An Essay On Respect

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Whentalkingaboutthewordrespect,numerousindividualshavenocluewhatitimplies.Thisword changesitsmeaningdependingonwhoisinquired.Severalpeople,evenoneswhocomprehend whatrespectimplies,stillhavenorespectforanyoneelseAtwo–waystreakthateveryoneappears tooverlookisrespect.Thewordrespecthasaone–sidedmeaningtoit,asanconsequenceofallthe disrespectaroundtheworld.Respecthasdifferentopinions,gonethroughhistory,andhelpshape famousquotes.Thesedays,numerousindividualshavedifferentimplicationsforthewordrespect, howeverthereisonlyonegenuinemeaning.Thedefinitionfortherespectisasperthefollowing,a feelingofdeepadmirationforsomeoneorsomethingelicitedbytheirabilities,qualities,or achievements.Apperception,esteem,consideration,dignity,recognition,andhonorarejusta minorityofthesynonyms.Soofcourse,criticism,dishonor,disrespect,neglect,disregard,and ignorancearejustaminorityoftheantonymsIndeed,evenacrosstheworld,therearedifferent definitionforthewordrespect.Eventhroughouttimethiswordhaschangednumeroustimes.This wordhasendlessimplicationsaroundtheworldandallthroughouttime.Forinstance,anelderly personmightfinditrespectfulforanotherpersontohelpthemcrossthestreetwhileontheother handtheymightconsideritasignofweakness.Anexampleofhowthewordrespectchanges aroundtheworld,likeinsomeareasof

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DefinitionEssayOnSelfRespect

Respectcanbedefinedasanactionorafeelingthatisshowntoothers,oneselforsomething.Some maythatyoucangetafeelingoutofanyvirtue,forexampleangerordisrespect,butrespectis usuallyconnectedbetweentwoindividuals;anactionofshowinghowmuchlove,prideandhonor youhaveforthemandhavingyourwordsandactionsspeakforyouindicatingthatrespectisbeing shownThereisachainreactionwhenitcomestoexpressingrespect,youmustgiverespecttogain respectanditcangotheotherwayaroundalso,whereinordertoreceiverespectyoumustgive respect.Whenitcomestothevirtuerespectitisagiveandtaketypeofsituation.AsFyodor Dostoyevsky,Russiannovelistandshort–storywriter,oncesaid,"Ifyouwanttoberespectedby others,thegreatthingistorespectyourself.Onlybyself–respectyouwillcompelotherstorespect you."Havingself–respecthasalottodowithone'sself–esteem,knowingtheirownworthand confidenceplaysanimportantrole.Havinganopenmindtobeingwrongisagatewaytoself–respect,itshowsacknowledgmentandacceptanceofthetruthorexistenceofafactoropinion.It showsthatapersonknowstheirrightsfromwrongsandhavingself–respectopensnewdoorsof opportunities,thismeansthatapersoniswillingtounderstandtheirmistakesandlearnfromthem; learnfromthosemistakes,wrongsandanythingthatcanbefoundtonotbeingworthyofputtingit outthereintheworldandpublic

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TheImportanceOfRespect

Whatisrespect?Isthewaypeopleshouldbetreated,howyouwouldwanttobetreated,andshould itcomenaturallyorshoulditbetaught?Respectiswhatareworldisbuilton,Ifeelthatthephrases like"reapwhatyousow"explainwhatrespectworkslike.ForexampletowhenIamrudeto someonetheytendtoberudeback,thesameworkswithrespect.Whenbeingdisrespectfulto someoneyoumostlikelywilldisrespectyourightbackNoteveryonefollowsthesethoughtsof respect.Actionslikethesecanleadtodangerousplaces,peoplebegintobreakboundariesthatwere oncebuiltonrespect.Inothercasesrespectisearned,andnotgiven.WhatImeanbythisisthat, sometimespeoplemustgaintherespectofothersThiscanbeearnedinmanyways,likebeing respectfulofothers,beingthebestyoucanbe,anddoingkindthingsforothers.Thisrespectcan causepeopletolookupandfollowinexampleofsomeone,andeventuallymakingyouanexample forotherstofollowandlookupto,onsoonandsoforth.Respectcanalsobelostveryeasily,doing thingsthatcandiscouragepeoplewholookuptoyouasanexample.Losingthisrespectcouldmake youuntrustworthyandcausepeopletobecomeunfaithfulinyouThiscouldalsomakeyouabad example,peoplerespectingyouforthewrongreasons.Wronginterpretationsofofpeoplewho respectyourbadexamplescancausepeopletodothingstheythinkisgoodthingtodo.Idomybest torespectothers,even

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Oneofthekeystobuildingortearingdownegoisrespect.Thecommunicationofrespectorthe failuretocommunicaterespectcangreatlyaffectselfesteem.Oftentimesitcantakealifetimeof investmenttocommunicatelove,respect,andadmiration.Selfdoubtandpoorself–esteemcanoften erodetheeffortsofafriendormentortoencourageandsupport.Oftentimes,though,buildingand destroyingself–esteemcantakeplaceinaveryshorttimeTheegobusterandtheegoboosterinmy lifeareoneinthesameperson.Evenmore,thebustingandboostingtookplaceinthesame conversation.

