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eating charts are essential for any reception that will involve a large group of people sitting and eating together in the same room. Otherwise, parties may be split up, and guests could be stuck at a table with people they don’t know. Save your guests the risk of tripping and falling as they make a mad dash to claim their dinner spot—not to mention the feigned

pleasantries some poor soul will be forced to exchange with Uncle Gus after he’s had one too many—all because they weren’t quick enough to snag a seat with their pals.

Since it’s understood that seating charts are beneficial to all, have some fun with them. There’s no rule stating that tables must be categorized by number with guests’ names listed blandly underneath

or that place cards or escort cards must consist of a piece of cardstock folded like a tent. Your seating chart and escort cards may reflect a certain theme, can be displayed as creatively as you wish and could even include a surprise gift for each guest.

Decide which arrangement works best with your reception’s motif, and gain the comfort of knowing that your guests will be seated in style.

SeatingShells by the Sea Shore If you’re planning a wedding on the Virginia Beach Oceanfront, it’s only natural to include a beachy keen theme in your escort card display. Write guests’ names on seashells, and place them in boxes filled with sand to designate different tables. You can purchase shells, or, for a special touch, wake up early one morning, grab a bucket, and head to the beach with your sweetie for a stroll along the Oceanfront. They’re free, and it will be meaningful for guests to know that you hand-picked these shells together. Plus, with all the stresses of planning, a relaxing walk on the beach is just what you need.

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Musical Chairs Show your passion for music from a distinct era by having your seating charts designed to look like sheet music. Go a step further by naming tables after famous singers from that time. Once your design is complete, hang the cards on pieces of string with clothespins for a charming flair. These musical charts are a splendid way to jazz up the evening while making sure no one is left singing solo.

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Treat your guests with dainty confections to nosh on as they’re making their way to their assigned tables. Cake pops are all the rage now because they’re fun, colorful and completely portable, not to mention oh-so-good!

You can either make your own or ask your baker about creating these decadent delicacies. Cover a piece of Styrofoam with a fun material that matches your color scheme, and poke cake pop sticks through the fabric. To assign places, attach small tags to each pop with the guest’s name and table number.

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Through t he Looking Glass This truly sentimental and memorable chart is easy to make and can be altered to be as personal as you wish.

Start by obtaining an old window.

Make sure there are no cracks and that the glass is solidly held in place. You could opt for windows with divided panes that would designate different tables, or if you choose a frame with no dividers, you can separate the tables using flowers, buttons or whatever trinkets you fancy. Write guests’ names using liquid chalk markers, and decorate the frame using photos of the two of you, memorabilia from your relationship and any other objects that will add a romantic touch.

BranchingOut For a garden or rustic reception, give a nod to nature by writing guests’ names on leaves and hanging them from tree branches. The branches could be placed in jars and centered at each table, or there could be one large tree branch suspended from the ceiling with guests’ names and table numbers hanging from the leaves. We’ll go out on a limb to say that these arrangements will leave guests in awe. n HRB

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Pearl and crystal earrings from my mom —Gabrielle C., Virginia Beach

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I borrowed my mom’s pearl necklace that she wore at her wedding. —Renee G., Williamsburg

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he four somethings (old, new, borrowed and blue) are traditionally worn or carried by the bride on her wedding day to ensure good luck. The custom began in Victorian times, and each item has a special significance. The old represents the bride’s past and her connection to her family. The new symbolizes her new life that’s she’s about to begin. A borrowed item reminds the bride that her friends and family will always be there for her, and the blue represents faithfulness and loyalty. The last part of the rhyme, “and a silver sixpence in her shoe,” is rarely followed today.

We asked happily married brides and brides-to-be in Hampton Roads what items they had or are planning to have with them on their wedding day, and they were delighted to share with us the traditions passed on through generations, the sentimental meaning that certain items hold and for some, the care-free whimsy of breaking all the “rules” and establishing their own.

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I will be wearing my mother’s wedding dress at my wedding. This will be my something borrowed since I don’t want to make my mother feel like I think of her as old!—Cassie W., Hampton

The blue pendant attached to my garter belonged to my Grandma Jo that passed away last November. My cousins used it as their something blue in their weddings, and they surprised me with the pendant the day of the wedding.—Andra R., Virginia Beach

My blue was my hydrangea bouquet. —Molly B., Norfolk My great aunt hosted a bridal breakfast for my bridesmaids and me the morning of the wedding. She had filled a bowl with butter mints, all white and pink except for one blue one right in the center, which she had placed there for me. She said that it was a tradition that dates back to the 1940s. —Angela B., Norfolk Of course, there’s no rule that you have to abide by tradition.

I didn’t have any. We went to city hall and had a reception at Doumar’s—amusing and stress-free.

—Eileen D., Norfolk

The ribbon on my flowers holding them together was the ribbon from the first dozen roses he gave me. —Alex M., Suffolk

We didn’t follow the rules.

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I wore my great-grandmother’s necklace that my great-grandfather had given her on their wedding day in 1907. Every bride in my family has since worn it, and I was the centennial bride. I wore it in remembrance of all our loved ones who had passed.—Bryn B., Norfolk

In memory and honor of my paternal grandparents, who were married for 54 years, I wore my grandmother’s wedding band on my thumb and attached one of her rhinestone brooches to the ribbon on my bouquet. —Melissa S., Norfolk

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I’m crocheting a new, blue bikini for the honeymoon! —Jen S., Virginia Beach

New was all of the new stuff for the wedding. New husband.

New dress. New ring. New everything! —Amelia B., Norfolk New peacock earrings I bought as a gift to myself. Even though I was a very non-traditional bride, I do love a good rhyming scavenger hunt! —Skye Z., Norfolk

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includes the reservation of privacy and space for a maximum xchanging vows on the Virginia Beach Oceanfront of three hours and exclusion of the general population. is becoming more and more popular as couples Frankee Love, wedding officiant for Virginia Beach ceremoare leaning toward natural beauty and simple nies, explains that since the permit sentiments in lieu of extravagant, over-the-top ceremonies. …a new policy has been put is optional for smaller ceremonies, most of his clients have declined to Beach weddings are automatically equipped into effect that allows couples obtain it because they don’t mind with the gorgeous glistening of the ocean, other beachgoers being in the immethe perfect music of crashing waves, the to rent a space on the beach diate area. However, even if you’re tiny grains of sand beneath your feet and having a smaller ceremony and the breezy air against your skin. Now this for their ceremony. don’t mind onlookers, you may find pure and most personal affair of exchanging that a permit is required for some vows on the beach may come with a few of the additional extras you wish to have at your ceremony. more rules but also a little more privacy.

