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ABISOYE AJAYI AKINFOLARIN:

Raising More Women In Tech

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IN THIS ISSUE

4 AUGUST 2019

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HAPPINESS CELEBRATION 8

Cover: Abisoye Ajayi Akinfolarin; Raising More Women In Tech

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Sexmatics: Spots For Hot

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Instagram Moments

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WELCOME...

Since computer was introduced to man in 1975, both man and computer have not been the same.

It is amazing how one piece of technology has changed our lives for good. One very exciting aspect of computer is the good use to which it can be put.

The ability to use computer skills to solve problems, by creating programmes and apps that can plan solutions simply tells one that if there is one skill required for the future, it is in technology.

Men who by nature are problem solvers have dominated this terrain. The ability to solve problems is a trait that is useful in life in general but not many women like sciences and things technical, so they stay away leaving the few who can square it up with their male counterparts.

Conscious of this fact, Abisoye Ajayi Akinfolarin, founder of Pearl Africa Foundation, entered the Tech space with one thing in mind-to pull other women up especially, young girls through her project, GirlsCoding.

This laudable project by our cover personality is the one that caught the eye of CNN last year. She talks about it to our correspondent Linda Orajekwe. Pg 8-10 On our fashion pages, Assistant Editor, Yemisi Suleiman shows how the world’s most stylish women bring on sexiness with the famous, off-shoulder or cold shoulder attire. Pg. 4-5 The crop top is not for the faint-hearted but they are great for easy dressing as long as the abdomen is well toned. See ways you can rock yours as shown by Tope Ojo. Pg 11.

Jemi Ekunkunbor Your favourite columns Oddbod and Acting Editor Sexmatics are also part of the package.

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People: Abike Dabiri, Kanu Others Recieve African Achievers Awards • Somto Nwachukwu Returns With Creative Showcase Of ‘The Art Of Design • A Gather For Steve Babaeko

Fashion: Cold Shoulders

Fashion : 3 Ways To Wear Pleated

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WELLBEING 13

My Lagos Adventure

Quotes “I’ve officially been diagnosed with OFCD (Obsessive facebook checking disorder). I have also been told that I am beyond cure.

Please pray for me”.

- Allison Grace

“Being nice to people you don’t like is not being two faced, it is called growing up”.

- Don Wood

“Never steal. The government hates competition”.

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FASHION

Louis Vuitton Minaudiere dress choice for winter

A mini bag is a sure style booster and you should get one if you don’t have it already.

Having the right Dress for the right season. When it’s summer, get light and colorful outfits, and when it’s winter or a really cold season like our rainy season, get your leather jacket. You can try a jacket with proper detail like fur to really stand out.

Dress for summer

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Raise Your Bar With These Fashion Pieces

heart shape statement bags

Krewe Octavia Sunglasses

By - Linda Orajekwe Arm your wardrobe with statement eyewear because they’ll ever be in trend. But if there is one thing statement eyewear will also do, it’ll be to make you look stylish, even if you’re wearing the most awkward outfit.

Simple Gold Jewelry

As fashion lovers, buying everything beautiful and wearable is gradually becoming a life call for many, but we need to understand that owning a full wardrobe doesn’t guarantee a stylish you if you don’t have some essential change-changers.

Check out these fashion items and arm your wardrobe with them if you don’t have them already. They’re simple but super effective! white heel

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quality Ring

Quality jewelry: we know you have all the blings and clings in your closet but ensure you have the quality ones too that speaks class even from afar. Try not to wear them all together. Less is always more, so a quality ring here, a bracelet there and an pair of earring will do the magic.

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Add White shoes to your collection if it’s not there already, because they have their way of automatically making any outfit better.

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Bare Nicely

In Off-Shoulder By - Yemisi Suleiman

The off-the-shoulder trend has been popular with the world’s most stylish women for decades. And as one of the hottest necklines this season, there is no reason why everyone shouldn’t join in.

Shoulder-baring is sexy without being obvious; chic without being attention-grabbing. The best part is that, the look can be achieved with different items in your closet, from dresses, jumpsuits, tops, red carpet to bridals, the look is endlessly versatile with a lot of sex appeal.

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Wear long earrings with details like beads, gems, and tassels with the dress for a night out, or a formal event like a wedding. The long earrings will add a bit of detail around your face, to offset the cut at the shoulders of the dress.

