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PAGE In 2007, Ryan Keith Skipper

murdered on a rural road 23 was in Polk County by Joseph Bearden and William Brown Jr., just because he was gay. Five years after his death, his family talks about keeping his story alive and embracing their roles as accidental activists.

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SHORT TAKE: Comedian and actor Leslie Jordan is probably best known for his role as “Beverly Leslie” on Will & Grace. But now the minute funny man brings his Tales I Can’t Tell Mama to stages in Tampa and Orlando this month.

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history, two openly gay candidates are campaigning for the same seat, and Randy Ross and Chase Smith both think they’re the right man for the job; Michael Cantone wants to be Orlando’s next mayor and is critical of Buddy Dyer’s tenure; more.

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participated in a town hall discussion in St. Petersburg inspired by a transphobic incident at a nearby tavern; St. Petersburg city councilman Steve Kornell says his city could be next in line to start a domestic partnership registry; more.

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of Ryan Keith Skipper has to live through the ordeal of his 2007 murder. After five years, it’s not any easier, but they remain committed to sharing his story. Sawmill Campground celebrates its first year as the nation’s first gayowned co-op; more.

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day when everyone is 62 one Irish—and this year was no

exception in Ybor City. People from around Tampa Bay participated in the Rough Riders’ annual St. Patrick’s Day parade and before consuming green beer at bars along 7th Avenue.

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2012: The year of samesex marriage? This year is shaping up to be another big, big year for marriage, and the clock is ticking. Our freedom to marry is on the ballot in key states in November and major freedom to marry cases are making their way toward the U.S. Supreme Court. By pulling together this year, we can win more states and create the climate that empowers courts to rule in favor of the freedom to marry. No matter where you live, we all have a stake in winning these battles to set the stage for ending marriage discrimination. That’s why today Freedom to Marry is launching the Win More States Fund with the goal to raise and spend at least $3 million in the battleground states of Maine, Minnesota, New Hampshire, New Jersey, and Washington. EVAN WOLFSON FREEDOM TO MARRY

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RAYVON MARTIN WASN’T GAY. BUT IF you don’t think his death in a February shooting directly affects you, you’re wrong.

The shooting death of Trayvon isn’t just a racial issue. It’s an American issue and his death and the circumstances surrounding it hit closer to the LGBT community than many may think. The 17-year-old who was approached and killed by a neighborhood watch captain in Sanford has captivated the nation’s attention and placed a brand new, bloody spotlight on racial tensions and unsubstantiated misperceptions in Florida and around the country. While new allegations surface that Martin supposedly fought admitted killer George Zimmerman, the fact remains that if the neighborhood watch captain had not racially pro�iled the young man,

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followed him and then approached him, Martin would still be alive. Trayvon was shot and killed while walking from a store where he had just purchased a bag of Skittles and an iced tea for his younger brother. According to reports, Zimmerman called police to report a suspicious person after he saw Martin walking back from the store. Despite police instructing him not to confront Martin, Zimmerman approached the teenager. Witnesses say a scuf�le ensued before Zimmerman shot the unarmed teen in the chest with a semi-automatic pistol. Zimmerman confessed to the shooting, claiming self defense. Lawyers are citing the state’s “stand your ground” law, which lets

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Floridians use deadly force when they feel their life is threatened. On March 26, Zimmerman’s lawyer released a statement saying that his client was attacked by the 17-year-old and therefore, the shooting was justi�ied. How can that be? It was Zimmerman who initially approached Martin, not the other way around. He even says so on a recorded 911 call. Martin had a drink and a bag of candy in his arsenal. Zimmerman had a gun. It’s frustrating when you consider how simply the deadly altercation could have been avoided. Zimmerman targeted the black teen because of the color of his skin and because he was a stranger in the neighborhood. It’s no different than when a member of the LGBT community walks into a straight bar, a new business or a conservative church. We are expected to be or behave a speci�ic way based on the stereotypes engrained in the heads of those different than us. We are treated differently just because of who we are—just like Trayvon. Unfortunately, the bias doesn’t stop at the borders of our community. The people who are the “LGBT” that de�ines us have so much self-in�licted stereotyping that I’m often amazed we’ve made as much progress as we have. Too many gay men feel superior to lesbians;

too many lesbians feel like all men should keep their distance; too often gay men and lesbians see their transgender brothers and sisters as just too different to care about; too many transgender individuals are so worried about being grouped in with gays, that it turns supporters against them; and bisexuals are often marginalized and labeled as “undecided” by gays and lesbians. It has to stop. The more we make of our differences, the more armor those who oppose us have to support their discriminatory behavior. If we ever want to fully surpass the equality hurdle in our country regarding LGBT rights, then we have to practice what we preach by supporting the rights of others and �ighting discrimination in all of its forms—and speaking out for Trayvon is the most timely and effective way to do that. While supporters of Zimmerman are clamoring to clear the name of their friend by detailing his good deeds, it remains that an innocent kid is dead because he was perceived as a threat based on a stereotype that is antiquated and irrelevant. As the media wrestles with the particulars about what photos are used to represent each man, the validity of a “stand your ground” law and the details surrounding gun ownership, it’s important to not lose sight of the main issue. Stereotyping. We’ve all been subjected to it and we’ve all done it. The only way to stop it is with our own actions. And Trayvon’s murder is the latest example of why it has to end now. |  |

We have to practice what we preach by fighting discrimination in all of its forms—and speaking out for Trayvon is the most timely and effective way to do that.

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You may be more likely to get lactic acidosis or severe liver problems if you are COMPLERA may affect the way other medicines work, and other medicines may female, very overweight (obese), or have been taking COMPLERA or a similar affect how COMPLERA works, and may cause serious side effects. If you take certain medicines with COMPLERA, the amount of COMPLERA in your body may be too low and medicine containing nucleoside analogs for a long time. it may not work to help control your HIV infection. The HIV virus in your body may become 3. Worsening of Hepatitis B infection. If you also have hepatitis B virus (HBV) infection resistant to COMPLERA or other HIV medicines that are like it. and you stop taking COMPLERA, your HBV infection may become worse (flare-up). A “flare-up” is when your HBV infection suddenly returns in a worse way than before. Do not take COMPLERA if you also take these medicines: COMPLERA is not approved for the treatment of HBV, so you must discuss your HBV • COMPLERA provides a complete treatment for HIV infection. Do not take other HIV medicines with COMPLERA. therapy with your healthcare provider. • the anti-seizure medicines carbamazepine (CARBATROL®, EQUETRO®, TEGRETOL®, • Do not let your COMPLERA run out. Refill your prescription or talk to your healthcare TEGRETOL-XR®, TERIL®, EPITOL®), oxcarbazepine (TRILEPTAL®), phenobarbital provider before your COMPLERA is all gone. (LUMINAL®), phenytoin (DILANTIN®, DILANTIN-125®, PHENYTEK®) • Do not stop taking COMPLERA without first talking to your healthcare provider. ® ® • If you stop taking COMPLERA, your healthcare provider will need to check your health • the anti-tuberculosis medicines rifabutin (MYCOBUTIN ), rifampin (RIFATER , ® ® ® ® , RIMACTANE , RIFADIN ) and rifapentine (PRIFTIN ) RIFAMATE often and do regular blood tests to check your HBV infection. Tell your healthcare provider about any new or unusual symptoms you may have after you stop taking • a proton pump inhibitor medicine for certain stomach or intestinal problems, including esomeprazole (NEXIUM®, VIMOVO®), lansoprazole (PREVACID®), omeprazole COMPLERA. (PRILOSEC®), pantoprazole sodium (PROTONIX®), rabeprazole (ACIPHEX®) • more than 1 dose of the steroid medicine dexamethasone or dexamethasone sodium What is COMPLERA? COMPLERA is a prescription HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) medicine that: phosphate • is used to treat HIV-1 in adults who have never taken HIV medicines before. HIV is the • St. John’s wort (Hypericum perforatum) virus that causes AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome). If you are taking COMPLERA, you should not take: • contains 3 medicines, (rilpivirine, emtricitabine, tenofovir disoproxil fumarate) • other medicines that contain tenofovir (VIREAD®, TRUVADA®, ATRIPLA®) combined in one tablet. EMTRIVA and VIREAD are HIV-1 (human immunodeficiency • other medicines that contain emtricitabine or lamivudine (EMTRIVA®, COMBIVIR®, virus) nucleoside analog reverse transcriptase inhibitors (NRTIs) and EDURANT is an EPIVIR® or EPIVIR-HBV®, EPZICOM®, TRIZIVIR®) HIV-1 non-nucleoside analog reverse transcriptase inhibitor (NNRTI). • rilpivirine (EDURANT™) It is not known if COMPLERA is safe and effective in children under the age of 18 years. • adefovir (HEPSERA®)

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What are the possible side effects of COMPLERA? COMPLERA may cause the following serious side effects, including: • See “What is the most important information I should know about COMPLERA?” • New or worse kidney problems can happen in some people who take COMPLERA. If you have had kidney problems in the past or take other medicines that can cause kidney problems, your healthcare provider may need to do blood tests to check your kidneys during your treatment with COMPLERA. • Depression or mood changes. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you have any of the following symptoms: - feeling sad or hopeless - feeling anxious or restless - have thoughts of hurting yourself (suicide) or have tried to hurt yourself • Bone problems can happen in some people who take COMPLERA. Bone problems include bone pain, softening or thinning (which may lead to fractures). Your healthcare provider may need to do additional tests to check your bones. • Changes in body fat can happen in people taking HIV medicine. These changes may include increased amount of fat in the upper back and neck (“buffalo hump”), breast, and around the main part of your body (trunk). Loss of fat from the legs, arms and face may also happen. The cause and long term health effect of these conditions are not known. • Changes in your immune system (Immune Reconstitution Syndrome) can happen when you start taking HIV medicines. Your immune system may get stronger and begin to fight infections that have been hidden in your body for a long time. Tell your healthcare provider if you start having new symptoms after starting your HIV medicine.

