KELSEY HAWKINS PHOTOGRAPHY AND CHRIS KIMBALL PHOTOGRAPHY
Hillsdale College’s Searle Center and stunning Hoynak banquet hall provide elegant venues ideal for weddings, rehearsal dinners, receptions, business banquets, meetings, or other group events; additional meeting/ conference spaces are also available. Couple your event with a stay in one of our beautifully updated 36 hotel rooms for the convenience and service that best suits your needs!
The Searle Center Offers:
• Seating for up to 700
• Individualized menu choices
• Additional terrace seating in warm weather
• Covered curbside drop-off and entrance
• Large lobbies for pre-function events
• Elevator and escalator
EXPERIENCE CLASSIC ELEGANCE in the ELIZABETH HOYNAK ARCHIVE CENTER!
Located in the Dow Center, the Elizabeth Hoynak Archive Center accommodates up to 100 people in a lovely setting, distinguished by its grand staircase and collection of historic artifacts. This room provides the perfect setting for your dinner, fundraiser, or wedding reception.
For rental information, please call (517) 437-3311 or email Kristine Healy at khealy@hillsdale.edu
HELLO TO ALL THE
BRIDES
Planning a wedding can be both exhilarating and terrifying. Within the pages of this issue, we have worked to provide guidelines and information that will help relieve some of the stress and worry for area brides and enable them to create the event of
We have articles on color and theme trends for 2025, ideas for emergency kits for the big day, and a schedule to help you get things done in time. (There are probably some things you should deal with a lot sooner than you think!)
Our cover article highlights White Birch Wedding Barn & Events Center, a gorgeous wedding venue in Lenawee County. Included in the article is information on what makes a winter wedding special and how, if you choose that season, you can make your wedding truly beautiful and
Be sure to read the ads as well as the articles! You will find many area businesses that can help you achieve the look and feel you want for your wedding. We offer our sincere thanks and appreciation to the advertisers who made this publication possible.
We send our very best wishes to the brides of 2025 and hope your special day is everything you hope it will be!
For information on how to submit story ideas, concerns or information on how to advertise, please contact Marlanea McGraw 517-320-9235 marlanea@simplyhers.net Hudson, MI 49247
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Bridal Suite
A Perfect Winter Wedding Venue
by Elyse Apel
Ascenic winter wonderland is the perfect setting for any wedding, making White Birch Wedding Barn the place for couples considering a winter wedding. A winter wedding at White Birch Wedding Barn offers a unique and magical experience for couples, especially with its picturesque setting and cozy ambiance.
“There’s so many benefits to winter weddings, from the offseason pricing to a cozy and intimate atmosphere,” explain Amie and Pat Pelham, owners of the venue.
While many wedding venues in the area close during this time of the year, the Pelhams decided to make the wedding venue the ideal place for couples looking to plan a winter wedding. With approximately 8,200 square feet of space and a guest capacity of 260 people (220 with a designated dance floor), the barn makes an indoor ceremony and reception look easy.
Inside, the climate-controlled space features a 30-foot ceiling with beams, multiple chandeliers, four custom-designed fireplaces, and multiple bar areas. For couples hoping to also use the outdoor space, there are outdoor heaters and firepits.
Winter weddings are a great, less expensive option for couples while not sacrificing a beautiful day.White Birch Wedding Barn offers discounted rates for off-season weddings.
By planning a wedding November through March, couples could
Christine Semmler with Lily and Lime Photography
Christine Semmler with Lily and Lime Photography
Kelsey Hawkins Photography and Chris Kimball Photography
Kelsey Hawkins Photography and Chris Kimball Photography
also benefit from having less competition for their top choices for vendors. Since fewer couples choose to get married in the winter, vendors—photographers, caterers, florists—are more available and might even have discounted rates.
Passionate about the details and providing convenience for couples and their families on the big day, Amie ensures that the venue is well decorated year-round, so couples only have to bring in guest table centerpieces. Yet, winter weddings provide a particularly special opportunity for decorations. This winter, the venue was decorated with all neutral winter decor, including outdoor greenery planters, evergreen garland, candles, and flocked Christmas trees.
“We keep our winter décor elegant and neutral, to ensure it will complement any wedding color palette the couple chooses,” Amie says.
This venue has long been a dream for the Pelhams, who began construction on the nine-acre property in 2023. Since opening last June, dozens of couples have enjoyed the seamless experience of planning and holding a wedding at the barn, where “in your dreams, every detail matters.”
