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LOVE NOTES 5 chocolate brown color palette 7 tips by josie 8 barbershop experience 10 bride’s checklist 11 couple's quiz 12 registry ideas 13 favors & gifts REAL WEDDINGS 14 fitsum/rediate wedding 20 johnston wedding ESSENTIALS 22 destination wedding dresses 24 grooms tips 26 same sex weddings 29 later-moon 30 reception hall directory
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1 THE EARLY BRIDE GETS THE WORM!
The longer you have to plan your wedding, the better. If you plan far enough in advance you can stretch out payments so it won't seem like such a dent in your checkbook all at once! This also ensures availability for great vendors. When you plan in advance, you’re sure to have the photographer, venue, DJ, etc., that you want! www.pinterest.com/pin/250231323016629318/
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Plan you wedding photos with your professional photographer (or even that family friend who agreed to shoot!). Make a list of photos you want with your groom, wedding party and family. Give your wedding party and family an itinerary. www.pinterest.com/pin/18577417189637302/
2 CAPTURE THE “AHA” MOMENT!
I recommend getting photos taken before the ceremony so you get as many photos as possible that day! Doing a first look captures that “Aha” moment between the two of you. Make sure no one else is around except your photographer to capture that once-in-a-lifetime moment. www.pinterest.com/pin/219691288046536200/
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Have your guests write down their favorite date night idea and put it in a jar. Every week you and husband pull an idea out of the jar and have your fun date night. Love this idea! www.pinterest.com/pin/104497653828219261/
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You will need three pairs of shoes: Slippers for getting ready, heels for the ceremony and flats for dance. Make sure to break in your shoes. Try this: Wear your shoes off and on around the house for three or four weeks to break them in gradually. Take care not to soil your shoes. After an hour’s wear feels comfortable, increase the amount of time you wear them. www.pinterest.com/pin/172966441914791352/
6 SENTIMENTAL STORY TIME
Collect letters from bridesmaids, family members, and loved ones to create a sentimental book for the bride. Have her read it the day of her wedding (before make-up is applied of course!) www.pinterest.com/pin/124552745918670577/
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en Thompson was having trouble thinking of a way to thank the groomsmen in his wedding. "I didn't want to buy something tacky or cliché," said Thompson, of Charleston, W. VA. Then he discovered that his local barbershop offered a package geared to grooms and their attendants, and he decided to treat his friends to a hot shave on the day of the wedding, earlier this year. The morning at Topps Off was a great success, he said, giving the men an opportunity to hang out, eat, drink and play pool. "It was a good chance for them to bond," said Thompson. Grooms and their wedding parties have created a niche business for many barbershops, said Connie Skaggs, who
owns a barbershop in Columbus, Ohio, and is first vice president of the National Association of Barber Boards of America. In addition to a shave with a straight razor and hot towels, the groomsmen packages may include a neck massage, facial and haircut. Some barbershops serve food, drinks and cigars. Costs range from $30 to more than $150 per person. Going to the barbershop together adds to the festive mood, said John Anderson, who organized groomsmen outings for both of his sons-in-law. "It relaxed everybody before the wedding," Anderson said. "It really contributed a lot to the celebration." His son-in-law Garrett Schafer particularly appreciated the opportunity; he had the barber shave off his beard. "It felt better to be clean-shaven for the wedding," said Schaffer, who got married in November. Most of his groomsmen had never had a hot shave, and they enjoyed the experience, he said. "It was awesome," he said. "It also ensures all the groomsmen look good." Source: Associated Press
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the bride’s checklist Six to 12 Months ❑❑ Announce your engagement. ❑❑ Decide on wedding details, such as style, time of day and location. ❑❑ Pick a date. Do this as soon as possible so bridal party and family members can make plans and reservations can be made for wedding location, rehearsal and reception locations, etc. ❑❑ Set a budget. ❑❑ Select the bridal party. ❑❑ Choose your colors. Your flowers, attire, linens and cake will reflect your choice. ❑❑ Choose and order the bridal gowns, bridesmaids’ gowns and accessories. ❑❑ Start planning the honeymoon with groom. ❑❑ Begin your bridal registry. ❑❑ Select the caterer, photographer, florist and musicians. ❑❑ Start planning the reception. Reserve a hall, hotel or facility. ❑❑ Schedule premarital counseling. Some churches require this for a marriage. ❑❑ Choose and order the wedding rings. ❑❑ Order the wedding cake. ❑❑ Select and order the invitations.
Three Months ❑❑ Complete the guest list. ❑❑ Plan to have both mothers select their dresses. It’s customary for the groom’s mother to wait until the bride’s mother has selected her dress. ❑❑ Finalize reception plans. ❑❑ If reservations haven’t been made for the honeymoon, do it now. ❑❑ Confirm dates and times with the florist, caterer, photographer, musicians and church. ❑❑ Discuss transportation to and from the wedding and reception sites. ❑❑ Choose and order the tuxes. ❑❑ Schedule bridesmaids’ dresses for fittings. ❑❑ Choose and dye shoes if necessary.
Two Months ❑❑ Mail the invitations. ❑❑ Get the marriage license. ❑❑ Finalize the honeymoon plans.
One Month ❑❑ Reserve accommodations for the groom. ❑❑ Record gifts received and send thank-you notes as they arrive. ❑❑ Plan the rehearsal and dinner. This is the responsibility of the groom and his family, but all should work together on it. ❑❑ Purchase gifts for the bridal party. Brides often buy inexpensive earrings or necklaces for the bridesmaids to wear at the wedding. Popular choices for groomsmen are money clips, key chains or ball caps. ❑❑ Schedule final fittings for bride and bridesmaids. ❑❑ Schedule appointments at beauty salons for attendants, if needed. ❑❑ Hold the bridesmaids’ luncheon. ❑❑ Purchase a guest book and decide where it will go, either at the wedding or reception.
Two Weeks ❑❑ Finalize wedding day transportation. ❑❑ Arrange to have names changed on driver’s license, Social Security card, etc.
