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If this bill has something in it that gives gay couples immigration rights and so forth, it kills the bill. I’m done.

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Community Centers prepare for St. Pete Pride as 2013 grand marshals. Not pictured, Susan McGrath. Photo by Nick Cardello Illustration by Jake Stevens

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39 LOCATION, LOCATION LOCATION: The 27/82 Concert will bring Pride revelers to their feet—literally—the night before the state’s largest LGBT street festival. Uh Huh Her is headlining a concert that also features Burlesque.

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With Pride may consider adding a fee to help offset costs; An annual LGBT sports festival could come to Orlando beginning in 2015; Vandals deface The Center; Pride rally slated for June 27; more.

to become a St. Petersburg City Council member and tells us why she’s right for the job; Hillsborough County Commissioner Kevin Beckner talks about the county’s unanimous vote repealing its notorious ‘Pride ban’; more.

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pop icon Amy Grant has a new album out this month, and for the first time talks to LGBT press about her music, her views and the large number of gay fans that attend her concerts.

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awareness and funds for domestic violence programs. The event was more than just a walk. Participants were encouraged to wear festive footwear.

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’M DISAPPOINTED IN BILL FOSTER, AND

the LGBT community as a whole should be too. The St. Petersburg Mayor has again declined to sign a proclamation recognizing June as LGBT Pride month in his city. It isn’t a surprise, mind you, since he nor his predecessor Rick Baker ever signed the proclamation before. That’s 11 years straight, no pun intended, that the mayor of the city hosting the state’s largest LGBT Pride festival has essentially ignored the festival’s existence. This year, I expected more from Mayor Foster. There have been a rash of equality measures moving through the country and the state. Marriage Equality has seen a historic push in a growing number of states and communities around Florida—including St. Petersburg and Pinellas County—now have

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domestic partner registries for unmarried couples. It’s past time to recognize the history of the LGBT community and its impact—socially, culturally and economically—on St. Petersburg. But Foster continues to ignore the importance of LGBTs. Instead, he waf�les on issues of equality and shows up at fundraising events simply for the photo ops. He spoke at the Equality Florida Gala earlier this year held within the Dali Museum and spoke about the

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cultural diversity of St. Petersburg and the importance of opposing discrimination. But Foster always seems one step shy of fully supporting the LGBT community. On June 13, the St. Petersburg City Council made history when all eight of�icials signed the Pride proclamation. I was in the council chambers and witnessed the proud moment when Councilman Jeff Danner noted the historical signi�icance of a council that fully supported St. Pete Pride. Then, when Pride representatives posed with the supportive council for a photo, Foster positioned himself with the group, smiling broadly for my camera. How can you celebrate a Pride proclamation but directly oppose it by not signing it yourself? A glance at the photo indicates his support. A look at the proclamation clearly says otherwise. Following the council meeting, Foster spoke brie�ly with the group of Pride representatives outside of the chambers. He shook our hands and noted that St. Pete Pride was just too “adult-themed” for him to sign the proclamation. He didn’t elaborate. Maybe one “kid zone” full of bouncy castles on Central Avenue in previous years just wasn’t family-friendly enough. There has been much made about the mayor from across the Bay recognizing St. Pete Pride this year. Tampa Mayor Bob Buckhorn has signed a proclamation recognizing Gay Pride Month

and as this issue of Watermark was going to press, St. Pete Pride announced that Buckhorn plans to participate in the annual parade on June 29. Say what you will about the “unof�icial rivalry” between St. Petersburg and Tampa, but it says a lot when a mayor is willing to cross the water and participate in a Pride festival that’s not even held in his own city—especially when that city’s own mayor doesn’t plan to attend. St. Pete Pride brings 100,000plus people to Central Avenue and has grown to become one of Tampa Bay’s largest festivals. Reaching out to elected of�icials throughout the region is an important step for the growth and health of the festival, and just because St. Petersburg’s own mayor doesn’t recognize the LGBT community’s value doesn’t mean other mayors can’t join the �ight for equality in a very public way. Fortunately, a nearby mayor has done just that. Foster should be embarrassed. Never mind that St. Pete Pride brings in nearly $11 million to his city every summer, which is typically a slow season for Florida. And maybe even overlook that St. Pete Pride puts a spotlight on his city that earns positive national— even global—attention. But to shun the responsibility of recognizing an important segment of society and leaving it to “some other mayor” is incredibly arrogant. Pride is about celebrating diversity, combating discrimination and recognizing the contributions and history of a part of the community that has struggled to have its voice heard for decades. Foster has turned his back on those principals of Pride, and no number of photo opportunities can hide that. |  |

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CONTRIBUTORS ZACH CARUSO

is a musician and journalist from New Jersey who now lives in St. Petersburg. He has a bachelor’s degree in Journalism and an MA in writing. Page 12

GREG STEMM

lives in Gulfport, Fla., and has worked as a freelance writer for several local publications. He is a founding member of St. Pete Pride and active politically in Tampa Bay. Page 12, 21

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is the owner of Cardello Photography and he lives and works in Tampa Bay. He is the official photographer for several area events and organizations. Cover, Page 32

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Annual LGBT sports festival in the works for Orlando Jamie Hyman JAMIE@WATERMARKONLINE.COM

RLANDO | Orlando may be out of the running for the Gay Games, but two organizations are still trying to make a name for Orlando when it comes to LGBT sports. Converge Orlando, Central Florida’s LGBT tourism bureau, and the Central Florida Sports Commission (CFSC) are working to create an annual sports festival where athletes from South America, Central America and North America would gather in Orlando compete. Mikael Audebert, Converge Orlando’s executive director, said the event’s “code name” is Pan American Games, but that is not the �inal title. He said Converge and CFSC partnered for the Gay Games bid and had talked about developing an annual sports festival should the bid not be successful. Orlando was eliminated as a potential Gay Games host city June 1. “We got the exposure through the Gay Games; we might as well ride the momentum,” Audebert said. According to Audebert, the event has the potential to bring millions of dollars of business to the Central Florida area. “At the peak of this event, it could be close to 85, 90 million dollars every time we hold it,” Audebert said. “For the �irst two years, I think we’ll be closer to 40-50 million.” He said much of that money will come from Orlando’s destination appeal. “You don’t come here to just compete, you come to do the theme parks,” he said. “Individuals will come to compete and then will stay a few days more to enjoy what we have to offer. That’s what we’re really counting on.” He said the Federation of Gay Games has shown an interest in the idea, “We have their support and are going to continue working with them on developing this,” Audebert said. The �irst step is to identify venues, then select eight sports and then �inally, focus on marketing the event. “There’s another crucial element—securing �inancial support,” Audebert said. He said they’re looking at state, county and Visit Orlando grants. The event would be open to LGBT athletes and LGBT ally athletes, just like the Gay Games. Audebert said the plan is to hold the inaugural sporting event in September 2015. In the meantime, the group is working on putting together a contingent of 300 Orlando athletes to travel to Cleveland next August and participate in the Gay Games. Audebert said the Federation of Gay Games told Orlando’s bid committee that a reason they were eliminated was because Orlando has never made an effort to participate in the Gay Games. |  |

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PRIDE PAY?: With annual attendance approaching 100,000, Come Out With Pride organizers say a dollar or two from each attendee would easily pay for the cost of hosting Orlando’s annual pride event.

Pay for Pride? Once again, Come Out With Pride organizers consider charging admission Jamie Hyman

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RLANDO | It’s a discussion that arises every year and 2013 is no exception: how should organizers pay for Come Out With Pride, Orlando’s annual Pride parade and festival in the fall? It costs approximately $130,000 to put on the event, according to COWP executive director Mikael Audebert. Each year, the COWP committee solicits sponsorships, charges vendor and parade fees and hosts fundraisers to cover that cost. Audebert said since he became director in 2011, the policy has been to ensure the funds are raised before the event kicks off, but fundraising goals are 40% behind schedule this year. Robert Azzarito, COWP board member, said the organization is “shy on sponsorships” this year and “a lot of the fundraising events leading up to the event don’t’ get very well attended.” Audebert echoed that statement, saying that every year there is “less and less attendance of fundraisers.” In the meantime, the cost of the event is rising. “It’s hard to determine if we’re

