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AVE you seen the Penguins of John Lewis?

Or the chocolate Phil Creighton bar of Sainsbury’s?

The big Christmas adverts have made quite an impact over the past few weeks and for good reason – Christmas is big.

It takes a lot of preparation, making sure you’ve got all the right presents, sent all the cards, attended the right school nativities and sung all the right carols. And I’ve not even mentioned the Christmas dinner yet.

How would you feel if your Christmas Day dinner was not for five, but 50?

That’s exactly what some brave people are doing to ensure that no one need be on their own this Christmas.

You can read all about these great initiatives in our packed Christmas issue.

We’ve been preparing for this issue since June to ensure it’s just right, so we hope you enjoy it.

It’s also a little different. We’ve put Christmas events at the front and the news at the back. We’ll be back to normal next month … when we’ll also be celebrating our third birthday.

Doesn’t time fly? Then again, we’re already starting to plan for next Christmas.

Next month’s issue will be out for Sunday, January 11 and will be for two months. Our deadline for submissions is a week early, Friday, December 19.

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Roll-up! Roll-up! It’s the greatest show in town!

Cinderella will soon be wowing Hexagon audiences. Making his panto debut is Hairy Biker Dave Myers. VIVIENNE JOHNSON finds out his recipe for success Picture: LYNDA BOWYER

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chance meeting at a wedding got Hairy Biker Dave Myers an invite to try out for panto.

That was last year when Dave was twinkling his toes in Strictly Come Dancing and didn’t have the time.

He was glad to find out that the offer was still open this year and he will spend Christmas playing Baron Hardup in The Hexagon’s Cinderella.

When they offered him the part Dave didn’t take long to consider it. He jokes: “It took me two nanoseconds to say ‘yes’.”

“I got the script last night. It was very exciting reading it. I’ve got some beltin’ lines. The script’s funny; it’s quite modern and the songs are up-to-date but we have all the traditional values.

“It’s a great cast with lots of good people in it. I know with Anna Williamson, the Uglies [Paul Morse and Ian Ganderton] and Jon Clegg there’s going to be a lot of energy.”

Dave’s first venture into the entertainment world was on the stage at Her Majesty’s Theatre in Barrow-in-Furnace: “It was Jack and the Beanstalk.” remembers Dave. “I was one of the kids who gets to get up on the stage and you come off with a present. I remember the smell of the lights and the greasepaint and being on stage as a little boy, it was absolutely magical.”

He is looking forward to returning to Reading – The Hairy Biker’s tour sold out when they were previously at The Hexagon.

Dave recalls: “We did really well that night, they asked us back and we sold that out so we can’t have been that bad.”

This is the Hairy Biker’s first role acting in a panto and although he’s experiencing a few butterflies he is looking forward to working with the rest of the cast.

“The others like Liza Goddard are such experienced performers, Jon Clegg is amazingly funny, Paul and Ian, who are playing the dames, have been in pantomimes for many, many years and worked together.

“I’m looking forward to the camaraderie, being part of a team. I know when we did the photo shoot my dressing room was next door to the ugly sisters and Jon Clegg was just beyond there. We’d only just met each other – it was just such good fun.

“Being in a pantomime is a really nice way to spend Christmas. I’ll put myself in a hotel for Christmas Day. I don’t have to cook this year; I had 40 for dinner last year. I went over to Romania and the entire village turned up.

“There’s a magic to panto, I think when everyone’s excited and happy it’s just the best feeling in the world. I think if you just add the Christmas magic to that twice a day I’m a very lucky man. That’s what I’m looking forward to.” v Cinderella is at The Hexagon from Saturday, December 6 to Sunday, January 4. For details and tickets log on to www.readingarts.com or call 0118 960 6060.

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v Carol singing date READING – The town centre will be full of the sounds of Christmas thanks to a special carol singing event.

On Saturday, December 20 from noon, people will be gathering with the Reading Central Salvation Army band to sing carols for an hour in Broad Street.

Organised by Churches Together in Reading (CTR), everyone is invited to come along and join in.

Michael Penny, chair of CTR, said: “Come and join us – everyone is welcome.

“The more the merrier!”

BY VIVIENNE JOHNSON

SCHOOLS, churches and individuals across Berkshire have been packing Christmas presents early this year because they have a long way to travel.

People have been generously filling shoeboxes with gifts and donating them to Operation Christmas Child run by charity Samaritan’s Purse.

Boxes gathered by Reading residents were processed for a third year by a group of busy volunteers at Wesley Methodist Church in Queen Street, Reading.

“The shoeboxes are put into cartons here at Wesley,” said organiser Julie Marsh. “They will then be put into a big shipping container and sent to areas of need.”

The gifts are sent on to countries where Samaritan’s Purse has a presence and are given out

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Pupils from St John’s Primary School in Newtown, east Reading collected 45 shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child through orphanages and refugee centres.

“Traditionally our boxes have been sent to Ukraine and Belarus but where they end up depends on the need at the time of shipping.

If there is suddenly an earthquake somewhere or a disaster, that’s where they will be sent,” Julie explained.

The idea is simple: find an empty shoebox and fill it with gifts and surprises for a child or young person living in an area of war, poverty, natural disaster, disease or famine.

The boxes contain a little bit of everything: something educational such as pens and paper, something

to help with hygiene such as a bar of soap or a toothbrush, something to wear like a hat or gloves, a soft toy or doll that can be loved and sweets.

An estimated 2,500 shoeboxes were collected and processed by Wesley this year.

Julie said: “People dropped off boxes in Shoe Zone shops in Broad Street and Lower Earley, The Entertainer toy shop on Broad Street and at Regus Centres in Thames Valley Park and Green Park.” v To find out more about Samaritan’s Purse and the impact a small box can make, vist www.samaritans-purse. org.uk.

All Nations Christian Centre, Berkeley Avenue collected 206 shoe boxes for Operation Christmas Child and made a donation of £552

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BY VIVIENNE JOHNSON If you’re in Wokingham on the afternoon of Sunday, December 7 and you think you hear the rumble of thunder, you could be mistaken.

You may be hearing the rumble of 2,000 motorbike engines as they take to the road carrying thousands of toys to Barnardo’s High Close School in Wokingham.

This is the 29th year that the annual Reading toy run is taking place. The massive event is organised

by Ben Spiller and a group of seven volunteers from Reading Christian Motorcyclists.

“It takes about four months to organise,” said Ben. “We are expecting 2,000 bikes on the run carrying thousands of toys. People buy the toys and donate them.

“Most of the cyclists we only see once a year and they turn up with a load of toys or vouchers for the kids. We then give them to the School who give them away to children and local charities they are involved with.”

The bikers wear fancy dress with everything from Santas to Snowmen making an appearance. Many decorate their bikes and some also hand out sweets to spectators.

v Festive foodbank READING – Anyone wanting to donate festive-themed goods to the Foodbanks should do so by Monday, December 15.

Malc Peirce, director of ReadiFood, said: “Any Christmassy items such as cake, puddings, pies, chocolate, biscuits will be welcome – but all in by the 15th December please.”

v Christmas cheer High Close School is a mixed residential and day school for 86 pupils who have special educational needs and is run by Barnardo’s .

The toy run takes place on December 7 from 2pm.

The bikers will start from the Foster Wheeler building – the old Shire Hall.

They will then head down Shinfield Road and Lower Earley Way to the Showcase Roundabout, head into Wokingham and finish at High Close School, Wiltshire Road. v For more, visit Rudolph -one bid for Why did no readingtoyrun. on eBay? and Blitzen o deer! blogspot.co.uk ey were tw th se Becau

BRACKNELL – A weekend of festive fun for good causes will be held at the Methodist Church.

On Friday, December 12, they’ll welcome the Charles Church Camberley Band for a concert that starts at 7.30pm. Tickets are £10.

The following evening the Shepherds Lane church will hold a Carols and Cake evening. Starting at 6pm, the evening will raise funds for the Salvation Army’s work to combat Human Trafficking. v For more details, log on to www. bracknellmethodist.org.uk.

Army says no time like the present The Salvation Army is running a national campaign to find the perfect present for people in need.

Running until Monday, December 15, the appeal asks people to donate new and unwrapped toys and gifts which can then be passed on to children, families, older people and homeless people in need this Christmas. The gifts will then be wrapped and distributed to those in need.

The Army’s national website has a page detailing perfect presents which include teddy bears, dolls,

cars, lorries, puzzle books, cot mobiles, bath toys, colouring sets, family-friendly DVDs, stationery, make-up, hats, scarves and gloves.

Over the years the Army has helped millions of children and young people by providing Christmas presents and the campaign hopes to do that again this year. v For more details on the campaign, contact your local Salvation Army, email christmas@salvationarmy.org. uk or log on to its website, www.salvationarmy.org.uk/christmaspresent-appeal

Gifts will help Mums in Kenya KIND-hearted residents of Woodley will be giving some special Christmas gifts just before the big day.

Members of Christ Church in Crockhamwell Road will be holding a Gift Service on Sunday, December 21.

Led by younger members of the congregation the 10.30am service will support Christian Aid’s Christmas project to help expectant mothers in Kenya.

The aid agency is raising money

to train community health workers, and to raise awareness of expectant mothers and fathers, so that they can learn how best to look after their newborn babies.

Mary Nash, from the church said: “Our Christmas gifts this year will be going to help with this important work, and even better every pound that we raise will be matched by the UK Government so that more lives can be saved in childbirth.” v www.christ-church-woodley.org.uk

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celebrate with sounds of joy Christmas concerts for all to enjoy

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hristmas concerts will fill Berkshire with the sound of festive music.

With choirs hosting special events, we’ve rounded up some you can enjoy.

There are more events on our website, xnmedia.co.uk/christmas

All Saints Church in Wokingham will host a performance of Handel’s Messiah on December 7

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One of the most popular choral pieces for Christmas is performed in Wokingham this month.

All Saints Church Choir in Wokingham will team up with the Gandolpho Players, soloists Miles Horner, Jon Grave and David Pope and Richard Smith for a performance of Handel’s Messiah.

The concert takes place on Sunday, December 7 from 4pm.

Entry is £12, under 19s get in free. Tickets can be purchased from The Cornerstone, on the door or online from www.wegottickets. com/event/294132

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It’s a double concert for the Reading Concert Singers.

The choir will perform the same

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The Reading Male Voice Choir will visit Christ Church in Woodley on Saturday, December 13 from 7.30pm. Joining them for the show will be soloist Rachel Baker.

Tickets cost £10 or £8 for concessions and it takes place at the Crockhamwell Road church.

For details, call Beryl Wootton on 0118 977 2037.

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The concert includes carols and items related to the First World War as well as Graham Kendrick’s Rumours of Angels in a special choral arrangement written by the choir’s musical director Tim Munday.

The first performance is at St Mary Magdalen Church in Tilehurst on Wednesday, December 3. Seven days later, the choir will be back at St Agnes Church, Whitley.

Both concerts start at 7.30pm.

Tickets cost £8, under 16s £4, and can be bought on the door or by calling 0118 942 5290.

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St Paul’s Church in Wokingham will host a charity Christmas Carol Concert on Sunday, December 7.

Starting at 6.30pm, the concert will raise funds for the Alexander Devine Children’s Hospice.

Tickets cost £6 for adults and £2 for children. For details, call 0118 975 2122.

