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George Jessica Prince Mbuso Jane Solly Joana Aleta Samora Sam Thania

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www.n3tc.co.za

The N3 . . . more than a road.

Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 04

Touching Lives . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 06

George Forder . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 08

Jessica Dreamtime. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18

Prince Moloi and Mbuso Ndaba . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32

Solly Nhlapo . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56

Joana Selebi and Aleta Selebi . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 68

Samora Ngcaweni . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 80

Sam Motshabi . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 92

Thania Dhoogra-Chetty. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 104

Acknowledgements. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 126

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Jane MacKenzie . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44

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There are only two ways to live your life. One is a though nothing is a miracle.

The other is as if everything is.

Albert Einstein

Jemma van Wyk

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Five million motorists travel the N3 each year. Usually, they are focussed on their destination with little attention given to what might be happening beside the road. Fortunately, for the communities along the route, N3TC does pay attention, takes notice and responds to their needs. If you slow down and explore just a little, you will be astonished at how many people know exactly who N3TC are and are involved in the 75 projects they fund.

From natural heritage to social issues, community events and empowerment

existing initiatives to do what they already do with passion and local knowledge means resources are put to the best use possible. Touching Lives.

More lives than you can imagine.

Neil Tolmie CEO of N3TC comments “In this edition of Heroes we reflect on some of the exceptional individuals involved with N3TC. These are individuals who go beyond the call of duty in helping those in need.

Often these people don't seek the limelight and their Susan van Zuilekom

selfless actions and contributions go unrecognised.

However, we are delighted to share some of the remarkable stories of the people we have the privilege of working with.�

Often it is small moments which make a trip memorable - the unexpected offer of help, the surprise view or an interesting conversation. South Africa is home to many remarkable characters, some of whom we share with you in these pages. Savour them and remember to head off the beaten track every once in a while.

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introduction

projects, N3Toll Concession has had a big impact in many lives. Supporting

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sustaining

N3TC has a firm commitment to supporting the communities through which the N3 Toll Route traverses.

Its Touching Lives Corporate Social Investment (CSI) Programme spans four provinces and supports more than 70 community-based projects annually. N3TC's

encouraging

CSI Programme directly touches more than 69 000 lives in any given year, which should leave a legacy that will last well into the future.

The Programme focuses on twelve core areas that include education, environment, tourism, job creation, road safety, child welfare and heritage, amongst others. It is the intention of the Programme to touch lives meaningfully with sustainability being the

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key to its success.

touching lives

nuturing

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Susan van Zuilekom

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George Forder

George Forder

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Freedom is addictive.

Childhood is forever.

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racer, teacher, cat lover and killer croquet player.

Until he died, he shared a very creative life with wife Penny, sons Axl and Liam, the cats and lots of

George Forder

George Forder was an interesting guy. Adventure

friends.

Growing up in Estcourt he learned to play croquet on his parent's front lawn.

His three much older sisters adored and indulged him his entire life and

and then when he was little. Winning became a habit because at croquet parties held throughout his life (even when the lawn was no longer level), he always won!

George trained as a Physical Education and English teacher (a curious combination which well illustrates the multi-facetted nature of the man) and taught at high schools for a number of

George used every opportunity to

years. Disappointed by the mainstream

mentor and teach young people.

opportunity to mentor and teach young

education system, George used every

people about the things he believed were really important. His job as an Event Organiser neatly combined all these passions – teaching, sport and teamwork.

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a creative life

perhaps allowed him to win every now

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He relished organising trails for, and spending time with, students and observing how much they changed in just 10 George Forder

days - discovering how much was possible and how much stronger they really were than they realised. “He was so generous with his time,” remembers Penny, “he would become entirely immersed in helping the boys with their homework or sharing information with Kristel and Travis. He never said no.” Kristel Andrews and Travis Hesom have continued to run the business George set up.

Kristel comments “George was more than just a mentor to me, he became my second dad.

He took me under his wing and taught me everything that I know about the eventing world. The main thing is to always keep calm, to appear to know what you are doing - this makes everyone else happy. Never be afraid to work hard but most importantly, always have fun. He also taught me that if you place yourself around positive people you gain positive energy.”

He didn't fret when challenges came up, He was so generous with his time.

I think he relished them!

George had been collaborating with N3TC on events for the past six years – The Dirty Harry, Karkloof Adventure Quest, Meals on Wheels in Heidelberg and Arthur Cresswell Memorial

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Marathon in Ladysmith. “What a joy it

Although he was a fanatical Adventure Racer, and won many

was to work with George,” says Andy

events, the winning was not as important to him, as were the

Visser, Marketing Manager of N3TC. “I

aspects of personal challenge and striving for excellence. Penny

just knew he would have everything under

recalls “he ran the five-day Giant's Cup hiking trail in one day, zooming

control and have arranged a superb event.

past the surprised walkers. This was a spur of the moment decision one

He didn't fret when challenges came up, I

Saturday morning, just for fun!” He loved the tough Swazi Extreme

think he relished them! He was fun to be

event – a 250km race navigating across mountains and rivers.

around and always had wonderful words of

George was a high energy individual who used his interaction with

wisdom to share. He was one of a kind.”

nature to balance himself.

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his way to an event in March 2012.

There can be no doubt that he crammed as much as he possibly could have into his life - waking each day

George Forder

George was killed in a car accident on

excited about the possibility of adventure, playing his music at top

he was a big kid!

volume, entertaining friends and truly

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living life out loud. “He was a big kid, really,” laughs Penny. “He did some very dangerous things. However at the same time, he was very cautious. He'd never let a kid without a helmet enter a mountain bike race and he took all the safety precautions seriously at whatever sport he was doing. Once we did the Dusi Canoe Marathon together – I was absolutely terrified, but he was in his element.” His friends in the multi-sport world describe his infectious passion, boundless enthusiasm, charisma, flair and commitment. What a man.

