Central Virginia Bridal Guide Fall/Winter 2017-2018

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V I R G I NI A’S

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GUIDE

Fall/Winter 2017-18

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1st Annual

BEST OF BRIDAL PICKS

local Vendors in 22 Categories

Natural Beauty Our 2017 Bride of the Year in lynchburg’s “Secret Garden”

TRENDy OR TIMELESS? 3 Makeup looks that Do Both

plus!

CHECKLISTS AND TIPS

15 Small Details Guests Will Love

TO HELP YOU PLAN YOUR BIG DAY

Videography 101 & More

Weddings at LU offers beautiful venues for ceremonies and receptions, as well as a friendly staff dedicated to making your special day everything you’ve imagined! This is a day you’ll never forget — let us help make it a memory you’ll always cherish.

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LETTER

FALL/WINTER 2017-18

from the EDITOR

When we set out on our journey into adulthood (a.k.a. the real world), I think many of us can agree there is a certain order of events we expect: start career, meet someone, get married, have kids, grow old together, retire, sit in a rocking chair somewhere telling stories about “back in the day.”

But sometimes things happen out of order. Sometimes little bundles of joy arrive when we aren’t quite expecting them. Sometimes marriages and relationships don’t work out.

Sometimes people change.

I hadn’t planned on marrying a man with children but on October 18, 2014, I did just that. Upon saying “I do,” I became a wife and a stepmom to two girls. While we had always been a family of four when we were together, on that day it was “official”—and it felt good.

So you can understand why I felt a connection to our 2017 Bride of the Year Brittany Ennis Watson. Even though her plans changed, love was waiting for her on the other side. Read about her story, and the man who is stepping up to be a husband and father, on page 25. Also, flip through to see her modeling this year’s top dress fashions at one of Lynchburg’s best kept secrets, Old City Cemetery.

Also inside, on pages 33-39, you will find our 1st Annual Best Of Bridal Picks.

From venues to flowers to dresses and beyond, you can see who brides recommend in 22 wedding-related categories. We hope this resource will help you find the best vendors possible for your big day.

We also tried to answer some other questions: Makeup—should you go trendy or stay classic? Videography—what should you expect? After the wedding—how do you manage some of the top stressors for newlyweds?

I wish you the best of luck with your wedding planning. And remember, if your plans change (venue is booked, budget shrinks, etc.), don’t sweat it. Brittany and I can tell you, sometimes when plans change, you get an even better end result!

The Central Virginia Bridal Guide is a fundamental resource for brides offering events, checklists, tips, services, advertisements, and articles. The Bridal Guide prints a minimum of 20,000 guides per year and offers a complete service directory designed to refer brides to your products and services. Our goal is to appeal to brides by offering the most complete information and resource-filled guide this area has to offer.

Publisher Randy Thompson Managing Editor Shelley Basinger Editorial Director Angela Blue Editorial Assistant Ally Gilbert Contributing Writers Shelley Basinger, Claire Foster, Ally Gilbert, John Hall, Emily Hedrick, Megan Norcross, Jennifer Redmond Vice President of Production Holly Watters Art Director Chris Meligonis Lead Designer Christina Sinclair Client Relations Manager Brittany Proctor Contributing Artists Josh Haralson, Kaye Ellen Trautman, Corey Watson, Brian Woelfel Contributing Photographers Laura Bryan, RJ Goodwin Web Creative Director Chris Murphy Sr. Web Developer & Site Administrator Brandon Litchfield Web Developer Caleb Whitehead Digital Marketing/ SEO Analyst Michael Saks IT Marketing Consultant William Warford Marketing Director Lisa Davenport Web Marketing & Promotions Manager Kathryn Kelly Event Coordinator Pam Hopkins Content Editor Arielle Patterson Vice President of Sales & Distribution Paul Brannock Account Executive/Team Leader Missy Celli Account Executives Heather Alto, Keely Miller Corporate Sales Coordinator Kiara Davis Lead Sales Artist Paul Cenzon VistaGraphics Staff Copy Editor Robin Cather Controller Anita Burns Accounting Manager Dawn Meehan Accounting Clerk Kelsey Stephens Office Manager Tracy Thompson

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CENTRAL VIRGINIA BRIDAL GUIDE FALL/WINTER 2017-18

9 MAKEUP DEBATE 12 VIDEOGRAPHY 14 TECHNOLOGY 17 CEREMONY & 22 RECEPTION

THE BRIDAL SHOWER Non-Traditional Ideas Trendy vs. Classic?

Experts Explain What to Expect 6 Trends for Couples

15 Details You Shouldn’t Overlook

25 1 ANNUAL BEST OF 33 BRIDAL PICKS FASHION FEATURE

Bride of the Year Brittany Watson ST

C E NTR AL

The Vendors Brides Recommend

41 YOUR FINANCIAL 44 HOUSE

AFTER THE “I DO” Managing Conflict

AWAR D -W I NNI NG

B R I DAL

Photos by Laura Bryan Photography.

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2017 Bride of the Year Brittany Ennis Watson models a Justin Alexander gown in Old City Cemetery. The full feature starts on page 25.

1st Annual

BEST OF BRIDAL PICKS

local Vendors in 22 Categories

Natural Beauty Our 2017 Bride of the Year in lynchburg’s “Secret Garden”

TRENDy OR TIMELESS? 3 Makeup looks that Do Both

plus!

CHECKLISTS AND TIPS

15 Small Details Guests Will Love

TO HELP YOU PLAN YOUR BIG DAY

Videography 101 & More

ALSO IN THIS ISSUE:

3 Steps for Newlyweds

19 20 45 50

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Venues Chart Color Trends Checklists Weddings By the Numbers

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Weddings Rehearsal Dinners Gifts For Giving Bridal Registry Catering Invitations And Save The Date Lunches Brunches Showers

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BRIDAL SHOWERS

PLAN AN ALTERNATIVE

bridal shower And Throw Tradition Over Your Shoulder Like It’s Your Bouquet

By Megan Norcross

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magine: A night huddled over a stove top, pots simmering with pasta sauces and an oven crisping up

freshly made bread. Or imagine holding a glass of your favorite wine in one hand and a paintbrush in another. Or even imagine your adrenaline pumping as you hide behind walls and barriers with a paintball gun, waiting for your next target. Then imagine doing all of this with your favorite girls and the members of your bridal party.

Not quite what you pictured for your bridal shower?

Today’s brides are throwing tradition to the wind, not only when it comes to the big day itself but also the events leading up to their vows.

Read on for a few alternative bridal shower ideas that may have you rethinking the punch and presents formula. 

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COOKING PARTY Whether you gather your girls to decorate cupcakes or you attend a class to learn how to make pizza or your favorite dish, cooking parties are an incredible and interactive way to enjoy a day with your closest girlfriends, while avoiding the bridal shower games.

PAINT NIGHT Whether it’s a paint-andsip or a paint-and-pints night (depending on whether the ladies in your life prefer wine or beer), you and your friends will love learning together, laughing over some artistic mishaps and enjoying a casual night over your favorite drink. You can even bring the party to you! Forest favorite, Sip and Spatter, recently went mobile— allowing them to bring the painting party to brides everywhere. Simply choose a location— whether it be a restaurant, meeting hall or someone’s home—and they’ll bring the goods to you for an even more customized and memorable bridal shower.

PAINT BALL A paint ball day is a different kind of paint night for the more adventurous bride. After all, who said sports days were only reserved for the groom and groomsmen?

Local nonprofit, Masters Inn, offers paintball packages for the day for up to 20 people. Just be sure to include a photographer in your party, because you’ll want to relive your winning shot over and over (and your future husband will probably be pretty impressed, too).

consider spending a day giving instead of getting for your bridal shower. Organize your group of girls and contact a local nonprofit or association and ask how you can volunteer your time. Organizations like the Greater Lynchburg Habitat for Humanity, Lynchburg Daily Bread or even Lynchburg Parks and Recreation are always looking for volunteers who are ready and willing to pitch in and help.

