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F e at u r e s November/December 2014

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GIVING BACK AWARDS

Honoring the region’s outstanding nonprofits

Holiday GIFT Guide LOCALLYNCHBURG: Gift ideas from local small businesses

an old-fashioned christmas

Local farmhouse becomes a vintage haven for holiday décor

On the cover:

Brian Wilkerson and his son, Van, enjoy one of the 12 Christmas trees decorating their Appomattox farmhouse.

Take a peek inside, beginning on Page 75.

ON THIS PAGE:

CASA of Central Virginia's downtown Lynchburg offices. Read about CASA and our other Top 15 winners of our Giving Back Awards, on Page 39.

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Hitting a High Note Opera on the James celebrates opening of 10th anniversary season

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Claire Gammon Local preteen models at New York Fashion Week

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A Holiday Memory That Truly Lives On How to plant your own living Christmas tree

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Un-canning the Classic Casserole Try this scratch-made green bean casserole for the holidays

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A Coastal Christmas Five festive reasons to head to the Virginia shoreline

Letter from the Editor One advocates on behalf of children.

One takes them on adventures to enhance their life.

Another helps them through grief.

Still another benefits the child by supporting the mother.

Finally, one advocates for the community through its support of a vast number of programs.

Lynchburg Living magazine is a free full-color publication that promotes Lynchburg and the Central Virginia area as a whole and prides itself as being Lynchburg’s magazine specializing in providing articles concerning upcoming events, entertainment, dining, lifestyle and community. We also include feature articles covering family issues, local arts, clubs and organizations. Lynchburg Living prints more than 20,000 copies bi-monthly and is featured in locations in and around the Lynchburg, Forest and Bedford areas with an estimated reach of over 75,000 in its reading audience.

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And those are just the Top 5 from our 15 honored local nonprofits recognized by our first ever “Giving Back Awards.” The running theme among those taking top honors may be helping children, but there’s little doubt they have impacted Central Virginia in vast and unique ways for the better.

Rounding out our Top 15 are groups that do everything from fight human trafficking to provide affordable and accessible housing to people with disabilities and even protect and provide for the smallest among us—our area’s animals. It’s a diverse list of winners, all nominated and voted on by you, our readers. Flip to Page 39 to read more about these amazing groups and why you told us they deserve a Giving Back Award.

Of course, it wouldn’t be the holiday issue without some seasonal cheer thrown in. Start your journey through this issue but brewing up a cup of tea, then read about the two new places in town to enjoy tea time, without having to steep a cup yourself. You need only lift a (pinky) finger to bring the hot, healing brew to your lips—the perfect winter tonic.

Enjoy holiday cheer on full display in our Home story, where you will discover a simple farmhouse in Appomattox that was literally built by its owners around the idea of Christmas and where to strategically place each of 12 trees (yes, 12!) each December. Let the home’s simplicity and each tree’s splendor inspire your holiday decorating to a new level.

Once the trees are up, you need packages to place under them.

Don’t worry, we have plenty of ideas to help you give a gift that matters. Our 9th Annual LOCALLYNCHBURG Holiday Gift Guide is positively bursting with nothing but local gifts from local small business. Some of the items you will see are Lynchburg exclusives—the perfect present to give not only to friends and family but to benefit our local economy. Start gathering ideas now by turning to Page 60.

With thanksgiving, we enter into this much-loved time of the year and hope that no matter whether you choose to stay close to home or travel to take in the sights (check out our Coastal Christmas recommendations in the Travel section) that you and yours enjoy a truly blessed holiday season. See you again in the New Year!

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General Director Cecelia Schieve guides performers during an Opera on the James practice. The season’s first main stage show, La Bohème, opens November 9.

At the helm is General Director Cecelia Schieve who said the opera is “held afloat by the passion and dedication of its Board of Directors.” Born from the enthusiastic support of local opera lovers, Opera on the James set up shop in Central Virginia because those on the board “want it to be available to the community,” Schieve, who joined the organization in 2010, said.

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t’s hard to overlook a century’s worth of history, but in the early 1900s, 6th and Main in downtown Lynchburg was a bustling hub for the arts. Imagine eager theatergoers frequenting the streets, ready to enjoy a live performance at the Academy of Music Theatre.

Decades of neglect have made it difficult to once again restore those bright beginnings, but recent efforts have made plenty of headway. Bookended by the establishment of the Academy of Fine Arts in 2003 and the designation of a Lynchburg Arts District in 2010, the establishment of Opera on the James in 2005 has been buoyed by a resurgence of interest and support for the arts. Now at the start of its 10th season, Opera on the James is set to open its most ambitious season yet.

Within two years of its inaugural season, Opera on the James was performing two main stage operas per season plus a Gala Cabaret; these are the season standbys, which Schieve called their “three pillars.”

Now, for the 10th anniversary season, Opera on the James is slated to offer more than 50 local performances in which Schieve estimates close to 6,500 people will view these live shows over the course of the season.

To accomplish this feat—the highest number of performances to date—Schieve has pursued numerous creative avenues for bringing opera to the region. To highlight the 10th season, she has also designed multiple performances to occur in sets of 10.

“We’re hoping to schedule performances for 10 libraries, 10 elementary schools, 10 quartet concerts and more,” she explained.

Schieve is no stranger to unique opportunities. In the past, she brought opera by boat to the far reaches of the Alaskan terrain.

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Here in Lynchburg, she was attracted to Opera on the James because of the “strategic plan to go out of the opera house and to reach the community.” She added “I love everything about a hushed opera house, but I also love when it’s in a field or a gym or anywhere that’s a surprise.”

And this season promises to deliver opera on multiple fronts. As Schieve described, “We want to increase accessibility to our opera programs and help people learn what we offer.”

The season’s first main stage show opens November 9. Giacomo Puccini’s tragic opera, La Bohème, is rich with the ingredients of a good story—poverty, the struggle to survive, young love and tragic loss. Noted for Puccini’s masterful use of affecting melodies, La Bohème has a compelling emotional appeal that Schieve believes will resonate with audience members. Set in 19th century Paris, La Bohème will be performed on the E.C. Glass Civic Auditorium stage, allowing the sound of the chorus, live orchestra and singers to “resound throughout the space, coming around you and wrapping you up,” Schieve explained.

A complement to Puccini’s tragedy is Mozart’s comedy, The Marriage of Figaro, to be performed this coming March in the Academy of Fine Arts Warehouse Theatre. A black box theatre in design, the warehouse stage brings singers “up close and personal” with audience members, allowing them to feel as if they are “part of the action.” Viewers will be close enough to catch the small nuances that make comedy so effective, like the shrug of a shoulder or the lift of an eyebrow.

This January, Schieve has designed the Gala Cabaret to be a sampling of performances from previous seasons to highlight the opera’s history.

“This is the party of the year,” Schieve said. “We’re bringing in four stars from our repertoire of recent years.”

With up to 20 chandeliers blazing overhead, the gala will feature a gourmet dinner, fine wines, a fundraising auction and, of course, live performances. >>

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RIGHT: Schieve in her element. BELOW: Artists rehearse a show called Page to Stage, which is being performed in libraries and community venues. Pictured are: Shannon Jones, Soprano; Erin Greene, Mezzo Soprano; Mark Craig, Tenor; Justin Manalad, Baritone; Tom Getty, Piano (previous page).

But these “three pillars” are only a fraction of what Schieve has in store for the anniversary season. The majority of the opera’s 50-plus performances will be freely offered to audiences of all ages. Schieve has a knack for finding creative intersections of opera and everyday life, such as programs for young children, anti-bullying programs and student-art partnerships.

For elementary-aged students, Opera on the James is launching a short opera program entitled Stop Bully!, which teaches students an anti-bullying pledge in musical format and shares skills for handling bullying situations.

“It’s a beautifully crafted way to talk about a serious subject,” Schieve said.

Additionally, Schieve is partnering with elementary schools to perform Page to Stage, a show combining familiar children’s stories with opera education.

“They’ll talk about what opera is, how characters come to life and then, say, the wolf from The Three Little Pigs will walk out,” Schieve described. “It’s a fun way to connect what’s on a page to imagining what a story may look like in a live format.”

Schieve also has plenty of opportunities in the works for high school students. A partnership with Heritage High School art teacher, Jon Roark, involves featuring his students’ artwork in the Warehouse Theatre as part of the Gala Cabaret.

Schieve also invites high school students to enjoy final dress rehearsals, called Student Preview Performances, during which they experience opera in a relaxed format and ask questions following the performance. >>

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“I’m an opera educator as well as a producer,” Schieve said.

In addition to community outreach, the opera has grown tangibly as well, moving to a downtown location in 2011.

“The energy here is wonderful,” Schieve explained. “It seems the heart of Lynchburg is downtown, and we’re part of that.”

Being housed in the vibrant red building close to the corner of 7th and Main allows Schieve to walk to the Academy or to Riverviews as needed.

A short visit to the opera’s current home reveals a space with palpable energy where voices can be heard rehearsing throughout the day. With a gesture of a hand, Schieve said, “We’ve done a lot already,” pointing out the donated grand piano and the dedicated rehearsal space located behind her offices. But with an eye on the future, Schieve also excitedly shared a short list of renovation goals she has for expanding their opportunities.

Looking ahead, Schieve is excited to build on the energy she sees surrounding the current season. One long-term project revolves around the nearing completion of the Academy of Music Theatre building, which is being restored to its original grandeur.

Aesthetically, proponents of the project believe the theatre could become the crown jewel of the downtown district. But it’s the acoustics that excite Schieve the most.

“The theatre’s acoustics were made to glorify the human voice; they were perfect when they were designed,” Schieve explained.

Above all projects, Schieve’s singular focus is sharing that “opera is for everyone.”

“When people say ‘Opera isn’t my thing,’ I reply that they just haven’t found the right fit yet,” Schieve said with a smile. “To say you don’t like opera is like saying you don’t like art.”

For this reason, Schieve is hopeful that community members will visit one of the quartet concerts performed by the Tyler Young Artists in local community venues.

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“It’s a sampler of sorts,” Schieve said of the quarter concert style, which features a wide selection of music from a variety of operas.

This exposure allows listeners to find a style of opera they enjoy.

She also believes the emotional connection of opera to be the most compelling and universal aspect of the art form.

“Music comes into the heart before the brain,” she said. “Opera can be comedic or poignant, but it engages you.”

Opera is also a fluid, evolving medium rich with a combination of “movement, music, drama [and] design,” Schieve added. Thus, she explained, opera constantly offers something new to audiences.

As General Director, one of Schieve’s primary responsibilities is selecting the season’s repertoire, and her goal is to provide a well-rounded selection of new and old, English and foreign, comedic and tragic.

“I try to add different facets,” Schieve said. “Those who attend over the course of a few years will see a variety in our offerings.”

This year those offerings have been expanded to include the Opera Film Series, a Schubert song cycle, Poulenc’s one woman opera, The Human Voice, and Baroque and Beyond!, “a very fun frolic” through all types of opera, according to Schieve.

Combined with the power of the musical voice and the dramatic flair, Schieve believes the live aspect of opera performance to be most thrilling.

“An opera happens only once and is different every time,” she said, “so you have to watch intently to see what is part of a singular performance.”

For more show dates, ticket information and more information about the unique performances during the celebratory 10th anniversary season, visit www.operaonthejames.org.

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Claire, at just 11 years old, you recently modeled at a show produced during New York Fashion Week and are preparing to model and walk in Virginia Fashion Week. That’s quite a big opportunity! How did this all happen?

In April, I went to an open call for Virginia Fashion Week, it was hosted

by Splash Model Management. A few months later, the producers asked me if I would be interested in modeling in a show during New York Fashion Week.

What was it like to walk during the show in NYC? Tell us your favorite part.

I enjoyed meeting a fashion designer. I modeled for Hope Wade of Hope Wade Designs. She was featured in London Vogue, and was also chosen to represent the U.S. during London Fashion Week (Emerging Trends Fashion Challenge 2013). I also enjoyed sightseeing. We didn’t have a lot of extra time, but we got to go to Times Square and see some of the stores on Fifth Avenue.

Did you learn anything new during that experience?

New York is a lot different than Lynchburg.

How did you get into modeling?

I went to a fashion show that my sister, Gabri, was modeling in. It was the Princess Prom Project. A few weeks later, the director of that show asked me if I, and my other sister, Ava, would like to model in her next show. It was a vintage fashion show. We had a lot of fun.

Claire with her older sister, Gabri (left), who also models.

Then, a couple of months later, my mom heard about VA Fashion Week. She knows I like to design things, so she thought I might like modeling in that, and seeing how clothes are designed/made. We went for the open call in Virginia Beach in April.

At the New York show, you walked in front about 1,000 or so spectators. Were you nervous? How did you prepare?

I went to a couple of rehearsals, but I was still nervous. I got to practice a little before the show started.

I really didn’t know anyone there, except for my mom and sister, and some of the people who work and model for Splash. But once the show started, I was fine. I think it is easier modeling in front of people you don’t know.

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What’s the best thing you’ve gotten to wear or model so far, in your opinion?

Probably the shorts and top I got to model for New York Fashion Week. I liked the design of the fabric. It was different than anything I had seen before.

Why do you enjoy modeling?

I think it’s a good way for me to express myself. I’ve gotten to meet a lot of new people. I’ve also learned more about clothing design.

Clockwise: The Gammons leave their home in Lynchburg. Claire with designer Hope Wade in New York City. In front of the New York Fashion Week sign.

Claire walks the VA Fashion Week runway. The Gammon family at home. Claire is fitted by Hope Wade for her show.

You are a “born and raised” Lynchburg girl, but to model you have recently traveled to bigger cities. What have you learned by experiencing these places?

Cities are different, but people are the same. This was the first time I had ever traveled so far, and New York was the biggest city I have ever been to, but everywhere we went, the people were really nice.

At this point in your life, what do you think you like to do for a career?

I think I might like to be a fashion designer or model. I enjoy making/ creating things. I think if I became a fashion designer I would like to create a clothing line for tweens.

Has modeling had any influence on how you imagine your future?

I think it’s really helped me to express myself. It has encouraged me to be who I am.

What’s coming up next for you?

Gabri, Ava, and I, auditioned for Rock the Runway in Greensboro.

Each of us got a spot! I will get to meet another designer, so I am excited about that.

My older sister Gabri, and I just started a fashion blog. It’s for tweens and teens. It’s called, “The Trend Sisters” (www.thetrendsisters.com).

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R TOP: Free books up for grabs.

MIDDLE: The barn-shaped free library outside of the Lynchburg Community Market.

BOTTOM: The library box at the Ed Page entrance of the Blackwater Creek Trail, designed to look like a trail hut.

eading engages the imagination like nothing else. Movies and television can only take viewers as deep as the screen while books unlock worlds of discovery that expand beyond the borders of pages, covers and binding. That is not to discredit the power and importance of visual media, which is especially prominent in the current digital age. But reading and literacy remain important pastimes, ones that spark creativity, promote learning and facilitate knowledge. But, this pastime is seemingly undervalued in today’s plugged-in/electronic culture.

To help foster a love for reading and promote literacy, Little Free Libraries have been popping up all across the country. Some are commissioned by local organizations, like libraries or churches.

Many, however, are constructed and offered literally on people’s front lawns.

