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A Heartfelt Month
There's a significant day (well ... for some) coming up on the horizon. No, I don't mean the Super Bowl, although that may be more important to most men than Valentine's Day.
I have mixed feelings about the big day, honestly. What initially started in mid-18th Century America as a day to celebrate love, affection and romance by exhanging handwritten notes and small tokens of affection has turned into quite the overpriced and commercialized circus. Not to mention Christmas isn't even over before retail stores start putting out hearts everywhere.
Love it or loathe it, it's still a day to celebrate the one you love. Regardless of how you celebrate Valentine's Day, I hope you have someone who deserves your love and appreciates your unique contributions to the relationship.
If you're looking for some relatively inexpensive but meaningful date night ideas, my son, Zachary, tried his hand at an article on that very subject this month. I thought he did an excellent job. Check out his article on page 19.
In This Issue
Our feature this month is April Ross. When she graduated high school, she knew she would be able to make a difference in the world by being on television. She obtained a bachelor's degree in communications and gained valuable experience in journalism for years working in radio and TV in Atlanta and around the Southeast.
On page 10, learn more about April, how she started BeeTV with just an iPhone 6 (yes, really!) and turned her dream of owning her own television station into an important community news source.
West Georgia Women's Extravaganza
As you flip through the pages of this issue, you'll also learn about recognizing red flags in your potential partner, unveiling the truth about the effects of affairs on your loved ones, your teen and toxic relationships and Chef Rose Isaacs' delicious recipes. We've also included the first article of our cancer support series written by Patrick Yuran.
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A Leap of Faith
BeeTV’s owner turns lifelong dream into integral community news source
By Shala Hainer
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People can give you their opinion, but God will always give you the answer.”
April Ross’s father, Charlie Hand, shared this tidbit of wisdom with her when she was younger, and it still rings true today.
In 2021, that answer was that she should buy a television station, even though she had no experience running a business of that magnitude. What she did have, though, was the knowledge gleaned from her education, journalism experience, several years of producing a social media news outlet, and the drive to succeed.
A Prayerful Start
April grew up in LaGrange, Ga., graduating from Troup High School. Her parents taught her early on the value of hard work. Her mother worked as a housekeeper, cooking and cleaning for a local family. Her father worked for Milliken for over 30 years, and he owned a lawncare business – coincidentally, one of his clients was Peter Mallory, the owner of a local TV station in LaGrange.
“Upon graduating from high school, I really didn’t know what I wanted to be, but I did what my parents taught me, which was when you don’t know, go to
God,” April remembers. “I realize that He created me, so He would know what my purpose is on this Earth.”
She recalls being 18 years old, praying for guidance, and knowing her way to make a difference would be on television. She majored in communications at Alabama State University, then came back home to intern with Peter at his TV station.
Her first professional journalism job was at WRBLTV in Columbus, Ga. “I was a production assistant, running the cameras and the audio board,” she says. “I remember all the production assistants wore sweatpants, jeans and shorts because nobody would see them. However, I made it a point to show up every day in a three-piece suit. The lead anchor Teresa Whitaker noticed me and said she would help me get a reporter position. But when a position became available, the news director told me I was not ready. I quit the job, but I still believed in what God’s word said, that I will eventually be on television. I found the drive to keep going after being passed over just simply believing in God‘s word and what He promised me.”
April continued to gain experience in journalism, working in both radio and TV in Atlanta and around
770.462.5005
the Southeast. She created and hosted a radio show, "The Diva's Den," on K95.7 in Columbus, and worked as the co-host of a television morning show on HPTV.
During this time, she met her husband, Corey, who owned a hair salon not far from where she grew up. “My best friend since second grade was dating his brother and asked me to meet Corey,” she recalls. “I walked in his hair salon – Corey’s Hair Salon – to meet him, and we began dating.”
They’ve now been married 20 years and have a full life with their blended family: Janay Holliday and her husband Andrew; Cornelia Carter and husband Brady; Jacari Brooks; Madison Ross; and Corey Ross, Jr. “We also have five grandkids: Jace, Callie, Levi, Kyrie and Dior; five horses: Goldie, Sugar, Mystery, Fred and Charlie; and a donkey named Buttons,” she laughs.
Birth of Bee TV
April eventually took a break from journalism. In 2017, she had opened a tax business in West Point, Ga., when she got an unexpected call. “I was minding my own business, running my tax business, when a young lady who I had been trying to mentor named Danielle Reed Norman told me that there was an incident that happened and there was nobody on the scene to tell what is going on,” she recalls. The incident was that a Troup County, Ga., sheriff’s deputy had been shot nearby.
“She told me to go take my phone and go Facebook Live and act like I was a reporter. I went to the scene and used what I had in my hand, which was an iPhone 6. I stayed live for six hours.”
April says Danielle brought her battery chargers, a coat and food to help her stay on the scene so long.
“And that’s how BeeTV network was birthed,” April says. She reached back to her journalistic roots and began using social media as her outlet to inform the community about important news and events. She quickly built a strong following of viewers.