TRADITION MEETS NON-TRADITION If you can’t quite come to terms with a completely untraditional

OUTDOOR RECREATION If you’re looking to keep your bridal shower on the inexpensive side (which your bridal party will appreciate), consider a group hike or outdoor activity. Lynchburg is considered to be a top destination for outdoor recreation in Virginia, and for good reason. Take advantage of the Appalachian Trail, kayak or canoe on the James River, or ski and snowboard just an hour away in Wintergreen. Whatever the skill or fitness level of your bridal party, Lynchburg offers outdoor recreation to match. Plus, it will be nice to unplug in nature for a little while before the flurry of wedding events begin.

bridal shower (or if you can’t quite imagine grandma shooting paint ball), consider mixing tradition with non-tradition by hosting a sprinkle shower or a couple’s shower. A sprinkle shower is a low-key version of a traditional bridal shower. Usually held at a restaurant, tearoom or someone’s home, a sprinkle shower encourages guests to simply sprinkle the bride with gifts versus a large overhaul of the bridal registry. Sprinkle showers give brides the opportunity to spend quality, relaxed time with the women in their life, without adding pressure to them to bring impressive gifts.

On the other hand, couple’s showers are gaining incredible popularity. Often still structured like a traditional bridal shower—with

GIVE INSTEAD OF GET

hors d’oeuvres, games and gifts—a couple’s shower invites the groom

Oftentimes showers are so honed in on bridal registries and gifts that

and all of the significant others to join in on the fun. This allows the

the focus can inadvertently shift from the celebration of a marriage to

groom to be a part of an incredibly special day for the bride and gives

the celebration of the most fabulous bedding you’ve ever seen (we’ve

him an opportunity to interact with the important women in her life

all been there). To keep your mind focused on what’s most important,

(plus, he’ll love opening all of the gifts!).

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MAKEUP TRENDS

Trendy vs.

TIMELESS You don’t have to choose!

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beautiful, flawless face has always been at the top of the list for most brides’ wedding day makeup requests. But in our current Pinterest-obsessed era, it’s easy for brides to get

caught up in all of the current makeup trends (that can come and go fairly quickly). “I recommend that brides steer clear of anything that will seriously date their wedding photos. You will have your pictures forever, and no one wants to look back and regret this year’s version of ’80s blue eyeshadow,” said Chantay Silido, owner and lead artist of In Your Face Makeup Art. The good news is—you don’t have to choose! Just as runway clothing trends can be modified for everyday wear, trendy makeup can be reimagined and incorporated into your wedding makeup wish list. We asked Chantay to show us how it can be done in three different looks.

Romantic TRENDS: Pink Eyeshadow and Monochromatic Makeup

“I combined these two trends and used shades of pink for eyes, cheeks, and lips.”

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Vintage TRENDS: Red Lips, Revival Of ’90s Graphic Eyeliner, Glowy Highlighter

“I kept the cheek and eye colors neutral to let the focus stay on the lips and eyeliner.”

Dramatic TRENDS: Bold Matte Lips and Glitter

“I chose a deep berry matte lip to contrast with the icy shimmer of the silver eyeshadow. Eyeshadow with a shimmery finish is an elegant way to incorporate the ‘glitter’ trend without looking juvenile.”

In all three looks, Chantay kept with the current mainstream (but modified to be weddingfriendly) trends of a natural, fuller brow and subtle highlight and contour of the cheekbones.

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VIDEOGRAPHY

In Living Color

How To Tell If Wedding Videography Is Right For You

By Emily Hedrick

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hether it’s a brief home video or a two-hour, high-budget

and owner of SoloKoo Wedding Films, agrees, adding he especially

Hollywood production, seeing something on screen is

likes to film during the summer in outdoor venues or indoor venues

captivating and stays with us long after viewing. Paired

with large windows.

with the inherent magic of a wedding, wedding videos can be especially meaningful—but the cost of hiring a wedding videographer may have you stuck between “must-have” and “maybe.”

If you’re unsure about this decision, consider the following expert information from top-rated local videographers from DeVries Productions and SoloKoo Wedding Films to determine if wedding videography is a good fit for your big day.

Outdoor and natural light weddings set during warmer months are ideal for videography.

Although it is possible to hire a videographer for just about any venue during any season, outdoor weddings or indoor weddings with ample natural light held during warmer months tend to yield the best results. “Our wedding season typically runs from April to December,”

Videographers recommend hiring a photographer as well.

Both Koo and the DeVries recommend hiring a professional photographer in addition to a videographer to fully document your wedding. “Our couples usually do have both photo and video, and I think both are equally important,” Koo says. “I recommend having both because photos are beautiful keepsakes to decorate your house with or give to others as gifts, but videos capture everything in real time.

A well-done video captures moments you may have missed on that day. You get to see and hear your vows, reception speeches, dances, and more for years and years to come.”

Wedding videos are easy and fun to share.

Once you receive your wedding video, you will likely be very excited

says Micah DeVries, videographer and co-owner of DeVries

to share it with family and friends. Luckily, the best videographers make

Productions. “The winter months can prove challenging due to snow

it easy to share your video in several different ways. “We upload each

and cold temperatures, so we don’t tend to book a lot of weddings

couple’s wedding film to Vimeo to make it easy and simple for them

during that time. We particularly love venues with a lot of good,

to share,” says Micah DeVries. “In addition, we send our couples a USB

natural lighting or outdoor venues. We’ve had the opportunity to work

and DVD copy of their wedding film.” SoloKoo Productions offers a

at some awesome places, but admittedly I’m a total sucker for any

digital link, digital HD download, and Blu-rays or DVDs in addition to

venue that has a killer mountain backdrop!” Solo Koo, videographer

uploading videos onto Vimeo as well.

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Be willing to communicate what you want but also trust in your wedding videographer’s creativity and expertise.

As is the case with professional photographers, professional

are most important to you and will be sure to include those in your wedding film. That said, the best videographers also have a knack for noticing, capturing, and presenting

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input regarding which moments

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videographers will request your

special moments you may not have considered. For Koo, capturing the unique personality of the couple and general mood of the day are very important. “We are always open to suggestions from couples and we even send out a questionnaire before the wedding inquiring about any specific details or moments that are really important to them so we can be sure not to miss those. If they have any suggestions as far as song selections, we are more than happy to incorporate that as well,” he says.

“We believe the most important thing that happens on a couple’s wedding day is their commitment to each it a point to always include those vows in each wedding ALINA THOMAS PHOTOGRAPHY

film. We also make it a point to include other moments that are particularly special to our

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other through their vows,” Josh DeVries says. “We make For example, the DeVries say they spend nine to 12 hours at a wedding to put together a 10- to 12-minute feature film and/ or approximately five minutes for highlight films. “Our job is to create a film that will take a couple right back to their wedding day

couples, such as letter exchanges, father/daughter

and the commitment they made to each other. If we do that, then we

‘first looks,’ or highlighting parents

believe we’ve done our job well,” says Josh DeVries.

and grandparents. Prior to the

A similar story for Koo, who says a typical wedding usually ends up

wedding, we ask our couples what

being about eight to 10 hours of filming, and they produce a range of

they feel are the most important

film lengths, from a 7- to 15-minute highlight film to a full

aspects of their wedding day so

length (one hour or two) film. “It is truly a blessing just to

that we can ensure we capture

be a part of someone’s happiest day of their lives,

those moments on film.” Micah

a celebration of love

DeVries adds that one of her

and unity with

favorite moments to capture is

family and friends,”

the bride and groom being introduced as husband and wife for the

says Koo.

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first time. “Their smiles as they walk back down the aisle are always contagious, and it’s a moment we always enjoy putting in their final film!” she exclaims.

