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Take dating, for instance. If you’ve gone out lately, your date was likely chosen through an elaborate screening process on a dating site, perhaps Cupids for Cartoonists or Compromise, Already.

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Oh, wait—first, you’ll need to choose the theater before you can even discuss the movie. TripAdvisor allows anyone with the slightest ax to grind to be a critic on anything, even movie theaters. “The floor was sticky. No stars.”

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That’s to say nothing of the dinner conversation, as you compare your date’s every witty comment to seasoned comics on their third or fourth Netflix comedy special. Everyone’s a critic now.

Can you imagine if our ancestors used TripAdvisor instead of just hopping on a ship over here? “Do we really want to try that place? It’s filled with our tired, our hungry, and our noisy.” Our founding fathers had no time for reviews. The Times didn’t pan the Donner Party (“Two thumbs down!”), telling pioneers there was nothing worth the price of admission out West.

Paul Revere didn’t ride the countryside announcing: “The risotto is runny! The risotto is runny!”

Our country is overrun with critics, us.

Why do we bitch and moan our whole life?

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--Cartoon by Danny Shanahan from Everyone’s a Critic © 2019 Bob Eckstein, published by Princeton Architectural Press. Reprinted with permission from the publisher.

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BLAKE AND NIKKI: A new, life-threatening substance, a tainted batch, or a deadly cocktail. Friends are dying all around us. No one believes it can happen to them — yet it does. Five years ago, when we were in middle school, there were five overdose deaths in a three-month period in our school communities and no one did anything in response — not the schools, the parents, or the kids. Why? The stigma. People are terrified by the threat of the opioid crisis, but even more afraid of the stigma surrounding it.

A group of us started talking about these tragedies. Small conversations turned into getting together informally, which morphed into monthly meetings. We shared our sorrows and fears. But, mostly, we shared our stories. Some of us were kids experiencing the shocking deaths of schoolmates, or watching friends or siblings headed down the path of addiction. Some of us had parents in recovery, or family members in active addiction. We had one thing in common — we all knew someone afflicted by addiction or overdose and we were terrified we could be next.

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GENERATION S.O.S. was born one Saturday afternoon

four years ago in a living room on the Upper East Side of New York City. A group of high school students met to talk honestly about the drug and overdose crisis, how so many of their friends were dying, and why their schools were not addressing this epidemic.

These students knew drugs were ravaging their generation and they urgently needed help navigating this crisis. Society had failed them, so they turned to each other.

The simple truth is teens listen to their peers. There is nothing more powerful than young adults sharing their stories and letting others know they are not alone — while educating each other about the risks of substance misuse, encouraging informed choices, and urging friends to get help if they are struggling.

While we loved our monthly discussions, we were reluctant to invite friends. What would they think? Would they assume we had a drug problem? Would they think we were uncool and had nothing better to do on a Saturday afternoon? Would they think we were the “drug police” and ostracize us from parties? What developed was purely organic — it was social and informative, but most important it was real and other kids truly wanted to join our group. We don’t preach abstinence; it’s not realistic. We preach awareness and safety while sharing healthy ways to navigate complicated and uncomfortable situations. This is so different from high school programs, which typically involve PowerPoint presentations and mindnumbing statistics.

We soon attracted sober kids who took on a lead role in our discussions with their own heart-wrenching stories of going down the path of addiction. Our meetings became a safe place to come listen, learn, relate, and teach other kids about the dangers of drug use today — a safe haven

to talk openly and share their truths. The sober kids who shared their stories became role models and resources for us on how to live healthy lives. Before we knew it, our informal gatherings were regularly attracting 100+ kids and became the coolest place to be on a Saturday afternoon.

We know the incredible impact Generation S.O.S. has had on our community. Kids from 12 neighboring schools are now starting Generation S.O.S. clubs in their schools. We helped launch a Miami chapter with seven schools represented so far. And we just launched a chapter in LA. Our hope is to build a movement that brings Generation S.O.S. to other communities and inner cities around the country, to finally transform how America responds to this opioid crisis. No young person should ever have to die of this illness or be left alone to pick up the pieces of the ones still struggling.

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TYLER:

I wondered if my mom and I would ever really know each other again.

When I was in fifth grade my mother became addicted to drugs, and this incredibly unexpected part of her life’s story became part of mine, as well. For one year my mother was not herself. She lost her way, lost me, and lost almost everything that mattered to her.

The news is plagued by stories of addiction, and “experts” visit schools to lecture kids on this topic, referencing statistics and complex brain functions.

But NO ONE shares personal experiences.

No one tells you that the person you love can’t get out of bed. They don’t talk about the rage, depression, abandonment, irresponsibility and incredible pain and sorrow the people around them go through. The experts leave out the real-life details. But I know the details, witnessing my mother’s battle with her addiction and my father’s fight to save me from it.

I didn’t tell anyone about my mother’s addiction for six years. I was ashamed of what people would think of me and, worse, of my mother. If other parents knew about my mother would they let their kids play with me? Would they shun my mother?

I was urged to attend a Generation S.O.S. meeting nearly four years ago — a snowy afternoon on MLK weekend. I sat quietly, still unsure why I came, wondering how this was going to help me considering I wasn’t an addict. The leader asked us to say our first name, school, grade, and why we were there. My luck — I was first. I stared at the floor as I recited the words, “ Hi, my name is Tyler, I go to Trinity, I’m in 11th grade, and I’m here because my mother is an addict.” I can’t explain it but saying it out loud for the first time felt like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders.

As the rest of the kids spoke, I was in shock. Each was either an addict or had someone in their family who suffered.

These kids were my contemporaries but what I noticed was they all accepted their stories. Their lives weren’t perfect but the group helped me understand the “perfect life” does not exist.

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secrets. I was free. Afterwards, I was approached by so many kids asking if they could come to this meeting, and the school psychologist’s office had a line of kids coming to get help. They said it was the most engaging assembly they had ever seen.

My mother still meets with adults who reached out to her that day.

I might not be a rock star, but for one day I got to feel what it was like to be one, just by sharing my story.

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to let me break her anonymity by speaking to my entire high school about what I’d been through and how I was getting help.

My school offers seven assemblies a year, run by a senior about a topic important to them. I applied to be a speaker and, sure enough, I was chosen.

As I told my story from the podium, I saw kids with tears streaming down their faces and in disbelief. As I finished, an entire room leapt to their feet. There was an outpouring of love. The relief and joy I felt was indescribable. I had no more

The “S.O.S.” in Generation S.O.S. stands for “Sharing Our Stories.” Story sharing will always be at the core of our mission because everyone, directly or indirectly, knows someone impacted by substance misuse or overdose and, as a result, everyone has a story to tell. We also know that sharing these stories — which in many cases have never been told due to the crippling stigma and shame that, sadly, surround this issue — can be incredibly cathartic, even hopeful. For many, it is the end of a painful, often private journey and the beginning of healing.

Generation S.O.S. is launching an ambitious movement-building campaign called “A Million Stories.” The idea is really very simple. We want youth all around the country to create short (20-30 second) videos of their stories on their mobile phones, and then post them to Instagram @GenerationSOS. We are not looking for works of art, just authentic stories from people whose lives have been touched by this issue. As more and more teens and young adults share their stories, the movement will grow, as will the realization that they are all in this together and, with each other’s love and support, they will get through it. And Generation S.O.S. will be here to help them however we can.

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DYLAN:

Accepting that I was an addict, at 21, was the hardest thing I ever did. I thought, “It’s impossible at such a young age!” However, when I sat down with a fellow alcoholic and recounted my journey from first drink to last, there was no question I, too, suffered from addiction. I was so ashamed to consider myself an alcoholic because of the stigma. It meant I was different, and growing up different from anyone was a “death sentence.” It didn’t fit with who I thought I was, who my parents expected me to be, how I wanted others to see me. I was angry at the world and didn’t want to admit defeat.

Addiction didn’t begin with my drinking.

I developed a severe eating disorder at age 15, and was taking Ambien, Xanax, and Adderall — but not as prescribed. I describe my relationship with substances (metaphorically) as important as my best friend, my boyfriend, and my parents.

Imagine the person you feel safest with, happiest with, and trust to always be there for you. Now, replace that person with a substance. I didn’t choose this path, and no matter how much I loved you, the disease of alcoholism made me love the substance more. Addiction kept me isolated from help by convincing me that I always knew best.

Substances robbed me of my childhood, my relationship with my family and friends, and my self-love and confidence. I made some attempts at changing, but with every failed attempt I found another addiction to hold on to, like cocaine, which only made everything worse. I didn’t have access to resources or people who could show me what being sober meant. I needed another person in whom I saw myself, who had been through what I had and come out the other side. I had to put to rest the idea that only I know what is best for me and allow other experienced individuals to guide me.

Conquering addiction is not easy, it is not something you can defeat alone, but it is possible for anyone.

I found Generation S.O.S. through a friend and instantly wished it existed when I was younger. It might have spared me all the pain and suffering. It’s such a welcoming community — for people with no experience with addiction, people who know someone struggling, and those of us

who are recovering. I was honored when they asked me to share my story with high school students and parents because I wanted to speak to that girl struggling with an eating disorder, to parents who feel helpless because they don’t know how to help their child, or just to give anyone hope. Those amazing events that once made me feel so ashamed and disgraced now allow me to share my journey with others… and maybe help just one.

BUILDING A MOVEMENT

We are helping build a movement of youth who will support each other and transform how America responds to this health crisis.

We focus on movement-building because there is, literally, strength in numbers.

When our youth realize they are not alone as they confront challenges with substance use, they feel empowered. Within just a few years, we intend to make Generation S.O.S., and the resources we provide, known to virtually every student in the country.

Generation S.O.S. is unlike any other national nonprofit organization — it serves,

and is led by, young adults, focusing on preventing addiction. We don’t preach abstinence because it is unrealistic in today’s society. Instead, our young adults create awareness about the dangers of substance misuse, in order to engage and educate their peers before they are faced with difficult choices — or worse. Our members are involved in an extraordinary range of projects, including forming school clubs, creating peer support videos, producing community events, posting social media content, and even building our website.

A year ago, Generation S.O.S. expanded to Miami and, in November, Los Angeles.

Within five years we will be in 25+ cities across the country. We’re building a massive social media presence, creating interactive programs to be used in schools, and working with a leading producer to create concerts to grow our movement around the country. An annual fundraiser was held in Bridgehampton in August — “Shoot for Awareness” with Jay Williams, former NBA star and ESPN analyst.

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Just days before our first Generation S.O.S. meeting in Miami a student we all knew committed suicide. Apparently, he had been struggling and life became too much for him to bear. One day he was with us, the next day he was gone. We were in shock. If this could happen to him, it could happen to any of us!

A few months earlier I attended a Generation S.O.S. meeting in NYC. I went because a friend’s mom was battling addiction and he and I often talked about the devastating stigma surrounding this issue. The young speaker was amazing, sharing his story and perspectives on substance misuse and addiction. No stigma — just honestly and authentically sharing his journey. I cannot describe the look in everyone’s eyes and the feeling in my heart. I realized everyone needs to hear these stories and know the impact addiction has on the entire family, the ways it can happen, and that they are not alone. We needed to replace stigma with awareness. We needed a Generation S.O.S. chapter in Miami.

We launched our first Generation S.O.S. meeting in January. Our meetings have been standing room only from the start, with students from many neighboring schools attending. We had a phenomenal speaker at our first meeting who was able to connect with the students as no adult could. His story was riveting… and relatable. The Q&A session that followed was incredibly open and honest. After the meeting, everyone felt empowered to spread the word. Several of us started Generation S.O.S. clubs in our schools, where we host informational meetings with young adult speakers who share their journeys with us. We don’t preach. No lecturing about abstinence. But the focus is definitely on preventing substance misuse, addiction, and overdose. We are also planning wider community events so we can continue to heighten awareness about the dangers of drug use and addiction amidst a larger audience.

The real power of the Generation S.O.S. movement is the massive impact it has on the kids who attend the meetings. The speakers share stories about how they face the challenges of substance use or, 40

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sometimes, misuse but also share coping skills they have learned as a result of their journeys. That’s what the S.O.S. stands for — Sharing Our Stories. We can easily relate when peers share their personal experiences, and quickly realize how many of our friends are going through a similar journey or know someone else on this path, sometimes a family member, even a parent. I am proud to have brought Generation S.O.S. to Miami and look forward to building a movement that every young adult wants to be part of.

Our generation desperately needs this YOU CAN HELP

The stigma surrounding substance misuse and overdose casts a long shadow and raises many uncomfortable questions. Yet most people don’t understand substance

misuse is an adolescent-onset illness, starting during teenage years 90% of the time. Those who say it is a moral failing are not looking into the eyes of a 14-year-old boy or 16-year-old girl trying to navigate life’s challenges. At Generation S.O.S. we adamantly believe that preventing our precious children from becoming addicted is where we must focus our efforts.

You can help. Research shows that one dollar spent on prevention is worth ten dollars or more spent on treatment or criminal justice solutions. Please help us turn the tide on America’s #1 health crisis by going to GenerationSOS.org to make a donation. Some child — perhaps someone you love — will thank you someday.

Jim Hood — CEO Jim lost his eldest child, Austin, to an overdose in 2012.

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The Guest House Ocala Why We Seek Numbness

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hen we’ve been burdened by emotional and mental pain for so long, it often becomes unbearable. Our quality of life decreases, our relationships suffer and no matter what we do, we can’t seem to move on. So we cope the best we can. For many people who feel this way, drugs and alcohol provide a brief respite from the pain. In those moments, an emptiness replaces the misery and we simply feel numb. The emptiness helps us forget and distracts us from our thoughts and feelings. It releases us from the mental anguish that haunts us and lifts the paralyzing burden that weighs on the mind, even if for just a moment.

Many addictions stem from an unwillingness to feel negative emotions and there are numerous ways in which we use drugs or alcohol to cope with pain and trauma. Often, what we’re looking for is an escape — chasing a dazed indifference to the oppressive turmoil in our minds.

Heartache, bitterness, grief, sorrow, shame and regret, these our daily companions that remind us how broken and low we feel.

The disappointment is palpable when we reflect on how our lives have turned out.

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We don’t know why a particular substance takes this pain away; we simply know that it does. And so we become dependent, relying on drugs or alcohol to help us cope, not realizing that we are trading old miseries for new ones. When addiction takes hold, the emptiness engulfs us and it, too, becomes unbearable.

Eventually, we realize that addiction and the constant retreat into numbness aren’t sustainable. The emptiness we crave is a void that swallows all emotions without consideration or concern. Drugs and alcohol may take away our pain, but they also make us numb to the things that make life worth living, such as joy and wonder.

Recovery is the process of learning to face our emotions without turning them off. It emphasizes learning how to deal with our feelings in a healthy way and grow from each painful experience we have. Recovery and sound mental health aren’t the absence of pain — it’s a part of life, after all — but represent the ability to find meaning and purpose despite it.

The broad spectrum of our emotions is an important part of what makes us human, contributing to our overall experience and the development of who we are. Recognizing this and making the decision to stand our ground to

address the pain headon is a transformational moment, demonstrating tremendous personal growth and a desire to be whole again. When it feels better to experience the full weight of our emotions, good and bad, rather than the emptiness that drugs or alcohol offers, we know we’ve made great strides in our healing. When nothingness no longer appeals to us and we realize that numbing the pain isn’t the same as coping, we know we’re on a path to wholeness that can break the cycle of pain and addiction. Once we’ve reached this point, we can begin to dig deeper and gain insight into our behaviors. Exploring the source of our suffering can seem daunting, but it’s an illuminating experience that will better equip us to handle future obstacles and difficulties. We’ll learn to identify our triggers and stressors so we can better control how we respond to them. It’s a journey that will take time, but with the support of a dedicated recovery team, loving friends and family and the strength to persevere despite setbacks, we can get there. The difficult and the complex are central to our stories, but how they affect the ending is completely up to us.

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World Class, Luxury Addiction and Mental Health Treatment Center in Malibu, California

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easons in Malibu is a CARFaccredited, licensed, substance abuse and mental health treatment center in beautiful Malibu, CA. We specialize in treating a wide variety of addictions, such as alcohol dependence, opiate addiction, cocaine addiction, sex addiction, gambling addiction and prescription drug abuse. We are also licensed and accredited to treat mental health disorders such as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, complex trauma and PTSD. We are very proud that in surveying our clients, more than 95% say they would recommend us to a friend or loved one.

We believe this is the greatest testament to the compassionate care and best-in-class treatment we offer at Seasons in Malibu.

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treatment program, these compassionate professionals will be solely dedicated to making sure you receive the most effective treatment available today.

Celebrating 12 years of service, Seasons works with most PPO insurance plans.

People who start their journey towards sobriety are given the tools they need to transform themselves for good. Beginning on the path towards wellness at Seasons in Malibu’s Mental Health, Drug and Alcohol Treatment Centers, means pointing your entire trajectory toward lasting wellness.

Getting sober and/or addressing mental health issues takes effort and focus. If you or someone close to you is ready to commit to health and sobriety, we guarantee that we can guide you or them towards a better and more enriching life. setting for individuals seeking transformative care for addiction, as well as primary mental health disorders. Seasons in Malibu is a cutting-edge, highly-rated rehabilitation center recently featured in Newsweek’s Excellence in Dependency 2019 edition, and has been named one of the world’s premier rehab facilities by Consumer Affairs with a 5-star rating.

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hen you think of a nationally recognized hospital, you don’t typically think of quintessential New England home-styled buildings set on a sprawling 44-acre campus, nestled in the Connecticut countryside. But that is what one sees when they arrive at Silver Hill Hospital, a leader in the treatment of addiction and mental health disorders, located in New Canaan, Connecticut.

Within this idyllic campus, complete with the bridge over a babbling brook, advanced clinical expertise, and compassionate care are de rigueur.

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and Medical Director, would prefer that people know Silver Hill for the ways in which it stands out from the vast field of addiction treatment programs now in operation. With 88 years of experience, Silver Hill has been at the forefront of treatment for substance use and mental health disorders far longer than most addiction treatment facilities have been in existence. Silver Hill Hospital is accredited by the Joint Commission and licensed for 129 beds. It treats more than 3,500 adults and adolescents each year for addiction, depression, anxiety, bipolar and other disorders.

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it is staffed around-the-clock with credentialed treatment professionals, including fifteen board-certified psychiatrists, which means patients receive treatment from various experts with specialized training. Their continuum of care model features three levels of treatment to provide patients with the appropriate level of care they need based on where they are in their recovery: Inpatient, Transitional Living, and Intensive Outpatient.

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For patients with substance use issues, Silver Hill treats addiction while simultaneously treating any underlying mental health issues, which often accompany substance abuse. “Many patients come to Silver Hill

Hospital because they have an addictive disorder. What they may not be able to readily identify is that they may also have an anxiety or other disorder, so we evaluate patients for any underlying mental health issues, because we know that untreated depression, or anxiety, or other mental health conditions can sabotage a person’s sustained recovery and wellbeing,” explained Dr. Gerber. “The ability to identify and treat these mental health disorders at the same time as we are treating someone for substance abuse gives patients more tools and support to better sustain successful recovery.”

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But Silver Hill is actually a hybrid, in that we also treat mental health disorders, with or without substance abuse involvement.

We have two distinct foci here: substance abuse and mental illness – including anxiety, depression, bipolar, personality disorders, and psychotic illnesses. Because we have expertise in both areas, we are well equipped to treat the most complex cases.”

Treatment at Silver Hill starts with a thorough diagnostic evaluation. From the evaluation, the patient’s professional care team develops an individualized treatment plan to address their specific needs. Treatment plans may include individual and group therapy, medication management, behavioral therapy skills work (such as Cognitive and Dialectical Behavioral Therapies), and family support programming. The Silver Hill campus has a fitness center, gymnasium, indoor pool, and library. Yoga, massage, acupuncture, and oneon-one fitness training are also available.

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Anxiety, depression, insomnia, relationship problems, not being able to make decisions, drinking too much, popping a pill to take the edge off – all are symptoms of a dangerous stress level and if left untreated, can lead to very serious health conditions.

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Offering individual, confidentially sequestered mental health and executive wellness programming in the most exclusive areas in Southern California, and now New England, Privé-Swiss has attained worldwide stature serving the sophisticated client who has very specific, private, personal needs for professional enhancement, physical and mental wellness recovery.

Privé-Swiss came about from many years of research on what works best for the high-profile, very successful individual – the “super achiever.” The wellness program is a powerful blending/integration of the latest European clinical practices, timehonored Eastern mind-body therapies and world-renowned American psychological treatment techniques. All presented with the goal of providing the most impactful, 54

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Built around the knowledge attained by its principal, Heidi Kunzli, a pioneer in the boutique, private rehab industry and CT native, Kunzli’s extensive research into the high-end clinics of Switzerland

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“We only serve one client at a time. It doesn’t get any more private than that!” offered Kunzli. “We deliver on our promise of sequestered one-on-one quality care, and we minister to each person using an evidence-based, truly person-centered approach.” Privé-Swiss boasts a world-class team of physicians, therapists, coaches, nutritionists, chefs, counselors, and personal assistants who ensure the most sophisticated, personalized and technically superior level of care. Operating for over 19 years now, the Privé-Swiss program experience combines

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With over 25 years of sobriety, Alice opened The Lighthouse Bali, a top facility in Southeast Asia. Founded in 2013, The Lighthouse Bali is the only bespoke, one-on-one treatment program on the island.

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life. Through my recovery process, I was able to make amends to my children and we have an incredible relationship today.”

With profits from The Lighthouse Bali, as well as contributions from private donors, Alice immediately set up a non-profit company, Yayasan Bali Mercusuar. “I was taught early on in my recovery to always give back in some way. When I decided to create The Lighthouse Bali, a big part of it was so I could give back. Through the Lighthouse Bali’s non-profit organization, we volunteer in the local community with educational lectures, workshops and by sharing our experience, strength and hope.”

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Jagged Little Pill Everything “You Oughta Know” about the new Broadway Musical

BY IRIS WIENER

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hen Alanis Morissette’s Jagged Little Pill dropped in 1995, critics described it as “raw,” “edgy,” “distinct” and “feminist.”

No matter how they felt about the album, they ultimately agreed that it was unique.

The world followed suit, and Morissette’s first nationwide album topped the chart in thirteen countries with sales of over 33 million copies worldwide. Pill went on to win five Grammy Awards, including Album of the Year. Despite its massive success, no one would have predicted that 24 years later Morissette’s music would lay the groundwork for a Broadway musical.

“The guiding soul of this project from the get go was that iconic album, the holy grail,” says Diane Paulus (Hair, Waitress), the director of the new musical, Jagged Little Pill, who recalls first listening to the album with Tom Kitt (the music supervisor, orchestrator and arranger), followed by a discussion about what they had heard and how it made them feel.

When book writer Diablo Cody came on board, there was more dialogue about what they visualized as they heard the iconic songs. Soon, Morissette herself got involved. “Really hearing from Alanis as to what was important about the music led to larger issues about her philosophy and relational healing, and the way she thinks about psychology. All of the themes in the show ended up coming from the music.

Her songs go on journeys. Her music didn’t resist this exercise, it opened doors,” adds Paulus.

“This process, and what this process has yielded artistically and collaboratively, has been nothing short of a revelation, a balm and an arrival for me,” says Morissette. “It is a culmination of so much of what my life’s work has been oriented toward.”

Cody, an Academy Award winner who is best known for her acclaimed screenplays, (Juno, Young Adult) and for creating the

Emmy Award winning series United States of Tara with Steven Spielberg, found herself in uncharted territory with Pill.

“I was completely new to theater,” Cody says. “I’ve never so much as written a play before, let alone the book for a musical that could potentially head to Broadway, so it was daunting. I was really nervous and I knew that I had a lot to learn. I was operating out of my comfort zone.

I thought I would be so limited in terms of what I could write, especially when I imagined that there were no special effects and that everything would happen on stage in one take. I thought there would be a lot

metaphorically, the world,” says Paulus.

“The world is burning and the mom is just trying to write the perfect letter. When Diablo finished her pitch I immediately said, ‘I get it, I’m in. I know how to do the show.’”

“Diablo Cody’s heart is as open as her mind is bright and brave [and she] has taken this record – which has meant so much to me – to a whole other level of depth, meaning and natural activism,” says Morissette, who describes Cody’s voice as “fierce, sensitive and hilarious.” “[She touches] on topics that keep me up at night for how deeply I care about them.”

of things that I’d want to see but wouldn’t be able to execute. It turned out to be the exact opposite.”

Paulus says that she will never forget Cody’s concerns when it came to writing the book. “Diablo went away and came up with a proposal of how this would land in a narrative,” says Paulus. “She came back saying, ‘I know how I would write this as a film…’ I said, ‘So, just do that and pitch it to me like you would pitch a film. Don’t worry about it being a musical and it having to follow different rules.’”

Cody began describing the idea of a family and the relationships within it, beginning with a mother writing a Christmas letter, “trying to hold onto all of the appearances of everything being perfect, but really everything is falling apart around her, including,

Jagged Little Pill is no ordinary jukebox musical; in fact, Paulus says their mission was to break the mold of the average jukebox musical, noting that it even includes two new songs that Morissette specifically wrote for the show, which is ultimately about a family that begins to show the cracks beneath the surface of their seemingly perfect state. The show includes themes of addiction, identity, politics and assault. “I think we were trying to find ways to build a story where the songs come right out of the characters.

Because of the way [Cody] has written this, there are moments where I think, ‘Oh my god. That song was written for that character!’ The songs just fall out of the characters’ mouths in a seamless way, and they were written yesterday for this moment,” says Paulus.

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No one would have predicted that 24 years later Morissette’s music would lay the groundwork for a Broadway musical.

Once Cody sunk her teeth into the project, she found that the album Jagged Little Pill was theatrical by nature. “It is a concept album in a lot of ways and the songs are really profound,” Cody says.

“They’re deep, they’re about real stuff, they follow a narrative arc, and they have characters in them. They almost feel like they were written to be adapted for the stage.” Cody knew she had chosen a project that was right for her, as she never felt the need to force songs into certain moments.

“The process was much more organic than I thought it was going to be,” she says, remembering her unease over the thought 72

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path to the show that would premiere at Cambridge’s American Repertory Theater in 2018. “I knew that Mary Jane would be the lead character in the show,” says Cody. “I don’t know if there are a lot of albums that speak to you like that. A song like ‘Hand in My Pocket’ is about the human condition.

