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48 HUMANS OF BERMUDA Our remarkable stories
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Quietly making noise
ARTS + ENTERTAINMENT Noise Cans
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What is keto?
HEALTH + FITNESS The science behind it
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Picking up STEAM
HEALTH + FITNESS Kameron Young
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Defining the undefined
BEAUTY + FASHION Bermuda National Football Team
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God. Fashion. Passion.
BEAUTY + FASHION Lily Lightbourn
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Farming Matters
HOME + LIVING Saleem Madyun
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A history worth of stories
HOME + LIVING Dr Dorothy Louise Matthews-Paynter
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BIG WORLD: Australia
TRAVEL + LEISURE Chloe Kempe
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The positive power chef
FOOD + DRINK Antonio Belvedere
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Humans of Bermuda
BEEN THERE DONE THAT Tia Smith
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Is it simply that we share the same physiology or is there more to it? A quick read of the stories of the diverse group of people we invited to be a part of this issue indicates the answer might be pretty basic: we all care about something. Fortunately for us as a species, it’s not the same thing or life would likely be pretty dull. Farming, philanthropy, music, fashion: we nurture what interests us, offer it to our family, our neighbours, our friends - and very often our social media networks - and, because we are human, we hope it’s well received. Nearly 30 years into her role at the Bermuda Red Cross Ann Spencer-Arscott goes to work every day, eager to make a difference;
a successful model, Lily Lightbourn only really started to feel at home after she found her faith and began guiding others; Andrew Bascome has made it clear that he doesn’t look at his football records and trophies as a measure of his success, more important is the effort he puts into making life easier for the young people coming behind him. That we all have our purpose makes us all humans of Bermuda. Especially when home is a 21-square-mile island with only about two degrees of separation between you and the wife of your ex-husband’s dentist, it’s a commonality that we should focus on more often.
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Karlandtrha Smi I think everyone would be surprised to know that I am actually very shy. Regardless of my outgoing characteristics, inside I’m awkward and nervous.
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I am a marketing and communications professional who also loves to dress well. Period.
I am at my happiest when I am being creative. Photography has become a big part of my life that brings me joy and a sense of fulfillment.
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I have a few interests. Apart from being a photographer and a studio owner, I am a lover of coffee table books, and my cat.
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SUMMERSPOTLIGHT READ
Black Leopard, Red Wolf (The Dark Star Trilogy) Marlon James
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Tessa Thompson and Chris Hemsworth team up to sniff out the Men In Black’s newest threat – a mole in the organisation, all while helping to protect Earth from mischievous alien activity. This continuation of the MIB franchise is definitely set to be a perfect summer action flick, as Agent H and Agent M team up for an international adventure to save the universe.
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HUMANS of BERMUDA
RG Staff Michael
Nikeisha
I feel a general sense of fearlessness in my day to day life. I am still human — if I were to be on a high building I would be scared of falling, but the small or even the big things we face daily… I am not afraid of.
The Riddler
Give me a puzzle piece with the wrong puzzle and I will find a way out of no way. The upbeat one, the whip-cracker, the keep-it-going-until-we-getdone kind of person. Then I knock off and wonder. How can I be her… in my personal life. Whip-Cracker
Christina
Terrina
I really like planning trips. Travelling is both exciting and intimidating. I also get a little bit of joy from getting in Terrina’s space.
Mediator
Coloring outside the lines simply because there are lines is my specialty. I like my space, yet somehow I seem to attract people to it. The irony.
In Time-Out
Carlene
Spirit Warrior
My favorite place in the world is anywhere near the ocean. I am a Thalassophile; simply said, I’m a lover of the sea. I never cease to be amazed at its depths, its temperament and its life. It is the largest, scariest and yet safest and softest thing I have ever encountered. It is my happy place no matter the time of year. I am blessed to call Bermuda my home because I’m literally surrounded by it.
Ashley
If you had asked me to tell you something about myself a few years ago I would have simply told you I am a swimmer. Somehow knowing that fact about my life would have given you an idea of who I was. But now that I am no longer a swimmer, that question makes me very uncomfortable. There is so much that I still have to discover about myself. Observant Intern
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I don't think I could get away with the mask and making it part of my persona if I wasn't Bermudian.
Photography by Thais AQUINO
quietly MAKING NOISE Sarah LAGAN
While Bermudian producer/DJ Noise Cans is making a name for himself on the world stage, the man behind the name remains shrouded in mystery. Despite his bristling electronic dancehall beats attracting an international following, his identity will forever be concealed behind the giant Gombey-inspired mask he fashioned with designer friends. Speaking to RG Mags over the phone from his “second home”, Jamaica, while lounging in the celebrity-laden Golden Eye resort of Island Records founder Chris Blackwell, he vowed to keep his growing fanbase guessing. “It’s a little like Banksy,” he says, referring to the anonymous street artist whose paintings fetch millions. “I wanted to pay homage to the Gombeys and give my island some more recognition on a world stage. “I wanted to create something true to the culture that I love and know. I was never in a Gombey troupe but I have friends who are.