Ihadacloserelationshipwithateacherinhighschool.Throughoutmyyearsthere,thisteacher encouragedmetoworkhardacademically.Heshowmorecontent Iresponded,"Iliketake–homeexams."Inretrospect,IwishIhadgiventheanswermorethough. Theteacherhadjustsaidhowvaluablemyopinionwasinfrontoftheentireclass,andIcouldonly mustthisbriefphraseInmydefense,hedidcatchmeoffguard

Irememberhisresponseequallywell.Withoutasingleword,hesaid,"Hmpf."Itwasobviousthat myanswerhadnotbeenneitherasinsightfulnotasinformativeashehadhoped.Inthatoneexhale ofair,heexpressedhisfrustration,annoyance,anddisappointmentwithmyunreasonedandlack–lusterresponse

Inthespaceofafewseconds,theegoboosterbecametheegobuster,andIleftfeelingquitesmall, regrettingmypitifulresponse

Sincethattime,Ihavethoughtbackonthatmomentmanytimes.IhavewishedthatIhadsaid somethingdifferent.IhavewishedthatI'dthoughtalittlebitmoreaboutthequestion.Icouldhave expoundeduponthebenefitsofatake–homeexam.Icouldhaveexplainedhowtake–homeexams allowmoretimefordetailedresearchandthoroughresponse,whilein–classexamsareoftenrushed andfilledwithpressure.Icouldhavearguedthatin–classexamsarelessaboutmeasuring knowledgeandmoreanexerciseinmemorization.Ihaverunthroughthedetailsmanytimes.

PerhapsitsayssomethingaboutmethatIcouldbesogreatly

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Mostpeoplegothroughlifeandalwayshearaboutthewordrespect,buttheydon'tknowwhatit means.Respectistheesteemfororasenseoftheworthorexcellenceofaperson.Therearethings inlifeyouneedtoholdinrespect.Respectforyourself,respectforothers,andrespectforproperty. Respectistaughttopeopleeverywhereanditiseventaughttothemintheirreligions.Respectisthe veryaspectthatkeepseverythinginyourlifeRespectforyourselfisveryimportanttoaperson becauseitcanbethebalancingfactorofyourlife.Ifapersonhasnorespectforthemselvesthewill mostlikelygointodepression.Respectingyourselfisalsoimportantforyourself–esteem.Havinga highself–esteemmeansthatpeopleshowmorecontent Respectingyoureldersisimportantbecausetheyknowmorethanyouandtheyknowwhatisgood foryouandwhatisn't.Respectingyourpeersisimportanttoo.Respectingyourpeersmeansnot makingfunofthem,notfighting,andhelpingthemwhentheyaretroubledbysomething.Lastly respectingpropertymeansnotdamagingortakingsomethingthatisnotyours.Respectingproperty canvaryfromwritingonadeskatschooltostealingfromastoreRespectingpropertyisimportant becauseifyoudon'titcouldbeconsideredafelonyoffense.Butrespectingpropertyisjustusing yourcommonsense.ThereisaJapaneseculturethatteachesustorespecttheenvironmentbecause theybelievethattheearthisholy,suchasthetrees,grass,andanimals.Youmaybeaskingyourself "whatdoesthishavetodowithrespectingproperty?"Butrespectingpropertydoesnotjustmean thatyoushouldn'tdamagethingsthatarenotyoursbutitalsomeanstakingcareofyourenviorment Thereisanoldsaying"doontoothersasyouwouldhavethemdoontoyou."Howwouldyoufeelif someonecamealongandbrokeyourbicycle,ortrampledonyourflowers?Mostpeopledon'tthink abouthowtheotherpersonwouldfeelifsomeonedidsomethingtotheirpersonalpropertyThereis aJapaneseculturethatteachesustorespecttheenvironmentbecausetheybelievethattheearthis holy,

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Culturecanshapeusasindividualsinmanydifferentways.Thingssuchasgenderandraceplaya bigpartonshapingusasindividuals.Cultureshapeshowweaspeopleviewworld.Webster's dictionarydefinescultureas"Theintegratedpatternofhumanknowledge,beliefandbehaviorthat dependsuponman'scapacityforlearningandtransmittingknowledgetosucceedinggenerations.It isalsothecustomarybeliefs,socialformsandmaterialtraitsofaracial,religiousorsocialgroup" (Webster)Studiesshowthatpeoplethatareofdifferentculturesperceiveandseethingsmuch differently,thisismostlikelybecauseofhowtheircultureshapedhowtheyviewandactwiththe world.Ibelievethatalotofpeoplesometimesoverlookhow...showmorecontent...