By having a wedding at White Birch Wedding Barn, couples are choosing to minimize the stress of the big day. The rental fee for the White Birch Wedding Barn includes round tables, black chairs, linens, and a special head table.
On top of the basic rental fee, they also have a number of additional items that can be added à la carte. These include a golf cart to shuttle guests from the parking lot, a 22-passenger transportation bus to shuttle guests to and from hotels, an outdoor bar and dance floor, options to host the bridal shower or rehearsal dinner on site, and several others.
The Pelhams explain that they have staff on site to keep the venue looking its best throughout your event.
“We have an incredible team of staff members who constantly receive great reviews from the couples and their families,” they say. “This past year has gone really well and everyone is super excited for 2025 and 2026, and even into 2027 as we begin to book those events.”
To hold a wedding at White Birch Wedding Barn really is an allinclusive experience. On-site, there are separate suites for the bride and groom, where they can gather with their bridesmaids or groomsmen to get ready.
The bridal suite features hair and make-up stations, full-length mirrors, a private bathroom, fireplace, feature wall, serving bar with minifridge, tv and sound system, elegant seating area, and a balcony and mezzanine. That is another benefit of winter weddings, the Pelhams explain.
“The bridal suite is located upstairs, which makes winter weddings even more magical. The bride walks down the staircase before making her way down the aisle, creating a truly breathtaking moment,” they say. “In fact, during venue tours, we often see brides get emotional imagining the bridal suite barn doors slide open and their grand entrance down the stairs.”
The groom and his party will enjoy custom suit storage, a luxurious seating area, fireplace, serving bar with minifridge, tv and sound system, and a full-length mirror.
This winter season, the barn hosted a few winter weddings but is already quickly filling up for the 2025 winter wedding season.
“January is just a perfect time for a winter wedding,” say the Pelhams. “When the venue and surrounding landscaping is blanketed in snow, it creates a winter wonderland feel.”
The White Birch Wedding Barn is located just south of US 12 at 11000 Briggs Hwy, Cement City, MI 49233.
For more information, call (517) 403-6342 or visit their website at www.whitebirchweddingbarnmi.com. You can also follow them on Facebook at White Birch Wedding Barn or Instagram at whitebirchweddingbarnmi.
Kelsey Hawkins Photography and Chris Kimball Photography
Bridal Diet & Nutrition: Get In Shape Before Your Wedding
Focusing on Your Bridal Nutrition?
Every bride wants to look spectacular on the big day, but many often forget about good nutrition in the wake of the hustle and bustle. Since the period right before the ceremony is the most important in this respect, this bridal nutrition article focuses on the promotion of health and happiness in the weeks prior to the wedding. Learn why exercise is important, what foods best promote health, and what to include in the wedding day fare.
Bridal nutrition and exercise
Although crash diets are a common choice for brides-to-be … MISTAKE!
These diets are not only a detriment to before-wedding weight loss but also to the development of healthy habits needed in the years that lie ahead. Every bride wants her day to be perfect, but with the entire stress one endures during these times, many women find they lose track of taking care of themselves.
When plans for the big day begin to unfold, every bride feels the pressure of making decisions that she’ll remember for a lifetime.
However, as the day creeps closer, that stress often rises, causing women to overeat, become irritable, and lose touch with positive thoughts. This hinders one’s happy pre-wedding existence as well as overall health, energy, and weight maintenance.
It is for this reason that the two-week period before the ceremony is crucial to a bride’s health and energy as well as her ability to look spectacular.
Make Time for Exercise
Since exercise is a great promoter of health and stress reduction, going to the gym in the days before the wedding is of utter importance. Whether she’s looking to tone her abs, thighs, arms, or rearview, a bride can keep herself in top shape, reduce stress, increase positivity, and boost energy levels all in one place.
Although exercise is an important ingredient to mind and body health, it does not stand alone in such efforts.
Foods of Interest to the Bride-To-Be
Eating right is also quite critical to pre-marital well-being. What with the stress, anticipation, worry, and excitement, the bride-to-be often loses focus on a healthy diet. Exercise may be part of looking and feeling good, but if a bride expects to radiate beauty on the big day, she must take the time to focus on her diet.
