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everal years ago, when former Bristol state Sen. Steve Casey commented about the difficulty associated with his heart transplant, I was struck by his candor and courage when he said, “when life gives you lemons you make lemonade.” That type of Casey courage is what we need in today’s coronavirus crisis.

While I understand Daniel O. the reason for many Tully people’s concerns with the pandemic, it is extremely important to move forward with your life. In the very near future, you may be, and possibly should be, homebound for a short period of time.

With today’s modern technology, you can still move forward with any of your legal, health and financial planning.

The advent of computers, the internet, FedEx, Skype, FaceTime and video conferencing allows us to move forward even when you are following “social distancing” guidelines.

Like many law, accounting and financial planning firms, our office has been planning for this outbreak. I am mindful of the fear and anxiety that many have seeing our daily habits and life changing and having to modify.

We are all worried about the impact of the coronavirus (COVID-19) and the danger it poses to our community, locally and globally. By way of example, here is what our office is doing to ensure the health and safety of our clients and team members.

If permitted, we will still continue to have face-to-face meetings in our office.

Our office is taking all the prescribed precautions, including following the six-foot rule, frequent hand washing,

wiping down and disinfecting all surfaces, and using hand sanitizer.

If our clients are unable to travel to our office during this time, or simply feel safer staying home, we understand. We are still able to serve them and move their planning forward.

Alternatives include scheduling a phone conference and video conferencing.

In certain cases, we still make house calls. When circumstances require that documents be signed and there’s no other way for clients to see us, an attorney will visit their home.

We strongly recommend having your important documents in place, such as power of attorney, living will and health care representative. A power of attorney allows you to appoint another person – your “attorney-in-fact” – to step in and manage your financial affairs if and when you ever become incapacitated. If you become inca-

pacitated, who will make your medical decisions? A health care representative allows you to act as your agent for medical decisions. It will ensure that your medical treatment instructions are carried out, and it is especially important to have a health care representative in these trying times.

If you are homebound because of the pandemic, it is extremely important that someone is able to make legal, financial and healthcare decisions for you. If you do not have these documents, they can still be completed now without you ever leaving the safety of your home.

Daniel O. Tully is a partner in the law firm of Kilbourne & Tully, P.C., members of the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys Inc., with offices at 120 Laurel St., Bristol. Contact him at 860-5831341.

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ne might assume that older adults represent the majority of cancer patients, and they’d be right. It may come as a surprise, however, that treatment research efforts are largely focused on younger folks.

Until now, that is, as health leaders begin conducting geriatric assessments of older patients and creating individualized treatment plans, evolving what it means to age with cancer.

“The idea of geriatric oncology is to go beyond the age number and really assess the individual we’re dealing with,” explained Dr. Rawad Elias, a geriatric oncologist at the forefront of this new landscape.

The Hartford HealthCare Cancer Institute launched its Geriatric Oncology Program in early 2019, under Elias’ direction. Since then, the program has expanded from the Helen & Harry Gray Cancer Center in Hartford where he is based, to the Hospital of Central Connecticut’s Cancer Center, Bradley Memorial Hospital and beyond.

“It’s developing and the roots are continuing to spread,” Elias said.

“I’m not sure there is another healthcare system that has this wide, integrative approach. We’re very excited about it.”

Conditions that are common with aging can complicate treatment methods and prognosis for cancer patients. That’s one of the reasons why existing research relies mainly on younger, fitter patients, who tend to volunteer for — and respond better to — clinical trials. Those over 65 who do participate in trials are among the healthiest in their age bracket and likely to have far different outcomes than people with chronic medical conditions and weakened abilities.

Elias and his staff are now standardizing the use of geriatric assessments, which evaluate health, lifestyle and other factors following cancer diagnoses. The results indicate potential treatment-related complications, estimate survival and guide care interventions to improve outcomes.

“It’s meant to provide patients with information about their overall health and how they might tolerate cancer treatment,” Elias said of the assessment. “We discuss taking a curative approach or possibly a more palliative approach.”

Some might choose an aggressive chemotherapy routine in hopes they can kill the cancer and live as long as possible. Others might prioritize quality of life and independence, opting for a gentler treatment

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Dr. Brian Byrne M.D. at the Hartford HealthCare Cancer Institute at The Hospital of Central Connecticut located at their 183 North Mountain Road in New Britain.

“We want to focus on survival and quality of life,” Byrne said. “We are working to make this a one-stop building for cancer care.”