George could juggle 10 things at the same time with apparent ease.

Sometimes right on the edge, but somehow he managed to make it look easy and graceful.

Family dinners when George decided to cook were always a surprise. He loved to experiment and was a great

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George Forder proponent of the 'one dish dinner'.

“Often we had no idea at all what the green gloop presented to us at table was,”

He was always the entertainer and the life and soul of the party.

laughs Penny. “He would have made

These glimpses of George's

sure it was nutritionally balanced with meat and veg and carbohydrates, then

more than a traditional lamb roast for Sunday lunch with family

exuberant world outlive him

blended it or popped in the microwave.

and friends (preferably cooked by Penny). He was always the

The boys managed by adding lots of

entertainer and life and soul of the party.

to inspire others.

tomato sauce, but sometimes we were defeated and simply couldn't eat it!” He

Writing was another of his passions. “I think he was aiming to retire

often made up exciting stories to go

and write one day” says Penny pensively. He entertained the

with his inventions and gave them crazy

Adventure Racer fraternity with tales of his alter ego 'The Baron'

names like Mexican Whispeky or Indian

and late at night wrote stories of life, love, dreams, adventures and

Tarantelato to help the nutrients go

the universe on his blog. These glimpses of George's exuberant

down. George believed you eat to live

world outlive him to inspire others.

and didn't have time to fuss about style

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in cooking. As much as he enjoyed his

Life is about making the most of every moment. George had a

cooking adventures, he loved nothing

grand time on our planet.

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Simon Joubert

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Jessica Dreamtime

Jessica Dreamtime

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If you think you are too small to make a difference, try sleeping in the same room as a mosquito.

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Jessica Dreamtime

In 2006 there was talk of 'a girl from the Karkloof who would make the perfect Bug'. Discovered one day at Umgeni Valley, the bells strung from the bottom of her bag tinkling merrily as she walked, it was obvious that she would weave magic wherever she went and in no time she was an integral part of the Midlands Meander Association Education Project (MMAEP), whose facilitators had all become known as 'Bugs'.

Jessica Dreamtime is a bit of a Gypsy.

The fact that the Midlands Meander Association Education Project has

a miracle. In fact, she has attempted to leave a number of times, but has not succeeded. The magic draws her back.

Nowadays, Jessica heads up the Project. “Yes, I know I have wandered off occasionally,” she says grinning, “but

... a charming cottage in the Karkloof hills

the MMAEP culture of flexibility, spontaneity and organic growth is very special - irresistible really. Where else do

surrounded by birds and butterflies

you have the opportunity to make dreams come true?”

Jessica is ensconced in a charming cottage in the Karkloof hills surrounded by birds and butterflies, with her lively son Skye, hero dog Thunder and two much loved cats – King Toby and Inca.

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weave magic

managed to keep her for many years is

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She is quite determined that she has found home and her days of wanderlust are over. “They are going to have to dig me out of here!” she laughs, “besides, there are so many adventures to be had close by - I climb the hill or stroll through the forest every day and every time it is different and special.” She would however still like to explore a little more of Africa, Jessica Dreamtime

preferably using public transport. “You get to meet such interesting people on buses and have incredible conversations that you wouldn't otherwise have.”

During past adventures north of the border she has cycled past fresh lion prints in Zimbabwe; explored Ghana in very wonky buses, visiting old slavery castles and drumming with the locals; in Zambia attended a full moon harvest festival with ten African chiefs and six presidents; sneaked across the border into Angola simply to touch Angolan soil; camped on mountain tops in Lesotho during thunderstorms; was shocked on a bus trip in Botswana that left someone behind who took too long in the loo and spent 5 hours in Namibia having her hair braided and being presented with a live chicken afterwards! “Oh, and once I climbed into a big Baobab and watched the sunset – that was fantastic.” Jessica

This is true nation building small but effective.

really loves sunsets, and sunrises and moonlit skies too.

In the Midlands, she spends a lot of time building community. “This is

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something I really value in the MMAEP.

The team of Bugs has also evolved, each one adding new skills and

The relationships we have built are

a touch of their own magic to the collective melting pot. Jessica

incredible - this is true nation building –

brings her philosophy of whole-person education based on Rudolf

small, but effective. Everyone from

Steiner's Head, Heart, Hands approach, which acknowledges that

teachers to learners and the MMAEP team

we are also emotional beings and not just mental and physical

are working hard at bringing out the

ones. “The rewards of this approach are watching teachers now taking

treasure in one another. It has been an

the lead, inspired to study further and confidently helping one another. I

incredible privilege to observe lives and

think that we have helped them realise their own potential and start to

how outlooks change over the years.”

live it.”

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An important part of the MMAEP programme is Food Gardening,

about. There are many flourishing gardens in the Midlands now,”Schools are starting to save and share seeds, one garden has 24 types of herbs growing and

go the extra mile

many add fresh food to the school lunches

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every day” she says proudly.

Jessica Dreamtime

something else Jessica is passionate

Nathi Majola, principal of Carshalton School confirms this “Jess has been very influential in ensuring that Carshalton community start their own vegetable gardens. She was working with our school and when I asked her if she could accommodate the community in this programme, she did not hesitate. She introduced permaculture methods and ways to control waste by making compost.

The community bought the idea. She encouraged them to go back and use old methods used by their forefathers. It was a great learning experience. The children were able to take information they have learnt at school back home and encourage their parents to start their own vegetable gardens too. I have found working with Jess very encouraging, she is so dedicated, committed and always willing to go an extra mile in whatever she is doing. I am honoured to work with her.”