What a bride really needs during these weeks is the energy to help her deal with the hustle and bustle going on around her. Unfortunately, all too often that energy is sought in the form of lattes or energy drinks that pack a lot of calories and cause a lethargic crash. These drinks are not the answer.
When aiming to sustain energy levels in the face of significant stress, one should consume foods that help revitalize the body, provide healthy carbohydrates, and include plenty of lean proteins.
Foods like oatmeal, salmon, eggs, nuts, carrots, and fresh fruit can provide significant improvements in all-day energy.
Bridal Complexion
Of course, energy is not the only need during periods of high activity. Staying hydrated is also very important as it can mean the difference between looking like a turtle and beaming like a firefly.
Put an end to sluggish feelings and dull, dry skin by drinking lots of water and eating foods like tropical fruit, iceberg lettuce, celery, tomatoes, and cucumbers.
A healthy complexion may need a lot of natural moisture but it also needs to be nourished.
Wrap-Up
From exercise to nutrition to your complexion, this is one of the biggest and happiest days of your life. Focus on being healthy inside and out with some healthy bridal nutrition tips and the rest will take care of itself!
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Set the Tone Wedding Colors
Written by Elyse Apel
For most brides, their wedding color will set the tone for the whole wedding. From a pale blue spring wedding, to an emerald green elegant evening reception, color is everything. Going into the 2025 wedding season, some unique colors are making their debut on the wedding scene. Here is your 2025 guide to all the most-popular wedding colors.
Juicy Red
The Knot predicts that this brilliant red will continue its 2024 trend into 2025 as more brides opt for brighter and bolder wedding colors.
For those who opt for a deeper red, it can also be a very romantic color to choose. Often considered the color of love, incorporating red into your wedding day via beautiful roses or colorful wedding invites is the ideal way to add the perfect amount of elegance and Old Hollywood vibes.
All Shades of Green
Forest green is the most popular color for bridesmaids dresses in 2025, according to Kennedy Blue, one of the top online bridesmaid dress retailers. Forest Green is followed by moss green in second place, making green another 2025 favorite.
Green is a very versatile color that can be paired with any number of other colors from pink to gold. One of the most popular pairings though is green and white, which can fit any number of different wedding styles or celebrations.
Similar to juicy red, bright green is also trending in 2025. This spring-y color is ideal for a spring or summer wedding, becoming the perfect statement color for your big day.
Mocha Mousse
While many different tonal and deep shades of brown are in for weddings this year, Mocha Mousse is the Color of the Year according to Pantone, making it the perfect option for your wedding day.
This rich color can be paired with many other wedding color favorites and looks magnificent with dramatic green or white floral arrangements. As a chic neutral color, it also fits with any number of different wedding themes, from elegant old money to rustic charm.
Elegant Metallics
There are many different ways to incorporate metallics into your wedding, and that’s exactly what many 2025 brides are doing.
From ornate gold mirrors to classy silver candlesticks, these sparkling colors are the perfect addition to a wedding reception. Metallic colors are also versatile and can be combined with other color themes or can stand alone.
One popular pairing for metal lic colors is neturals. According to Wedding Forward, all-white weddings remain incredibly popular going into 2025. Gold and a warm ivory, or silver and a bold white are timeless and elegant choices for the couple looking for a luxurious wed ding aesthetic.
Dusty Blue
Whether you go with a darker ‘chinaware blue’ or a lighter ‘french blue,’ all shades of dusty blues are trending in 2025.
This color is perfect paired with colorful flower arrangements, especially those that incorporate other romantic pastels like peach, lavender, or even a beautiful and subtle hue of blush. These softer color combinations make for a dreamy and ethereal wed ding aesthetic, especially when you throw in fairy lights, crystal accents, and delicate floral and fabric decorations.
Decide to use the color for your wedding party? It will likely be a group-favorite, as blue is generally considered a color that looks good on nearly everyone.
This is also a perfect color to achieve a mismatched bridesmaids look, which has been increasingly popular over the past few years. Include some patterns or just a variety of shades of blue in your wedding party, and you’ll have a classy mismatched look.
Wedding Planning -THE TIMELINE
11-12 MONTHS AHEAD
� Take at least a week without making decisions
� Envision your wedding
� Set up a wedding email
� Set a budget. Who is helping, when, and how much?
� Set priorities. What’s important to you?