“The mask is a statement that breeds a conversation.” That conversation made its way all the way to www.vogue. com in 2017 as part of an interview he gave on the release of his first EP Masquerave on Dim Mak, the record label of legendary DJ Steve Aoki. Noise Cans is all about visuals that create an evocative theatre around his onstage performances which he describes as “a mix between carnival and Cirque du Soleil”. His musical tastes are eclectic but he is focused on creating a unique blend of Caribbean and electronic dance music. He has confirmed his Bermudian heritage — “I don’t think RG Mags | rgmags.com
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After I put some songs out on SoundCloud, they gained popularity and in 2015 I had a record with Mr Vegas on the song Bucka. I could get away with the mask and making it part of my persona if I wasn’t Bermudian” — but will not reveal details that might give him away such as the school he attended, his age or, of course, his real name. (His stage name is a colloquial reference to headphones). Based in New York, he admits to being raised in Devonshire, leaving the island to attend college in 2000 and making regular visits home. He says he is a fan of Bermuda Heroes Weekend, the island’s burgeoning carnival scene which he has attended a couple of times. “With carnival it’s the energy, the music, the dancers, everything that inspired me in the beginning. From the Jamaican and Bermudian sound systems to the massive party on stage as well as the electronic elements — the lighting and visuals that tie it in to a massive ball of fun. I love the fact it is in Bermuda and it will only get bigger and better. “Soca is a huge part of what I do — I bring a lot of that rhythm and energy into my performances.” Since his first album Noise Cans has created a ton of remixes and performed in the UK, US and Caribbean and Europe. He’s looking forward to going further afield with numerous dates lined up in Asia. He released his second EP Dutty Mas in March, the title is a nickname for Trinidad’s J’Ouvert. It has tracks featuring Trinidadian Bunji Garlin, the ragga soca artist, and Preedy Kapleton, the soca singer. And while he is getting used to mixing with music royalty on a regular, Noise Cans is humble enough to not forget his roots. He asked Bermudian Brittany Cox to be a part of the track Take Ova.
“I am starting to incorporate Bermuda artists on all of my projects now that I have bit of a platform. “I liked her voice, reached out to her on Instagram, we talked and she recorded it,” he said of the singer who performs as Brixx. “I hope that it is giving her the push to want to do more. We are talking about continuing to collaborate.” Bermuda is a tough place to start from if you want to make your way to the top, he said. “I loved growing up there and I couldn’t imagine being raised anywhere else in terms of the sun, the beach, the fishing and the freeness in that island setting. But if there was one thing that was limiting, it was being somewhat sheltered and not being able to have the opportunities to grow. “I want to continue to be an inspiration to other Bermudian artists and help in any way I can. Social media has been a blessing for many artists; social media is the game. After I put some songs out on SoundCloud, they gained popularity and in 2015 I had a record with Mr Vegas on the song Bucka — that was my first real release. After that Steve Aoki picked it up as single.” As for his own creative goals, the sky appears to be the limit: “If I can get a record with Rihanna and Beyoncé that is the next goal. I want to create for big artists. I also want to start my own record label and that could be a resource for Bermudian artists. “I want to continue to build my brand. I pull from so many different things — that’s what makes it exciting — but you have to put your own twist on what you do. Being unique and being you is everything.”
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WHAT IS IT?
Keto
On most diets, the body uses glucose as its primary energy source. The ketogenic diet essentially forces the body to use fat instead, mimicking a state of starvation where the body breaks down fat stores and converts them into ketones through a biochemical process called ketosis. What’s the science behind it? Reaching ketosis requires following a strict formula of 75 percent fat, 20 percent protein and 5 percent carbohydrates. For most people, maintaining such a ratio can be extremely challenging and requires lots of planning. Proponents claim it’s worth it, that it burns fat more effectively and can reverse type 2 diabetes. To get there, the liver produces ketones from fat. The ketones then serve as a fuel source throughout the body, especially the brain, burning fat 24/7. It’s claimed the keto diet brings less hunger, a steady supply of energy that helps people stay alert and massive reductions in blood sugar and insulin levels. Not to be confused with.... The Atkins diet, which also encourages people to lower their carb intake. The main difference between it and the keto diet is that the Atkins diet includes a gradual increase in carbohydrate intake. See your doctor before you start Care especially needs to be taken if you have type 1 diabetes, if you’re taking medication for high blood pressure or if you’re breastfeeding. As well, it’s estimated that the keto diet can bring worrying elevations of low-density lipoproteins or “bad” cholesterol and total cholesterol for 1 percent to 2 percent of the population.
Drinks allowed? Water is perfect. Coffee and tea are fine, ideally without any sweeteners, especially not sugar; a small amount of milk or cream is OK. The occasional glass of wine is fine too. Newbies often suffer from side effects which have been dubbed the “keto flu”: headache, fatigue, dizziness, light nausea, difficulty focusing, lack of motivation, irritability, leg cramps, constipation, bad breath/body odour and slightly elevated heart rate. Such symptoms show up a few days after the diet starts and usually disappear within weeks, once the person becomes “keto-adapted”. It’s claimed that the symptoms can be reduced or eliminated by drinking a cup of bouillon or broth 1 to 2 times per day, or eating lots of vegetables or another source of fibre. Don’t expect immediate results Adaptation to burning fat can take anywhere from weeks to a few months; bodies must shift from burning sugar to primarily burning fat for energy, even in the muscles. Exercising while following the diet supposedly brings about a faster change. The end result There is no well-established evidence to support its sustainability on a long-term basis. There is research that claims that restricting carbs and replacing them with animal-based protein and fat could lead to a shorter lifespan.
HEALTH + FITNESS
Picking up
STEAM Annabel COOPER
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t just 17 years old and in the final throes of her IB exams, BHS student Kameron Young has already made a mark in the world of science and robotics. She received international recognition for her genetic study into a person’s preference for sugar and sugar intake and is the only female black Bermudian student to compete in two FIRST Global robotics competitions. Her scientific passion began at an early age, encouraged by her loving grandfather, the late Kenyetta Young. “I would always bring home a random animal,” she explained, “caterpillar, sea anemone, I never had normal pets. He always asked me what it is and if I didn’t know I had to look it up. One of my fondest memories is sitting on his lap at his computer.
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“He was the reason I got so passionate about science and robotics. He gave me my first screwdriver when I was a toddler. I would follow him around the house, unscrew a plate and put it back on for practice.” Kenyetta was an influential figurehead in the Bermuda Industrial Union and was known as “Burning Spear”, according to his granddaughter, because “he was always a passionate leader who spoke up for others and made sure they had a voice. That’s the kind of leader I want to be”. To achieve what Kameron has as a teenager requires confidence and determination as well as intellect. For this she credits not just her grandfather, but also her mother, Angela, who owns her own business. Kids in Control
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LILY GOD.FASHION.PASSION. Annabel COOPER
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I had to learn to love the way I look.