The concept is simple: Construct a small wooden book box and fill it with books. Passers by may take a book free of charge with no expectation to return it. People are encouraged to not just take, but add books to the boxes as well. The goal is to engage the community in sharing and reading books.

Little Free Libraries were started when Todd Bol, a Hudson, Wisconsin, native, created a model one-room schoolhouse as a tribute to his mother—a former teacher who loved reading. He soon built several more and began giving them away. Rick Brooks of the University of Wisconsin-Madison fell in love with the idea and joined Bol to help cast a wider vision.

This initiative has since been gaining traction. At the beginning of this year, it was estimated that there were well over 15,000 Little Free Libraries across the world, represented on almost every continent. And this conservative figure does not even account for countless more that are not registered at www.LittleFreeLibrary.org.

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The TARDIS shaped Little Free Library outside WorkWorks on 5th Street in Lynchburg.

Libraries and appear on its world map, a useful tool in finding box locations. Though this is helpful, participation is not limited to registrants. Many private citizens choose to bypass the fee but still get involved.)

With the two-fold goal of promoting a love for reading locally and inspiring further community participation, three Little Free Libraries were added to the Lynchburg community in 2013 and can currently be found on the world map, alongside one in Rustburg and another in Altavista. These three little libraries were a joint project between the Lynchburg Public Library, Lynchburg Parks & Recreation and the Natural Bridge Appalachian Trail Club. Each little book box was custom-built by two members of the trail club, Robert Alcock and Joe Chavez, and features a unique design. There is one box at the Ed Page entrance of the Blackwater Creek Trail, designed to look like a trail hut, another at Riverside Park matching the park’s train theme and a third, designed like a little red barn, at the Lynchburg Community Market.

“The community has been very enthusiastic,” Marilyn Martin, Director of the Lynchburg Public Library, said. “I have received calls from people asking how they can build one (and) I always refer them to the Little Free Libraries website.”

She added that she enjoys seeing families stop to pick out books.

“It is very fun to hear a child say, ‘Can I take the book home? Do we have to pay?’ No (the books are) all free, and just one other way for us to get books into the hands of readers, young and old,” Martin explained.

The Lynchburg library manages the three locations, ensuring they remain stocked with books. Mostly this is done with donations, some from book clubs. Martin said the library tries to keep the selection as diverse as possible, with titles that will appeal to children, men and women.

“This was a great collaborative project for the Library and the City Parks and Rec Department. I think we all enjoyed doing it and we hope to continue to see the benefit for years to come,” Martin said.

One of the goals in commissioning and maintaining the three

boxes was to inspire the community to participate. And it seems to be working. The First Unitarian Church of Lynchburg added a Little Free Library at 818 Court Street in honor of Charlotte Stern, and so did WorkWorks on 5th Street. The latter is in the shape of a blue TARDIS, which, some may recall, is a time machine and spacecraft in the British science fiction television programme Doctor Who. These little libraries are an asset to the community, Martin said.

They make books available to people who might not otherwise have access, like children who may not get opportunities to go to the library. Residents who may not think to pick up a book or go to the library might discover or rekindle a love for reading by selecting a title from a box during an afternoon stroll on the trail or an evening walk in the park.

Though these little libraries do provide a great service to the community, they cannot replace the valuable role that the library plays. Beverly Blair, Supervisor of Youth Services for the Lynchburg Public Library, said that is especially true for children.

“Children need personal interaction with librarians and a safe and fun environment that they can visit consistently, in order to truly benefit from the library,” she said. “(At the library) they can see other children, talk to the librarians, play on the early learning computers, read books … and explore.”

Libraries are a place in the community where anyone, regardless of background, can gather and access information and connect with the community free of charge, Blair explained.

“All our programs are free and open to the public,” Blair said.

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“The goal is to provide fun and engaging programs to help draw people to the library, and then for our well-established print and digital book collections to help keep them coming back. For many other folks, they may come to the library for a book, only to discover the wealth of programs and services we offer on an ongoing basis.”

Adults can engage in book clubs or sharpen their technology skills in computer classes. Children’s activities include weekly storytimes for a number of age groups, including Babygarten (birth-24 months), Tales for Twos and Preschool Pizzazz (3-5 year olds). There is also Chess for Kids on the first four Saturdays in November from 1 to 3 p.m.

And no holiday season would be complete without a visit to see Santa and Mrs. Claus, who will be at the Lynchburg Library on Monday, December 22, from 10 a.m. to Noon and 1 to 3 p.m.

Diverse programming is a staple at just about any library, including neighboring Campbell County. Jordan Welborn, Public Services Librarian for the Campbell County Public Library System, said that programming is intended to “anticipate and meet the evolving educational, informational and cultural needs of the public.”

“Many people depend on us for that,” Welborn said. “Whether it’s early childhood education, after school learning opportunities for students, technology classes for adults, a teenager’s first volunteer gig, recreational opportunities for seniors, research assistance (or) assistance with résumés and job applications, we are here to serve the public’s needs. We are also very open to suggestions regarding what additional programming people would like to see. We know that needs and tastes are constantly changing.”

She added that libraries are great community resources for staying up-to-date technologically. Welborn teaches technology classes and finds joy in watching people go through a four-week Basic Computer Literacy Class and gain the confidence they need in handling technology.

“Some people come into it intimidated or feeling low because they feel like technology is evolving so quickly and leaving them behind. It is heartwarming to watch them go from fearing computers to having fun with them,” she said.

Campbell County also has a number of STEM (Science Technology Engineering and Mathematics) focused initiatives for children.

While most people envision print resources when thinking of the library, e-books are also offered. Both Campbell County and Lynchburg have e-book rentals that can be downloaded onto a personal device and will be automatically returned after about two

weeks. They even have tablets available for rental, already loaded with books. In Lynchburg, this program is so popular that the library is looking into acquiring more tablets.

E-book resources are especially important for children, who are growing up in a digital age, Blair explained.

“Technology is a very present part of our world and something we know children enjoy using,” Blair said. “We want children to love to read as much as they love technology and an e-reader is a great way to encourage that connection. The other great benefit is that one Kindle can provide 10-15 books, so for avid readers and busy families, it’s a great way to take a lot of books with you on one small device.”

For a full list of resources and calendar of programming events, walk through the doors or visit your public library online.

Local library websites include: Bedford County, www.BPSOnline.org Campbell County, www.CampbellCountyLibraries.org Lynchburg, www.LynchburgVA.gov/Library

Barb’s Books helps children develop a love for reading Barb’s Books, a nonprofit book exchange program, launched this past October. The late Barbara Parks, after whom the program is named, was a Lynchburg City Schools worker for more than 50 years, serving as a teacher, principal, parent resource coordinator and pre-K coordinator. More than that, she advocated for children, striving to see them blossom into literate, successful students. The program is directed and run by family members of Parks, who want to see her vision continue and expand.

By providing free books to preschool children in Lynchburg City Schools, Barb’s Books hopes to raise literacy awareness and a lifelong love for reading while helping kids grow a personal library. The service is offered at no cost for the school system. On October 10, the initiative launched by giving students their first book to take home. Throughout the year, they will periodically exchange one book title for another. By the end of the year, they will exchange their current Barb’s Book for a selection that they will get to keep.

Contributors to this program include Scholastic Books, Givens Books and Reed O’Brien Books.

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In the spirit of the holidays, we at Lynchburg Living are pleased to reveal the results of our first ever Giving Back Awards to honor local nonprofits. During the inaugural voting, readers and supporters of nonprofits in the community cast hundreds of votes in order to nominate and, ultimately, award the Top 15 nonprofits you see in these pages. As diverse as each organization is, each one plays an integral part in our local community, and, in many cases, make a profound impact around the world. To better highlight the Top 5, our editor and three writers went to experience each nonprofit first-hand in order to capture a glimpse of their important work in our community.

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CASA of Central Virginia (Court Appointed Special Advocates)

Established: Judge Dale Harris helped to start a local CASA program in 1989 for the purpose of providing advocacy services to the abused and neglected children in Lynchburg and Amherst County. CASA of Central Virginia now serves the entire 24th Judicial District, a 2,258 square mile area that includes the City of Lynchburg and the counties of Amherst, Bedford, Campbell and Nelson. The Central Virginia program is the third largest in the state of Virginia.

Mission: To recruit, train and support volunteer advocates for abused and neglected children in the Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court system and to educate the community about the needs of these children.

Key People: Executive Director Allison Wingfield; Associate Director Lorna Rexrode; Recruitment & Training Coordinator Bonnie Gentry; Advocate Managers Allan Jamison, Susan Shutt and Cristy Horsley; Training Facilitator Pam Ferrell.

Volunteer Opportunities: “Our biggest need is for more volunteer advocates. We offer three training sessions per year, and our goal is to fill each class to capacity. Our vision is to eliminate our waiting list. No child who has been abused or neglected should have to go without a CASA volunteer. We also have volunteer opportunities in our office, on committees, and during events. The best way to find out about these opportunities is to join our e-mail list, like us on Facebook or follow us on Twitter.”

What are the biggest challenges your organization currently faces? “One of the biggest challenges is funding. We are constantly working to find new sources of grant funding, increase donations, and create/improve fundraising events and ideas. It costs us $665 to serve one child. This may seem high but most people don’t realize that these children stay in our program for 13 months on average. The second biggest challenge is recruiting and maintaining enough volunteer advocates. CASA’s are not your average volunteers. They must go through an intense screening process, seven weeks of training, 15+ hours of case work each month, and 12 hours of annual in-service training. Our volunteer advocates are the heartbeat of our program, and we not only have to find those who are willing to step up in this way, but we have to ensure our current volunteers do not suffer burn out. Without their care and commitment, CASA would cease to exist.”

What is the most rewarding part about what your nonprofit does? “At CASA, our volunteers and staff deal with extremely difficult cases of child abuse and neglect. It can be heart-breaking to see and hear about what these children have been through. The rewarding part is to see a child smiling and happy, knowing that we have made a lifelong difference. Because of our service, they feel safe, loved, valued and heard.”

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901 Church Street, Suite 101, Lynchburg, VA 24504 434-485-7260, www.cvcasa.org

For the Child:

The Heart of a CASA Volunteer

By Morgan McCarty

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believe somewhere within us all, there’s a fundamental desire to speak up for those who have no voice—to protect the innocent, and to make a difference that lasts. But while many yearn to help, few are courageous enough to act. To step out. To speak up. To freely give time and energy today, so that someone else might have a better tomorrow.

When I first met Pam Ferrell, it was clear that she was one of the few.

Ferrell is a CASA volunteer, a Court Appointed Special Advocate, for children who desperately need safe, permanent homes. She challenged me to imagine life in the child welfare system. I considered what it would feel like to be sent to a new house, a new school, separated from siblings and removed from all familiar surroundings. I imagined a host of strangers making decisions that would affect the rest of my life, but no one taking the time to ask how I felt or what I wanted. How would I react? How would I cope? How would I grow into a productive adult?

This was incredibly difficult to fathom, but it is reality for numerous kids in our community. With social workers often juggling numerous cases at once, there is limited time to spend with each child. This is where the CASA makes a major contribution, spending quality time with the child and building a relationship founded on trust. The job also involves extensive conversations with family members, neighbors, school officials, doctors and others involved in the child’s background.

It involves reviewing all court documents and case records, and submitting reports to the judge at every hearing. And above all, it involves a significant investment in the child’s life. For some this may seem like a daunting commitment, but for a CASA the rewards are immeasurable. Ferrell has helped 13 children move from loneliness and fear to stability and hope. She has played a central role in each one’s journey to a loving home.

This is her story.

“I had volunteered in many other capacities but truly found my passion with CASA. I knew the organization would allow me to change lives in a meaningful and lasting way, and the concept of stepping into

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Top Left: Executive Director Allison Wingfield; Right: Starfish represent the children CASA helps. Bottom: A cut-out in CASA's downtown office that drives home the nonprofit's mission.

the void for a child was intriguing. When I received my first case assignment and met the three children (siblings), I knew I could not spend my time in any better way. Ensuring they were given a voice became my priority.

What do you remember about your five-year-old self? What were your days like? Your evenings? What were your concerns and worries? At the age of five, my first CASA child was in a parenting role. She and her siblings were victims of severe neglect. Her maternal instinct, which should’ve been a foreign notion, had kicked in and she was the protector of her younger brother and sister. She guided them each day and took care of their needs. She was distrusting of adults and hyper-alert for trouble.

See, when parents are in a cycle of abuse, they do not understand how to parent. They do not consider how their actions are affecting their children; chaos is their normal. Due to the severe neglect and possible sexual abuse, this girl and her two siblings were placed in foster care. They were fortunate to be placed in the same home and had the additional benefit of support from CASA. I began working with the children and learning all I could about their lives. The fiveyear-old girl slowly began to trust and open up. It took a while for her to learn that she didn’t have to be the adult anymore.

After much investigation and consideration, it was decided that she and her siblings could not return to their biological parents’ care. Thankfully, their foster parents had the intent of adoption and gave all three children a permanent home.

They received services and counseling needed to recover, and have blossomed into healthy, productive middle school students.

While every outcome is unique, I know that each child I advocate for is in a better situation than before. I have grown tremendously through my work here and feel valued by the organization. Volunteers can literally turn the tide for children through CASA, while ending cycles of abuse that often span generations. When this occurs, a child doesn’t continue on as a victim; they have a shot at a bright future. Our national slogan—Lift up a child’s voice. A child’s life—says it all.” w w w. ly n c h b u r g l i v i n g . c o m

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Urban Mountain Adventures

P.O. Box 3093, Lynchburg, VA 24503 (804) 690-2064, www.urbanmountainadventures.org

Up a River with a Paddle

By Suzanne Ramsey

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hen Bre Curtas invited me to go kayaking with Urban Mountain Adventures, I considered it a chance to spend a day doing something “out of my element,” that element being a home office where two cats constantly beg for kibble.

Asked about my kayaking experience, I said—with the confidence of one who has navigated the most rapid-y of rivers, yet hasn’t—that I’d kayaked. I wasn’t lying. I do occasionally paddle around the cove near my in-laws’ lake house.

So a few days later, I’m paddling five miles down the James River in the back of a two-seater kayak. Twelve-year-old Amirah Pryor is in the front. In three other boats, also paired with adults, are Amirah’s younger sister, Anyah, and sisters Demi and Jade Woody. Amirah, who wants to be a defense attorney someday, is the oldest.

As I paddle, I count, “Right, left, right, left,” and apologize a lot for clanking my paddle into Amirah’s. I also frequently apologize for hitting rocks. I have no idea if ripples ahead mean shallow or deep water, or have no significance at all.

Being the adult onboard, whenever Amirah seems nervous about approaching ripples or rocks, I say things like, “We’re good, we’re good.” and “No problem, I’ll just push us off this rock.” When things seem particularly semi-perilous, I resort to, “Look! A Great Blue Heron!”

Before I go any further, we wore life jackets and in most places, the river appeared shallow enough to walk across. At the boat launch, downtown near the fountain, we also said a prayer. (Spoiler alert: We do not fall out of the kayak.)

Earlier that day, I met Bre and another UMA employee, Marissa Wilterink, at Bre’s house in Daniel’s Hill. About a year ago, Bre and her husband, Josh, and Marissa, a single foster parent, moved to the inner city neighborhood, located in what one might describe as “lower Rivermont.”