� Have three tentative dates in mind
� Start looking at venues and make viewing appointments
� Book your venue
� Select your wedding party and ask them to participate
� Start thinking about guest list
� Hire a coordinator or planner if the budget allows
� If you have any high priority vendors, book them
� Get wedding insurance
8-10 MONTHS AHEAD
� Have an engagement party
� Book your wedding photographer and do engagement session
� Book your videographer
� Book your hair and makeup consultation
� Book your MC/DJ
� Book your florist
� Select your food type (sit-down, buffet, BBQ, hors d’oeuvres, etc.) and start scheduling tastings
� Try on bridal gowns and order yours
� Decide on overall style for wedding party clothes
� Order wedding bands
� Reserve room blocks at several price points
� Send out “save the date” cards or notes
� Create your registry
� Order invitations and paper goods
BONUS TIP:
Set up your wedding website now, too!
6-8 MONTHS AHEAD
� Finalize your guest list
� Reserve rentals (tables, tent, chairs)
� Book your caterer
� Book your dessert baker
� Book your officiant
� Book any live musicians
� Reserve your decor and game rentals
� Order bridal party outfits
� Groom choose and reserve his outfit
4-6 MONTHS AHEAD
� Mail out invitations
� Have your dress altered to fit you
� Make sure passports are in order
� Start planning honeymoon
� Have bridal shower
� Reserve your “day of” transportation
2-4 MONTHS AHEAD
� Plan and order gifts for parents, attendants, and spouse
� Do your hair and makeup trial
� Make nail and haircut appts for before wedding
� Hire a “day of” coordinator if you haven’t yet
1-2 MONTHS AHEAD
� Get marriage license
� Have final dress fitting and bustle training if applicable
� Final fitting for groom
� Draw up final decor plans
� Finalize honeymoon plans
� Create your emergency kit
� Order thank you cards (if non-photo)
� Finalize RSVP list and send out final counts to vendors
2-4 WEEKS AHEAD
Final walkthrough to plan reception layout �
Timeline created and sent to vendors for � approval
Create family photo grouping list � Final haircuts �
Pack boxes of decor, details, documents, � plans, gifts, payments/tips, take home bag, and emergency kit for transport to wedding
Final song list to MC/DJ � Bachelor/bachelorette parties �
Confirm “day of” transportation �
Plan order of standing, processional, and � recessional
Write all final checks and tips and � delegate who will hand them out
THE FINAL WEEK
Take the week off work �
Steam dresses �
Pick up any final items needed � Nails done �
Pick up rental suits �
Confirm vendor details and timeline � Confirm delegations to family and � bridal party Write your vows � Have rings cleaned � Have rehearsal and rehearsal dinner � Arrange rental returns/pickup �
Lastly... RELAX!
Destination Weddings A Growing Trend
Written by Elyse Apel
In 2024, more couples than ever before chose to have a destination wedding. Hillsdale couples can also join in on this trend.
Carolyn Scholfield, owner of Happily Ever After and destination wedding specialist at All Aboard Travel located in Hillsdale, said she is excited to help local couples plan their very own destination weddings.
“Destination weddings are a unique way for couples to celebrate their love while creating unforgettable memories with family and friends,” Carolyn explains.
According to Research and Markets’ 2024 Destination Wedding Global Market Report, the destination wedding industry grew 32% from 2023 to 2024. In 2023, it brought in $28 billion, compared to $36 billion in 2024. Experts are also predicting that this trend towards destination weddings will continue, as it becomes increasingly popular for couples to choose less traditional routes down the aisle. By 2028, destination weddings are expected to grow to over $105 billion.
Carolyn says she is excited to have recently begun partnering with All Aboard Travel to provide a truly unique and streamlined experience to plan these weddings.
“This partnership allows me to offer the personalized care of a dedicated wedding planner while seamlessly coordinating travel arrangements with All Aboard Travel,” Carolyn says. “Together, we ensure every detail of your destination wedding is handled with precision and care, from accommodations to activities, leaving you free to focus on enjoying your special day.”
Currently, some of the most popular destinations for weddings are tropical, with many choosing locations like Jamaica and Cancun. Locations like these also often have luxurious all-inclusive resorts, which make the perfect experience for a convenient and beautiful wedding.
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“These destinations offer not just a beautiful setting for the ceremony but also a seamless vacation experience for couples and their guests,” Carolyn explains.
Carolyn also makes it her job to make sure every detail for the special couple goes perfectly.