InonestudyUSstudentsfromtheUSandJapanesestudentsfromJapanwereaskedtodescribean animatedunderwaterscenewhereonelargefishisswimmingamongstaschoolofsmallerfish.The Americanstudentshadatendencytoonlyreportthelargefishandignoreallothersmallobjectsand detail.MeanwhiletheJapanesestudentshadtendedtodescribeallofthedetailsofthebackground environmentandtherelationshipsbetweenanimateandinanimateobjects.Thisstudyshowsthatthe visualfocusesofthetwodifferentculturescanandareverydifferentAnotherstudywasdonewith ChinesestudentsinsteadofJapanesestudents.Thestudentsweregivenallsortsofsituationsto resolveThisstudyfoundthattheChinesestudentswere"lesseager"toresolveanycontradictionsin aplethoraofsituations,howevertheAmericanstudentswerequicktocomeupwithideasfora solutionforallthesituationsthatwerepresented,andeverybodyagreedonthemtoresolvea conflictAnotherstudywheretheindividualcontributorsweregivenatopicwithstrongarguments insupportofanideaandweakerargumentsopposingit,theAsianstudentshadatendencytofavor theweakeropposingargumentbydecreasingtheirsupport,whileAmericanstudentsactually increasedtheireffortsoftheprojecttosupportthestrongargument.Therehavebeentonsmore studieswhichlookatthedifferentviewsofmanydifferentcultures,includingclassification

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Aschildrenwearetaughttoalwaysshowrespecttothosearoundus.Wearetaughttoneversayno toanadult,tolistenandtousemannerstoeveryonearoundus.Butaswegrowolderwedevelopa senseofrebelliousness,andanurgetoquestioneverysinglemoralandvaluewehavelearned.

Sotheburningquestionarises:Shouldrespectbegiventoeveryonenomatterwhat,orisit somethingthatneedstobeearned?IbelievethatrespectisagivenLikeanaturalright,itisborn withit,anditisyourchoicewhetheryoucangainmoreorloseit.Peoplearoundtheworldhave beenfightingallaroundtheworldforequality.Isn'tthatthesameasrespect?Wehavebeenfighting forrespectthiswholetime,sowhyshouldwesuddenlydiscriminateeveryorganismonthisplanet Everyonehasasideofinsecurityandifwekeepmakingpeoplefeelashamedofthat,therewouldbe norespect.Respectiswhatseparatesmefromyou,himfromher.Butshouldn'teveryonegetrespect nomatterthecase?FromCEOstoretailworkers?

AccordingtoThePositivitySolution,anorganizationdedicatedtospreadpositivity,dignity,and kindness,"Rudenessisoftenaby–productofalackofrespectNottosoundlikeCaptainObvious here,butmostpeopledon'tchoosetoberudeanddisrespectfultopeoplewhotheyrespect,do they?".Whattheyaretryingtoconveyisthatpeopleoftendon'tgiveeveryonetherespectthey deserve.Whenwedonotgivepeoplerespect,weloserespectforourselvesandbecomerudein otherpeople'seyes.Aswelearntorealizethateveryonedeservesrespect,wecanseethateventhe mostsmallthingscanearnourattentionIfyouareconsciouslydecidingtogivepeoplerespector not,thatisamistake.Whydopeopleneedyouracceptancetobetreatedequally?Theydonot.And ifyouaremakingachoicebasedonshallowjudgment,youaredestroyingtheloveandkindness thatothershaveshowntoyouTobecriticallikethatisunacceptableandwronguniversally "Aperson'saperson,nomatterhowsmall"saidDr.Suess,anawardwinningchildren'sbooks writer.Everyonewantstobeaccepted,somepeopleatallcosts.Butwouldweliketoseethese peoplestruggletoworktherewayupand

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Reflectiveessay:Dignityandrespect10053603IntroductionThePurposeofthisessayistoreflect uponanexperiencewhichrelatestothechosentopicofdignityandrespect,thiswashighlightedin myself–assessment(pleaseseeappendix)Acknowledgingapersons'dignitycancontributetotheir senseofgoodhealth,well–beingandindependence.Dignityisanessentialelementofhighquality careandinvolvesaspectssuchasrespect,privacy,autonomyandself–worth(TheWelshAssembly, 2007)IhavedecidedtousetheGibbs(1998)Reflectivecycleforthisessay,thisframeworkguides youthroughacycleofquestionsinordertoprovideguidanceandstructurewhenreflectingonan eventorsituationTheGibbscycleshowmorecontent

