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SAYING “I D DURING LOCKDOWN

How to plan a bold, yet intimate wedding day. TEXT SKYE LAVIS

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Y..es, we have ofcially reached Alert Level 1 and things are returning back to normal, but Covid-19 is only one of the reasons small weddings are the way of the future, there are plenty of other positives to consider.

BUDGET When it comes to your wedding budget, fgure out how much you have to spend in total, and where funding will come from (i.e savings, family, etc). Once you understand your fnances, you are able to plan accordingly. A smaller wedding simply means being able to cover a little more per head to go all out with your celebrations.

THE GUEST LIST Possibly the most important part of wedding planning is who to invite. With an intimate wedding, this means your nearest and dearest. As a couple, agree on a number that you feel comfortable with and work towards this. Typically, a small wedding lends itself to about 50 people – that’s 25 people on each side. Whatever number you agree on, consistency on both sides will avoid difculty. Finally, give some thought as to how you will manage friends and family not invited. Sticking to immediate families on both sides and both of your closest friends will help relieve the pressure. LOCATION One of the key considerations of a small wedding, is ensuring that the wedding venue complements the size of your party. Too big and it may look like some people didn’t turn up – too small and it could look like you’ve skimped on costs. Te key is researching venues online and then in person in advance, to ensure they work for your party size. Tink of where will you say your vows and where your reception will be. Tere are plenty of creative options for intimate venues and less guests mean less restrictions for you to choose from. Tis is where you’ll be spending the bulk of your day, so think about it carefully.

THE GUEST EXPERIENCE Te guest experience is often richer with smaller parties, as the couple is able to spend more time with everyone. However, because there’s more focus on guests, it also means that their experience needs to be high on the agenda too. Tink about how the day will unfold, and all the little touches that can be added to make it feel exclusive and special. Tis may be hiring a a private chef, an open bar or a tasting menu of some sort. At larger weddings, these special touches may not be possible. ACCOMMODATION Small wedding parties have the added option of whisking guests away across the country or to exclusive venues. Fewer guests can allow the entire party to stay on-site, depending on the wedding venue chosen. Tis can be a great beneft in keeping your big day feeling exciting and memorable, for a special select few.

MAKE YOUR OWN RULES Finally, one of the best benefts of small weddings is the option to break away from ‘unnecessary’ traditions and do things your way. It wouldn’t look out of place to have one or no bridesmaids, or to forgo a large group of groomsmen. Te beauty of an intimate wedding means that anything goes. ■