Not a lot of pop songs are about that. Most are about the same three subjects: love, unrequited love, and being okay.” The songs on the album even spoke to Cody about how they should function in the show. “One of the few things I knew about musicals is that you have to have an ‘I Want’ song in the first act,” she says. “The THE CAST AND CREATIVE TEAM OF JAGGED LITTLE PILL PHOTO BY NATHAN JOHNSON

of having to re-write lyrics. “I thought it was the only way [the lyrics] would fit with the specific, unique story that I was planning to create about this dysfunctional family.”

In the end, the team barely changed any words. “That’s how organic it was,” she says, laughing. “I’m thrilled, I really did not think it was going to unfold the way that it did.”

It was “Mary Jane” (a song in which Morissette is reassuring a friend who is having a rough time), that set Cody on the

song ‘All I Really Want’ spells it out. That couldn’t have been easier for me.”

“I kept saying the music feels epic and intuitive; it’s like a Greek chorus,” says Paulus, who remembers Morissette being intrigued by this idea. “We started to ask, ‘Who is this chorus? Who is the conscience of this show? How does a Greek chorus function? How are they the conscience of the characters? How did they know things that the characters don’t know?’

They became the psyches of the characters.”

Cody wrote the show giving the integral 11 o’clock number, “You Oughta Know,” to a supporting female character. When Pill ran at Cambridge the hit was known to steal the show to the point that Paulus changed lighting cues to try to shorten the audience’s lengthy, exuberant reactions. “It’s interesting because we were far into the process when it occurred to me that that’s pretty unusual,” says Cody. “The character, Jo, functions as a comic relief, the best friend with the witty DIABLO CODY, ALANIS MORISSETTE, DIANE PAULUS asides. So you think you’re seeing PHOTO BY MATTHEW MURPHY something familiar, but in reality those witty asides are masking a great deal of pain that is bubbling underneath the a very long time, even just in terms of the entire show until it explodes. I try to take political situation. I used to be almost proud traditional supporting character roles and of how apathetic I was about the things that turn them on their side, making them more were happening in the world, and I can’t do meaningful.” that anymore. That’s a universal thing.”

Paulus, Cody and Morissette wanted a “We’re all connected and we are all a part show that, above all else, spoke to the human of the universe we’re living in,” says Paulus condition and reminds people that they’re of the underlying impetus for the show. all in this world together. When Pill opened “We’re all complicit in what’s happening in in 2018, Cody remembers the team hoping the world today. I have learned from Alanis they could get to Broadway faster as the over the last couple of years that there’s no show touched on movements such as stands way to heal in isolation, and that we have against gun violence – topics they assumed to do it in the presence of other people and would lose relevance in years to come. “Then in relation to each other. That’s what goes we realized, sadly, that it was all still going on in the show and that’s not always easy.” to be significant when we got to Broadway. I Perhaps some of the show’s incisive feel like the #MeToo conversation rages on, depth can be credited to the rarity of and the issue of gun violence is still in there, having three women at its helm. Though albeit in a different way.” the creative team is also comprised of Kitt Cody embraces the fact that a few early and choreographer Sidi Larbi Cherkaoui viewers felt the show dealt with too many (both men), Paulus and Cody recognize topics. “When I heard that I said, ‘Yeah, how the female dynamic was influential on and we’re going to keep doing that. We’re the creation of Pill. going to double down. This is what we “It was definitely a big moment in the are. I’m not going to pretend this show process when it was Diablo, Alanis and me is light entertainment. I think there are talking to each other, because we’re not some people who think that it is a show only women but three mothers with kids,” about Alanis Morissette, and that it might says Paulus, who notes that Morissette be poppy and fun.” Though Pill does wrote the music when she was 19 years have some “poppy” moments, it is not an old. “That’s when the depth of the musical accurate description of the experience one went to it not being about teenagers. I can expect at the show. think because we were all coming to the “It’s really a story about how all of us are album now, twenty plus years later, it was susceptible to this practice where we try to so interesting that the three of us were bury our problems, deny them, close our going, ‘Okay, what does this album mean eyes and stick our heads in the sand like to us now as women who are not teenagers ostriches,” adds Cody. “I was like that for anymore, women who are dealing with

family and relationships?’”

“Women bring a certain energy to a project, especially someone like Alanis, who is deeply empathetic and extremely interested in human behavior and is not driven by money or by a desire for fame,” adds Cody.

“Alanis is a seeker for truth. So being welcomed with Diane and Tom Kitt, we were really able to dig deep into the characters in a way that did feel connected with the sacred feminine.

I felt like our way of approaching the story was very rounded and spiritual.

That’s what you get with Alanis Morissette.” Morissette agrees, adding that the process of creating the show was “tinged with giddiness, terror, surrender, wild passion, joy and light.”

Cody hopes that Pill audiences take away a similar energy and that they come away from the show having had a meaningful experience. “I want people to forgive themselves and other people, and to be kinder to themselves and other people,” she says, emphatically. “I want people to realize that they’re not alone, and that there are many people out there projecting an image of perfection [through social media] and it’s meaningless. These curated bios we see online are not reality. If people take that with them I will have done my job.”

–– Iris Wiener is an entertainment writer and theater critic. Visit her at IrisWiener.com or on Twitter @Iris_Wiener.

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he hallways at spence were blue and narrow. They wound one into another, and I couldn’t tell how many times I had turned the corner. I followed the tour guide, peeking into classrooms where the chairs were arranged in circles or squares instead of rows. Inside, girls in navy blue skirts and white blouses were learning, and I could imagine myself sitting among them—lighting Bunsen burners and wearing goggles, reading aloud from A Midsummer Night’s Dream, figuring out algebraic equations with mechanical pencils. I could see myself among the girls in the hallways too. They sat on the floor with their backs against the lockers, talking loudly, even as we passed. I waded through the web of their bare legs, strips of their inscrutable conversations.

P.S. 11, my elementary school, was official and plain: a brick building, a few stories high, in the Clinton Hill neighborhood of Brooklyn. We lined up in straight lines when we moved through the hallways, and our classrooms were bright and orderly. My parents had wrangled me into the school, the best in the district, even though I had been zoned to another. I liked my school, and I had no complaints.

I liked the tire swing in the playground and the bodega where I bought potato chips and quarter waters. I liked the library down the street where I could use the massive computers and read magazines while I waited for my father to pick me up.

I was a favorite of my teachers and selected most mornings to recite the Pledge of Allegiance over the loudspeakers and then the school motto.

We are proud to be learning and learning to be proud at P.S. 11.

It was nothing more to me than a mantra, and I didn’t see then that the motto was the invention of a school run nearly entirely by black women—teachers, school safety officers, the principal and assistant principal—designed to help us, we hundreds of black and brown children, to affirm our own dignity, while we were young, while school still served as a kind of shield, however

by Naima Coster insufficient, from the rest of the city, its hard facts and violence.

P.S. 11 was a place I had mastered, where I understood how things worked. The Spence School was a secret with its dim blue hallways and classrooms I peered into from the outside. It was across a bridge and over water, less than ten miles from Brooklyn, but farther than I knew to expect.

My interview was with the Head of the Middle School, Mrs. Eston. She had short blond hair, cropped close to her head, droopy eyes, and a pleasant, clear complexion. I must have told her that my favorite subject was Language Arts, and I had composition notebooks filled with the beginnings of novels. I probably mentioned that I spoke Spanish, my parents were teachers, and I had a grandmother in Bushwick, a grandfather in the Dominican Republic. I might have said I had been working toward a school like Spence my whole life, without ever knowing that Spence existed. Every spelling bee, citywide test, book report, and worksheet had been so that I could land here, across a desk from a dignified white woman like her, who was interested in me, and who had the authority to verify that I was good enough, smart enough to belong here.

Mrs. Eston seemed amused by me, and I remember being moved by how much she seemed to like me. The proof that I might be worthy of becoming a Spence girl started to accumulate. We sat together in her office for what, in my memory, seems the better part of a day. It was likely twenty minutes, half an hour.

When I left her office, I had to wait for my parents to collect me. I didn’t venture beyond the corner where a pizzeria sold slices that were cracker-thin and floppy,

dripping with oil. My mother had given me money in case I got hungry or had an emergency all by myself. I settled on a bench to eat my slice and survey the street. It was the first time I had been alone in the city.

In my imagination, Manhattan was a special place where we shopped for good leather shoes or summer reading books at the flagship Barnes & Noble on Eighteenth Street, where we went for dumplings in Chinatown.

The Upper East Side was a different Manhattan. Old women with painted faces walked tiny dogs on leashes. The high school Spence girls paraded around in unsupervised packs, laughing and sipping sodas from tall paper cups. To me, they were glamorous, these older girls in dainty ankle socks, their uniform skirts rolled up to their thighs. I wondered if I would ever be like them, as the oil from the pizza dripped over my fingers, and I kept an eye out for my parents who were coming to take me home. It would be months before we heard whether they had decided to let me in.

The idea of spence was both problem and promise for my family. My aunt warned my mother against sending me to school with rich kids. They got themselves into the kind of trouble that would slide off them and stick to me. White Upper East Side kids got their hands on drugs easily; they stole vodka from their parents’ liquor cabinets; they had sex in Park Avenue apartments where they spent their afternoons bored and unsupervised. Most of them didn’t believe in God. They lied, cheated, stole, and talked back to their parents.

My parents were used to protecting us from the dangers of our neighborhood, Fort Greene. All they had to do was keep us inside. It bothered my younger brother that we couldn’t play in the back of our building like the other kids, but our parents promised us one day we’d thank them for protecting us from something big, like getting shot, or something small, like picking up curse words and the crude habits my mother called malas mañas.

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the block with our male cousins. My grandmother’s logic was simple: the street wasn’t for girls.

I was accustomed to this life of tucking into my books, smiling my good-girl smile, and keeping still. In my mind, for someone to say I was tranquila was the highest compliment any little Dominican girl could

of my education my whole life: my mother recited my spelling words with me and learned them herself; my father fought to get me into the best school in our district and the gifted program; he quickly stepped between me and any kid who tried to intimidate me, the rare teacher who doubted my potential.

get. My rebellions were small, fleeting, and largely unnoticed. Once, I snuck out of the apartment into the hallway where my cousins were playing soccer, and I was so angry at being excluded that I found a way to steal the ball and kick it as hard as I could, up to the ceiling, where it knocked out the hall lights. My uncles came into the hallway, swinging their belts and yelling.

They spanked everyone except for me.

There would be a repair to pay for, a super to pacify. No one suspected I was the one who had knocked out the light, and while my brother and my cousins got beat, I sat back on the couch, where I should have been all along, while an uncle patted my hair and asked whether I was all right.

I was a prized child, especially on my mother’s side, where I was the first granddaughter and the first of our family born in the United States. My aunts, uncles, and grandmother praised and coddled me, kept me on the couch. They warned my mother, “Don’t let her go. You won’t be able to watch her. She’ll change.”

My mother sent me all the same. She had dropped out of high school to come to the U.S. to support her family at seventeen.

She had worked in factories in industrial Brooklyn and finished college only after she was a mother of two, learning English as she went. My father, a teacher in East New York, one of the roughest neighborhoods in Brooklyn, had a sober sense of what might await me if I didn’t take this leap. They had been champions

They knew how much Spence would ultimately offer me, even if, by the end, it might upend my sense of self. When the acceptance came, and I stepped off the ledge of my old life, they dropped into a freefall too.

My aunt warned my mother against sending me to school with rich kids.

They got themselves into the kind of trouble that would slide off them and stick to me.

On the day of my orientation, I went to the annual Spence Family Picnic in the afternoon. My mother and brother met me at an athletic field at the farthest edge of the East Side, by the river. My mother was younger than the other parents, and she likely wore one of her silk blazers, the enormous shoulder pads accentuating the fact that there were just over one hundred pounds of her. I stuck with the other new girls, making jokes and telling little lies to win them over.

Elle was the first to approach me. She had rust-colored hair, an explosive laugh, and braces. She ran across the field to welcome me. And there was Cate, who, like Elle, was a Survivor—she’d been at Spence since kindergarten. She was softspoken with milky skin and long blond hair, a ballerina whose sisters also went to Spence. And there was another new girl, Kristen, who was transferring from a Hebrew primary school. We sat on benches and strolled around the Astroturf, and I felt surprisingly free, making corny puns and talking about my life in Brooklyn, combining evasion and exaggeration to render what I wanted and keep the rest concealed. It was easy, and I felt like my

new life was already underway.

My father picked us up afterward. I don’t remember whether he drove up from Brooklyn just to collect us or whether he parked somewhere and sat waiting in the car while we were at the picnic.

What I do remember is that his absence was intentional. When I asked him why he didn’t join us, he said, “You don’t understand, Naima. If people see me, they’ll treat you differently.”

He didn’t go on to explain but I knew what he meant. He was tall and heavy, a black man, not yet fifty, with a long beard and a mustache. He often wore a baseball cap and smoked a pipe, and I was used to the privileges and pains of having a father who others considered intimidating. A pair of older twin boys at P.S. 11 had teased me until my father came up to the school to set them straight; eventually, the boys I would date would defer to him, look down at their feet while they talked to him, and later rave to me about how cool he was and how scary. My mother was light-skinned, Latina, slight; she’d face another set of problems—underestimation, innuendo— but meeting her wouldn’t change the way my classmates saw me. I had seen my father harassed and mistreated by shop owners, airport security, and white strangers enough to understand. To be black was different. And yet, I wasn’t sure my father was right. The girls were nice, their parents smiling. Still, he’d made up his mind.

I wasn’t used to my father being absent from any part of my life and, certainly, not from school. While my mother washed my hair and ironed my clothes and cooked my food, my father was the one I revolved around. He knew the names of my friends; he had taught me how to swim and to play chess; he gave me books to read that he had once loved; he had tutored me in Math.

When we went swimming in the Dominican Republic, I climbed onto his shoulders and jumped off into the ocean. When I was frightened on an airplane, he vowed to rescue me if the plane crashed. It was his guidance that had brought me to Spence, and now, it seemed, he wouldn’t follow me in.

We slid into the car, the bronze Honda Accord, and told him about the picnic, the white women and their jewelry, and we told him the story of how poorly my brother had behaved.

Luciano, nine years old, had tugged at my mother’s jacket, interrupting her conversation to ask her to take him to a spread of food at a table nearby.

“The chicken, Mami! I want the chicken,” he had said.

My mother had ignored his urgent whispering then, but now, in the car, as we drove back to Brooklyn, we could all laugh about it. It was both cute and terrifying, and it would become one of our most treasured family jokes—the story of that time Luciano had begged for chicken in front of so many Spence parents and almost blew it all.

A few days into the school year, I found a Xeroxed sheet of paper wedged into my locker. It was a handwritten invitation to the first bat mitzvah of the year. Proper invitations had gone out months before, but all of the new girls were invited to the party at the Plaza Hotel.

Bat mitzvahs weren’t an expense I had accounted for in my assessment of Spence, but I already had a dress to wear and my mother went out to the Macy’s on Fulton Street, armed with coupons, and returned with some piece of jewelry as a gift, likely a pair of tiny diamond earrings or a gold bracelet. The gifts were as much for me as the girls in my class—they were my parents’ purchases, made on credit, toward my inclusion, the long-shot hope that the girls in my grade would hold me in esteem, and I wouldn’t feel so different.

(It is strange, all these years later, to think of these girls, women now, walking around in their lives, maybe wearing the pair of earrings my mother bought them, not knowing how they got them, not thinking of me, not remembering my mother.)

I didn’t know the birthday girl very well.

She was blond, athletic, and we sometimes sat at the same table in Math. She spoke the way I had imagined white girls would speak from television: she had an Upper East Side drawl, every vowel sound a diphthong in her mouth, every declaration lurching into a question.

Of the actual party, I remember little: wood paneled walls and chandeliers, but I can’t be sure I am not picturing another ballroom, some other party from that year. A troupe of professional cheerleaders performed—the Knicks Dancers—and the birthday girl read from the Torah into a

microphone. I was astonished at how lovely she was in a sequined dress, at how mature she seemed at thirteen—the flatness of her stomach, the fact of her breasts, the way her straight hair gleamed as gold as her dress.

I remember too the girls from my class circling around me to marvel at my outfit: they couldn’t believe how adorable I looked. My dress had a blue velvet skirt, white puff sleeves, a row of beads along the waist. I wore opaque white tights and patent leather shoes. Their dresses had straps and high hems; they wore black; they wore sequins and lipstick, their hair ironed straight, their legs bare. I had worn a littlegirl dress to a grown-up-girl party.

I sensed then, more acutely than I had yet, that I wasn’t one of them. I felt stocky, flat-chested, childish, brown. The sensation would return to my body during dance rehearsals when I looked in the mirror and saw a line of white girls at the barre and then me, when I started to clip a bobby pin to the bridge of my nose in secret at home, when I saw a photograph someone had developed of a group of us, and my skin had turned up orange under the flash of the camera.

There was much about myself that I couldn’t change, but there were some things that I could. I could wear my hair down; I could put on heels. I could ask my mother to never make me wear such a little-girl dress again.

Before spence, I might have said that I knew how to swim, to dance, to play an instrument, and to sing. I learned quickly that, at twelve, I was already too much of an amateur to keep up with the girls in my class. I had spent my summers swimming in the ocean in DR but I couldn’t swim chlorinated laps the way they did; I had done ballet at a dance school in Jamaica, Queens, but there were girls in my class who trained at the School of American Ballet in Lincoln Center; I had played alto saxophone for two years, often in the second or third chair, in the P.S. 11 band, but girls in my class had been playing the piano or the violin or the flute since they were three. I liked to sing but I didn’t know how to read music, and I faked my way through choral classes. I wasn’t behind in any of my academic classes, if anything, I was ahead of the girls in my class, and I relished this way that I had earned my W E STO N MA G A Z I N E G R OUP.COM

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place among them. I knew how to find an image in a poem and say what it meant, I knew how to string words together, imitatively, to say back to a teacher what they wanted to hear. Class was my magic power. There were different classes here, too, from the usual subjects I’d had at P.S. 11. I took a listening course in classical music, Latin, Drama, and Public Speaking.

I avoided painting and drawing, where the gaps between what I had learned at P.S. 11 and what the other girls had learned at Spence were too obvious. I could keep up, or surpass them, in English, in Chemistry, so I loved to strap on goggles and light the Bunsen burners. I wanted to read aloud in class, to be Titania or Puck.

There were free periods at Spence, stretches between class when we sat on the floor in the halls and wasted time, talking and laughing, instead of doing our homework. I spent a lot of this time, and nearly all my time, at first, watching.

I observed how the other girls peeled clementines with their fingernails, the orange skin unwinding in a single reel. I saw them wrap their bodies around chairs in class, one foot up on the seat, the other

of bat mitzvahs, I have no memory of how I celebrated my own thirteenth birthday.

I know that the year prior, when I turned twelve, I saw Titanic at a movie theater in Queens with my best friend from P.S. 11.

When I turned fourteen, a year and a half into my time at Spence, three classmates threw a surprise party for me at someone’s double duplex on the Upper West Side, and at the end of the party, my friends and I bounced up and down, holding hands and shouting the lyrics to a punk song, while the governor stood in the next room, talking to my friend’s parents. I ignored the thought that maybe I should stop jumping around, maybe I should quiet and go say hello, or at least make a good impression on the governor of our state, but instead I took my friend’s lead—she was used to him coming over—and I screamed and head-bashed and ate leftover cake. But when I think of that first year, of thirteen, I see everyone but myself.

My close study of the girls in my class, and its steady effect on me, wasn’t lost on my parents. When I wasn’t at school, I was thinking about it, writing out the class gossip in my diary. I started listening to pop

kind of behavior, but I won’t. Try me.”

The Spence girl sense of entitlement was catching. Suddenly, there were things I felt I deserved. My parents had run an ourway-or-the-highway household, but I was emboldened now to ask for small things.

I wanted privacy to do my homework. I wanted them to lower their voices while I spoke on the phone. I didn’t think they had to scream at me if I was already listening.

My bids for power were swiftly shut down, but I still claimed my independence in small, unseen ways. There was the radio and what my brother deemed “white people music,” the forbidden thoughts I recorded in my diary. I slouched in class, and I talked back to my parents in my head since I couldn’t out loud. I shook my hips at the white boys at parties and dances; I told lies to the girls at school about my life; I hiked up my skirt an inch or two.

If I was losing a sense of a common world with my parents, it wasn’t because I had slid easily into the world of Spence.

The class was small enough that we were yoked all together, but there were girls who I knew would never invite me to their homes, whose invitations to a birthday

leg folded underneath them, a pair of plaid boxer shorts under their skirts. At lunch, girls shredded bagels with their hands and ate only half; they devoured crackers and tea, or shared a plate of iceberg lettuce and balsamic vinegar. I watched the way they ran their fingers across their scalps, scooping thin strands of untangled hair into a ponytail. More than once I untied my own hair, which my mother had carefully secured with yarn, and tried to wind it up the way they did. But my hair was too heavy, it resisted the yarn, and without my mother’s sure hands, I couldn’t put it back up, and I’d spend the day with my hair wild and large around me. At home, I’d make up a story about how it had come undone in PE. I spent so much time observing this new world, the habits, postures, and speech of the girls in my class, that I remember mostly them, and not myself from that first year. While I have a reel of memories

radio so that I could sing along to the music I heard at the bat mitzvahs. I requested a $200 leather bomber jacket with a big Spence S on the back before I realized they’d gone out of style. And there was my speech, peppered with likes and elongated vowels.

“School” became “schoo-ool,” hungry became “hung-ray.” My parents overheard a girl from my class promise to call me the next day around “nineish,” and after that, they started calling me “Spenceish” and referring to my friends as “Spenceish girls.”

Behind their teasing, I sensed growing ambivalence. My mother had picked me up from enough Spence parties and functions to know that she hated the way some of the girls sat with their legs open, wrote on their arms in pen, and talked back to their parents. Once, she witnessed a girl tell her mother to shut up in public, and she had turned quickly to scold me.

“Maybe those white parents will take that

either never came or did only out of a sense of magnanimity. There were girls far beyond the reach of me and my friends, girls who stuck with one another, spent their weekends together but were constantly negotiating clique wars. According to rumor, they had pimples professionally popped, boyfriends in the city and not only at camp.

The rest of the class referred to them as Jewish American Princesses, whether they were, in fact, Jewish or not. The term, in its open use of ethnicity, made me nervous, but my classmates used it to mark the line between the girls who were at the top of our seventh-grade social strata and those of us who populated the middle and the bottom.

I didn’t understand the intricacies of class at Spence, the difference between a country house in Montauk and a country house in the Hamptons, a penthouse on Second Avenue and one on Park, a Kate Spade bag versus Hermès. Aside from wealth, race

The Spence girl sense of entitlement was catching.

Suddenly, there were things I felt I deserved.

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divided us, too, although not cleanly; in a class of fifty girls, the lines were often muddled, and there were only six girls I knew who weren’t white, and half of us had joined the class that year. Other factors mitigated where someone stood in the class, too: zip codes, the vetting that occurred between parents. No matter the complexity of the formula, where I stood was clear.

The fact that I lived in Brooklyn alone was sufficient to mark me far outside the New York of my classmates; for some of them, the city below 59th Street didn’t exist. And there was the puzzle and problem of my race. I had a teacher, as well as my classmates, ask whether my long hair was real. I had more than one girl ask with interest, “What are you?” A drama substitute cast me in a sketch about race as the black character, which struck me as patently unfair—couldn’t I be whoever I wanted to be? Why did the other girls get to choose?

Another new girl, Kristen, whom I had grown to love fiercely and whom I had preemptively deemed my potential best friend, once told me a story about her father’s misadventures on the subway. She offered some elaborate reason for why he had been forced to take the train, some logic for why it seemed to him like a good idea at the time. Her father made his way down the stairs, he rounded a corner, and he bumped right into a big black man. My potential best friend laughed then at the punchline, the end of her story—the black man who had surprised her father. I don’t know what I did, whether I laughed or stood silent or asked her what was so funny, but I do know that the figure who came to my mind was not a stranger, but my father, in a plaid, longsleeved shirt, his silver pens tucked into his pocket, his scarcely lined brown face, the color that I had called “burnt sienna” as a child, after the crayon I would use to draw him, and he had in turn had called me “peach brown,” although it wasn’t quite the right color for me, it was a little too white.

The tensions with my parents reached a head one night when they were driving me home from Spence. A school event had ended after dark, and they came up together from Brooklyn in the Honda to bring me back home. We listened to the radio as we rode down the FDR Drive. I could see the city lights and the East River churn. My

father smoked his pipe, the sweet tobacco smell floating out the window, my mother looked despondently out the window, her chin in her skinny hand, and my brother I remember only as silent and small.

I suspect the fight started with my mother: my power struggles were chiefly with her. If I sighed more dramatically than was allowed, or if I rolled my eyes, or if I disagreed with her, she would launch her attack. I could count on the fight to escalate. My mother’s anger rose up quickly and swallowed everything with the force and speed of a tropical storm. Soon she was shouting at me. What was wrong with me?

Who did I think I was? When I started to cry, my mother kept screaming.

“I am taking you out of that school!”

She likely said something about the way I talked to her, the way I answered back—it was unacceptable. The word bounced in her mouth, the roundness of ‘p’ and ‘b’ identical on her lips. I worried about her when I made her angry, when she screamed. She would turn red, a vein in her forehead would widen and pulse, and I wondered whether her rage would be enough to kill her, or me, all of us.

“If you think I’m one of those Spenceish mothers, you’re wrong. I won’t take this from you!”

Any talk was backtalk, and if I spoke, she became angrier. This seemed unfair to me, and so I spoke anyway, knowing the consequences—more screaming, more threats.

“Take what? I didn’t even do anything.”

“I’ll take you out of that school!”

“Would you do that to me? Would you ruin my future?”

“I’ll take you out of that school!”

Through my tears and her screaming, I felt as if we were careening out of control on the highway. The traffic seemed too fast, and I worried we would slam into another driver or the median at any moment and die in a pileup, an accident caused by our inability to get along, my new insistence on not being squashed down. We didn’t crash.

And so I answered back again.

“If you take me out of Spence, I’ll never forgive you.”

My mother turned to me and repeated my words, her voice shrill and disbelieving.