EvaluationAgoodpointthatarosefromthesituationwasthatMrsClarkedidnotinjureherselfand thatherseverereducedmobilitywasnowrecognisedandrespectedduetothisincident.MrsClarke seemedtorecoverquicklyfromtheincident.Althoughshewasinitiallydistressedthiswasshort lived.Therewereseveralbadpointsthatshouldbeacknowledged.Firstly,Ithinkitwouldhave beenbeneficialifasecondopinionfromaqualifiedmemberofstaffwassought,thispossiblywould havepreventedthesituationfromoccurring.Secondly,MrsClarkes'wisheswerenotrespected,she wasinaveryvulnerablepositionandthisIfeltcontributedtoherbeingpersuadedtomobilise againstherwillandbetterjudgement.MrsClarkealsoendedupinaveryawkwardandexposed positiononthefloorandthewayinwhichshewasmanuallyhandledmeantherdignityhadbeen considerablycompromisedFinally,MrsClarkewasmanuallyliftedbackontothebedwhichagain potentiallyputherandthestaffinvolvedatfurtherriskofinjury.Inadditiontothis,tomy knowledgetheincidentwasnotreported.AnalysisAlthoughithadbeenmentionedinhandoverthat MrsClarkewasconfusedbothCatherineandIwereunawareofthereasonforthisTherearemany causesforconfusioninolderpeopleincluding,certainmedications,environmentalchange,illnesses anddiseases.Confusion

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InRetrospectAboutRespectRespectisearned,notgiven.Somepeopleearntheirrespectandfully deserveit,likethebosswhoworkedtheirwayupthecompanyladder,orabravegeneralwho foughttogaintheirmedalsofhonor,eventhehardworking,dedicatedteacherwhoworksovertime hasearnedtherespectfromtheirstudentsandpeers.Alloftheseexamples,areofpeoplewhohave workedlongandhardtomakeittowheretheyare,whetherit'sworkingupthestartingatthebottom andworkingtheirwaytothetoporsolidifyingtheirreputationasanintelligent,honorableperson, theyallearnedtherespecttheyweregiven.Althoughthisisnottheonlywaytogainhonorable respectitisoneofthemorecommonwaysandwhenpeoplegainthistypeofrespect,itisrewarding forthem.Fullyallowingthemtoberecognizedandappreciatedforalltheirhardwork.Goodpeople shouldberespectedandrewarded,especiallywhentheyaremutuallyrespectfulnomatterthe circumstances.Whilesometypesofrespectisgiventoadeservingperson,therearecircumstances whenpeoplearegivenrespectbecauseofhowtheyenforcethesituationstheyarein.Thistypeof "respect"ismoreofapoweroversomeoneoranabuseofthepositiontheyhavebeenputinA teacherisgiventherespectoftheirpupils,butsomeusethattopunishorhumiliatestudentsthey don'tparticularlylike.Someparentsusethistypeofrespecttotheiradvantage:punishingchildren forthingsthat

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WhenIwasalittlekid,about8to9yearsofage,Iusuallybelievedonanythingapersonsaid. Specificallythetimewhenoneofmyclassmatessaid"I'llgivebackyourpencilattheendofclass." That'swheretrustcomesin:asubstantialbeliefinone'sloyalty,truth,orability.Infact,henever gaveitbackwhichsaddensmebecausethepencilhekeptwasactuallymyfavoriteone.It's understandablethatapencilischeapandeasilyreplaceable,butthatdoesn'tgiveanyonetherightto keepitwithouttheowner'sconsent.Frommyperspective,trustislikeavase,anicewell–decorated artifact,thatishighlyfragileandeasytobreak.Onceitisdestroyeditcanbefixed,maybebyusing tapeorsuperglue,butthevasewillnevershowmorecontent

Becourteous:that'swhatrespectis.Respectisalsowhatbringspeopletogether,likearelationship orafriendshipofsomesort.Ifnotuseditcanalsotearpeopleapart.Thereisanotherformofrespect too,andthatisrespectforone'sproperty.Everheardoftheterm"vandalism"?Thattermmeans: actioninvolvingdestructionofordamagetoprivateorpublicproperty.Thisincludesanythingfrom writingonadeskatschooltostealingfrom7–ElevenItisaformofdisrespectandcrimeProperty, whetherafriend's,theschool's,orevenastranger's,shouldalwaysberespected.Evenifyousmash abottleontheside–walk.Bethoughtfulandrespectothers,andyou'llgetthatrespectback.Sowhat doesrespecttrulymeantome?Respectformeisaformoflovingandadmiringsomethingor someone.Itmeanssomuchthatitmakesmeopenupmoreaboutmyideasonimproving somethingsinlife,withoutgettingrudelyinterruptedorpersecutedAgainwiththefriendshipthing, itisthereasonwhyIhavethefriendsthatIthinkhighlyoftoday.Becausewehandoutandobtain respectfromoneanother,asaresult,formedtheour

