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Featuring Marcie Costello Photography Winter 2013 Colour Trends
Winter 2013
Wedding Saviours Real Wedding
Stylized Photo Shoots Perfect Proposals
03 Letter from the Editor 04 Staff 06 Articles 06 Don’t be the Wicked Bride From the West 09 Colour Trends for Winter 10 Marcie Costello Photography 14 The Waiting Game 16 WPIC Transforms Paletta Mansion 20 Blissfully Yours
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24 Perfect Proposals - Jessica & Luke - Bryan & Abby - Marco & Nadia - Brian & Julia - Paul & Julie - Teresa & Rob - Jared & Nikki 38 Real Weddings - Heidi & Dino - Lindsay & Nick - Sarah & Keith - Teresa & Rob 33 Haute Outside
Cover Photo Credits: Photography: Marcie Costello Photography [(www.marciephoto.ca]) Bridal Gown & Hair Lace: Marcie Costello Jewellery: Accessories by Talia [(www.accessoriesbytalia.com]) Florist: Biane Presta, Verona Florist (www.veronafloristweddings.com) Hair: Leanne Hermenegildo, Creatively Beautiful Inc. [(www.creativelybeautiful.com]) Makeup: Caroline CB. Buzzanga, Creatively Beautiful Inc. [(www.creativelybeautiful.com]) Props: Happily Ever After Events Inc. (www.happilyeveraftereventsinc.ca) Model: Christin Twitchin & Ryan Cummings Location: Healing with Horses Farm (www.healingwithhorsesfarm.com)
Brides, Grooms, and Wedding Enthusiasts, With the onset of winter comes heavy jackets, scarves, snow gear and staying warm inside. You wouldn’t think it was a romantic time for anyone to be outside, never mind get married. Here at the magazine, we have been counting our blessings with the warm weather we have had so far in the Greater Toronto Area, even as the months approach the end of the year. We were able to head outside to the Healing with Horses Farm and capture the elegance of a bride and her beloved with the gentlest horse we have met. We also attended many different cultural weddings, featured in our Real Weddings section and were able to get a glimpse into the past life of one of our writers through the Way Back Weddings article from her wedding day! We were able to feature another special wedding put together by the Wedding Saviours GTA team, bringing together a couple that hasn’t been so fortunate in the past and giving them the wedding of their dreams. The proposals featured in our Perfect Proposals section will be sure to bring a tear of joy to your eye as you read through how the most creative and thoughtful men asked the woman of their dreams for their hand in marriage. Also featured in this magazine is our dear friend and photographer, Marcie Costello Photography, who has loyally been working with the magazine since it’s inception and is a great asset to the team. Make sure you read through our Industry Experts columns to be well prepared for whatever life throws at you with tips on fitness, healthy eating, saving money, buying a home, wedding day photography, makeup, and our new interior design expert! Without further ado, we hope you enjoy the Winter 2013 issue of The Wedding Planner Magazine! Enjoy!
Carmelina Karas Editor in Chief
Letter from the
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To submit comments, questions or ideas about the magazine to the editor, please email carmelina@theweddingplannermagazine.ca and include your name, age (optional) and city that you are from. You may also include a picture. Photography by Marcie Costello Photography
Anne Edgar Nathan Kwok
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Bill Giannos Marcie Costello
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Writers / Columnists Andre McCalmont, Writer Joseph Andre McCalmont is a financial security advisor with Freedom 55 Financial. He can be contacted by cell phone at 647-669-4684 x243 or by email to joseph.mccalmont@f55f.com.
Barbara Kowalski, Photographer/Writer Barbara Kowalski is the owner of Real & Blush Photography, a studio that specializes in soft and documentary style wedding and portrait photography. She is a tea-obsessed, blogcrazed, Pinterest-addicted lover of beautiful things and admits to crying at every wedding she has photographed so far.
Christin Twitichin, Writer
Elizabeth Kogan, Writer
Currently employed as a designer at Jennifer Brouwer Design in Markham, ON, Christin holds a Bachelor of Arts with a Major in Sociology and Minor in Anthropology from Wilfrid Laurier University as well as an Interior Decorating/Design diploma from the Sheridan Institute of Technology. She is looking forward to a successful career, establishing relationships with her clients, and making their dreams a reality.
A York University graduate, became a freelance writer after having worked in the insurance industry for 12 years. Her passion for the twist that the creative word brings to everyday life is what compels her to remain true to the leap of faith she’s taken by joining the writing world. She is ecstatic to be working for The Wedding Planner Magazine GTA as its Bridal Show Correspondent.
Heather Nedham, Columnist
Helen Kats, Writer
A motivated and talented business associate, she keeps herself fit by attending an intense bootcamp in addition to a personal fitness routine in the comfort of her own home. A “Tough Mudder” that is going to give brides and grooms the tools they need to get in shape for their big day!
Long-time professional makeup artist, teacher and creative director of Makeup Fit Workshops, Helen Kats has been writing and talking about beauty, fashion, makeup products and tools for more than 15 years. Her expertise in makeup artistry ranges from business to casual chic beauty, to bridal photo finish, to high fashion, to catwalk, to stage to film.