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t 19 years old Lily Lightbourn headed to New York with a dream to find a modelling agency. Despite being “super shy”, she kept going and one day someone said “yes!” Now, at 29, she has modelled all over the world for some of the biggest names in fashion. In spite of her success, she has stayed true to her Christian beliefs, set up a faith-based support group for models and loves kicking off her designer heels at the end of the day and throwing on men’s track pants and Doc Marten boots. As a child, Lightbourn didn’t dream of being a model and hasn’t always been comfortable with her appearance. “I had to learn to love the way I look,” she says. “I was bullied a little bit in middle school, so I always thought something was wrong with me, but then there’s the realisation
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that you are pretty. In high school I appreciated my looks more.” In addition to modelling success Lightbourn also found “an amazing relationship with God” after she moved to New York. She grew up in a Christian family but her beliefs weren’t as strong as they are now. “The church I started going to allowed me to form my own relationship with God. They didn’t tell me what to do. No one criticised me or made me feel wrong or guilty. It embraces the arts.” Modelling work can be tough and this fact, alongside her Christianity, inspired her to found Model Grocery earlier this year. She describes it as “a safe place for models to share and connect and receive a little bit of The Word at the same time”. “That’s what you need to get through the rejection, when people tell you what’s wrong and what’s right,” she says. “There’s so many promoters in New York City,
it’s nice to have a space where no one is trying to look at you for your aspect or use you.” Modelling does have a fun side too. During a London show for Vivienne Westwood, which she describes as “overwhelming amazing”, she got to wear a red “pants and blazer” suit: “At the time that really suited me. My hair was in an afro and I had these amazing red boots. The whole show gave me goosebumps.” n
They didn’t tell me what to do. No one criticised me or made me feel wrong or guilty.
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FARMING
Matters Annabel COOPER
Anyone wanting to do their bit for the planet can take a leaf out of Saleem Madyun’s book. His two-acre plot in Sandys is teeming with wildlife. The bees are particularly prolific around the African basil plant and governor’s plum tree, which he says, “is a sign that the bees are back in Bermuda. We should grow stuff like this to encourage the bees”. Mr Madyun retired this year after 28 years as gardens manager for the Bermuda National Trust, however he doesn’t look very retired. In addition to the land in Sandys, which he rents from the Trust, he also has plots near his home in Southampton. “It’s a passion,” he says. “I have a strong
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passion for farming and horticulture. I like animal husbandry and vegetables, but I like to deal with vegetables that are unique. I have it in my genes.” He points to a patch that he says is an old strain of sweet potato: “The difference is it’s one of the best tasting, but it takes eight-and-a-half to nine months to harvest. A lot of the stuff nowadays you can harvest in four-and-a-half to five months. I like the old way. They call me old-fashioned but I reckon it tastes better.” Mr Madyun’s grandfather, Ernest Scott Tucker, left Bermuda to study horticulture, and later came back and introduced it to schools. His father was a farmer too. “I can
recollect working in the garden for my dad when I was between 3 and 5, chopping myself in the ankle with a hoe — which was too heavy for me! My parents always had a garden. I’ve always had a garden.” His particular passion is subtropical fruit trees; a mango tree, heaving with fruit, provides the perfect shade for our interview. He also has longans, plums, nectarines, peaches, guavas, papayas and a bay rum tree. “My father used to rub his head with bay rum when it was real hot to cool off,” he laughs. “Some used to put it in their hat to keep flies away.” His enthusiasm for what he can grow is infectious. I challenge anyone to find a
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I have a strong passion for farming and horticulture. I like animal husbandry and vegetables, but I like to deal with vegetables that are unique. I have it in my genes
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I LIKE BEING NEXT TO NATURE brand of scent that can top that of Mr Madyun’s peppermint plants, curry tree leaves or lavender. His wealth of knowledge, not just about how to grow things but what to do with the produce — especially its medicinal benefits — is also exceptional. He shows me his moringa tree saying: “It’s anti-cancerous. It has more vitamin C than carrots and oranges. It’s very sought after right now.” Mr Madyun also explains that curry tree leaves can be used for arthritis and in China, they use loquat leaves to make cough medicine. “I like being next to nature,” he says. “I’m a Muslim. I’ve been a Muslim for almost 40 years and we have been taught that we have to return to our original nature.” Mr Madyun, who was 14 when he converted, says: “The best thing that has happened to me was to be introduced to Orthodox Islam, true Islam, because we accept all humanity as one.” When we meet, it is the eighth day of Ramadan and in spite of the intense heat, he is abstaining from food and water during daylight hours: “I always do Ramadan,” he explains. “It’s a period when you can regenerate and the emphasis isn’t on the physical part, but to rekindle our closeness to the creator.” His belief is that you should break the fast at the end of the day with something natural. He does it with dates, which he has grown using the stones from last year’s fruit. Mr Madyun loves to write poetry and hopes to publish a book called Encouraging Words. He also meditates. Once, while meditating, he managed to identify 13 different types of bird on the property, which is amazing considering the cacophony coming from his rooster, Shaggy, and geese, Harry, Jerry and Monique. He also has a goat called Nanny. Of all the beautiful, living things on his land, one of the most entertaining is what is known “down de islands” as ‘Shame Me Darling’ or ‘Shame Old Lady’. You touch it lightly and it literally shies away. “This is its defence. Guys from the island say that if you take this bush, mix it with another bush called medina, it has the same affects as Viagra. But I ain’t done no research,” he chuckles. n
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A HISTORY WORTH OF Robyn BARDGETT