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Tell your healthcare provider if you have any side effect that bothers you or that does not go away. These are not all the possible side effects of COMPLERA. For more information, ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist. Call your doctor for medical advice about side effects. You may report side effects to FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 (1-800-332-1088). How do I store COMPLERA? • Store COMPLERA at room temperature 77 °F (25 °C). • Keep COMPLERA in its original container and keep the container tightly closed. • Do not use COMPLERA if the seal over the bottle opening is broken or missing. Keep COMPLERA and all other medicines out of reach of children. General information about COMPLERA: Medicines are sometimes prescribed for purposes other than those listed in a Patient Information leaflet. Do not use COMPLERA for a condition for which it was not prescribed. Do not give COMPLERA to other people, even if they have the same symptoms you have. It may harm them. This leaflet summarizes the most important information about COMPLERA. If you would like more information, talk with your healthcare provider. You can ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist for information about COMPLERA that is written for health professionals. For more information, call (1-800-445-3235) or go to www.COMPLERA.com. What are the ingredients of COMPLERA? Active ingredients: emtricitabine, rilpivirine hydrochloride, and tenofovir disoproxil fumarate Inactive ingredients: pregelatinized starch, lactose monohydrate, microcrystalline cellulose, croscarmellose sodium, magnesium stearate, povidone, polysorbate 20. The tablet film coating contains polyethylene glycol, hypromellose, lactose monohydrate, triacetin, titanium dioxide, iron oxide red, FD&C Blue #2 aluminum lake, FD&C Yellow #6 aluminum lake. This Patient Information has been approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration Manufactured and distributed by: Gilead Sciences, Inc. Foster City, CA 94404 Issued: August 2011 COMPLERA, the COMPLERA Logo, EMTRIVA, HEPSERA, TRUVADA, VIREAD, GILEAD, and the GILEAD Logo are trademarks of Gilead Sciences, Inc. or its related companies. ATRIPLA is a trademark of Bristol-Myers Squibb & Gilead Sciences, LLC. All other trademarks referenced herein are the property of their respective owners. © 2012 Gilead Sciences, Inc. All rights reserved. 202123-GS-000 02AUG2011 CON12115 2/12

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RLANDO | For the �irst time in two decades, the District 1 Orlando City Council race does not have an incumbent seeking re-election—but that’s not the only historic note of interest in the race. Two openly gay candidates are among the four seeking to �ill the vacancy left by Phil Diamond, who has resigned his position to run for Orlando Mayor. Randy Ross and Chase Smith both threw their hats into the ring over the winter, and both have actively campaigned within the district that encompasses Medical City in Lake Nona, a facility many see as a jobs engine that is just revving up. While both out candidates note their sexuality frankly, neither is focused on that aspect of who they are. “I don’t believe sexuality is an issue in this or any other race,” said Ross, 46. “We are faced with unique challenges in Orlando from high unemployment to an inadequate

transit system. I am proud of being a gay man and proud that my campaign manager is a proud gay man. But I am solely focused on plans and issues that affect all residents of District 1, not just the LGBT community.” Smith has a similar point of view when it comes to his campaign. “I’m proud of who I am,” said Smith, 39, “but I see my candidacy in terms of being the only candidate in the race with the experience and best ideas necessary to see District 1 succeed and being the best equipped to serve the citizens.” Also seeking the District 1 seat are Jim Gray and Steve Rayle. From a fundraising standpoint, Gray seems ahead of the pack, having raised nearly $65,000, according to the Orlando City Clerk’s of�ice. By comparison, Ross has raised just under $13,000 and Smith garnered just over $9,000. Rayle logged approximately $8,000, according to records dated March 9. But despite the �inancial disparity, Ross and Chase both feel like their chances of landing the seat are strong. Smith, who grew up in Wauchula,

said his quali�ications for the job include 20 years of experience in local government as well as his existing relationships with both the City of Orlando and Orange County. “I’m very con�ident,” Smith said. “It is my hope that the voters of District 1 will acknowledge my years of experience, the relationships I have with city and county elected of�icials and staff and the fact that I have speci�ic plans on how to address the issues and concerns of residents and the district without having to go through a huge learning curve to learn and understand the city.” Ross also hopes that his understanding of the city will be taken into account by voters. He said his run was motivated by his feeling his voice was not being heard and has touted his “50 x 3” Orlando Job Fair Plan, which would require the city to sponsor a job fair every 90 days for the next two years. “I’m con�ident that I have run a campaign focused on issues that matter to Orlando, my district and that I’ve worked to include the voices of labor unions, community groups and business owners into my plans.” The two men have had limited interaction—mostly at forums Continued on page 14 |  |

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RLANDO | With the election only days away, the race for Orlando mayor is pitting what many in the community consider to be an LGBTaf�irming incumbent mayor against an openly LGBT candidate. Michael Cantone, who identi�ies as bisexual, has made waves recently with sharp criticism of Mayor Buddy Dyer, and a clash with openly gay Orlando City Commissioner Patty Sheehan. In a letter to Watermark, Sheehan criticized Cantone for his advocacy at Come Out With Pride in November. “Mr. Cantone seems more interested in getting attention for his campaign than actually helping the gay community,” Sheehan wrote. “That is his prerogative. But it is mine to defend our allies and those in the GLBTQ and friendly community who have been working collectively and cooperatively to further the cause of equality.” During Mayor Buddy Dyer’s nine year tenure, Orlando implemented domestic partner bene�its for city employees and created a domestic partner registry. Dyer was also the �irst sitting mayor to participate in Come Out with Pride. Cantone, however, considers Dyer’s support of the Orlando LGBT community a “fallacy.” “Every four years Buddy Dyer becomes a friend to the gay community,” said Cantone. “He de�initely times it right to deliver a campaign promise. The Domestic Partnership Registry would have been landmark �ive years ago. That would have been a time to �ight for the LGBT community… when there was no voice.” Cantone describes himself as a “progressive stance with pragmatic solutions,” who hopes to challenge what he calls “old school” politics in Orlando. Just 28, he would

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Candidates for Orlando Mayor MICHAEL CANTONE Prone to hyperbole (“I’ll begin on day one to dismantle City Hall.”), this 28-yearold rabble rouser is a true progressive (see profile) who thinks the city hasn’t done enough for the LGBT community. Orlando Sentinel political columnist Scott Maxwell believes Cantone’s appeal is narrow because incumbent Mayor Buddy Dyer is a tested Democrat. Cantone believes he has a better pulse on the city. He hopes to prove Maxwell wrong on Election Day.

PHIL DIAMOND This soft-spoken sitting commissioner has represented District One for the past 10 years. An accountant and tax attorney, he has established a reputation as a fiscally conservative balance sheet guy. Diamond has repeatedly criticized Mayor Dyer for tone deaf big spending that favors his friends and supporters. Indeed, he has been the lone voice of dissent on the City Council for many of Dyer’s big projects. Diamond, a 52-year-old Democrat, has been a consistent supporter of the LGBT community, voting for DP benefits and the DP Registry, and appearing consistently at Pride and other community events.

BUDDY DYER The incumbent won election 10 years ago when Mayor Glenda Hood left office mid-term to become Florida’s Secretary of State. He has been re-elected twice, the last time with 61% of the vote. He’s been criticized for his handling of Occupy protestors and Food Not Bombs activists, and for saddling the city with future financial obligations associated with big initiatives like SunRail, Amway Arena and the Dr. Phillips Performing Arts Center. But Dyer insists we can responsibly afford them, and that these projects will define a future great city. And he proudly points out that he eliminated the city’s budget deficit during tough times, and that both crime and taxes are down. Dyer recently received Equality Florida’s “Voice for Equality” award for leadership on LGBT issues.

KEN MULVANEY This is the third run at mayor for this commercial real estate professional. The only Republican in this nonpartisan race, Mulvaney is a colorful Irish immigrant with a thick brogue and a feisty disrespect for the incumbent. He rails that Dyer is a big spender that favors cohorts over community. “Not enough money is spent on the needs of the people who live in Orlando,” Mulvaney said during a debate. He promises to review the city’s $350 million budget “line by line.” Mulvaney has engaged in outreach to the LGBT community, but did not respond to questions regarding his stance on LGBT issues by press time.

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be one of the youngest mayors of a major city in the nation. Cantone sees that as a bene�it. “We need a generational change to shake up the status quo,” he said. Some of Cantone’s key campaign issues include curbing spending on development projects like the Medical City in Lake Nona, the proposed Creative Village (“a Creative Castle”) on the site of the recently demolished O-rena, and the new Dr. Phillips Performing Arts Center. He would refocus city spending on affordable housing options and vocational training centers in each city district. Born in Mt. Vernon, N.Y., to schoolteacher parents, Cantone grew up mostly in Virginia. He studied Political Science and International Studies at St. Louis University. Over the past decade he has worked as a progressive lobbyist, political consultant and campaign manager with diverse groups like the Missouri Progressive Vote Coalition, the United States Public Interest Research Group and the Democratic Party of Georgia. |  | An Historic Race from pg.13

and community events while campaigning. Besides having the same sexual orientation, both candidates say they are very different regarding their plans for the city’s future. When asked what the most signi�icant difference was between him and his opponent, Ross mentioned his transit and jobs plans.

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He most recently served as the Political Director for Organize Now, a progressive communitybased organization committed to increasing civic participation in under-served and disenfranchised communities. “We see who bene�its in this city and who does not,” Cantone said, speaking of the city’s current leadership. “It’s the people who have connections with the city leadership—the big developers, the big corporations and most certainly the Chamber of Commerce—not the average worker or the homeowner struggling to pay their mortgage.” Cantone expressed concern about the city funneling money into additional retail and residential projects. “Twenty percent of downtown commercial space is vacant and one-in-�ive homes are in foreclosure or �inancial distress,” he observed. If elected mayor, Cantone says he would also bridge what he perceives to be a gap between the county and city governments. He referred to the current working relationship between Orange County Mayor Teresa Jacobs and Mayor Dyer as “toxic at best.”