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going to be okay,” Audebert said. “Costs are going up. The city is not reducing its costs. The [rising] number of [attendees] requires that we take more space, so that goes up as well.” Audebert said the fundraising goals are only about $10,000 and the organization is at about $5,000 raised with two main events left—an Epcot Tuscan-themed party June 21

keeping COWP free. “I’ll kill somebody �irst,” he said. “I hate the idea of putting people at the gates and charging to get into the park. It just seems wrong.” Audebert said the current discussion is a call to action and not a decision. “I’ve been 150% opposed to it past years,” he said. “I have to be honest with you; I’m getting exhausted, working with very few individuals in this community that are paying for everyone.” He said a $1 or $2 admission is fair for all. “People in this community are willing to pay $150 at bars and clubs to become wasted but they’re not willing to contribute to their celebration,” Audebert said. “It’s frustrating.” Despite that frustration, Audebert said it’s unlikely that they’ll charge at the gates for COWP 2013 because the logistics alone are too complicated to �igure out on such a tight deadline. “But I have to be honest with you; if this year we break even or lose money again as we did last year, next year there will be no question about [charging admission for COWP],” he said. Audebert said last year’s COWP lost about $5,000. |  |

“People in this community are willing to pay $150 at bars and clubs to become wasted but they’re not willing to contribute to their celebration.” —MIKAEL AUDEBERT

and bowling fundraiser July 13. So… will they or won’t they charge at the gate? Azzarito said the discussion always comes up during planning because there is a new committee every year and “somebody always suggests that, especially if they’ve worked on other Prides.” Azzarito is �irmly in the camp of

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RLANDO | Marriage equality supporters will gather at Lake Eola June 27 to “Paint the Town Red” for a marriage equality rally. The event is in anticipation of the two Supreme Court rulings expected to be handed down sometime at the end of June on DOMA and Prop 8. The rally starts at 7 p.m. and is hosted by The GLBT Center along with Come Out With Pride, the Human Rights Campaign, Equality Florida, ACLU, Watermark and Hot Spots. Ahead of the rally, volunteers will place red luminaries around Lake Eola. Red has traditionally been a symbol of support for gay rights. Scheduled speakers include Congressman Alan Grayson, Commissioner Patty Sheehan, Nadine Smith, Patrick Howell, Rob Domenico and representatives from the Orlando Gay Chorus and Orlando Gay Parents. After the speeches, the celebration will continue with food trucks, cash bar, music by DJ Ants and a walk around Lake Eola. Supreme Court experts are predicting the court to issue a decision on the marriage equality cases the week of June 24. |  |

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RLANDO | Strange drawings and words appeared in gold spray paint over the weekend on the building that houses The GLBT Center. Vandals painted symbols, lettering and names in Spanish on the back of The Center sometime between 9 p.m. June 8 and 8 a.m. June 9. Executive Director Randy Stephens said it does not appear to be directed toward the LGBT community. “Not everything that happens here is a hate crime,” Stephens said. Employees from the Funky Monkey Wine Company next door contacted Stephens early Sunday to tell him the turquoisecolored wall had been defaced. Photos posted on Facebook show a large checkmark, a PACmanlooking �igure and some nearly indistinguishable Spanish names and words.

MARKINGS: Gold grafitti marked the back wall of The Center. PHOTO COURTESY THE CENTER Volunteers and employees of The Center didn’t notice the damage because they park in front of the building and only use the back lot for garbage pickup. Funky Monkey employees park behind their building. Stephens noti�ied the Orlando Police Gang Unit June 10 and sent photographs to detectives. Orlando Police Sgt. Kelly Lowe, who supervises the unit, said the photos would be loaded into the city’s graf�iti tracker, which analyzes the drawings and classi�ies them as gang-related or tagging, the name used to describe signatures that some vandals use

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MARKING A MILESTONE: During a June 5

Hillsborough County Commission meeting, Commissioner Kevin Beckner led the way to repeal of an ordinance prohibiting the county from recognizing gay pride. PHOTO BY NICK CARDELLO

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AMPA | Hillsborough County Commissioner Kevin Beckner, representing the countywide District 6 has been called a “hero” in his successful bid to repeal an ordinance in the county that prohibited county of�icials from recognizing gay pride celebrations. His motion to repeal the eight-year-old ordinance resulted in hours of debate from the public and from the commissioners. Ultimately, the commissioners voted 7-0 June 5 to repeal the ordinance, that, thanks to former Commissioner Ronda Storms, needed a supermajority to repeal. For the full story on the meeting, visit WatermarkOnline.com. A few days after the vote, Beckner spoke with Watermark about the commission meeting, his thoughts on the surprising unanimous vote and what’s next for the county with a less-than-stellar record of handling LGBT rights issues. “What we saw with this vote was an important step in rebranding our community as one that is more diverse and accepting of LGBT people,” said Beckner. “I guess I thought in my heart that the vote would be unanimous. What surprised me was the level of conversation around amendments that would have muddied the waters and were clearly designed to help appease some of the other commissioners’ more conservative base.” Beckner said he was also surprised when commissioners exaggerated facts to make a point. He referenced the conversation about the library display that prompted the ordinance in the �irst place. One commissioner tried to make the display sound like it contained adults-only material that many might �ind offensive. The display, in fact, was a celebration of widely recognized and acclaimed literary authors who also Continued on page 14 |  |

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T. PETERSBURG | To understand Amy Foster as a politician, you must �irst understand Amy Foster as a person. Her beliefs, her platform, and her political plans as she seeks the District 8 seat on the St. Petersburg City Council all come from a life dedicated to helping others, developing leaders, and understanding how to solve problems ef�iciently and effectively. And, believe it or not, the political world is the last place she thought she would be. “I never thought I would end up in politics,” said Foster, who is a former St. Pete Pride volunteer. “It’s weird that I’m sitting here in this spot, a year ago I never thought this is where I would be.” She began her career as a substance abuse counselor for girls at a correctional facility in Denver, but realized within the �irst year that it wasn’t for her. Instead she found her calling in a seemingly unlikely place. “There was a Girl Scout group

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that came in and I was like ‘Girl Scouts come to correctional facilities?’” she said. Soon she was designing programs for youth-living and working with youth with disabilities. When she came to the Tampa Bay area 10 years ago, she continued her work with the organization. “I worked for Girl Scouts here as well, and managed eight counties and two departments— one for adult development, as well as their program department, and a part of that was managing eight properties,” said Foster. It was work that would show her the importance of leadership development—now a key part of her political platform. “It was really by girls, for girls,” she said. “We trained them how to lobby for issues, we had lobbyists teach them the necessary skills, and in the spring I would take girls to Tallahassee to lobby their legislators for things they cared about.” Foster soon became involved at the state level the Florida Girls Collaborative Project. The national team (The National Girls

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Collaborative Project) approached Foster to join that team. “I did it, ended up getting $2.5 million in funding, and I now manage 39 states and teach them how to do what I did in Florida,” she said. It is now that the picture of Amy Foster the politician starts to come into focus. Her platform is based around three goals— building safer neighborhoods, creating jobs and developing the workforce, and preparing our next generation of leaders. And in her eyes, these three issues are all tied very closely together. “Here’s where I think my background translates really well to City Council—it’s not about the funding,” she said. “Money isn’t the sole answer to everything. You bring together government and industry and educators and organizations, and you get them all to the table and you say ‘Ok, here’s the problem, how do we �ix it?” Foster feels that the only way the city will be able to bridge the pay equity issues, and the only way people can pull themselves from poverty issues, is to have something that, regardless of education level, has more job stability and higher income from

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|  | Hillsborough Pride Ban from pg.12 happened to be gay. The display was removed from the library by its board after some were uncomfortable with the topic. “It is not the role of government to blatantly discriminate against any of its citizens,” said Beckner, who is gay. “In fact, our country’s founders intended a democracy based on all people having been created equally. The vote by my colleagues aligns Hillsborough County more closely with those guiding principles, and chips away at a perception that we are intolerant of diversity, especially pertaining to LGBT taxpayers.” During the June 5 commission meeting, Beckner refused to allow the conversation to turn to de�initions of what was obscene and he diffused proposed amendments which would have made the repeal one in name only. Contrary to information circulated by supporters of the ordinance, Beckner’s initiative simply requested repeal of the policy; it did not request taxpayer funding for or county endorsement of future LGBT events. Beckner is hopeful those requests will eventually come from the community, but he cautions that every single request would be considered by the commission on an individual basis as it considers its annual budgeting. Hillsborough is the fourth largest county in Florida, but lags behind a host of other municipalities and counties that have passed policies that protect against discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity expression, as well as others that provide domestic partner registries and health insurance bene�its for unmarried partners. Despite obvious movement by leaders of both political parties toward embracing gay rights as fundamental issues of human rights, the Hillsborough County Commission has resisted change. Beckner acknowledged the most recent victory, but tempered it. “Those of us who support human rights without condition made progress that day, and for that we deserve to be proud,” he said. “We must also be mindful that there is still much work to be done.” In May, all commissioners signed a proclamation proclaiming Memorial Day weekend GaYbor Days weekend, which recognizes the positive impact the GaYbor District Coalition has had on Ybor City. Other issues that have brought headlines to Hillsborough include the failure of it creating a domestic partner registry and the faltering of its diversity council. Beckner said those are issues unrelated to the repeal of “Pride ban” ordinance, and must be taken on individually. “My colleagues continue to evolve in their thinking when it comes to LGBT rights,” said Beckner. “I have cause for hope, but there are no guarantees as we face each item as it comes up.” One of the reasons Beckner ran for the commission was because of the ban and how it made him feel as a proud and openly gay man living in Hillsborough. He made it one of his missions to repeal the ban. He said he does feel vindicated and he hopes that others that might be considering a run for political of�ice realize their dreams too. “I believe that other than serving in the military, seeking to serve the public through political of�ice is one of the most patriotic things you can do to show your love of your country,” said Beckner. |  |