Kimberly Clark, Columnist
Renu Eapen, Writer
A fantastic Real Estate agent turned writer who has offered her services to the magazine as a columnist. Currently resides in Markham, ON and loving mother of two, she is an active participant in local extracurricular activities including recreational soccer.
Renu Eapen, currently a student studying advertising at Sheridan College, grew up in Dubai before moving to Canada with her family. She has a passion for anything and everything creative and is a huge movie buff. She loves nothing more than a good movie marathon.
Angela Hickman, Writer Patricia Pereira, Writer
Steven Freiria, Assistant Editor
Craig Belanger, Layout and Design
Steven Freiria’s attention to detail and love for writing gives him passion both on paper and in life itself. His keen eye has been a huge help to The Wedding Planner Magazine.
Craig Belanger, a freelance designer started his career working in the printing industry. Now working as a technology consultant, while designing on the side. He loves to be outdoors, traveling the world, and just experiencing new things.
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lright brides! We all know, when you have found your man, you need your girls to help you plan your big day. Being a bride is hectic, but being a bridesmaid is not a piece of cake either. When you ask someone to be a part of your wedding party, you’re not just asking them to stand next to you as you get married, you’re asking them support you, help you cling on to your self esteem as you try on dress after dress, and be there to wipe your tears every time you think about walking down the aisle. A good bridesmaid will do whatever it takes to make your big day as enjoyable as possible. However, if they are going to work hard for you, you better treat them right.
Playing Dress Up
Even if it’s YOUR big day, it’s a big day for your bridesmaids too. Everyone wants to look gorgeous at a wedding, so instead of picking out a bridesmaids dress, let your girls pick out their own dresses. Give them colour swatches to choose from and let them
pick a dress that matches their style and body shape. At the end of the day, your girls will feel confident, look stunning, and how cute will it be with mismatched dresses? You can give your honest opinion, but let the bridesmaid have the final pick of what dress they want to wear.
Provide Comfort
If you and your bridesmaids are going to be wearing heels, make sure you take care of their feet. I’m sure they will put up with wearing high heels for you, even if they end up with blisters or a twisted ankle. However, if they are going to be walking on grass, get them some heel stoppers. The last thing you need are some girls wobbling and falling down on their face as they try to walk down the lawn. Also, when the music turns loud and it’s time to hit the dance floor, give your girls some pain free dance shoes, aka: cute little flip-flops or flats. Provide them with these things. This is your party after all, you are the host and they are your guests. The Wedding Planner Magazine • Winter 2013 • Page 6
Don’t be the Wicked Bride from the West Treat your bridesmaids the way you would want to be treated - Renu Eapen
Fun in the Morning
The morning of can be stressful and busy. However, before you start running around doing your hair and makeup, take a moment to spend time with the girls. Have a fun breakfast, some drinks, bring on the pampering! It’s the perfect time to share your appreciation to everyone who has helped you plan your day. After a great breakfast, everyone will be happy and energetic.
Gifting a Thank You
Gift your girls. They have worked hard and helped you so gift them with cute things that are special to both of you. Another great gift is a hangover kit. Let’s face it. You know they are going to need it. So pack a box with some cute shades, a water bottle, some painkillers, mints and a barf bag. Also, a personal thank you gift is a great touch. They will appreciate it and will always remember being a part of your wedding day. The Wedding Planner Magazine • Winter 2013 • Page 7
Don’t ask them to pay
If you want them to rock some complicated hairstyle, you better be ready to pay for it. Your girls may not be ready to cough out cash to get her hair and makeup done. Either you can let them do their own hair themselves, or you can offer to pay a professional to do it for them. Being a bridesmaid can be costly, so it’s only fair you chip in wherever you can. That goes along with the makeup. If you want your girls to look the same, then you should offer to pay for their makeup. If the look is not that big of a deal, then let your bridesmaid take care of their own makeup by doing it themselves. That way, they are not spending too much money when they really don’t need to be.
Avoid Awkwardness and Introduce
If some of your bridesmaids don’t know the rest of the bridal party, make sure you introduce them to everyone. Plan some fun
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lunches and outings so that everyone can feel comfortable and have fun. After all, you would want everyone to get along. This is a team effort and a happy team can do great work! With that being said, make sure you are paying the same amount of attention to everyone in your bridal party. Don’t make them compete for your attention. There is nothing more awkward than standing next to a group of close friends and feeling like an intruder. Pay attention to your sister, your best friend and your distant cousin. Make sure they are all feel welcomed and comfortable.
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Don’t be a grouchy cat
There are so many crafty DIYs that can be done for a wedding. That being said, ask if your bridesmaids are free to help you and plan a date for you all to come together and work. Do not expect them to be free at the last minute and do not get angry if they cannot make it. They have a life of their own! Another thing to avoid: do not expect to have your bridesmaids be your chauffeur. If you need to go somewhere, then you take them along with you. They should not be taking you along with them. It’s a matter of respect and if you keep asking for rides, it can get a bit annoying. Lastly, always be grateful you have your girls to help you. Planning a wedding is chaotic and you may come across moments when you want to burst out crying. At those times, you girls are going to be the ones wiping away your tears, making sure your drunken uncle does not ruin your dress, and helping you write down your vows. Remember to take a moment and say that you are thankful and blessed to have them in your lives. The wedding will last for a day, but the memories of being together will last forever. The Wedding Planner Magazine • Winter 2013 • Page 8
Colour Trends for Winter!