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Disrespect

Ithinkdisrespectisoneofthebiggestissuesintheunitedstatesmilitary.Respectissomething everyonewants,notmanyhave,andfewwanttogive.Unfortunately,respectisnotsomethingthat isgivenallthetime.Maybethisisbecauserespectisnotclearlyunderstood.Whatisrespect?The Webster'sDictionarydefinesitasanactofgivingparticularattentionorhighorspecialregard. Anotherdefinitionshowsrespectasafeelingorattitudeofadmirationanddeferencetoward somebodyorsomething.Anddisrespectisdefinedasthelackofrespect.Thisdoesnotexplain completelywhatitis,butatleastitgivesusanideaaboutwhatitmaybe.Asamatteroffact,there aremanyformsofrespectThereisphysicalrespectshowmorecontent

Civilianjobsaremuchdifferentthanamilitarycareer.AndbeforeIjoinedthearmytwoyearsago, thecivilianworldwaswhatIknewbest.Theywaycivilianstreatortalktotheiremployersis nothinglikethewaysoldierstalktotheirchainofcommand.Byjoiningthearmy,Ihavelearnedso muchaboutrespectanddisciplineandhowimportantitiswithintheworkplace.Notonlydoesit maketheworkplacemoreprofessionalbutalsomoreorganizedSometimesIallowmyselftocreate anenvironmentthatforcesmyNCOtomaintainorderanddisciplineforwhichIshouldbecapable ofdoingmyself.ForwhatIhavefoundoutisthataleaderisonlyasgreatashis/herweakestlink.I personallywanttobethereasonmyNCOshinesbyshowingrespectandcomposureandhelping othersoldierstodothesame,forthatistheonlywaytoaccomplishthemission.Oneoftheeasiest andhardiesthonorstoreceiveisthegoodarmyconductmedal,whichisawardedafterthreeyearsof goodserviceandnowritesups.ThatissomethingIwouldliketoachieveandstriveforinthefuture withbetteractionsonmypart.TodosoIrealizeonethingImustalwaysdoisrespecttherankof myNCOTherearecertainrulesandregulationsthatmustbefollowedwhenrecognizingtheleaders thatarebestoweduponme.Onebeingrespect.Whenyoureadthesoldiershandbookoncustoms and

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Respectforsomeoneisgiven.Myfamily,school,debate,internet(YouTube),allofthemsolidified thisopinionIhave.Treatingpeopleequally,regardlessoftheirage,gender,race,profession,and spiritualityiswhatIvaluethemost.Also,Ifone'srespectisnotpaidback,itisnolongerjustand respectfulanymore.Sorespectismutual.Ialsodonotunderstandpeoplewhosay"Ohyoudonot needtolookuptohim\herthatmuch"EspeciallywhenmyfriendsandIaretalkingto upperclassmenorpeoplearoundourage.Ipersonallythinkrespectcannotbemeasuredordivided. Ittakesallyourheartandsincerity.Itisimpossibletomaintaingenuinenessandrespectfulness foreverIsometimesshowfrustrations,andrespectpeoplehalf–heartedlyIliketoprioritizemy entitlementsovertheresponsibilitiesandtheobligationsthatImustobey.Therefore,Ithinkutopia isunattainable.However,alwaystryingtolowerandlimittheamountofinsincerityandviolencein myheartismylife–longgoal.ThatwasalltheopinionIhadthatrelatestotheconceptofrespecting oneanother.

Now,Debatehastaughtmehowtochallengeothers'opinionsproperlyIthasalsotaughtmehowto getmyopinionschallenged,withouttakingthempersonallyanddrawconclusionsoutofit.Debate clubdevelopedmyyoung,immaturethoughtsandskillstoflourishandbloom. AroundlastLunarNewYear,Ifoundmyselfinajudgmental,carelessconversationwithmyfriends duringatypical

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RespectManypeoplehavedifferentideasaboutwhatrespectmeans.Ithinkitmeanshavingrespect forothers,property,andrespectforyourself.Mostpeoplewantrespectevenifitisjustalittle.The AmericanHeritageDictionarystatesthatrespectis1.Afeelingofappreciative,oftendeferential regard,esteem.2.Thestateofbeingregardedwithhonororesteem.3.Willingnesstoshow considerationorappreciationPeopledemanddifferentamountsofrespect,thoughnoteveryoneis willingtogivetheamountneeded.Maybethisisbecausenoteveryoneknowswhatrespectmeans. Thefirstruleisrespectforothers.Afewofthose"others"areteachers,police,authorityfigures,and businesspeopleRespectshowmorecontent