Remember that your wedding video will generally not show the event in its entirety, but will rather showcase the highlights in a beautiful, artistic way.

The best professional videographers edit and present seamless, breathtaking final products, so bear in mind that you likely won’t see every moment of your wedding in your wedding film.

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YOU’RE ENGAGED?

Get Plugged In

6 Technology Trends to Consider

By Ally Gilbert

T

echnology is constantly transforming

to get to know my clients and gives them

the way we go about our daily lives.

the chance to get to know me, building a

In recent years, many new forms

personal relationship,” says Brandi. Finding

of technology have emerged that have

a planner that is willing to communicate

changed the way we plan out even

this way will save you a lot of time (and gas

the smallest details of a wedding.

money!) throughout your planning process.

In order to save you some time and research, we’ve tracked down some of

USE ONE ONLINE REGISTRY

the best technology trends that will make

Many websites now allow you to create a

your wedding experience so much easier.

universal registry by compiling products from

VIDEO CHAT WITH YOUR WEDDING PLANNER

a variety of stores and brands into one list.

Amazon Registries and MyRegistry.com are two

One of the best ways to use technology to your

websites that enable you to add products from anywhere

advantage is to seize opportunities to do things electronically

to your registry with the click of a button. You can even sync

instead of in person. Trade in-person meetings with your wedding

registries you’ve already made or add the option to donate to your

planner for video chats so you can make important plans and decisions

honeymoon fund rather than bringing a gift. Other companies like

from anywhere at anytime. Brandi Hall, owner of Alta Avenue Events

Zola.com have hundreds of brands available so you can create

in Richmond, says video chatting with her clients is the best way

an expansive registry without ever leaving their website. 

to modernize the communication process. “Video chat allows me

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CONSIDER AN ELECTRONIC RSVP SYSTEM With all the moving parts of wedding planning, the last thing you need to worry about is keeping track of dozens of RSVP cards being sent through the mail. There are a variety of websites that can help you organize your guest list so everything is in one place. Choosing to forgo paper RSVP cards and using an electronic system instead will make managing your guest list a breeze and expedite the wait time for people’s responses. (Younger wedding guests are more likely to use email than snail mail these days.) You’ll be especially glad you did this when it comes to writing thank you cards and everyone’s information is already stored in one place.

ENGAGE GUESTS ON SOCIAL MEDIA Hashtags and geofilters are great ways to engage your guests on social media. Coming up with a fun, customized hashtag for your guests to use when they post photos from your wedding makes it easy to look back on the fun everyone had. Just be sure your guests know how to use the hashtag, as Brandi recommends, by creating a decorative sign, placing instructions in a common area, or having your DJ announce it. Geofilters, creative overlays used on social media apps like Snapchat and Instagram, are another creative way to get guests to post stories from your wedding.

BRING YOUR WEDDING CAKE TO LIFE Some companies are beginning to offer 3D mapping services where you can project graphics onto your wedding cake, giving the perception your cake is displaying whatever is being projected. From virtual frosting designs to fireworks, Jon Daggett, owner of Castle Event Lighting, said the possibilities are endless when it comes to designing the cake projection a couple wants. This is a great way to display bride and groom photos in a creative way!

Coming up with a fun, customized hashtag for your guests to use when they post photos from your wedding makes it easy to look back on the fun everyone had.

INVEST IN DRONE PHOTOGRAPHY/ VIDEOGRAPHY Many photographers now offer packages that include the creation of a video from the wedding, or you can seek out a separate videographer as well. (Read more about this on page 14.)

From behind the scenes footage of the bridal party getting ready to your walk down the aisle, you can look back and see your big day all over again. “The day goes by so fast that the bride and groom don’t really see it as others see it on the actual wedding day,” said Linda Hall, co-owner of Love Is In The Air Events. Taking it a step further, some photographers, such as Sam Stroud Photography, use drones to get creative shots of the bride and groom. If you crave unique photos like this, drone photography might be for you.

From planning to post-wedding memories, technology can do a lot to make your wedding experience easier and your wedding celebration more enjoyable. Video chat your planner on your lunch break, make your registry from bed on a Saturday morning, and start brainstorming your #CoupleHashtag now, and watch your wedding unfold flawlessly later.

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VENUE LIST

INDOOR SITE?

OUTDOOR SITE?

MAXIMUM CAPACITY

OUTSIDE CATERING PERMITTED

OUTSIDE VENDORS PERMITTED? (Florists, DJ, Decorators, etc.)

VALET PARKING

MILES FROM LYNCHBURG AIRPORT

MILES FROM ROANOKE AIRPORT

Bella Rose Plantation

32

YES

YES

150

NO

YES

NO

6

52

YES, THROUGH VENUE

YES

Claytor Nature Study Center / Cloverlea Farmhouse

24

YES

YES

50 INSIDE, 175 OUTSIDE

YES

YES

NO

25

32

YES, WITH ABC LICENSE

YES

farmbasket

8

NO

YES

125

NO

YES

NO

9

53

YES

NO

Hammersley Center at Hat Creek

21

YES

YES

100 INSIDE, UNLIMITED OUTSIDE

YES

YES

UPON REQUEST

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74

YES

YES

Hilton Garden Inn

11

YES

NO

200

NO

YES

NO

3

51

YES, HOTEL MUST PROVIDE

YES

House Mountain Inn

8

YES

YES

230

NO

YES

NO

61

65

YES

YES

43

YES

YES

200 INSIDE, 300+ OUTSIDE

YES

YES

NO

10

60

YES

NO

YES

YES

60 INSIDE, CALL FOR OUTSIDE

NO

YES, SOME RESTRICTIONS

NO

8

60

NO

NO

2

YES

NO

400

N/A

YES

NO

5

58

NO

NO

Pharsalia

24

YES

YES

60 INSIDE, 200 OUTSIDE

YES

YES

NO

40

87

YES

NO

The Bedford Columns

32

YES

NO

200

NO

YES

NO

21

32

YES, THROUGH VENUE

YES

2

YES

NO

250

YES

YES

NO

5

58

NO

NO

YES

NO

300

NO

YES

NO

4

54

YES

YES

VENUE

Mead Lake Lodge

Old City Cemetery Old Pate Chapel

The Bottling Co. Reception Hall The Kirkley Hotel

OVERNIGHT ACCOMMODATIONS?

ADVERTISING PAGE #

ALCOHOL PERMITTED?

Wedding Venues

Timberlake Tavern

11

YES

YES

200

PLEASE CALL

YES

UPON REQUEST

10

50

YES

YES

West Manor Estate

32

YES

YES

300

NO

YES

NO

16

46

YES, THROUGH VENUE

YES

Winridge Manor

8

YES

YES

YES

NO

15

67

YES, WITH ABC LICENSE

YES

Worley Prayer Chapel

2

YES

N/A

YES

NO

2

53

NO

NO

YES/ 50 INSIDE, TENTED 175 OUTSIDE NO

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COLOR TRENDS

Shine On

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Matrimony's Metallic Trend Has Certainly Not Lost Its Luster, So Get Inspired To Make Your Big Day Gleam With These Glitzy Goods

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Glimmering touches can be added to your wedding in many ways, creating a bold yet sophisticated affair.

You may favor an all-over element of shine or just a touch of shimmer here and there. Either way, you can't go wrong with radiance, so go ahead and incorporate some precious metals into your party scheme.

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Elegantly simple, tastefully rustic, the Hammersley Center offers a unique wedding experience with memories to treasure for a lifetime.

Conveniently located 32 miles south of Lynchburg, the Hammersley Center is Central Virginia’s newest event venue, offering versatile spaces for meetings, events, receptions and now, full-service weddings and wedding retreats. The outdoor chapel is the perfect locale for a memorable, lakefront ceremony, while the surrounding 350 acre landscape creates a stunning backdrop for wedding photos that will capture and preserve your very special day. This rustic and intimate setting provides tranquility paired with activity, and is convenient to many of Virginia’s best-known and most visited attractions.