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Jessica Dreamtime

Gardening is the most important thing in life it is spiritual and creative.

Jessica believes bees set the best example of what community should be.

When Jessica feels stressed by the multiple demands of parenting, report writing, staff management and fundraising she heads for her own garden to do a bit of weeding.

sort out everything you tell them”. Her attraction to bees goes

“Gardening is the most important thing in

beyond the delicious autumn honey and the pollination services

life – it is spiritual and creative, connects

they provide. Jessica believes bees set the best example of what

us to the earth and teaches us to value our

community should be.

food. It is astonishing how much one can

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produce in a small space” Other times

The Midlands is very fortunate to have been able to entice Jessica

she talks to her bees. “According to

to grow strong and stable roots, enabling her in turn to nurture the

bee-legend, they are our sisters and will

entire community with love, food, fun and wisdom.

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Leon Pelser

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Prince and Mbuso

Sifunde okuningi ebesingakwazi ngaphambilini. Manje sekumele sibambisane ngolwazi.

Prince Mbuso and

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“Aiee, these boys mustn't leave Van Reenen. We need them. They taught me all about computers, something I did not know before,” says Thembi Moloi, the cheerful assistant at the Sweet Shop

The Van Reenen Info Centre is about a whole lot more than tourism. Prince Moloi and Mbuso Ndaba who run the

Prince and Mbuso

beside the garage.

office, have been enrolled in a computer course (sponsored by N3TC) for the past year and are sharing their newly acquired skills with the locals. They epitomise a generosity of spirit which

Friday afternoons, learners from nearby schools head to the centre to learn how to use search engines, send emails and create documents. “Just knowing what a computer does, is helpful.” says Prince, “now the kids really love computers and

"These boys must not leave Van Reenen.

We need them".

want to stay the whole day. Even I did not know how to touch a lap top a few years ago, now it is so useful.”

On a drive around Entokozweni township, Mbuso points out a couple of sites where he and Prince are keen to set up an internet café. He says earnestly, “We'd like to offer photocopying

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generosity

seems to abound in the village. On

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and faxing too as there is nowhere in Van Reenen that the community can get these services” he adds. He has already done some research into possibilities of funding assistance. Despite being newcomers to the world of social media and technology, they already have plans to start a Facebook page for Van Reenen and open a Twitter account too – “People are especially interested in the weather, so we could share that info.”

At the Tourism Indaba this year, they were astonished at how much is happening in Africa in the tourism arena and Prince and Mbuso

enjoyed the networking opportunities – absorbing a little of Cape Town, Johannesburg and Zimbabwe too as they explored the huge array of exhibits. To their surprise, they discovered that the challenges of sustainability and sponsorship are universal.

They make a good team, complimenting one another's strengths and

Both young men grew up in the area and

weaknesses.

are very proud to be able to contribute to their community now as Managers of the Tourism Association. They make a good team, complimenting one another's strengths and weaknesses.

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Both of them love being outdoors in the

Church, where Prince is determined he will be married. “We have

'refreshing air', and particularly going on

learnt about many things we didn't know before and are trying to teach

walks down to see the Bushman

others.” Mbuso's cousin, Bonginkosi, is a local bird guide who has

paintings in a rock overhang on the edge

really inspired them and taught them a lot about the natural

of the village. “This is real history and

environment. “In the past tourism was seen as a 'white thing', but we

through learning about this art, I have

are working hard to change that. Now everyone can see that tourism

become more interested in history.”

has made a difference and they can gain something by supporting

Another favourite spot is the Little

tourism”, Mbuso adds.

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This year, they have had to take on the organising of the multi-cultural events which mentor Elsa Human initiated. As there are limited opportunities for youth activities in the area, they feel

community effort

Soccer tournament went well, despite

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the fact that a major partner pulled out at the last moment, meaning they had to find another one quickly. Both Mbuso and Prince have soccer teams

Prince and Mbuso

this is very important. The Annual

which they help train – 'Van Reenen Magic' and 'Powerboys'. Ballroom dancing is popular with some of the youth who practice regularly in the community hall and will participate in the Annual Yenza Cultural Festival. “We partner with the municipality for the festival, they do things so slowly it can be frustrating, we have to ensure they deliver!” quips Prince. The Over the Edge mountain bike race, which brings many cyclists to the area, takes place in October and they are up for the challenge. Apparently, it gets a little hectic with late entries at the start, but the guys are certain that all will go well – particularly because of the combined community effort. Local landowner and member of the Van Reenen Tourism Committee, Lew Harris, has marked the trail, Green Lantern

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Prince and Mbuso

As there are limited opportunities for youth activities in the area, they feel this provides the venue for the start and

is very important.

finish, the Tourism Association is right

Van Reenen's two young stars are certain to make a success of the ventures they dream of.

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behind them and N3TC sponsorship is a great help too, of course.

Although they are happy in Van Reenen, broader horizons beckon “sometimes

beans). How about two guesthouses? One tucked into the hillside

you need changes in life”. They have

where Mbuso's family live, with views across the plains and fresh

dreams of owning a guesthouse in the

food from the garden, and another in the vibrant township house

area decorated in local cultural style,

Prince shares with his mother. Why not a funky little internet café

serving traditional food – particularly

too? Anything is possible. With the natural beauty of the area,

their favourites - isijingi (mashed

the friendliness of the people and deep roots in hospitality, Van

pumpkin and mielie meal) and ujeqe

Reenen's two young stars are certain to make a success of the

nobhontshisi (steamed bread and

ventures they dream of.