“From the start, you have seen friction [between them] on many �inancing issues,” Cantone said. “Mayor Dyer’s duties stop where the city boundaries end. Mayor Jacobs represents a shift from the good ol’ boys network in the county.” Cantone also believes Dyer—who he describes as a “Chambercrat”— nurtures greater political ambitions. “I think Mayor Jacobs is focused on local issues and local solutions,” he said. “Unlike Mayor Dyer, she doesn’t have one foot out the door.” Cantone thinks people will respond to his candidacy. “I offer a fresh start that puts the people �irst and re�lects their priorities, not just those of connected big business,” he said. Asked about his chances, Cantone said, “I think anything is possible on April 3. It is going to be determined by who turns out. But I know our message is resonating with people. I’m de�initely optimistic.” City of Orlando elections take place on Tuesday, April 3. In addition to Dyear and Cantone, candidates for mayor include sitting District 1 City Commissioner Phil Diamond and businessman and entrepreneur Ken Mulvaney. |  |

“Also, my extensive marketing background and success in hosting job fairs and business,” he said. “I will use this experience to market Orlando as ‘open for business.’” Smith cites his long-term commitment to District 1 as what sets him apart from Ross. “I have made an investment in District one and purchased my home here,” Smith said. “Mr. Ross has never lived in District 1 and continues to live in District 4, where he can’t even vote for himself.

I attended every redistricting advisory board meeting held to argue to keep my neighborhood in District 1, as it has been for the past 20 years. Mr. Ross, to my knowledge, never attended any of those meetings.” The election for Orlando City Council is Tuesday, April 3. If none of the four candidates receives a majority of the votes, the top two �inishers will face off in a run-off election on May 1. |  |

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T. PETERSBURG | It was standing room only inside the L-Train on March 22, when nearly 80 people crowded into the downtown theater to discuss issues pertaining speci�ically to the transgender community. The meeting was inspired by a recent act of transphobia at the Bishop Tavern, which made international news. “One incident brought you here,” Trans*Action Florida (formerly Transgender FORGE) Executive Director Michael Keeffe told the crowd. “But for others, we’re here for the thousands of other incidents of transphobia.” The town hall meeting featured Equality Florida Executive Director Nadine Smith, Tampa Bay Business Guild President Mariruth Kennedy, Stonewall Democrats’ Beth Fountain and Jake Kopmeier from the King of Peace Metropolitan Community Church. Keeffe asked the panel several questions and wanted to know how each organization represented valued inclusion of the transgender community. “I don’t think we can just say it’s ‘the right thing to do,’” said Kennedy. “Inclusion just makes

the meeting, with leaders from each organization inviting the transgender community to actively participate or enroll so that representation could grow. sense from a business perspective. “Tell your story and share the If an organization like the Tampa human face of the issues,” Kottmeier Bay Business Guild isn’t accepting told the crowd. or af�irming, how can the rest of the Fountain echoed his statement. community at large be? We have “To make your time come, you prejudice in our own community, have to make your time come,” she and that’s why I am actively said. “Once someone knows they recruiting a transgender person for know someone in the transgender our board.” community, their point of view Smith echoed Kennedy’s changes. But that’s a responsibility sentiments, saying that if the you must take on yourself.” community adopts a “we’ll come for The meeting ended on a you later” mentality when it comes high note, with St. Petersburg to equality ordinances and laws, it City Councilman Steve Kornell gives other groups license to jettison addressing the crowd brie�ly and a speci�ic group and view them as sharing some hopeful news about outcasts. the future of the city. “We have one thing, at the “I have asked for gender reassignment surgery to be included in the city’s bene�it package,” Kornell said to applause. “And —NADINE SMITH OF EQUALITY FLORIDA I am working on getting end of the day, in our arsenal,” gender identity and expression Smith said. “We are all born with included in our human rights certain inalienable rights—we are ordinance.” born equal. But it’s important to Keeffe was happy with the remember that when a group does turnout and the execution of the �inally �ind its voice, we tend to yell.” meeting, saying that the support And that, Smith added, isn’t shown by the transgender and always received well. LGBT community at large made him A theme of understanding hopeful. |  | and participation permeated

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T. PETERSBURG | April 5 will be a very signi�icant day for the future of domestic partnership registries cross Florida—and the beginning of one in St. Petersburg. Nearly two weeks after the Tampa City Council voted to move forward with a domestic partnership registry, St. Petersburg City Councilman Steve Kornell is hopeful that his city will follow suit when he introduces the idea at an April 5 city council meeting. Kornell has told several media outlets that he’s con�ident such an ordinance—mirrored after the one currently in place in Orlando and forming in Tampa—will have the support of his fellow council members and Mayor Bill Foster. “It is something I support and I don’t need to be convinced it’s a good thing,” Kornell told Watermark in January. “It’s a great idea, we just need to �igure out how to make it happen.” Banking on the success of other progressive cities could be the key to making the registry a reality in St. Petersburg. On March 15, more than 20 people lined up to speak at the Tampa City Council meeting and voice support for a proposed domestic partnership registry—and the council unanimously approved it. The ordinance allows for registered domestic partners—both same-sex and opposite-sex—to make critical life decisions concerning hospital visitation, medical decisions and more. “I want to say how pleased I am with such a positive response,” Tampa Councilwoman Yvonne Capin, told the audience at the March 15 meeting. “This reinforces our diversity and Tampa was born of diversity. This is a great place to live and I’m proud we’ve made this place great—and hopefully now it will be even better for my two-week-old grandson to be raised in.” Each present councilmember voiced support of the ordinance before the of�icial vote and all applauded Capin’s initiative in bringing the registry to the forefront. “I thought this registry was a great idea,” said Councilman Mike Suarez. “Eleven years ago, Of�icer Lois Morerro was killed in the line of duty and there was a �ight between her partner and the pension board regarding bene�its. I am proud to know we’ll do our part for taking a step toward equality. The city has no right to say who can and cannot get married, but we have a moral right to provide the services our citizens need.” Tampa Mayor Bob Buckhorn, who was not at the meeting, told Watermark that he supports the registry. He said he would sign it into law when it came to his desk. The �irst reading of the ordinance in Tampa passed Continued on page 18 |  |

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Hamburger Mary’s cited for 40-plus health code violations Staff Report TAMPA | The popular Hamburger Mary’s in Ybor City was temporarily closed the week of March 10 after more than 40 health code violations were reported by the state. According to state inspectors, more than 75 rodent droppings were found throughout the kitchen, including near the server area, mini-bar area, dish machine, box soda cage, storage room, ice machine and the hostess stand. The state issued a stop sale order on March 6, according to ABC Action News, because 24 gallons of chili was not properly cooled from 135 degrees to 41 degrees within the correct time period. All of that chili was tossed out. The violations were corrected and Hamburger Mary’s reopened approximately 24 hours after the citations were issued. Other violations spanning a 14-month period include food stored on the �loor, potentially hazardous food thawing in standing water, and raw animal food stored over cooked food. The restaurant was featured on ABC Action News’ Dirty Dining website. |  |

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GULFPORT | To avoid Florida’s sweltering summer heat, the Fourth Annual Pet Pride has been moved to the more comfortable date of April 7. This year’s parade of fabulous pets is Saturday, April 7, from 4-10 p.m. along Beach Boulevard South. This year’s celebration is organized by Pet Pride Magazine, St. Pete Pride and the newly formed Pets4Dorothy, which assists �inancially struggling LGBT pet owners with veterinary needs. In recognition of St. Pete Pride’s theme of “Carnivale,” participants in the pet parade are encouraged to dress their pets appropriately, while local celebrity judges select the 2012 King and Queen of the pets. Winners will be crowned at the celebration. Other activities include live entertainment by local musical acts, silent auctions with high end merchandise and vendor booths featuring petfriendly businesses and organizations. For more information and a full schedule, visit StPetePride.com. |  |

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AMPA BAY | At 30 years old, the Tampa Bay Business Guild is embedded in the history of LGBT Tampa Bay. But as technology and business needs have evolved, so too must the organization that promotes the success of LGBT and allied businesses throughout Hillsborough and Pinellas counties. “It’s important for us to recognize 30 years of history,” said TBBG board president Mariruth Kennedy, adding that in December the guild will host a 30th anniversary party. “But we also have to meet the new needs of the community, and one of the things we did was change the meeting structure.” What used to be monthly dinner meetings in hotel ballrooms are now cocktail-style gatherings at venues throughout the area. It gives members and guests more time to mingle, share ideas and, of course, exchange business cards. “The system right now is that eight times a year we’ll have networking functions held around Tampa Bay,” Kennedy explained. “These are about meeting people who can help move your business forward. It’s a real chance to get introduced to other like-minded business people.” Kennedy added that it’s the mission of every board member to introduce themselves to whomever walks through the door, and then to introduce that person to another member. Kennedy said complaints about the Guild becoming too “cliqueish” and staying squirreled away in a hotel ballroom helped ignite the change. |  | Domestic Partner

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“A new board is more willing to listen to what people are saying and is less defensive,” Kennedy said. In addition to the eight networking mingles this year, the board has planned three programmed events, beginning with one in April in conjunction with the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. The April 10 meeting will focus on how businesses can become certi�ied LGBT businesses, which isn’t as easy as some may think. “This is something that would normally cost a business owner $400 to become certi�ied,” Kennedy said. “For members, it’s free.” Members can attend the April meeting for $25 and for non-