The Twyford Singers will perform on Saturday, December 13.

Held at St Mary’s Church in Station Road, Twyford, the concert will include J S Bach’s Christmas Oratorio, carols and festive songs, some of which the audience can join in with.

The show starts at 7pm and tickets cost £10 or £5 for under 16s.

They can be bought on the door or by calling 0118 934 2406 or 0118 934 5985.

For more details, log on to www.twyford-singers.org.uk.

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One of the great things about Christmas is the giving and receiving of cards.

The Cards for Good Causes pop-up shop in Reading Minster is one of the places you have a great choice of cards supporting 40 different charities.

“I come here [to Reading Minster] every year to get the charity cards,” said shopper Patty Naxton.

“My husband is in business and we send about 150 cards every year. I’d rather buy my cards here and give the money to charity.”

Cards for Good Causes Chief Executive, Christine Holland said: “The great thing about sending charity Christmas cards is that you buy once but give twice; once to the person you send the card to and again to a cause that is close to your heart.”

Cards for Good Causes will be in Reading Minster until December 17. You can buy cards, calendars and small gift items

that all support charities on Monday to Saturday from 10am to 4pm.

Reading Minster of St Mary the Virgin is in St Mary’s Butts. v Cards For Good Causes is also at the URC Church in Twyford until December 13.

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BY PHIL CREIGHTON A TRIO of festive tree-ts are coming to the Thames Valley this month as festive firs go on display.

First out of the chimney is at St Mary’s Church in Twyford.

Running from December 4-7, there will be entertainment as well as trees. The displays can be seen at the Station Road church from 10am to 4pm.

On Thursday, December 4, Waltham St Lawrence Silver Band perform at 7.30pm. On Saturday there is magic from Mark Shortland at 7pm. On Sunday there is an afternoon Christmas tea followed by carols and a tree service.

The second takes place in Wokingham from Friday, December 5 to Sunday, December 7.

All of Wokingham Methodist Church is turned into a winter wonderland for the event, which is hugely popular.

Brian Morris, spokesperson for the church said: “The Festival of Christmas Trees Community Event returns again to the Bradbury Centre and the Rose Street Methodist Church.

“Fifty Trees will be decorated by local groups and charities and local

nursery schools. Visitors are able to vote for the tree they consider to have the best decoration.”

It is open from 10am to 7pm on Friday, December 5, from 10am to 4.30pm on Saturday and noon to 4pm on Sunday. Entry is free but donations are welcome.

St Mary’s Church in Shinfield will again be transformed into a Christmas wonderland for the holiday period.

It will take place over the weekend of December 20 and 21 and the church will be open each day from 10am to 5pm. Organisers promise that every nook and cranny of the church will be decorated with twinkling lights and Christmas trees and these will continue to enhance the services over the Christmas season.

All the trees will represent organisations associated with the church and the village.

One special tree will be a Memorial Tree on which people can write names of people they would especially like to remember over the Christmas period.

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v A poignant tribute

ALDERMASTON – A church’s mystery play will be especially poignant this year following the death of its creator and director.

St Mary’s is home to the Aldermaston Nativity and Pat Eastop devised, guided and inspired the play for the past 57 years. She passed away in September.

Dave Shirt, from St Mary’s, said: “It was her firm wish that the Play should continue and so we will pay tribute to her and honour her legacy in this year’s performances.

“Pat had chosen her own successor, Chris Boott, back in early spring 2014, initially to understudy her but he now takes on guiding the Play into the future.”

The play is performed at 8pm on Monday, December 1, Thursday, December 4 and Friday, December 5, and at 7pm on Saturday, December 6 and Sunday, December 7.

Tickets are free, but must be booked. A retiring collection will go to the church and Children’s Society. v To request tickets email aldermastonnativity@hotmail.co.uk.

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about the auditorium.”

Although it’s a production with a junior cast, Matt doesn’t want his audiences to feel “ripped off” with what they see. “We do our best to make sure it’s a quality production that people will enjoy,” he explains.

“We’re pushing boundaries and taking risks.

The cast of 30 ranges in age from eight to 16, and follows from previous energetic productions including The Jungle Book and Beauty and the Beast.

BY PHIL CREIGHTON This may come as a surprise, but Woodley is Under The Sea. And no, we’ve not opened our A-to-Z at the wrong pages. This Christmas, it’s life under an ocean wave for The Oakwood Centre.

It’s the venue for the Berkshire premiere of the world famous musical The Little Mermaid. Based on the Disney film, the production is being staged by youth theatre company Berzerk Productions.

“This is the first time in Berkshire. Disney only released the licence last year and it’s come from Broadway,” explains Matt Whitelock, who heads up Berzerk (pictured right).

“The show is perfect for ages three upwards – it’s visually stunning.”

It’s not just stunning.

The show is a challenge too.

If you’ve ever been to the

Oakwood, you’ll know that the stage is fairly small and ... well, dry. Trying to convert it into an underwater world, a sailing boat and dry land is no small task, but it’s something that Berzerk relishes.

“The sets look fantastic,” Matt promises. “We’ve used a local company from outside Woodley and they’ve done a fantastic job. The whole audience will become part of the sea with fish flying

v How to get tickets The Little Mermaid is performed at The Oakwood Theatre from Wednesday, December 17 to Sunday, December 21. Wed-Fri shows are at 7.45pm and weekend shows are at 2pm and 5pm.

Tickets cost £9.75 for children, £11.75 for adults and £39.75 for a family ticket of four, plus a booking fee. For more details, log on to www. berzerkproductions.com. v A longer version of this article is on our website: goo.gl/XHzsbS Why is it getting ha rder to buy Advent calendars?

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Forget seeing grown men cry. Here’s your chance to see grown men wear tea towels as they put on a humorous Nativity play.

Nativity In Creakebottom is being presented in Sandhurst on Tuesday, December 16.

Presented by the Carol Slingshot Theatre Company, Nativity in Creakebottom is a Christmas comedy

that follows Gus Blathermouth and his ‘All-Male Amateur Dramatics Society of Creakebottom’ as they stage a Nativity play in pursuit of their theatrical dreams and to promote the real meaning of Christmas.

The comedy will be performed at Sandhurst School and is organised by Kerith Community Church. v For more details or tickets, visit kerith.co.uk.

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Find out more at www.wokinghamchurches.org.uk Wokingham Baptist Church Sunday 21 December 7pm Candlelit Carol Service Tuesday 23 December 4pm Family Christingle-making Event Christmas Day 10am All-age Christmas Celebration

All Saints Church, Wokingham Sunday 21 December 11am Family Service with Children’s Nativity Christmas Eve 2pm Crib Service 3.30pm Crib Service 11.15pm First Communion of Christmas Christmas Day 8am Holy Communion 9.30am Parish Communion for All Ages

St Bartholomew’s Church, Arborfield

Christmas Eve 4pm Crib Service 11.30pm First Eucharist of Christmas 25 December 10am Service at St Mary’s Winnersh

Corpus Christi Catholic Church, Wokingham Christmas Eve 4pm, 6pm & 9pm Mass Christmas Day 9am & 11am Mass

St James’ Church, Barkham Sunday 21 December 7pm Carols by Candlelight Christmas Eve 4pm Children’s Carols 11.30pm Midnight Carols Christmas Day 10am Christmas Day Service for All-Ages

Wokingham Methodist Church

Sunday 21 December 7pm Carols by Candlelight Christmas Eve 4pm Family Carols 11.15pm Midnight Carols Christmas Day 10am Christmas Celebration

Sunday 21 December 6pm Carol Service Christmas Eve 4pm Christingle Service for all ages 11.30pm Midnight Communion Service Christmas Day 10.30am Christmas Day Service for all ages

St Catherine’s Church, Bearwood

St Mary’s Church, Winnersh

Sunday 21 December 6.30pm Candlelit Carol Service

Christmas Eve 2pm Crib Service 11.30pm Midnight Mass

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3pm from Market Place Bring torches, dress up and wrap up warm as Bottle Top Theatre goes on a journey back to the First Christmas for the Living Advent Calendar

Christmas Day 10am Parish Eucharist

St Sebastian’s Church, Nine Mile Ride, Wokingham

St Nicholas’ Church, Emmbrook

Sunday 21 December 10am Christingle Service Sunday 22nd December 7pm Carol Service Christmas Eve 6pm Crib Service 11.30pm Midnight Communion Christmas Day 10am Christmas Day Celebration

Christmas Eve 9pm First Mass of Christmas

Norreys Church, Wokingham Sunday 14 December 11am-3pm Walk through Bethlehem Sunday 21 December 10am Carol Service Christmas Day 10.30am Christmas Praise Sunday 28 December 10am Epiphany Service

Sindlesham Baptist Church Sunday 21 December 10.30am Christmas Story All-Age service 6.30pm Carols by Candlelight Christmas Day 10am All-Age Celebration

St Paul’s Church, Wokingham Sunday 21 December 6.15pm Nine Lessons and Carols Christmas Eve 4pm Christingle 11pm Midnight Mass Christmas Day 8am Mass 9.30am All-Together Mass for Christmas

Woosehill Community Church Saturday 13 December 4pm Christingle Service Wednesday 17 December 10am Toddler Christmas Service Sunday 21 December 7.30pm Christmas Carol Service Christmas Eve 4pm Crib Service 11.30pm Midnight Communion Christmas Day 10am Christmas Communion

Salvation Army Wokingham Sunday 21 December 10am Service

Christ Church Wokingham Saturday 20 December 5pm Shoppers’ Carol Service at Wokingham Town Hall Christmas Day 10.30am Christmas Day Celebration at St Crispin’s School

King’s Church, Wokingham Christmas Day 10.30am Christmas Day Meeting

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s I write, I am on my way home from a truly inspiring conference in Rome.

It was entitled Humanum, and was opened by Pope Francis. It featured speakers from many of the world’s religious traditions, including Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks, Bishop Michael Nazir-Ali, Pastor Rick Warren, Professor NT Wright, Dr Jacqueline Rivers and the Most Revd Charles Chaput, as well as leaders from within Islam, Sikhism, Jainology, and others.

What brought all these world religious leaders together?

In short, this conference wanted to seek what is common to us all – a vision for the gift of marriage and family life.

We watched some moving videos on this theme throughout the conference. (I encourage you to look up “Humanum” on YouTube and watch the six videos in this series.)

What comes across strongly in these videos is a sense that every human person has absolute value, is worth everything, and is created to receive an unspeakable love.

As Christians, we know and have experienced

Bishop Philip’s Christmas message

that this Love takes on human form in Jesus – he is Love itself.

At this beautiful season of Christmas, we witness just how exquisite and unimaginable God’s love is.

Not only does God tell us he loves us; he shows us exactly what this Love looks like when he becomes human, a tiny baby – completely vulnerable and dependent on others. God – who

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created all things and is utterly self-sufficient – became One who needs others.

He entered a human family, reliant on a human father and mother. In doing this, he sanctified or made holy family life. He showed us that in our families we can become saints; families prepare us for Heaven.

Of course, families are complicated, messy, and often broken in many ways.

For some, they are the source of hurt, and nowhere is this felt more than at Christmas.

Christmas reminds us of the Love we yearn for most deeply and when we don’t experience that, we can feel desolate.

However, because God humbled himself to become a baby, we can be sure that – whatever our families are like, however lonely we may be – we are truly never alone. God is with us.