“Most resorts have an experienced on-site coordinator who greets the couple upon arrival, but my role goes beyond that. I help facilitate the relationship between the couple and the resort’s team, ensuring that every detail is perfectly tailored to their vision,” she says. “From arranging accommodations to choosing ceremony details and planning group activities, I take pride in creating an experience that is as stress-free as magical.”
There are many reasons that couples might lean towards a destination wedding over traditional celebrations. One of those might be surprising for some: destination weddings tend to be more cost-effective, especially as the average wedding in America now costs $30,000.
“After researching the expenses of hosting a wedding at home, many couples realize they can save money or spend a similar amount while enjoying the added benefit of a pictur-
esque location and a built-in vacation,” Carolyn says. “This is especially appealing for guest lists of 20 to 50 people, as many resorts provide group packages that include exciting perks, making the overall experience more affordable and luxurious.”
According to DestinationWeddings.com, the average cost of a destination wedding is around $10,000, though they can be much more expensive. It all depends on the couple’s vision for the wedding.
“Destination weddings aren’t just for those with extravagant budgets,” Carolyn says. “With thoughtful planning, they can be tailored to suit a variety of price points, offering exceptional value for the experience they provide.”
Ultimately, destination weddings transform a single day into a full-blown celebration.
“These weddings go beyond the ceremony, offering couples and their loved ones a chance to enjoy unique experiences together in a stunning location,” Carolyn explains. “Whether a couple dreams of an intimate beachfront ceremony or a larger celebration surrounded by loved ones, I aim to make their vision a reality and ensure they feel supported every step so they may live Happily Ever After!”
Choose a Wedding Theme! Go Beyond Just Color:
Written by Elyse Apel
Are you wondering what to expect from weddings you are attending in 2025? Planning your own 2025 wedding and want to go all in on incorporating the hottest wedding trends of the year?
The world of weddings is ever-evolving as trends come and go, sometimes making it hard for couples to decide what to incorporate and what to leave in 2024.
This article will walk you through some of the top forecasts for all things 2025 wedding from brides, reception themes, and even guest attire.
Eccentric Statements Meets Classy Vintage
The top bridal trends for 2025 went a variety of—sometimes very different—directions. Vogue reported that one of the top trends is more personalized wardrobe choices, both for the bride and groom. This could mean more eccentric or statement looks for some, while others turn to more traditional bridal fashion.
Traditional could also mean vintage, which is once again trending in 2025. Think metallic accents, drop waistlines, and classy cathedral or even blusher veils. If you want a simple way to incorporate vintage, consider trying on heirloom wedding dresses worn by your grandmother or mother. You might be pleasantly surprised by how a couple tweaks could make the dress the perfect choice for your wedding day, and add a beautiful sentimental moment for your whole family.
All Things Wedding Receptions
Photos are everything for 2025 weddings, as couples make it a priority not only to capture their big day but also do it in a memorable way.
Next-level and aesthetic photo and video experiences are becoming the norm for many weddings, with couples incorporating an Old Hollywood or paparazzi look into their photos.
As another part of capturing the day, the picture-perfect backdrop is also taking the spotlight at many 2025 wedding receptions. Almost all weddings will now incorporate some sort of backdrop into their receptions, giving guests the ideal place to take their own photos. A backdrop does not have to be complicated and can range from a simple balloon arch to an artistic flower wall.
Elaborate wedding decor is also taking center stage at many receptions this year. Brides are putting their own twists on what that looks like, often matching it to an over arching theme of the whole day.
As The Knot reported, classy tablescapes, lots of texture and draping, and over-the-top floral and cake designs will all be spotted in 2025.
Returning Home
While there are many lavish trends in 2025, budget-con scious couples will be glad to know that hometown wed dings are also making a comeback.
Whether that means getting married at the church the couple grew up in or setting up the reception in a fam ily member’s or friend’s backyard, a hometown wedding weekend is the ideal vibe for some weddings. It also does not necessarily mean that the couple must sacrifice their dream wedding aesthetic, instead allowing them flexibility to spend money on the things that really matter the most to them.
Guest Attire in 2025
For those attending weddings in 2025, you might be curi ous what to expect from wedding guest attire.
Experts report this will largely depend on the wedding, with Vogue predicting rigid dress codes for guests, and wedding parties, will be out in 2025. Instead, some couples are even opting into “mood boards” for their guests’ attire, incorporating the guests themselves into the overall theme for the day.