A large selection of professional catering services make the Hammersley Center the ideal place to host your reception, and the comfortable, lodge-style accommodations offer the ultimate opportunity for two families to blend into one with an authentic wedding retreat. For bride Faith Payne and her husband, having a place their families could come together

and truly bond was essential in choosing a venue. “We had family traveling from all over the country, so it was important to us that we provided more than just one event that lasted only a few hours. The site offered a wide range of fun activities that were enjoyed by family members of all ages. It was more than just a wedding…it was an experience, one we will treasure for the rest of our lives”; said the new Mrs. Payne.

The bride and groom’s love of the outdoors, coupled with their relaxed personal style, made the Hammersley Center the ideal location for the wedding of their dreams. “Their professional team was very attentive in fulfilling our needs, making the entire experience stress-free, while still allowing the freedom to add our individual flair,” stated Payne.

At the Hammersley Center, the promise is an effortless experience along with unparalleled attention to detail, creating an inviting atmosphere where dreams for a distinctive, unforgettable wedding come true.

The Hammersley Center…where the venue is as unique as your love story.

The Hammersley Center can be reached by calling 434.376.1250. They can also be found online at patrickhenry.org/the-hammersley-center.

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5 Little 1Ways STAND OUT WEDDINGS

to Make Your Wedding Stand Out

By Claire Molineaux Foster

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hen it comes to your wedding, little details make a big impact. From decorations to desserts and everything in between, even the smallest elements can make your

wedding day unforgettable.

Maybe you’ve spent a lifetime dreaming up every aspect of your wedding, or maybe you’re just now starting the planning process. Either way, your long-awaited celebration is approaching, and now is the time to create the memories that you’ll cherish from

4. A warm welcome.

this day forward.

If you’re planning an

If you’re like me—a cost-conscious bride on a budget—you may be

evening ceremony

tempted to oversimplify your wedding, thinking that embellishments

outdoors, provide

and details will add up to financial fiascos. But you don’t have to spend

guests with throw

a fortune to make your wedding look like a million bucks. In fact,

blankets or oversized

adding small, reasonably-priced details can generate the highest return

scarves so that when

on investment by creating a personal, memorable wedding that’s uniquely yours.

Here are 15 little ways to make your wedding stand out—from start to send-off:

1. A good start. Never underestimate a goodie bag. Before your rehearsal, welcome your wedding party and family members with goodie bags including snacks, bottled water, fruit, a list of area attractions, important phone numbers and a handwritten note thanking them for being a part of your special day.

2. Schedule on point. Print an agenda of your wedding events—the time and location for every activity including the rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, hair and make-up appointments, the wedding ceremony, pictures, reception and clean up. Provide copies to everyone in your wedding party so they’ll feel involved and in-the-know.

the sun sets, they’ll have more than your vows to keep them warm.

5. It’s a sign.

Signage tells your guests exactly where to park, where to find the ceremony, where to sit, and what hashtag to use. This little detail will make your guests feel welcome and eliminate confusion. Find upcycled antique mirrors and stylish chalkboard signs from local vendors like Vintage and Scripted.

6. A cultural experience. Whether it’s jumping the broom or breaking a glass, adding cultural traditions will make your wedding stand out. For example, in the Chinese tradition, the wedding ceremony begins on the half hour to cement the couple’s good

3. Flowers in her hair. Consider wearing a hand-crafted flower

fortune. Under French custom, the groom walks his mother down the

crown of seasonal blooms. Delight bridesmaids and flower girls with

aisle before arriving at the altar. Find out ways that your ancestors

matching flower crowns, or invite them to create their own with fresh

celebrated and incorporate customs from your family and your

blossoms provided by a local florist like Petal Flower Company.

sweetie’s family.

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7. Party of 2…or more. If you or your sweetheart have children, involve them in your ceremony. Invite them to join you during the unity symbol. Present them with a token like an engraved necklace when you exchange rings. You’re not just becoming husband and wife— you’re becoming a family, and your children will remember this special day forever.

8. Relaxation station. Relaxed seating areas create an atmosphere for guests to enjoy your venue throughout the day. “Spread out cocktail stations for refreshment around the grounds,” said Foxie Morgan, owner at Pharsalia, a local historic estate founded in 1814.

“Place firepits around the property for guests to warm up as the evening cools.”

9. Centerpieces with a twist. Put your own twist on traditional centerpieces by trading blossomed flowers for branches embellished with ornaments, fairy lights or beading. Add a personal touch around the base, like your favorite books or framed photos of your adventures together.

15. The send off.

garnished with seasonal flavors like raspberries, mint, pomegranates or

Bubbles, sparklers

orange rinds.

or confetti make for

11. DIY photo booth. Find a simple backdrop and place a basket of props nearby. Feather boas, hats, silly glasses, and dress-up jewelry can be purchased at your local dollar store or online. Ask your photographer about on-site prints, or invite guests to snap their own pics.

the picture-perfect send off. Ask your bridal party to distribute these items to guests

12. The kids’ table is back. Remember sitting at the kids’ table for

before the send

large family gatherings? Having a table just for kids (if they are invited)

off for a seamless

gives them a dedicated place to hang out, and gives their parents a

transition from

chance to enjoy conversation with other adults. Add crayons, coloring

reception to happily

books, stickers and crafts for instant entertainment.

ever after.

13. Anniversary dance. Ask the DJ to invite all married couples to the dance floor to share a slow dance together. After a few moments, the DJ announces, “If you’ve been married for less than 1 year, please return to your seats.” As the song continues, the DJ asks couples to sit who have been married less than 5, 10, 20, 30, 40, and 50 years. At the end of the song, the remaining couple has been married the longest, and all of the guests give them a round of applause.

Ultimately, the best way to make your wedding stand out is to enjoy the day together.

The best weddings are relaxed and stress free. Show your guests how much you and your sweetheart love each other. Take plenty

14. The dessert bar. Let them eat cake. Or pie. Or fudge brownies.

of time to embrace your soulmate. Your love is the reason for the

Or all of the above. Serve an array of mini desserts instead of one

celebration, and your wedding is just the beginning of your beautiful,

colossal cake to cater to all guests’ palates.

lifelong story.

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10. Garnished cocktails. Greet guests with glasses of bubbly

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Perfect For Each Other A love story that started as a friendship and continues as a blended family

By Jennifer Redmond

f t h o e e Y d i r ear B BRITTANY ENNIS WATSON at Old City Cemetery

The Love Story

Colbie Calliat’s lyrics, “If you just realize what I just realized, then we’d be perfect

for each other, and we’ll never find another,” capture the slow transition of friends who fall in love without realizing it right

away. And for Brittany Ennis Watson and her husband Zac, this was how things progressed for them. 

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oving from our previous relationships, we were both not wanting a relationship at first,” Brittany says. “So it came about so slowly— talking as friends for hours on the phone.”

Zac’s work at the time kept him on the road doing conveyor installations all around the country.

Plus, Brittany has always carried a full load between her work as a surgical tech and raising her two children, Kaleigh, 6, and Hunter, 2. While they knew each other casually in high school—they both grew up in Amherst—they were reconnected a few years later in 2016 through mutual friends.

Brittany laughs describing their first “date,” saying it was a fun time out with friends, though she learned later that Zac hadn’t thought of it as much more going into the night. “He paid for everything, so I thought it was a date,” she explains. Early miscommunications aside, they started talking regularly after that, paving the way for a strong, foundational friendship.

Brittany says while the distance certainly made things challenging for them, it also allowed her to “have some time to myself and ease into a new relationship,” a pace she appreciated after her first marriage had ended.