For example, decorations, tents, seating, arches and any items Due to the increasing popularity of taking up a space greater than 100 square feet or items that beach weddings, a new policy require commercial assembly are allowed with a permit. There has been put into effect that are still restrictions for having a ceremony on the beach even allows couples to rent a with a permit, so be sure to read the guidelines thoroughly space on the beach for before beginning your planning. their ceremony. The polWhether you envision a grand or intimate ceremony and icy requires a permit if whether or not you choose to obtain a permit, your Oceanfront the couple is expecting wedding will be a romantic and memorable occasion, now more than 150 guests complete with more options, more privacy (if you choose) and but is optional for small more reasons to love getting married on Virginia Beach. ceremonies. The Visit vbgov.com to learn more. n $200 permit HRB —Ashley Applewhite

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Who: Jon del Rosario, a graphic design student at The Art Institute and employee at Trader Joe's in Virginia Beach, born in Italy but a Virginia Beach resident since age 5, and Andra Rosenberg, hair designer and makeup artist at Salon Vivace, born and raised in Virginia Beach. When: November 11, 2011. Where: Green Meadow Stables, Chesapeake. Guest List: 150 guests, mostly locals with friends and family from California, New York and Florida. Where They Met: Jon knew who Andra was since she had been DJing at a local club for years; she didn’t know him, but the two connected through an Otis Redding video posted on Facebook. They had their first date at the Taphouse in Norfolk and have been together since. The Engagement: On Andra’s birthday, she and Jon had dinner at Fellini’s in Norfolk. Their

family and friends contribute homemade sentiments for a vintageinspired celebration on the farm

families met for the first time at the dinner, and at the end of their meal, Jon got down on his knee and proposed, having already asked Andra’s parents earlier in the week. Wedding Wishes: “We wanted rustic vintage,” Andra says. “Nothing too fancy, but based on old ideas and just hodgepodge. The fact that nothing matched was perfect!” What’s Next: Jon and Andra traveled to the Mayan Riviera for their honeymoon off the beaten path of Cancun. “We were a bit wary when our travel agent mentioned Cancun, thinking of spring break and all, but this area was like Sandbridge whereas Cancun would be like ‘the strip’ in Virginia Beach,” Andra says. Now the couple is living in Town Center in Virginia Beach and excited for the rest of their lives together.

Photography by Yulia McClammrock | Hair and Makeup by Elizabeth Paschall, Salon Vivace The Breakdown ABOVE Ceremony: For groomsmen and bridesmaids, Andra had four and Jon had three. “It didn’t matter if it was a man or woman; if they were my pal, they were on my side,” Andra says.

Her dad made the bamboo chuppah, representing the new happy home that the couple will create together. BELOW Pumpkin Butter: Andra’s parents made and canned pumpkin butter for the

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guests to take as their favors. There were also ½ pint jars with apple and pumpkin pies in them for guests to enjoy right away. Shoes: With the whole wedding being hodgepodge, Andra knew that she wanted a pair of shoes to match. “I saw them and had to have them,” she says. Hot Air Heart: Andra’s brother makes hot air balloons (in addition to all sorts of things, according to Andra).

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says. “We could see it floating for miles and miles.” RIGHT Table Setting: Guests drank iced tea, cucumber water, wine and beer out of Mason jars. All of the plates were unique and purchased from thrift stores. The food was prepared by family. “Family recipes, made for 150,” Andra says. “Such amazing people, my family.” Bonfire: Jon’s cousins made the bonfire, a last minute decision since it ended up being chilly. “It was perfect!”

Andra says. Hanging Jars: Andra’s aunt and cousin put together the flower-filled jars hanging from poles that lined the aisle. After the ceremony, the flowers were removed, and the jars were filled with LED candles to create a lit path.

Special Day: Andra says they chose the date 11-11-11 so that it’d be easy for Jon to remember. “And even if he forgot, he’s so rad that it would be ok,” she says.

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Who: Ronald Long, a conductor at Norfolk Southern Railroad in Crewe, originally from Lunenburg County, and Britni Smith, a registered nurse at Johnston-Willis Hospital in Bon Air, originally from Richmond. When: May 26, 2011. Where: Church Point Manor, Virginia Beach. Guest List: 40 guests, including immediate family and their bridal party members from Richmond and Lunenburg. Where They Met: Ronnie and Britni both lived in the small town of Victoria, where they met through mutual friends. The day before Valentine’s Day 2006, Ronnie asked Britni to be his Valentine, and on Valentine’s Day, he sent her six roses and a card that said, “From one last minute person to the other.” They’ve been together since. The Engagement: Ronnie can’t keep secrets or plan surprises because he gets too excited, according to Britni. “Once Ronnie decided he wanted to ask

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me to marry him, he did it,” she says. It happened to be Dec. 25, 2009 at 2:30 a.m. He had no ring and no plan—just a question! “It was total Ronnie Long style,” Britni says. “I must say it was a surprise in itself!”

Wedding Wishes: The couple wanted a wedding that was simple, where everyone would be comfortable and have a good time. “Our ceremony and reception were amazing, the food was great, our bridal party looked very good, and everyone had a good time. In the end, that’s all that matters anyway!” she says. What’s Next: Ronnie and Britni went on a seven-day cruise to Haiti, Jamaica and Cozumel, Mexico. “It was a total blast, and we met so many new friends,” Britni says. Now they are living in a newly built home in Moseley. Britni plans on going back to school to receive her bachelor’s in nursing, and they hope to expand their family in the next year or so.

Photography by Susan and Robby Bolling Photography The Breakdown ABOVE Church Point Manor: The couple decided to have their wedding here based on a suggestion from their planner, Ron Form of Primo Events. “The moment Ronnie and I walked into the mansion, we knew it was the one,” Britni says. BELOW Popcorn: There was a popcorn station from Jody’s Popcorn in Virginia Beach set up in the formal living room of the mansion so that guests could enjoy a scoop of caramel or white

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cheddar before and after the wedding.

Ceremony: Harold Mcgee from Virginia Beach performed the ceremony, which Britni described as beautiful. Cupcakes: Since Ronnie and Britni are both indecisive, they couldn’t choose just one flavor; instead they picked key lime pie, German chocolate, chocolate cheesecake, vanilla and strawberry “see-more” cupcakes from Cupcake Central at Lynnhaven Mall, Virginia Beach. Flowers: Britni’s bouquet contained white peonies and

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roses. RIGHT Memorable Moments: “The ceremony went by so quickly. We were both really excited and still like, ‘Are we really married now?!’” Britni says.

“It was nice to have some time alone with Susan and Robby for pictures right after the wedding.” Dress: When Britni attended her senior prom with Ronnie, she wore an antique white crinkle silk taffeta dress. She knew from that moment in high school that she wanted that type of dress to be her wedding dress. “Nicole

Miller made a strapless dress that looked almost like my prom dress, so I knew that was the one when I saw it—even before I tried it on,” she says. Rings: Britni chose the first ring that she tried on and loves the detail around the sides and cut of the diamond. Ronnie’s ring is a David Yurman band. “He chose the ‘waves’ ring, which was perfect considering we were getting married in Virginia Beach,” Britni says.

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MARVELOUS MERMAIDS GOWNS ARE STILL TURNING HEADS WITH DIFFERENT STYLES FOR EVERY AISLE

One of the finest aspects of living in Hampton Roads is that we’re so close to water. There’s something truly intriguing and inspiring about the ocean, which is why we chose to emphasize gowns that emulate cherished aspects of the sea. After choosing a grand selection of discernable and exceptional mermaid styles along with a bounty of oceaninspired accessories, we made our way to the aquatic atmosphere of the Wyndham Virginia Beach Oceanfront Hotel. Whether you’re planning a beachside ceremony or have a genuine appreciation for the many bodies of water surrounding us, let these gowns be your inspiration for the ocean of beauty you’ll impart on your very distinguished day.

