belief that life begins at conception, “We wanted to give these children a chance at life.”

After hearing about the National Embryo Donation Center (NEDC), located in Knoxville Tennessee, the Ridgeways were just beginning the process of embryo adoption when they were beautifully surprised with their fourth pregnancy, which of course put the process on hold. After the birth of their daughter, Miriam, they traveled to Tennessee to meet the staff, pass the medical clearance, and finally, begin looking at donor profiles.

“It was absolutely insane to be looking at this massive database and thousands of profiles and wondering, how do we pick?” Rachel credits her husband with the idea to look for the donor profiles who had been waiting the longest, which was a set of five embryos that were donated in 1992. Because the biological donor father also had Lou Gehrig’s disease, or amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), the embryos were considered even more vulnerable.

Mark Mellinger, marketing and development director for the NEDC,

explains that virtually all the embryos donated to the center come from families who have successfully completed their families through IVF and fertility treatments. Mellinger explains that most families that make donations no longer have a need for the extra embryos but want them to have a chance at life with another family. When asked about potential risks for using embryos that had been frozen for so long, he explains that the only challenge is how much the freezing technology has advanced in the past three decades. The freezing process used now is called vitrification and is a rapid freezing process as opposed to older, slower methods which create more risk during the thawing process. “Embryos are more likely to survive the thaw and implementation with this

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Twins Lydia (left) and Timothy Ridgeway were born to Rachel and Philip Ridgeway in 2022. The Ridgeways adopted the embryos that had been frozen since 1992 and donated by the original parents. Photos courtesy Rachel and Philip Ridgeway.

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The Ridgeways, understanding that their embryos were frozen using older technology, knew that if their embryos could survive the thaw, the length of time they’d spent on ice would make no difference. The challenge would be the uncertainty that lay ahead.

“We’re on a plane to Tennessee while the dethawing process is happening, so there’s no way for them to let us know exactly what’s going on,” says Rachel. After arriving in Tennessee, the embryologist told them that three of the five embryos had thawed successfully and looked ready for transferring. The embryologist showed the couple a picture of the three embryos and suggested transferring two of the three. “I asked what would happen to the third, and they said it would be refrozen and we could come back for him or her if we wanted,” says Ridgeway.

After examining the picture and looking at her husband, Rachel responded, “You’ve just shown me a picture of my three children; I can’t put one back. I have to have them all today.”

She adds that she looked at her husband, who was also tearing up, and knew they were on the same page. All three embryos were transferred into Rachel in March of 2022. Four weeks later, the Ridgeways learned that two of the embryos had successfully implanted in the uterus. Twins Lydia and Timothy were later born at 37 weeks gestation on October 31 of the same year.

Rachel describes the process as an intense emotional roller coaster: “You’re just waiting— waiting for the transfer, waiting for the blood draws, waiting to see if your numbers go up, and waiting for that first ultrasound.” Rachel credits her faith for her ability to trust that things would work out exactly as they were supposed to. “We went in knowing we weren’t guaranteed anything,” she says. “There’s definitely the waiting and wanting these children to live and to be able to raise them and see them and not knowing if that’s going to happen or not,” she adds. Thankfully, the roller coaster resulted in a happy ending for all involved.

Mellinger says that the staff at the NEDC were ecstatic and celebratory about the Ridgeways’ successful experience. “It’s almost like science fiction come to life, but it’s not fiction,” he says.

While not as widely known as adoption and IVF fertility treatments, embryo donation is becoming increasingly popular. The current success rate for the NEDC is 54%, meaning 54% of embryo transfers result in a viable pregnancy, while 45% of those pregnancies result in birth. “Parents who come back for multiple attempts have an 85% success rate,” says Mellinger. “We want people to know that we’re here and there’s a need,” he adds. He explains that while the cost of the procedure

the NEDC works really hard to work with you and walk you through the process....They really have a love and a heart for people and a desire to get these [embryos] new homes.

—Rachel Ridgeway

from beginning to end can range from $10,500 to $12,000, this tends to be more affordable than traditional adoption or fertility treatments. “The Ridgeways are living proof that you can be part of something special,” he says.

The Ridgeways have glowing things to say about the NEDC as well. “Things can get really complicated doing them from a distance,” says Rachel. “But the NEDC works really hard

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Top: Photo of the three embryos that were transferred into Rachel Ridgeway in March 2022.

Photo courtesy National Embryo Donation Center.

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to work with you and walk you through the process.” She adds that, “They really have a love and a heart for people and a desire to get these [embryos] new homes.”

Rachel says transparency was extremely important to her when discussing the expansion of their family with her other children. “I’m an RN, so my children probably know more medical terminology than most average children, but it was very important to us that they were included in every step of the process.” When she and her husband landed in Knoxville and were about to begin the transferring process she says, “We called [the kids] right away to let them know about how many babies they had transferred, and as soon as my numbers were up, we let them know right away as well.” She tells me that the kids could not be more excited for their growing family, particularly her son who was ecstatic to have his first brother. “They just love having Timothy and Lydia as their siblings, and now that they’re older, they’re really involved and are forming those sibling bonds,” she says. “It’s an amazing blessing for us.”

Having worked for years as a registered nurse, Rachel now stays home with the six children and oversees home schooling. Chatting with Rachel over Zoom, her presence is remarkably calm and grounded. “I’ve been told I’m a pretty chill mom,” she laughs. “Things happen. Spills happen. Mistakes happen.” She goes on to say, “The Lord’s really helped me recognize that kids are kids, and there’s a lot of peace and trust that comes with having strong faith.” The couple also consider themselves lucky that Philip can work from home which makes a big difference. “He definitely changes his fair share of diapers,” says Rachel.

A typical day for the Ridgeway family starts with family breakfast and then chores and home-schooling, which changes every day. “It seems like there are times where we can get a lot done in the morning, and there’s times when we don’t get as much done, and that’s

OK. That’s the beauty of being a home-school parent and home-school family,” she says. Noting that people are always in awe of the idea of parenting six children, she adds that it wasn’t six all at once, so they have been able to ease into the process. “I have to say though, two at one time has definitely thrown us for new adventures. After you have four kids, you think, ‘This? We’ve done this before,’ just to be thrown a big loop.”