Under the new model, patients ages 80 and older automatically qualify for a geriatric assessment, and those 70-plus undergo a pre-screening to determine their need for one. The assessment evaluates independence, (ability to drive, bathe and cook for oneself), full medical history, lifestyle and more. Fitness ability and organ function are tested, and a special tool estimates how well a patient will tolerate stronger therapies like chemotherapy.

“Sometimes patients have a preconception about what chemotherapy is, and in 2020, those notions are just

not true,” Elias pointed out. “They shouldn’t be in the bathroom vomiting, for example. If that happens, we can deal with it.”

Chemo is not the only option any more, either. New therapies are emerging and improving outcomes.

“As we move toward targeted immunotherapy it’s an opportunity for elderly patients to get more involved in clinical trials,” Byrne said.

“It can be well-tolerated by patients in their 90s.”

His oldest cancer patient was 97.

Elias recently treated an 87-yearold man with pancreatic cancer. He underwent several different therapies along with surgery and has recovered well.

This new initiative is leading to

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The program is making a difference for patients both medically and emotionally,” Elias said. “We’re looking forward to expanding.”

While Hartford Healthcare’s program is still in its infancy, the doctors are already spreading the methodology to other clinicians. This past fall, they presented at a symposium in the Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in New York, to raise awareness on tailoring treatment and support to older patients based on individual needs.

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method. Medications they’re taking and choices they’re making are all reevaluated with the team of treatment specialists to fit their personal wish.

“Whatever their choice, we can find ways to help them,” Elias said. “I tell my patients, I’m your cab driver.

You tell me where to go, and I’ll make sure your ride goes as smoothly as possible.”

Geriatric oncologist and hematologist Dr. Brian Byrne began implementing the program model at the Cancer Institute of Central Connecticut on the New Britain/ Plainville line several months ago. His team, including a social worker, an APRN, financial counselor, a dedicated pharmacist and others, have all been trained in geriatrics.

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Thankfully, effective treatments exist for this condition. The gold standard is CPAP (continuous positive airway pressure).

This is a machine connected to tubing connected to the mask that goes over your face or just over the nose. The idea is to pop the airway open through a light pressure by blowing air into it so that you can breathe in and out without a problem. This allows your sleep to be consolidated, and your body to be getting its usual oxygen during sleep.

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It is important that to follow up with a sleep specialist to ensure that CPAP has been given a fair chance and if these may be the right options for you.

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ach year the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics celebrates National Nutrition Month by choosing a theme to increase public awareness of the benefits of making informed food choices and developing sound eating and physical activity patterns. This year’s theme was “Eat Right, Bite by Bite.”

Nutritional and lifestyle changes do not need to be restrictive or overwhelming.

If you are trying to improve your diet, you don’t have to Rachel Driscoll change everything all at once. Meeting small goals and focusing on nutrition “bite by bite” can have a cumulative positive effect on our health and wellbeing.

Taking the time to plan meals is a small change that can have a big impact on your health. Oftentimes unhealthy foods are chosen because of convenience. By planning and preparing meals healthy meals and snacks ahead of time and having them readily available, we may be more apt to make better food choices.

Preparing meals at home also provides you with more control over what is going into your dishes and has been linked to improved diet quality and greater food variety. The benefits of meal planning go far beyond the scale. It can also help you save money, decrease food waste and reduce week-night stress.

A good diet must include a balance of several food groups, as no single group can provide everything we need for good health. Make it a goal to eat more nutrient rich foods and less processed foods that may be high in sugar, fat and sodium.

When you are planning your meals, try to make half of your plate fruits and vegetables, and then fill the remainder with whole grains and lean proteins. Be aware of your portion sizes- even low-calorie foods can add up when portions are larger than you need!

Stay hydrated throughout the day with water, whether it is plain, flavored or carbonated. The hydration needs for most adults is six to eight glasses of water per day, though those who are active may require more. If you prefer soda or sweetened beverages, set a small goal of swapping out one of these drinks for water every day.

With spring approaching, take the opportunity to get outside and incorporate physical activity into your routine through a form of exercise that you enjoy. If you have been sedentary for years and are just beginning to get active, start by setting a reachable goal like walking for 5 or 10 minutes. Any amount of movement is better than none!

Rachel Driscoll, MS, RD, CD-N, is an outpatient dietitian with Bristol Health. You can contact the Bristol Hospital Outpatient Nutrition office at 860-940-6741 for more information about how to make an appointment.

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Liz Cornish (right) talks with Josephine Mills at Shady Oaks in Bristol.