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By Land or By Sea Unlike most mermaid-inspired dresses, this gown connects two worlds by combining extraordinary designs that are as complex as an intricately formed seashell with delicate feathers that will tickle your fancy to the fullest.

Topped with an exquisite silver beaded veil, this dress dives to the deepest level of divinity and soars to the top of your things to love.

Gown: Pronovias “Bali” dress fabricated with gorgeous beaded lace with tulle trim, feathered bodice and broach underneath the bust line, $2,775.

Veil: Pronovias silver beaded edge, $385.

Jewelry: Bronze and pearl earrings by Christina’s Crystals, $119. All from Maya Couture, Norfolk.

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Aquat ic Allure

Some of the most gorgeous scenes are supplied by the majestic movement of water in the ocean. Make your own movement in this champagne lace gown with beautifully beaded straps. The dazzling form and flow of the richly decorated train creates a pedestal of purity. Gown: Champagne lace with satin underlay by Casa Blanca, $1,198. Jewelry: Large freshwater pearl necklace, $445, and matching earrings, $105, by local artist A. Amsler Designs.

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We learned from Titanic that a woman’s heart is a deep ocean of secrets. However, it’s no secret why brides are swimming with delight over this majestic mermaid gown. The ivory Alencon fitted bodice, gorgeously adorned with an elaborate pattern of lace, erupts into a tulle mermaid skirt with Alencon overlay to create a mermaid effect that’s incomparable. Gown: Anjolique ivory Alencon with tulle mermaid skirt and embellished belt at waist, $1,790. Jewelry: Haute Bride rhinestone drop earrings, $195. All from Pure English, Virginia Beach.

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Making Waves

The gentle flow of an ocean’s waves layering one another is mimicked in this gown’s softly ruffled and tiered skirt, and the jeweled bust is more exquisite than the most bounteous treasure found at the bottom of the sea. You’re sure to make positive waves of wonderment as you fancily float down the aisle. Gown: Allure sweetheart neckline with jeweled bust and criss-cross pleating at bodice and waist, $1,299.99. Jewelry: Gold drop bracelet and pearl and gold earrings by Enttra, $85. All from All the Rage, Hilltop, Virginia Beach.

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Pearls of Perfection If like is like an oyster, love is a pearl—a rare find that is formed naturally and holds the utmost value.

Celebrate your love in this satin light gold hued gown that reminds us of the naturally polished refinement of a freshly formed pearl. Pair with a cluster of freshwater pearls necklace and earrings for a pure and classic quality. Gown: Satin light gold with ruched pickup skirt by Ella Rosa, $798. Jewelry: Small freshwater cluster necklace by local artist A. Amsler Designs, $445. Matching earrings, $175. All from Williamsburg Bridal.

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Water,Water Everywhere No matter if you decide to be married amid the crashing waves of the ocean, a glimmering lake or a tranquil pool bursting with blue, you’ll look ravishing in this ivory silk satin V-neck dress with asymmetrical ruching. Embellished with floral and crystal adornments, this lavish gown is the epitome of posh.

Gown: Monique Lhullier V-neck gown with asymmetrical ruching, $3,300. Veil: Toni Federici, $375. All from Pure English, Virginia Beach.

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Queen of t he Sea

This gown’s exuberant rosettes that are gracefully placed along the skirt and train are reminiscent of the gentle frothiness of the ocean. Add the finishing touches of this rhinestone belt and shimmering headband veil for an undisputed royal resemblance. Gown: Lace, sheer overlay with rosettes by Allure, $1,899.99. Belt: Rhinestone belt

by Allure, $249.99. Veil: Malis Henderson headband veil, $559.99. Jewelry: Silver small drop earrings by Malis Henderson, $279.99. All from All the Rage, Hilltop, Virginia Beach.

CREDITS Photography: Jim Pile Creative Director: David Uhrin Stylists: Pamela Hopkins with assistant Courtney Thompson Models: Jessica Duncan and Kris Smith with Evie Mansfield Modeling and Talent Agency, www.eviemansfield.com Hair and Make Up: Elizabeth Paschall and assistant Jason Fairbanks with Salon Vivace, www.salonvivace.com Words: Angela Blue Thank you to the beautiful Wyndham Virginia Beach Oceanfront Hotel for providing us with the perfect backdrop for our Marvelous Mermaids.

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Splashing Silhouette

Nothing compares to the unmatched beauty of a perfectly poised bride.

The striking elegance of this gown is distinguished by the flawless mermaid silhouette that flows into a pretty pool of lovely lace, bringing about a splash of sophistication. Gown: La Sposa “Denia� boasting a gorgeous beaded lace mermaid silhouette and light tulle illusion overlay with lace edging, $2,100.

Veil: Pronovias singlelayer, floor-length veil made from extraordinarily soft and delicate tulle and embellished with lace and sequins, $571. Jewelry: Akoya pearl drop necklace embellished with Swarovski crystals, $496. Matching earrings, $175. All from Maya Couture, Norfolk. n HRB

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Bride SHOES

IDo to theShoe fun and flirty shades of fancy footwear for your wedding day

By Angela Blue and Pam Hopkins

The dress is undoubtedly the most important fashion piece that you’ll be choosing for your wedding. Why else would be there be an entire television show dedicated to saying yes to it? However, just because your gown is the spotlight stealer doesn’t mean that your shoes have to hide or even be the same color as your dress. Break the pattern of boring, white wedding shoes and break in these bold and beautiful heels for a real “shoe” stopper effect.

DIY DIVA

To add a personal touch to your wedding shoes, consider embellishing them yourself.

Buy an ordinary pair of pumps and dress them up with buttons, ribbon, fabric, lace, rhinestones or other trinkets of sentimental value. The shoes will have special meaning since you created them yourself, and best of all, they’ll be one-of-a-kind, just

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Replicate the sparkling elegance on your finger with the glittering fabulousness of these Sari Satin sparkle metallic silver peep toe pumps, $96 from Williamsburg Bridal.

like you!

(1) Surrender to your passion for polka dots or other fun fabric by tying beautiful bows and attaching them to either the tops or backs of your shoes using a hot glue gun.

(2) Show your shoes some love by making them more romantic.

Using a hot glue gun, adhere lace around the opening or the heel of

your shoes, and affix rhinestones or repurposed jewelry that may have a sentimental meaning.

(3) Confirm your “I Dos” to the backs of your shoes by bedazzling them with rhinestones cut-outs.

Personalize your own to say whatever you’d like, or purchase preassembled ones from your local craft store.

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If you’re a frills and flowers and buttons and bows kind of gal, you’ll truly stand out in these “Clare” grey patent wedges with simply stupendous bows

by Butter, $278 from Walk This Way, Newport News.