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|  | Amy Foster from pg.12 the beginning. “I wanted those anecdotal stories,” she said. “Are there no jobs in St. Pete? So I started talking to people in the area, lawyers, businesses, and they said ‘I have jobs, I just can’t �ind people skilled enough to work them.’ There’s no way we can create these jobs unless we eliminate this talent mismatch.” This idea of giving opportunity for talent match and achievement is one that, Foster feels, starts with the youth of the community and may be linked to building safer neighborhoods in the process. “After school programs are key,” she said. “If you have kids involved in enrichment opportunities from 3-6 p.m., they are less likely to be involved in alcohol abuse,” Foster said. “ Foster also wants to see the dissolution of the separatist mentality of South and North St. Petersburg. “There’s a big misconception,” she said. “Everyone says ‘All this crime, it moves up to the north end from the south.’ Well, if we say the drug problem is moving north, my question is, ‘Where is the demand coming from, if that’s the case?’ It’s this perception that ‘South St. Pete is problematic,’ but I think we need to come together and determine what the issues are and how to solve them.” Foster feels that one of the

biggest potential solutions to this issue is the local police force. “If you look at Tampa, they have very different crime rates than we do, and they have 2.9 of�icers to every 1,000 residents—here we only have two,” she said. “They also have a proactive policing policy where they are required to do more self-initiated calls than response calls, meaning basically, they will be riding around, stop, and talk to residents about what’s going on in the neighborhood.” This, she feels, is a key component to helping the city of St. Petersburg. This type of policing was formerly used in the city, but Foster said it wasn’t used in the most effective manner, and therefore eventually dissolved. “There were certain neighborhoods that didn’t really need community policing.”

they move to Clearwater, they move to the suburbs,” she said. With primaries right around the corner in August, Foster is optimistic and feels that a strong female presence on the council would be very bene�icial to the city. “I can assure you not everyone is going to agree on every issue,” she said. “The reality is that my skill-set is all about brining everyone to the table and trying to �igure out that win-win. We still may end up disagreeing, but I think it’s important to hear out every stakeholder.” She cites the recent debates surrounding the new Pier design as a prime example. “Sixty percent of our voters feel disenfranchised, so something didn’t go right,” she said. In the end, Foster feels positive about the future of the city, and is hopeful that she will be an integral part of its transformation. “We’re already a great city,” she said “But I feel like we’re on the verge of something really amazing, and I’m looking forward to hopefully being a part of that.” If elected, Foster, who is gay, would hold the seat currently held by Jeff Danner, who can’t seek re-election due to term limits. District 8 encompasses the Grand Central District and Historic Kenwood, which are at the heart of St. Petersburg’s LGBT community. |  |

“It’s not about the funding; money isn’t the sole answer to everything.” —AMY FOSTER Foster feels that community policing should be based on a needs-assessment approach. She is also passionate about building the city of St. Petersburg and making it a better community. “I think it’s really important for our city to grow, because if people don’t feel safe, then as soon as they have kids, what happens—

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ST. PETERSBURG | For the �irst time in its 11 year history, St. Pete Pride has a proclamation signed by all sitting members of the St. Petersburg City Council. On June 13, the council presented a proclamation declaring June Pride month in the city. Council Member Jeff Danner, whose district encompasses the Grand Central District, where the annual promenade and street festival is held, read aloud the proclamation which stated: “the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) community is inclusive of our

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sons and daughters, mothers and fathers, nieces and nephews who contribute to making St Petersburg a beautiful place to live, work and play.” He concluded the proclamation by stating, “we ... urge all citizens to join in eliminating discrimination in all forms, and to celebrate the diversity of our community.” Noticeably absent from the proclamation again this year was the signature of St. Petersburg mayor Bill Foster, who told representatives of Pride after the presentation that the “adultthemed” festivities are what dissuaded him from signing. “We are extremely excited to receive this proclamation today,” Skains told the city council. “Only

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ACKSONVILLE | A Jacksonville museum is changing the rules of family membership for a family with two moms. Karen Lee-Duffel, her partner and their two daughters have had a family membership at the Hands On Children’s Museum for three years. This year, when the family went to renew, an employee told Lee-Duffel she’d have to pay an extra ten dollars for her partner, because “a family membership consists of one mom and one dad,” LeeDuffel told WTLV news. In a statement to media, the Museum Director substantiated the claim, saying family memberships are very speci�ic and do not allow substitutions. Since the state of Florida does not recognize same-sex marriages, the museum doesn’t have to either and is legally allowed to limit memberships as it sees �it. The Lee-Duffels will be getting their culture at a different museum this summer, WTLV news reports. |  |

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ERO BEACH, FLA. | The attorney for a young Florida woman who was charged with a felony for having sexual contact with her 14-yearold girlfriend has �iled a motion asking the judge to remove himself from the case. Circuit Judge Robert Pegg chose September as a trial date for 18-year-old Kaitlyn Hunt, who was charged with lewd and lascivious battery on a child 12 to 16 in February. In a motion �iled Monday, Hunt’s attorney, Julia Graves, said she was never noti�ied of the trial date and alleged that Pegg moved the case ahead of 200 other pending criminal cases because he is biased against Hunt, who is gay. A similar case Pegg handled involving a male defendant and female victim took 19 months to conclude, Graves

said in her motion. The judge did not immediately respond to a telephone message Tuesday seeking comment. Hunt’s story received international media attention and prompted gay rights advocates to say she is being unfairly targeted for what would be considered a common romance if she was not gay. They have argued that older high schoolers dating their younger counterparts is an innocuous, everyday occurrence that is not prosecuted — regardless of sexual orientation — and not a crime on par with predatory sex offenses. Hunt’s family has alleged that the day before she was arrested, police and the younger girl’s parents secretly recorded a phone conversation in which the two girls discussed kissing in the school bathroom. State Attorney Bruce Colton, however, said he would have brought charges regardless of the

defendant’s sexual preference because Hunt violated a law that prohibits adults from having sexual contact with underage children. Prosecutors have offered Hunt a plea deal that would allow her to avoid registering as a sex offender if she pleads guilty to lesser charges of child abuse. He said he would recommend two years of house arrest followed by one year of probation if she takes the deal. But the Hunt family has said they would accept a plea deal only if the charges are dropped to a misdemeanor. The alleged victim is identi�ied only by her initials in court documents, and her parents have not been publicly identi�ied. The AP does not identify alleged victims of sex crimes. Colton said the victim’s family is not pushing for prison but wants Hunt to be held responsible in some way.

but by and large I think all Americans should be protected,” Rubio said. “I’m not for any special protections based on orientation.” His message about the immigration bill was communicated on the Andrea Tantaros Show on Fox News Channel. “If this bill has something in it that gives gay couples immigration rights and so forth, it kills the bill. I’m done,” Rubio said. “I’m off it, and I’ve said that repeatedly. I don’t think that’s going to happen and it shouldn’t happen. This is already a dif�icult enough issue as it is.” Rubio has made repeated threats to walk away from his own comprehensive immigration reform bill over the amendment to provide the same immigration bene�its to LGBT couples as heterosexual ones. A recent poll show that 7 out of 10 Florida voters favor the concept of the bipartisan immigration reform plan, according to a new survey

released by the Republicanleaning Harper Polling and Democratic-leaning Public Policy Polling. Rubio had received pushback from the conservative media elite and immigration hardliners, according to the Miami Herald. Yet Florida Republicans overwhelmingly back the proposal: 71-22%, with 43% saying they “strongly support,” according to the poll of 500 voters. An amendment from Sen. Patrick Leahy (D-Vt.) would allow same-sex married couples to petition for green cards for foreignborn spouses in the same way heterosexual married couples can, which currently is banned because of the Defense of Marriage Act. The status quo means many same-sex couples are either forced to live apart or to leave the country to be together, but could be recti�ied if the Supreme Court overturns the DOMA. |  |