Here to help Senior Care Consultant Liz Cornish helps people transition into their golden years

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or those considering the next phase of living for themselves or a loved one, matching their needs and wants with the ideal senior living community is a daunting task.

Senior Care Consultant Liz Cornish has 30 years experience working in communities across Connecticut as a physical therapist. Her network of connections includes just about every senior living community around, as well as attorneys, contractors, homecare and health providers.

Story by Erica Drzewiecki | Photos by Mike Orazzi Years back she decided to start her own business, “New Season in Life” to help people make a smooth transition into their golden years.

“The world of healthcare, assisted living and memory care is confusing to navigate,” Cornish said. “We sit down with you to talk about your needs and wants so we can narrow down the places that might be the right fit and choose which ones we want to tour together.”

She also conducts home safety

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evaluations and makes recommendations to those still able to stay in their own home.

Families who begin this journey on their own know how frustrating each of the steps can be.

Request more information online, for example, and marketers or potential scammers will call you nonstop.

Cornish fields marketing calls for families and helps them answer the big questions, like, How do I find the right place for my spouse and myself? Is it time to have that

conversation with mom and dad?

How are we going to pay for all this?

Brother and sister Richard and Susan Hill met her at the Bristol Public Library, at a seminar on this very topic.

“My mother is 92 and living at Village Gate in Farmington,” Susan said. “It’s independent living, and she’s in the early stages of dementia. We’re not sure how much longer we will be able to keep here there.”

Their father was a veteran; now

deceased. As the siblings learned, their mom can earn benefits from his service. In Connecticut, the Virginia pays vets $1,881 per month for assisted living and pays surviving spouses $1,210.

“If you’re looking at memory care you need to be aware of what services places will provide as the disease progresses,” Cornish told them.

Assisted living consists of apartment-style living, meals, medication management, bathing, dressing and transportation, as well as social activities and outings. Assisted living with memory care is for people with Alzheimer’s or another type of dementia. It is secure, and staff are specially trained. In the case that only one spouse needs memory care, there are often separate wings for independent or assisted living.

Residential care homes and skilled nursing facilities are the only type of assisted living in Connecticut covered by Title 19, or Medicaid. These provide 24-hour care for more complex medical needs.

Continuum Care sites offer all of the above options in one complex, allowing people to transition from independent or assisted living into skilled nursing or memory care. The higher-price provides peace of mind they won’t have to move again as their needs change.

“One-hundred percent of seniors I meet don’t want to burden their kids, and that’s their biggest concern,” Cornish pointed out.

“If you’re a child or spouse, proceed with care and gentleness.

Sometimes, no matter how much you know about something, they won’t listen, simply because you’re their child or spouse. You have to bring in an outside professional for them to realize the right direction they should go in.”

Senior communities range in price from a few thousand dollars a month to tens of thousands. Some people buy long-term care insurance in preparation, and others pay for it by renting out their home while settling into a new community.

“Be aware of what you enjoy doing and what the community will provide,” Cornish tells people. “The personality and culture of the community is a really important consideration.”

Some have a very active atmosphere, and some are more reserved.

Some charge “a-la-carte” to administer showers or medication, while others consider these services included. One home might have three or four different restaurants and bars, while another has one dining room. Some have theater and book clubs, take frequent bus trips to fun destinations and have a big party every holiday.

Others take a more basic approach.

The right choice is yours and yours only.

Just recently, Cornish helped 97-year-old Josephine Mills find her new home at Shady Oaks in Bristol.

“Her family wanted somewhere close to them with a homey feel,” she explained. “Excellent care and with people who really care about her.”

“I love it,” Mills said. “They’re very nice here.”

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The 5th Annual Connecticut Prime Time Senior Fair last year at Bristol Eastern High School.

Senior Fair postponed F

or the past five years, Central Connecticut Communications and CT Prime Time have presented local seniors and their families with a yearly event celebrating the golden era of life.

Typically held in the springtime, the annual Prime Time Senior Fair brings together resources, local professionals and resources for older adults.

Thousands have attended and left with free giveaways, valuable information and maybe even a new friend or two.

The sixth annual event was originally set for Saturday, April 4, at Bristol Eastern High School, but due to the coronavirus outbreak, it had to be postponed. Organizers are hoping to reschedule the fair to a

Story by Erica Drzewiecki | Photo by Mike Orazzi later date, when this health crisis has ended.

“Our hope is that we will be able to do this in the fall,” Central Connecticut Communications president and publisher Michael Schroeder said. “Our first priority is the safety and health of our readers in the senior community.”