One Week ❑❑ Start packing for the honeymoon. ❑❑ Finalize the number of guests with caterer if not already done. ❑❑ Plan seating arrangements for guests. ❑❑ Have a hairdresser practice fixing your hair. You may want to practice applying your makeup. ❑❑ Make sure wedding rings are picked up and fit.
Wedding Day ❑❑ Relax and enjoy your very special day.
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SWEET HOME ALABAMA Melanie & Jake (Reese Witherspoon and Josh Lucas) Melanie has left behind her Southern roots for New York City. A successful fashion designer, she’s engaged to the mayor’s son (Patrick Dempsey). She goes home to Alabama to tell her parents, and still married to her old childhood flame Jake, she demands a divorce. Events unfold, secrets revealed and Melanie has to choose. She chooses with her heart, and ultimately Melanie & Jake are together again. Sigh ….
THE NOTEBOOK Noah Calhoun & Allie Hamilton (Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams) An elderly man tells a love story to an elderly woman and fellow nursing home resident. In 1940, country boy (Noah) falls for an heiress (Allie), and they share a summer love affair. Her mother breaks it up and takes Allie back to Charleston. The couple move on with their lives, and after World War II, Noah buys and restores the house they dreamed of owning together. By now Allie is engaged to another man. Fast forward to present, and we discover Allie is the elderly woman suffering from dementia and Noah is the elderly man. Can love last forever and transcend all? For this couple, it does.
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UP This animated instant classic could easily be called “Promises Kept” or “What We Do For Love.” An elderly man sets off to fulfill a promise to his late wife, his beloved Ellie. He ties thousands of balloons to his house and sets off for South Africa. A young Wilderness Explorer, Russell, is the accidental passenger who shares Carl’s adventures. It’s a heartwarming, funny tale that ultimately is uplifting. Carl and Ellie shared a happy marriage and grew old together. Later in the story, he finds a note in her childhood scrapbook thanking him for their adventure together, and encouraging him to have a new one.
THE BEST OF ME Dawson Cole & Amanda Collier (James Marsden and Michelle Monaghan) Through a series of flashbacks we learn about Dawson and Amanda. A shy, abused boy and a girl with big dreams fall tentatively in love, but are separated by life events. Nothing has turned out like either planned when they meet again for the first time in 21 years. Amanda is married with children. Their romance is rekindled, Amanda splits with her husband, but it’s all but too late because Dawson is killed. Amanda’s son is in an accident and receives a heart from a donor. That donor turns out to be Dawson. Eventually heartbreak turns to heartfelt thanks. Grab your tissues!
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A high-performance blender is a must-have for any newly married couple or family. Ask for one that can help with every meal of the day, such as the Vitamix S55. With a smaller footprint than conventional blenders, this powerful machine offers the convenience of four pre-programmed settings and two container options, including a blendand-go smoothie cup.
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Be ready for dinner parties with formal dinnerware and crystal stemware. Select timeless patterns that will look fresh and inviting on your table for years to come. Add a pop of color and personality with low-cost, on-trend accent pieces, such as chargers or a coffee or tea pot. Register for a few different types of glasses including water goblets, wine glasses and stemless or highball glasses, depending on your drink of choice. Experts recommend requesting eight to 12 place settings, but you may want more if you plan to host large events.
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Once you've got the basics covered, consider some out-of-the-box kitchen items. Keep recipes handy by registering for a cutting board that has place for a tablet. For easy entertaining, a slate cheese board enables you to write the name of each cheese or appetizer right on the board. Or, pick one with a hidden drawer for knives and storage.
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An outdoor grill can help set the scene for family gatherings, tailgate parties or just relaxing with friends. Decide if you prefer gas, which offers easy operation and clean-up, or charcoal, which many barbecue connoisseurs say provides a more intense, grilled flavor. Don't forget skewers, cooking utensils such as spatulas, tongs and grill forks, as well as other accessories like a grill mitt, grill basket or pizza pan.
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Pots and pans are a registry staple, but you should also add specialty cookware and bakeware, such as a roasting pan, rectangular baker or covered baking dish. Choosing oven-to-table pieces makes it easy to go straight from cooking to presentation. By asking for a set that comes with multiple pieces, you'll be ready to create brunch casseroles, lasagna for dinner and a warm bread pudding for dessert.
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ediate Tekeste’s parents are Ethiopian, although she grew up in Cedar Falls. She left Iowa and moved to Ethiopia to explore her family heritage and just perhaps, find herself. She did, and she also found Fitsum Alemayehu Fanta, the man who would be her husband. “I never expected to get married in Ethiopia. When I realized how lucky I was to have family in both places, and how important it was for my husband to have family at the wedding, I agreed to have our wedding in Ethiopia,” she says. Looking back, she’s glad she made that decision. Family and friends from the U.S. were able to attend, and Fitsum’s family was part of their big day. “For me it was really important. We saw the meaning and the value of our family and friends from near and far being with us on that day. We were able to see their happiness and their joy in our union,” says Fitsum. Rediate wore two wedding dresses. In Ethiopia, wedding celebrations last all day and through the night, so it’s customary for brides and grooms to change their attire for the evening reception. Accompanied by her mother, sister, aunt and cousin, the bride tried on 16 or 17 dresses in four different Minnesota wedding shops before finding her dress at the very last store at the end of a long day. “The dress was on display in the middle of the showroom and I loved it, but I didn’t think it was practical to carry to Ethiopia or to wear on a hot day,” she recalls. But her sister Mahlet convinced her to try it on, and it made her feel beautiful. This was the dress, she thought. Knowing that there were several big events on her wedding day, her sister also found a second dress that fit perfectly and made her feel sophisticated. So she said “yes” to another dress. Four bridesmaids wore short frocks in sunny yellow with purple open-toed heels, and groomsmen wore coordinating yellow bow ties. The groom wore a light tan tuxedo with dark trim and a crisp white shirt. The bride carried a bouquet of yellow and creamy white roses. Throughout the wedding day, there were multiple ceremonies, receptions and traditions that were observed by the couple. “The exchange of vows was the most meaningful part of the day for me. After all the wedding planning, it was awesome just to get to the part that the whole wedding is all about and have it happen,” Fitsum explains.