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MIAMI BEACH | Health insurance for LGBTs is getting more equitable in Miami Beach. The Miami Beach City Commission and Mayor Matti Bower have unanimously approved a new tax equity policy that ensures city employees with domestic partners will be freed from the extra taxes they’d been paying on their partners’ health insurance. These taxes are thousands more than straight married employees pay. According to Equality Florida, the plan passed in Miami Beach June 5 is the strongest and most comprehensive of its kind in the U.S., and it’s been in the works for just over a year. “EQFL staff assisted the Miami Beach LGBT Business Enhancement Committee in bringing the issue forward in the spring of 2012,” said Stratton Pollitzer, Equality Florida Deputy Director, in a media release. “We have provided ongoing technical support, background research, and economic studies to city staff drafting the policy. And we have participated in every public hearing and workshop on the policy.” Florida leads the nation on tax equity policies and has passed six of these policies already this year— more than have ever been passed in the rest of the country combined, according to EQFL. |  |

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WASHINGTON, D.C. | Just hours after Sen. Marco Rubio (R-FL) reaf�irmed on a TV show June 13 that he would not support immigration reform if it extended to gay families, he told another interviewer it shouldn’t be illegal to �ire someone for being gay. Rubio was speaking at the Faith and Freedom Forum when he was asked by a reporter with the progressive political blog ThinkProgress about the Employment NonDiscrimination Act (ENDA), a bill to make discrimination against LGBT individuals illegal across the country. Rubio, who has been touted as a top GOP presidential prospect in 2016, was asked whether he supported the bill, expected to be taken up this summer by the Senate, which would make it illegal to �ire someone for being gay. “I haven’t read the legislation,

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ATICAN CITY | In private remarks to the leadership of a key Latin American church group, Pope Francis lamented that a “gay lobby’’ was at work at the Vatican. It was an apparent reference to allegations in the Italian media that blackmail was taking place within the Vatican against highranking prelates who are gay. The Latin American and Caribbean Confederation of Religions—the regional organization for priests and nuns of religious orders—con�irmed June 11 that its leaders had written a synthesis of Francis’ remarks after their June 6 audience. The group, known by its Spanish acronym CLAR, said it was greatly distressed that the

document had been published and apologized to the pope. In the document, Francis is quoted as saying that while there were many holy people in the Vatican, there was also a current of corruption. “The `gay lobby’ is mentioned, and it is true, it is there ... We need to see what we can do ...’’ the synthesis reads. The Vatican spokesman, the Rev. Federico Lombardi, said the audience was private and that as a result he had nothing to say. In the days leading up to Pope Benedict XVI’s Feb. 28 resignation, Italian media were rife with reports of a “gay lobby’’ in�luencing papal decision-making and Vatican policy through blackmail, and suggestions that the scandal had led in part to Benedict’s decision to resign. The un-sourced reports, in the Rome daily La Repubblica and the

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news magazine Panorama, said details of the scandal were laid out in the secret dossier prepared for Benedict by three trusted cardinals who investigated the leaks of papal documents last year. Benedict left the dossier for Francis. At the time, the Vatican denounced the reporting as defamatory, ``unveri�ied, unveri�iable or completely false.’’ The initial reporting has never been precise on what exactly was meant by a ``gay lobby,’’ but Repubblica and Panorama went beyond saying there was merely a homosexual subculture at the Vatican. Rather, they raised allegations that high-ranking prelates were being blackmailed because they were gay. |  |

A Kremlin-backed bill that stigmatizes gay people and bans giving children any information about homosexuality passed by an overwhelming 436-0 vote on June 11 in Russia’s lower house of parliament. The legislation banning the ``propaganda of nontraditional sexual relations” imposes hefty fines for providing information about the LGBT community to minors or holding gay pride rallies. Foreign citizens arrested under the new law can be deported or jailed for up to 15 days and then deported.

IDAHO GOPS: ERASE LGBT PROTECTIONS Republican Party leaders are urging the Idaho Legislature to put a stop to local communities’ efforts to provide discrimination protections for LGBT individuals. The approval of the nonbinding resolution came June 15 at the GOP’s annual Central Committee summer meeting in McCall. The GOP-dominated Idaho Legislature has refused to add housing and workplace protections for gays and lesbians to the Idaho Human Rights Act.

SOUTHERN BAPTISTS OFFICIALLY OPPOSE GAY SCOUT RULE The Southern Baptist Convention approved a resolution June 12 expressing its opposition to the Boy Scouts of America’s new policy allowing gay Scouts, though it doesn’t explicitly call for churches to drop all ties with the organization. It also calls on the Boy Scouts to remove executive and board leaders who tried to allow gays as both members and leaders.

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Pride parade was “Unity and More in ’84.” If you think this is ancient history, I can assure you it’s not. Pride in ’84 meant then, as now, that despite the insults and assaults we faced other days, for one weekend at least, we had each other and we were beautiful. Next came “Alive with Pride in ’85,” with “alive” being the operative word. If it was possible to spend 1984 having only heard about the “gay plague,” by 1985 AIDS had touched almost every one of us. Pride in ’85 felt like a wake. President Reagan, “the Great Communicator,” stayed resolutely silent about AIDS as the death toll kept climbing. Members of his administration, though, freely told the press that it was our own damn fault. So much for policy. In 1986 at a centennial celebration of the Statue of Liberty, comedy legend Bob Hope cracked, “I hear Lady Liberty has AIDS.

Nobody knows if she got it from the mouth of the Hudson or the Staten Island Ferry.” The Reagans, who were present, laughed. By the end of that year, US AIDS deaths topped 11,000, with tens of thousands infected and no treatment in sight—my friends among them. Can you imagine if Leno joked about the victims of the Boston bombings or the Oklahoma tornadoes? What if the president did nothing but laugh? It was as bad as it sounds. To quote a 1986 episode of Designing Women, AIDS was “killing all the right people.” Clearly, to survive, we could only truly count on those personally affected by it. In 1987, �ive years in, the Reagan administration �inally took some measure of leadership. AIDS historians still argue about what could have happened and what should have happened, but they surely must agree on what spurred the progress we made in this country to �ight AIDS: relentless, un�linching activism by LGBT people and our allies. Now that it’s been 18 years since anyone in my life died from AIDS, my anger has softened. I even publically praised Dubya for his commitment to the issue. Yes, yes, I know about the abstinence-only garbage that passed for public-health education, but Bush did show commitment that his predecessors were afraid to. I’ll give him that. We have drugs that—for those with reliable access to them—can keep HIV at bay. No one is putting an AIDS quarantine initiative on the ballot like Lyndon LaRouche once did, or advocating branding people with AIDS like William F. Buckley once did. Childhood AIDS in the US is now virtually nonexistent. Why am I talking about this now, then? Precisely because it’s easy to forget how bad things used to be, even if we were there. And when we forget how bad things used to be, two things happen: First, we get complacent about where we are now. The purpose of knowing our history isn’t to pat ourselves on the back for being wiser than people were

The purpose of knowing our history isn’t to pat ourselves on the back for being wiser than people were back in the day; it’s to remind us to keep checking our assumptions and questioning our fears.

back in the day; it’s to remind us to keep checking our assumptions and questioning our fears. They have always gotten humanity into serious trouble. The second thing that happens is that we lose our faith in the possibility of cultural progress. When state legislators can sponsor a bill prohibiting teachers from mentioning gay people at all— except to “out” a child (this year in Tennessee), or when a young man can be gay-bashed and left for dead in his gay-Mecca neighborhood (this month in West Hollywood), it’s easy to think that we will never, ever get

to a place of rational acceptance, let alone equality. But big change is possible and the history of AIDS in the US is just one example. Of course, people had to �ight with the profound knowledge that their lives and those of their loved ones depended on it. And lives still depend on it. This is why, for this year’s Pride, I’m remembering those who fought so hard not so long ago, many of whom are gone now. They would still be �ighting today, I know, because there’s so much left to do. |  |