James Bourdon, UMA’s founder and director, also lives there with his family, as does another UMA couple, Chris and Kelsey Mabes. All of the kids they serve live nearby.

“We go home with them,” Bre said, adding that living in the neighborhood reinforces everything UMA does, which includes not only outdoor adventures—rappelling, fishing, camping and the like—but also Bible studies and other events.

Bre and Marissa (“Miss Bre” and “Miss Marissa” to the kids) were quick, however, to dispel any notions that UMA’s goal is to swoop in and transform this section of inner city into some kind of suburbia. UMA’s goal is to put Christ’s Great Commandment, “love thy neighbor,” into action, Marissa said, not “to change or make their lives look like our lives.”

Back on the river, we’ve traveled about three miles when we beach the kayaks and Bre sets about building a campfire. Before the trip, she had told me a little about the girls, about how they might wear a tough persona at home, but once out of their element are talkative, funny and afraid of things like being eaten by bears. By the time we reach the midway point of our outing, I’ve gotten to know them a bit more and agree.

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Established: 2008 by James and Juli Bourdon Mission: Urban Mountain Adventures provides lifeimpacting wilderness experiences and outdoor adventure trips for Lynchburg’s urban youth.

Key People: James and Juli Bourdon, Josh and Bre Curtas, Chris and Kelsey Mabes, Marissa Wilterink.

Volunteer Opportunities: See the contact page on Urban Mountain’s website.

What are the biggest challenges your organization currently faces? “Establishing continuous financial support for our operational budget.”

What is the most rewarding part about what your nonprofit does? “Forming genuine relationships with the youth as we challenge and encourage them during our outdoor adventures.”

In addition to learning that Amirah wanted to be a defense attorney, I learned that Anyah loves to sing, dance and do gymnastics, and wants to be a doctor. Demi, whose favorite color is blue, wants to be “an adventurous person” and a veterinarian. Jade wants to be a movie star and “have lots of money,” and be a doctor.

But on this mid-September afternoon, after eating hot dogs and marshmallows, and after Demi has invented a new culinary concoction dubbed the “S’morito”—a marshmallow and Doritos sandwich—the girls are more intent on learning how to skip rocks.

Standing knee deep in the river with UMA volunteer Layne Terrell, the girls dig through the sandy riverbed for round, flat rocks, and then take turns chucking them out onto the river. Layne declares it “The World Championship of Skipping,” and when successful, there are high-pitched squeals of “I skipped it! I skipped it!”

Then, it’s back in the kayaks and back on the water, headed downriver toward Mt. Athos and the end of the trip. As I dip my paddle into the slow-moving river and watch an osprey soar overhead, I’m momentarily transported to the River of Doubt, the South American river down which President Theodore Roosevelt made an ill-fated journey in 1914.

Not because there are rapids, natives shooting poisonous darts or other perils (thank goodness) but because during that still-warm afternoon, the river felt otherworldly. In this place, where crisp, clear water tumbles over river grass and rocks, it seemed no one else exists, except four adults, four little girls and “Look! A Great Blue Heron!”

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Kids’ Haven: A Center for Grieving Children

325 12th Street, Lynchburg, VA 24504 (434) 845-4072, www.kidshavenlynchburg.org

Support to Grieving Children and Families

By Emily Mook Hedrick

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pending an evening at Kids’ Haven’s Group Night can likely be summed up in one hyphenated word: life-changing. Given the sobering fact that the children and families aided for free by Kids’ Haven are dealing with the death of loved ones, I had initially worried that I would feel like an intruder, unable to relate or offer any encouragement to those who are dealing with the most heart-breaking, unfathomable aspect of life: it’s inevitable end. But I soon realized how wrong I was as I walked into the meeting at Webster Hall Chapel at the HumanKind Campus in Lynchburg.

Group Nights at Kids’ Haven begin with a dinner made and brought by volunteers called “Meal Makers.” When I walk into the chapel, these volunteers are happily setting up the food, a few families are already seated at tables talking cheerfully, and Kids’ Haven Executive Director Julianna Thompson is speaking with one of the nonprofit’s volunteer facilitators, who work with the families after dinner is over. Thompson’s greeting immediately makes me feel at ease. She encourages me to mingle with the families, all of whom are extremely welcoming and kind. I talk to a few children about school and their interests, and I am filled with admiration for their bravery as they cope with something many of us do not experience until we are much older: the death of one or more close family members or friends. I speak to a grandmother who has me laughing until tears come to my eyes; she is a master storyteller. Had I not gone into this visit knowing the nature of the group at hand, I never would have guessed that they were grappling with grief.

After dinner, the children divide into groups based on their ages and head to one of the nearby cottages, and the adults stay in the chapel for their support group. As soon as Thompson and I enter the children’s cottage, we are greeted by peals of laughter and happy chatter. Inside, the room for preschool-aged children has toys and a play mat covered with roads, while the room for preteens displays magazine pictures of Selena Gomez and One Direction and a poster listing the young people’s “bucket list” dreams—what they most want to do before they die.

Thompson says that the bucket list activity and another in which the children write down a memory about their deceased loved ones are therapeutic and allow the children to experience grief rather than avoid it.

“It can be a good or bad memory; it doesn’t matter,” Thompson explained. “The important thing is that the children acknowledge their grief and try to work through it. We’re here to help them with that. It’s amazing to see the strength in these kids as they’re going through this difficult time.”

Kids’ Haven also helps parents and caregivers understand how to help their children and themselves. According to Thompson, the organization encourages caregivers to “be as honest as possible with the children about death. Do not tell them that they have ‘lost’ someone, or they will wonder why that person can’t be found. Being honest makes it seem normal to grieve rather than confusing.”

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Established: Kids’ Haven was founded as a community outreach project of the Junior League of Lynchburg. In 1998, it was chartered as an independent not-for-profit organization with the sole mission of serving, through the provision of support and educational programming, the unique needs of children grieving the death of a person who was significant in their lives.

Mission: Kids’ Haven: A Center for Grieving Children is a community based organization dedicated to serving the unique needs of grieving children and their families through support and education.

Vision: Kids’ Haven strives to provide access to free grief support for every grieving child in the Greater Lynchburg area.

Key People: Two staff members, a 20 hour per week executive director, Julianna Thompson, and 10 hour per week administrative assistant, Laurie Lenz; Kids’ Haven’s volunteer Board of Directors.

Volunteer Opportunities: Meal Makers, who provide meal to our families during group night; Facilitators, who facilitate support groups with the children; Sponsors for fundraising events. Upcoming events include the Pool Tournament on November 22 and Butterfly Kisses on April 25, 2015.

Thompson added that one of the most rewarding parts of her job is seeing the families working through grief together.

“It becomes like a family here,” she said. “All the kids and families are so supportive of each other.”

In terms of this abundant support, Kids’ Haven goes far beyond offering bimonthly Group Nights. For those who live too far away or are too consumed with dealing with the terminal illness of a loved one to attend these evenings, Kids’ Haven houses a reference library at its office in downtown Lynchburg.

Kids’ Haven also conducts a monthly support group at E.C. Glass High School, a bimonthly support group at Sandusky Middle School, and several therapeutic and fundraising events throughout the year.

Although Kids’ Haven already does a lot for grieving families, Thompson said she hopes the nonprofit will “continue to grow and serve as many people as we can.” The night closes with a ceremony in which we all hold hands, pass around a supportive squeeze through our hands, and recite the refrain, “We remember them” to honor our loved ones who have died.

As I leave, my eyes filled with tears that are both happy and sad and know I will remember my experience with Kids’ Haven for the rest of my life. And the healing the families are experiencing there will likely carry them through the rest of theirs.

LEFT: Preteens and teens color during one of Kids' Haven's group sessions.

RIGHT: Kids' Haven is represented at the annual Day in the Park.

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People of Faith Helping People in Need CALL: (434) 846-6098 Office Hours: 9am - 12pm 701 Clay Street, Lynchburg, VA 24504 “Interfaith is able to do in 20 minutes what it would take me a day and a half to accomplish.”

The Reverend Todd Vie, Rector, St. Paul’s Episcopal Church

WE HELP INDIVIDUALS IN NEED OF ASSISTANCE WITH:

lOA, with over 73 local member congregations, has been providing financial and other support to Central Virginians for over 30 years.

If your faith community is not a member, consider joining us!

Utility Cut Offs • Eviction Notices • First Month’s Rent • Utility Deposits • Groceries • Toiletry Items • Furniture • Programs/Counseling for Local Inmates • Vision Programs • Home Repairs for the Elderly, Disabled and Veterans

We give help, and we also have a large database of other organizations that provide help.

When people in need call you for assistance, we can save you time when you refer them to lOA, knowing that we are knowledgeable of all assistance opportunities.

www.interfaithoutreach.org ioa@ntelos.net

The Youth of Patrick Henry Boys & Girls Homes Wish All A Joyous Christmas!!!

Our Vision is to meet the needs of every child before us, resulting in the maximum impact for that child, in the shortest time possible, in the most efficient way possible, always in a loving and professional manner.

Patrick Henry Family Services 860 Red Hill Road Brookneal, Virginia 24528 www.patrickhenry.org (434) 376-2006

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1010 Miller Park Square, Lynchburg, VA 24501 (434) 846-8467, www.unitedwaycv.org

A Focus on Education Readiness

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Established: Originally founded as the Community Chest, United Way of Central Virginia has been serving the region since 1922 to address the community needs through fundraising and human service planning activities. The United Way is governed by a volunteer Board of Directors representing various sectors of the Central Virginia Community.

The organization undergoes an independent audit and meets the United Way World Wide membership standards each year to ensure quality and proper fiscal management.

Mission: To mobilize the compassionate power of our ithin minutes of entering the United Way of Central Virginia’s community to improve the quality of lives in Central Virginia administrative office, I am singing “Happy Birthday” to a United Way employee alongside several of her coworkers, Key People: United Way Board of Directors, staff and all of whom are complete strangers to me. It is a somewhat absurd and numerous volunteers. completely enjoyable experience. As we sing, I notice that these women Volunteer Opportunities: United Way Board, Campaign wear their smiles so comfortably, with such ease, that it occurs to me that Cabinet, Allocation Committee, Special Events, Community these are women who are used to smiling. I think to myself that they must Impact Committees, Day-of-Caring, helping partner agencies genuinely love their jobs. and numerous internal opportunities.

As I tour the office and speak with United Way of Central Virginia President and CEO Marie Martin, I realize that my first impression is correct. The positivity is palpable as we walk by offices and hear several kind and reassuring voices talking on telephones; we do not linger as we pass, but I can make out the words “eviction” and “help.” Martin Martin and I then head to Lynchburg’s City Hall, where she becomes visibly moved as she explains that these employees are working and United Way of Central Virginia Vice President of Resource United Way’s 2-1-1 hotline, a free service that connects people to the Development Lisa Meriwether present the initiative to representatives resources they need as they deal with a variety of issues and transitions. from all departments of the Lynchburg City workforce.

Whether someone is facing eviction, needs The presentation begins with a help paying utility bills or wants to start his poignant and minimalistic cartoon or her own small business, 2-1-1 operators video depicting two children whose do their best to refer that individual to an paths diverge greatly due to their organization that can help. disparate opportunities for education “When I hear the women on 2-1-1,” readiness: one succeeds and the other Martin explained with pride, “I know struggles, time after time, to stay afloat. we’re going to make a difference in these Sobering statistics about disadvantaged people’s lives.” children are creatively interwoven The 2-1-1 service has been an integral into the animation. According to the part of all United Way divisions for years, video, “66 percent of kids who can’t as have other programs that support three read by the end of third grade are major issues: education, health and income. destined for jail or welfare” and “90 These programs will continue to be a vital percent of job opportunities are lost if part of the local nonprofit’s work, but Jamie [the fictional child in the video] according to Martin, the focus is shifting drops out” of school. At the end of the from programs to the issues themselves. video, there is a literal chasm between “We feel that our donors need to see the the two children, and the United Way results of their donations, and this shift will logo appears as a bridge between facilitate that,” Martin said. them. The disadvantaged child crosses The first issue on the docket is education the bridge to join the other child, and readiness, which entails working directly the video ends with Central Virginia with children from birth to kindergarten and school superintendents pledging President and CEO Marie Martin is a visible face in the Lynchburg community for her work with United Way. their parents to ensure that the children have their participation in and support of mastered or are on track to master basic the Education Readiness Initiative. skills. Among these skills, which are outlined in a widely-distributed Looking around the room, I could tell from the looks on everyone’s United Way handout, are “personal care; following simple directions; faces that all were deeply moved. speaking clearly; counting to ten or higher; identifying some letters, Martin closes the presentation with a twinkle in her eye and a shapes and colors; gripping a pencil,” and so on. Martin notes that the confident smile: “We know that this is a hefty goal, but we also know Education Readiness Initiative “starts at the root and builds a foundation” that we’re not doing this alone. We can do it together.” for the ultimate goal of 90 percent of children in Central Virginia reading at third grade proficiency by the end of third grade, by 2025.

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Last year, with the assistance of our dedicated volunteers, provided more than 60,000 meals to people of all ages in the Lynchburg area.

Nourishing Body and Spirit for 40 Years.

Meals on Wheels of Greater Lynchburg receives no state or federal funding and is entirely supported locally.

With good nutrition and our safety checks, Meals on Wheels enables people to stay at home and out of institutions longer.

Meals on Wheels provides short-term, emergency and long-term service to the homebound community with no waiting lists.

Last year, with the assistance of our dedicated volunteers, provided more than 60,000 meals to people of all ages in the Lynchburg area.

Meals on Wheels of Greater Lynchburg receives no state or federal funding and is entirely supported locally.

With good nutrition and our safety checks, Meals on Wheels enables people to stay at home and out of institutions longer.

Call us today to request services for you or your loved one. www.mealsonwheelslynchburg.org

434-847-0796

“I was losing weight and afraid to turn on the stove.

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efore you even reach the back room at The White Hart, you can hear them—the ambient noise of female conversation and the cooing of a baby. Inside, 11 women and one baby girl encircle a round table, ready to meet as a volunteer staff and explain this ever-evolving resource they offer to the local community called The Motherhood Collective (TMC).

“We saw a desperate need not just in this community but in communities around the country for education, for support and nurturing. … Our target audience is women trying to conceive through mothers of preschoolers,” Executive Director Lauren Barnes said.

Barnes’ passion and brainchild was born out a need she became aware of when pregnant with her own daughter—a need for women to surround and support each other through the beautiful but often chaotic and confusing periods of preconception, pregnancy and early childhood. Having lost her own mother before her daughter, Beatrice, was born, Barnes deeply resonated with other women in similar situations, those were new to town or far from or out of touch with their family unit. So, she did what many dare not do—she chased her dream of connecting women through a forum that provides support, friendship and expertise from fellow mothers and professionals around the area.

With the partnership of a local childbirth educator, Barnes soon had little trouble attracting moms of all kinds and the group officially began meeting in “Café” forums in January 2011. Within a year of its conception, however, it was obvious that this fledgling program needed bigger wings.

“It made sense that instead of doing ‘the café this’ and ‘the café that’ that we should become more of a collective, so we rebranded in 2012 as The Motherhood Collective,” Barnes explained.