As 2016 continued, they were able to meet up in different states—from Pennsylvania to Georgia—

DRESS: Bride Brittany Ennis Watson’s own gown & belt.

JEWELRY: Ashley Grace’s single drop pearl with leaf shaped rhinestones and all rhinestone V drop necklace.

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“There was an instant connection— no awkward moment— Zac has jumped right into that father figure role and is really excited.”

BOUQUET: Rustic greens, crab apples, pears and fun billy balls create a whimsical texture in this subtle fall bouquet.

depending on where Zac was based for work projects. Brittany also introduced him to her children during this time, saying, “There was an instant connection—no awkward moment—Zac has jumped right into that father figure role and is really excited.”

in Appomattox—the couple wed on September 2, 2017, which is actually Zac’s birthday! Brittany says this didn’t faze him much though, describing him as someone who “goes out of his way to help anyone; he’s very funny—very sweet.”

As the end of the year approached, Brittany scheduled a family photo shoot, not knowing that Zac decided to capitalize on the opportunity to do a surprise proposal. “I was doing a photo with Hunter, and when we turned around, Zac was on one knee,” she says.

“Kaleigh was on his other knee; I was totally surprised and said ‘yes’ right away. Kaleigh was giggling in all of the pictures!”

The couple selected a country chic look for their wedding and opted for an outside ceremony. Brittany appreciated that the spacious reception hall features a huge fireplace and has hardwood floors. Attendants and flowers all tied together with her chosen colors of blush pink and grey. Finally, Brittany was excited to have Kaleigh as her flower girl, wearing a blush pink, tulle princess gown, and Hunter with her, carrying a sign that read, “Ladies, I’m still single.”

While thoughts of a small destination wedding were tempting at first, Brittany says that the more she thought about it, she wanted their wedding to be a special event since “it’s the first time Zac is getting married, and it’s more special for his family.” Because of the availability at their chosen venue—Falling River Country Club

Since their engagement, Zac has started working locally at BWXT with Brittany’s father, making it much easier to spend time together.

Following their honeymoon to the Bahamas, Brittany says they’re looking forward to continuing life as an official family of four. 

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The Photo Shoot

Brittany’s Bride of the Year photo shoot brought together a range of

talented local vendors at Old City Cemetery (OCC). If that seems like an unlikely venue, think again. “Once people actually visit [here], they see it is a beautiful, public garden teeming with life,” says Ted Delaney, Executive Director of OCC.

DRESS: Lillian West 6478. Comfort can’t be compromised. This fit and flare is lined with jersey for maximum movement.

Hand placed lace trims the illusion Sabrina neckline and illusion scoop back with placed lace trims. Romantic lace is hand placed for optimal figure enhancement. EARRINGS: Rhinestone half hoop with drop pearl.

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With 27 acres to explore, Delaney explains why they see photo shoots happening on a near daily basis: “At every turn there are stunning backdrops…including both plant features, like roses and flowering shrubs, and structures, like a domed gazebo and oldfashioned tree swing.”

They also offer the option for “smaller, more intimate ceremonies” with their historic chapel, train station, lotus pond and shrub garden. Delaney adds, “Our wedding fees are very reasonable and competitive. Plus, with our new Comfort House, we can now offer restroom and catering facilities for weddings.”

Against this historic and natural setting, Brittany was styled in four dresses, the first being her own that she described as a “ball gown style with a lot of tulle,” and the other three provided by Ashley Grace Bridal. Owner Teresa Thomas, who named her bridal store after her own two daughters, selected some of their “most popular, new styles that give today’s brides what they are looking for—[they] want to look beautiful but also understand that they will be in a gown for hours, [so] it’s important to be comfortable.”

Brittany modeled a variety of dresses from a fit and flare with lace to a “simple and chic” satin gown and finally to a sleeveless, “organza Jacquard ball gown.”

“We understand that today’s bride is more budget conscious,” said Thomas. “We [chose] gowns that are excellent quality, unique styles and yet affordable.” While she explains that an A-line style will complement most body types, she also adds, “We encourage brides

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to try on a variety of styles because often they end up choosing something totally different than they originally thought.”

For Brittany’s makeup, Chantay Salido, owner and lead artist of In Your Face Makeup Art, decided to “create a classic, elegant look” for Brittany and did this by focusing on her eyes and creating a dramatic lip, even mixing two shades together to find the “perfect deep red,” which Brittany loved.

“I really wanted to accentuate her pretty eyes,” Salido says, “So I blended light and dark shadows for a neutral smoky effect, added a set of wispy false lashes and softly penciled in a defined brow.”

Salido believes a trial run “is the best opportunity to discuss style, colors, etc. and to see it all come together exactly as it will be…[plus] it helps the wedding day go smoothly, and everyone can be more relaxed when there’s no guesswork on such an important day!”

Brittany’s hair was styled by Jessica Comiskey Hair Design with a focus on “soft elegance” while also prioritizing a neutral and versatile look. 

DRESS: Evangelina by Maggie Sottero. Simple yet chic, this Aldora Satin wedding dress features illusion and Swarovski crystals accenting the shoulders, gliding into a shimmering ribbon of pearls and beading that ties in the plunging back, also trimmed in illusion and Swarovski crystals. Finished with crystal buttons over zipper closure.

EARRINGS: Rhinestone drop earring with crystal and large pearl.

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DRESS: Justin Alexander 8924.

Feel elegant with this structured sleeveless Mikado ball gown with structured notch collar.

The organza Jacquard fabric is gathered for added volume and has pockets and a classy high-back finished with covered buttons.

EARRINGS: Vine rhinestone with crystal and pearl drop.

HAIR PIECE: Side clip of metallic flowers with rhinestone and pearls

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BRIDE OF THE YEAR “I wanted to focus on something simple that would be flexible with many different dresses,” Comiskey says. “The weather made me think it needed to be up so that it would not get sweaty on her shoulders and then the curl fall out.”

When discussing various styles with brides, Comiskey stresses the importance of paying attention to the weather. Down and curly can work when a “bride knows her hair and knows how it responds in the climate of her wedding day,” Comiskey explains. “Updos are perfect for that unruly hair that just needs to stay put and look great for hours on end—and even survive the crazy dancing at the reception!”

Brittany carried a bouquet from bloom by Doyle’s and was photographed by Laura Bryan Photography in early August.

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Once the euphoria of his proposal wears off, brides are faced with the momentous task of planning “the big day.” It can be tough to know who to call or where to shop.

Welcome to our 1st Annual Best Of Bridal Picks—a wedding-focused version of our popular Best Of Awards. Over 7,700 people (including many brides and members of their wedding parties) voted in this online contest. The result—a resource that can help take some of the guesswork out of the planning process.

Read on to see who took gold, silver and bronze in 22 categories.

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ASHLEY GRACE BRIDAL GOLD AWARD WINNER Best Place To Buy A Tuxedo/Suit PHOTO COURTESY ASHLEY GRACE BRIDAL

Best Place To Buy A Wedding Gown Best Place To Buy Bridal Party Wear BRONZE AWARD WINNER Best Jewelry For Wedding Bling

x BEST BAKERY FOR A WEDDING CAKE GOLD Angela Hudson Cakes SILVER Brandi Bakes Shirlen BRONZE Kissed Cupcakes

ANGELA HUDSON CAKES GOLD AWARD WINNER Best Bakery For A Wedding Cake

x BEST FLORIST GOLD Annette’s Floral Creations SILVER Bella Rose Floral and Designs BRONZE bloom by Doyle’s x BEST JEWELRY FOR WEDDING BLING GOLD Fink’s Jewelers SILVER Bowen Jewelry Company BRONZE Ashley Grace Bridal

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x BEST NAIL SALON GOLD Amy Nails SILVER AL Nails BRONZE Parlor Spa x BEST PHOTOGRAPHER GOLD Adam and Sarah Mullins SILVER Kidd Photography

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BELLA ROSE GOLD AWARD WINNER Best Wedding Reception Venue Best Rehearsal Dinner Location

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x BEST PLACE FOR WEDDING ALTERATIONS GOLD The Gilded Thimble SILVER Celebration Bridal BRONZE Catrina Fashions

x BEST PLACE TO BUY A WEDDING DRESS GOLD Ashley Grace Bridal SILVER Celebration Bridal x BEST PLACE TO BUY BRIDAL PARTY WEAR GOLD Ashley Grace Bridal SILVER Celebration Bridal BRONZE Church Street Bridal 

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Happily Ever After?