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This year’s motivation is from an experience that �ired up the old passion—the same passion that led me to join the group that started St. Pete Pride 11 years ago. St. Pete Pride isn’t just a big popular gay party. It is a highly respected event for the entire community. Straight allies and their families regularly join us in throngs, and the economic impact of Pinellas County’s single largest one-day event is in the range of almost 11 million dollars. And for the most part, St. Petersburg loves us. That’s why the idea of the “gay pride ban” in neighboring Hillsborough County and the nonsense it took to repeal it baf�les me. When my editor asked me to cover the recent Hillsborough commission meeting where the eight-yearold ordinance was up for repeal, I had no idea of what kind of impact it would have on me. I’m pretty accepting of just about any kind of loving spiritual message about God or our place in the universe. What I am not accepting of, however, is when people try and use the Bible or their faith in God as an excuse to justify discrimination. Unfortunately, that’s exactly what I heard. Person after person stepped up to the podium to tell us how God

feels about homosexuals. One person even went so far as to say that if the commission voted to repeal the ban that Tampa would “lose God’s favor.” The audience laughed at him. Others implied that LGBT people sought special rights and that being LGBT was a “lifestyle choice.” The level of offense I felt was amazing. Exactly how many times do we have to let people know it’s not a choice? But this nonsense didn’t stop when the public session ended. Far from it. The conversation that followed among the commissioners sounded like a conversation about obscenity laws in 1963. I was particularly offended at the implication that gay pride events are somehow obscene. And there was conversation about St. Pete Pride. St. Pete Pride was presented as something that could never happen in Tampa. Apparently we beach people in Pinellas have the audacity to say that LGBT people have merit and worth. There was even the implication that somehow our own celebration was in some way obscene. Commissioner Kevin Beckner wasn’t having anything to do with this banter. He stood his ground and insisted that it was a simple matter in front of the commission—either government should be in the business of discriminating against one category of people or it should not. It was his leadership and unwavering support of repeal that lead to the unanimous vote that eventually came. Equality Florida executive director Nadine Smith called Beckner a hero. I concur. I personally think Commissioner Les Miller should be nominated for civil rights leader of the year. Miller, an African-American, told the audience he had faced discrimination “eyeball to eyeball” in 1951 while wearing the uniform of our nation. He also told us that he is a deacon of a Southern Baptist congregation. He said he was tired of people using the Bible to justify discrimination and hatred. He reminded the chamber that the KKK had used the Bible to justify their particular brand of hate. “Discrimination is discrimination. Prejudice is prejudice. Hatred is hatred. It’s always painful and it’s always wrong and it’s why I’m voting for repeal.” He got a well-deserved standing ovation. Commissioner Mark Sharp is another candidate for man of the year in my book. Admitting you are wrong isn’t something any of us like to do.

It took a very big person indeed to admit it publicly and then to take the appropriate steps to make it right. When this whole three hour civil rights extravaganza was over and the vote had been taken, I asked Smith if she had any words speci�ically for the gay community following this vote. Her words to me were, “The voice of moral authority has come down clearly on the side of equality and justice today.” We have the moral authority on our side. As I have seen in that commission chamber, we still have battles to �ight on our way to full equality, but clearly the tide has turned in our favor.

The hatred and bigotry disguised as religious values is no longer acceptable. We haven’t yet achieved our full place in the light of acceptance, but we are progressing. I’m taking my pain from those awful comments and transforming it into a renewed vigor to pursue the values I know are right. So when I pick up the rainbow �lag at St. Pete Pride and join with 100,000 of my friends, I will be marching this year with invigorated moral authority. Let’s celebrate our victories and rededicate ourselves to using that authority to uphold and expand those values we know are our rights as human beings. |  |

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feel like a fortress. Thick, imposing, off-white buildings line downtown streets, all the same serious height—between seven and 15 stories—to conform with municipal height restrictions. There are airport-like security lines everywhere: at the Capitol, government of�ice buildings, and even museums and tourist attractions. Nowhere is security tighter than the White House, where snipers keep watch on the roof. But as I lined up to gain entrance to the President’s LGBT Pride Reception last Thursday, the four-step security process—including snif�ing dogs—felt anything but oppressive. When a late afternoon thunderstorm caught many of us without an umbrella, we set our hair drama aside and erupted with spontaneous joy. We were headed into the White House, baby, at the invitation of a President whose support now feels as unconditional as a mother’s love. I was the fortunate guest of Stuart Milk, who has been a frequent visitor to the Obama White House since he accepted the Presidential Medal of Freedom on behalf of his Uncle Harvey in 2009. Not me—as tourist or invited guest. So I worried that the teal shirt and tie I’d chosen to wear might be outside bounds. I needn’t have. Those wearing yellow, pink, lime green and rainbow-colored suits only

contributed to the festive mood. As more than 300 of us waited for the President to appear in the East Room—cell phones set on camera mode—I overheard a Washington insider say that she felt truly welcome at the White House, for the �irst time. “Since he came out for same-sex marriage, I’m not doing a slow miniburn anymore,” she said. “It’s like a weight’s been lifted or something.” And when the President appeared, with a beaming Vice President Biden at his side, he offered the verbal equivalent of a group hug. “From Minnesota to Maryland, from the United States Senate to the NBA, it’s clear we’ve reached a turning point. We’ve become not just more accepting, we’ve become more loving—as a country and as a people,” Obama said. “If we truly are created equal, then surely the love we commit to one another must be equal as well.” His administration’s support of our community was reinforced earlier that day at a three-hour LGBT Pride Month Brie�ing at the Eisenhower Executive Of�ice Building. To ensure unrestricted communication, the meeting was off-limits to the press. But administration of�icials, including Senior Advisor Valerie Jarrett, addressed topics ranging from HIV/AIDS and immigration policy to getting a job with the federal government. Support was unequivocal. Many of the high-level speakers were gay themselves. And that was my take away from this trip to the nation’s capital. Whether re�lecting popular opinion or leading it, this administration— and Democrats in general—now feel free to support us without doing an offensive political cost/bene�it analysis �irst. We’re equal citizens. Like our peers, anything that makes us more secure and hence more productive is to the good. It’s as simple as that, and always should’ve been. This unequivocal support was reinforced on Friday, over lunch with Rep. Alan Grayson at the Capitol Building. The �irebrand Congressman had just made a rousing speech on the House Floor about the NSA surveillance program (“As American as apply-spy”) that’s become a YouTube sensation. But he was thoughtful when asked about LGBT equality and his philosophy of government. “It’s been co-opted by the Marines, but I like the phrase ‘Be all that you can be’ because that’s

what I believe government should do… it should help people be all that they can be,” Grayson said. “And that includes removing impediments to employment, health care, marriage, parenting… all the things that matter.” (The full interview, touching and provocative, will appear in a later issue.) The same Friday, the White House announced the nominations of James Costos as Ambassador to Spain, Rufus Gifford as Ambassador to Denmark, and Daniel Baer as Ambassador to the Organization for Security and Cooperation in Europe (OSCE). If all three are con�irmed, they would become the fourth, �ifth and sixth openly-LGBT people to serve as U.S. Ambassadors. Contrast that with pronouncements by Marco Rubio, made the same day, reacting to rumors that Democrats may seek rights for same-sex couples in a pending immigration bill. “If this bill has in it something

that gives gay couples immigration rights and so forth, it kills the bill,” said the Senator from Florida, a potential GOP presidential candidate. “I’m done. I’m off it.” In his most generous comments about LGBT equality to date, Rubio has said, “The debate is about what society should tolerate.” Not at the LGBT Reception at the White House. Not for President Obama. “I hope that when we gather here next year, and the year after that, we’ll be able to say that together we made our fellow citizens a little more free. We’ve made this country a little more equal. We’ve made our world a little more full of love.” |  |

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HE WORLD’S LARGEST STUDY ON THE CHILDREN OF SAME-SEX PARENTS IS CURRENTLY UNDERWAY AT MELBOURNE UNIVERSITY. The Australian Study of Child Health in Same-Sex Families collected data on 500 children nationwide, up to the age of 17. An interim report found there was no statistical difference between children of samesex couples and the rest of the population on indicators including self-esteem, emotional behavior and the amount of time spent with parents. Children of same-sex couples, however, scored higher than the national average for overall health and family cohesion, measuring how well the family members get along. Of the 315 gay, lesbian and bisexual parents who completed the globally recognized Child Health Questionnaire, 80% were women. |  |

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relationship with a teenager on the same varsity basketball team. That is just wrong, no matter the gender or sexual orientation of the students. A similar case in Florida led to a pardon from the governor because the two students ended up married as the trial unfolded. Not really an option for gay students.” —NADINE SMITH “It could be that a younger person is the predator but it seems in this case, the younger was the prey. She’s made some really poor choices that sadly one day she will deeply regret. No doubt one day Kate will too.” —PRINW

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St. Pete Pride has brought the LGBT community and its allies to the streets of the Grand Central District every June, shattering attendance records every time. Executive Director Eric Skains sees Pride continuing that tradition in 2013. “Everybody focuses on numbers, but you can’t really determine what kind of crowd is going to turn out this early on,” Skains says while sitting in his of�ice in St. Petersburg. “But I do expect we’ll see an increase over last year. I’m hearing that hotels are already sold out.” In 2012, varying news organizations, including Watermark,

estimated attendance around 100,000 at the street festival. One news outlet even estimated as high as 120,000. That was a signi�icant jump from the previous record of 85,000 marked in 2011. But as Skains says, predicting the number of revelers is impossible. What he can do, however, is share that other numbers are way up this

year, including vendor participation and promenade participation. “We’ve exceeded space for vendors, bringing the largest numbers ever to Central,” Skains says. “Financially we’re doing very well. We’ve exceeded our sponsorship goals.” Skains credits an ambitious push by St. Pete Pride earlier this year to get vendors and sponsors on board. Vendor registration began just after the new year and, while he admits he was worried that later registration would suffer, Skains pushed a similar program concerning promenade entries. This year, expect a larger parade with nearly 150 individual units walking, driving, dancing and

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the community decide who it would like representing them at Florida’s largest LGBT Pride celebration. Nominees were divided into three categories: male identi�ied, female identi�ied and community group. Nearly 4,000 votes rolled into the St. Pete Pride website and Mark Bias and Carrie West were named male grand marshals, Susan McGrath was selected as the female grand marshal and the Metro Wellness and Community Centers represents the group category. Here is a quick introduction to our 2013 grand marshals.