As for what the future holds, the Ridgeways are open to whatever may come their way and wherever their faith leads them. “The size of our family has never been something that we’ve really discussed in regard to how many,” says Rachel. “There’s no magic number for us.” The kids are already asking when the next one is coming, she says, but she doesn’t know for sure. “It’s been a huge blessing, and I would definitely be open to returning to the NEDC again,” says Rachel. For now, they are happy and adjusting to being a family of eight, and only time will tell what’s in store for this beautiful family.

Emily Corak has lived in the Pacific Northwest for the past three decades. A former educator with Vancouver School District, Emily is now a freelance writer, photographer and mom to two young kids with big personalities. She recently earned her MFA in creative writing and, if given the choice, she would spend all her spare cash on travel and books.

The Ridgeway family welcomed twins Lydia and Timothy into their family in 2022, making a family of eight. Photos courtesy Rachel and Philip Ridgeway.

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Feature: Seven Ways Doulas Make Birth Better

7 Ways Doulas Make Birth Better

By Sherilee Peters

Joy, excitement and delight! You feel all the feels when you find out you are pregnant! But when thinking of the actual birth, you may have concerns, fears or worries.

• “I’m worried that my spouse/partner won’t know how to help me.”

• “I’m afraid of being in pain and out of control.”

• “What if my care provider pushes for interventions I don’t want?”

Imagine filling your mind with these thoughts instead:

• “I’m confident about going into labor. I feel prepared to give birth.”

• “My birth team fully supports my wishes and will help me have a safe, supported birth.”

• “My partner is rock solid and has all the support they need to help me give birth.”

• “I have someone in my corner, available at all times, who is there for me!”

The arrival of your baby is one of the most life-changing events you will ever experience—you want to remember it positively. To that end, doulas can help clients feel confident, bonded and full of joy as they bring their baby into the world.

Maybe you are wondering how doulas make birth better?

Doulas provide everything from foot rubs to back rubs. They fetch your partner meals, advocate for your birth wishes, create a relaxing atmosphere in your birthplace and answer questions along the way. Doulas give encouragement when it gets hard, educate you about your choices, and let your partner get some sleep. Ultimately, they create a safe space for a mother as she gives birth. This is vital because women give birth more easily and comfortably when they have support and feel safe.

Here are 7 specific ways doulas make birth better:

1 Doulas make pre-birth visits to relieve stress and fear. Once hired, your doula is yours! You can call, text, or email—they are always available to you. They will meet with you before birth to prepare for the birth experience you are dreaming of. Together you can create a birth plan, work through your fears, or practice relaxation techniques. Your doula will know how to best support you and your partner, empower you and guide you to feel safe and confident.

2 Doulas provide an easier, more comfortable birth experience. Doulas are birth professionals and they know many different birth positions, massages and techniques—all of which can help your labor progress most efficiently. They are experts in providing comfort in the physical and emotional needs you may have during labor. They can help you create an environment that allows you to relax fully. Doulas help reduce interventions and improve birth outcomes.

3 Your birth story memories captured. Some parts of birth are forever imprinted on our hearts. Other memories fade almost instantly. Many doulas are happy to snap photos and videos during birth if you and your partner want it documented. You’ll be able to re-live those precious moments. Your doula can write birth notes, documenting the timeline and details of your birth story. These images and words make a remarkable addition to your baby book.

4 Doulas give you the confidence to make birth choices. Birth can be unknown and scary. Even though you can’t control exactly what will happen, you are still the one who gets to call the shots. Doulas can help ensure that you receive all the information you need to make informed decisions. They’ll provide all the support you need, no matter what direction your birth may take. And they’ll do everything in their power to make your day calm and full of joy as you meet your baby.

5 Doulas empower your partner to be helpful and confident to support you. Partners have an amazing ability to perform under pressure and have the potential to be an incredible support to you in labor. The only hitch? They need to know what to do. That’s why partners and doulas make a great team. Doulas have the knowledge your partner has a heart bursting with love for both you and your baby. Doulas equip your partner to be as involved as you want them to be.

6 Doulas ensure from beginning to end—you never feel alone. From the first contraction, doulas are there to walk you through. Doulas focus on you and your partner in each moment during birth. You can count on their undivided attention, never taking away from your partner, but truly supporting you as a couple. Doulas can help you labor at home or meet you at your birth place. Doulas come to you at your invitation and are your dependable support through the whole birth process.

7 Doulas give you postpartum support that gets you off to the best start. As a new parent, you can be full of joy and full of worry. You may spend a lot of time wondering if you and your little one are normal. Many doulas make at least one postpartum visit in the first week and provide phone and email support in the months to come. A doula’s goal is to help you feel confident and in tune with your body and your baby so you experience and enjoy bonding and breastfeeding during your little one’s first weeks and months of life.

So is a Birth Doula worth the financial investment?

How much would you spend on a wedding, vacation or massage? The way these events unfold are memories that last forever. We know you have expenses when you’re expecting, but the way a baby is born matters. How you feel at your birth . . . matters. Hiring a doula reduces worry and provides a better birth outcome. Having a doula by your side reduces the experience of birth trauma and unnecessary interventions. Remembering your birth with a positive memory . . . is worth every investment!

Doulas just make birth better!

Schedule a free doula consult with Baby Nest Birth Services at babynestbirth.com.

Sherilee Peters grew up on a recreational farm in Canada complete with horses, peacocks and even buffalo. Watching animals give birth from a young age is where she had her first realization of how natural the birth process could be. She is a mother of two, a birth and postpartum doula, a Bradley Method birth instructor and owner of Baby Nest Birth Services in Vancouver.

WITH K XRW Vancouver’s Independent Radio Station

By Kristen Flowers

tuck at a traffic light, I stared at the back of the red SUV in front of me. A sticker they had slapped on their bumper caught my eye. It read 99.9 KXRW, Vancouver. Independent. Radio.

I was immediately skeptical. Why does Vancouver have an independent radio station? And what does it sound like?

The questions swirled around my brain, and as soon as I got within arm’s length of a computer, I began to dig into this mysterious station. The reason for my obsession is simple: Radio is my life.

In 2004, I graduated from college with a broadcasting degree with the dream of one day being one of those people you hear on the radio. I imagined myself reading the news or traffic, and I believed that if I worked hard, I could be one of the personalities you listened to as you headed out into your morning commute.