Bridal Look Brides these days, are all going with the off shoulder or strapless bridal dresses as seen here.

Office Chic Yes, you can rock an off-the-shoulder pencil dress to the office, without being tacky, just throw on a jacket, a pair of court shoes and you are good to go.

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Cocktail Party Go for a dramatic off- theshoulder top in a dashing colour, and an A-line knee length skirt in a solid colour for a neutral option. If you prefer a dress, you can wear with a variety of different accessories; you may go for one in a solid colour like black, blue, or white.

FASHION

Wear A Good Bra The very first step to wearing an off-the-shoulder dress or top, is to wear a high quality, strapless bra underneath the dress. For added support, go for a strapless bra that has high quality, supportive padding and a strong clasp.

Get a strapless bra in nude or a color that matches your skin tone, as this will prevent it from showing under your dress.

Red Carpet Look

Turn on your glamour game with an attention- grabbing, strapless dress for the red carpet. Complete the look with glamorous heels and clutch bag, and be a red carpet stunner.

Go For Ruffles Try a dress with ruffles or lace on the shoulders for a fun option.

You can go for this style if you want a little something extra on the dress, to give a statement look.

Weekend Casual

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Go for an off-shoulder ruffle blouse and jeans for a perfect weekend afternoon outing.

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pleated skirts By - Rita Okoye

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If there is a trend you definitely don’t want to miss this season, it’s the pleated skirt. Pleated skirt is back and making surprising resurgence.

If you want to hit the streets sporting a pleated skirt, here are three ways to rock the ageless fashion piece.

Keep it simple and classy; go for a white tee-shirt, denim blazers and pleated midi skirt. Pair with white mini handbag and strap sandals.

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floral top

For a classic combination, go for a floral top and blue pleated skirt, complet the look with a pair of high heel shoes and Satchel handbag.

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Wear a sassy black turtle-neck top, tucked in gold or nude coloured pleated skirt.

Pair the outfit with Stilettos and a matching bag to suit the combination.

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Veronica Odeka in Green Pleated skirt heel shoes

PHILLIP LIM Checked shorts

FASHION DOLCE & GABBANA floral shorts

cat eye sunglasses

For the beach; a pair of sunglasses, sandals or flip-flops would. black platform heel monnalisa glitter platform flip flops

Pair with heels, they make your legs look longer and classy.

Pair with stripes, crops, slogan Tees or any top that makes you feel comfortable.

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Short & Smart

denim shorts

By - Rita Okoye Shorts are making a comeback this season in different styles. Although it never completely goes away, it always find its way back into our closet.

Ensure you have great, welltoned legs to rock this hot piece of fashion. And when all is done, wear with confidence and attitude.

Here are some ways to style your favourite pair to look smart.

Going for brunch or casual outing?

Wear cool sneakers for that baby-girl look.

CHLOÉ Crepe shorts

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INTERVIEW

Abisoye Ajayi Akinfolarin:

Raising More Women In Tech Words By - Linda Orajekwe

Makeup: Mike_Makeovers Styling: Mike_Makeovers Photography: Sanmi (Gusto Visuals)

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INTERVIEW

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bisoye Ajayi Akinfolarin is the Founder, Pearl Africa Foundation, a foundation dedicated to empowering the girl child using technology. In 2018, the 33 year old Business Administration graduate of University of Lagos (UNILAG) was nominated along with eight others as change-makers for CNN Heroes. That nomination earned her a place as the first Nigerian to be so nominated for this award. The nomination was in recognition of her exemplary work in the tech space through her project, GirlsCoding.

It was a pleasure to meet this amazing woman who through her efforts many young girls can now say, “I can”.

Abisoye steps out of the car, clad in an African floral print midi dress and a pair of flat slippers that speak more about her style- comfort.

Her face looks bare and fresh; the perfect canvas for Michael to do his magical makeover on. In this encounter, she talks about her life as a social entrepreneur, and how raising young girls shot her into limelight, and blessed her with the love of her life.

Tell us about your journey into tech…..

My journey in the world of technology started at the age of ten. During school break, my brother took me to his friend’s business café. There, I began to appreciate technology, learning how to type, and modifying text in Microsoft word was interesting for me. It became more interesting after high school when I joined an IT Audit firm as an intern. It was at this point that I really discovered my love for computer programming.