He has come to dwell among us. We can turn to him in our hearts and know that he loves us with Love that is enough for us.

At this great Feast of Our Saviour’s Birth, I wish each and every one of you a happy and holy Christmas!

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The awe and wonder of the stable A Christmas staple is the stable and this year, as part of Wokingham’s Living Advent Calendar, there’s a very special Nativity going on. PHIL CREIGHTON explains

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want to create an atmosphere of awe and wonder.”

The story of the first Christmas – the Nativity – is ingrained into our childhood memories of tea towels for headdresses and toy lambs as the school Christmas play rears its head.

The clichés and choruses of Little Donkey can override the heart of the story – and that’s something that Hayley Blakeman, creator of this year’s Living Nativity in Wokingham, is keen to change.

Hence the awe and the wonder.

The Living Nativity has been organised by Bottle Top Theatre Community and will be performed from 3pm on Sunday, December 21 in Market Place and Howard Palmer Gardens.

“It will be a good performance and it will look good,” Hayley promises. “We’ve done our best to include the community. At Bottle Top theatre is our passion, which is why we do it.”

“What is really exciting is that we’re working with Wokingham Town Council – the play will be part of the Living Advent Calendar.”

The performance starts in

On Saturday, December 13 from 4pm, Southcote villagers will gather in the Community Centre for its community play. It’s followed by Carols In The square at 6pm.

Norreys Church in Wokingham will hold Walk Through Bethlehem from 11am to 3pm on Sunday, December 14.

Hugely popular, the previous event attracted more than 200 people.

In Reading, a Living Nativity will start at Wesley Methodist Church from 2.15pm on Sunday, December 21, before walking the streets ending up at St Andrew’s URC. In Caversham, a Living Nativity will walk the streets near St John’s Church and Caverham Methodist Church from 4pm on Christmas Eve. You’re invited to come dressed up for these events and entry to all of them is free.

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Market Place and processes to Howard Palmer Gardens.

“Bring torches, dress up if you want to. The park will be lit and the light procession will be fun,” Hayley promises.

The cast brings together 30 people from 10 churches.

“This is really exciting – it’s the Church coming together,” says Hayley of the co-operation among Wokingham’s Christians to make the Living Nativity happen.

The talented thespian has been working on Christmas sketches and scripts for a decade and is “always trying to find new angles”.

“Hopefully it’ll create an atmosphere – a positive atmosphere,” Hayley says of this year’s. “An awe and wonder atmosphere.”

That’s something that seems like an imposssible task when part of the audience will be people “rushing about doing their

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But Hayley hopes they do pause and take in the spectacle: “It’s really easy to forget what Christmas is about – it’s nice to be reminded,” she says.

The old carol speaks of tidings of comfort and joy – that’s as good a way as any to approach the Living Nativity.

“It’ll be great,” Hayley says. v For more visit wokylivingadvent. blogspot.com

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CAVERSHAM – Cooking Christmas dinner is the ultimate test for any cook … but cooking it for 50? That’s a lot of turkey drumsticks.

Invites have gone out in Caversham for a fantastic Christmas Day meal at Grace Church in Peppard Road. The church has spaces for 50 and can’t wait to welcome them, not just for a meal but for fun and games too.

One of the church’s leaders, Crispin Fairbairn, said: “Last year when we proposed the idea of church folks giving up their Christmas Day it took a lot of people by surprise. But lots of us wanted to give people, who would otherwise be on their own, an opportunity to celebrate Christmas and not be alone.

“A number of church members stepped up and we planned a really special meal with the help of a grant from Waitrose. On the day everyone agreed it was one of the best Christmases ever!

“We thought it would be hard work – which it was – but we didn’t expect to have so much fun. It was lovely celebrating such a special day with new friends and seeing our guests so excited.

“We’re hoping that this year will be even better.” v Places are free but must be booked by Monday, December 15.

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People in Wokingham and Reading are working hard to ensure that anyone who wants to enjoy Christmas Day in a friendly atmosphere will find a room at the inn.

The Salvation Army in Wokingham will provide a Christmas morning breakfast between 9am and 10.30am at its Sturges Road headquarters.

“When people arrive we will cook them a lovely full English breakfast,” said Lt Nicola Muir, from the Army. “For Christmas lunch we are joining with others at the Cantley Lodge Hotel.”

Sharon Elliott of Faith in the Community said: “The Christmas Day lunch is being organised by The Link Visiting Scheme, Faith in the Community, Katie Palmer of the Earley Charity and the management of the Cantley Lodge Hotel.

“A fantastic couple, Ros and Ralph Hardy, have volunteered for the second year running to co-ordinate the entire event which is a mammoth task.

“The event couldn’t happen without an army of volunteers who collect guests from their homes and take them home after the lunch, plus the volunteers who assist with the preparation and serving of the lunch.

“We make sure that everyone who attends the lunch has someone to talk to.”

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Christmas Day lunches for the community means that no one need be on their own And there’s also entertainment including a quiz and live music.

Sharon added: “This year we are looking for a musical volunteer who can help us sing some carols during the lunch.

“It wouldn’t be Christmas without presents, so every guest takes home a Christmas present donated by local churches and volunteers.”

Around 70 people are expected, mostly older people, but younger guests are welcome.

Festivities start at noon and go on until 3pm and transport can be provided.

The Salvation Army in Reading are also busy arranging Christmas Day cheer.

There will be a community Christmas dinner at the Salvation Army, 522 Oxford Road, Reading

(opposite Brock Barracks). It starts at 9am and continues to 3pm.

“Come in for a cup of tea to start the day,” said Christiaan Bijl, Community Development Manager at The Salvation Army. “There will be a short service with Christmas carols around the tree and then a full Christmas Dinner.

“After the meal there will be entertainment, fun and games.

“Christmas is for everyone. Why not spend it with us?”

The event is free, but limited to 60 places.

For details or to book call Lt Kenneth Guest on 07944 709916 or Christiaan on 0118 958 3019. v If you would like to go to the Cantley Lodge Hotel, Wokingham on Christmas Day contact Ros and Ralph Hardy on 0780 522 9515 or email randrhardy@hotmail.co.uk

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v Boxing Day prayers for church READING – A day of prayer for the Persecuted Church will be held on St Stephen’s Day. It will take place at Wycliffe Baptist Church in east Reading from 10am to 4pm. People can drop-in for as little or as long as they like and the day will have a focus on countries where freedom of religion is restricted.

The church has a car park which can be accessed from Norwood Road. v For details, call Wycliffe Church Office on 0118 929 9911.

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Churches Together in Earley and East Reading invite you to celebrate this Christmas Abbey Baptist Church, Abbey Square, Reading Sunday, December 21 6.30pm Carols by Candlelight Christmas Eve 11.30pm Midnight Communion Christmas Day 10.30am Christmas worship

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11.30pm Midnight Mass with the St Luke’s Church choir Christmas Day 10:30am Christmas Day Celebration: Holy Communion and Carols for all ages

St Nicolas Church, Sutcliffe Avenue, Earley Sunday, December 14 6.30pm Carols by Candlelight Christmas Eve 5.30pm Carols Round the Crib 11.30pm Midnight Mass Christmas Day 10am Christmas Day Festival Communion

Anderson Baptist Church, Amherst Road Sunday, December 14 3pm A Very Messy Christmas Sunday, December 21 10.30am Telling the Christmas Story 6pm Carols by Candlelight Christmas Day 10.30am. Christmas Service

Earley St Peter’s Church, Church Road Sunday, December 21 6.30pm A Service of Nine Lessons and Carols Christmas Eve 4pm Crib Service – especially for younger members of the family 11pm Carols sung by the choir 11.30pm Midnight Eucharist and Blessing of the crib Christmas Day 10am Informal Family Eucharist for Christmas Day

Lower Earley Baptist Church, Maiden Place, Lower Earley Sunday, December 21 10am Family Nativity Service Christmas Eve 6pm Carols by Candlelight Christmas Day 10am Family Christmas Service

Network Vineyard Church, Woodley Hill House, Eastcourt Avenue

Sunday December 21st Join a Nativity drama meeting the animals from 2.30pm at Wesley Methodist Church and then walking with Mary and Joseph, wise men and shepherds, singing carols on the way to St Andrew’s United Reformed Church, London Road.

Sunday, December 21 9.30am, 11.30am Children’s party Christmas Day 10.30am Christmas morning

Our Lady of Peace and Blessed Dominic Barberi Church, Earley Christmas Eve 5pm Children’s Carol Service 11pm Carol singing 11.30pm Midnight Mass Christmas Day 9am, 11am Masses

Park United Reformed Church, Palmer Park Avenue Sunday December 21 10.30am Morning Worship with nativity scene 6pm Lessons and carols by candlelight Christmas Day 9.30am All-Age Special

Reading Quaker Meeting, Church Street

Sunday, December 14 Sunday, December 14 10.30am Meeting for worship 6.30pm Carol service

Sunday, December 21 10.30am Meeting, carols and shared lunch

Salvation Army, Chalfont Close, Lower Earley Christmas Eve 11.30pm Carols by Candlelight Christmas Day 9.30am Christmas Day Service

St Andrew’s United Reformed Church, London Road Sunday, December 14 6.30pm Service of Lessons and Carols Sunday, December 21 11am Christmas Worship 2.30pm Living Nativity on the local streets Christmas Day 10.30am Family Service

St Bartholomew’s Church, St Bartholomew’s Road 24 December 4pm Crib service for very young children

St Giles-in-Reading, Southampton Street Christmas Eve 4pm Family Crib Service 5pm First Evensong 12midnight Midnight Mass Christmas Day 9.15am Low Mass at Dawn 10am Matins 10.30am Mass of Christmas morning 5pm Second Evensong

St James’ Roman Catholic Church Sunday, 21st December 6pm Saturday Vigil Mass Christmas Eve 6pm Christmas Family Mass 11.30pm Christmas Night Mass Christmas Day 11am Christmas Day Mass

St Luke’s Church, Erleigh Rd Sunday, December 21 6.30pm Carols by candlelight with St Luke’s Church choir Christmas Eve 4pm All Age Crib Service, with carols, craft, and lost crib characters!

St William of York Roman Catholic Church, Upper Redlands Road Sunday, December 21 9am Sunday Mass Christmas Day 9am Christmas Day Mass

Trinity Church, Chalfont Close, Lower Earley Wednesday, December 17 2pm Nativity Sunday, December 21 6pm Carol service Christmas Eve 4pm Crib Service 11.15pm Midnight Communion Christmas Day 10am Family Worship

Wesley Methodist Church, Queen’s Road Sunday, December 14 4pm Christingle Sunday, December 21 10.30am Carol Service 2.30pm Walking/Living Nativity Christmas Eve 11.30pm Midnight Communion Christmas Day 10am Christmas celebration

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f your festive plum duff has left a few extra inches on your waistline or you need some fresh air to escape from Great Aunt Maude then a winter walk will be right up your bridleway.

The Ramblers are inviting people to leave their footprints in the snow and explore some of the Thames Valley’s most beautiful wintry landscapes with a series of FREE walks in the countryside, taking place between Christmas and New Year.

Here are some of them:

Christmas Eve Whichford circular Date: Christmas Eve Start time: 10am Distance: 7 miles Start: Whichford village green.