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Susan van Zuilekom

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Jane Jane MacKenzie

MacKenzie

If we work together, we can make a difference in the lives of ordinary people.

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Many great stories begin with 'It was on a dark and stormy night…' and this tale begins in similar fashion. Caitlin MacKenzie (Jane's daughter) tells of

we had booked to stay at Oban Farm Rock House, until we hit the bumpy dirt road in the dark in our low slung urban Chrysler.

We wondered if we'd make it, so were thrilled when we saw the farmhouse lights.

Then mum sat up until 2 in the morning dreaming up schemes with Kim, and Oban has been home from home ever since.”

There can be no doubt that the Beads of Hope project run by Jane McKenzie and her partner Kim Strubenn has

Then mum sat up until 2 in the morning

made a big impact in Van Reenen. “ln 2010 we bought R100 000 worth of beadwork from the women in

dreaming up schemes with Kim,

Enthokozweni” says Jane with obvious

and Oban Farm Rock and been

without education, many crafters are

delight. “Experience has shown that

unable to cost products correctly which means they seldom make any actual

home from home ever since.

money. Kim and I work on providing that expertise. Currently we supply the beads and pay for the work but in future we intend to sell beads to the community and then buy back the finished product.

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“We'd left Jo'burg late and were pleased

providing expertise

their first visit to Van Reenen in 2004.

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In 2003 Jane launched her African Beadwork business and was astonished when her first order was for R35 000 worth of beaded spoons. “I had to source from all over and realised then that there was an opportunity to make a real difference in marginalised communities.” Kim and her husband Keir understood how impoverished the community in and around

Jane MacKenzie

Van Reenen was and how few opportunities there were. A perfect partnership was born.

Many years ago, in Johannesburg, the

We all have a unique fingerprint -

child of Jane's domestic worker was

a special place on earth.

turned away from the clinic with her 3 month old baby and told “go, we have no medicine”. Her baby died in her arms on the way home. This horror galvanised

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Jane who believes that we all have a

evolved into a picture of light and laughter as someone bought an

unique fingerprint – a special place on

angel… So Beads of Hope was born, and the tag line - Be and

earth. It became obvious to her that

Angel, Buy an Angel, Feed an Angel. Kim sent out word into the

this was part of a chain of family

community asking - who would like to receive beading training?

dysfunction. Often mothers were not at

They were overwhelmed at the response and humbled by the

home looking after their children

enthusiasm, realising the enormity of the need in Van Reenen.

because they had to find work. In her

Jane recalls one woman crying when she arrived at her home

anger, she had a vision of women in

“Mama, I have been sick and praying. Here you come and bring us

dark huts, surrounded by empty plates

work”. Over the past years 260 women (and a few men) have been

and hungry, crying children. This soon

trained to make angels.

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“Our intention was not to give hand-outs, it was about changing lives and attitudes.”

This sort of upliftment fitted perfectly into the N3TC Touching Lives campaign and together they planned a Christmas Campaign to get the ball rolling in 2004 and N3TC have continued to support

Dudu Hlongwane is one of the project group leaders. She has nine dependants and is able to make five angels a day in-between taking care of everyone. The income earned from

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Beads of Hope ever since.

these angels makes a substantial

upliftment

difference to the economic wellbeing of the family. “ngiyathanda, ngiyajabula futhi” she says with a grin, adding that she really likes to be able to work at home and keep an eye on the kids. She also makes pinafores, as her grandmother taught her, which she sells in the community. Kim adds “Dudu is a star, I couldn't do this without her. She keeps records of the beads distributed, who has made what, and is my link to Enthokozweni.

Jane's goal is to sell one million angels a year. Never one to give up, she is absolutely determined to make this happen. Her new website has a

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I am happy to do as much as I can to make this work.

No only does Jane believe in miracles, she is working to make them happen.

shopping cart and invites purchasers to tell their “Angel Stories”. Who has done something extra special for you?

The best stories will receive the monthly Angel Award. Not only does Jane believe in miracles, she is working to make them happen. Despite her

platform to share all the positive messages and generate as much

apprehension about social media, Jane

business as possible.”

is learning how to use Twitter,

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Pinboards, YouTube and online crowd

She believes that if we all work together – this project can grow

funding forums. “Sometimes someone

exponentially. “I'm happy to do as much as I can to make this work and

can just smile at you and change your

feel pretty sure that it will. Who has more faith – the person praying for

day” she says, “So we need to create a

rain or the one ploughing the field?” Jane has faith.

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Solly Solly Nhlapo

Nhlapo

Motho ke motho ka batho.

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It's all about football. Despite working very hard to keep the N3 motorway in tip-top condition, the chaps on the Trimalents team talk about 'the game' at every opportunity - Chiefs' form, who Sundowns have just bought and Bafana's new coach.

“I believe it is important to make a team, to bring the group together to improve productivity and get the job done well” says Solly Nhlapo, owner of Trimalents

Harrismith. He understands that everyone loves soccer and that it is a good way to keep spirits high. With this in mind, he came up with the idea of a Four times

a year, teams from all the N3 Road Contractor crews gather for a tournament. Each company donates

To bring the group together to improve

R2500 which goes to a different local charity each time and the winners take home the honour of champions. There

productivity and get the job done well.

is always a good party to celebrate – once again an important way to build a team.

Solly, has always been fascinated by civil engineering. He worked for the QwaQwa municipality for a number of years, but found it really frustrating and uninteresting. “I had to beg them to do

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team work

Contractors' Charity Cup.

