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Family’s size, love, worldview expands through adoption BY SARA MARIE MOORE EDITOR
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North Oaks residents Pat and Randy Benham didn’t plan on adopting a child when they went to hear a presentation on China at the University of Minnesota in 1995. At that time, news on abandoned babies in China due to the country’s one-child policy (replaced in 2016 with a policy allowing two children per couple) was just starting to emerge. Since traditional Chinese culture at that time preferred sons, many baby girls were being abandoned, even though it was also against the law to abandon children. So many children were being abandoned that they were dying in orphanages without enough care. The speaker said American couples could save the children’s lives through adoption. After Pat and Randy heard about the conditions of the baby girls in orphanages, they drove, speechless, to go out to eat.
The Pat and Randy Benham family today, including their six children, three in-laws and seven grandchildren.
100s of children in foster care waiting for families BY SARA MARIE MOORE EDITOR
There are 800 children and youth in Minnesota waiting to be adopted. Minnesota’s Waiting Children, many of them teenagers, are currently in foster care, MN Adopt Foster Care Specialist Kim Young told those who attended a panel event on adoption through foster care March 11. The presentation, entitled “Debunking the Myths,” was held at Ramsey County Library – Shoreview. MN Adopt is an organization that provides resources to families considering adopting
from foster care and after-adoption care, said Kim Sacay, recruitment coordinator. On its website is a list of some of the youth who are looking for families and can be adopted through various agencies. There are several myths that circulate about adopting from foster care, Young said. First, it is not expensive, as some people believe. Traditional infant adoption or international adoption can be expensive, but there are minimal fees involved in adopting from foster care. Many children adopted from foster care are also given a stipend
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from the state for medical and mental health services. Another myth about foster adoption is that you have to be a certain type of family. Single parents and same-sex couples can adopt children from Minnesota’s foster care system. There is also no age requirement beyond being age 21 or older. People also often wrongly believe that all that children need is a loving home and they will be fine, Young said. Families adopting from foster care need to be willing to learn new SEE FOSTER ADOPTION, PAGE 10
It’s no longer true that there is an overwhelming number of abandoned baby girls in China — but there are Chinese children in need of families. “The one-child policy went away a few years ago,” said North Oaks resident Heather Young, who adopted a girl from China with her husband Bryan a year and a half ago. “It’s not true the orphanages are full of little girls.” Actually, it is a slower process to adopt a girl SUBMITTED
Heather and Bryan Young adopted from China in 2017.
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