How To build Self-Confidence And Self-Esteem digitalbloggers.com /Yusupov8/how-to-build-self-confidence-and-self-esteem/ 3 Tips to boost your confidence (Video) Life is not always easy, surely when we come to find ourselves at the lowest; it is then that we need self-confidence and self-esteem. Since circumstances, situations or problems in our existence arise, knocking us off balance with a feeling of disarray, sometime in panic, and leaving us wounded, at times to the core. At those times, you can’t even recall what normal feels like anymore. You wonder and question yourself by saying things like “Will I ever go back up this slope?” “Will I ever find strength again?” Remember that you are not at all alone. Even if most of my friends call me “ Iceman”, I had my share of aches and confusion, just like you, and it is the chief reason why I was led to become a lifestyle and success coach.
A Get Back On Your Feet Story Let me share one of many stories that have happened throughout my life. When I arrived in Los Angeles, California, from another state, I got all my money stolen from my room; so I wandered with my bags and found myself in the streets of the San Fernando Valley with nothing left to my name. I was homeless. I slept three nights in a park near Van Nuys, not the safest place in LA, and thought of a way to get back on my feet. I do not why, but I just believed that something better would come my way. And like each time it happened in my life, it was at my lowest that I found the courage, self-confidence and strength to rise up again like the Phoenix. My second morning, I went to an AA meeting – Alcoholic Anonymous – to drink coffee and donuts, there I listened to people sharing their message, some of them were famous. As I sat there, someone came and asked me to share, so I shared my story. After the meeting, that same person came over to me, and said that he would help me if I was coming back the day after. So next morning I came back and he got me into a halfway house, even if I wasn’t an alcoholic and I had to follow rules, it was surely a way to get back on my feet.
Circumstances Change with Time You see, circumstances change with time. With each situation, and by believing positively and moving forward, you build more and more self-confidence and self-esteem for yourself. Over the years, this way of thinking always got me through. When I created my blog, I kept asking myself “What are people really looking for?”, so I inquired some of my followers, and what I discovered moved me very deeply. They were all reading and looking for: Inspiration. In each hour of any day, people are seeking ways to be inspired, to get rid of their problems and feel “better” about themselves — feel confident again.
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