Thisrespectshouldbeshownoneveryonespropertyincludingfriend's,teachers,andeven strangers.Thelastruleisrespectingyourself.Respectingyourselfcanmeanholdingyourheadup highandrespectingyourownideas.Youcanshareyourideasevenifyoumightnotthingtheyare right.Butitcanleadtomoreimportantthingslikepeerpressure,andnotgivingintoit.Itisabout notlettingitaffectyouinanywayorsortYoucannothaverespectforothersifyoucannotrespect yourself.Therearemanylittlethingsyoucandotoshowrespect.Forexampleyoucancleanyour roomandsetthedishes.Youcanraiseyourhandwhensomeoneelseistalkingwhenyouhavean opinion.Don'tbeafraidtoshareyouropinionsandideas.Theycanbeagoodexampleforsomeone. Beapersonthatanotherpersonwouldwanttolookupto.Youcannotbethispersonwhenyou havealackofrespectYoumaynotnoticeit,butrespectplaysaroleinourdailylivesRespect followsyouwhereveryougo.Whetheritisinschool,yourhome,orinarestaurant.Youmaynot noticeitthatotherpeoplegiveyourespect,butyoudonoticewhentheydon't.Evenforthesimplest reasonsIfyouarenotrespectfulthanyouwillnotberespectedYoucan'tDEMANDrespect,nor makepeoplegiverespectoutoffear.Thescarewillnotwork.Youhavetogetrespectbyearningit. Remainingcalminbadsituationsandbeing

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IhavebeentoldthatIneedtowritea1000wordessayondisrespectingaNonCommissioned Officer.ButitisreallyhardtowriteaboutthisbecauseIamhavingahardtimewonderinghowI disrespectedthem.So,wheredoIstartonthisandwhatdoIsayaboutit.AsfarasthisessaygoesI amjustgoingtowritehowIfeelaboutrespectandhowrespectworksbothways.Itiswrongto disrespectaNonCommissionedOfficerbecausetheyareappointedabovemetoguidemetothe rightplaceandthingstodo.Butitisreallyhardtorespectsomeonewhentheydonotrespectyou. Respectworksbothwaysandifthatpersonorleadershipdoesnotrespectyoutryingtorespectthem isdifficultNomatterwhatissaiditisdisrespectshowmorecontent

IhaveseenwayworsedisrespectthenwhatIhaveeverdonetoanyone.Inmyeyesdisrespectisif youjustplainlysayhellnoorfuckoff.Ihaveneverdonethatandyettheyautomaticallythinkthat ifyouareaskingthemwhyyouaretoldtodosomethingitisdisrespectbutinfactisnotdisrespect itisthatthesoldieristryingtolearnfromthem.IfIremembercorrectlytheNonCommissioned OfficerCreedstates"CompetenceismywatchwordMytwobasicresponsibilitieswillalwaysbe uppermostinmymind–accomplishmentofmymissionandthewelfareofmysoldiers.Iwillstrive toremaintacticallyandtechnicallyproficient.IamawareofmyroleasaNoncommissioned Officer.Iwillfulfillmyresponsibilitiesinherentinthatrole.Allsoldiersareentitledtooutstanding leadership;Iwillprovidethatleadership.IknowmysoldiersandIwillalwaysplacetheirneeds abovemyownIwillcommunicateconsistentlywithmysoldiersandneverleavethemuninformed Iwillbefairandimpartialwhenrecommendingbothrewardsandpunishment."Butitseemsthat onlyafewoftheNonCommissionedOfficersrespectthelowerenlisted.Whyshouldsoldiers' wordsgettwistedandwhyisthatNCO'sarenotrespectingthesoldiersandtheirneedsWeneedto berespectedthatisoneofthemanyneedsofthesoldiersoftoday.Thatiswhyalotofsoldiersact outagainstNonCommissionedOfficers.Oksodisrespectisallonwhatthatperson

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RespectingOthers

Themanyproblemswefacetodayasasocietyseemtobecomemoreandmoreoverwhelming.I believethatrespectforoneotherisabigsocialissuewefacetodayinourgenerationoftomorrow. Weseethisprobleminteens,insomanyplacesForexample,inschoolthereisalackofrespectfor studentsfromotherfellowstudents.Athomethereisalackofrespectfromthechildrenofthis generationtotheirparents.Thereisalsoalackofrespectfromyoungadultstomostauthoritative figuresFirst,themostapparentsignoflackofrespectisintheschoolwithstudentswhodonot respecttheirpeers.Moststudentsfailtorecognizeeachotherasequalsbecauseofdiffering economicstatus,race,and

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Thisiswherethegoldenrulecomesintoplay.Ifthemajorityofstudentsupheldrespectforone anotherbytreatingothersastheywouldliketobetreated,situationslikeColumbinemaycouldhave beenavoidedThenext,mostapparentsignoflackofrespectisinthecommonhouseholdfromthis generation.Thisiswherethewholeproblemofdisrespectbegins,learningtodisrespectorrespect oneanother.Ifajuvenilehasnotbeentaughttorespecthisorherparents,whywouldthatperson evenconsiderrespectinganyoneoutsidearelationshipthatwassupposedtobecloseknit?