Membership for the TBBG is $130 a year, which includes free entry into the networking events. For non-members, those events are $10 a person. The new structure is not only enticing new members to check out the guild, but it’s bringing back some former members who haven’t been to a meeting in several years. “It’s a great time for folks to come back to an entity that they valued at one point and then something happened to make them think it didn’t it them anymore,” Kennedy said. Besides bringing LGBT and allied business owners together, the TBBG is taking a more active role in the public in 2012. Already, the guild made its presence known at the recent Tampa City Council meeting where the board voted on a proposed domestic partnership registry ordinance. —MARIRUTH KENNEDY, TBBG PRESIDENT Kennedy spoke in support of members it’s $35. the registry, saying it would be One of the concerns of good for business in the area. members prior to the reformatted “We can advocate for our Tampa Bay Business Guild was members and our entity and we the cost of the lengthy dinner will speak out on issues that affect meetings and the value, or lack of the LGBT business community or value, programs offered. That has the business community at large,” changed this year, Kennedy said, Kennedy said. “We want to be and so far the feedback has been an economic voice for the LGBT positive. business community in Tampa “We’re increasing attendance,” Bay.” Kennedy said. “Last summer we Other members of the TBBG had 19 members show up to a board of directors include: vice meeting. Our last networking president John DeRosa, secretary event had more than 50 people Monte Michelson, treasurer attend. We’re also expecting a David Buby, Lisa Demmi, Sharon big crowd at the April program Herman, Jose Cayon, Chris Rudisill because it’s something business and Anthony Barros. owners need and we’re offering For more information on the them something of value.” TBBG, visit TBBG.org. |  |

“A new board is more willing to listens to what people are saying and is less defensive.”

employees. If things go according to expectations, both should have active domestic partnership registries by the summer. Kornell said a domestic partnership registry speaks volumes to individuals and companies hoping to relocate. “It says, ‘Come here, your

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UBERNDALE | Each March, Lynn and Pat Mulder prepare themselves for an anniversary no parent wants to recognize. It was March 14, 2007—just over �ive years ago—that their son, Ryan Keith Skipper, was stabbed nearly 20 times and his body dumped on the side of the road. He was killed simply because he was gay. “It gets easier with time, but the anniversary is a very dif�icult time for us, even �ive years out,” said Lynn, Ryan’s father. The two men responsible for Ryan’s death—Joseph Bearden and William Brown Jr.—are serving life prison sentences after both were found guilty in 2009. The way in which Polk County Sheriff Judd handled the investigation—and the comments he made about Ryan’s supposed activities the night of his murder—still upsets those who were close to Ryan. Today, both Mulders and their son, Damien Skipper, are active in pressing lawmakers to pass protections for the LGBT community. The family is happy that the two

men responsible for the death of Ryan will live the rest of their lives behind bars, but that doesn’t make their loss any easier. “I don’t believe there is closure,” says Pat Mulder. “I know that it’s a word we use because there is no other word better to use. But I think I don’t ever want closure where Ryan is concerned. I want his memory to stay alive and closure isn’t what I want. I wanted fairness, and I feel that’s what we got with their sentencing.” For Ryan’s big brother, the anniversary has a larger impact on him with each anniversary and reminds him of the brother and best friend with whom he can no longer share life’s big moments. “You have to make it easier by continuing to tell Ryan’s story and the life that he lived,” Damien says. “It gets easier to share his story with so many people and we all try to do that.”

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Before the murder of Ryan Skipper, the family had never been involved in activism. Since Ryan was out to his family, they were aware of the LGBT community, but they had never actively worked for change. “Joe Saunders of Equality Florida

coined the phrase ‘accidental activists’ for us,” Lynn laughed. “Never in my wildest dreams did I expect to be so active.” Pat admits that she still gets nervous when she speaks in crowds, or especially to lawmakers. But she’s getting more con�ident with each visit to Tallahassee. “I’m less nervous than I was at one time,” she said. “I don’t think you can talk to enough people to make them understand how important equality is. I’ve gotten stronger and it’s sort of a huge growth spurt for me.” When Equality Florida Executive Director Nadine Smith �irst met the Mulders it was immediately after Ryan’s murder. The LGBT advocacy organization helped the family cope while putting a spotlight on the Polk County murder. “The murder was senseless,” Smith said. “But I’ve been amazed at how his family has resisted bitterness and stayed dedicated to speaking out. They have offered themselves up every single time we’ve asked.” Barely a year after Ryan was killed, the Mulders found themselves on the road to a Fort Lauderdale symposium to offer support to the mother of Simmie Williams, a 17-year-old transgender woman who was shot and killed. Smith remembers the embrace the two

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ADE CITY | For more than a decade, LGBT campers have enjoyed the peaceful yet festive atmosphere of Sawmill Campground. But after the campground was owned for three years by straight men from 2008-2011, residents recognized a need for change. So residents took matters into their own hands and the 120-acre expanse designated itself a co-op—the �irst gay-owned co-op in the country. This April, shareholders, members and guests will celebrate the �irst anniversary of its historic decision to become the nation’s �irst gay-owned community. “We had to raise $4.25 million to accomplish this,” said board member Al Ferguson, who has been involved with the co-op from the very beginning. “The previous owners wouldn’t reinvest in the infrastructure and services of the property. We got fed up with it and wouldn’t take it anymore.” That’s when a group of 10 people began researching the ins and outs of creating a co-op—a not-for-pro�it entity controlled by invested shareholders. There are currently 90 shareholders, and more investment opportunities are available—each share is $28,000. “That was the future of Sawmill,” Ferguson said. “That’s how we started and it took us a year to get everything in order.” After one year under the new designation, Sawmill has reported growth, and its membership has surged. “January through March is typically the slowest time of year because of winter,” Ferguson said. “But our membership growth has been dramatic in terms of new members joining—we’re somewhere past 2,000 new members in the past 60 days.” Ferguson added that the campground’s revenue has also exceeded records, which translates into more physical improvements at Sawmill. Improvements that are already noticeable include a spruced up area around the clothing-optional pool and a modernized septic system, which had been a cause of concern for years, Ferguson said. “There have also been signi�icant improvements in light, sound and the buildings,” Ferguson added. “There’s an obvious re-investment on our events and making it a fun place to visit.” In 2011, Sawmill played host to the largest LGBT Fourth of July celebration in the United States with its sizeable �ireworks display. Its Halloween attractions and New Year’s Eve celebrations also upstaged anything the campground had done previously. It’s an atmosphere many wouldn’t expect in rural, conservative Pasco County—where the campground has notoriously con�licted with local government agencies. But even that relationship is changing for the better,

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|  | Sawmill Anniversary from pg.23 Ferguson said. “We are the most reviewed gay business in the state,” Ferguson said, referring to government organizations. “Previous ownership had burned many bridges but one of the things [Co-op President] George Cressman has tried to do is mend those relationships.” The local community is paying attention to the improvements, Ferguson added. Several nearby hotels now have a symbiotic relationship with the campground, meaning Sawmill guests who can’t stay on site or prefer a hotel room can do so with nearly a half-dozen facilities less than 10 minutes away. To celebrate its �irst year anniversary, Sawmill will host RuPaul the weekend of March 30-April 1. The appearance will be the drag superstar’s only live U.S. performance this year. The following weekend, other stars from the Logo network will make live appearances, including celebrity photographer Mike Ruiz. “People would be shocked how deep of a reach Sawmill has in the state and in the country,” Ferguson said. Ferguson said plans are underway to organize the �irst Pasco County Pride in December, which would be a family-friendly celebration on the grounds. Regulars can also look forward to improved, free wi-�i service on the campground in the near future. For more information, visit FLSawmill.com. |  |

FORT LAUDERDALE | Fort Lauderdale has hired former Lake Worth City Manager Susan Stanton as an accountant in its Housing and Community Development Division. Stanton, formerly Steve Stanton, was previously city manager in Largo, but was �ired in 2007 after announcing plans to change genders.

Staff Report FORT LAUDERDALE | The Stonewall National Museum and Archives continues to grow three years after moving into its expanded space on East Sunrise Boulevard. While many libraries and bookstores are closing their doors to focus on virtual, online ones, Stonewall continues to add exhibits and documents. According to a story in the Sun Sentinal, a tennis racket signed by Martina Navratilova is within yards

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of news clippings of former beauty queen and gay rights opponent Anita Bryant. The gavel that hammered the repeal of the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” military policy against gays and lesbians last year as also made an appearance, thanks to U.S. Congressman Barney Frank, D-Mass. “It’s a good sign. It’s a sign of the vibrance of this movement,’’ said Frank, who visits Fort Lauderdale twice a year with his partner and recently loaned the gavel. “This is a very important cause to document.”

With 25,000 books and videos, Stonewall is the largest circulating library of gay literature and periodicals and one of at least a handful nationally. It changed its name last year, from the Stonewall Library & Archives, to re�lect a more national focus with its collection and traveling exhibitions. For more information, visit StonewallNationalMuseum.org. |  |

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Damien lives in San Diego, Calif., and is married with two young children—a 20-month-old boy, Maxwell, and a seven-monthbaby girl named Ryan. “It was dif�icult thinking about having Ryan’s name with someone else,” Pat said. “But when little Ryan came along, it was okay.” Damien and his wife plan to let both of their children know about their Uncle Ryan and plan to tell baby Ryan about her namesake when she’s older. Just how detailed they’ll get about the

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times, especially when a situation strikes close to home. But Ryan, who would have been 30 years old now, still gives them strength. “It’s amazing the opportunities that open themselves up when you least expect it,” Pat said. “I was in an antique store one time and had the opportunity to speak with two gentlemen who were having a dif�icult time with the city in which they lived. They weren’t receiving equal opportunities. For some reason, I found myself eavesdropping and thought, ‘How can I get into this conversation?’”

“It’s interesting how a memory of Ryan will blindside you and cause a tear to roll,” said Lynn. That day—that week—your thoughts tend to gravitate to what happened. I think that this year, while I grieved, I was also in awe of things that have transpired since his death and how Ryan still has a hand in things in this world.”