“It was hard trying to balance it all in the beginning because my kids were small,” she relates. “People would message me through Facebook about a shooting, a fire or any type of incident, and I would run to the scene. I never owned a scanner.
Instead, the community trusted me with their news, and they would always alert me.”
One day, April received a phone call from the station she once interned with. The owner, Cary Carroll, had seen her on Facebook Live, and he asked if she could fill in on their morning show.
Corey watched the show and realized there was only dead air after the show ended. He encouraged April to ask if the owner might be willing to sell the station. She did, and to her surprise, he seemed interested.
The initial negotiations ended without them being able to come to an agreement, so April backed away and continued to focus on building her social media presence. Months later, in 2021, the owner called April to ask if she was still interested in buying the station.
“He originally gave us his asking price, and we agreed upon it, then days later, he came back with he wanted $100,000 over the asking price,” she recalls. “I knew financially we could not do it. He ended up telling me that the deal was off. I simply said OK. But I knew in my spirit that he would have to call me back because God had already shown me the station was mine. I just kept trusting and
believing in God. Six months later, he called back and asked if I was still interested in the station, and I said yes. He said all he wanted was the original asking price, and he took the $100,000 off the table and didn’t want it. He just wanted out.”
Building Bee TV
While any type of entrepreneurship is challenging, owning a television station is not for the faint of heart.
“A typical workday starts at 7 a.m. and ends about
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8 p.m. or 10 p.m.,” April relates. “I get up every morning at 5 a.m. The first thing I do is get on my knees and pray for God to order my steps because I feel like he has to give me my assignment for the day.”
Because BeeTV is a small station, April finds herself wearing many hats throughout the day. “I must admit owning a television station is very challenging,” she says. “A normal TV station has several departments and positions such as master control operator, cameraman, secretary, anchor, reporter and editor. Sometimes I work all of those positions. I am the producer, director, the decision maker, the salesperson. But I’m able to do it by the grace of God.”
April has grown the station enough that it now offers 24-hour programming, and she has program hosts, paid programming, advertisements and six people to help her on staff, including some of her family. “Corey retired from Corey’s Hair Salon after 33 years to come work with me at BeeTV network,” she shares. “He recently started a new business with his beloved horse, Fred, and a carriage, called Ross Royal Carriages Company. He will do weddings, special dances and similar events.
“Corey supports me by being our salesman for
BeeTV Network. He has been an entrepreneur for 33 years, so I rely on his expertise.”
Her son Jacari has a degree from Kennesaw State University in communications. He works with BeeTV to help with content, editing and master control.
Adding staff was possible in part through a Pivot Fund award in 2022. The Pivot Fund focuses on combating disinformation and connecting underserved communities throughout Georgia, and they award grants to news organizations owned by people of color who exemplify the Fund’s mission.
“The Pivot Fund found me about three years ago,” April explains. “Once they vetted me, I realized they were in a position to help me grow the station. The support I received from them allowed me to grow the station where I could not have grown it because of the lack of support from advertisers in our area.”
April shares that she structures her programming to reflect that BeeTV is “not a Black station or white station, but a people station in God‘s network.” However, she has noticed some backlash from advertisers who seem hesitant to support a minority business owner.
“My biggest challenge is advertising,” she shares. “I must say it is really difficult to get people to buy into what BeeTV represents. I remember purchasing the television station, and the previous owner asked me if I was concerned I might not get the support from white business owners because I was Black, and I told him no, I was not concerned because I love this community.”
However, shortly after purchasing the station, she emailed an existing, long-time advertiser only to be told they wanted their business off the air immediately. “For me, there was only one reason why they wanted to come off the air immediately after being on the station for years. I know I get results [from the advertising] because I always reach back out to my clients and ask do they get results.
“I think people initially got me confused with BET and thought that I was bringing a Black television station. But it was the same station. It was just a Black woman owning it.”
She’s not the only station owned by a person of color who has struggled with advertiser acceptance. According to the Federal Communications Commission, Black-owned stations are relatively rare. A 2022 FCC report showed only 18 Blackowned TV stations in the U.S. – that’s 1.3% off all stations in the country. Also, only 5.6% of stations, or 77 stations total, are owned by females.
Being a minority trailblazer in a traditionally white,
male industry means it might take a little while for advertisers to jump on board. April is confident it will happen.
“I do stories as they come,
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Creating a Romantic and Unforgettable Evening
Ideas for the perfect Valentine's Day date
By Zachary Dailey
Valentine’s Day is the ultimate excuse to show your partner just how much they mean to you. Sure, you can go all out with grand gestures and splurge on expensive gifts, but let’s be real – nothing beats a super fun, thoughtfully planned romantic evening. The secret sauce to an unforgettable Valentine’s celebration? Tailoring the night to your partner's unique tastes and crafting an experience full of meaning and joy.
If you're ready to spice things up, here are some creative and heartfelt ideas to make this Valentine’s Day unforgettable.