“That’s right,” I said. “If you would do that to me, if you would ruin my future, I

wouldn’t forgive you.”

After that, her screams swelled to a higher pitch, and I don’t remember whether my father joined in or not, but either way, I remember the sensation of being outnumbered, of being crushed, and so I cowered into the backseat and cried as quietly as I could. I don’t remember my brother, what he said or did. But I couldn’t unsay what I had insisted on—I had hinted at the burgeoning power that I didn’t have a hold on yet. Soon I’d be able to protest, to scorn them. One day, I’d be gone.

My parents talked about that night for years. They brought up my outburst, my threat to never forgive them, as proof I had become an absolute brat at Spence, disobedient, ungrateful. If I raised my voice, even a little, or I hesitated to do something they wanted me to do, my mother would lower her eyebrows in disgust and say, “Don’t think I forgot about the time you said you would never forgive us! I didn’t forget. I remember.”

I remembered too. I remembered the way it felt to talk back, my voice steady, expanding, answering. I remembered the strain of the seatbelt strap across my chest when I leaned forward in the car to talk back. I remembered that for an instant I had refused to accept what my parents decided for me as a sentence. I didn’t feel sorry for what I had said—I wouldn’t let anyone take away the future I felt was mine. Unacceptable. I was a Spence girl now, my old life already behind me.

–– Naima Coster is the author of Halsey Street, a novel of family, loss, and renewal, set in a rapidly gentrifying Brooklyn. Halsey Street has been recommended as a must-read by People, Essence, BitchMedia, The Root, Well-Read Black Girl and The Skimm, among others. It was a Finalist for the 2018 Kirkus Prize for Fiction.

Naima’s second novel, What’s Mine and Yours, is forthcoming from Grand Central Publishing. Naima tweets as @zafatista and writes the newsletter, Bloom How You Must. She lives in Brooklyn with her family.

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Fotografiska

by Christy Smith-Sloman

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isual arts enthusiasts in New York City are celebrating the December opening of Fotografiska New York, the internationally recognized destination for photography with roots in Stockholm and an outpost in Tallinn, Estonia.

The 45,000-square-foot, six-floor space is located at 281 Park Avenue South in the heart of the Flat Iron District. The venue will feature exhibitions, workshops, artist talks, an upscale dining experience, and nightlife that includes DJ sets and intimate concerts. Fotografiska New York aims to be a destination for art, culture, dining and entertainment, where you can experience a full night on the town under one roof.

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says Geoffrey Newman, General Partner Fotografiska New York. “We’ll be open almost every day of the year and we invite our guests to grab a drink, walk the exhibition floors, talk about art and have fun.”

The restaurant’s design will be led by the award-winning, New York City-based team of Roman and Williams, known for its “slow design” with an emphasis on craft and substance. The pair redesigned the recently opened British Galleries at The Metropolitan Museum of Art. “We are most akin to a Kunsthalle, a temporary exhibition space. We don’t have a permanent collection and we are not selling art work. We love to work with artists and gallerists directly,” says Amanda Hajjar, Director of Exhibitions. “Having the artists directly involved in the curation of their exhibitions brings their perspectives to the forefront and this is very important to us. Occasionally we will work with external curators, especially if an artist has someone

TAWNY CHATMON, CASTLES, FROM THE SERIES “THE REDEMPTION,” 2019 © TAWNY CHATMON. COURTESY OF THE ARTIST AND GALERIE MYRTIS.

fashion photography, conceptual fine art photography, photojournalism and landscape photography. Making sure we have the right mix of photography in the building is key. My hope is that it’s interesting, thought-provoking, relatable and fun.”

“There are so many important global issues for us to highlight,” adds Hajjar.

“Our opening exhibitions, either overtly or covertly, address issues of gender identity, women’s rights, climate change, racial inequalities, socio-economic disparities and immigration.”

they really want to work with and can help them organize their thoughts.”

The opening exhibitions feature works by photographers Ellen von Unwerth, Tawny Chatmon, Helene Schmitz and Adi Nes in addition to a commissioned work by Anastasia Taylor-Lind on the theme of motherhood in partnership with TIME. Taylor-Lind, the English/ Swedish photojournalist, specializes in documenting issues relating to women, violence and war.

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CLOCKWISE FROM TOP: 1. ADI NES, UNTITLED (LAST SUPPER), 1996 / © ADI NES / COURTESY OF JACK SHAINMAN GALLERY 2. RACHEL NURSES HER 16 MONTH OLD DAUGHTER MICHAELA WHILE HER NANNY, ANNIE, CLIPS THE CHILD’S TOE NAILS IN BROOKLYN. ANASTASIA TAYLOR-LIND, NOT YET TITLED, 2019 / © ANASTASIA TAYLOR-LIND FOTOGRAFISKA/TIME 3. ELLEN VON UNWERTH, GUESS WHO, CLAUDIA SCHIFFER, NASHVILLE, 1989 / © ELLEN VON UNWERTH

different photographers, however their work is informed by their unique personal experiences. It’s in Fotografiska’s DNA to present a diverse breadth of photography:

ORIGIN STORY

Fotografiska was founded by two brothers, Jan and Per Broman, who grew up surrounded by photography. As sons of a

ABOVE: HELENE SCHMITZ, AESTHETICS OF VIOLENCE, FROM THE SERIES “THINKING LIKE A MOUNTAIN,” 2017 / © HELENE SCHMITZ RIGHT: BATHTUB, NAOMI CAMPBELL AND KATE MOSS (FOR VOGUE US), 1996 BY ELLEN VON UNWERTH

darkroom manager for a newspaper, they learned to create and develop images in their father’s darkroom at a very young age.

This sparked their life-long passion for the process of making images – from idea to eye to shutter to print.

The first Fotografiska opened in 2010 in a sprawling Art-Nouveau building on the waterfront in Stockholm. The opening exhibition featured striking views of the city and works by Annie Leibovitz, Vee Speers, Joel Peter-Wilkin and Swedish photographer Lennart Nilsson. The exhibit quickly became the talk of the town.

Less than a decade later, Fotografiska Tallinn in Estonia opened in June 2019, with an exhibit by the Beijingborn Chinese artist and Director Yang Fudong, titled “Moving The Mountains.”

The show examined the contemporary context of Chinese mythology. Inspired by 4th-Century Chinese Taoist text “Liezi,” a parable that tells the story of

an old man who decides to crush two mountains to block the access to his house to help his children and grandchildren live a better life.

The unrealistic goal is served by the man’s unwavering belief that after his death this work will be completed by his descendants and their descendants. The show is currently breaking attendance records in Estonia.

“Our original mission stays true no matter where we are opening in the world – we are building this space to inspire a more conscious world through the power of photography,” says Newman.

“There will occasionally be Swedish photographers that we exhibit, such as Helene Schmitz in our inaugural lineup, but each Fotografiska location has its own character and is designed to fit into its

home city. Fotografiska New York will be distinctly New York, and we can’t wait to introduce it to the city.”

Fotografiska New York: 281 Park Ave. South, NY, NY 10017 fotografiska.com/nyc –– Christy Smith-Sloman’s writing has appeared in Marie Claire, The Hollywood Reporter, Essence, Yahoo! and CBSSports.com among other publications.

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he rabbi told us, as he always did, to turn off our cell phones before he began the service. So I pressed that button on the side of the phone and saw its long face go dark. I was ready to reform, after all. It was, again, Rosh Hashanah. It was the beginning of the New Year, which meant that it was time to contemplate my various failings and imagine how to become a better person. I stood at the cusp of the year, surrounded by other members of Beth-Em Synagogue, everyone clad in their suits and fine dresses and pumps and satin yarmulkes.

How elegant we all looked, how shimmery and crisp and presentable. The scents of rose and orange drifted through the air. It seemed that all of us had taken special care dressing this year.

We were shoulder to shoulder, we knew each other and we didn’t, and inside, everyone was grimy in a precise, individual way.

We all peered into the ark, its tall oak doors now open. The sheer white curtains floated lightly over the Torahs, adorned in their crimson velvet cases; they looked as though they were ready to go to an expensive restaurant or a wedding. The cantor’s voice soared as he sung the deep notes of “Avinu Malkeinu,” all of us bowing slightly before the ark, trying to appear humble, or concerned, assuming the blank and philosophical expressions particular to the High Holy Days.

The other congregants were so focused I envied them. There was the temple secretary, Chaya Weiss, skilled at silence while voices argued over her; her eyes were closed and her eyelid twitched as she, perhaps, viewed her transgressions, whatever they were. There was Max Lowenstein, ten years old and wriggly; he was still for a moment, chin lifted, hands by his sides, as though at a military parade. And there was Gina Gordon, twelve, standing very straight in three-inch heels, glancing, with veiled interest, at everyone from 114

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her new height. Everyone appeared to be closer to imagining their better selves. I was trying, too, to imagine this, but my mind kept swerving the wrong way.

I considered the catalogue of my personal failures. There was the time I snapped at the cashier at the supermarket when she refused to give me a student discount even though I was not a student; there was the fact that I never returned the cashmere sweater that Mara Stein loaned me because I found it soft and comforting in a way I could not release. There was the moment I swooped in and stole a parking place from Stan Tamkin, whose truck was adorned with the worst bumper stickers, and who was sitting, unfortunately, just a few rows away from me. There was the time I yelled at those who had done nothing really and were just in the way of my anger, and there were the many times I woke up, read the newspaper, and felt like a pancake of defeat.

I closed my eyes and tried to see myself as different. I wished I could move through this bruised, shoddy world like a giant, in a way that was grand and brave and perhaps even helpful, but whenever I tried to imagine this version of myself, my mind slammed shut. I was a dwarf of bitterness. And I was not able to access this better self, no, for I was mired in my own personal grievances.

I wanted. I wanted everything I shouldn’t; I wanted a load of cash and a Jacuzzi tub in our bathroom and everyone to stop yelling and I wanted everyone in this nation to shut up and listen to me.

Why couldn’t everyone just listen to me? I wanted sometimes to escape to another life and I wanted to freeze time so my children and husband would always be who they were at certain perfect moments and I wanted my family and friends to appreciate the love I wanted to lavish on them, but everyone kind of preferred their Copyright © 2018 by Karen E. Bender, from The New Order.

Reprinted by permission of Counterpoint Press.

own sort of love, which was their choice, naturally, but it sometimes made me sad. I wanted my parents and an aunt and some friends who were dead to be alive again, and I could not get accustomed to, and even bitterly resented, their deadness. I wanted my brother to stop being mad because I had taken the best chandelier out of our parents’ dining room. I wanted the cats to stop napping and clean up the house. I wanted to eat ten Entenmann’s coffee cakes and not gain a pound. I wanted to climb back into my mother and try again to be born. I wanted to go completely deaf when some people were talking, and I wanted others to simply vanish. I wanted to ram my car into the minivan of Angela Price, whose son bullied mine.

I wanted, how I wanted to grab hold of and repair my broken nation, before it slipped away and vanished.

I looked at the congregants standing around me. They all gazed at the ark, faces slowly starting to open. Everyone appeared to be reasonably alert. I did not know what any of them wanted from themselves, or from our nation. But I knew what I did.

I wanted a nation in which our leaders never lied and were elected to office because of their love for and adherence to the truth. I wanted a nation where, if people got sick, they would be cared for, swiftly, tenderly, and the only concern would be that they would get well. I wanted a nation that did not conjure suspicion about entire groups of people, and did not assault or kill them, a nation where everyone could look each other, kindly, in the eye and say hello. I wanted a nation that did not just roll around, naked and panting, in piles of money, and where people who held fistfuls of it were actually able to say, “Here! You have some, too.” I wanted a nation that did not order those who wanted to be here to just get out, go away, and brutally cart them off, but instead welcomed them, and learned and kindly said all their names. I wanted a nation where women could stroll leisurely through dark parking lots, city streets, everywhere, and never look behind them because they would never have any fear.

I wanted a nation where a person could go to school or shopping or wherever and never worry about whether it was smarter to dive under a chair or run. I wanted a nation where people did not view one another as zombies because they were not zombies, because they wanted the best not just for themselves but also for each other.

I wanted a nation where people loved one another, even strangers, because they had that much feeling inside of them, because they were that alive.

I sort of wanted to repent but really I wanted others to repent. I wanted the whole damn world to repent, to stop behaving terribly, and just, for once, be good.

Then a cell phone started to ring.

It was a cheery, slightly irritating tune, the unmistakable melody of a device that wanted you to grab it and make it stop playing. I thought, what idiot left his cell phone on, and looked around, and then, I realized with a jab of horror that the melody was coming from somewhere around my feet.

The ringing phone was mine.

I grabbed my bag. How could my phone be on? I had turned it off.

We were in the middle of services! I was not this dumb. My hands were shaking, and I fumbled with the phone, forgetting how to turn it off. The damn thing kept ringing. My hands were as clumsy as enormous mitts, and somehow could not figure out how to silence the phone, so, instead, I answered it.

“Marry me,” said a stranger’s voice.

The members standing in the pew behind me glared. The cantor’s voice soared, grand, through the room.

“Uh, wrong number,” I whispered.

“Please. You know I’d be good,” said the voice.

I was trembling. Everyone in the congregation knew the phone belonged to me. They were concentrating very intently on their

I WANTED EVERYTHING I SHOULDN’T; I WANTED A LOAD OF CASH AND A JACUZZI TUB IN OUR BATHROOM AND EVERYONE TO STOP YELLING AND I WANTED EVERYONE IN THIS NATION TO SHUT UP AND LISTEN TO ME. holiness—oh the pure focus of their blank faces!—and I had interrupted them.

“Stop!” I said, and hung up. I pressed the button on the side, the Power button, so the phone would turn off and I could get back to my quest for a higher self.

The phone rang again.

What the hell? The phone was off. Seriously. Now the cantor was looking, none too happily, at me.

I answered it. “Yes?” I whispered.

“I’m calling about the job,” said a woman, sounding nervous.

“There’s no job,” I hissed.

“But I need it!” she said. “Please! Give it to me! Now!” I hung up.

I looked around. The activity by the ark had ceased. There was no pretense of worship anymore.

I shrank to a puddle of shame. Happy Rosh Hashanah from me, the idiot whose cell phone had gone off. Twice.

“Honey, don’t you know how to turn your phone off?” asked Eva, whose husband died a year ago.

I held out the phone, as evidence. Eva’s best friend, Harriett, who ran a catering business, sat beside her; skeptically, she eyed the phone.

“Apparently, she does not,” Harriet murmured to Eva. “It’s off!” I said. “I swear!”

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I could feel everyone staring at me. How had I been so thoughtless, so careless? Didn’t I see how others were trying to better themselves?

Why couldn’t I? Did I want to? Or was I, perhaps, a saboteur of others’ desire to improve?

Another phone rang.

But this time it wasn’t mine. Thank all gods everywhere. Everyone looked around. Another tinny melody erupted across the room. A woman gasped and rummaged through her purse. She brought it out, the phone happily ringing away.

“It was off!” she cried. But she answered it. On speaker.

“I got a bad diagnosis,” a man’s voice said. “I’ve got to quit my job.

And hire someone to take my place. But to hell with it! I won’t—”

A sadness. The most human sound in the world. I understood this more than any words. So I did not turn off the phone.

“I know,” I said. “Sometimes, I feel the same way.”

I waited. There was the sound of a human breathing.

“Thank you,” said the voice, and hung up.

The phone shuddered in my palm. And then it was off. It seemed to be off. I almost wanted to call her and continue the discussion, but I did not.

Then I heard, very clearly, the voice inside the phone of Frieda Sonnenbaum, who was standing beside me. In her phone, a man said, “and for the last year George, my son, started drinking, and he won’t talk to me. My son. I drove him across the whole state of North Carolina for his basketball games when he was a kid, and he was an honors student in college and he drove drunk to our house and we started meetings but I just want to drive to his apartment, grab the bottles of THE CELL PHONES SANG AND BLEEPED liquor, and empty them into the street . . .”

AND WHIRRED AND FILLED THE This man was upset. Of course he was, but I heard something else in his voice, too. I grabbed Frieda’s SANCTUARY WITH AN UNHOLY RUCKUS, phone. She was a real estate agent, and not one who AND NO ONE KNEW WHAT TO DO. relinquished her phone easily. But this time she did.

“It’s hard,” I said. “I know. It is.”

There was silence.

“Yep,” said the man, and hung up. Frieda stared at me.

Another phone rang. Then another. The rabbi and cantor, the I gently placed the quiet phone in her hand. temple president, various high-ranking members stood bewildered, The phones exploded into sound, over and over, in the room until suddenly ineffectual in the presence of these spirited ring tones. this. Until the person who answered the phone did not tell the one All the phones were going off at once, and the entire congregation on the other end to stop. The phones were adamant, ferocious for seemed to be scrambling through their purses and pockets, pulling attention, their rings shrieking so that it felt as though they would out their phones and answering them. reside forever in the air, but as soon as we said something to the My phone was ringing again, too. Each time I shut it off, it burst person on the other end, anything but “stop,” the phones ceased into its fierce song. Each time it rang, a person wanted something. their ringing. One by one, the ringing vanished and after a few Urgently. Or they were going to act. minutes, finally all the cell phones in the temple were silent.

“If the elevator keeps breaking I’m suing the building. Now.” The silence in the room seemed new, it seemed enormous. The “If you tweet those photos of yourself I swear I will take your congregation looked a bit shaken. My ears felt a bit tender from all phone and smash it against the wall—” the buzzing. I was depleted. But now, the air was pure as glass. In this “Stop,” I kept saying, and snapping my phone off. Would they silence, I felt I could hear everything. Or I could try, perhaps, to listen. just shut up already? Who wanted to hear the world’s complaints?

We stood in front of the rabbi, who gazed at all of us, pleased.

The world was mad, as in disappointed, humiliated, hurt, resentful, “We are all ready now?” he asked us. confused, lost, and everyone had personal solutions to this, most We were. I think we were ready. There was so much that all of of which were inadvisable. They were human, most solutions were us needed to fix. The world was still hot and despairing and full inadvisable. All of the congregants were answering their phones and of pain, and I wasn’t a giant at all, but I wasn’t dust, either. I was going pale. No one was listening to the calls but instead, everyone trying to be a hopeful resident of the world. I stood with my fellow was annoyed and confused by the rush of the ring tones. But the congregants in the room, feeling their presence beside me. We were calls kept coming, on and on, and the pleas became more high- all paying attention now, our minds unfastened. We looked to the pitched and urgent. The cell phones sang and bleeped and whirred new year. Here it was. and filled the sanctuary with an unholy ruckus, and no one knew “All right then,” the rabbi said. “Let’s begin.”

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KAREN E. BENDER is the author of Refund, a finalist for “Rabbi, how do we make it stop?”

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t was better than anticipated, at least for the first twenty minutes. Not $1,200 better, because that’s impossible. But still: Hot towels for the jowls. Enough territory to extend your entire left leg into the aisle without fear of sanction or reprisal. A glass of orange juice while still at the gate, served in a glass made of glass. He thought to himself, “I could get used to this.” But that thought was a lie. He would never get used to this, even if it became the only way he traveled anywhere. The experience would never seem unremarkable. It would always feel gratuitous in the best possible way.

Would he read a novel or watch a movie?

Maybe neither. The chair was so supple, perhaps he’d just sit there and stare robotically ahead, fixated on the degree to which he wasn’t uncomfortable. There was Wi-Fi in the cabin.

Maybe he’d send a group email to all his old high school chums, playfully bragging about the altitude from which the message had been sent.

His friends didn’t understand his job, but they would understand that. He couldn’t tell them what his salary was, but he could show them how his company treated its employees. That might scan as pompous, of course. It might make him seem like a bit of a douche, and he didn’t aspire to become the kind of person he’d always been conditioned to hate.

But he was proud of himself, maybe for the first time. His life had changed, and this was proof.

He asked the attendant about the flight’s duration. She estimated just over three hours. He got up to use the lavatory, delighted by the absence of a line. He wondered if it would be different from the restrooms in coach—larger, perhaps, or cleaner. And it was. It was slightly larger and slightly cleaner. But he barely noticed those details, because it also included a puma.

He immediately closed the door and returned to his seat.

For a solid seventy seconds, he considered doing nothing at all.

“Don’t panic. Don’t choke. There’s no way what you think you saw could possibly be the thing that it is.” He reached down into his leather satchel and felt around for his book. His father had once told him that the key to life was an ability to ignore other people’s 124

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imaginary problems. But he wasn’t sure to whom this particular problem belonged, or if it was real or imaginary, or if his father had ever considered what that advice actually implied.

He again got up from his seat and walked to the lavatory. He cracked the door two inches ajar, enough for the automatic light to illuminate. He peered into the tiny room. There it was, sitting on the lid of the toilet, looking back with an empty intensity that matched his own.

He closed the door and returned to his seat.

Seeing the puma a second time did not prompt the internal reaction he’d anticipated. He was, for whatever reason, a bit ambivalent. On the one hand, he was trapped in a contained space with a two-hundred-pound cat. On the other hand, at least the puma was truly there. If the lavatory had been empty, it would have meant he was hallucinating. Better to be a noncrazy person in peril than a crazy person who was safe. He turned to the passenger sitting to his immediate right, an older man in a pin-striped suit who was drinking his second martini.

“Excuse me,” he said to the gentleman in 2D. “This is going to sound bizarre, but . . . have you used the restroom on this flight?”

“No,” said the man. “Why do you ask?”

“I don’t know how to explain this,” he began, almost murmuring.

“I don’t even know how this happened, or what this means, or what you’re supposed to do with the information I’m about to give you. Part of me thinks I shouldn’t even tell you this, although I don’t know why I would think that, since I’m sure this is something you’ll want to know. None of this makes sense. None of it. But I just got up and went to the lavatory, twice. And both times, when I opened the door, there was a puma in the bathroom.”

“A puma?”

“Yes. I realize how insane that must sound. I’m sorry.”

“Yes.” “A cougar.”

“Yes.” “A mountain lion.”

“Yes. Sure. A mountain lion.”

From RAISED IN CAPTIVITY: Fictional Nonfiction by Chuck Klosterman, published by Penguin Press, an imprint of Penguin Publishing Group, a division of Penguin Random House LLC. Copyright © 2019 by Charles Klosterman.

“A catamount.”

“What? I don’t know. Maybe. Yes?” The older man in the pinstriped suit leaned across 2C, dipping his head into the aisle. His hair smelled like rubbing alcohol and coconut water. He studied the closed restroom door. It looked like a door. He resituated himself back in his chair, straightened his jacket by the lapels, and took a quick sip of his translucent beverage. His hands and feet were massive, too big for his frame.

“Let me ask you something,” the older man said. “And don’t take this the wrong way. I’m not being judgmental. I’m drinking gin in the middle of the morning. I’m no priest. And you don’t seem like a kid on drugs. But tell me if you’re on drugs. We just left California. I get it.”

“I’m not on drugs,” he replied.

“Not even the prescription variety? Lexapro? Valium?”

“No. Nothing.”

“Any history of mental illness? Again, no offense intended.”

“No, and I’m not offended.”

The two men looked into each other’s eyes, hunching their shoulders and leaning closer. The interaction adopted a conspiratorial tone. They spoke in stage whispers. The other passengers barely noticed and didn’t care.

“Tell me this,” said the older man. “What are your theories?”

“My theories?”

“In terms of how this could have happened.”

“I have no idea,” the younger man said. “I have no theories.”

“Try,” said the older man. “We’re just brainstorming. There are no wrong answers.”

This was not what the younger man had expected to hear. But he had no expectations at all, so it wasn’t awkward or off-putting. He did what he was told.

“I suppose it’s possible that some millionaire might own a puma as an exotic pet, and he was hauling it across the country, and it escaped from its cage in the cargo hold and crawled through the air-conditioning vents, and it somehow ended up in the bathroom.”

“Excellent,” said the older man. “Let’s have another.”

“I don’t know. Maybe it prowled down from the Hollywood Hills and ended up at LAX, and it was drawn into the airplane hangar by the warmth of the cooling jet engines, but it got scared when the engines were restarted and scampered into the only cavelike crevice it could find, which was the restroom inside the aircraft.”

“Less plausible,” said the older man. “But still possible. Keep going.”

“Maybe this is a psychological experiment, and the puma is a trained puma, and I’m being watched. Maybe this is some kind of radical research project. And maybe you’re the scientist who came up with the experiment, which is why you’re seated next to me and asking these questions.”

“That’s compelling,” said the older man. “But let me assure you— if this is a research project, I’m not part of it.”

“Maybe this is advertising. Maybe this is some kind of guerilla marketing for Puma basketball shoes.”

“Too high-concept. Try again.”

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FICTION “Maybe this is a symptom of some deeper problem,” the younger person continued, oddly delighted by the older person’s interest in his improvisational hypotheses. “Maybe mankind has encroached upon nature too much, to the point of no return. Maybe animals and humans will start coming into conflict all the time, and this is the beginning of that looming crisis. Maybe in five or ten years, it

aggressive, but this puma is hungry, and bewildered, and trapped in a small space. He’s weaponized. Some entitled businessman with a bloated bladder opens the bathroom door. The puma pounces.”

Their noses were now six inches apart. The old man raised his eye-brows. The younger man tried to construct an expression of concern, but he felt himself smirking. His puma theories were above average.

“Will you be having lunch?” a female voice intoned from behind the younger man’s skull. “We have a cheese lasagna with a side salad and we have sliced chicken breast with wild ramps.” The men broke eye contact and bolted up in their seats. The younger man ordered the lasagna. The older man said he only wanted another martini. They both relaxed as the stewardess moved on to the third row and repeated the same information to the woman in 3A. She ordered the lasagna as well. The man in 3B went with the chicken. When the orders were complete, they could hear the woman in 3A ask the man in 3B if he could let her pass, as she needed to use the restroom.

“Here we go,” said the old man in the pinstriped suit.

He turned away, toward the window.

“Shouldn’t I tell her about the puma?” asked the younger man.

“That’s not my problem. Or yours,” said the older man, still looking away. “We’re all in this together.”

--Chuck Klosterman is the bestselling author of eight nonfiction books (including Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs; I Wear the Black Hat; But What If We’re Wrong?; and Killing Yourself to Live) and two novels (Downtown Owl and The Visible Man). He has written for The New York Times, The Washington Post, GQ, Esquire, Spin, The Guardian, The Believer, Billboard, The A.V. Club, and ESPN. Klosterman served as the Ethicist for The New York Times Magazine for three years, appeared as himself in the LCD Soundsystem documentary Shut Up and Play the Hits, and was an original founder of the website Grantland with Bill Simmons.