On Christmas Eve of 2013, the program finally received an extra special gift—their 501(c)3 designation. Since then, TMC’s programs have grown quickly and now include “Bump Clubs” a social media platform to connect expectant mothers, Grief Support Groups for women experiencing infertility, miscarriage and child loss, Playgroups, the Café Express to connect working mothers and those unable to attend weekday events, and Postpartum and Perinatal Mood Disorders support groups.

“We pride ourselves on offering peer-to-peer support,” Erica Wolfe, Small Groups Coordinator and Panel Moderator, said. “We aren’t experts, we are just moms and hopefully friends of these people who are coming to our different programs, so while we are partnering with experts, we are just trying to provide safe places for different reasons.”

As the women around the table relay stories of those in the community who have been impacted by TMC, each also tells the story of why they volunteer their time to the nonprofit. There’s Jen Douglas, a Grief Group Leader, who has been trying for four years to conceive and found a loving, encouraging community in TMC. PR Coordinator Bethany Gail tells of being pregnant and virtually alone in rural Massachusetts before moving to Lynchburg, and finding support online through TMC blog. Jilayne Luckey took the support and education she received following a difficult post-partum

Established: The Motherhood Cafés began in 2010 as a meeting of mothers coming together in an effort to grow, learn, and develop community as mothers. In July 2012, the cafés re-birthed into what is now known as The Motherhood Collective—a nonprofit that offers cafés twice a month, as well as a multitude of additional programs.

Mission: Nurture the Mother to Grow the Child.

Key People: Executive Director Lauren Barnes, Managing Director Maria Hayden and whole staff of volunteers.

Volunteer Opportunities: “Everyone who works with The Motherhood Collective is a volunteer. We are always in need of helping hands and extra supplies (from toilet paper to muffins) for our Cafés. If you are interested in helping volunteer, fill out our Volunteer Form at www.themotherhoodcollective.org/about/volunteer, or donate on our website www.themotherhoodcollective.org.”

period and now pours that compassionate energy into leading a Postpartum and Perinatal Mood Disorders support group.

“What I like to see is, at the end of a support group meeting the moms leave with laughter and a smile on their face,” Luckey said. “We’ve been able to educate and let them know that they’re not alone but then bring some joy into their life too and know that they can have those laughs and they can leave on a positive note. I really enjoy that.”

In 2015, TMC will embrace yet another opportunity to reach the community through a grant and partnership opportunity with the Virginia Department of Health to host an educational experience for underserved women in the community. The programs will focus on breastfeeding support and early motherhood education, according to Managing Director Maria Hayden.

“We have spent the last two years honing in on our specific niche and focus in our community. To help fill the needs surrounding motherhood, we have created needed programs and connected women to additional resources already in existence. As 2015 approaches, we are excited to continue fleshing out our vision and mission by collaborating with others within this community who believe strongly in getting all women the education and support that they need and deserve,” Hayden said.

For Barnes, the reward of all the effort comes in the form of stories from other women in the community who have been empowered and nurtured by TMC. She relays a story of a mother of twins who recently ran up to her and another volunteer as they were out in the community: “She just … embraced us both and said, ‘You don’t know how much your organization has meant to me.’ She had only been to a few programs, but she said that what we were able to do for her through her pregnancy and through her intense post-partum period with our education and our support was invaluable to her. She said that she was enthusiastically embraced in the different programs she attended and that we made her feel confident in her ability to mother. And that’s the whole point. Lynchburg needs stories like this. We need strong mothers. The Motherhood Collective is honored to be playing some small part in the health and well-being of women and children in this city.”

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More Top Nonprofits 6) Rush Homes

11) Miller Home of Lynchburg

7) Red Hill Patrick Henry National Memorial

12) Living Bread Ministries

Rush Homes provides affordable and accessible rental housing opportunities to people with disabilities and low incomes in the greater Lynchburg region. www.rushhomes.org

The Red Hill Patrick Henry National Memorial is devoted to education and historic preservation of Patrick Henry’s last home and burial place in Brookneal, VA, as a historic site and museum. www.redhill.org

8) Lynchburg Humane Society A private, nonprofit organization that cares for lost and homeless animals. www.lynchburghumanesociety.org

9) Meals on Wheels

Meals on Wheels delivers meals to individuals at home who are unable to purchase or prepare their own meals. www.mealsonwheelslynchburg.org

10) Freedom 4/24

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The purpose of the Miller Home is provide short term or long term care and guidance to non-delinquent girls, ages 4-21, who cannot live with their own families. www.millerhomeoflynchburg.org

Living Bread Ministries’ mission is to plant churches among the global poor and equip them to care for their communities. www.livingbread.org

13) YWCA of Central Virginia At the Y, strengthening community is their cause.

A gift to the Y will have a meaningful, enduring impact right in your own neighborhood. www.lynchburgymca.org

14) Lynchburg Daily Bread

The Daily Bread provides meals to those in need seven days a week in downtown Lynchburg. www.lynchburgdailybread.com

15) Dance Theatre of Lynchburg

Dance Theatre of Lynchburg is a nonprofit organization that makes participating in the arts possible for underprivileged children. www.dancelynchburg.org

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Local Charities List The winners of our inaugural Giving Back Awards are certainly not the only charities to consider giving to this holiday season. Here is a small snapshot of other local nonprofits that are also donation-worthy: Adult Care Center of Central Virginia The Adult Care Center provides a safe and secure setting in which frail adults receive health monitoring and supervision during daytime hours. Caregivers receive respite from care giving and support from a professional staff. (434) 847-8111, director@adultcarecenter.org American Red Cross, Historic Virginia Chapter Provides these services: Armed Forces Emergency messaging and financial assistance; Bloodmobiles; Adult CPR, First Aid, and AED classes; Lifeguard training; Disaster preparedness classes, Disaster assistance for families who are victims of natural disasters or single and multi-family house fires. (434) 845-1234, www.historicvaredcross.org.

The Arc of Central Virginia The Arc is a support program for adults who are challenged with intellectual disabilities. The program mainly provides day support but also runs a camp during the summer months for youth with the same challenges. (434) 845-4071, www.arcofcva.org.

The Awareness Garden Foundation The Awareness Garden was established in 2003, at the Ed Page entrance to the James River Heritage Trail.

The garden honors the families, friends and caregivers whose lives have been touched by cancer. The Awareness Garden Foundation develops and maintains an endowment to fund the scholarships for those affected by cancer or interested in cancer related work. www.awarenessgarden.com.

Be a Santa to a Senior Be a Santa to a Senior is a community service program sponsored by Home Instead Senior Care that gives back to deserving seniors during the holiday season. (434) 385-0321, www.beasantatoasenior.com.

Bedford Community Christmas Station The 4th annual community-wide, allvolunteer Christmas nonprofit assistance program that relies on donations of funds and merchandise to provide clothes, toys, gifts, household items and food to prescreened needy families. (540) 492-0382, www.bedfordchristmas.com.

Beds & Britches, Etc. (B.A.B.E.) A prenatal care incentive program that encourages pregnant women to seek prenatal care during the first trimester.

Open to women with Medicaid coverage, women with household incomes lower than $30,000 or pregnant teens.

(434) 947-5043.

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central Virginia, Inc. The mission of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Central Virginia is to make a positive impact in the lives of children and youth and to assist them in becoming confident, competent and caring individuals by providing them with caring and responsible adult mentors.

(434) 528-0400, www.bigcva.org.

Blue Ridge Pregnancy Center The Blue Ridge Pregnancy Center is a nonprofit ministry aimed at providing a pro-life alternative to women with unplanned pregnancies. (434) 528-4321, www.blueridgepc.org.

Central Virginia Area Agency on Aging The mission of the CVAAA is to provide supportive services such as meals, transportation, care management, homemaker assistance, elder rights advocacy and legal services for age 60 and older citizens. (434) 385-9070, www.cvaaa.com.

Challenged Sports Exchange Providing 12 months of activities for people with mental and physical handicaps in Lynchburg and the surrounding areas. (434) 239-8226, barb@barbfranz.com.

Children’s Home Society Offers confidential pregnancy/birth parent counseling services; provides temporary foster care for children; handles adoption services for prospective adoptive parents, including home studies, adoptive placements and post placement supervision. 1-800-625-2445, www.chsva.org.

Disabled American Veterans Chapter 8 For over 80 years, the Disabled American Veterans has helped disabled veterans and their families through various means. (434) 851-6316, www.dav.org.

The Free Clinic of Central Virginia The Free Clinic of Central Virginia, Inc.’s mission is to provide primary medical, nursing, dental, pharmaceutical and educational services to those in Central Virginia who do not have the resources to obtain this basic health care. Eligibility is determined by household income level for persons without insurance, Medicaid or Medicare for the services being requested. (434) 847-5866, www.fccv.net.

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LO C ALC H A R ITI ES Gleaning for the World Gleaning for the World brings life-saving support to communities in critical need throughout the world by providing surplus medical and essential supplies to humanitarian projects worldwide.

(434) 993-3600 or Toll Free 1-877-913-9212, www.gftw.org.

God’s Pit Crew God’s Pit Crew is a nonprofit, faith based group of over 100 volunteers who make up a disaster relief team in order to fill needs and bring healing to hurting people.

(434) 836-4472, www.godspitcrew.org.

Habitat for Humanity, Inc. Altavista Area/Campbell County Habitat for Humanity, Inc. is a nonprofit organization that works in partnership with industries, businesses, communities and people from all walks of life, to provide decent housing for the economically disadvantaged.

(434) 309-2688.

The HIS Vision Project The HIS Vision Project was launched

by Humbly I Serve to recycle used eyeglasses to someone in need. The vision of the project is to eradicate needless visual impairment and blindness in impoverished areas. (434) 239-0081, www.hisvisionproject.com.

HumanKind Human Kind, formerly the Presbyterian Homes & Family Services (PHFS) and the Family Alliance, provide programs in communities throughout Virginia to help strengthen children, adults and families for success through nurture, healing and encouragement. (434) 384-3131, www.hkind.org.

Hunters for the Hungry Hunters for the Hungry provides venison from hunters to food banks and other nonprofit organizations.

1-800-352-HUNT, www.h4hungry.org.

Interfaith Outreach Association An interfaith organization that uses its resources to provide help and hope through emergency assistance and other programs in response to needs of individuals and families in our community. (434) 846-6098, www.interfaithoutreach.org.

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Jubilee Center Jubilee Center provides mentoring and tutoring opportunities for the area’s at-risk youth, vocational training opportunities for adults, community events and health screening clinics, recreational opportunities and programming which promote family stability. (434) 845-0433, www.jubileefamily.org.

Junior Achievement of Central Virginia JA’s purpose is to bring role models from the local business community into the classroom to deliver educational programs about free enterprise, economics, and personal finance, enhanced by their own real world experiences. (804) 217-8855, www.jatoday.org.

Make a Wish Foundation of Greater Virginia The Make-A-Wish Foundation is an organization that grants wishes to children between 2 ½ years to 18 years old with life-threatening medical conditions. (804) 217-9474, www.va.wish.org.

Miriam’s House Miriam’s House is a transitional housing program for women and children. The women and children who come to Miriam’s House are offered a comfortable, nurturing environment with support, education, and opportunity to build strong, self-sustaining families.

(434) 847-1101, www.miriamshouseprogram.org.

National Kidney Foundation of the Virginias The National Kidney Foundation of the Virginias is a nonprofit organization that works to promote early detection and prevention of kidney disease.

(540) 562-0992, www.kidneyva.org.

Operation Christmas Child Operation Christmas Child delivers shoe boxes with toys and other gifts to those in need overseas. (410) 772-7360, www.samaritanspurse.org.

Patrick Henry Boys & Girls Plantation Patrick Henry Boys & Girls Plantation is

a nonprofit, family of homes in Central Virginia that serves as refuge for children experiencing difficult family situations.

(434) 376-2006, www.patrickhenry.org.

Proven Men Ministries Since 1999, Proven Men has helped thousands of men and families struggling with addiction to pornography.

Today, Proven Men is headquartered in Lynchburg. (301) 515-4028, www.provenmen.org.

The RIMLAND Center The RIMLAND Center, founded by Dr. Elizabeth Mumper, is both a general pediatric practice and an autism treatment facility that relies on donations to support their future goals. (434) 528-9075, www.rimlandcenter.com.

Salvation Army Lynchburg Corps The Salvation Army provides a variety of programs and services for those in need, including emergency shelter and a soup kitchen. Around Christmas they sponsor the popular Holiday Angel Tree program to provide gifts for children age 12 and younger and for seniors age 62 and above. (434) 845-5939, www.salvationarmy.org.

Toys for Tots Toys for Tots is a program run by the United States Marine Corps Reserve which collects new, unwrapped toys each year, and distributes them as Christmas gifts to needy children in the community.

(434) 237-2206.

Virginia Dare “Flotilla for Toys” Boat Parade This is the 16th annual toy drive for Lake Christian Ministries coordinated by Virginia Dare cruises. The parade features boats decorated for the holidays and leaves port from the Virginia Dare Marina on November 30. (540) 297-7100 or 800-721-3273, www.vadarecruises.com.

Virginia Legal Aid Society, Inc. Virginia Legal Aid Society’s mission is to resolve serious legal problems of lowincome people, promote economic and family stability, reduce poverty through effective legal assistance and champion equal justice. (434) 376-6915, www.vlas.org.

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Community news DOWNTOWN HOLIDAY FESTIVITIES AIM TO DRAW A CROWD Festivity seekers have much to discover downtown this holiday season. On November 21, from 5:30 to 9 p.m., ladies will descend upon downtown for a night out with the girls, during the Downtown Diva Crawl. Begin the crawl at The Lynchburg Community market to kick off the evening of shopping and dining. Business will provide incentives to entice shoppers and DJ’s will be positioned in a six-block area along Main Street to keep visitors crawling from 17th to 5th Streets, Main to Jefferson Streets. A free trolley will be running to take ladies around to the participating businesses.

Holiday Traditions at the Lynchburg Community Market will once again delight visitors this year on December 6, 13 and 20.

Special events on these dates include Horse & Carriage Rides, visits with Santa in his own special Santa Tent and the Grinch wandering the streets of Downtown. For more information about the Downtown Diva Crawl and Holiday Traditions, visit www.

DowntownLynchburg.com.

Christmas spirit will fill the air downtown on December 7, from 5 to 7 p.m. for the annual Lynchburg Christmas Parade. Hosted by the Retail Merchants Association, Lynchburg Living is proud to be a Presenting Sponsor of this event. This year’s theme is “A Season of Lights and Laughter,” and hundreds are expected to line Church and Main Streets downtown to witness two hours of marching bands, colorful floats, antique cars and motorcycle clubs, equestrian and military units, beauty queens, emergency vehicles and more.

The Craddock Terry Hotel Tree Lighting will take place immediately following the parade. For more details on the parade, visit www.LynchburgChristmasParade.com.

“CHEER”FUL FESTIVITIES COMING TO POPLAR FOREST Thomas Jefferson called wine “…a necessary of life with me.”

On November 15, from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m., thousands of like-minded vino lovers will gather at Poplar Forest for the sixth annual Thomas Jefferson Wine Festival.

Wines from 15 Virginia wineries will be available for tasting, as well as fare prepared by local food purveyors. Guests may shop the festival market brimming with works by local crafters and artisans and enjoy the musical entertainment. Thomas Jefferson, as portrayed by Bill Barker, and the renowned Virginia vintner Gabriele Rausse—who is credited as father of modern viniculture in Virginia—will engage in an off-the-cuff discussion about wine making in Virginia.