Home Candlelit Dinner
For an intimate and cozy evening, consider skipping the crowded restaurants and hosting a candlelit dinner at home. Cooking your partner’s favorite dishes – or experimenting with a new dish
together – is guaranteed to spice things up (no pun intended). Aim for a multi-course meal with appetizers, a main course and a decadent dessert.
Dont forget to set the mood by dimming the lights, lighting some candles and playing romantic music in the background. Use your finest tableware, add fresh flowers and sprinkle a few rose petals on the table for an extra romantic touch. Finish with wine or cocktails, or a specially crafted drink that complements your meal.
This idea is simple yet meaningful, offering a relaxed and personalized experience you'll both enjoy.
Romantic Twist Movie Night
Movie nights are fun and can be very romantic. Transform your living room into a cozy cinema just for the two of you. To kick things off, choose a fun
theme while selecting a blend of timeless romantic classics or your partner's favorite films.
Arrange soft blankets, several fluffy pillows and surround the room with twinkling fairy lights to create a warm and romantic atmosphere.
While you're watching the movie, indulge in gourmet popcorn or whip up a charming charcuterie board featuring your partner's favorite snacks. Add a personal touch to your "movie theater" by crafting movie tickets that match your theme or a "Now Showing" sign that includes your partner’s name.
Stargazing
There’s something truly enchanting about sharing the beauty of the night sky with someone you care about. Find a quiet place away from the hustle and bustle of the city – perhaps a park. If you live in a rural area, all you may need is your backyard or patio area.
Bring along soft blankets and pillows, along with a Thermos filled with hot cocoa or warm mulled wine to keep the chill at bay. If you have a firepit, build a fire for your partner and make s'mores together.
Enhance your outdoor experience by using a stargazing app to guide you through the constellations, or simply share sweet stories and memories of when you first met as you hang out beneath the twinkling sky. For an added suprise, gift your partner a heartfelt letter, a cherished poem or a thoughtful gift, making the evening unforgettable.
DIY Wine and Cheese Tasting
Transform your home into an elegant wine and cheese tasting experience – just for the two of you. Choose selections of wine that delight your partner's palate, whether it’s a rich red, a crisp white or a refreshing sparkling variety. Pair these with a variety of cheeses, crackers, fresh fruit, nuts and drizzles of honey.
Arrange everything on a rustic wooden board or slate to create a lovely presentation, and add soft candlelight or twinkling fairy lights to the room. Discuss the unique flavors, aromas and textures as you savor each bite together, allowing the joy of good food and great company to deepen your connection.
Relive Your First Date
Take a stroll down memory lane by recreating your first date. Replicate that magical moment by visiting
the same restaurant, park or café where your story began, or recreate it in the comfort of your own home. Dress up in outfits that mirror what you wore on that special day.
As you reminisce, share the memories of how you felt, the conversations you had and how your bond has strengthened since that day. To add a unique twist to the evening, include a fresh romantic element – a heartfelt toast or a thoughtful gift that symbolizes how far you’ve come together.
Home Disco
Nothing fosters intimacy quite like a spontaneous dance with the one you love. Prepare a cozy space at home filled with soft lighting and a carefully curated playlist of your favorite romantic songs. If you’re feeling adventurous, consider taking a dance lesson together beforehand. Whether it's a sultry salsa, graceful waltz or a simple slow
dance, dancing together can be an excellent way to connect with your partner. Make it even more special by surprising your partner with your own choreographed dance routine for the two of you.
Romantic Scavenger Hunt
Infuse your evening with play by creating a lovethemed scavenger hunt that leads your partner on a heartwarming adventure. Design delightful clues with sweet messages or charming riddles that guide him to special spots or significant places.
Incorporate cherished memories along the way. Use items such as photos, keepsakes or notes that celebrate milestones in your relationship.
Conclude the hunt with a surprise, leading your partner to a final romantic gesture; a handwritten letter, a thoughtful gift or a delicious dessert.
Spa Night
Transform your home into a serene spa retreat for a night of ultimate relaxation. Set the perfect ambiance with soft lighting, scented candles and soothing music to create a calming atmosphere. Treat each other to massages with aromatic oils, indulge in a bubble bath sprinkled with delicate rose petals, or pamper yourselves with face masks. Provide refreshments such as cucumber-infused water or herbal tea, paired with light snacks. Finally, wrap up in soft, cozy robes as you enjoy each other’s company.
Home Away From Home
Turn your home into a luxurious escape with a themed staycation. Choose a destination you both love – perhaps the charm of Paris, the allure of Italy or the joy of a sunny tropical island.
Decorate your space with fun props, music and scents that capture the essence of your chosen theme. Plan exciting activities, such as trying delicious cuisine from your chosen region, practicing a few love words in the language that speaks to your getaway or cozy up to watch travel documentaries together.
Love Letters
Sometimes, the simplest gestures carry the deepest significance. Take a moment to express your feelings through heartfelt letters written to one
another, sharing your love, gratitude and dreams for the future.
