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Follow the Cloud BY ABRAM GOMEZ I wanted to be an RN. I really did. I wanted to help people through the advances and methodologies of health care and hospital systems. In 1997, I actually started attending a local community college in Waco, Texas with the goal of becoming an RN. However, in 1999 at a youth church service, the plans for my life were radically altered. Following my encounter with Jesus from that evening, I no longer desired to be an RN. I was no longer interested in medical terminology nor physical anatomy, but I was now passionate about the Scriptures and serving others through the local church. It was as if the grace lifted from one profession, and settled on another. This type of change also happened in my life when I moved from north Texas to the Rio Grande Valley. It was like a switch in my soul. I had a great paying job. I had my friends and family around me. Things were going great externally, but I just did not feel the peace and grace anymore to be settled there. Grace was lifting, and moving. I have learned from my personal journey with the Lord that He truly desires to lead our lives. There is a descriptive narrative in the Old Testament where the writer show us how God would lead the Israelites in the wilderness. Coming out of Egypt, the Israelites didn’t possess a GPS system to guide them towards their promised land. They needed to fully rely on the Lord. Thus, God showed His presence to them in the form of a cloud by day, and the appearance of fire by night. In Numbers Chapter 9, it is described that whenever the “cloud” was taken up from above the tabernacle the children of Israel would journey. And, wherever the cloud would settle, the children of Israel would set up camp. It goes on to say in verse 22 of that same chapter, “whether it was two days, a month, or a year that the cloud remained above the tabernacle, the children of Israel would remain encamped and not journey; but when it was taken up, they would journey.” Think about that for a moment. The cloud lifts, and the people move. The cloud stops, and the people settle. Settling would mean to unpack their bags, set up their tents, and live in that moment and location. Moving meant packing their bags, tearing down their tents, and following the cloud to the next part of the journey. Have you ever felt like the place you once enjoyed no longer become enjoyable? The job that once you loved now becomes the job that you dislike. The cause that once fulfilled you is no longer nurturing the passion within you. It could simply be an indication that the “cloud” has lifted, and you are to continue on your way. Have you ever enjoyed what others pass over? Some women love to stay at home with their kids, while other women would rather chase a career. Neither is right or wrong, but could demonstrate that they are simply finding fulfillment where their “cloud” is guiding them. The key here is that where God guides you, He gives you the grace to do and be. What others find boring and difficult, you could find exciting and fulfilling. His grace is with you. In other seasons, your soul sounds an alarm that it is time to move on to something else. You start to feel frustrated and unsettled. Like the Israelites, the cloud has lifted, so it could be time to pack up your bags and keep moving forward. Once last thought from the Bible - Exodus 40:38 states, “For the cloud of the Lord was above the tabernacle by day, and fire was over it by night, in the sight of all the house of Israel, throughout all their journeys.” Did you catch that? It says, “throughout all their journeys” which means every step of the way. God is with you. Follow the cloud. Abram Gomez is the Executive Pastor of Cross Church, formerly known as Valley International Christian Center, in San Benito, TX. He serves under the leadership of Bishop Jaime Loya and helps in leading the 2,500-member congregation. Abram is a graduate of Southwestern Assemblies of God University with a Bachelor’s Degree in Church Ministries. He recently earned his Master’s Degree in Human Services Counseling with a specialization in Executive Leadership from Liberty University. Abram is the founder and director of NextGenRGV, a movement designed to mentor Next Generation Church Leaders. Through NextGenRGV, Abram has established an online presence providing resources for young leaders with blogs, videos, and podcasts. Additionally, he has founded the Tribe, an intensive coaching program for leaders between the ages of 18-40. Abram recently received approval as a team member and representative for Nation 2 Nation University, a video-based ministerial school offering two and four year degrees. His teaching is a part of the curriculum including Youth Ministry, Church Administration and Church Growth. Nation 2 Nation University has partnered with churches around the world to establish ministry training centers equipping pastors and leaders. Occasionally, Abram writes for Valley Christian Magazine, a regional periodical that covers the entire valley. He and his wife, Rebecca, reside in Harlingen along with their precious daughter Isabella.
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My aunt grew roses for years. She’s the one I lived with for almost a year when I was in middle school and my family was falling apart. I remember her telling me not to run through her rose garden. After all, she had what seemed like hundreds of other acres that unfolded in wide open fields. I could run there.
But I didn’t want to. I only wanted to run through the rose garden. I wanted to spread my arms wide open and run between the rows brushing my fingertips across all the velvety blooms. I wanted some of the blooms to burst and shower petals all around. Then I could gather the petals and spread them along my path. As if I could carve a new place in this world lined with beauty and void of adult words like divorce, rejection and hate … I wanted my world to be soft, pink and lovely. I didn’t want to think about my dad leaving our family. My heart couldn’t process how he not only didn’t live with us anymore, but he was also slowly pulling back from participating in our lives all together. So, I took a running start with my arms outstretched only to be shocked with searing pain within the first few steps. Thorns. Big, mean, vicious thorns. Thorns that ripped my flesh and opened up the flood of tears I’d been so determined to hold back. Suddenly, I hated that bush. I wanted to chop it down and beat it into the ground. But I couldn’t do it. I couldn’t bring myself to destroy something that produced such beauty. I stood back from the source of my pain and wondered, Should I call it a bush of thorns or a bush of flowers? Really, it could go either way. Suddenly I wasn’t just staring at a bush. I was staring at my life. My life. Such a bed of roses.