The Thomas Jefferson Wine Festival is held inside large, heated tents, rain or shine. Tasting tickets, which include a complimentary wine glass, are $20 in advance, $25 at the door. Guests must be 21 or older. Valid ID required. Non-tasting tickets are $10 for ages 12+ (ages 11 and under are free). Visit thomasjeffersonwinefestival.com to order tickets.

Then, on December 5, 11, 18, 20 at 5:30 p.m., visitors are invited to experience candlelit tours in the octagon house, decorated for

the holidays as it might have looked to Mr. Jefferson’s own guests.

Learn how the Jefferson family might have spent their holidays, through entertaining anecdotes gathered from Jefferson’s diaries and letters.

Admission is $20 per person. Reservations are required. Call the Museum Shop at (434) 534-8120 to reserve a place. For more information about the events at Thomas Jefferson’s Poplar Forest, visit poplarforest.org/events.

ANNUAL WREATH LAYING PLANNED AT OLD CITY CEMETERY The 7th Annual Wreaths Across America (WAA) ceremony and wreath laying event will be held at the historic Old City Cemetery in Lynchburg on Saturday, December 13, at noon. The event is sponsored by local Daughters of the American Revolution, all of whom are descended from patriots of the 1776-1783 war for America’s freedom. This year’s Master of Ceremony will be Colonel Jeffrey Tuomala, U. S. Marines, retired. Special music will be provided by local singing artist Glenn Shelton. The public is invited to attend the event and is encouraged to be present in front of the Chapel by 11:45 a.m., as the gates will be closed to through traffic at Noon.

The 2013 WAA ceremony and laying of 1,008 wreaths on the graves of veterans in the cemetery was recognized at State Conference and at Continental Congress by the Virginia and National Societies of the Daughters of the American Revolution as a First Place Outstanding Commemorative Event. The three-fold purpose of WAA is to not forget the men and women who fought for liberty and freedom in every war beginning with the American Revolutionary War and continuing to those lost in current military engagements around the world; to honor the current military members, veterans and their families; and to teach children about the cost of freedom.

For more information about the event or to purchase a wreath, contact Elaine Roy at (434) 384-2347 or Penny Swisher at (434) 237-3354.

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A Holiday Memory That Truly Lives On How to plant your own living Christmas tree

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Rainfrost Nursery in Lynchburg offers a variety of balled Christmas trees that can easily make the transition from the living room to the yard.

Now everyone loves a Christmas tree; the twinkly lights, the lovely fragrance, the memories that hang from the branches and the surprises that wait underneath.

Wouldn’t it be grand to keep that spirit all year round? Perhaps this year, a live Christmas tree can help make family memories that can be transplanted outside for a lifetime of joy while reaping environmental benefits as well.

The best trees to select for a living tree include white pines, scotch pines, blue spruce and Colorado spruce.

These grow well at Central Virginia elevations and make great privacy screens, property boundary markers and shade trees. Fraser firs, while popular cut trees, do not grow well at Central Virginia’s lower elevations though those residing in the Blue Ridge can likely do well with one. Once the desired species is chosen, consider its eventual site in the landscape. Read tree labels carefully for mature size and sun level needs and planting instructions. Save yourself some labor later by digging its hole now (before the ground freezes to come!) and fill it with leaves or straw. Doing so will encourage beneficial ground insects to come to the surface as well as allowing for some composting of organic materials.

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Doing a little prep work in and around the hole in your yard where you plan to plant the tree after the holidays will speed up the process and help ensure a thriving tree for years to come.

Live trees are presented in two ways. The first is potted, which makes care quite easy. Simply treat it like a houseplant and water when the soil is dry (insert a finger up to the first knuckle—dry? Water it. Moist? Check again in a day or so). The second is balled and burlapped (B&B’d), in which the tree is field grown and its root ball is dug up with its original soil and encased in burlap. Such trees should be placed in a large tub and watered when dry by the standards of the previously mentioned test. However, it is vital that neither type be allowed to stand in water; drowning live roots is as harmful as letting them dry out.

Once the season is over and it’s time to reclaim the house from the holiday spirit, the undecorated tree should be placed in a garage or a porch or other sheltered place to re-acclimate to its outdoor life. Give it a good hosing down to eliminate any dust accumulated on its branches as well as a thorough watering. Allow it to shelter for a week before transplanting. If the weather or ground conditions prevent transplanting, simply continue to care for it with water and sunlight until conditions improve. If more than a second week goes by, move the tree to a more open spot so it can begin strengthening its branches and trunk through movement with the wind, as well as photosynthesize with sunlight.

Give the family the gift of a live tree this year—it’s so much more than a tree.

It’s a reduced carbon footprint, a lovely landscape element and branches on which to hang memories.

Nan Carmack lives and gardens in Evington on Little Eden Farm, which she shares with her family and a variety of critters.

Additional care tips for your live Christmas tree: • Place in a sunny spot, near a window.

• Set the thermostat at or below 70°F—live trees prefer a cooler house.

• Fire is as much a danger for living trees as cut trees, so be careful!

• Limit its indoor placement from 1 to 3 weeks; much more will make it difficult to transplant.

For the Birds Once transplanted outside, consider creating a new holiday tradition of decorating a tree for the birds!

Pinecones rolled in suet and peanut butter, bird feeders, apples and oranges hung from twine will invite a wide variety of feathered ornaments to delight throughout the season! This fun family project can be done any time.

Pinecone Suet Recipe: 1 cup crunchy peanut butter 1 cup cornmeal 2 cups birdseed 1 cup raisins Pinecones Twine (any kind of natural twine— jute, hemp, even raffia) Prepare pinecones by tying a length of twine around the stem-end.

Combine raisins and birdseed and spread in an even layer on a cookie sheet or other flat pan. Combine peanut butter and cornmeal with a mixer and apply the mixture to pinecones with a knife or simply dip into the mixture. Then roll the pinecone through raising and birdseed and hang. When the birds are finished, the empty cones will eventually fall off and decompose, as the entire project is organic.

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1 | Alex & Ani stackable bracelets. Expandable bangles available in precious metals or Penelope’s signature Russian Gold and Russian Silver finishes and adorned with sacred symbols and stones. $28-$48.

Available at Penelope Jewelry, 120-E Simons Run, Lynchburg. www.penelope-jewelry.com.

2 | Amethyst Sterling Silver Ring, $105.

Available at Stones ’n’ Bones, 18013 Forest Rd., Graves Mill Shopping Center, Forest. www.stonesnbones.net.

3 | Basking In the Glow. Ladies Gift Basket, $69.95. Available at London’s Salt Spa, 6152 Thomas Jefferson Rd., Forest. www.londonsaltspa.com.

4 | Bejeweled Gifts. Green Wire Wrap Set, $36, and Turquoise & Silver Croquet Necklace/ Earrings Set, $105, by Spearman Artisanry. Available at Lynchburg Community Market, www.facebook.com/ LynchburgCommunityMarket.

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2 | Bright Boots. Handmade in different patterns and styles, $275. Available at Shay’s Unique Gifts, 1102 Commerce St., Lynchburg. www.facebook.com/ShaysUniqueGifts.

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Gift certificate for any amount from Peakland Pilates, 4327 Boonsboro Rd., Lynchburg. www.peaklandpilates.com.

4 | Glove Love. Helga’s Fingerless Gloves, $25. Available at Lynchburg Community Market, www.facebook.com/ LynchburgCommunityMarket.

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5 | Glow Ology. Environmentally friendly, 100% biodegradable and organic, hypoallergenic and recyclable. Made in USA. Hand washes, lotions, balms and body butters in four fragrances, $13-$23. Available at Accents Flags, Gifts, Home & Garden, 1716 Main St., Lynchburg. Like them on Facebook.

6 | Iris Handpainted Ceramic Dinnerware. Microwave and dishwasher safe, ovenproof and lead free. $64 for set, $14-$24.50 for individual pieces. Available at Emerson Creek Pottery, 1068 Pottery Lane, Bedford. www.emersoncreekpottery.com.

7 | Lolita Glasses. Beautifully designed hand painted pilsner & wine glasses, $24.95-$27.99. Available at Divine Designs & Delights, 1045 Thomas Jefferson Rd., Suite 1D, Forest. www.divinedesignsanddelights.com.

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FOR HIM 1 | Absorbent Stoneware Car Coasters. Soak up spills and condensation from beverages and eliminate puddles in cup holders. Made in USA. Variety of themes. $2.50$4.00. Available at Accents Flags, Gifts, Home & Garden.

2 | Bottle Lamps. Choose from Crown, wine or other bottle styles. $20 and up. Available at Shay’s Unique Gifts, www.facebook.com/ShaysUniqueGifts.

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4 | Fight Club. Kickboxing gloves, kickboxing shorts and shirt, hand wraps. All items and one month unlimited kickboxing class, $99 at FEKS Martial Arts Center, 18478 Forest Rd, Forest. www.lynchburgkarate.com.

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5 | For The Chef. Himalayan Cooking Plate Basket $79.95.

Available at London’s Salt Spa, www.londonsaltspa.com.

6 | GoPro HERO4 Black camera. Features 4K30, 2.7K50 and 1080p120 video, 12MP photos up to 30 frames per second, built-in Wi-Fi and Bluetooth®, and Protune™ for photos and video. Waterproof to 131 feet. Available at Outdoor Trails, www.outdoortrails.com.

7 | Man Cave Essential. Lolita Pilsner Glasses, $27.99.

Available at Divine Designs & Delights, www.divinedesignsanddelights.com.

8 | Mountain Man Wear. Protect from the elements with allround mountain apparel, a packable jacket constructed using GORE-TEX® with Paclite technology. Arcteryx Beta LT Hybrid Men’s Jacket, $350. Available at Outdoor Trails, www.outdoortrails.com.

9 | Tiger Eye Sterling Silver Ring, $85. Available at Stones ’n’ Bones, www.stonesnbones.net.

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2 | Baby Doll Bed. Dolls and girls alike will flip over this handmade canopy bed, $99, by Shirley Carwile.

Available at Lynchburg Community Market, www.facebook.com/LynchburgCommunityMarket.

3 | Buggin’ Out. Bug in a Box, $1.49. Real Bug Jewelry, $8.95-$12.95. Available at Stones ’n’ Bones, www.stonesnbones.net.

4 | Elf On the Shelf Ornaments. Name your favorite ornament after your elf at home. $13 each.

Available at Accents Flags, Gifts, Home & Garden.

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Available at Divine Designs & Delights, www.divinedesignsanddelights.com.

7 | Light Their Night. Child’s night light, $41.95. Available at London’s Salt Spa, www.londonsaltspa.com.

8 | Personalized Baby Plate, Cup and Bowl Set. Sized just right for little hands, this set of ceramic dinnerware can be personalized with your child's name and birth date. Set, $49.50 or $17-$17.50 per piece. Available at Emerson Creek Pottery, www.emersoncreekpottery.com.

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Available at Farm Basket, www.thefarmbasket.com.

10 | Warm Winter Wear. Patagonia Boy’s Better Sweater Jacket, $139; The North Face Girl’s Reversible Jacket, $110. Available at Outdoor Trails, www.outdoortrails.com.

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Available at Divine Designs & Delights, www.divinedesignsanddelights.com.

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Available at Shay’s Unique Gifts, www.facebook.com/ ShaysUniqueGifts.

3 | Cranberry Ceramic Pottery. Handpainted Teapot, $39.50.

Pitcher, $33. Available at Emerson Creek Pottery, www.emersoncreekpottery.com.

4 | Customizable Bullfrog Spa. Bullfrog Spas are the world’s only luxury hot tubs equipped with the patented JetPak® Therapy System, which delivers incredible power, maximum massage versatility, and the ability to upgrade your spa’s jetting anytime. Unique SpaDesign software allows you to design your own Bullfrog Spa, starting around $4,995 (includes local delivery, starter kit and basic installation). Choose your JetPaks, colors, accessories and custom options today at Perry Pools in Lynchburg, 6000 Fort Ave., Lynchburg or at www.perrypools.com.

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Available at London’s Salt Spa, www.londonsaltspa.com.

7 | I Love Lamp. White Selenite Lamp, $64.95. Orange Salt Lamp, $16.95. Available at Stones ’n’ Bones, www.stonesnbones.net.

8 | Wine & Wicks. REWINED repurposed glass premium natural sox wax candles, handmade in Charleston, SC. A variety of wine-inspired scents. Shown: Riesling Candle, $30. Available at Farm Basket, www.thefarmbasket.com.

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2 | Lynchburg Linens. Claim your hometown with the “Lynchburg, Virginia. No Place Like Home” pillow wrap, $22.50. Available at The Farm Basket, 2008 Langhorne Rd., Lynchburg. www.thefarmbasket.com.

3 | “The Lynchburg” Billiard Table. Olhausen has created a one-of-a-kind pool table, which features Brazilian slate, and a laser engraved seal with artwork depicting the iconic Blue Ridge Mountains and the Lynchburg name in the center. Purchase one for $1,995 during the Season Sale (see store for details: limited to in-stock inventory). Price includes local delivery, installation, choice of Hainsworth Accu-Guard cloth and a start-up accessory package (balls, cues, cover, bridge and rack). Designed exclusively for, and sold only at, Perry Pools. www.perrypools.com.

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5 | Soap Hope. Shanta’s Soaps Sampler Bucket, handmade from local goats milk, $8.

Available at Lynchburg Community Market, www.facebook.com/ LynchburgCommunityMarket.

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6 | Trail Ready. Get a jump on your next hike with this hand-crafted walking stick made from a Tobacco drying stick, $25, by Sticks & Stones.

Available at Lynchburg Community Market, www.facebook.com/ LynchburgCommunityMarket.

7 | Vino Stopper. Stop the flow of your favorite wine with this handmade stopper, $24, by Melt with Me Creations. Available at Lynchburg Community Market, www.facebook.com/ LynchburgCommunityMarket.

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C h r istm as tr e es are grow n in all 50 st at e s including H a waii and Alaska. – w w w.hist or y.co m

Taken to N or th America by G e r m an set tle rs as e arly as the 17th centur y, Christmas tre es were the height of f ashion by the 19th centur y. – w w w.britannica.com

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Unique Gifts, Seasonal Wreaths & Decor, Wine & Beer Purses, Jewelry, UVA/VT Accessories, Gift Baskets for All Occasions

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Gifts for the Holidays the holidays are right around the corner, we have very unique gifts in, especially for christmas giving ideas. gift shopping and gift certificates available, as well as a great place for your holiday parties.

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77 m illion Christmas tre es are plant e d e ach ye ar. – w w w.histor y.com

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In search of a special gift for this holiday season?

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33 m illion Christ mas tre es are sold in t he U.S. e ac h ye ar.

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84% of those in the U.S. w ho purchase a tre e cho ose a pr e- cut o n e . - w w w.statistc brain.com

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hen Brian and Wendy Wilkerson set out to build their Appomattox home, Wendy knew that she wanted to recreate her grandmother’s farm house, but with Christmas in mind. The house plans were drawn to mirror the original footprint of her grandparents’ home, which held fond memories for Wendy throughout her lifetime, especially around the holidays.

“The most fun I have had decorating was when I did trees with my family growing up at Granny’s every Thanksgiving,” Wendy said. “Growing up, I remember helping my aunts make ornaments for Granny Hackett’s tree one Thanksgiving. We would have Thanksgiving lunch, then the Christmas tree would be up by dinner time leftovers.”