Create a meaningful moment by reading the letters aloud to one another.
To treasure these sweet exchanges and keep the letters safe, give a lovely keepsake box to your partner so he can revisit them later.
Sometimes, the simplest gestures carry the deepest significance.
Valentine’s Day is about celebrating love and connection. The best way to make the day special is by creating meaningful memories together, whether you opt for a quiet night at home or a unique and unforgettable activity. Choose an idea that resonates with both of you, and let the evening bloom with warmth, laughter and cherished moments. WGW
Recognizing Red Flags in Potential Partners
Spotting relationship troubles early and what to do about it
By Sandra Bolan
Love can blind us to all sorts of bad behaviors and lead us down a potentially heartbreaking and dangerous path. During the honeymoon phase of a relationship, you tend to ignore the quirky or odd behaviors you would typically pick up on if it weren't for your heart leading the charge.
Although it may be challenging, the more you listen to your instincts, the better off you'll be in the long run. So take your emotions out of the equation and don't be afraid to question your potential partner – and yourself – if you notice any of these red flags.
Compulsive Lying
Everyone fudges a little bit on their online dating profile, whether it’s posting a photo from 10 years and 20 pounds ago or claiming they’re adventure junkies when, in fact, they lost their lunch the last time they rode the Tilt-a-Whirl.
Those fibs, for the most part, are innocuous. Still, for some people, they may indicate insecurity that can manifest into controlling and abusive behaviors toward a future partner. Those fibs may also cover up a big lie – like he is already in a relationship or married.
If a relationship is going to work, there can't be dishonesty. If you catch him lying often – even about small or silly things – run. You don't want to be with someone who can't – or won't – be honest with you.
Jealousy vs. Possession
It can be rather flattering when your partner gets his hackles up when he sees you talking to an attractive person of the opposite sex. It transitions from sweet to sound-the-alarm when he flies off the handle and forbids you to see the person again.
Jealousy can also show up when you spend time with your family or do activities on your own. It’s not that he loves you so much he always wants to be with you. He doesn't trust you, despite you never giving him a reason not to do so.
A jealous person is more concerned about himself versus what’s in your best interest.
Jealousy can start with simple questions like “Who were you talking to?” or “Why does your male coworker text you after hours?" then quickly morph into controlling tactics such as monitoring you via GPS, reading your text messages or emails, forbidding you from interacting with others without him present, isolating you from friends and family, and may escalate into physical abuse.
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The golden rule is to treat others the way you want to be treated. One way to quickly figure out your date’s character is to watch how he treats service workers such as waitstaff, bartenders and Uber drivers while out together. If your date fingersnaps to get a waiter or bartender’s attention, leaves a cheap tip or is just plain rude, then he likely has an inflated sense of self-entitlement. He may be a narcissist, which can lead to demeaning, belittling and intimidating behaviors. Narcissists are also known to have more aggressive and violent tendencies, and have zero empathy for others –especially those closest to them.
Many of us have had relationships that didn't end well, but over time, most typically don't give much thought to their exes – unless they have kids together. If your new date continually speaks negatively about his ex or exes, that’s never a good sign. It's clear he hasn't moved on, especially when it's been years. Be very afraid if all of his relationships ended poorly, and he bandies about words like “crazy,” “obsessed,” or “psycho,” to describe his former wife or girlfriend. He may be projecting his feelings about himself onto them. If your family or friends don’t like him, pay
attention. These are the people who’ve been with you through thick and thin and have always had your back. They want what’s best for you, and they are most likely to see through any facade.
When You Finally See Clearly
Once the honeymoon phase of a relationship is over and your partner’s true colors shine through, what do you do? First, discuss your concerns with your partner in a calm manner. If you don’t speak up, nothing will change, and the control, jealousy and emotional abuse could get worse and become physical.
If the situation has already escalated and you’ve become isolated from your friends and family, you fear for your safety or are being abused, leave immediately. Even if you haven’t spoken to your family in some time, odds are they love you and will do anything in their power to help you.
If you think the relationship is worth saving (never stay if the relationship is abusive) and your partner is willing, couples' therapy is an option.
If there are problems early on that give you pause, trust your gut and walk away before you get involved. It's better to wait for "Mr. Right" than settle for a miserable life with "Mr. Wrong." WGW
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Chicken Alfredo Stuffed Shells
Ingredients
20 jumbo pasta shells
2 cups cooked and shredded chicken (rotisserie chicken works well)
1 cup ricotta cheese
1 cup shredded mozzarella cheese
½ cup grated Parmesan cheese
2 cloves garlic, minced
1 teaspoon Italian seasoning
¼ teaspoon salt
¼ teaspoon black pepper
2 cups Alfredo sauce (homemade or storebought)
2 tablespoons fresh parsley, chopped (optional, for garnish)
Preparation
Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil. Cook the jumbo pasta shells according to the package instructions until al dente.
Drain and rinse under cold water to prevent sticking. Set aside.