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electing your wedding day colours can be an overwhelming decision for most Brides-to-Be. There are typically two categories of brides we see – those who know exactly the colours she wants and those who have absolutely no idea where to start. The second type is uncertain because of the sheer amount of options available. The world is their oyster, but with the help of this article, we are hoping that it will no longer be a point of wedding planning stress. Ask yourself these three questions: 1) Do you or your significant other have a favourite colour? 2) Would you consider yourself to be trendy or a risk taker? 3) Is there a location, art piece, season, movie, character, part of nature, animal, etc. that inspires you? After answering these questions, the colour wheel in your brain will start turning and the theme will be pulled together in no time. If you find yourself wanting to stick to this season’s colour trends, then this is the section for you. The Pantone colour for Winter 2013 is Emerald Green. This shade is lively, radiant, and lush. It is a colour of elegance and beauty that enhances our sense of wellThe Wedding Planner Magazine • Winter 2013 • Page 9
being, balance, and harmony. Emerald Green is a great colour choice for any wedding scheme and it suits the winter season perfectly. Two wedding colour schemes that incorporate Emerald Green are: 1. Traditional holiday colours – such as red, green and white 2. Enhance the Emerald Green with Neutrals – such as white, crème, grey, beige or a metallic Both can be used tastefully in your décor, wedding apparel, and other aspects, such as wedding stationary and flowers. Whether you go with this season’s trend or with what your heart has always desired, it needs to make you happy. For more inspiration on this season’s colour scheme and others, you can visit our Facebook page at facebook.com/WeddingPlanGTA. Happy Colour Choosing!
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hen this fiery red head walks in to a room, she lights it up. At only 34 years of age, Marcie Costello has made quite the name for herself. You can’t help but want to get to know her better when you see her infectious smile and I was thrilled to be able to share her story with you. Coming from a family with a strong corporate background, Marcie spent 7 years in the design industry. “I never felt as though I fit in. I have three years of design education and one post graduate year of design for an aging population/ universal design putting me in a very specialized category of design qualifications and virtually none of it was creative. For the most part, it was the same standard preset designs my need for creativity was suffering. I wasn’t able to play the game, schmooze and fuss over a $200 square foot piece of travertine while there were hardships happening all around me and starving kids in this world.” Photography is the perfect outlet for Marcie’s creativeness. Being a single mom to 3 children, she was determined to make a life for her family that she chose. She did not want to “become a product of the system or hinder my personal growth or the growth, opportunity and happiness of my children just because I was so young at the time they came into my life. My children are everything and although there have been countless sleepless nights and work hours meshing into family hours, I have done this for them so that one day
I can truly enjoy life with them. I have also worked very hard to prove to them that they can achieve anything in life, despite the obstacles. I love what I do, which I think is one of the most important choices we can teach our children to ensure however they choose to spend their working years in life it is done with joy and passion.” “I ask myself often why I do what I do and YES I LOVE MY CAREER but some often ask how I do it? Often 18 hours a day, often over booked (not a bad thing)... I think many of us are not friendly with change in life. I have been there. It’s not easy. Although marriage and having babies is certainly a beautiful experience we are blessed to have in life, it can come with strain and self-doubt, fear and worry. I try to bring experiences to my clients that help them to enjoy their moments, see the love in each other, embrace change by celebrating in every tiny moment and help them to move through these life journeys with something beautiful in their hand afterwards so they can reflect on it with love and laughter, emotion and gratitude for one another.”
Many of Marcie’s clients will become lifetime clients. From sharing their first day of marriage right to sharing the lives of their most precious gifts, her work brings out the happiness and love that is felt. What does the future hold for this amazing young woman? Along with shooting weddings and families she hopes to move into more “commercial photography and specific glamour sessions that take the visions of my clients to a magical level to make them come true including hair, make up, unique locations etc.” It is another step into making dreams come true!