Would I see the hurt or would I see the beauty? Luke 8:14 says, “The seed that fell among thorns stands for those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by life’s worries, riches and pleasures, and they do not mature.” The seed being referred to here is the Word of God. Isn’t it interesting that people who are choked by life’s circumstances and never mature are referred to as having thorns in the soil of their soul? Yes, life sometimes hands us thorns but we have the choice to park our mind on the thorn or on the beauty it can eventually produce in us, if only we’ll cling tightly to God’s Word. How a person thinks is how they will eventually become. If we dwell on the negative in life, we’ll become negative and God’s Word will have a hard time taking root in our souls. If, however, we acknowledge the negative but choose instead to look for the good that can come from it, God’s Word will take root in our souls and produce a lush crop of beauty. It all comes down to choice. That day in my aunt’s garden, I chose to be aware of the thorns but park my mind on the beautiful roses. And over the years, I have come to the place in my life where I realize I can focus on the hurt my dad’s absence caused or choose to focus on other things in my life. Beautiful things. It’s been more than 25 years since I’ve seen my dad. That’s hard on a girl’s heart. But where he fell so short, God has filled in many gaps. I don’t have to be the child of a broken parent the rest of my life, I can be a child of God. Loved. Truly loved. And that is a beautiful truth I can let flourish in my heart.
About Lysa: Lysa TerKeurst is a New York Times best selling author and speaker who helps everyday women live an adventure of faith through following Jesus Christ. As president of Proverbs 31 Ministries, Lysa has lead thousands over the past 15 years to help make their walk with God an invigorating journey. In the midst of her ministry, though, Lysa is a real, everyday woman who simply seeks to glorify God through her life and family. Used by Permission Proverts 31 Ministry www.provers31.org Copyright 2016
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I’m anti-social. I don’t do Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, or any other social media site.
When I tell others that I don’t have any personal accounts, most look at me with disbelief and try to convince me to change my mind. Why not? I don’t believe I could handle the temptations that social media produces. I’ve seen too many people get worked up about someone else’s post. Or worse go on an unfiltered rant about their employers or coworkers, friends that betrayed them, husbands who have strayed, perceived unfair treatment of their children by teachers and principals and the list goes on and on. Things that should be kept private and taken to prayer are instead shared with “followers”. And of course one has to comment about the post”-like” or “dislike.” Once doing that you are inevitably drawn into the drama. Is forgiveness encouraged on the internet? Of course not, because that would be boring. And nobody wants a boring post. Proverbs 8:13-to fear the Lord is to hate evil. I hate pride and arrogance, evil behavior and perverse speech. Social media when used inappropriately promotes the very things God despises-anger, jealousy, coveting and unforgiveness. How many times after a session of scrolling through your page and others do you feel like your life is inadequate? We see images of couples on romantic dates and wonder why our husband doesn’t do the same or we view pictures of friends on vacations that we wish we could afford or feel upset after seeing close friends who went out together but didn’t invite you. And the individual who is posting -what are the real motives? Does one want to show everyone what an idyllic life they lead? Is it to promote envy? Is it to boast? Is the number of “likes” important when posting? Are the posts an indirect way to get revenge from a distance for past offenses? Our children are growing up with a whole new level of comparison and
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fights for popularity and personal rights. I’ve heard of parents who go on a rant via Twitter or Facebook when they feel disrespected by someone and then are surprised when their teens are participating in cyber-bulling when same happens to them. A judgmental or disrespectful post by a parent speaks volumes to children as to what is acceptable. Kids emulate what they see their parents practice. As Christians we should set ourselves apart from the world and its standards and yet many post hateful comments or use it as a forum to judge a fellow believer. Someone doesn’t like how the church is administrated or disagrees with a sermon or choice of music and you will see it on their page and then tags the church page. Place a “#” before the grievance and send it out for others to read. The worst part is that many unbelievers view these same posts. How does that bring someone else to Jesus? I wonder if the same posts and pictures would be sent into the world if Jesus was sitting right next to the keyboard? Would Jesus ever say it’s ok to post hateful comments or “like” inappropriate material? Would he say they did you wrong so you have the right to vent for the whole world to see? Of course not! Jesus promoted forgiveness and humbleness and social media does quite the opposite. So why are so many of us ignoring the Holy Spirit and its fruit when we use technology? Galatians 5:22 –The Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives -love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness and self control. You would think that because I have chosen to stay away from social media that I would have no issues. Only I have not been spared and have been the subject indirectly at times by former employees or someone who didn’t care for my articles. I only know because others make me aware. I try very hard not to view it but my flesh will give in and I too want to vent and defend myself. I could totally see myself writing a lengthy response to someone else’s opinions or attacks if I had my own facebook page! I’m forced to take it to prayer, work on forgiveness and exhibit self –control by default-You can’t post when you’re not a member. We all fall short of the glory of God and we all sin. I am no different.