In a large bowl, combine the shredded chicken, ricotta cheese, ½ cup mozzarella cheese, Parmesan cheese, garlic, Italian seasoning, salt and pepper.
Mix well until fully combined.
Preheat your oven to 375°F.
Spread 1 cup of Alfredo sauce on the bottom of a 9-inch-by-13-inch baking dish.
Spoon the chicken and cheese mixture into each shell and place them seam-side up in the baking dish.
Pour the remaining 1 cup of Alfredo sauce evenly over the stuffed shells.
Sprinkle the remaining ½ cup of mozzarella cheese on top.
Cover the baking dish with aluminum foil and bake in the preheated oven for 20 minutes. Remove the foil and bake for an additional 10 minutes, or until the cheese is bubbly and slightly golden.
Remove the dish from the oven, and let it cool for 5 minutes.
Garnish with chopped parsley if desired, and serve warm.
Serves 4 to 6
“This rich and creamy dish is perfect for a comforting meal or Valentine’s Day dinner.”
Blood Orange Panna Cotta
Ingredients
1/2 cup heavy cream
1/4 cup whole milk
1/4 cup freshly squeezed blood orange juice
1 tablespoon granulated sugar
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 teaspoon powdered gelatin
1 tablespoon cold water
Optional: blood orange segments and zest for garnish
Preparation
In a small bowl, sprinkle the gelatin over the cold water and let it sit for 5 minutes to bloom. In a small saucepan, combine the heavy cream, milk and sugar.
Heat the mixture over medium heat until the sugar dissolves and the cream is just starting to steam. Do not let it boil.
Remove the saucepan from the heat and stir in the vanilla extract and the bloomed gelatin until completely dissolved.
Allow the mixture to cool slightly, then stir in the freshly squeezed blood orange juice.
Mix well to combine.
Pour the panna cotta mixture evenly into two ramekins or serving glasses.
Cover and refrigerate for at least 4 hours or until set.
To serve, garnish with blood orange segments, a sprinkle of zest or a small dollop of whipped cream if desired.
Serves 2. WGW
“This blood orange panna cotta offers a balance of creamy sweetness and bright citrus notes, perfect for a romantic dessert.”
Unveiling the Truth
Understanding the devastating impact of affairs
By Sandra Bolan
Infidelity is a selfish act that’s all about the adulterers needing a self-esteem boost – the older woman usually hooks up with the young, hot guy, or the older man becomes enamored with a bombshell. Those who commit adultery never think of the consequences because they don’t expect to get caught. But when an affair is brought to light and the secret comes out, it can have a devastating effect on their partners, children, friends and family.
More than 17% of married Americans engage in extramarital sex, according to extramarital affairs statistics published in the Current Research Journal of Social Sciences (2020) – 22.9% are men, and 13.82% are female. The study also discovered people age 55-65 are most likely to have an affair (21.46%) with people age 41-54 next (20.68%).
Infidelity is the No. 1 reason for divorce, with 2550% of all U.S. marriages ending due to extramarital affairs, according to divorce after infidelity statistics published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior. Some couples may manage to work through the betrayal of an affair and remain together, but the relationship will most likely never be the same. The person who was cheated on typically loses respect for the cheater and has difficulty trusting him again.
Extended family and friends can also be affected, whether the couple stays together or splits up. If the couple remains together, friends and family who know about the affair will never look at the cheater the same. They may refuse to participate in social gatherings to show solidarity toward the victim. If they do socialize, they may give the adulterer sideways glances and the cold shoulder, making events uncomfortable for everyone. This also becomes emotionally taxing on the victim because she is caught between forgiving her spouse and wanting to retain friendships.
Children
Depending on the age of the children, they may never be privy to the details of the affair. However, if the parents remain married, they will pick up on the newfound tension in the household and see how differently mommy and daddy treat each other, no matter how well they try to hide it.
If the affair leads to divorce, children will not only grow up in two different households, but they will have to, potentially, learn how to get along with their parent's new partner and other children.
Children impacted by affairs typically grow up with trust issues, especially when it comes to romantic partners. Seventy-five percent of children whose
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parents were cheated on will feel long-standing resentment and betrayal toward the cheating parent, according to research.
The Inlaws
When an affair leads to divorce, not only do the spouses go their separate ways and grieve the loss of a marriage, but so do the parental in-laws, siblings and other family members who have forged relationships.
When an affair is uncovered, parents of the cheater may blame the other spouse for causing the cheater to stray, which can irreparably damage the in-law relationship.
When children are involved, the grandparents may feel resentful because they aren't able to have the same relationship with their grandchildren as they had before due to divorce or the custodial parent moving away.
Friends
There are the friends you’ve had long before getting married and there are those you met together. Those decades-old friendships will remain intact and they’ll circle the wagons to provide any and all support needed. But those new couple friends may vanish. Some may fall away because they don’t want to have to choose between the two. Some couples may even have opposing views on the situation, causing strife in their own relationship, forcing them to step away from the other couple.