Get ready to ruffle some feathers in these royal blue Peacock platforms by Johnathan Kayne, $129.99 from All the Rage, Virginia Beach.

For more subtle color but an added touch of glam, slip on “Etta” by Dani Black in antique gold with millionaire ribbed fabric and chunky platform heel, $185 from Walk This Way, Newport News.

Some shoes are good for regulars; others are fit for royalty. Obtain your regal status with these Benjamin Adams London “Winslet” duchesse silk heels in plum with pleated peep toes and a swirled jewel, $208 from HRB Williamsburg Bridal. n

Want to add some bling to your bows? Try these washed metallic beauties in camel color by Kate Spade for a “bowdacious” beholding on your very big day, $325 from Walk This Way, Newport News.

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Fabulously Froufrou Still questioning whether you can pull off the one-shoulder look? This absolutely ravishing gown has the answer. A less traditional mermaid silhouette, the dress is made from a beautiful organza with rouched bodice and tiered, ruffled skirt and comes with an optional oneshoulder strap that’s fabricated from the same ruffled material as the skirt. Stick to the sweetheart neckline or add the strap for a touch of glam, and don’t forget the glimmering rhinestone belt and headband to brilliantly accent your ensemble. Gown: Pronovias La Sposa “Sala” with optional one-shoulder strap, $2,255. Belt: Pronovias belt with rhinestone center, $325.

Headband: Edward E. Berger bendable headband with rhinestones and flowers, $190. All from Maya Couture, Norfolk.

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DARLING DRESSES THAT DOUBLE THE GLAMOUR WITH A SINGLE SHOULDER The one-shoulder trend has had a huge influence on fashion in the last year, so it’s only natural that bridal gowns are following this fabulous fad. Asymmetric dresses are often more comfortable than strapless gowns that tend to sag unless perfectly fitted, yet they’re not as conservative as full-strapped styles. The captivating aspect of one bare shoulder combined with the sweetness of these stunning gowns creates a fabulous collection of styles that are beautifully unbalanced.

Glamorous Goddess You don’t have to travel to Greece or even have the nickname Aphrodite to be a goddess of love and beauty.

The flowing ethereal grace of this gown is accented with a one-shoulder chiffon sheath and features a ruched bodice sprinkled with light beading and a delicate sweep train.

Gown: Pronovias diamond white one-shoulder with sweep train, $390 from Blush Bridal, Port Warwick, Newport News. Jewelry: Forever bangle bracelets by Annaleece, three for $57.50. Evening Shadows bracelet by Annaleece, $71.25.

Personality double-hoop earrings by Annaleece, $45 from Green Gates Gifts and Furniture, Hampton.

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Elegantly Uneven Bursting with fun and flirty ruffles, this stylishly sophisticated gown demands full attention. Paired with a shimmering belt and sparkling crystal earrings, your beauty will be compared to a dazzling diamond in the ruffle.

Gown: San Patrick Edimburgo one-shoulder dress with tiered ruffle skirt, $1,090. Belt: Marisa belt with rhinestones, $570. Earrings: Haute Bride silver earrings with pear-shaped crystal at center, $195. All from Pure English, La Promenade Shoppes, Virginia Beach.

Layers of Lovely Who says flowers are just for picking and layers are only for cake? Make your own fashion fantasy in this A-line gown of layered and ruffled Paris Gauze with a one-shoulder neckline comprised of a large flower on the strap. You’ll be as pretty as a rose petal in this floral-accented dress. Gown: San Patrick Eden with flower shoulder, $1,290. Jewelry: Haute Bride bracelet, $336.

Paris earrings, $180. All from Pure English, La Promenade Shoppes, Virginia Beach.

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Sass and Class Can’t decide between long and luxurious or short and sweet? Have both with this two-piece, one-shoulder ball gown with detachable train. Awe your guests as you stroll down the aisle in a seemingly elongated gown, then wow them at the reception when you arrive in a coquettish frock that’s ideal for dancing. Dress: Jasmine two-piece, one-shoulder ball gown, $850. Veil: Bel Aire Bridal birdcage ivory veil, $166. All from Williamsburg Bridal.

Glowing with the Flow Your wedding day is your time to shine, and there’s nothing better to wear in the spotlight than this classic oneshoulder matte taffeta ball gown complete with handy pockets and a square buckle beaded belt. This radiant dress is guaranteed to light up a room as well as your groom’s heart. Gown: Jasmine Bridal one-shoulder matte taffeta ball gown, $750. Jewelry: Pearl and crystal earrings, $89

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Bride Postnuptial depression

We're Married!

Now What? dealing with the realities of postnuptial depression

By Kimberley Cuachon-Haugh

I

got married exactly two years ago. Well, if you count the second wedding, it was one year ago. My husband and I eloped and then waited until our one-year anniversary to do it again with our immediate family and best friends.

We planned our second wedding for months and anticipated our families meeting for the first time and how they would behave. But the love we felt from them mixed with the “Kumbaya”-aura of everyone finally getting along turned out like a PG-13 movie that I would have replayed over and over.

However, even with all the time that had passed, I still hadn’t ordered any wedding photos. I don’t know why; I just didn't feel like it. “It’s nothing, I’m just busy,” I kept telling myself. But after speaking with a friend, I realized that this nothing may actually be something.

Postnuptial depression is not a clinical diagnosis, but it’s a term that has become more recognized by couples and psychologists. In fact, 10 percent of American couples seek counseling after experiencing postnuptial depression.

Dr. Candice Cook, a licensed professional counselor, marriage counselor and family therapist in Virginia Beach, says the melancholy that brides and possibly grooms can experience after the big day occurs for a number of reasons.

“This is the bride’s day; the whole world stops on that day for the bride. And suddenly, your day is over,” she says.

Besides dealing with stepping out of the spotlight, Cook explains that the immense stress that occurs during the planning process of a wedding can cause the body to produce an excessive amount of cortisol, a stress hormone.

“When it keeps coming out it literally rips the body apart,” explains Cook. “It’s seizing every available opportunity for the body to make energy.” This results in not eating or sleeping well, thus leading to the body and mind crashing. “The body is like an orange that’s been squeezed dry.”

Yvonne Alers-Folden, 28, described the eightmonth planning of her 11-11-11 wedding as very stressful. She and her husband, who are both in the military, were six-months pregnant, in the midst of purchasing a home and dealing with separate military orders, in addition to the normal nuptial necessities.

Now, after moving into their new home, AlersFolden still craves to re-live her wedding day. “It’s sad that it’s over,” she says. “How often is it all about you?”

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Shawn Femia, a professional wedding photographer, works with her husband, Ronnie Form, an event director and owner of Primo Events in Hampton Roads. Both encounter a number of brides who continue to contact them long after their weddings to reminisce. “After dealing with these couples I can see that it’s not just about the wedding,” says Form. “It’s like they’re afraid of being married now that the wedding is over.”

While men typically stress before the wedding, women will often deal with their stress afterwards. They ask the question, “Who am I now?” says Cook.

This, along with the new roles of man and wife that the couple must resume—based on each person’s family upbringing—can add more pressure to a marriage.

