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When you’re looking for the perfect place to bring family, friends and your beloved together, DoubleTree by Hilton Orlando Downtown sets the stage. With a heart-ofthe-city location overlooking Lake Ivanhoe, a beautifully renovated ballroom and a love for creating custom wedding celebrations, our experienced staff is ready to make your day one to cherish. Call our Wedding Specialist today.
Where the little things mean everything.TM 60 South Ivanhoe Boulevard | Orlando, FL, USA 32804 T 407.425.4455 www.DoubleTreeOrlandoDowntown.com
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ConTenTs Introduction
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Just Say Yes! A proposal guide
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The Importance of Being Earnest: an LGBT marriage primer
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Destination Unknown: Where to Get Married
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Love and everything after: Honeymoon fun!
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LGBT-friendly wedding vendor guide
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Step back into a time of elegance and charm. This historical gem, tucked away in an intimate garden setting in the heart of downtown Orlando, is picture perfect for your special event or lodging.
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THE PERFECT LOCATION FOR PRIDEFUL CELEBRATIONS.
9939 Universal Blvd., Orlando, Florida 32819
From stunning poolside terraces and luxurious lawns to a wide variety of special event ballrooms, Rosen Shingle Creek has an array of gorgeous settings for hosting special occasions. And an entire team of dedicated event staff to ensure every exquisite detail exceeds your expectations. Visit RosenShingleCreek.com or call 407.996.9939
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ne year ago, Watermark published its first Wedding guide. there were the fizzy sounds of communal aspiration colliding with the upward turn of romantic equality: corks were popping, hearts were thumping, life would never be the same again. it was a remarkable year for the LgBt community, starting with florida’s same-sex marriage ruling in January and leading to the u.S. Supreme Court’s ruling on the matter in June. We fell in love, and we fell back in love with a nation that recognized fairness. Nearly one year since Obergefell v. Hodges, we’re still in our
honeymoon period, figuring out our taxes and our rights and how things have changed, both for the better and for the worse. It’s worth noting that there has been a conservative backlash to marriage equality, and it’s being orchestrated by those who are dependent on the opinions of bigots. It’s all gone to the bathrooms and the cake shops. However, it’s also worth noting that we should celebrate as loudly and as proudly as we can – even one year on – if only to remind people that, hey, we’re fun, and our happiness should only make you happier. For me, the marriage equality decision was an explosion of glory, flowers and friends. Following Florida’s Jan. 6 ruling on the matter, I shoehorned myself into an extremely rewarding and difficult flowchart of making the deal real by Valentine’s Day. Among my favorite matrimonial memories one year on is the tidal wave of friendship and support from the community that allowed my nuptials to go on without a hitch (or maybe I was tipsy). Florida is far more supportive of marriage equality than most would have you believe. Ask a friend, a business, a church, a hotel, a park, a beach; you’re likely to be confronted with a huge smile and an inspiring wedding experience at the ready. That’s why we produce the Wedding Guide: So that you have a map toward achieving your overdue dreams of undying love and all of the promise and promises that implies. Here, you’ll find suggestions – a veritable wedding-planner-who-talks-to-much – on how to make your special day a monument to the love you’ve fought so hard to publicly secure. Or, beyond that, so that you can actually enjoy your wedding day, your very personal tribute to your spouse, without having to think too much about the world outside your Florida snow globe. In these pages, you’ll find recommendations for proposal spots, destination weddings and honeymoons. You’ll also find the meat and potatoes on your legal rights and the considerations you ought to make before signing that wedding certificate. We’ll take you from the beginning to the dramatic conclusion all in the space of this one magazine, and we’ll catch the flowers at the end. Love is real. Real is love. Welcome to marriage.