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Rediate agrees. “Another part that I didn't know I would care so much about was the traditional ceremony where we thank those that had a part in raising us … the people that helped raise us sit in a line, and we go from person to person thanking them for the part they played in our lives. I was just a mess crying and hugging away.” She also enjoyed watching Fitsum arrive. Traditionally, the man comes from his house and picks up the woman from her family's house. “When Fitsum arrived it was the first time that I saw him and for whatever reason, I felt like it was the first time I had EVER seen him. He was so cute, and I felt like a little kid with a big crush,” she says. Fitsum enjoyed sharing the day with family and friends. “ I also enjoyed the dinner reception entrance line — the music, the family, the decorations, the weather, and our guests were so happy. It created such a great atmosphere for us all.” The day was perfect, he says. “Every program went seamlessly.” “I can't imagine any of it going any better. Even the things that went wrong are things we still laugh about today. We went into our wedding just expecting craziness and praying that we would have the grace to get through it, and we did,” Rediate explains. w Text | Melody Parker Images | Tim Dodd
The following are excerpts from Photographer Tim Dodd’s blog. He traveled to Ethiopia to shoot his high school friend Rediate’s wedding to Fitsum. One of Dodd’s favorite Ethiopian wedding traditions is Tilosh: “ … Where the groomsmen go to the bride’s family’s house and offer them gifts. What once was a formal gesture, like dowry, now has become more of a fun tradition and a way to break the ice with the groom’s friends and family. The groomsmen present fancy garments, shoes and jewelry as gifts for Rediate. The family intensely questions them about each item, proclaiming “These aren’t good enough for my daughter!” or “And just what exactly would she use this for?” The nervous groomsmen ended up having a lot of fun once the celebration began." “… While Rediate secretly looked onward from atop a balcony, Fitsum approached the front gate of the house. As is Ethiopian tradition, the family was there to block the groom and his party from entering. The groomsmen had to pay a fee and push their way through the family to get to Rediate. It’s really a beautiful gesture and was extremely emotional for Rediate. She watched as her groom pushed his way through the crowd looking like a prince, beaming with the passion of getting to his bride.” “Another one of my favorite moments was when the bride and groom kissed the knees of their families. It was an extremely emotional tradition, where the bride and groom show their gratitude for raising them. It’s one of those moments as a photographer where you realize how important your job is. It’s that 'I can’t miss this shot' feeling that shoots through you as a beautiful scene unfolds. I have to be cold to the moment so as not to be wrapped up in the emotion and miss the shot.” "The day after the wedding was a smaller gettogether, a traditional celebration called Melse. This is where everyone would be dressed up with traditional clothes and hair styles. It was a shocking and beautiful transformation! So after a restful night's sleep, we were right back at it, doing wedding number THREE in two days!” Excerpted with permission from Tim Dodd
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super hero-themed wedding — with a nod to “Dr. Who” — was the perfect concept for Abby and Brian Johnston. The couple wed May 10, 2014, at Electric Park Ballroom and came up with creative, affordable and memorable ideas to bring their vision to life. “We wanted it to be something that fit us,” Abby said. “We wanted it to be fun.” “We wanted people to walk in and say ‘This is Abby and Brian’s wedding,’” Brian said. Her favorite project was creating special shoes for her special day. Abby and a friend took patent leather shoes, roughed up the surface with sandpaper and decoupaged scenes from comic books on them. The groom and his attendants wore super hero T-shirts — featuring Batman, Captain America, Green Lantern and Superman — under their tuxes. For the decorations, Abby’s mom, Barbie Herzog, made more than 100 paper hearts created from strips of comic books; her dad, Brian Herzog, made a Tardis card box; and large signs reading “Pow” and “Bam” hung from the front of the tables. The cake, a three-tiered, fondant-covered creation with a Tardis topper paid homage to Abby’s penchant for Super Girl and Brian’s for Batman. Half of the cake, baked and decorated by Hy-Vee, featured the Bat Signal over a fondant Gotham cityscape. The other side was decorated more traditionally with pink cascading roses and a glimpse of the Super Girl logo. Tables were topped with roses and delphiniums and super hero symbols and, in a real coup, the couple was able to get DC Comics artist Tom Nguyen to create the art for their invitations, programs and thank-you notes. w Text | Holly Hudson Images | Deven Merrell
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Light fabrics and short hems
Many traveling brides favor lightweight, airy fabrics. Chiffon and organza are always favorites. Full trains can be cumbersome if you’re navigating sand or grass. Lots of brides opt for the ease of a sweep train, which just grazes the floor. Fabrics that travel well for brides wanting a more structured gown include silk gazar, georgette and crepe, which are “lighter-weight versions of silk faille and Mikado,” says Carrie Goldberg, associate fashion editor for Martha Stewart Weddings. Short styles, meanwhile, can be fun, and have the added benefit of showing off a pretty pair of shoes. J. Crew’s Karina short dress, for instance, has a flapper-esque fringe, and is covered in corded lace. (www.jcrew.com )
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Separates
“Tops and bottoms are not only easier to pack, they allow for mixing and matching fabric and fit to get a silhouette that feels unique to your personal style,” says Goldberg. Separates work for any destination, she says: “A full organza skirt may appeal to a bride getting married on the beach; pairing it with a delicate silk camisole suits the location. The same skirt would suit a mountaintop affair when paired with a fur bolero or a fine knit.” J.Crew’s Sloane poly-cotton long skirt has a simple, draped profile; a silk cami top embellished with beads, crystals, sequins and paillettes in a floral motif creates a dressy look, albeit more relaxed than a form-fitting gown.
Color
Let the venue inform your choice of hue, Goldberg says. “A sunset wedding in Napa pairs beautifully with a blush gown, while the colors of an Amalfi Coast wedding may inspire the bride to opt for something blue.”