“Most marriages are really two superegos interacting with each other,” says Cook. “In a marriage the superego does not know the difference between you and your mate. It judges your mate in the

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Postnuptial depression is not a clinical diagnosis, but it’s a term that has become more recognized by couples and psychologists.

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same way it judges you, and your mate is doing the same thing to you.” Cook explains that because superegos are created between the ages of 2 and 6 years old, they are immature and must evolve.

Couples must have the willingness to explore and work on this with one another, she says. “They must understand that a marriage is based on love and understanding, not rules and regulations.”

To beat the postnuptial blues, Cook says, “Don’t neglect the basics.” Couples should get sufficient rest, proper nutrition and a good multivitamin along with exercise such as yoga or even medication to offset the cortisol. When couples have bothersome feelings about their mate, Cook recommends that they have a sitdown—not a confrontation but a description of what is going on inside.

Since coming to terms with my feelings, I have picked out my wedding photos.

They have been retouched, framed and were admired by our friends for the first time during our holiday party at home.

After writing this article—which I admit was partially selfish because it was therapeutic—the aftershock of my wedding day is subsiding. While I cannot relive it, my husband and I have our sights set on a HRB definite renewal of vows. n 42 HAMPTON ROADS Bride

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resource guide The Founders Inn & Spa 5641 Indian River Rd. Virginia Beach, VA 757-424-5511 www.foundersinn.com the sanderling 1461 Duck Rd., Duck, NC 252-261-4111 www.thesanderling.com Wedding Chapel at Grand Affairs 2036 Pleasure House Rd. Virginia Beach 757-460-9786 www.grandaffairs catering.com Wedding on the Bay 757-460-0777 www.grandaffairs catering.com Disc Jockeys/ Entertainment Premier Events 1373 London Bridge Rd. Virginia Beach 757-340-2212 www.premiereventsinc.com Tidewater DJ’s 757-865-0020 Peninsula 757-420-4200 Southside www.tidewaterdjs.com Event planner Inspired Events

by Kelly 757-291-5369 www.inspiredeventsby kelly.com Florists Bert’s Flower Shop 1253 Old Buckroe Rd Hampton 757-723-0721 www.bertsflowershop.com Catherine’s Distinctive Floral 4001 Lombard Dr. Virginia Beach 757-471-6963 www.distinctive floraldesigns.com floral events by kathy 561 Central Dr. Virginia Beach 757-351-1503 Flower Works 323 Granby St. Norfolk 757-965-3613 www.flowerworksva.com Jeff’s Flowers of Course 300 Ed Wright Ln., Ste. E Newport News 757-827-5333 www.jeffsflowers.com The New Leaf 1301 Redgate Ave., Norfolk 757-627-6028 www.newleafghent.com Norfolk Wholesale Floral 601 E. Brambleton Ave. Norfolk 757-625-0901 www.norfolkwhole salefloral.com

Gifts/registries/ invitations Green gates gifts 1467 Geo. Wash. Mem. Hwy. Gloucester Point 804-642-5618 Peninsula Town Center 757-848-5324 www.greengatesgifts.com Stanley Adams Fine Printing & Stationery 4546 Main St. Virginia Beach 757-497-8888 Health & beauty Beach Weight Loss 2720 N. Mall Drive, Ste. 128, Virginia Beach 757-463-6398 www.vabeachweight loss.com Changes Hairstyling & City Spa 222 W. 21st St., 710 W. 21st St. Norfolk 757-625-5300 www.changesaregood.com Ciao Bella Hair Design 5072 Ferrell Pkwy., Ste. 118 Virginia Beach 757-523-9100 www.ciaobellahair design.com Dr. Lisa Marie Samaha, DDS 251 Nat Turner Blvd.

Newport News 757-223-9270 www.pwdentalarts.com Dr. Rita Frazier 4541 Main St. Virginia Beach 757-309-4450 136 E. Little Creek rd.

Norfolk 757-587-6399 www.Drritafrazier.com GHQ Grooming For Men 3388 Princess Anne Rd. Ste. 405 Virginia Beach 757-468-4MEN www.ghqgrooming 4men.com Jakes Place Men’s Barbering Lounge & Spa 222 W. 21st St., Suite E Norfolk 757-627-5253 www.jakesplaceghent.com Salon Vivace Virginia Beach 757-463-1231 Newport News 757-873-1775 Chesapeake 757-482-5790 Williamsburg 757-220-9411 Richmond 804-565-9000 www.salonvivace.com SONA MEDSpa 827 Diligence Dr., Ste. 206 Newport News 757-599-9600

www.sonamedspa.com/ newportnews.com 477 Viking Dr., Ste. 340 Virginia Beach 757-340-7662 www.sonamedspa.com/vb Young Family Dentistry Family & Cosmetic Dentistry 2005 Lynnhaven Pkwy.

Virginia Beach 757-554-0962 Hotels Bay Creek Resort & Club 3335 Stone Rd. Cape Charles 757-331-8742 www.baycreek.net Courtyard by Marriott Newport News/ Yorktown 105 Cybernetics Way 757-874-9000 Crowne Plaza Hampton Marina 700 Settlers Landing Rd. Hampton 757-727-9700 www.hampton marinahotel.com Crowne Plaza Norfolk 700 Monticello Ave. Norfolk 757-627-5555 www.thenorfolk plaza.com doubletree

BY HILTON VIRGINIA BEACH 1900 Pavilion Drive Virginia Beach 757-422-8900 www.virginiabeach. doubletree.com The Founders Inn & Spa 5641 Indian River Rd. Virginia Beach 757-424-5511 www.foundersinn.com Hilton Garden Inn Chesapeake 1565 Crossways Blvd.

Chesapeake 757-420-1212 www.hiltongarden inn.com Hilton Garden Inn Hampton 1999 Power Plant Pkwy Hampton 757-310-6323 Hilton Garden Inn Suffolk Conference Center 100 East Constance Rd. Suffolk 757-925-1300 www.suffolk.garden inn.com Hilton Garden Inn Virginia Beach Town Center 252 Town Center Dr. Virginia Beach 757-326-6200 www.vabeachtown center.stayhgi.com

hilton NORFOLK AIRPORT 1500 N. Military Hwy. Norfolk 757-466-8000 www.norfolkairport .hilton.com

Delicious Elegant Unforgettable

Hilton Virginia Beach Oceanfront 3001 Atlantic Ave. Virginia Beach 757-213-3000 www.hiltonvb.com

“Creations From The Heart”

Visit our bakery at 5906 George Washington Memorial Hwy. Ste. I Yorktown,VA

Homewood Suites 1569 Crossways Blvd.

Chesapeake 757-213-0808

Creations From757-234-4300 The Heart, LLC

Norfolk Waterside creationsfromtheheart.org • 757-234-4300 Marriott Creations Creations From Heart, LLC From TheThe Heart, LLC 235 East Main St. creationsfromtheheart.org • 757-234-4300 creationsfromtheheart.org • 757-234-4300 Norfolk 757-627-4200 www.marriott.com

CakeAlicious DesignStudio.com

Make sweet Make sweet Make sweet memories memories memories

Omni Newport News 1000 Omni Blvd Newport News 757-873-6664 Delicious www.omnihotels.com

Delicious

Delicious Page House Inn Elegant 323 Fairfax Ave. Elegant NorfolkElegant 757-625-5033Unforgettable...