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will not be uncommon to encounter a puma on an airplane.”

“Intriguing,” said the older man. “But let’s not lose focus on the moment. Keep yourself grounded.”

“The puma could be rabid,” the younger man speculated. “Rabid animals lose their instinctual fear of humans. It might have just slinked onto the plane in a state of confusion, camouflaged by the carpet. I mean, look at the carpet. The carpet is taupe. Taupe is pure puma. Or maybe he’s some type of hypermodern service animal. Maybe instead of getting a seeing-eye dog, you can now get a seeing-eye puma. It’s also possible the TSA has started using pumas to sniff for narcotics, or maybe for bombs. Who knows?

Maybe pumas are better at bomb detection than beagles.”

“Pumas have a relatively weak sense of smell,” said the older man. “But these are viable theories.”

“I suppose a deranged person could have done this intentionally,” the younger man said, abruptly alarmed by the prospect that he’d stumbled upon the true explanation. “A terrorist. If the intention of a terrorist is to incite terror, what would be more terrifying than being attacked by a puma on an airplane? It would change air travel forever. Who would bring an infant on a flight if there were any possibility of a puma encounter? Who would let their elderly mother travel alone? There are so many ways this could be done.

It wouldn’t be difficult. You heavily sedate the puma and place it in a canvas bag. You place the bag on the outskirts of the airport and you bribe a baggage handler.

The handler hauls the bag planeside and a passenger with a fake passport casually picks it up, claiming it’s hockey equipment or medical supplies or the fossilized remains of a saber-toothed cat. The passenger gets the bag on board and dumps it in the restroom, unzipped.

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When I need to get away, I’ll take Manhattan any day. I don’t really want to unwind. I just want to savor the very good life in NYC. Spending hours searching for an online hotel deal by neighborhood is so tiresome. There are times when you just need the Ritz-Carlton New York, Central Park to come to your rescue.

Destination: 50 Central Park South! I send a nod and a wink across the street to Central Park, my new neighbor. The top-hatted doorman swings open the door and the reception welcomes me by name; they’ve been expecting me. In less than three minutes, I have stepped into a different world, so elegant, but not formal. I have become a V.I.P. in my own life, and oooh, I feel special. The Ritz-Carlton Central Park has that effect, and I haven’t even seen my room yet.

This is a hotel that anticipates your arrival with a list of preferences for you to complete ahead of time. “Favorite candy?” was difficult to answer: Too many to mention. “What type of traveler are you? Explorer, Relaxed, or Foodie?” Foodie!

When I was shown to my room there was a welcome tray of pastel macarons and a mini framed painting of my name resting on an easel made out of CHOCOLATE! I couldn’t decide whether to eat the chocolate easel before the white chocolate painting or visa versa. You see, these are the decisions I want to struggle with!

A few years ago, my family celebrated my mom’s 90th birthday at the Ritz-Carlton New York, Central Park. We stayed with her in a glorious suite and the hotel treated my mom like the Queen had arrived. I remember hearing that Aretha Franklin celebrated her birthday every year at the hotel. I get it. Once you’ve experienced this welcoming embrace, why stay anywhere else?

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view of Central Park could be the setting of a meditation app, the mind quiets, the breathing slows. I have discovered the ability to be still, simply watching the horse carriages slowly trot around Central Park. That’s settled, I must live in the RitzCarlton New York, Central Park.

It’s the only place I can meditate effortlessly.

Enough relaxation, time for a glass of Cabernet and the largest shrimp cocktail you’ve ever seen in The Club Lounge located on the second floor.

Be sure to add the Club Lounge to your hotel experience. Those who work on the computer should bring their laptop to the Club Lounge. It’s like a fantasy WeWork: lovely waiter service, elegant small plates, coffee, wines, hors d’oeuvres, cocktails, desserts throughout the day and evening. A concierge is on-site to assist with any questions or needs and best of all, there are jars of candy at the entrance. On the second floor is the exclusive La Prairie Spa of Switzerland and on the mezzanine, a new Peloton equipped fitness and movement studio featuring virtual fitness classes by FitnessOnDemand™. Contour is the centerpiece of the lobby renovation, a day to night Gastro-Lounge. The perfect spot for a breakfast meeting or gathering with friends for seasonallyinfused, artisanal cocktails and small plates. Or, like the late great Aretha Franklin, throw yourself a fabulous birthday party. The truth is, I could spend a weekend at The Ritz-Carlton New York, Central Park and happily never leave the hotel. ritzcarlton.com/centralpark –By Debbie Silver

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TUSCANY. THE NAME ALONE BEGS AND BECKONS IDEAS OF ROMANTIC GETAWAYS AND ALLURING ITALIAN COUNTRYSIDES. NOT WITHOUT REASON. TUSCANY IS RENOWNED FOR ITS WORLD-CLASS WINE, ITS PICTURESQUE MEDIEVAL HILLTOP VILLAGES, AND OF COURSE THE TUSCAN VILLAS THAT MAKE THE AREA SO ICONIC. ON OUR GETAWAY WE VISITED THREE FABULOUS VILLA-HOTELS, EACH WITH ITS OWN SPECIAL AURA WHILE REMAINING LOYAL TO THE ESSENCE OF TUSCANY.

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’Olmo, nestled gently on the crest of a delightful hill in the Val d’Orcia and fashioned out of a 17th century Tuscan country house, makes for an exquisite stay.

Driving up to the property through the looming cyprus trees and stepping out in front of the graceful farmhouse, one can begin to appreciate the atmosphere. Not until you venture through the open-air stone courtyard (where evening cocktails are served) and out to the infinity pool and back garden is one able to comprehend the true allure. As the late afternoon slowly slips into night, the golden hills of Tuscany are illuminated and caressed by the last fading tendrils of sunlight, and it is impossible not to be immersed in the magic. The nearby hilltops are dotted with other picturesque Tuscan homes, and off to the west the medieval town of Pienza hangs on the horizon as a reminder and draw to long-ago times.

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This Hotel de Charme, sporting just seven deluxe suites on the premises, creates the feeling that you have rented (or purchased) your very own private villa in the Tuscan hills.

Whether you are lounging by the pool or dining al fresco under the pergola in the garden, you cannot help but feel as if you were swimming or dining in your own home.

The staff, clad all in white, glide across the grounds to tend to your every need whilst maintaining a low profile.

Within a 30-minute drive of the hotel are located multiple historic Italian villages, such as Montalcino, where Brunello di Montalcino– one of the most prestigious wines of Italy–is produced. And on a nearby promontory sits Pienza, a UNESCO World Heritage Site described as an ideal renaissance town, and the capital of Pecorino cheese production.

Each makes for an exciting day trip.

Strolling through the narrow streets, taking in the breathtaking scenery, and tasting the local delicacies are a must.

Back at L’Olmo, be sure to sit out in the gardens as the golden hour descends over the landscape with your Aperol spritz in hand, watch as the sunlight invigorates the halcyon hills to create an almost indescribable energy, and revel in the gentle breeze that flows over your body at this ethereal Tuscan getaway.

After long, hard days by the pool or indulging in fine Tuscan foodstuffs, lay your head down in style in one of the classically decorated suites, close your eyes and rest up. Who knows what delights tomorrow in Tuscany has in store! olmopienza.it

CASTEL MONASTERO next stop, castel monastero, located in the heart of the Chianti wine region near the Renaissance city of Siena.

Find refuge and relaxation at this renovated medieval monastery transformed into a Leading Hotel of the World.

Enter through the massive stone archway into the enchanting courtyard, and be sure to venture around the sprawling premises with many antique out buildings to gain an appreciation of the

Activities in the surrounding area are abundant for those wishing to get out and interact with the locale: black and white truffle hunting on crisp autumn mornings for the culinary aficionado, or perhaps a hot air balloon ride to gain an alternatively breathtaking view of the surrounding Tuscan countryside. All can be arranged by the extremely friendly and accommodating hotel concierge.

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once medieval village that has become your luxury retreat. The rooms have all been elegantly redone to masterfully complement the rustic monastery setting, while also providing a contemporary and comfortable twist.

The hotel is home to two restaurants, one nouvelle fine dining and the other classic Tuscan in the monastery’s cellars. Enjoy local, skillfully prepared dishes by candlelight in the charming setting of the stone and brick vaulted chamber of the underground wine cellar.

The monastery has full spa amenities, including a series of three outdoor infinity pools that flow one into the other, a yoga pavilion, open-air exercise room, and indoor hot tub and sauna plus hammam for utter relaxation.

Pamper yourself with a candlelit spa treatment or two; have your aches and worries kneaded away by the expert masseuses as if they were kneading out some homemade Tuscan pasta.

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this historic tuscan estate turned deluxe resort and Leading Hotel of the World was originally a private villa of the Grand Duke of Tuscany, Leopold the II. In 1800 he began reclaiming and transforming the surrounding Maremma wetlands into the paradise it is today.

Past the imposing front gate and down the kilometer dirt road shaded by towering cypress and stone pine trees, the recently renovated yet authentic manor house sits prominently upon a hill.

Laid out before it are the vineyards, olive groves, vast tomato and vegetable fields, and farm, replete with horses and cattle.

Driving onto the estate, you have entered a world unto itself.

The villa resort offers a plethora of activities and amenities.

Spend the day idling by one of two outdoor pools, soak in some relaxation at the indoor vitality pool and sauna, or use the tennis court that doubles as a soccer field. If golf is your bag, the premise also contains a driving range and putting green.

Daily excursions to the Mediterranean sea (less than 10 km away), hiking through the vineyard, and wine tastings can all be arranged.

Just a few kilometers drive away, on the western coast of Italy, is the pleasant seaside town of Castiglione della Pescaia, where a dive into the welcoming Mediterranean followed by a saunter down the main promenade and up to the castle is certainly worthwhile.

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on the villa’s grounds. Before leaving, make sure to stock up on the local olive oil and the estate’s own wine–you will surely miss them after you have left. Member, Leading Hotels of the World. andana.it/en Gallivanting around the Tuscan countryside, drinking fine wines, feasting on the rich local cuisine and exploring Tuscany’s many hidden gems may be your dream, but it doesn’t have to remain one. Turn that dream into a reality with a stay at any or all of these luxury Tuscan escapes.

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The guest room décor is rich and royal. Fitted with lavishly appointed textiles and Aqua di Parma bath accoutrements.

Breakfast may be taken in the hotel gardens, aperativo in the bold-hued lobby bar, and a nightcap in the Principe Bar. At least one trip by foot from your residence in the Piazza della Repubblica to the Piazza del Duomo is in order–the journey will take you through some of Milan’s most beautiful and exclusive neighborhoods. A complementary hotel shuttle makes two stops: one on the famed shopping boulevard, Via Monte Napoleone, and

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the other at the opera house, Teatro alla Scala.

A visit to La Rinascente department store, adjacent to Milan’s iconic Galleria, should not be cut short, and may be accompanied with a lunch on their rooftop patio overlooking the spires of the Duomo. Continue to indulge your cultural appetite by following the Louis Vuitton Milan city guide.

Back at the Principe di Savoia, an evening dip in the hotel pool comes with a view high over the city, and a visit to the spa soothes sore feet. The Principe di Savoia is a member of the Dorchester Collection, dorchestercollection.com/en/milan/hotel-principe-di-savoia Ci vediamo a Milano.

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The city will awaken hours later. It’s quiet, just the sound of church bells ringing on the hour.

You have the city of Málaga to yourself, exploring magnificent fountains and grand plazas. As the shops open their doors your senses come alive: hearing the lilting melody of the Spanish language, seeing the ancient ruins of Teatro Romano de Málaga, the Picasso museum, the scent of saffron-colored platters of paella, paper cones of Marcona almonds glistening with olive oil and sea salt in shop windows, and bustling outdoor cafes at every turn.

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know, it’s unforgettable.

SeaDream is yachting, not cruising. Imagine sailing on a yacht with only 112 passengers and a crew of 95. So intimate and elegant, yet relaxed. The yachts offer the opportunity to visit ports too small for large cruise ships. You won’t need your wallet, onboard the cruise is all-inclusive: the bar, magnificent dining, and gratuities.

Each staff member has memorized your name on DAY 1. At bedtime, personalized pajamas await on your pillow. The staff is beyond outstanding and they’re devoted to fulfilling any request. You’ll want to take the staff home with you!

On this cruise, passengers hail from over 10 countries; most are return guests. We will sample five cities in five days with a host of land adventures to select from.

Day 2- Good morning, Puerto Banus, the Monaco of the coast of Spain. Strolling by the mega-yachts in the harbor, I wonder what it would be like to be aboard one of those luxury yachts, pampered by a staff, without a care. Wait minute, I’m living that life aboard SeaDream!

On this Sunday in Marbella, we observe the Andalusian celebration of the patron saint, Corpus Christi. Families in their Sunday best and children in communion dress join together for the

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religious procession through the town.

Next day, in Gibraltar, ride the cable car to the top where multitudes of monkeys await your arrival. Plan for lunch at the Mons Calpe restaurant at the top of the Rock. The view is spectacular and Morocco is only a ferry ride away. Imagine getting married at the top of The Rock of Gibraltar; a London couple was tying the knot at Mons Calpe that afternoon. @cablecargibraltar @monscalpesuite Cadiz is magnificent whether you stay in town exploring, join the land adventure to Jerez, the sherry capital of the world, or take tapas lessons with a local family. Next day, we arrive in the Algarve fishing village, Portimão in Portugal. Try the local Portuguese wine and grilled sardines at Dona Barca or venture out to Churrasqueria Guerreiro for Chicken Piri-Piri. Plan an excursion to see the incredible Benagil Sea Caves. Last stop of the five-day cruise is Lisbon, and most passengers extend their stay to explore this fabulous city.

In 2021 SeaDream Yacht Club will introduce a new mega yacht, Innovation, featuring 110 suites and a one-to-one guest to crew ratio.

Suited for both tropical and polar destinations, SeaDream Innovation will sail to all continents in its first season, visiting over 200 ports in 49 countries. The state-of-the-art megayacht will debut with a 70-day journey.

(London to Ushuaia, Sept. 18 – Nov. 27, 2021). Following a transatlantic voyage, SeaDream Innovation will sail to beautiful destinations in Central and South America. The voyage will cruise to Patagonia’s Glacier Alley and Chilean fjords before culminating with an exploration of Antarctica.

SeaDream is the most effortless and relaxing way to travel, whether it’s five days, 14 days or 70 days on the SeaDream Innovation. Arrange a Private Charter with SeaDream for the ultimate private event or celebration. Seize the SeaDream–you’ll treasure your time aboard. seadream.com –by Debbie Silver

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Navigate the steep winding tiled streets, traditional Fado clubs and marvel at the restored industrial complex, LX Factory, a collection of shops, restaurants, coffee bars and street art that rivals any Brooklyn hipster scene.

Lisbon’s a beautiful city, and best of all, it’s not expensive. Lisbon Heritage Hotels have a lovely group of small hotels owned by Portuguese families. The hotels are situated in the historic center of

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The Undiscovered Lisbon Tour was the highlight of our stay in Lisbon.

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Lisbon – As Janelas Verdes, Heritage Avenida Liberdade Hotel, Hotel Britania, Hotel Lisboa Plaza and Solar Do Castelo. Breakfast buffet is included as well as complimentary admission to 20 Lisbon museums.

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comfortable and the history fascinating. We explored two neighborhoods – Baixa, which translates to “downtown,” followed

by Mouraria, the city’s medieval quarter. At each of the six tasting stops, we sat and learned about a traditional dish paired with a local wine or beer. Last stop: Lisbon’s most famous pastry shop for a warm ‘pastel de nata’ – a heavenly sweet custard tart sprinkled with cinnamon. Eating Europe Tours are offered in London, Amsterdam, Prague, Paris, Florence, Naples and Strasbourg.

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he highest ski resort in Europe, and home to the largest ESF ski school (Ecole de Ski Francaise), Val Thorens is a mecca of European skiing. The resort town is situated at the highest point of three valleys, offering access to the largest ski area in the world, with 600 kilometers of slopes, 334 of signposted runs and almost 200 ski lifts. It is possible to ski the interlinked valleys using a single ski pass, while enjoying guaranteed snow from November to May, unparalleled views, wellgroomed trails, and numerous mountain eateries.

Besides Alpine skiing, Val Thorens offers scenic skiing, off-piste skiing, ski hiking, a snowpark, boardercross, snow-shoeing and the longest toboggan run in Europe. Live music, dance parties, restaurants, bars, shops, and spas abound, for other activities daytime and long into the night.

Nestled a few minutes walk or shuttle ride below the village lies the 5-star, ski-in, ski-out Altapura hotel, “the highest ski palace” in the world. At 2300 meters, the Nordic-chic Altapura offers 88 deluxe rooms and suites, three restaurants, a state of the art ski shop, spa with sauna, hammam, and indoor/outdoor swimming pool, children’s center and huge slopes-facing terrace and bar. Enjoy a décor rich in faux furs and natural wood and stone elements,

accented with antique skis, and complemented by contemporary amenities. The hotel’s gastronomic restaurant, Les Enfants Terribles, serves creative mountain fare in an elegant setting; La Laterie offers a carefully crafted menu of fondues and cheese-based dishes. altapura.fr –A.M. ALTAPURA

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Ireland beckon alluringly across the Atlantic Ocean. And There’s no shortage of dining hotspots to enjoy in Dublin. nowhere personifies a warm Irish welcome more than The Work up an appetite while perusing the stunning, early medieval Shelbourne Hotel in Dublin, with manuscripts that make up the Book of Kells at almost 200 years of history behind its University College Dublin. Keep the historic gleaming facade. theme going by visiting the astounding bog In 1824, Irishman Martin Burke turned bodies–corpses preserved for millennia by three townhouses near the St. Stephen’s Green the various minerals present in Irish swamps– into top-flight accommodations and named present at the National Museum of Ireland’s his new property after a former British prime archaeology division. minister. Occupied by the British during the Channel Comedy Central’s classic 1916 Easter Rising, The Shelbourne Hotel program Drunk History by heading to the played host to Michael Collins in 1922 while Guinness Storehouse. At the home of the he was drafting the Irish constitution. History world’s favorite beer, down a pint (or two or buffs should ask for the hotel’s genealogy three) while learning all about the delightful butler, an expert on family history, to arrange a brew’s rich cultural heritage. Then, browse consultation on their own Irish pasts. the vast collection of books on the first floor A haven of luxury amidst Dublin’s hustle of bookstore/restaurant The Winding Stair, and bustle, The Shelbourne’s beautifully before going upstairs for a hearty meal. Or, appointed rooms complement the hotel’s head into the heart of the city to dine at Fade numerous dining and drinking options. Sip Street Social, featuring acclaimed chef Dylan a spot of afternoon tea in the refined Lord McGrath’s cuisine. Fade Street Social offers Mayor’s Lounge, then adjourn to the secluded petite, tapas-style portions of fresh, seasonal 1824 Bar, whose plush fittings amidst wooden Irish produce.

SHELBOURNE HOTEL paneling–and superb whiskey collection–are Dublin’s immediate surrounds offer exquisite reminiscent of a viscount’s study. Need a bite heritage sites. In the verdant countryside to eat or a lighter tipple? No. 27 Bar & Lounge offers up delightful northwest of the capital, stop at the prehistoric wonder that is cocktail creations and sophisticated twists on classic Irish pub fare.

Newgrange, courtesy of a Mary Gibbons tour. A circular monument For dinner, look no further than The Shelbourne’s Saddle Room, that might have been an ancient temple, a ritual site from which which serves up delicious renditions of classics like Irish scallops or to view the sun at the summer solstice, or something in between,

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Newgrange is older than the Pyramids at Giza–and the misty air hovering over the massive stone edifice shimmers with mystery.

Your knowledgeable guides will lead you through the 5000-year-old structure. Next stop on the Mary Gibbons Tours is the Hill of Tara, the legendary seat of Ireland’s high kings in ancient times.

After touring Tara, have a rest at Bellinter House, whose romantic opulence rivals the fictional Downton Abbey’s. Built as

time, to the city of Kilkenny. Combining rich historic fortifications with top-flight entertainment festivals and some of the best restaurants in Ireland, Kilkenny offers the best of all worlds.

Situated just outside the town’s center of town is Newpark Hotel, a favorite venue for weddings. It’s a magnificent setting, forty acres of parkland and award-winning, landscaped gardens. Newpark offers a delightful afternoon tea to reinvigorate you after a long day–or you can unwind with an Aveda treatment at the Escape Spa. Get to know Kilkenny City proper with the Pat Tynan Walking Tours, available from 11 am to 2 pm Monday through Saturday.

Join fascinated fellow visitors at the tourist office before departing on foot to tour the town. Pat genially guides guests through the windy streets of Kilkenny, relating local lore and trivia tidbits along the way. Standing in the shadow of Kilkenny Castle, he explains how a series of invasions brought about the mighty edifice’s construction, and Pat makes sure to emphasize all of Kilkenny’s historic firsts and unique quirks.

Unwind after your tour with traditional Irish fare at the White Oak, housed in the centrally-located Kilford Arms Hotel, followed by a pint at the Hole in the Wall. An irresistibly charming watering NEWGRANGE hole favored by locals and tourists alike, the Hole in the Wall is PHOTO BY BOYNEFAMILYTOURS.COM one of the tiniest pubs you’ll ever visit. But its cozy ambiance and beverage selection an 18th-century country retreat along complement the staffers’ the River Boyne, Bellinter House has raucous banter, turning a transformed itself into a boutique small spot into a massive hotel with every amenity imaginable, attraction. Then dine out complete with extensive grounds. Opt at Zuni, whose takes on for a room in the Main House, which local seafood delight the offers a full tub in which to soak palate. weary limbs. And there’s no better If you’re lucky enough way to refuel than with crispy Boyne to visit at the end of May Valley fish and chips, courtesy of the or early June, don’t miss master chefs at Eden, Bellinter’s inthe Kilkenny Cat Laughs house restaurant.

Festival. During this brief HILL OF TARA Bellinter is located smack in the but brilliant event, worldPHOTO BY BOYNEFAMILYTOURS.COM middle of historic County Meath. renowned comics flock to The best way to travel and learn is perform their latest standwith the experts at Derek Smith’s Beautiful Meath Tours, who offer up routines. Recent luminaries include 2018 Edinburgh Comedy packaged or custom tours, complete with chauffeur-historians Award winner Rose Matafeo, legendary Irish presenter Tommy to take you from site to site. Eager to learn about your family Tiernan, and quick-witted fan favorite Nish Kumar, host of British history? Dig into your personal Irish heritage on Beautiful Meath’s satire show, The Mash Report. genealogy tours. Pining for some of Ireland’s authentic uisce Of course, a visit to Kilkenny wouldn’t be complete without beatha (Gaelic for “water of life,” or whiskey)? Try a snifter–or taking in the area’s ancient sites. Kilkenny Taxi Tours offers a several–on a bespoke tour of Irish whiskey distilleries. chauffeured trip around the southeast corner of Ireland, a green Beautiful Meath’s guides, including expert Michael Fox of haven of history and culture. Ask for James, whose knowledge of Boyne Valley Tours, will impress and inform with their vast the area is second to none. Start off at Jerpoint Abbey, a medieval knowledge of every nook and cranny of their county and its tasty abbey now in ruins. Its eerie, abandoned environs might well make and historic byproducts. Trim Castle is a hulking fortified site the hairs on the back of your neck stand up. Other don’t-miss that movie buffs might recognize from the movie Braveheart (yes, sites include Kells Priory and Duiske Abbey, and a delightful meal William Wallace lived in Scotland, but there’s no place quite like awaits you at Jen’s at Mullins Mill.

Ireland to film a historical flick). And who says castles can’t be There’s so much to see in Ireland, from historic sites to breweries current? Bruce Springsteen and U2 have headlined rock concerts galore, that there surely isn’t enough room for just one trip. at nearby Slane Castle.

That means one thing–time to plan a return trip to the brilliant From Meath, hop a bus heading southeast, back to Dublin. Then, southeast of the Emerald Isle, Ireland’s Ancient East, at Ireland.com transfer to another JJ Kavanagh bus, venturing southwest–this -Carly Silver W E STO N MA G A Z I N E G ROUP.COM

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The Abbey, which in 973 AD hosted the majestic coronation of Edgar, the first King to be crowned ‘King of England,’ has had a long and colorful history, experiencing periods of glory and grandeur as a great Cathedral as well as times of sorrow and neglect following the English Reformation.

Jules Mittra is selling the Abbey’s decommissioned pews via an online auction in order to find them new homes whilst raising capital to fund the growth of his business, ‘Around and About Bath.’ A former history and politics teacher, and a keen traveler, Jules left the teaching profession in order to set up a local tour company that would offer the experience he seeks when travelling, sharing with visitors to the Bath region ‘the authentic, untouched England’ that he knows and loves.

As a Bath resident and history buff, with a business founded on celebrating and sharing England’s forgotten heritage and culture, the moment Jules heard a team member mention the sale of the pews, he immediately took notice. Soon after, he found himself standing inside the entrance of a colossal former Cold War aircraft hangar, staring at rows of exquisite pew-ends.

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and installed a stunning collection of individually crafted oak pews to reside within his Gothic masterpiece. Each pew is unique, with each pew-end design inspired by the stonework, memorials and Gothic designs within the Abbey.

Gilbert Scott’s pews remained in situ in Bath Abbey until 2018, following the commencement of Bath Abbey’s ‘Footprint’s’ project.

This major renovation and redevelopment of the building is aimed at introducing thermal heating to the building, opening up the Abbey’s interior for uses beyond church services and revealing the incredible stone memorials hidden beneath the pews.

The Victorian Society, dedicated to the preservation of Britain’s Victorian heritage, sprang into action to prevent the removal of one of the ‘greatest collections of Gothic pews in the country,’ taking the Abbey to court in order to prevent the pews removal. After a costly battle the Abbey won, which, sensitive to feelings surrounding the pews’ removal, decided to sell off the pews discreetly and to locals who may be interested.

THE BATH ABBEY PEWS Jules and his team have once (DETAIL) again shifted their attention from celebrating and sharing England’s past through their tours, to sharing the story of some of the country’s most spectacular pews. For Jules and his team at Around and About Bath, whether the acquisition of these pews really was an act of divine intervention, or divine folly, remains to be seen.