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t 97, Dorothy Louise Matthews-Paynter doesn’t disappoint anyone interested in a walk down memory lane. Inside her shop, Dottie’s Unisex Beauty Centre, where she’s been doing hair since the 70s, the walls are covered in memorabilia from a lifetime of hard work and learning. Without once having to flip through the pages of The Life and Times of Dr Dorothy Louise Matthews-Paynter, the 2017 book by Cee Bennett-Rogers, she remembers the details of all of them. Dr Matthews-Paynter became an orphan at eight. Life didn’t hand her advantages – she recalls being “poor as a church mouse”
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Stories – but she was blessed with perseverance and determination. It’s likely why at nearly 100 she’s still on her feet doing hair, something she’s been passionate about since she was in middle school. “I wanted to be a doctor, a lawyer and a hairdresser,” Dr Matthews-Paynter said. “The only thing I have to do now is be called to the bar. I’m a practical nurse and I’m a hairdresser and I even had a beauty school. The only thing I haven’t been is a lawyer. But people often come to me to solve their cases so I think I’ve been doing law anyway.” She became a “professional hairdresser” by 30, fulfilling a promise she’d made to herself. At 72, she married her second
husband and received a PhD in cosmetology the following year. At 75 she was awarded the Queen’s Certificate for the 50 years she held a cut-a-thon as a community fundraiser. Despite those achievements, the reality of what it was like to grow up black in Bermuda isn’t far from her mind. Dr Matthews-Paynter recalled the small but significant role she played in turning the tide against segregation in Bermuda. “Having travelled a lot in the States to further my education I had been to lots of nice theatres where I could sit wherever I liked. I had been reading Forever Amber and it was on at the theatre here. In the theatre on Queen Street blacks couldn’t sit wherever they wanted, they had to sit
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right up close to the screen where it was difficult to see the picture. “I came back from the States feeling real brave and I sat right in the middle. There were only about three or four other people in there but the usher came almost immediately and said, ‘Lady, you can’t sit there.’ I asked her why and she said ‘Because…’ and, before she could finish, I said, ‘That’s a conjunction, give me the other part of the sentence.’ “So I sat back and she came back and said, ‘Lady, the manager says come to the front desk and get your money.’ I told her if the manager wants me to have my money tell him to bring it to me. She came back with the money and I said thank you very much and I watched the movie for free that day. I didn’t move.” She retold the incident in a letter to Housewife Choice, a popular ZBM radio show hosted by Walter Staskow in
the 1950s that invited listeners to send in their most embarrassing moments. She sent it anonymously, with only the initials DLM; the Bermuda Recorder, the island’s only black newspaper, picked up on it. Dr Matthews-Paynter said she was among thousands of blacks in the community who were fed up with the second-class treatment they were receiving in their own country. “The next thing I heard, they were boycotting the theatres,” she remembered. The 1959 Theatre Boycott paved the way to the end to segregation in Bermuda. While things have changed, she said, there is still a long way to go as prejudice exists in a “modern form.” n
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BADGE of HONOUR Annabel COOPER
I still love it. I still wake up eager to get to work, eager to try to make a difference and I’ve got a great team.
When Ann Spencer-Arscott was awarded the ‘Badge of Honour’ from the British Red Cross for 25 years of dedicated service it was not just for the time she’d given and her determination to make people’s lives better. Also driving the award was that she leads from the front, encouraging staff and volunteers to reach their full potential, and is always on the lookout for new ways to raise awareness and funds. Three years on from that accolade and Ms Spencer-Arscott has no plans to slow down. She has been executive director of
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the Bermuda Red Cross since October 1999 and first started working for the organisation in June 1992. “I still love it. I still wake up eager to get to work, eager to try to make a difference and I’ve got a great team. I’m really honoured and proud to work with them,” she says. She always knew she wanted to do a job that helped people. “I grew up in an environment of volunteering,” she says. “My mother did a lot of volunteering. I was a Candy Striper, which is the teenage version of the Pink Ladies. I volunteered at school. I taught Sunday
school.” Ms Spencer-Arscott grew up in Smith’s. Her mother was a nurse who later worked at Trimingham’s, and her father worked for Bermuda Wholesalers. She has a younger brother and sister, who are twins. She herself had a twin sister who died in a tragic accident as a toddler: “She put a plastic bag over her head at 18 months. I always freak out when I see a plastic bag hanging around with kids. People don’t realise how fast things can happen. My mother was pregnant with my sister and brother when it happened.”
As a child she wanted to be a nurse when she grew up, like her mother. Later she wanted to be a teacher, but then decided she’d like to have her own business: “I didn’t know in what but I’ve always been very organised. My brother and sister would probably tell you I’ve been bossy and controlling,” she says, laughing. “I knew I had that quality!” It was after she had her first son, Andrew, now 27, that she and the Red Cross found each other. She was working in the personnel department of Belco at the time, which was “pretty hectic”. “My husband had a very active and busy schedule and I just had this awful feeling that I was not going to be having a lot of time with him, but I know I’m not a stayat-home mum either.” She was put in touch with Frank Gamble who was volunteer director at the time, and she hasn’t looked back since. Initially her role was part-time, but she points out, “When you’re in charity work, it’s never part-time. If you’re that type of a person who gives, it’s tough. You don’t mind and also the charities don’t realise how much work they need done and always ask more of people.” Ms Spencer-Arscott had her second son, Ryan, in December 1995. “I had a great nanny and things were working really well and that was around the time when another hour was added or another two hours were added to the day. The beautiful thing about working for the Red Cross is that there’s a lot of flexibility. I could go to school to read, I could go to sports days, I could be home if they were sick.”