Style
If your wedding destination is, say, a villa or castle in Europe, you might want to go full-on princess with the dress. For wintry venues, think of a cream coat trimmed with sparkle; sheer or opaque long sleeves; an
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BHLDN has a selection of beaded and lacy capelets, while Reem Acra offers bridal furs in various hues. On your feet, satin pumps are classic but ivory suede boots might add dash.
Versatility
For bridesmaids — or perhaps even the bride — here’s a clever option: a short or long pull-on gown with a customizable top.
Footwear
Flats or wedges are ideal for beach or garden. Keep in mind that satin or grosgrain might get stained by grass or sand. Another option for beach brides is “foot jewelry,” an accessory that does away with the need for an actual shoe. Fashioned of pearls, silks, rhinestones and shells, these can easily be made to complement the gown. (www.ladybead.com )
Transporting the dress
Some carriers have special compartments for wedding gowns. Ask. Some carriers might let you store your dress in business class even if you’re flying coach; check with the airline ahead of time. Experts recommend packing the dress in a sturdy garment bag rather than a box, so it can be stored more places. Label the bag both inside and out, and add a “Fragile” sticker. Arrive early at the airport, as the dress bag might require extra screening. You can also ship the dress ahead of time.
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etting married on a beach, mountaintop, remote villa or rustic rural setting is a romantic ideal for many brides. But what does that mean for the wedding dress? Should you go formal or footloose? Will your gown fit in your suitcase? A bride having a “destination wedding” should think about versatility when choosing a gown. She must consider comfort, weather, terrain, and other details. Some dress trends for destination brides:
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Make it a vacation your guests will remember. Choose a destination that offers a variety
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Send out “Save The Date” info early.
Prioritize your invite list and destination immediately so your “Save The Date” notices are timely and informative. Include options for nearby hotels, bed and breakfasts, or even rental home options with differing price points.
Reach out to a local bridal association.
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bridezilla,” advises the 26-year-old MacHugh, who’s getting hitched Oct. 10. Some grooms are happy to leave the details to their partners. But if you want an active groom in the lead-up, get him in the planning loop from the get-go. If he doesn’t feel included, he won’t be, and when it comes time for him to chip in, the interest won’t be there. Let him put that tool chest or George Foreman grill on the wedding registry, or don suspenders or wacky colored socks on the big day if he so chooses. Above all, grooms can’t have their wedding wishes fulfilled if they don’t speak up. It’s been awhile since Eric San Juan was a groom. He’s been married for 15 years, but he wrote a new book aimed squarely at grooms: “Stuff Every Groom Should Know,” part of a series of handy manuals from Quirk Books. Try these pro tips from San Juan:
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ate MacHugh has a fabulous fiance, except when it comes to wedding planning.
“When I was a little girl I always envisioned it as ‘my wedding,’ where I would make all the decisions and my faceless groom would show up when I told him to in the suit that I picked out and he paid for,” said the Beachwood, N.J., social worker and bride to be. “Flash forward to now — my fiance has an opinion on EVERYTHING,” MacHugh said, endorsing that approach with this caveat: “He’s a huge procrastinator and doesn’t understand that planning a wedding takes a boatload of work, time and coordination. He believes every small detail will fall into place without any effort on our part.” So goes the dilemma of many modern-day grooms. No longer on the sidelines, they’re ready, willing and able to participate, but what’s a groom to do when he hasn’t been planning every detail of his dream wedding since boyhood, has never shopped for or worn a tuxedo and doesn’t know his carats from his karats? “My advice for all you grooms out there? Listen to your bride. She knows what she’s talking about. If she tells you that at the eight-month mark you should have picked a venue, she’s right. If she’s droning on about getting your frat brothers’ addresses for save-the-dates, you really need to get them to her. And never, I repeat, never call her a
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San Juan acknowledges there’s no one way, but he’s not a huge fan of stunt proposals. The kind that actually involve the public, that is, like asking via Jumbotron at a ballpark. Your proposal may just go viral for the wrong reasons. “You risk putting the person you’re asking in a really awkward situation. Maybe he or she isn’t in the same place. Maybe the answer won’t be yes,” San Juan said in an interview. If you want the proposal photographed or filmed, find a photographer or videographer willing to shoot in secret to preserve the moment. Also, consider going old school and asking your partner’s parents for permission to pop the question. And never steal another couple’s thunder. Proposing at the wedding of a friend, relative or colleague is not a good idea, he said.
PICKING A TUX
Do you even need one? Traditionally, they’re worn after 6 p.m. Morning or afternoon weddings call for a morning suit, usually dark gray. Renting a tuxedo is cheaper and ensures groomsmen will match, but a custom tux is a nicer fit and worth the investment if a groom thinks he’ll wear it again, San Juan said. With arms down at the sides, fingertips should reach the bottom of the jacket, he said. Pants should hit the tops of the shoes. Silk is the desired tux fabric for summer, while cashmere, wool and flannel are popular for winter. Rock the bowtie. It’s the classic option. And don’t fear the cummerbund. Modern ‘bunds are sleeker and more flattering than they used to be. “Most men are not particularly well-versed in getting a tux,” San Juan said. “Don’t go into the process with the I’m-not-going-to-ask-fordirections mindset.”
THE MAN CRY
There may be tears and they may be yours, guys. “The ideal man cry is a cry that is in control. It’s not blubbering,” San Juan said. A groom should avoid talking if his voice is going to crack. He should pause to compose himself. Man tears are awesome; “squeaky man voice, not so much,” San Juan said. Dab, don’t rub. Surely the best man remembered the handkerchief to gently pat at tears. Rubbing reddens eyes.
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And avoid loud honking when nose-blowing. “If you really can’t stop sobbing, visualize something totally un-sad to get yourself back in the game,” San Juan advises.