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Road Construction and Maintenance in

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their work. It was so difficult to improve my skills there, so I left.” During the early 1990's he did a road building course through CSIR and started repairing guardrails as a sub-contractor. “Yo, it was so boring, but I kept going, working three days a week or sometimes for a whole month without a break”. With a busy construction yard, now crammed with equipment, vehicles and materials, it is hard to believe that when Solly first met N3TC in 2000 things were a lot

He recalls:“I had no tools, no bakkie, it was hard in the beginning. I used to hire my

He emphasises the importance of

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different.

his relationship with N3TC,

friend's bakkie and had only five people on my team.” He emphasises the importance of his relationship with

his nephews to run his office and a couple of other family

N3TC, the fact that they keep their

members as supervisors. His son, Thabang, is studying Civil

promises, keep investing in the

Engineering in Bloemfontein and spends his holidays in the yard

contractors and care about

learning the ropes. “He must not leave this business,” say Solly “he

communities. “My life has changed a lot,

can take over from me”. His younger son is still at school in

serious. Also my family's life and the

Harrismith, but Solly has hopes of him following too. Solly is

families of my workers have changed.”

determined that his business can grow to include more people.

A happy childhood surrounded by

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“Hard work and concentration are important. We can't make mistakes.”

siblings in Bethlehem and QwaQwa

Communication is the best way to build a business, he reckons –

instilled the importance of family. They

speak slowly and clearly, listen and learn. Solly regularly meets

are still close and Solly employs two of

with his teams to discuss work, problems they may have come

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averse to picking up a shovel and getting stuck in himself. “I was a road worker before, so I know exactly how to do the job. I like to be close to the guys and show them we are in this together.” This inclusive attitude has paid dividends as some employees have stayed with him for 10 or 12 years despite the fact that contracts are renewed annually. Skills development is also important: “We do many short courses to improve skills.

Concrete work, first aid and others, this keeps everyone interested. N3TC have invested a lot in the contractors.” Solly realises that he can't be around at every

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improving skills

across, and ways to improve. He is not

moment of every day, so two of his team are to attend a course in Bloemfotein to upgrade their Management of Intensive Labour skills to NQF level 5. Michael Ntisa who has worked with Solly for many years says thoughtfully, while paging through a copy of Touching Lives during lunch break, “I like what these guys are doing for people.”

The job is not without it's challenges, but Solly thrives on them. On the Trimalents section from Van Reenen to Warden, erosion control on the banks is an issue, but solutions are found to deal with it. Samora Ngcaweni, N3TC

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you always need people and then things are easy.

You can become a big person, but only with others.

Route Maintenance Superintendent comments “In the construction world you will find very few honest contractors and Trimalents is definitely one of them."

Solly, a Kaizer Chiefs and Barcelona fan loves nothing better than a weekend afternoon in front of the big screen.

Being so busy, he doesn't get to travel

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Solly Nhlapo

Even if you have millions of rands,

he even tried out for QwaQwa Stars.“I remember the Umtata Bucks scout coming to our school as well”, he smiles, “but our headmaster would not let him talk to us, he said these are Free State Stars, you can't take them!”

to matches much anymore, although he

He has made his own fortune now, with a solid and thriving

did make sure to fit in a couple of

business. Ever the team player he concludes: “You can become a

games in Bloemfontein during the

big person, but only with others. You can't achieve anything on your

World Cup in 2010. When he was a

own. Even if you have millions of rands, you always need people and

boy he was crazy about the game, and

then things are easy.”

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Joana Aleta

Mphe mphe eya lapisa motho o kgonwa ke sa hae.

Joana and Aleta

and

(Work is better than charity)

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These days, the little village of Vêrkykerskop is rather hip, but in the generations-old sheep and cattle farming community surrounding the village probably little has really changed since Joana Selebi grew up there 60 years ago.

Now Joana and her daughter Aleta call Makgolokoeng home. With little formal schooling, they still practice skills learnt from mothers and grandmothers – farming with cows, growing food, weaving grass mats and making

in 1995, her husband built a home from stone and thatch, all materials gathered from the surrounding hills.

This little building is still in use alongside the rest of the extended

Joana is adamant that her life has been great, but emphasises the difference

homestead built of traditional mud bricks and is a favourite refuge on a hot summer's day.

Joana recalls that the weather was

learning handicrafts has made.

much better when she was growing up and more predictable. “Now it is not right. When it was winter it was winter.

When it rained we still went without clothing because it was warm. Now it is just changing all the time.” Traditional

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learning...

fuel the stove. When Joana first arrived

Joana and Aleta

mapharwa (cow dung fuel patties) to

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food is still a favourite, bringing memories of the old days – maqebelekwane (steamed bread) with tea and mnqushu (samp and beans). With 20 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren, there are certainly are many mouths to feed on family occasions.

They are very happy in Makgolokoeng “we know this place now. Abatho – we live well together and help each other, the spirit of 'ubuntu' is here.” In 2009 a family member Sibongile Miya, told them about the Tsa Lapeng (translated from

There was no going backwards, one simply had to look ahead.

Joana and Aleta

Sotho as to “work from home”) project founded by Rheola van den Bosch.

As they were living off their meagre pension and child care grants, they

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decided to join the group and add

Aleta spent many years working in Johannesburg. “whoe! It was

craftwork to their other skills. Joana is

fantastic, I liked that life” She had a traditional Sotho wedding,

adamant that her life has been great but

dressed in brown and gold shwe shwe, in Duduza Township in

emphasises the difference learning

Springs. During the difficult time after her husband died in 2008

handcrafts has made. “It makes you feel

she realised that there was no going backwards, one simply had to

proud to see the beautiful finished

look ahead. She moved down to Moholokoeng to be with her

product.” Rheola concurs “I have

children and parents. Now she would like to start a business

observed the womens' self-confidence

making traditional attire for weddings, shwe-shwe skirts,

grow. So much so that a few who never

Christmas dresses and doing alterations. “There is a need for these

thought they would find mainstream jobs

things in our community. I am prepared to learn more and go far with

have been able to.”

this plan.” Fortunately, for her, N3TC has funded a number of

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industrial sewing machines for the project and workshops are underway to teach sewing skills. Over the years Rheola has shared so many different skills with them – from fabric painting to embroidery, decoupage, beading and knitting - so there is a good possibility of Aleta's dream coming to fruition.