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t the Wedding Planner Magazine GTA, we love to hear the stories from you the brides and grooms as you plan your weddings, and of course those of the wedding planners – the wedding wizards who bring the big day together! We connected with a wedding planner recently, Patricia Pereira of Pristine Weddings and Events, and she shared with us a story that piqued our wedding curiosity and we are only too enthusiastic to share it with you, our readers. Wedding Planner Magazine GTA (WPMG): Patricia, you have a rather interesting wedding tale to tell, please share it with our readers. Patricia Pereira (PP): This wedding story is based on a real-life wedding that I attended this past June. I was at the wedding as a guest, and not working as a wedding planner. I arrived at the ceremony location approximately 10 minutes prior to the scheduled start time. Just a few minutes after 1pm, the groom walked up to the front of the room accompanied by his groomsmen. WPMG: So, what happened next? Did the bride glide ever so gracefully down the aisle to join her anxious groom? PP: Not quite, and as you can imagine the anticipation was mounting. Guests’ eyes were darting around the venue looking for a glimpse of the beautiful bride – there was no sight of her. No sound of music playing to announce the grand entrance. The room was eerily silent. The groom, being a quick thinker, decided to tell a few jokes, very likely to ease his own nerves and relax the guests. At that moment, the “wedding planner” in me was itching to get up, find out what the hold-up was and solve the problem so we could move ahead with the ceremony! But, of course, we waited ever so impatiently! WPMG: What was going on? PP: Well, after about 20 minutes of playing the waiting game, the processional music began playing. Everyone was alert and at attention – heads swirling around, straining to see the bride and her bridal party make their way to the front where the officiant
had been standing. She came in looking stunning and radiant, the ceremony proceeded, and all was well. WPMG: Isn’t there a piece missing to this story? Why was there a delay? PP: My curiosity got the better of me as well and I did ask the bride what had occurred. Knowing that she was living in a new subdivision, my imagination had fantasized about all kinds of scenarios: perhaps the limo driver got lost and they ended up in another part of town. The funny thing is, she told me that she had actually arrived on time. In fact, she was even a few minutes early. WPMG: We didn’t see that one coming. What’s the behind-thescenes scoop? PP: The bride was waiting outside the entire time! It appears that nobody thought to let the officiant, or musician, or anyone at all (including the waiting groom), that the bride had in fact arrived. So, there the bride was, standing outside for 20 minutes for no good reason. It turns out the groom had texted the bride to ask: "Where are you? The ceremony was supposed to start 20 minutes ago!" and she replied, "I'm here! I've been waiting outside for the past 20 minutes.” If a moral were to be gleaned from this lighthearted story, it’s that of the importance of having someone there to coordinate and organize the flow of events on that most important day. While it’s true that we wouldn’t have had the benefit of a good fit of the giggles without this story having happened, it’s equally true that the bride and groom were likely under considerable stress as they wondered what was happening. The groom must’ve wondered what happened to the bride. Meanwhile the bride was standing outside of the venue all along. She in turn was likely wondering why nobody was cuing her to make her entrance. A wedding planner would’ve ensured that such a waiting game would never have happened.
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he Wedding Planners Institute of Canada Inc. has certified over 4800 wedding coordinators throughout the world. WPIC strives to give its alumni the best experiences and opportunities possible by always providing exclusive networking events, continuing education seminars, and photo shoots. It is important for alumni to remain active and relevant within the wedding industry to stay on top of trends. WPIC Inc. put together their second Working Shot and Head Shot Extravaganza Event for its alumni. Six of Toronto’s top wedding designers and planners came together to each create a gorgeous style shoot inside Paletta Mansion in Burlington, Ontario. Each style shoot had its own personality, style and theme. The set-up’s consisted of a colourful outdoor Mandap ceremony setup, a whimsical outdoor Christian ceremony set up, Hollywood Glamour head table setup, 50 Shades of Grey guest table set up, Classic Vintage tablescape and a Paper Floral Backdrop. These style shoots were photographed by some of Toronto’s great photographers.
PAPER FLORAL BACKDROP Floral Backdrop: The Beginning of Forever Photographer: Purple Martini Photography
Each style shoot was then opened up to the 80 WPIC attendees to take head shots and working shots within their working elements. So often on the day of the wedding a Wedding Planner doesn’t have the time to take working photos as they are busy tending to the bridal couple. A style shoot can cost anywhere from $500 - $2000+ for a single planner to create on their own and head shots can cost anywhere from $250 and up. This event made it affordable to have glamorous shots for each wedding planner. These shots will be used for their own websites, social media websites and promotional materials. In addition to each room being fully stylized, each room also came with a bride and groom for the wedding planners to take photos with. Each bride was styled by She’s So Beautiful Consignment and Bridal Boutique and the groom’s wore various suits provided by Andrew’s Formals. All of the hair and makeup for the attendees and models was provided by BlushPretty. To find out more about The Wedding Planners Institute of Canada Inc. and how you can become certified and attend these types of events please visit www.WPIC.ca
50 Shades of Grey Photographer: Life Creations Planner/Designer: Morganley Events Linen: The Linen Closet Florals: Velvet Rope Florals Rentals: Higgins Event Rentals Stationery: Creative-E Dress: She’s So Beautiful Consignment and Bridal Boutique Jewelry: Lauren Elan Collections Hair and Makeup: Blush Pretty Model: Meagan Papizewski
Outdoor CEREMONY Models: Kasia and Richard Kovacs Dress: She’s So Beautiful Consignment and Bridal Boutique Suit: Andrew’s Formals Hair and Makeup: Blush Pretty Designer: Designing Trendz Planner: The Wedding Planners
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Jessica & Luke Our Love Story April 1, 2011.
Luke and I met at a local café for the first time. We had never seen each other in person before. We were set up by our mutual friends Nick and Maria. First we chatted through text messages and then on the telephone and from the first moment we met in person there was a special chemistry between us. I always felt a positive energy and very comforting vibe from Luke. He was always patient and kind, caring and affectionate. I learned that he brought out the best in me and allowed me to be my complete self in his presence. Little did I know he would end up being my soul mate.
The Proposal
July 11th 2012. Jessica left for a spin class; I had 30 minutes to prepare.