In the time that she has been with the Red Cross, the organisation has evolved exponentially. Among many other things, she started fundraising dinner dances. She also began offering CPR and first aid courses, expanded the hospital equipment rental service to include childcare items and she established the popular Thrift Shop. One of the reasons she loves her job so much is because people tell her how much the Red Cross helps them. “It’s just knowing you’re making a difference. We bring companionship to seniors, we train people to be better prepared for the unexpected — whether it’s a breathing issue, a fire or a hurricane. It’s the full gamut. “Our thrift shop has amazing stuff on offer. The prices are good so I feel we’re helping to bring dignity to people through our driving and our equipment rental as well. We really try to work with people who have financial constraints. These are tough times for many people.” In spite of the positives, working for a charity has its challenges too. Managing volunteers and handling the budget are two in particular. “Volunteers are just that,” she says. “They’re not paid. They can come and go as they want however, they are so vital to the third sector.” It can also be hard justifying the budget. “I believe that there some people who find it difficult to understand that many non-profits have to operate like a small business and therefore have to employ people to take charge of the programme that gets assistance from volunteers.” Ms Spencer-Arscott’s family is all on the
“volunteer list” with her children very involved in the Red Cross growing up. She is married to Robin with whom she also has a stepson, Steven, and two granddaughters, Madison and Emily. When she isn’t working, she loves spending time with her family: “Most of our gatherings are around food — having dinner together, lunch together. I like to cook. There’s a really good beef stroganoff I make. My mother was Danish so there’s a lovely recipe for Danish meatballs.” She is also on the board and Outreach Committee of Christ Church, Warwick, which includes fundraising activities to support Lorraine Rest Home and the Warwick Parish schools. In terms of her Red Cross future, her immediate priority is to renovate their Berry Hill Road headquarters “to bring the thrift shop downstairs into the office area and to move the office upstairs”. “Just today I was helping a lady with boxes to go upstairs and she said, ‘These stairs are the only drawback I have about this thrift shop’. We’re hoping we can start that this year.” Looking back, she says she’s most proud of the fact that “the Red Cross has become more of a household name. People have a better understanding of what we’re about and what we do”. Ms Spencer-Arscott turns 60 next year but says: “I would like to think that I will be here for as long as I feel I’m making a difference, moving the organisation forward and the board still feel I’m being effective.”
When you’re in charity work, it’s never part-time. If you’re that type of a person who gives, it’s tough.
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As an 11-year-old, Chloë Kempe dreamt about becoming a vet. When she got the chance to follow the late Neil Burnie as part of a careers day it proved “life-changing”, setting her on a journey that took her to the other side of the world and back. “I know exactly where I sat, what we spoke about and what we did,” she remembers. “We spent time at Endsmeet [Animal Hospital] as well as the aquarium. We saw dogs, cats, a lemur, tortoise and tree kangaroo. He had such a great way of working with people and animals. It didn’t feel like a job. He really spoke to me like an equal. He made me feel capable and made me realise not to underestimate your effect on young kids.” Two decades later, she owns her own vet locum business in Sydney called Vet Chloë and has just completed an epic nine-month, 16,777-mile journey, travelling anticlockwise around Australia in her van, Layla with an aim to “get more involved in wildlife and conversation”. She continued her vet locum work along the way to pay for her travels and began a podcast series called Vet Chloë on the Road to interview people she met, share what she was learning and document her experiences. As well as her desire to see, meet and learn, Ms Kempe was also sparked by anger: “I watched the documentary Chasing
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Coral, which was very sad. I wrote a letter to the Prime Minister and Environmental Minister of Australia. I had a frustration in me. I get depressed sometimes about the state of the climate and that’s why I jumped in my van. I do think that the planet has an innate ability to heal. It
I do think that the planet has an innate ability to heal. It keeps coming back and that inspires me – seeing its resilience. keeps coming back and that inspires me — seeing its resilience. I think about how the body can heal if you allow it. Animals and the natural world have a lot to give.” The 32-year-old was also eager to explore more of the vast country she had made her home: “Australia is so unbeliev-
ably beautiful and varied. So many landscapes and environments — waterfalls, rainforests, coral reefs, deserts, tropics, coastlines, caves, gorges, sand dunes, forests, beaches, mountains, red earth and even snow!” In particular, she wanted to see the Great Barrier Reef. A big thrill was experiencing animals in the wild, which involved searching in remote parts of the country. “There’s a total difference from seeing them in a zoo,” she said. “I got to see platypus, crocodiles, dolphins, wombats and kangaroos in the wild. I heard Tasmanian Devils but didn’t see them because they are nocturnal.” The conversational part of her journey involved some fascinating people, particularly those who work in conservation and animal rescue. That part couldn’t be planned. She played it all by ear and learnt to approach complete strangers. “I turned up to a town in Western Australia and met a local indigenous man who told me about his connection to the land,” she said, recalling how she learnt in Tasmania about Devil Facial Tumour Disease, an aggressive form of cancer that
TRAVEL + LEISURE ravaged the Tasmanian Devil population between 1996 and 2015. “I had a brilliant interview with a guy who’d done over 40 years of conservation work with Tasmanian Devils even before this facial tumour problem was discovered.” Travelling around a vast country on your own is no mean feat, but the Bermudian vet found it “really empowering”. “It definitely took some bravery, especially big drives through big country,” she said. It also fit well with her mantra of the moment: massive imperfect action. “Just do it. Just make a van — it doesn’t have to be perfect. Just plan a trip — it’s going to go wrong at times.” Her “open-minded adventurous parents”Jay and Jackie encouraged her to head to the University of Sydney instead of England’s Liverpool University where she was also accepted as a student. “They really thought I would gel well with Australia,” she said. Ms Kempe was awarded the Nicholl Scholarship, which partially funded her studies. By 2011 she had completed her bachelor’s degree in veterinary science. In spite of her love for Australia, she
says it “can’t compete with Bermuda being my ultimate home”. “I certainly love Bermuda and I loved growing up there. The aquarium interests me, there’s lots of marine life. Dr Ian Walker has mentored me and always been kind to me. “My fondest memory is playing on the Bermuda rocky shore. My parents are big animal lovers so it was always a happy home full of animals. We had a whole range — dogs, cats, rabbits, guinea pegs, fish, a little terrapin. Don’t underestimate guinea pigs!” Of all the animals she has come across, her favourite is the rabbit, followed closely by wombats, giraffes and lions. “Rabbits are really wild,” she said. “You have to fit into their life. Whenever I learn about a new animal I become fascinated. Most recently it’s the Tasmanian Devil. They are incredible, but endangered and coming back because of conservation efforts.” After completing vet school in Sydney, she returned to Bermuda to work for a couple of years but felt the need for a “new challenge”. It was more of a pull than a push,” she
said. “My Australian citizenship meant that door was always open.” She comes home to Bermuda once a year and her family travel out to see her. Her brother, Oliver, helped her get Layla expedition-ready and was with her for the first four months of her travels. Their parents joined them for a Western Australian Christmas at Margaret River, south of Perth. “Bermudians are unique people,” she said. “I love coming home and feeling local again. What I also miss is in Australia they don’t serve mayonnaise! People find it funny but it’s an issue. I’ll ask for mayonnaise and instead they give me aioli garlic dip, which is not the same!” For the moment though, having completed her lap of Australia, she is staying put in Bondi Beach and enjoying her passions: “Animals and the natural world inspire me and that’s what I focus my work life around. Animals are so in the moment. I find them really inspiring.” n
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24 hours in Sydney best meal and place you had it Thai is to Sydney as Indian is to London! Thai La-Ong in groovy Newtown near Sydney University is nothing fancy but a forever favourite. Order the Pad See Mao, which is a mouthwatering dish of broad rice noodles in an amazing combo of soy sauce, fish sauce, oyster sauce and garlic. best outdoor spot Bondi to Coogee, a 3.7-mile dramatic cliff top coastal walk that shows off the most amazing of ocean views and beaches. favourite Australian experience in Sydney Sailing out of the Sydney Heads in a J24 with pitching seas! We spent the day heading up the East Coast to reach a sailing regatta that weekend. It felt very adventurous! place that cheers you up when you miss Bermuda Grandma’s Bar in the Sydney CBD (Central Business District) where they stock Gosling’s Rum and can serve you up a Dark n’ Stormy. if we only have time to go to one place in Sydney Bondi Beach. You can’t go to Sydney and not experience the buzz of a beautiful city beach and see surfers in action.