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countryside to Traitors Ford and Greenhill Barn. There will be a pub stop along the way. Dogs are welcome, but please keep them on short leads.

Crossing over the Volvo footbridge, this walk takes you up to Bloom Wood, where you’ll enjoy stunning views over the Thames Valley, then down to Fern.

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Date: Friday 26 December 2014 Start time: 10am Distance: 7 miles Start: Britannia Pub, Marlow.

Date: Sunday 28 December 2014 Start time: 10am Distance: 11 miles Start: Kings Road shoppers car park behind Waitrose, Henley.

Join the Wycombe District Ramblers for the last Sunday walk in 2014 in the Henley area.

Woodland & farms around Ufton Court Date: Thursday 1 January 2015 Start time: 10.30am Distance: 4 miles Start: Follow signs to Ufton Court and park near the barrier into the forest.

A circular walk with a pleasant mixture of woodland and farms around Ufton Court and Grim’s Bank.

This mostly flat walk is perfect for starting the New Year on the right foot. v For more on the Festival of Winter Walks and to browse the festive walks or routes on offer, visit www.ramblers. org.uk/winterwalks. v More walks on our website, www. xnmedia.co.uk/christmas

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A hugely popular Twixmas event for seniors is returning to Easthampstead.

Turkey and Tinsel is two days of fun that includes Christmas festivities, food, and entertainment such as bingo, quizzes, arts and crafts and movie clips.

People looking for some peace and quiet among all the fun can enjoy a relaxation room which includes massage chairs for a bit of pampering.

It takes place at Easthampstead Baptist Church (EBC) in South Hill Road on Tuesday, December 30 and New Year’s Eve itself, Wednesday, December 31.

Sessions run from 10am to 4pm and the church’s event is free, although it says it welcomes donations.

Simon Lace, seniors minister leader at EBC, said: “If you fancy a couple of days of fun, food and festive frolics, come and join us for our annual Turkey & Tinsel celebration.

“It’s brought to you by the same team that puts on EBC’s summer Holiday at Home and our monthly Lunch Club.

This is a lovely, fun-filled event for older people that puts glitter in the air, a song in your heart and lots of yummy food in your tummy.”

As well as the New Year focus, Simon promises a visit from Santa, Christmas carols and some delicious lunches.

“There will also be one

or two special guests… and some serious, spiritual and saintly moments,” he promised.

With budgets being tightened and bills rising, Simon says that EBC is keen as many people as possible can come.

He said: “We are always keen to ensure no-one is excluded through lack of funds, so there is no cost to worry about either.

“If you would like to make a donation, this is always welcome and will go towards our ongoing ministry for older people throughout the year ahead.”

Simon added that places are limited and should be booked.

He said: “We also need to know if you have any special dietary requirements and, if you are really unable to get to us without help, we may be able to arrange a lift.” v Places can be booked by calling the church on 01344 487744 or visiting the office. For details, visit www.ebc-bracknell.org

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get ready for 2015 New Year is a gift, a special time

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y friends in Africa were fond of pulling my leg, because whenever I got my diary out, I’d frown.

“There you go again!” they said, “You’re still a Westerner! You all have watches, but never have any time; we Africans don’t have watches and we have plenty of time!”

Nothing you can say to that, is there? Or is there?

Another New Year comes and the fact it is a real gift is often squeezed out between thoughts of returning to work and the pressure we put ourselves under to enjoy ourselves.

The New Year is such a gift, but because we have such a funny relationship with time, we don’t grasp what it has to offer. In my more spiritual moments, I like to think time is like a great river, flowing from its source in the past and carrying us on its powerful current into the future. Yet, my whole life is completely marked out for me, in tightly allocated parcels of time, all of which come in different sizes.

So, there are whole days put aside for some tasks and half-hour slots crammed in for others; busy spaces for admin, so I can try to push back the flow of emails that wants to engulf me; space marked out and ring-fenced so I get time to pray and prepare; time

Bishop Andrew’s New Year greeting

for the Sunday parish visits I love and, of course, the really important and precious time I want to take with my family.

We have a funny relationship with time, sure enough, but New Year is a special time, it is a pure gift. Because it offers a real chance to let go of all the clutter, distractions, obstacles and hurt that filled last year and to lay them at the foot of the cross and remember that in Him all things are made new.

We needn’t be slaves to sin, or old habits, or destructive behaviours, or what others think and say.

We can always start again.

So as you enjoy the New Year, take a little time to let go of the past and to remember God’s love, like that great river, because it is carrying you on into His preferred future, prepared and made ready just for you. And, above all, have a great time!

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The Rt Revd Andrew Proud is the Bishop of Reading

v New Year concert UPPER WOOLHAMPTON – Who needs to go to Vienna for the New Year’s Day concert when you’ve got Douai Abbey on your doorstep?

The Abbey will be hosting the first concert of 2015 at 3pm on Thursday, January 1.

The programme will be given by the Rudolfus Choir and includes Britten’s Ceremony of Carols. Tickets cost £12 or £10 for concessions. v For details, call 08455 218218 or email boxoffice@cornexchangenew. co.uk.

v Brunch time CAVERSHAM – Those looking to start New Year’s Day in style can enjoy a service and brunch at St Andrew’s Church, Albert Road.

It starts at noon and booking is essential for brunch. v For more details visit www. standrews caversham.org.

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Be one of the fab 50 and help make In the UK there are 6,000 children waiting for adoptive families to come forward. To help them, a new campaign has launched to find loving homes. PHIL CREIGHTON explains

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search has been launched to find a fabulous 50 who can help transform children’s lives.

Home For Good Reading is a new initiative that aims to increase the number of foster and adoptive parents in the Reading area. It was launched at a special service held at Wycliffe Baptist Church, east Reading on Sunday, November 2.

The guest speaker was the founder of the national Home For Good initiative, Dr Krish Kandiah.

The launch event was also attended by Avril Wilson, director of Education, Adults and Children Services at Reading Borough Council and Alan Magness from Reading Christian Network (RCN).

During his address, Krish shared his family’s experiences of being a foster carers.

He said: “Adoption is not just a hobby for us; it’s not just an interesting theological exercise, it’s a core thing that our family does. And, I’ll be honest with you, it’s probably the hardest thing that our family does. To say goodbye to some of these lovely little children is really heartbreaking.”

There are, he revealed, more than “6,000 children in the UK waiting for adoptive families”, highlighting the problems facing siblings. Krish explained that some prospective parents wanted a baby rather than a child and this meant that some siblings were waiting for a home.

“Sadly lots of children are being left behind,” he challenged.

As a response, RCN is looking for 50 carers or families to come forward over the next three years and help find loving homes for some the children in the Reading area waiting for help.

Krish said that there were four ways in which people can get involved in the Home For Good campaign: Step forward – and become foster carers Stand alongside – those who are fostering or adopting Speak up – for the positive benefits of adoption and fostering Support – children who are fostered or adopted.

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Sunday, November 2, there were presentations from Avril Wilson and prayers from Alan Magness.

The event ended with the release of 50 colourful balloons, each representing one of the 50 homes that are being sought for children.

The initiative has support from Reading Borough Council.

Its lead member for Children’s Services, Cllr Jan Gavin, said: “There can be misconceptions surrounding fostering and adoption that events like this can help to dispel by providing first-hand information and advice.

“Using existing networks like congregations are a great way to raise awareness of the needs of children and young people in care and how giving them a safe and loving environment to grow up in can make all the difference.” v For more details, www. homeforgood.org.uk/reading, email Heather Bull or call 0300 001 0995.

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Balloons are released at the launch of Home For Good Reading PICTURE: PHIL CREIGHTON

v Hard work, but rewarding In an exclusive video interview with Xn, Dr Krish Kandiah says that adoption is the hardest thing his family has ever done – but the most rewarding too. Now he’s looking for 50 families in the Reading area to come forward and transform the lives of children looking for a permanent home.

In the interview – on Xn’s website – you can learn more about Home For Good, what it does and how Krish got involved.

He says: “Home For Good is a campaign calling on churches and Christians across the country to step forward to think about fostering and adoption.

At the moment there are 6,000 children who need adopting in the

UK, most of them are older children and sibling groups and many have additional needs.

“Another 9,000 need foster families in the UK. This is a fantastic opportunity to find those homes.”

Krish is clear that Home For Good is about providing loving homes for children.

He says: “If we’re doing this because we’re trying to fill churches or kind of put bums on seats or think this is some kind of evangelistic mission, that isn’t going to help these kids. This is about caring for children that are in a vulnerable state and we need to make sure we are giving them that care.” v See the interview on our website http://goo.gl/zumPDt

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or many of us, Christmas plans are already well underway. Present shopping has begun, we are busy sorting out where we will be over the festive period and who will be visiting us.

For many older members of our community though, this time of year is a time of dread, a time when the rejection they feel due to their isolation from the rest of society is compounded yet further.

As more family groups splinter due to marriage break up or people moving further away for work, younger people, it seems, find it increasingly difficult to find time to spend with their elderly relatives over the Christmas period.

We all appreciate that Christmas time is especially one of the worst times to not to be with family.

Yet somehow for many of us, our busy lives drive out the good intentions we have. Also, for some, having to accommodate an elderly relative who may not actively contribute to the festive celebrations is an inconvenience they would rather avoid.

A poll for the Centre for Social Justice found that an estimated 370,000 over-75s – a quarter of those living alone – spend no time at all with other people over the Christmas period and over 250,000 (enough to fill the Madjeski Stadium 11 times over) will spend Christmas Day alone.

This scenario really is a modern tragedy.

Please therefore look out for some of the more vulnerable people living in your neighbourhood, the ones who may not have family and friends lined up to see them in the forthcoming weeks.

We can do our little bit and make that one special effort at some time in our celebrations to pop in to say hello to a neighbour or to invite elderly friends and neighbours over for a mince pie and a drink will help to make them feel part of everything that is going on at this time.

Philip Keohane is owner & director of Home Instead Senior Care in Reading

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v helps reunite camera with owner EMMER GREEN – A camera left on a bus has been reunited with its owner – thanks to Xn. Susan Ryan from Emmer Green had lost the camera containing valued family photos including weddings, birthdays and new arrivals.

Reading Buses was keen to trace the owner and turned to Xn for help.

We printed a story on our website and within hours word got to Susan that the camera was there to be collected.

She said: “I would sincerely like to thank the person who handed in the camera. It meant so much to me as it contained photos of my three children and six grandchildren.”

Jake Osman, from Reading Buses, said: “We would like to say a ‘big thank you’ to the person who identified it from the Xn Media website and contacted Susan.”

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Celebrating 20 years of a lifeline Supporters of Reading LifeLine enjoyed a tea party to mark the service’s 20th anniversary PICTURE: PHIL CREIGHTON Forget tea for two, here’s tea for 2,500 – that’s the number of people that Reading LifeLine has helped over the past 20 years.

The Reading-based charity offers impartial counselling and advice for pregnant women or those coping with a loss during pregnancy.

The service was founded in 1993 and has helped close to 2,500

people in that time. To mark its birthday, it held a tea party for volunteers and supporters at Watlington House in Reading on Saturday, November 8. Cakes and scones were served alongside cuppas served in the best china.

Danni Malone, Reading LifeLine Manager, said: “The afternoon tea was for supporters and volunteers from the last 20 years.

“People have come from all over, including Wales.”