I jumped into the industry with both feet and took whatever job I was offered. My first experience in radio was as a promotions assistant. I went from place to place, putting up radio station tents and handing out bumper stickers (like the one I would later see on the red SUV).

From there, I weaseled my way into the newsroom where they allowed me to give traffic updates during the midnight to 5 a.m. shift. I thought I had hit the big time when I was offered my own morning show in the smallest Colorado town anyone had ever seen. Among the cows and empty mountain ranges, I felt like a star.

In the radio business you move around a lot, and my life changed when I got hired to do the news for an AM station in Las Vegas, where I met my future husband. The two of us pretended we were a hit morning radio show in the production studios on the weekends and eventually started recording our fake show. It took a lot of courage, but we decided to send our demo to a radio station in Indiana and were surprisingly hired as their new morning show. The crazy radio industry has taken us nationwide, but our most recent stop has been the Pacific Northwest. Over 4 years ago, we were hired as the morning show on 99.5 The Wolf, and we have been known as the Married Morning Show ever since.

So, the thought of the city I call home having an independent radio station sent me into a Google frenzy. I know what it takes to build a radio station, and I had to know who was crazy enough to do this.

That person was Susan Galaviz.

In 2012, Galaviz and her husband listened to AM 620 KPOJ regularly and loved that they showcased local voices and talked about community issues. “We didn’t start our day without it. Then, one day, it was just off the air!” Galaviz chuckles with a sigh.

Her favorite AM talk station had been switched to a national sports station in an all-too-common radio move. All local voices were removed from the station and replaced with national radio talent. She swore then that she would try to bring back community voices to the radio dial. However, had she known then how arduous a task it would be, she may have thought twice before pursuing this dream. “Running a radio station is a different can of worms! But I can give it a shot!” Galaviz remembers thinking during those early years.

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Feature: On Air with KXRW, Vancouver’s Independent Radio Station

Top: KXRW producer, Steena Trecha, interviews the owner of Sumner Signs who created the Vancouver Washington mural located at 6th and Broadway in Vancouver. Photo by Scott Hohman.

Bottom: KXRW founder and president Susan Galaviz records station IDs in studio. Photo by Chase Spross.

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Starting from Scratch

Persistent, Galaviz teamed up with KXRW’s Portland sister station XRAY.FM and the Media Institute for Social Change. Armed with a talented board of directors and engineering friends, KXRW was given a construction permit by the FCC (Federal Communications Commission). Getting that license was the first significant hurdle when building a radio station, but Galaviz’s struggles were far from over.

Next, it was time to find people who knew how to create and produce meaningful local content, consistently and on a volunteer basis. “Such is the life of a growing nonprofit where all money raised goes directly toward rising operational costs and why community support is so important,” says Galaviz.

Luckily for Galaviz, who had years of experience organizing large PTA events, she could convince someone in white gloves to order a ketchup popsicle. Additionally, she had experience in marketing with a local Spanish television program on KUNP Univision. She continued checking off the tasks that needed to be done and looking ahead to the next step. With the license and talent in place, it was time to get on the air, but that takes a significant amount of money, to the tune of $30,000.

Broadcasting equipment, an antenna and more permits are all expensive and tedious to get, and to top it off, the FCC only allows broadcasters a chance for one construction permit extension. Everything needs to be perfect and in place before the paperwork is submitted.

But in the Pacific Northwest, Mother Nature has her own ideas. An ice storm hit in the winter of 2017 which delayed the broadcasting equipment delivery. Galaviz and her team pleaded with the FCC for more time, and the FCC made a rare exception. This gave the motley crew of broadcasters the time they needed to get the station operational. “It came so close to not happening at all, but we did it!” says Galaviz.

The hard work paid off and on March 1, 2017, KXRW 99.9 FM could be heard officially on Vancouver’s radio airwaves. Galaviz, founder and president of KXRW remembers being teary-eyed driving down the road and seeing the KXRW call letters for the first time on her car radio dial. She says she felt overwhelmed with gratitude for her team and the many community members who believed and donated to help make KXRW Vancouver 99.9FM a reality for our community.

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Another milestone was reached a year later when the station received its nonprofit 501(c)(3) status, allowing any donations to KXRW to be tax deductible, which is how all public, independent radio stations can survive. The mission statement is clear: KXRW is an independent, volunteer-powered, values-driven, community-supported nonprofit organization dedicated to delivering quality programming with an emphasis on local voices and is committed to sharing knowledge and information to build a stronger community, based on inclusion, diversity and social justice in Southwest Washington and beyond.

The first broadcast was exciting because the station was finally on the air, but as soon as the station began to pick up steam, Galaviz quickly realized it takes a lot to run a live station. It needs content, and lots of it. Since the station never stops, the team needed to add new shows to feed the 24-hours-a-day, 7-days-a-week beast that is radio.

New Shows, New Stories

“It was nerve-wracking because that’s the next thing,” says Galaviz. “We got the station on the air, but to do live radio 24-7 is a huge feat. You have to build up your programs, and we only had three or four to start out.” The roster of volunteer producers, hosts and storytellers began to grow quickly which increased the diversity of the programming. Thanks to community interest, KXRW began covering all aspects of the Southwest Washington experience. “Our growth is exciting, but with that growth comes more operational cost and why we really need more monthly members and monthly business sponsors partnering with us doing onair ad campaigns for their business on our programming. It’s a win-win!” says Galaviz.

Programming includes interviews with mental health experts, local elected officials, political candidates, founders of local nonprofits and business leaders and community members doing amazing things.

One of these local experts is Dr. Loretta Shields, a relationships specialist. She started at the station by being on another show called “The Women’s Mosaic” and realized how much fun it was to be part of the radio community. She went on to create her own show, “Heart to Heart.” “The show talks about ways to build healthy relationships

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KXRW co-hosts, Elizabeth Madrigal (left) and Karen Morrison record “The Women’s Mosaic” in studio. Photo by Steven Glickman.

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with people in your everyday life,” says Dr. Shields. “This combines my background in public and pastoral counseling. From public health, we know that having healthy social support systems is associated with positive health outcomes. From pastoral counseling, we give people tools and techniques to build, nurture and heal their relationships from the inside out. Each episode explains one relationship tool people can use to build healthy and happy relationships, such as communication tools, understanding personality styles, and using emotional intelligence.”