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first congregational church of winter park
central florida’s premiere wedding destination for our lgbtq sisters and brothers located in the picturesque center of downtown winter park a historic sanctuary that can accommodate up to 425 people just a short walk from park avenue and the alfond inn
an open & affirming church of the united church of christ 225 s. interlachen avenue winter park, florida 32789 407-647-2416 www.fccwp.org
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here are a lot of planning notes and lavish decisions to be made when putting together a wedding. But before you decide on what flowers to have, who to invite and what meatless dish option to offer because uncle Bob has decided to try being a vegan again, you have to get your true love to say ‘yes.’ here are 10 places – five in Central florida and five in the tampa Bay area that can spice up your proposal and make it damn hard for them to say ‘no.’ Are you an athletic couple who doesn’t just watch
exhilarating roller coasters in the world and what’s
sports for the tight uniforms? We recommend doing it
better than having to scream your proposal in the
at tropicana Field in st. Petersburg during a tampa
middle of a loopty-loop? In Central Florida, there is
bay rays game. It will cost you a donation of $500, but
no greater thrill than being above the city beautiful.
you get the centerfield scoreboard, a dozen roses and a
You and the future ball and chain can hop in a helium
DVD of the happy moment. In Central Florida, grab your
balloon at disney springs in buena vista and climb 400
sweetheart and take them to the orlando citrus bowl
feet above the world to propose in a whole new world.
for either an orlando city soccer or orlando Pride
Are you a couple that tends to be more high end
match. We may be partial, but we like having that much
and classy? Go on with your bad selves and book a fine
purple around when we are trying to score a marriage
dining cruise. starlite yachts in tampa bay lets you
goooooooaaaaaaaaal!
cruise the open seas and dine on a feast fit for royalty.
For those who are more of a kid at heart, pull the
If you put a ring on it while on a boat, they will never let
imagination from your special someone and propose
go. If you want to do it in style, then Park ave. in Winter
in a place that feels like another land. Have you ever
Park is your stop. Start by sampling a few wines from
wanted your wedding proposal to have The Jungle Book
around the world at The Wine Room and finish off with
or The Lion King as the setting? the lowry Park Zoo in
a fancy dinner at Luma on Park. An engagement ring in
tampa is the place for you. Get all Dr. Doolittle with
champagne! How romantic!
your proposal, but make sure to check the ground before
Are you a fun-in-the-sun duo? Of course you are.
you take a knee. The magic of a perfect proposal doesn’t
This is Florida after all. On the west coast, there is
get better than at the Wizarding World of Harry Potter
no more romantic spot than watching the sunset on
at universal resort in orlando. If you and your partner
clearwater beach. Wrapped in a blanket with your
are in the same schoolhouse at Hogwarts and share the
toes in the sand, and you pull out a ring? Yes, yes, a
same Patronus, then this is the place for you.
thousand times yes! On the east coast, a barefoot, nighttime stroll along the world famous daytona
Maybe you and your bae are thrill seekers and nothing says I love you like a little fear. busch
beach will have even the most reluctant future grooms
gardens in tampa is home to five of the fastest, most
and brides saying ‘yes.’
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Come celebrate the beginning of your journey together with us!
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that make history
Located in the beautifully restored 1927 courthouse, the orange County regional history Center offers a variety of unique spaces for your wedding or special event. Whether you envision an intimate event or a grand celebration, the history Center is the perfect location to celebrate life’s most joyous occasions.
John Michael Exquisite Weddings and Catering now has its own venue. Located in Winter Park, Florida, Celebration Gardens is an affordable, all-inclusive outdoor venue perfect for weddings and special events.
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Let us be the beginning to your happily ever after. Let us guide you on your journey of a lifetime. Let us exceed your fantasy of what a wedding should be.
The Ritz-Carlton Orlando, Grande Lakes offers the most comprehensive wedding services and locations for uniquely perfect celebrations. Our team provides authentic experiences to ensure your wedding is the ultimate expression of you. For information please call 407-393-4744 or visit www.ritzcarlton.com/orlando.