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before they became involved with Tsa Lapeng – Aleta shows off an embroidered table cloth and Joana unfurls a grass mat used to sit on when they have many visitors. “I would like to make more mats, but the place for the grass is far and dangerous.”

Despite the fact that there is no electricity or running water, life is

Joana and Aleta

simple but good

These women were creative anyway,

simple but good. The spring rains have meant that potatoes, mielies, beetroot and spinach have been planted. Ash from the fires made from the mapharwa is spread on the field as fertilizer. The herd of 10 cows have produced five small calves. They are kept safe in the farmyard, near Spot the dog, until they are old enough to wander in the hills with their mothers. Peach trees are a feature of most homesteads in the area, bearing well during Summer. The excess crop is bottled in syrup to enjoy

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keep an eye on the children, chickens and cows. later in the season. Working from home means they can keep an eye on

. . . it is little wonder that the women on the Tse Lapeng group have such positive spirits and are constantly striving to improve their knowledge.

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the children, chickens and the cows

about trying new things. Working with them is very rewarding and

and even have friends over for a chat,

makes me so pleased that Isabel Potgieter from N3TC suggested I

as conversation and crochet go hand in

applied for the Touching Lives funding to teach them craft and buy

hand! Both laugh at thought of a new

materials.”

Joana and Aleta

Working from home means they can

man in their lives and decide that they are better off single.

Around Harrismith and Makgolokoeng, there is always a view of a flat topped hill on the horizon. With one's eyes constantly drawn

Rheola, who designs, teaches, supplies

upwards perhaps it is little wonder that the women on the Tse

the materials and markets the items

Lapeng group have such positive spirits and are constantly striving

they make says “These two women are

to improve their knowledge. Some have taught their daughters how

stars in our group. They always complete

to crochet too. “I love this work” concludes Joana, “especially

the tasks I give them on time, are

learning to recycle things and make them beautiful.” Funnily enough

meticulous about quality and enthusiastic

that is just what is happening in old Vêrkykerskop nowadays too.

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Samora

Vukuzenzele, umtu utya ukubila kwebunzi lakhe.

Akukho nkwali ephandela enye, ephandela enye yene thole.

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Juggling the demands of career, family, tradition, studies and diverse cultures is probably something many young South African men have to do these days. However, Samora Ngcaweni appears to achieve this with consummate ease.

Perhaps being named after multifaceted Samora Machel has helped him to combine all these things? Samora's mother was a real inspiration – she managed to juggle the demands of family life and studies to become the first black pharmacy graduate at

His parents believed that education was the key to a good life and did their best

There is always something that

to give their children a decent education. After leaving school Samora studied Civil Engineering in Port

will tickle your fancy or make your blood boil.

Elizabeth and has continued studying ever since. He is currently completing a Bachelor of Technology degree in Construction Management and cramming in short courses to improve his skills and knowledge to enable him to carry out his tasks as Route Maintenance Supervisor even better.

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successful career in the Transkei.

passionate

Rhodes and then went on to forge a

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“N3TC really believe in developing staff and have made a big impact in many lives, meaning we are passionate about the company.”

Samora is also passionate about South Africa: “It's not boring. There is always something that will tickle your fancy or make your blood boil. I like the fact that one can challenge the powers that be without fear of being arrested or killed. We also have the best weather in the world and no earthquakes.” He says with a laugh.

Another thing he absolutely adores is his

he has fond memories of childhood.

beautiful dogs. Brabus, Vader and Diesel. “I love the way they jump to greet

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me”. The dogs live at his home in

man!” Ties are strong to his family home and he has fond

Mtatha though, so he doesn't spend as

memories of childhood. In particular, his Dad's Car magazine

much time as he would like with them.

collection (started in 1963) which sparked his own love of cars.

His sister, journalist Lusanda Ngcaweni,

“When I was about 10 years old, I saw an Audi Sport Quattro displayed

does live with them and although she

at the Wild Coast Sun, and I was smitten.” Then there were the 100

also loves them to bits, wishes he'd

homing pigeons they kept in the backyard-“What fascinated me was

come home to walk them more often.

that when you let them out for their afternoon exercise they always

“They have destroyed the vegetable garden

came back before nightfall. On occasion the Transkei government

and ripped every toy to shreds. Last time he

would borrow them and set them free in the stadium and they would fly

was here he must have lost 10kgs as it was

back home which was about 5km away.” Perhaps it is the homing

definitely a case of the dogs walking the

instinct which keeps Samora rooted in the Eastern Cape despite

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Ties are strong to his family home and

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his 'other lives' which require commuting between Harrismith where he works, and Johannesburg where his wife, Nomacamagu and children live.

Being a weekend Dad means those precious days are crammed with childcentred activities. He chauffeurs them around – to soccer matches and drama lessons and catches up on their busy weeks. Teenager Thulisile is keen on studying Drama when she leaves school while Uviwe, aged 9, still wants to be a soccer star. In everything Samora does he strives towards togetherness – Ubuntu - A world where everybody knows one another, is always there to

during joyous occasions. Lusanda agrees “Family was so important to my folks, I think that is where he gets it from.

ubuntu

Samora is always tracking down long lost

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cousins and uncles, sometimes to their

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help and empathise, and to celebrate

surprise.”

