The 10 most likely forgotten directives you have in your life

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In countless fashion, life has always a way of reminding us about things we may have heard a thousand times by means of numerous different avenues during our existence, and yet, we don’t realize that we most certainly overlooked them.

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These 10 most likely forgotten directives learned and reminded to us several times over the course of our lifetime are very important; yet again we failed to completely grasp them somehow.

How could this happen? How could we possibly not pay more attention to such vital facts?

1. Every Second Life Changes Change is something that is permanently occurring in someone’s life and transforms the path of their existence every second. An inoffensive decision might shake our lives, making it crash or turning it around for the better.

Conditions and situations are altered and modified all the time, and often suddenly.

But one thing you can be sure of is that however good or bad circumstances are they change. Don’t worry about what could happen, live your life to the fullest. And remember that life is your best teacher.

2. Material Status is a Bonus Material things are important but really are just material. We all like to have a nice car, a beautiful house, etc. but today, we live in a world that has such strong focus on material stuff. You need to realize that your mind is manipulated by the all media. And it only wants to turn you into a customer that buys things that you don’t need.

Don’t waste your life away with media deceit which is created to get you to dress, look and be a certain way until you forget who you are. The real thing is your family, your loved ones, your friends, your dreams, your desires, your ideas and YOU. So make your own decision when it comes to you and don’t get influenced.

When you look in the streets, what do you see? Most people are on their phone, so spend less time on it and take the time to have real conversations with real people. Forget TV unless it is to watch something that could lift you up.

Don’t look at the news; they give only the negative side of things.

3. Life is Shorter than You Think You owe it to yourself, live life in the present. As one of the most likely forgotten directives, you should remind yourself that life is shorter than you want to believe. Death comes to us all, ultimately; there is no other choice. But we still chocked when it happens to a person we knew.

So don’t be afraid of death. You should be more afraid of a life of regrets where you never accomplished your dreams because you were too worried of what could happen to take action. The greatest loss is not death, but what dies inside you while you are still alive. Be scared, it is natural but then take action anyway.

4. Love Yourself before Anyone Else When it comes to someone loving you, let that person love you just the way you are. Yes, let that person love you despite all the flaws and unattractiveness you think you have, or even if you think you are incomplete, and let that someone be YOU. I agree, it is vital to be kind to others, but isn’t it more essential to be nice to yourself? You need to love yourself before you can take care of anyone else. So know that you are worth it in spite of what other people might say. We all have people who do not value us. It is impossible to be liked by everyone.

5. Do and Think are not One and the same The adage “Good things come to those who wait” is incorrect; they come to those who plan, begin and work on their dreams and goals. Most successful people know that knowledge is basically useless without action. Actions speak

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louder than words.

There is no elevator to success; you need to take the stairs. And remember, if you wait until the time is right or when you feel you need to be totally ready to begin, you will surely be waiting forever.

6. Your Life is yours If life teaches one thing, is that taking a passionate risk is worth trying. You may not know where you are going to land but be adventurous and step at the edge of the unfamiliar by breaking out of your comfort zone. Your life is yours, and only yours. Walk the path that lines up with your own perception, visions and dreams, and pave a new one when it is necessary.

Your life should be made up entirely of your choices, and not someone else’s. The bottom of the ladder you want is always better than the top of a ladder you don’t. Be productive and wait your time. Patience is not about waiting, but the aptitude to stay positive while working hard for your dreams.

7. Busy and Productive are Opposite Take a look around. There are more busy people than productive people in this world. Every morning, you see busy people rushing all over the city, and most of them are running late. They are racing to work, meetings, appointments, and more. Messages are flying out of their smart phones, and their day is packed with obligations.

That busy agenda creates the illusion of feeling important. Yet, they never have enough time for their loved ones.

They are like hamsters running on a wheel. We all have times where we have a lot to do, but we should learn how to live normally, say no when needed and prioritize appropriately.

8. Failure is Always before Success Do you know the difference between a master and a beginner?

"The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried" – Stephen McCranie Like the tip of the iceberg, behind every try is thousands of failed attempts to make it, and like the hidden part of the iceberg, these attempts are simply never seen or known about. Most mistakes are inevitable. Learn from them.

It is not because success is not happening now that it means it never will. Without failure, you won’t be able to be successful. A very helpful book is called “The Success Principles” by Jack Canfield.

9. Say Thank You for the Lesson Forgiveness is a special word. As you forgive, you make a promise that has everything to do with being free and letting go the burden of the perpetual victim. The main thing you have to do is to be thankful for each and every positive or negative experience.

It is saying “Thank you for the lesson.” You know that holding on to the past is a perfect waste of time, and the best way is to live free from any resentment.

10. Let Go of the Wrong People If you ever feel emotionally drained after being in company of a person or get the tiniest hint of anxiety when you think of them, listen to your intuition and let them go. There are others out there that are right for you, people who will inspire you to grow and be better.

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Be bold enough to let go of those who keep bringing you down. You deserve better. And remind yourself often of these most likely forgotten directives so that you may have them in your life.

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Sergei VanBellinghen, Founder & CEO of First-Class Lifestyle and sergeivanbellinghen.com, Success & Self-Improvement Coach, Freedom entrepreneur & business partner of Stuart Ross, also counselor in East Europe-West relationships, a passionate Globetrotter and an avid audio booker

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