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liff and dan fell in love three years ago. they were introduced by friends and had lots in common. Both were in their mid-50s and had previously been married to women; one was divorced, the other a widower. Both had supportive adult children. Both had successful careers and substantial assets, including separate homes. When they came to see me a few months before their wedding date, their playful banter was infectious. We laughed a lot. Zoe and Kim also consulted with me before their nuptials.
assets, debts, taxes, retirement, inheritance, child custody and
Zoe had a daughter, born during a previous relationship that
separation – can be profound.
ended badly. Kim was single and settled in a nice suburban
“Should we get married?” At its root, it’s a question
home. A year after they met, Kim invited Zoe and her daughter
about compatibility, commitment and love. But thoughtful
to move in. The three of them were now a family, and their
couples will also want to understand the legal and financial
love and happiness were on full display at my office.
consequences. This primer will answer basic but important
Both couples had the same question: “Should we get married?”
questions.
Either way, the couples were thrilled that they now
How Do i geT marrieD?
had the option. A U.S. District Court ruling made marriage between same-sex couples legal in Florida in January 2015.
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ou must be 18 years of age to be married in Florida.
But marriage equality was tenuous until last June, when the
You need not be a U.S. citizen, or even resident.
U.S. Supreme Court declared all state bans on same-sex
But you will need a driver’s license, other valid
marriage unconstitutional. Whether conducted before or
state ID or a passport.
after 2015, and in whatever jurisdiction, any legal marriage
You can obtain a marriage license at any county clerk’s
between same-sex couples is now recognized in Florida and
office for $93.50. It need not be the county in which you reside,
throughout the nation. Good or bad, that marriage carries with
nor do you have to be married in the issuing county. Both
it all the ensuing procedural requirements, protections and
parties must be present to sign the application under oath. In
responsibilities.
Florida, marriage licenses have been changed to read ‘spouse’
Marriage equality means that our most important loving
and ‘spouse’ instead of ‘bride’ and ‘groom.’
relationships are now recognized and supported as a matter of law. But because marriage was always outside our grasp, many
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of us are uncertain as to its ramifications. The impact – on
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marrying later in life will wish to do this. Note that if your spouse completes a Last Will naming you as
The license is valid for 60 days, but you must wait three days after issuance of the license to be married, unless you complete a pre-marital course. A marriage certificate is issued within seven days after the executed license has been returned to the clerk’s office for recording. There is no cost, and additional copies may be obtained for $3. Ordained clergy, judicial officers and notaries public are qualified to solemnize marriage vows in Florida. Deputy clerks will perform ceremonies at the courthouse during normal business hours for a small fee. Clergy are not required to officiate if it violates their beliefs or the directives of their religion. Visit hillsclerk.com, pinellasclerk.org and myorangeclerk.com for more info.
beneficiary, or a health care directive naming you as designee, either designation is presumed to be revoked upon divorce.
How will marriage impact me financially?
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ontrary to popular misconception, in Florida you are not responsible for the debts of your spouse, including in bankruptcy. But there are layers to this analysis. Assets
titled in your name alone are insulated from claims against your spouse. Likewise, your jointly owned marital homestead property is protected from claims. But virtually all other jointly held assets (e.g. a bank or investment account) may be vulnerable. While undistributed, pensions and retirement accounts are also
How will marriage impact me legally?
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hen you marry, you become the default legal representative for your spouse. If your spouse becomes incapacitated, you will have authority to make
outside the grasp of creditors. The impact of marriage on financial and retirement planning is complex and beyond the scope of this primer. Couples should consult with an accountant, attorney or financial advisor. Medicaid claims arising from extended nursing or rehabilitative care are different. Assets of the spouse are considered in determining eligibility for a sick or disabled
decisions regarding health care and, in most circumstances, termination of life support. And when your spouse dies, you will have default authority to make cremation or burial arrangements and administer your spouse’s estate. Authorities granted by marriage generally trump any claim made by a member of your spouse’s family of origin. But they do not trump specific written health-care directives or estate directives that have been properly executed by your spouse. For example, your spouse could name her sister or daughter as health care surrogate or estate executor.
The battle for marriage equality was epic. By all means, take intelligent advantage of the rights that were won.