How challenging was the experience?

It was challenging because I was going into a male-dominated world. I had little or no knowledge about computer programming. I joined the IT audit firm [EDP Audit and security associate firm] with the knowledge of graphics that I learnt from NIIT. It was challenging because, I was in an environment where everyone was into computer programming, but I learnt a lot. So with its challenges, it was rewarding.

How did you start the Pearls Africa project?

Pearls Africa was established in April 2012 as a Non-governmental organization, designed to reach out to girls in rural communities with functional skills, to help them gain economic independence. It all started from my personal experience and the challenge to survive as a young girl. However, Pearls Africa Foundation is focused on promoting the cause and advancement of vulnerable young girls and women, through different initiatives such as GirlsCoding, EmpoweredHands [Vocational Skills], GC Mentors [Mentoring for GirlsCoding], GirlsInSTEM. What challenges did you face running an NGO like Pearls Africa in Nigeria and how did you resolve them?

In the beginning, it was really difficult training girls from an under-served community. There were a lot of persuasions, trying to convince their parents to make them see the reasons why their girls need to be equipped. We had financial constraints too. We were able to build track records overtime and partners now believe in what we do. Parents were also able to see what their girls could do and the benefits of the projects to them as parents, and to the community at large.

As obvious as this seems, what was the need for you to have an all-girls project?

We believe that every young girl, irrespective of background should be given

the equal opportunity as her male counterparts thereby, bringing about gender equality and girl child empowerment. Statistics reveal that 730 million people live in extreme poverty globally, and about 90 million of these are in Nigeria. Of these numbers globally, 50% are under 18.

Women are the worst hit as they have less paid jobs and less education compared to men.

This is why eradicating poverty is one of the core focuses of my work at Pearls Africa, by equipping young girls from underserved communities with skills of the future, especially STEM. We give them a chance at education in technology that translates to economic opportunities for them. These young women can now aspire to greatness, and become positive contributors to the economy The girls you teach coding, what would you say the development has been like and how does that make you feel?

The development so far has been amazing. Our girls have embraced it and they are really doing well. They created different projects from apps to web applications, to help their communities both financially and socially.

These projects were created by different teams who saw a great need for such projects in their community.

Can you share some of these projects with us?

So, our flagship program Girlscoding started about four years ago with many of the participants from Makoko community, a floating slums characterized by very poor living conditions. The girls had no hope for a successful future, their self-esteem was very low.

But our program has been able to help them boost their self-esteem. They now believe in their abilities and know their rights. By learning how to code, they have been able to develop their critical thinking ability, which is one very important skill everyone needs; to be able to think reasonably, objectively and clearly. They have grown mentally, with the capability of recognizing problems in their communities and thinking of possible ways of solving them using technology. This has made them change agents and leaders, thinking up remarkable projects that are now highly beneficial to the community.

Some of the projects are: MAKOKO FRESH (www. makokofresh.com.ng), an e-Commerce platform that connects buyers of seafood to the fishermen who live in Makoko, making the fishermen sell more at a better price and make a good living for their families. We also have

the BREAK THE BLADE (www.breaktheblade.org): A web application created by some of our girls as a team, to solve the problem of Female Gentile Mutilation (FGN) in our country. This platform sensitizes people on the negativity of the practice, and provides a likely solution to the victims and potential victims.

HOPE BASKET (www.hopebasket.com.ng): A project built to help get de-cluttered materials from the “haves” to the “have-nots” especially, the internally displaced persons in their respective camps in Nigeria.

In the future, our girls will work as software engineers in companies around the world, some will become female tech entrepreneurs, creating jobs and lifting their communities from poverty.

What are some of the things you’ve learned training these young women?

“Brilliance may be evenly distributed but opportunities are not”. I have learnt that everyone can be brilliant but lack the opportunity to express their talents. For Instance, one of the girls from the IDP camp who trained with us, who were supported by Pearls Africa and Partners with her school fees to the University, is currently on a first-class and doing very well academically.

How does it feel being among the few women in the tech space?

There are less than 20% of females in tech space.

However, being in the tech space has helped me to see the need to empower more girls in technology. That’s the main reason for the existence of GirlsCoding.