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A groom’s side is often full of the guys he used to raise hell with. A generous tip for the bartender will help ensure they get cut off before the point of no return, San Juan said. Stay on top of the toasts pre-reception to avoid the colorful or awkward ones. And grooms should rely on their best men to police the unruly. “You can’t completely avoid some degree of madness when it comes to your friends, but hopefully the best man can handle it,” San Juan said. As for a groom’s imbibing, he should pace himself. Don’t down a full drink after every toast. Old buddies taking an open bar to the limit is one thing. Joining them is a mistake.
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What to expect when YOU'RE INVITED TO YOUR FIRST
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eventy percent of gay couples live in states where same-sex marriage is now legal, according to Gary Gates, a scholar at UCLA School of Law’s Williams Institute. Close to a half a million same-sex couples can now marry. This means an invitation may soon appear in your mailbox. And the first thing to know is, It won’t be so different from what you’re used to. “Whether it’s two brides, two grooms, or a bride and groom, at the heart of it are two people who are committing their lives to one another and who are expressing that love and commitment before their community of family and friends,” says Marc Solomon, author of “Winning Marriage: The Inside Story of How Same-Sex Couples Took on the Politicians and Pundits — and Won!” But dig deeper and the differences start to appear. “While certain steps in the planning process are neutral, such as selecting a menu, there are many questions for gay grooms and lesbian brides,” explained Jason Mitchell, author of “Getting Groomed: The Ultimate Wedding Planner for Gay Grooms.” Certain traditions, especially those based on gender roles, are often eschewed (such as the garter or bouquet toss and the “daddy dance”), and some couples skip the walk down the aisle, the receiving line, even the cake cutting, in their desire to avoid heterosexual conventions entirely. So, for those invited to their first same-sex wedding, here are some answers to common questions about what to expect: Do we throw a shower for one bride, or both? What about the bachelor/bachelorette party? Traditional shower etiquette doesn’t cover two brides, or none, which may explain why a 2013 gay wedding survey by the Knot and the Advocate noted that only 8 percent of same-sex couples reported having a shower (compared to 22 percent for opposite-
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sex couples). If a shower is hosted, both brides should be invited. Christopher Hamilton, who tied the knot with Wayne Fong a year ago, admitted his best man found planning his bachelor party hard because he wasn’t sure whether to invite Fong and then didn’t. Fong acknowledged he was “disappointed” when he wasn’t invited and then found himself with no party of his own. This being uncharted territory, Kathryn Hamm, president of GayWeddings.com, said the best advice is simply to ask the couple what they want. What side of the aisle? “Bride’s side or groom’s?” is becoming an outdated question even for heterosexual couples, and guests at same-sex weddings are likely to be friends of both brides or grooms. “Couples want to define their wedding party around support of themselves as a couple, not individuals,” explained Hamm. How much of a kiss will that kiss really be? For many straight guests this is the moment of truth: seeing two men or two women lock lips. Steve Drysdale, whose daughter Rebecca married her girlfriend earlier in the fall, told me, “This was the first time a lot of the straight guests had seen that in the flesh. It’s different than cheering for equal rights. It’s more visceral — it makes people uncomfortable.” Roseann Foley Henry, who married her wife in 2008, advised guests to keep their cool. “That first kiss seals the deal on the new marriage — concentrate on the love and the commitment it represents, nothing else, and you’ll be fine.” She also suggested that all couples use a little discretion: “This is not the best time for any couple to have a make out session.” Source: Steven Petrow, author of “Steven Petrow’s Complete Gay & Lesbian Manners” and The Washington Post
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ho pays for a wedding when two grooms are involved? Who walks whom down the aisle? While same-sex weddings are more prevalent than ever, two grooms navigating the wedding planning process might need some extra help. Jason Mitchell, a professional wedding planner in the New York area, said the industry is most definitely focused on females. That’s why he wrote “Getting Groomed: The Ultimate Wedding Planner for Gay Grooms,” offering tips for two guys trying to figure it all out. “I think sometimes they’re overwhelmed about what they have to include,” said Mitchell, who married his boyfriend and now spends about half his time on the job organizing same-sex weddings. There’s no one size fits all, he said, but he offers these ways to navigate trouble spots:
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The wedding party: Bauer and Robotti wound up with near-equal numbers of male and female loved ones to stand up at their wedding. Both genders were represented on both sides, including their two sisters. “We called them the groomsmen and the groomsmaids,” he said. It worked out where Robotti had a best man and Bauer had two co-maids of honor. Mitchell and his husband, Michael Zahler, didn’t want to divide people on sides since many were mutual friends who are like family, so they asked them all to be their “best boys” and “groomsgirls.” Flowers and color themes: Bauer wanted to establish an autumn color palette while avoiding the seasonal trap of browns and burnt orange. The couple put the ladies in burgundy dresses and the gents in navy suits with different types of burgundy ties, while the two grooms wore gray, but not matching suits. Bauer wore a bow tie and suspenders in a darker shade and Robotti wore three pieces. The women held yellow sunflowers and the grooms had smaller yellow flowers in their boutonnieres. “That actually was kind of a difficult point,” he said. “What do you wear as two grooms to set you apart from everyone else but still go with the color theme?” The rings: Bauer’s beloved bought engagement rings. They used them when they tied the knot. The rings were complementary but not matchy-matchy. Bauer’s ring has two rows of black diamonds and Robotti’s insets of the same stone. “We wanted matching stones and gold but different designs,” Bauer said. “I was, like, ‘I’ve got one ring. I don’t necessarily need another.’” Making a statement: Mitchell encourages couples to do what feels most comfortable. “The worst feeling is when any couple, gay or straight, going into a wedding, feels the pressure to do something that they don’t feel a connection to.” For Bauer and Robotti, that meant honoring same-sex marriage as an institution. With a federal judge as their officiant, Bauer said one of their readings was a majority U.S. Supreme Court opinion that struck down a portion of the Defense of Marriage Act. “We also took a moment of silence to recognize all of the work that people have done who came before us to make our wedding day possible,” Bauer said. Source: Wire Services