I set up white Christmas lights all throughout the family room and on the stair railing. Turned on the stereo and set up the song I was about to sing. “Grow Old With You,” by Adam Sandler. Everything was set up and and so I hid in the bathroom and waited for her to come home. Jessica opened the door and called out my name... nothing. I pressed play and came out of the bathroom scaring her a bit but I didn’t hesitate and began to sing. I grabbed her hand and we danced while I sang. She smiled. At the end of the song I sat her down, reached behind the couch pillow and pulled out the ring box. Knelt down and opened it and asked her to marry me. She said yes. The Wedding Planner Magazine • Winter 2013 • Page 24
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he engagement started off with Bryan giving me a package that said “secret tour” on it for our 2 year anniversary. There were 24 envelopes in it, and each had a card with a rhyme/riddle on one side and a map on the back. Most of the cards were different destinations that we would go to throughout the day. When I opened the first card, it led us downtown to a scooter rental shop where Bryan had reserved a scooter for us. I then opened each of the envelopes and each envelope led us to a different destination (which we scootered to). Each of the destinations turned out to be one of our old date places which we re-visited and took pictures of. The last destination ended where we first became official. There were 3 envelopes left, so I opened them one at a time and they were poems. The last one said “Will you marry me?” with the ring tied to it. Then, Bryan got on his knees and proposed! The night ended with us going back to his house where he had invited everyone over for my surprise “birthday” party. As it turned out, we celebrated with a “surprise” engagement party!
Bryan & Abby
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t was around the New Year of 2012 that I started thinking about mine and Nadia’s 1 year Anniversary coming up in March. After giving it a lot of thought, knowing that I had found my soulmate, I knew I didn’t want to wait any longer and decided it was time to pop the question and take our relationship to the next level. As much as I wanted to surprise everyone, Nadia’s parents are somewhat traditional so I did the right thing and showed up at their door one night when I knew Nadia wasn’t home. While her dad was eating, and my heart was beating out of my chest, I asked for their blessing. After he almost choked on his food, her father said of course they were very happy for us and promised to keep my little secret from Nadia! I knew that I wanted to make my proposal to Nadia as perfect as our relationship had been from day one, so I got to work planning a very special day. I decided to do it on the day of our anniversary so Nadia wouldn’t suspect anything out of the ordinary. I planned the whole day as a walk down memory lane of places that were very special to us. We started the day off at my house and little did Nadia know that I had kicked the rest of my family out so I could put my plan in motion, obviously they were all in on the secret too! After months of practice, I surprised Nadia by playing one of our favourite songs on the piano which was Everything I Do by Bryan Adams. The words of the song are everything I wanted to say to her and definitely set the tone for the rest of the day and judging from Nadia’s tear-filled eyes, I think she loved it. Next stop was the pool hall. We drove out to Arizona B-Bar and Grill where we had our first date and Nadia kicked my butt… once again, in a few rounds of 8 Ball. After a few laughs and drinks we moved on to The Keg for dinner which is also where we had our first dinner date and just like that first date, Nadia goes to the Keg to order French fries. We had a wonderful dinner and I made sure we took our time chatting and enjoying our wine before we headed to our next special spot. I was getting more excited and nervous as the night went on, knowing what was around the corner. After a few hidden text messages to my brother and brother-in-laws, and a REALLY slow drive to the lakeshore, we finally arrived at Sunnyside beach to go for a walk by the lake as we liked to do. At this point, my heart was seriously beating at about a thousand miles a minute and Nadia still had no clue and was just enjoying the scenery. I had messaged the boys previously to ensure that they were in position to help execute my plan, and of course, ready as always to get into trouble, they were ready and willing. We walked along the boardwalk for about 20 minutes (which seemed like an eternity) and when we got to the spot where it all began one year ago, where we had our first kiss and I told her I was falling in love with her, I knew now was the right time. We were standing on the dock and it was nearing midnight, almost exactly the time of our first kiss. We starting reminiscing on what an incredible year we had together and all the amazing things we had done and then the time came, I got down on one knee and poured my heart out to the love of my life and future wife(but if you ask her she doesn’t remember a word I said). But she DOES remember saying YES so that’s all that matters! We hugged and kissed and then in the distance, fireworks started shooting up into the night sky courtesy of our trouble making brothers, their timing was perfect. It really was an incredible day that led to an unforgettable wedding. But you will have to stay tuned to read about it in the next issue as this is one wedding you don’t want to miss out on.
Brian & Julia
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rian and I started dating in January 2012 after a mutual friend worked her matchmaking magic. Having gone to the same church for 4 years, we became friends and had hung out a few times in group settings. Once we started “officially” dating, things moved pretty quickly. We talked a lot about the future and worked through some resources to help us figure out if we were truly meant to be together. Lots of prayer, talking with wise friends and with each other led us to one conclusion, this was it! We started ring shopping in the beginning of April talking budget, browsing online, visiting Birks and Tiffany, and discovering what we both liked and didn’t like. At that point the ball was all in Brian’s court. I tried my best to wait patiently not knowing if
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he had ordered or purchased a ring but I didn’t do
a very good job. One Friday night we were hanging out at my apartment having a spa night (Brian is a
Prince, he let me put clay masks on him and scrub
his feet!) when I said to him “I just need a timeline, are we talking weeks, months, years?” He looked me
square in the eye and said “It won’t be romantic if you know.” At that point I knew I had to stop talking about it. I had to let this wonderful man do his thing in his own time.