When you found out you’ve been nominated for CNN heroes, how did you feel and how has the experience helped you and your project?

I was shocked initially and excited at the same time (laugh). Being nominated was also an opportunity for me to do more, apparently, recognition brings more responsibility. It has also helped the brand so far, to gain more trust from organizations and individuals. It has also helped to increase support and partnership. Most importantly, many of our girls have gotten an educational scholarship as a result of this and it has also boosted their self-confidence.

For the longest time, tech has been presented as something too technical for the female mind to grasp, as a creator and a teacher, is it that technical?

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INTERVIEW technical when there is passion and opportunity to learn.

When you realize you have a passion for something, you find yourself willing to learn and do more. So basically, you will be faced with the fear of how am I going to deal with it? But in the end, it’s all about giving instructions to computers and solving problems. Moreover, culture and traditions have not helped in this regard. Most girls were not brought up to create, but nurtured to use what has been created. This has got to change. Girls and boys can be creators of tech and not relegating girls and women to mere users of tech.

Operating in a male-dominated industry like yours, have there been times when you’ve faced patriarchy?

How did you handle it?

Obviously, in our society men hold more power and women are largely excluded from it. So yes, there were times when I was faced with patriarchy because, I was in a male-dominated industry. I stayed focused and kept investing in myself. For example, studying more, taking more courses, ignoring what was said around me but also, I tried to prove myself at any given opportunity and that has helped me a lot.

With women taking their place in the different sectors in Nigeria, where is that one place you’ll want women to make their presence known and why?

I wish I can name other industries, but I really want women to be known globally in the world of technology; because this has, and is still helping me through my journey in life. Besides this, one of the few sectors that girls and women are underrepresented.

What do you wish can be better in the Nigerian tech space?

Provision of infrastructure is one major start. Basically, we need more technical instruments and programs in our country, because the world is globally changing and technology has become a larger part of it. So I feel our Nigerian Government should invest more in tech as it will help to build the economic growth of the country, and create opportunities for young people to work and learn.

Also, the educational curriculum of schools should be updated to reflect industry-relevant courses and not what is presently available.

What advice would you give your younger self if you can?

I would advise my younger self to be strong, hardworking, focused, develop good character, acquire functional skills, volunteer as best as you can because greatness lies in the act of service.

Who are some of the women that (are) inspire/ inspiring you?

There are many women who inspire me and to list a few, I’ll say Funke Opeke, Katherine Johnson, Mobolaji Johnson, Obiageli Ezekwesili, Ty Bello, Tara Durotoye, Oprah Winfrey and Michelle Obama.

What’s a regular day like for Abisoye?

(Laughs) Work, Work, Work….. I wish I can add something different but my life is mostly about work for me.

With how tasking your work can be, do you ever feel like you’re missing out?

I won’t say I am missing out on anything because I get to inspire people every day. I get to learn new things, meet new people when I travel. I have been doing a lot of that in recent years. So, every time I spend with our Girls at GirlsCoding is refreshing.

Have you ever gotten to a place where you feel overwhelmed and you want out? How did you get your mojo back?

The beginning days of Pearls Africa, seeing how difficult it was to raise funds to empower young girls and not paying for the service we render. Back then what I did was close my laptop, shutdown work took a course online, watch movies, go for swimming and of course hang out with friends to talk about other things not necessarily related to work and after that break, I jump back into work again.

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How do you handle running a home and running your business?

Family is everything, so I try to balance work and home and ensure nothing disturbs work or home.

Besides, my husband makes my life easy with his endless support in the cause of the Girl Child which I believe passionately about.

Tell us about your husband, how did you meet?

We met at work o; we are both in the same IT space.

Someone referred me to him to get something done and when I got to him, he was with about five of his male friends. I did not know them neither did they know me. I did not want them to start any conversation with me. So when they asked me about my occupation, I told them I was a fashion consultant. I knew the moment I said that, they would leave me alone and that is what happened. If I told them that I was a techie, the conversation would have lasted for up to five hours and I did not want that.

But my cover didn’t last for long because, I and my husband kept talking after the day we met and from my conversation and the terminologies I was using, he realized that I may not be a fashion person. So I later gave him my profile (Laughs).

What’s a marriage like with both you and your husband in the tech space?

It’s great because we’re both with our computers working but we take breaks to spend time together.