Bath Abbey’s Pews are available via a closed bid at: bathabbeypews.com For more information, contact: jules@aroundandaboutbath.com +44 7500 925202

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rom its broad avenues to Baroque Revival buildings, Montreal encapsulates North American innovation and chic Parisian tradition. It’s a sprawling city, and first-time visitors should book a private tour to understand each unique neighborhood’s full scope. Give the brilliant Gabriel Morissette a call (514-756-9942); his boundless enthusiasm for his city is positively infectious.

Gabriel’s deep knowledge of the best bagel shops in Mile End, Little Italy’s open-air markets, and the city’s best street art is second to none.

Stay at the epitome of Canadian luxury: Le Mount Stephen Hotel.

Located in the heart of Montreal, the Golden Square Mile, the fivestar Le Mount Stephen, ( member of Leading Hotels of the World) offers breathtaking neoclassical architecture, elegant wood paneling, and sweeping staircases, complemented by 90 plush and modern rooms. Dine at Le Petit Mousso, the sister restaurant to the acclaimed Mousso. Each dish, an orchestration of colors, flavors and textures. Experience gastronomic artistry at work; it’s a Montreal must!

Music fans won’t want to miss the annual Montreal Jazz Festival each summer. It doesn’t matter where you are–the festival has scheduled performers across the city. Top off your evening with a fabulous meal at the tapas-style Restaurant La Bêtise in Verdun, which fuses Canadian and Asian cuisine. Start off with robust lamb

dumplings or a light soba salad with taro chips, then move to the truly spectacular General Tao Poutine. The entrée combines Montreal’s signature dish of poutine– French fries with cheese curds and gravy–with the deepfried glory of a favorite Chinese meal. The lacquered duck mac ‘n’ cheese is another excellent option.

History buffs will enjoy strolling through the Hochelaga-Maisonneuve neighborhood, home to the Olympic Stadium. Take a tour of the Château Dufresne, a stately home whose imposing architecture resembles a British country manor. Its stunning wall paintings, full of classical allusions, could have easily been displayed in Versailles, while settings of exquisite Murano glassware make you wish for an invitation to an aristocratic dinner.

Mingle with splendid roses and vibrant herbs alike while perusing the nearby Montreal Botanical Garden, before sating your appetite at Le Valois Restaurant et Bistro. Refresh by visiting Bota-Bota, spa-sur-l’eau: a spa, complete with hot and cold pools and steam rooms galore, located on a ship docked in the river.

Start off your final day with a filling brunch at Le Marché Italien Le Richmond.

Pick up some antipasti for the road before calling up an expert–Christian Siregar–to tour the Quartier du Canal. (Book your tour with Christian: 514222-1396). Alternatively, start at PHOTO BY EVA BLUE the cozy Les Enfants Terribles Restaurant, then explore the Golden Square Mile’s many cultural institutions. In 2020, the Montreal Museum of Fine Arts will exhibit post-impressionist masterpieces and Riopelle’s artistic interpretations of indigenous culture, while the nearby McCord Museum offers fascinating insights into Montreal’s social history.

A mere hop and a skip from the New York metro area, visit Montreal any time of year. Customize your trip by visiting mtl.org which offers every type of travel experience–from architectural tours to culinary hotspots. –C.S. W E STO N MA G A Z I N E G ROUP.COM

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kiing is an expensive sport, so it’s big news when a company as large as Vail Resorts revolutionizes the ski industry with the Epic Pass™. Rather than buying expensive lift tickets at each resort or a season pass good for only one resort, an Epic Pass™ is an STOWE PHOTO BY KAITLIN GROVE incredible value, making it possible to chase your ski dreams all over the country and the world.

In the west, you have unlimited access to Vail, Beaver Creek, Okemo Mountain in cozy, Ludlow, VT has the well-deserved Breckenridge, Keystone and Crested Butte in Colorado; Park City, reputation as “the family friendly resort.” Wide open trails, heated Utah; Heavenly, Kirkwood and Northstar near Lake Tahoe and orange bubble chairlift and home away from home atmosphere Whistler Blackcomb in British Columbia. The Epic Pass™ also keep families coming back year after year. Here’s a little secret: some of Okemo’s most popular trails are groomed on one side and ungroomed on the other, allowing skiers of all levels to enjoy the same run. okemo.com Mount Snow is Vermont’s southernmost ski resort, known for extensive snowmaking and steep terrain on its north face. What sets Mount Snow apart is Carinthia, a 100-acre terrain park with jumps, rails and fun features for daring skiers and snowboarders alike. mountsnow.com Additional Epic Pass™ features include discounted lodging, “Ski with a Friend’ and Epic Mix, a portal to share photos and experiences with friends and family. You can also purchase the Epic Day Pass for discounted daily rates and direct to lift access. For a full listing of Epic Pass™ pricing and options, visit epicpass.com -Rich Silver MOUNT SNOW

allows for seven days each at Sun Valley, Idaho; Snowbasin, Utah; Telluride, Colorado and six additional resorts in the Canadian Rockies. Internationally, the Epic Pass™ allows you to see and ski the world at resorts across France, Italy, Switzerland, Australia and the deep powder of the Hakuba Valley and Rusutsu in Japan.

Vail Resorts now owns three of Vermont’s most iconic ski resorts. The same Epic Pass that works in Japan is also good for Stowe Mountain Resort, Okemo Mountain and Mount Snow.

Stowe Mountain Resort is set in the picturesque town of Stowe, Vermont, where old world New England charm mixes seamlessly with modern luxury lodging and amenities. You can challenge yourself on Stowe’s famous ’Front Four’ ski trails and then be pampered at the ski-in, ski-out Lodge at Spruce Peak. stowe.com 142

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or the perfect new england weekend destination head north to Boston for its world-class museums, performance arts, historic waterfront, and exciting culinary scene. And for a place to encamp, the Mandarin Oriental, Boston, is both glorious and centrally located. Of course, anyone who travels first-class is aware of Mandarin Oriental’s penchant for hospitality, impeccable service, and magnificent décor; in the Boston property, it’s hard to miss the spectacular paintings by such luminaries as Frank Stella and David Hockney which adorn the hotel’s grand

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Lounge lunch, and Ultimate Facial. Guests do not have to book a treatment to enjoy the experiential showers, Crystal steam room and relaxation lounges. The fitness center includes a Kenesis Wall, TRX training equipment, workout classes, and personal training sessions.

Great restaurants are numerous in this metropolis, but you won’t have to leave the hotel for outstanding fare. Start your morning with the gourmet breakfast buffet at Bar Boulud, the hotel’s inhouse eatery. Internationally acclaimed Chef Daniel Boulud brings his classic French touch to his namesake restaurant. The impressive wine cellar includes Chef Boulud’s favorites from Burgundy and Rhône Valley regions. mandarinoriental.com

THE ENVOY HOTEL AND OUTLOOK KITCHEN

Boston’s nightlife is “Happening!” and The Envoy, a boutique hotel set in the heart of the Innovative District, is a hot destination. This emerging neighborhood is where Boston’s Seaport and historic landmarks meet the city’s vibrant tech industry. The hotel lobby is furnished like you’d imagine a tech-HQ might be, with a nod to dynamic, cutting-edge design. Why else have a retrofitted billiard table turned interactive digital guide to search local happenings. On a Saturday night, a fashionable crowd gathers around the block.

Their destination is the Lookout Rooftop for craft cocktails and a custom-made brew with skyline and harbor views. In the winter, the rooftop is a winter wonderland of private heated igloos. The Envoy Hotel is the destination of the celebrated Outlook Kitchen, where highly acclaimed two-time Chopped Chef winner, Chef Tatiana Pairot Rosana works her magic.

A first generation American, Chef Rosana grew up in Miami in a traditional Cuban home where family life revolved around food. She trained at Le Cordon Bleu, and is of course inspired by her Cuban heritage, as well as Korean and New England culinary arts. She heads all things food at The Envoy, so guests should know they’re in skillful hands. outlookkitchenandbar.com –Paula Koffsky

lobby. Gracious rooms and suites are beautifully decorated in silks and plush velvets and festooned with museum caliber Asian artworks. For supremely lavish digs, the Dynasty Suite is a generous 1,700 square feet of the finest furnishings and the OUTLOOK KITCHEN AND BAR best views in the Back Bay; but you don’t have to book this penthouse suite to enjoy Mandarin Oriental’s elegance and ambiance. Set in the center of Boylston Street’s thriving shopping district, the hotel is a short walk to both Boston’s Museum of Fine Arts and the breathtaking Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum, an extraordinary personal collection of artistic treasures that include an ancient Greek marble goddess and a Rembrandt self-portrait. Stroll leisurely along Back Bay’s historic Newbury Street and peruse the fashionable boutiques and charming antique brownstones.

The Mandarin Oriental hotels are second-to-none when it comes to Spa treatments with their rethinking of hauteholistic skin care and specialty aromatherapy massages.

Full day wellness programs like the “Bostonian” include a Quintessence Body Scrub, Oriental Massage, a Spa Tea

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aratoga springs is well known for summertime racing. farm bread-and-mushroom lobster scramble.

But the town has a centuries-old history as a destination Next door, Salt & Char provides an upscale take on the modern for year-round relaxation. At the cornerstone of modern American steakhouse. A decadent French onion soup is a hearty Saratogian luxury is the Adelphi Hotel. intro to a classic roast chicken, glazed with citrus and maple.

Other Gilded Age accommodations have gone by the Conclude with a traditional apple crumble, punctuated with fresh wayside in the last century. The Adelphi remains the last pops of flavor from Morello cherries and mascarpone sage ice cream. stately bastion of an era gone by. Founded in 1877, the hotel The Adelphi prides itself on being part of the community, served as a meeting place for the well-heeled and politicians alike. engaging and patronizing New York artisans, creators, and But the Adelphi moves with the times. In October 2017, after residents. People who live within a 50-mile radius of Saratoga undergoing a $28 million renovation, the Adelphi reopened to are eligible for “locals’ rates,” a discounted stay that’s perfect for great acclaim.

The Adelphi Hotel Group has elevated this historic property into a sophisticated boutique hotel experience with plush luxe linens, cloud-like pillows and mattresses, and the “Wrapped in Warmth WC” with radiant floors, heated towel racks, mirrors, and toilet seats. Love the complimentary, locally curated in-room mini-bar and refreshments, and Chef ’s selection turn down delicacies!

To reinvent its culinary profile, the Adelphi brought in one of the masters of American cuisine: Chef David Burke. Its three eateries incorporate produce and meat from local farms enhanced with Burke’s culinary signature. For a truly happy hour, head to Morrissey’s located in the hotel lobby. Named for nineteenth century prizefighter John Morrissey—the man who THE ADELPHI HOTEL actually introduced Thoroughbred racing to Saratoga— the restaurant proffers refreshingly new takes on classic cocktails and an appealing small plate menu. Surely Morrissey a decadent getaway. The Adelphi hosts year-round events for the himself might have celebrated a victorious match with a winner like local set. In the winter, adults can enjoy spiked hot cocoa at the Fire Burke’s special maple-glazed bacon and dry-aged burger.

Bar while children learn to build gingerbread houses in specialty The Blue Hen by David Burke is a dining experience to savor. Set workshops and fans of the supernatural can enjoy murder mystery in a magnificent glass-walled conservatory, savor the delicately parties! More vibrant than ever, The Adelphi is once again the nexus grilled octopus, followed by spice lacquered local duck breast, of Saratoga’s grand tradition of hospitality. Member, Small Luxury along with barley croquettes and poached dates. Don’t miss Blue Hotels of the World. slh.com www.TheAdelphiHotel.com Hen brunch delectables like kumquat-accented pound cake and –C.S.

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MIAMI BEACH DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS

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hose who venture to south beach usually do so in order to experience the overwhelmingly vibrant vibe that this strip of sand, ocean and beautiful hotels has to offer. Staying at the Stanton is raising the bar and turning a great stay into an experience that you’ll want to repeat. One of only a few hotels on Ocean Drive with direct beach access, the Stanton is located in STANTON SOUTH BEACH

the exclusive “South of Fifth” district. If location is the mantra of hotels and real estate, then this gem wins a prize. Its appearance conveys the look and feel of one of the original Art Deco hotels, with upscale retro design. As one of the few pet-friendly hotels in South Beach, my energetic Brittany was able to play (and hunt a few Iguanas) in the adjacent park and then return to the Stanton for a refreshing “Puppaccino” at the on-site Starbucks. All of the rooms carry through the fresh modern look of the common areas with a hip retro twist. Activities never stop or slow down from the time you arrive to the unfortunate moment of check out, and every waking minute in between. The two heated pools just off the oceanfront provide unobstructed views of silky white sand and the turquoise sea. Sunbathe in comfortable lounge chairs or day beds accented with lush landscaping. The Stanton Spa provides a full range of services that will relax and recharge your mind and body. But if you still have some energy to burn off, head over to the Fitness Center, where one-on-one training sessions as well as yoga and boxing classes are available. While the party never stops in South Beach, it’s the nightlife that truly defines it… and the Stanton’s location is where it all begins.

Before heading out, you may want to get the party started at Lolo’s Surf Cantina, or Azabu, an authentic Japanese Robata restaurant, both located in the hotel. No need to Uber from or to the Stanton. You are already in the hottest and most exclusive area of South Beach.

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outh beach has no lack of brand recognition, non-stop nightlife, Art Deco hotels, and incredible food, and as such, continues to draw tourists and visitors from all corners of the globe. One of the historic boutique hotels in South Beach, and the only Forbes Four Star and AAA Four Diamond-rated boutique hotel in Greater Miami, is the Betsy-South Beach.

After an extensive renovation and expansion, the Betsy opened in 2009, and in 2016, merged with the adjacent historic Carlton Hotel.

Located in the heart of South Beach, the new Betsy is only steps away from the ocean and white sand beach, as well as only a few short blocks to the best of South Beach’s vibrant and never stopping heartbeat. The Betsy offers 130 serene guest rooms, including 25 suites, three food and beverage venues under the direction of famed chef Laurent Tourondel, an incredible rooftop complex with pool and bar, and 15,000 square feet of special event space.

After an action packed day on the beach or at the pool, at local cultural institutions or enjoying the non-stop pulsating beat of Collins Ave., you’ll want to recharge before going out again to savor and become a part of South Beach after dark. Nothing will help you accomplish this more than the Wellness Garden and Spa. Located atop the Colonial Wing and framed by jasmine and birds of paradise, here is a zen detour from your high energy South Beach stay.

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It’s hard to find a hotel that has it all in terms of location, ambiance, décor, food and beverage, amenities and a deep-seated dedication to the arts and philanthropy. The Betsy-South Beach checks all of these boxes and more. Under the ownership and management of the Plutzik family, the passion for excellence at every level is palpable. This is a special place in so many ways at which to spend a few days–or longer.

1440 Ocean Drive, Miami Beach (844) 539-2840 thebetsyhotel.com

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eden roc offers the best of all worlds for visitors to Miami Beach. Centrally located in the heart of this world-recognized strip of sand and aquamarine ocean, Eden Roc provides its guests with amenities and scale unmatched from South Beach up to Sunny Isles and beyond. With 415 spacious oceanfront guest rooms, this iconic, renowned resort has been totally reenergized through a complete overhaul with major renovations and world-class interiors from top to bottom. With three pools, 22,000 square feet of spa and fitness facilities, and 70,000 square feet of meeting and event space, there is no need to look any further. Its location on Collins Ave is a few-minute Uber ride to the throbbing beat of South Beach, yet an oasis of elegance, activities, art and iconic design on its own. Eden Roc is home to the famed Nobu Miami restaurant, along with the sensational farm-to-table Malibu Farm, and will soon be adding a brand new outdoor beach bar concept, Playbar. In addition, the lobby bar, Café Inez, Aquatica Bar and 24-hour room service will certainly keep you well hydrated and fed. Literally on the edge of the Atlantic, unmatched shopping, dining, nightlife and natural beauty surround the hotel. Eden Roc is a lively place you may not want to leave, but to which you will always look forward to returning.

As a dog lover, I would be remiss not to mention Eden Roc’s Dog Program, where every “best friend” gets a special welcome.

Partnering with Pupjoy and South Florida Pet Sitter, your furry friend will not only be welcome, but pampered. So when it comes to your next vacation, business trip or special event, Eden Roc Miami Beach should be on your list.

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he four seasons brand has a coveted, respected and welldeserved cachet, for the superior elegance of its resorts and hotels as well as its service, cuisine, locations and décor. The Four Seasons Hotel at the Surf Club, which opened in 2017, certainly lives up to these standards. Upon arrival at the majestic entrance, the hotel looks large, but is actually more of a boutique Four Seasons, with only 77 rooms and suites. Much of what you see around the nine-acre beachside property are private residences with separate facilities.

The “Old World” elegance dates back to the original Surf Club founded in 1930 by tire tycoon, Harvey Firestone. For several decades, this private estate and club was a place where the rich and famous gathered behind very closed doors, and was often the scene of mischief and questionable behavior by the likes of Sinatra, Gary Cooper, Liberace, Churchill, the Shah of Iran and many other headliners. This was a very private and exclusive hideaway. The stunning original building is the nucleus of the hotel, and being in it can easily make you feel a part of its history, while at the same time making you feel so comfortable and at home.

As to be expected, accommodations are large, lavish and luxurious, with floor to ceiling windows and luscious amenities.

Start your evening in the beautiful Champagne Bar, with intimate seating areas and palm frond hidden nooks, and the largest selection of champagnes in Miami.

Dining options include Le Sirenuse Miami (with its sister location on the Amalfi Coast) for fine Italian, and The Surf Club, Thomas

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Keller’s first Florida venture offering fresh, continental cuisine.

Uncrowded swimming pools, a world-class spa, and meeting and event spaces round out the resort’s offerings. This has been a destination for high society since Mr. Firestone brought it to life nearly a hundred years ago. What began as a private club and residence in an idyllic location dedicated to the sea, sun and all things social now allows guests from all corners of the globe to experience “a new era of elegance,” combined with all the modern comforts as well as unparalleled service and facilities.

9011 Collins Ave, Surfside 305/381-3333 fourseasons.com/surfside –Barry Himmel

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Artisan Beach House rtisan beach house at the ritzCarlton Bal Harbour offers waterside dining overlooking the sand, sea and swaying palms of Miami Beach. Grab a table on the terrace to enjoy the open air along with fish and seafood fresh from local waters, accompanied by locally sourced sides and creative starters. Dense and luscious Biscayne Crab Cakes with chayote and green mango slaw come directly from the Bay; Cobia Ceviche with Florida citrus, leche de tigre, aji amarillo, sweet potatoes, crispy shallots, and cilantro combines land and sea. Perfectly prepared Colorado lamb chops over a roasted eggplant babaganoush, with arugula and tomato marmalade, and lemon-thyme organic chicken also grace the menu. The closing clincher: a Passion Fruit and Key Lime bar with key lime filling, passion fruit cream and meringue on a graham cracker crust.

Service is knowledgeable and friendly. Craft cocktails can be enjoyed on the terrace, in the lounge, or in the indoor dining area.

Open for breakfast, lunch and dinner daily, and weekend brunch.

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Atlantikós Bright, airy and inviting, Atlantikós at the St. Regis offers Greek and Mediterranean fare with flare. Start with a meze platter of classic Greek spreads with pita to share, or a towering raw seafood platter, available in “Atlantikós,” “Grand” and “Royal” proportions. Move on to excellent entrees like baked yellowfin seabream with tomatoes, Kalamata olives, and capers; or a vegetable moussaka with eggplant, potatoes, zucchini, and mushroom ragout, topped with a creamy béchamel. Be sure to try a beguiling house specialty cocktail incorporating Ouzo or Metaxa, melded with fresh herbs and infusions. Diners can choose to be seated indoors, at the bar, or on the enclosed terrace overlooking one of the St. Regis pools.

Open daily for breakfast, lunch and dinner, and Sunday brunch.

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Book Report Spreading the Written Word, Mitch Kaplan’s Miami Book Fair

by Bob Eckstein

MITCH KAPLAN’S BOOKS & BOOKS ARE LOCATED THROUGHOUT FLORIDA, NOW IN NINE DIFFERENT LOCATIONS. MITCH IS ALSO THE HOST OF THE PODCAST THE LITERARY LIFE ON LIT HUB RADIO.

EVERY NOVEMBER DOWNTOWN MIAMI BECOMES THE LITERARY CENTER OF THE WORLD WITH HUNDREDS OF AUTHORS AND THOUSANDS OF READERS ATTENDING THE MIAMI BOOK FAIR.

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LISSETTE MENDEZ, DIRECTOR OF PROGRAMS OF THE MIAMI BOOK FAIR WITH MITCH KAPLAN, BOOKSELLER, OWNER OF BOOKS & BOOKS AND CO-FOUNDER OF MIAMI BOOK FAIR.

ON FRIDAY, THE STREET FAIR GETS UNDER WAY. THE HIGHLIGHT IS THE FESTIVAL OF AUTHORS, WITH MORE THAN 450 AUTHORS READING AND DISCUSSING THEIR WORK.

Bob Eckstein has been live-drawing events like the Super Bowl, Oscars, and Olympics for publications such as The New York Times and The New Yorker. This is his third trip to the Miami Book Fair to report and sketch the happenings. He also teaches live drawing at NYU and his new book is Everyone’s A Critic: The Ultimate Cartoon Book by the World’s Greatest Cartoonists.

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THIS YEAR’S SPEAKERS INCLUDED LITERARY STARS LIKE NATHAN ENGLANDER, READING FROM HIS BESTSELLER, KADDISH.COM: A NOVEL.

THOUSANDS OF SOUTH FLORIDA SCHOOLCHILDREN MAKE THEIR WAY TO CHILDREN’S ALLEY WHERE DAY-LONG ACTIVITIES INCLUDE THEATER, ARTSAND-CRAFTS, STORYTELLING AND READINGS BY CHILDREN’S BOOK AUTHORS.

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THE 2nd ANNUAL HAMPTONS BEDSIDE READING WINTER AUTHORS’ WEEKEND Meet and greet Bedside Reading’s Bestselling Authors Feb 28, 29 & March 1

edside reading®, the newest luxury hotel amenity that places a wide variety of complimentary books by the bedsides in luxury and boutique hotel guestrooms nationwide, is kicking off The 2nd annual Hamptons Bedside Reading Winter Authors’ Weekend, February 28, 29, & March 1, 2020. The weekend event will take place at several elegant and luxurious Hamptons properties. This year the event will be held in conjunction with Winterfest LI. The weekend program provides hotel guests and Hamptons “day” visitors the opportunity to meet the Bedside Reading authors throughout the weekend.

The festivities kick off with an over-the-top cocktail party at Topping Rose House with author Amy Impellizzeri, (I Know How This Ends) on Friday night (6-8pm). On Saturday morning (10am-12pm) White Fences Inn, Water Mill will host author Jennifer Moorman (The Baker’s Man) who will lead a baking lesson and read from her book. Then from 12pm-1:30pm the White Fences Inn will introduce author Laurie Gelman (You’ve Been Volunteered) followed by a Five North Chocolate tasting event. From 2-4 pm head over to 1770 House in East Hampton for coffee sponsored by Hampton Coffee, where author Natalie Banks (The Moments Between) will treat guests to her new thriller. Champagne and cocktails will be held Saturday evening, 5-7pm at the Baker House 1650, where author Hank Phillippi Ryan (The Murder List) will keep fans in the thriller mood.

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Captives from The Charles Westchester’s ties to the Transatlantic Slave Trade Revisited

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n 1685, eight chained Angolans were carried thousands of miles to Westchester by a wave-born prison infamously known today as The Charles. The ship was capable of holding hundreds of captives at a time, along with rum, textiles and other goods. It was owned by Frederick Philipse, one of the richest landowners in the province of New York. Accounts of Philipse’ calculated subterfuge to evade paying taxes on his cargo live on in the testimony of at least four seamen deposed after the offense was discovered and tried in court. These same admissions provide historians details of Philipse’ greater crime against humankind as well as some clues about how and where his unnamed victims came to our shores.

On this one voyage in question, The Charles had already deposited over 100 souls for sale at Barbados, but several remained on board for the next leg of the journey.

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Nine Remained Alive who were brought into the Sound and Eight of them Put Ashore with the Long boat neer About Rye and Delivered to Mr. Frederick Philips his Sonne The “neer About Rye” location of their disembarking was narrowed down further to a two-mile radius. A senior crewman named Charles Barham was deposed not once but twice and corroborated by a fourth man, John Wilson: Charles Barham Aged Thirty Years Or thereabouts being Examined Declareth that he was Boatswaine On Board of And Belonging to the Pink Charles whereof Robert Codingham was Mast’r… And of them but Nine Remained A Live who where Brought into the Sound – And Eight of them Put A Shore with the Long Boats By the Order of Adolphus Philips about two miles from Rye where the Say’d Adolphus Rec’d the Say’d Eight Adolphus was Frederick’s second oldest son. Imagine this youth, just shy of 19, covertly moving the eight enslaved individuals, of unknown sex or age across

Westchester for days and nights towards the family’s holdings in today’s Sleepy Hollow. The captives would be tasked with building the Philipse’ family new stone Manor. But where might this rendezvous two miles distance from Rye have fallen on a map? Who was in a position to provide a safe and discreet haven for the enslavers?

Could the secret delivery have taken place near Mamaroneck Harbor or one of its adjacent islands? on september 23, 1661, Englishman John Richbell acquired the deed to “three necks” of waterfront acreage from Sachem Wappagquewan beginning “at a point where the Fresh water falls into the Salt,” beside the “Mammaranock” River. The land was not selected by Richbell haphazardly. As a wealthy English merchant with dealings in Barbados, Richbell was well versed in the lucrative and exploitive trade of the Caribbean. Four years earlier he had formed a partnership with two likeminded men from London. They gave him very explicit instructions about where to establish his

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first plantation in the New World “betwixt Conn. and the Dutch Collony.”

Richbell was to educate himself “within what government it is, whether very strict or remisse.’” He was further empowered to “buy some small Plantation, having a sharp eye to the main object of our business. Be sure not to fayle of these accommodations: 1) That it be near some navigable Ryver, or at some safe port or harbor...

2) That it be well watered by some running streame...