On Saturday we went to a friend’s wedding where we got some razzing about when our turn was. We just
brushed off the comments with smiles and laughed but I sure wished I knew the answer too.
On Sunday we went for a walk near Brian’s condo which is on the lake. He had to run back up to the
condo to get a jacket because it was chilly out. I waited patiently clueless as to what was coming. Here is how the conversation went: B: Do you like stuff?
J: Nah, I like things better.
B: What about sparkly things? J: YES, I like sparkly things. B: Like sparkly belts?
(In reference to my comments about my pants)
J: Yes, Brian, I like sparkly belts.
(Annoyed because he was messing with me)
B: What about sparkly rings?
J: DO YOU HAVE A RING RIGHT NOW??? B: I do!!!
And that’s when he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him.
I said “of course I’ll marry you”! And asked him to put the ring on my finger right away because we
were on a bridge over the lake and I didn’t want my gorgeous ring to end up in Lake Ontario!
We kissed, we hugged, and we cried and enjoyed that amazing moment in our life together.
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Paul & Julie Photography by:
dia Cacciola
Matt Mclennon & Na
P
aul and I have known each other since high school and we started dating each other soon during the summer after Grade 12. We quickly fell in love and talked from very early on about the possibility of getting married one day. We were young (17 & 18), we had some maturing to do, but the attraction was so strong. As time went on our love only grew. It was pretty much understood that we would get married; the only choices were when and where. Two months before our fifth anniversary I was wondering what he was going to do to celebrate since he hadn’t mentioned it. Thinking that he had nothing special planned and that he just wasn’t interested, I vented to my coworkers “I can’t believe it’s our five year anniversary and he has nothing planned for it!” I even began to confront him about how I had been working on a special craft for his gift which took a lot of hard work and a lot of time. He just kept laughing and saying “Oh you’ll see.” A week before he told me, he had finally planned something. He told me he was taking me to a place that I would really like and then afterwards we were going to a fancy restaurant; I was relieved and overjoyed. The day of the proposal he gave me my gift which was a beautiful figurine and he wrote a very beautiful poem and told me that the place where he was taking me was Casa Loma; a place I have wanted to visit for many years! We toured the whole building (which was beautiful) and ate lunch at Sir Henry’s Café. The last place we wanted to see was the garden in the back. In the garden there was a path with a lonely bench and a lot of shade. He suggested that we sit there for a bit, so I agreed. As we approached the bench he started speaking in rhyme (but I didn’t quite notice that) about how I thought for so long that he had nothing planned for our fifth anniversary and I got so angry at him. And that’s when it hit me. That’s when I realized he was going to propose to me. Everything from that moment on was a bit of a blur to me because I was so happy and so excited that it was actually happening! Suddenly my body went into a very strange mode where my hands and legs began to shake. I started hyperventilating, laughing and crying tears of joy. Because of this, I couldn’t even focus on what he was saying. (Below is the poem Paul recited) He then flipped the lid open to display the ring and asked me if I would be his wife, to which I replied “YES!! YES!! YES!!” and he slipped the ring on my finger. After this we took pictures of ourselves with the ring and the bench, and then called some family and friends to let them know about the big news. We then had our romantic dinner and I concluded that I never should have doubted him. It was the best day of my life so far and we can’t wait to spend the rest of our lives together!
The Poem:
(As we are walking on the path, get her to complain about how I had nothing planned) Oh Julie, this was all planned! From a very long time ago, It was always in hand, All those nights you thought I was a jerk, I had to hold in my laughter and hide every smirk, You thought I didn’t care, you thought I was lazy, Given everything you know about me, you have to admit that was pretty crazy, I took so much flak! And you talked so much smack! I bet I had this planned before your gift to me, (wait for her to complain) So stop your whining and listen to me, I bet you are wondering why I speak in rhyme, That’s because this is a special time, (You were hyperventilating at this point) A time for Casa Loma and a beautiful day, A time for speaking in a special way, It’s a time to remember the moments we have had together, And make another that will last forever, We have been together for five years, That calls for a celebration my dear, But you know five years is too long to date someone like you, 4 years and 364 days is the best I can do, If I stay your boyfriend any longer I will lose my mind, And as for relationship Paul, he has had his time, What I mean Julie is I want a change in my life, It’s time for us to become man and wife, I once asked if you would be my girl, Now I am asking, will you marry me? The Wedding Planner Magazine • Winter 2013 • Page 30
Teresa & Rob
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ob had a very special weekend planned since we hadn’t spend time together in a while. I always had a fascination with lighthouses and hoped to one day be in one. His romantic weekend had planned more than I ever imagined! He had the innkeepers, captain, tour guides, and even the lady in the gift shop in on his plan. Our ride up to Bruce County included music from our favourite band, the Avette Brothers. A song came on about getting married and I exclaimed to Rob, “When is it my turn?” Little did I know, the proposal was only hours away. We checked into a beautiful bed and breakfast, Chantry Breezes, and walked around the gorgeous town. Before we left for our boat ride, the innkeeper insisted that I take her running shoes in case I couldn’t board the boat with my sandals. Rob never gave off any impression he was nervous and I didn’t think anything was going on. Riding on the boat, just the two of us, didn’t seem out of the ordinary since the captain explained the previous day didn’t have a lot of passengers either. Since I was really cold on the boat ride,
I put my hands in Rob’s pockets. He must have hid the ring very well! We arrived at the island and went on a tour of the lighthouse keeper’s house and storage garage. It was beautiful! There was a guest book in the home and we added our names to the list, creating a lasting keepsake. We saved the best for last and climbed a very hot and sticky lighthouse tower, finally reaching the top. The tour guide explained that since it was quite small up there, he wanted to give us some time alone. As soon as we were alone, Rob turned to me saying he wanted to ask me something. In the most spectacular 360° view of water and Bruce County, Rob got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. When we returned to the bottom, a teary eyed tour guide presented me with a Chantry rose, only grown on the island. I cherish these memories deeply and am so happy I found a loving man like Rob to call my husband, my love and my partner in life! I still have my Chantry rose. It symbolizes beauty, uniqueness and love – exactly what that day meant to me and what my husband means to me every day.