Romans 12:2-Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is-His good, pleasing and perfect will. I choose to stay off social media because I fear that I might not be able to control my reactions in the flesh, scroll pages and feel no envy, forgive and bless those who persecute on posts, promote Jesus’ standard of humbleness versus glorifying worldly things and behaviors, limit my time spent on the computer and be secure enough not to wish for “likes”. Before anyone takes offense and posts to set me straight- I am aware there are many who use social media for spreading the word via bible studies or use as a platform for promoting devotions and encouragement by forming groups. There are others who use social media to keep in touch with family and friends and make their pages private. Fellow believers who are strong enough to avoid the pitfalls and behaviors that are promoted, I strive to be like you. Post on! When I’m able to meet my own criteria and the Holy Spirit tells me “you are ready” is when I will open an account. My “status” for now will have to remain #antisocial.
Theresa Valladeres is married to Enrique Lopez and has two wonderful sons, Cord and Diego. They are members of The Family Church and she practices family medicine in Pharr.
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How to Fail Miserably at Your Next Personal Challenge By Tom Weaver
So, I just got a call from an irate member of my church about something I’ve done. In his opinion, I’m at fault. He can’t believe what has happened and is wondering why. Well, now I’m ticked. I’m not at fault. At least in my opinion, no strike that, I KNOW I’m not wrong, and this raises my temperature.
I quickly respond with statements of defense for my actions, and disagree completely with what I’ve just heard. Voices are raised. Tone gets a bit sarcastic and both this church member and I begin to trade statements like we’re in a cage match. We hang up, and I feel angry. Angry that my actions were judged so harshly (In my opinion). I was misunderstood. I try so hard to do the right thing. My church member gets off the phone..and feels the same. He’s simply trying to help me understand there was an offense, and serve me as his leader in the process. What went wrong here? I mean, why did this situation go so crazy? You may understand this scenario because you have lived it out yourself. Maybe more than once. It’s very frustrating, isn’t it?? So what is the solution? How do we change this behavior so the next time when faced with a surprise, out of nowhere, oh no! situation, we respond in a more productive and Christ honoring way? Enter, our boy Nehemiah… Nehemiah was a dude in the Old Testament of the Bible. He was called by God to do an amazing thing: to return to the land of his father where he had never been (his whole nation had been taken into captivity. Whole other story..), and to rebuild a 2 mile 40 foot wall around a city that lay in ruins! He had traveled more than two months to get there, and on arrival, he discovers the area is in a huge famine (little rain, few crops..). The local leaders already hate his guts. Yet, he begins the huge task of rebuilding this wall by calling all of the local people together and explaining the need. There are thousands of people who are suffering from famine, loss of all property because of taxes, and slavery. He is actually able to rally them to serve in this massive building project! Move over Joel Osteen and Tony Robbins. There is a new motivational speaker in town. The process begins and Nehemiah is constantly challenged. There are physical offenses (some dudes want to kill him). There are major issues between the local leaders and the people because the leaders are loaning them money with interest rates way beyond what they can pay back (Ask your parents about credit cards in the 80’s). Every time he’s faced with a personal struggle, Nehemiah’s response is brilliant. Here is what He does:
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1. He prays. Immediately! Not later, but right away! What I should have done when my church member called was to listen to what he had to say, and respond with, “Thank you for this information, I’ll get back to you.” Then I should have gotten down on my knees and prayed! “Jesus, help me right now, I’m ticked! I don’t feel wrong, but if I am, help me see that. Jesus, please speak to me about this situation. I need your wisdom, and your help. My best ideas are not good enough.” That’s what I should have done :
2. He processes, or thinks about what is going on What I could have done was to think about what had been said concerning my actions. In prayer and objective thought, I could have questioned and observed the facts. If I had, I would have clearly seen some things I had done wrong. Whoops! That didn’t happen when I just went with my feelings and responded quickly. Processing a situation brings clarity. It allows thought about an issue. In the quiet of stillness, objective thought can be obtained.
3. He plans what he should do When we pray and process a situation, we are better able to plan how to respond. Doesn’t this sound logical? God knew what He was doing when He put together His word. Personally, when I’m able to make a plan for my response for any given situation, the outcome is received as more loving, and the information more concise. I may have to say some hard things to someone, but planning out how to do this will affect the outcome in a positive way. It is all to be done in love. I mean, that’s how Jesus did it, right? I’m called to be like Him.
4. He Proceeds with action Pray, process, and plan, but you MUST and I mean you MUST act. You must do the actual work of speaking up, speaking out, and standing up for injustice. These things must be done. It is not enough to agree with scripture and do nothing. This is the hard part, because it is the face to face part. Not easy, right? For those of you who struggle with this, who, in the past have either gone overboard, or not said enough, could it be because you didn’t do the first three of these steps? Action is different when prayed for, processed through, and then planned The true story of Nehemiah is fascinating, and one of my favorites. I encourage you to download Youversion bible app today and read it for yourself.