How would you describe your fashion style?

I love my culture, so I would always love to dress in the African attire - corporate wears with a touch of Ankara or Adire fabric If you have to rate your style on a scale of 1-10, how stylish would you say you are?

I believe fashion is relative; fashion to you may not be the same with me. But to be honest, fashion to me means comfort. I must be comfortable and presentable. So on a scale of 1-10, I will say 6.5… (Laughs) What’s your favourite piece of fashion item and why?

“Brilliance may be evenly distributed but opportunities are not”. I have learnt that everyone can be brilliant but lack the opportunity to express their talents

My favourite fashion item would be dresses or Pantsuit or Blazers and that’s because I’m comfortable in them. I hope they like me too (Laughs).

If you have to do it all over again, what will you change?

Hmmm, I feel like I would have wanted my mother beside me, to watch me grow or rather have that motherly figure and feeling.

With how your life has evolved, what’s that one thing you’ll say life has taught you?

Life taught me a lot but in all, it taught me how to survive in any kind of situation I find myself. It has also taught me to embrace opportunities, be prepared when opportunities show up, and fight to survive but while trying to survive, reach out to people and raise them along the way. I have learned that regardless of where anyone is coming from, with education, hard work, smart work, consistency and God on your side, you can be great in life.

Let’s talk about future projects, what are you up to?

At the moment, it’s the busiest time of the year for us.

We are currently running Summer Code Camp in partnership with Union Bank, in Lagos and Jos. Also, we are currently in an expansion phase and maintaining the quality of service we render as an organization while still making an impact. We are also in conversation with different State Governments to replicate our projects in their States, thereby reaching out to more public schools and Youth in Nigeria. My experience has birthed a book.

I published my first book this year called, I Woke Up At 30, and it is about utilizing what I have for global impact rather than comparing myself to others.

What advice do you have for other young women trying to find their purpose in life?

Be you! Ensure to always add value wherever you are. Always volunteer for good causes and have a mindset of making and leaving things and situations better than you met them, and learn to take every challenge that comes to you as a stepping stone to greatness.

Dinner Ready For a crop top that can take you to dinner, choose one with lace sleeves.

The thin material will let the gentle breeze hit your skin, but keep you covered for cocktail parties at night.

Just pair it with a cream-coloured or any bright-coloured pair of trousers, and slingback kitten heels.

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Stylish Ways To Rock Crop Tops By - Tope Ojo

Party ready

FASHION

There’s no age limit to owning a crop top. You should wear what you love as long as it makes you feel comfortable. And crop tops are comfortable.

Whether it be a t-shirt or spaghetti-strap, cropped pieces are perfect for easy dressing.

Here are ways to up that look in that tiny piece of clothing.

Crop tops and maxi skirts go together. The combination gives the illusion of a longer torso, since the skirt sits high on the hips.

And if you want to take this daytime look up a notch, simply add heels.

Classic black A black crop top can be styled so many different ways, but the classic head-to-toe monochrome look never fails. Instead of defaulting to jeans, dress your top with leather paper-bag trousers and an embellished leather jacket. Finish with fine strappy sandals, which balance out the bolder statement pieces in your outfit.

Elevate Your Denim Casual look High-waisted pants are made for showcasing your crop top collection.

Paired with a trouser, offers generous coverage of your lower half, you can feel atease showing a little more skin up top. You can top with a long coat.

Jeans serve as the ideal base for a statement crop top, like a one-shoulder ruffle number. The top will elevate the jeans but a pair of distressed denim will help the outfit feel dressed down on the whole.

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What some of your favourite celebrities said and we listened.

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Spots For Hot Sex Outside The Bedroom Bathroom: steam could really be sexy due to the heat it generates, and the way it can easily mask your body,thereby creating mystery. Feeling the spray of warm water running down your skin, intensifies sensations and a flexible shower head held close to your clitoris can be an orgasm trigger. ‘’You are getting clean while getting dirty. The warm water, bubbles and lathering each other down makes for a very sensual time. ‘’In the shower, face each other and elevate one of your legs on a raised surface, like the side of the tub or a shower bench, as he slides inside,’’ For deeper penetration, bend your body forward from your hips, so your hands can touch the tub, while your partner stands behind you. Just use caution as the bathtub is slippery,’’ alternatively Diana Wiley, PhD, a Seattle-based sex therapist, recommends using toilet seat [the cover can be up or down]. Face each other and he can easily play with your clitoris for heightened pleasure.’’