For clarity, it is strongly recommended that married couples execute the full range of estate documents: Last Will, Living Will, Designation of Health Care Surrogate, Pre-Need Declaration of Guardian, Durable Power of Attorney and Statement of Authority to Make Funeral Arrangements. Because the powers granted by a Domestic Partner Registry – or a legal civil union from another state – are lesser in scope, these designations are unnecessary and legally superfluous for married couples. If your spouse dies without a Last Will, you inherit the entire estate unless your spouse also had lineal descendants unrelated to you (e.g. children from a previous marriage), in which case, you inherit 50 percent of the estate. If your spouse disinherits you in a valid Last Will, you may claim a 30 percent “elective share” of the estate. Additional homestead protections entitle you to retain your home, furnishings, a vehicle, and possibly spousal
retain a home, car and $119,220. In Florida it may be possible for a spouse to retain additional individually owned assets by signing a “spousal refusal” to pay. This should be accomplished in consultation with a professional. In most cases (not all, depending on how and when the property was originally purchased), real estate owned jointly by a married couple may be owned as “tenants by the entirety.” This means that if one spouse dies, the survivor automatically acquires sole ownership. And unlike the “joint tenants with rights of survivorship” form of real-estate ownership often used by unmarried gay couples, “tenants by the entirety” protects the property from
creditor claims against a single spouse. And in Florida, property other than real estate may be owned as “tenants by the entirety.” Except in rare circumstances, cohabiting spouses with more than one home will only be able to claim one property tax homestead exemption. Most group health insurance policies offer benefits for spouses, and policies purchased under the Affordable Care Act offer discounts for families. Spouses are also the default beneficiary for most retirement and life insurance policies. As a married couple, you can file your income taxes jointly. This is usually advantageous, unless one spouse has numerous itemized deductions or a significantly lower income. If you’ve been married for at least a year, when your spouse dies you can claim their Social Security retirement benefit if it is greater than your own.
support. Importantly, this elective share can be waived in a pre- or
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the husband as the father on the birth certificate unless paternity is contested. But that agency has refused to list same-sex spouses as the second parent without a court order. Equality Florida filed a lawsuit in August that is making its way through the court system.
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navoidably, marriage creates the potential for divorce. When the parties can agree to the division of property and there are no minor children
involved, there is a “simplified dissolution of marriage” procedure that can be completed without the assistance of an attorney and for less than $500. When there are minor children, or there will be alimony or some other enforceable payment plan, divorce can be “uncontested” if the parties can come to an agreement. An expensive and emotionally taxing “contested” divorce arises when the parties can’t agree on division of marital property, marital debt and/or issues involving minor children. Many same-sex couples enter marriage with an accumulation of assets. As a general rule-of-thumb, each will retain those “non-marital” assets in divorce, as well as any income or exchanges derived from those assets and any non-spousal gifts or inheritances. “Marital” property
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gifts, and earnings or assets acquired during the marriage.
How will marriage impacT my family?
A pre-nuptial agreement should be considered, particularly by couples marrying later in life. The agreement describes the assets of each spouse, and often
W
hen you marry, either or both spouses can
then renounces any statutory marital claim to those assets
request a change of name on the marriage
upon death or dissolution of marriage. The parties can still
certificate. This certificate is then used to
provide for each other through joint titling, beneficiary
make the change official with Social Security and the
designation or in their Last Will.
Department of Motor Vehicles. Until just recently, adoption by gays and lesbians was outlawed in Florida. Once it became legal, if you wished to adopt your partner’s children it was necessary to petition the court and endure an expensive and time-consuming home study completed by an adoption agency. Now that marriage is legal, you can adopt your spouse’s children by means of a much simpler step-parent adoption.
coming aroUnD again
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liff and Dan got married in front of their families in a beautiful ceremony at a local park. Beforehand, they reconsidered their estate planning and
executed a pre-nuptial agreement. Zoe and Kim wanted no fuss. I married them at my office. Kim is in the process of adopting her stepdaughter.