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I took the plunge and sacrificed a steady pay check, but it’s meant that I’ve been able to do more community work.
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ed up with waiting for others to find a solution, Antonio Belvedere decided the best way to make a positive impact on young men in the community was to get involved. His life underwent massive upheaval after his father died of cancer in 2009. Mr Belvedere took some time out to regroup and then decided to focus on his passion – cooking. Only months after graduating from the Bermuda College’s Culinary Arts programme in 2012, he became the island’s youngest executive chef. Although a great achievement, he didn’t feel fulfilled. Two years later he opened his own business, Peppino's Catering. A huge thrill was that it offered more possibilities for him to give back. “I took the plunge and sacrificed a steady pay cheque but it’s meant that I’ve been able to do more community work in regards to going around to different schools and speaking to the students in relation to gang violence,” Mr Belvedere said. His work with Branches is part of that. Comprised of grassroots groups such as Open Your Heart Foundation, Living Legends Community Organisation and Youthvision Promotions, its aim is to have positive males mentor young men in a non-judgmental space. We’ve come together in the hopes of putting the focus on young men in the community and getting them on the right path no matter what, because right now there is a need for that,” he said. With Desmond Crockwell, the head of Youthvision, Mr Belvedere was able
to organise peace marches for primary school students at either end of the island this year. The children carried placards on which they’d written their thoughts on gun violence. “Nobody is telling them what to write,” said Mr Belvedere. “They are putting on there how they feel about gun violence. I had two girls come up to me and perform a rap that they had come up with and it was amazing to see and hear. These kids feel it. There isn’t a school on the island that hasn’t been affected by gun violence in some way.” In April, he received a Leading Men of Bermuda Award from Brothers of Bermuda for his efforts. His hope is to next bring together students from all of the island’s schools, for a march through Hamilton. “That would be a positive sight to see,” he said. Mr Belvedere is also hoping to use his skills to get boys in government’s residential home interested in cooking. His real hope is to find a way of making the community understand that everyone has a part to play. “We need more community support, and that doesn’t have to just be parents,” he said, adding that the lack of participation at PTAs has been disappointing for the activists. “We are a very reactive society but we need to be more proactive right now. “We have people in these groups that have been directly affected by gun violence or can’t travel to different parts of the island, but they are out there and part of a positive group. That’s what shows hope.” n
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Originating in the 19th century, pink gin experienced a resurgence in 2013 and has revolutionized the cocktail scene in Europe. The trend shows no signs of slowing down, with the in-demand spirit crossing the pond to captivate new audiences in the US. According to Nielsen, ‘berry’ is the second largest gin flavour in dollars and the fastest-growing in the top five, by 19%, while Strawberry has risen to the #2 most popular spirits flavor in 2017 with continued growth in 2018. Designed to be enjoyed as a spritz with lemonade, a cocktail with MARTINI & ROSSI Prosecco and strawberry garnish, or an exciting twist to a classic gin and tonic, BOSFORD Rose aims to become the new ‘go-to’ drink for cocktail enthusiasts.
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BOSFORD Rose Spritzer 1 ½ parts BOSFORD Rose Premium Gin 1 ½ parts lemonade Top with MARTINI & ROSSI Prosecco. Garnish with fresh strawberries or raspberries. BOSFORD Southside 2 parts BOSFORD Rose Premium Gin 1 part lemon ½ part simple syrup 5 mint leaves Shake all ingredients (minus soda), strain, top with soda. BOSFORD Rose & Tonic
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2 parts BOSFORD Rose Premium Gin 1 part sour mix 1 basil leaf Mix all and top with soda.
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HUMANS OF BERMUDA
HUMANS OF BERMUDA
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People are fascinating. I’m not talking about politicians and celebrities who shout their achievements from the rooftops, I’m talking about the football coach who inspires children to achieve their dreams, the charity worker who ensures people’s dignity no matter their circumstances, the vet doing her bit to help the planet and its animals. ‘Humans of Bermuda’ are Bermudians who, through their talents, bravery and determination, make the world a better place. Here are their stories. Annabel COOPER
Our remarkable stories Our life is that of a blog THIS. IS. US.