Adolescentsmustbetaughtinthehometorespectothers;realizingthateachpersonhasadiffering situationandadifferentoutlookonlife,butbeforethiscanhappentheytoomustberespectedand regardedthemselves.Thebestwayofteachingistoleadbyexample.Maybe,iftaughtyoungto respectothersinsidethehome,themajorityofmostyoungadultscouldavoidalifemiseryand troubleThislifeisbroughtbeforethemviatheirdecisionsinlifeAgoodillustrationofthisiswhen teenagersturntogangstofeelrespect–thewrongkind–fromoneanotherasasubstituteforwhat theyshouldreceiveathome,thusleadingtoalifeofviolenceandcrime.Thisdecisionofchoosing thisparodyoflifeonlyinvitesforotherproblemstobegin,inmorewaysthanone.Ifonepersonout ofthehouseholdcouldsitdownandaskJackandJilliftheyknow

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Youalsocannotjustrespectpeople,youhavetorespecttheirproperty,theirfamily,thethingsthat arespecialtothem,theirgoals,theirlifeplans...youhavetorespectwhattheyrespect.Ifpeople didn'trespecteachotheroranythingwewouldliveinaveryroughsociety.Whenyourespect someoneitmeansyoulikethemasaperson,youbelievethattheyaredecentandworthyourtime. YoubelievethattheywillnotberudetoyouorhatefulandthatyoucantrustthemWhenyou respectapersonandwhenyoufearapersonit'shardtodecipherthetwobecausewhenyoufear someoneyourespectthembecauseyouthinktheywillhurtyouorharmyouinsomeway.When yourespectsomeoneyoufeelcomfortablewiththepersonandyoufeelshowmorecontent IntheTenCommandmentsthefirstoneistohonoryourparents."Itsays:"honoryourmotherand fatherfortheygavebirthtoyouandraisedyou."InMuslimreligion,theAllahasksyoutorespect yourparentstillthedayyoudie.Thisisyourmoralresponsibilitytodoso.InHinduism,thegod asksyoutoalwaysrememberyourmotherandfatherandneverforgettheminyourentirelife. Respectyourparentsforyourreligiondemandsyoutodoso"Youshouldalsorespectyourparents becausetheyareaformofGodandsomereligionsstatethatyoushouldworshipthemandtreat themasiftheyareaformofGodbecauseparentsfulfillthewishesthatyoupraytoGod.Ifyoupray toGodforsomethingyoureallywant(likehomecoming)thenitisuptoyourparentstodecide whetherA)youdeserveitandB)doyouneedit.Youshouldrespectyourparentsbecausetheytry togiveyouasmuchaspossibleandeventhoughsometimestheycan'tgiveyoueverythingyouwant (likethatponyyouhavebeendyingtohavesinceyouweresevenorthatextravaganzaSweet Sixteenthatyouwantbecauseitcosts50,000dollarsbecauseofeverythingyouwant(i.e.sushibar, pettingzoo,jugglingbear,the"bridalparty"ofthegirl,etc

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HowToRespectYouEssay

Respect,atermusedforasenseoftrust.Manypeoplestrivetoearnrespectfromothers.Respectis notalwayseasytoobtain.Justoneactioncandestroyanyrespectthatsomeonehadforanother. Respectisnotgivenitmustbeearned.Respectisanachievement.Earningtherespectofpeopleis somethingtobeproudofbecauseitisnoteasy.Therealdefinitionofrespectis,anachievementnot given,butearnedthroughhardhardworkPeopletodaydonotunderstandthetruedefinitionof respect.Kidstendtothinktheyjustdeservetoberespectedbyeveryone.Ialsohaveatendencyto thinkthatIdeserverespectfromeveryoneandIcangetfrustratedsometimeswhenIamnot respectedSomeadultsalsohavefalseperceptionsofwhatrespectisAdultswillsayyoushould "respectyourelders",yesthisistrue,butsomeadultstakeittoofarandtheymustrealizerespectis atwowaystreet.Respectisnotshowmorecontent

Respectissaidtobeheldbyathinline.Saysomeonebreaksapromiseortalksbehindanother person'sback,justlikethatallrespectforapersoncanbegone.Thatiswhatsomanypeopledonot understandaboutrespectWhatdoesrespectreallymeanThetechnicaldefinitionofrespectisa deepfeelingofadmirationusuallybecauseoftheirabilities,qualities,orachievements.Tome respectismuchmorethanthat.Respectisanachievementinitself.Weshouldbeproudofthe respectwehaveearnedfromothersandcontinuetostriveformore.Itisnotjustadeepadmiration forsomeoneit'sasenseoffulfillmentandachallengetomaintainthatrespectandmakeitgrow. Earningrespectistheonlywaytoobtainitandonceearnedwenowhaveagreaterresponsibility Somepeoplemaynotcareaboutrespect,buttheywillnotgetveryfarwithoutit.Everydaywemust striveforrespectamongstemployers,teachers,family,andfriends.Respectisoneofthegreatest achievementswewillever