Step-parent adoption is strongly encouraged,
When that is finalized, they will execute new estate
because otherwise the non-legal, non-biological
documents.
parent is vulnerable in the event their spouse dies,
This primer casts a spotlight on some of the
or if they divorce. Documents such as a Pre-Need
legal complexities of marriage. It is intended only as a
Declaration of Guardian for Minor, Co-Parenting Agreement or Pre-Nuptial Agreement can be completed to protect a non-legal parent, but that is second-best when compared to adoption.
starting place for anyone considering this important step – now or even in a distant, hopeful future. Marrying couples with children and/or separate assets are strongly encouraged to consult with an attorney.
Married same-sex couples can also adopt through
The battle for marriage equality was epic. By all means,
agencies, and both names will be listed on the amended
take intelligent advantage of the rights that were won.
birth certificate as parents.
When there is love, commitment and maturity, marriage
However, same-sex spouses face a troublesome
can be a stabilizing, sustaining legal haven.
vestige of discrimination when a child is born within the
THE NAMES IN THIS COLUMN WERE CHANGED TO PROTECT THE PRIVACY OF THE PARTIES INVOLVED.
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Have a fairy tale wedding set in private gardens
A little kitschy—but totally Florida—the Florida Aquarium
surrounding the 205-foot Singing Tower in Lake Wales,
in Tampa, Florida, is an exciting spot if you want to exchange
Florida, a National Historic Landmark built from marble
vows in front of the floor-to-ceiling window peering out into
and coquina, decorated with tile mosaics and ironwork
the 500,000-gallon tank filled with a rainbow of 2,000 kinds
sculptures; a collection of palms, ferns, pines and the
of Coral Reef fish and dazzling sea life. There are several
seasonally changing shades of blooming azaleas, camellias
different options here, indoors or outdoors, for an affordable,
and magnolias make up the lush, colorful foliage in the
completely customizable wedding. Stay for your reception as
garden. And because it’s central Florida, there’s a selection
well and choose from cuisine options featuring local flavors
of affordable packages for ceremonies large and small. Best
with a tropical twist (of course) or international dishes.
of all you can count on the sunshine pouring down while
flaquarium.org/host-event/weddings.aspx
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If money is no object for your big day (or even if it is but you want to leave your single days behind with a bang), set your sights on the gay-welcoming Dutch
A favorite for many same-sex couples (and literary
Caribbean island of Curaçao. Picturesque crystal clear
geeks alike), the Enchanted Gardens at the Poe Museum
ocean lapping at luxurious white sandy beaches is the
in Richmond, Virginia, regularly plays host to couples
backdrop for ceremonies here. Besides hooking you up
looking for a unique wedding destination. Outside the
with a wedding planner, Floris offers wedding packages
museum which houses an elaborate collection of Edgar
that include a few complimentary perks to help make
Allen Poe’s works, the gardens are inspired by Poe’s own
the day a little more stress-free: a room for one member
words in his poem “To One in Paradise.” Ceremonies at
of the couple the night before the wedding, a special
this simple, inexpensive yet quirky venue can provide a
turndown service, breakfast in bed (with mimosas) and
delightful setting reminiscent of life in historical 19th-
free anniversary nights so you have an excuse to come
century Richmond. poemuseum.org
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Though it may elicit a giggle at the thought of having your
Same-sex marriage has been legal in Argentina since
wedding at the Ringling Museum in Sarasota, Florida, (or
2013. So if getting married at a lovely vineyard sounds
thoughts of terror) you’ll gasp at the gorgeous Ca’ d’Zan
more like your dream wedding day, the Bodega Norton
once it’s transformed for a wedding ceremony. Plan your big
winery located in the Mendoza province of Argentina,
day inside this historic Venetian Gothic style mansion just
at the base of the Andes Mountains, is probably the
like palazzos lining the canals in Venice, Italy, while paying
most magical you will find. Imagine live music to
tribute to the exciting times of the Roaring Twenties and Ringling’s own storied history; or set it outside on the terrace overlooking the shimmering waters of the Gulf of Mexico. It’s a bargain exotic romantic wedding venue since you won’t actually have to shell out the cash to fly your mother-in-law
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Savannah, Georgia
Phoenix, Arizona
Keeping with true southern style, charming Savannah,
For nature enthusiasts who want to spend a little time
Georgia, welcomes same-sex honeymooners to
together in the great outdoors, the Arizona desert is the
stroll the oak-lined city streets and meander
place to do it. From hiking and mountain biking to kayaking
through artists’ studios, galleries boutique
and off-roading on ATVs, there’s a ton to do. Overnight at
shops and pubs. Take a haunted walking tour
the gay-friendly Kimpton Hotel property Hotel Palomar
(savannahwalks.com/pub_tour.html) or riverboat cruise
(hotelpalomar-phoenix.com) downtown for the necessary
(savannahriverboat.com). The Foley Inn (foleyinn.com),
modern comforts and because it’s close to several deliciously
a cozy bed-and-breakfast, is close to many of the
romantic spots like The Gladly (thegladly.com).