3) That it is to be well wooded, healthy, high ground, not bogs or fens” Richbell’s first land acquisition in Oyster Bay, Long Island met his colleagues’ criteria as did his second purchase in Mamaroneck.

Historians including journalist Elizabeth Cushman, could not dismiss that “one of Richbell’s purposes in settling here [in Mamaroneck] was to be of aid to sea pirates.”

Who gave Richbell his checklist? Were they indeed pirates or privateers or both?

One partner was none other than Thomas Modyford. At the time of their association, Modyford was one of the largest plantation owners on Barbados. Modyford was a dominant figure in island politics and an agent for the Royal Adventurers Trading to Africa which put him at the center of slave trafficking. He became acting governor of Barbados and later brought their inhumane slave code to Jamaica when he became its second governor.

Richbell’s second associate was William Sharpe, an influential Barbadian planter.

Sharpe was the owner of an “interloping” ship and by his own later admission, he was no stranger to the practice of subverting restrictions on his own island: “European goods, not from England, and foreign enumerated commodities are frequently run into bays and creeks here, where no officer is provided, also that vessels, cleared from the Custom-house here with little or no cargo, lie off the island and are further loaded by small vessels with goods which are to be carried to

RIGHT: IMAGE OF AN ENSLAVED MAN ON THE FRONTISPIECE OF THE CABINET OF FREEDOM, A COLLECTION OF ESSAYS ARGUING AGAINST THE TRANSATLANTIC SLAVE TRADE. BELOW: MEMBERS OF THE WESTCHESTER COUNTY AFRICAN AMERICAN ADVISORY BOARD GATHERED THIS FALL WITH DESCENDANTS OF ONCE ENSLAVED MEN AND WOMEN FROM MAMARONECK AND RYE AS WELL AS COMMUNITY HISTORIANS AND EDUCATORS TO COMMEMORATE 400 YEARS OF STRENGTH AND RESILIENCE OF WOMEN AND MEN OF AFRICAN DESCENT IN THIS COUNTRY.

foreign markets.”

England’s oppressive Navigation Acts of 1660 were enacted to restrict colonists.

Men like Richbell were told they could only trade with England and English colonies on boats built in England and manned by predominantly English crew. Predictably, the Acts were poorly enforced and openly flaunted by men like Modyford and Sharpe; the restrictions invited defiance and only further fueled the transatlantic slave trade.

While there is no discrete evidence that Richbell personally transported enslaved people, real estate records confirm he was savvy about leveraging the use of his lands to men and women who did.

One of these individuals was Haarlem born Cornelius Steenwyck. Steenwyck traded with merchants in Virginia and the West Indies and petitioned in 1660 for permission to trade for slaves along the West African Coast. He served as the 4th and 14th mayor of New York, and at one time he was the second wealthiest man in the province, surpassed only by Frederick Philipse. Following the English takeover of New Amsterdam in 1664, Steenwyck was one of a handful of Dutch merchants including Frederick’s wife Margaret Hardenbroeck de Vries Philipse who were permitted to resume trading directly with Amsterdam. Richbell mortgaged one of his parcels “having at the South side the Sound” W E STO N MA G A Z I N E G ROUP.COM

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to Steenwyck in 1673. Certainly, Steenwyck would have understood the advantages of Mamaroneck’s geography.

Then at some point before his death in 1684, Richbell assigned both Steenwyck’s mortgage and a second plot on Mamaroneck’s “West Neck” to the Philipse family through a “fee simple.” Frederick’s wife Margaret had brought measurable wealth and unique skills to her union with Frederick in 1662. She possessed her own fleet of ships from a previous marriage and huge stores of mercantile shrewdness. Where Frederick had started out as a carpenter for the Governor of New Amsterdam and the Dutch West India Company, Margaret was respected as a “she-merchant” under Dutch law.

This allowed her to serve as supercargo on her own vessels. Although Margaret was stripped of her economic independence by the British conquest of New Netherlands in 1664, in practice, she continued to help her husband and sons run the Philipse shipping and slaving ventures. She too would have recognized Richbell’s land as an ideal site for landing human contraband from The Charles in 1685.

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a jury of 11 reviewed the testimonies of Johnson, Lockcourt, Wilson and Barham. On August 4, 1685, they acquitted Frederick Philipse as well as Robert Codenham, Master of The Charles, of any wrongdoing with respect to breaking the Laws of Navigation. No penalty existed for their heinous crimes against the Angolan prisoners. Emboldened by the lack of punishment, the Philipse’ activities continued and not just in Westchester.

Other stops made by The Charles had included Stamford in the “Conecticote Colony” and an assignation “westward of Captaine’s Island.” Who is to say how many times this route was repeated? When Codenham died in 1688, he was owed monies from the Van Cortlandt branch of the family for services rendered in Jamaica; witnesses to his last will included associates of the infamous Captain William Kidd.

Margaret died in 1691 having contributed significantly to her family’s empire. Her husband would remarry a less salty woman but continue to “acquire much of his fortune from the tempting trade with pirates.” Upon Frederick’s death in 1702,

his son Adolphus and a nephew Jacobus Van Cortlandt became the new proprietors of the Mamaroneck mortgages. The eight prisoners had survived the ravages of a sea voyage while clamped in “shakles.” By one account, they were among 45 total captives brought to the Philipse’ Mills that year.

The waters of Long Island Sound may seem idyllic today, but they also provided safe harbor for treacherous deeds in the past. What other illicit activities might have taken place at Mamaroneck’s Harbor or islands within Richbell’s jurisdiction?

How many enslaved people were brought there just two miles from neighboring Rye and close to the ancient Westchester Path?

Can we trace their narratives beyond their enslavement or find their descendants?

Renewed examination of primary sources with fresh interpretations, unbiased by race or gender, are needed. The clues are there.

They just need to be connected.

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Welcoming an heirloom back to its home soils

would like to welcome you all back to 1800s Fairfield County, CT. An agrarian era, where the clip-clop of horses’ hooves and the wooden wheels of carriages could be heard throughout the hills, valleys and fields from Greenfield Hill in Fairfield to Sasco Hill and the coastal plains of Greens Farms in Westport. The lands were abuzz with pollinators and produce–all in cultivation of a once famous and rather delicious Southport Globe Onion.

The history of these splendid fertile soils harkens back to the caretaking and stewardship since time immemorial by the Paugussett Golden Hill tribe. They called this territory Machamux: The Beautiful Land. The Long Island Sound sheltered some of the most prolific oyster beds in New England, the deer and wildlife were 172

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abundant feeding on the mass of acorns from the ancient oaks along the coast.

In 1648 the original Bankside Farmers followed the cattle trails from Fairfield, settling on the plots between Burial Hill and Frost Point in Greens Farms, Connecticut. The five original farmers: Thomas Newton, Henry Gray, John Green, Daniel Frost, Francis Andrews and their wives and children–all friends from the Bankside area of London, England–began to put these lands into cultivation; the very soils where I was born and raised.

Over the next two hundred years this area became famous for its prolific agricultural production and innovations.

By the mid 1700s an onion variety originally from England, first planted in the Connecticut Mill River Valley, was brought to Southport by a few intrepid farmers:

The Banks, Burr, Hull, Jennings, Meeker, Sherwood and Wakeman families. Together they collectively selected the seed of what would become the renowned Allium cepa: Southport Globe Onion heirloom.

The red, white and yellow long (120) day varieties were celebrated for their flavor, storage ability and beautiful firm fleshed, medium sized globe-shaped appearance. The farmers’ careful selections and cultivation strategies were matched by innovative minds that pioneered new machine inventions that facilitated more rapid planting and cultivation of onion crops.

The local Southport C. O. Jelliff & Co. sold these newly trademarked tools in their catalog, which also humbly promoted their seed “known to every seedsman in the country by its superiority over every other known variety...” Everyone in the area was

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a proud onion farmer, the school days were structured around needs in the field, and young boys could be seen playing onion stems as flutes as they walked home. White onions found in the field with a blush of red were given as valentines to loved ones, in what then was recognized as “The Onion Capital of the World.”

Every Thursday and Saturday, carts and carriages from all the farms would bring their bounty down muddy and rutted roads to the Southport Harbor. Overseen

by Commodore Perry, famous sloops such as the Mary Elizabeth were loaded up and sent to New York City markets carrying onions and intrepid young lads looking for adventure during the oneweek round trip. The Long Island sound was the I-95 of this time, a thoroughfare of commerce and transportation.

About 200,000 barrels were sent each year, with demand increasing during the Civil War in the 1860s, when the onions were pickled and sent with troops to minimize scurvy due to their high vitamin C content.

1890 unfortunately brought with it a devastating blight of cutworm, which is the larvae of Agrotis segetum, the Turnip Moth.

A soil-borne fungi–Urocystis colchici– known as smut, was also proliferating in the soils. These two factors effectively ended the industry, in 1894, of a crop that had been the anchor of the local economy since colonial times.

Twenty-five years later, during the roaring twenties, the old onion warehouses were turned into speakeasies during

prohibition, ushering in a revelrous and rebellious era. F. Scott Fitzgerald and his new wife Zelda were frequent patrons, while he was writing The Great Gatsby and renting a cottage on the property of the elusive millionaire F.E. Lewis–what is now Longshore in Westport, Connecticut.

Fast forward to winter of 2017, and this delightful and rich agrarian history had been all but forgotten in these lands that now germinate illuminated mansions rather than alliums. As the Seed Huntress, I have worked to safeguard our global biodiversity through seed conservation and was determined to revive the once prolific agrarian

enterprise of this area by putting the Farm back in Greens Farms!

Luckily, a seed company I had worked with in the past to establish community seed banks on island nations after natural disasters–Baker Creek Heirloom Seeds–was still maintaining the Southport Red and Southport White Globe Onion varieties (I am still on the hunt for the yellow!). So, after 125 years, I welcomed this wayward prolific allium heirloom back to its home soils!

The Southport Globe Onion Initiative was begun, a seed library at the Pequot Library in Southport was established to hand out free seed to all who wanted, and the Audubon generously allowed me to cultivate an onion patch in the historic soils of the H. Smith Richardson Wildlife Preserve. Family, friends and neighbors all joined together in May of 2018 for the

replanting of this crop.

Onions are biennials, which means it takes two years for them to go back to seed.

The first year they develop the large bulb that we typically eat, and when we replant them the second year, they develop the iconic allium globe flower head, which, when it desiccates, (dries out) is when the new seed can be collected.

During the fall, my dear friend William Bernie, “The Onion King,” and I wildcrafted local seaweed to add nutrients to our plot and salt hay for mulch (traditionally used in the transport of onions). In an effort to revitalize the agrarian community through permaculturian principles, we solely utilized resources that were locally available and I must say, our soil is rich and populated by the largest earthworms I’ve seen.

In 2019, by early October, the onions had all flowered and the seeds of this illustrious onion were joyfully gathered and safeguarded. In the great Connecticutian tradition of revelry, what did we do to celebrate? We threw the Southport Globe Onion Festival of course! Now in its second year, the power of a shared communitybased agricultural initiative can be seen on the smiling faces of those planting, harvesting and preparing delicious dishes once again with the great heirloom of this area. An ecoregional seed hub has been formed with local schools and farms, together rooted in the shared stories of these sacred lands. From all of us onion farmers here, we are delighted to have the Southport Globe Onion back in the terroir of our quaint seedside village.

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he rubell family collection began 55 years ago when Don was in medical school and Mera was teaching at Head Start, and continues to follow the same practices today, now with their son Jason at the helm. They acquired their first work after a studio visit and were only able to do so by paying on a modest weekly installment plan. Art became the Rubells’ passion and, since that first acquisition in 1964, they’ve built one of the most significant and far-ranging collections of contemporary art in the world, now encompassing 7,200 works by more than 1,000 artists—and still growing. The collection is further distinguished by the diversity and geographic distribution of artists represented within it, and the depth of its holdings of seminal artists.

In 1993, their passion became their mission with the opening of the Rubell Family Collection/ Contemporary Art Foundation in the Wynwood neighborhood of Miami, which pioneered a new model for sharing private collections with the public and spurred the development of the neighborhood as one of the leading art and design districts in the U.S. Originally launched as the Rubell Family Collection, the museum has been renamed the Rubell Museum to emphasize its public mission and welcome audiences to see its contemporary art.

The Rubell Museum’s new campus recently opened with a museum-wide installation of works that chronicle key artists, moments, and movements in vital arts centers over the past 50 years, from the East Village to Beijing, Los Angeles to Leipzig, and São Paulo to Tokyo. The inaugural exhibition encompasses more than 300 works by 100 artists, providing one of the most farranging museum exhibitions of contemporary art ever presented.

Drawn entirely from their expansive collection of over 7,200 works by more than 1,000 artists, the exhibition features defining and influential works by artists whom the Rubells championed as

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they were first emerging (often becoming the first collectors to acquire their work) and those who had been overlooked.

The new Rubell Museum is located in the Allapattah neighborhood of Miami, less than a mile from its original home in Wynwood. The new space is closer to downtown and readily accessible via public transportation.

The Rubell Museum is housed in six former industrial buildings in Allapattah that have been connected and transformed

by Selldorf Architects and unfolds on a single level, without stairs or an elevator, to make it accessible to all. Eighty percent of the 100,000-square-foot campus is open to the public and includes 53,000 square feet of gallery space, flexible performance space, an extensive art research library, a bookstore, and an indoor-outdoor restaurant that opens onto a courtyard garden. Designed

by La Casona Garden in collaboration with Juan Roselione-Valadez, the garden was conceived of as a restoration project using plants, many now rare and threatened due to habitat loss, native to the Everglades and the Florida Keys. The garden, with its birds and butterflies, creates a welcoming entry to the Museum.

“For more than 50 years we have been on an incredible mission: searching for new art and art that has been overlooked. Now, with the opening of the new Rubell Museum, we will be able to share the remarkable range of art we fell in love with along the way,” states Mera Rubell.

“Rather than presenting a single narrative or survey, we wanted to let the many voices that contribute to contemporary art speak for themselves and with each other. In retracing our steps, we hope visitors will discover, as we did, that creativity thrives where artists energize each other’s practices, and wrestle with shared issues and artmaking in new ways.”

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ondon based mexican designer, Fernando Laposse, has been chosen for the Miami Design District’s Neighborhood Commission.

His installation, Pink Beasts, will consist of strands of pink sisal tassels suspended through the trees guiding visitors to discover a collection of pink hairy sloths hanging from ropes, trees and arches. In collaboration with textile designer Angela Damman, the installation will also incorporate ten sculptural hammocks featuring pink sisal locks that will hang down from the otherwise traditional Mayan designs. The hammocks will hang on metal structures and directly on palm trees for public use. Inspired by age-old techniques of making useful goods from unique plant fibers, Angela is bringing her specialized knowledge and contemporary design to the installation.

The mesmerizing pink landscape of Pink Beasts is achieved by dying the sisal fibers with natural dyes made from cochineals.

Cochineals are tiny parasitic insects native to central Mexico, which grow on the Opuntia cactus, commonly known as the prickly pear. Laposse presents an installation that reconnects the audience to organic color rendered on natural materials.

Cochineal produces the world’s brightest natural red dye, which was originally used by the Aztecs to color everything from textiles to buildings, and its rareness and vibrancy has ensured its status as a luxury good. Today, only a few regions in Mexico, the Canary Islands and Peru can sustain the farming of this incredible nature pairing. The cochineals used in Pink Beasts are from an organic farm in the mountains of Oaxaca; moreover, the entire installation is handmade by a community of Mayan women weavers of Sacabah, Yucatán, including the production, cleaning and dying of the sisal.

The agave fiber used in the installation is a resistant ecological substitute to plastic threads and has been used for centuries to create durable pieces such as ropes and hard-wearing carpets. To ensure consistent results, the agave fibers used in Pink Beasts were boiled with a natural mordant called alum stone, which helps fix the dye into the fiber.

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chosen for the way he expresses beauty, history, and environmental sensitivities throughout his work. His unique designs both educate and engage the public in their appreciation for the natural world. By interacting with Pink Beasts, visitors can be reminded that there are still sustainable and organic ways of achieving vibrant color.

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INDEPENDENT SCHOOLS, COLLEGES AND SUMMER PROGRAMS GUIDE FEATURE: A GIRL DETECTIVE DECIDES

KIMBALL UNION ACADEMY

BY CATHY ULRICH

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BY CATHY ULRICH

n a million universes, there are a million girl detectives. They are all thinking of getting their ears pierced, pinching the fat of their lobes between index and thumbnails, imagining the bite of something through their skin.

Some of the girl detectives are in the school choir, where they sing with competent, if sometimes thin, voices. Some of them are walking to school with Thomas from chemistry class. They aren’t listening to him talk. They are thinking about unsolved cases, they are thinking about stolen jewels and a men’s size 10 footprint in the dirt outside a cracked window.

Some of them are in sewing class, looking at the needle and thread in their hands, how their mother said all she used to pierce her ears was a needle and ice cube, steadied her hand in the mirror reflection, droplets of blood trailing down the sides of her throat.

They are thinking of the sparkle of diamond in their mother’s ears.

They are thinking of her straight-backed elegance in front of her dressing mirror, they are thinking of how she said you are nearly a woman now, soon it will be time to put childhood things away.

Some of them are in history class, their desks jostled when the long-legged boy behind them stretches, their pens jittering across their notes. In the margins, they have written there is something suspicious about Claude J., investigate.

They are checking Instagram, they are getting Snapchat love notes, they are getting e-mails from mysterious accounts, photos of the front door of their house, I know where you live, girl detective, you’d better watch your back, girl detective.

They are tucking their honorary deputy badge into their purse after quietly examining it at lunch, what’s that you got, one of the boys, singsong, long-fingered reaching, what’s that you got, girl detective, hurriedly tucking it away, nothing, nothing, it’s nothing.

They are counting the days until graduation; they are counting the hours. They are thinking when will it be over, they are thinking maybe it never will. They are sending messages to little girls who say they want to be girl detectives too: You can do anything you set your mind to. I believe in you. I’m rooting for you.

Some of them are daydreaming in literature class, the teacher’s droning voice, do I dare to eat a peach, they are thinking of cyanide and peach pits, they are sitting upright, they are solving Mrs. Gravley’s murder, Oh, I see now, and the teacher stops in his recitation of Prufrock and stares till the girl detectives pick up their knocked-to-the-ground papers, sorry, sorry, I’m sorry.

They are standing outside the school gates watching cars pass

by, one long dark one catching their attention. The girl detectives brush their bangs away from their eyes, try to catch license plate glimpse, and the dark car turns the corner, all they see is 3A9L, reflection of sunlight off the bumper obscuring their vision. They think that night they will try self-hypnosis to see if they can recall the rest of the number, they think how cold it must be to hold an ice cube to the back of your ear with one hand, needle with the other. They think their mother’s hands must have wavered.

Some of them are singing a song from choir, you shall have all the pretty little horses, under their breath, pinching their earlobes between their fingers, thinking maybe it doesn’t hurt so much, does it, only a little bite, only a little sting. They are thinking and then Mother would be so proud.

They are watching the lovely clouds scudding through the sky, stretch and twist, that could be a dragon, that could be a popsicle, that could be a skeleton key. They are ignoring Thomas from chemistry class offering to carry their books, holding them tucked beneath their chin, they are walking with a small twist in their step.

They are watching three squirrels bound across the street, small red bodies arching, tails curve and fluff, wind around a tree, up and up until they can’t be seen among the leaves, and the girl detectives are smiling and Thomas from chemistry class is smiling too, trying to say your hair smells like apples, but what comes out is something about quadratic equations instead.

They are waving goodbye to Thomas standing on the other side of the locked iron gate, they are saying see you tomorrow and Thomas from chemistry class is watching them walk up the stairs to their house, fumble the key in the lock, turn and wave again.

They are thinking of pinches and bites and stings, they are closing their eyes as the door falls away from their pressing hand, they are thinking, no, no, I guess not, except one girl detective, who has decided yes, calls to her mother will you help me pierce my ears, but the house is quiet and dark, the house is empty, and the girl detective sets her books down on the edge of the dining table and thinks tomorrow then, maybe tomorrow.

–– Cathy Ulrich is a writer from Montana, and the founding editor of Milk Candy Review, a journal of flash fiction. Her work has been published in various journals, including Black Warrior Review, Passages North, Pigeon Pages NYC and Wigleaf, and can be found in Best Microfiction 2019, Best Small Fiction 2019 and Wigleaf ’s Top 50 Very Short Fictions 2017 and 2019. She is the author of Ghosts of You (2019, Okay Donkey Press). “A Girl Detective Decides” was first published by Pigeon Pages NYC. W E STO N MA G A Z I N E G ROUP.COM

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THE IDEAL SCHOOL OF MANHATTAN

HOPKINS SCHOOL

The IDEAL School of Manhattan is the only K-12 independent inclusion school in New York City. IDEAL’s mission is to affirm and accept the full identities of all people, while inspiring academic excellence, creative leadership, and a desire to build a more just and equitable world.

The school’s core principles are built into its name: Inclusion, Diversity, Excellence, Acceptance, and Leadership. Every aspect of the IDEAL experience--instruction, assessment, program, enrichment--reflects a research-based commitment to inclusion education as a means for academic excellence. Because IDEAL teachers know their students as individuals in and out of the classroom, they are able to design instruction that builds upon the unique talents and strengths of the learners in their room. Rather than a one-size-fits-all curriculum, differentiated instruction allows students to pursue the same subjects at multiple levels of complexity. Supportive faculty, low student to teacher ratios, small class sizes, and partnerships between experienced general educators and learning specialists create a nurturing community where every student can succeed and every student has a voice.

At IDEAL, no one leaves their identity at the door. IDEAL’s

New Haven, CT

Hopkins School is an independent, coeducational day school of 700+ students in grades 7-12.

Located on a 108-acre campus overlooking New Haven, the School takes pride in its classic academic curriculum, enhanced by innovative programs, arts and athletics and community service. Here are the core beliefs that Hopkins embraces.

We think intellectual curiosity is the most powerful energy in the world. We’ve created a culture dedicated to celebrating intellectual curiosity. We believe that education should be a multifaceted pursuit of the whole intellect, where a diverse community of individuals bond together to inspire each other, challenge each other, explore, discover and achieve.

We think questions can be more exciting than answers. The ability to originate precise and probing questions is the foundation of intellectual curiosity at Hopkins. In practice, this means Hopkins students challenge assumptions, investigate facts and experiment with new approaches. We believe learning to ask better questions results in better thinking and better answers.

We think a vibrant community starts by embracing individuality. We believe an endless variety of viewpoints, traditions, beliefs, talents and styles is what makes up a stimulating, healthy intellectual community. While excellence is the common goal, students are encouraged to be who they are and contribute to a culture of thought that is enriched by individual perspectives, inspiring to all.

We think intellectual growth is a shared journey. Everyone has ups and downs. At Hopkins, we navigate them together.

Students and teachers join forces to meet challenges. The results: close friendships, the gratification that goes with shared success, the development of grit and perseverance and a lifetime of learning set in motion.

We think engineers can be athletes, artists can be scientists, and mathematicians can be actors. We believe a well-formed intellect is the sum of many experiences. Each student is encouraged and empowered to explore far and wide through academics, art, social activities and service opportunities. hopkins.edu Hopkins School 986 Forest Rd New Haven, CT 06515

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curriculum and programs are multicultural by design, and social justice and anti-bias instruction are built-in and given dedicated instructional time. Experiential learning opportunities including a signature eighth grade Civil Rights Journey. Immersion in the arts and a differentiated athletic program round out the IDEAL experience.

IDEAL’s unique program cultivates empathy and collaboration.

With the confidence that comes from being known and celebrated, students not only strive for excellence in their own academic and personal pursuits--but they also support and encourage their peers.

At IDEAL, we are proud of our mission and the way inclusion fosters compassionate students equipped with the leadership skills to succeed in today’s 21st-century society.

Please visit our website at theidealschool.org to learn more about IDEAL and to sign up for an Open House or a Tuesday Talk and Tour. theidealschool.org 314 West 91st Street, NYC, 10024 (212) 769-1699

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DAY & BOARDING SCHOOLS

Learning. Transformed.

For children ages 5-15 with languagebased learning differences.

Founded in 1975, Eagle Hill is an independent, co-educational day and five-day boarding school offering children who learn differently the opportunity to grow into capable, resilient students with the selfconfidence and character necessary to meet the challenges they will face beyond Eagle Hill.

Imagine a school that provides your child with the strategies needed to succeed academically in a culture that is supportive, fosters self-confidence, and teaches to the individual challenges of each child. Eagle Hill is that school.

Our skills-based program is taught by a highly credentialed faculty, uses personalized learning strategies, and is grounded in the latest research in educating students who learn differently.

At Eagle Hill, your child’s learning experience will be completely customized.

• Each child is carefully evaluated, and based on the specific nature of his or her learning difficulty, a personalized educational program is developed.

• No single remedial technique is followed exclusively - each child’s program draws from as many approaches as needed.

• Children learn and advance at their own pace. Our low student-teacher ratio provides the flexibility and time to address individual needs in each area.

Your child will be prepared for continued success after Eagle Hill. Our goal is to provide intensive, shortterm, remedial instruction to children with learning differences, and return them to the educational mainstream as soon as possible.

• At Eagle Hill, each student learns to understand and overcome their individual challenges. They gain tools and strategies they can use throughout their life, and they learn to advocate for themselves.

Our program is designed for students who have: • A language-based learning difference, including but not limited to dyslexia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia, executive functioning disorder, auditory processing disorder, and ADHD • Average to above-average cognitive ability • Fallen behind or have academic weakness in the areas of reading, writing, mathematics, and/or attention.

• Expressive/receptive language deficits eaglehillschool.org Eagle Hill School 2020 Open House Dates All Open Houses begin at 9 a.m.

January 14 • February 25 • April 7 • May 12 • June 2 45 Glenville Road Greenwich, CT 06831 (203) 622-9240

WYOMING SEMINARY

Greenwich, CT

Kingston, PA

Wyoming Seminary, or “Sem” as it is affectionately known, is a coeducational day/boarding school situated in the picturesque Wyoming Valley of northeast Pennsylvania, which is two hours from New York City and Philadelphia.

With 175 years of providing exceptional educational opportunities to students from around the world, Wyoming Seminary enjoys a strong place in the independent school world.