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naturally benevolent I’m a poet, a nurse, and I have a house, though right now, no one lives in it. I am proud to say that I am homeless, but homelessness isn’t just about a house; it’s about a mindset, and there’s a stigma. Every morning I have to wash in a public restroom, but I am still driven. Driven by my hunger, the preservation of life, and the young people who are also in this situation, both white and black, sleeping in cars, parks, on the beach. I am naturally benevolent, which means I want to help others, especially those in similar situations.
Poem Every morning I’m up before the sun. Begin to rise giving thanks to the father for opening my eyes. Then I wash my face and clean my teeth, not in a house, but in the public restroom sink. Break out my razor and meticulously start to shave, people come in as I’m in the mix. Some of them look at me with pity while others stare at me like I’m a piece of shit. The rumble from my belly alerts me that I need food. Have no change in my pockets so what am I supposed to do? Go look for some work, but the boss is got his crew. Now my hunger pains are becoming more intense, now im thinking how can I make $10 out of 15 cents. Oh well it looks like somebody’s gotta get got. It may be the pastor of ya church or a muthaf***** cop…
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i can do it myself We’ve known each other for ten years now, he was one of Bermuda’s best boxers, but that was a long time ago. We’ve been blending our cultures and learning from each other for years. We would go fishing at Admiralty Park, but we found out we were using the wrong bait. Just the other day, he got up and did his own roof ! He’s 83 you know! His great grandma was 102 and used to walk twelve miles every day, and I think that taught him if you want something done and you can do it yourself, do it yourself !
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HUMANS OF BERMUDA I have been in Bermuda for three years, but have been back and forth for eight. My mother is of Ghanaian descent, but I was born in the UK. As a religious person, I have always been involved in the church, and I met my wife there. She wanted me to move to Bermuda, but I didn’t understand why until I came to visit. I realised how amazing this place is, and we moved December 8, 2015. I originally worked at a diverse organization in Bermuda, so I quickly became well connected to people on the island. I have enjoyed being able to blend the cultures of the UK, Ghana, and now Bermuda into my fashion business.
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It all sounds cheesy, but we all need to learn how to take a minute to see that there is so much joy in life. I’ve been in Bermuda for five years, and have fallen madly in love with it. Since moving, I’ve developed anxiety for flying. However, I can’t avoid flights with my family living in Scotland. I didn’t want to use medication for it, so I started incorporating yoga and wellness, taking care of myself, and making time to just breathe into my life. Last year I took 22 flights and never had a panic attack. It all sounds cheesy, but we all need to learn how to take a minute to see that there is so much joy in life and we are all so lucky to be here.
I met my wife in an English church. She wanted me to move to Bermuda, but I didn’t understand why until I came to visit.
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devoted mother My kids are my motivation. I am a mother of five-three boys and two girls-and they are my drive. I love my family, boyfriend, and all those around me. You see, Bermuda is a beautiful and privileged country, but I think Bermudians take it all for granted. “Together we stand, but divided we fall�, and we, as a nation have been divided for so long. I want people to come together, stand together, and support each other.
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One of my main concerns is the health of our Bermudian women. We don’t take care of our bodies, we don’t know our bodies, and we don’t listen to our bodies. I have been fighting cancer for many years, but I have gotten to know my body and know to get checked when I feel something is wrong. When it comes to our health, we are the first ones to know if there is a problem, but only if we take the time to listen to our bodies. I don’t like that people talk badly about the care we get at the hospital here; doctors are doctors no matter where you are, and they are all human-and sometimes humans make mistakes.
the advocate
I am originally from the Philippines, but I worked in Saudi Arabia before moving here. I worked as a waiter there too, but it was very strict. I wasn’t allowed to speak directly to the women. It’s simpler here. Bermuda is quiet and peaceful, and the view of the ocean is refreshing and relaxing. I met my wife in Bermuda! She is from the Philippines as well, but we didn’t know each other before moving here. We got married in 2012, and in 2014 we started our family with a baby boy. He is five years old now.
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My children are my inspiration. Watching them begin to succeed in life, finishing school and starting to secure employment has been a wonderful experience for me. I am inspired by my family and the support system I have both at home and work, as both are equally important for your wellbeing. I like to keep the family together; we have lots of family dinners and use any celebration as an excuse to get everyone together. I love to read, travel and I like to take advantage of every moment-and I try my best not to sweat the small stuff.
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the early riser
I believe the way you set your morning sets up your entire day.
A lot of people don’t know I am an early riser. Every morning, I wake up at 4.30am because at that time the sun isn’t up, it is peaceful and I want to capitalise on that. You know what they say, the early bird gets the worm! I believe the way you start your morning sets up your entire day and it has a lot to do with productivity. Every second counts and I want to spend them doing the things that I love, which is I expressing my emotions and values through my craft-video production and editing.
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The Commemorative Bermuda Monetary Authority
50th Anniversary Coin Take home a Special piece of History
The Bermuda Monetary Authority (BMA) was established in February 1969. Since then, the Authority has evolved to meet the changing needs in the financial sector. Today its main roles include supervising, regulating and inspecting financial institutions operating in the jurisdiction and it also issues Bermuda’s national currency. In 2019, we are delighted to celebrate the 50th Anniversary of the BMA with a special Commemorative Coin. Crafted into the shape of a triangle, the design features a compass rose and depicts the main islands which makes up the Bermudian archipelago. Our banknotes and commemorative coins are popular items for both collectors and people who have visited our islands. They are unique gifts and perfect keepsakes of Bermuda. Discover for yourself the beautiful range of coins and banknotes produced for Bermuda and take home a special piece of history. The Authority’s Commemorative Coin products are a popular collectors’ items.