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Love,honorandrespectYourselfFirstforhealthy,happylivingAretheresomerelationshipsin yourlifethatjusttakemoreworktomaintainthanyou'reenjoying?Doyoufindyourselfwanting tobecompassionateandbeabletolisteninacaringwaybutit'sjustnotsupportingyouandthe kindoflifeyouwanttohave?Psychotherapistsadvisepatientsthatfosteringexloveandrespectis themostimportantfactorinmaintaininghealthyfamilybondsandforotherpersonalrelationships Thetwistinthislove/respectequationisequationisiftheotherpersonisnotreciprocating?Howis itpossibletogetalongandcreateahealthyrelationshipwhenonepersonrefusesto,orforsome reasoncan't,putshowmorecontent canthinkofhonoringourselvesinmanydifferentways.definesitas"acceptingallpartsof ourselves:"thegoodandbad,theperfectandimperfect,thedisappointmentsandtriumphs." AccordingtosomaticpsychotherapistLisaMcCrohan,MSW,givenourcurrentculture,itmeans livingourlivesaroundwhat'smostsacredorimportanttous–insteadofbasedon"thetimeonthe clock"Forself–acceptanceandself–lovecoachMiriKlementsitmeansbeinghonestwithherself andacknowledgingwhatistrueforher.Itmeanstreatingherselfwithcompassion,understanding, gentleness,acceptanceandlove.Forsomanyofusallofthatishardtodo.Itmayfeelforeign. Unnatural.It'shardtoacceptallourparts.It'shardtoprioritizewhat'simportant.Doweevenknow whatimportantis?It'shardtotreatourselveswithcompassionandevenmoreso,withlove.Partof thisisbecausewesimplyhaven'tbeentaughtandtrainedtohonorourselves,KlementssaidMaybe wegrewupwithparentsorcaregiverswhowerestrugglingwiththeirownwoundsandtraumas,she said.Maybeyouheardalotof:"Don'tbesoselfish.It'snotallaboutyou.Whatiswrongwithyou? GetoveritalreadyThat'sridiculoustofeelthatwayEnoughYoudon'treallyfeelthatway!Stop cryingnow.Can'tyouseeI'mbusy?"McCrohanseesmanypeopleinherpracticewhohold destructive

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Ibelievethatrespectmeansalotofdifferentthingsfordifferentpeople.Formepersonally,respect meanstakingsomeone'sfeelingsintoconsiderationasiftheywereyourownfeelings,andbeing matureenoughtohandlethefeelingsandthoughtsofotherpeople.Whengivingsomeonerespect,it shouldmakethemfeelworthyandvaluedaswellasmakingthemfeelliketheybelong.The behavioronepersonshowstowardanothercanpresenthowmuchthatpersonrespectstheotherand theotherpersonshouldbeabletofeeltherespectthatyouhaveforthem.Peopleactinmanyways thatareconsideredrespectfulandinwaysthatareconsidereddisrespectful.Inmychildhood,Iwas taughttotreatothersthewayyouwouldwouldwanttobetreated,

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Given,EarnedRespectisearnedthroughhardworkanddedication,andshouldbegiventokeep societyrunningsmoothly.However,respectismorethanleavingsomeonealoneornotsaying anythingnegativewhensomeonevoicestheiropinion.Itcanbeconsideredaformofconsideration ofsomeone.Considerationcomesinmanycolorsfordifferentpeople.Forexample,apregnant cancerpatientmustrespectherownlifewhilealsoconsideringthelifeofherunbornchild(Jeannie) Onewouldhavetounderstandandrespecthowdifficultthedecisionwouldbeforsuchaterrible situationandthepregnantpatientwouldknowthesaddeningfateforeitherherorherchild. Understandingsomeoneandtheirlittlejoysinlifecanalsoshowhowapersontrulyisandhowthey areaspeople,whichcanleadtothemearningrespectfromothers(Chuck).Nowadays,wecansee thatsomepeoplehavecompletedisregardforrespectintheirdailylives.Whetheryouarewalking downthestreet,withfriendsatthemall,orsittingatfavoriterestaurant,showmorecontent Weassembledatourfavoriteplaceaskids:mydriveway.Itwasawideandlongdrivewaybig enoughforustorideourbikesaroundwithouthavingtogointhestreetThetreesseemedtosulk andswaylazilywiththewind.Icouldhearthethundercreepinghimbehindthequietcracksof lightning.Hegotoutofhiscarandhewalkedovertome,lookingdownatmyfeet.Ibeganmy apologywithwhatgrandmahadtoldmeandwhyIfeltsodeleterioustowardhislife.Helookedat meandlaughedthenhehuggedme.Hetoldme,"Eveniftheworldblewupinaheartbeat,you wouldbethefirstpersonIlookforinheaven"Hemayhavebeenmycousin,buthewasalsomy brother,andhewasmyfriend.LikeChucksaidinhisadaptationof"ThisIBelieve,"youcannotbe madatsomeonefortheimperfectionstheyhave,youhavetorespecttheirjoysinlifeandwantthem tobe

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