How to become a successful person in life

How To Become A Successful Person In Life digitalbloggers.com /business/how-to-become-a-successful-person-in-life Oct 30, 2016 4 views Written by Sergei VanBellinghen

Author Sergei VanBellinghen

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Have you ever notice a specific or most common characteristic that is relating a successful people to another? Observe any successful person, and tell me what are you noticing?

But again, it seems that everybody has a different answer to that question. Every other day, I get asked the question “How can I become a successful person?� by all kinds of people from different paths of life.

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And I tell them what I have come to realize through all of my experiences in any domain or field I got my hands on, “You will rapidly notice that the characteristic of any successful person is a mentor”.

The Fastest Road to Success Most, if not all, of the successful business people, actors, singers, athletes, etc. I read about or known have had a coach, a mentor, someone more successful than them at the time they started. They learned from this person oneon-one all they had to know.

We all had teachers in school as we were young; we all had someone showing us how it worked as we arrived on a new job. Even I had and still have my share of mentors.

The fastest way to become a successful person is by connecting with a mentor . You need to have a master, a coach, a mentor in order to study any new skill set so as to acquire in a shorter time frame what you would learn in years or in a lifetime.

The Limited Access to Good Mentors But it is not easy these days to have personal access to the greatest mentors; it became a limited access in today’s world of social media and false self-promotion. I had to discover a sidetrack to the matter as many others did before me, and I can tell you that you do not really need the best of mentors at the beginning.

What do I mean by that? Well I began by learning from others which had been students of these great coaches and mentors. I continue my education through all successful people that exist or existed with the knowledge they had written and left behind in books. This way, you study success by secondhand coaching. Within this amazing approach, you get a broader view of all that pertains to success.

You accumulate and assimilate qualities, principles and ethics of many before you. The books ‘The Science of Getting Rich’ and ‘Think and Grow Rich”, respectively, were written in the beginning of the 20th century and it spoke about the subconscious mind and the infinite power of thought or law of attraction, and yet, it is not so long ago that a small percentage of people awoke to this discovery via the book ‘The secret’.

How to Become a Successful Person Your best chance of becoming a successful person is following the general approaches, characteristics and values shared by other successful people before you. By this, I mean that if you make a monthly 4 figures, you should simply connect with another person which earns 5 figures so as to learn how to step up, and so forth. Here are some things that create a difference: Learn and know yourself.

Use consistent habits to accomplish more.

Follow your gut feeling.

Get ahead of the knowledge curve and stay there by reading and self‑education.

Dream big and set your goals.

Find a proper balance in life.

Treat failures as stepping stones.

Stay focused and Work Hard.

Stick to your plan and never give up.

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Be confident and take risks.

Be with the right kind of people.

Believe in yourself and in what you do.

Stay positive and keep moving ahead.

Socialize for business.

What is Required of You 1. Time and Patience There will be, very often, a long gap between the seeds you planted and reaping its fruits. It will, more than likely, take months, even years for all of what you sowed to bear fruit. No shortcut will happen as it is impossible to break nature’s rules. You need patience and wait for success to come.

2. Sacrifices Be willing to make sacrifices in order to become a successful person and achieve what matters to you most. I see so many people throw their energies in all directions to end up with nothing. To achieve your success, focus all of your energy on it.

3. Strengths Focus Focus on your strengths and not on your weaknesses. But you need to learn to sculpt, carve, dust and polish these assets until they carry value in the market of your choice. You can become a successful person in life if you work in an area which matches your strengths.

4. Long Hours An average of ten thousand hours of practice, at least, is required to achieve mastery in a field. And if, like me, you are an average person, it may take you even harder work to reach success in life. You will have to invest a lot of time, while others will spend it on trivial and wasted activities.

5. Success Know that complete success is nonexistent. Every success always hides some failure and every failure always covers some success.

6. Team Up How can one become a great successful person in life? Team up and collaborate with other people that complete your weaknesses. You know full well that nature hasn’t given you all the qualities and abilities. So choose wisely and build a great team including different talents and thoughts.

As you can see, to become a successful person, it is important to think about the best plan of action and determine a mentor which would be beneficial to you so that you have the greatest number of chances to succeed.

If you don’t know of a great mentor, and you are in need of one >>> Here is MINE Share your thoughts below this page

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Sergei VanBellinghen, Founder & CEO of First-Class Lifestyle and sergeivanbellinghen.com, Success & Self-Improvement Coach, Freedom entrepreneur & business partner of Stuart Ross, also counselor in East Europe-West relationships, a passionate Globetrotter and an avid audio booker

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