Students at Sem follow a rigorous curriculum of comprehensive academic and extracurricular activities. In 2019, 87.4 percent of graduates were accepted into an institution in one of the top three tiers of selectivity, based on Barron’s guide.

Beyond the excellent foundation of the required program, Sem students have the ability to choose from a robust suite of elective courses that includes 26 Advanced Placement courses, so that they can truly customize the design of their studies.

A flexible curriculum allows students to develop their talents and pursue their passions. Supported by an experienced faculty and a personalized and thorough college counseling program, Sem students develop the skills necessary for not only college acceptance and assimilation but for lifelong learning.

With students from over 35 countries and 20 states, nearly 35 percent of the student body lives on campus. Students have numerous occasions to interact with peers in the dining hall, dormitories, and through an exceptional residential life and student activities.

Wyoming Seminary offers a variety of opportunities for students to engage, lead and serve as active participants in the life of the school. Students are exposed to nearly 45 clubs and publications.

There are 22 varsity sports to choose from, including Sem’s nationally ranked wrestling and field hockey programs and a vibrant, award-winning rowing team. Sem is also the only school in Pennsylvania with a girls wrestling program while the addition of a rowing team three years ago has grown in popularity among student-athletes.

Sem pioneered the first girls Pennsylvania high school wrestling program with the partnership with the United States Olympic Development Team.

The arts, too, are an integral part of a Sem education.

Within a state-of the art creative arts facility, Sem offers multiple opportunities in voice, instrumental, dance, and theater.

Sem is the only school in the commonwealth to have Round Square Global Membership. Round Square offers students global leadership opportunities via service project activities, conference participation and exchanges all over the world. wyomingseminary.org W E STO N MA G A Z I N E G RO UP.COM

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The goal of a Trinity-Pawling education is to unlock the potential for greatness that exists in each boy. The School pursues this goal through a vigorous learning environment that emphasizes essential 21st century skills such as innovation, creativity, collaboration, and critical thinking. A commitment to experiential learning bolsters the way boys learn best: by doing. Our educators and students are dedicated to building a culture of honor and camaraderie.

The Trinity-Pawling learning experience combines a timeless commitment to character with a dedication to prepare young men for an ever-changing world.

Trinity-Pawling is located on 230 acres overlooking the Hudson River Valley, just 60 miles from New York City.

The Campus includes turf and grass athletic fields, an all-weather track, tennis courts, squash courts, a hockey rink, a new 20,000 square foot field house equipped with PlaySight technology, a contemporary art center with 400-seat theater, and a state-of-theart science and technology wing of the academic building.

With 90% of faculty living on campus, students learn and grow in a close-knit community. Students are guided by teachers who are also their coaches and dorm parents, allowing for strong facultystudent collaboration and providing for 24/7 learning. TrinityPawling serves 300 boys in grades 7-12 and offers a postgraduate program. Our boarding program begins in grade 8. The School offers over 100 academic courses and 20 AP courses, competition in 13 New England Founders League sports, and a diverse menu of activities, clubs, and trips allowing students to explore many interests.

Trinity-Pawling’s Center for Learning Achievement houses a number of support services to assist students in reaching their academic potential. Individualized instructional programs are available for students who have language-based learning differences, and for students with executive function difficulties.

Inspired by inquiry, our Learning Labs are the unofficial help desks of Trinity-Pawling.

One of the School’s most distinctive programs is the Effort System, which began 50 years ago. Each boy at Trinity-Pawling is assessed for the effort he devotes to a given endeavor: academics, athletics, dormitory responsibilities, civic engagement, attendance, and extracurricular programs. The learning objective inherent in this ethos of effort is to teach boys that the more they invest of themselves the greater their accomplishments will be.

Schedule a visit today! trinitypawling.org JP Burlington, Director of Admissions 845-855-4825 admissions@trinitypawling.org 700 Route 22, Pawling, NY 12564

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KIMBALL UNION ACADEMY

Meriden, NH

Serving a diverse student body in grades 9 through 12 and post-graduate, Kimball Union draws on its rich 200-year history to deliver a 21st-century curriculum that challenges students and prepares them for success in college and life. KUA inspires “academic mastery, creativity, responsibility, and leadership” in a friendly, warm, holistic environment on its scenic, 1300-acre campus in Meriden, NH. Kimball Union is defined by its positive, inclusive community and vibrant student culture, supported by a comprehensive Student Life program that emphasizes leadership, character building, and ethics in the classrooms, dorms, studios, and playing fields.

Our committed faculty delivers academic excellence from supported-learning to advanced concentrations in specific academic areas. Signature Programs, including visual and performing arts, varsity athletics, STEM, Global and Art Scholar programs, Capstone Projects, Fire Brigade, and sustainable farming, provide students with opportunities to expand their learning beyond the classroom.

Some of the most experienced college division one level coaches in New England provide excellent training from the basics to the highest levels of competition while reinforcing our ideals of “the scholar-athlete”, and have led our alumni to compete in the NFL, NHL, and Olympic Games.

• Innovative Learning for Inquiring Minds • Excellence in Arts and Athletics • Concentrations in STEM, Global Studies, Arts • 20 Advanced Placement Courses kua.org Kimball Union Academy Meriden, NH (603) 469-2100 admission@kua.org

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THE GOW SCHOOL South Wales, NY

Nestled among The Gow School is a college-prep boarding school for students, Cotswold-inspired grades 6-12, with dyslexia and similar language-based learning architecture on 860 disabilities. Focusing on small class sizes, 3-7 students per class, acres in the Farmington and a low 4:1 student to faculty ratio, The Gow School offers a Valley, Avon Old multisensory approach to teaching that enables dyslexic students to Farms stands as the thrive. The Gow community has a sense of belonging, of equality, leader in preparing and of connection born on common trials and shared triumph. young men for higher Gow has a start fast, finish strong mentality and students education. The school’s typically start to see progress soon after they step foot in our founder, Theodate Pope classrooms. Progress typically comes quickly, soon after they Riddle, was one of invest themselves in the program. At the School’s core is a America’s first, successful, female architects, and she serves as the structured program designed to help students navigate the cornerstone of our school’s motto, Aspirando et Perseverando – To academic day and a daily schedule designed to keep students busy.

Aspire and to Persevere. Mrs. Riddle’s fortitude and vision in 1927 Between a packed class schedule, after-school sports, study hall created the groundwork for an institution that challenges boys in and Saturday classes, there is little unprogrammed time. the pursuit of knowledge and self-improvement. Throughout this The School is settled on a 120 acre campus which gives our process, students find unwavering support and create fraternal bonds that will last a lifetime.

At the core of the Avon Old Farms experience are dedicated and passionate teachers that understand the intricacy of educating boys. Teachers demonstrate expertise in their disciplines, and they also contextualize learning; this helps students to explore meaningful roles as men in today’s complex society. Small classes allow teachers to cater to the learning needs of each As AND COLLEGE VALLEYindividual.

FORGE MILITARY ACADEMY relational learners, boys derive tremendous benefit from faculty that serves as advisors, teachers, mentors, and coaches.

Athletics is an honored tradition at Avon Old Farms where boys learn the value of teamwork, dedication, and sportsmanship.

Experienced coaches, state of the art facilities, strong competition, and countless athletes at the collegiate and professional level shoulder our athletic program. Each year, Avon Old Farms students plenty of room to learn and play. Boarding school life competes as one of the best programs in the United States. does not always allow lots of free time, but it has plenty of room for Avon Old Farms possesses a top-tier curriculum in visual and fun. Students are so involved – playing sports, going on trips, and performing arts. Our rich and varied programs provide many hanging out with each other – that they get the most out of the rich opportunities for boys to express themselves creatively. From residential experience. our top choral group, the Riddlers, to our exquisite visual artists, In July, the School’s co-ed summer program is five weeks of students are consistently honored on local, regional, and national learning and fun for ages 8-16! The Gow School Summer Program levels for their talent. Avon Old Farms is a special place for young is for students who have been experiencing academic difficulties, men to explore drawing, painting, singing, or acting. or have been diagnosed with dyslexia or specific learning The College Counseling Office is fully engaged with every disabilities. The Summer Program runs from the end of June to student, which allows us to be one of the most successful early August with morning academics, afternoon fun and games college preparatory schools in single-sex education. We identify and weekend adventures! The Gow School Summer Program gives and facilitate the proper matches between Avon students and students academic tools and self-confidence they can take with institutions of higher learning. them wherever they go; to the classroom and beyond.

The foundation of Avon Old Farms, and all that the school offers, By combining a structured program and environment with will always be rooted in our core values of brotherhood, scholarship, flexibility, individualization, and room for fun, Gow provides a rich integrity and sportsmanship; these lessons are fundamental to school experience that is precisely what dyslexic students need to success at Avon and stay with our graduates for a lifetime. learn and to enjoy learning.

AvonOldFarms.com gow.org Avon Old Farms School admissions@gow.org 500 Old Farms Road, Avon, CT 06001 716.687.2001 800-464-2866

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At The Hun School of Princeton, faculty members combine academic vigor with a joyful learning environment because they believe that students do their best work when they can find joy in the process.

The Hun School combines its deep roots in Princeton with a highly diverse student body. Students from 18 states and 26 countries enjoy a broad range of academic programs designed to ensure they will thrive in an ever-changing world. Our global education curriculum is enhanced by the diversity of our community, a menu of domestic and international travel programs, visiting thought-leaders, cultural celebrations, and the Wilf Family Global Commons, a stateof-the-art classroom and campus center.

The School’s Humanities, STEM, and Arts curriculums are taught in a hands-on, student centered learning environment, with an emphasis on seven essential skills: creativity, critical thinking, collaborative problem solving, cultural competency, ethics, communication, and leadership.

Faculty members believe learning to analyze, create, and present your own work is essential. Whether students are using a 3D printer to bring an engineering design to life, discussing cardiac bypass with a cardiac surgeon (during a live surgery), or participating in a Harknessstyle discussion, they are fully engaged in their classes at Hun. However, Hun teachers don’t just direct learning within a prescribed timeframe and model. Rather, they facilitate it at every opportunity with warmth and welcome. Strong character and conduct are demonstrated and encouraged through a wellness curriculum and a living community expectation. Teachers who also serve as advisors, coaches, and dorm parents get to know their students well, ensuring that every student receives the individual mentorship needed to maximize their personal and educational journey.

The Hun School of Princeton is located on forty-five idyllic acres in Princeton, New Jersey. It is conveniently situated between New York City and Philadelphia, and easily accessible by car, train, or air.

One of the most academically minded communities in the world, Princeton is also home to Princeton University, the Institute for Advanced Study, McCarter Theater, and a bustling town center.

The Hun School by the Numbers: 640 students; 150 courses; 55 members of student government; 71% of faculty hold advanced degrees; 58 clubs; 54 athletic teams; average of 12 students per class; 4 spirit houses; 4 scholars tracks; and NextTerm: a one-of-a-kind experiential mini-mester. hunschool.org The Hun School of Princeton 176 Edgerstoune Road Princeton, New Jersey 08525 (609) 921-7600 @hunschool 206

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THE ETHEL WALKER SCHOOL

Simsbury, CT

Established in 1911 Middle School: Grades 6-8 Upper School: Grades 9-12, PG Day (6-8, 9-12), 7-day boarding (9-12, PG) and 5-day boarding (7-8) For generations, young women have come to The Ethel Walker School to embrace their full potential in a community that cherishes learning and curiosity. They flourish knowing that they will become the person they were meant to be.

Here, students acquire, analyze, apply and integrate knowledge that allows them to take intellectual risks and discover their unique talents and aspirations. Students are prepared to design their own future in a world where they will encounter jobs and civic challenges that are not yet known. This requires a curriculum that emphasizes speaking up and direct action.

Walker’s advanced courses stir genuine excitement about learning, create real-world connections and allow for exploration.

Close to 80% of our faculty hold advanced degrees and they have expertly designed a curriculum that is meaningful, rigorous and inspiring. A robust offering of advanced courses stretches students to become reflective, analytical learners who are motivated to direct their own learning. By designing our own advanced curriculum, we offer a wider variety of subject areas without the confines of culminating standardized tests.

Walker’s students develop cultural competence as global citizens by learning, living and growing with people of different ages, interests, nationalities, racial, ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds, sexual orientation, religious traditions and political affiliations. We offer multiple classes and activities where girls grow their knowledge and desire to shape a society that is more equitable for all.

Whether on the field, in the pool and on the court, Walker’s girls set ambitious goals, act with integrity, hone their talents and work together to achieve success. We offer varsity and junior varsity teams across a dozen sports, plus riding along with a full array of arts offerings. Many of our musicians and athletic teams compete at the highest levels earning regional and national awards and accolades for both teams and individual players.

For more than a century, riding has been part of daily life at Walker’s with a best-in-class equestrian program led by nationallyrecognized, renowned trainers, and on-campus facilities that are considered among the best of any school in the country. Our program provides an extraordinary preparation with an emphasis on horsemanship, teamwork and personal growth. Riders of all levels develop their riding skills at an exceptional rate, competing successfully at the local, national and international levels. ethelwalker.org

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FORDHAM UNIVERSITY

Manhattan and the Bronx, NY

Gabelli School of Business High School Programs Join us this summer! Fordham University’s Gabelli School of Boston, MA Business offers three unique summer programs designed specifically Conduct psychology research. Analyze diseases in a lab. Present a for high school students. In just a few days, you can get a firsthand portfolio of creative writing. Hone photography skills. Argue a legal idea of what it’s like to study business in college. Our goal is to case. Develop a new product. Live in BU dormitories, joined by connect students to these programs who are excited about business. undergraduate mentors. And explore the city of Boston, making The NYC Business Insider Program (June 22-26, 2020) is a friends while learning what it takes to be a Boston University student. one week program designed to immerse rising high school juniors BU Summer Term High School Programs offer a range of and seniors in the commercial center of New York City. You experiences, each leading to challenging academics in fun and will be exposed to different areas of business daily and have the supportive college settings. With opportunity to learn about different career paths and experiences planned social activities like within each industry from business professionals. Participating beach trips, rock climbing, and students will benefit from morning class sessions with top faculty museum tours, you will enjoy from Fordham’s Gabelli School of Business, lunch discussions with everything Boston has to offer our undergrads, and afternoon site visits to prominent New York while getting to know fellow City businesses. Last year’s program included a tour of PVH (home students from across the globe. of Calvin Klein), a trip to Madison Square Garden, and a visit to With meals in BU dining halls, PricewaterhouseCoopers (PwC). access to world-class libraries, The Wall Street in the Classroom Program (July 6-10, 2020 and courses taught by BU’s stellar faculty and staff, our summer or July 20-24, 2020) is geared towards students who envision programs will give you the real pre-college experience. While the possibility of finance in their future, or who simply want to you’re here, you are BU. learn more about how to manage their own finances. Student PROGRAM OPTIONS participants will learn about financial markets, stocks and bonds, Earn College Credit: In High School Honors, motivated rising alternative investments, risk management, ethics and industry juniors and seniors earn up to eight credits studying alongside trends! You will interact with top business executives and visit a current undergraduates. Students explore new subjects or get a premier New York City financial firm for a behind the scene look at head-start on future studies in this challenging six-week program, what it is like to work in the industry. which includes residential, commuter, and online options.

The Exploring Entrepreneurship Program (July 13-17, 2020) Conduct STEM Research: With Research in Science and invites students to explore entrepreneurship in New York City at Engineering (RISE), rising seniors with proven skills in the sciences the Foundry, Fordham’s Hub for Innovation and Entrepreneurship. conduct university-level research in state-of-the-art laboratories.

During one focused week, you will work with talented, committed This six-week, non-credit program, with both commuter and peers to develop a new business idea and pitch it to a panel of residential options, is a rewarding, intensive experience. professors. You will also visit a start-up incubator to see firsthand Hands-On Learning: Academic Immersion (AIM) empowers what the start-up environment is like. You might even discover rising juniors and seniors to focus on psychology, medicine, or how you can help change the world. creative writing. For three weeks, alongside a cohort of motivated Interested in joining us for a summer in the city? Apply now. peers, students live on campus and gain deep knowledge of a Applications are accepted on a rolling basis and programs fill quickly! subject. Labs, observational research, and writing workshops are For additional program information, visit fordham.edu/ the core of this non-credit program. info/25162/summer_business_programs.

Explore New Subjects: Through Summer Challenge, rising sophomores, juniors, and seniors expand their academic range by choosing a pair of discussion-based seminars in exciting subject areas. Students give final presentations and receive letters of evaluation from instructors in this two-week, non-credit residential program.

Preview College Life: In Summer Preview, students entering eighth grade and rising freshmen and sophomores get a weeklong sneak peek at college life as either residential or commuting students. Concise and engaging seminars in biology, business, or creative writing push students to develop new skills with hands-on group activities and projects.

Deadlines to apply to BU Summer Term High School Programs vary. Please visit bu.edu/summer/high-school-programs for complete information, including dates and pricing.

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COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY – SUMMER 2020 New York NY

Columbia University’s Summer Sessions offer the opportunity to take classes or begin a certificate program from across the University. Taught by world-class faculty, courses are available in over 50 subject areas, including Arts, Business, Chemistry, Computer Science, Economics, Human Rights, International Affairs, Mathematics, Prelaw, and Statistics. Summer is a terrific time to learn something new, advance a career, and meet likeminded people in the setting of one of the world’s most vibrant cities. Each summer, Columbia attracts students already enrolled in degree programs, individuals looking to improve their knowledge in anticipation of applying for higher education programs, professionals who want to move toward the next step in their career, and individuals seeking personal enrichment through Postbaccalaureate Studies. Summer students have access to the state-ofthe-art student center, gym, and recreational facilities, as well as one of the most renowned library collections in the nation. The varying academic needs and backgrounds of students who attend Summer Sessions make the community one of the most diverse and dynamic on campus. Advisors help students customize a summer plan of action, whether they have their goals lined-up and need a few more courses to fulfill them, or they’re starting a new career and want to deepen their knowledge in a field. Taking advantage of the resources of one of the world’s most esteemed universities can help any student reach his or her next step. Columbia University’s Summer Session 1 runs from May 28–July 5, 2019, and Summer Session 2 from July 8–August 16, 2019.

To apply, see a complete summer calendar, and learn more about interest to take summer courses at a preferred pace with varied summer options at Columbia, visit: options. Courses are offered by most schools and departments. summer.sps.columbia.edu/ss20 Currently matriculated attending TCNJ students can register In addition to classes for visiting and returning students, for summer courses directly within PAWS. Summer registration Columbia University’s Summer Programs for High School starts in November as part of the spring registration window and Students offer high-achieving students the opportunity to continues throughout the spring semester. experience college life in the Ivy League while sampling the Visiting students who are interested in a summer course on our vibrancy of New York City. All programs combine academic rigor campus should complete a visiting student registration request and instructional excellence with lively extracurricular offerings form on our summer website. Visiting students are encouraged to and careful supervision and support. submit a registration request form early in order to secure a seat in Summer Immersion: New York City (3-Week) dates are their desired course. Credits earned through these courses are easily Session 1: June 29 - July 17 2020 transferrable to many institutions; however, it is strongly advised Session 2: July 21 - August 7 2020. Summer Immersion: that visiting students secure permission with their home institution New York City (1-Week) runs August 10 - August 14 2020. prior to requesting registration into a course.

To learn more and apply, visitprecollege.sps.columbia.edu/hs20 To learn more, visit our summer website at summer.tcnj.edu!

If you have any inquiries, please contact us at summer@tcnj.edu or 609-771-2369 Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter! @TCNJSummer The College of New Jersey Summer Programs allow current, prospective, and visiting students the opportunity to take courses outside of the regular academic year. Courses are offered in a variety of formats including on campus, blended, online, and travel. Each option allows students who are looking to fulfill liberal learning requirements, advance in their major, or take a course for personal

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SUMMER AT SMITH – PRECOLLEGE PROGRAMS AT SMITH COLLEGE

June 28 - July 25, 2020 Learn how to think like an entrepreneur and recognize problems as opportunities. Expand your leadership potential and global network. Join a group of emerging leaders from 15+ countries around the world. Work with a diverse team to solve a real problem facing a company or organization.

This is the Iacocca Global Entrepreneurship Intensive, from Lehigh University’s Iacocca Institute, an innovator in global leadership experiences for 20+ years. This summer program for international and U.S. high school students includes dynamic learning opportunities, workshops and design labs, a team project with a partner organization, visits to local companies and start-ups and mentoring from entrepreneurs, executives, investors and other professionals.

About the Iacocca Institute The Iacocca Institute creates transformative, hands-on leadership experiences that develop and empower the next generation of global leaders. Collectively, its programs have hosted participants from more than 150 countries. It is part of Lehigh University, recognized among the U.S.’s premier research universities and located in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania.

Program Cost The program is $4250. This includes the program fee, room and board, instructional materials and field trips and curriculumrelated activities. Limited scholarships and discounts are available.

Early Application Deadline February 19, 2020 gesummer@lehigh.edu (610) 758-3401 For more information and to apply, visit global.lehigh.edu/iacocca-institute/high-school

For talented young women entering grades 9, 10, 11 and 12 in fall 2020 Summer at Smith precollege programs include Summer Science and Engineering; Creative Writing; Women, Gender and Representation; Sustainable Futures: Farming, Justice and the Environment; and a College Admission Workshop. The programs offer intellectually stimulating and unique opportunities for

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VALLEY FORGE MILITARY ACADEMY AND COLLEGE

young women in high school who wish to pursue their academic interests in the classroom and beyond. Annually, 300 young women have the freedom to explore challenging and intriguing subjects, to strengthen their college applications, and to increase their exposure to the Smith undergraduate experience while living and studying with other motivated and ambitious students from around the world.

The learning environment is hands-on, collaborative, exploratory, challenging and rich in role models. Professors who are world-class scholars offer personal attention in the classroom while encouraging students’ interests and passions and helping them develop new academic skills.

Here young women are taken seriously and inspired to excel— as scholars, scientists, leaders. smith.edu/summer

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SUMMER CAMP AT GETTYSBURG COLLEGE

House and Harkness. Designed to give students a three-week Lawrenceville boarding school experience, Summer Scholars distinguishes itself by inviting highly engaged, academically motivated residential and day students into a warm and supportive community.

Lawrenceville Summer Scholars (LVSS) has two tracks within its program: Middle School designed for rising sixth through eighth graders, and High School for rising ninth and tenth grade students.

Middle School Scholars engage in Harkness learning (the pedagogy of Lawrenceville which is based on discussion and active inquiry) in each of their chosen classes. Course options include Speech & Debate, Creative Writing for Academic Success, DNA and Cancer Research, Creative Portraiture, and dozens of others.

High School Scholars take Harkness out of the classroom and into the world. The Summer 2020 theme is Rivers: Charting the Course of Civilization. The smaller cohort will design research projects and travel off campus to study rivers. In alignment with the Lawrenceville School curriculum, high school students also take a Lawrenceville Humanities course (expository and creative writing, public speaking, reading) and a STEAM course to support their research activities.

With limited enrollment and a low student-to-teacher ratio, all LVSS students receive individual attention in order to flourish in a safe and supportive environment. The school day balances class time and outdoor fun, and in all activities, including weekend trips and pop-up choirs, students will be encouraged to think critically, problem solve, collaborate, socialize, and discover their passions.

LVSS students come from around the world and many states to experience the combination of academic rigor and boarding school life of Lawrenceville. The LVSS administration and faculty is comprised of Lawrenceville teachers and Harkness-trained teachers who have together created an innovative and successful community.

Residential students live in Lawrenceville’s historic houses and all students are part of house life, which includes an all-school reading (a novel), communal meals, activities, and creatively fun House Olympics.

This combination of warmth and academic challenge is incomparable. As one LVSS parent wrote: “It is so special for a parent to see their child thrive and grow as a result of the encouragement and fertile environment of such a wonderful place.

We can’t thank you enough.”

Lawrenceville Summer Scholars 2500 Main Street Lawrenceville, NJ 08648 609-620-6683 Summerscholars.lawrenceville.org summerscholars@lawrenceville.org

Join us for Summer Camp at Gettysburg College. A community of passionate achievers—on a campus where history and innovation intersect to shape the future.

Located in the heart of historic Gettysburg, Pennsylvania, Gettysburg College provides an incomparable location for summer academics camps. Subjects include psychology, creative writing, civil war history, and information technology - learn more about our summer programming below.

3D Object Modeling and Printing Camp (June 21-26, 2020) 3D printing is revolutionizing our world from sculpture to medical devices, manufacturing and architecture. In this camp, you will learn the concepts and skills behind 3D printing and put them into practice to create a series of projects. At the end of the camp, you will be able to take home the printer and software with which you worked during the camp.

Build a Bot and Code It Too (June 21-26, 2020) Campers will gain hands-on experience in coding, wiring electronics, and building robots through open source software and hardware. This camp is an introduction into the world of coding robotics and electronics.

Civil War Era Studies Camp (July 5-10, 2020) Enjoy historic Gettysburg, Pennsylvania, while studying the American Civil War History through lectures, field trips, and unique learning experiences. You will explore the circumstances leading to the war, investigate significant battles during the war, and explore the condition of the United States after the war.

Camp Psych (July 12-17, 2020) Enjoy hands-on experiences that introduce you to research in psychology in a fun, challenging, and engaging environment.

Young Writers Workshop (July 12-17, 2020) This is a collegelevel writing experience where you will learn how to develop your own unique writing voice and write stories in one or more genres - poetry, fiction, nonfiction, and writing for stage and screen.

Civil War Institute Summer Conference Scholarship (June 12-17, 2020) The High School Student Scholarship Program component of Gettysburg College’s annual Civil War Institute summer conference provides high school students an opportunity to explore the history of the Civil War. Participants join conference sessions, interact with noted historians, and participate in special tours and programming geared toward high school students. *Application deadline to apply is Feb. 15, 2020 Gettysburg College is the perfect place to experience summer.

Gettysburg boasts the charm of a small, historic town with the benefit of close proximity to major metropolitan areas.

For more information, check out Gettysburg College’s Summer Academic Camp website at gettysburg.edu/summercamps

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THE BOSTON LEADERSHIP INSTITUTE

For young women matriculated in grades 9-11.

Our summer enrichment programs allow young women to explore their interests and put theory into practice in a New York City minute. Tune into your passion this summer at Barnard through one of our 2 or 4 week summer institute programs. Our programs are exploratory in nature and give you the opportunity to experience college life in the City as resident or day student.