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death of Damien’s brother is still to be seen. “It’s a birds-and-bees-type conversation,” Damien said. “I think when they’re six or seven we can explain the pictures of my brother or talk about the tattoo on my arm with his initials. I think the conversation about how he died will happen sometime in their early teens, maybe.” Pat and Lynn think the conversation will be easier than Damien expects. “I see us telling her every day when we get a chance, ‘Your name

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is the same as Uncle Ryan’s. He was special and you’re special too,’” Pat said. “As she grows she’ll �ind out how special it is to be named after Ryan, and I see it being a really good thing. She will be happy to know she’s named after her uncle, and when I learned that was going to be her name I was so tickled.” All of Ryan’s surviving relatives remain active in LGBT causes. Pat and Lynn Mulder continue to speak to lawmakers and support the parents of other children lost to hate crimes. Damien is involved in Equality California and discusses LGBT equality with coworkers and friends whenever he gets a chance. It will always be about opening doors to others by sharing Ryan’s story. “I’ve always said all along that he should never be in vain and that he gave up his life,” Pat said. “I know I’m going to do everything in my power to make sure that doesn’t happen. I know that in the gay community that’s not a problem—you’re �ighting for your life. But I would love for people who are not advocates for human rights to step up because you have to speak up and do something when you see that it’s wrong. “And that, right there, was a Ryan Moment.” |  |

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Soon Pat found herself talking about equality legislation, Ryan’s death and the activist role she and her family had undertaken. It wasn’t until after she left the store that she’d realized she experienced what she calls a “Ryan Moment.” “I got home and told Lynn, ‘Ryan made me go into an antique store today, and you won’t believe what I got into!’” Pat laughed. “You never know when I’m going to �ind them, but it’s interesting how many different times folks give me an opportunity to talk with them. Those are all Ryan Moments—I can’t imagine any other reason for those opportunities.” While most memories of Ryan are pleasant ones and the act of sharing his story keeps his memory alive, the pain of his death is still as fresh as it was in March 2007.

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women shared upon meeting. “It was an amazing moment that is indescribable,” Smith said. “When Denise King [Williams’ mother] looked into the eyes of Pat Mulder, there was an instant connection. When they hugged it was like the rest of the room disappeared.” Pat remembers that meeting— and many others just like it. It’s something she treasures, but also the kind of greeting she hopes will never have to happen again. “I truly mean it when I say I wish there was never another parent who had to feel like that,” Pat said. “It totally destroys your heart. Just to see them in that initial agonizing pain is so dif�icult, I just wish there was some way I could hold all of them. I wish that we could carry that pain for them, just for awhile.” Since Ryan’s murder in 2007, the State of Florida and the country have seen signi�icant changes in LGBT equality. In 2008, Florida passed its anti-bullying law and in 2009, President Obama signed the Mathew Shepard Hate Crimes Act. Eight states now recognize samesex marriages, and in 2010, Florida �inally ended its ban on gays and lesbians adopting children. “We were able to lobby with Equality Florida for the antibullying law,” Lynn said. “Some of the of�icers were more receptive than others and we got to speak with the Attorney General’s staff members about hate crimes. I was so surprised when it passed. I’d like to think we had some in�luence. It was an honor to go with Equality Florida—there is no way Pat and I could have done that on our own.” Pat is amazed at how quickly change has come—even though she realizes there is a long journey ahead to reach full equality for the LGBT community. “Since Ryan’s death, I never thought I’d see adoption be available to gays and lesbians in Florida,” she said. “We have really made some amazing steps in the last �ive years. Can you imagine what the next �ive years will bring?” Hopefully it will bring a lot more change, Lynn said, who is more acutely aware of discriminatory practices than he’s ever been. “In my everyday day-to-day

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Ryan Skipper might be alive today if his civic leaders had denounced anti-gay bigotry through word and deed instead of cultivating fertile ground for hatred to grow. If elected and community leaders in and around Polk County had championed inclusive public policies to re�lect the inherent value and worth of all the citizens, maybe Ryan Skipper would not have been targeted and killed just for being gay. Many in this community know the story of Ryan Skipper, the effervescent young man from Winter Haven who was brutally murdered in 2007. My wife, Vicki Nantz, and I made a documentary about Ryan’s story— doubly tragic because Ryan was harassed and attacked throughout his life before the horri�ic events of his murder, and was even persecuted after his death. Our documentary, Accessory to Murder: Our Culture’s Complicity in the Death of Ryan Skipper, focused on the pervasive societal in�luences that created an environment where two young men hated Ryan Skipper so much—just because he was gay—that they butchered him and dumped his body on a dark road, torched and abandoned his car at “Lake Pansy,” and bragged to their friends about having done the world a favor by “getting rid of a faggot.” Every institution in Ryan’s world failed him—schools, churches, government, media, and law enforcement.

No civic leader told Ryan Skipper’s would-be killers that gay people are worthy of respect and dignity. In fact, through their words and deeds, those leaders reinforced the opposite: that gay people are “less than.” Imagine if the public message in Polk County had been different. In Orlando, the message is different. Orlando Mayor Buddy Dyer has long been an ally of the LGBT community, and recently exhibited extraordinary leadership when he championed the Orlando Domestic Partnership Registry, providing several critical rights and bene�its to domestic partner families. The positive results of that act have been immediate, important, and long-reaching. Not only did Dyer immediately agree to support the DPR when it was proposed to him, he said and did all the right things to get it done ASAP. He assigned his highest level staff. He publicly recognized our families on the same level as his own. He did everything in his power to persuade our reluctant Orange County Mayor, Teresa Jacobs, to join him in doing the right thing for the Orlando/Orange County community, and when she declined he made sure the Orlando DPR would be open to all citizens regardless of where they live. Buddy proudly wore his best red tie (in unity with the red-clad LGBT community) to the two public hearings on the DPR, and on Jan. 12, the day that the Orlando DPR took effect, Buddy and his entire staff wore red and created a wonderful event for those of us that “got registered” that �irst day. The happy (and transformative) images of that day were broadcast across the nation, and since that day Orlando has registered more than 300 couples. The Orlando DPR is now being used as a model by other Central Florida communities—like Tampa, St. Petersburg and Volusia County—and Orlando staff is working to help those governments implement DPRs for their citizens. An important message has been sent along with the bene�its resulting from passage of the Orlando DPR: Gay people are human beings whose lives and relationships must be valued and respected by society. That is a powerful message that changes hearts and minds, and literally saves lives. By contrast, a failure of leadership on this issue has negative and potentially deadly, consequences. Leaders who delay, waver, obfuscate, denigrate, and look for excuses to deny send

a dangerous message. Their words and actions suggest that gay people are not worthy of respect, that their relationships are not legitimate—that they are “less than” all others. That message only feeds hatred and promotes violence. At the �irst Orlando public hearing on the DPR, a young man, coincidentally named Ryan, stepped to the podium and told the audience about the harassment and abuse he had suffered in his life because he was gay, and he said that he had come to City Hall because equality was important to him. Then his voice faltered, and he paused. After a long silence, an obviously moved Mayor

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Dyer thanked him for his testimony and assured Ryan that he was welcome in that chamber and in this City. This Ryan left Orlando City Hall that day feeling embraced by his community, with the knowledge that his government was proudly going to pass an ordinance to protect gay families. If only Ryan Skipper, and so many others like him, had received that message and felt that embrace. We are grateful to a Leader like Buddy Dyer for speaking out with a societychanging message of acceptance and equality for all. That is the message we must hear from all of our leaders. We are listening. |  |

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It happened in nearby Sanford, but this senseless and gut-wrenching tragedy has caused universal outrage. And it has mobilized the African-American community like nothing since the height of the civil rights movement in the 1960s. “How do we go from this moment to a movement that creates change?” the Rev. Jesse Jackson challenged at a local rally. “If it’s a moment we go home. If it’s a movement, we go to war.” In a situation like the tragic killing of 17-year-old Trayvon Martin, where right and wrong appear well-de�ined, it’s dif�icult to look unwaveringly at causation. But the effort can reap unexpected dividends. Just ask the gay community.

In the late 1980s and early 1990s, AIDS was killing tens of thousands of gay men each year. There was no treatment, no cure, and people were terri�ied. Patients were quarantined and emergency medical providers refused direct contact. In some cases, gay men were forbidden from working in hospitals or handling food in restaurants. Most infuriating, the federal government devoted few resources to the horri�ic and growing epidemic. Research grants languished in bureaucratic red tape. President Ronald Reagan never addressed the crisis publicly. So LGBT activists took to the street with a desperate plea: our lives matter, too. “We’re living through war, but where they’re living it’s peacetime,” cried author and playwright Larry Kramer. “And we’re all in the same country!” This was the obvious message of the AIDS crisis; the obvious teaching opportunity. But courageous leaders like Kramer compelled us to examine further, and to our everlasting credit we rose to the challenge. At �irst few wanted to consider that unprotected sex was the principal means by which HIV is transmitted. Bathhouses stubbornly refused to offer condoms or post warnings. All this speculation about HIV was anti-sex—just when it was starting to get fun. “I am sick of guys who moan that giving up careless sex until this blows over is worse than death,” Kramer said. “How can they value life so little?” But Kramer dug even deeper, crying out that neither sex nor HIV was the principal culprit of our demise—it was the closet. “As more and more of my friends die, I have less and less sympathy for men who are afraid their mommies will �ind out or their bosses will �ind out,” he challenged. “Unless we can generate visible mass numbers, we are going to die.” Slowly, attitudes changed. Condoms became ubiquitous. We learned to ask for safe sex. Non-pro�its sprouted to care for people with AIDS and offer HIV testing and counseling. And we began to take care of our own, through fundraising and volunteerism. We discovered that Kramer was right: being gay isn’t about sex,

We discovered that Larry Kramer was right: being gay isn’t about sex, it’s about self-respect.

it’s about self-respect. Things have been different ever since. Similarly, the deepest lesson from the death of Trayvon Martin may also be unpalatable at �irst. Like AIDS and homophobia, it’s obvious that the racist objecti�ication of young black men as thugs is rampant in our culture and has tragic consequences. But as with HIV, there are more unsettling questions worth asking. Why are young black men stereotyped in the �irst place? And what can be done about it? There are close to �ive million AfricanAmerican men ages 15 to 29 in this country. According to U.S. Bureau of Justice statistics, more than 30% can expect to spend time

in prison over the course of their lifetime. The growing disenfranchisement of a large percentage of African American boys, and our culture’s brick-like response, is an epidemic every bit as tragic and costly as AIDS. And as troubling as it is to confront, this epidemic is at least partially responsible for the stereotyping that placed an innocent Trayvon Martin in harm’s way. Like Kramer, Jackson invoked war to describe the rampant racial stereotyping that led to Trayvon’s death. But if there’s to be war, I hope it will also be against the devastating disenfranchisement of AfricanAmerican youth in our country. And I hope it’s as successful as the stillevolving war on AIDS. |  |