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Heart Monitor by james macdonald
James MacDonald is founding and Senior Pastor at Harvest Bible Chapel in northwest Chicago. James’ teachings can be heard on Walk in the Word, a daily radio program reaching more than 3 million people across North America.
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When they came, he looked on Eliab and thought, “Surely the LORD’s anointed is before him.” But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the LORD sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart” 1 Samuel 16:6–7, ESV
od doesn’t see the same way people see.
man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”
We form all kinds of assessments about others—and all kinds of assessments about ourselves—based on how we look. Fat. Thin. Strong. Wimpy. Rich. Shabby. Cool. Nerdy.
An attraction to “tall, dark, and handsome” is what had gotten Israel stuck with King Saul—a guy who looked the part on the outside but was immensely insecure on the inside. His reign went up like a rocket and came down like a rock. He didn’t have the character underneath that compelling exterior to support the weight of his position. He didn’t have the heart of, say, the youngest son of Jesse—the one who didn’t even get invited to the king’s parade—the kid who was out in the fields, doing the slave-labor job of a shepherd. The least likely. The least expected. The most ordinary. The most forgotten. Yet God said, “I have found in David the son of Jesse a man after my heart, who will do all my will” (Acts 13:22). See the difference?
We are far too prone to make judgments based on what we see. And because of it, we miss what we could be seeing: what God sees. Because what God sees is all that matters. When He instructed Samuel—spiritual leader of Is-
“If you want to align your life with God, start focusing on the heart.” rael—to go anoint a new king from among the sons of a man named Jesse in Bethlehem, the logical process seemed pretty simple: just parade them past Samuel in order of age, from oldest to youngest. In fact, if historical precedent was any indicator, Samuel could have guessed without looking that the Lord would surely tell him to select the firstborn as His choice for king. Especially a young man who gave off the striking impression of this one—Eliab, Jesse’s oldest. But that’s not what God thinks when he looks at us. He doesn’t look at a man in the pulpit wearing a three-piece suit and say, “Now there’s a pastor.” He doesn’t look at a person who’s brimming with natural ability and say, “Now there’s somebody who can do great things.” “For the Lord sees not as man sees:
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The people you choose as your role models, the people whose lead you follow, the people whose awesome abilities and personalities make you feel so incapable by comparison . . . The person you see in your mirror today who looks so bad to you, so inferior, so unworthy—or perhaps looks so good to you, so much sharper and more attractive than other people you know . . . What baseline are you using to make those judgments? If you want to align your life with God, stop zeroing in on what you and everybody else looks like, and start focusing instead on the heart—what your heart is like, what their heart is like. The Lord picked a shepherd boy to be king, because nobody would’ve seen that coming. Because “God
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has chosen the foolish things of the world to shame the wise, and God has chosen the weak things of the world to shame the things which are strong” (1 Corinthians 1:27, NASB), so we won’t boast in what we can do, but only in what God can do . . . through a heart that’s fully His.
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How have you been disillusioned or disappointed by trusting what you saw in someone else’s outward appearance and demeanor? How much effort do you invest in creating and maintaining your own appearance or reputation, and why do you think it matters so much to you?
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Father, thank You for making so clear in Your Word what You are looking for in Your people—and for making it something You can accomplish in me, even with all my flaws and limitations. Forgive me, Lord, for wasting my time trying to impress, especially when I’m painting a picture of myself that’s not fully authentic. Forgive me, too, for putting people on pedestals—as well as for putting them on scrap heaps—based almost entirely on the external image they present. Help me no longer confuse importance with appearance—mine or anyone else’s—but rather to love what You love: a heart that’s surrendered to You. I pray this in Jesus’ name, amen.