Photography by:
Marcie Costello Photography
www.marciephoto.ca
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Photography by: M&L Fotographics
www.mlfotographics.com
Jared & Nikki
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ared proposed in the Mayan Rivera, Mexico in January 2012. It was our first real vacation together after 4 years of dating. We were having an amazing first few days….but I knew Jared was up to something when from time to time he would disappear for 25-30 minutes… little did I know his ploy at the time. On the 4th night Jared had reserved a special dinner by candle light, the restaurant was a beautiful French restaurant and our table was right beside the pool. Conveniently, we were the only ones there dining at that time. Jared was super quiet that night, which if anyone knows Jared is unheard of. After our lovely meal, we were waiting for dessert and Jared “accidently” dropped his fork, as he bend over I noticed he started to go down on one knee, reached into his pocket and opened a box… “Will
you marry me?” It took me at least a full minute, which Jared described as an eternity to say “YES!” This was a magical moment for me, I was vacationing in paradise and my best friend had now asked me to spend the rest of my life with him. So let’s back up a bit, as Jared opened the box, and right after he asked the question… he had to explain the ring to me. He told me this wasn’t my “real” ring and explained why he disappeared a few times. He was busy talking to the jewelers at the resort about buying a ring, they had rings brought in from Cancun but he felt skeptical about buying one in Mexico. As coincident would have it, he ran into jewelers who happened to be vacationing at the same resort. They advised him not to buy a real ring in Mexico and would be better off buying a sliver ring and coming back to Canada and shopping for the real one together. All of that was a blur and all I was thinking about was—he just proposed! I was just happy to be engaged! Once we came back to Canada we started looking for my ring…. Jared, up to his tricks again… found a ring on his own wanted me to see it before he bought it. I did and I fell in love, it was a few days before valentines and I was hoping he’d buy that find. He told me let’s hold off on buying the ring because of the cost. I understood even though I felt it was the most perfect ring. Valentines came and Jared came with a dozen roses, a few minutes later he pulled out a box… and it was the ring! The Wedding Planner Magazine • Winter 2013 • Page 32
Haute Outside Creative Director: Margarita Oudalova, Owner & Creative Director of The Bouquet - Couture Florals & Events www.thebouquet.ca Makeup & Hair: Katerina Rapoport makeupartistrytoronto.com Cake & Cupcakes: Nanny D’s www.facebook.com/pages/Nanny-DsSpecialty-Cakes/102781119765101 Gowns, Hair Pieces and Shoes provided by: Reena Green Wedding Studio www.weddingstudioreenagreen.com Wedding Dress/Designer: www.oksana-mukha.com/en Stationary Designer: Puja Malhotra vibrancedesigns.com Photographers: Dan Speer & Tiffany Smith of Aura Atelier auraatelier.com Venue: Terra Cotta Inn, Caledon, ON www.cotta.ca/weddings.html
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Real Weddings Heidi & Dino
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Names: Heidi and Dino Date: March 1, 2013 Venue: Le Treport Banquet Hall, Mississauga, ON Dress and Veil: Elizabeth Stuart Bridal Bridesmaids Dresses: Le Chateau. Invitations: Michaels Craft Store Limo: Majestic Limo Services Jewelry: Swarovski Hair: Anthony DiBiase, Creative Image Make-Up: Nancy Lin, All Dolled Up Dino’s Tuxedo: Tuxedo Royale, Yorkdale Shopping Centre Cake: Diane Pasticceria FlowerGirl/Ring Bearer: Sasha, Heidi’s Shih-Poo Florist: Urban Florist DJ: DJ Alex, Musik Entertainment Photographer: Hina Photography Bombonieres: Rosie’s Sugar Shack Caricature Artist: Valerie White, Bigcatartworks Wedding Planner: Carmelina Karas, The Wedding Planner Magazine The Wedding Planner Magazine • Winter 2013 • Page 39
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Real Weddings Lindsay & Nick
Names: Lindsay and Nick Date: July 12, 2013 Venue: Steam Whistle Brewing, Toronto, ON www.steamwhistle.ca Dress: Beckers Bridal www.beckersbridals.com Hotel: Fairmont Royal York, Toronto, ON www.fairmont.com/RoyalYork Caterer: Eatertainment www.eatertainment.com Photographer: Tamara Lockwood Photography tamara-lockwood.com Video: Leslieville Media (David Ward) www.leslievillemedia.com Flowers: LaBelle Flowers www.labelleflowersandgifts.com Entertainment: D&W Entertainment Group Hair: Hayley Madigan Makeup: Jennifer Kirwin
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Real Weddings Sarah & Keith ~ Elizabeth Kogan
Tuxedo:
Andrew’s Formals
Bridal Gown:
Winterfall Brides
Bouquet & Boutinniere:
Late Bloom Florist