Dr. Shields believes a show like hers is needed in Southwest Washington because everyone can benefit from the information she is putting out. “Hopefully [the listeners] see themselves in the content. I use examples from my personal life to make it come alive and to let them know that everyone has problems with their relationships and that it is OK. However, we don’t have to settle for mediocre relationships if we are willing to make small changes and interact with people in the healthiest ways possible.”

Fixing and improving relationships is not usually a benefit of listening to the radio, but that is what makes KRXW unique. Their commitment to diversity and inclusion distinguishes them from other radio stations because they have a program for every part of their audience.

“I’m With Her and She’s with Me” is a program hosted by Amy and Renee Wilson. Galaviz approached the two when she heard about their unique individual stories and how they came together as a couple since Renee is transgender and Amy is cisgender. At that point, transgender individuals were not yet represented on KRXW, and Galaviz thought the community could benefit from their program that covers a variety of current topics. “Our show is [about] empowering and inspiring women,” says Wilson. “Educating men on women’s perspectives and bringing all walks of life together to find common ground.” The show has been

“We have found far more people are interested and supportive of our mission than those that aren’t. It’s been a

wonderful experience to see that our community is full of people who want to grow, learn and gain understanding,” says Wilson.

Mike Selig hosts the show “Good Ship Earth,” where parents learn how to build a better future for their children and how to improve our country’s systems. Selig is one of the original members of KRXW and has been with Galaviz since the radio station’s inception. Other programs include “Internal Chatter,” hosted by Melissa Beatty and Staci Hunter, which focuses on mental health; “Flick Fix” is a movie review show by host Austin Read; and there is even a show focusing on local sports called “Sportslandia” with host Darrin Cline. Plus, the station supports local bands and plays world music, two things traditional terrestrial radio cannot do.

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“...Everyone has problems with their relationships and that it is OK. However, we don’t have to settle for mediocre relationships if we are willing to make small changes and interact with people in the healthiest ways possible.”

—Dr. Loretta Shields, Creator of KRXW's "Heart to Heart" radio show

Top: KXRW’s The Rogue Apostles current events radio show co-hosts (left to right), Steven Glickman (also KXRW’s program and operations director), Scotty Stills, Zane Thomas, Amanda Lynn Deal and Faith Spencer record in studio. Photo by Kyle Adams.

Middle right: Melissa Beatty (left) and Staci Hunter host “Internal Chatter,” a radio show that turns mental health into daily dialogue. Photo by Mark Beatty.

Middle left: Teresa Torres (left) and Tracy Reilly Kelly record their KXRW program “Citizen 411” in studio. Photo by Barb Seaman.

Bottom left: KXRW Host, Dr. Loretta Shields, records “Heart 2 Heart: The Reality of Relationships” in studio. Photo by Dr. Loretta Shields.

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Each show is prerecorded either in the KXRW recording studio or in the home studios of the different producers. When finished, they are uploaded into the automation system, ready for air. Producers must know how to produce and make their recorded program sound professional, which is a different skill set than writing the show itself. Oftentimes, volunteer broadcasters learn to become field reporters or technical support specialists to start on the path to producing their very own shows. Technical support and mentor assignments to help someone wanting to learn how to make great radio are guided by KXRW’s operation and production director, Steven Glickman. “Steven’s role is huge in helping us grow our programming and I am forever grateful to him,” says Galaviz.

So, if you’ve ever been told you have a voice for the radio or have an idea to lift up and inspire the community, this is your time to show what you’ve got. “I really love it when I get someone who has a passion for having their voice heard with meaningful content, and that our community can learn and benefit from. I’ve known people who knew nothing about the production work who are off and running now,” says Galaviz, adding,

“There is something very special about community radio that brings together some of the most authentic, creative and kindhearted people you’ll ever meet. We share a passion to educate, inform and inspire through our programming because, after all, an informed community is a healthier community.”

In my career as a radio professional, it’s refreshing to see the passion and support behind this independent station. A terrestrial radio station rarely survives the challenges KXRW has had to face. Galaviz and her crew have made something beautiful that truly captures the spirit of Southwest Washington. So, throw the station on tonight while washing the dishes or cooking dinner. You’ll likely walk away entertained, educated and inspired by your fellow Washingtonians.

Kristen Flowers lives in Vancouver with her husband and daughter, Lilly. You can hear the whole family on 99.5 The Wolf during the Nick and Kristen Morning Show. When she is not working and writing, Kristen loves crafting, watching documentaries and going to escape rooms.

KXRW Vancouver programming can be heard in Vancouver and the greater Portland area on the 99.9 FM signal, in addition to XRAY’s 91.1 and 107.1 FM frequencies. They also archive and stream the programming on their website, XRAY.FM, as well as the XRAY.FM app.

For more information on programming, and how to support and/or get involved with KXRW Vancouver Radio go to kxrw.fm. Music submissions can be sent to submitmusic@kxrw.fm and all other inquiries can be sent to susan.galaviz@kxrw.fm.

Feature: Mystery, Mayhem and Martinis at Salud

Wine Bar

MYSTERY, Martinis Mayhem &

at Salud Wine Bar

Words and photos by Emily

Corak

If you’re looking to shake up your normal routine, eat fantastic food and have a night of pure fun, might I suggest a night of meatloaf and murder? Salud Wine Bar, located in Downtown Camas, hosts themed monthly murder mystery dinners, guaranteed to be one of the most entertaining nights you’ve had in a long time. I’ll circle back to the meatloaf, because that alone is more than enough reason to visit Salud.

Owners Raechill and Tony Dotson opened Salud in 2017. It began as a simple wine bar, complete with wine storage. When the pandemic circled the world, they got creative by adding to-go meals made from old Italian family recipes. Thankfully, Salud survived the closures and became a community staple, emerging even bigger and better than before.

Two years ago this May, the wine bar and kitchen expanded to include an old-fashioned speakeasy in the back, complete with a phone booth and password needed to enter. “It’s still in its infancy stages,” says Tony Dotson, “But we really want people to know that it’s here and a great place to have a happy hour.” After a recent trip to Rome, the Dotsons are planning on incorporating even more elements to create an authentic Italian happy

hour experience, including free appetizers when ordering drinks.