Foyer: There is a need for you to have something with handle to hold on to for this position, like your front door. With the lady placing her hands on the handle, she bends over so that the partner can enter from behind. The handles provide the needed support for the guy to thrust harder, but be sure no one comes to the front door while at the act.

Balcony: If you happen to be an indoor person and still want to experience the thrill of sex outside your bedroom, look no further than your own balcony. If the balcony is enclosed with a bit of space, it then means you can spread out some blankets and enjoy the fresh air with your partner. Also, try leaning against the balcony while your spouse gets into position behind you, enjoying the view together.

On the Stairs: These are not technically a separate room in the house, still a great spot for love making. For safety purposes, it has been suggested that the highest step be used for better balance. ‘’ Have him lie on the top landing with his back on the floor, so you can get on him in reverse cowgirl, while leveraging your legs on whichever steps give you the most support.’’The banister adds some extra support to sex standing up, so try and hold on to the banister for lifting leverage and stability. If there is no stairs in your home, feel free to always use a step stool to mimic the levels and you will

still catch the same fun.

Against the Wall: There is actually something very hot and urgent about sex against the wall. A number of couples take delight in doing this especially, when they cannot make it to the bedroom. This does not mean that those in the flush of a new relationship should experience all the fun. Pushing your spouse against the wall will bring out your dominant side, while the sturdy structure will help the two of you to keep your balance.

Backyard: Sex outdoors can be very sensual with romantic elements like a starry night, llor the scent of flowers carried by a light breeze. Having sex on this spot where you risk others seeing or hearing your lovemaking, adds the thrills of danger. It is advisable you do this in the early morning or at sunset for more romantic lighting. Get a chair, straddle your spouse facing forward while he is sitting, and cover up with a cozy blanket for privacy, without fear of prying eyes and noisy neighbors.

Car in the garage: This may seem like a ridiculous idea, adjustable seats that heat up are perfect for sexy kissing and foreplay. With the lights out except for maybe the dashboard, this adds mystery and intrigue.

The music can be lowered in order not to disturb anyone. Coupled with the fact that there are not enough in a parked car, so you have to be tuned into one another’s bodies to make it achievable. This could make you feel young and full of desire again which is aphrodisiac on its own. ‘’Sex in the car parked in a garage can feel like a return to your youth, but without the fear of the police rapping on the window.’’

While trying to create awesome memories, it is important to know when to draw the line at any given time to avoid being hurt, caught or putting yourself in danger. Avoid alcohol, ‘’try not to do it after drinking, especially as you might put yourself more at risk of getting injured or caught.’

“Remember you’re not entitled to anything. You have to earn your success every day, and you will make mistakes like everyone else”.

Fact from E-Money Chairman - FIVE STAR GROUP.

“Don’t fear the enemy that attacks you, but the Fake friend that hugs you”.

Word from Ghanaian actor Majid Michelmm.

“Yesss!!! Mistakes have been made.

Life didn’t come with instructions”.

Actress Oge Okoye thinks we should know this.

Know that you can very well make love any where your heart desires, just be creative about it, and do not allow your bed to get all the fun and action. Discovering the sensual potential of your house can take you out of your comfort zone, thus leading to some hot, mind-blowing love making.

“Miracles are legitimate but while we are concentrating on miracles, other societies are building institutions!

Need I say more? The wise understand. #leadership”.

Architect and inspirational speaker, Jumoke Adenowo

on the need to focus on nation building.

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MY LAGOS ADVENTURE

By Odun Ogunbiyi

...Oddbod & The City

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don’t know what’s going around, but everyone I know is fighting some horrible virus—general weakness, mild headaches, horrid sore throat a cough and the sniffles—and I am absolutely fed up.

Not sick enough to go see the doctor, but unwell enough to make sure you just want to sit on your couch sipping copious amounts of honey, ginger, and lemon tea.

This is Oddbod and the City – My Lagos Adventure When I started my laser hair removal journey at Airesthetics, I promised I would give an update. I thought I would have to wait until I had finished the full treatment course, which I had been told might take about 6 sessions. I am only three sessions in and I must report that already, the difference is clear.