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Leslie is best known as Beverly Leslie, the bitchy arch-nemesis of Karen Walker on TV’s Will & Grace, Brother Boy on Sordid Lives and, more recently, as the newspaper honcho who hires Emma Stone to write an advice column in the Oscar award-winning �ilm, The Help. Jordan loves to tell a story, and he tells them with ease, whether it’s in person or from the stage on his Stories I Can’t Tell Mama tour which stops at Tampa’s Straz Center Thursday, April 5, and the Parliament House’s Footlight Theater in Orlando on Friday, April 6. In a recent chat, Watermark caught up with the camp comedian to talk MAR.29 - APR.11, 2012 // ISSUE 19.07

about his return to Florida and those things he just can’t tell his mama:

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time ago, it’s just best to get up there and talk about whatever. I’ve got a lot of stories about The Help. I had a lot of fun shooting that so I’ve got some wonderful stories about the ladies. I took a show that I actually did previously at The Parliament House called My Trip Down the Pink Carpet and took it to London. It ran at The Apollo, so I’ve got stories about that. Continued on page 44 |  |

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There is a ton of goofy, pointless stuff here. Good thing it works. 21 Jump Street is a sophomoric re-invention of Jeff (Segel) is a 30-year-old pothead. the terrible 80s cop show that gave He lives on a couch in his mom’s Johnny Depp his start. This funny basement, obsessing over the M. Night movie slyly reverses the typical high Shyamalan �ilm Signs, and swearing school comedy; now, gay teens and that simple occurrences in his life have tree-hugging eco-nerds are hip, and a greater, supernatural signi�icance. jocks are uncool. Maybe he’s right. The Duplass Cherubic Hill was once a faux white brothers—the writer/director duo rapper his classmates called “Not-Sobehind Cyrus—seem to think so. Slim Shady.” Tatum was the athlete Jeff’s brother Ed Helms doesn’t who bullied him. However, in think Jeff’s a winner. Helms police academy, these bozos is, to himself, a “success.” He combined Hill’s brains with works at a paint store and RATINGS GUIDE Tatum’s brawn in order to talks of ominous “business graduate. meetings.” He buys a Porsche On the beat as cops, it’s he can’t afford and then Overflowing clear that these two are decides his wife is cheating with glittery immature morons. So, they on him. fabulousness are given an undercover Momma Sarandon is assignment as students to just trying to get her boys in�iltrate a high school drug Pretty damn to grow up. She’d love it if good, but it’s no ring. Due to a mix-up, Hill has her youngest son left the Sunset Boulevard to play Peter Pan in drama basement, if only to go to class, and Tatum gets stuck in the hardware store and buy advanced chemistry, a course An entertaining some glue. he’s destined to �lunk. enough flick Mom’s life is upended Hill is clearly in his with perhaps when she gets a message a few holes comedic comfort zone here, from a secret admirer. so, honestly, he’s a little It turns out to be a big dull. Tatum, however, just Ever so slightly day for this family. Duplass found his funny bone. He’s watchable, just �ilms are small, sometimes wonderful as the dopey, for that hot actor meandering, and mostly handsome jock thrust in improv. The actors seem to with the nerds. These actors Two hours of revel in the tightness and develop a snappy rapport. your life you’ll tininess of the plot. Helms is Hill suddenly �inds the never get back pretty nifty playing against popularity he missed the type as a jerk, but Segel is a �irst time. joy to watch. Tatum remains a stupid but Slowly, we learn of Jeff’s dreamy loyal puppy dog, despite his pain of qualities and his loyalty. There are also being made an outsider. There are bits of pure fantasy—which may seem also hilarious gun�ights, car chases, to be a copout. However, Segel and the explosions, a prom, a kegger, and a Duplass brothers have created such a surprise cameo or two. It all adds up sweet loser that we want something to a high school we don’t mind going magical to come into Jeff’s life. |  | back to. |  | Starring Jason Segel, Ed Helms, Susan Sarandon

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Lawrence (Oscar nominee for Winter’s Bone) is a teenager who lives in a sci-�i version of coal-mining West Virginia. Under her government’s totalitarian rule, each year, her home district must sacri�ice two teens to take part in the life-and-death Hunger Games. Lawrence bravely volunteers to take the place of her sister. In this brutal contest, Lawrence and local boy Hutcherson compete against 22 other teens where only one youth can walk out alive.

The Games are heavily monitored by the state and televised for the bourgeois of the Capital City to revel in the barbarity. As a satire and a romance, it’s not sturdy stuff. The difference between the ridiculous effete of high society and the simple folk is a little overblown. However, to teenagers raised on reality TV, the symbolism is hard to miss. The violence is tame enough to get a PG-13 rating The Hunger Games actually works because the acting is solid and the action is well executed. Also, it’s a good, �luffy way to introduce teenagers to the politics of Huxley and Orwell. |  |

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TWO SIDED: Orlando Ballet’s Swans: Black & White tells a classic tale with iconic imagery. PHOTO COURTESY ORLANDO BALLET

VISIONARY: Artist Director Robert Hill created Swans: Black & White several years ago while working in Mexico. PHOTO COURTESY ORLANDO BALLET

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no knowledge of ballet, they have more than likely heard of the epic Swan Lake, set to the music of Tchaikovsky. But what many may not know is that it’s a production of four acts that can create a very long evening.

“Our audiences aren’t geared toward those evenings anymore,” says Orlando Ballet artistic director Robert Hill. “There is some great stuff in Swan Lake, so I’ve condensed it down to its most poignant moments.” The result is Swans: Black & White, a trimmed down version of the classic saga, showing March 30-April 1 at the Bob Carr

Performing Arts Center. Hill says that his new look at Swan Lake still tells the story of the princess who is cursed to live as a swan by day, and the prince who must choose a bride as he approaches his 21st birthday. It just does so in a more concise way. “I put this two-act production together several years ago,” Hill says, adding that it wasn’t as dif�icult as

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some might think to trim down the classic tale. “You want to tell the story, obviously. For example, in the �irst act I looked at the information that was delivered about the prince celebrating his 21st birthday, his mother’s gift to him, and his learning that he must select a wife. So that information is given in a brief mind sequence during the overture—then we’re directly into the second act featuring the lakeside scene, which contains the iconic images of Swan Lake.” Nearly 50 performers are featured in the production and Hill is hopeful that Swans: Black & White will draw a crowd, thanks to the popularity of the �ilm, Black Swan, and Orlando’s strong arts community. He is also hopeful the LGBT community will enjoy the beauty of

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not only the dancers involved, but from others in the �ield has been the look of the production. surprising. “The LGBT community is very “We are currently hosting a open-minded in a lot of ways teacher training course and we have and the community at large will people from all over the country recognize the classic fairy tale story,” here who know ballet,” Hill says. Hill says. “This is a great opportunity “I’ve received comments like, ‘My for those who have never seen Swan gosh, I didn’t know the company Lake to �ind out what it is. This will was so strong technically and help them understand why it has artistically.’” survived through But that’s not to say the years.” Swans: Black & White And the is just for ballet package in enthusiasts. which the story “The technical is presented is capabilities of visually stunning, the company are Hill adds. The such that even backdrop to the those coming lakeside scene in for the �irst is impressive time are going to in its in�luence see something and simplicity, that’s on a very and the stage’s high level,” Hill transformation says. “It’s a —ROBERT HILL into a ballroom very traditional for the prince’s story and the way I’m going about birthday celebration is elaborate. it is considered traditional. But “While this isn’t a hugely somehow it shakes the dust off of it.” luxurious production,” Hill says, “it’s For tickets and more info, visit not just �luff props. A lot of time and OrlandoBallet.org. |  | energy has gone into all aspects of this.” Of course, at the center of MORE INFORMATION everything are the skills of the dancers in the piece. The WHAT: Swans: Black & White synchronization of 24 swans and WHO: Orlando Ballet 25-plus other performers has WHEN: March 30-April 1 already attracted the attention of WHERE: Bob Carr ballet enthusiasts. While Hill has Performing Arts Center the utmost faith in his performers, TICKETS: OrlandoBallet.org the attention they’ve received

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center of the LGBT universe will be… a 120acre wooded campground in rural Central Florida! And Miami-based “dance entrepreneur” Glenn Douglas Packard will be in the thick of it. The Emmy-nominated Packard, who has worked with megastars like Michael Jackson, Whitney Houston, Liza Minelli, Marc Anthony and Pink, will introduce his Boots n Boys erotic dance troupe—think gay

Chippendales—at Sawmill’s anniversary party. The big event, spread over two weekends from Mar. 29 thru Apr. 2 and then again Apr. 5 thru 9, celebrates the anniversary of Sawmill’s reformation as the

nation’s only not for pro�it gay community. And it will be a spectacle, attracting some of the biggest names in gay entertainment. But Boots n Boys, with choreography by the in-demand Packard, is sure to be a highlight. The brand new troupe will appear both Friday and Saturday nights, and Packard recommends arriving early to get “up close and personal” with the gyrating hunks. Born in little Clare, Mich., Packard planned to take over his father’s farm until a tractor accident almost severed his leg. During a grueling year of hospitals and physical

therapy, he decided that if he regained freeing,” he said. full use of his leg he “It gave me a new would pursue his passion for the LGBT passion for dance. community and the A scholarship at the responsibility we all Alvin Ailey School of have to be true to Dance followed. ourselves.” While dancing Packard behind some of reinvented the the biggest names world-famous in music, Packard Chippendale’s began forming ideas for their 25th for choreography. anniversary tour. Packard worked That experience his way up and gave him the received an Emmy STAR STUDDED: Glenn background to Packard has been in a boy band, nomination for create Boots n Boys. appeared on reality television, and his work on “These will be worked with the likes of Michael Michael Jackson’s boys who like boys, Jackson, Whitney Houston and 30th Anniversary but otherwise they’ll Pink. Celebration at have the same Madison Square Garden in 2001— quality as Chippendale’s dancers,” the day before Sept. 11. said Packard. “They can move, they “Imagine Michael Jackson love �lirting and entertaining, they walking into your rehearsal come from different backgrounds space,” Packard said. “I still haven’t and incorporate different awakened from that dream. stereotypes that will appeal to In 2008 and 2009, he appeared everyone. And of course… they have on Brooke Knows Best, the VHI the body.” |  | reality series featuring his best friend, Brooke Hogan, daughter of Visit FLSawmill.com for more Tampa-based wrestling icon Hulk information about Sawmill’s Hogan. Anniversary Celebration. “Coming out on television was