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he groomsmen stood outside, their deep red coloured scarves serving as a sharp contrast to the grey skies on the afternoon of October 27, 2013. They were waiting for the groom – Keith Childerhose – a man whose story is incredibly powerful. After having been diagnosed with a rare lung disease more than 16 years ago, Childerhose received a double-lung transplant in January 2013. Standing by his side through it all was his beautiful girlfriend Sarah Taylor. On February 14, 2013, Childerhose passionately proposed to Taylor from his hospital bed; Taylor blissfully said yes. “A day does not go by without my giving thanks to my donor and his family. I hope somehow having him live on in me helps console their loss,” Childerhose has said. The newly engaged couple learned about the Wedding Saviours contest in the Greater Toronto Area (GTA) and applied. Wedding Saviours was founded by Brenda Holdsworth: a big-hearted woman who had a simple but formidable vision - to bring businesses together to help a couple encountering hardship to have a dream wedding – all for free. The couples competing in the Wedding Saviours contest need to pay-it-forward by giving back to their own respective communities. In the GTA, the couples participating in the Wedding Saviours contest raised over 24,000 pounds of food for local food banks. Holdsworth’s Wedding Saviours has gone from a whisper of a dream to a national reality with Wedding Saviours teams now all over the country. Childerhose and Taylor won the Wedding Saviours GTA contest, which had a prize package valued at over $80,000. The Wedding Saviours GTA Team was led by Team Leader Jane Dayus-Hinch, of reality TV show Wedding SOS fame, and Assistant Team Leader Eddie Suliman, owner of Mystical Weddings & Event Planning.
Photography By: Kelly Elliott, Virtuoso Photography Photo Session Location: Glenerin Inn
When the Wedding Saviours GTA couple’s big day finally arrived, smiling guests filed into the picturesque The Vue venue as “Wind Beneath My Wings” played melodically in the background. When it was time for the ceremony, the bride, who was a vision of porcelain perfection, glided towards her groom as the lyrics of “Feels Like Home” hung beautifully in the air. Guests listened attentively as the wedding officiant relayed to the couple three important
words to remember and live by throughout their lives together: love, communication, and commitment. Following the ceremony, the newly married couple beamed as they walked down the aisle together. The cocktail reception was the epitome of elegance – guests nibbled on delectable hors d’oeuvres and sipped on refreshing drinks as the stunning view from the aptly named venue, The Vue, served as a fairy-tale backdrop. The event carried with it an intangible yet overwhelming feeling of love and excitement. Heartfelt speeches were given throughout the evening, including touching addresses by Jane Dayus-Hinch and Brenda Holdsworth.
The tear jerking speeches from the newlywed Childerhose and Taylor had everyone passionately moved. As Taylor once said, “After over 6 years together, it is wonderful that Keith and I can be married. Truly, Keith didn’t see much of a future for us because of his health, and when he managed to get down on one knee, despite chest tubes being in the way, and proposed to me – it was surreal and still brings a tear to my eye. We are so perfect together, and plan to live every day with gratitude and love.” This inspiring couple’s wedding day was nothing short of amazing, made possible by an extraordinary team of Wedding Saviours.
Brenda Holdsworth
Founder of Wedding Saviours
Venue:
The Vue
Decor & More:
4 Ever Yours Inc. Giulia’s Invitations The Happy Thoughts Shop
Wedding Cake:
She Bakes Me Cakes
Wedding Planner:
Eddie Suliman of Mystical Weddings & Event Planning
Jewellery:
Mon Petit Bijou
Bridal Makeup & Hair: Belle Beauty Boutique
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Real Weddings Teresa & Rob Names: Teresa and Robert Date: September 8, 2013 Venue: Bellvue Manor, Vaughan, ON www.bellvuemanor.com Decor: Covers Couture www.coverscouture.com
MC/DJ: Digital Entertainment Group www.thedigitalgroup.ca
Photographer: Marcie Costello Photography www.marciephoto.ca
Wedding Cake: Just Temptations www.justtemptations.com
Videographer: Level Studios www.levelstudios.ca
Florist: Floral Finish www.thefloralfinish.com
Wedding Planner: Carmelina Karas, The Wedding Planner Magazine www.weddingplannermag.ca
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Transportation: Lavish Limo www.lavishlimo.ca Brides Dress: Private Label by G, New Bridal Invitations: That’s So You Inc.
Brides Shoes: Kate Spade, David’s Shoes Groom’s Tux: Don Lee, Trend Custom Tailors Jewellery: Joanna Cappello (The Jewellery Girl)
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Hair and Makeup: La Couture Hair Lounge and Nadia Patrizi
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