This is not a hoax everybody, laser hair removal really does work and it is totally worth investigation for permanent removal of unwanted hair.

Ribbon Room Ballons

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Now that I have the solution for that little problem under control, I have started my investigation on how I can avoid liposuction but still live my best life with a flat stomach.

All recommendations are welcome.

PARTY GUEST

Sushi platter

The Perfect House Party

Last week, I dragged myself out on a weeknight to what turned out to be an amazing night out at my friend’s house party. I will first take this opportunity to tell her she did an amazing job; I had a fabulous night and she was a magnificent host.

I think the secret to throwing the perfect party is I am a huge fan of any beauty treatment in the attention to details. that allows you to reduce your daily The decorations set the mood with sparkling grooming ritual. Lately, I have been a huge lights, balloons, and fresh flowers. Attentive fan of individual eyelash extensions. The staff circulated with food and drinks. The DJ mink eyelashes are so light you won’t was placed unobtrusively in the corner, and the even know they are there and thankfully, music was not too loud so, one could engage technology means they have finally freely in conversation until it was clearly time for Eyelashes before formulated effective glue that does not the dancing to commence. burn the eyes.

A random quick observation here: because it was They are attached to your individual a relatively small intimate affair, this meant that eyelashes, so the process usually takes there was space for everyone to sit comfortably about 2 hours to complete. I usually end and the air-conditioner was doing its job. There up taking a nap and have to apologise for is nothing I hate more than overheating in the my awful snoring at the end of the session. name of socialising.

You can choose what sort of length and You know I must make a special mention on the thickness you are going for to suit your food. It was all about variety, traditional Nigerian personality and needs. food, finger food, BBQ, heaving sushi platters I can’t go too long because of my glasses and all manner of desserts. It was delicious and so I usually go nice and thick to really most importantly, there was more than enough make my eyes pop. The “I woke up for everybody. gorgeous” glow up is real!

I also loved that you did not have to look far to Eyelashes AFTER My eyelash technician, Chioma is an find a friendly waiter, eager to get you a drink, be absolute sweetheart and comes to my it water or ice-cold champagne. about four weeks if you look after them. home to do the deed, along with the bed I really meant to make an early night of it, after This involves keeping them completely and super bright light contraption. She all I had things to do in the morning, but the time dry for the first 24 hours, being careful has this technic she calls “wispy” which I just flew by. It was the wee hours of the morning when removing makeup, washing your love because, it makes the whole effect before I sheepishly said my goodbyes. face gently and my personal downfall not look more natural. The eyelashes last sleeping on your face.

The Eyes are Talking

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Somto Nwachukwu returns with creative showcase of ‘The Art of Design

By Linda Orajekwe Ekene Agu, Claud & Adaeze

Somto Nwachukwu, returns with the second edition of his creative event exhibition, ‘The Art of Design’ where he showcases different event themes to an intimate gathering of clients, family, and friends.

The event took place at the rooftop of the Lekki Coliseum where the creative artist, gave a beautiful display of themed event decors that got guests thinking of their next occasion.

On display were five creative themes; The Kingdom of Wakanda, Crazy Rich Asians, Frozen, a Disney story, Garden of Eden, The Queen’s Court, Aladdin and Prince of Ababwa. These themes had a well- detailed depiction of its inspirations, showing guests that Somto and his team of creatives, can bring their wildest fantasies to life on their special day.

Speaking on the need to have creative events such as the Art Of Design, Creative director of Events by Claud, Somto Nwanchukwu, stated that “Everybody loves different things and with the way Disney is changing the game with their animated films, it has done nothing but inspire us to create more. We watched films like Aladdin, Frozen 2, and we felt really inspired by how they’re so creative. And that’s one of the things that motivated us to organize “The Art of Design” this year. We plan to make it annual to keep showing people that there’s so much we can do.”

Eunice Omole & Lamide Akintobi

Olivia Nwachukwu, Ifeanyi Nwachukwu & Kunmi Ariyo

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Deji & Damilola Taiwo

Debola Williams & Ayeni Adekunle

Obiora tobechukwu & Loretta Ojei

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Abike Dabiri, Kanu Others Recieve African Achievers Awards

By Yemisi Suleiman

Steve Babaeko & DJ Spinall

A gather for Steve Babaeko

By Oscar Ochiogu

Friends of the CEO of X3M Ideas, Steve Babaeko, last weekend in Lagos, gathered at the The George Hotel, Ikoyi, to honour one of their own. The event celebrated Steve Babaeko on his recent recognition

by AdWeek, as one of the Top 100 Creatives in the world.