An overall aesthetic, allowing guests to craft their own looks, will be the key for weddings this year. No matter what the special couples in your life choose, be sure to check invitations and wedding websites for all the details on how you should dress for the big day.
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Wedding Day
Emergency Kits because accidents happen...
Be prepared by putting together these items ahead of time to have for your big day!
IN CASE OF EMERGENCY WeddingDay
For the Bride
ESSENTIAL ITEMS
1. Brush/comb
2. Cell phone (be sure to turn it off before the ceremony!)
3. Dental floss (for all those photos!)
4. Emery board
5. Extra panty hose
6. Hair spray
7. Handkerchief
8. Makeup
9. Mints
10. Mirror (small and portable)
11. Perfume, travel size
12. Legal documents needed
APPEARANCE
1. Baby powder (for getting out spills on a white dress)
2. Bobby pins and hair elastics
3. Brush and comb
4. Clear nail polish (also helpful for stocking runs)
5. Corsage pins
6. Cotton balls/swabs
7. THE DRESS!
8. Extra earring backs
9. Extra pair of flat shoes
10. Hair dryer
11. Iron
12. Lint brush
13. Makeup
14. Nail polish in the bride’s shade
15. Undergarments
16. Sewing kit
17. Shoe polish that matches wedding party’s shoes
18. Shoes
19. Spot remover (test it first!)
20. Static-cling spray
21. Straws (for drinking without messing up lipstick)
22. “Throwaway” garter
23. White chalk (to cover any stains on the dress)
24. Wrinkle out spray (test it first!)
HEALTH/TOILETRIES
1. Antacid
2. Aspirin/Ibuprofen
3. Band-aids (that best match your skin tone)
4. Contact lens solution/cases
5. Deodorant
6. Dental floss
7. Eye drops
8. Wash cloth or hand towel
9. Lotion
10. Medications
11. Moist towelettes
12. Mouthwash
13. Smelling salts
14. Sunscreen
15. Tampons or pads
16. Toothbrush and toothpaste
17. Tissues
OUTDOORS
1. Bug spray (be sure it leaves no spots and smells nice)
2. Extra flowers (in case of sun wilting)
3. Handkerchief for dabbing sweat
4. Sunglasses (pre- and post-ceremony)
JUST IN CASE
1. Cash ($20 – you never know what you’ll need it for)
2. Driver’s license or photo I.D. card
3. Duct tape (good for any handy repairs)
4. Extra copies of directions to your reception
5. Important phone numbers:
• Family
• Wedding party
• Wedding vendors
• Taxi company
6. Notebook and pens
7. Portable flashlight
8. Snacks/bottled water (granola bars, dried fruit, etc.)
9. Umbrella
10. Watch
FOR THE GROOM
APPEARANCE
1. Black socks (a few pairs)
2. Brush/comb
3. Cologne (travel size)
4. Corsage pins
5. Extra shirt buttons
6. Extra cufflinks (2-3 pairs)
7. Handkerchiefs
8. Lint brush
9. Shoe polish
10. Spot remover
JUST IN CASE
1. Cash ($20 – you never know what you’ll need it for)
2. Cell phone (remember to turn it off before the ceremony)
3. Driver’s license or photo I.D. card
4. Extra copies of directions to the reception
5. Important phone numbers (family, wedding party, vendors, taxi)
6. Notebook and pens
7. Portable flashlight
8. Snacks/bottled water
9. Umbrella
10. Watch
Prenuptial Agreements
and marriage
By Kimm Burger
Weddings are an exciting time of life, one that most people look forward to for years, especially women. We take great steps to ensure that day will be one to remember forever. We research every vendor, every location, every flower that is available at that time of year, everything down to the smallest of details – we want to make sure the day will go off without a hiccup.
However, what we don’t want to plan for, or to even think about, is what would happen if the marriage does not work. Who would? But this is an extremely important topic that everyone, male or female, needs to discuss and to plan for as well. Discussing a division or retention of assets if the couple divorces is really not a lot different than talking about what will happen upon your death.
In this day and age, according to some sources, 45% of marriages end in divorce, while a great number of individuals also enter into second or subsequent marriages. When that happens, both parties usually come into the marriage with some assets such as retirements, savings, homes, and other things that have significant value. Because of that, marrying couples should really consider what will happen to those assets if they divorce.