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Metro Wellness and Community Centers This year’s community group is committed to providing premier HIV services, social networking, LGBT programs and other health and wellness programs to enhance the quality of life for the local community in Tampa Bay. Metro has been serving the community for 20 years. St. Pete Pride celebrations attended: All of them.

What being a Grand Marshal means: The role of any Grand Marshal is to exemplify the best in St. Petersburg and Tampa Bay—to be role models for those in the community. Metro hopes to continue to go above and beyond in serving the LGBT and allied communities both with our community centers and HIV services. On St. Pete Pride’s influence on equality gains: “Pride events today are more about celebration than activism. However, it’s important to remember how visibility of our community increases acceptance

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and equality among the greater population. There are still many people in our area who we serve who don’t feel free to be who they are day to day in their families, jobs or communities. Events like St. Pete Pride provide that acceptance—a chance to be proud of who you are and showcase the diverse community that we are all so proud of here in St. Petersburg. The definition of Pride: “Pride is part of everything we do,” says CEO Lorraine Langlois. “Metro’s programs and services exist because of a need in the community. Through our programs, case management, counseling and social activities we extend that hope and pride

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into the people that walk through our doors. From youth to seniors to those affected by HIV—all of the LGBT community—our programs empower them to live to their fullest potential and be proud every day.” On Metro’s influence: Metro celebrates its 20th anniversary and has big plans for the future. We continue to grow and extend LGBT activities and programs so that everyone can enjoy the centers. Our Center in Ybor City will start offering full medical services this month. We’ll be opening up a similar medical clinic in our St. Pete Center within the coming months. By the end of the year— we’ll open our LGBT Welcome Center right in the heart of the Grand Central District and St. Pete Pride route. This project, sponsored by Visit Florida, will be only the second LGBT Welcome Center in the country and will serve as a hub for visitors and residents alike. |  |

Carrie West and Mark Bias There really is no other couple in Tampa Bay that is more of a “staple” than Carrie West and Mark Bias, who happen to be founding members of St. Pete Pride. The pair moved to Tampa in 1980 from the Midwest and opened their first MC Film store in 1989 and it has seen six different locations on both sides of the bay. The pair just reached “35 years of bliss,” as they say, and are founders of the GaYbor District Coalition. St. Pete Pride celebrations attended: All What being a Grand Marshal means: “It means that the community has noticed our hard efforts in making Tampa Bay a better place to live, work, be educated, volunteer, socialize and have fun while enjoying life. We both are committed to work hard for Human rights and LGBT causes making for a better equal and fair community.”

On St. Pete Pride’s influence on equality gains: “St Pete Pride is so different than other Prides we have attended around the country. City political leaders are witnessing the positive energy our community offers. And we are winning some of those political of�ices in both St. Pete and across the waters in Tampa. The definition of Pride: “Pride is who we are, Mark & Carrie! We don’t believe in second �iddle if you get our drift!”

Susan McGrath Susan McGrath is a Tampa Bay native and grew up in Bradenton before settling in St. Petersburg. She currently lives in the Historic Kenwood neighborhood and is the president of the Stonewall Democrats of Pinellas County. St. Pete Pride celebrations attended: All but one

What being a Grand Marshal means: “The message I want to promote is important and that’s what convinced me to pursue the grand marshal role.” On St. Pete Pride’s influence on equality gains: “Change comes through education and exposure. People see that their neighbors, their accountants, their kid’s teachers are gay or even transgender and the stereotypes and the misperceptions

Advice for other couples: As a couple, you not only represent the “male” aspect of the grand marshals, but also partners and couples. Bias says, “Alcohol.” West says, “Laughter.” “You have to work at it just like having a successful job,” West adds. “We have a very unique relationship. Working together, cooking, listening, relaxing, snoring, understanding, sleeping together 24/7. It’s been 35 years together and it seems like we just met yesterday.” |  |

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fairly, are protected from workplace discrimination and can marry the one we love, we have to work for it. Support the people that support you and your family. Make phone calls, knock doors or give a few dollars. Then, by all means, vote and get everyone you know to do the same. It’s too important. We can change the world, and we are, but it starts with us.” |  |

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twirling down Central Avenue. And this year, each unit will be announced from Pride sponsor Clear Channel, who will have radio personalities on hand. Judges will also determine who has the best presentation in the promenade, including best �loat and best music. So expect a large contingent of participants in St. Pete Pride 2013, dubbed Pride Carnivale. But as far as overall attendance numbers go, that’s anyone’s guess. “What did they hit in Sao Paulo, [Brazil], 4 million?” Skains jokes. “I’d like to see that.”

THE POLITICS OF PRIDE

St. Pete Pride will undoubtedly fall on the hottest day of the year. A blazing sun mixed with dark asphalt and scantily clad participants will ensure plenty of sweaty revelers take to the streets. But while many may feel a little uncomfortable in

It’s obvious that Pride has a huge impact, not only socially on this city, but financially; the City Council and the community —ERIC SKAINS, ST. PETE PRIDE at large now recognizes that. EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR the heat, it’s important to remember what St. Pete Pride recognizes. “Stonewall happened in June,” Skains said. “We commemorate those riots every year. And while we’ve come a long way, we have a long way to go.” For the �irst time ever, all eight St. Pete City Council members signed a proclamation declaring June LGBT Pride month. Also for the �irst time, a local mayor has signed a proclamation as well—it just so happens that it was Tampa Mayor Bob Buckhorn and not St. Pete Mayor Bill Foster. “We honestly thought getting Buckhorn to sign a proclamation would have been accepted more than it has been,” Skains says.

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who offered to make a line on the proclamation for the sitting mayor, Foster remained silent. No St. Petersburg mayor has ever signed a proclamation recognizing St. Pete Pride or Pride Month. “Foster considers St. Pete Pride an adult-themed event,” Skains said. That sentiment was echoed by Foster himself when he met brie�ly with Pride members after the council presented its unanimous proclamation. “But he didn’t offer any clari�ication. Look at Pride vs. the Grand Prix. It’s not like families are piled in and driving those cars.” According to an economic impact study done by the Research Data Services of Tampa, St. Pete Pride brings a windfall of more than $10

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million to the area. That same study found that more than 85% of those who stayed in hotels at previous St. Pete Pride celebrations planned to return the following year. “It’s obvious that Pride has a huge impact not only socially on this city, but �inancially,” Skains says. “The City Council and the community at large now recognizes that.”

MORE THAN A DAY

St. Pete Pride’s big day is Saturday, June 29. That’s the day of the promenade and the street festival on Central Avenue. But there is special focus this year on the extended weekend of events celebrating diversity in St. Petersburg. “There were missed opportunities, I think, before,” Skains says. “On the road at other Pride events people would talk about the drive to St. Petersburg for ‘just one day.’ So the idea for a destinationtype Pride emerged.” And that meant bringing in more than locals for a weekend of

activities and bring back others who may have experienced the promenade before, but are hesitant to “see the same thing” they saw before. “So we incorporated an art show, a �ilm with Hedda Lettuce, and a pre-Pride concert,” Skains says. “The positive feedback has been amazing. We’re seeing ticket sales move steadily and I feel like we’re going to have a string of successful events.” There is also a revamped VIP program for this year’s Saturday festival. For $35, attendees can attend the VIP lounge throughout the day and get complimentary food and beverages. The only catch is that alcohol cannot leave the VIP area. “We’ll have beer trucks and food vendors like we always do,” says Skains. “But the VIP area is away from those wet zones, so people can come in, enjoy some food and a beverage, and then go back out to the festival.” The VIP lounge is at the Neuro Science Building at 22nd Street and Central Avenue.