city’s best offerings – no rental car even needed.
Perfect moment: Soaring above the Sonoran Desert
Perfect moment: A horse-drawn carriage
in a hot air balloon (hotairexpeditions.com) at sunset,
ride (savannahcarriage.com) through the historic
followed by a champagne toast under the stars.
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SanTa barbara, CaLiFornia One of the most romantic places the world over, the “American Riviera” Santa Barbara, California, is known for its wine – we recommend taking a honeymoon trip to the West Coast. the canary (canarysantabarbara.com), a boutique hotel located downtown, is only a few footsteps away from the city’s urban Wine trail (urbanwinetrailsb.com), which you can follow for wine tastings at some of the region’s best wineries. perfecT momenT: An outdoor rooftop pool, Jacuzzi and
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fireplace overlooking the cityscape, Santa Ynez Mountains and Pacific Ocean at your hotel pretty much takes the cake for top romance spot on this trip.
Disney puts the magic in honeymoons and it’s close!
veniCe Venice is one of the most romantic cities in the world, with options here that might seem a little unbelievable. But it’s all a possibility if you spring for cross-Atlantic flights for your wedding gift to each other: Lose yourselves in the city’s
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high Street:
narrow streets, gawk at st. mark’s basilica, the pink marble
London should accent your celebration perfectly.
for two at an uncrowded sidewalk café (we hear the food in
doge’s Palace (palazzoducale.visitmuve.it/en/home) and bridge of sighs (bridgeofsighs.info), or simply find a table Italy is pretty good). perfecT momenT: Gliding along wrapped up together in a gondola – with or without live music – while passing under the city’s bridges and marveling at the centuries-
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old architecture, of course.
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Paris is always the romantic go-to as far as world-class
OK, OK, beaches aside, it’s the other reason tourists around
cities go, but we urge you to whisk away to London after your
the world mark Florida on their travel bucket lists! disney
wedding day. The city is a virtual playground for lovers –
World (disneyworld.disney.go.com) is actually a gay
hop onto the tube and scour any of the city’s burroughs
honeymoon mecca – where else can you be surrounded by the
for things to do; or just walk around the city’s most
magic of fairytales, gourmet food, endless excitement and
famous tourist spots like big ben and london tower
a chance to experience the world’s cultures with your new
bridge. Get tickets for the symphony at royal albert Hall
husband or wife all in the one weekend? Resorts and packages
(royalalberthall.com) or a theatre production in the West end.
range from reasonable to ridiculous so take your pick.
perfecT momenT: Stay at the milestone Hotel
perfecT momenT: A cruise around the seven seas lagoon
(milestonehotel.com) to experience classic London luxury
during nightly fireworks over the Magic Kingdom Park will
in an intimate honeymoon suite with a four-poster bed
surely be something worth remembering. (disneyweddings.
and copper tub for the ultimate bubble bath.