The relaxed afternoon was voted a hit.

“I’m very pleased with the way it’s gone,” Danni added. v For more details on LifeLine, or to get help, call 0118 959 6669, text 07544 177816, email lifeline@ themustardtree.org or log on to www. readinglifeline.co.uk.

ReadiFood searches for new home Reading’s Foodbank has found a new short-term home – but the hunt is still on to find a permanent solution.

The charity had to move out of its donated warehouse space after two years and has moved into new space that has a month’s notice.

The charity is now looking to rent a 3,000sq ft space and is seeking a generous landlord or corporate sponsorship.

Malcolm Peirce, director of ReadiFood, said: “Our landlords have in effect given us £40,000 per year over the past two years – that’s amazing really.

“In the long term, our only real solution is to pay rent. We need to find ongoing sponsors who can help us meet this figure.” v If you can help with new warehouse space, call ReadiFood on 0118 987 2672 or email readifood@fcg.org.uk.

v Record month for Wokingham foodbank

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OCTOBER was a record month for Wokingham’s foodbank.

The charity shared 85 food parcels, feeding 121 adults and 109 children – the largest figure to date. It received five tonnes worth of food from harvest collections and other donations from 16 schools and 12 churches.

David Atkinson, from the foodbank, said: “Regular donors provide about 1,200kg of food per month, but each month we distribute over 2,000kg.” v For more or to offer help, email info@wokingham.foodbank.org.uk or call 07926 524605.

WOODLEY is gearing up for its annual Winter Extravanganza.

Held on Sunday, December 7, there will be craft, trade and stalls to explore and performances from local groups including Startlets, Berzerk Productions, Razzamataz and the Sainsbury Singers.

Street performers will be wandering through the precinct and fairground rides for infants will be on offer.

The Mayor of Woodley, Cllr Brian Franklin, will open the proceedings at 11.10am with Father Christmas. v For more details, log on to www. woodleytowncentre.co.uk.

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Mayor backs Sanctuary bid

BY VIVIENNE JOHNSON A grassroots movement that aims to build bridges and dispel myths about asylum seekers has received backing from one of the highest possible places in Reading – from the Mayor.

The first City of Sanctuary group was founded in Sheffield in 2005 – there are now more than 40.

“We are a grass roots movement,” said Colleen Molloy, City of Sanctuary Regional Development Officer who spoke about the City of Sanctuary movement at the Reading Refugee Support Group (RRSG) AGM. “We build bridges between local people and refugees. We also dispel myths and celebrate the truth.

“We want to break down fear that is being whipped up by some political parties. Our aim is to raise awareness at all levels.”

The Mayor of Reading, Cllr Tony Jones, supported the plans by handing over a cheque for £2,000 from the Mayor’s Charity Fund.

A commitment to diversity and inclusivity

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ST DOMINIC SAVIO PRIMARY SCHOOL, WOODLEY OPEN DAY – 9 JANUARY 2015

he children of St Dominic Savio Primary School in Woodley have a motto which says it all.

“We are all different, but we are all the same, and all are welcome.”

It is this commitment to diversity and inclusivity, embedded in a strong Catholic ethos, which singles out the school from many others in the area.

The driving belief among the staff is that each child can be successful, with success taking many forms.

There is also a commitment to ensuring every child leaves the school fully literate and numerate.

It is not surprising then that the results for each stage are high. But it means there are high expectations of everyone – pupils, staff and parents alike.

After 40 years at the heart of Woodley life, St Dominic Savio was launched on a new journey toward excellence in April 2013 when James Broadbridge was

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Reading Mayor, Cllr Tony Jones, presents a cheque to Mary Richardson, chair of Reading Refuge Support Group to launch the City of Sanctuary PICTURE: VIVIENNE JOHNSON The presentation took place at the AGM, where plans were unveiled to make Reading a City of Sanctuary for vulnerable refugees and asylum seekers.

Cllr Jones said: “I want to use this [mayoral] chain between now and May to start building Reading into a City of Sanctuary.

“It is now more important than ever to have a City of Sanctuary. I want to take a practical stance on this issue and not just talk about it as politicians. My commitment to the City of Sanctuary goes beyond

appointed Headteacher.

“Magic happens in the classroom,” he said. “So we place a relentless focus on improving teaching and learning – with a vibrant curriculum and a strong emphasis on sport and the arts.

“We also collaborate closely with parents, knowing that their support is a major contributor to good results.”

St Dominic Savio lies in spacious grounds, with excellent facilities, and a wide range of clubs.

ICT is fully embraced, and there are regular hosted events on specific topics.

The PTA is active, and charity fundraising is well supported.

Above all, the school exudes a happy, safe and healthy learning atmosphere, in which everybody is valued and visitors are always welcome.

Come along on Friday, 9 January, and see for yourself.

the end of this year.”

Reading’s commitment goes beyond party lines; Liberal Democrat councillor Meri O’Connell attended the meeting and Tory MP for Reading East Rob Wilson and Rob White – the Green Party parliamentary candidate for Reading East – are giving the City of Sanctuary their backing. v For more on City of Sanctuary visit www.cityofsanctuary.org v To find out more about Reading Refugee Support Group log on to www.rrsg.org.uk.

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LONDON – A FORMER student of the University of Reading has co-written a new book that aims to tackle misconceptions about poverty.

Natalie Williams, who now works for Jubilee+, wrote The Myth of the Undeserving Poor with Martin Charlesworth. It was launched at Westminster Central Hall in London in October by Lord Alton of Liverpool.

He said: “They have challenged the ‘myth of the undeserving poor’. They argue that both church and society respond best to poverty when we do not allow ourselves to be imprisoned by dubious and highly subjective moral judgements concerning the poorest in our society.”

Natalie said: “Our most troubling finding is that it is incredibly rare for those in poverty in Britain today to be given a voice by mainstream media outlets.” v The Myth of the Undeserving Poor is available in hard copy and for Kindle. For more details or to order, visit: www. mythoftheundeservingpoor.co.uk.

ST DOMINIC SAVIO CATHOLIC PRIMARY SCHOOL WOODLEY OPEN DAY

Is your child starting school in September 2015?

If so, then come and see our wonderful school and children in action on Friday 9th January 2015!

Join us in our newly designed Early Years setting.

Be part of our vibrant and forward thinking school community.

We are a caring Catholic community, serving the Lord with Joy, developing tomorrow’s talent today.

“The school community and pupils’ spiritual development are outstanding.” (RE inspection, Oct 2014, Diocese of Portsmouth)

Come and visit!

Friday 9th January 2015 9.30am to 11.30am and 1.30 pm to 3.00 pm.

Headteacher’s Welcome at 9.40 am and 1.45 pm.

Meet our Head Boy and Head Girl and have a pupil tour.

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Yes, we will always remember them v Lost Great War memorial rededicated

Forbury focus for Reading’s reflections

A Reading Great War memorial found by chance in a builders yard was unveiled at a special service held on Remembrance Sunday.

Originally erected in the old Trinity Congregational Church, the memorial has now been installed into Reading Minster Church and was rededicated during a civic service of remembrance on Sunday, November 9.

Attended by the Mayor of Reading, Cllr Tony Jones, Reading’s MPs Alok Sharma and Rob Wilson and the Lord-Lieutenant of Berkshire, the Hon Mary Bayliss, the packed Minster was led by the new Area Dean of Reading, the Revd Stephen Pullin and was the start of the town’s acts of remembrance, which cumulated with a two-minute silence and the laying of wreaths in The Forbury.

The memorial was found by chance by Brian Dixon, a volunteer for the Imperial War Museum. He contacted Bridgeen Fox from the Western Front Association and the pair sought to find a suitable home for the memorial.

INSPIRE The previous Area Dean for Reading, Canon Brian Shenton, agreed to help and the memorial was rededicated with a special prayer, recited by Mr Pullin.

During his prayers, he said: “May it [the memorial] keep alive in our hearts, and in the hearts of those who come after us, the remembrance of all that we owe to those who willingly paid the last full measure of devotion in the cause of freedom.

“We pray that it may inspire in future generations the desire to act courageously and selflessly in the just cause of defending the weak and opposing tyranny and oppression.

“We rededicate this Memorial to the memory of those who lived and died in the service of their country.”

The Great War memorial from Trinity Congregational Church features 20 names and was originally erected in the church in October 1920. The church used to stand on the corner of Sidmouth Street and Queen’s Road.

Originally built in 1846, it closed in the 1960s and was demolished in 1979.

BY PHIL CREIGHTON Reading remembered how to remember – hundreds of people gathered in The Forbury for the first time in years for the annual Remembrance Sunday parade.

Civic leaders, members of the armed forces, civilians and uniformed organisations from all across the town came together for a poignant two-minute silence and to lay wreaths on the town’s war memorial, just outside the gates to the Forbury Gardens.

A parade led by the Waterloo Band and 7 Rifles had processed down Broad Street and Market Place, where the Mayor of Reading, Cllr Tony Jones and the LordLieutenant of the Berkshire, the Hon Mary Bayliss, received them.

The procession continued to the Forbury for the act of remembrance, led by the Revd Adam Carlill, vicar of St George’s Tylehurst and St Mary Magdalen.

Before the remembrance service, he shared his delight that it was taking place in the town centre again, after troubles in Northern Ireland forced the ceremony to be held in Brock Barracks for security reasons.

“It seems more fitting in these peaceful times to be back here in the centre of Reading,” he said, adding the 7 Rifles, who are based at Brock Barracks “are grateful for what the town is doing for them.”

As a silence descended on the Forbury monument, Mr Carlill reminded everyone to “gather our thoughts as we gather for

our act of remembrance”.

The Mayor read the exhortation, leading into the Last Post and a two-minute silence. It was followed by the Kohima Epitaph.

Wreaths were laid by the Lord-Lieutenant, Reading’s MPs

Alok Sharma and Rob Wilson, the deputy mayor of Reading Cllr Sarah Hacker, and representatives from Thames Valley Police, 7 Rifles, armed forces, veterans, Scouts, Guides and Girls’ and Boys’ Brigades.

Great War lunch brings remembrance alive

To commemorate the Great War, members of Caversham Baptist Church used Remembrance Sunday to hold a special lunch.

Featuring food, music and poetry from the early years of the 20th Century, the event aimed to be a fitting commemoration of the 100th anniversary of the start of the Great War. Martyn Strong, from the church, said: “It was a simple lunch of soup, rolls and salad, all with a home grown feel, as those left behind would have had. Bread pudding, homemade of course, and trench cake – a dry cinnamon tasting cake which was ‘popular’ in the trenches.

“As the meal progressed and the poetry read, the gathered diners bowed their heads and remembered those who had fallen and those who had gone before, making a remembrance garden from poppy crosses.”

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Mayor opens new kitchens

The Mayor of Reading, Cllr Tony Jones (centre) opens Park URC’s new kitchen watched by Clare Downing, Moderator Wessex Synod URC and Rob Weston, minister of Park Picture: Vivienne Johnson

BY VIVIENNE JOHNSON

BY PHIL CREIGHTON Young and old gathered in Wokingham to honour the fallen at its annual Remembrance service.

Starting with a parade from Market Place, civic leaders, councillors, armed forces, uniformed organisations and MP John Redwood gathered in All Saints Church in Wiltshire Road for the special service, held on Sunday, November 9.