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dance competition series Dancing With The Stars raises eyebrows when it announces its cast of contestants, and this season is no different. Tennis great, winner of 59 Grand Slam titles and breast cancer survivor Martina Navratilova is the newest member of the LGBT community to join the cast of the popular show. Navratilova, 55, has broken or tied almost every women’s tennis record imaginable. She also broke a few taboos. She came out as a

lesbian in 1981 and 10 years later she found herself in the middle of a much-publicized legal wrangle when her ex, Judy Nelson, sued for “galimony.” Since then, Martina has racked up more titles, a few more breakups and survived breast cancer. Age certainly doesn’t hold her back. Navratilova continued to win

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tennis matches and tournaments well into her 40s and maintains an impressive, toned �igure. But how she will fare donning high-heels and �lashy gowns dancing in front of millions of television viewers? Partnered with the oh-so dreamy Tony Dovolani, (who has yet to take a contestant all the way to win the coveted Mirrorball Trophy), Navratilova may have her work cut out for her. Watermark caught up with the Czech native amidst a grueling training and travel schedule split between Los Angeles and her home in Colorado. Navratilova’s enthusiasm and positive outlook seem primed to take her further than many may believe.

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MARTINA NAVRATILOVA: You know they’ve been asking me to do the show for years but I’ve been hesitant to go for it. I’ve seen some other athletes compete— including my good friend Monica Seles—and I’ve gotta say, none of them warned me about how challenging it really is! I’m really going to give it my all, though! DID YOU GET TO CHOOSE YOUR DANCE PARTNER?

No. They keep it a surprise. They gave me a couple of hints so I had a good idea, but I really didn’t know for sure until the day Tony knocked on my door. I was hoping it was him, so luckily I got my wish. HOW HAS IT BEEN WORKING WITH THE HUNKY TONY DOVOLANI?

I can still see myself in that big fancy dress that my parents put me in for this ballroom dancing class. Back then, I had to wear a garter belt because there weren’t any pantyhose in my country. Ever since I’ve had this fear of dancing—I don’t even like to dance by myself! But it’s time I face my fear and take this on. That’s a big reason I decided to do the show. The other is, as the �itness ambassador for AARP for the last four years, I’m constantly encouraging folks to stay active, lead healthy lifestyles and not be afraid to try something new. So I �igure I’ve got to lead by example. What better way to do that than by taking on ballroom dancing?

HAVE YOU SIZED UP YOUR COMPETITION YET?

Oh yeah, and it’s intimidating! Some of these folks have actual rhythm and I can tell it’ll help them in their training. I’ve got my eye on Jaleel White and Roshon Fegan. But I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve and I’m hoping America will see how much time and effort I’m putting in to get this down. I’m totally out of my comfort zone, and that’s ok. I can do anything I put my mind to. A lot of that comes from my years of discipline and training on the tennis court, so I’m going to use that to my advantage.

“I say bring it on: the hair, the make-up, the dresses, even the high-heels—but I draw the line at fake nails.”

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT HAVING TO DON LOTS OF SEQUINS AND BALL GOWNS?

I can’t say this enough; I’m To be honest, really embracing I have a bit of a this experience, crush on him. I including all the mean, he’s not glitz and glam —MARTINA NAVRATILOVA that bad to look that comes along at every day with it. I’m really and makes the grueling workouts a kind of a jeans and t-shirt kind of little more bearable. [Laughs] But in girl but it’s been fun getting to play all seriousness, he’s been amazing. dress-up. I say bring it on: the hair, One of my goals before the season is the make-up, the dresses, even the over is that I really just want to feel high-heels—but I draw the line at like a dancer when it’s all said and fake nails. [Laughs] |  | done—and Tony has been so patient teaching me day in and day out. MORE INFORMATION I couldn’t have asked for a better partner! WHO: Martina Navratilova

I READ THAT YOU HAVE A NOT-SO FUN EXPERIENCE OF DANCING FROM YOUR CHILDHOOD. HOW DO YOU

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And of course, just all kinds of trash talk. You never know what’s going to come out of my mouth. [Laughs]

It’s like a sitcom without any lead character.

They’re all one of the wacky neighbors.

THE GOP PRESIDENTIAL HOPEFULS ARE HOPING FOR SOUTHERNERS TO EMBRACE THEM. YOU’RE A SOUTHERNER—WHAT’S YOUR TAKE?

I recently got a call from the website Funny or Die and they asked me if I would do this skit for them, playing RuPaul! I’m thinking, “Oh, my God, that would be hilarious. Dress me up like RuPaul!” But then, my manager called and says “Leslie, it’s not RuPaul they want you to play, it’s Ron Paul.” [Laughs] I get infuriated watching those GOP debates. I try to pay as little attention as I can, but because I was asked to play Ron Paul, I had to watch those debates. I’m just �labbergasted. They’re trotting out—especially Mr. Santorum— saying things about “it’s a choice [to be gay]” even when it’s been scienti�ically proven otherwise. It just �loors me. With his views on women alone, [Santorum] is going to set us back 20-30 years! I wish Santorum would beat Romney out for the nomination because he would get slaughtered. It’s like a sitcom without any lead character. They’re all one of the wacky neighbors. They’re just nuts. Then, there are those wives! Mitt Romney’s wife looks like Jennifer Coolidge. She looks like Stif�ler’s mom [from American Pie]! [Laughs] Then, that little Mrs. Gingrinch/Calista Flockhart—she just looks like she’s not quite done. She’s needs to go back in the oven for about ten minutes on high. [Laughs]

They’re just nuts. —LESLIE JORDAN, TALKING ABOUT THE POOL OF GOP PRESIDENTIAL HOPEFULS

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GAY RIGHTS HAVE ADVANCED SUBSTANTIALLY OF LATE. ARE YOU ENCOURAGED?

worship and see gay people.” I think what’s going to take some time is with the trans community. They don’t get support even from the gay community. A lot of gay people say, “Well, that’s not gay.” It will all happen in its own sweet time, I suppose. It will just evolve. These old fuckers will die off and I’m sure they’re kids don’t believe all that crap. I bet even Santorum’s kids are a little embarrassed of it all.

Absolutely! I think we’re way ahead of the curve. Listen, you’re talking to someone who, when I see two boys walking down the street holding hands, I get mistyeyed. I never thought that would happen—ever. A friend and I went to a gay church one time in Dallas. It was called Cathedral of Hope and when we walked in, I burst into tears. My friend goes, “what is wrong with you?” I said, “I never thought that in my lifetime that I would walk into a place of

Lord, no. I’m 57. It’s exhausting. Once the sun goes down, I just want to stay home. I do have a date on Tuesday night though. I was in this restaurant and the bar manager came over and we started talking. Turns out, he had recently moved out here from New York. He said, “I haven’t even been to another restaurant here in L.A. besides the one I work at.” So, I said, “Well, I’ll take ya.” So, now I’ve got a date Tuesday night!

SPEAKING OF FAMILIES—ARE YOU DATING ANYONE?

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In all honesty, while I’m for gay marriage, when I look back on my generation, we wanted to be gay and not have anything to do with the white picket fence or having children. Now there’s this whole generation of gays coming up that want all that and God bless ‘em. We didn’t want the restraint of all that “straight” culture. I think there are people that want to be partnered and there’s people that do not. I am happy. I don’t get lonely. I have a huge network of friends. I also think, with my career, it’s really hard to sustain a relationship. The other day, while taping this series The Secret Life of the American Teenager, I thought to myself, “these are long hours. If I had to walk into my apartment and be civil, let alone speak to someone, it would be dif�icult. So, I am happily single. If I could register with somebody, it would be myself. [Laughs] GOING BACK A BIT TO ONE OF YOUR MORE INFAMOUS ROLES…HOW DID YOU GET THE PART OF BEVERLY LESLIE IN WILL & GRACE?

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Originally, it was written for Joan Collins. She was supposed to steal Rosario the maid from Megan Mullaly’s character, Karen Walker. Then, the two were going to get in a �ight over it and end up pulling each other’s wigs off. Apparently, at the last minute, Joan Collins’ manager called and said they couldn’t pull Ms. Collins wig off. So, they �ired her and sent out an open call. I went and auditioned. The minute I walked in, they knew I was the right one. I did that one episode where I steal Rosario away from Karen. Then, they called my manager to let me know they wanted me back. I did two episodes in the third season. I didn’t do near as many as people think. I did maybe 12 in all, but they were memorable episodes. Then, after all of it was said and done, my manager called me and said, “Are you sitting down? You’ve been nominated for an Emmy.” It was for “Outstanding Guest Actor in a Comedy.” Well, I �igured I wouldn’t win—and honey, I did! DO YOU MISS PLAYING BEVERLY LESLIE?

Oh, yes. I miss mainly working with Megan Mullaly. We never rehearsed or anything. They

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would start rolling and we’d start throwing our lines back and forth, like verbal ping pong. WHAT WOULD IT TAKE TO GET YOU TWO TO DO A SPIN OFF SERIES?

I don’t think it would happen. The network owns the rights. We were actually talking about doing a musical based on it. They put the kibosh on it immediately. Also, the creators of [Will & Grace] would have to be the ones to write it and they are so rich. They don’t want to work anymore.