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Run To Win By Loui Canchola Perhaps the most enduring image of the 2016 Rio Olympic Games that were celebrated last month was that of American swimmer Michael Phelps defeating his rival, South African swimmer Chad le Clos to win the gold medal in the 200-meter butterfly. Phelps won several events and gold medals during the Rio Olympics but the reason that one of the lasting images of the games will be Phelps’ defeat of le Clos is because of a picture that was taken as they were near the finish. It is a powerful image that reminds us of a great Biblical truth as we live our lives for God’s glory. In the picture, both swimmers have their faces out of the water and there is a great distinction between the two: Phelps, in the lead, is focused on his goal, the finish; le Clos on the other hand is focused not on the finish, but on Phelps. The lesson that the picture gives us is clear, one man is focused on the prize and he wins it, while the other is focused on his competitor and doesn’t win. That makes all the difference. The Apostle Paul compared running a race to win to living the Christian life. In his first letter to the Corinthians he wrote: 24 Don’t you know that the runners in a stadium all race, but only one receives the prize? Run in such a way to win the prize. 25 Now everyone who competes exercises self-control in everything. However, they do it to receive a crown that will fade away, but we a crown that will never fade away. 26 Therefore I do not run like one who runs aimlessly or box like one beating the air. 27 Instead, I discipline my body and bring it under strict control, so that after preaching to others, I myself will not be
disqualified. -1 Corinthians 9:24-27 HCSB This passage of Scripture gives us a great image of what it looks like to live the way God calls us to, with passion and purpose for His glory. Are we living with passion and purpose? Where is our focus? The Apostle Paul makes it clear that we
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should not be happy to just be in the race but that we should run to win! What does that look like as we live our lives daily? Just as a runner or a swimmer has a goal or a target, the finish line, so does a Christian. What is our goal? What is our prize? JESUS! As we run our race, as we live our lives, we know we are running to win when we are focused on our prize: Jesus. Paul described his life in this way when he wrote to the Philippians: 12 Not that I have already reached the goal or am already fully mature, but I make every effort to take hold of it because I also have been taken hold of
by Christ Jesus. 13 Brothers, I do not consider myself to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and reaching forward to what is ahead, 14 I pursue as my goal the prize promised by God’s heavenly call in Christ Jesus. –Philippians 3:12-14 HCSB In both passages Paul identifies the keys to running to win: know your prize and run with purpose. For followers of Jesus Christ, He is our prize so becoming more like Jesus (spiritual maturity) is our goal. This is our goal because we have been “taken hold of by Christ Jesus” and since He has saved us, we desire to glorify Him in everything we do. Our goal helps us to understand that we now live our lives with greater purpose. Instead of living for ourselves, we will live passionately for His Kingdom and His righteousness. We understand that we now live and serve at the pleasure of our King. Jesus stated our life purpose like this: “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided for you.” -Matthew 6:33 HCSB As followers of Jesus Christ, we now live with purpose, running for a crown that will not fade, focused on our King and His Kingdom, and so we will not turn our gaze anywhere else. We will not look to the past, we will not look to the other lanes which are the distractions of life, and we will not run aimlessly or box like one beating the air. Instead we will live Kingdom-first and focus on Jesus, trusting Him every step of the way. The victorious life is possible through Christ, let us not be distracted as we live for Him and run our race. Let us “keep our eyes on Him, the author and perfecter of our faith” (Hebrews 12:2) and live for His glory alone. Let’s run to win, not for our glory, but for His.
Loui Canchola is the founding and Lead Pastor of Cornerstone Church in McAllen. Pastor Loui and his wife Michelle have been married for 21 years and are the proud parents of four amazing children.
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“He refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake..” --Psalm 23:3
I remember times being greatly sinned against and being wounded for years and years. What was sad was that I was not aware of the depth and extent of the wounds. I lived in ways that only compounded the wounds. This also meant I sinned against others, wounding them! But Christ came into my whole life and restored my soul. He gave me newness of life that has not only brought healing but also clear perspectives and wisdom and strength. Jesus’ Spirit has taught and lead me and now I’m no longer working against God but actually helping others! Although I continue to need change, I have a profound gratitude for His great help I don’t deserve!! About RUBEN MARTINEZ: Born in 1954 into a migrant family who worked the fields together every summer. He holds a Masters degree in Theology from Dallas Theological Seminary (DTS) and a Doctor of Ministry degree from Westminster Theological Seminary. He started Living Word Evangelical Free Church in 1987. Ruben and his wife, Nancy, have 5 children; Stefanie (25), Gabriel (22), Grant (19), David (18) and Desiree (16). Ruben has served as a member of the Board of Directors of the Rio Grande Bible Institute (6 years) and the EFCA National Board of Directors (3 years).
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What Can We Learn From Jesus Walking On the Water (John 6:16-21)?
“When I am scared or don’t know what to do. I ask Jesus to give me power to not be afraid,” says Kaleb, 7. Kaleb, this is a great place to start. When you’re afraid or confused, admit it. Go to the Lord and ask him to give you clarity and peace. Notice what Jesus said to his disciples when they saw him walking on the water: “It is I; do not be afraid” (John 6:20). “Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear,” wrote Mark Twain. The only way to master fear is to abide in the one who is master over every circumstance. Jesus is the one who told his disciples to get into the boat to cross the Sea of Galilee. He wasn’t going to let them perish along the way. Fear is the natural response to circumstances beyond our control. Perhaps the biopsy report shows there is cancer. You lost your job and there are bills to pay. Or, you kept your job and there are bills to pay. Whatever your circumstance, remember what Jesus said, “It is I; do not be afraid.” If Jesus can walk on water in the midst of a storm, he can walk with you in the midst of your overwhelming problems. This doesn’t mean that Jesus will always change your circumstances. It does mean that when you see him in your storm, faith will replace fear, resulting in peace. “In our life, we need to focus on Jesus so we don’t sink,” says Joseph, 7. Joseph is probably thinking of Peter, who sank when he focused on the wind instead of Jesus. It’s so easy to criticize Peter for not keeping his eyes on Jesus, but he was the only disciple who got out of the boat to walk on the water with Jesus (Matthew 14:28-33). Everyone knows walking on water is impossible. That’s what makes walking with Jesus so
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exhilarating. He makes the impossible possible. In our modern world, we have found a way to walk on water. It’s called barefoot water skiing. It only takes three things to barefoot water ski: a fast boat, a long rope and no brains! To walk on water with Jesus requires enough brains to ask the Lord if that’s what he wants you to do. Peter asked, “Lord, if it is you, command me to come to you on the water” (Matthew 14:28).