With This Advice, Definitely

EARLY MAE PHOTOGRGARPAHPHY

By Jennifer Redmond

W

e all know the classic rhyme: “First comes love, then comes marriage…” but rather than follow that with “then comes baby in the baby carriage,” it would be more realistic (albeit less of an actual rhyme) to say, “Then comes real life with the opposite sex!” Much like Monica’s frantic realization to her best gal pals on “Friends”—“I have to live with a booooyyyy!”—the realities of daily life with your significant other may seem a tad overwhelming.

While engagement and the early days of marriage are unlike any other stage of life, ushering in great moments and memories you’ll keep forever, they also bring their fair share of stressors; almost everything in your life is affected in one way or another by this huge transition. So, how can you be prepared? What should you expect? Here we asked three local experts to share their best advice so you have an advantage to creating a “happily ever after” ending of your own.

CONFLICT WILL HAPPEN All of the professional counselors we interviewed agreed: conflict is inevitable. It’s best to acknowledge that up front so you can be prepared to address it successfully.

Elizabeth M. Jenkins, L.C.S.W., owner and partner at James River Counseling Center, Inc., recommends “putting things into three categories: what I really need to have; what I can negotiate; and what really doesn’t matter.” By establishing an order of priority, you will be able to move past small issues— “Should the toilet paper roll face up or down?” for instance— and instead focus your collective efforts on more pressing issues such as what to prioritize in your family budget.

Couples should also understand what often leads to conflict, namely, is the fact that you are each unique individuals!

“You have to develop a comfort level with the other person thinking differently than you do [and] that you see the world differently,” Chuck Rodgers, founder of the Wyndhurst Counseling Center and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, explains. Once you acknowledge those differences, then seek to truly understand the other person’s perspective. “After 100 percent understanding is achieved by both people, then true brainstorming can begin … and couples can move forward,” Rodgers says.

Also remember that conflict will always be present to some degree. “Not all conflicts can be resolved, but they can be managed,” Larry Compter, executive director of Compass Marriage & Relationship Services, points out.

“Remember, it’s not the problems you face, but how you face the problems, that will make the difference in your marriage.” He also recommends premarital counseling for the purpose of learning and practicing the skills of effective communication and conflict management. 

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FAMILY MATTERS Not long after your wedding the holidays will come along, and with them, an understandable mix of nostalgia and some confusion at the realization that you’re now making new traditions of your own.

The experts agree that when it comes to extended family, and the holidays especially, couples have a lot to discuss.

It’s a lesson I personally learned the hard way during our first Thanksgiving as a married couple. My husband was spending the holiday apart from his family for the very first time, and as a result, was feeling more emotional than he expected. Rather than asking how I could make the transition easier for him, I casually dismissed his suggested dessert request, only to find out later—and much to my dismay—that it was his favorite and one his Grandmom always made with him in mind. I, for one, wish I had taken the time to really listen before the holiday arrived!

The experts agree that when it comes to extended family, and the holidays especially, couples have a lot to discuss.

“It is very exciting but also scary to let go of some of your traditions from the past,” Rodgers says. He recommends sharing specifically how each of you celebrated holidays in the past, even to the smallest details like opening one gift on Christmas Eve or always reading Luke 2 on

Christmas morning. Then, “talk about how you would like to see it for your new family together,” Rodgers says.

Jenkins echoes this advice, saying, “Couples need to be sure they discuss expectations” and this includes where you spend the holidays in addition to how.

She also recommends choosing a “time to talk when you are both rested and emotionally ready to talk; stick to the topic…be respectful, and take a break if you need to.”

In addition to the holidays, extended family members may also try to insert their own opinions or expectations on you as individuals or as a couple. Compter has two recommendations for successfully navigating this topic. “One, be agreed. Make sure the two of you are on the same page….Two, blood talks to blood…this [approach] works because each of you has a history with your own family that the other will never have.”

GIVE YOURSELVES SOME SPACE While the early days of marriage are definitely filled with “euphoric and wonderful” emotions according to Rodgers, they are also laying the foundation for your life together from that point forward. So don’t shy away from maintaining some of your own interests and hobbies,

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TRANSITIONING otherwise you may experience some sense of loss because “individuals have different needs for togetherness and individual time,” Jenkins says.

Compter says that “communication is key to managing this balance; talk about what your needs are, and how much time or space you want, and when is the best time to do it.”

Jenkins explains that there is “no right or wrong answer [and] each couple has to navigate this issue together.”

All of the counselors agree that prioritizing your marriage in the midst of balancing your individual interests is critical.

“I find that as the needs of the couple are met, that each spouse is very giving to the other person to have individual needs met,” Rodgers says. He encourages couples to establish what are known as “rituals of connection” on a daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly cycle. Doing so builds quality time into your schedules, and according to Rodgers, research shows that it promotes satisfying and enduring marriages.

Compter recommends planning a regular date night to ensure you have quality time together for some fun and good conversation.

As you move forward into married life, keep in mind that real life happens, but it can be much sweeter together with some conscious effort and preparation!

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FINANCES

You’re Married ! Now what?

Three steps couples should take to get their newly-united financial house in order.

N

o one likes to talk about money, but newlyweds have a unique opportunity to start things out on the right foot.

We’ve all read the statistics that show couples who have financial disagreements are more likely to end up in a not-sohappy place. What can new couples do to prevent that type of marital discord? Let’s examine three important practices:

1. COMMUNICATE.

There’s simply no substitute for clear communication. This holds true when it comes to your household finances as well. Sit down with your partner and have the money talk. What do each of you have? What do each of you owe? (Although, this should probably come up before the vows.) What do each of you make? And, lastly, what do each of you spend? Starting out with open and equal knowledge of your finances coming into the marriage can help avoid misunderstanding. That is, if you follow through to step two:

2. MAKE A PLAN.

If you’ve aired all of the financial laundry, then you both know where you’re starting. Next, come up with a plan to get from where you are to where you want to be. No, you don’t have to map out of rest of your lives, but you should know how you’re going to pay the bills, put food on the table, and tackle any preexisting debts. If you’re splitting responsibilities, then write them down and agree to them. Don’t worry! We’re not talking legal contracts! Get out a notepad and a pencil. Who’s going to do what? What purchase decisions will you make together, and which ones are you both okay making independently? After you take care of the here and now, talk about the future. What are your joint financial goals?

3. GO TOGETHER TO SEEK ADVICE.

How has marriage changed your tax situation? Whose retirement accounts should be maxed out? Do you need a will? Life insurance? These are all questions that may require an expert’s advice. Go together to an accountant, financial planner, attorney, and any other needed professional that can help meet your needs. Why go together? So that, again, you agree on your plan of action. It’s not uncommon for one spouse to be more financially savvy than the other. That’s okay, but it shouldn’t mean the other spouse is simply left in the dark and expected to follow orders. Going together to advisors helps both partners ask questions, understand the answers, and agree to the next steps they will take as a result of the advice they receive.

REPEAT Remember that communication, planning, and seeking sound advice are ongoing activities. Your life isn’t a one-and-done exercise, and finances are no exception. As new circumstances come up, whether they be a change in jobs, expecting a child, buying a home, or caring for an elderly parent, it will be important to routinely repeat these steps.