After a week of ice storms in January, I braved the elements to attend my first ever murder mystery party at Salud. The theme? The Roaring Twenties—Murder at the Juice Joint, a perfect fit for the speakeasy. Weeks prior to the scheduled dinner, I received my character dossier and information: I would be attending the party as Private Investigator Pinkerton, a private eye full of integrity, determined to solve the crime of who murdered Louie Marie. Tony Dotson says that the best way to enjoy this party is to embrace the character: “Read about who you are, come in character as best you can, and just be ready to have fun with it.”

Getting into Character

I set out to do just that. I hit the thrift shops and raided some friends’ closets for a trench coat and tie, fedora hat and a fake cigar. A few minutes of research provided lingo from the era for a little extra flair. This would be my first acting gig since the ninth grade, but the Dotsons assure everyone who participates there’s no need to be nervous. It’s not necessary to memorize or overprepare, just be ready to have some fun. “Alcohol can be a little helpful as well,” Tony adds with a chuckle.

I will admit, I was a bundle of nerves. As the investigator, would I be in charge of solving things in front of people? What if I didn’t commit enough to the character or went over the top? I needn’t have worried, though. The moment I walked in, the 1920s-themed music was playing and virtually everyone was in costume, ranging from simple to elaborate. There were flapper dresses, cigars, bowler hats and suspenders galore. People were friendly and embracing the theme. The owners greeted me with an envelope and all the information

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The author dressed as Private Investigator Pinkerton, her assigned role at a recent Murder Mystery Dinner at Salud Wine Bar in Camas.

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needed to make the night a success. The environment makes it pretty easy to abandon inhibitions and jump into character, and the drink ticket didn’t hurt either.

I sat at a table with a mother-daughter pair who came as a flapper girl and a Hollywood actress, and we chatted about the evening and who we think could have possibly (fictitiously) murdered Louie. Inside my envelope were hints and directives specifically geared for PI Pinkerton with a list of objectives and possible suspects and witnesses to engage. The envelope also contained my meal and drink tickets alongside pretend money to use for the evening. (Bribery and blackmail are encouraged!) Mingling is one of the most important elements of the evening, so we were encouraged to get up from our tables, break away from the people we came with and to suspect everyone! I chatted with Kitty Cocktail, Southside Sal and Mugsy Malone, piecing together alibis and motives in my trusty notebook. Looking around, no one stayed seated at their table; everyone milled about, talking with people they’d only just met. “One of my favorite things about Salud,” says Raechill, “is how people walk in as strangers and leave as friends.”

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A Whodunit Dinner

After a first round of inquiries, mingling, charcuterie and cocktails, dinner was served! Prior to the event, guests had been given the menu and a choice between Italian classics such as fettuccini, spaghetti and of course, meatloaf, which was described on the menu as if “lasagna and meatloaf had a baby.” The meatloaf alone is enough to make a repeat customer out of me. In fact, I worry that I’m already hooked and won’t venture out to try anything new there again. After more twists and turns were revealed throughout the night, we were given another set of envelopes with more guidance and specific evidence to uncover.

Only one person in the crowd opened their envelope to reveal that they were, indeed, the killer. Speaking with the murderer after the event was over, they revealed that they were given some diversion tactics to throw the others off their scent, which I found were quite convincing.

By this time, most inhibitions were down and people were having a grand time, seeking out the evidence and either collecting money or using their money to uncover secrets.

A multitude of storylines were revealed and leads pointed in various directions. I’d suspected eight people by the time the night was over. Then, Tony and Raechill served dessert as everyone made their final attempts to get to the bottom of the murders.

As the investigator, once I’d collected all the evidence, it was displayed for everyone to look at before making their final accusations. Not only does everyone get a chance to try and solve the case, but they get to vote on best-dressed, the person who stayed most in-character with the best acting chops, and everyone reveals how much fake money they ended the night with. As an investigator on the up and up, I was unable to accept any bribery and had very little cash left to my name.

I did, however, get the honor as the lead detective to reveal the solution, which I opened from an envelope much like a presenter at the Oscars. Sadly, I failed and did not correctly guess the murderer. When I asked Tony about how many people on average guess correctly, he told me it’s usually around two people, though they’ve had up to six, and there once was a two-month stretch where nobody was able to solve the case! That made me feel a

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little better, but I’m looking forward to trying again in the future for redemption. The winners did get to go home with a bottle of wine or a gift card to the restaurant, so next time I’m going to step up my game.

In addition to the Roaring Twenties, Salud will be hosting plenty of other upcoming murder mysteries to look forward to. The Murder at the Juice Joint might be one of the owners’ favorites, but they are also big fans of the 1980s-themed prom. “I’m an 80s kid,” says Tony. “I went to my own prom in the 80s so that one’s a lot of fun.” Other themes include a wedding reception gone wrong, Tragedy at the Trailer Park, Pirates, Halloween monsters, Bad Santa and March’s current theme of Murder in Sin City.

The murder mystery series has been a staple since Salud first opened—Raechill had previously organized these events for holiday parties in a former job and she knew she wanted to continue. “We’ve learned some things since our first one,” says Tony, explaining that they held their first themed dinner party in the dining room and included around 50 people. “We’ve trimmed it back since that first one,” he says, finding that 20-30 people tends to be the magic number. Transitioning to the speakeasy has also made the evenings even more of a success. Of the people I spoke to at the party, most were here for the first time, although a few had been to prior parties and loved it so much they just had to return.

A Great Gift

“I bought a dress for this,” says Sandy Vandenberg, a participant who was gifted this experience by her daughter. “I haven’t worn a dress in forever!” she told me, citing how fun

it was to come as the Hollywood actress Greta Garbled. Vandenberg’s daughter, Danielle Cardoso, went on to say that she chose the event as a Christmas gift for her mother because experiences are more fun than material things, and she’s always loved Downtown Camas. “I’m so impressed by the set-up, the staff and everyone in character,” shares Cardoso. Groups that night were made up of mother-daughter pairings, brothers and sisters, and plenty of romantic couples looking for a night out and an opportunity to mix things up. Participants cited some initial nerves, but everyone said those dissipated quickly because the evening was so fun and low pressure. “I was so worried about having to improvise without a script,” says one participant. “But it turns out there was nothing to worry about.”