No one gets married intending to become embroiled in an illicit affair, but it happens, and the damage it causes goes well beyond a broken heart or two. Discovering your partner was unfaithful can lead to self-blame, confusion, long-lasting emotional turmoil and lost relationships – ultimately affecting your children, families and friends. WGW
Holding On and Letting Go:
A Story of Love, Life and Loss
Lesson #1: Give Yourself Permission
Our love story feels like an enduring fairy tale that began the moment we met over 30 years ago. From the very start, we shared an unshakable connection that has withstood the test of time, filled with many highs and a few lows. Together, we built a life of laughter, adventurous travel and the simple dream of growing old together. But in March 2022, everything changed. Marie was diagnosed with non-curable metastatic stage-four breast cancer, and our fairy tale took an unexpected, heartbreaking turn. The diagnosis settled in like an uninvited guest, casting a shadow over the vivid dreams we had once shared. And it wasn’t long before we realized that, in order to move forward, we had to give ourselves permission.
Letting go of the life we once knew was going to be the hardest part of all. The carefree days of simple pleasures, the joy of planning far-off adventures and the hope of years ahead now felt distant and almost unreachable.
As a natural planner, I struggled to adjust to a world that refused to conform to my meticulously crafted blueprint. Suddenly, we were forced to mourn the loss of our future. It felt like a betrayal to even consider letting go of the dreams we had shared, yet clinging to them only suffocated us.
Eventually, after a long and painful period of grieving, I realized that I needed to give myself permission to feel that loss without guilt. It wasn’t easy, but by doing so, clarity slowly began to emerge. I began to understand that letting go wasn’t the same as giving up. Instead, it was about making space for something new … something that could be just as amazing as the life we once had, though different from what
we had planned. It was about accepting our reality, allowing ourselves to exist in this new space, and preparing ourselves for the next chapter.
As we navigated this uncertain new chapter, our relationship deepened in ways I never could have anticipated. We began to find unexpected opportunities and moments of connection and understanding that hadn’t been possible before. In the face of cancer, our love and respect for one another only grew stronger.
I became more than Marie’s husband and life partner; I became her advocate, her cheerleader and her rock. I attend almost every doctor’s appointment, learning the intricate details of her illness so I can stand beside her with knowledge. On the toughest days, I remind her of the strength she doesn’t always see in herself. I remind her of the incredible resilience she carries, especially when she feels at her weakest. And sometimes, my role is simply to sit quietly with her, holding space in silence when she feels lost, when the woman I’ve loved for so long no longer feels like herself. Cancer has taken so much from her ... and yet, it has also given her so much.
Through this journey, Marie has met incredible individuals on a similar path, people who’ve connected through this shared experience and formed lifelong friendships. She’s received care from amazing healthcare workers whose empathy has transformed her mindset and helped her find a renewed sense of hope.
One morning, Marie woke up with a newfound sense of purpose, identifying her next chapter in life. With pride and determination, she decided to move forward, embracing this new journey.
I’ve come to understand that giving ourselves permission to live fully in the present, no matter how uncertain or painful it may be, is the only way to move forward. We cannot control the future, and we cannot undo the past. All we can do is honor the love we share, trust in the strength we find in one another and give ourselves permission to feel the full spectrum of this journey. Only then can we truly embrace each day, together. WGW
Patrick Yuran is an educator, artist, and entrepreneur. He currently serves as the Head of School at Oak Mountain Academy, is the founder and Artistic Director of The REAL Theatre and is the President of PJY Consulting. Photos: Patrick with his wife, Marie, by Zachary Dailey, Dailey Life Photography.
LocaL Happenings
Domestic Violence Support Group
There is Hope is a support group for women survivors who have dealt with, or are currently dealing with, domestic violence.
This is a private group where women survivors come together and share their personal stories of experience, strength and hope.
This group meets on the first Thursday of every month from 5:30 to 6:30 p.m. at a private location. A ZOOM option is available.
There will be guidance for help and resources available as needed. At times there will also be guest speakers.
Contact hopefulone807@gmail.com for more information and to obtain the privacy contract with the physical address or ZOOM meeting ID and passcode.
Survivors of Suicide Loss Support Groups
Has your life been impacted by the loss of a friend or loved one to suicide? You are not alone. These groups offer peer support for anyone who has been affected by suicide loss. There is no cost to attend.
Group meetings in Carrollton are the third
Tuesday of each month from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at 306A Bradley Street.
For more information, contact Ivey Rollins at iveyrollins@gmail.com or call 470.729.0909.
Group meetings in Douglasville are the second Tuesday of each month from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the First United Methodist Church at 6167 Priestley Mill Rd., Room 226.
For more information, contact Terri Johnson at chose2live@aol.com or 770.765.2181.
Group meetings in Newnan are the second Monday of each month at 7 p.m. at Crossroads Church, 2564 Hwy 154.