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Remember that communication, planning, and seeking sound advice are ongoing activities.

Author’s Bio: John N. Hall, CFP ® is President of Lynchburg Wealth Management, a fee-only financial planning firm headquartered in Lynchburg, Virginia. John can be reached at 434-515-0380 or via email: john@lynchburgwealth.com Disclaimer: This article is generalized in nature and should not be considered personalized financial, legal, or tax advice. All information and ideas provided should be discussed in detail with an advisor, accountant or legal counsel prior to implementation.

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checklists

CHECKLISTS

Your wedding resource to make sure you stay on track with the planning of your big day!

THE 12-MONTH COUNTDOWN 12 MONTHS

FOUR MONTHS

 Determine Budget and discuss division of expenses  Select a wedding coordinator  Reserve ceremony and reception sites  Decide on the size of your guest list  Notify the officiant of your plans  Begin discussing where you will live

       

NINE MONTHS  Choose attendants  Select color scheme and decide on any theme  Shop for wedding rings  Select bridal gown, veil and accessories  Decide on a photographer  Select and book caterer  Compile names and addresses of guests  Schedule engagement photo session

SIX MONTHS  Select and order attendants’ apparel, including bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girl and mothers  Consult travel agent about honeymoon plans  Announce engagement in the paper  Select & order invitations and other stationery  Choose ceremony music and musicians  Meet with florist, discuss style and costs  Reserve rooms at hotel for out-of-town guests

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Finalize guest list Start addressing envelopes Schedule Bridal Portraits Reserve tuxedo & accessories Reserve limousine, carriage or rental Order or make reception favors Select menu with caterer Meet with baker and select cake style and taste

THREE MONTHS  Purchase attendants’ gifts  Arrange and plan rehearsal dinner  Arrange rehearsal details with wedding coordinator and party  Select order of ceremony  Select guest book attendant  Reserve any wedding-day rentals or accessories  Plan bridesmaid luncheon  Make appointment for hair and make-up  Plan order of events at reception with DJ or musicians  Select ceremony and reception music  Request vacation time at work

SIX TO EIGHT WEEKS  Send invitations  Confirm ceremony details with officiant  Order engravings on wedding rings  Have all men measured for tuxedos  Prepare wedding announcement for newspapers  Practice-run with hair and make-up stylists

FOUR WEEKS Prepare RSVP List Get marriage license Buy or make Groom’s gift Arrange for final fitting of gown Confirm honeymoon reservations Plan seating arrangements and place cards  Confirm reservations for out-oftown guests  Write Thank You notes for gifts as they come in      

TWO WEEKS  Prepare wedding day checklist, delegate responsibilities  Meet with photographer to go over your expectations  Meet with videographer to discuss details  Meet with DJ or band to confirm your requests  Send invitations for Rehearsal and Dinner  Confirm time and wedding rehearsal schedule with everyone involved  Confirm wedding vendors’ arrival and set up times  Arrange for bouquet and gown preservation  Arrange name and address changes on bank accounts, credit cards, driver’s license, social security card and utilities  Move personal and mutual belongings to new home

ONE WEEK      

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Take the week off from work Provide caterer with final guest count Pick up wedding rings Groom and Groomsmen try on and pick up tuxedos Consult with wedding coordinator about all details Final consultations with florist, musicians, photographer, video, decorators and rental company Pay clergy and musicians Pack for honeymoon – don’t forget your passport, if needed Attend bridesmaids’ luncheons Have nails done Have dress pressed Take maps and event schedule to hotel for out-of-town guests Arrange transportation for out-oftown guests Discuss seating arrangements with ushers

THE DAY BEFORE  Decorate ceremony and reception sites  Keep all personal appointments  Finish packing for the honeymoon  Move all items to your new home  Get plenty of rest!

ON THE WEDDING DAY  Stay calm & relaxed  Have hair and make-up done  Take marriage license and rings to ceremony  Above all else, have fun and cherish your day!

MARRIAGE LICENSE WHERE TO APPLY:

REQUIREMENTS:

MEDICAL EXAMINATIONS:

Circuit Court Clerks Office, 900 Court Street, Lynchburg, VA 24504 434-455-2620

For all persons 18 years of age and older, the couple must both go in person to complete and sign the application. Acceptable forms of identification include driver’s license, passport, military ID or state ID. Persons under the age of 18 must provide notarized consent from parents or legal guardians.

There are no blood tests or exams necessary for a marriage license in the state of Virginia.

WHEN TO APPLY: You can apply up until the day of the wedding.

The license must be used within 60 days of issue. The license will be issued upon completion and acceptance of the application. This must be completed by the officiant performing the ceremony. Check with your officiant to see if he or she will also send in the completed application or if you need to take care of that yourself.

REMARRIAGES: Applicants will be required to give an accurate account on all previous marriages.

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FEE: There is a $30 fee for application (cash or check).

These guidelines pertain to Lynchburg, Va. Call your local circuit county clerks’ office for your area guidelines.

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WEDDING BUDGET ITEM

ITEM

BUDGET ACTUAL

BUDGET ACTUAL

ITEM

BUDGET ACTUAL

Wedding Attire

Reception Continued...

Photography Continued...

Wedding Bands

Wedding Cake

Wedding Programs

Bridal Gown

Cake Topper/Knife

Postage

Headpiece/Veil

Toasting Glasses

Calligraphy

Undergarments

Napkins

Addressing

Additional Services

(servers, bartenders, valet parking)

Flowers

Groom’s Tux/Suit

Entertainment

Ceremony Site

Bride’s Mother

Ceremony Music

Reception Site

Bride’s Father

Reception Music

Bridal Bouquet

Gown Preservation

Band/DJ

Attendants’ Flowers

Hair & Makeup

Dance Lessons

Parents/Grands

Pedicure

Photography & Invitations

Honored Guests

Manicure

Engagement Pictures

Other

Shoes

Bridal Portraits

Clergy/Officiant

Jewelry

Wedding Day

Marriage License

Lingerie

Wedding Albums

Attendants’ Gifts

Reception

Extra Prints

Transportation

Site Rental

Videography

Favors

Rental Supplies

(linens, china, tables, chairs)

Photographer’s Fee

Rentals

Caterer/Food

Announcements

Honeymoon

Beverages

Invitations

Wedding Night

Decorations

(other than flowers)

Reply Cards

Accommodations

Gratuities & Taxes

Thank You Cards

Alterations

TOTAL

BRIDE’S EMERGENCY KIT BEAUTY/GROOMING

Essentials you need should the unexpected happen

HEALTH  S traws (for drinking without ruining lipstick)

MISCELLANEOUS  Baby powder (useful for getting out last minute spills on a white dress)

 Acid relief

 Static cling spray

 Brush/comb

 Smelling salts

 Bottled water

 Hair elastic

 Eye drops

 Small hand towel (put around neck

 Earring backs

 Contact lens solution

 Lint brush

 Headache medicine (two

 Nail file  Nail polish (one in the bride’s color and clear for runs in hose)

when doing makeup)  Hard candy

 Tweezers

different types in case someone

 Mints/breath spray

 Makeup remover, skin cleanser/

in the party is allergic)

 Travel size perfume

 Band-aids

 White chalk to cover stains on the dress

 Deodorant

 Tampons/sanitary napkins

 Package of wet wipes

 Toothbrush, toothpaste,

 Tissues

 Portable iron or steamer

moisturizer

 Tape, safety pins and scissors

mouthwash, floss  Bobby pins  Hair dryer (for hair or drying dresses after stain removal)

ATTIRE  Flat shoes or ballet slippers

 Directions to reception (extra copies)

 Extra buttons and pair of hose

 Super glue (‘cause you never know!)

 Sewing kit

 Gloves  Jewelry

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SEQUENCE OF EVENTS Confused about what happens when? Use the following guide to help plan the order of your ceremony and reception.