Part of the Wokingham Remembers series of events, it was standing room only as people queued up to pay their respects in this the 100th year since the start of the Great War. The service opened with the hymn All My Hope On God Is Founded, during which Standards

were received.

Wokingham MP John Redwood read John 6, while the sermon was given by the Revd Nick Hudson, minister of Wokingham Baptist Church and chaplain to the Wokingham Town Mayor.

Prayers were led by the Revd Anna Harwood, associate priest at All Saints and the Lt Col Clare Philips from REME read the exhortation ahead of a two-minute silence. The All Saints Choir then performed Rutter’s Lux Aeterna, before the hymn I Vow To Thee My Country was sung.

The Revd David Hodgson, rector of All Saints, led an act of commitment that included a commitment to peace, healing the wounds of war and working for a just future.

Remembering through song

To commemorate the beginning of the First World War, Tilehurst Methodist Church presented a programme of words, music and pictures over Remembrance week, writes Jan Stephens.

It included a mixture of jolly songs, humour, personal stories of local men, poetry, and political

and social comment, including It’s a Long Way to Tipperary and Keep The Home Fires Burning.

There was also a display of pictures of servicemen who were relatives of local people, reminding people that each poppy is a tribute to a man or woman who will never be forgotten by his family.

They say that the best things come for those that wait ... and 72 years may seem a tad excessive.

For one east Reading women, that’s exactly what’s happened when a newly refurbished kitchen and halls were finally opened at a gala event.

“This is a nostalgic day for me,” laughed Joan Pearson who was serving tea and cake. “I’ve been a coming to this church since 1942... and waiting for a new kitchen since 1942!”

Reading East MP Rob Wilson and Reading Mayor Cllr Tony Jones helped Park United Reform

Church celebrate the opening of its new kitchen and refurbished hall at a special ceremony on Saturday, November 1.

Park URC is an EcoCongregation church, so the new facilities are environmentallyfriendly.

“We are now able to serve 150 people at a time,” said the Revd Rob Weston, minister at Park URC. Cllr Tony Jones said: “I know this building and how it’s used. It’s used by a wide variety of groups and is a fantastic place.”

Rob Wilson said: “Congratulations on building a very important community facility”. v www.parkurc.org.uk

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The biggest & best guide to what’s on is at xnmedia.co.uk v Visiting scheme up nominated for award A WOKINGHAM-based charity that works with isolated older people has been nominated for an award.

The Link Visiting Scheme was shortlisted at the inaugural Christian Funders’ Forum Awards event held at Lambeth Palace on November 12.

The charity, which began 15 years ago in Woodley, now supports over 200 people across Wokingham Borough through home visits and social events and activities.

The charity was nominated by Cinnamon Network in the category of Best Replicable Project in the awards. Other nominees were Clean Sheet (which supports ex-offenders to gain skills to get into work) and Make Lunch (which provides free lunches during school holidays for children who would normally receive free school meals). The category was won by Make Lunch.

Since 2012, The Link Visiting Scheme has been working with churches across the UK to support them in setting up similar befriending schemes in their area.

PROJECTS There are now nine projects in operation ranging from Yorkshire to Brighton and a further eight projects are due be launched shortly.

Marjie Walker, manager of the local scheme, and Jeremy Sharpe, national project coordinator, both attended the awards ceremony.

Jeremy said: “It was great to be nominated for this award as there are 25 Cinnamon Network projects around the country, all of which are doing a great work, so to be recognised as a scheme focusing on good practice and quality standards was a real honour.

“We have a real sense that issues of isolation and loneliness, particularly among older people, is becoming a real concern for government and other organisations.

“We believe that churches and Christian agencies can become a significant part of the answer to this.

By using our model of operation, this can be achieved in a relatively quick and straight-forward way.” v For more information about the Link Visiting Scheme or to get help, visit www.linkvisiting.org or contact Marjie Walker on 0118 979 8019 for the Wokingham scheme, and Jeremy Sharpe on 0300 302 0225 for the national project.

Here’s the news ... Sangeeta drops in!

Sangeeta Bhabra with the Revd Neil Warwick and the Mothers Union of St Nicolas Earley. The newscaster addressed the group. Picture: Lynda Bowyer

Thames Valley news anchor Sangeeta Bhabra attended the Mothers’ Union meeting at St Nicolas Church, Earley on November 11, writes Lynda Bowyer.

Sangeeta, from Lower Earley, fronts the ITV Meridian news programme at 6pm weekdays with Fred Dinenage.

During the talk, Sangeeta spoke candidly of her life and career.

Sangeeta also spoke openly of her devotion to her family, as she is a carer for her disabled brother.

St Nicolas’ vicar, the Revd Neil Warwick, said: “It has been a delight to hear her story in our church.”

Curtain rises on new theatre

BY PHIL CREIGHTON READING’S newest theatre held its inaugural performance to a full house of 150 on Saturday, November 8 and is the start of plans to help transform St Bartholomew’s Church in east Reading into a community hub.

Fantastic Acts was performed by York-based Riding Lights Theatre Company. The play focuses on events relating to the birth of the Church, as seen in the book of Acts.

The group will return to St Barts on Monday, December 1, for a performance of Goose Chase, a feather-flying tale of the first Christmas. The family-friendly show starts at 6.30pm and tickets cost just £3 for children.

The St Bart’s Theatre is working with local theatre company StageFright’s artistic director Michael Johnson.

He is delighted that the very first show sold out: “It shows that there’s an interest for this kind of performance and venue.

He added: “We’re very excited – this is the beginning of a new venture for St Bartholomew’s.

The church is looking to use the building in new and creative ways to attract people who want to explore faith in a different way.”

Stage-Fright has been producing community theatre in the Wokingham area over the past few years and will be working closely

The cast of Fantastic Acts at the launch of St Barts’ Theatre. The next play to be performed will be Mother Goose (pictured below right) with St Bart’s Theatre.

Other groups will also be getting involved including Reading Between The Lines, which is planning a performance of Much Ado About Nothing in February, and Beautiful Creatures, who performed The Fortress at last year’s Caversham Festival.

Michael is excited at the possibility of groups using St Bart’s Theatre as rehearsal and performance space.

“It’s an exciting development,” he said. “We’re also talking to the University of Reading’s art department and schools in the area to see what collaborations we can do together.”

v Goose Chase will be performed by the Riding Lights Theatre Company at 6.30pm on Monday, December 1, at St Bart’s Theatre, St Bartholomew’s Road, east Reading. Tickets cost £7 or £3 for children. For tickets, call the box office on 0118 931 3740.

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Jack Frost battled with Winter Watch Council officers also ran eight events to publicise the Winter Watch scheme.

A SCHEME that helps vulnerable An estimated 7,200 households Reading residents keep warm in Reading – almost 12 per cent through the winter is about – are considered ‘fuel poor’ and to get under way again as the will struggle to afford the cost of weather starts to get colder. heating their homes.

Reading Borough Council’s Cllr Richard Davies, Reading Winter Watch scheme runs until Borough Council’s Lead Member the end of March 2015. for Housing, said: “Rising fuel Since it was launched three costs are a concern for all of years ago, Winter Watch has us and even more so for the provided support and information most vulnerable people in our to more than 2,000 vulnerable community, some of whom are households. faced with choosing whether to Winter Watch targets at-risk heat their homes or to pay other groups including pensioners, bills. people with serious illnesses “I am delighted and disabilities, that this year’s people on a range Winter Watch of benefits and scheme has families with continued to young children. reach out to Last winter 148 members of our community residents were most particularly helped withSix advice, assistancefor and rooms/halls your who meeting suitable forneed our help.” tips on how to reduce their energy small and large groupsCllr (1-140 people) Graeme Hoskin, Reading bills, while 78 residents received Discounts available Borough Council’s Lead Member emergency financial assistance. forfacilities Health, said: “Over the past 10 A further residents were New10 kitchen and upgraded throughout years, it is estimated that there has supported by the Council to Contact Centre Manager, 0845 of 46326,700 6426 excess been Julie, an average gain access to boiler upgrades winter deaths in England and or insulation measures through centremanager@parkurc.org.uk the Government’s ECO funding Further details: Wales. www.parkurc.org.uk “I fully support anything scheme. we can do to guard against the Winter Watch support includes: potentially disastrous effects of • Home energy Version 2 checks inadequate heating on people’s • Draught-proofing 1/8th page horizontal health.”

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An autumn bazaar took visitors 150 years back in time to help celebrate a church’s birthday.

St Paul’s parish bazaar was held on Saturday, November 8 in the Parish Rooms on Reading Road and has the theme 1864 And All That approporiate for the church’sPalmer birthdayPark year.Avenue, RG6 1DN Organisers wore period dress and even arranged for some old-fashioned games such as bagatelle to wow guests at the fun event.

It was opened by Wokingham town mayor Cllr Martin Bishop. He praised the organising team in his welcoming speech. “Thank you for all the work involved in organising this,” he said. “Have a succesful fair.”

All money raised from the day will go to the church’s Restoration Fund.

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HAPPY PILGRIMS! A group from Reading recently sailed on the Sea of Galilee during a Holy Land pilgrimage led by Canon John O’Shea, priest of St James and St William of York Catholic Churches in Reading.

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Rediscovering Reading’s Abbey Quarter

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he secret history of one of the most historic parts of the Thames Valley has been uncovered for a new book, writes Phil Creighton.

Reading’s Abbey Quarter – An Illustrated History is the title of the book, written by local historian John Mullaney.

The book reveals what the precinct of the 12th century Abbey would have looked like, and how the Abbey, founded by Henry I, developed and changed all the way up until his descendant Henry VIII dissolved it.

The ruins were initially plundered and then neglected for hundreds of years before being saved from complete demolition in the nineteenth century.

The book also tells the history of Reading Gaol, made famous by Oscar Wilde, and its predecessors.

Next door neighbour, St James’ Church, is also covered. The Victorian church was the first to be designed by the great Victorian architect and designer of Big Ben, AWN Pugin, in 1840. The school alongside the church dates from the 1870s and covers the probable burial place of Henry I. Some old landmarks have disappeared.

These include the Suttons Seeds headquarters and trial grounds, now covered by Forbury Square and, more recently, the Prudential Building, originally built in the form of an arch to allow the IDR to pass beneath it.

St Laurence’s Church, served by the monks, once stood by another Gateway, known as the Compter Gate, through which pilgrims entered into the Abbey grounds.

There is also a look at the Forbury Gardens, once a market

John Mullaney with his latest book looking at Reading’s historic Abbey Quarter. It features illustrations by his son, John R Mullaney FSAI, showing what the area would have been like

In the 1860s, the Forbury Botanical Gardens opened Pic: Reading Library

The Abbey Gateway and entrance to Jane Austen’s school in 1790 Picture: Reading Library

place and fairground, and later transformed by the Victorians into ‘pleasure gardens’.

Here too, there were times when developments might have destroyed the Forbury. The arrival of the railway in 1840 brought problems such as air pollution to the area and radically altered the northern part of the old Abbey grounds.

A 1928 project proposed covering the Forbury with new municipal buildings and the original IDR plan would have taken the road through the western part of the gardens.

A unique aspect of the book is provided by illustrations by John and Lindsay’s son, John R Mullaney, a professional architectural illustrator and a fellow of the Society of Architectural Illustration.