The enclosed artwork is by Jesus Garcia, age 7. He was one of the finalists in the 2015-16 RGV Children’s Arts Festival.
Water walking with Jesus is not for the novice, timid or lazy believer. Yes, there are lazy Christians who will never enjoy the exhilaration of walking on water. They have trusted the Lord Jesus as their savior, but they don’t trust him as their king to rule their lives. If you see the Lord working through a believer doing the impossible, rejoice, but know that this kind of faith didn’t happen in a day. Before you ask the Lord if you can step out of the boat, you’ll have to walk many miles on land with Jesus. The lessons you learn on land will prepare you for water walking later. Think about this: Only abiding faith in Jesus can destroy fear, resulting in peace. Memorize this truth: “Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand” (Isaiah 41:10). Ask this question: Are you walking with Jesus on land today so that you can walk with him on water tomorrow? Kids Talk About God is a syndicated column by journalist Carey Kinsolving. To access more columns and other free, Bible-based books, videos and artwork, please visit www.KidsTalkAboutGod.org.
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Carey Kinsolving’s Kids Talk About God syndicated column is available as a free, weekly family devotional by email at KidsTalkAboutGod.org. Also, view a Bible-lesson archive of all columns. Kinsolving is the co-founder of the RGV Children’s Arts Festival. Two Valley children will win dude-ranch vacations for up to five family members. One will go to Medicine Bow Lodge in Saratoga, Wyoming and the other to Coulter Lake Guest Ranch in Rifle, Colorado. Each will receive a check for $600 to help pay for travel expenses. For details go to KidsTalkAboutGod.org/rgv.
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Years ago
I had a friend who was very sick and asked me to pray for him. I did. He got worse. He said, “I don’t ever want you to pray for me again.” In our estimation, sometimes things go the wrong way. We may pray, “Lord, heal this person. Be glorified through this.” But the Lord might say, “I will be glorified, but I’m not going to do it the way you want Me to. I’m going to do this other thing instead.” Sometimes God will remove the affliction. Sometimes God will heal the illness. Sometimes God will take away the cancer. But sometimes the person will get worse. We don’t usually like that. But it is in these times that God can be glorified. Everyone suffers in life. Christians suffer too. When a Christian is suffering and can still glorify God, that is a powerful testimony to a lost world. When non-Christians see us honoring the Lord through our suffering, it shows them how real our faith is. And guess what? It shows us how real our faith is too.
Do you think your faith would get stronger if everything were easy in life? No, your faith will get stronger through hardship. Here’s something that might surprise you: You even will develop more hope through tribulation. Romans 5:3–4 says, “But we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope.” Hope grows in the garden of pain. It doesn’t grow without challenges or difficulty. It grows in hard times. It’s sort of like building muscle. You build it up by breaking it down. Then, as you keep working out, that muscle will get stronger. You develop strength through your weaknesses. This is true of Christians in their spiritual lives as well.
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Greg Laurie is Senior Pastor of Harvest Christian Fellowship in Riverside, Calif. He began his pastoral ministry at 19 by leading a Bible study of 30 people. Since then, God has transformed the small group into a church of 15,000 plus, one of the largest churches in America. for more, visit www.greglaurie.com. used by permission from Harvest Ministries with Greg Laurie, PO Box 4000 Riverside, CA 92514 Copyright © 2016 by Harvest Ministries. All rights reserved.
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NEW MUSIC RELEASE:
Prestonwood Worship Songs of the People
“With more than 500 worshipers on stage, we really wanted to capture the power of a unified worshiping army, shattering the darkness with praise --Michael Neale
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Integrity Music Announces September 23 Release for New Prestonwood Worship Album Songs of the People Featuring Guests Paul Baloche and Michael W. Smith Integrity Music announces the September 23 gobal release of Songs of the People, a new album from Prestonwood Worship, the music ministry of the 42,000-member Prestonwood Baptist Church, which has two locations in the Dallas area. The project features all new songs from Prestonwood’s worship team led by Dove Award winning songwriter Michael Neale (“Your Great Name”) along with Prestonwood’s renowned mass choir and special guests Paul Baloche and Michael W. Smith. The 13-track project, which was produced by Michael Farren (AllAboutWorship/Pocket Full of Rocks), will be available as a physical CD/DVD, a digital album and a digital deluxe album with bonus video content. “With more than 500 worshipers on stage, we really wanted to capture the power of a unified worshiping army, shattering the darkness with praise,” says Neale of the project. “Having our good friends Michael and Paul join us in writing and leading for this project was a true gift… our prayer is that Songs of the People will be a resource for worshipers around the world to bring their offering to the King.” According to Neale, twelve different writers came together to craft the tracks for Songs of the People so that the album reflects the move of God within the Prestonwood community, which is one of the largest Southern Baptist congregations in the world.