Available for sale at Bermuda Monetary Authority BMA House, 43 Victoria Street, Hamilton HM12, Bermuda Tel: (441)295-5278 Email: currency@bma.bm Website: www.bma.bm Monday-Friday 9:00am-4:00pm
brave heart
When my daughter was born I felt this enormous pressure to live more honestly, more open. And the greatest part of me that I stowed away was my drawing and painting, something I’ve loved and done all my life. I’ve always been afraid of people’s criticism, and had an overwhelming fear that I just was not good enough. But face to face with this beautiful girl who loved me so completely made me brave. And eventually I started showing my work, and people seemed to like it and understand what I was trying to get across. I’m still scared, full of fear and self-doubt but instead of letting those feelings hold me back I use them to make me better. And now that I have two beautiful faces staring up at me, maybe they will feel a little bit brave and show themselves bit by bit to the world after watching their mom.
Face to face with this beautiful girl who loved me so completely made me brave. I believe that anything you grow should be able to be used, so in my small garden at home, there are vegetables and herbs. I came to town to pick up this plant for a job. I’m not familiar with this type of plant, but I’m going to get some soil and plant it today. I work at the Bermuda Botanical Gardens as a gardener and I love what I do. That’s important because it means you’ll do your best quality of work. I believe that anything you grow should be able to be used, so in my small garden at home, there are vegetables and herbs. When I was younger I used to work at the plant nurseries. I have been around gardening my entire life.
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#humanswhoprotect
The first thing I had to come to grips with when I became a youth coach is that it was my responsibility to protect them.
Football built my self-esteem. It’s a result of hard work, sacrifice and dedication. I try to use my sport to help give the children a good foundation; teach them the importance of not just playing for yourself. Through life we learn the importance of sharing, giving and the rewards that it brings. The first thing I had to come to grips with when I became a youth coach is that it was my responsibility to protect them. The only way I can do that is by being honest with myself as to what I’ve been through. I didn’t leave home to reveal, it just came out. I knew it was someone in the community. It’s a possibility he could be doing that to another child and I felt guilty. Here I am, a youth coach, and me knowing what I know and my silence was eating me more. Things are better now. I’m glad I’ve done it. I have no shame. It’s my responsibility as a coach to protect the children, to inspire them. Martin Luther King said that we have to ask for forgiveness for the silence of the good people. I don’t want to be one of the silent, good people. If you can’t use your life to make it easier for those coming from behind, what are you living for? I want to dedicate myself; I want to learn as much as I can. I want to communicate to children through their world, which is technology. I’m tired of people saying there’s too much iPad. It’s challenging. That’s where I have to go. Now I’m looking to further myself into animation. I don’t keep no trophies, no record of my winnings. I just try to do good.”
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HUMANS OF BERMUDA
#humanswholove Family is one of the most important aspects of my life. My role models and my happiest moments all come from within my home. They are the foundation for how you share love and develop interests. My mom’s compassion, involvement in the church and her passion for helping people raised me to be a kindhearted, passionate and religious member of the community. I remember gathering in my mother’s kitchen, as a little girl, to cook food for those who could not feed themselves. Now, I volunteer with Feeding of the Homeless Programme. My church does a lot to help people, but what we cannot do for others we try to do in love. There’s just so much we can do to help. When I was about 22, I started doing missionary work all over the world. Some of the most heartbreaking places I have travelled are Vietnam and India. Regardless of how these places make me feel, I do it because I care about the treatment of others, specifically the welfare of children, seniors and animals. That has been one of my biggest struggles; learning to love those who have hurt others. There have been hard moments in my life—when my brother was murdered, it gave me peace when his murderer was found dead; an eye for an eye. My work with the Treatment of Offenders Board has shown me we can’t go through life with hate in our hearts. Everyone deserves kindness and forgiveness.
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BEEN THERE, DONE THAT
UH OH. Tia SMITH
HUMANS of BERMUDA When researching this article, I tasked myself with being true to the intent of the original series, being authentic to my audience whilst remembering to never lose my voice. What I soon realised is that is extremely hard! The candy-coated version of yourself — the you, you wish you were — presents better. I looked at the most common questions asked by Brandon Stanton, the author of Humans of New York, and chose the one that would the hardest to answer. Here’s my story: What are you most afraid of right now? Donald Trump, climate change and the lack of world peace is what I should answer as the woke social justice warrior that I should be. But as an actual flawed and inherently selfish human being, who is currently addicted to The Voice (which my seven-year-old son calls “your rubbish TV” — thanks hubby!), the truest answer is probably losing my iPhone charger when I have a battery life of 15 per cent. Now don’t get me wrong, my first answer isn’t technically false. The wide world we live in is beset with so many socio-economic issues for people of colour. Donald Trump and his politics are not the disease but a symptom of an unequal world. Climate change is an issue that affects everyone, flora and fauna, and is one that is quickly approaching its “do something or for ever suffer the consequences” stage of which said consequence is utter annihilation (well, that escalated fast). And yes, world peace is something both I and various pageant contestants can agree is sorely needed. But … my life is on my phone! My audiobooks, my Kindle books, my ComiXology subscription, my Apple music, Reddit …. these are things I cannot, nay, I refuse to live without. Honestly, I, like many others, am incapable of being productive without
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also being distracted. I am obsessed, addicted and quite possibly crazily overdependent on reading in any form. Any form. Like nuts. I read more than 10 to 15 books a week, largely because of the easy access to Audible and Kindle (and my book budget that my husband and I agreed would be outside regular spending constraints…). And how can one even BE without easy access to their life’s soundtrack? Sad? Pop on Sara Bareilles. Sartorial? Pop on The Kinks. Need a life lesson? Pop on The Gambler. Happy with life? Pop on Michael Bublé. Romantic? Pop on Michael Bublé. What I am trying to say is that I lurve Michael Bublé. Wait, no, that wasn’t what I was trying to say. What I was actually trying to say is that I am a multifaceted human who is afraid for the world I live in and that my kids have to grow up in. I am also someone who is insular and focused on myself. But I can be both — there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. Perhaps there is something wrong with my taste in music … but that’s beside the point. What I am not afraid of is living and doing my part, no matter how small, to alleviate at least some of my fears. So I will call out institutionalised racism and I will recycle and I will be as kind as possible to my fellow man. But most of all, I will stock up on chargers! n
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