For more information, contact Lynn Bradley at 770.301.4890 or email nbll.bradley170@gmail.com, or contact Nancy Bradley at 770.251.6216.
PFLAG Carrollton Support Group
PFLAG Carrollton provides a free monthly peer facilitated support group for adult members (ages 18+) of the LGBTQ+ community, as well as their family, friends and allies, as a resource for families struggling with acceptance of their LGBTQ+ loved ones.
The goal is to meet people where they are and lead with love. PFLAG’s mission of support, education and advocacy from a place of love can
help struggling families, as well as the community at large.
Support group meetings (for adults 18+) are led by a PFLAG trained facilitator and held on the second Thursday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall at Grace Lutheran Church, 101 Somerset Place in Carrollton.
Confidentiality and safety are top priorities. Contact Julia Houser, pflagcarrollton@gmail.com for more information.
Valentine's Dances Return to Carrollton Train Depot
Carrollton Parks and Recreation Department’s popular Daddy/Daughter and Mother/Son Valentine dances return to the Depot on Bradley on Saturday, February 8. With a theme of “Altogether Memorable,” the dances will feature dinner (a full meal), dessert and door prizes – and, of course, dancing to a soundtrack provided by a DJ.
The all-day event starts at 11 a.m. with pre-K through third grade girls, followed by pre-K to sixth grade boys at 3 p.m. and fourth through eighthgrade girls at 7 p.m.
Tickets are $30 per couple in advance and $50 at the door. Tickets are available at carrolltonparksandrec.com and at the door.
Carroll EMC Helps Fund Teachers’ Bright Ideas
Because Carroll Electric Membership Cooperative (EMC) Members elected to round up to the nearest dollar on their electric bill, 117 schoolteachers in Carroll, Haralson, Heard and Paulding counties will be able to enhance student learning through the coop’s Bright Ideas grant program. Grants awarded for the 2024 funding cycle totaled $88,216.
Each August, applications for Bright Ideas grants are open to public school educators teaching grades pre-K through 12. Teachers can request up to $1,000 to fund a project in the classroom including but not limited to science, technology, engineering, arts, math and social studies. A school is automatically made eligible if an enrolled student’s home is served by Carroll EMC.
This year, representatives of the cooperative hand-delivered checks to 40 schools, and in the process, walked to each classroom to surprise the teachers and their students with the news.
“Every single teacher was so excited and wanted their students to know what the grant was going to do for the classroom,” said Nita Burns, Carroll EMC Foundation Trustee. “The students buy in to the project a lot quicker this way.”
Burns, who is a former local educator of 40 years, knows just how valuable grants of this nature are for the success of students. With a limited budget, it can be difficult to create engaging work that goes along with the curriculum. Bright Ideas grants are set up to where teachers can apply year after year and
Joseph Benefield (back row, holding sign) of Carrollton Elementary School was selected for a Bright Ideas grant for his project, "Microscopes for STEM."
surprised at just how forward-thinking the teachers are in creating new experiences that are relevant to what the kids are going to need to know in the future.”
Bright Ideas grants are funded through the generous donations of Carroll EMC Members who participate in Operation Round Up®, a program where they elect to “round up” their electric bills to the nearest dollar. The program is governed by the cooperative’s Foundation Trustees and funds a variety of community service projects including Bright Ideas, Impact Grants, student scholarships, and many health and human services programs.
To see a complete list of this year’s Bright Ideas recipients, please visit carrollemc.com/brightideas. Applications for 2025 will be accepted beginning August 15.
Carroll EMC is a Member-owned cooperative providing electricity to approximately 56,000 homes and businesses. The co-op serves Members in Carroll, Haralson, Heard, Paulding, Polk, Floyd and Troup counties. This institution is an equal opportunity provider and employer. For more information visit the cooperative’s website at carrollemc. com or follow Carroll EMC on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, X and YouTube. Carroll EMC: Community Built. Community Builder.
build upon previous projects or submit new ideas.
“When I was teaching, we had access to grants at the state level, but they were difficult to apply for,” said Burns. “If you won the grant, there was a chance you wouldn’t be eligible again for another five to ten years. It would have been so exciting to have something like this available back then.”
To be considered for a Bright Ideas grant, teachers must submit an online application outlining, in detail, their classroom project and the expected budget. All applications are judged blindly by the cooperative’s Foundation Trustees and are automatically disqualified if any reference is made to a specific teacher or school.
“If you’re considering applying, my advice is to look for things that will support your curriculum in a new and different way,” added Burns. “I’m always
Tricia Pederson (holding signs) of Paulding County High School was selected for a Bright Ideas grant for her project, “Repurposing and Utilization of Vehicle Tires for STEAM-based Learning.”
Ramona Allen (back row, holding sign) of Tallapoosa Primary School was selected for a Bright Ideas grant for her project, “Fun with Numbers.”
Jessica Wright (standing in center) of Bremen Academy was selected for a Bright Ideas grant for her project, “Reading for the Future.”