Working weeks involve surveying the road for problems and fixing them as quickly as possible. “The N3 is a very, very, very good road” he says “which keeps us focused and busy, and there's never a dull moment". Road maintenance is always a work in

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Life is not about sitting

progress and everything possible is

We also aim to trigger their consciousness on issues like litter and safe driving habits.

done to enhance safety of the motorists. “We also aim to trigger their

exercise and listening to music or watching old movies before

consciousness on issues like litter and

tucking into supper – lamb curry and rice are a favourite. Then it's

safe driving habits. Over time, I believe

time for studying again. Fortunately Samora doesn't need much

this will make a difference.”

sleep - 5 hours do the trick.

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and waiting for things to happen.

Environmental concerns are also a priority “We do sometimes have to make

While all the commuting, demands on his time and multiple

compromises, but aim to find solutions

responsibilities might daunt another, Samora remembers his

that ensure everyone comes out smiling,”

father's words “It could have been worse, life is not about sitting and

he concludes.

waiting for things to happen” , and gives thanks for all the facets which make up his life – the opportunity to contribute, his thriving

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Late afternoons are spent walking

family, the convenience of life in Johannesburg and the fact that

along the streets of Harrismith for

home is still Mthatha.

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Sam

Work to make a difference.

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Sam Motshabi

Motshabi

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It's a long road from Sasolburg where Sam's family lives, to his office in Villiers. However, as he often needs to respond quickly to things that require attention, he rents a house in Villiers too. When he does make the trip, he says “It's my quiet time. I do my thinking and planning while I drive.”

Growing up in ThabaNchu, the son of a Pastor, meant Sam had to behave impeccably. “My mother always said “Don't just say the first thing that comes in your head. Rather be quiet until you can speak with authority”. This advice has stood him in good stead.

Nowadays, as part of his job as

focus group meetings to deal with

"Don't just say the first thing that comes into your head. Rather be quiet until you

issues on the road. “We discuss a problem and then I try to guide them to the answer. I listen and don't waste time asking questions which I know will be answered anyway. We debate and as a

can speak with authority."

group find the best way to act.” He cites Miles le Roux, N3TC Transportation Manager, as a role model of this form of management “Miles makes reference to things, but doesn't talk too much or tell you what to do.”

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Sam Motshabi

gathers partners and stakeholders for

guiding...

Regional Incident Manager, he regularly

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Miles too is full of praise for Sam. “Sam's ability to get the job done under extreme conditions means he has earned the respect of us all. His commitment is evident. I admire his yearning for more knowledge and his desire to raise his level of expertise - his after hour studies require a huge effort, but he perseveres. I enjoy working with Sam, he listens, but he will also give you an opinion making him an essential member of the Incident Management Systems (IMS) team.”

After giving up his studies due to financial challenges, Sam joined the Bophuthatswana Traffic Police Force, working as a Traffic Officer and quickly rising through the ranks. “I loved that job”, he reminisces, “It is in my blood. Storms may come, rain may come, but nothing can separate me from concern for road users. I have dedicated my life to saving lives.”

We need to lead by example, to walk the talk. some work because they can make a difference. Without doubt Sam falls into the latter group.

standard and doing the job everyone thinks they should be doing, it has a positive effect on the public.”

He believes that good behaviour

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influences others. “We need to lead by

Sam is learning constantly, studying in his spare time in a wide

example, to walk the talk” says Sam. “In

range of topics which assist him to do his job better and also

my days as a traffic officer, I would ask the

studying towards a Degree in Transportation Management. His

guys how they could fine others for not

parents were adamant that a good education was important and

wearing seatbelts, when they didn't use

this is something Sam believes too. Oldest son Sidney is studying

them themselves? When one sees a law

Accountancy at the University of Johannesburg and Keorapetse

enforcement officer in action, setting the

and Karabelo both work hard at school in Sasolburg.

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Teamwork seems to be a hallmark of the N3TC organisation. Everyone is prepared to do whatever it takes to deliver the best service they possibly can. This difference is probably that N3TC places a huge emphasis on staff development, something Sam really values. “It's a family of people who know

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Sam is particularly passionate about the Roadside Driver Wellness programme which was initiated in 2008 with his colleague Praveen Sunderlall.

This programme aims to address health issues directly with truck drivers on the N3 route after incident investigations showed that that truck driver fitness is one of the contributing factors. He speaks enthusiastically about the days he has organised in three provinces to assist truck drivers. “These guys have an important job and they are often just forgotten” he says sympathetically.

“Some employers don't adhere to the

Sam Motshabi

spurs him on...

their roles and take pride in doing it well.”

Basic Conditions of Employment Act and in doing so endanger the lives of many.”

He recalls incidents of drivers collapsing from exhaustion, weeping with despair at family problems and not actually being able to see in one eye.

All these issues simply spur him on to

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Even if you think you are not noticed, keep on doing good things because someone is looking. improve the system, deliver more and

strive continually to improve our systems.

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assist in any way he can. “N3TC is running one of the best Incident Management Systems in the country. We

City are favourites. Although Sam prefers to eat seafood these

don't just say Safety. Convenience.

days, family gatherings around traditional meals of offal with

Mobility., we practice it. We are proactive,

dumplings are still favourites. Wife Lydia, has a busy career too but

not just responsive and strive continually

surprises him occasionally with a supper of freshly prepared tripe

to improve our systems.” He says

stew. Community is very important and following in his father's

proudly.

footsteps, Sam too is Pastor of a church in Sasolburg.