A FRESH PERSPECTIVE

This year is the �irst time Skains will experience St. Pete Pride �irst hand. He took on the role of executive director last October after heading Houston Pride’s large event for several years before that. The experience, he says, has been welcoming and rewarding. “I’ve noticed that there’s a correlation between St. Petersburg and Texas,” Skains says. “Texas is a very proud state but it’s very welcoming. St. Pete Pride is a proud city. It’s a very beautiful and fun place to live and the people here are proud of their city. They’ve been nothing but accommodating and accessible since I moved here.” After a decade of growth, many may think that an event the size of St. Pete Pride has evolved as much as it can. But that’s simply not true, according to Skains. Plans are already underway for future festivals, which he says will prove that St. Pete Pride is a force that will continue to bring people and money to the city, as well as awareness to LGBT equality. “St. Petersburg and St. Pete Pride is a fun experience,” Skains says. “Without all the decades of shaming that gay men and women were made to feel, there would have been no need to create a day in which we stand up to be seen. And as time has slowly gone on, marches have become parades, and parades have become celebrations.” |  |

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LINEUP Two stages make for one full day of music and performances at St. Pete Pride Steve Blanchard EDITOR@WATERMARKONLINE.COM

T. PETERSBURG | The day of St. Pete Pride is about the parade, the vendors, the hot men and women—and of course the entertainment. No outdoor festival would be complete without an impressive lineup of entertainers, and St. Pete Pride once again has a packed schedule. Below is a quick look at the two stages and the line-up of acts ranging from bands, solo artists and drag performers. Times and performances are subject to change without notice, but as of press time, this is how the lineup appeared:

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10 a.m.: Karmic Tatoo 10:30 a.m.: Star Montrese Love 10:35 a.m.: Franki Markstone 10:40 a.m.: Marcus Boarders Dancer 10:50 a.m.: Naomi Wynters, Miss Mardi Gras/Miss Chill Chamber 10:55 a.m.: Brittany Moore , Miss Heart of Florida 11 a.m.: Akylis, Mr. St Pete Pride 11:05 a.m.: Rico Taylor, Mister St Pete Pride 11:10 a.m.: Muffy Van Beaverhousen, Miss St Pete Pride 11:15 a.m.: Jeffrey Kelly, Mr. Flamingo 11:20 a.m.: Alexis Mateo, Miss Tampa Bay International 11:25 a.m.: Madisyn Michaels 11:30 a.m.: Nathaniel Marshall Noon: Double M Band 1 p.m.: Nicky Monet, Miss Gaybor 1:05 p.m.: Stephanie Stuart 1:10 p.m.: Aaron Phoenix 1:15 p.m.: Jaeda Fuentes 1:20 p.m.: Alexis De La Mer 1:25 p.m.: Una Voce: The Gay Men’s Corus 2 p.m.: Versage Holt 2:05 p.m.: Amy DeMilo, Miss Gay USofA Classic

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executive director Eric SKains has pushed one very strong message the past year—St. Pete Pride is more than just a one-day street festival featuring a massive parade. And this year, the community will get a chance to begin celebrating Pride just a little bit earlier.

The night before the annual street festival and promenade— renamed Pride Carnivale in 2013— a pre-Pride concert will light up the State Theatre downtown. Dubbed the “27/82 Concert,” the name signi�ies the longitude and latitude coordinates of the city. The concert features three musical acts—Uh Huh Her, Lesiha Hailey (‘Alice’ from The L-Word) and special guests Geri-X and Daphne Willis. The concert also incorporates the popular

Butchlesque fashion show that originated in Sarasota. “I love this idea,” says Tara Liaschenko of Girl2Girl Productions, the organizational mind behind the show. Last year a similar idea sputtered to life, but it was not a Pride-sanctioned event. That’s not the case this year. “I like the thought of turning our Pride into a destination weekend

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|  | Amy Grant from pg.42 PEOPLE PASSING JUDGMENT ON YOU FOR TALKING TO GAY PRESS?

We all ultimately need to know that we’re loved, and I think it would be really crazy if you said, “I’m not going to talk to this group of people because someone’s looking on that’s not a part of the conversation and might have an opinion about it.” I mean, my whole life has been that. (Laughs.) It takes all of our energy to navigate whatever road we’re on. What’s interesting is, this last year I was invited on Monday mornings to go to a woman’s house—also a songwriter, also a singer—and just have some time of quiet stillness all together. But her house wasn’t even quiet. There were workers there sometimes, or there was nowhere to get that was quiet. She told me, “When we learn to observe without judgment, then we have the ability to observe and learn, or to observe and be.” And I said, “Do you know how exhausting it is to observe with judgment all the time? It’s just exhausting.” I have thanked her many times. We could all stand to hear that. YOU CAME FROM A DILIGENT RELIGIOUS UPBRINGING, BUT IT SOUNDS LIKE THERE’S BEEN AN EVOLUTION IN THE WAY YOU SEE PEOPLE.

I remember when we moved to Texas and my parents went to this really, I guess, conservative church—a Church of Christ— and something incredible was happening within that church community. I remember seeing this transformation in my mom and dad. I was old enough to remember that. What I remember about our home after that was that it was welcoming … to everybody. TO BLACK PEOPLE? TO GAY PEOPLE?

Just to people.

DID YOU EVER FEEL THAT YOU HAD TO RECONCILE YOUR CHRISTIAN FAITH WITH YOUR ACCEPTANCE OF HOMOSEXUALITY?

That’s not my life experience. In the same way, if you put my shoes on, you would go, “I thought this experience was going to be one way and it was totally different.” None of us has any idea what somebody’s life experience is like.

Someone will come up and say, ‘You know, I saw a guy with a boa on,’ and I’ll say, ‘Oh yeah, yeah, I’ve always had a big gay following.

—AMY GRANT

He told me good things about his job and hard things about his job. It was two human beings that have had very different lifestyles sitting next to each other and sharing life. Given 10 choices, would Anthony and I choose the same things? Maybe so. Maybe not. But I felt so changed by that. I kept his card for a long time, and I hoped that our paths would cross again. I felt a lot of compassion for his parents, �irstgeneration immigrants, and he described his childhood and what it was like. I went, “This makes total sense that he has invested his life coming to the aid of the people in his world that are disenfranchised because, for a whole different set of reasons, his parents were marginalized.” AND YOU FOUND THAT INSPIRING?

DO YOU REMEMBER THE FIRST GAY PERSON YOU KNEW? DID YOU HAVE A CLOSE GAY FRIEND?

Absolutely. But my �irst—maybe college. Someone might have just seemed theatrical or, I don’t know, effeminate, but when I was in high school— I graduated in ’78—I had friends in high school who eventually said, “I’m living a gay lifestyle,” but they didn’t say it then. People were very private about their sexuality, period. Maybe not everywhere, but I just don’t remember, “I’m exploring this, I’m exploring that.” WHEN DID YOU FIRST KNOW YOU HAD A GAY FAN BASE?

Probably by the time I was 18. If people come to my shows, this is what they say: “Wow, there are people of all ages and lifestyles in your crowd.” That’s what they always say. But then someone will come up and say, “You know, I saw a guy with a boa on,” and I’ll say, “Oh yeah, yeah, I’ve always had a big gay following.” (Laughs.) WEREN’T YOU INVITED TO PERFORM AT THE WEDDING OF ONE OF YOUR GAY FANS BUT COULDN’T DUE TO YOUR SCHEDULE?

I was invited. I was honored to be invited. I have to tell you: Anytime somebody asks me to perform at a wedding, I say, “I do not have a good track record.” (Laughs.) A lot of the weddings I’ve performed at, the marriages have ended poorly. HAVE YOU FELT JUDGED FOR GETTING DIVORCED, OR JUDGED

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her husband) the day after the election. (Laughs.) No, no. Do people from a distance But I think my response is, I have an opinion? Yeah, that’s have had so many occasions in human nature to have an opinion. my life where I have felt really Whatever was going on in a rag strongly about something— but magazine, or whatever someone that feeling has changed. Those was saying behind my back or feelings change about different in a heated conversation, I was situations, and so because I’m never in that circle. I wasn’t part a public person— and because of that conversation. I never, ever I want always pursued one to bring people chat room. If together—I really there was an do say this is article or some a world that’s argument— “I unfamiliar to me can’t believe and I am always you’re doing trying to observe this”—I just with compassion. never pursued it because THIS ISN’T A CUTI thought, AND-DRY ISSUE “We don’t FOR YOU, THEN. understand Well, nothing is each other.” There are MERCIFUL LOOK: For the first time cut-and-dry. You a lot of times in a decade, Amy Grant returns to the pop know, one of the that I wind up charts with How Mercy Looks From Here. most fascinating dinners I’ve ever in situations spent sitting that I do not next to somebody I had not met see eye-to-eye with somebody. was at a large function with my And it doesn’t help to throw gas family. We were all seated with on the �ire. Clearly they’re going place cards; it was a large group to have their opinion. Carry on. and I introduced myself to the And I’m gonna go do what I’m fellow next to me. It was Anthony gonna go do. Romero (executive director of the ACLU). I mean, we didn’t line HOW DO YOU RESPOND TO PEOPLE up our views; I just said, “Oh my WHEN THEY ASK YOU ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS ON GAY MARRIAGE? goodness.” And he said, “I think they probably thought this was In the same way that I did not going to be very funny having us tell one person who I voted for. I sit next to each other.” (Laughs.) don’t. I never talk about anything I just said, “Tell me about your like that. I did tell Vince (Gill, life.” He asked me the same thing.