Since the family still owns her grandparents’ property, the Wilkersons were able to scour documents and paperwork and look generations back at the history associated with the original home located in nearby Evergreen, Virginia. The house was inherited by her grandfather, from his mother, Wendy’s great-grandmother. This piece of family history has now been reawakened in the Wilkersons’ own memorable way. From the outside, the house is a replica of her grandparents’ home, but the Wilkersons’ interior was designed by Wendy to be in keeping with the time period, since much was changed inside throughout the years.

“I love all things that are old,” Wendy said.

“We wanted our home to look as though it could have been built here over 100 years ago, so we focused on using materials that look as though they came from the site. We have a walnut grove in the front yard so we had random width, random length walnut floors custom milled in Amherst.”

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Wendy's grandmother's farmhouse, shown in photos, was the inspiration for building their new house with an old soul.

reclaimed items. The consistency of simplicity is a theme throughout their house, exemplified in the clean lines of the window moldings, custom 7-inch baseboards and 9-foot ceilings.

The one architectural feature identically replicated with the original home was the staircase. Wendy took precision to make sure it was exactly duplicated, which as she said, made her “feel so involved” during the building process.

“When we were building the house, we drove there to take measurements,” Wendy said. “Everyone working on the house had to go to see the original.”

From the handrails to the base rail, including the trim, they literally measured and pieced together each detail of her grandmother’s staircase so precisely that her mother, who grew up in the original home, thought they had disassembled all the trim work from her Granny’s house.

“The staircase is such a good replica of Granny’s house,” Wendy said. “I have had dozens of people think this was a renovation. It’s really funny how excited I get about that. I even had a man who grew up in this area think that he had somehow missed the house all these years.”

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HOME TOP: The light and bright kitchen was designed with not only aesthetics in mind, but also with the spot for the room's Christmas tree. MIDDLE: Wendy in front of her farmhouse. BOTTOM: Decorations on the rail of the staircase, which was created to be an exact replica of the one in Wendy's grandmother's house.

“Honest to goodness, the house really was built with Christmas in mind,” Wendy said.

One such example is in a hidden, yet important detail. All of the electrical was run in such a way that Christmas tree lights and window candles could easily be switched on and off by a bank of switches in their master closet. When they hit the switches, all of the lights can go off throughout the house, which Wendy said makes it so much easier during the holidays than turning each switch off one at a time.

As they were building, they also thought ahead in their kitchen as to where the Christmas tree would be placed. It was planned so that it fit perfectly into a corner. They also paid attention when designing the house to their need for storage and organization, especially during the holidays. In the basement, they designed what they call the “Christmas Tree Room,” which is a space built specifically just to store the Christmas trees—all 12 of them! Because of this forethought, Wendy is now able to keep a tight grasp organizationally on all of their decorations, granting easy access to them the next year.

She says strategic, organized packing is also essential. Each tree has its own labeled red and green plastic tub in which she neatly stows away all of the items that adorn that individual tree, making it much easier the next year to find things. She also individually stores gift wrap, stair garland and other decorations in separate bins for easy access. By stacking the tubs, she maximizes vertical space.

Since the Wilkersons have the luxury of space in their “Christmas Tree Room,” they leave all the lights strung on the trees and keep them standing in the storage closet. Wilkerson said that if the tree gets stuffed in a box each year, then it will wear out quickly. So, her ability to keep lights strung and standing in the storage closet saves not only

wear and tear, but a lot of time as well. Wilkerson also noted that she does not use pre-lit trees because so often, sections of lights go out and according to her, “they don’t ever have enough lights.”

To keep her stress levels at a minimum each year, Wendy said she allows herself to quit when she wants to stop decorating. She has the ability to decorate 12 trees, which she says is a parallel to the Twelve Days of Christmas, but if for any reason that is too much to handle, she knows her limits and acknowledges that it’s a process that doesn’t require her to put it all up right away. She suggested to others who might feel overwhelmed by holiday decorating to “only do what brings you joy, whether it’s one beautiful nativity or a dozen Christmas trees.”

Typically, she kicks off the season with a marathon decorating session that spans two weekends in a row. Each year, Brian gets the two biggest trees in place for Wendy and then she spends the whole

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day watching Christmas movies while she adorns them. On average, she can decorate three to four trees per day. The rest she said, she pulls out when she can after work in the evenings, but she always decorates by zone and priority.

“I wouldn’t call it finished until everyone comes over for Christmas Eve,” she noted.

“It creates a welcome and it’s a way to reach out to friends and family. I wouldn’t do it just for myself. It’s nice to share the Christmas spirit with those who come.

The house is just prettier at Christmas.

We are a Christian family, which is a big part of it, so since it has an underlying purpose, it makes it more special.”

But Wendy doesn’t always stop with her own decorations; she has been known to decorate trees for friends, family, co-workers and even her church. Since she said she doesn’t pay retail for any of her holiday decorations—waiting for sales and searching for bargains each year— it has allowed her to grow her collection at a reasonable cost. >>

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HOME “I tend to pick up things in unexpected places like a hardware store where people might not expect to find Christmas jewels,” Wendy said. “I only buy things that I truly love and only if they fit in my budget, which is kept quite tight."

"People don’t know my trees are fake. I use artificial trees because I am allergic to trees and mold and having that many real trees would be a fire hazard," she explained. "To fool the eye, I incorporate many natural elements throughout the house. Brian will bring in magnolia, holly, cedar and pine branches from around our property.”

Whenever she introduces a new tree, Wendy finds seeks out an inspiration piece and then runs with that theme. With each of her 12 trees, a theme is carried forth. Among the themes: a Hokie tree, since Brian is a Virginia Tech grad, a Partridge in a Pear tree, a Lenox tree which started at a Christmas wedding shower before they were married, and an amber tree with hand-blown glass balls. A vintage tree that features colored lights and photographs of her nieces and nephews

and even a Charlie Brown tree all have made their way into their home at Christmas time. Wendy has also incorporated a burgundy and gold tree featuring butterflies and an angel from her father, as well as the jewel tree in their kitchen, which holds cracked glass balls in sapphire, emerald, ruby and gold. She even included a “Faith, Hope and Love tree,” which is reminiscent of the word engraved inside the couple’s engagement ring and wedding bands.

Their newest tree, and Brian’s favorite, is the “silver tree” as they fondly refer to it. It started because Wendy had an heirloom pewter ornament that belonged to her Granny Paulette and one to commemorate their son’s Christmas Day due date, but they didn’t fit

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While the home's 12 themed trees hold some temptation for the Wilkerson's young son, Van, his parents said he does a remarkable job at keeping his little hands off all that decor.

the theme of her other trees. Wendy then found mercury glass balls.

Since they looked old, she felt like they matched the era of the house and from there, inspiration struck. At that point, she continued to add items to the tree to layer it, until she felt it was done. The key, she said, is to have patience until the tree has enough of a collection to make an impact.

“The pewter ornaments needed a tree. I finally found them a home,” Wendy said. “I had them for years, but didn’t have a tree to showcase it on. I’ve been collecting for 15 years. One tree I’ve had since I was 10 years old.”

As parents to a young son named Van, the Wilkersons face new challenges as each year they are learning to adjust to the growing changes he brings to the home during the holidays. Wendy said she used to end her holiday decorating with the garland on the staircase, but after her first year with a 1-year-old, she started with the stairs to see how he’d react. Knowing he couldn’t reach it, she then put up a small tree that rests on an old steamer trunk. From there, she worked her way to the more elaborate trees that were in his reach, allowing Van to acclimate to the changing environment.

“Van would stay a respectful distance,” Wendy said. “With one little finger, he’d touch the tree. We started telling him to look, but not touch.

I also gave him his own stuffed nativity so he did have something he could play with. I skipped the candles in the windows this year because I knew we had enough boundaries to set with the trees.”

As a close knit family, the holidays, much like when she was a child at her Granny’s house, are an exciting time for the Wilkersons to share all that they have.

“When it’s cold and barren outside, it is such a joy to come home to warmth and beauty and to invite others to share that joy and the true spirit of the season with you,” Wendy said. “The house feels more like a home at Christmas. It’s so hopeful and pretty and there’s so much to appreciate at Christmas and I like for that to start in my own home. It’s all because of Christ and it’s my way of celebrating His birth. I like to celebrate and have that surround me. It’s a way of remembering and celebrating and keeping your mind focused on what’s important.”

Heather Cravens has nearly a decade of experience in the design industry, including owning Becoming Designs, an interior design consulting company specializing in Interior Redesign, Home Staging and Professional Organizing. In addition to serving clients and writing, Heather enjoys volunteering, serving at church and spending time with her husband and new baby boy. w w w. ly n c h b u r g l i v i n g . c o m

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Heather's Helpful Hints for Your Home: Wendy Wilkerson shared her best tips for decorating a Christmas tree. Let these inspire your holiday dĂŠcor: 1 | Affordability. Find the best tree you can afford. After-Christmas sales are a great time to find a high-quality tree, among other decorations, at a reasonable cost.

Make sure the tree you choose is thick and has a lot of branches.

2 | Load Up on Lights. Having enough lights is critical to the aesthetic. To get light all the way throughout the Christmas tree, string the lights from the front to the back of the branch near the trunk, rather than in a circular pattern around the tree, for maximum coverage.

3 | Stuffers & Fillers. Ribbon and stuffers fill out a tree. A wide, wired ribbon gives a lot of impact visually and clearly states a color theme. Start with stuffers to fill up space. Incorporate items such as poinsettias, curly willow, clumps of grapes, eucalyptus and packaging decorations, which all make great fillers.

Tuck them in the odd gaps and close to the trunk to fill in the holes.

4 | Feature Ornaments. These are the gems and jewels of ornaments and the feature and highlight of the tree.

Ornaments can be expensive, though, so showcase these in limited quantities.

5 | Top It Off with Specialty Items.

Garland, vintage beads or butterflies can be layered on top of the branches. These complement the theme and enhance the tree with an unexpected addition.

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Un-canning the I Classic Casserole Try this scratch-made green bean casserole for the holidays

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love holiday cooking. Whether I’m preparing a full menu for a family gathering or bringing a single dish to a potluck, there’s something peaceful and therapeutic about preparing food when you have plenty of time.

This year, spend some extra time on a classic holiday dish that tends to be overlooked. Green been casseroles can easily get a little dull, and with the main ingredients coming from a can, that’s not too surprising. Here’s an easy recipe for a flavorful, fresh green bean casserole, where nothing came out of a can, that looks good and tastes great.

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Green Bean Casserole 4 to 6 servings Ingredients Topping: 2 yellow onions 1/5 cup all-purpose flour 2 Tbsp panko bread crumbs 1 tsp kosher salt Casserole: 2 Tbsp unsalted butter 10 ounces sliced mushrooms Kosher salt and black pepper to taste 1 clove garlic, minced 1/4 tsp nutmeg 2 Tbsp all-purpose flour 1 pound green beans (from your local farmer!)

1 cup chicken broth 1 cup half-and-half Directions Preheat the oven to 475째F degrees.

Mix flour, panko and salt in a mixing bowl. Peel and slice the onions into rings and toss in flour mixture until they are coated. Spread onions on a baking sheet covered with parchment paper and bake until golden brown, about 20 minutes.

You may have to turn them a couple of times to keep thinner rings from getting too dark. Set aside and lower oven temperature to 400 degrees.

Add about a gallon of water to a pot and bring to a boil. Trim the beans, add to boiling water and cook for 5 minutes.

Drain in a colander and spray with cool water. Set aside.

Heat a cast iron skilled on medium and add butter. When the butter is melted, add mushrooms, salt and pepper and cook for 5 minutes. Add the garlic and nutmeg and cook for another minute.

Now sprinkle the flour over the mushrooms, stir until coated and cook for a couple of minutes (helps to remove the flour taste). Add the chicken broth and half-and-half and cook until sauce thickens.

Add the green beans and two-thirds of the onion rings and stir to mix. Top with the rest of the onions. Bake for 15 minutes and serve. Happy holidays! w w w. ly n c h b u r g l i v i n g . c o m

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s far back as human history records, tea has been part of our story. It has had the power to shape our geopolitical climate, inspire industry and provoked a revolution. In its shadow, empires have risen and fallen. Yet, even then, it has also brought to us the power of healing. Through art, meditation and medicinal properties, it draws from us peace and centering. It has become the symbol of hospitality and its service a sacred art form so respected that it has itself been the definition of gentility. Each time period and culture cultivated it as part of who they are and, in turn, infused into it their cultural beliefs and rituals.

Served cold, hot and with a vast array of accoutrement or standing boldly on its own, tea has long lured us with its steamy aromas and restorative properties. This storied history is now brewing up a new legacy in various forms around Lynchburg, from a brick-walled cafÊ in downtown to a historic home that once rivaled only Thomas Jefferson’s Poplar Forest. From the looks of the tea pots springing up a plenty around town, this holiday season is a better time than ever for tea time. >>

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The Steeping Leaf's owner, Lyndsey Hoyle, with her favorite brew in the tea bar's space on Main Street in downtown Lynchburg.

The Steeping Leaf It is often through our journeys that we find ourselves. If we venture far enough, we discover find our intrinsic self-worth and the light within us that shines so brightly, it eclipses expectation.

This was the story of Lynchburg native, Lyndsey Hoyle, who moved to Colorado four years ago and while there, found herself. Hoyle, though soft-spoken, has a quiet energy and contagious resolve to bring to her hometown the beauty beyond the mundane. The result of her journey is the soon-to-open tea bar called The Steeping Leaf at 1344 Main Street.

“I needed change from a repetitive day-to-day lifestyle,” she explained. “[It was there in Colorado that] I was able to let go of everything and find out what I wanted.”

While there in the shadow of Colorado’s mountains, Hoyle worked for a local business and learned the art of service. Hoyle proudly smiles as she explained, “I grew into myself working for small business. It opened my eyes that I work and know that I’m building something. It means something!”

Along with the pride that comes from working for and supporting a local small business, Hoyle said that she found her talent in serving others.

“I learned how to be constantly aware of how to talk to people and serve them.”

In business, Hoyle underwent vast growth and found the change she needed from the mundane routine, but it was in her personal life that Hoyle said she truly blossomed.

“[It’s about] discovery and reinventing yourself. Healthy living was a huge lifestyle change. I believe in the manifestation of positive thinking. You can bring anything to yourself if you believe it and love it!” she said.

It was here that Hoyle discovered what she had unwittingly been working towards. A seemingly innocuous change in healthy eating and living would bring about the fortuitous transformation. Soon, Hoyle was converted from a coffee drinker to a tea drinker.

“I never thought I would fall into tea [but] it was a new culture … very beautiful,” she laughed.

As is the case with the few that see beauty in everything, Hoyle describes with the conviction and fever of those who hear sacred callings, “It’s a meditative event. Put the tea in the bag, let it steep.

It’s very contemplative and focused. It’s a time to reflect. It’s about being in the now.”

With renewed direction and a path that presented itself, Hoyle moved into the wholesale tea leaf business through Steeping Leaf Teas and would move back to Lynchburg with a vision of opening her own small business of wholesale loose-leaf teas. The delectable offerings of The Steeping Leaf are of superior quality and all boast >> w w w. ly n c h b u r g l i v i n g . c o m

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Among these flavors are a delicate Earl Grey, the bright, refreshing White Peony Pear, the clever mint chocolate chip and the inspiring Aspen Gold.