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It’s one of the most common questions asked of a couple engaged to marry. Another appropriate question these days: “WHEN are you taking your honeymoon?” For a variety of reasons, many couples now put off their postwedding trip. Weddings are expensive, so shelling out more for a vacation right away may be too much. Some couples want more time to map out a trip that lives up to the honeymoon hype. Or there might be work demands, school or other obligations that get in the way. Heather Hurley of Arlington, V.A., and her husband, Jason, bought their first home shortly before their June 2014 wedding. They didn’t have the time or energy to think about a honeymoon then. “Since we weren’t in any rush and we didn’t have any honeymoon deadline, we said, ‘Let’s wait a year and combine our delayed honeymoon and sort of a first-anniversary trip into something really special,’” she said. They’re now ready and are heading to Iceland for a week in June. “A lot of people are used to the tradition: You’re engaged, you get married, and then you go on your honeymoon and that’s it,” Hurley said. “We felt like we were in a whirlwind starting with the home-buying process and then a couple months later getting married. That was a lot of planning and timing and energy, and we wanted to recover from that and really rest up and appreciate the honeymoon trip, instead of feeling like it’s the slog at the end of a marathon.” Compared to previous generations, many of today’s couples are marrying older, and they’re often paying for the wedding, rather than having their parents do it. “Things like living together already, having a home, having two incomes but not that much savings for the wedding of your dreams — I think those factors go into why people would postpone their honeymoon,” says Sara Margulis, founder of Honeyfund.com, a wedding-gift registry company that helps couples raise money from friends and relatives for their honeymoon. “Two jobs, having to coordinate the time off, where people are in their careers when they get married — a lot of times it’s harder to take the time off that you would want to take,” she said. Source: Associated Press
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Reception Hall Directory His proposal was music to your ears. Now it’s time to put your florist, cake baker and caterer on speed-dial. When choosing a reception site, check out its size and determine whether it will fit your style of reception and number of guests expected to attend. To assist our readers, here’s a listing of metro area reception halls: American Legion Post 138, 619 Franklin St., Waterloo, 234-8511 Open to public, accommodates 100-150; book early; $250 per floor, $50 deposit; kitchen, bartender costs extra; no on-site catering; tables, chairs included, linens not; decorating one to two hours before; dance floor. Barmuda – Park Place Event Centre, 1521 Technology Pkwy., Suite B, Cedar Falls, 277-1255, www.barmuda.com/park_place/weddings.php Intimate gatherings to grand receptions accommodating up to 500 people (seated). Services range from customized menus and personalized favors, and event coordinators can coordinate the entire wedding. For customized prices, packages and deposits, call Park Place. Beaver Hills Country Club, 8230 Beaver Hills Dr., Cedar Falls, 266-1975, www.beaverhills.com Open to public, booking upon availability; accommodates up to 250; $500 for room; set up, clean up included; on-site buffet or sit-down style catering, about $15 per person; tables, chairs, linens provided; bar; decorating early depends on availability; dance floor. Black’s Sky Room/Tea Room, 501 Sycamore St., No. 710, contact Vern Nelson, 233-5109 Built in 1929 atop the eighth floor of the Black’s building, the Sky Room has been beautifully restored. Events from 10 to 360 people; choice of 8 pre-approved caterers or your choice to be approved; open bar, paid bar or combination with bartender(s); tables, chairs, stage risers & podium available; parking connected by Sky Walk. Cedar Falls Community Center, 524 Main Street, Cedar Falls, 268-5541, www.cedarfalls.com/communitycenter Available for evening and weekend rentals for weddings and receptions, anniversaries, birthdays, graduations, retirement parties and other special events. Chairs and tables provided; capacity 200. No on-site food prep allowed; small kitchen to assist with catered food. Dance floor. Non-smoking with ample nearby parking. Additional deposit and charge for wine and beer. Available to rent up to one year in advance. Cedar Falls Womans Club, 304 Clay St., Cedar Falls, 266-1431 This stately home overlooks Overman Park in the heart of the historic area of Cedar Falls. It has been and is a meeting place for many groups and a gathering place for private parties & small weddings. Consider this beautiful Cedar Falls landmark for your next event. Cedar Valley Arboretum & Botanic Gardens, 1927 E. Orange Rd., (East of Hawkeye Community College), 226-4966, www.cedarvalleyarboretum.org A variety of garden settings will accommodate 200 guests. $100 non-refundable deposit to reserve date a minimum of 60 days in advance. Balance and damage deposit due one week prior. Restrooms and limited electrical access to the gardens. Gardens remain open to the public. Smoking prohibited. No rice, bird seed, confetti, rose petals or balloons. Also available for bridal shower and rehearsal dinner. Centennial Oaks Golf Club, Eagle Ridge Dr., Waverly, 483-1765, ask for Lisa Accommodates intimate gatherings to large receptions up to 400 guests; on-site catering and bar services; customized menus; chairs, tables, linens provided; outside ceremony site, on-site event coordinator, professional wait staff, dance floor, complimentary set-up and tear-down. Center Inn Banquet Facilities, 209 Main St., Readlyn, 279-3839, www.centerinn.com Dining room accommodates up to 75, ballroom accommodates up to 400; banquet room rental SundayThursday, $150, Friday and Saturday, $300; dining room rental Monday-Sunday, $75; basement rental $50;
