What is the difference between being introvert extrovert and ambivert

What is The Difference Between Being Introvert, Extrovert And Ambivert? digitalbloggers.com /business/what-is-the-difference-between-being-introvert-extrovert-and-ambivert Jan 30, 2017 44 views Written by Sergei VanBellinghen

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When I was a child I thought I was extrovert and as I aged I tended to become more of an introvert, but then again in my 30’s when people asked me if I was an extrovert or an introvert, I didn’t quite fit into either category. How could this be?

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Did you ever felt like you are neither an Introvert nor Extrovert but a part of both types called an Ambivert?

You may be an introvert wanting to be an extrovert or vice versa, but generally speaking, mixes of both characteristics are found in one person. Like me, you may be what is called an “Ambivert”.

So what does it mean? It means I possess a blend of both introvert and extrovert traits. When I found out I was an “ambivert”, I realized that people who fit in to this category seem to have so much going for them. For example, they are great at making a point and getting other people to trust them.

But let’s see some of the differences:

Being an Extrovert.

People being of the extrovert type are social, practical, seem friendly, easygoing, good communicators, and are active and energetic. Extroverts are usually outgoing people, setting off on adventures with confidence into the unknown.

They favor outdoor activities; tend to be essentially social, taking part in various groups and personal activities. They seem full of dynamism and are apt to involve themselves in a diversity of hobbies.

They are usually good leaders. They apparently live in the present, and focus on current doings. These individuals adapt easily to a given circumstance and are particularly influenced by material things and events of the outside world.

Being an Introvert.

Introverts are usually people who gave the desire to be alone or in the company of only a few people, and can be considered as having an introverted character. Introvert people are more inclined to thinking, and are more involved through their imagination by creating novelties.

They have a huge interest in their own mind. They are formal, idealistic, less social, talk less and usually worry about the future. They do not get very often involved in social activities or gatherings of many people.

They are generally shy and enigmatic, passive and don’t like to be on the center stage. They seem to be dull and lacking of enthusiasm toward others. They choose inside activities, to open-air ones.

Being an Ambivert.

Ambivert individuals do behave and show a unique blend. A combination of the above traits of introverted personality in some situations and in others not, while sometime showing some traits and behaving like an extrovert personality in certain circumstances.

Ambiverts are also incredibly able to get along with most personality types. All of my life, I did fit in whether someone was or is outgoing or timid, rich or average. I had and have friends of all categories.

In the same way someone who speaks different languages, they can connect with a more extensive range of people and have a broader range of abilities. Depending on the circumstances, setting and people around them, ambiverts generally glide up and down the spectrum.

Which Sounds More Like You? Extrovert. I am attracted to people, I get energy from social get-togethers and am pretty outgoing.

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Introvert. It is strenuous to be around many people. I prefer to have peace, solitude and quiet time. I usually desire alone time when I am free.

Ambivert. It all depends. In this situation I am this way and in that situation that way.

Take this small “Ambivert” test.

Note how much you agree from 1 to 5: 1 being ‘disagree strongly’, 5 being ‘agree strongly’.

1. I don't like to draw attention to myself.

2. I like to start conversations with people I don't know yet.

3. I enjoy spending time with my own thoughts.

4. I tend not to assert myself.

5. I love leading teams.

If you averaged a 3, you are more likely an ambivert.

Why Being an Ambivert is so Awesome.

So many people assume that being an extrovert is the best way to go. They think that this type is the best at selling, makes the best leaders and is the most successful at work. But being an extrovert is not the best way to go.

Why? Because in a survey, statistical relationships between extroverts and income were basically zero. But in the same survey, the “Ambiverts” ranked right in the middle of extroversion and introversion, and they turned out to be the best income making people.

Ambiverts got 24% more in revenue than introverts, and a mind-blowing 32% more in revenue than extroverts!

So being an Ambivert seems to strike a balance between the two extreme personalities. The ambivert gets an advantage through the tendency to be more assertive and have enough enthusiasm to persuade and close a deal, but at the same time, to listen carefully to his clients and avoid the appearance of being overly confident.

An ambivert usually knows when to speak up or when to keep silent, when to examine or when to reply, when to drive or when to hold back.

In Conclusion.

Of course, there is no right or wrong by being an introvert, extrovert or ambivert. But if you want to change, the only right way is to choose the middle ground, to live, act and don’t be ashamed of who you really are.

Act on your strengths and abilities, purge toxicity out of your life and get to know your true self as an ambivert, introvert or extrovert.

Share your comments below.

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Sergei VanBellinghen, Founder & CEO of First-Class Lifestyle and sergeivanbellinghen.com, Success & Self-Improvement Coach, Freedom entrepreneur & business partner of Stuart Ross, also counselor in East Europe-West relationships, a passionate Globetrotter and an avid audio booker

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