The Aspen Gold, the flagship of these blends, is an inviting blend of chamomile, bergamot, lemon peel and other blends. Along with its beautiful blend and aroma, it brings with it a distinct calming of the mind and captures all the senses.

Equipped in her new role as a small business owner in Central Virginia, Hoyle explained one of her hopes she believes will transpire through The Steeping Leaf, which has little to do with tea itself.

“I hope to be a beacon of light in my community and after seeing the beautiful things in life, giving a little bit of that back,” she said.

While it was always a lofty goal to open up a storefront for the wholesale of loose leaf teas within the first couple of months of returning to Lynchburg, those dreams of a tea bar would not only become the obvious path but one which would be received by the community with open arms.

“I feel so blessed,” Hoyle beamed. “I know I’m supposed to be here right now! There’s been no pushback. It’s all meant to be.”

“The Tea Bar is not a tea café,” Hoyle explained. “It will be an urban, younger feel, somewhere to hang out late nights or disconnect during the day. It’s somewhere just to be.”

In addition to serving a choice variety of Steeping Leaf Teas, tea-inspired tapas will also be available and a full calendar of events planned. Live bands, acoustic players, poetry readings and a wide variety of other live events will be available to pique the interests of the community. Classes will also be offered to educate the community on tea, meditation and being in the present. Hoyle’s creative spirit is sure to keep the calendar filled with fresh offerings and maintain an atmosphere that embraces the creative.

“I’m excited about creating this environment for the community because it’s somewhere I would like to be,” Hoyle enthused. “It’s a place to love life and disconnect from your day. It will have a creative vibe, and all-encompassing.”

The Steeping Leaf is slated to open on in early spring 2015. Until then, follow The Steeping Leaf’s progression at TheSteapingLeafLynchburg.com.

Historic Locust Thicket on Old Forest Road sets the scene for Katie O'Byrne's Irish Tea House inside.

Katie O’Byrne’s Irish Tea House Many traverse Old Forest Road without knowing the incredible history just off the beaten path. Locust Thicket, arguably the first official residence in Lynchburg, was built by Major Samuel B. Scott, circa 1790. The original 400-acre property, which was surrounded by canopies of locust trees and flowing streams extending to the James River, has been translated over the centuries to what we now know as parts of Forest, downtown and midtown.

Under new owner Paul Hughes, the Scott’s original, charming home, Locust Thicket, is being given new life. Hughes explained with enthusiasm his resolve to “promote living history” through their community offerings because “it is a civil right to understand our history.” Locust Thicket’s enchanting gardens and the historic home will be the setting for a variety of venues, all choice destinations in their own right. Among them, a special events venue in the gardens and private room, an underground English Tavern named for Major Scott McGregor, a brick-oven gourmet pizza restaurant where cold ales and wine can be enjoyed on the terrace, a bakery and coffee house located in the original cabin built before the main structure, and the cornerstone, Katie O’Byrne’s Irish Tea House.

The gorgeous home is filled with historical charm in every detail: reclaimed locust wood adorns the bar, each room is accented with lanterns that highlight the indulgently high ceilings and historical colors brighten the gorgeously carved trim and marble fireplaces.

“The intent is to respect history with accuracy and realism; it’s not a museum, it’s living history,” Hughes said. >>

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Owner, Paul Hughes, with Katie O'Byrne's manager, Debbie Johnson, inside the tastefully decorated Tea House.

Opened in October to the public (scheduled as of press time), Katie O’Byrne’s offers gourmet Irish fare for lunch, dinner, afternoon tea and a weekend buffet. Debbie Johnson, manager of Katie O’Byrne’s, explained, “English and Irish tea differ in that Irish Tea is hospitality-focused. The atmosphere is warm and inviting, and personalities are allowed to flow.”

Hughes added, “Tea is a serious matter!

It was an integral part of the colonist’s time in addition to genteel life.” Because of this, Johnson said “afternoon tea will include three separate courses, which includes Irish soda bread.”

Guests need not be intimidated by the experience, as the staff is always available to be as involved as desired, and tea workshops will also be offered for those who wish to learn more about the history and customs of tea educate themselves on the service of tea and preparation of customary tea gourmet.

In addition to tea, the intriguing gourmet options inspired by traditional Irish fare are supported by local farm-to-table produce and the soon-to-be, historically accurate, organic, on-ground herb garden.

Offerings such as Irish Rarebit, a full Irish Breakfast, Corned Beef and Cabbage, Dublin Coddle and Waterford Baked Eye fillet with Colcannon will aim to please even the most homesick Irishman.

No matter what your fancy, the Hill City has lovely options for afternoon tea and venues to celebrate life’s occasions. If you’re looking for a meditative disconnect where creativity can flow, a charming English tea house that serves afternoon tea and a stimulating events calendar, or a historically infused farm-to-table Irish Tea Room, it can be found right here in Central Virginia.

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Ploughcroft Tea Room Four years ago, Patricia Hutton, a pioneer in the revitalization of downtown Lynchburg and fine dining, brought to Central Virginia the Ploughcroft Tea Room. Since 2010, Hutton has served English Tea and served up freshly prepared British fare at her quaint space at 1215 Commerce Street, where she has since been the host to countless momentous occasions and fascinating events. Those who have had the opportunity to attend events such as the “Wedding Celebration of Will and Kate”, “Jack the Ripper Dinner Mystery Scavenger Hunt” and “The Downton Abbey Dinner” know that there is hardly a more thrilling affair than those on Hutton’s events calendar. Hutton herself elaborated, “When people want something special they come here!”

This holiday season is no exception, with Ploughcroft Tea Room adding to its repertoire an English Pub with traditional English dining and beer including local craft beer options.

The calendar of events, which combine the creativity of Ploughcroft with the brilliant interpretations of Renaissance Players, will continue to stir the imagination of our community.

Here’s the line-up for November and December: A Murder Mystery Dinner: Sunday, November 2 @7 p.m.

Narnia: The Lion, the Witch, & the Wardrobe: Sunday, December 14 @2-4 p.m. & 5-7 p.m.

For more information, visit PloughcroftTeaRoom.com or call (434) TEA-SHOP.

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McDonald’s Holiday Lights at the Beach (VA Beach)

McDonald’s Holiday Lights at the Beach returns again this year to the Virginia Beach boardwalk. Beginning November 21 and lasting all the way through the new year until January 3, the beautiful oceanfront views make for a stunning stage. The bright lights are host to a set of traditional staples like Santa, reindeer and elves, while incorporating a little nautical flair with under the sea critters and pirate ships. Every year a new light display is included, making this attraction an annual “must see.” For the 2014 season, guests can tune their radios to a matching holiday music station where dazzling lights come to life in a mesmerizing display that is sure to impress. Admission prices vary, but if you are staying overnight most hotels offer free admission with your reservation.

Bright images from last year's McDonald’s Holiday Lights at the Beach, which will open to the public this season from November 21 through January 3.

Dates: November 21, 2014-January 3, 2015 Location: Virginia Beach Boardwalk Hours of Operation: 5:30 to 10 p.m., Sunday-Thursday & 5:30 to 11 p.m., Friday-Saturday Admission: Cars-$15, Limos-$25, Motor coaches-$45, Mini buses-$25, Special Military Monday Admission-$7 More information: www.beachstreetusa.com/festivals/ mcdonalds-holiday-lights-beach >> w w w. ly n c h b u r g l i v i n g . c o m

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30th Annual Grand Illumination Parade (Norfolk) The year 2014 marks a milestone year for Norfolk’s Grand Illumination Parade. In its 30th year, the parade will continue tradition by kicking off the holiday season with the illumination of more than 12 miles of lights in the Downtown Norfolk and Olde Town Portsmouth skylines. The skylines will continue to stay lit until New Year’s Eve, immersing the city in all things merry and bright (literally!). Following the illumination will be a holiday themed parade that will travel down Main Street to Granby Street then travel north to Freemason Street crossing over to Boush Street and around to Waterside Drive. This year’s parade theme is “Bright Lights, Big City.” The blocked off streets will quickly be filled as spectators gaze upon giant floats, horses, marching bands, dancers and a sneak peek at the Claus himself. Reserved seating, aptly called “Street Seats,” will be available along Main Street, Granby Street and Waterside Drive, guaranteeing better views and the ultimate parade experience.

Date: November 22, 2014 at 7 p.m.

Location: Streets of Downtown Norfolk Admission: FREE For “Street Seat” Reservations: www.holidaysinthecity.net

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MacArthur Center Winter Extravaganza (Norfolk) Norfolk’s MacArthur Center proves to be a one-stop spot for all of your holiday wishes. Shop ’til you drop in the three-story, 100-plus store mall with popular favorites such as Apple, Lush, Pottery Barn and Nordstrom to name a few. Take a break from the crowds by catching a holiday flick at the in-house Regal Cinemas 18. Or visit the indoor “Ice Palace,” a 30– foot ice dome with falling snow. Visitors are transported to a literal winter wonderland complete with a captivating light show, video footage of arctic animals and life-sized snow globes. In addition to an in-store Santa, weekly visits from an Ice Princess take the traditional visit to a whole new level. And that’s just inside the mall. Outside lies a 7,200-square-foot ice rink with terrific downtown views. For the winter season, guests can experience public skating sessions, ice hockey clinics, learn-to-skate lessons, figure skating exhibitions, private events, birthday party VIP packages, games of broomball and special appearances by Norfolk Admirals’ mascot, “Salty.” Additionally, MacArthur Center will host a Winter Carnival, located outside next to MacArthur On Ice, with family-friendly rides and small attractions. The Carnival will be open Wednesday-Sunday until public school lets out for Winter Break when it will adopt the same schedule as MacArthur on Ice. Dates: November 22, 2014-January 19, 2015 Location: MacArthur Center, 300 Monticello Ave. Skating Admission: $6 for skating, $6 for rentals (group & military discounts available) More information: www.shopmacarthur.com/maconice

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Holiday cheer hits the boardwalk

Hosted by J&A Racing and Bon for a fun run (costumes encouraged!) on December 20.

Secours in Motion, the Surf-nSanta 5 Miler is a friendly and fun race that takes place at twilight on the Virginia Beach boardwalk. Runners are encompassed in holiday cheer as they race oceanfront under the bright Holiday Lights at the Beach. Participants are encouraged to dress festively. For incentive, contest awards are given out after the race for the best naughty or nice holiday costume. Don’t let the scenic views fool you—the oceanfront is chilly in the winter, so dress warmly. In addition to some fabulous swag (including a Santa hat), the festive fun run ends with a Post Race Rockin’ Party in the Virginia Beach Convention Center, complete with Samuel Adams beer and hot soup in a bread bowl. Participants have until December 20 to make it on the nice list, so good luck!

Date: Saturday, December 20, 2014 at 4:30 p.m.

Location: VA Beach Boardwalk Registration Fee: $55 from Nov. 1–30, $60 from Dec. 1–16, and $65 on Race Weekend Swag: Long sleeve technical shirt, unique bottle opener medal, Santa hat, finisher’s item and access to Post Race Rockin’ Party with Samuel Adams beer and hot soup.

Register: www.surfnsanta5miler.com/registration

Hollydazzle (Newport News) A free family-event held at the five-acre fountain plaza in the middle of Newport News City Center, this three-hour festival is easily one of the mostanticipated holiday celebrations in Hampton Roads. Hollydazzle kicks off the night with holiday entertainment on three different stages with dance and musical performances by local dance companies, choirs and acapella groups. On the sidewalks, guests will encounter street performers, carolers, “living” statues, stilt walkers and >>

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With ample seating and the latest technological resources, the Liberty Mountain Conference Center is perfect for your next corporate event.

Conveniently located and competitively priced (434) 592-5600 | www.LibertyMountainConferenceCenter.com 3700 Candlers Mountain Road, Lynchburg, Va. 24502

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TR AVEL Christmas characters mixed amongst the local vendors. Food vendors line the streets with holiday treats, including kettle corn, hot chocolate, roasted nuts, turkey legs, funnel cakes and more.

There is even a children’s make-and-take craft area where kids can create their own ornaments. Terrific food, captivating entertainment and lots of holiday cheer are all in the recipe for any great holiday festival, but the real reason more than 45,000 people flock to Hollydazzle every year has everything to do with their magnificent fireworks display. Sponsored by BayPort Credit Union, the “Fountains of Light Show” combines fireworks, theatrical lighting, pyrotechnics, special effects and Christmas tunes to create a oneof-a-kind show that will leave visitors awestruck. Immediately following the fireworks is the lighting of the Christmas tree, equally impressing, with its own lighting effects and synchronized music performances. Crowds can get a little crazy at this event. Our best advice? Arrive early and dine at one of the many restaurants or get a jump start on holiday shopping at the retail stores along Merchants Walk—most offer special discounts and freebies during Hollydazzle.

Date: Friday, December 5, 2014 from 6 to 9 p.m.

Location: City Center at Oyster Point Admission: FREE For parking & more information: www.nnparks.com/festivals.php

Hunt Club Farm’s Annual Country Christmas (VA Beach) A farm rich in history and much-loved by the locals, Hunt Club Farm stays open from April 1 to New Year’s Eve, delighting visitors throughout the busiest holiday seasons with themed events like Easter Egg Hunts, Harvest Festivals, Haunted Halloween Festivals and their cheery, and appropriately named, Country Christmas. The farm will be animated with over 5,000 square feet of holiday lights and displays. Families can venture to the full-service Christmas Tree Market to select a freshly trimmed winter pine. Not enough room in the car? Compromise with one of Hunt Club Farm’s famous Christmas wreaths instead. This year will be the inaugural year for the Peddler’s Village, a local vendor shopping spot where guests can purchase unique gifts, delicious baked goods, handmade home décor and Christmas-themed arts and crafts.

In the evenings, guests can also enjoy bonfires with s’mores, hot apple cider and hot dogs. Hunt Club Farm is a perfect family getaway and a hidden gem amongst the hustle and bustle of coastal Virginia’s busiest cities.

Admission: $7 per person, FREE to children under 2 (group rates available) For dates, more information & Santa’s Schedule visit: www.huntclubfarm.com/country-christmas

VIRGINIA’S 100 MILES OF LIGHTS Spectacular shows on your way to the shore!

If you’re traveling via Interstate 64, don’t miss out on these holiday hot spots: Richmond—Holiday Glitter: Monument Avenue After Dark, Monument Avenue www.richmondhistorycenter.com/calendar/ holiday-glitter Williamsburg—Christmastown, Busch Gardens www.seaworldparks.com/en/buschgardenswilliamsburg/christmastown Newport News—Celebration in Lights, Newport News Park www.nngov.com/parks-and-recreation/ celebrationinlights Hampton—26th Annual Downtown Hampton Lighted Boat Parade, Settlers Landing www.visithampton.com/event/26th-annualdowntown-hampton-lighted-boat-parade Norfolk—Dominion Garden of Lights, Norfolk Botanical Garden www.norfolkbotanicalgarden.org/events/ dominion-garden-lights-2014

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Calendar of Events November 1

2nd Annual Race, Poverty, and Social Justice Conference Thoresen Theatre, Harold G. Leggett Building, Randolph College 9 a.m.