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deposit and credit billing $100, required to confirm all bookings, non-refundable; post-event clean up, $100. The Centre Hall, 1211 4th St., SW, Waverly, 352-1386, www.thecentrehall.com Seating for up to 700 guests. Wedding package includes: day prior to event, day of event, half day after event, seating for 250 guests including tables and chairs, kitchen area and serving tables. Accommodates the wedding, reception, dinner, and dance without moving or tearing down tables and chairs. Clarion Inn, 5826 University Ave., Cedar Falls, 277-2239, ext. 322, www.clarioncedarfalls.com Enjoy the convenience of your reception and hotel accommodations under one roof; brand new banquet room called “The Cedar” seating 150 people, mezzanine and plaza seat up to 350, banquet hall seats up to 300; full service catering, $18.95 to $22.95 per plate; free honeymoon suite with whirlpool for bride and groom; special overnight rates for wedding guests; rehearsal dinner, gift opening, bridal shower available; tables, chairs, linens, skirting, security, bar, bartender provided; some decorations provided, decorating 8 a.m. day of event; dance floor, table for disc jockey. New Against the Grain Bar and Restaurant. Electric Park Ballroom, 310 W. Conger St., Waterloo, 233-3050, www.nationalcattlecongress.com Accommodates 600 banquet style, fire code allows 1,200; book at least six months in advance, $650.00 for facility, $250 deposit: on site catering only, buffet and sit-down; cold meat buffet $11, one meat $13, two meat $15 per person approx., per plate (depending on selection). Includes set up, clean up, two bartenders. Tables and chairs provided, linens may be rented. Wood dance floor, stage. Decorating day before depends on availability; no decorations from ceiling or light fixtures. (Historic Venue) Fox Ridge Golf Club, Highway 20, Dike, 989-2213, www.golffoxridge.com Accommodates 320 people; bookings one month in advance; room rental $900 with $250 deposit (nonrefundable/ applied toward rental), includes setup, cleanup and bar, dance floor; additional charges for linens and place settings. Catering available on-site, $18.95 per person buffet-style, no room rental fee if club does the catering (linens included); decorating at noon the day before wedding. Gallagher-Bluedorn Performing Arts Center, University of Northern Iowa campus, Cedar Falls, 273-3660, www.gbpac.com Lobby hall accommodates up to 120 banquet style, 300 standing; book six months to a year in advance; $600, $300 deposit; on-site catering only by UNI catering; tables, chairs, linens provided; balcony, grand central staircase; decorating day before event; dance floor. Grout Museum District & Snowden House 503 South St., Waterloo, 234-6357, www.gmdistrict.org carrie.gleason@gmdistrict.org Main building accommodates up to 230 banquet style, $350$750. Tables, chairs, linens, set up and tear down included. Cash or open bar available. Full service kitchen. Dance floor. No on-site catering. Snowden House: Historic Victorian Italiante architectural style home. Accommodates up to 150. $50/hr. Tables, chairs, set up, tear down included. Kitchen available. No on-site catering. (Due to historic nature of facility, no dancing is allowed). Hartman Reserve Nature Center, 657 Reserve Dr., Cedar Falls, 277-2187, www.hartmanreserve.org Accommodates up to 100; booking at least six months in advance; $400-8 hours on Saturday or $475 Fri. nite/ Saturday add $100 if serving alcohol; full kitchen, tables, chairs included; non-smoking; decks with scenic overview, bridge, outside amphitheater seats up to 100, fireplace.
Hickory Hills Park, 3338 Hickory Hills Rd., La Porte City, 266-6813, www.co.black-hawkia.s/depts/conservation Accommodates 125; book up to two years in advance; pricing varies, two-day wedding packages available; $100 deposit, more if bringing in beer keg; no on-site catering; restrooms, kitchen facilities (pots/pans not provided); tables, chairs for 125 are provided, additional seating allowed; beer, wine coolers allowed; lakefront view; decorating early requires rental; outlets for DJ; cement floor; attached deck, airconditioning. Hilton Garden Inn Conference Center 7213 Nordic Dr., Cedar Falls, 266-6611 New Hilton opened in 2012, elegant dining and entertaining of Hilton standards. Full service hotel with Ballroom seating up to 350 people. Garden Grille Restaurant and Bar open to the public for breakfast, lunch and dinner as well as large exterior patios with firepits. Full service dining on site, Chefs with banquet menus and banquet bars available. Deposits and minimums required, full payment required prior to event. Guest room blocks available. Isle Casino Hotel Waterloo, 777 Isle of Capri Blvd., Waterloo Isle Casino Hotel Waterloo is an ideal location for your wedding, party, meeting or convention. Isle Waterloo features 5,000 feet of flexible meeting space and 1,600 square feet of pre-function space. This space is ideal for groups of 270 people sitting banquet style or a 400 person cocktail reception. Our professional planning and catering staff is ready to help you create your next memorable event. For more information visit theislewaterloo.com/ meetings-saleskit.aspx or call 319-833-2266 to speak with a professional planner today. Janesville Riviera Roose Community Center, 307 Maple St., Janesville (319) 987-3512 or (319) 231-7660 The center is a modern, fully accessible facility managed by the Community Center Board of Directors. Its small town location on approximately 10 acres of land near the Cedar River provides an ideal setting for weddings and receptions, as well as reunions, anniversaries, retreats and business meetings. The center features a large hall with banquet seating for 350, a wood dance floor, commercial kitchen, bar and a large outdoor patio. Parking is adjacent to the building. For more details, visit www.jvrrcc.com. Knights of Columbus, 1955 Locke Ave., Waterloo, 234-6908 Accommodates up to 264 guests; rental fee includes bartender, chairs, tables, paper tablecloths, set up and clean up; food options include buffet dinners, sandwiches and/or appetizers; hall includes dance floor with stage for band or DJ; handicapped accessible; private parking lot; located near Crossroads Shopping Center and numerous hotels. Oster Regent Theatre, 103 Main St., Cedar Falls, 277-5283, www.osterregent.org Accommodates 80-100; book early; $200, $50 deposit; no onsite catering; can serve own alcohol but cannot sell to guest; kitchen with serving area, sink, refrigerator, microwave; tables, chairs provided for 80; linens rented for $3 each; beautiful view of the Cedar River; decorating day before depends on availability; Hardwood dance floor. Pepsi Pavilion, National Cattle Congress grounds, 232-5801, www.nationalcattlecongress.com Details: Accommodates up to 500 banquet seating (buffet style only), 1,000 fire code. $550 rental, $250 deposit. Onsite catering only, no outside food or beverage. Catered meals start at $11 depending on selections: Cold meat, 1 or 2 meat, etc. Tables and chairs included, set up, clean up, two bartenders, stage and wood dance floor. Linens may be rented. Decorating the day before depending on availability. Ramada Hotel and Five Sullivan Brothers Convention Center 205 W. 4th St., Waterloo, 233-7560 www.ramadawaterloo.com Conveniently located in downtown Waterloo, able to accommodate 50 to 1200 people in our uniquely customizable spaces. Rental prices range from $800.00 to $1000.00 depending on space need for the special day. Rental fee is an inclusive price, no “hidden fees”. Rental