Vandenberg, who did a remarkable job of staying in character, exclaims, “I wasn’t nervous, just excited!” I have to concur. The Dotsons and the staff at Salud, including their phenomenal bartender, have curated something special. The evening is fun, fastpaced, full of delicious food and drinks, and structured with just enough guidance so you don’t have to worry too much about where to start. Raechill adds, “There were some men there who had been dragged by their wives and didn’t think they would have a good time, but by the end of the night they’re telling me they had fun.” She adds, “They always do.”

The themes for the murder mysteries rotate monthly, with usually two events per month scheduled on the calendar. A ticket includes admission, dinner, one drink and access to an unforgettable night that the staff has worked tirelessly to prepare. These nights do sell out quickly, so you should act fast if you’re interested!

But if mingling with strangers isn’t quite your cup of tea, private

murder mystery experiences are available for family gatherings or work parties as long as you have about 20 people. And if a night of murder isn’t on the table for you, the restaurant and speakeasy have plenty more to offer. Live music, karaoke or just an old-fashioned Italian-style happy hour are easy to enjoy in style. Just grab the password and a cocktail and know you are in the presence of quality people who care about making sure you have a good time. And did I mention you should absolutely try the meatloaf?

To view upcoming events or to try your hand at solving a murder mystery, visit Salud’s website at Saludwine.com.

Emily Corak has lived in the Pacific Northwest for the past three decades. A former educator with Vancouver School District, Emily is now a freelance writer, photographer and mom to two young kids with big personalities. She recently earned her MFA in creative writing and, if given the choice, she would spend all her spare cash on travel and books.

Feature: Mystery, Mayhem and Martinis at Salud Wine Bar (cont'd)

Top: Mother and daughter Sandy Vandenberg (right) and Danielle Cardoso attend a Murder Mystery Dinner at Salud Wine dressed as Greta Garbled and Clara Bow.

Bottom: Mother and daughter Tayah Molchanoff (left) and Erika Molchanoff attend a Murder Mystery Dinner at Salud Wine dressed as Kitty Cocktail and Rosie Marie. Tayah was voted best dressed at the end of the evening.

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Calendar

March '24

1 FRIDAY

Vancouver’s Downtown Association First Friday Art Walk. Enjoy art, music and more all over Downtown. Go to vdausa.org/firstfriday for a list of events and offerings.

Easter Bunny Photos at Vancouver Mall, 8700 NE Vancouver Mall Dr., Vancouver. Hop on over to visit the Easter Bunny for family photos Mar 1-30. More information at shopvancouvermall.com/events. Hours vary.

Downtown Camas First Friday – Jurassic Camas. Stomp, chomp and roar your way through Downtown Camas during this big and bold, interactive, informative and fun First Friday with after hours shopping, prizes and more. 5-8 pm

The Valiant Ballroom 2nd Anniversary Open House at The Valiant Ballroom, 111 W 9th St., Vancouver. Open house-style experience with snacks, wine and more. 5-8 pm

Journey Theater presents “James and the Giant Peach Jr.” at Joyce Garver Theater, 1500 NE Garfield St, Camas. When James is sent

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by his conniving aunts to chop down their old fruit tree, he discovers a magic potion that results in a tremendous peach—and launches a journey of enormous proportions. Tickets $16-$21 at journeytheater.org. Playing Mar. 1-2, showtimes vary.

The Ne Plus Ultra Jass Orchestra at Providence Academy Ballroom, 400 E Evergreen Blvd., Vancouver. Live music and dancing to the tunes of the roaring 20s and Depression-era 30s. Tickets $15 at the door or online at historicmusic.org/upcoming-events. 7-9 pm

Monster Jam at Moda Center, Portland. Watch monster trucks face off in racing, two-wheel skills and freestyle. Tickets $25$100 at monsterjam.com. Playing Mar. 1-3, showtimes vary.

Young Professionals: Impulse Improv Troupe at Curious Comedy Theater, 5225 NE Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd., Portland. A raucous blend of improv comedy, musical mayhem, and sketch-style silliness, no two shows are the same—all performed on-thespot, unscripted, and unapologetically funny! Recommended for ages 7+. Playing Mar. 1-10, showtimes vary.

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Love Street Playhouse presents “Wait Until Dark” at Love Street Playhouse, 126 Loves Ave., Woodland. In 1944 Greenwich Village, Susan Hendrix, a blind yet capable woman, is imperiled by con men in her own apartment. As the climax builds, Susan discovers that her blindness just might be the key to her escape, but she and her tormentors must wait until dark to play out this classic thriller’s chilling conclusion. Tickets $25 at lovestreetplayhouse.com. Playing Mar. 1-10, showtimes vary.

Milagro Theatre presents “Verónica Princesa” at Milagro Theatre, 525 SE Stark St., Portland. After Verónica has a particularly bad argument with her mother about her responsibilities at home, she is sent into various song-filled fairytales by a magical shoemaker. As she travels through these magical worlds she begins to discover the hardships of being a princess. Tickets $20-$30 at milagro.org. Playing Mar. 1-2, showtimes vary.

2 SATURDAY

Ridgefield Arts Month Kickoff and Color Run at Overlook Park, 113-131 S Main Ave., Ridgefield. Run or walk the 2-mile fun run while being sprayed with color powder at various stations throughout the course. Benefits Sunset Ridge Intermediate and View Ridge Middle Schools. Registration $20-$25 at ridgefieldwa.us. 9-11:30 am

Metropolitan Performing Arts Broadway Jr presents “Rip Van Winkle and the Princess of Dreams” at MPA, 6403 E Mill Plain Blvd., Vancouver. Sick and tired of the frustration of the world, Rip Van Winkle resolves to sleep for the rest of his life, but is what he finds in the Land of Dreams enough to change

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his mind and his heart? Tickets $1-$3 at metropolitanperformingarts.org. Playing Mar. 2-3, showtimes vary.