disney.go.com/honeymoons)
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Art and History Museums -Maitland 407-539-218 | artandhistory.org
Beso de Sol Resort 800-331-2548 | besodelsolresort.com
o you’re about to get hitched, right? Oh, the nerves, the uncertainties, the families! Well, if you want to do it up in style but aren’t sure where to start, here’s a list of businesses we know that will make your special day shine. Weddings can be complex
Best Western Cocoa Beach 321-783-7621 bestwesterncocoabeach.com
Bice at the Loews Portofino Bay 407-503-1416 orlando-bicegroup.com
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Celebration Gardens 407-896-0314 orlandocelebrationgardens.com
Ceviche
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321-281-8140 | ceviche.com
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Crowne Plaza Orlando Universal 407-781-2108 | cporlando.com
Catering / Cakes
Plantation On Crystal River
Char-Don Catering
plantationoncrystalriver.com/weddings
407-841-3519 char-doncatering.com
DoubleTree by Hilton Downtown
352-795-4211
407-425-4455 doubletreeorlandodowntown.com
Puff’n Stuff Event Catering
DoubleTree By Hilton Orlando at Sea World
407-629-7833 / 813-712-7833
Chouinards
puffnstuff.com
727-612-1253 Chouinardscuisine.com
407-352-1100 doubletreeorlandoseaworld.com
Sprinkles Custom Cakes 407-622-7202 | sprinklescakes.net
G-Bellas Bistro 407-914-5086
First Congregational Church 407-647-2416 | fccwp.org
Wedding Cakes by Darlene
gbellabistro.com
407-365-7752
Flamingo Resort
weddingcakesbydarlene.com
John Michael Exquisite Weddings and Catering
727-321-5000 | flamingofla.com
Ceremony & Reception Locations
407-894-6671 johnmichaelevents.com
Little Lamb Catering
Albin Polasek Museum
Florida Studio Theater 941-366-9017 Ext. 324 floridastudiotheater.org
Four Seasons Resort Orlando at Walt Disney World® Resort
407-613-2519
407-647-6294 ext. 2003
littlelambcatering.com
capenhouse.com
Orange Blossom Catering
Aloft Hotels – Tampa
407-313-6780
727-822-6129
813-999-9000
fourseasons.com/orlando
orangeblossomcatering.com
alofttampadowntown.com
P is for Pie
At Journeys End Bed and Breakfast
407-745-4743 | crazyforpies.com
International Palms Resort and Conference Center 800-248-5955 ourorlandowedding.com
904-829-0076 | atjourneysend.com
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Italian Club 813-343-0571 | Italian-Club.org
Lakeside Reception Hall 407-298-3473 | thelakesidehall.com
Liquid 813-731-3963 | liquidtampa.com
Lowry Zoo 813-935-8552 Ext. 331 lowryparkzoo.org/weddings
Marriott St. Petersburg Clearwater 727-456-1348 | marriott.com/tpasb
Mission Inn Resort and Club 352-324-3916 missioninnresort.com/weddings
Orange County Regional History Center 407-836-7036 | ocfl.net
Paradise Cove 407-239-6939 paradisecoveorlando.com
Plantation On Crystal River 352-795-4211 plantationoncrystalriver.com/weddings
Rococo Steak 727-501-6602 | rococosteak.com
Rosen Shingle Creek 407-996-9939 rosenshinglecreek.com
Ruth Eckerd Hall 727-712-2768 wrutheckerdhall.com/weddingpackages
Sunken Gardens 727-551-3106 | sunkengardens.org
St. Mark’s Presbyterian Church 407-331-7520 | stmarkspc.org
The Courtyard at Lake Lucerne 407-648-5188 orlandohistoricinn.com
The Plaza Resort and Spa 386-267-1637 plazaresortandspa.com/weddings
Pixies & Petals
EO Inn
863-221-4939 | PixiesandPetals.com
407-481-8485 | eoinn.com
Bruce Watters Jewelers Inc.