Unforgettable... www.pagehouseinn.com Unforgettable...

Residence Inn Newport News 530 St. Johns Road 757-842-6212

the sanderling 1461 Duck Rd. Duck, NC 252-261-4111 www.thesanderling.com

Let Us Capture Your Special Occasion!

SHERATON NORFOLK WATERSIDE 777 Waterside Dr. Norfolk 757-640-2741 www.sheratonnorfolk waterside.com

OF

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Voted Best Local Photographer

SpringHill Suites Hampton 1997 Power Plant Pkwy Hampton 757-310-6333 Westin Town Center 4535 Commerce St. Virginia Beach 757-557-0550 Williamsburg Hospitality House 415 Richmond Rd. Williamsburg 757-229-4020 www.williamsburg hosphouse.com Wyndham Virginia Beach Oceanfront 5700 Atlantic Ave. Virginia Beach 757-428-7025 www.wyndham virginiabeach.com Jewelers Goldbar Jewelers 1628 Laskin Rd., Ste. 718 Virginia Beach 757-422-4411

weddings portraits special events

BILL WHITLOW

professional photography Virginia Beach, VA

(757) 435-9115 bill@clickwhit.com www.clickwhit.com

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resource guide Long Jewelers 2965 Virginia Beach Blvd., #105 Virginia Beach 757-498-1186 2817 Shore Dr., Ste. 108 Virginia Beach 757-496-9099 701 North Battlefield Blvd.

Chesapeake 757-436-1920 MADISON JEWLERS 5304 Providence Rd. Virginia Beach 757-200-0609 www.madisonjewelers.com Limousine Elegant Limousine 3501 Holland Rd. Virginia Beach 757-650-6088 Sand Shark Limos Virginia Beach 757-217-5899 Locations The American Theatre 125 E. Mellen St. Hampton 757-722-2787 www.hamptonarts.net AMERICAN ROVER 333 Waterside Dr. Norfolk 757-627-7245 www.Americanrover.com The chamberlin 2 Fenwick Way Fort Monroe 757-637-7203 www.historicchamberlin.com Chesapeake Conference Center 900 Greenbrier Cir. Chesapeake 757-382-2500 www.chesapeake conference.com Chrysler Museum of Art 245 W. Onley Rd. Norfolk 757-664-6200 www.chrysler.org Colonial Heritage Club 6500 Arthur Hills Dr Williamsburg 757-645-2023 www.colonialheritage club.com Crowne Plaza Hampton Marina 700 Settlers Landing Rd. Hampton 757-727-9700 www.hamptonmarina hotel.com Crowne Plaza Norfolk 700 Monticello Ave. Norfolk 757-627-5555 www.thenorfolkplaza.com 46 HAMPTON ROADS Bride

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Cypress Point Country Club 5340 Club Head Rd., Virginia Beach 757-490-6300 www.cypresspointgolf.com doubletree

BY HILTON VIRGINIA BEACH 1900 Pavilion Drive Virginia Beach 757-422-8900 www.virginiabeach .doubletree.com Fisherman’s Wharf Marina: The Water Table 524 Winston Salem Ave. Virginia Beach 757-428-2111 www.fishermanswharf marina.com fORD’S COLONY COUNTRY CLUB 240 Ford’s Colony Drive Williamsburg 757-258-4120 www.fordscolonycc.com/ wedding The Founders Inn & Spa 5641 Indian River Rd. Virginia Beach, VA 757-424-5511 www.foundersinn.com Grand Affairs 2036 Pleasure House Rd. Virginia Beach 757-460-9786 www.grandaffairs catering.com Greenbrier Country Club 1301 Volvo Pkwy.

Chesapeake 757-321-2111 www.greenbrierclub.com Half Moone Cruise and Celebrating Center One Waterside Dr. Norfolk 757-664-1074 www.cruisenorfolk.org Hampton Roads Convention Center 1610 Coliseum Dr. Hampton 757-315-1610 www.thehrcc.com Hermitage Foundation Museum and Garden 7637 N. Shore Dr. Norfolk 757-423-2052 x0 www.thfm.org Hilton Garden Inn Hampton 1999 Power Plant Pkwy.

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Where forever begins.

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Hilton Garden Inn Virginia Beach Town Center 252 Town Center Dr. Virginia Beach 757-326-6200 www.vabeachtown center.stayhgi.com HILTON norfolk airport 1500 N. Military Hwy. Norfolk 757-466-8000 www.norfolkairport .hilton.com

freshness · selection · service the original source for all your floral needs OF

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· Norfolk Wholesale Floral ·

625-0901 · NorfolkWholesaleFloral.com 757-625-0901 NorfolkWholesaleFloral.com •

Hilton Virginia Beach Oceanfront 3001 Atlantic Ave. Virginia Beach 757-213-3000 www.hiltonvb.com The Mariners' Museum 100 Museum Dr. Newport News 757-596-2222 www.marinersmuseum.org The military aviation Museum 1341 Princess Anne Rd. Virginia Beach 757-721-PROP events@aviation museum.us Norfolk Botanical Gardens 6700 Azalea Garden Rd. Norfolk 757-441-5830 www.norfolkbotanical garden.org Norfolk Waterside Marriott 235 East Main St. Norfolk 757-627-4200 www.marriott.com Ocean View Fishing Pier 414 W. Ocean View Ave. Norfolk 757- 583-6000 www.oceanview fishingpier.com Residence Inn Newport News 530 St. Johns Road Newport News 757-842-6212 the sanderling 1461 Duck Rd. Duck, NC 252-261-4111 www.thesanderling.com Smithfield Conference Center 220 N. Church St. Smithfield 757-356-9939 SpringHill Suites Hampton 1997 Power Plant Pkwy.

Hampton 757-310-6333

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Country Club 1400 Two Rivers Rd. Williamsburg 757-258-4610 ext. 224 governorsland.com Virginia Aquarium 717 General Booth Blvd.

Virginia Beach 757-385-0306 www.virginiaaquarium.com Virginia Beach Convention Center 1000 19th St. Virginia Beach 757-385-2000 www.virginiabeach conventioncenter.com Virginia Living Museum 524 J. Clyde Morris Blvd.

Newport News 757-595-1900 www.thevlm.org Westin Town Center 4535 Commerce St. Virginia Beach 757-557-0550 Wyndham Virginia Beach Oceanfront 5700 Atlantic Ave. Virginia Beach 757-428-7025 www.wyndham virginiabeach.com Photography/ video Bill Whitlow Professional Photography Virginia Beach 757-435-9115 www.clickwhit.com

Custom Photography 2432 Eastchester Dr. Virginia Beach 757-498-0205 www.linettfoto.com Eric Green Photography 1709 Colley Ave. Ste. 314 Norfolk 757-423-2886 www.ericgreen photography.com Fairfield Photography Studio 5265 Providence Rd. Studio 504 Virginia Beach 757-467-0298 132 Main St. Smithfield 757-343-7035 www.fairfieldstudio.com Glenn Fajota photography 271 Granby St, #200 Norfolk, VA 23510 757.217.5751 www.glennfajota.com HEATHER HUGHES PHOTOGRAPHY 757-870-4006 www.heatherhughes photography.com continued on page 50>>>

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Platinum Brides Deserve the Best!