These show an imaginative reconstruction of how the Abbey

may have looked in its heyday, based on archaeological evidence and comparison with other Cluniac abbeys built at the same time.

The book is a fascinating introduction to the historic heart of Reading, a town whose origins go back to Saxon and Viking times and which has at times played an important part in the history of England.

John and Lindsay have spent three years researching it and can now tell its story. Thanks to hundreds of illustrations, maps, photographs and paintings – many provided by Reading Library, a crucial partner in the research – the book is a fascinating glimpse into the past. v Reading’s Abbey Quarter – An Illustrated History costs £15 and can be bought at local bookshops, Reading Museum or direct from Scallop Shell Press: www.scallopshellpress.co.uk.

Take time out and enjoy a cuppa and a chat or soup and a roll!

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You can’t beat a good cup of coffee and a chance to chat – and that’s what you can enjoy at Coffee & Chat, a brilliant new coffee morning in Reading’s town centre!

• Meet old friends and make new ones • Everyone is welcome • Tea, coffee, cakes and biscuits • Delicious home-made soups • Every Wednesday • Coffee: 10am-11.30am Soup: 12.30pm-2pm Abbey Baptist Church Abbey Square, Reading (behind Reading Central Library) (0118) 957 2197 www.abbeybaptistchurch.org.uk

New friendship group CAMEO meets on the 1st Wednesday of the month at 2.15pm

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Make a noise! The Rend Collective teamed up with Phil Wickham for The Big Church Night In. Held at The Globe in Portman Road, Reading on Tuesday, November 11, the evening saw more than 1,100 people come together to hear some great music.

The night was one date on a national tour, helping bring the vibe of the Big Church Day Out to Reading.

Picture: LYNDA BOWYER

The Monday People PICTURE: VIVIENNE JOHNSON

BY VIVIENNE JOHNSON

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f you had to choose one word to sum up Monday People it would be ‘Fun’.

The group, which meets in Woodley, is a church especially for adults who have learning difficulties and their carers.

“The aim is to enable them to learn, to worship, and to form friendships in an informal meeting,” said Mary Carpenter, one of Monday People’s helpers.

During the meetings, the short service uses very simple images and ideas, but the power of the message is in no way diluted.

As many of the senses are brought into play as possible.

“We use a total communication system,” said David Quinnell who, with his wife Nancy, are group leaders. “We are very visual, we sign with Makaton and we use the spoken and written word. We also find that food breaks down barriers.”

The Monday People meeting of October 27 was a celebration of Harvest. It started with joyful singing, a favourite activity for some.

“I like singing hymns,” said Kathryn, 16, the youngest member of the group. “Jesus Is The King Of Heaven is my favourite.”

The harvest celebration continued with some strange looking fruit and vegetables being identified and a taste session of homemade bread and different fruit.

David had baked some tasty samples for everyone to try. With tomato, cheese and herb, and fried onion flavours there was a lot to see, smell and taste.

Food is always a part of the service and helper Lesley King often brings home made cakes and treats.

Michael voted the food the best part of the service. He said: “It’s all very good, but the best bit is the food. I like praying for people but I like the cakes and bread too.”

Monday People is run by Woodley Airfield Church at the CofE School in Hurricane Way, Woodley.

“The school’s head teacher has been very positive and always encouraged us to use the school building.” said Nancy, who is a Methodist Lay Preacher. v New members are always welcome. To find out more, call Nancy Quinnell on 0118 926 8590.

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The Pathfinders group of St John the Evangelist Church in Woodley baked chocolate, lemon, coffee, fruitcakes, cupcakes, meringues, scones and more for a special café after a recent morning service. Money raised bought Meaningful Chocolate Advent Calendars for the church’s younger children.

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v Festive sing-a-long with Sainsbury CAVERSHAM – The Sainsbury Singers are inviting you to jingle all the way to St Peter’s Church in Caversham later this month.

The talented musical group will be holding its festive concert on Saturday, December 13. It will feature a selection of carols and Christmas songs, including Once in Royal David’s City, O, Little Town of Bethlehem, Joy to the World, The Christmas Song (Chestnuts Roasting on an Open Fire) and its very special version of Jingle Bells.

Entry is free, but donations are welcomed. The concert starts at 3pm.

v A panto concert EARLEY – The Friends of St Peter’s Christmas Concert this year takes on the theme of Pantoland. Oh yes it does.

Taking place from 7pm on Saturday, December 6, it will feature music, songs, Pantomime sketches and lots of favourite Pantomime characters.

Suitable for all ages, tickets cost £5 or £2 for children and includes festive refreshments. v For details, call 0118 966 8575 or visit www.earley-stpeter.org.uk

Bookshop to remain open

BY PHIL CREIGHTON A BOOKSHOP that has served Reading for decades is celebrating after plans for its closure have been put on ice.

Quench Bookshop in London Road, Reading, has reported an increase in custom, meaning that it no longer needs to close its doors at Christmas.

An announcement from Quench said: “The team at the Reading branch of Quench are delighted to announce that thanks to an increased amount of support over the last few months, we will not be closing at Christmas.”

Until Christmas Eve, the store will be open from 10am to 5pm Monday to Saturday.

Staff will enjoy a Christmas break before reopening on January 12 with a big January sale.

In February, it will then settle down to a three-day working week, open Thursdays to Saturdays from 10am to 5pm. v For more details, call 0118 957 6078 or email admin@quenchshop. com.

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Thousands of people walked the streets of Wokingham to take part in the annual torchlit procession.

Led by Wokingham Town Mayor Cllr Martin Bishop and Wokingham Borough Deputy Mayor Cllr Parry Batth, the procession snaked from the Town Hall in Market Place to Cantley Field near to the Cantley House Hotel for a fundraising spectacular organisd by the newly-formed Wokingham Fireworks Society. The event took place on Sunday, November 9, a day later than planned due to the poor weather on Saturday night.

MP sings for death watch beetle John Howell (far right) with his scratch choir

Every month, Xn strives to bring the Thames Valley an inspiring and encouraging mix of news and information.

We need your help to get the magazine into the community If you could spare a couple of hours once a month to help us deliver copies to a small cluster of venues it will help us to tell even more good news stories.

For details, email judith@xnmedia.co.uk

Correspondents needed We want to expand our good news – but we need your help.

Help us to share news from your church, community group, club or choir. We are looking for volunteers to help us source interesting and inspiring stories for our magazine and website. No experience necessary: just bags of enthusiasm.

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The MP for the Henley constituency, John Howell, conducted a scratch choir in a choral evensong on Saturday to help the Oxfordshire Historic Churches Trust (OHCT) fund-raising campaign for its Jubilee Year. The evensong was held at Great Milton church, a church which had received funds from OHCT to deal with death watch beetle.

John Howell said: “I had been looking for a means of making a contribution to the OHCT campaign

to raise £3 million for Oxfordshire’s churches in its Jubilee Year. The idea of conducting a choral evensong with a scratch choir drawn from across the Deanery was suggested and well received.

“Singers from different communities rose to the challenge and the service was much appreciated by the special congregation which came together to celebrate with the choir. I think they were a bit surprised to find their MP conducting.”

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Thames Valley Churches Football League

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Advantage to Albion ... for now at least

By James Hern & CHRIS BALTHORP

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ilehurst Albion emerged in a strong position after an eventful November saw them sitting two points clear of West Reading CFC at the top of the TVCFL league table with a game in hand.

The month started well with Albion coming from 1-0 down at half time to beat Brookside St Laurence 4-1. Brookside started brightly with Steve Magness giving them a lead at the break.

Albion however came out much brighter in the second half, with player-manger Michael Herbert leading by example and scoring two goals. Luke Turner also grabbed a brace. Albion followed the victory up with a win the following week, this time beating Greyfriars FC 7-1.

It was a tough month for Brookside St Laurence. Having finished second in the league and losing in the final of the Philmar Cup last season, they would have been looking to go one better in both competitions this year.

Three straight defeats against title rivals has left them nine points behind Albion. After the defeat to Albion, they were well beaten by a resurgent Kerith FC 5-1, and then lost 4-2 against West Reading CFC the following week.

And it is West Reading CFC who are emerging as Albion’s main title rivals, after their victory against Brookside St Laurence.

Despite suffering a defeat in November, slipping to a 3-1 loss against Bethel United, they have proven match winner Jamie Carstairs on top form this season. Carstairs added a hattrick against Brookside St Laurence to take his tally for the season to 21 goals.

Towards the bottom of the table, five teams are separated by only three points.

Reading Saints have picked up four points so far this season, with a 3-0 victory against Wycliffe Wanderers and a draw with West Reading Reserves. Norreys FC and Newbury YMCA sit one point behind with West Reading Reserves sitting a point clear of Greyfriars FC who are currently propping up the table with a single point.

With all the bottom sides playing each other

FIXTURES v December 6 Newbury YMCA v Greyfriars FC Bethel United v B’side St Laurence FC W Rdg Reserves v Kerith FC West Reading CFC v Tilehurst Albion Norreys FC v Reading Saints

v December 13 Kerith FC v Newbury YMCA Reading Saints v Bethel United Wycliffe Wanderers v Greyfriars FC West Reading CFC v Norreys FC W Rdg Reserves v B’side St Laurence

in the coming month, expect some positional changes in the lead up to Christmas.

Special mention must be made regarding West Reading Reserves who have found some form, picking up their first two points of the campaign in their last two games.

After a fantastic 2-2 draw against Reading Saints, they showed tremendous character to come from 4-0 down against Greyfriars FC to draw 4-4, despite having a player sent off early in the first half.

Alex Ray is proving to be the difference this season for the Reserves, having scored six of the team’s 16 league goals so far.

Looking forward to next month’s action, Match-of-the-Month will be the critical top of the table clash on Saturday 6 December, which will see second place West Reading CFC take on leaders Tilehurst Albion.

West Reading have not lost to Tilehurst Albion in the three seasons Albion have played in the league: the neutrals will be hoping they keep that record intact to keep the title race alive.

Calling All Churches: The TVCFL: what are we all about?

The TVCFL is looking to develop over the next few seasons, and are looking for teams to join us: whether to play in the league, cup or just friendlies against other churches.

But what are we all about?

The Thames Valley Churches Football League was founded in 1987 with the purpose to involve men on the periphery of the churches as well as to develop sporting ties and friendship between participating churches.

Expectations for conduct, sportsmanship and fair play were set high to ensure that a good spirit was maintained and developed.

Now, 27 years later, the league is still going strong and maintains the vision of providing a competitive football league for church-based teams where expectations towards attitude, fair play and sportsmanship are

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valued on a par, if not higher, than winning.

The TVCFL is an 11-a-side league for church based teams.

Games are played on a Saturday morning which allows players the rest of the weekend to spend with family and to continue playing football without having to make a choice between football and church on a Sunday.

Before kick-off teams gather around the centre-circle to pray.

This provides an opportunity to give thanks to God for the opportunity to play football together and acts as a reminder to players to ensure their behaviour and attitude honours Jesus.