Past years’ fairs have included dozens of experts in elder law, housing, health and wellness, recreation, leisure, travel and financial insight.

A return participant every year is Anna Schumler, nursing liaison at Athena Healthcare, which operates 22 nursing, rehabilitation and assisted living facilities throughout the state, including Sheriden Woods and Countryside Manor in Bristol.

“The Prime Time Fair has been a great opportunity for us to pres-

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‘Our hope is that we will be able to do this in the fall.’

MICHAEL SCHROEDER Central CT Communications President and Publisher

ent the services we provide and to inform the community of our continuum of care,” Schumler explained.

“It gives us a chance to talk to seniors and their adult children to get a current picture of what they’re looking for in health care. It also a nice time to network with our colleagues and fellow senior providers from the community.”

The novel coronavirus, also known as COVID-19, is a respiratory illness that originated in China and has since been categorized as a pandemic by the World Health Organization. Health officials have identified older adults and those

with chronic health conditions as particularly vulnerable to the illness and among the least likely to recover.

As the leading monthly magazine for people over 55 in Central Connecticut, Prime Time is taking steps to ensure the safety of its readers, also providing up-to-date information in The Bristol Press, the New Britain Herald and the Newington Town Crier.

Schroeder asked people to stay tuned as a new date is finalized for the 2020 Prime Time Senior Fair.

“When we reschedule,” he said, “it will be safe, healthy and bigger than ever.”

Improve soil quality for a better lawn A lush, green lawn can vastly improve a home’s curb appeal. Thick, healthy grass indicates that homeowners care enough about their properties to invest the time, effort and money to make them beautiful.

According to the landscaping tool company Troy-Bilt, soil fertility is the foundation of healthy lawns. In fact, the quality of the soil is essential whether one is growing acres of grass, potted plants or vegetable garden beds. No matter which type of soil a homeowner is working with, there are various ways to make it better.

Remove thatch Thatch is a tightly knotted layer of leaves, grass roots, stems, and other debris that accumulates between the grass blades and the soil.

Too much thatch can hinder the movement of water, air and nutrients into the soil.

According to organic fertilizer company Organo-Lawn, thatch often occurs if the production of dead organic material in the lawn exceeds the ability of the microor-

ganisms in the soil to break down that organic matter. A half-inch of thatch is normal. If thatch gets too thick, it will need to be removed.

The home improvement resource DIY Network says dethatching can take place in the summer, fall and winter using a thatching rake.

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Aerate

A lawn aerator will create holes in the soil. This can improve drainage and encourage worms and helpful microorganisms that require oxygen to thrive in the soil. The Briggs & Stratton Company says the best time to aerate a lawn is during the growing season when the grass can heal and fill in any holes, such as spring and fall. Aeration can help develop deeper grass roots for a healthier lawn.

Test and amend soil

A great lawn has loamy soil, which has a key ratio of clay, silt and sand. Silt is a granular material of a size between sand and clay that originates from quartz and feldspar. It is the most fertile

of the three types of soil components. Sand does not retain water, but it helps to create spaces in the soil that permit air to circulate. Clay particles are small and bind together tightly, but clay is naturally nutrient-rich. The home improvement site BobVila.com says loamy soil should have equal parts sand and silt and half as much

clay.

If the lawn is not yet established, loamy soil can be created and then the grass seeds planted. For established soil, after removing thatch and aerating, topdressing the lawn can help.

This involves adding a thin layer of soil over the lawn. It can improve the soil without killing the existing turf.

Ideally, it should be done in early fall or spring, as this gives the grass time to grow through three to four more mowings before severe heat or cold sets in.

Healthy soil is vital to a lush lawn. It takes a little work, but improving soil can create vibrant, healthy, green grass.

— Metro News Service

love and kindness are also contagious Continued from Page A5

We are awakening to the reality that the only way we will get through this is if we work together and look out for each other.

There is no question that this is a very trying

time. People are scared and suffering. Each day we have to navigate unfamiliar territory. But out of great trials come great heroes, large and small.

We are all of us grateful for the many heroes from all walks of life

who are stepping up to play a small part in making these days brighter for the rest of us. Whether that’s offering to run errands for an elderly neighbor or making a donation to a local food bank or sharing

your art, every small gesture generates waves of positive vibes that ripple out to others.

The coronavirus may be contagious, but so are love and kindness.

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Perri is an estate planning, elder care, special needs, litigation and probate law f irm with f ive off ices in the state, including Berlin and Simsbury.

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