The Flower Centre
Flamingo Resort
727-896-6661
727-823-3432 | theflowercentre.com
727-321-5000 | flamingofla.com
brucewatters.com
Four Seasons Resort Orlando at Walt Disney World® Resort
Goldsmith Jewelry Shoppe
407-393-4744
Gift Registry/ Invitations, Accessories & Favors
ritzcarlton.com/orlando
Ten Thousand Villages
The Queens Head 727-498-8584 thequeensheadbar.org
The Ritz-Carlton Orlando, Grande Lakes
407-313-6780
407-644-8464
Wyndham Orlando ResortInternational Drive
winterpark.tenthousandvillages.com
407-351-2420
Health & Beauty
wyndhamorlandoresort.com
Yacht Starship 813-223-7999 | yachtstarship.com
Entertainment & Music A Unique Entertainment, Inc. 904-278-5454 | webookem.net
John Michael Exquisite Weddings and Catering
AJ Shields at Salon Muse 407-276-1845
727-733-1175 | allaboutsmiles.org
At Journeys End Bed and Breakfast 904-829-0076 | atjourneysend.com
Orchid Cleaners 407-896-7035 orchidcleanersorlando.com
Floral & Décor Kissimmee Florist 888-993-3076 | kissflowers.com
Lee James Floral Designs 407-897-5300 | leejamesflors.com
vowsforlove.com
352-324-3916
Ceremonies by Nan 813-839-5564
Rev. Tom Koester
352-795-4211
407-697-2717
plantationoncrystalriver.com/weddings
StJohnthebeloved@bellsouth.net
Rosen Shingle Creek
Photography Jenna Michele Photography
Beso de Sol Resort
407-257-5813
407-648-5188 | orlandohistoricinn.com
jennamichelephoto.com
The Plaza Resort and Spa
Chris Stephenson Snap Out Loud Photography
386-267-1637
407-766-1655
plazaresortandspa.com/weddings
800-331-2548
407-238-2722 | carolynallens.com
Mission Inn Resort and Club
The Courtyard at Lake Lucerne
407-797-4145
Carolyn Allen’s Bridal & Tuxedos
Vows for Love
407-996-9939 | rosenshinglecreek.com
813-999-9000
Fashion
Tampa MCC 813-239-1951 | mcctampa.com
Plantation On Crystal River
407-894-6671
overtherainboworlandoweddings.com
Officiant
ceremoniesbynan.com
Honeymoon & Travel
alofttampadowntown.com
800-248-5955
407-677-8354
missioninnresort.com/weddings
YMD Eye & Face
Over the Rainbow Weddings
monarchjewelryandart.com
727-310-5428 (LGBT)
Hopkins Aesthetic & Reconstructive Dentistry
Aloft Hotels – Tampa
International Palms Resort and Conference Center
727-456-1348 | marriott.com/tpasb
salonmusewinterpark.com
johnmichaelevents.com
Monarch Jewelry and Art
Marriott St. Petersburg Clearwater
Strings Etc.
Event Planner
fourseasons.com/orlando
ourorlandowedding.com
407-960-1000 | yeildingmd.com 407-257-0610 | stringsetc.net
407-297-8000 goldsmithjewelry.com
snapoutloud.com
besodelsolresort.com
The Ritz-Carlton Orlando, Grande Lakes
Crowne Plaza Orlando Universal
407-393-4744
Unique Services Fairvilla Megastore
ritzcarlton.com/orlando
407-781-2108
407-425-6005
cporlando.com
fairvillamegastore.com
Wyndham Orlando Resort-International Drive 407-351-2420
Gecko CPA
wyndhamorlandoresort.com
407-478-4518 | geckocpa.com
doubletreeorlandoseaworld.com
Jewelry
DoubleTree by Hilton Downtown
Bay Hill Jewelers
Orange County Tax Collector
407-425-4455
bayhilljewelers.com
DoubleTree By Hilton Orlando at Sea World 407-352-1100
doubletreeorlandodowntown.com
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