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“I could not be more excited about the songs rising from the hearts of the worshipers at Prestonwood,” says Neale, whose own songs have been recorded by artists including Smith, Natalie Grant, Anthony Evans, Jr. and Phillips, Craig & Dean. “Our people have taken these songs in and are lifting them loudly to the Savior every week.” “God’s Spirit is moving among us with new songs of adoration and consecration,” adds Dr. Jack Graham, Prestonwood’s Pastor. “They are joyous new songs of praise and gratitude... Christ-exalting and life-changing words and melodies… truly the songs of the people.” “The Word of God and testimony of Jesus is alive among us,” he continues. “Revival is here. Many are coming to salvation and deliverance.” Some of the moving testimonies from the Prestonwood congregation are featured alongside the live concert footage on the Songs of the People DVD. Worship resources, including chord charts, for the new songs will be available at WeAreWorship.com and a songbook will be available through Bentwood-Benson. Prestonwood will celebrate the release of Songs of the People beginning Thursday, September 22 as the church hosts “An Evening With Beth Moore,” sharing new songs throughout the night. Michael Neale will also share the songs on the road as he joins Paul Baloche for “LeadWorship”
workshops and special nights of worship in Pennsylvania (Sept. 30-Oct 1) and California (Nov. 11-12). In addition, Dr. Graham and the Prestonwood ministers will share a “Songs of the People” sermon series based on the Psalms throughout the fall. The complete tracklist for Songs of the People, including featured vocalists, is 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12.
Songs Of The People (Michael Neale & Paul Baloche) Your Love Is Our Favorite Song (Michael Neale) Still My Soul Sings (Michael Neale) Our Story Our Song (Jordan Grizzard) Here In The Holy (Jordan Grizzard) You Can Have It All (Michael Neale) Grace So Marvelous (Rick Briscoe) Waves Of Grace (Stephen Miller) Your Cover Me (Emily Inman) We Turn Our Eyes (Paul Baloche) See You Again (Megan Duke) Let The Redeemed (Michael Neale, Paul Baloche, Jordan Grizzard & Stephen Miller) 13. We Are Alive (Michael W. Smith)
About Prestonwood Baptist Church: With a dynamic, culturally diverse congregation and services streaming at prestonwood.org/live and airing globally (through Daystar, Hillsong Channel and TBN), Prestonwood is at the forefront of a renaissance within the Southern Baptist denomination as it seeks to serve a global faith community. The church is committed to ministering nationally and internationally as well as serving local communities through hundreds of ministries including those for homeless and disadvantaged families, individuals with special needs, and women and teens experiencing crisis pregnancies. Additional information is available at prestonwood.org.
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Paying cash doesn’t make it smart Dear Dave, What is your opinion on paying cash for a “tiny house”? Wes Dear Wes, This may be a really un-hip or un-cool thing to say, but I wouldn’t buy a tiny house at all. Paying cash for something like that might make the mover smarter, but that still doesn’t mean it’s a smart choice. Now, don’t take what I’m saying the wrong way. I don’t have a problem with people who build tiny houses or buy them. My problem with these things is that there’s no track record on them. There’s also a pretty good chance they’re going to be just a fad. Another problem is that you’d have a really small market when it comes time to sell your tiny house. In other words, they probably won’t go up in value like a traditional home. They may actually lose value over the years.
There’s a thing in economics called the supply-demand curve, and from what I’ve seen tiny houses also have a tiny demand and pretty narrow market appeal. Their appeal seems to be mostly for early adopters and people who think they’ll never be able to afford a house. That means they’re not going to have broad appeal when you get ready to sell them, either. And that creates a problem.
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I could be wrong, though. I mean, if enough people buy tiny houses and they become a real part of our culture, then maybe they’ll do okay. But right now it’s an unproven product line and an unproven concept. So I wouldn’t buy a tiny house. Honestly, I wouldn’t even buy one at half of its current value because I’d be afraid it would drop to a fourth of its value. There’s just no proven record at this point of these things going up in value. —Dave
Did dad do her wrong? Dear Dave, My father loaned my husband and I money 20 years ago to help us start a business. The business eventually failed, and it forced us into bankruptcy. After this, we never seemed to get around to paying him back. He died earlier this year, and when we got together with my brother and sister for the reading of the will, we realized he had deducted the amount of the loan from my inheritance. Everything was equal between us before that. I think that’s wrong. What’s your opinion? Karen Dear Karen, I’m really sorry about your dad. I’m also sorry this was never taken care of or discussed while he was still alive. There are a lot of emotions at play, so I don’t want to beat you up too much. But legally, he didn’t have to leave you anything in his estate. The stuff we’re talking about, money included, was his to do with as he saw fit. It was a little odd that he didn’t address this with you beforehand, but there are lots of instances where kids get nothing from an estate or not as much as others. It’s not uncommon.