It may sound like all work and no play,

Quite how he crams all these activities into any week is a bit of a

but Sam is a dedicated father and

mystery. Perhaps it is his quiet philosophy of “Even if you think you

husband. Family outings to the Vaal or

are not noticed, keep on doing good things because someone is

Hartebeespoort dam and Gold Reef

looking.”

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N3TC is proactive, not just responsive and

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Thania Dhoogra-Chetty

Thania Dhoogra-Chetty

Never say the sky is the limit. There are footprints on the moon.

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“Thania is cool in so many ways” says Prudence Zulu, receptionist at N3TC Head Office. “We have learnt a lot from her about work, life and many other things. She always says 'Look Good, Feel Good, Do Good'. We are like family now.”

Thania Dhoogra-Chetty has been an integral part of the N3TC team since joining as Technical Information Manager eight years ago. It is obvious that she really loves the people she works with. “N3TC culture is so inclusive, we all help one another to progress and get the job done. Everyone takes ownership of their role and is keen to

African, she is inspired by her family

Our family is like a biryani - we are exhibitionists and there is always something happening.

history. Her great grandparents arrived in the late 1800s as merchants, to forge a new life. “Our family is like a jambalaya, or maybe I should say biryani?! There are many religions and races represented, we are exhibitionists and there is always something happening.” Despite having only one sister (now a scientist), Thania grew up as part of a large extended family in Laudium with many cousins.

“Being part of a traditional Indian family

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Although Thania is entirely South

do good...

contribute.”

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ensures that there's always someone around to help and support you when you need it, but it also means that they're there even when you don't need them. You are never alone!” Thania's parents were pretty liberal for the times and encouraged the girls to ask questions and challenge ideas. “We wanted to know, for example, - what is the reason for fasting? Once we understood, we were happy. I still fast today – at the moment for nine days for the festival of Navratri.

The view of tree tops from her office window and the sound of the stream below...

Holidays included camping and hiking,

outdoors, adventure and travel. San

highway up to standard. Things can get hectic, but the view of tree

Francisco, Orlando and Washington are

tops from her office window and sound of the stream below are

high on her list of favourite places and a

calming on even the craziest day. Not one to sit back, she grasps

trip to see German toll sites is on the

every opportunity to gain new skills and build relationships. She

cards - she can't wait to zoom along the

was selected to attend the International Bridge, Tunnel and

Autobahn, of course.

Turnpike Association's Leadership Academy's Executive Development program during 2011 in the USA, to update her

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Thania's job is now Operations Manager,

knowledge in all facets of toll agency operations. “How amazing to

in charge of making sure systems run

be able to get 'been there, done that' advice from experts in our field

smoothly to keep the world-class N3

from across the globe. What an incredible opportunity.”

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Sun City and Kruger, instilling a love of

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Thania is held in great esteem by everyone at N3TC. “The most overwhelming feeling I have during a meeting with management is that they

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leaving N3TC. My job is so interesting, I'm constantly engaged, I'll never get bored.” Whether it is sorting out an issue at the Toll Plaza, improving her advanced driving skills or doing an obstacle course with the girls at boot camp, her attention is focussed fully on the task at hand. “I like to win” she says “Recently we entered the Extreme Sports Challenge and poor Chris broke his toe.

He says it is all my fault”. Chris Anderson (IT Consultant for N3TC) concurs “Thania is totally goal focused and not much will stand in her way. She can't swim, but even when her 'life saver' (that's me) was injured, she ensured that we crossed the finish line.”

The mix of traditional and modern, Shiva and Disney, career and play, hard work and glamour that fills her life is fascinating. She loves nothing more than whipping up a quick curry and relaxing at the end of a busy day to

Thania Dhoogra-Chetty

constantly engaged

trust what I am saying. I'm certainly not

watch a Disney movie from her extensive collection. “Mulan is my alltime favourite, although Beauty and the Beast

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There is always a song in her head which the rest of the world can't hear.

This means she may often be bopping to

engaged, I'll never get bored.

comes a close second.� After a hectic week of work, theatre and entertaining – building block towers with her newest nephew beside the dam while her Dad fishes, is her idea of heaven. The spectacular view of the Russian

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Orthodox Church towers from the front

Thania loves music, has an eclectic taste (obviously) and admits

door of her modern townhouse is a

that there is always a song in her head which the rest of the world

surprise, as is the collection of plastic

can't hear. This means she may often be found bopping to an

Disney icons juxtaposed with wooden

invisible beat. Thania certainly sets her own pace, moves to her

tables and lamps handcrafted by her

own rhythm, is completely comfortable in her own skin and 'feels

father in the living area.

good' wherever she goes.

Thania Dhoogra-Chetty

My job is so interesting, I'm constantly

an invisible beat.

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Gerrie Steenkamp

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and information to make this celebration of our community heroes possible.

In particular:

Cecilia Molefe and Lucy Lakaje for translations

Paul Van Uytrecht for editing

The Bugs, Karen Edwards, Con Roux, Sarah Drew for photographs.

Photographers featured in the N3TC Calendars

“Many people are good at talking about what they are doing, but in fact do little.

Others do a lot but don't talk about it; they are the ones who make a community live.” ― Jean Vanier, Community And Growth Toni Le Roux

Research, Copy and Photography - Nikki Brighton - www.plantabundance@wordpress.com Antoinette Le Roux

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Design and Layout - des@desdesigns.co.za, 082 661 8775

acknowledgements

Thank you very much to all who contributed time, photographs, comments

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Service is the rent we pay for living.

It is the very purpose of life and not something you do in your spare time.

Marian Wright Edelman

Jolene Swart

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