In the State of Michigan, generally, whatever a person has when entering into the marriage, he or she shall retain upon divorce. However, that isn’t as simple as it sounds as there are numerous caveats as to how those assets can become marital and subject to an equal division at the time of the divorce. With that, a party can end up losing part of their retirements, savings, and home if they do not properly plan for it prior to getting married.
One general rule is that if a person starts using marital income which is any income that is earned during the marriage, no matter who the employee is, then if those funds are used to pay for, as an example, a home which the employee owned prior to the marriage, that home now becomes marital and the other spouse is entitled to his or her share of that asset upon the termination of the marriage.
However, should the couple plan for these situations ahead of time, they can determine how assets and debts will be divided upon the dissolution of the marriage. Prenuptial agreements are a great place to start as these agreements allow the couple to articulate what each person is or is not entitled to upon a divorce. Prenuptials are not an overly complex process and usually do not take an extended period of time to complete, but the time spent or the expense that may be paid up front will alleviate a lot of the time, expense, and heartache if the marriage does not work.
As with planning the wedding, planning for the dissolution of the marriage is just as important.
How to Choose the Right Floral Designer for Your Wedding
Written by Barrett’s Staff
Choosing the right floral designer for your wedding is an important step in the wedding planning process. Flowers enhance your space and reflect your own personal style. Finding a florist who understands your vision, personality, and style can make all the difference. Here are some tips for selecting the perfect floral designer for your special day.
1. Start with Research and Inspiration
Before meeting with florists, gather inspiration for your wedding flowers. Browse Pinterest, Instagram, or magazines to create an inspiration board that highlights the colors, textures, and types of flowers you love. This will help articulate your vision and provide clearer direction for the florist.
2. Schedule a Consultation
A face-to-face consultation is the best way to determine if a florist is the right fit for you. This meeting will allow you to discuss your vision and budget and allow the florist to provide any feedback or suggestions based on their professional opinion and experience. This is also a great time to ask questions regarding the process, their previous work, how they handle changes in plans.
3. Prioritize Communication and Trust
Good communication is key when working with a floral designer. You want someone who listens to your ideas but also offers helpful guidance. The right florist will not only understand your vision but will also be able to translate it into reality while managing your expectations.
4. Review the Budget and Services
Discuss your budget openly with potential florists to ensure they can work within your financial parameters. Florists typically offer a range of services, from full-service design and setup to à la carte arrangements. Make sure to clarify what’s included in their pricing and any additional fees for delivery, setup, or breakdown after the event. Transparency about budget will help avoid surprises down the line.
5. Trust Their Experience
While it’s important to communicate your desires clearly, remember that floral designers are experts in their field. Trust their advice regarding what flowers are in season, how to best arrange your flowers for the venue, and any logistical considerations. Their experience and knowledge will ensure your flowers not only look stunning but also last throughout the day.
In the end, the right floral designer will become a trusted partner in making your wedding day as beautiful as you envision. By taking the time to research, communicate, and trust their expertise, you’ll ensure that your flowers enhance your celebration and reflect your unique style.
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Simple & Elegant Food DIY BRIDAL SHOWER:
Ever thought about how the simplest dishes often take the spotlight at gatherings? In hosting a bridal shower on a budget, embracing minimalism can be your secret weapon.
Why not showcase a classic cheese and crackers array? Fruit chunks and veggie platters? They’re not just budget-friendly; they’re a breeze to prepare.
Mini sandwiches? They’ve got convenience written all over them. And let’s not forget about the all-time favorites – dips! Hummus, salsa, and spinach artichoke come to mind, easily served at room temperature and perfect for making ahead of the big day.
Here’s a tip: presentation is everything. You’d be surprised how some elegant decorative trays and platters can turn even the simplest foods into a feast for the eyes.
Even toothpicks can dress up your display when they feature those cute little frills. And don’t underestimate the power of bold printed napkins to add a splash of fun and color.
By planning a simple menu, you’re not just saving pennies; you’re creating a cozy atmosphere that’s all about celebrating love and friendship.
Isn’t that what it’s really about? Plus, a simpler menu means less stress in the kitchen, so you can focus on toasting to the bride!
Why not get creative with your menu, reflecting the bride’s personality? Is she more a laid-back brunch gal or a fancy tea party aficionado? Or maybe she loves the great outdoors, making a picnic or barbecue-style menu a hit!
