The Patriarch Says: We’d like the Conversation to be Binary. Mae Lovett
When you come, don’t bring your other
Please don’t talk about
-ness. Please don’t wear those colorful clothes
your pronouns. Don’t tell them about
that you say make you feel like yourself.
the drag balls, the feeling of fitting in
They are just clothes, you can
with people who are so different from us.
dress normally for one night.
Tell them about your writing, your singing,
Wear a dress, it will please them.
show them those pictures where you look so pretty.
It’s just one night, you can be yourself tomorrow.
Don’t bring up the hormone therapy. We’ll tell them eventually, but now is not the
You know we love you, because
time.
you are unique and proud of it. Tonight we are here to celebrate We are proud of you, just straighten
you, and the woman you have
up. Wear a dress and maybe
become.
shave your legs. Call him
We are so proud of you.
your boyfriend, partner sound gay. If they say she, just smile and stay silent. It’s just one night, you don’t want to upset them.
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