In attendance were a host of celebrities in who came for an evening of tributes, laughter, cocktail drinks, canapés and music.

It would be recalled that AdWeek – a leading source of news and insight, serving the brand, advertising and marketing ecosystem – had recently named Babaeko among the 2019’s Most Fascinating People in Marketing, Media and Culture across the world, tagged: “AdWeek’s Creative 100.”

Chairman of Nigerian Diaspora Commission, Abike DabiriErewa, football legend Kanu Nwankwo and Linda Ikeji were amongst personalities recently awarded with the African Achievers Awards in London, for distinguishing themselves in their various fields of endeavour. The awards which held at the House of Commons, UK Parliament, is aimed at correcting the wrong impression coming from the continent, by celebrating hard-work and impactful service on the continent and around the world.

Speaking on the need to host the event in Africa, Chairperson of the awards committee, Hon. Susan Thomas-Fajana, indicated the readiness of the awards to return to the continent for the 10th anniversary, having been held at the UK parliament for the past three years. She noted that The continent has the highest remittance from across the Atlantic, compared to other continents, and this could be carefully tailored towards meaningful investment on the continent.

The event which has become established as one of the biggest gatherings of influential and global African Achievers also, featured a lecture on the potentials for diaspora investment in Africa.

Sir Celestine Omehia, Abike Dabiri Erewa & Diane Abbott

Susan Fajana Thomas & Linda Ikeji Azuh Arinze & Tee A

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Tonye Rex Idaminabo & Tokunbo Olurundami

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INSTAGRAM MOMENTS With Yemisi Suleiman In case you missed, these were the most Interesting pictures and stories on Instagram last week, as posted by your favourite celebrities.

Toyin Lawani goes nude for business Dj Cuppy celebrates mum on her birthday Wife of billionaire businessman Femi Otedola, added a year to her age last Friday, and daughter, DJ Cuppy took to Instagram to celebrate her mother with a special note. The female DJ and singer, posted this photo of herself and mother on her Instagram handle attached with this words: “Happy Birthday Mummy! Thank you for giving me life! I am sorry for sometimes getting it wrong as a daughter. Love you deep.”

Celebrity stylist, fashion designer and business woman, Toyin Lawani, almost shut down Instagram last Friday when she shared completely unclad photos of herself. The move she said, was to announce the launch of her skin beauty products. She later shared this racy photo of herself posing with Curvy Gambian-born actress, Princess Shyngle, to herald the birth of her Egyptian Luxury Glow Line and lingerie line.

The controversial photos however, caused quite a stir on the internet as some of her followers and fans frownd at the mother of two, who they accused of not setting right standards for her children and those that see her as a role model.

Regina Daniels and husband dazzles in new photos Regina Daniels has left social media buzzing with new photos of herself and her billionaire hubby, Ned Nwoko.

This appears to be the first time the actress is sharing photos of her hubby on her social media page, as she has never publicly acknowledged her marriage to the politician on her handle. The photos which show the couple definitely having the time of their lives while on vacation, elicited mixed reactions and some backlash from internet followers and strollers.

Falz slams Senator Abbo Rapper, Folarin Falana, popularly known as Falz, slammed the ‘Icon of Democracy’ award recently given to Senator Elisha Abbo.

Taking to his Instagram handle on Wednesday, Falz shared a video of the senator, where he recieved the award and wrote “What kind of a joke is this man? This is the Senator that was caught on tape assaulting a woman in an adult store. “Icon of democracy” award?

Shamelessness at the highest level. It’s actually disgusting. He should be holding a plaque that

says “Biggest disgrace of the year.”

To the Nigerian Police, I thought this man had been charged to court, what is the status of the case? To the National Assembly, What disciplinary action was taken against him? We need answers!!!

This man cannot remain in the senate.”

Senator Abbo had assaulted a nursing mother at a sex toy shop in Abuja earlier in the year, and he is currently standing trial for the assault.