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In the following pages we will share some beautiful DIY appetizer cups that are perfect for a simple & elegant bridal shower.
BLT Bites
These BLT appetizer bites combine a crispy phyllo shell with a creamy and flavorful BLT filling for the perfect handheld appetizer!
Ingredients
• 15 phyllo shells
• 1/2 cup mayonnaise
• 1/2 cup sour cream
• 1/3 cup finely chopped lettuce
• 1/3 cup bacon pieces, set some aside for topping
• 8 cherry tomatoes, halves
Instructions
1. Chop your lettuce, and slice the tomatoes in half.
2. Arrange the phyllo shells on a plate or platter.
3. Add the mayonnaise, sour cream, chopped lettuce, and bacon pieces to a medium bowl, and stir well to combine.
4. Fill each Phyllo Shell with some of the filling. You can use a spoon or a piping bag.
5. Add a tomato half to the top of each filled Phyllo Shell. Then sprinkle a few bacon bits over the top.
6. Refrigerate for 1 hour cocktailsandappetizers.com
Cranberry Brie Bites
You’ll love the elegant balance of rich and creamy Brie with tart and sweet cranberry sauce, all nestled in a crispy and golden phyllo shell.
Ingredients
• 7 oz. whole cranberries with sauce (one-half can)
• 4 oz. Brie (half wheel)
• mini phyllo pastry shells
• fresh rosemary
Instructions
1. Pre-heat oven to 350°.
2. Slice the Brie into 1/2” pieces and place each piece into a phyllo shell.
3. Top with a 1/2 teaspoon of cranberries.
4. Bake for 5 minutes or until the Brie has melted.
5. Garnish with a piece of rosemary.
6. Serve while warm. cocktailsandappetizers.com
Shrimp Wonton Cups
These spicy and crispy Shrimp Wonton Cups are packed with Cajun flavors and served with a cool lime sour cream sauce!
Ingredients
• wonton wrappers
• olive oil spray
• Cajun seasoning
• 12 large shrimp, peeled and deveined
• 1 lime
• baby spinach leaves
• 3 tablespoons light sour cream
• 1 teaspoon fresh lime juice
• lemon zest, separated
Instructions
1. Heat oven to 350°.
2. Using a mini muffin pan, press the wonton wrappers down into the cups.
3. Cook for 8 mins until browned. Cool on wire rack.
4. Zest the lime and set aside for serving.
5. Mix the Cajun seasoning, shrimp and lime zest in a small mixing bowl.
6. Once well coated, lay out on a baking sheet and bake for 8-10 minutes until shrimp are cooked through.
7. In a small bowl, stir the sour cream, lime juice, and zest together.
8. Place 1-2 baby spinach leaves in each wonton cup.
9. Add a small dollop of the sour cream mixture in each cup and top with a single cooked shrimp.
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Sausage Stars Appetizer
A fancy appetizer stuffed with a cheesy pork sausage mixture, perfect for entertaining or happy hour.
Ingredients
• 1 lb. pork sausage
• 1 packet of ranch mix, prepared
• 2 ½ cups cheddar cheese
• 2 tablespoons vegetable oil
• 40+ Wonton wrappers
• 2 bundles fresh green onions, chopped, plus extra for garnish
• 1 red bell pepper, diced
Instructions
1. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees.
2. Spray a muffin tin with non-stick cooking spray.
3. Add a wonton wrapper to each muffin tin. Make sure the sides stick up on the sides of the muffin tin compartments.
4. Lightly brush the wonton wrappers with vegetable oil.
5. Bake the wontons in a 350° oven for 4-5 minutes until the corners begin to turn golden brown.
6. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.
7. Once wonton wrappers have finished baking, remove them from the muffin tins and place them onto a parchment-lined baking sheet.
8. In a skillet, brown sausage. 1-2 minutes before you are finished, add red bell pepper to the skillet and finish cooking the sausage and pepper together.
9. In a large mixing bowl, prepare the ranch dressing according to packet directions.
10. Add to the dressing, the sausage and pepper mixture, shredded cheese, and chopped green onions.
11. Stir well to combine all ingredients.
12. Spoon the cheesy ranch sausage mixture into wonton cups, about ¼ cup of mixture per cup.
13. Bake the sausage stars for 5-10 minutes in a 350° oven until warmed through and the cheese is melted.
14. Serve right away, warm.
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