YOU DO A LOT OF WORK WITH RECOVERING ADDICTS. AS A RECOVERING SUBSTANCE ABUSER YOURSELF, IS THERE ANY ADVICE YOU CAN OFFER TO THIS GENERATION?

True recovery can’t happen on TV. You see these shows like Celebrity Rehab and I don’t know about all that. All of the 12-step programs tell you that it’s not a psychologist or a therapist that’s going to help you; it’s someone who’s been there. I have a huge following within the sober community, attending conventions as the keynote speaker. I work a lot with kids getting off drugs and that’s what keeps me grounded. I’m in a line of work where I get my ass kissed a lot. You start to think, “I’m big— I’m grand.” Then, you go work with those kids and it just puts your feet back on the ground. My primary purpose in life is to stay sober and help other alcoholics and drug addicts learn sobriety. Until I got sober, I lived my whole life for my work. Now, I know acting is just my job. People like Lindsey Lohan have the same issue. They get caught up in the glory and end up feeling very empty. You have to �ind a balance. Acting is my “job.” It’s a wonderful job but what’s given me the inner peace and the sense of self is the work I’ve done in recovery, not only on myself but others. |  | Read the full, uncut interview at WatermarkOnline.com

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3- CRUISIN’: Sea lovers enjoy some time together during a three-day cruise out of the Port of Tampa, sponsored by ALandCHUCK.travel March 25. PHOTO COURTESY PETER AGUAS 4- DOIN’ BARBRA: These divas really did Barbra during their performances at the Divas Do Barbra HIV/AIDS benefit at the Golden Apple Dinner Theatre in Sarasota March 17. PHOTO COURTESY PROSUZY.COM

5- IT’S STAGED!: Matt McGee and Susan Haldeman perform in a staged reading of The Third Story at American Stage in St. Petersburg on March 19. Photo COURTESY PROSUZY.COM 6- SO COLE PORTER: Members of the UV Rays performed the hits of Cole Porter during a fundraiser at King of Peace Metropolitan Community Church in St. Petersburg on March 23. PHOTO BY STEVE BLANCHARD

7- NUMBER 42: President Bill Clinton spoke about embracing our common humanity to a sold-out crowd at the Straz Center for the Performing Arts in Tampa on March 21. PHOTO COURTESY ROB HARRIS 8- CONFETTI-FUELED: Performers launch the debut T-Dance at Barbarella in style on March 18. PHOTO COURTESY CARRIE WEST

OVERHEARD PRESIDENTIAL ADVICE A capacity crowd �illed the Carol Morsani Hall at the David A. Straz Center for the Performing Arts on March 21 when President Bill Clinton came to town. The 42nd President lectured about “Embracing our Common Humanity” and spoke about building the world with more partners and fewer adversaries. “Denial is not a very good strategy for renewal,” he said. “The challenges we face are manageable, but we can’t do it if we’re mad all the time. It’s interfering with

our ability to think.” The President’s visit concluded with a question and answer session moderated by former Tampa Mayor Pam Iorio. Other notables in the audience included Tampa Mayor Bob Buckhorn, former Tampa Mayor Sandy Friedman, former Florida CFO Alex Sink, Straz Center CEO Judy Lisi and Jimmy Donal Wales, the co-founder of Wikipedia.

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Leather men of all varieties descended upon the Flamingo Resort the weekend of March 24 to see four men vie for the title of Mr. Code 2012. In all, four men competed for the coveted title and the chance to compete at the International Mr. Leather Contest in Chicago in May. This year’s winner was Leatherman

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Stephen Hedrick Hedrick won the contest by showing his knowledge of leather in the personal interview, his fantasy wear on stage and by answering one of the more dif�icult questions of the night, which involved describing each member of the judging panel as a tool he would �ind in his garage, and explaining why he picked that particular tool to correspond with that judge. The evening wrapped with several demonstrations—one including �ire—and vendor booths selling all things leather.

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2 – MEN IN UNIFORM: Domestic diva Martha Stewart judged a chili cook-off between members of Orlando fire departments March 26 at Macy’s in Mall of Millennia. PHOTO BY ERIK CABAN 3– TREKKING FOR TA-TAS: Sue-Bee Laginess (left) shared a scooter with Sandra Morales, alongside Lauren and Mike Rowe, at the 6th annual Scooters4Hooters benefit March 24 around Lake Eola. PHOTO COURTESY CLIFF WALKER

4– JOY TO THE CHURCH: (L-R) Lillie Brock, pastor Lisa Helig and Shirley Strader celebrated Joy MCC’s 29th anniversary on March 18. PHOTO BY SCOTT MCCAULEY 5– GOLD MEDAL GET: (L to R) Brent Nelson, Paul Queen, Jennifer Lastik, and Gina Duncan celebrated their bid to host Gay Games 2018 at a reception March 14. PHOTO COURTESY MIKAEL AUDEBERT.

6– SPEAKING IN SUPPORT: Stuart Milk, nephew of Harvey Milk, was the guest speaker at a fundraiser for Senate candidate Linda Stewart, candidate at The Vue. PHOTO BY TOM DYER 7–HOLD ON ONSTAGE: Wilson Phillips performed March 22 at the Maxwell C. King Center for the Performing Arts to promote their upcoming album Dedicated, to be released April 3. PHOTO BY ERIK CABAN 8– FASHIONABLY FUNNY: (L to R) Matt Arter, Jeff Jones and Doug Bowser hung out with Joan Rivers backstage after her March 22 show at the Lakeland Center. PHOTO COURTESY OF JEFF JONES

OVERHEARD WHAT A KNOCK OUT Last week, Mr. Sisters and Parliament House alum Jeff Munzig announced on Facebook that he and domestic partner Gregg have purchased their own bar; Knockouts Tavern in Merritt Island. The venue of�icially opened its doors March 26. “I’m �inally my own boss,” Munzig posted. “I guess I �inally have to grow up.”

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Speaking of Mr. Sisters, some of you may have seen work going on around the former Mr. Sisters location. Turns

out, this is not part of the previously thought Sin Orlando concept that was thought to be opening in the location. Sin Orlando’s Facebook page clari�ied. “Thanks for following our page! The pre-existing business owners are trying to re-invent their previous concept as a straight bar,” they posted. “Because of the politics, pending lawsuits against BDR entertainment (all public record) and other stop holds, we believe this space will once again become available. We are pursuing other location options but we are keeping an eye on the space. Do not be worried

about location, as anything we pick will have taller ceilings to accommodate a mezzanine level, world class light/effect show and better parking.” As of late, the staple pink exterior of the former MrSisters has been repainted and one poster noted, “the club is called Off Limits” and is set to open soon.

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On Monday, March 26, Macy’s at Millenia Mall heated up with a chili cookoff hosted by none other

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OCHI, RUSSIA | A judge has backed a ban imposed by the Russian Ministry of Justice to prevent a “Gay Pride House” at the 2014 Winter Olympic games in Sochi. LGBT activists were hopeful for the house after the success of a similar facility at the 2010 Winter Games in Vancouver, Canada. The Ministry refused the registration of the group to set up and organize the house dedicated to LGBT Olympic athletes and their families. In mid-March, a court backed that decision, citing public morality as a concern. “The aims of the organization contradict the basics of public morality and the policy of the state in the area of family motherhood and childhood protection,’ said Judge Svetlana Mordovina in her ruling. “The activities of the [Pride House] movement leads to propaganda of non-traditional sexual orientation

which can undermine the security of the Russian society and the state.” Her ruling went onto state that the Pride House would “undermine the sovereignty and the territorial integrity of the Russian Federation.” One organizer of the Pride House, Nikolai Alekseev, said that organizers were not going to let the judge’s ruling be the end of the story. He and others have reached out to the International Olympic Committee. “We still aim to host a series of actions during the Olympics, and we are in contact with the International Olympic Committee,” he told the Gay Star News. “Hopefully, a solution can be reached,” he said. Of utmost concern, according to Alekseev, is the safety of openly LGBT athletes who plan to complete in the 2014 Winter Games. The Gay Pride House is a way to combat homophobia and to offer a safe haven to LGBT athletes. That mission, however, is not viewed favorably in Russia.

“Such aims as creating an understanding of the necessity to �ight against homophobia and the creation of positive attitudes towards LGBT sportsmen contradicts with the basics of public morality because they are directed towards the increase of the number of citizens of sexual minorities which breaches the understanding of good and evil, good and bad, vice and virtue,” Mordovina said. A Gay Pride House is planned for the 2012 Summer Olympics in London and Chad Molleken, executive director of that facility, expects extra support for the institution after the ruling in Russia. “What is happening in Russia today makes it that much more important for everyone to get behind the Pride House London project now,” he said. “As one of the most diverse cities in the world, London has the opportunity to permanently establish Pride House as a part of the Olympic movement and line up of national houses.” |  |

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an Diego Chargers quarterback Philip Rivers endorsed Republican candidate Rick Santorum for president this month, speci�ically citing the former Pennsylvania Senator’s �ight against same-sex marriage. Rivers made the announcement before the Republican primary in his home state of Alabama. “I am supporting Rick Santorum for President because of his stance on issues that attack vital Christian values our country was founded upon: no abortion, upholding traditional marriage, defending religious freedom, no euthanasia,” Rivers said. “Rick Santorum will also �ight to create jobs and expand opportunities for all Americans. I am proud to endorse Senator Santorum and do what I can to help him secure the Republican nomination for President of the United States. According to OutSports.com, Rivers isn’t the �irst Charger to �ight against marriage equality. In 2008 Jacques Casaire fought for the passage of Proposition 8 in California, which took away the rights of gay couples to marry. |  |

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VERYONE IS IRISH AT LEAST ONCE A YEAR, AND YBOR CITY IS NO EXCEPTION. Revelers came from around Tampa Bay donning green wigs, out�its and glitter to participate in the Rough Riders’ annual St. Patrick’s Day Parade, one of only a few in the country that openly welcomes the participation of the LGBT community. Afterward, clubs in Ybor were packed with dancing Irish.

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