CEREMONY

THE GROOM TAKES HIS PLACE

THE EXCHANGE OF VOWS

Every religion has their own established rituals, customs and traditions for wedding ceremonies.

Also, your clergyman or officiant may also have specific rules and procedures to be followed when they officiate a wedding ceremony.

So, when planning your ceremony, be sure to consult with your officiant every step of the way!

The officiant, ushers, best man and groom take their positions.

Traditional vows may be exchanged, or you may write your own personal vows to recite.

SEATING OF GUESTS Pre-ceremonial music as the ushers seat the guests. Music usually begins 15 minutes before the ceremony.

SEATING OF PARENTS After the guests are present and seated, the groom’s parents are escorted to their seats. The bride’s mother is the last to be seated The bride’s father is waiting with the bride.

ATTENDANTS’ PROCESSION The processional music for the bridesmaids, maid or matron of honor, flower girl and ring bearer begins as they are ready to march down the aisle.

BRIDAL PROCESSION Following the attendants, the bride’s father offers the bride his left arm as they begin down the aisle. Music is played and the guests rise in honor of the bride following the cue of the bride’s mother.

GIVING AWAY OF THE BRIDE/CHARGE TO THE BRIDE AND GROOM Message, explanation of marriage or Scripture reading.

MUSIC WITH CEREMONY Music is played during the candlelighting and other nonverbal portions of the ceremony.

THE RING EXCHANGE Be sure to know where your rings are.

THE KISS! THE INTRODUCTION At the end of the ceremony, the officiant may introduce the newlyweds to the guests as the new Mr. and Mrs.

THE RECESSIONAL The bride and groom lead the bridal party back down the aisle.

WEDDING DAY CHECKLIST WEDDING DAY APPAREL

WEDDING DAY ACCESSORIES

WEDDING DAY NECESSITIES

 Shoes

 Guest Book & Pen

 Marriage License

 Bra/Undergarments

 Ring Pillow

 Groom’s Ring

 Jewelry

 Cake Knife and Server

 Gown–alterations & pressed

 Garter

 Toasting Glasses

BRIDE’S EMERGENCY KIT

 Favors

 (See previous page)

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HONEYMOON CHECKLIST ESSENTIALS

 Glasses/Contacts

FLOWER CHECKLIST

BRIDE’S LIST

COST

NUMBER

 Tickets

(take at least one

 Shirts

 Itinerary

extra pair)

 Jeans/Shorts/Pants

Bride’s Bouquet______________________

____________

 Coat/Sweater

Groom’s Boutonnière__________________

____________

Maid/Matron of Honor’s Bouquet________

____________

 Purse/Wallet

Bridesmaids’ Bouquets________________

____________

 Passports

 Plastic Ziploc Bags

 Phone Numbers

(for dirty laundry or

 Cosmetics

 Wallet/Purse

items that may leak)

 Dresses

 Photo I.D.

 $50 cash/coins

 Reservations

(in small bills for

 Jewelry

Flower Girl’s Bouquet/Basket___________

____________

 Traveler’s Checks

tipping and

 Lingerie/Sleepwear

necessary expenses

 Robe

Floral Headpieces____________________

____________

while traveling)

 Shoes

Hostesses’ Flowers____________________

____________

 Bathing Suit

Mothers & Grandmothers______________

____________

GENERAL LIST  First Aid Kit

GROOM’S LIST

 Evening Wear

Fathers & Grandfathers________________

____________

 Swimming Trunks

 Razor

 Dress Shirt and Tie

Best Man’s Boutonnière________________

____________

 Umbrella/Rain Coat

 Underwear/Bras

 Calling Cards

 Dress Pants

Groomsmen & Ushers_________________

____________

 Sunglasses

 Shoes/Socks

WILL YOU NEED?

Aisle or Pew Decorations______________

____________

 Meds/Prescriptions

 Robe

 Electrical Adapters

Altar Arrangements___________________

____________

 Camera/Batteries

 Shaving Kit

 Vaccination Records

 Shirts

Candelabra Flowers___________________

____________

 Toiletries

 Language Guide Book

 Deodorant

 Sleepwear

 Travel Guide Book

Gift Table___________________________

____________

 Sunscreen

 Jeans/Pants/Shorts

 Map (especially if

Bride & Groom’s Table_________________

____________

 Hair Products

 Belt

Cake Table__________________________

____________

 Dress Shoes

 Underwear  Overnight Bag

Food Table/Décor____________________

____________

 Luggage Tags

Centerpieces________________________

____________

Toss Bouquet________________________

____________

 Toothbrush/ Toothpaste

you’re driving)

 Travel Alarm Clock

(separate from

 Walking/

luggage with

Running Shoes  Sandals/Flip Flops

 Name and number of your travel agency or booking agent  Photocopy of

essentials for

Passports and

Miscellaneous________________________

____________

one night)

important items

TOTAL______________________________

____________

 Credit Card

WEDDING PHOTOS

PHOTOGRAPHER:___________________________ PHONE:____________________________________

Creating a “shot list” has little to do with adult beverages when it comes to your wedding. Arguably, one of the most important aspects of your big day is what will last after it is over—your vows, love, and hopefully, your photos! While more professional photographers understand what is essential to capture, here is a simple list to add to or subtract from. Give your personalized list to your photographer so he or she will know which moments you want to remember for a lifetime.

BUDGETED COST:___________________________ ACTUAL COST:______________________________ FORMAL PORTRAITS DATE/TIME:______________

 Bride, dressing for ceremony

 Groom with grandparents

 Recessional

 Best man toasting newlyweds

 Bride, full-length solo

 Groom with siblings

 Formal bride and groom together

 Newlyweds toasting each other

 Bride with parents (together)

 Groom with best man

 Newlyweds and parents

 Cake and punch servers

 Bride with parents (individually)

 Groom with groomsmen

 Newlyweds with children/

 Musicians

 Bride with grandparents

 Groom’s, Bride’s parents being

 Bride with siblings

seated for ceremony

 Bride with maid of honor

 Bridesmaids walking down the aisle

 Bride with attendants

 Flower girl/ring bearer walking

 Bride with ring bearer/flower girl

down the aisle

stepchildren

 Newlyweds’ first dance

 Newlyweds with entire bridal party

 Guests dancing

 Close-up of newlyweds’

 Bride tossing bouquet

hands clasped

 Groom removing garter

 Close-up of rings

 Groom tossing garter

 Garter being put on

 Bride and father approaching the altar

 Receiving-line guests and bridal party

 Guests throwing rice/birdseed

 Groom, full-length solo

 Bride’s father giving hand to groom

 Cake table

 Newlyweds getting into limo or car

 Groom with parents (together)

 Exchanging of vows

 Bride and groom cutting cake/

 Father/daughter dance

 Groom with parents (individually)

 Ring ceremony

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FUN FACTS

Weddings BY THE NUMBERS The average cost for a U.S. couple’s wedding:

80%

$35,329 (The Knot Real Weddings Study, 2016)

15 months

The number of brides who plan to change their name after marriage

The length of time couples (Google Consumer Survey) are engaged before marrying (The Knot Real Weddings Study 2016)

141

The number of weddings performed in the U.S. each year

The average number of wedding guests

2.1 million

(National Center for Health Statistics)

(The Knot Real Weddings Study, 2016)

8 days The length of an average honeymoon (TripSavvy.com)

31 years

29 years

The median age for grooms

The median age for brides

(The Knot Real Weddings Study, 2016)

$6,163

The average cost for a diamond engagement ring (The Knot Real Weddings Study, 2016)

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The length of the longest marriage on record.

Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher set this record until the bride passed away in 2011.

86 years, 9 months, 16 days

(Guinness Book of World Records)

The length of the world's longest wedding gown train.

Achieved in China on May 28, 2017.

(Guinness Book of World Records)

15,324 feet, 4 inches

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