Our 2020 Program Offerings include: • NYC Art and Design Summer Institute • STEMinists in Training Institute • Athena Summer Innovation Institute • Performing Arts and Media Institute • Young Women’s Leadership Institute • Young Women Writers Institute • Urban Studies Summer Institute Our online application goes live on December 1. Priority deadline is April 15. Applications are reviewed on a rolling basis and need based financial aid is available. For details about our program offerings please visit our website, barnard.edu/ precollegeprograms. Make New York City your classroom this summer!

Contact Us: 212-854-8866 pcp@barnard.edu

The Boston Leadership Institute provides top-tier, awardwinning summer programs that feature world class teachers, premium locations, and hot, marketable STEM-related topics.

New York, NY

Wellesley, MA

Only in Boston will you find such a breadth and depth of top universities including Harvard, Tufts, MIT, Olin, and Brandeis.

Hook your student on finance by having them spend three weeks learning from a veteran who boasts 30 years of experience at Fidelity. Or steer them towards an Entrepreneurship program taught by an MBA from MIT or a former start-up CEO with a JD from Georgetown. Does your student want to know if engineering is for them? Why not send them to engineering program led by an MIT Engineering PhD who teaches at a prominent prep school. Or maybe your student is thinking pre-med? MDs and top medical students head up programs in Biomedical & Surgical Research, Oncology, Emergency Medicine, and more. Students take full advantage of our proximity to Harvard Medical School, Boston Children’s Hospital, Beth Israel Deaconess, and other famous medical centers. They’ll visit simulation centers, hear from renowned guest speakers, and see the world’s most famous hospitals up close. And don’t forget the weekends! Your student might spend free time viewing masterpieces at the Museum of Fine Arts, soaking up history along the Freedom Trail, or catching a baseball game at Fenway Park. Boston is a student Mecca.

Applications are open now.

Visit bostonleadershipinstitute.com to apply or place a deposit!

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Fuel your Summer!

Since 1984 we have offered personalized adventures for students seeking a summer experience like no other. Our extensive range of programs encourages independence and friendship, striking the perfect balance between learning, exploration, and independence.

We’re proud of our reputation for providing a high level of attention and care, for being pioneers in our field, and for finding exciting new ways to make each student’s summer unforgettable.We are not a school, we are an invitation to get away from the noise and do what you can’t.

Students who join our pre-college programs are able to preview college life and experience some of the world’s best campuses.

Students choose daily seminars and combine them with activities and excursions for an exciting way to gain independence, explore interests and make friends with students from all over the US and around the world. Seminars are designed to be hands on and collaborative and subjects are taught by college professors and graduate students drawn from the host institutions.

Currently students can choose from the following campuses: UNCChapel Hill, UC-Berkeley, MIT, Tufts and Oxford University.

We also offer business and entrepreneurship programs at Stanford and Columbia as well as an International Business program in Barcelona. Students develop essential business skills that put them ahead of the game. For students who wish to focus on the college admissions process, we offer college admissions “boot camps” at Tufts and UC-Berkeley. These highly focused programs are a great way to get started on your college search and learn the ins and outs of the admissions process.

Our language and cultural immersion programs in Spain offer the choice of a residential program in Barcelona or a full immersion and homestay program in Andalusia, Spain. Our longest running programs, Spain offers an amazing opportunity to improve fluency, build confidence in the language and live and learn like a Spaniard for an experience that goes far beyond the limits of tourism.

All of our programs are designed to broaden academic and personal horizons, and we work thoughtfully to create opportunities for a truly diverse student population. We believe that for the right student, we offer some of the most innovative programming around. We invite students to join us and find out what is important to them and prepare for the important transition from high school to college.

For more information please visit: summerfuel.com or email us: info@summerfuel.com or call our New York City office: 212-796-8342

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At Summer School, we believe strongly that students should have CHOICES. Our individualized academic program enables students to further their academic progress by choosing a course of study that suits their personal needs and interests.

The Summer School offers dynamic faculty, a beautiful 226-acre campus, modern facilities, a 4:1 student-to-faculty ratio, and an average class size of 10 students.

YOUNG SCHOLARS (5 WEEKS) Designed for talented 7th and 8th graders who are interested in exploring the boarding school experience or taking on the challenges of rigorous public and private secondary schools, this program focuses on building essential skills, increasing independence and self-confidence, and improving time management as students look further down the road to the demands of a college preparatory program. Students choose two major and two minor courses, participate in daily athletics and take part in a myriad of on and off-campus trips and activities.

LIBERAL STUDIES (5 WEEKS) The Liberal Studies program offers motivated high school students in grades 9 to 12 the opportunity to study a variety of liberal arts courses in an independent school environment.

Students will be able to sharpen their academic and test-taking skills, increase their independence, improve time management, as well as broaden their cultural and global awareness as they prepare for college and beyond. Students choose two major and two minor courses, participate in daily athletics and take part in a myriad of on and off-campus trips and activities.

WRITER’S LAB (2 WEEKS) This course provides high school students a chance to explore different modes of writing such as analytical, narrative, and creative.

Through self-exploration and examinations of texts, students dive into the writing process and utilize discussion and reflection to shape their writing. Formal and informal discussions are a staple of the course; students are charged with critically analyzing the text and incorporating newfound skills into their own writing. Students leave this course with a more nuanced understanding of both analytical and creative writing techniques, rhetorical devices, and correct grammar as well as greater confidence in reading, thinking, and speaking critically about literature. Outside the classroom, students take part in daily athletics, as well as on and off-campus trips and activities.

GOLF PROGRAM (TWO 2-WEEK SESSIONS) Utilizing the facilities at Taft’s nearby home course, this program is designed for the competitive golfer pursuing a high school or collegiate level program. All instructors are PGA certified.

Enrollment is limited to 10 students per two-week session, and participation requires enrollment in one of the academic programs.

Learn more at taftschool.org/summer or call 860-945-7961

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SPECIAL PROGRAMS

LANDMARK COLLEGE

DIVON ACADEMY’S AFTER SCHOOL PROGRAM

Putney, VT

Six Reasons Why Landmark College is the College of Choice for the Student Who Learns Differently Finding the right college for a student with learning differences (LD) can be an overwhelming process. Each student has individual priorities and needs. Should you consider a college such as Landmark College, which is exclusively to students with learning disabilities (such as dyslexia), ADHD, and ASD? Or would the student be well served by a traditional college that offers LD accommodations as add-on services?

Here are our answers to key questions you need to ask about resources and features available in each setting so that you can find the best fit for your student.

Are LD support services integral to the academic experience?

Our comprehensive support services are integrated into the curriculum. Students don’t have to take special steps to access them. Furthermore, our academic advising model is individualized to help students become their own advocates.

Are there specific medical tax deductions or other financial aid options available?

Tuition and fees, along with additional costs such as books, computers, and other education-related expenses, may qualify as a medical tax deduction for students with LD. This deduction is only available at dedicated LD schools like Landmark College.

Is LD-specific career planning and placement available?

Our Office of Career Connections offers on- and off-campus internships and an Employment Readiness Program for students with minimal job experience.

How does the college create an optimal learning environment for students with LD? The Landmark College Institute for Research and Training (LCIRT) pioneers LD research and trains educators to implement student-centered best practices, leading to innovative strategies that improve student outcomes. In addition, students can work alongside professors on LCIRT research projects and receive course credit or compensation.

Do students have access to assistive technology?

Our educational technology support is free of charge, allowing students to experiment with the tools most effective for their learning style, including text readers, accessible digital text, graphic organizers, time management tools, and speech-to-text software.

How does college staff communicate with parents?

A main focus through Family Orientation and Family Weekend (and LC’s family services in general) is helping parents understand the support, needs, and developmental milestones of successful students. Prospective families can read student stories, schedule a campus visit, or contact parents of current students.

For more information, visit landmark.edu/choose 19 River Road South, Putney, VT, 05346 802-387-6718 admissions@landmark.edu landmark.edu

“The most important extra-curricular program your child will ever take” Do you want your child to be successful? Of course you do. But so does every other parent on the planet! The question is whether you have a complete strategy: are you focused on what matters most to your child’s long-term success?

Most parents believe that elite schools, straight A’s and 4.0 GPA’s hold the key to the kingdom. But that’s not the case anymore.

Technology has disrupted how we live and work, but it has also disrupted the skills young people need to succeed.

The research is conclusive: Harvard professor and best-selling author Shawn Achor has found that IQ, intelligence, and technical skills only predict 25% of your long-term success. The remaining 75% of long-term success is predicted by three simple variables: mindset, interpersonal and social skills (EQ), and how you manage stress.

Divon Academy’s after school program will help your child build strength in these three core areas. Through interactive webinars with world-class instructors (including four Harvard educated professionals), your child will learn how to cultivate a resilient mindset, develop emotional intelligence and stress management skills, clarify their goals, and build superior habits that set them up for success.

Described by parents as “the most important extra-curricular program your child will ever take” the program is unlike any other extra-curricular offered today.

Three things make the program unique: 1) It combines stress management, career preparedness, and personal growth all into one.

2) It focuses on helping students translate ideas into action through habits and rituals that deliver results.

3) World-class instructors with both the academic pedigree and real-world experience.

Here’s how it works: The program runs over an 11-week period starting late January. For the first seven weeks your child will develop foundational skills as we focus on stress management, mindset, EQ skills, developing stretch goals, and cultivating superior habits. This will be followed by four additional webinars in fields ranging from financial literacy, to happiness, and how to build a brand and start a social enterprise.

Each webinar lasts between 1 and 1.5 hours, scheduled at convenient times after school.

Webinars are small and capped at 18 students to ensure active participation and engagement.

To register and reserve your child’s seat, please visit DivonAcademy.com/winter-program Private one on one mentorship is also available for both high school and university students. For details, please visit DivonAcademy.com/mentorship

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Summer Programs Visiting Students Undergraduates & Graduates

Adults & Professionals

Students enrolled at another institution.

Individuals with a bachelor’s or higher degree.

Session I: May 26–July 2

High School Students College Edge An opportunity for high school students to take for-credit courses on Columbia’s campus with undergraduate students

Session II: July 6–August 14

Summer Immersion

More than 50 areas of study to explore and endless opportunities to discover.

Immersive programs for domestic and international high school students interested in living and studying in New York City

sps.columbia.edu/summer20

Fall, Spring, & Summer Offerings

Session 1: June 29–July 17 Session 2: July 21–August 7 Session 3: August 10–August 14

sps.columbia.edu/hs20

ONE- TO FOUR-WEEK ACADEMIC PROGRAMS

SUMMER AT SMITH

PRECOLLEGE PROGRAMS FOR EXCEPTIONAL YOUNG WOMEN ENTERING GRADES 9–12 IN FALL 2020 www.smith.edu/summer

Smith Summer Precollege Programs Northampton, MA 01063 T: 413-585-2165 summerprecollege@smith.edu

"The program was empowering. It made me more confident and taught me about important issues that aren't often talked about."

—2019 Participant

Attend our upcoming Open House on Saturday, February 29

SUMMER SESSIONS AT TCNJ

REGISTER NOW!

Session 1: May 26–June 12 Session 2: June 15–July 16 Session 3: July 20–August 21 Dates for blended, online, and travel courses may vary.

summer.tcnj.edu summer@tcnj.edu

Parent Workshop for Executive Function Skills Development Saturday, February 8, 8:30 a.m. – 3:30 p.m.

Johnson & Wales University, North Miami Campus, Florida I thought that was due next week.

I left that book in my locker.

My tablet’s all messed up.

The dog ate it.

I forgot.

AFK...........

No More KidSplaining!

Wish there was a way you could help your student spend more time studying and less time making excuses? This is your workshop!

Landmark College, the leader in education for students with learning differences, is partnering with Johnson & Wales University’s North Miami campus to show you how to unlock your student’s executive function (EF) skills, including organization, time management, planning, prioritizing, focus, and self-regulation of emotions.

You will work with Landmark College faculty trained to address EF challenges head-on and help your student successfully make the transition from high school to college.

Space is limited. Register today: landmark.edu/miami

Putney, Vermont

Iacocca Global Entrepreneurship Intensive June 28 - July 25, 2020 Learn how to think like an entrepreneur and recognize problems as opportunities. Expand your leadership potential and global network. Join a group of emerging leaders from 15+ countries around the world. Work with a diverse team to solve a real problem facing a company or organization.

This is the Iacocca Global Entrepreneurship Intensive, from Lehigh Universityâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Iacocca Institute, an innovator in global leadership experiences for 20+ years. This summer program for international and U.S. high school students includes dynamic learning opportunities, workshops and design labs, a team project with a partner organization, visits to local companies and start-ups and mentoring from entrepreneurs, executives, investors and other professionals.

About the Iacocca Institute The Iacocca Institute creates transformative, hands-on leadership experiences that develop and empower the next generation of global leaders. Collectively, its programs have hosted participants from more than 150 countries. It is part of Lehigh University, recognized among the U.S.â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s premier research universities and located in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania.

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Early Application Deadline

The program is $4250. This includes the program fee, room and board, instructional materials and field trips and curriculum-related activities. Limited scholarships and discounts are available.

February 19, 2020

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Gettysburg College

Summer Academic Camps

A community of passionate achieversâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;on a campus where history and innovation intersect to shape the future.

3D Object Modeling and Printing Camp June 21-26, 2020 Build a Bot and Code It Too June 21-26, 2020 Civil War Era Studies Camp July 5-10, 2020 Camp Psych July 12-17, 2020 Young Writers Workshop July 12-17, 2020 For more information visit our website www.gettysburg.edu/summercamps

BARNARD COLLEGE IN PARTNERSHIP WITH COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY

2020 PRE-COLLEGE SUMMER PROGRAMS

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JOIN US THIS SUMMER! Each of the Gabelli School’s three summer programs is designed specifically for high school students. In just a few days, you can get a firsthand idea of what it’s like to study business in college.

NYC BUSINESS INSIDER JUNE 22–26, 2020 This one-week program is designed to immerse rising high school juniors and seniors in the commercial center of New York City.

You will benefit from morning class sessions with top faculty from Fordham’s Gabelli School of Business, lunch discussions with our undergrads, and afternoon site visits to prominent New York City businesses.

WALL STREET IN THE CLASSROOM JULY 6–10, 2020 OR JULY 20–24, 2020 The Finance Institute is geared toward students who are considering studying finance in college or who want to learn to manage their own finances.

You will learn about financial markets, stocks and bonds, alternative investments, risk management, ethics, and industry trends.

EXPLORING ENTREPRENEURSHIP JULY 13–17, 2020 High school juniors and seniors can explore entrepreneurship in New York City at the Foundry, Fordham’s hub for innovation and entrepreneurship.

During one focused week, you will work with talented, committed peers to develop a new business idea and pitch it to a panel of professors. You will also visit a start-up incubator to see firsthand what the startup environment is like. You might even discover how you can help change the world.

Applications are accepted on a rolling basis and programs fill quickly, so apply soon.

For more information and updates, visit fordham.edu/summer_business_programs

BOSTON UNIVERSITY SUMMER TERM PRE-COLLEGE PROGRAMS Take your experiences to new places—at BU. Choose from the following options for high school students: High School Honors Take on-campus or online undergraduate courses at BU and earn up to 8 college credits (Six weeks. Residential, commuter, or online.)

Research in Science & Engineering Pursue scientific research in university laboratories (Six weeks. Residential or commuter.)

Academic Immersion Focus intensively on psychology, medicine, or creative writing while living on a college campus (Three weeks. Residential.)

Summer Challenge Explore two subjects of your choice and experience college life (Two weeks. Residential.)

Summer Preview Immerse yourself in college life while exploring a subject of your choice (One week. Residential or commuter.)

Programs take place in June, July, and August.

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Summer at Sem Every summer at Wyoming Seminary, students ages 12-18 come together from around the world to grow as creative performers in Music, Dance, Theatre, and the Visual Arts in the Summer at Sem Creative Arts programs. Students take intensive classes, enjoy performance/stage time, and study alongside expert guest artists.

visit our website for more information online at: www.wyomingseminary.org/summer

A WORLD-CLASS EDUCATION

in the Heart of Rome

St. Stephen’s is a non-denominational, co-educational international day and boarding school enrolling students from ages 14-19 in grades 9-12 plus an optional postgraduate year. Our inclusive learning community is dedicated to inspiring personal excellence and guiding students to become the architects of their own future.

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ST. STEPHEN’S SCHOOL Via Aventina, 3 - Rome 00153 Italy Phone: +39 06 575 0605 | admissions@sssrome.it | www.sssrome.it

Faculty with advanced degrees: 90% Languages offered: 10 (English, Italian, French, Spanish, German, Greek, Latin, Chinese, Portuguese, Russian) Financial Aid Campus: historic center of Rome (near the Colosseum) Sports: soccer, basketball, volleyball, running, Pilates, Yoga Arts and performing arts program (drama, music, visual and digital arts) Clubs: 30, including MUN, Debate club, Books in Time, The Aventina School Newspaper, Film Club, Peer Mentoring, Physics, Math, and many more.

School-wide trips program to destinations in Italy, Europe and the Mediterranean Basin Service learning opportunities in Rwanda, Senegal and Sri Lanka

R E M M U S Summer Programs for Grades 7–12

5-WEEK YOUNG SCHOLARS

Designed for 7th and 8th graders who are looking to explore the boarding school experience or intend to take on the challenges of rigorous public and private secondary schools.

5-WEEK LIBERAL STUDIES

High school students interested in academic enrichment will be able to sharpen their academic skills and increase their independence in preparation for college.

2-WEEK WRITER’S LAB

This workshop offers intensive creative opportunities for high school students who are looking to explore different modes of writing and are interested in rich and engaging experiences.

GOLF PROGRAM

Designed for the competitive golfer pursuing a high school or collegiate level program.

Small sessions conducted by PGA certified instructors.

ACADEMIC ENRICHMENT, ART, SPORTS, CULTURAL TRIPS & ACTIVITIES

THE TAFT SCHOOL

www.taftschool.org/summer/programs 110 Woodbury Road Watertown, CT 06795-2100 860-945-7961

A BALANCED EQUATION

THE HUN SCHOOL OF PRINCETON is a joyful, striving community of learners and teachers who want to experience something profound every day: that sweet spot between challenging academics that push our brains and the personal endeavors that soar our hearts. This is what we call “a balanced equation”—a thoughtful way of teaching that brings out the best in our students and best prepares them for life.

Serving Upper School Boarding and Day Students in grades 9 – 12 and Postgraduates; and Middle School Day Students in grades 6 – 8.

S C H E D U L E A N I N T E R V I E W T O D AY !

To learn more, visit hunschool.org or call (609) 921-7600

A coed college-prep boarding and day school for students, grades 6-12, with dyslexia and similar language-based learning disabilities.

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Orton Gillingham based remediation 150 students Students from 25 states and 20 countries 3-6 average class size Executive Function Coaching 100% college acceptance Academic year and summer programs

The Gow School Summer Program is for students who have been experiencing academic difficulties, or have been diagnosed with dyslexia or specific learning disabilities. Five weeks of learning and fun for ages 8-16.

2491 Emery Rd â&#x20AC;˘ South Wales, NY 14139 P 716.687.2001 â&#x20AC;˘ F 716.687.2003 gow.org

INCLUSION • DIVERSITY • EXCELLENCE • ACCEPTANCE • LEADERSHIP

The IDEAL Experience On any given day at The IDEAL School of Manhattan, students may give a presentation on a civil rights leader, participate in a musical, enjoy Riverside Park, paint a masterpiece, or visit The Met. IDEAL is New York’s only K-12 independent inclusion school, where we celebrate the tremendous social, emotional, and academic growth born in a diverse and nurturing educational community. #SchoolCanBeIDEAL Sign up for a Tuesday Talk and Tour or an Open House to learn more about IDEAL’s rigorous and differentiated academics, innovative social justice curriculum, and unique inclusion program.

Schedule your visit today to our Upper West Side campus The Lower School 314 West 91st Street The Upper School 270 West 89th Street

www.theidealschool.org IDEAL is currently accepting applications in select grades for 2020-21 placement.

For further information, contact us at admissions@theidealschool.org or 212-769-1699.

After School Program 11 online workshops with 4 leading Harvard Graduates that will fundamentally change your child’s mindset, ability to manage stress and path to success STARTS JANUARY 29, 2020

“The Most Important Extra-Curricular Program Your Child Will Ever Take.”

Program Faculty

Elan Divon: Harvard-trained author, speaker, and founder of Divon Academy

Dr. Sanjiv Chopra: Award winning Harvard professor and best-selling author

Rob McMullan: Harvard-educated financial literacy expert

Kim Smiley: Harvard trained social entrepreneur, designer, and founder of The Empathy Effect

Natalie Matias: Leading meditation and mindfulness coach

See What Parents and Students Have Been Raving About

Learn More @ www.DivonAcademy.com

AVON OLD FARMS SCHOOL

Visit our website and embark on a virtual 360 tour!

See why Avon is expert in educating young men at our Spring Open House: May 12th, 2020

EXCELLENCE Both in and out of the classroom, Avon Old Farms School inspires excellence.

Avon Old Farms is a traditional boys school with nationally recognized scholars, artists, and athletes.

The Avon experience is well-balanced. Young men feel comfortable to explore their ambitions in an inspiring environment.

Learn more at www.avonoldfarms.com/openhouse or contact the Office of Admission. admissions@avonoldfarms.com â&#x20AC;˘ 860.404.4243

We think intellectual curiosity is the most powerful energy in the world.

At Hopkins, we’ve created a culture dedicated to perpetuating, fulfilling, and celebrating intellectual curiosity. We believe that education should be a multi-faceted pursuit of the whole intellect, where a diverse community of individuals bond together to inspire each other, challenge each other, explore, discover and achieve.

Hopkins School. We think.

A coed, college preparatory day school for grades 7-12 203.397.1001 • hopkins.edu • New Haven, CT

Trinity-Pawling School

Boarding and Day for Boys - Grades 7-12 / Postgraduate

A TRANSFORMATIVE EXPERIENCE At Trinity-Pawling, we see that spark of greatness in each boy. We help our students turn hopes into achievement and hard work into results. Along the way, they discover that greatness takes many forms — a breakthrough English paper, an act of kindness, a game winning goal. It’s all about discovering talents and putting them into action. At Trinity-Pawling, no one sits on the sidelines. Get ready, go far.

This educational experience could make all the difference in your son’s future.

Learn more about the benefits of a Trinity-Pawling education at www.trinitypawling.org

Along the Gold Coast

By J.C. Duffy

I L LU ST RAT I O N BY J .C. D U F FY

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Helicopter Parenthood

he term “helicopter parents” has such a negative connotation. My wife prefers to call herself a “hovermom.”

Whitney and I live with our five-year-old, Chauncey, in a wealthy suburb of Manhattan, which shall remain nameless. Until recently Whitney had been having lunch every day with Chauncey in his elementary school’s cafeteria. She wasn’t the only parent; on a typical day at least a half dozen parents would join their kindergarteners in the lunchroom.

I don’t know how the trend started, but my wife claims she was the first at our elementary school, which shall also remain nameless. One day she noticed that our son had left his smartphone at home, and so of course she had to race over to school. When she arrived at 12 o’clock, to her surprise, the lunch bell rang, so she simply joined Chauncey in the cafeteria. No one said anything, so she made it a daily lunch date.

There are many reasons parents want to interact with their children during the school day. Maybe there are family issues to work through. Maybe it’s the child’s birthday. Maybe it’s the parent’s birthday. Maybe it’s SpongeBob SquarePants’s birthday. Maybe helicopters just need to hover.

At lunch, Whitney and Chauncey would pick up their breakfast conversation where they left off before they were so rudely interrupted by the arrival of the school bus. And she brought in farm-to-table lunch fare like ramps and grilled radicchio, inexplicably missing from the cafeteria’s menu.

I would have been there too if I didn’t have to go to work and if the cafeteria served martinis.

This arrangement seemed to be working fine until our town’s Superintendent of Public Schools banned the practice, announcing the new rule in an email to parents. In it, he stated for educational reasons, students of this age need to learn how to function independently under the supervision of a trained educational professional without parental distraction.

The new rule didn’t sit well with some parents, including my wife. She insisted I accompany her to a Board of Ed meeting to protest their decision.

Once the meeting got underway my wife wasted no time and stood up to speak. “Your new rule hit me like an iron jackboot to the midsection,” she yelled at the Board members seated onstage at

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the front of the auditorium. “Right in the umbilical cord!”

A Board member replied, “We believe schools exist for children, not parents. We try to encourage students to develop the skills necessary to grow into engaged members of society.”

A mother who agreed with the Board chimed in. “Removing the parents teaches the children social skills. Having a parent in the mix changes the dynamic dramatically, plus, I can’t make it because lunch is at the same time as ‘The Young and the Restless.’”

A father piled on. “Kids have to learn how to deal with other kids on their own.”

“My son already has those skills,” my wife countered. “Just last week the school bully demanded my son’s lunch money and I stayed out of it completely.

Chauncey handled the situation himself, writing the boy a personal check from his own account.”

A woman I couldn’t see because she remained seated held a different viewpoint. “My son says lunching with his parents has inspired him to be more assertive because we aren’t afraid to send an entree back to the Lunch Lady or demand a bucket of ice for our wine. He would tell you that himself but I’m breastfeeding him at the moment.”

It went on like that for some time, and finally I started watching Netflix on my phone. My wife got a text from Chauncey saying the babysitter was beginning to bore him, so it was time to leave.

In the end the board didn’t overturn the ban on parents in the cafeteria.

I thought that was the end of it, but not quite. One day my wife, who is a diminutive woman, tried to enter the lunchroom disguised as a student. She looked like a tarted-up Shirley Temple with a hangover, and was quickly escorted off the premises.

Since then Whitney seems to have accepted reality, reluctantly, although she does send Chauncey gourmet lunches via Uber Eats.

And Chauncey has really blossomed on his own. He’s now Teacher’s Pet. The fact that he sells her his poached salmon and sautéed asparagus at a discount may have something to do with it. He’s also running for Kindergarten Treasurer, and he now pays the school bully with Bitcoin.

–– J.C. Duffy is a cartoonist and writer whose cartoons appear regularly in The New Yorker and other magazines. His books include collections of his syndicated newspaper comic strip, “The Fusco Brothers.”

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