S’More Adventures Annual Auction Benefitting Camp Hope at Royal Oaks Country Club, 8917 NE Fourth Plain Blvd., Vancouver. Enjoy lunch with a beautiful view of the 10th fairway, explore camp programs and bid on great gift baskets, all supporting Camp Hope as they help youth thrive through outdoor-based learning, adventure and fun. 11:30 am-2 pm

Ukraine Unbroken at Camas Public Library, 625 NE 4th Ave., Camas. February 2024 marks the 10th anniversary of Russian occupation of Crimea and 2nd anniversary of all-out Russian invasion of Ukraine. Tatiana Terdal, member of Advisory Board of Ukrainian Foundation, shares her experience of living and teaching in Ukraine, visiting Mercy Corps office in Severodonetsk (now under Russian occupation) in 2016 and Lviv in the summer of 2023. 6 pm

3 SUNDAY

Southwest Washington Wind Symphony presents “Imagination” at Union High School, 6201 NW Friberg-Strunk St., Camas. Under the baton of conductor Patrick Murphy from the University of Portland, the 55-musician concert band will perform Xerxes by John Mackey, Overture to an

Endless Summer by Kara Williams, Welcome to the Imagination World by Daisuke Shimizu and more.

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4 MONDAY

“When Vancouver Missed the Boat: Those Who Kept Vancouver from Growing” presentation with historian Pay Jollota at Clark County Historical Museum, 1511 Main St., Vancouver. Tickets $15 at cchmuseum. org. 6 pm

7 THURSDAY

Free Clinic of Southwest Washington Spring Breakfast Fundraiser at Royal Oaks Country Club, 8917 NE Fourth Plain Blvd., Vancouver. Enjoy delicious food, learn more about the Free Clinic, have the chance to win some great raffle prizes and visit with members of the health care and business communities. All proceeds help the Free Clinic live out its mission of providing free, compassionate, quality health care for the uninsured in our community. Tickets $50 at freeclinics.org. 8-9:30 am

Inspire HER Conference and Iris Awards at Hilton Vancouver, 301 W 6th St., Vancouver. Greater Vancouver Chamber brings you an empowering event dedicated to celebrating and advancing professional women. Keynote plus interactive breakout sessions led by industry experts. Tickets $150-$175 at vancouverusa.com.

8:30 am-5 pm

CCHM Speaker Series: “And It Has Pockets! The Battle for Women’s Clothing Equality” at Fourth Plain Community Commons, 3101 E Fourth Plain Blvd., Vancouver. Join costume designer Diane Johnston to dig into the pockets of the past, tracing the history of the humble pocket to determine if the battle for equality may still be decided by a few inches of extremely influential fabric. 7-8:30 pm

8 FRIDAY

Java for Justice Brunch at Heathman Lodge, 7801 NE Greenwood Dr., Vancouver. Featuring Elizabeth Smart as keynote speaker, Java For Justice Brunch will benefit National Women’s Coalition Against Violence and Exploitation. Tickets $75 at nwcave.org.

Journey Theater presents “The SpongeBob Musical” at Washburn Performing Arts Center, 1201 39th St., Washougal. When the citizens of Bikini Bottom discover that a volcano will soon erupt and destroy their humble home, SpongeBob and his friends must come together to save the fate of their undersea world. With lives hanging in the balance and all hope lost, a most unexpected hero rises up. The power of optimism really can save the world! Tickets $16-$21 at journeytheater. org. Playing Mar. 8-16, showtimes vary.

9 SATURDAY

Downtown Alley Flea Market at Kindred Homestead Supply, 606 Main St., Vancouver.

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Costume designer Diane Johnston discusses the history of the pocket as it represents independence for women at the CCHM Speaker Series.

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Author Leila Philip’s “Beaverland: How One Weird Rodent Made America” gives an intimate and revelatory dive into the world of the beaver— the wonderfully weird rodent that has surprisingly shaped American history and may save its ecological future.

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Discover handmade and artisan treasures, plus vintage items, furniture, home décor and more. Groove to live music from Ronald Records, and enjoy kids’ activities. 10 am-4 pm

Camas/Washougal Volunteer Summit at Fuel Medical Building, 314 NE Birch, Camas. Enjoy this open house-style opportunity to connect with your community and discover new Camas and Washougal service opportunities. 11 am-3 pm

“Beaverland: How One Weird Rodent Made America” Author Event with Leila Philip at Fort Vancouver National Historic Site Visitor Center, 1501 E Evergreen Blvd., Vancouver. Meet author Leila Philip and buy an autographed copy of her book at Fort Vancouver, once the beaver pelt trade capitol of the world. 1-3 pm

Lucky Shamrock Auction at ilani, 1 Cowlitz Way, Ridgefield. Games, live entertainment and performances, live auction and desserts, all benefitting Rocksolid Teen Center. Tickets $100 at rocksolid-teen.com/events. 5 pm

A Tail to Remember Auction for the Animals at Heathman Lodge, 7801 NE Greenwood Dr., Vancouver. Cocktails, silent

auction, raffle, appetizers and desserts and more, all benefitting West Columbia Gorge Humane Society. Tickets $150 at wcghs.org. 5 pm

Vancouver Symphony Orchestra presents Woodwind Serenades at Joyce Garver Theater, 1500 NE Garfield St, Camas Mozart and Dvořák’s brilliant works for winds in a program featuring VSO soloists and conducted by Maestro Ken Selden. Tickets $25 at vancouversymphony.org. 7 pm

10 SUNDAY

Vancouver Symphony Orchestra presents Woodwind Serenades at First Presbyterian Church 4300 Main St., Vancouver. Mozart and Dvořák’s brilliant works for winds in a program featuring VSO soloists and conducted by Maestro Ken Selden. Tickets $25 at vancouversymphony.org. 3 pm

13 WEDNESDAY

Science on Tap: “The Mother and Child Union” at Kiggins Theatre, 1011 Main St., Vancouver. This multi-media event explores the fascinating ways that motherhood changes the brains of both mothers and children throughout their lives. Author,

public speaker, and neuroscientist Dr. Larry Sherman will discuss how a mother’s brain changes during pregnancy and after birth, the neuroscience of the bonding that occurs in the brains of both, what happens when mothers sing to their children and how a mother’s brain changes with their experiences with their children over the course of their lives. Tickets $15-$45 at kigginstheatre.com. 7 pm

14 THURSDAY

All Ages Bingo at Firstenburg Community Center, 700 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver. Gather your friends and family for an evening of friendly competition and lively entertainment. Designed to engage participants of all ages. Enjoy delicious snacks and refreshments, all in a safe and welcoming environment. Tickets $10-$12 at cityofvancouver.us/departments/parksrecreation-and-cultural-services. 6-7:30 pm