includes your setup, teardown, and cleanup; as well as all tables, chairs, linens, place settings, dance floor, and so much more. Customizable dinner (both buffet and plated) menus provided by our professional on-site catering staff for your rehearsal dinner, reception and gift opening. Full bar service with many customizable options to fit your guests needs. Feel free to book the space in advance, no limitations to how far in advance you may book. Call us today to meet with our sales team and to tour the facility. Unique Features: The hotel and convention center are connected via sky-walk to offer ease of access for guests; the hotel is also connected via sky-walk to the parking garage. We gladly offer a complimentary night stay for the happy couple on the night of their reception. Discounted room blocks for the couples family and friends. Special packaging rates apply for events that have multiple functions with us (e.g. rehearsal dinners, reception, ceremonies, and gift openings). We offer truly customizable menus to fit all of your needs. Rotary Reserve, 5932 N. Union Rd., Cedar Falls, 266-6813, www.co.black-hawk.ia.us/depts/conservation Accommodates 300; book up to two years in advance; $650 for all day Saturday; package deals include $800 for both Friday and Saturday night, $925 for all day Friday and Saturday, $650 for Thursday night and all day Friday; weekday times range from $195 to $275, $100 increase on holidays; $200 deposit two weeks prior to event; no on-site catering; kitchen, restrooms; tables, chairs provided for 300 guests; linens, cooking utensils not provided; beer, wine, champagne only; uniformed security officer required if serving alcohol; non-smoking; remote location on banks of Cedar River, deck, gazebo, fireplace, PA system, concrete floor, air-conditioned/heated; changing rooms for both men and women available. Sunnyside Country Club, 1600 Olympic Dr., Waterloo, 234-1707, www.sunnysidecountryclub.com Open to public for weddings; ballroom seats 315; booking depends on availability; competitive pricing; on-site sit-down or buffet-style catering only, average $23 per plate; tables, chairs, linens provided; bar; decorating early
allowed; dance floor. Contact Amber Urban for details at 319232-6450 or at events@sunnysidecountryclub.com. The Supervisors’ Club, 3265 Dewitt Rd., Waterloo, 233-4202, www.supervisorsclub.webs.com We offer a full service, fully accessible, non-smoking facility with ample parking which accommodates up to 400 people, some restrictions apply. Full-service bar, AV packages, space for your DJ or band, a dance floor and much more. Create a personalized meal for you and your guests with our many menu options. Our full-time Event Coordinator will help you plan all of the details. Located off of Ridgeway Avenue between Waterloo and Cedar Falls. For more information, call The Supervisors’ Club or visit www.supervisorsclub. webs.com. University of Northern Iowa Slife Ballroom and Georgian Lounge, 1227 W. 27th St., Cedar Falls, 273-2333, www.uni.edu/dor/dining/catering Ballroom seats up to 220; reservations accepted up to two years in advance; $500 for ballroom, $200 for neighboring lounge; half of estimated cost paid in advance, remainder due at event; set up, clean up included; on-site catering only, dinner $15.55 to $22 per person, buffet, sit down or cocktail reception available; will cut and serve cake; tables, chairs, linens provided; bar; non-smoking; no open flames, nails or excessive glitter; can provide centerpieces, bouquets, card basket; patio attached to lounge; sound system in ballroom; portable risers for band, DJ, head table; wood dance floor. University of Northern Iowa Maucker Union Ballroom, 1227 W. 27th St., Cedar Falls, 273-2256, www.uni.edu/catering, union-reservations@uni.edu Ballroom accommodates up to 480 banquet style with no need to remove any seating for your dance; reservations accepted up to two years in advance; $400-800 with deposit half of rental; set up, clean up, linens, table skirting, tables, chairs and staging included; on-site catering provided by UNI Catering; bar service; non-smoking; sound system and drop down projectors available in ballroom; dance floor included.
Wartburg College, 100 Wartburg Blvd., Waverly, 3528286, www.wartburg.edu/studentcenter Groups of 20-200. Full-service banquet facility with customized menu and event planning. Great location for rehearsal dinner or wedding reception. Food and service provided by the College. Half of estimated total paid; tables, chairs, linens provided; bar serves wine and beer. AV equipment available; dance floor needs to be rented and brought in. Waterloo Center for the Arts, 225 Commercial St., Waterloo, 291-4490, www.waterloocenterforthearts.org Accommodates up to 250; book as far in advance as desired; $350 to $485; $200 non-refundable deposit; no on-site catering; kitchen available; set up, clean up included, kitchen clean up not; round or square tables, chairs provided; additional charge for alcohol, beer, wine, champagne can be purchased prior to or with a cash bar; water fountain in front of building for photos; decorating day before costs extra; stage, microphones, sound system available; dance floor. Waterloo Elks Lodge, 407 E. Park Ave., Waterloo, 234-7568, Sherri Simon, sherri290@qwestoffice.net Room rental $750; accommodates up to 375; on-site catering only, $15 to $25 per person plus tax and gratuity; tables, chairs included; fee for bartender, linens; decorating day before depends on availability; luxurious atmosphere, stage for bands or DJ, dance floor; plenty of on-site parking. Waverly Golf and Country Club, 705 Eighth St. SW, Waverly, 352-3855, www.waverlycc.com Open to public for rental; accommodates 3500; book about a year in advance; $600, $100 deposit; on-site sit down or buffet-style catering only; one-meat buffet $12.95, two-meat $14.95, three-meat $16.95 per person, call for sit-down meal prices; can bring in wedding cake; tables, chairs, bartender, waitresses, linens $1 per person; decorating night before depends on availability; dance floor.
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