It is our vision that through the way the league is run, teams are managed, and the way in which players are encouraged to approach games, we will stand out as being different from

league TABLE

P W D L F A W D L F A GD PTS

Tilehurst Albion 6 1 0 0 1 0 5 0 0 24 9 16 18 Greyfriars FC v Kerith FC West Reading CFC 7 4 1 0 19 7 1 0 1 4 5 11 16 Bethel United v Tilehurst Albion Reading Saints v West Reading CFC

Kerith FC 6 2 0 1 13 7 2 1 0 9 3 12 13 Wycliffe Wanderers v W Rdg Reserves Bethel United 6 3 0 0 11 2 1 0 2 10 8 11 12 Norreys FC v Newbury YMCA Wycliffe Wanderers 7 2 0 2 10 8 2 0 1 9 8 3 12

Philmar Cup B’side St Laurence 6 2 0 2 12 14 1 0 1 6 7 -3 9 B’side St Laurence FC v Brentford Reading Saints 5 0 1 1 3 5 1 0 2 6 5 -1 4 v January 10

Norreys FC 4 1 0 1 6 6 0 0 2 2 8 -6 3 Wycliffe Wanderers v W Reading CFC

Newbury YMCA 5 1 0 2 9 12 0 0 2 5 14 -12 3 Bethel United v Kerith FC Norreys FC v B’side Saint Laurence FC W Rdg Reserves 6 0 1 1 9 10 0 1 3 7 21 -15 2 W Rdg Reserves v Newbury YMCA

Greyfriars FC 6 0 0 3 5 18 0 1 2 7 10 -16 1 Reading Saints v Tilehurst Albion

Table correct as of November 21, 2014

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typical ‘Sunday League’ football.

This can be a challenge to achieve, but over the past few years the TVCFL have taken big steps forward to achieving our vision.

This is down to our managers, support from churches and players approaching the game in the right spirit.

We would love more churches from within the Thames Valley to get involved with the league, cup and five-a-side competitions.

Football is a fantastic way to bring people together and can be an ideal way in which to introduce young men into church life.

You can also keep track of the latest results and action in Xn magazine each month.

If you would like to find out more about the league, please get in touch: tvcfl.secretary@ gmail.com.

top SCORERS Jamie Carstairs

Tom Wilson

Toby Briggs

Neil Healy

Alex Ray Shane Newton

Dan Hare Courtenay Isaacs

Paul Hirst

West Reading CFC 17 Kerith FC 7 Tilehurst Albion 7 Wycliffe Wanderers 6 W Reading Reserves 6 Bethel United 6 Reading Saints 5 B’side St Laurence 5 Newbury YMCA 4

All on three goals: George Homewood, Tilehurst Albion, James Hern, Greyfriars FC, Richard Kiersley, Tilehurst Albion, Asa Povey, West Reading Reserves, Daniel Priest, Bethel United,Tom Klitgaard, Kerith FC, Kingsley Goodridge, Bethel United

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Thus, if a 3 is shown as a clue there will be two cells waiting for you to put the digits 1 and 2 in them – the only possible sum that will equal 3.

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v Wokingham is in for a fascinating night

Make sense, not War

TO CELEBRATE the launch of her latest album, a singer will make a guest appearance in Wokingham later this month.

Lou Fellingham has just released her latest album Fascinate, packed with new songs.

She will perform some of them, along with some festive tunes, at the concert which will take place at Wokingham Baptist Church in Milton Road on Sunday, December 7.

Doors open at 7pm and tickets cost £10. v Tickets can be ordered by emailing tickets@rebranded.org.uk or by calling 07967 001192.

v Fury (15) Stars Brad Pitt, Shia LaBoeuf, Logan Lerman

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v Phoenix to rise Don “Wardaddy” Collier (Brad Pitt, centered) and his men Boyd Swan (Shia LaBeouf), Norman Ellison (Logan Lerman), Trini Garcia (Michael Pe–a) and Grady Travis (Jon Bernthal) Picture: Giles Keyte/© 2014 CTMG, Inc character of Collier, towards women, and towards Norman, whose journey from innocent abroad to battle-hardened killer forms the central focus of the story.

Whatever else has happened, LaBeouf comes of age as a serious actor in this film, as does Lerman.

We saw Fury on the evening of Remembrance Sunday. I think that reinforced the reality of the suffering and the emotions associated with it, along with the incredible bravery of men who faithfully carried out their duty in the face of overwhelming odds.

One quote in particular stands out, and comes from Collier: “Ideals are peaceful. History is violent.”

The question that the film, and Remembrance Day itself, brings to light is “How can we make the peaceful ideals into reality and change the nature of History?”

The answer begins in the words

v Martin’s pick of the flicks The Imitation Game (12A)

Benedict Cumberbatch stars as Alan Turing, the genius who cracked the German Enigma Code Machine in the Second World War.

Night At The Museum: Secret of the Tomb(TBC) Ben Stiller brings mayhem to the British Museum in a search to keep

his exhibit friends alive.

The film also features the final on-screen performance from Robin Williams before his death.

I’m still excited about v The Hunger Games Mockingjay Part 1 v The Hobbit The Battle of the Five Armies

One to avoid v Nativity 3 Dude, Where’s My Donkey? (U)

of Isaiah 6, quoted by Swan...”I heard the Lord asking, ‘Whom should I send as a messenger to this people? Who will go for us?’ I said, ‘Here I am, send me.”

Maybe then, as we take the message of peace to others, one by one we could change History itself...

The Revd Martin Ceaser is minister of Crowthorne Baptist Church

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hen I heard that Shia LaBoeuf had “found God during Fury” I had to go and see the film for myself.

He plays Boyd “Bible” Swan, a member of the tank’s crew known for his faith, trusting in God for protection in the midst of the horrors of war.

Pitt plays Don “Wardaddy” Collier, the tough tank commander who has promised to keep his men safe and has to deal with losing one of his crew at the start of the film.

That crew member is replaced by rookie Norman Ellison (Lerman), who struggles to find acceptance with the rest of the team. Gradually Norman becomes Norm, and then he is given a “war nickname” and final acceptance with the group.

The film does not make for relaxed viewing – it’s violent, bloody, gruesome and intense. It’s also compelling, leaving you on the edge of your seat and occasionally making you jump out of it.

War is depicted in all its brutality, intensity, inhumanity and senselessness; life is cheap, and the ‘first kill’ is seen as a rite of passage.

It is accepted that many people need to die before the war would end.

Yet in the midst of the brutality we also find faith, compassion, humanity and humility, often displayed in the very complicated

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PLANS are being made for a fantastic fundraising concert to take place next year.

Reading Phoenix Choir will be performing at All Saints Church in Downshire Square, Reading on Saturday, February 7.

The evening will help raise funds for the church’s building project.

Tickets have just gone on sale and cost £10, or £7 for under 16s. v For more details call Ann on 0118 958 0991 or Jill on 0118 959 5383, or log on to www. readingphoenixchoir.com.

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These bamboo socks for men are £4.90 from www.traidcraft. co.uk – ladies socks are available too.

Ethical pioneer People Tree has a wide range of great gifts including these Starlight Earrings, £20, and Bear Gloves, £20. Order from www. peopletree.co.uk

The World Shop in RISC offers a wide range of ethical gifts for all age ranges and pockets. The store is on London Street, Reading

Brighten any home with this Fairtrade Autumn Bouquet, £35 from Marks & Spencer. It includes Cerise alstroemeria, Mixed colour roses and Solidago flowers.

Cred Jewellery offers fairtrade gifts you can wear, including its Tying The Knot collection, made from Fairtrade silver and Rose Gold and made from Peruvian metal. Price start at £59.

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Smoothie fans will enjoy this Breville Blend-Active Personal Blender Family Pack. Includes 2 x 600ml and 2 x 300ml BPA-free bottles for all the family. £29.99 from Amazon.co.uk.

Liberation’s oven baked Fairtrade peppercorn peanuts with cashews and habas fritas are available at Traidcraft, Essential Trading and Greencity Wholefoods

Eco-friendly homeware store Darwin’s Home has this utensil pot hand made from macramed recycled paper, £29. www.darwinshome.com

Get six 5cm x 5cm miniature double sided glass frames from www. decoratorsnotebook.co.uk.

You can make your own collage of favourite photos, ephemera and keepsakes for a unique gift, £24.95.

Grumpy Mule Gift Sets are perfect for coffee lovers. The Coffee & Mug set includes fairtrade coffee for £18.99.

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The Body Shop has a wide range of gift sets, including this Satsuma beauty bag, £12, and men’s shaving set £25. www.thebodyshop.co.uk

Fairhills Fairtrade Keep Light and Be Fair Fruity Rosé Cocktail drink, £2.99 for 500ml.

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food

Let’s talk turkey!

Christmas cooking woes are a thing of the past as there are now more ways you can lay your hands on information about how to roast the big bird.

The British Turkey help service now includes a new Live Chat function on www.britishturkey. co.uk – you can get help online from December 1.

Everything you could possibly want to know about defrosting and cooking your turkey is all on the website, but if you really want a quick answer to a question, log into Live Chat and

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ne of the things that keeps cooks going at Christmas is the knowledge that once the turkey is cooked there’s a week of easy eating from the leftovers.

Turkey sandwiches, turkey salads, turkey curries, turkey pies, turkey pasta – plus delicious soup from boiling the bones – make a large whole turkey the best choice for economy as well as ease.

The British Turkey industry says buying a whole turkey complete with legs, wings and a carcass for the stockpot makes sense when we’re looking for value for money.

It calculates an average size 4-5kg bird will give you the basis for up to 30 meals at a cost of 83p a head for the turkey meat.

The British Turkey Information Service, which gives defrosting, cooking and carving advice, says you should strip the carcass and refrigerate the meat as soon as possible after Christmas lunch.

The leftover meat will keep several days in the fridge, but make sure it is piping hot again before eating when using in hot dishes.

For complete reassurance that you are buying a British turkey reared to high welfare and food safety standards, look for the Quality British Turkey mark alongside the Red Tractor logo.

It’s easy to get savvy with the leftovers. Three great ideas to tempt jaded tastebuds: • Slow cook a Moroccan-style stew with fragrant sweet butternut squash, fiery harissa and the authentic spice mix ras al hanout.

• Crumble leftover Stilton into a creamy pie filling of turkey, sweet potatoes and earthy mushrooms.

Top with shop-bought puff pastry and cook until golden on top and piping hot underneath • Make a tasty jambalaya by adding juicy prawns, spicy chorizo, tomatoes and Cajun spices to rice cooked in stock. v Find more recipes and cooking tips at www.britishturkey.co.uk.

speak direct with one of the British Turkey experts. You can also call free on 0800 783 9994.

Live Chat is open 9am-5pm on weekdays, including Christmas Eve, but if you contact

out of these hours, a message can be left and someone will reply.

Also available is Turkey Text! Simply text the word “Turkey” followed by the weight in kilos to 64446 and you will get an instant text back with the number of people it will feed and the cooking time.

A Christmas Turkey Timer app is available for iPhones: type in the weight of your turkey and it calculates the roasting time which you can then set to countdown timer.

The Turkey Team always look forward to hearing from anyone with any questions or worries about the Christmas turkey.

Tilehurst Village Butchers & Grocers: fresh fruits & vegetables

The Tilehurst Village Butchers is proud to add the “COPAS” range of Turkeys to the already luxurious range of Christmas foods.

We already supply “Walters” turkeys and now with the COPAS range, we really do offer both high quality and value birds.

Quality products you can trust Beef, pork, bacon & gammon, lamb, poultry, Home-made sausages, prepared meat packs, home-made pies, fish, fresh fruit and vegetables.

Pay us a visit to find what you need!

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