Alisha Velarde (back row, holding sign) of Bay Springs Middle School was selected for a Bright Ideas grant for her project, “Readers Become Leaders!”
Pam Lane (holding sign) of Centralhatchee Elementary School was selected for a Bright Ideas grant for her project, “Doodles and Lines and Lines and Doodles.”
YOUR TEEN AND TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS
Recognizing the warning signs of teen dating violence
By Sandra Bolan
Teenage relationships are filled with angst and drama. And who can blame them – their hormones are out of whack, and they’re trying to find their place in the world, all with limited life experience and coping skills.
This limited experience can also create challenges in early romantic relationships – especially when it comes to deciphering between love and possession. This can lead her to, unknowingly, becoming involved in a toxic relationship.
Teenagers typically try to assert their independence, often clashing with parental authority and expectations, giving space for a clever/manipulative person to waltz in and take advantage of the situation – disguising his behavior as love and affection.
Toxic relationships start innocently enough. But with a bit of peer pressure and an ever so slowly shift into guilt-tripping, gaslighting, emotional blackmail and even physical abuse, the toxic partner is able to
get and keep the victim under his thumb.
It’s quite normal for a teenager to spend much of her free time with a new boyfriend, but it becomes concerning when the teen also gives up her friends and social activities. Another warning sign is when the teen no longer verbalizes her own thoughts and will instead revert to: “My boyfriend says,” “According to my boyfriend” or “My boyfriend thinks.”
Warning signs your teen may be in a physically abusive or toxic relationship include being overly dependent on her partner, no longer thinking for herself, low self-esteem, depression, having no interest in activities she used to enjoy and unexplained bruises and injuries.
What Can You Do?
When you suspect your child is involved in a toxic relationship, your first instinct is to protect her by
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telling her she's in a bad relationship and to leave him immediately. But that can be counterproductive. You've heard the phrase, "You can catch more flies with honey." Be strategic when trying to help her –although you may be screaming inside.
• Refrain from speaking negatively about the friend or boyfriend. When you trash-talk her boyfriend or friend, it typically pushes her into the arms of the very person you want her to get away from. A clever manipulator will also use the family discord to his benefit by telling her, “Your parents don’t understand you as I do” or “They’re trying to control you,” when he's the one who is controlling her.
• When talking to your teen, use as many "I" messages as you can, without sounding accusatory. Rephrase, “He’s controlling you” to “I’m concerned you’re being told who you can and can't hang out with. Your friends and family rarely see you anymore.” “I can't believe you can't see what he's doing to you," should be rephrased as "I'm wondering if you have any concerns about your relationship. It seems as if you may not have a voice anymore. I love you and I'm here for you if you need to talk, or I'd love to help you find a therapist if you would feel more at ease talking to a professional about this."
• Be there for your teen. Listen and provide support, without judgment. If she knows there won’t be impending punishment or blame from you, she may be more willing to open up. The exception to this approach is if your child is in a physically abusive
relationship. Her safety is your No.1 priority, so do whatever you need to do to keep her away from him, including calling the police and pressing charges or getting a restraining order against him. Be prepared for your teen to deny being abused and not appreciate your interference. This could also push her closer to the person you’re trying to get her away from.
• Have conversations about toxic relationships before she starts dating. If you're watching a movie together that shows dating violence, tell her how unacceptable it is to treat a partner that way. From an early age, kids are watching everything the adults in their lives do. Model appropriate relationship behaviors within your own family. Treat others with respect and kindness, even if you're angry.
• Talk to your sons about dating violence. It's not just up to daughters to learn about avoiding toxic relationships. Explain to your son what is appropriate and inappropriate when it comes to dating. This includes covering topics such as sexual consent and respect.
Whether it was caused by a romantic partner or a new best friend, the lasting effects of a toxic relationship can linger for years and can cause anxiety, depression, fear, guilt and shame. She may have trouble trusting others and forming new relationships. A once self-assured teen may now struggle to make the simplest of decisions because she no longer trusts herself to make good choices. Depending on the severity of the abusive relationship and its effects on the victim, therapy may be required. Being in a toxic relationship alters a person’s behavior and self-esteem. Be patient and let her know you love her unconditionally. WGW
Kids Korner
Valentine Mailbox
Materials
Empty facial tissue box
Construction paper, various colors
Hot glue gun
Scissors
Glue stick
Instructions
Cut six construction paper squares to match the size of the top and sides of a tissue box.
Glue the construction paper squares to all sides of the tissue box.
Cut a slit for the Valentines in the top square.
Cut heart shapes from construction paper.
Glue the heart shapes onto the sides and top of the box.
By Jordan Dailey
Craft photos by Zachary Dailey
Folded Heart Valentine
Materials
Construction paper, various colors
Scissors
Hot glue gun
Glue sticks
Instructions
Take a piece of construction paper and cut out a large circle.
Fold the circle in half, then create accordion folds on both sides.
Fold the accordion-shaped paper in half and hot glue the edges together.
Unfold it to form a heart shape. WGW
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