VMI Turnouts A VMI ALUMNI AGENCIES DIGITAL NEWSLETTER
November 2018
Gabriel ’12: More Than a School By Molly Rolon, Assistant Editor, Alumni Agencies
For Institute alumni, their alma mater evokes memories: Barracks, chow in Crozet, the smell of wet wool and – it almost goes without saying – the camaraderie built while enduring the rigors of VMI together. For Keith Gabriel ’12, VMI encompasses far more: It means family, community and life-long lessons learned during his four years in barracks. As with many things in life, the VMI difference comes from people – alumni, faculty and those who are neither but fall into a loosely-named but tightly knit category: The VMI family. The basketball scholarship that brought Gabriel to VMI did not simply fund his education but gave him a genuine connection with the local community. Gabriel’s scholarship was made possible by the generosity of the late Don Ford and his wife, Lois (now Lois Ford-Bouis),
Keith Gabriel ’12 with Stu Heishman ’86. When Gabriel’s character showed on and off the Keydet basketball court, Heishman took note. A few years after Gabriel’s graduation, Heishman was able to match him with a career at Duke Energy. Photo courtesy Gabriel.
who chose to go beyond paying for a cadet’s education by investing their time in Gabriel, building a real relationship with him. One conversation Gabriel remembers was when he asked Ford, “Why do you sponsor scholarships?” Ford replied, “God has blessed me with so much in my life. It is only right for me to use those blessings to bless others.” Gabriel took heed to that conversation, and is now sharing the blessings he’s received to influence youth in his hometown – Charlotte, North Carolina. Gabriel – whose high school tour of VMI was after the Rat Line ended – was not expecting the rigors of the Rat Line and seriously considered leaving the Institute after his 4th Class year. However, the relationship he built with the Fords made him realize he had a community and family at VMI. Gabriel said Lois’ personal investment in him kept him at VMI. “She kept me grounded. She helped me realize [VMI] was where I needed to be,” he remembered. “That’s how I ended up staying at VMI all four years.” When selecting a college, Gabriel leaned toward military colleges because he wanted not just an education but discipline. As an NCAA Division I athlete, he had a platform and – although it was not always obvious – people were paying attention. After a particularly good game versus Gardner-Webb University his 4th Class year, Gabriel did what he always does: Talked with kids and hung out with his family. Fast forward four years later, when Gabriel received an email on graduation day from Stu Heishman ’86. Heishman had seen Gabriel at that Gardner-Webb game and was impressed by not only his competitive spirit on the court, but with how he interacted with children and family off the court. Gabriel said, “He was genuinely just checking on me, seeing what my next steps were after college ... It was all because of that one game. This guy, who I didn’t know, was watching the way that I carried myself and thought I was worth investing in. I am convinced that none of this would have come to fruition if I had displayed my character in a negative light.” For three years following graduation, Gabriel followed his basketball dreams, living in several countries and playing in the European League. Life in other countries “was one of the most challenging things I’ve ever ex-