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HAMPTON MARINA

Entertain your guests in a variety of settings; marriage on the marina, reception in the ballroom, and desserts on the pool deck. Flawless service, scrumptious food, and a waterfront location… and did we mention a complimentary jacuzzi suite for the night of your wedding??? Bridal showers, rehearsal dinners, and weddings all under one roof! Call Amy Lovings, Wedding Coordinator, to schedule a tour!

700 Settlers Landing Road, Hampton, VA • www.hamptonmarinahotel.com • 757-727-8922 HAMPTON ROADS Bride

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Pre Marriage Counseling Understanding Your Partner

CELEBRATING OUR 32ND YEAR

• Appreciating Different Personalities • Share Marital Expectations • Balancing Private Time • Much, Much More

Four ElEgant Ballrooms WEdding ChapEl

Interactive group seminars and individual counseling available

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TIDEWATER PASTORAL COUNSELING SERVICES

oFF-sitE CatEring 2011 PICK 2036 Pleasure House Road Virginia Beach,VA 23455

757-623-2700

757-460-9786

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www.grandaffairscatering.com

BeachWeddings Virginia!

resource guide <<<continued from page 48 Ruth’s Chris

Kate Johnson Photography Virginia Beach, 757-646-0275 kateadamsj@gmail.com

Steakhouse 205 Central Park Ave. Virginia Beach 757-213-0747 www.sizzlingsteak.com

Kate Watson Photography 757-464-0275 www.katewatsonblog.com

Surf Club Ocean Grille 5700 Atlantic Ave. Virginia Beach 757-425-5699 www.surfclub vabeach.com

Keith Cephus Photography 757-430-2169 www.keithcephus.com MEGAN BOYLES Photography 757-696-0132 www.meganboylesphoto graphy.com M&M Photography 511 N. Birdneck Rd. Virginia Beach 757-368-6934 Mimi’s Calendars & Photos 686 Biltmore Dr. Virginia Beach 757-646-2872 Shutter Booth 757-394-1240

Specializing in small weddings & elopement packages

757-321-0348 www.beachweddingsvirginia.com

SWIMWEAR FOR MISSES, JUNIORS & CHILDREN Full Range of Sizes 4–26 & Cup Sizes through G, Sportswear, Accessories, Shoes & Fine Gifts

Open Year Round

757-428-7945

Real Estate Abbitt Realty, LLC Corporate Office 2114 Executive Dr. Hampton, 757-827-1144 www.abbitt.com www.abbittrealty.com Greg Garrett Realty 11864 Canon Blvd., Ste. 103 Newport News 757-534-7500 www.greggarrettrealty.com Rose & Womble 400 Oakmears Crescent Virginia Beach, 757-695-3861 Restaurants

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307 Laskin Rd. (31st St.) 2 blocks from the ocean

Aberdeen Barn 5805 Northhampton Blvd.

Virginia Beach 757-464-1580 www.aberdeenbarn vabeach.com BRUITT’S/MANSIONS 467 Court St. Portsmouth 757-393-1923 www.bruttis.com Mom’s Kitchen & Scandals 3501 Holland Rd. Virginia Beach 757-463-6667

Swan Terrace 5641 Indian River Rd. Virginia Beach 757-366-5777 www.foundersinn.com Two Rivers Country Club 1400 Two Rivers Rd. Williamsburg 757-258-4610 ext. 224 www.tworivers countryclub.com Vintage Tavern 1900 Governor’s Pointe Dr. Suffolk, 757-238-8808 www.vintagetavern virginia.com The water table at fisherman’s wharf 524 Winston Salem Ave. Virginia Beach 757-428-2111 Waterman’s Surfside Grille 5th St. and Oceanfront Virginia Beach 757-428-3644 www.watermans.com Travel C.I. Travel Southside 757-627-800 Peninsula 757-217-0500 www.citravel.com Memorable Cruises & Vacations 296 Marlboro Rd. Newport News 757-833-3074 Wedding Decor Distinctive Event Rentals 111 International Plaza Chesapeake 757-420-7000

ROCKAFELLER’S RESTAURANT 308 Mediterranean Ave. Virginia Beach 757-422-5654 www.rockafellers.com RUDEE’S ON THE INLET 227 Mediterranean Ave. Virginia Beach 757-425-1777 www.rudees.com 50 HAMPTON ROADS Bride

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Make Falling in Love a Historic Occasion in Virginia’s Premiere Encore Bride Destination.

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GRANT & DEB PHOTOGRAPHERS, GRANTDEB.COM

Specializing in custom one-of-a-kind cakes for ALL occasions. Our cakes are made to order so our valued clients will have the freshest cake possible for any event.

Visit our new bakery located at 1405 Kiln Creek Parkway, Ste. I, Newport News

Make Your Wedding Flower Dream a Reality!

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No Matter What The Occasion

Williamsburg

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We pride ourselves on exceptional customer service and attention to detail.

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For more information call Erin Eissens (757) 490-6300

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The Shops at Strawberry Cove 3709-C Strawberry Plains Rd. Williamsburg www.williamsburgbridalandformal.com

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Imagine… your wedding making waves V irginia Beach Oceanfront C orolla, Outer Banks,nc C ape Charles, Eastern Shore, va …or making history H istoric Williamsburg, va

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HarmonyHospitality.com/weddings Wyndham Virginia Beach Oceanfront • 757-428-7025 generated at BeQRious.com Inn at Corolla Light • 800-215-0772 Sunset Beach Resort, Cape Charles • 800-899-4786 Clarion Hotel Historic District, Williamsburg • 757-229-4100

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facility has liquor license

off premises caterer permitted

caterer on premises

rental fee

wedding ceremony facility available

Locations

max capacity for reception area

reception facilities The American Theatre, 125 E. Mellen St., Hampton 757-722-2787 • www.hamptonarts.net

180

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

By Vendor

The Chamberlin, 2 Fenwick Rd, Fort Monroe 757-637-7203 • www.historicchamberlin.com

150

Yes

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

Chesapeake Conference Center, 900 Greenbrier Circle, Chesapeake 757-382-2500 • www.chesapeakeconference.com

1100

Yes

Varies

Yes

No

Yes

Chrysler Museum of Art, 245 West Olney Road, Norfolk 757-664-6200 • www.chrysler.org

200

Yes

Yes

No

No

Yes

Clarion Hotel Historic Williamsburg, 351 York St. Williamsburg 757-229-4100 • www.clarionwilliamsburg.com

150 Yes Yes Yes No Yes

Crowne Plaza Hampton Marina, 700 Settlers Landing Rd., Hampton 757-727-8922 • www.hamptonmarinahotel.com