* Dave Ramsey is America’s trusted voice on money and business. He has authored five New York Times best-selling books. The Dave Ramsey Show is heard by more than 8.5 million listeners each week on more than 550 radio stations. Dave’s latest project, EveryDollar, provides a free online budget tool. Follow Dave on Twitter at @DaveRamsey and on the web at daveramsey.com.
In my mind, and, from the sound of it, his too, he left you an equal share minus what you still owed. He loaned you the money, and he had the right to set terms on that. I understand your frustration. You feel like he took something away that was yours. My point is it was never yours; it was his. I know it still hurts though. This is one of the reasons I advise never borrowing money from, or loaning it to, relatives. The best of intentions can end up in places like this. —Dave
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Give Your Child the World
Raising Globally Minded Kids One Book at a Time Author: Jamie C. Martin Publisher: Zondervan Young children live with awe and wonder as their daily companions. But as they grow, worries often crowd out wonder. Knowing this, how can parents strengthen their kids’ love for the world so it sticks around for the long haul? Thankfully, parents have at their fingertips a miracle vaccine—one that can boost their kids’ immunity to the world’s distractions. Well-chosen stories connect us with others, even those on the other side of the globe. Build your kids’ lives on a story-solid foundation and you’ll give them armor to shield themselves from the world’s cynicism. You’ll give them confidence to persevere in the face of life’s conflicts. You’ll give them a reservoir of compassion that spills over into a lifetime of love in action. Give Your Child the World features inspiring stories, practical suggestions, and carefully curated reading lists of the best children’s literature for each area of the globe. Reading lists are organized by region, country, and age range (ages 4-12). Each listing includes a brief description of the book, its themes, and any content of which parents should be aware. Parents can introduce their children to the world from the comfort of home by simply opening a book together. Give Your Child the World is poised to become a bestselling family reading treasury that promotes literacy, develops a global perspective, and strengthens family bonds while increasing faith and compassion.
Where I Am
Heaven, Eternity and Our Life Beyond
Author: Billy Graham Publisher: Thomas Nelson The Final Chapter From Billy Graham While his earthly vision dims, the glory of heaven is illuminated as Billy Graham, the beloved evangelist, shares from his past, and his present, the reality of eternity. Although Billy Graham may no longer preach from the stadiums of the world, in this book you will sense his heart still beats strong with the resounding assurance that he will spend eternity with Jesus Christ, the Savior of the world. In Where I Am, Mr. Graham invites and strongly encourages all of us to contemplate our eternal hope. When asked, “Where is Heaven?” Mr. Graham has wisely replied, “Heaven is where Jesus Christ is, and I’m going to Him soon.” The greatest promise ever given to the human race came from the lips of our Redeemer when Jesus said, “Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me...I go to prepare a place for you...I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also” (John 14:1–3). Just after his ninety-fifth birthday, Mr. Graham proclaimed with resolve, “When I die, tell others that I’ve gone to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ—that’s where I am.”
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Raul “Rudy” Rodriguez attorney at law Some historians may argue that among the greatest restoration stories of mankind are the European Renaissance or perhaps the post-World War II era. The cultural movement known as the European Renaissance roughly took place during the 14th through 17th centuries. This moment in history saw the face of Europe evolve with respect to its arts, architecture and long held science tenets. It also saw a rediscovery of the Greco-Roman classical knowledge and a rebirth of the study of Latin and vernacular languages. It served as a bridge between the Middle Ages and the Modern Era. Closer to home, America saw its restoration take place in the years that followed World War II. During this era, couples who could not afford families during the Great Depression made up for lost time. The mood in America suddenly became optimistic. At that time, the unemployment rate of the Great Depression dropped dramatically and the economy improved substantially. The G.I. Bill empowered many honorable service members to finish high school and attend college. As their skills were improved, so was the financial well-being of their families. But, without a doubt the greatest restoration that can take place is when a person does as Romans 10:9 instructs us to do. Romans 10:9 says: “If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” The message is simple: invite Christ into your heart and make him your personal Lord and Savior. At that time, your restoration will be complete. Next He will do as Philippians 1:6 says, “And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.” As you seek and strive to honor God with your life, He will reward you by allowing you to take on His characteristics. Hosea 14:4 says, “I will bring my people back to me. I will love them with all my heart; No longer am I angry with them.” I pray that you will invite Christ into your heart and allow Him to restore you! At my office, I also want to be part of your restoration plan, albeit in a different way. I pray that God will use me for His honor and glory in helping me address your needs. If you have been involved in an auto accident and/or other serious injury or if you have lost a loved one as a result of someone’s negligence, I will do my best to restore some sense of normality to your life. I will also help you in matters involving family law, criminal law and real estate and will issues. As always, I bear in mind that in honoring God with the way I handle my business relationships I will be honoring you my esteemed client.
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