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Quin’Nita Cobbins-Modica: The dominant narrative about Washington State is that it’s an “exceptional” place rather than a microcosm of the larger U.S. society. How do Black women’s stories challenge this understanding? What are the long-standing systemic inequalities in the state? 6 pm

Comedy on Tap feat. Jeremiah Coughlan at Kiggins Theatre, 1011 Main St., Vancouver. Jeremiah has become a regular performer at clubs all over the Northwest, including Helium Comedy Club. He has been featured on Audible’s comedy series “Sounds Like America” and performed all over the country and internationally at festivals and clubs. He will be supported by Julia Corral and Dan Weber, and your host and comedy booker, Tristian Spillman. Tickets $15 at kigginstheatre.com. 8-9:30 pm

Dancing with the Stars Live at ilani, 1 Cowlitz Way, Ridgefield. This year’s allnew stage show will feature your favorite professional dancers from the hit television series performing glittering new numbers as well as some of the unbelievable showstoppers featured on TV. Tickets $39$59 at ilaniresort.com. 8 pm

15 FRIDAY

Murder Mystery Dinner – “Murder in Sin City” at Salud Wine Bar, 224 NE 3rd Ave., Camas. What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas! As the largest and most extravagant casino on the Las Vegas strip, The Paramount Casino is throwing a party of epic

16 SATURDAY

See Irish dance performances celebrating St. Patrick’s Day at Vancouver Mall.

proportions. With the highest rollers and the gutsiest gamblers, the stakes are going to be high and there is no limit to what could happen. Tickets $85 at saludwine.com. Two shows: Mar. 15 & Mar. 23, 5:30-8 pm

Metropolitan Performing Arts Community Theater presents “Next to Normal” at MPA, 6403 E Mill Plain Blvd., Vancouver. An unflinching look at a suburban family struggling with the effects of mental illness. Tickets $16-$25 at metropolitanperformingarts.org. Playing Mar. 15-30, showtimes vary.

16 SATURDAY

Vancouver Family Magazine presents the 16th Annual Children’s Festival at Vancouver Mall, 8700 NE Vancouver Mall Dr. Free balloon art, face painting, games, prizes, activities, performance from Ke Kukui Foundation, character visits, popup children’s museum from Columbia Play Project and family resources from all over Clark County. It’s all free! 10 am-3 pm

Wiggles & Giggles: Leapin’

$34-$40 at cityofvancouver.us/departments/ parks-recreation-and-cultural-services. 6-9 pm

Eggstravaganza at My Gym Fisher’s Landing, 1825 SE 164th Ave., Ste. 112, Vancouver. Egg-citing activities, games, songs, dances, relays and an egg hunt. Bring your own basket and register at gymgym. com/fisherslanding/events. $20-$25. 4 pm & 5 pm

23 SATURDAY

Nature Fun Day - Spring at the Springs at Columbia Springs, 12208 SE Evergreen Hwy, Vancouver. All ages and backgrounds are welcome! Bring your curiosity to this day of hands-on science and nature experiences exploring springtime at Columbia Springs. 10 am-1 pm

Louie! at Kiggins Theatre, 1011 Main St., Vancouver. Columbia Play Project presents the Wiggles & Giggles live family show series! Leapin’ Louie uses circus, cowboy tricks, a six foot unicycle, and lots of comedy to explore all those wild critters, including us, who fly. Tickets $10 at kigginstheatre.com. 10:30 am

St. Patrick’s Day Celebration at Vancouver Mall, 8700 NE Vancouver Mall Dr. Enjoy performances by Yeates Academy of Irish Dance and Fort Vancouver Pipe Band in center court. 3-5 pm

22 FRIDAY

Little Art Camas in Downtown Camas. Come enjoy, buy and support local art, plus enjoy music, drinks, goodies, art demos and a silent art auction. 5-8 pm

Kids Night Out at Firstenburg Community Center, 700 NE 136th Ave., Vancouver. For ages 6-10: Drop your child off to connect with friends in a fun and creative way with Vancouver Parks, Recreation and Cultural Services Kids Day Out! Join us for an afternoon engaging in recreational activities, games, sports and crafts while reinforcing a healthy lifestyle, positive identity, leadership, teambuilding, good decision making and strong values. Preregistration required,

Little Art Camas in Downtown Camas. Come enjoy, buy and support local art, plus enjoy music, drinks, goodies, art demos and a silent art auction. 12-4 pm

Junior Symphony of Vancouver Spring Concert at Cascades Presbyterian Church, 9503 NE 86th St., Vancouver. Program will include selections by Carl Friedrich Abel, Georges Bizet and John Rutter. Tickets $15 at the door. 7:30 pm

iLuminate at Columbia Theatre, 1231 Vandercook Way, Longview. Extraordinary lighting effects and choreography take viewers on an exhilarating ride. Tickets $20$50 at columbiatheatre.com. 7:30 pm

24 SUNDAY

Couve Clover Run at Vancouver Waterfront. Celebrate in your festive green while running or walking 3, 7 or 10 miles along an extremely fast and scenic course to support local charities. Registration $37-$80 at whyracingevents.com. 9 am

26 TUESDAY

Easter Egg Hunt and Bunny Pics Sessions at City Play for Kids, 16420 SE McGillivray Blvd., Vancouver. Photos with the Easter Bunny, egg hunt, prizes, play time, Easter crafts and more. Tickets $25 per child at cityplayforkids.com. Two days/multiple sessions Mar. 26 & Mar. 30.

30 SATURDAY

Easter Bunny and Egg Hunt at Ashwood Taps and Trucks, 1535 E St., Washougal. The

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Easter Bunny will be making a special trip to Ashwood to hide eggs and take pictures with all the kiddos. Egg hunt for ages 0-4 at 11:30 am and ages 5-10 at 12 pm

31 SUNDAY

Easter Service and Fair at Clark County Fairgrounds, 17402 NE Delfel Rd., Ridgefield. Inflatable obstacle course, 5000 eggs, Easter Bunny visit, face painting, carnival games, prizes, family photos and more. Register at makerschurchnw.com/events. 10 am-1 pm

Camas Egg Scramble at Crown Park,120 NE 17th Ave., Camas. For ages 2-12, all abilities and free. 1:30 pm

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