How Powerful Do I Feel When I Stand in my Own Shoes? I BELIEVE
“when women are at the center of change, anything is possible.” Yet, how is this possible when girls often lose their selfconfidence at earlier and earlier ages; women are paid less than men for the same jobs; and women, by a 3 to 1 margin, have primary responsibility for their home, family and job. How do women have the time or energy to change the world when we don’t have time to take a nap? I believe women are agents of change because we are the ‘cultural mothers’ of our communities. It’s been proven over and over for centuries - when you empower a woman, you empower a village.
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Women, in particular, cultivate power through connection - not competition or domination. We strengthen others by helping them create a more meaningful life. We empower others by our very nature and are more powerful as a result. We just might not realize it.
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We know leadership emanates from a person and not from a position, role or hierarchy. The qualities generally attributed to women - collaboration, sharing and mentoring - are the very qualities many long for in leaders.
Whether we are home makers, bread makers, baby makers or widget makers, we nurture others. As the mamas of our communities, we also face the challenges of religious and racial intolerance and uncivil discourse and divisions which tear apart entire communities. For ourselves, families and businesses, it is essential that we are prepared to take on those challenges. "Because our communities are defined by our actions or by our silence, it is critical that we find our voices and empower conversations across difference to create the world we desire.” As makers of change, women can change the world! We understand talent is strengthened only when it is shared. And the path to a better future lies in exploring those difficult issues that keep us divided. It is no secret that we are a stronger community when we are connected. So women, take heart! You are a ball full of fire, a gentle soothing balm and a weaver of lives and communities. Even if we are not the assigned leader of the group, we know: “When we are at the center of change, anything is possible.” So stand proud in whatever shoes you wear and feel the power! Oh, and don’t forget to take a nap!
In our work and families, we tend to focus on the growth and development of employees, students and children. Our dedication and care inspires passion, courage and creativity. With our commitment to the greater good, we can’t help but nurture vibrant relationships to create a better community for all. ‘Cause that’s what mamas do.
Elaine Stenger, PhD., is the Author of “Dancing in the Rain” and Co-Founder of Cairn Venture Group which produces Leadership Retreats for Women. “Connecting women to help change our world.”
As makers of change, leadership is really a way of life for women.
Visit: www.elainestenger.com or contact Elaine at estenger2@gmail.com