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Yes. You know what, we all face challenges in our life that we didn’t anticipate, and the most important thing is that we not face them alone. To me, if there’s anything that comes out of this conversation, in the same way that a relationship cannot be nurturing if it’s competitive, it’s this: When you don’t understand something, you can either default to judgment or you can default to compassion. Those take you down completely different roads. ARE YOU SPEAKING ABOUT YOURSELF?

I’m just talking about life in general. This is interesting because I have never done an interview where it feels every question is saying, “Tell me I’m okay.” That’s what feels like the underlying energy behind the questions, and I’m just going, “That’s a powerful kind of energy”—and for different reasons. Maybe not sexuality. Because that’s what every person’s crying out for. I know that the religious community has not been very welcoming, but I just want to stress that the journey of faith brings us into community, but it’s really about one relationship. The journey of faith is just being willing and open to have a relationship with God. And everybody is welcome. Everybody. |  |

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1- FOR THE MUSIC: (L-R) Lamond Smith, Lee Hilton, Armand Vrunet and Charles Vantine attend the Watermark Wednesday social benefitting Una Voce at the Straz Center on June 12. PHOTO BY SUSAN CLARY

2- PROCLAIMING PRIDE: (L-R) Aaron Horcha, Susan McGrath and Eric Skains hold the Proclamation declaring June as LGBT Pride month in St. Petersburg outside of the City Council Chambers at City Hall June 13. PHOTO BY STEVE BLANCHARD

3- SWIM TEAM: (L-R) Eddie Pruett and Steve Smith wait for clouds to clear before getting in the pool at the St. Pete Pride Pool Party at the Gay St. Pete Guest House. PHOTO BY STEVE BLANCHARD 4- SOCIALIZING STRATEGY: (L-R) Scott Durfee and Rick Goodwin smile during Watermark Wednesday at the Straz Center in Tampa June 12. PHOTO BY SUSAN CLARY 5- STAMP OF APPROVAL: Ernie Webb gives a gesture of approval at Honey Pot in Ybor City the weekend of June 8. PHOTO BY CARRIE WEST 6- STANDING O: The audience reacts to the Hillsborough County Commission’s unanimous vote to repeal an ordinance banning gay pride recognition on June 5. PHOTO BY NICK CARDELLO 7- MAKING HER POINT: Nadine Smith addresses the Hillsborough County Commission during a debate concerning the repeal of an ordinance that prohibited the county from recognizing gay pride events. PHOTO BY NICK CARDELLO

8- WELCOME PARTY: Kori Stevens, Eric Skains and Stanley Solomons greet visitors to the annual St. Pete Pride Pool Party at St. Pete Guest House on June 15. PHOTO BY STEVE BLANCHARD

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HE GAYBOR DISTRICT COALITION WILL HONOR TAMPA MAYOR BOB BUCKHORN for his inclusive LGBT policies and views during its annual Mayor’s Luncheon at Hamburger Mary’s on Thursday, June 27. The luncheon runs from 11:30 a.m.-1 p.m. and the light program will feature a performance by the Una Voce Rays and a short awards ceremony. Advance tickets are available at the Ybor City Wine Bar, MC Film Fest and Hamburger Mary’s. The $20 tickets include a choice of entree, a side and a drink. Expect to hear from Buckhorn himself, who has been a longtime supporter of the LGBT

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T. PETE PRIDE RUNS A FULL FIVE DAYS THIS YEAR WITH THE BIG EVENT, the Street Festival, landing on Saturday, June 29. But be sure to attend the of�icial Pride Kick Off party scheduled for Thursday, June 27, at Quench Lounge in Largo. The young bar was aggressive in getting involved with St. Pete Pride this year, and the kick off party will feature dancers, VJ Justin Schaefer and representatives from Ketel One Vodka handing out giveaways and drink/shot samples. The festivities begin at 9 p.m. and

run until the samples and your energy runs out. Expect to see representatives of St. Pete Pride on hand throughout the night as well.

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NY DAY NOW THE SUPREME COURT WILL RULE ON THE CONSTITUTIONALITY OF DOMA AND PROPOSITION 8 IN CALIFORNIA. Once that decision is handed down, organizers will descend upon the Sam M. Gibbons U.S. Federal Courthouse at 801 N. Florida Avenue in downtown Tampa. The rally will either be a celebration or a peaceful protest, depending on the ruling. Organizers have

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The Broken Tusk is holding a “Coming Out Party” on Friday, June 21. Of course, the bar will celebrate the best way it knows how—with a pair of drag shows at 11:30 p.m. and 1 a.m. “After a lot of tweaking, cleaning, painting and renovating, we have come to call this place home,” Levi Love wrote about his bar. “Thank you to the old friends that have stuck by us through it all and the new friends we are meeting every day.” DJ LMO will spin before and after the drag shows and expect a ton of free swag from the bar’s liquor reps. It might be a good night to pick the designated driver early or program that taxi service into your smartphone. |  |

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1- PROUD RECEPTION: (L-R) Watermark publisher Tom Dyer, Anthony Armstrong, Bob Poe, Sophia Rayam, Ken Brown and Stuart Milk attend a Pride Reception hosted by President Obama at the White House. PHOTO COURTESY TOM DYER 2- ON AIR: Orlando City Commissioner Patty Sheehan (left) chats with Erica Lee on the Wake up with Erika show on WLOQ 102.5 June 14. PHOTO VIA SHEEHAN’S FACEBOOK PAGE

3- REWARDING AWARD: Paul David Queen (right), VP of Marketing at Converge Orlando, receives an Award for the Best Large Company Marketing in the Orlando area from Rob Graham, President of the Central Florida Chapter of the American Marketing Association. PHOTO COURTESY MIKAEL AUDEBERT 4- HONORING VETS: Ashley Filimon, Chris Stepheson, Dr. David Baker Hargorve and Keri Griffin Edenfield honor LGBT veterans at the 3rd annual LGBT Celebration at the Orlando VA Medical Center June 14. PHOTO BY MARK CADY

5- LIGHTER SIDE: (L to R) Representatives Joe Saunders, Shevrin Jones and Ricardo Rangel share a laugh at an EQFL/ Planned Parenthood reception hosted by Representative Joe Gibbons June 15. PHOTO COURTESY EQFL 6- MINGLING WITH THE GOV: Equality Florida statewide field director, Michael Farmer, mingles with former Governor Charlie Crist at the “Sex, Equality and Cocktails” reception hosted by EQFL and Planned Parenthood June 15 in Hollywood, Fla. PHOTO COURTESY EQFL 7- HAPPILY EVER AFTER: (L-R) Jack Lord and Adam Hunter show their marriage certificate May 31 in Maine. PHOTO COURTESY OF JACK LORD AND ADAM HUNTER

8- SPINNING LIVE: DJ Cub keeps the beer garden shaking at Virginia Drive Live June 14. PHOTO COURTESY JESS REGAN PHOTOGRAPHY

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F YOU’VE DRIVEN PAST THE SOUTH EOLA LOCATION OF THE PRICKLY PEAR OR NICK’S ITALIAN KITCHEN, you may have noticed that both restaurants are now closed. But we have good news: both will relocate to I-Drive. Owners Eddie Nickell and Nicholas Olivieri created the FMI Restaurant Group and the popular Banana’s Modern American Diner on Mills Avenue. The exact location of the new restaurants hasn’t been announced, but FMI already operates the successful Funky Monkey Wine Company at The Pointe. As far as the old locations are concerned, the Orlando

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RBAN RETHINK HAS UNDERGONE SOME CHANGES THIS SUMMER, thanks to new ops manager Shaina Anderson and programming coordinator Brendan O’Connor. The creative and collaborative hub in Thornton Park is known for unexpected events. Now Anderson and O’Connor, the openly gay artists responsible for chairs chained to bus stops,

are tearing up the schedule. New offerings include a superhero bike ride, rooftop drive-in movies, and a total makeover of the co-working/event space by the end of the year. But �irst up is a “Central Florida Of�ice Hour Day,” which will coax executives and professionals to host young entrepreneurs for an hour on Friday, June 28. Watch for developments at WatermarkOnline.com.

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HERE HAVE BEEN SOME UNEXPECTED DELAYS IN THE OPENING OF SANTIAGO’S BODEGA on Virginia Drive, but the wait may well be worth it. The eatery

provided some paella during Virginia Drive Live on June 14, and the dish was a huge hit. The street party was abuzz with the news of the bodega’s food, as well as with the talents of DJ Cub, who kept the Beer Garden hopping with tunes throughout the event. News on a �irm opening date for Santiago’s is expected by the end of this month.

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