Workshops focusing on topics such as economics, education, health care, housing and organizing for change, luncheon and Keynote Saturday. Preregistration at LynchburgTickets.com/SocialJustice.

3rd Annual Chili Cook-off Holy Cross Regional Catholic School, 2125 Langhorne Road, Lynchburg Noon to 4 p.m. $15 entry for adults/$5 for children and includes chili, hotdogs, sodas, children’s activities and live music.

Spirits available for extra fee.

Field Trip Fun Little Geologist Trip Earthen Paradise, Appomattox 10 a.m.

Talk rocks with the Geologists at Earthen Paradise.

Learn about crystals, minerals, diamonds and more.

Mine for treasure in the indoor flume. $15 per child.

Email FieldTripFun@yahoo.com to register.

November 1, 8, 15, 22 Science Saturday Martin 315, Martin Science Building, Randolph College 10 a.m.

Features lab experiences for high school students.

See www.randolphcollege.edu/sciencesaturdays for schedule and registration. Lunch provided.

November 1 & 22 Winfree Observatory Star Party Winfree Observatory, Randolph College 7:30 p.m.

View the stars through RC’s telescope. In the event of inclement weather, confirm the event at www.randolphscience.org.

November 2 Randolph College Music Wimberly Recital Hall, Presser Hall, Randolph College 3 p.m.

Guest Artist/Faculty Recital: Daniel Sender, violin, and Luca Trombetta, viola.

The Wren Masters Holy Trinity Lutheran Church, 1000 Langhorne Road, Lynchburg 4 p.m.

Early music quartet from the performing artist faculty of the College of William & Mary.

involving testimonials from prison inmates. Tickets: $5. www.LynchburgTickets.com.

Art & Art Song, First Friday Artwalk Downtown Lynchburg 6 to 8 p.m. www.operaonthejames.org.

November 14

No Shame: Lynchburg Lab Theatre (LG 203), Harold G. Leggett Building, Randolph College 10:45 p.m.

No Shame is a movement that encourages artists to try out new ideas. Performers sign up for five-minute performance segments at 10:15 p.m.

Opera on the James Showcase Holy Trinity Lutheran Church, 1000 Langhorne Road, Lynchburg 7:30 p.m.

Young visiting artists performing beloved opera selections and musical surprises.

November 7-8 Senior-directed project: ‘The Sneeze’ Reading Room, Cochran Library, Sweet Briar College Nov 7: 7:30 p.m.; Nov. 8: 2:30 p.m.

Michael Frayn’s comic adaptation of Anton Chekhov’s vaudevillian vignettes, directed by Charlotte Hopkins. Free but limited seating. First-come, first-served basis.

November 8 Field Trip Fun Pizza Pizzazz Trip La Villa Italian Restaurant, Lynchburg 10:30 a.m.

Become a chef at La Villa Italian Restaurant, talk fruits and veggies, make personal pan pizzas and tour the kitchen. $15 per child. Email FieldTripFun@yahoo.com to register.

Vintage Lynchburg Annual Sale Urban Arts Garage, corner of 10th & Commerce Street, Lynchburg 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Local vendors selling handmade goods, home décor, kid’s items, art, clothing and more. www.VintageLynchburg.com.

November 9 Janet Lowrey Gager Community Concert Memorial Chapel, Sweet Briar College 7:30 p.m.

Trumpet-and-piano duo Chris Magee and Dana Ballard perform works by Johann Friedrich Fasch, Gustav Mahler, Roanoke composer Larry Williams and others.

La Bohème E.C. Glass Civic Auditorium, Lynchburg 3 p.m.

Puccini’s tragic masterpiece. www.operaonthejames.org.

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November 12

Brock McGuire Band Concert Memorial Chapel, Sweet Briar College 12:30 p.m.

Traditional Irish music by the award-winning Brock McGuire Band.

Lynchburg Bird Club Meeting Martin 315, Martin Science Building, Randolph College 7 p.m.

November 7

Insights from Inside Dillard Fine Arts Theatre, Lynchburg College Nov. 13-15: 7:30 p.m.; Nov. 16: 2 p.m.

An original piece based on the book by B.B. Shavers,

6th Annual Juried Art Show Exhibition Opening Riverviews Artspace, 901 Jefferson Street, Lynchburg 5:30 to 8 p.m.

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All That Jazz Sydnor Performance Hall, Lynchburg College 7:30 p.m.

Presented by Jazz Ensemble and the Lynchburg Community Big Band, conducted by Chris Magee.

November 14-15 Fall Dance Concert Murchison Lane Auditorium, Babcock Fine Arts Center, Sweet Briar College 7:30 p.m.

Performance by SBC dance students and faculty. Free.

November 14-16, 21 & 22 “Mother Courage and Her Children” by Bertolt Brecht Thoresen Theatre, Harold G. Leggett Building, Randolph College 7:30 p.m.

Directed by Brooke Edwards. Considered the greatest play of the 20th century. www.WildCatTheatre.com/ production/Season.

November 15 40th Annual Arts, Crafts and More Show Bedford Elementary School, Below National D-Day Memorial, Bedford 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Seventy area artisans and crafters offer their hand-made wares. Sponsored by the GFWC Bedford Woman’s Club. Part of proceeds from $2 admission benefit local organizations.

Bedford Community Orchestra Fall Concert Bedford Middle School Auditorium, 503 Longwood Avenue, Bedford 7:30 p.m.

Suggested donation: $10.

November 16 Faculty dance performance: Mark Magruder Murchison Lane Auditorium, Babcock Fine Arts Center, Sweet Briar College 2:30 p.m.

Mark Magruder’s visual and performing arts solo “House of Memory.” Free.

Family Program: Totem Poles Maier Museum of Art at Randolph College 2 to 4 p.m.

Learn more about totem poles and make your own. Maier Members $4; Non-Members $5. All materials provided.

Pre-registration: museum@randolphcollege.edu.

Open Studios Art on 12th Studios, 422 12th Street, Lynchburg (above The Art Box) 2 to 4 p.m.

14 artists open their studios for meet and greet with visitors.

November 18-22 Bang Bang, You’re Dead & The Lottery Alumni Studio Theatre, EC Glass High School, 2111 Memorial Avenue, Lynchburg 7:30 p.m.

Tickets: $12, $8 seniors and students, season tickets available.

EVENTS November 19 Bum Bazaar Josey Dining Room, Prothro Hall 8 a.m. to 7 p.m.

Various local vendors offering jewelry, accessories and other gift items for sale.

November 21 Downtown Diva Crawl Downtown Lynchburg businesses along Main Street 5:30 p.m.

Dine, shop and score great deals downtown. Sponsored by Lynch's Landing. www.DowntownLynchburg.com.

November 22 Annual Christmas Bazaar, Bake Sale and Brunswick Stew Boonsboro Ruritan Club, 1499 Coffee Road, Lynchburg 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Local vendors selling homemade baked goods, Brunswick stew, jewelry, holiday items and more. Raffle tickets for a big screen TV. Event indoors, free and open to public.

Open Campus Day Randolph College Campus 10 a.m.

Open to prospective students and their families.

December 1 Carols By Candlelight Snidow Chapel, Lynchburg College 8 p.m.

Corban Addison, Bringing Justice to Life through Storytelling Nichols Theatre, Student Center, Randolph College 7 p.m.

December 2 Open Auditions, Winter & Spring Theatre Productions Thoresen Theatre, Harold G. Leggett Building, Randolph College 7 p.m.

More information online at WildCatTheatre.com/Auditions.

December 3 Annual Holiday Fair Memorial Ballroom, Hall Campus Center, Lynchburg College 10 a.m. to 6 p.m.

December 4–5 Music for Festive Occasions Sydnor Performance Hall, Lynchburg College 7:30 p.m.

LC Orchestra, Wind Symphony, and James String Quartet present concert, conducted by Oeida Hatcher. Tickets are free, but required: (434) 544-8344.

December 5 Chamber Orchestra Fall Concert Smith Hall Theatre, Smith Memorial Building, Randolph College 7:30 p.m.

Field Trip Fun Sirens, Smoke & Safety Trip Fire Station 7, Lynchburg 4 p.m.

Learn fire safety from real firefighters, tour the fire station and practice escape techniques in a life-like fire simulator. $15 per child. Email FieldTripFun@yahoo.com to register.

First Friday at Riverviews Artspace Riverviews Artspace, 901 Jefferson Street, Lynchburg 5:30 to 8 p.m.

Featuring the 6th Annual Juried Art Show, live music and a cash bar in the Craddock-Terry Gallery.

December 8

No Shame: Lynchburg Lab Theatre, Harold G. Leggett Building, Randolph College 10:45 p.m.

No Shame is a movement that encourages artists to try out new ideas in a supportive environment. Performers sign up for five-minute performance segments at 10:15 p.m. $5 donation recommended.

December 9

December 5-7 “Tuna Christmas,” a comedic production to benefit The Arc of Central Virginia Thorenson Theatre, Randolph College Dec. 5-6: 8 p.m.; Dec. 7: 3 p.m.

A hilarious production about a tiny Texas town attempting to cope with a series of traumas. Tickets available at LynchburgTickets.com or at The Arc (434) 845-4071.

December 6 35th Annual Peaks of Otter Christmas Classic Foot Race Bedford Middle School, corner of Longwood Ave. and Peaks Street, Bedford 8:30 a.m., Kids Races will follow immediately after Entry Fee: $20/single & $25/single on race day. www.Christmasclassic5k.com.

A Holiday of Yesteryear Academy of Fine Arts Warehouse Theatre 6 p.m.

Concert of timeless holiday music, including performances by musicians of the LSO, Cantate: Children’s and Youth Choir of Central Virginia, and other guests.

Storytime with Santa Historic Miller Claytor House, Riverside Park, Lynchburg Story Times: 1, 2 & 3 p.m.

Santa reads a story to children. The house will be filled with decorations and Christmas goodies. $5 per child.

Limited seating, RSVP by Nov. 21.

December 7 Christmas Vespers at Sweet Briar College Memorial Chapel, Sweet Briar College 7 p.m.

Christmas Vespers at Randolph College Houston Memorial Chapel, Randolph College 7:30 p.m.

Handel’s Messiah E.C. Glass Auditorium, Lynchburg 7:30 p.m.

LC Choral Union and Festival Orchestra present their 12th annual performance, conducted by Jong Kim. Tickets: $10, 434) 544-8344.

Holiday Pops Memorial Chapel, Sweet Briar College 6 p.m.

Sweet Briar choir members sing festive music of the season.

Lynchburg Christmas Parade Downtown Lynchburg 5 p.m.

Two hours of music, colorful floats, antique cars and more. www.LynchburgChristmasParade.com.

Student Fall Recital Memorial Chapel, Sweet Briar College 7:30 p.m.

Free.

Orchestra Concert Memorial Chapel, Sweet Briar College 7:30 p.m.

Free.

December 10 Sweet Tones Concert Memorial Chapel, Sweet Briar College 7:30 p.m.

Annual end-of-the-year concert offering a wide variety of music genres.

December 11 Dance Comp Showing Upper Dance Studio, Babcock Fine Arts Center 7 p.m.

A free presentation by SBC dance students.

Touch of Harmony Winter Recital Wimberly Recital Hall, Presser Hall, Randolph College 7:30 p.m.

December 12 Randolph College Music Department Recital Wimberly Recital Hall, Presser Hall, Randolph College 2 p.m.

December 13 Field Trip Fun Buy Local Trip Lynchburg Grows, 1339 Englewood Street 10 a.m.

Learn about organic locally grown produce, hydroponics, horticulture and more. Visit the animals and pick your own take home veggies. $15 per child.

Email FieldTripFun@yahoo.com to register.

Winfree Observatory Star Party Winfree Observatory, Randolph College 7 p.m.

View the stars through RC’s telescope. In the event of inclement weather, confirm the event at www.randolphscience.org.

December 13 & 16 Bells of the Blue Ridge Annual Christmas Concerts Dec. 13: Forest Presbyterian Church, Forest; Dec. 16: Quaker Memorial Presbyterian Church, Lynchburg 7:30 p.m.

Free.

December 21 Gloria in Excelsis Deo! A Christmas celebration in music, poetry, and prose St. John’s Episcopal Church, Elmwood Avenue, Lynchburg 4 p.m.

St. John’s Choir and Cantate, the Children’s and Youth Choir of Central Virginia present annual Christmas concert. An offering will be taken.

Holy Communion Holy Trinity Lutheran Church, 1000 Langhorne Road, Lynchburg 10:30 a.m.

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Just A Thought “Why It’s Hard for Men to Have Real Friends”

BY JON DUPIN, Lead Pastor, Brentwood Church

You’ve heard the axiom “a good friend is hard to find.”

Well, it’s especially difficult for men, but there are some secrets to overcoming the difficulties.

One theme my wife has restated to me throughout our marriage is, “You should really get some friends.” Defensively, I list off a few names of guys that I feel close to and she responds with, “Then why don’t you ever hang out with them?” Too busy, too involved in family, too … whatever, is often the crux of my reply.

Most men don’t realize how isolated they are from each other. Simply, we’re ignorant to our friendlessness. We become masters of acquaintances and mostly settle for superficial relationships— work associates, football bros, hunting buddies and church friends. Nothing is wrong with any of those relationships, but that’s not the kinds of friendship men have trouble fostering. It’s the life-giving and life-saving ones we seem to neglect for years, because those require time, risk, trust, emotional expressiveness, regular proximity and maturity. So, ignorance becomes bliss for most of us.

Besides ignorance, pride is another barrier for men moving past the surface and getting a real friend. We don’t want to need anyone, especially the encouragement and accountability of another man—that sounds like hippy therapy stuff. Or, sometimes we apply the exemption rule, which is «my wife is my best friend.» However, our wives are not men and some virtues are only found in male friendships, so no man is exempt from finding a real friend if he wants to live whole.

Okay, so here’s Secret #1: Ask someone to be your friend. Off the bat, that sounds cheesy, because we think friendship should just happen, but we’re not boys growing up in the neighborhood anymore and only the few and proud are active Marines (military exception applied). Instead, we are men with a lot of responsibilities and little time to complete it all. Recently though, I sat across the table from a church acquaintance and said, “The reason I wanted to meet today might sound strange. In fact, it’s probably the first time someone’s ever asked you something like this.” He said, “Go ahead, ask away.” I replied, “Would you be my friend?” We both laughed it off at first, but then he asked me what that looked like.

Great segue to Secret #2: Put friendship on the calendar. To my new friend, I said, “Let’s try to meet at this time every week and we’ll go from there.” He agreed and we’ve connected once a week for several months. Let’s face it though—our culture does not fit well with life-giving and lifesaving friendships. Good reasons will always come up for not meeting, so why not put it as a recurring appointment on your calendar?

This idea came to me one day when I walked into a breakfast joint and recognized an associate of mine. I approached his table, joked back and forth about something and then he introduced me to the guy across the table. “This is Daryl,” he said. “He’s a friend of mine and we’ve been meeting here once a week for five years.” Five years? No football? No project? No good reason? Two men meeting every week to build a friendship for friendship sake … is it really that simple? That one episode gave me a framework to un-complicate friendship—just put it on the calendar.

True friendship requires work to foster and continue in, but it’s worth it. Ask someone to be your friend, schedule it and then watch your life, and his, benefit from the commitment.

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