500

Yes

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

Cypress Point Country Club, 5340 Club Head Rd., Virginia Beach 757-490-6300 • www.cypresspointgolf.com

250

Yes

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

Doubletree by Hilton Virginia Beach, 1900 Pavilion Dr., Virginia Beach 757-422-8900 • www.virginiabeach.doubletree.com

300

Yes

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

Ford’s Colony Country Club, 240 Ford’s Colony Dr., Williamsburg 757-424-5511 • www.fordscolonlycc.com/wedding

250 Yes Yes Yes No Yes

The Founders Inn & Spa, 5641 Indian River Rd., Virginia Beach 757-366-5716 • 800-926-4466 • foundersinn.com

1000

Yes

Varies

Yes

No

Yes

Grand Affairs, 2036 Pleasure House Rd, Virginia Beach 800 Yes Yes Yes No Yes 757-460-9786 • www.grandaffairscatering.com Greenbrier Country Club, 1301 Volvo Pkwy., Chesapeake 757-321-2111 • www.greenbriercountryclub.com

250

Yes

Varies

Yes

No

Yes

Hampton Roads Convention Center, 1610 Coliseum Dr., Hampton 757-315-1610 • www.thehrcc.com

2000

Yes

Varies

Yes

No

Yes

Hermitage Foundation Museum & Garden, 7637 N. Shore Rd., Norfolk 757-423-2052 x 300 • www.thfm.org

250

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

Yes

Hilton Norfolk Airport, 1500 N. Military Hwy., Norfolk 757-466-8000 • www.norfolkairport.hilton.com

300

Yes

Negotiable

Yes

Yes

Yes

500-1000

Yes

Varies

Yes

No

Yes

Hilton Virginia Beach Oceanfront, 31st Street & Atlantic, Virginia Beach 757-213-3000 • hiltonvb.com The Inn at Corolla Lighthouse, 1066 Ocean Trail, Corolla 252-453-3340 • www.corolla-inn.com

40

Yes Yes No Yes No

The Mariners' Museum, 100 Museum Dr., Newport News 757-591-5124 • www.marinersmuseum.org

400

Yes

Varies

Yes*

Yes*

Yes*

Norfolk Waterside Marriott Hotel, 235 E. Main St., Norfolk 757-627-4200 • www.norfolkmarriott.com

1200

Yes

Varies

Yes

No

Yes

Quality Suites & Sleep Inn Lake Wright, 6280 Northampton Blvd. Norfolk 757-461-6251

150

Yes

Varies

Yes

No

Yes

The Sanderling, 1461 Duck Rd., Duck, NC 252-255-4925 • www.thesanderling.com

225

Yes

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

Sheraton Norfolk Waterside, 777 Waterside Dr., Norfolk 757-622-6664 • www.sheratonnorfolkwaterside.com

850

Yes

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

Sheraton Virginia Beach, 3501 Atlantic Ave, Virginia Beach 757-425-9000 • www.sheraton.com/VirginiaBeach

500

Yes

Yes

Yes

Yes

Yes

Smithfield Conference Center, 220 N. Church St., Smithfield 757-356-9939 • www.smithfieldcenter.com

340

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

By Vendor

Sunset Beach Resort, 32246 Charles M. Lankdord Hwy, Cape Charles 757-331-1776 • www.sunsetbeachresortva.com

200 Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes

Two Rivers Country Club, 1400 Two Rivers Road, Williamsburg 757-258-4610 Ext. 224 • www.governorsland.com

1200

Yes

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

Virginia Aquarium, 717 General Booth Blvd., Virginia Beach 757-385-0306 • www.virginiaaquarium.com

140

Yes

Yes

Yes

No

By Caterer

50-2000

Yes

Varies

Yes

Yes

Virginia Living Museum, 524 J. Clyde Morris Blvd., Newport News 757-595-1900 • www.thevlm.org

500

Yes

Varies

No

Yes

No

Wyndham Virginia Beach Oceanfront, 5700 Atlantic Ave., Virginia Beach 757-428-7025 • www.wyndhamvirginiabeach.com

500

Yes

Yes

Yes

No

Yes

Virginia Beach Convention Center, 1000 19th Street, Virginia Beach 757-385-2000 • www.virginiabeachconventioncenter.com

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The

Perfect

Wedding

On a shimmering beach.

A gala bridal party around a moonlit pool twenty-one stories in the sky. A grand reception in the regionâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s most elegant oceanview ballroom.

Creative wedding events for two people or one thousand.

Just imagine the possibilities.

Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll take care of the rest.

To arrange a personal tour of our oceanfront ballroom, please call our wedding specialists at 757.213.2324.

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Tea For You Bride fab food favors

a seasonal beverage blend makes a thoughtful, relaxing favor

Words and food styling by Patrick Evans-Hylton

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ature is in full bloom with spring or summer weather, and our Fab Food Favor takes advantage of that feeling of rebirth and renewal with a fragrant, relaxing tea blend that is wonderful to share with guests as a remembrance of the special day.

Our blend incorporates dried lavender flowers, dried chamomile flowers and green tea leaves. The result is a beautiful combination of purple, yellow, white and green—colors of the season—that produces a delightful bouquet.

To make the tea blend, combine equal parts dried lavender flowers, dried chamomile flowers and green tea leaves. Make sure the dried flowers are food-grade and have not been

treated with chemicals meant for flower arrangements or potpourri mixtures. We purchased a fine-quality green tea for that ingredient. Toss all three components together in a large bowl, and fill the tins with the mixture.

We placed our tea blend in small tin containers, purchased online for less than 50 cents each, tied them with ribbons and attached a card.

On our computer, we created stylized initials and a poem, which reads: Picture you, and picture me Together for eternity Just how happy we will be Me for you and you for me The print outs were cut out and pasted on heavy-stock paper—the initial on the outside and the poem on the inside. We punched a hole in the upper left-hand corner, threaded it with ribbon and tied it onto the tin full of our HRB tea mixture. n

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When you experience life’s most important moments in dramatic settings, historic memories emerge. Whether it is the breathtaking backdrop of Fort Monroe’s waterfront gazebo, the fantasy of flight and hands on fun of the Virginia Air & Space Center, or the versatile spaces that let you create the scene of your dreams at the Hampton Roads Convention Center, you will find unique venues that make your wedding everything you’ve envisioned.

For information on Hampton venues and attractions, call the Hampton Visitor Center or visit us online.

727.1102 visithampton.com

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I want... wedding bells & sea shells

Whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s your request? Gathering family and friends from across the country or from across town is no simple task. Whether youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re planning an intimate get together with a handful of close friends or a lavish 500 person soiree, the Wyndham Virginia Beach Oceanfront will help make your special day unforgettable. From ceremony to celebration to honeymoon, Jane Wrenn, our Wyndham Wedding Specialist will take care of every detail.

Call toll free or log on to the special wedding section of our website.

1.800.685.5105 or www.wyndhamvirginiabeach.com

5700 Atlantic Avenue, Virginia Beach, VA 23451

Wyndham Brides are rewarded for choosing our hotel! Reserve your appointment with Jane and discover what benefits you will receive.

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