How to become the best version of yourself

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Author Sergei VanBellinghen

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If I said oxygen and gravity had no effect on you because you can’t see these forces, you wouldn’t buy it, would you? And yet, sadly that is what most people do with the power of thought.

People can’t see it, so they dismiss it, they don’t believe it to be a force in the universe that has control over their destiny. To become strong in anything or to become the best version of yourself, it will require you absolute selfbelief.

“Nearly every person takes the limits of his or her own field of vision for the limits of the world” – Arthur Schopenhauer.

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Just like you have faith in earth’s gravity to support you so you can walk along confidently, I invite you to have faith in the things you see only in your imagination as you stare off day dreaming and realize that they are just as real. As I said it many times before, your subconscious doesn’t know if the situation is real or imaginary.

Do not take miracles like gravity for granted! It is the force that keeps you on this planet and keeps all things in order in the universe, and that is a miracle in itself, don’t you think?

A Journey of Discovery My journey as how to become the best version of myself has always been to walk confidently in the direction of my dreams in faith that my dreams already exist and will reveal themselves in time, just as you walk confidently around your house in faith that gravity exists.

Growing up, I loved reading, and that is when came these great creative ideas to build something worth dedicating the rest of my time on earth to. I agree, life is like a ride on a rollercoaster, with ups and downs, but what I have learned from my self-education is that any vision you put your mind to, is worth it and achievable.

Throughout your journey of discovering and becoming the best version of yourself, there will be obstacles, problems and major setbacks. But it is not the setbacks themselves that gives them power, it is what you do with them that gives them power. You need to believe deep down that you will succeed, you can have no doubts. Why? Because doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will.

See It Done in Your Mind Build self-confidence because confidence is like a muscle, the more you use it, the stronger it gets.

I am really big on manifestation. I truly believe that if you can see it in your mind, then you will eventually hold it in your hand. Half of the success is truthfully psyching yourself out. You must believe that you have the power to do so and to become what you want, take the necessary steps and it will get done.

Too many people choose to go through life with a fixed mindset. They believe this can’t be done because of x, y, and z which ultimately enables them to be factored out. They have already perceived the situation negatively, and yet they truly have not even dealt with it yet.

Become the Best Version of Yourself Allow yourself to grow into your greatness by trusting in yourself more. Understand that where you are now is not where you will be forever. It all starts with affirmations, and then it is complemented and esteemed by action. Write the best version of yourself down, create a vision board with it, hang it on your wall or set it as your computer background as I did. Use “paint” in windows to create it.

Whatever it is, constantly have a solidified visual reminder of what you want or why you started on this path, and you will have no choice but to feel urged to fulfill it.

Surround yourself with winners and not losers that complain at every chance they get. You are going after the best version of yourself, remember, and you will make it a reality through you ONLY.

The ‘You Have Changed’ Line Don’t you hate when you start become more mature and then someone hits you with the “You have changed” line?

And they say it with such spite. Since when did change become a bad thing? If you are just like me, then you want to constantly grow, learn and elevate yourself mentally, physically and spiritually. If not, you wouldn’t be reading my

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The next time someone tells you that you have changed, tell them thank you and say that it is called “evolving and becoming the best version of yourself”.

Do Not Get Too Comfortable I always wanted to be a top version in every aspect of my life. So I think too much comfort prevents us from growing.

Never stop evolving. If you are bored at work, find something new to learn, get a hobby or get a new job. If you are too comfortable in your relationship, romance each other again, and flirt often with each other, as it is a great foreplay. If working out, find new ways to push yourself physically.

Don’t let comfort psyche you into thinking you got it all together. As long as you are on this earth, there always something to learn, a new adventure to take, a new place to see, a new creative idea to develop. People who want to leave legacies are never casual with being too comfortable because they feel this driving force that moves them to greater things to accomplish.

And don’t forget that is impossible to be positive 24/7. Don’t even put that kind of pressure on yourself. Please don’t think that because you want to live a fulfilled and spiritual life that it is a thing that will happen naturally. You are a spiritual being having a human experience. It is perfectly natural to experience human emotions, and to know that not all things will be sunshine and roses.

The best thing to do is accept… just accept and know that the bigger purpose is to become the best version of yourself. The beautiful thing about life is that each day we get a brand new chance to start over again.

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Sergei VanBellinghen, Founder & CEO of First-Class Lifestyle and sergeivanbellinghen.com, Success & Self-Development Coach, Freedom entrepreneur & business partner of Stuart Ross, also counselor in East Europe-West relationships, a passionate Globetrotter and an avid audio booker

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